* 1 * FCA- 35/2005 IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION FAMILY COURT APPEAL NO. 35 OF 2005 Uttara Milind Chavan Age: 37 years, Occ: Housewife Residing at C/60, Ahimanshree Co-operative Hsg.Soc, Baner Road, Pune-411 007 ..........Appellant VERSUS Milind Anant Chavan Age : 42 years, Occ : Business Residing at C/60, Abhimanshree Co-operative Hsg.Soc, Baner Road, Pune-411 007 .........Respondent ********************************************************************************* Mr. Ajay A. Joshi, adv.for the appellant. Mr. A.V. Anturkar, adv.for the respondent. ********************************************************************************* Coram : A.P. Deshpande, & : Smt. R.P. SondurBaldota, JJ. Judgment Reserved On : 26th April, 2010. Judgment Pronounced On : 4 th May, 2010. JUDGMENT [PER : SMT. R.P. SONDURBALDOTA, J] : 1. The appellant wife prefers this appeal to challenge correctness and legality of the judgment and order dated 24th January, 2005 passed by the Family Court, Pune dismissing her petition for divorce filed under * 2 * FCA- 35/2005 Section 27 of the Special Marriage Act. 2. The parties were married on 15th August, 1991 at Mumbai under the Special Marriage Act. There are two issues born from the marriage, daughter-Apoorva and son-Achintya In her petition for divorce, the appellant alleged that after the marriage when she started living with the respondent, she realised that he has a queer nature. He would not allow her to speak to or mix with the neighbours and thus completely isolated her. He was also extra fastidious about the maintenance of the house. The first child of the parties was born in June, 1992. For the delivery, the appellant had gone to her parents place at Bhopal. After the delivery of the baby when the respondent came to the hospital to see the baby, instead of inquiring about the health and well being of the appellant and the child, he fought with her and her parents. Thereafter, when the appellant was to return with the child, she was made to write a letter of apology. On her return, the appellant stayed with the parents of the respondent at Pune, whereas, he continued to work at Mumbai and visited Pune over the weekends. On every visit, he harassed her. In the year 1997, the respondent took up a job at Pune and both started staying separately from the parents of the respondent. But, the queer behaviour of the respondent continued. His behaviour worsened in the year 2000. He started assaulting her, decided on what to cook and how to eat and gave her exact time for working in the kitchen. He abused and assaulted her and the children, when they did * 3 * FCA- 35/2005 not behave as per his dictate. He also threatened to throw her out of the house. Finally, he made her leave the house on 7th November, 2001. On all these instances of cruelty, the appellant sought decree of divorce. She also sought permanent custody of both the children and permanent alimony in the sum of Rs.10,000/- per month and Rs.10,00,000/- for purchasing a house. 3. The respondent denied all the allegations in his written statement claiming that both have not at all been separated. According to him, they are living together as husband and wife in the matrimonial home with the two children. The respondent claims that he loves his family and has been taking good care of it. While pointing out that the appellant has not alleged a single specific incident of cruelty inflicted upon her and the children, the respondent alleged that she is not satisfied with whatever he does and desires a separate accommodation. The respondent tried to convince her that he cannot reside separate from his parents in the same town and that it is his duty to take care of them. However, she refused to understand and quarrelled with him over petty matters. Finally in order to have peace in the house, the parties shifted to the upper floor of the bungalow in which he was residing with his parents. Despite that, the appellant continued to demand that the respondent gets a job out of India or atleast out of Pune. 4. The appellant examined herself, one Vineet Dhawan working with the employer of the respondent, her mother and her daughter in support * 4 * FCA- 35/2005 of her case. The respondent examined himself and his father. On appreciation of the evidence led by the parties, the Family Court found that the appellant had not only failed to establish that the respondent treated her with cruelty after solemnisation of marriage but grant of decree of divorce to the appellant is also barred in view of Section 34(1) (b) of the Special Marriage Act. In view of rejection of the prayer for divorce further prayers sought for custody of children and maintenance came to be rejected. 5. We have heard the submissions advanced by the counsel for both the sides and gone through the pleadings and the evidence led by the parties. As regards the acts of cruelty alleged against the respondent, the Family court found that the same were of general nature and lacked particulars. The respondent is alleged to have put severe restrictions on socialisation of the appellant, while both were residing in Mumbai in the initial period of married life. He is also alleged to have been very particular about the maintenance of the house. He used to leave for his work with several instructions for the appellant as regards household work and check the compliance in the evening. If the appellant tried to reason out about any thing, he allegedly lost his control and started shouting. The appellant however, has not given any specific incident of such conduct of the respondent. It is next alleged that when the respondent visited the appellant at Bhopal on the delivery of the first child, he picked up quarrel in the hospital and did not show * 5 * FCA- 35/2005 due regard for the appellant and the baby. The petition as well as the evidence of the appellant is silent as regards the nature of quarrel. The other allegations against the respondent was that he did not allow the relatives of the appellant to visit her and in case any of them did visit, he would insult them. Once again, there is no specific incident on this alleged conduct of the respondent brought before the Court. The particulars are missing from her mother also. After the delivery when the appellant was to return with the child, the parents of the respondent are alleged to have made her write a letter of apology. The pleadings and the evidence are silent on the reason for demanding the letter of apology as also the contents thereof. As regards the further allegations that the conduct of the respondent deteriorated from the year 2000 when he started torturing her more, assaulting her more and dictated the children every moment, once again there are no specific incidents alleged. 6. One more witness examined by the appellant is her daughter who at the relevant time was a child aged 12 years. It is most unfortunate that child of this age has been dragged into the divorce proceedings as a witness. She stated in her evidence that the respondent used to beat her in front of her friends, he used to steal her toys, did not allow her to use computer for the project given by the school and disconnected the T.V. wire to prevent the children from watching serials. However, in the cross-examination she admitted that the beating given by the respondent * 6 * FCA- 35/2005 was only to discipline the children. He used to keep the toys either in the cupboard or give to her cousin, Rohit. The daughter at the relevant time did not know how to operate the computer. The respondent wanted the children to watch Marathi serials and not the Hindi serials. He also asked them not the watch the T.V. continuously and to go to bed. Thus the four complaints made in the examination-in-chief which would otherwise make the respondent a villian, stand completely explained in the cross-examination which would show the father to be a good parent who wanted the children to be disciplined in life, to be able to share toys with the other children, not get addicted to the television and also not use the electronic items that they cannot handle. One fails to understand, how this conduct can amount to harrassment leading to mental cruelty. The daughter has also stated in the cross-examination that before filing of the petition, her parents use to quarrel with each other and she did not want her parents to be quarrelling. No doubt the daughter has deposed about the regular visits of the relatives from the respondent’s side to the house and comparatively rarer visits of the relatives from the mother’s side. This fact, however, cannot lead to an inference adverse to the respondent because it is already seen above that there is hardly any evidence of misbehaviour of the respondent whenever the relatives of the appellant visited the residence. 7. In view of the above discussion, in our opinion, the Family Court has correctly appreciated the evidence led by the parties before it to * 7 * FCA- 35/2005 arrive at the conclusion that the appellant has failed to establish that the respondent treated her with cruelty after solemnization of marriage. . Hence, the appeal is dismissed. [A.P. Deshpande, J] [Smt. R.P. SondurBaldota, J] * 8 * FCA- 35/2005