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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what are your awful customer service stories?
POST: So no shit, there I was, trying to get the shattered face of my cell phone repaired. A wild Groupon appeared in my inbox offering a discounted repair from a local and new shop. Naively, I figured this was fantastic - I can support nearby businesses AND get a new screen for my cell phone! Here's how things went down -
Day 1 - Called the store in the afternoon to see if I could come in later. The guy I talked to asked i | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My parents [62m, 59f] are threatening to disown me [26m] until I "grow up".
POST: I've always been the black sheep. They're hyper-competitive, I'm not. They enjoy hunting, I don't. Work's their life and I've been on an extended vacation since '08. You get the idea.
So the short and tall of it is that I dropped out and entered the work force as soon as I possibly could. I saved every penny, moved out on my eighteenth and bought some land and what would nowadays be called a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am a 21 year old male and am losing my mind over the girl of my dreams (23F)
POST: Hey guys,
So today I am after some advice.
I have been having feelings for an old friend of mine who I recently started talking to again after 6 years.
She has a boyfriend now, so I'm sure you can guess where this is going.
We have been talking for a few months now and since then we have both been able to admit that what we care a lot more about each other than we should, considering s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25M] matched with my friend [19F] I already knew on Tinder. What do?
POST: I'm a pretty good rock climber. Had a climber friend introduce me to this really cute climber girl one day. A couple weeks later I ran into her again at the climbing gym and we talked a bunch and she added me on Facebook right away later that day. Talked to her a bit on Facebook but didn't see her much for the next month.
After like 2 weeks of not seeing her or talking to her much I saw her pop u | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Saturday night I thought I saw a UFO. When have you freaked out at something that wasn't what you thought it was?
POST: Here's the story: I was driving home from seeing the meteor shower. On the way, I saw flashes of light in the corner of my eye. I turn and look and there were 4 lights in the sky. I instantly assumed UFO because it looked just like the [Phoenix Lights] but orange and a hell of a lot closer. At this point I'm losing my shit and I need to pull over so I don't cr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Don't know if I'm missing the hint or overthinking it.
POST: I've been on 2 dates with this girl and everything has gone really well. Both times we had a lot of fun and really have no reason to not continue it.
But, when we text each other she takes forever to respond. Usually a day between each text, and it has me curious if she actually really does like going out with me even though she says she does and I can tell she really enjoys going out. Her texts are also very enthusiast | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Complicated with my ex
POST: So, my junior year of high school, I dated a senior (woo go me! No, it's not that cool) girl for about 7 months. We never went extremely far or anything, but had a good time - then broke up as she headed off to college across the country.
Fast forward two years (I'm now a freshman in college) - we're still good friends, and talk fairly often and very openly. Although I finally had sex with the girl I was dating my senior year, my ex still hasn't | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Life feels like a race I can't keep up with.
POST: Everyday I hear I should stop waiting, I should start making changes now, I should "just do it", start now, make a change, don't wait...
My life isn't something to be proud of, but not even miserable. After all I wake up whenever I want, I live with my dear family who loves and who I love, I have no job so I can literally do whatever I want throughout the day, and I can go to sleep whenever I want. Not ill (not even really he | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [19 F] dating for about 4 months, says she knows barely anything about me
POST: Hey r/relationships,
my girlfriend and I are dating since Decembre last year and things are going well so far. I really like her and I hadn't such feelings for a girl for a long time.
When we got into a relationship she said she wants to know everything about me: How I feel, how I think, what I did in the past and what I dream of.
I trust her and I already try to open up | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating "delicious" rancid canned tuna
POST: This actually happened today. It was a normal morning, slept a bit later than normal by about 30 minutes. After I got my shower and stuff, I went downstairs to see my dad making me a tuna sandwich for lunch and for breakfast. He doesn't do this that much anymore and considering that I was a bit late i was grateful. (Yes I know tuna for breakfast is strange. It never happens much because I'm usually making my own lunch.) Now I sit d | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the craziest story you tell your friends, yet to this day do not believe you? Ill start.
POST: So back in the summer of 2009, I being a soon-to-be Senior in High School was chilling at 2 in the morning watching TV downstairs. Minding my own business when I heard the loudest sound to hit these ear drums since the birth of myself. It was like Zeus was having none of my shit and was going to strike me down this day. Luckily for me, or unluckily when I inspected the shit it | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, can you help me?
POST: I never thought it would be this way. Struggling more everyday to force myself out of bed to do the same thing I did yesterday, and the day before that, and the day before that. I thought living would be more than this, more than just a groundhog day lifestyle, Where everyday blends together. I thought I would be doing what I love everyday, and somehow getting paid for it. Unfortunately the reality of the situation is that people don't seem to pay | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (28M) saw an old friend (27F) and I'm insanely attracted to her. Unsure if she feels the same..
