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aita-ocx94s | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?
my brother in-law (sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. he moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (olivia & sloane18) with him a couple of months a... |
aita-e5k3z2 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?
i am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. my coworkers who work weekends are: james - the owners son, he goes to my school. he's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy. danielle - a college student who ... |
aita-zvmflw | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for bringing up my brother's "premature" birth at christmas dinner to get my parents to shut up?
i am a nurse practitioner and i am the primary care provider for a lot of the low risk maternity cases at the practice where i work. i also work hand in hand with the doctors and midwives to create a healthy maternity... |
aita-dhfeg9 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for making a dad joke?
note. my step-daughter, madeline, was about a year old when i married her mother, jessica. madeline’s father died before she was born. madeline is currently 15, and she’s rebelling for almost everything. she did something bad, so while picking her up, i set a punishment up for her. then she... |
aita-cihc3z | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my extended family how many men (roughly) my sister has slept with after she outed our youngest brother as a virgin?
we had a family dinner this evening. my family has four kids in total: me, my elder sister (29f), younger sister (24f) and youngest brother (22m). extended family attended our family di... |
aita-iagtso | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for punishing my son after he said something racist?
about a week ago, my (39f) family ordered chinese food for delivery. when the delivery driver came to the door, my daughter (16f) was taking the cat upstairs to put in her room because he always tries to eat the food. my son (13m) loudly says, “make sure the hi... |
aita-ofol5x | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for "announcing" that my dad's not paying my college tuition
my aunt and uncle are paying for my cousins college. my dad had a college fund for me, but he had stipulations like he wanted nothing below a b for grades and to pre approve any classes i take, weekly meetings to discuss grades and a bunch of other stuf... |
aita-dkqv29 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | wibta for refusing to stop cooking bacon in my kitchen due to my teenage daughters vegan lifestyle?
dad here, old fart, loves his daughter to pieces but i’m struggling to see eye to eye with my teenager and wife on this one. we’ve always been a meat eating family, we live in the rural midwest and bacon for breakfast i... |
aita-ouje2w | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for refusing to pay for my sister's husband's surgery with my inheritance/college money?
context: my sister (f27) and i (18f) lost our dad a year ago. he was my only parent, mom was never in mine or my sister's life. dad left money (inheritance) for me and sister and she used her inhertance to get new cars and re... |
aita-unhse2 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for walking out of the airport when i saw my husband's mom standing there with her luggage?
i f30 don't have the best relationship with my husband's mom. since day one she tried to make remarks and compare me to her ??. she then tried to get on my good side and started overly praising everything i do and sometime... |
aita-vlelqu | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for storming off from my sister's wedding after she deadnamed my son?
i'm a 45yro single father of three. theur mom died 10 years ago. i have 3 sons, 17yro andrew, 15yro connor and 14yro max. connor was born female, he is trans. he came out as trans 5 years ago, and has now socially transitioned, not yet phisical... |
aita-zz5str | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for getting up from my chair in the middle of christmas dinner and shouting "shut the fuck up about my bodyyyyy" in response to my husband's observation?
so, ever since i had my son months ago, my husband has started making indirect comments about my body. he never says any hurtful words but i find his "observati... |
aita-daglhs | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my son he deserved his gf breaking up with him?
so my son had a long-distance gf recently for about two years. she was great, a really nice girl and we all loved her welcomed her with open arms. she was flying here constantly to visit him, like a weekend a month and he didn’t lift a finger to go visit... |
aita-i9pm5u | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita - telling my parents to pay me back my college tuition if they want a relationship
i was raised by parents who believed (religiously and just culturally) in rigid gender roles. dad should work, mom should stay home with the kids. i’m the only girl and have 3 brothers. because of their expectation i’d stay home wi... |
aita-100ogg4 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during nye dinner after i was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?
i f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. i keep the money in a seperate account as i still haven't decided what to do with it and i didn't want it to go to... |
aita-awyi8k | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for despising my mentally handicap sister?
the title makes me sound horrible but hear me out. ​ my sister is severely autistic. she requires attention almost 24/7 and cannot be left alone. she is non-verbal and cannot take care of herself at all. despite the fact that she is only 12 she is extremely destru... |
aita-hvcvtt | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for switching to regular milk to prove my lactose intolerant roommate keeps stealing from me?
