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214515 | punks | A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rock... | As anti establishment, punks have always mostly been on the side of the oppressed and marginalized. | [
"transgender",
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgender",
"date": "2025-05-12 04:06:57",
"timestamp": 1747015617
} |
170014 | prog | Progesterone. | Wait til you add prog then it spirals out of control 😏 | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2023-04-25 06:07:59",
"timestamp": 1682395679
} |
116675 | chubby bear | A bear who is particularly large ("bear" meaning "a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body"). | Well as an American Chubby Bear I feel attacked by these comments but yes they are true. | [
"chub",
"bear"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2025-05-14 15:14:46",
"timestamp": 1747228486
} |
157491 | vers | • LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who "switches" between the "giving" and "receiving" during sex. "Vers" is short for "versatile." "Switch" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who "switches" between the dominant and submissive roles.
• One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dom... | You’ll find your vers. | [
"gay"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gaybros",
"date": "2023-10-29 16:22:24",
"timestamp": 1698592944
} |
78556 | flip-flop | Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between "top" and "bottom" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US. | I have been flip-flop and questioning since high school. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "questioning",
"date": "2019-10-10 20:03:20",
"timestamp": 1570730600
} |
99320 | power bottom | A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner. | If you want to identify as a Power Bottom, respect. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MtF",
"date": "2024-03-02 13:05:47",
"timestamp": 1709381147
} |
215419 | bio queen | A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen. | So when starting out many bio queens look glam but not drag. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "Drag",
"date": "2021-07-08 01:23:13",
"timestamp": 1625700193
} |
169817 | pre-E | Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy. | Im pre-E, but im still probably close to a B cup. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transfashionadvice",
"date": "2024-02-15 05:56:30",
"timestamp": 1707972990
} |
115473 | pillow princess | A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually. | As I'm unsure if that really represents what i feel, and if pillow princess is the only word, can i use it as a gay man? | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asexuality",
"date": "2024-09-22 19:27:00",
"timestamp": 1727026020
} |
220177 | house of | In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a "mother," also known as a "house." These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities. | From the house of xtravaganza, for" mother of the year," | [] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "Paris Is Burning",
"imdb_id": "100332"
} |
115109 | stone femme | A lesbian identity patterned after the term "stone butch". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the geni... | I was thinking stone femme but I guess that’s a term for being a pillow princess ? | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2020-12-12 11:21:57",
"timestamp": 1607768517
} |
215420 | bio queen | A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen. | I ask because I really would love to dabble in doing bio queen images but I don't like makeup for various personal reasons. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "Drag",
"date": "2020-02-27 11:38:32",
"timestamp": 1582799912
} |
210084 | bears | • Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.
• In male... | Big fan of bears (men) and bears (animal). | [
"bear"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2024-01-23 16:16:16",
"timestamp": 1706022976
} |
209110 | yass | A strong expression of excitement or admiration. | I don't like the stuff that's all YASS QUEEN and stuff, but I like stuff I'll actually use. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "AskLGBT",
"date": "2022-05-17 23:51:07",
"timestamp": 1652824267
} |
110873 | tranny chaser | Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish. | I find the whole tranny chaser thing weird, mostly for the persistence. | [
"transfeminine"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "crossdressing",
"date": "2014-05-28 14:57:38",
"timestamp": 1401281858
} |
83734 | gym rat | A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building. | A gay friend who is a huge gym rat reassured me today, saying I'm in fine shape. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gaybros",
"date": "2024-01-01 21:45:25",
"timestamp": 1704141925
} |
108469 | second puberty | A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty. | Some of the most pleasant experiences have been a result of going through a second puberty as I transitioned. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2018-03-30 16:11:20",
"timestamp": 1522419080
} |
86341 | sugar daddy | Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well. | Now this Colombian sugar daddy was 20 years older than his sugar baby and had given plenty of money to his sugar baby. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gaybros",
"date": "2023-09-11 22:49:10",
"timestamp": 1694465350
} |
220174 | house of | In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a "mother," also known as a "house." These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities. | Like, a new group of kids would just create a house, then they'd work at building its name up, which worked... the house of Xtravaganza, the house of Saint Laurent. | [] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "Paris Is Burning",
"imdb_id": "100332"
} |
127670 | down low | Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men. | DL means down low in this context, yes? | [
"African-American gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2023-10-31 01:26:35",
"timestamp": 1698711995
} |
110953 | squish | An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person. | I’m not ace but I think I’ve had squishes. | [
"aromantic"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2021-02-07 10:33:13",
"timestamp": 1612690393
} |
115988 | stem | A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em). | HOWEVER, I like him; she's, they, thems if they're stem or feminine | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "pansexual",
"date": "2021-10-07 04:38:06",
"timestamp": 1633574286
} |
124007 | fudge packer | • A male homosexual.