POST: Ok. So i'll start this by saying we dated in college. It didn't go anywhere but she had a HUGE crush on me. Fast forward ten years and I met up with her today. She was stunning, funny and was really interesting. There was no real give away signs that she was attracted to me, but I'm not sure she'd do anything even if she was, she's fairly shy.
We talked about a few thi | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Am I being screwed out of shares by a startup in my past? (CA)
POST: A year(ish) ago I left working for a startup that had given me an amount of shares (~3%). A little over 9 months after leaving it closed down, which was no surprise to anyone there; the founder was a brilliant person but just kept switching the vision for the company every two weeks or so. No progress on anything, and it was that for many months before I left and then the rest...etc etc. It's worth nothing t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28M] with my ex-wife [26 F] duration, how do I move on?
POST: I've been married the last four years.
She left me a few months ago, and frankly it's been really hard. I thought I would be over it by now but I just can't help feel this emptiness inside.
I haven't talked to my friends in years and have been fairly depressed for quite a while. That's probably why she left - however I realize now it was her making me feel that way. In any case I think it's a very good thin | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] with my gf [23F] and her friend's[24F] combined birthday present
POST: So I'm wondering if I can get some advice on this situation. I planned to buy my girlfriend tickets to a concert she's been doing to go to for months but couldn't get tickets. So I bought some (about 200 dollars a piece) tickets for her and her friend. I have my girlfriend her ticket for our 1yr anniversary and I split the other ticket with this friends girlfriends (they gave me about 75 dollars | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (f,21) friend (f,22) shares too much detail about her personal life and makes our other friend (f,22) uncomfortable. How can I bring it up with her?
POST: Quick backstory:
I am at uni with two girls (let's call them Sally and Erica) who are my friends but have recently met and started spending some time together. I have been friends with Sally for just over a year and friends with Erica for about 8 months. Sally is a bit of a narcissist and loves talking about herself, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20M) got cheated on by my gf (20F) and can't seem to function properly
POST: I'm bad at writing so sorry for mistakes.
My gf and I started dating a year and 10 months ago before that we were friends for 2 months. We moved in together 6 months into our relationship and had been living together ever since. Now she cheated on me. I can't move out neither can She. She is now dating the guy she cheated on me with.
She wants to try and be friends which I could do I guess. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Scared to live alone now, help.
POST: Recently I moved into an apartment, there were issues with my neighbor and I got him like a strike. Well he recently figured out I live alone and was at my door yesterday and said, "If you snitch on me again, bitch, I'm going to pay you a visit and we are going to "make up" probably all night long." With a smile and left.
Well. I'm pretty sure that was a rape threat. And no, I refuse to call the police because I'm not getting my ass kicked or | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] did something to hurt my boyfriend [27M] of almost a year. He broke it off. How do I move on?
POST: My boyfriend (we'll call him Allen) and I have been together almost a year. It's been rocky for some of it because of my jealously and insecurity issues. I've been working on myself and have been trying to let my issues go for the sake of our relationship. Last night, I slipped up. I don't want to go into detail of how, but basically it showed him I still don't fully | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I get my friend to realize that she is dating a manipulative jerk without jeopardizing our friendship?
POST: About nine months ago my friend (20f) began dating a boy (21m) (I'll call him Frank) who I believe has only damaged her self confidence and brings her down. Their relationship if very off and on- sometimes they are "officially together" meaning they cannot date other people, and other times they are in an "open relationship" or are "friends with benefits." My | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (17 F) boyfriend (19 M) just got out of a relationship four months ago. how do i know if i'm just the rebound girl?
POST: so
i have kinda liked this guy since i was like a freshman (he was a junior at the time), but i of course never expected anything to come from it, esp since he had a girlfriend.
[we are both INTJs, if that helps. and extreemely similar]
after being broken up with for about the 3rd time by the same girl, he started talking to me more often. I, obviou | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] and my friends[19sM], they are trying to get me to date girls I don't like.
POST: Hello /r/relationships
Background: I am a normal college student, virgin 18 y/o who hasn't had a girlfriend and has never kissed a girl. I don't think I am unnattractive(Actually I think I am pretty handsome, just a little fat) and I think I am a solid 7/10 and possible 10/10 if I get to the gym.
To start I am really whiny , in the way that I speak a lot about things I want althou | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M24] Worried about growing apart from my girlfriend [F19], she is in college and I work
POST: I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a few months now, and we met in college (her as a freshman, me as a grad student). The age difference has never been an issue for us, and when I got a job after graduation, she transferred colleges to be with me (and to be in a much better program). She has a dorm but basically lives with me in my apt. She is not one for partying or 'p | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by calling a national writing judge a "bitch n*gga."
POST: This actually happened today, which seems to be a rarity around here.
