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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Destroy the gifts, or give them to her?
POST: Reddit, I need your help, here's the situation:
This girl and I were close friends, when we both kind of decided to cross the boundary and we started talking about a relationship. She told me thanksgiving weekend she had liked me for a while, and that I never made any moves. I told her I liked her and that I never made any moves because I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Anyways, I bought her some Christmas presents 1 we | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Question about Authorized user on credit card.
POST: I currently own a home that I plan to keep for the long term (bought at a low price and great interest rate) and most likely will rent it out in the next few years when me and my girlfriends child is old enough to go to school. The house is exclusively in my name.
Me and the misses mutually agree we don't plan on being married in the legal sense any time soon. I would like the next house to go into her name exclusively | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: A girl that I have been romantically involved with in the past is telling me she loves me, can't live without me, etc. while she's with another guy
POST: I was seeing a girl at my school for a month or so back in November/December... we were never technically dating, but we were doing things of a sexual nature and I think we were attached emotionally. After we ended things, we kind of stayed friends. Things were awkward for a bit, but within a month or so we were back | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Question about dating a roommate.
POST: I am an early 20's M she is an early 20's F. We are both young professionals. I am living in an apartment with 3 individuals, 2 of them date one another M/F, the other (my interest) is a presumed single F. I recently moved in to a new apartment and took interest in her. She is moving out of the apartment in about a month and will be living around the area. We both share bathrooms and various space in the apartment. When I met her a we | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26/F] seem to have an inability to break up with my boyfriend [24/m] even though I desperately want to.
POST: So a little background on the relationship:
We started dating a little over a year ago, he is a writer still living at home with his parents.
At first I thought this would not bother me, but over the next few months it really started too. It want the lack of money that bothered me, but the lack of real ambition.
So I broke up with him after two months. Then a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [15 F] 5 months, need help dealing with jealous feelings and with an ex guy of hers.
POST: I have been dating this girl for 5 months and she is my best friend and we are in love. All through middle school she was obsessed with this guy who is an asshole and I hate and several months before me she claims to her friends (doesn't know that I know) she have him a blowjob. I heard this before she brought him up and when she brought him up she said "N | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my gf [16 F] of 1.5 years, she is beginning to be very controlling and clingy and it's starting to affect my emotions and feelings
POST: Sorry, I'm typing this on my phone. I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now. Since tell beginning, she's been very controlling and clingy. Because of her, I had to give up every friend I had that was female, and it is still like that now. She gets very upset if I even mention the name of a girl.
Along side | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [21F] of about 7 months has been acting really weird ever since a talk we had
POST: So I've know this girl for almost 3 years now and we never dated because of location but we've been living in the same place for about the last 8-9 months and have been together.
It started out great, super affectionate, sex all the time, always wanted to hang out and go out. Now about 6 weeks ago we had a talk where she said she felt like she was under too much pressur | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Mother [40's F], decided to cut my mother out, wondering if right / what to do about holidays
POST: Okay, so I apologize if this is a bit long, but I need to provide background.
My parents divorced when I was 4 years old. All I remember is them both being really angry when it happened, but I was so young it really didn't shatter that much for me. Custody of myself was given to my father, while my mother got my half-sister who has a different father.
When | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19/M] was dumped by my gf [19/F] of 6 months while i was overseas, im back now, is it fixable?
POST: back story: Me and my gf were happy for about 4 months of our relationship, then i became controlling and felt she didnt love me anymore and that we saw eachother too much. She broke up with me via text while i was overseas because we were continuing to argue a lot.
I returned last weekend and saw her two nights ago for the first time. We explained what we were unh | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit: When have your parents disappointed you most?
POST: Just last night, as my family chowed down on a most excellent Rosh Hashanah brisket, my father thought it good form to touch upon the recent rioting outside of the US embassy in Libya. With all of the hatred that only an old, ignorant racist could muster, he unleashed a torrent of derisive remarks regarding those of the Muslim and Islamic faiths - most notably the assertion that all of the current violence in the worl | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18 F] boyfriend [19 M] of two years, sent me a twitter dm with a vague idea of where he was going then gave no details then disappeared to possibly drink.
POST: So lately my boyfriend has been just getting worse and worse at communicating and caring about my feelings and it's taking a toll on my trust with him. At around 9 I got a Twitter dm (he never uses twitter) that he'd be hanging out at his coworkers house playing SSBB, and his phone is dead. Doesn't sound bad right? | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 23M with my girlfriend 22f of 5.5 years,i think its time to call it quits but I cant seem to do it.
POST: the first four years of our relationship were simple, neither of us had many friends so we became very close very quickly. we almost never fought and we always had something going on so we were never bored.
a few months after our four year anniversary ,i ran into an old friend from my childhood that i hadn't seen in since high school and decided to hang out with him | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [21M] have to put up with my girlfriend's [23F] complaints about life?