me and 2 other guys share an apartment together and we split all the bills. the only thing we don’t split costs on is groceries. everyone’s in charge of buying their own food and we don’t touch whatever doesn’t belong to... |
aita-fzvxw7 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my girlfriend to shut the fuck up after she insulted my sisters thighs?
i’m 30 and my 12 year old sister is living with me right now because mom and pops are vulnerable so it made more sense for me to care for my sis for the time being. she is a really great kid and tbh i feel in a lot of ways like sh... |
aita-b43t53 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for giving my ex wife a large amount of money i won despite the anger of my gf?
i recently won a ‘fuck you’ amount of money. i won’t say exactly how much but it’s in the millions. it makes me feel funny even typing it’s enough to change the life of myself and my family. my ex wife is the mother of my 2 kids. she ... |
aita-10av2g7 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for kicking out one of my bridesmaids for showing up in the wrong dress?
my (23f) wedding was back on saturday december 31st and i'm still getting backlash from this, so i want to know if this was an ah move. in the country i live in it's currently winter, and we get a fair amount of snow so my wedding was a wint... |
aita-zdk3bq | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for how i fought my boyfriend's medical bill, going "too far"?
my boyfriend had to go to the er after a accident, and he got a truly ridiculous bill back. i offered to fight the bill for her because i've done it before, and he said sure. i went all-out, because honestly if we were out 5 grand, after insurance, th... |
aita-dtg4jw | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling the girl who kissed my boyfriend for a play that she is desperate and pathetic?
i (19f) study drama at uni, and my boyfriend is on the same course. my boyfriend is a really good-looking guy, but he doesn't seem to know it. he gets a lot of attention from girls and for the most part, doesn't seem to ge... |
aita-ob0wdk | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not letting my best friend have her wedding on my property after being uninvited?
one of my (29m) best friends “carla” (31f) is getting married soon. it’s only meant to be a small backyard type of wedding but they’ve been planning it for a few months now and originally it was supposed to be on my property. th... |
aita-efcc8u | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for jumping out of a bathroom window to avoid my mom’s attempt at forcing a reunion between me and my ex fiancé?
some backstory: i had been dating my ex fiancé sarah for four years. we had been planning to get married in november 2020 but i found out at the start of this month that she cheated on me. she begged m... |
aita-101hya0 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for refusing to tell my husband the gender of our baby after he skipped going to the dr appointment with me?
my husband & i are expecting. this is our first baby and we're excited. thing is he barely attends any dr appointments with me and his excuses aren't even valid. he's willing to miss the dr appointment ove... |
aita-e3f7tf | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita if i stop paying my daughter’s tuition over a disgusting comment she made towards my new girlfriend?
my (56m) wife died at the young age of 51 from a car accident. i was in deep mourning for about a year after her death. i met my new gf c (43f) around january. c was the one who made me laugh for the first time af... |
aita-z77qxc | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for using flash cards to explain to my brother and his wife why they can't bring their rainbow baby to my wedding?
my fiancee (f) and i (m) are getting married. we've decided wedding's gonna be childfree. no hate towards children just to keep it more organized and contained. my brother 'chris' (m) and his wife (f... |
aita-rb0fmk | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for ruining thanksgiving?
[update](https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygivings/comments/revywd/update_aita_for_ruining_thanksgiving/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) [christmas ](https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygivings/comments/rrif5i/made_turkey_for_my_orphans_christmas_party_i_wish/?ut... |
aita-hsdpho | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling a social worker the real reason my sister wants a foster kid?
so this is a throw away account. while my sister doesn't use reddit, we have mutual friends who do. i'm a 28f and i have a sister (36f) for the sake of story, i'll just call jane. jane is married to "bob" and they have two kids, boy and a g... |
aita-ulcrp6 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for cancelling mother's day celebration that i arranged for my wife after hearing what she told my son?
i (m/37) have a 13 y.o son. i was a widower when i met my now wife. she has a 16 y.o daughter from another relationship. the family is often on pretty good terms. my son is the quiet one in the house, he keeps ... |
aita-rrjhmz | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for giving my mil a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on christmas dinner?
i wanna preface this by saying that i f34 married my husband m37 a year ago. his mom is snoopy and annoying af. she can't help it that is just how she is as my dear in laws say. my husband and i purchased a new house recently. m... |
aita-cwxh47 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for asking moms boyfriend to stop trying to parent me?