So a little over a month ago, my English instructor informed the class of a national scholastic writing competition that any student was free to participate in (we're in high school). Being that the teacher was offering a lot of extra credit points for participation, plenty of students entered.
We all proceeded to write our works, which were proba | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23F] mom [45F] has been borrowing and spending huge amounts of money from me. I need to end it. How do I handle this?
POST: My mom is living off of my own income and my student loans after leaving an abusive relationship with no money. Due to economic downturn lost her job 16 months ago and can't get back into her field, but refuses to get a lower paying out of pride. She is living completely off of me and my loan/part time job money, and it this point owes me about $30 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 23F and my boyfriend 28M have been together 4yrs I want to leave him but I'm in too deep and don't know what to do... Need advice
POST: First some backstory. We bought a house together 8 months ago, both our names are on the mortgage. We have a joint bank account and we file our taxes as married even though we technically aren't. We've lived together for 3yrs. I go to school and he works and makes good money.
He's a good guy and he's done a lot for me but I just don't | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Delay my caffeine?!?!
POST: I woke up... and remembered i was out of milk. I dont function without coffee so off i went to the local fast food chain to purchase some substitute heaven in a cup.
They have a double lane drive through, which you can access from the left or right. Doesnt really matter.
But today as i am pulling in to the drivethru entrance, some guy [need for speed] comes speeding from the other side of the carpark and cuts me off to enter the drivethru.
Its | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I Tell My GF of 3yrs That I Do Drugs?
POST: So i have been dating my girlfriend since freshman year of college (now 21) and I have since sophomore or junior year begun experimenting with drugs. I mostly smoke weed though but am going to try shrooms and hope to try acid in the near future. I know my girlfriend pretty well, she is chill and very accepting of everything. It's more that she personally is kind of a saint. She doesn't drink or do drugs of any kind and is f | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [15 M] with my friend [18 F] duration, weird night last night
POST: So I have a really close friend, she goes by Z, and last night, her and I were walking to go meet up with some of her friends.
As some context, we've expressed mutual attraction in the past, and she is/was dating another girl [late 20's F]. Last night we were walking, and she pulls me onto a side road and says something along the lines of 'I'm 100% sure that my girl is cheating on me this weekend, so | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Reddit! Uber taxi service needs your help!
POST: Reddit, Uber is a newer taxi service that is much cheaper and much easier to use then other taxi services. It is an app that allows the taxi to come directly to you with the touch of a button. However these are not your normal taxis, the driver that picks you up will be in his own car (usually nicer then a normal taxi) and be a safe driver to where ever you need to go. Because Uber does not use government owned taxis or need to give t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [25] and I [20 F] got into an argument, but I have question about physical responses from anger.
POST: Hi Reddit - My boyfriend [25] and I [20F] have been dating for a little over a year and we recently got into an argument. There have been factors limiting the time I get to spend with him and that has been the bain of our relationship. I only see him 1-2 times a week for a few hours. The blame falls on my shoulders because I don't communicate with him on a reg | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (19M) have experienced feelings of extreme betrayal/jealousy since my fwb (21F) kissed one of my best friends
POST: Me and my fwb have been good friends for a couple of years. Neither of us were looking for anything serious and we started hooking up with each other regularly about a year a go.
We both knowingly hook up with other people and up until now it hasn't been a problem at all. Recently, however, her and one of my best friends ended up kissing (yup, just ki | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my GF and I had sex for the first time... troubles ensued. What should I do?
POST: Throw-away of course. So like the title says, my GF and I had sex for the first time and it was awesome. She was my first and she said that I was her first as well. Well here we have it today I find out that she had had anal sex before we got together. This doesn't bother me, but the fact that I hear it from someone else and not her does. I talk to her about it and she doesn't see where I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (18M) girlfriend (17F) is back on her anti depressants and isn't taking it so well and I don't know what I should do?
POST: Hey so my girlfriend (17F) and I (18M) have been in a relationship for 6 months now and it was last week where my girlfriend went to see her psychiatrist to see how she is doing. After her appointment her psychiatrist has diagnosed her depressed again. She was depressed before during a previous relationship that lasted a year, but she has been off h | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: TurboTax Warning: TurboTax filed different return than the submitted version
POST: Basically, TurboTax submitted a different return to the IRS than the return that I approved TurboTax to submit. The return that TurboTax submitted to the IRS was incomplete and missing deductions. I am not sure how unique my case is, but for good measure I am posting it here as a warning. (I originally posted in /r/tax [here]
Here is the situation (using the variable "X" instead of my | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is it better to turn down a sure job hoping another one works out or to accept it and quit after a few days if a better job opportunity appears?
POST: I just finished my undergrad two weeks ago and have been looking for jobs. I have heard back from 3 companies. The first one interviewed me last thursday with a follow up on friday. They said that I would know before this friday whether I would get the job or not. Right before the second interview, I was contacted for intervi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 F] hooked up with a Bumble date [26 M] on Sunday night, was it a one night stand?