POST: When someone charges her money for something she wasn't paying for. When her boss gives her reduced wages. When the council want their money back and various other money issues. Whatever the problem; I'm the one who sits and listens to her fucking moaning!
It's never "I have this problem and this is what I'm going to do or have done in order to solve it."
Instead it's "I have this proble | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Just found out my girlfriend (female 26) cheated on me (male 25)
POST: We have been dating for 3 years and live together, but for the last year we have been more roommates than boyfriend and girlfriend. She moved states to be with me a year and a half ago. I have told her I plan to marry her, in time.
Our communication has been poor to none, and I can't remember the last time we had sex.
Right before my last business trip, I found out she had kissed a guy in her musical | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Question : Credit card open under my name (I never knew it exsisted... it has a $0 balance, $1,000 limit - USA)
POST: So I just happened to be checking a few things today and noticed that there is a Capital One card open under my name, that I wasn't aware of.
$0 Balance (thankfully) & a $1,000 Limit.
Note, I DO have an active Capital One card that I DID sign up for.
I use it all the time, & pay it off diligently.
But this other one is a totally different card with | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my college classmates
POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.
I'm a college student and all that entails. This is a simple question, but I'm struggling and don't know how best to approach this so it develops properly. I've met some good kids in my classes. How do I become better friends with them? I don't like just communicating with people in a class setting, or being the "Hey, can you send me a pic of your homework?" guy.
I was thinking about | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My (33m) son (5) isn't really my son. I need help
POST: I'm on mobile so sorry in advance.
My wife and I met in college, we were in the same freshman biology class, and group partners. I was in a relationship that ended around Christmas break and my now wife started talking to me.
We hit it off and started dating during out sophomore year during the second semester. We were super happy the whole time we were dating and I proposed to her after we graduated.
We got m | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] am still having a difficult time after my ex [25 F] broke up with me.
POST: I'm a 28 year old guy, and this past January, my girlfriend (25) broke up with me a week after our 1 year anniversary. We had just had an amazing holiday season together, and over the course of the year, she had grown very close to my family.
I had only had one previous relationship that lasted 3 and a half years, but it was very unhealthy and needed to have ended much sooner than it did. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (30) don't really think my girlfriend (27) cares about me
POST: I'm living in Asia at the moment (I'm European) and I got a Indonesian gf. We have been together about 9 months and well, she is mostly quite mature for life stuff. She has been in this country for years, and speaks the language quite well, works in an office, and has a very straight forward way of thinking. I came to learn the language but I'm not doing that well. Anyway, when it come to relationship, I'm qu | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: First solid experi[m]ent with chatroulete
POST: Wondered on, firstly tried the adult section. Lots of men, spanking the monkey, in fact after 30 mins, i decided to stop having not seen a girl. Or wanting to talk to throbbing members.
Went to normal mode vid chat. Found it very hard to talk to people and got the dreaded next alot. Mic was working yet many people were not responding to both a audiable hello or a text Hi.
The few I got to talk to briefly:
A young kid, shared a few | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I (21/f) handle this with my ?? (20/m) so I don't embarrass myself?
POST: I fell for a guy long distance. We talked for two years until it was apparent we felt strongly about each other so we started making visits to see if a LDR is something we could do. We wanted to get to know each other better in person. We did this for a few months.
Apparently, he kinda couldn't. He started to fade out and seemed a bit detatched. I was getting fed up by his flakiness and broke | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by playing a Weird Al video for my class
POST: I am a Teaching Assistant for an into level class at my university. Being a TA, I have no control over what I actually teach. The classes are designed by the class coordinator who then instructs us how to present the material. I grade all of their assignments and, therefore, know just how bad their grammar is.
The assignment this week is incredibly repetitive and doesn't require much (if any) brainpower. While the students ar | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Can you have a relationship with someone who lives 3000+ miles away? [22F] and [22M]
POST: I've met someone unexpectedly who I really enjoy spending time with. I don't want to move to quickly but I know I like him, its nothing serious right now but that doesn't mean I don't want it to be in the future.
I went to my mom for advice and she told me that its impossible to have a relationship when theres 3000+ miles between us. Of course we plan to visit each other but how real | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What the thing your body does that annoys you the most? I'll go first...
POST: If im in a hurry and need to take a shit, ill decide to pull the trigger on it depending on the importance of where im headed, and varying degrees of comfort. But sometimes holding it is impossible thus I have to go right away. Why is it almost every time this happens I'll shit and it will take 5 minutes, and a half a roll of toilet paper to get my asshole clean? When im not in a hurry and im just | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] am starting to resent the person my older sister[30F] has become
POST: Over the past 5 years I have noticed that my older sister has started changing- for the worse (in my opinion).
