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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Credit Consolidation; Do or Don't??
POST: This isn't something we would normally consider, but tough times just got a whole lot tougher for our family and we're turning to you, reddit, for advice.
The story goes: I'm 37 weeks pregnant. A month ago I got fired from my job (unintentionally) and UE decided it was my fault so they're not giving me benefits. I did appeal, but we don't have an answer for that yet. In the meantime I'm attempting to collect short term disabil | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my bff/ex [22M] has trouble picking up girls, and I don't know what advice to give him.
POST: Throwaway just in case.
So some backstory. Drew and I dated for 2 years. We broke up mutually to grow as individuals. During a 3 month span (May-Sept) we did not see each other but we still stayed in contact. During this time I started seeing another guy, and Drew heavily used tinder. We would talk about his matches, and how everything was going. We naturally became | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my friend [21M] of six years, I think he is depressed and I don't know how to help
POST: He and I had always been close, but in the last year he's grown very distant. After going to college, we saw each other with far less frequency, but we would still talk online just about daily. I still considered him my best friend.
Probably starting around last summer, he started being less and less engaged in our conversations. His life, my life, new music, joint int | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help me (25F) not feel bitter towards my sister (21F)!
POST: Hey all, I'll try and make this short. I got married in February to my super awesome man. My sister was amazingly helpful about many aspects of my very small wedding. However, there were many things she did that I wasn't super happy about and couldn't change (mainly things like bridal shower, bachelorette, in which they're typically surprises for the bride). The bridal shower didn't have many people I would have w | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [26F] of six months, long distance confusion
POST: Met a girl online, we've been talking for about six months. We live a few states apart, and we first met each other three months ago, and everything was great. We have talked about a future together, and we have called each other bf/gf in the past.
However, starting about a month ago, she hasn't been texting/calling/Skyping me as often as usual, or she'll say she's going to call me but does | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [16]m alcoholic dad [50]m has an issue and severe anger issues need help or advice. Please.
POST: Okay guys I'm on mobile so sorry for any mistakes.
My dad is a severe alcoholic I can't remember a night in the last 5 years he hasn't drank rum/beer and is buzzed or drunk every night. He attempts to hit me and my brothers over little stuff that he doesn't know anything about jumping to conclusions. He allows my older brother to smoke weed and other drugs in the household. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: [Help] General anxiety and neurotic behavior in rescue
POST: Posted this a few days ago and didn't get any responses, trying again.
New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.
Nora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.
However, s | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Getting sick of this happening [20M]
POST: So this seems to happen way too often (like, over half the time). I must have shitty timing. I meet a girl I'm interested in getting to know better, but naturally in some way, shape, or form she is always about to be separated from me geographically.
Be it because it's the end of the semester before one (or both) of us leaves town, right before a long break, or, more recently, right before she leaves town for a long vacation (li | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not listening to my bladder
POST: This happened just about and hour ago and is probably the most embarssing moment of my life. So today I was at a lacrosse goalie clinic because I am a fairly new goalie, and my coach recommended I went in hopes of me learning the fundamentals. Everything was going well and I was having a great day and learning a lot. There was about twenty minutes left in the clinic, and I was in the middle of a drill when I had the sudden urge to pee. I tho | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Sit-in or Audit?
POST: Hello there. Because there are tons of classes that I'd love to take, but not very much room in my credit schedule to take them (halfway through community college, gotta get to it with the prereqs for my transfer), I'm sitting in on several classes. It turns out that I can request to audit those classes, which from what I gather, is pretty much the same as sitting in on it without credit, but goes on your transcript as having happened, rather than leaving i | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By not getting the hint
POST: So this actually happened a year ago, and it took me a couple weeks and my roommate to figure out how stupid I was.
So last year my roommate was having his girlfriend over for the weekend. His girlfriend didn't want to make the drive alone (it was like 6 or 7 hours), so she asked if her best friend could come as well. Lets call this best friend Mara. I didn't mind Mara coming, she was single and kinda cute. Friday night comes. Roommate takes his g | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27m] think my wife [29f] is behaving inappropriately.
POST: My wife of 1 year has a history of keeping all of her friends close. This includes her exboyfriends, some of which she still keeps in contact with despite my protests. Recently she has been talking to her previous love interest (admittedly they are good friends) and I know that they have had sex on at least one occasion (before she met me). He just got promoted to a management position at a restaurant he works i | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (34/M) of one year won't tell me (24/F) what he does for a living.