POST: I'm kind of unsure what this was, and don't want to pester him.
We talked on OKC for a while (he remembers, I didn't), but then the conversation fell apart. We matched on Bumble and I didn't see it in time, so he extended it. We started talking and I agreed to a date.
We went on a date on Sunday night to a fancy French restaurant. He brought us a bottle of wine to split, my favor | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] split from my finacée [26 F] of 6 years. She's moved on instantly to other people, including one of my 'friends'. I am distraught.
POST: We had originally agreed to split amicably. Things just weren't working.
I was still living with her whilst we sorted arrangements. She took too long to sort herself out (one of the reasons for splitting - that was her in general) - after seeing her post publicly about all the dating site messages she got - and showing me tinder | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my now ex-boyfriend [20M] of basically four years, dumped out of the blue.
POST: Throwaway because he knows my real username.
I have been with this guy since I was 16, we were coming up on four years, and he just broke up with me New Years day(YES, I know we are both so young). He was my best friend and being with him for so long I haven't made any of my own friends so I am looking to Reddit. I am not asking for answers, he made it clear as to why he did it. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Dog Snapping at Air. Play or Aggression?
POST: My dog is a poodle terrier mix from a rescue. She is very calm and submissive. She's happy to just sit around almost all day and nap. In fact she has a special spot for this on the couch with her little doggy blanket. She also has a crate that she knows no one disturbs her in.
About once a day she gets excited. She gets riled up and jumps on us for love and pets. She will run with us if we run. But she has no interest in other | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Uninvited to an important even because of ex.
POST: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years.
Recently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23M) am stuck in hookup zone with 24(F) that I've been seeing for 6 months. I want out.
POST: I've been hooking up with this girl for 6 months. for the first couple of months it was just that - a hookup. We would occasionally go on dates and have sex but there wasn't any real emotional commitment from me.
I've kind of gotten feelings for her now. We hang out 2-3x a week and go on lots of dates. She has stated in the past that she doesn't want a boyfriend. And I don't n | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I got shot on Monday during a robbery and I need some of the hive's advice. (vid link inside)
POST: Here's the [video link] Here's the back story, I never wanted this video to be released to public. I feel it sensationalizes the story and is not needed to help find the robbers. It's just more dumb down, Jerry Springer, local news. I asked two different detectives specifically if this would be aired on TV, they both said 100% no, just a still video pic of the thugs.
1. I know | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [18M] of 8 months going to college, worried about keeping our relationship going.
POST: My and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and we have a great relationship despite the age difference. We spend a lot of time together and love each other. In the 8 months we have been dating (we have known each other for about 2 years) we haven't had any real problems or conflict. We met each other in a job that we both are still in right now (and I | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: A family member I know quit the job. The company is looking through her personal stuff.
POST: My aunt recently quit her job due to unfair treatment and poor management. Now the company that she use to work for is snooping though the computer that she used. She has a program, GoToMyPC, which syncs to her home computer. The company was able to access her email and my aunt has proof that they were reading it. (This was after she quit a week ago. She has now changed the password | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is she [20/F] into me [20/m]? And if so, i it now too late?
POST: There's a girl from my course that I've been friends with for a while, since I came to uni really, so 2 years now. However, just casual sort of friends who'd say hi and have a chat and stuff, we never really did anything much outside of uni.
But about two months ago we started hanging out more, spending time together at uni helping each other with photo editing or our essays and then travelling together to u | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I have a really smelly roommate, not sure how to approach her about it.
POST: As ridiculous as this may sound, my roommate definitely has some serious personal hygiene issues. Being a guy, I'm no stranger to living in less than cleanly living situations, especially when I was in college. Most situations in the past were easily fixed by taking out the trash, doing the dishes, or handling whatever the issue at hand was. Now, the issue here is it's her room thats causing the proble | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Alright, maybe I have found a subreddit where I can post pointless things about my life!
POST: What I have to tell all of you has no other home, or at least no other home that I know about. So I searched for like two seconds and found this subreddit. I have had three jobs with AAFES (Army Air Force Exchange Service.) They run the BX/PX, the Shoppettes (which are about to be called Expresses if not already), and the restaurants. Anyways, when I applied for a job there I did not have | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Crazy or romantic?
POST: I'm 21 and the girls 22. I've had this semi relationship with a girl for a couple months now and it wasn't really anything big but I guess we started feeling something for each other. We decided to get a bit more serious but she later changed her mind. We're still really close. I have a slight history of involvement with her best friend. Nothing has ever really happened between her best friend and I but the history itself made her go against it. She | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I absolutely despise being heavily introverted
POST: I don't think I'm a shy person but have been described as shy by almost everyone who's used a word to describe me. I don't want to be shy, but that seems to be who I am. I've always been this way. . everyone from primary (elementary for yall muricans) school remembers me as being really quiet. This is completely different to being 'antisocial'- in fact, I was always a pretty popular kid in school, but was always known for be | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think my padre might be sleeping around. What now?
