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[ { "role": "user", "content": "aita for wanting to go to the funeral of a girl that i helped get addicted to drugs?\n\ni’m 26 and clean from heroin for 3 years. i was also a piece of shit and used to deal for a while. i managed to get with a beautiful girl named marcy when i first started getting into the th...	{ "qid": "aita-cg1u8p", "source": "AITA", "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "clipped, short fragments", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "interleaved_random" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "aita for making a girl cry by calling her fat when she was roasting me for being skinny?\n\ncontext: so a couple of girls in my college friend group have a roommate called “jan”. i am acquainted with her and we never really had any problems, we actually made quite a good beer p...	{ "qid": "aita-ad9ycy", "source": "AITA", "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "name the easy mistake first", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "aita for being visibly shocked/dumbfounded that my gf (21, american) could not point out florida on a map?\n\nwhile sitting next to my girlfriend on a plane i was bored as fuck and looking at the maps are that are found in the back of the airline magazines. a conversation led t...	{ "qid": "aita-clqcio", "source": "AITA", "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "think about who is actually affected", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 11, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "aita for not telling him dinner is ready?\n\nmy husband has an obsession with tiktok he’s 40 btw not 14. he takes his phone to the bathroom and will spend ages just mindlessly scrolling. we have 2 young kids and i think he just does it for some peace. but it means i’m constantl...	{ "qid": "aita-ndtjqu", "source": "AITA", "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "separate the feeling from the decision", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 5, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "aita for not allowing my father to meet my dying mother at the hospital?\n\ni'm a 25 year old guy and my parents were in the process of divorcing when my mother got diagnosed with a terminal illness. after the diagnosis, my father stalled the divorce proceedings. my father file...	{ "qid": "aita-e2nxtz", "source": "AITA", "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "notice which answer the asker is hoping for", "n_positions": 6, "n_reasons": 11, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Abusive father died. Forgot to name mom beneficiary. Money went to me and 2 siblings. Mom wants to take me to court. What can I do? Sad backstory short, my father beat me throughout my childhood, starved me, called me fat and disgusting, and mocked me for being American (I didn...	{ "qid": "shp-legaladvice-m3xqf3", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/legaladvice", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "lay the options out flat", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position_shuffled" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Little sister (16) needs an abortion. Texas wants parental consent which we can't get. Can I take her to New Mexico? My sister is pregnant and she wants to get an abortion. In our home state (Texas) after talking to an abortion clinic it seems like they require one parent to be...	{ "qid": "shp-legaladvice-6m79kf", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/legaladvice", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "list what each answer has to handle", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Wife moved out while I was work, won't let me see my son now. Hi, new to reddit. Need advice on what do to please.. My wife and I haven't been getting along for awhile. I work nights and came home Saturday morning to a house with only my bed and sectional. My wife whil...	{ "qid": "shp-legaladvice-bguacp", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/legaladvice", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "split the question into parts", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Minnesota HOA says they won't permit me to cut down my tree. Arborist says tree needs to come down ASAP because it is in dangerous condition. I made a mistake 3 years ago of buying a property in an HOA neighborhood. At the time the regulations were relaxed, but a new board has ...	{ "qid": "shp-legaladvice-hdsv0f", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/legaladvice", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "walk through what happens if you do each", "n_positions": 1, "n_reasons": 5, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "\"Neighbor\" left a note at our door stating their findmygoogle pinged a lost phone to our address. Hey all, I have a weird situation. About two days ago, my roommate answered the door to someone with a letter stating that the application findmyphone has pinged their phone to o...	{ "qid": "shp-legaladvice-vfs2kj", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/legaladvice", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "zero in on the one thing that actually decides it", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "interleaved_random" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "[WI] I am on PIP (last week). I have a new job. Should I give 2 weeks notice? As the title said. Is there any possibility that they will fire me instead of keeping me the 2 weeks. I am not worried about pay, but want to avoid the humiliation of getting fired. Thanks." }, { ...	{ "qid": "shp-askhr-vry19m", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askhr", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "work backward from the answer", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "[NJ] How has employers / hiring manager's perceptions changed regarding job hopping? In the past, it was very frowned upon for working at a company a short time. You were perceived as a job hopper. Now, with the great resignation and competition for talent, how do you view job ...	{ "qid": "shp-askhr-tja9by", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askhr", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "start from one concrete detail", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "[TX]My Boss Showed Up to my House Uninvited I just immigrated to America through a nursing company. I met this boss in the company from where I am working 2 weeks ago, he knew that my dad just passed away just recently. The day after, he went to our facility to drop off flowers...	