• A person who practices anal sex. | No homophobe has ever said "Johnny is a fudge packer but its cool because at least he still loves puss" | [
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2024-10-27 15:47:57",
"timestamp": 1730040477
} |
115066 | baby butch | A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age. | Some people don't like the baby butch term since it feels demeaning, and that's something that should be respected. | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "AskLGBT",
"date": "2025-03-18 01:32:30",
"timestamp": 1742257950
} |
213189 | muscle mary | A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building. | Seeing as the muscle Mary is the darling of the gay world ? | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2022-11-29 00:33:10",
"timestamp": 1669678390
} |
112527 | femme | Traditionally, a lesbian who appears "feminine" or acts in a "feminine" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness. | If you want it to appear more femme maybe try playing with accessories more. | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2021-10-04 22:11:42",
"timestamp": 1633378302
} |
228059 | discreet | Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous. | No he didn't.Don't worry He's discreet. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "XXY",
"imdb_id": "995829"
} |
214786 | switches | • LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who "switches" between the "giving" and "receiving" during sex. "Vers" is short for "versatile." "Switch" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who "switches" between the dominant and submissive roles.
• One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dom... | I never realised how many of us are switches until I saw this damn comment section | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "pansexual",
"date": "2020-04-14 04:50:08",
"timestamp": 1586832608
} |
7272 | boots | Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally. | But then he also said that his relationship was bad boots. | [
"drag"
] | {
"source": "Podcasts",
"title": "Leave A Message with Ally & G"
} |
113805 | boi | An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none... | A cute gaymer boi you say? | [
"lesbian",
"transmasculine",
"African-American LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild",
"date": "2020-12-18 00:08:35",
"timestamp": 1608246515
} |
202081 | Tit Tac | A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol. | Do y'alls have fun names for your hormones cuz like over here in the MTF community we got breast mints, tit tacs, fem&ms anti boyotics and all sorts of wordplay. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ftm",
"date": "2024-12-24 17:54:28",
"timestamp": 1735059268
} |
106484 | deadnaming | Calling a transgender person by their "deadname" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always). | She kept using "she/her," pronouns for them and deadnaming them. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2022-03-17 06:01:13",
"timestamp": 1647493273
} |
168500 | hen | The penis of a trans woman. | In one of the discords I'm in we used hen as another word for girl cock. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns",
"date": "2020-10-15 13:00:34",
"timestamp": 1602759634
} |
95552 | service top | A service top is one who tops (acts as the "giving" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the "receiving" partner in sexual encounters). | I could be considered a service top in my current relationship lol | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2016-12-16 10:23:50",
"timestamp": 1481880230
} |
117038 | polar bear | An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey ("bear" meaning "a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body"). | She brought her friends and there was a polar bear whom I found very cute and she was being really nice to me. | [
"bear"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2013-12-08 15:31:11",
"timestamp": 1386513071
} |
109783 | fish | Derogatory term for cisgender women; also used to refer to drag queens or transgender women who are considered "passing" as cisgender women. | I think it's really odd that Baker doesn't answer about fish which is a pretty misogynistic way to refer to a cis woman. | [
"transfeminine"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ask_transgender",
"date": "2015-07-30 08:57:33",
"timestamp": 1438239453
} |
113695 | high femme | A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman. | People get mad at trans women/femmes who don't voice train or go high femme. | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "trans",
"date": "2025-07-15 00:13:35",
"timestamp": 1752531215
} |
123830 | boy pussy | A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva. | The term "daddy" bothers me more than boy pussy. | [
"transgender",
"gay",
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2018-09-07 10:44:24",
"timestamp": 1536309864
} |
98588 | gaysian | Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person. | Follow up question: Which US states do you think are most gaysian friendly? | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gay",
"date": "2023-11-30 06:02:28",
"timestamp": 1701320548
} |