POST: So, here is the back story. My parents are still together, yet they do not live in the same household. They used to, up until 2 years ago when my dad was laid off. He found work in a different state, and jumped at the opportunity. It was my senior year of HS, and my brothers last of middle school, so the whole family didn't want to relocate at that point. I just joined my dad for the summer to work an internship with hi | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I, nervous [22F] am utterly hopeless at asking guys out and I think he [22M] is too shy. Halp.
POST: It takes a lot of heavy hinting before I'm confident enough to ask a guy out: I'm nervous and afraid of ruining my friendship with this guy who I've been attracted to for the better part of a year. About a month ago we had a drunken kiss which I tried not to read too much into. That night, drunkenly, he told me he's liked me for a while... After that he wasn't awkward but he | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My friend told the girl i'm in love with, his best friend, that he's in love with her
POST: So I'm in love with this at uni girl and we've been really close for a while now. But about two weeks ago. One of my best friends at uni, who is her best friend from home, told her that he was in love with her.
Now, this guy, I'll call him Chris, I had met threw her, let's call her Emma. For context we don't live together but next year us three and another girl are living tog | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I hate my school and I feel completely defeated...
POST: I am in my second semester in college and I'm miserable. I didn't like my first semester but I thought it was because I wasn't super involved. I joined a project team, rushed a sorority and got a job with two months left last semester. I am really involved now but it hasn't helped at all. I don't really like to party so that makes finding activities hard on the weekends. I feel like I haven't made any good friends either. I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] been dating [27M] for over a year - he recently told me he would never consider marrying someone without a graduate degree. I don't have one and feel like this was a subtle hint he wants me to?
POST: So I have been dating a guy for over a year and it has gotten fairly serious. A conversation came up recently where he told me he would never consider marrying someone who has not gone to graduate school. He grew up poor and higher education is important to him. The th | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Overheard my tenants lining up another apartment over 6 months before their lease is up. Kodiak, Alaska
POST: I recently purchased a duplex and there were two tenants living in the upstairs unit. Their lease was rolled in with the purchase. Before I moved in I wanted to move upstairs but it wasn't a big deal if I had to wait for them to move out. It was just convenient and they were also talking about moving downstairs for a reduced rent. We discussed terms and settled on | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [25F] wants to move; I [28M] don't.
POST: So, at the apex of our five year relationship, my SO and I are in a bind. We live in a small town (~20,000) in Northwestern BC.
She wants to leave, and I don't. She wants to move to a larger city; I don't.
It is becoming a bigger and bigger issue, but I feel I have so much here that I don't want to abandon. My friends, family, work, and life is here. I like it here. I like the solitude that is available and the low cost of l | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [20F]broke up with me [20M] together for 4.5 years.
POST: We've had our ups and downs just like any relationship. We grew up together. We have problems that we cannot seem to solve but we both love each other very much and we don't want to give up. When she gets mad she breaks up with me like nothing. I sometimes don't want to talk about my emotions or talk it out, I'm the type of person to just get over it and that is my flaw. She feels like I don't care at times, I | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by suggesting we get a smoke machine
POST: Ok, so since Halloween is coming up, it reminded me of my Halloween party in 5th grade. My 5th grade teacher was a pretty chill guy, and he was very open minded. I suggested that we should get a smoke machine for the Halloween party (every classroom in the school had a party) And he said it was a great idea! Seems good, right!?! Well, we both forgot of this one kid. Lets call him "Jerold". Jerold has a heart condition. If the fire ala | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19 M] cant deal with the infidelity and hypocrisy in my family anymore.
POST: So, I've always had a slight idea that my father has cheated on my mom all my life. I never really realized how bad it was until I got older and I realized all the signs i missed and overlooked as a child.
I remember times I would look for my dad around the house and he would be locked in his bedroom with my aunt and they'd be giggling...
I remember a time when I was in elementary school, and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my friend [24F] duration, since she had her baby we're always late! How do I approach this?
POST: Hi Reddit!
So my best friend had a baby a couple months ago. It's a beautiful baby girl and whom I care about very much. We'll call my friend Jessica, and her daughter Holly. Jessica's husband has a very busy job and I've been around a bit to help out. Holly is still to young for daycare so usually when we do something together we take her with us. We live in a | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend challenged me to find one person who will agree with me on this. Do you?
POST: Background: My boyfriend is 27m, I'm 24f, we've been together for 7 months and live 45 minutes from each other. I drive, he does not.