POST: I'll try to keep this as possible. I'm currently getting my masters degree at a university in Moscow. I moved here to get this degree a year ago. I met my boyfriend while I was out clubbing with some people I go to university with. He's funny, charming and basically everything I look for in a boyfriend. When we first spoke about what we do for a living he just told me that I shouldn't worr | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would it be awkward for me [27 M] to move to an apartment complex where my ex [29 F] lives?
POST: I'm looking for a new place to live and I keep thinking about a specific location in town...it is where an ex used to (but I'm not sure if she still does) live. It has a lot of pros for me and it's in a great part of town.
We dated briefly (around two months) but we weren't exclusively dating. We broke up over a year ago and we haven't talked to each other since then. I did no | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my partner [36 M] duration, How do people deal with their partner's mortality?
POST: I have been in a long distance relationship with my partner since last November. We were FWB for about 2 years before that, and started to become very close right before he had to move back to his hometown last year. But we kept up with visits and such and decided to give a real relationship a shot. I love him very much.
When I visited him a few weeks ago, we got into a car a | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother-in-law (50s F) of two years wants to adopts two dogs after severely neglecting her last dog
POST: My MIL had an ancient maltese who died last year around Christmas of old age. And recently, she's been excitedly talking about wanting to adopt 2 puppies who are brothers because she doesn't want them separated. However, she really neglected her last dog, and both my husband and I agree that she's not going to take care of these new puppies well either.
The Maltese, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Have a large collection of letters from ex-wife, don't want to get rid of them but...
POST: So while I was in Basic Training, my then wife and I sent each other several hundred letters apiece. Many are simply daily updates, but there are certainly plans for our future, dirty talk and shared fantasies, discussions about relatives, the nature and maintenance of our relationship, and some discussion of friends and family.
Now we had been married for three years before she left me, a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] trying to understand if [18F] likes or hates me
POST: Ok so mind you, we don't have a relationship whatsoever. We're both halfway through the first year of college, and havn't spoken a single word to each other. I was in the middle of a beak up a few months ago, and I felt I had to move on because I got severly depressed the last time my girlfriend broke up with me... So me with my stupid head wasn't thinking straight and send this girl a messege on facebook (remem | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need some help with my girlfriend...
POST: (crosspost from r/sex)
My girlfriend and I (male) have been dating seriously for four and a half years now-we're both young 20's-and we're both attending different colleges, far apart. We have a great long distance relationship and truly care about each other, and have discussed at length continuing our relationship after college. The few three day weekends and weeks off a year I get to see her, we have phenomenal sex. There's j | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [16/m] I'm a late bloomer in puberty and like this girl [16/f].
POST: So, I'm currently a freshman in highschool. I like this girl in my class a lot. I mean, I've never been into a girl like this before, I know it's probably nothing special cause I'm only this young, but I'd like to give it a shot with her. The problem is, that my puberty has not advanced a whole lot yet. It probably began somewhere around the beginning of my nineth grade. I look a lot more young then | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I [20s M] need to tell my half Vietnamese girlfriend [20s F] that my father was a Vietnam war veteran?
POST: Sorry for the throwaway, my girlfriend [20 F] reads Reddit though I'm [20 M] not sure if she reads /r/relationships.
So she's not really my girlfriend yet but I've been seeing this girl for about a month and so far nothing is too serious. I do really like her though and I hope to take our relationship a step further soon. Before I do, do I need to tell her about | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M], my roommate [22 M], and the girl I'm dating now [21 F]. They used to be friends but had a big falling out over some really shitty things my roommate said. I haven't told him. How do I handle this from here on?
POST: So this story starts about 4 months ago. I was still with my (now ex) gf of nearly 4 years when I moved in with my roommate, S. When we moved in he had a lot of people over all the time, one of them being B, the girl I am now dating.
At first they s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I have noticed that my [25F] mum [52F] doesn't care about her appearance as much as she used to. I am also worried about her being alone the rest of her life.
POST: My mum is 52 and has been single for the past 4 years. I am worried about her being on her own as she enters the later years of her life. Both of her parents have passed away, and she isn't very close to her siblings. She doesn't have family nearby except me. She also has 2 cats who she adores. She is a lovely, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I was invited to my ex girlfriend's aunt's funeral..