79781 | friend of dorothy | Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz. | Honestly I kinda like the Friend of Dorothy/Rival of Dorothy joke! | [
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "AskLGBT",
"date": "2024-07-18 12:28:50",
"timestamp": 1721298530
} |
145815 | pancake | A butch woman who is a bottom, said to have been "flipped" from the expected sexual role of being a top. | I'm a Demi Pancake. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "demisexuality",
"date": "2024-06-28 19:57:39",
"timestamp": 1719597459
} |
210563 | bottoms | • A "bottom" is an individual who acts as the "receiving" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb ("to bottom for someone"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.
• So... | I mean, if there weren't some really great (and I mean stunningly fantastic) bottoms out there what would a top do? | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gaybros",
"date": "2023-07-14 10:41:18",
"timestamp": 1689324078
} |
169368 | manmode | The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman. | Even since I've had surgery, I manmode without issue, I don't think people would suspect I was transitioning. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2023-09-23 18:20:58",
"timestamp": 1695486058
} |
108364 | t4t | Short form of "trans for trans", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually. | any former dreams of t4t sex are gone, drifting in the wind, (and are also inherently oppressive too. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk",
"date": "2025-01-06 19:35:56",
"timestamp": 1736188556
} |
229034 | closeted | An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure. | A closeted gay teacher is outed by a former student on the night of the academy awards in the ground-breaking comedy starring Kevin kline. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "All Over the Guy",
"imdb_id": "250202"
} |
224090 | lesbian | A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women. | I'm a lesbian who's been exposed to nuclear waste, hoh! | [] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "Will & Grace",
"imdb_id": "157246"
} |
98879 | lavender | A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s. | I have been seeing a ton of TikTok’s on how they wanna be in a Lavender marriage and all of that. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2025-07-13 07:40:44",
"timestamp": 1752385244
} |
75835 | chaser | Short for "tranny chaser." A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a ... | As for your friend... Well, when someone tells me they're "into trans women," that's usually a red flag that they're a chaser. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ask_transgender",
"date": "2019-07-19 06:43:08",
"timestamp": 1563511388
} |
103754 | top surgery | A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries. | so *my question IS*, would i be able to get top surgery "twice" but like this time just shrinking them and then when im free, completely letting go of them? | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "genderfluid",
"date": "2024-04-05 11:54:51",
"timestamp": 1712310891
} |
134004 | ambisextrous | Said of a person, bisexual. | Welcome to the ambisextrous club. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "LGBTeens",
"date": "2016-07-30 21:28:06",
"timestamp": 1469906886
} |
165462 | gender | Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy. | Got so much gender envy from her in Ahsoka. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ladyladyboners",
"date": "2024-02-08 16:47:10",
"timestamp": 1707407230
} |
106647 | baby trans | Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender. | In fact, dear reader, I will tell you now that I have already done this; and several baby trans have talked to me for advice, guidance, and help. | [
"transgender",
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgenderUK",
"date": "2024-11-12 02:50:13",
"timestamp": 1731376213
} |
94383 | condragulations | A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag. | no teeth at 25 would be crazy😭😭but condragulations!!! | [
"drag"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2022-10-25 08:59:52",
"timestamp": 1666681192
} |
116808 | bear chaser | A gay man who pursues primarily bears ("bear" meaning "a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body"). | As a bear myself who's more into twinks, I love me a twinky bear chaser! | [
"bear"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2025-03-28 01:16:41",
"timestamp": 1743121001
} |
78204 | flame | "Flaming" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others. | Also same about being able to flame on and off and people being surprised to find out I’m Bi. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2024-07-17 21:43:32",
"timestamp": 1721245412
} |
106666 | repressor | A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression. | As I'm sure you're aware, there's the repressors that sometimes pack muscles to try to run from themselves. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2022-06-15 21:59:39",
"timestamp": 1655323179
} |
99778 | queer coding | A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity. | it's not like i ignore that queer coding or don't respect it, etc. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2025-05-07 22:40:08",