Every family function is about her. If the conversation does not involve her or her accomplishments she seems to tune us out and plays with her phone.
She never asks questions or seems interested in the things me and my younger sister do. Recently, the addition of her new boyfriend h | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (M/20) have a different future planned out for myself, which gf (F/19) doesn't agree with.
POST: Hello Reddit, I appreciate any advice given. My girlfriend and I are both in college. Different schools, but relatively close. I see her 2-3 days a week. Relationship is good, were making two years next month. We have some complications (She doesn't like that I have girlfriends because she gets jealous, which is very annoying) but other than that it's fine. However, we b | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Im [24,F] and I dont know how to talk to my [27,M] boyfriend about the next step in our relationship of 4 years. What do I say?
POST: We have been together for 4 years. We have a house. We have 3 dogs. Its like we are practically married already. We have spoken about marriage. I feel like over time though he may have changed his mind about it. His dad even said you need to be really sure. My boyfriend says his dad doesnt like me. His dad isnt apart of this realtionshi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: You won't be keeping me very long
POST: We've been together for over 5 years now, and in just the 2 months we've been married you have driven me to hating you with your daily insults and your need to snap at me for anything and everything. Example, this morning you wanted to ask me what you were going to do with the dog when I leave the country for a year. I asked what you meant, and you told me "shut the fuck up and just answer the question without asking pointless questions | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [26 M] having trouble meeting women and joining groups. Is this normal?
POST: I recently graduated college, and I'm studying for tests before starting my career. I was mega homeschooled, and during college I was very shy, and always had major athletic injuries. I did go on dates, but only with extroverts, and usually they were the ones who asked me out.
I'm much less shy now, and I do get attention from interesting women, but they're all 18-20!
I have several new gr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Last 2 weeks of weight loss challenge at work. Best way to shed as much possible?
POST: There's been a weight loss challenge at work going on since May. I've lost a total of 7% of my body weight by counting calories and exercising. I've been living a healthy lifestyle and I haven't been trying to lose weight rapidly at an unhealthy pace.
With that being said, there are two weeks left and I'm 1.5% behind first place and $500. What kind of a diet is best to rapidly shed lbs in a tw | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [20 F] press for information my BF [21 M] 1 yr, about an anger problem he mentioned?
POST: I recently went through some emotional problems where I was crying all the time spontaneously for no real reason.
My bf and I have talked a lot about emotions since. He is a very level-headed person and doesn't show a lot of emotion. I asked him if he has had episodes where he didn't feel in control of his emotions like how I felt. He said that he isn't the nicest when angr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF[18F] of 1.5 years broke up with me [18M] in the first month of university, don't know how to handle it.
POST: My GF and I were both eachothers first boyfriend/girlfriend, lost our virginity to eachother, the whole nine yards. We we're going strong all summer and into the first couple weeks of Uni and then almost out of the blue she broke up with me. THigns had been a little rocky for the week prior but I did not see a break up coming at all.
She said that the break-u | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making an ambitious library reading/watching list.
POST: So, as is the case with most of these submissions, this didn't actually happen today. It came to fruition today, though, so maybe that's half-points?
Anyway, I started building a very 'ambitious' library reading/watching list a couple years ago. Compiling classic titles from /r/books and /r/movies, as well as more recent titles from those subreddits as well as other lists (e.g. best-sellers, recent-releases, etc.)
Th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Possible Kohls Scam? Anyone else have the same issue?
POST: I checked my Kohls account and discovered that they had rejected my July payment, and then subsequently gave me a late fee. I checked my bank account to discover that I did in fact have the sufficient funds to make the payment. Thus, it should not have been rejected. I called the center to ask about the rejection and I got a crap answer of "the numbers didn't go through" in reference to my bank account. I have ha | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would you let someone sleep with your significant other for money?
POST: Okay, before you guys start bashing me and think I am some kid just trying to troll, I'm asking a serious question. Bare with me for a second. I'm 27, she is 26. We have been together for 2 years
So tonight, me and my girlfriend were just watching tv and we started playing the "What if..." game. I asked her "What if someone paid you 1 million dollars to sleep with you. Would you?" And she said she wou | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (24F) have been having a lot of insecurity issues lately, and I don't want to push my SO (28M) away.
POST: For the past 2-3 months i've been feeling more insecure with my boyfriend and our relationship than ever before. It all started when I found out there were infidelity issues between my parents (Thanksgiving). He was so great and supportive. Was there for me when I needed him, reassured me that he would never do anything like that, and put up with me when it sta | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: Girlfriend thinking of dumping me because of my birthday party.
POST: So....I (27M)did what all you basically screamed at me to do and I put my foot down with my family. I called my brother and told him that I wanted the birthday party my girlfriend (28F) planned me, I told him she put a lot of effort into it and that they could go to that one or not go at all. All he said was "k". I begged for my girlfriend to talk to me, and then I told her everything that I've be | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Cost is threatening me to drop out of college. Is there anything I can do?