POST: This post is concerning primarily my ex [F23] and myself [M24]
My ex's Aunt has been battling cancer for the last year and a half, and recently lost the battle. I was not super close with her aunt, but I was pretty close with her grandparents (the aunt's parents). I have had on and off contact with my ex since she broke up with me last January, and she has kept me up to date on her aunt's health.
Anyway, last wee | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [20] broke up with me [22] three days after my dad died
POST: I had been dating this girl from roughly 10 months (not long, I know) before she decided to break up with me three whole days after my dad [60] passed away from his battle with early-onset Alzheimer's, which was about a month ago now (also only 2 days after my 22nd birthday).
In such a short time, in the most cliche way possible, I fell incredibly hard for this girl. We made long term plans, used | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20f) don't like his (20m) friends.
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We met through some mutual friends at a local bar. These friends are more like acquaintances for me as I haven't seen a lot of them for a couple of years.
After we started going out I started hanging out with his friends and quickly became best friends with a couple of girls in the group. We've all been hanging out at least 3-4 times a week.
The last week or so I've realised t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] boyfriend use to lie to his ex [?F] and I'm worried he's doing the same to me [19/F]
POST: I'm in a fairly new relationship of three months with my boyfriend. We met online and talked for a few months before finally meeting in person and we sort of clicked.
And while I love him, there are a few things from his past that have raised red flags for me. Apparently, he use to lie to his ex of seven months that he loved her, just because he didn't want to be alone. He s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M/23) met this girl (F/20) on tinder, been talking for months yet we've only met up once (more info in post)
POST: Ok so we got matched on Tinder a few months back. We talked a lot and really hit it off quickly. After about a month of talking, we decided to finally meet up. We had a bite to eat really had a lot of fun.
Since then we've texted constantly and shared some really personal stuff with each other. We've even talked about other girls and guys to each other and | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [21 F] 3 years, Do I attempt to talk to her, and try to show her i'm worth keeping?
POST: Me and my gf dated for over 3 years, in those 3 years she's grown up a lot. I haven't. On top of never getting a job, and living with my parents, i was an immense asshole. It's been the most painful week of my life so far, and i've only talked to her once. The one time we talked she said, "i need time to figure myself out". I'm assuming she has realized im not wort | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Trying to learn Japanese
POST: Alright, fresh new college quarter and I am lucky enough to have all my schooling paid for this year (Scholarships brah!) so I decided to go wild on class choice.
I picked up Japanese 1, a language course that after one day taught me, my ass is going to be kicked. I took three years of Spanish in high school but in all honesty, it was boring and I was not very interested. However, it came easily since the lettering is the same and some words are | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] with my new relationship [22M] have been talking for a month, he does recreational drugs and I don't....will it be awkward?
POST: I've always been very reserved with my personal life and never looked at someone romantically. However, I met this guy a month ago and we've been talking a lot and things are starting to escalate more and more. The more I talk with him the more I realize how happy we are around each other and that I've been enjoying spending a lot of ti | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: My furnace went out today, I called my local natural gas provider Centerpoint Energy. The repairman said I needed a new furnace. Your opinions?
POST: I have an old forced air, gas furnace, actually a 29 year old furnace.
Earlier this week it started pounding when it started up, I did some 'interneting' and found that it appeared to be caused most likely by a cracked Heat Exchanger, so I called Centerpoint because I'm on their their "Home Service Plus" plan, where they fix my appl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] with my ___ [26 M] of 3 years broke up with me over text.
POST: Obviously, this is a throw away account.
My boyfriend, of 3 years just broke up with me over text, out of the blue and I am not sure what happened. I guess I'll never know and I'm going to have to be ok with the lack of closure.
I was dating my ex for 3 years. I moved to be with him over in California. Recently things were going well. We are both busy with work and live 30 minutes away from each ot | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he [38M] a bad kisser, or am I [31F] crazy?
POST: I've gone on a few very nice dates with a nice (perhaps "too nice") guy. We finally kissed on the fourth date, when we were back at his place, and even then it happened only after I verbally prompted him to do so. He seems a bit lacking in courage and initiative.
Anyway, the kissing was kind of awkward and he basically just kissed my UPPER lip in very gentle, quickly repeated pecks. On the fifth date, again with my pr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] am frustrated with my husband's [29M] lack of effort to find a new job.
POST: I have been dating my now-husband for 2 and a half years. He's Canadian and I'm in the U.S. This summer we decided I would go live with him for a bit and get married. We could do this because he had just gotten a better paying job around March. Things were fine, we got married, and then a couple weeks later he was fired from his job. He was a sales rep and they claimed sales were down and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my FWB(?) [26M] of a few months haven't yet discussed what we're looking for in the relationship. How do I bring it up?