** my dad died suddenly about a year ago, and my mom found this really nice guy that she’s started seeing. i’m 23m and going into my final year of college. my moms boyfriend has two daughters ages 15 and 13. my mom has stepped in to be a mother figure to them... |
aita-dgfkt3 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not telling my dad he isn't getting the inheritance he's expecting?
my mother died when i was 16. my dad married another woman two years later. my grandparents, my dad's parents, hate my stepmother. i really don't like her either. even after my half-siblings were born, my grandparents never warmed up to her. ... |
aita-jms4y3 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my brother he got exactly what he deserved when he pushed his girlfriend away for being a “gold digger”?
my brother is a very hardworking man and at 27 he is now very wealthy and doing well for himself. he’s been with this girl for six months and throughout the time we have gotten close because we bot... |
aita-116lmfw | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?”
my (m26) sister (f23) runs a bakery business and she’s been struggling lately to keep up with orders because she’s been short staffed. she does a lot of orders for wedding cakes that require custard or marmalade fillings, and i offered to help her out by maki... |
aita-vnl1hw | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for throwing them out of a house that we own. son and future in-laws decide to exclude his family from wedding. they thought son owned the house not us.
my wife and i bought a four bedroom house in pa that my son lives in. our son went to college in pa and wanted to stay in the area. so we bought the house as a s... |
aita-cdypge | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling cashier that wasn’t the girls credit card?
throwaway because husband told me i was ta and want to know before i get home and argue. on phone format is bad. i was in a higher end department store today (rhymes with loomingtales) and happened to end up next to two teenage aged girls while shopping. one ... |
aita-cohdqj | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me?
i am the by-product of my parents extra-marital affair. both of them had spouses at the time. my birth-mother got pregnant and had to tell her husband as he was overseas when i was conceived so there was no way i was his. a few months after i was born they d... |
aita-htmhgb | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for shouting at my ex in front of my daughters?
i (37m) have three girls; 8, 10, and 12. their mother walked out on us for another man when our youngest was around 4. my ex still stays in contact, though, and pays child support. a few weeks ago while doing laundry, i saw red spots on my oldest's underwear. i aske... |
aita-po2kd8 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for deleting my friend's wedding photos in front of them?
i'm not really a photographer, i'm a dog groomer. i take lots of photos of dogs all day to put on my facebook and instagram, it's "my thing" if that makes sense. a cut and a photo with every appointment. i very seldom shoot things other than dogs even if i... |
aita-eizcvf | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for saying my babysitting rates are $35 an hour?
i'm a software engineer, with a full time job and a side hustle of doing freelance coding work in my own time. i've always been the type to have a side hustle i put a lot of my free time into; i get really bored sitting idle. my freelance hourly rates are $60 an ho... |
aita-oj84dm | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for calling my sisters husband useless?
my (17f) sister (34f) called me saying that her work had an emergency and she needs to get there asap and needed me to watch her kids because “no one else can”. i rushed over there just to find her husband locked in his game room playing video games. i asked her why she cal... |
aita-bvxqh8 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for firing an employee after his parents died?
i'm the vp of sales at a software company and one of our sales development reps parents passed away at the beginning of april, sadly they were involved in a car crash and both lost their lives. now the employee in question in very young 22 year old guy and has been w... |
aita-p0p2ui | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for making a scene of my adult son and sticking my nose in his marriage
i’m 60 and bad with the whole text thing on mobiles so i’m hoping i won’t be judged on my grammar here’s the important background my daughter in law (32) and son(33) have 3 children aged 3 years 2 years and 4 months . he convinced her to be a... |
aita-tpp4gc | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for getting mad my artist hid their initials in my tattoo?
this is a short one. names changed for privacy. i went to a tattoo shop in my area, with a photo of the tattoo i wanted. it was one my dad had gotten to honor my passed grandfather who’s father also had it. but the point is - it was important to me that t... |
aita-icmq68 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for making fun of a white girl for being poor because she was being racist?
i’m asian, more specifically one of the only chinese people in my grade, which has been absolutely fun these days. so the girl in question, has been racially harassing me since the beginning of lockdown, when she dmed and said “did the ba... |
aita-hd12gs | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for taking back the beer i bought for a party from which i was uninvited?
this happened just a few hours ago. i am a 19 year old man and the people calling me an asshole are 18 year old men and women. on thursday, a person i had a major crush on in high school (but who rejected me) messaged me out of the blue. sh... |
aita-d38i34 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for demanding my sister pay rent for living-at-home with my parents and refusing to pay my rent until she does?