POST: Sorry if this doesn't belong here, but this gets the most traffic.
I'm supposed to fly out to school tomorrow, and classes start and tuition is due on Monday.
I'll be entering my second year of university. Last year, one of my scholarship lenders told me that my books and tuition would be covered 100%. Because of that, I didn't apply for other scholarships. Two weeks before classes started, they | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: Improving fat guy [26M] just see my relationship with fat girlfriend as a fling [24F] and don't know what to do.
POST: [First post] (
Happy short update.
After reading all the responses and some soul searching spending some quality time with her, I've decided that she's more important to me than I originally thought and I do care about her romantically.
We had a long hard talk. Like I said in one of my replies, she's been referring to me as her boyfriend to other | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: All I[18M] want to do is play music for my ex[18F] 9 months, broke up almost a week ago.
POST: So basically the way i've been getting through my breakup is hitting the gym/being physically active everyday, and playing and singing songs. But now I feel guilty that I hardly ever sang for my ex when we were together, and she would always ask me to sing for her when i pulled out the guitar ( I was shy). So now whenever I learn or play a song I really just want to play it for he | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21f] Is it a phase or the beginning of the end?
POST: Both 21. Been together for 5 years. We broke up once for 4 months in between high-school and college.
* Him
He's not the most hygienic person I've ever met... He hasn't done anything with his life since high-school (yet). He says he's incredibly in love with me and that he knows for a fact that no one will ever love me as much as he does. He claims he will do *anything* to keep me.
* Me
I am about to gra | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do people have multiple relationships? (M, 18)
POST: I'm (M, 18) and I have a girlfriend (M, 21).
She's my first girlfriend I've ever had and lost my first kiss to and everything else with. We've been dating for almost two years now. We're both very happy together.
We never really talked about her past but it was brought up recently. We had a long night talk about it and I discovered she's had 10+ boyfriends in the past.
I never really understood how people can hav | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [31M] pregnant wife [31F] feels awful after we tried having sex last night and I wasn't able to finish [Possibly Nsfw]
POST: We have been married for about 8 years together for 12. We have 2 kids and like the title says above a third on the way. So with my wife's last two pregnancies they were pretty easy on her compared to this one. This one has been rough and has lead to alot of discomfort for her but she always makes a good effort to make sure Im still trying thrown s | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] am in love with my best friend's [18M] girlfriend [17F]
POST: I personally never thought I would post on r/relationships, but here we go.
I met best friend's girlfriend at a party over a year ago, initially before said best friend, and that night we both got on really well, and I ended up hooking up with her, that night I introduced him to her briefly.
After that night I didn't really think twice about this girl. Later that month they saw each other at another par | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [M26] date my best friend [F23]?
POST: I have been really good friends with a girl for a few years now who I am very fond of. We went to the same high school together, and hung out for a few summers in a row in between college semesters. I have a lot of respect for her, and always really enjoy our time together.
We do crazy stuff together like bungie jump and spontaneously travel. We have tons in common, like the sports we play and the things we enjoy doing, and | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26M] with my Dad [60'sM], he never makes any effort to talk to me and seems pretty disinterested in me.
POST: Here's my issue...my dad doesn't seem to like me very much, or at-least he just isn't very interested in me, and I can't figure out why. Is it normal for a father to be like this? Is it indicative of me doing something wrong? I am a successful 26 year old, in a relationship with a great girl, have a great career, own my home, etc. I can't think of any reason | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] and my girlfriend [17F] broke up after 4 months, she said she liked someone else. What do I do?
POST: *In this text, I am using fake names. ages and genders will be still correct*
I'm a 20 year old guy from Finland and I wanted to share my sad story here.
After four months of a long distance, but a very romantic and intense relationship, me, Peter [20M] and my girlfriend, Jessica [17F] broke up. She confessed me on a phone call that she were getting mixed feeling | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] and my ex [20M/F] of 2.5 years broke up last October but we still love each other
POST: after lots of family troubles and a need for space/individualism and personal growth (we started finding that our identities were so intrinsically wound around each other) our relationship started getting a bit toxic. sensing this, I broke up with him in October and explained why I was breaking up with him. A few months later he said he felt the same way but didn't have the guts | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: SO[28/m]'s obviously don't like me[22/f]. Do I keep trying?
POST: My partner and I have only been together for a few months but we love each other and I imagine we'll be together for a long time. He has a lot of female friends which isn't a problem, there's just this one group of girls (probably some of his best friends) who are consistently rude to me. We go to uni with them and I've been trying to be friends with them for months now but all I get back is utter snobb | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] dated my ex [18F] for 1 year and her sister [23F] just passed away. What should I do?