POST: I finally began to move on with my life and make an effort to sleep with other men in September 2014 after the drawn-out, messy and traumatic breakup that spanned over a year and a half. This had been my first relationship and was over 3 years long, and very intense throughout.
I had a really great one night stand that month with a 2 | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have a warrant for unpaid AZ DUI fine and want to go to court but don't want to be arrested! Any experience with this?
POST: I got a DUI last year (had one drink and wasn't drunk). I was assessed $1600 in fines with a minimum monthly pmt of $100. I tried explaining, at the suggestion of my court appointed attorney, that I was a full time college student on a limited budget and could only commit to $50 per month. In stereotypical government worker fashion, the lady assisting m | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19 F) am struggling with depression and boyfriend (20 M) doesn't seem to care
POST: Good evening reddit. First I would like to say please excuse any formatting errors. I am doing this from a mobile device. My cell phone to be exact.
To the point. My boyfriend and myself have been dating over half of a year. Starting out in our relationship I shared with him that I have depression and am bipolar. This is due to one my genes. Depression and bipolar runs in my family. Then | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my short-term GF [29 F], feeling restricted just... because?
POST: Hello /r/relationships!
I won't bother you with much writing; to put simply, I started a relationship about 1 month ago after a 3-year hiatus of relationships (I had a toxic 4-year relationship before which was severely limiting to my freedom, and wanted some time for myself). It just so happens that this new girl is great in that regard: she doesn't make scenes of jealously, she doesn't rest | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why do I pass out/feel light-headed after discussing certain topics for a certain amount of time?
POST: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.
About 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Preg | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [M/20]have tough conversations with my girlfriend[F20] and keep in control of the conversation?
POST: Every time I try to have a serious conversation with my GF it feels like it gets turned around on me and we don't end up discussing what I has planned.
This is a problem obviously but I've been managing although not without some frustration.
So what I'm concerned with is I recently got the news I was accepted into a college a few hours away from where we live to | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Blocked on Everything
POST: Hello so a bit of backstory, i met a girl on Tinder who seemed to be nice and who i ended up asking out on a date before christmas. She ended up postponing it and we never arranged another time. Anyways we spoke occasionally on snapchat/whatsapp from time to time and she seemed pretty cool, so i gave her my facebook details recently and she ended up adding me on it.
Anyway we spoke tonight briefly about a gig i'm going to and her holiday plans, about | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: NSV- Ran 6.7 Miles instead of 2.5.
POST: I usually run 2.5 mi on the weekends. I used to match what my friend, who inadvertently motivated me to lose weight, would run when we went out together. I knew that she could run further but figured that she was into cross country and I couldn't match what she would normally do so I figured 2.5 is where I stop and that does the job. Today that would not do the job. Today I cranked some Daft Punk and just ran for as long as I possibly c | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 19M in a limbo state of relationship with SO for last 3 months
POST: My Gf [21F] and I [19M] were in a "offical" relationship for 2 months until we broke up, but soon after "got back together" but not offically at this point its been another 2 months since the breakup. We spent (and still do) a good portion of our time together, because we greatly enjoy each others company, sex is great, everything is great. Except that when ive asked her about getting back together in a co | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my SO [29M] 2 years, he got angry because I would rather sleep in the living room.
POST: Not really sure how to bring this up- Basically, I get home super late, like 9 to 10 on certain days from university because thats my schedule and I'm stuck with it. I get home, eat (I dont get to eat during the day) and go to bed. My boyfriend works early in the morning (4-5 am), and then has classes from 10 to mid afternoon and he gets home before 5 everyday.
Last night | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Friend is in a volatile relationship with a married cop. I don't want to hear about it anymore and I'm not even interested in continuing the friendship with her. How can I make this clear in the least traumatic way possible?
POST: Some background: They have been in a sexual relationship for the last 7 years. She is 'single', he is married and has 2 children with his wife. One of the children was born during the course of his affair. My friend and this cop have an extremely sex | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Kitten losing sight, anyone own a sightless cat?
POST: (x-posted from /r/cats. Found that subreddit first, then found this one, which is more advice-oriented.)