background: i graduated from college 4 years ago live at home with my parents. my sister graduated 2 years ago and also lives with my parents. we both got jobs pretty much straight out of college. i pay... |
aita-mmxpzu | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for calling out my kids’ future stepmom for treating me like a surrogate?
i [29f] dated a guy joe (30m) for 3 months before he left me to go back to his ex kim (30f). right after we broke up i found out i was pregnant and now i’m at 24 weeks. i let him know and he was ecstatic. turns out his girlfriend had fertil... |
aita-icvnba | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for "making fun" of a woman for being in her 40s and single?
this whole saga started because my husband took my last name. a couple weeks ago he got his workplace to change it, and his coworkers found out. about half of them think this is the funniest thing ever and about half are deeply offended. brenda is in th... |
aita-11sv6o7 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for suing my parents for my college money.
my great-aunt set up savings accounts for all of her female relatives. in our culture education for women is not really valued and she thought that was bullshit. she lived with her father in london where she was educated. she went on to attend university and became a doc... |
aita-11f3p2c | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for wearing a wedding dress at a wedding?
so my friend 20f and i 19m have been friends for a few years and she recently got engaged. a week ago i got a dm from her for a small costume party she was hosting as a celebration for her getting engaged. i asked if there was a theme and she said there wasn’t. i’m a cosp... |
aita-oxrztn | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for kicking my sil out after she threw away most of my single use baby products and even formula?
i'm 19f, i have a 3 week old baby girl. i do still live with my parents, but since i pay rent equally, they say i can have just as much of a say in who comes and goes from the house as they do. i've never actually ta... |
aita-c8uwj2 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my family that if they gift us money for our wedding, there will be no "strings attached" or we will politely decline it?
i fucking hate wedding culture. it's bullshit. my fiance and i thought we would escape the bullshit and money by having a small thing. well, family started trying to throw money at... |
aita-s62koq | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for my response to my sister's boyfriend's "brutal honesty"?
my f35 sister f27 started dating one of those "brutally honest" guys few months ago. he can be quite rude and make backhanded comments about me and the family sometimes which is bothersome but my sister says he's not malicious but is just the brutally h... |
aita-11m1kor | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not letting my miracle baby niece be my flower girl at my wedding?
my (27f) older brother and sil (both mid 30's) just welcomed their first child a year and a half ago, after years of trying. after many failed attempts, sil was told that she wouldn't be able to conceive due to a medical condition she has, the... |
aita-d1btlg | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita because i refuse to go and visit my special needs stepsister in hospital even though she’s very sick? i low key hate her.
i’m 15 years old. i have a stepsister who is a couple years older than me and she is really seriously disabled. i’m not sure what’s wrong with her because no one ever wants to discuss it with ... |
aita-103y282 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications?
my son "aiden" (23) moved back in with us upon graduating college as my husband wanted. my husband's original plan was to have aiden live with us for free, but stay home and help with his disabled youn... |
aita-hxm71l | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for barring my husband from the bedroom tonight?
so here is the situation. me: nurse. working 50ish hours a week in paediatric icu. cry at least once a week because that shit is hard. my salary pays our bills. all of them. husband: 25m. has a degree but isn't looking for a job. works 2 days a week at the grocery ... |
aita-gth6bg | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not waking up my girlfriend for her exam after i overheard her calling me a little bitch?
my girlfriend has online summer courses and she had an exam for one of them this morning. i usually wake her up for pretty much everything because she sleeps through her phone alarm no matter how long it buzzes or how ma... |
aita-sgawl2 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for getting upset with my husband after he told me nothing will change while i am pregnant?
throwaway account. so me (26f) and my husband (28m), who i'll call "jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. we have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next ... |
aita-birkjn | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | wibta if i ask my pregnant wife to move out because she and her best friend decided to "test" my loyalty?
my wife is pregnant with our daughter. initially we were really happy and excited about it. but then, she starts acting like a nut job. she gets angry and irritated for small things, insults me when she doesn't li... |
aita-odfif9 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my friend her parents bought her house, not her?
the title sounds bad but hear me out. backstory: i (f28) have a friend (f28) who purchased a house late last year. it's an awesome 2 story town house and i've been over there plenty of times to help out with moving/decorating and for hanging out. as men... |
aita-uzip5a | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling a guy what i do for work and letting him pay for my drinks during the whole evening?