"timestamp": 1746650408
} |
165177 | estrogel | Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy. | This exchange of the estrogel bottle getting waved in front of my face by transphobic pharmacists for a month needs to stop. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MtF",
"date": "2024-08-05 21:33:35",
"timestamp": 1722886415
} |
101513 | enban | An adult nonbinary person. | I made a flag for it and redefined it to be more inclusive, so I felt like a jerk about their treatment of enbans was appropriate. | [
"nonbinary"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk",
"date": "2021-08-21 03:18:36",
"timestamp": 1629508716
} |
203130 | VT | Initialism of voice training. | Is VT an acronym for voice training or is there not one? | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transvoice",
"date": "2024-11-20 20:17:14",
"timestamp": 1732130234
} |
89157 | top | • A "top" is an individual who acts as the "giving" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb ("to top someone"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.
• Someone, typica... | Is it different depending on whether you're looking to bottom or to top? | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "QueerTransmen",
"date": "2011-11-17 05:44:08",
"timestamp": 1321505048
} |
154724 | Mary | Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. "Nancy" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive. | Pre Hayes Code movies from the 20s and 30s had gay characters who said Mary. | [
"gay"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gay",
"date": "2024-06-04 15:34:22",
"timestamp": 1717508062
} |
205357 | lesboy | A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian. | Personally that's why I like to call myself a lesboy. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "queer",
"date": "2022-04-11 00:10:16",
"timestamp": 1649628616
} |
149178 | serve cunt | To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner. | Sometimes I serve cunt, sometimes I serve can’t. | [
"drag"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2025-03-27 12:23:01",
"timestamp": 1743074581
} |
228165 | crush | An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection. | I'm training you to survive Mavericks, not some, uh... silly teen crush. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "Slay",
"imdb_id": "1629757"
} |
113832 | boi | An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none... | We can have women, bois and AFAB spaes instead of just women :) | [
"lesbian",
"transmasculine",
"African-American LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk",
"date": "2023-07-21 01:34:01",
"timestamp": 1689896041
} |
204415 | girlsmell | A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive. | wtf what's the point if no girlsmell | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk",
"date": "2025-01-01 20:32:04",
"timestamp": 1735759924
} |
107971 | transition goal | A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person "transition goals"). | Omfg transition goals right here | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transpassing",
"date": "2021-01-01 02:03:02",
"timestamp": 1609462982
} |
91798 | faux queen | A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen. | I don't think you're a Faux queen, just a Queen 😊 | [
"drag",
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "Drag",
"date": "2020-05-14 05:58:45",
"timestamp": 1589428725
} |
108096 | t4t | Short form of "trans for trans", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually. | T4T is extremely common and even those like myself that are very much NOT T4T, we might still date other trans people *incidentally* rather than exclusively. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2025-05-14 17:34:03",
"timestamp": 1747236843
} |
119534 | no homo | A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also "added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre". | And since everyone was like "Haha no homo tho", I sorta went along with it. | [
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2017-07-20 00:19:30",
"timestamp": 1500502770
} |
83747 | gym rat | A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building. | We gotta get greg doucette to make an anabolic version for us gym rats. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2023-01-23 01:54:12",
"timestamp": 1674435252
} |
96004 | gaydar | A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body languag... | From personal gaydar usage experience, it's always active. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "LGBTeens",
"date": "2020-11-06 10:13:59",
"timestamp": 1604654039
} |
116785 | seahorse dad | Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term. | I’ve started saying I’m gonna be a seahorse dad lmao. | [
"transmasculine"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ftm",
"date": "2023-07-05 13:00:03",
"timestamp": 1688554803
} |
108664 | boymode | When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man. | tbh even if you were to boymode i bet you’d fail dramatically at it and be called a girl anyway | [
"transgender",
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "transpositive",
"date": "2024-08-19 23:01:10",
"timestamp": 1724101270
} |
1754 | kink | • A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.