POST: My girlfriend left me ~2 months ago due to a lot of fighting. A few weeks after we broke up she wanted to try friends with benefits. I felt uncomfortable with being fwb's (especially because she began treating me poorly during this time). I sent her a very long text saying I did not feel comfortable with any type of friendship/relationship until she stopped treating me lik | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need perspective. I am 25M. Do I require too much space?
POST: I've dated two girls seriously so far. My first GF I dated for 5-6 years (when I was 18-24 yo, she was the same age), and recently I dated a girl two years younger than me for I'd say 5-6 months. Both broke up with me for the same reason: they wanted more "us" time and I failed to give them that.
Personal background: I go to school, work a part time job (24-40 hours weekly), and I like to play video games and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Ex GF [25 F] duration 3yrs, So long term relationship ended month ago. Have we started dating again?
POST: So to make a long story short me and my Ex GF ended our 3yr relationship just over a month ago (mutually). She needed time alone after being in relationship after relationship since early teens.
So fast forward to the here and now and we are still friends and regularly see each other (once a week with maybe a day added here and there) Going to coffee | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M 19] I just don't know what to think anymore.
POST: In my first week of university i met a girl, let's call her femanon. She is in her third year but only a year older (i took a fifth year), and i instantly liked her, probably because she was beautiful and talked to me. i found out she already had a boyfriend so i immediately backed off, and after about a week of hangout with a group of people (including her) i looked at her as a friend and not as a possible romantic part | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/F] How do I tell (22/M) that I have hpv?
POST: First of all if there is a subreddit that I could post this in that my question would be better suited for please let me know.
So here is my situation - I had previously been seeing this guy for several weeks until things ended between us right before thanksgiving. After thanksgiving I found several warts consistent with hpv and also received a call from my doctors office about an abnormal pap smear result. I've sch | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my ex-bf [17 M] in new relationship. I need help
POST: Hey reddit!
I posted a while back about feeling terrible about my breakup with my BF. I went no contact with him and things were getting better.
A little background:
My BF cheated on me with a girl, lets call her Sam, and then broke up with me. He was upfront about liking this other girl and clearly stated that he needed some time alone in order to get himself together. He told me that he wasn't plann | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19m] met this girl [19f] two weeks ago, I want to tell her how I am feeling about her before Christmas break... [Update!]
POST: Link to original post in comments (sorry, weird mobile issues)
So not just 20 minutes ago I had her in my arms, we were enjoying our show that we are watching together (white collar, 10/10 would recommend if you haven't watched it). The episode we are on ends, and I then I stop it from auto switching to the next episode like I always do s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do they do about false debt collection?
POST: My coworker recently received a letter of debt collection for over 3K on a credit card they never opened.
They payed off all their debt in 1994 and this card was opened in 2002, even though they have always paid cash for everything since becoming debt-free.
The letter was received within the last 48 hours and the collections company was contacted about the situation. To which they said to open a dispute for the situation to be | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit how have you overcome the depths of the abyss to become a stronger, well-balanced and happy person?
POST: I'm at rock bottom Reddit. I've always considered myself a happy person but in the past month or two, things just haven't been good. Here's a quick list so you catch my drift:
- Early thirties, living with Dad, low on cash (after being on my own since college no problem)
- Laid off 8 months ago by a terrible company after moving states and leaving a good job to join | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: After car-wreck problems with UHaul--need advice
POST: The quick summary is:
My girlfriend was rear ended by a UHaul driver in a ZipCar she rented while sitting in a left turn lane and the accident was not recorded by a cop (she wasn't aware that she should file a police report). The person admitted fault immediately and pictures were taken and it was clear that she was not at fault--there were witnesses too.
Fast forward to now. She just got a bill from UHaul for 3 grand sa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my gf [17 F] 8 months, she seems to have no sex drive
POST: Hey guys, 17 year old dude here looking for some advice from some more experienced people.
We've been dating for 8 months now and things have been really good emotionally, but not sexually. I really enjoy spending time with her but I want to go further sexually with our relationship, but she seems to have no interest in doing so (3rd base and sex).
I'll usually be the one initiating anything sexual | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] have been sleeping with him [26M] for 7 months - he says we aren't dating..
POST: I've been sleeping with a guy for 7 months now. When we first met, he said he doesn't date and that was fine with me because I had just gotten out of a relationship and wasn't looking for another one right away.
However, 7 months later, we have 'date nights' at least once or twice a week (kind of hard to arrange since we both work a lot), and I spend the weekends with him. I have beco | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What to do about room-mates stealing food?
POST: Hello reddit dude and chicks, I have come home today (to my one floor, 2 bdrm apartment, that I share with 3 other people) to find my burrito wrapped in foil totally gone. It was sitting there for 2 days which I'm not sure if thats, uh, gross but hey a gal has gotta eat, right? If it wasn't for my SO buying me a hamburger last night and me saving half of it all I would have to eat is a bag of lettuce, ha. Literally the only food | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] and [21/f] Might be over-reacting, but just wanted some advice.