Hi guys,
I recently helped my brother rescue a stray kitten with conjunctivitis and it looks like the little guy's going to lose his eyes. Luckily, no surgery, just lots of compresses and intensive medication until he's healed up. He's also quite young, about 2 months now. It's been expensive (meds changing constantly becau | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend of 2 years [17F] smoked pot without telling me about it
POST: So I have been dating a girl for over two years, and we get along pretty well. No big fights, nothing to rocky, only one rough patch last summer. We both drink, but neither of us have ever done drugs. I don't think she cares, and I certainly don't care, but this weekend she did something that made me kind of uncomfortable. She and a couple of male friends from work all went camping tog | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my Mom [50 F] Smokes in MY car, don't know how to say stop
POST: So a little background story. My family is not the richest family ever, but my grandmother was able to get my brother and I a brand new car. This car gets about 40 mpg, and it is a nice little car. My mom is a nurse that usually has to drive to various cities around our county and neighboring ones to see her patients. My mom has a large SUV that gets around 18 mpg. Our mom uses our car to save m | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Everything is great with me [F/21] and my man [M/25] but the amount we talk has dramatically declined...
POST: When my boyfriend and I first started dating we talked for hours each night when we weren't together. (He works out of town and comes home on the weekends so we see each other once a week usually.)
Then when we became official we started talking about an hour every night.
Now we've been dating about 3 months and it's gotten to the point where we only talk about 1 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Questions about clearing up a few dieting and exercising myths
POST: I have been in and out of the gym and didn't bother to diet as I was trying for gains for the longest time. I have been experimenting with different diets in their effectiveness and haven't found much results. I tried a low carb diet at 100g max a day and managed to maintain my weight. After that I tried a 50g max a day and managed to shed a few pounds but hit a plateau. I'm a little leery of keto due to the body | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 F] broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months [23 M] because I cheated, and i want to know what you guys think my chances are of getting back together.
POST: My ex boyfriend and I had an amazing relationship. We kicked ass at open communication and working through issues as a team. He was always aware that i am a very flirty personality, and that most of my friends are male, and he was very understanding of that-never got jealous. So basically he trusted me utterly and c | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is going onto someone's profile and downvoting everything in their overview a thing now?
POST: I've noticed that it seems like someone is just going onto my profile and downvoting every single one of my comments and submissions. It's really obvious, too, because now instead of seeing 1|0 on otherwise unremarkable comments, I see 1|1 and apparently now someone else has joined in, because nothing on my page is above x|2.
I don't really care about karma but I just think it's path | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] wife [23F] and I were constrantly argueing. She went on meds and now she is insanely sweet. Should I be worried?
POST: Background: when my wife and I met, three years ago, she was very sweet. It's initially why I liked her; no girl had ever been that nice to me. We got along great. I was a bit worried because there were times when I acted like a dick and she stayed nice. I told her to stand up for herself if I was being a jerk.
We got married after 1.5 years toget | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I(22/f) an having a lot of trouble breaking up with my boyfriend(23)
POST: Okay, so we've been together for about a year and a half, and long story short, we moved in together(into my moms house) after about three or four months of being together. He had jobs on and off since he moved in, and has been able to pay rent, although most other stuff(food, phone, etc. ) has fallen to me to pay for. Which I've been able to, although i havent been able to start a savings acco | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] breaking up with my bf [27 M] of 5 years, financial roadblock
POST: I hope this is the correct subreddit for this question and I will also try and keep this as short as possible.
My bf (we'll call him Mark) and I have dated for 5 years and were living together for 1.5 years in the northeast area. Mark (without really asking my thoughts on feelings on the matter) accepted a job cross country in LA in August and to be honest, I was blindsided but supportive of the | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My Mom Is For All Intents And Purposes Disowning Me
POST: Some background. I'm a 21 y/o male. Me and my GF have a 1 year old son and we've been staying at my Mom's for just 3 months. We are going to move out in June or July, because you know, it's time i do what i have to do for my new growing family. Anyway, yesterday my mom asked me what i did with the Vita my brother got me for my birthday in April. I told her i had sold it because i didn't like it as much as i had anticipat | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Reddit: I fear for my unborn niece or nephew.
POST: My younger sister is pregnant. She wants to give her child a name that's unique and special, and that's fine and dandy, but the name she chose made me facepalm. Whether she has a boy or a girl, it's going to be named "Midnight" (or, as cheesy as it is, "Mid-knight" if it's a boy... *shudder*). My friend and I kept telling her that "Midnight" is a pet name, not a people name. Our parents don't agree with the name either | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] a very handsome guy [35-40M] just messaged me that he found my phone on Saturday and sent me a shirtless pic to job my memory...creepy?