The Situation: My boyfriend spent the last of his paycheck on alcohol on Friday night, which he drank. Later that night, I agreed that I would drive him to work and pick him up for his shifts on Saturday and Sunday, which would involve me driving him | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My mom just texted me and I need advice
POST: My mom and her husband (my step dad) just got divorced and it was pretty bad apparently. Im away at college, so I dont really know whats happening down there.
anyway its been a few months and she needs to go over there to get some of her things, but when she said she needed to get some things he texts back all sorts of terrible things, like calling her a whore and a terrible mother and whatnot. he says she can get her things but wo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19/M] with my girlfriend [18/F] of 11 months constantly argue and I'm crushing on a girl [18/F] at work
POST: I've been in a relationship for 11 months now and we're almost always arguing once a day. It never seems to stop and it's depressing, but I'm steadily getting over it however each time we nearly break up it is resolved and we're back to square one. I feel terrible when i say things like it's over and I guess i succumb to guilt for making her feel bad.
Now, at wo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU when my crush hugged me.
POST: This actually happened two years ago but I only just found this sub.
I was chatting to some of my friends when suddenly I feel arms grab me from behind. I turn around and my crush locked me in a huge hug. I didn't know what to do so being the awkward guy I am, I tried to return the favour but I accidentally fell over on top of her and badly cut my elbow. I quickly rolled off and we laid there laughing for 30 seconds before I realized that blood | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Friends to Keep Track Of
POST: Hey there folks. I've been on my "actually getting off my ass and paying attention to calories" thing for a little over a week now, and I already feel like I'm making awesome progress.
I've got a request, though! What keeps me interested and motivated are the success stories and progress pictures that keep getting posted to /r/loseit every day. Seeing other people stay on track helps me do the same. With that in mind, anyone willing to link up as Fr | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] looking for the way to best not come across as a creep in this situation:
POST: Right, I spent Monday through Thursday of this week at a bit of a retreat kind of thing. I was there through my work. Also at this retreat was a large college group. Some facilities were shared and there was a little bit of cross pollination between our groups, but not a whole heap.
There was one particularly attractive girl [24ish] and we caught each others eyes on more than a few oc | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M, 26] with my girlfriend [F, 27] of 1.5 yrs, how to not sound accusatory?
POST: I like to think my gf and I have a pretty stable relationship. We have talked before about how cheating is unforgiveable and how if one of us met someone else we had feelings for, we would immediately tell the other person and break off our relationship. A few days ago I saw her texting one of her attractive male friends and I could see above her response the guy had sent a photo. I coul | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Stupid argument with my husband (35M). What is the best resolution?
POST: I am 29F. We have a 1 year old daughter who is a terrible sleeper. (Please do not recommend sleep strategies, we have read all the books and tried everything and none of it works for her.) The only way I can get any sleep at night is to keep her in bed with us. She usually wakes up every 2-3 hours and screams until I nurse her. She also rolls and kicks a lot.
Over the last year+ I have just adapted t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why do we want what we can't have? Me [25M] with [22F].
POST: Met a girl a few months ago, and it wasn't long before we started hitting it off. We never dated, but I found her incredibly attractive. She told me she was interested but at the time I wasn't looking for anything super serious, so I turned her down (she also wasn't super engaging during conversations...lots of dull moments and she never had much to add). She was also in a serious relationship at the time. She to | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (19/M) like a Japanese girl but don't know how to go for her
POST: So I(19/m) am now tutoring English to Japanese students straight from Japan at my university. There was a very cute girl and she was the first one I tutored on my first day of work. On my second day she waved and smiled at me, but I didn't really like her at that time so I thought that was a nice gesture. I added her on facebook and started to message her. That was the time I started to like her. She usua | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I had a medical issue that resulted in me missing 2 months of school, I was just informed there is a paper due in 2 months, Could you help?
POST: I had a medical issue the last 2 and a half issues that resulted me not attending school so naturally I've missed a lot of work. Now I've finished about 70% of the work in my class that I've missed but I was informed via email today that I have a 5 pages essay due in science that's due in 14 days.
My question is, is there a s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Have I wasted my life? [29M]
POST: I feel like I've wasted my youth and my missed my chance to enjoy things that people normally enjoy, life after 30 seems horrible, everyone I know is either married or in a serious long term relationship, many people my age have kids, younger people consider me an "old guy" now and I feel like shit, I look like shit despite doing my best to take care of my appearance - to workout, wear nice clothes, take care of my skin/teeth. I feel like | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [25M] of one year, How do I help him deal with stress over things he can't control?!