POST: So, about a week ago I started dating this girl. We weren't really friends back in high school, but we knew each other and sometimes talked. Anyways, so fast forward to now. I asked her out on a date, things went well, went on two more and then I asked her to be my girlfriend one night. All of her friends that I met said that she really likes me, so I had no issue making the move. Things were | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Got accepted to multiple jobs, not sure how to tell one I won't be joining them after all.
POST: After applying to multiple job positions the past couple weeks, I got calls back from 2 separate businesses this week after interviews asking me to work for them. One is Best Buy (which I will not be accepting) and the other is a local business. Reason being: the position at bestbuy is only part time/temporary for holiday season, with a CHANCE to be kept after. I would be getting 10-20 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever randomly met someone that made a huge impact on you, and never spoke to them again?
POST: When I was getting ready to leave for basic training for the Marines, I was at MEPs in New Orleans and I was there alone for 2 days. (Scared shitless) Well, I was going to eat at the hotel's dining area and I saw 2 younger guys walking in front of me. To avoid having people I didn't want to sit with me, or just look like a loser sitting alone, I asked them if I could sit with | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M21] and my girlfriend [F19] have a problem with her friends and family and I not getting along. Does anyone have any advice?
POST: I've been with her for 7 months and everything is going well except this. It's the hardest thing to confront. I care about her so much to where I don't want her to choose between me and them. Basically, it feels like an unwinnable battle and I can't get along with them. I would if they didn't hate me so much. I am a little flustered right n | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend [22 F] 2 years, caught cheating by fake phone contact
POST: Hello guys/girls,
Throw away for obvious reasons, please forgive me!
Me and my other half have been dating fairly happily for 2 years, and were seeing each other for about 9 months prior to that. We've had our fair share of issues, the main one been me catching her flirting with other guys via text. After a long discussion, I forgave her on the condition the guy is removed in all way f | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A girl I [21 F] just met is crushing hard on one of my close friends [22 M], who's a great friend but an asshole to girls. Should I warn her?
POST: I was at a party this weekend and met a girl through a mutual friend. It was her 21st birthday party (we're all seniors in college) and she was clearly having an awesome time, but as the party died down, she started talking about this "awesome guy" she met, and how she's "never felt a connection like that with someone" and that | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by tripping over a kid in a wheel chair then trying to be nice.
POST: Today reddit, oh today, I have a story that is making cringe hours afterwards.
To preface, there is a guy at my school who we'll call Sammy. Now Sammy is a pretty nice guy, but he has a neurological problem, making him have to use this motorized wheel chair everywhere. He is a pretty awesome guy, but I am not very close with him. More of a friend of a friend.
So I was leaving my last class, when I trip ove | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by barring out and hiring an escort
POST: I am quite experienced with the drugs, but rarely fuck with xanax. in the past i'd pop it at the beginning of the night and wake up the next morning totally unable to remember past 11 the night before.
This time, I thought i wised up. i took it in quarters over the course of a night out. got a great 'low but totally uninhibited' feel, but still struckout a few times. anyway, I was feeling great at the end of the night and got dropped a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [18 M] duration, about 6 months, Boyfriend breaks up with me for no reason, still wants to be friends and this might be a break and time for us to reconnect?
POST: Boyfriend been depressed for a week or so, ask him why
says he doesn't know
try to help him
doesn't work
Boyfriend broke up with me one day ago
Says we can be friends, he will always be their for me
Says a break will be good. ?not sure if break or full on break up?
ask him
says its bot | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [17/M] can't seem to connect to a [17/F] girl?
POST: First relationship_advice post, woo!
So basically, I've been acquainted with this girl for about a year, although we've never really been in the same social setting besides the sport that we both participate in. In the last few months, I caught myself staring at her without realizing it more than once. My hormones, over-ruling the more logical parts of my brain, initiated an executive order to make her my girlfri | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't know if I can do this.
POST: I recently accepted my first job promotion, which came with a relocation. I welcomed it as an opportunity for growth and a fresh start.
One month in? Gut wrenching anxiety, depression, and self-loathing. Serious impostor syndrome (probably not in the DSM-V but I think you know what I mean). These feelings are roiling about in my stomach and making a field day for my Crohn's disease. I've been trying not to cry, and to calm myself down | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mom and her girlfriend have been giving me [15M] birth control telling me it's my medicine. Would I be wrong in calling my sisters and brother [23M, 22F, 19F]
POST: Hi, I need an outside opinion if I am being to sensitive.
So my mom is bi and her girlfriend recently moved in with us. I am staying home from school because I am sick. I go to private school and I am sure they would not want me coughing every 5 seconds.