edit title : aita for not telling a guy what i do for work and letting him pay for my drinks during the whole evening? ---- my friend "grace" invited me to a board game bar to play and have drinks with her, her boyfri... |
aita-h0a45w | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my stepdaughter to stop using period products in the bathroom she shares with my teenage sons?
i have been living with my new wife and stepdaughter for about 6 months now. she’s 19, almost 20, and i have three sons aged 18, 16 and 15. she’s a really good kid and she’s a good influence on my sons, i re... |
aita-onxses | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling an employee she can choose between demotion or termination?
i own a vape shop. we're a small business, only 12 employees. one of my employees, peggy, was supposed to open yesterday. peggy has recently been promoted to manager, after 2 solid years of good work as a cashier. i really thought she could h... |
aita-hx80wd | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for kicking my cousin off of my sister’s wedding zoom call?
my [27m] older sister [30f] and her fiancé [31m] were planning for over a year for their wedding to be this month. obviously, they can’t have the wedding as planned, but they still would like to get married, so they decided on a “zoom” wedding where all ... |
aita-u0kzer | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for refusing to get on a flight?
my boyfriend’s parents paid for them, my boyfriend’s siblings and their so to all go on a flight to cabo for spring break. becky his mom hasn’t seem to like me for some reason she always makes snide remarks about my parents blue collar jobs and my field is nursing. we get to the a... |
aita-ihp8sc | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for yelling at my parents that their polyamory fucked up my childhood?
i believe it started when i was around 6 years old. my parents often had 'friends' over in the house. i didn't know they were polyamorous ofc. one day i was outside playing, got hurt and when i ran inside caught my parents making out with some... |
aita-bpe2di | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for calling my co-worker "chunky" after she repeatedly calls me "slim" and makes references to my weight after i asked her multiple times not to.
i have a female co-worker who repeatedly calls me out regarding my weight. i'm female 5'9" 115lbs and very thin. she is very overweight. all the time she makes comments... |
aita-ctwk69 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my wife and in-laws to fuck off after they told me to stop cuddling my daughter?
i have 3 kids, 15f, 12f and 7m. my oldest has always been a cuddler, and that suits me fine because i am too. recently my in laws were over, and we were all watching a movie together. it was a kids movie, and so my 15yo w... |
aita-1031mvi | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my parents that they ruined ny celebration after they kicked my husband out over a joke?
i've been married to my 2nd husband "mike" for 4 years now. he's a jokester and loves to crack jokes all the time. he especially like to joke with my brother "ethan" and his wife. ethan used to be okay with it til... |
aita-cv96lf | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for pointing out to my friends that they are not famous?
my friends are dating, they’re also actors who have had small roles on a few tv shows (i’m talking two lines or less). i say this not to be a hater, i truly am rooting for them, but to give you a scope of their reach. neither of them have a following in rea... |
aita-gcr7vr | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not baking much for my family
i [16m] started dating my girlfriend 2 years ago. i also got super super into baking around that time. i bake a lot. my girlfriend loves desserts. so i've given her a ton of stuff i bake, all kinds of different stuff. i often try to bake something new and then she gets to try som... |
aita-f3asns | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for leaving significant facial scarring uncovered on a plane and being confrontational when a father asked me to cover it because it was scaring his son?
i sustained very bad injuries to my face this month. i'm in the stage of healing when the scar tissue has formed, but it's still very tender "new skin". i'm goi... |
aita-tripxr | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for embarrassing my fil after i repeatedly asked him to explain his joke to me?
i (27f) used to be an ''*escort*'' (h\*oker) from 18 until i was 23, i'm not proud of it but i also don't give a fuck because i did what i had to do to keep studying and a roof over my head. that's how i met my now fiancé (37m) tho he... |
aita-iiqfnz | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for throwing my sister out of my house after she billed me?
my sister is a trainwreck. she needed a place to stay and i have a large enough home for an extra person. she has no job or income. i told her she has a few months to get her shit together and leave. i give her about $100 a week to keep my house clean so... |
aita-clqcio | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for being visibly shocked/dumbfounded that my gf (21, american) could not point out florida on a map?
while sitting next to my girlfriend on a plane i was bored as fuck and looking at the maps are that are found in the back of the airline magazines. a conversation led to her revealing that she did not know where ... |
aita-ejycvt | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not wanting my son to literally be named "john doe?"