POST: As a normal human being, I understand that everyday cannot be sunshine and rainbows. However, my boyfriend has been stressing himself out over his parents failing marriage and it's eating him alive. He internalizes everything so even getting that information out of him was a chore. He is an only child and believes that he can play mediator and "save" their r | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my wife [26 F] of a year and a half, just checked her iPod for an old email and found that she had posted a w4m missed connections post on Craigslist and sent a multitude of emails to responding gentlemen
POST: My wife had forwarded me an email awhile ago and I was checking her iPod for it when I found several email messages with guys regarding a craigslist post. That craigslist post was in w4m missed connections a couple of weeks ago, and mentioned how her | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I [26/f] in a doomed relationship (40/m)?
POST: We've been together for about 3 years. when we met I was battling with depression and he helped me immensely to overcome it. he made me feel happy and I became confident. shortly after I recovered, we went through some life-changing events. some of it was out of our control, some was his doing. since then he entered a phase of depression and guilt and is only recently recovering. i became stronger and i supported us. | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30/F] with my bf [30 M] of 2 yrs, found out he started to save pics of his exes to his phone
POST: I know I shouldn't have snooped, but last night I looked at my bf's phone pictures, and found out 3 new selfies of his two exes (two are pics of his hotter ex). I knew they haven't talked in 2 years and he probably wasn't planning to contact them, but this still makes me sad.
He used to save pictures from his hot ex when we first dated but stopped after we got serious (a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] trying to figure out what to do about having a crush on [18F]. My approaches thus far have been unsuccessful.
POST: Hello redditors, this is my first post on this particular subreddit, and I am excited to here what advice you all could give me. Here's some more background on my situation:
I'm currently in college, and work part time at a grocery store on the weekends. Several months ago, my store hired a new cashier, who I thought was cute at first, but nothing mo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I feel inferior to my girlfriend.
POST: A little background about me first: I'm very insecure with myself and have incredibly low self-esteem due to my father verbally abusing me a lot before he left when I was 13. So this is probably going to sound stupid but here goes.
A few months ago I asked one of my best friends out, and she accepted .We've been dating for three months now and everything is perfect. She is probably the sweetest person I've ever met, and is incredibly at | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by ruining Christmas already
POST: So every year my mom always makes Christmas special with extravagant gifts and everything decked out. Christmas has always been her favorite holiday because our grandpa was her Santa and he made it so wonderful for her that she's passed it on to us, her kids.
Now I'm 17 so I don't really believe in Santa any more but my older brother and I always loved waking up to Christmas as a kid, it was magical. We had a huge inflatable snowglobe one ti | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I a peace of shit for pissing in beer bottles b/c the homeless guys keep stealing our cans and beer?
POST: We have been recently been noticing that our bags of cans keep missing from our backyard where we store em'. (We usually save our cans buy wings on Sunday.) Anyway I caught one homeless guy stealing our cans and I approached him and gave him a speech that what he's doing is stealing. Once I gave him my speech I told him he can have the can but not to come back. (Prob. $ | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] want to express my anger and hate towards my ex-gf[21F] who cheated and dumped me for another guy. Should I message her or not?
POST: My ex of 9 months dumped me about 2 months ago. It was a very messy breakup because I was pretty sure she dumped me for another guy.
One weekend she goes to a party and she got drunk as hell (I had work that night but she was going with close friends I knew as well) and she dumped me the next day. She said she was stressed out with a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/F] am devastated after meeting my professor [40/F] because he's a good father and I never had a dad
POST: This is going to sound fucked up. I just got out of meeting my professor to talk about why I'm struggling in his class and I feel sick to my stomach. He was an absolutely nice man. He's a great father and husband. He talks about his family during lecture sometimes and he has pictures of his kids in his office. I feel hammered right now because it makes me sick how | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] with my best friend [20 F] of 4 almost 5 years, how to deal with potential red flags for women in dating life?
POST: Long time reader, first time poster.
I've know my best friend since High School. Met through a mutual friend and then she applied at my part time job later on and we got a lot closer. She's been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years and i've been just dating around. Nothing too serious.
Our relationship is 100% platonic (I know right?) to the po | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I made a huge mistake and he broke up with me. Advice? Repost from 2X
POST: My boyfriend [25M] and I[22F] broke up a few days ago. He's hugely built on trust and respect, and I have some demons from the past that make it difficult for me to trust. I do however make a conscious effort to work through these demons and allow him the trust he deserves. The other day, though, I thought I had caught him cheating but it turns out that it **was not true**. I jumped to conclusions b | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's reddit's life story? I'll start
POST: My dad knocked up my mom, who apparently was a drug addict and had gave me away to my grandmother because my dad couldn't take care of me due to the fact that he was in a gang with my uncle and some other family members. I had lived with my grandmother and my aunt (who is now my 'mom') all the way until my grandmother passed away in 2005 due to cancer. I had refused to call my grandmother my mom simply because of the fact that she wa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [22M]. His parents don't believe in long distance relationships, we don't know what to do.