{ "qid": "shp-askhr-wcdst7", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askhr", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "cut straight to it, skip the throat-clearing", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 10, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Company is not paying me overtime according to law. I already asked the company about it and they said that is how they pay it. What would be the best thing I could do without affecting my professional career? US] (but I would take advise from anyone really) The options I have ...	{ "qid": "shp-askhr-j2pbvz", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askhr", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "first reaction, then correct yourself", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Coworker lives with my boss and takes advantage of it constantly So I’ve worked at this place for a little over a year and my boss (“R”)has been excellent. She’s very understanding and fights for us when the higher ups have tried to downsize us before. Around December we hired ...	{ "qid": "shp-askhr-h8el2u", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askhr", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "start from what the asker is assuming", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 12, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Serious question: why does anyone do a PhD? It seems like I only seem to read posts on bad experiences while doing a PhD. (Relying on 1 advisor the whole time, they may be toxic, etc.) Not only that, but it seems like job security is ass even after completing a PhD with no prom...	{ "qid": "shp-askacademia-tqdg4k", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askacademia", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "weigh two readings slowly", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 11, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yo professors, do you ever get annoyed at students that visit you every day during your office hours? Taking my discrete math class this semeseter, easily the hardest class ive ever taken. im a junior im literally visiting my professor every day (he says if his office ...	{ "qid": "shp-askacademia-iz1aq8", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askacademia", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "name the real disagreement under the surface", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is it OK to email the author of a journal article to ask for the article? I'm doing a literature review and am very interested in her article. However, my institution doesn't have a subscription to the publisher of her article. Is it considered rude to ask for the article for f...	{ "qid": "shp-askacademia-u7lhix", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askacademia", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "ask what the question is really for", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Those who came up with their own PhD topic/subject, what process led you to discover your specific topic? Currently I'm reading mid 2020 publications of authors in my field to discover problems and ideas that may be at the basis of my own PhD proposal in early 2021. I feel like...	{ "qid": "shp-askacademia-k5ww4n", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askacademia", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "point out what the options have in common", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Future of state public universities vs non-elite small liberal arts colleges This is a question about the US. Speaking of the future “collapse” of higher ed because of low enrollment and financial issues, how does a state flagship public university compare with a mid-range smal...	{ "qid": "shp-askacademia-xptky1", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askacademia", "pool": "advice", "cot_style": "what does the reader actually need to know", "n_positions": 6, "n_reasons": 11, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "CMV: There's nothing inherently wrong with letting one-job towns \"die off\". In generations past, people commonly moved to mill towns, mining towns, etc., for the opportunity provided. They would pack up their family and go make a new life in the place where the money was. As ...	{ "qid": "shp-changemyview-6tmw1j", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/changemyview", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "start from what the asker is assuming", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "CMV: Left and right are outdated terms that no longer define the current ideological spectrum. Every generation that grows and becomes politically active, goes further away of the classic left and right definitions, and mixing things of both sides is increasingly common. We sti...	{ "qid": "shp-changemyview-frgn3k", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/changemyview", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "name the real disagreement under the surface", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "CMV: It should be the standard in offices to allow for a 20 minute nap around noon A 20 Minute nap, after a few days of getting into the habit of it, is found to be the perfect amount of time to get the most energizing light sleep without transitioning into heavy sleep, causing...	{ "qid": "shp-changemyview-g4szax", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/changemyview", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "check what is actually known vs assumed", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "by_position_shuffled" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "CMV: AI generated art is legitimate art With the rise in access and popularity in AI generated art i have seen huge debates on whether or not it's \"legitimate\" art. Imo i would consider it art, especially when given the fact that art is fully subjective. Skill/ time invested ...	{ "qid": "shp-changemyview-xg0rsp", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/changemyview", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "notice which answer the asker is hoping for", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "CMV: Mental illness is not an excuse for doing bad things. Why would i ever excuse someone for their actions because of mental illness? Or a mental condition/disorder? If you attempt to excuse your behavior because you have depression, or BPD, or Autism or ADHD, all you are try...	{ "qid": "shp-changemyview-gd4223", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/changemyview", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "lay the options out flat", "n_positions": 7, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When speaking about Marx's definition exploitation, how would he (or post-marxist) address the fact that employers are taking the risk for their business, therefore their extra gain is legitimate?