My mom has been giving me medicine but I have not f | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he [21/M] interested in me [21/F]?
POST: I just want someone to tell me this isn't all in my head. I've known this guy for a few weeks as we are in the same summer program but the past week or so I've been wondering if he's interested in something more.
Friday night we both went out drinking with a larger group but we danced and we were prettttty touchy with each other. We spent Saturday together (saw a movie, walked around the city) but we just acted like good friends | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: Today i moved a step forward in becoming more assertive
POST: I will admit before i start this story being assertive and not being confrontational has always been a big weakness of mine that being said today i moved a big step in not being afraid of confrontation
Ok story time. On Wednesday a young girl recently died of brain cancer. Most of the school was grieving. except for one lovely neckbeard who decided to blurt out this lovely statement for the entire class to hear
| positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How long to text her back?
POST: Met this girl at a bar monday night with her friend. She came in at 11:45 pm and she was turning 21 at midnight. Awesome, something easy to break the ice. We start talking, the three of us, and it goes awesome. Ive got both of them laughing. Theyre gonna go to AC for two days to celebrate. Another group comes in and this guy wearing a green lantern shirt is turning 21 as well. But theyre mad awkward and trying too hard. Anyway, hes going to AC too | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19M] best friend [18F] told me she had feelings for me and I don't feel the same way.
POST: Yesterday night, during a fight it came out that she lets call her 'Lexa' had fallen in love with me and although it's never a bad thing to hear that you are loved, I didn't feel the same way. So, backstory is that we have been best friends for about 3 years now and were Friends with Benefits for about two of them, so, we knew that the friendship was going through crap because t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Falling Back In Love with SO
POST: I'm a 22 F and he is 21 M. We've been in a seriously relationship for almost a year. Most of the time long distance. He is fully intent on marrying me and is very much in love with me. I want to marry him also. He is the most supportive man I could ask for in my life, coming from a place where I don't exactly have the best family situation and have a bit of baggage from another abusive relationship and past traumas. The issue is I think I | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: what do i (30f) do about this guy (35m)?
POST: for a few reasons, i'm not looking for a relationship right now. i have complicated scenarios with a long-distance ex who may be moving back and all kinds of stuff. just not looking right now, but i'm pretty live-in-the-moment, and i'm down to have fun with whoever comes along in the meantime. this guy asks me out and he's really cute and fun. i say ok, but i say pretty up front that while i'm single, things are complicated so | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] with my best friend [28 M] and boyfriend [29 M] of 4 years: in love with both?
POST: One of my best friends and I have known each other for 7 years; I liked him when we first met, but he wasn't interested. We became friends and have become really close in the last two years. We hang out regularly, at least once every other week. He came to visit me in another city when I was away for the summer and stayed with me in my room for two nights -- can't say there wasn't | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/M] I am not very experienced with girls at any level and kind of goofed up things with [19/F] her.
POST: Hey there, I'm trying to uphold the rules of the subreddit so please let me know if I'm not! I'm fairly new here.
Growing up my parents discouraged dating and never spoke to me about relationships - I find that I kind of torpedo everything when it comes to interacting with girls.
The level of interaction I'm mainly concerned about is the "right before dating" | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by almost cutting off my nipples
POST: I was a 12 year old boy and was playing at my friend's house who lived on an orchard. Star Wars Episode 1 just came out so we were obsessed, dressing like the characters and having plastic light saber fights on the trampoline. We started recording ourselves with a video camera chasing each other through the fields and jumping over the ditches and canals that water irrigated through. I was pretending to be Darth Maul and the only black shir | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: New job + vacation conflict...not sure what's "right."
POST: I'm sure this situation has come up before but it seems like everything I've read has to do with vacations planned for months after accepting a job offer...mine is just a week after I start.
Interviewed on Tuesday, was offered the job on Wednesday, and I wasn't sure what to do so I rushed my decision and agreed to start next Tuesday. I panicked and never said anything about this vacation because a) I need the money, b) I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Ex [21 F] 3 1/2 years, should I get involved again?
POST: I will try and make this short.
So about a week and a half ago my Ex whom I have not spoken too in over a year sent me an e-mail seeing how I have been doing, saying how she misses our friendship etc.
A quick background on her is we had a good relationship, however she had a few things about her that made it very difficult to be with her at times, eating disorder, personality disorder, I don't | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] ex-girlfriend [25F] wants to date again, and I gave her an ultimatum about her fuckbuddy [29M].
POST: Warning: Long and complex.
I met my ex (let's call her S) online about 18 months ago. At the time she was friends with L, and soon became his fuckbuddy (they were friends for a few months beforehand).
Anyway, our friendship developed and after about 6 months (~a year ago), I told her I had feelings for her, she said she felt the same, so she dumped her fuckbuddy | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Best advice on how to mend a broken heart?