• A thief or burglar. | Text it in and let me know what you think my kink should be because I'll be interested in it. | [] | {
"source": "Podcasts",
"title": "We Can Be Weirdos"
} |
203328 | doll | A transgender woman or transfeminine person. | Thing is, if somebody calls me doll *purely* because I'm trans that'll irk me. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2024-08-25 17:24:36",
"timestamp": 1724599476
} |
97006 | power top | A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the "giving" partner in sexual encounters). | Wrong, Peach is the power top. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "gaymers",
"date": "2017-10-19 02:16:46",
"timestamp": 1508372206
} |
228922 | realness | The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance. | Is this realness or not? | [
"drag",
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "OpenSubtitles",
"title": "Paris Is Burning",
"imdb_id": "100332"
} |
127544 | butch queen | A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression. | I got the impression that butch queen just meant dude in drags, but I didn't realize they use(d) it as a gender identity. | [
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace",
"date": "2017-08-29 17:10:30",
"timestamp": 1504019430
} |
84638 | lipstick lesbian | Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically "passing" for heterosexual. | A lesbian who is particularly feminine may *choose* to identify as a lipstick lesbian -- or they may not. | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "AskLGBT",
"date": "2022-05-27 04:01:49",
"timestamp": 1653616909
} |
134003 | ambisextrous | Said of a person, bisexual. | I make the "You might say I'm ambidextrous and ambisextrous!" | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2018-08-15 23:36:22",
"timestamp": 1534368982
} |
113726 | gayelle | A lesbian. | Do you follow the Effin' Dykes guide to identifying gayelles? | [
"lesbian"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2012-01-30 10:12:17",
"timestamp": 1327914737
} |
75829 | chaser | Short for "tranny chaser." A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a ... | A chaser probably would react badly to their partner eventually having surgery, a non chaser would ideally be happy for their partner. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "ask_transgender",
"date": "2019-12-12 22:18:23",
"timestamp": 1576185503
} |
99267 | power bottom | A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner. | I don't think of myself as really a power bottom, but I feel it kind of works. | [
"LGBTQ"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2023-11-30 16:02:31",
"timestamp": 1701356551
} |
120661 | friend of Dorothy | Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz. | He was around my age, had lovely green eyes, a hot bear body, and seemed to be a fellow friend of Dorothy. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "askgaybros",
"date": "2024-10-13 21:43:06",
"timestamp": 1728848586
} |
107222 | deep stealth | Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner. | A friend of mine went deep stealth at around your age. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asktransgender",
"date": "2018-03-04 19:29:16",
"timestamp": 1520188156
} |
110404 | Eve's apple | A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding "Adam's apple". | So my ex-gf had an eve's apple and she actually loved her chokers because they hid it while looking awesome. | [
"transfeminine"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MtF",
"date": "2022-02-24 03:03:47",
"timestamp": 1645668227
} |
123845 | boy pussy | A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva. | I was going to one of my classes and got passed by some guy in my morning class who said “Sup boy pussy” and then kept walking | [
"transgender",
"gay",
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "trans",
"date": "2025-03-21 07:02:08",
"timestamp": 1742536928
} |
110906 | zucchini | A queerplatonic partner. | In that context, I’ve seen zucchini being used as a kind of nickname for their one in a QPR. | [
"aromantic"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "asexuality",
"date": "2025-03-17 15:45:18",
"timestamp": 1742222718
} |
158799 | cunt | • The anus of a trans woman.