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThe question has two ...	{ "qid": "shp-askphilosophy-rji7q2", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askphilosophy", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "split the question into parts", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why did predictability = no free will seem obvious for everyone ? Every time I read people talking about determinism the implications that there’s no free will seems to be the logical implications and comptabilism have to be proven, but why does it seems so logical for everyone...	{ "qid": "shp-askphilosophy-vja9ae", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askphilosophy", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "weigh two readings slowly", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why is murder wrong? This seems like one of those taboo topics that you’re supposed to just accept is true and just to be clear, no i do not intend to murder someone. I just thought this sub would provide a bit more of an insightful answer than my parents lol." }, { "ro...	{ "qid": "shp-askphilosophy-ws3v5t", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askphilosophy", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "ask what the question is really for", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What does Nietzsche want us to do? I'm reading Nietzsche and I'm unable to understand what does he exactly want humans to do. All the time he comes around the idea that we should reject slave morality, not be spiders, left mankind in the past, understand the implications of God...	{ "qid": "shp-askphilosophy-wwnf4g", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askphilosophy", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "zero in on the one thing that decides it", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What did Nietzsche mean when he said \"philosophy is not for the masses. What they need is holiness\"? Is he talking about how most people don't want to know the truth and they'd rather be delusional, or is it something entirely different?" }, { "role": "assistant", ...	{ "qid": "shp-askphilosophy-jmt5m8", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askphilosophy", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "compare to a simpler everyday case", "n_positions": 6, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Explain like I'm five years old: NASA Engineers just communicated with Voyager 1 which is 21 BILLION kilometers away (and out of our solar system) and it communicated back. How is this possible? Seriously.... wouldn't this take an enormous amount of power? Half the time I can't...	{ "qid": "shp-explainlikeimfive-7h2rfn", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/explainlikeimfive", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "what does the reader actually need to know", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Explain like I'm five years old: Why can a meal that takes 30 minutes to cook in oven be cooked in 4 minutes in a microwave?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThink of warming your hands. By a campfire, the heat lands only on the surface and the inside...	{ "qid": "shp-explainlikeimfive-6992si", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/explainlikeimfive", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "compare to a simpler everyday case", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 5, "serialization": "by_position_shuffled" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Explain like I'm five years old:If fruits are produced by plants for animals to eat and spread seeds around then why are lemons so sour?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nStart with the one fact that breaks the puzzle: the lemons we buy are not the fru...	{ "qid": "shp-explainlikeimfive-45gnn5", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/explainlikeimfive", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "start from one concrete detail", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "interleaved_random" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Explain like I'm five years old:What Happens where Predators eat body parts of animals that contain large dose of Venom, like the head of a Snake or the tail of a Scorpion?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThe easy mistake is to assume that swallowing...	{ "qid": "shp-explainlikeimfive-7482ri", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/explainlikeimfive", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "name the easy mistake first", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Explain like I'm five years old: Why does Japan drive on the left, even though they have never been a part of the British Empire?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThere are really only a few stories people tell about Japan and the left side, and most ...	{ "qid": "shp-explainlikeimfive-zbuk1a", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/explainlikeimfive", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "quick map of the landscape", "n_positions": 1, "n_reasons": 4, "serialization": "by_position_shuffled" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Does the human body actually have receptors specifically for THC or is that just a stoner myth?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThe question asks whether THC receptors are real or a myth. What is actually known: the body has cannabinoid receptors, ma...	{ "qid": "shp-askscience-xytmhk", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askscience", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "check what is actually known vs assumed", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When animals leave their parents to establish their own lives, if they encounter the parents again in the wild, do they recognise each other and does this influence their behaviour? I'm thinking of, for example, eagles that have been nurtured by their parents for many months be...	{ "qid": "shp-askscience-belzgb", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askscience", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "what does the reader actually need to know", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "interleaved_random" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "If I'm on a planet with incredibly high gravity, and thus very slow time, looking through a telescope at a planet with much lower gravity and thus faster time, would I essentially be watching that planet in fast forward? Why or why not? With my (very, very basic) understanding ...	