so my last name is doe. it hasn't affected my life much apart from occasionally being called "dodo" while growing up or friends spelling it "d'oh" as a joke, and i'm generally pretty neutral about it. my wife is six months pregnant and wants to name our fut... |
aita-gnkxa5 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for telling my wife it’s not ‘cute’ for her to encourage our teenage daughter to expect her boyfriend to pay for everything in their relationship?
wife and i have been married 18 years, we have our 16 year old daughter who has been dating a slightly shy/ awkward young man for around 3-4 months now. he seems very ... |
aita-10i2000 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for refusing to forgive my dad for breaking our deal?
when i (17 m) was 8, my parents bought me a piano and signed me up for lessons. i was super excited because i love music. over time i kind of became known as the 'piano guy' at school. i play at school concerts, accompany the school jazz choir, and play once a... |
aita-uo6we1 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for not giving up my second "free" seat next to me in the plane?
i am obese. like i am comfortable having two seats in the plane type of obese. i am well aware of that and i really don't like to bother people with my weight. a week ago i was going to a conference by plane and because i was going alone (usually wh... |
aita-v5r6pf | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for getting upset and telling my dad his girlfriend didn't buy me a starbucks drink?
i (17f) have been living with my dad (45m), his girlfriend of 2 years (33f), and her daughter (13f) for a couple of months now while my mom (40f) is visiting my sick grandfather in sweden. i've only ever stayed at my dad's on wee... |
aita-cw43oc | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for refusing to pay back my cousin after my baby ruined her blouse?
hi all. i gave birth four weeks ago, and we decided to have a ''baby ceremony'', where everyone gets to meet our lovely daughter charlotte. my cousin alice and her parents were among the guests. the first thing i'll say about her is that she has ... |
aita-hzden5 | AITA | r/AmItheAsshole | advice | aita for kissing my friends brother without his consent during a truth or dare?
yesterday i was supposed to spend the night at my friends house with some of my classmates and we were playing truth or dare. there really is no reason for us to choose truth since we already know a lot about each other so we mostly went j... |
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Dialectic RL Questions (10k)
10,000 real-world dilemma / debate prompts used as the GRPO training prompts for a dialectical-debate model. Each prompt is an open-ended question (advice dilemmas, opinion debates, and general user requests) that the model is trained to answer by generating multiple positions and against-claims in a structured "dialectical" format.
The prompts are drawn from public real-world sources: Reddit AITA
(r/AmItheAsshole), SHP (Stanford Human Preferences, a range of r/ask* and
r/changemyview subreddits), and WildChat (real user chat-assistant prompts).
Row count
10,000 rows.
Schema
One JSON object per line (JSONL):
| field | type | description |
|---|---|---|
id |
string | unique prompt id (e.g. aita-ocx94s) |
source |
string | originating corpus: WildChat, SHP, or AITA |
domain |
string | finer-grained provenance (subreddit or WildChat model split) |
pool |
string | coarse bucket: advice or general |
text |
string | the prompt text itself |
Source breakdown
| source | rows |
|---|---|
| WildChat | 5,000 |
| SHP | 4,500 |
| AITA | 500 |
Domain breakdown
| domain | rows |
|---|---|
| WildChat/gpt-3.5-turbo-0301 | 3,643 |
| WildChat/gpt-4-0314 | 998 |
| WildChat/gpt-3.5-turbo-0613 | 359 |
| r/AmItheAsshole | 500 |
| r/legaladvice | 500 |
| r/askhr | 500 |
| r/askacademia | 500 |
| r/changemyview | 500 |
| r/askphilosophy | 500 |
| r/explainlikeimfive | 500 |
| r/askscience | 500 |
| r/askengineers | 500 |
| r/askculinary | 500 |
Pool breakdown
| pool | rows |
|---|---|
| general | 8,000 |
| advice | 2,000 |
Example row
{
"id": "aita-ocx94s",
"source": "AITA",
"domain": "r/AmItheAsshole",
"pool": "advice",
"text": "aita for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nmy brother in-law (sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. he moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (olivia & sloane18) with him ...[truncated]"
}
Related artifacts
This dataset pairs with the model andreiski/dialectic-8b-gguf and the local installer at https://people.csail.mit.edu/andreye/dialectic.
The companion SFT dataset that teaches the output format is andreiski/dialectic-sft-against-only-750.
License
CC-BY-4.0. Underlying prompt text originates from public Reddit (AITA/SHP) and WildChat corpora; please also respect the terms of those upstream sources.
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