POST: It's easier to fake a smile when people don't know what's going on with you, so I like to keep it at just that. However, I'm at the point where for my ultimate well being, I can't do this entirely by myself. Which is why I'm trying something I never thought I'd ever do: reaching out to the online community regarding personal issues.
He ended our 4 year relationship about 2 months ago. It's something we probably both needed. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: *Update* I [22f] talked about breaking up with my [20m] boyfriend. I feel like I should explain a few more things.
POST: Link to first post:
Last night we were watching a movie, when his brother, A, decided to also watch a movie. He always plays it way too loud and the bass shakes the entire house. We've asked him to turn it down millions of times. I have misophonia so I get irrational and furious to those kinds of triggers. Anyway, so instead of asking to turn it down an | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by talking to three girls at the same time.
POST: This happened about a year ago but I didn't know about reddit at that time so, here is the story. It was a family dinner at a restaurant and I saw 7 pretty girls who are the same age as me. As a teen, I was bored of the chat my family was having and decided to move to another table. The girls were peeking and giggling from time to time and I didn't know what to do with seven girls! After a few minutes they separated, three of th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27/M] broke it off with my ex [24/F] of 3.5 years because of long distance
POST: So, My ex and I were dating for 3.5 years. About 1.5 years ago, she decided she needed to move 180 miles away to go to school in another city after going to law school in the city we lived in didn't pan out. For the six months, it was fine, but then I moved out on my own for the first time. I feel I went through a lot of changes personally and intellectually in finding out who I was. I began | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Break because of distance, looking for suggestions
POST: so my girlfriend and I are soon to be apart. I am travelling abroad and she is still at the college where we met. She has been back for a month or so now and i have seen her frequently through that time period, but in less than a week i am off to Europe.
We have talked extensively about our time apart (we won't see each other in person again until the middle of July) and we've decided that the best idea is a total br | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with guy I'm dating [20 M] 2.5 months, exam stress
POST: Hey reddit
It is finals season - I'm cramming, hes cramming, everybody's cramming!
I've decided not to talk to him much during this time (which is almost a month) - we talk every couple of days but that's it. The reason I'm doing this is so I can get into study mode and do well cos when I do talk to him, I end up thinking about him and nothing gets done for hours.
But as of late, this thought goes through | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Straight-F students of Reddit, is there something you wish a teacher would have done or said that might have sent you in a better direction?
POST: Background: I'm a music teacher at a middle school, and I have four sections of general music that I instruct daily. I've gotten to the point where I can handle the wild kids, in fact I'd actually rather deal with a chatty class than a lifeless one. But I haven't seen a kid like this: He sits there. And then he sits there some mor | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] me and my ex [22M] broke up 6 weeks ago. Together for 3 years, he is already seeing someone and I feel like I should too
POST: We broke up about 6 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. I found out last week that he was already sleeping and seeing someone new, which really stung when I found out. I realize that he has all the right in the world to date someone else and sleep with someone else now but it still hurts cause it's only been 6 weeks. I really loved him a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: In love with two women, what should I do?
POST: Hey reddit, I am having this problem for some time now. There is this one girl I met in another city a few years ago, we had a good time and ended up in her bed.. while I had a girlfriend that I am married to now. Never told my girlfriend about it, but the girl knew that I had a gf.
I never thought about it very much again, because we were living so far away from each other, it didn't make any sense. I always liked to think about | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (F 21) been with fiance for 3.5 years (M 21)
POST: Long, and you guys are going to hate me...
I've been heavily flirting with a 35 year old married man with kids... A lot of older men hit on me at work, but me and this guy Ric have really been flitrting... like touching one another and hugging.
I've told my fiance all of this, and I'm trying to leave Ric alone, but yesterday we went particularly over the line
I'm beginning to feel that I'm not sexually attracted to my | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Feeling hungry and in a bad mood, what am I doing wrong?
POST: I don't know if I'm doing things right or wrong, just feel kind of confused at the moment.
I'm 5'7 and currently about 159 lbs (72 kg)
I go to the gym about 4-5 times a week, doing 10-20 min cardio (i hate it), and 30-40 min lifting (love it).
I've been at my weightloss for about 6 weeks, and lost 8 lbs the first month, but after that it kind of stopped. Plateu, common and no biggie.
BUT, I've read here on loseit | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.
POST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone.
I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed.
Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, any ideas on getting revenge through the internet? This girl dun goofed..
POST: I've seen a few things here and there about getting back at somebody through the web and sending stuff to their mailing address. Well, I'm out for revenge. This isn't my usual way of handling things, but I'm just curious if anyone would mind giving me some ideas. I have her passwords for her Facebook account, Ebay, PayPal, and Yahoo mail. I don't want to do anything to get myself into troubl | negative |