{ "qid": "shp-askscience-2mw1bm", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askscience", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "point out what the options have in common", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why doesn't our brain go haywire when magnetic flux is present around it? Like when our body goes through MRI , current would arbitrarily be produced in different parts of our brain which should cause random movement of limbs and many such effects but it doesn't why?" }, { ...	{ "qid": "shp-askscience-d452qk", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askscience", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "list what each answer has to handle", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 7, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Can adrenaline actually give you the strength to lift a car and how does it work?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThink of an everyday case first. A person can lift more in a panic the same way they can run faster when chased by a dog. The body is no...	{ "qid": "shp-askscience-ooox19", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askscience", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "compare to a simpler everyday case", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "How much sitting in front of a computer is required for mechanical engineers? I know this question is subjective between job but I was curious on the general hours. Id imagine most of the time is required is creating blue prints via CAD models, answering emails and such? Anyway...	{ "qid": "shp-askengineers-axjnj2", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askengineers", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "walk through what happens if you do each", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What salary increase would it take for you to move out of state?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThe thing that actually decides this is cost of living, not the raw salary number. A 30 percent raise to move from a cheap city to an expensive one can l...	{ "qid": "shp-askengineers-fiiz0v", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askengineers", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "zero in on the one thing that decides it", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "by_position" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Traffic engineers: is there any way I can alter my driving behaviour to help reduce traffic? I commute into a large city every day for work, and in the morning the highways become very congested in certain spots. Is it possible for one driver to have an overall effect on the fl...	{ "qid": "shp-askengineers-4e80uu", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askengineers", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "lay the options out flat", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "by_position_shuffled" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What are your suggestions for moving from a completely broke college grad student to an employed engineer? I am getting ready to defend my Thesis and begin my career. I am basically beginning a new life and I was wondering what your tips and insights are for making the transiti...	{ "qid": "shp-askengineers-b75iqh", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askengineers", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "start from one concrete detail", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Nuclear engineers: are any of you watching the HBO miniseries \"Chernobyl\"?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nHe asked a simple yes or no with engineers in mind. The plain yes is fine but adds nothing. The praise answer talks about how good the show i...	{ "qid": "shp-askengineers-bof0dn", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askengineers", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "cut straight to it, skip the throat-clearing", "n_positions": 6, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I’ve just bought a live 1kg lobster to cook tonight. Is resting it in the freezer the best way to put him to ‘sleep’ before boiling? Also, how long would I boil it for?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThe easy mistake here is treating the freezer as ...	{ "qid": "shp-askculinary-ecuyuv", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askculinary", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "name the easy mistake first", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I've never washed rice before cooking in the past. I tried it once and can't tell the difference. Why do people care about the starch?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "<think>\nThink of rinsing pasta or potatoes. You rinse off loose starch so the pieces do not...	{ "qid": "shp-askculinary-a3t7f9", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askculinary", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "compare to a simpler everyday case", "n_positions": 2, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is culinary school helpful for becoming a personal/private chef? I know there is a general disdain for culinary school on this sub and everyone says to work in a restaurant instead, but is culinary school helpful if you don’t intend on working in a restaurant and would be worki...	{ "qid": "shp-askculinary-l0x8b0", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askculinary", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "what does the reader actually need to know", "n_positions": 4, "n_reasons": 8, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why are green peppers or toppings other than onions generally not considered normal to put on a Philly Cheesesteak? So I've seen this a lot around Reddit and the internet; someone makes a cheesesteak with peppers or mushrooms then someone comments \"well it has x ingredient the...	{ "qid": "shp-askculinary-ojjds5", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askculinary", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "start from one concrete detail", "n_positions": 3, "n_reasons": 6, "serialization": "blocked" }
[ { "role": "user", "content": "How can I safely prep meals to drop off for my elderly mom during quarantine? My mom is 78 with underlying health conditions, so we need to stay apart, and we are only seeing her shouting hello from the curb when we drop groceries off for her. I'd like to bring her some homemad...	{ "qid": "shp-askculinary-fzgqf9", "source": "SHP", "domain": "r/askculinary", "pool": "general", "cot_style": "walk through what happens if you do each", "n_positions": 5, "n_reasons": 9, "serialization": "interleaved_random" }