• The inguinal canals of a trans woman.
• Amazing or very good. | I just serve clocky cunt | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MtF",
"date": "2025-05-25 14:22:05",
"timestamp": 1748175725
} |
210079 | bears | • Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.
• In male... | I'm definitely down for hugs, just between us bears. | [
"bear"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "lgbt",
"date": "2021-07-03 05:33:28",
"timestamp": 1625283208
} |
157840 | bonus hole | The vulva or vagina of a trans man. | Be blessed our bonus hole. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns",
"date": "2018-08-17 00:03:05",
"timestamp": 1534456985
} |
83742 | gym rat | A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building. | But my gym rat strength keeps making them question everything lol. | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "actuallesbians",
"date": "2025-04-14 08:47:10",
"timestamp": 1744613230
} |
203114 | VT | Initialism of voice training. | I feel comfortable and have just been singing along as I try to VT in the car (I’m alone). | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MtF",
"date": "2025-03-25 01:49:50",
"timestamp": 1742863790
} |
1752 | kink | • A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.
• A thief or burglar. | Find me a kink, text it in, you know, I don't want any sexually explicit photographs from you or anybody. | [] | {
"source": "Podcasts",
"title": "We Can Be Weirdos"
} |
120694 | hunty | A portmanteau of "honey" and "cunt", usually considered a term of supposed endearment. | You look amazing hunty♡♡ | [
"gay male"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "Drag",
"date": "2024-07-21 19:15:52",
"timestamp": 1721582152
} |
104098 | stealth | When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender. | *edit: I’m not a trans woman- I’m a stealth gay man who is dating a cis bi man who (as far as I know) thinks I’m a cis gay man. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "bisexual",
"date": "2022-03-16 14:11:54",
"timestamp": 1647436314
} |
107804 | full-time | A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc. | You can certainly get FFS before going full-time, and I've certainly heard of many women doing this. | [
"transgender"
] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "TransSpace",
"date": "2012-03-12 21:08:13",
"timestamp": 1331582893
} |
140267 | BJ | Initialism of blow job. | I'd still give you a bj | [] | {
"source": "Reddit",
"subreddit": "MajesticManes",
"date": "2022-12-27 17:29:09",
"timestamp": 1672158549
} |
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SLAyiNG: A Diverse and Community-validated Dataset of Queer Slang
Dataset structure
Each entry of Slaying contains:
idterm: A queer slang term. Sources for these terms are: GSSO, lgbtDB, Wiktionary, and the Chew Inclusive Terminology Glossary.definition: Definition for the slang term. Some terms have multiple valid definitions -- for those cases, the definitions are split with bullet points.sentence: Sentence using the term according to the given definition.communities: Queer communities associated with the term (via mappings of GSSO and Wiktionary).metadata: For examples derived from OpenSubtitles, this includes title and IMDb ID. For examples derived from Reddit, this includes the respective subreddit of origin and date. For examples derived from podcasts, this includes the respective title.
License
The licenses for the vocabularies sources of Slaying are as follows: GSSO falls under Apache License 2.0, lgbtDB under CC0, the Chew Glossary under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0, and Wiktionary under CC-BY-SA. Regarding sentence sources, the OpenSubtitles Corpus falls under ODC-BY. The short excerpts derived from podcast transcripts and Reddit remain the intellectual property of their respective creators and hosting platforms. The derived metadata and annotations produced in this work are released under the Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License (CC BY 4.0), where legally permissible. Slaying is intended for non-commercial academic research use only.
Misuse
The authors do not condone usage of Slaying to enforce or reinforce stereotypes against the LGBTQ+ community. Specifically, terminology or sentences present in Slaying should not be used to promote transphobic, homophobic, racist, misogynistic, or otherwise bigoted sentiment and talking points.
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