POST: So let's call him Ben. Ben and I started dating recently, and we were friends for a bit before. Once we started talking, we clicked instantly. We have so many things in common, and we're both really attracted to each other. He lives in California though, and I live in Arkansas.
He still lives with his parents, who are extremely conservative Christians | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Desperate for advice (please).
POST: I'm not even really sure where to begin...
I have this friend (I promise it's not me!). She's 26 years old and has been married for about a year a half. I've known her for almost 9 years now. She married this guy she knew for about 4 months. All of her relationships have been toxic and/or abusive. She didn't tell me that she was getting married and I hadn't even met the guy (I think she might not have wanted me to try to talk her out of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my [21 F] 1 year, TRAPPED: I am Jealous but I don't want to tell her because it makes me look weak. But if I don't do anything it makes me look weak for not standing up for myself.
POST: Here is my dilemma:
My girlfriends "friend" who obviously likes her is constantly hitting on her and trying to talk to her. I'm a little insecure about this because he is quite an accomplished and charismatic person. I see before me two options:
1. Tell my girlfriend that t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description
POST: So, I'm currently a sophomore and last year my grades weren't great (two d's and a few c's). I really wasn't into school at all and I just slacked it off like an idiot. So, after that, my parents took away my phone for a week and I'm only able to use my labtop for programming or school (right in front of my mom's chair where she can watch TV and my screen at the same time). Anyways, when I started school I w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my currently ex gf [21F] together for over a year. Slept with another woman.
POST: 2 weeks ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. She told me tonight that it was because she had sex with another woman, a co-worker actually while they had both been drinking. She said she liked it, and the coworker even apologized to her for it. My ex broke up with me the next day.
She feels really upset and guilty about it (and she should) and all I want to do is forgive her | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 6 months are talking marriage and have finally found something to disagree on.
POST: To some this might seem stupid, but to myself and my girlfriend marriage is a very important furthering of our relationship. Both coming from Christian backgrounds we strongly believe in not moving in together beforehand and all the things that go with that.
Our relationship has definitely reached a point where marriage is a 'when' rather than an 'if' | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Sudden onset of SAP symptoms while meeting with a girl causes me to lose my chance. Help! How do I see her again?
POST: I am a 20 year old male attending uni.
Last night, I was browsing one of those "free and for sale" sections on FB for my university and I see a post by a girl selling some leftover food supplies that are still edible (Maruchan ramen, Verve energy drinks, etc) and since it's finals week, I figured, hey. Why not. I could do with some backup. I leave a comm | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19f) friend (20f) is cutting and I don't know how to approach her
POST: I have known this friend since year 10 and we were fairly close until after we graduated. We went to separate universities and we just slowly drifted apart.
I mean we still kept in contact but it was more like grabbing lunch once in a blue moon sort of thing.
Well I tranferred to the university that she currently attends just to be closer to home and we reconnected our relationship. We would have | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My 19F uncle 25M is moving in with my dad 39M & I. I don't feel comfortable with this, because uncle is a registered sex offender as of this year.
POST: Hello. I'm on mobile sorry for any inconveniences in my text.
So like the title says, my uncle is moving in tomorrow and I feel uncomfortable. I've known my uncle Lee (not his real name) since I was 5, so we grew up together. I never thought he'd be a sex offender, but last year he was in a situation where he and my step | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Two months NZ, unsure with route
POST: I will be in New Zealand with my girlfriend from mid August to mid September and start+end will be in Auckland. Been there a couple of years ago for almost the same duration but this time I'm not sure which route is recommendable, maybe you can help?
Basically I'd like to rent a car for the whole time but maybe some part with a campervan (self contained to use DOC camp grounds) and the other part with a regular cheap car and hostels.
I thoug | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Applied to position that is an online application. Should I go to the location and introduce myself?
POST: I applied for a shift leader position at a chain coffee shop in my area. Their applications are online only. No questions or anything, just inputting my information and uploading my resume.
I feel like online applications provide a disadvantage because I dont know if the manager has even seen it, and its pretty damn hard to leave an impression with them.
Would it be weird/ina | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20m] dumped a month ago and it still hurts
POST: I am a month into a breakup with an abusive girlfriend and I still want her back and can't get her off my mind. How long does this pain last? I can see how bad she treated me and my mind is moved on. But I can't even do normal stuff without thinking about her. It was 2 and a half years and we lived together. She was my first girlfriend and she has moved on real quickly. What are some tips to get over it? I have cut con | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Social Security is stopping my 74 y/o mother's benefits until she pays $20,000...
POST: This is a complicated months-long story. I tried to make it as brief as possible, but... thanks for taking the time to read it.
My mother is 74 years old. Both she and my younger brother are on survivor's disability through my deceased father. My brother found a job and makes decent money -- not great. 18k a year takehome. He was confused by the 9-months-and-off plan.
He offered to ma | negative |