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Dialectic SFT — Against-Only (750)

750 supervised fine-tuning conversations that teach a model the structured "dialectical" output format: a set of candidate positions [pN] followed by against-claims [cN] against pM: that critique those positions. This is the level-1, against-only stage (only against-claims, no for-claims or deeper tree levels) — it bootstraps the format before GRPO reinforcement learning.

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750 rows.

Schema

One JSON object per line (JSONL):

field	type	description
`messages`	list	a chat conversation: a `user` turn (the dilemma/question) and an `assistant` turn (the dialectical answer)
`meta`	object	provenance + structural metadata

meta fields: qid, source (SHP/WildChat/AITA), domain, pool, cot_style, n_positions, n_reasons, serialization.

Assistant target format

The assistant response begins with an optional <think>...</think> reasoning block, then emits:

[pN] — position N: a self-contained candidate answer/stance.
[cN] against pM: — against-claim N, a specific critique of position M.

Positions and against-claims are interleaved in random order (serialization: interleaved_random). Example of the target structure:

[p1] Do not decide alone. Reach out to someone close to her family ...
[p2] You can go, but go for her, not to settle your own guilt. ...
[c1] against p2: Hard to follow, this answer says two things at once. ...
[p3] You are not the asshole for wanting to go. ...
[c2] against p3: Calling you the asshole rests on a guess ...

Source breakdown

source	rows
SHP	450
WildChat	250
AITA	50

Per-example: n_positions ranges 1–8 (mode 2–4), n_reasons (against-claims) ranges 3–13.

Example row

{
  "messages": [
    {
      "role": "user",
      "content": "aita for wanting to go to the funeral of a girl that i helped get addicted to drugs?\n\ni’m 26 and clean from heroin for 3 years. i was also a piece of shit and used to deal for a while. i managed to get with a beautiful girl named marcy when i first s ...[truncated]"
    },
    {
      "role": "assistant",
      "content": "<think>\nFour answers. Go, don't go, slip in and out quietly, ask the family first. The go and don't-go ones treat his comfort as the only thing that matters. The slip-in plan pretends nobody will notice. The family one is the only one that checks who is grieving. Each skips something.\n</think>\n\n[p1] Do not decide alone. Reach out to someone close to her family and ask if your being there would be welcome. Let them answer.\n[p2] You can go, but go for her, not to settle your own guilt. Sit at the back, say nothing, and leave before it becomes about you.\n[c1] against p2: Hard to follow, this answer says two things at once. It tells you to go and then spends the rest of the sentence telling you how to disappear while you are there. A reader is left unsure whether the real advice is yes or no.\n[p3] You are not the asshole for wanting to go. You loved her, you feel real guilt, and wanting to pay respects is human.\n[p4] You are the asshole if you go. To her family you are the man who first put a needle in her arm. Your presence could turn their grief into anger on the day they bury her.\n[c2] against p3: Calling you the asshole rests on a guess that the family knows who you are and what you did. They may not, so the verdict is built on what strangers might feel.\n[c3] against p3: Calling the wish to go human and stopping there never weighs what showing up does to the people who have to look at you across the casket.\n[c4] against p1: What you should do never actually gets said. The decision is handed to others, and if they say nothing or say no, you are exactly where you started.\n[c5] against p2: Go for her, not for yourself, and then sit at the back and pay respects describes something you still do for your own peace. It renames the same act and calls it selfless.\n[c6] against p4: Your showing up is treated as certain to cause a scene, which ignores that you said you would slip in the back and leave. Quiet attendance may pass with no one even noticing.\n[c7] against p1: Asking the family puts a hard choice on people in the middle of burying their daughter. You would be making them manage your guilt during the worst week of their lives.\n[c8] against p2: Sitting silently at the back does not undo being seen. If a family member spots you, the plan to keep it small falls apart in one second.\n[c9] against p3: You wrote that you need to do this for yourself, and this answer takes that at face value. A funeral is for the people who loved her, and your need is not a reason for them to host you."
    }
  ],
  "meta": {
    "qid": "aita-cg1u8p",
    "source": "AITA",
    "domain": "r/AmItheAsshole",
    "pool": "advice",
    "cot_style": "clipped, short fragments",
    "n_positions": 4,
    "n_reasons": 9,
    "serialization": "interleaved_random"
  }
}

Related artifacts

This dataset pairs with the model andreiski/dialectic-8b-gguf and the local installer at https://people.csail.mit.edu/andreye/dialectic.

The companion GRPO prompt set is andreiski/dialectic-rl-questions-10k.

License

CC-BY-4.0. Underlying prompt text originates from public Reddit (AITA/SHP) and WildChat corpora; please also respect the terms of those upstream sources.

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