POST: Yeah, so I've been in the midst of a LOT of drama on this board in the last two days. It is what it is...
But in my outside reddit life, I lost my iphone on Saturday night while out a bar. I put a message up on icloud (lost my iphone APP...it is worth EVERY PENNY!). I was heartbroken because it was battery dead, but apparent | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M(18) with a girl who never touched herself F(19)
POST: The girl is smart, reads about lots of romance and sex all the time, but is very unfamiliar with the sexual reality. She's a bit too smart for her own good, attractive, the ideal girl, etc. One thing, she never masterbated, and naturally, she isnt comfortable with me touching her. Moreover, I'm her first boyfriend, so this is a miasma of prudeness. Pretty sure nothing happened to her young (got this from a family sourc | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Girl at work sending hints?
POST: She (20) and I (M/18) work together and go to the same university. Had the job a year and we don't work together very often until recently we have been working together more. But her roommate (F/20ish) works with me quite a bit. But when we do conversation flows naturally.
We had very limited communication for most of the year I worked there, she just texting me asking for me to take her shift. Then one day I get a text from her pouring h | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: An Internet friend of mine hasn't responded to messages for days and I'm genuinely worried about his wellbeing. Is it clingy if I text him? (19F and 22M)
POST: A few months ago I met a guy on the Internet and we clicked due to common interests. We use messenger apps to talk to each other since we don't live near each other. He's made it clear that he likes me as more than a friend and that he wants to pursue a relationship with me, friendly or not. I kinda like him too. We | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] have been deeply in love with my best friend [20F] who I've barely spoken to over the past year.
POST: It started a while after I met her. Let's call her Alex. I met Alex by chance. Only reason she talked to me was because we were wearing the same Hollister shirt.
Anyway I'd spend lunch with her a lot. Usually just sitting on a bench by a lake just off school grounds. Just talking about whatever. I don't know what it was, but we could just talk for hours.
I quickl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by letting my drunk friend sleep on my couch
POST: This happened on New Years Eve.
For New Years myself and about 10 friends had a small gathering that involved lots of alcohol. One friend, let's call her Amelia, had a bit too much to drink. By that I mean she killed two bottles of champagne and took multiple shots.
So as the night winds down and everyone starts stumbling home, Amelia decides that it would be a great idea to drive, however she can't find her keys (we took th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: What to do with a LARGE amount of extra income?
POST: I've read the guide on saving that goes through all of the steps, aka "I have $X, what should I do with it?" But I'm now all the way down to step 5 and 6, and I still have a LOT of money left over.
My situation is a bit odd: I'm just barely 21, graduated college with zero debt on scholarship, and have a tech job that pays over 100k a year. My car is paid for in full from my high school through college days, and pretty | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Current job situation so bad it's made me a completely miserable jerk, and I can't turn it off for a job interview.
POST: I've blown three quality job opportunities because I just can't seem to stop being a total miserable asshole because of my job. My current gig is awful. They have no idea what it takes to do the stuff they're asking me to do. I do the work of four people, and get paid below-market for my skill set. The only reason I haven't left before is that I started couns | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Please help me get my [m17] feelings in order about an ex girlfriend / best friend of 4 years [f17]
POST: Hey guys! I'll try and order my feelings as well as I can! Starting in order events.
About 4 years ago, I meet this girl, lets say O for the first time. She is lovely, playful, and just generally an amazing person to be around.
Over the next 3 years we become very close. I'd say, best friends - we definitely considered eachother as close as we could be. I had started | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Been away at college for 2 months.. don't like it.. should I go back home?
POST: So I'm a second year college student. Last year I went to a junior college and so I was still living at home and working part time. I decided I wanted to get out of my house and so I decided to go to a school about an hour and a half away. I've been here two months and I hate it. I'm living in the school's apartments, which are about 2 miles from the main campus. It's a pain in the ass to get to class | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I need a new signature!
POST: I was recently married and I just realized I need to change my old one. After years of writing this one, I am slightly programmed.
Of course I understand it is not hard to write one out and change it, but I want it to look just as cool as my original one. My old initials were "E.R" and now I am a "E.H".
So without giving out my real name I want to ask Reddit to help out. I will give a fake name so I am not giving out too much info but it will b | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: DUI Metabolite for Marijuana in Utah. Honestly, I'm scared and need advice.
POST: Reddit, I've done fucked up. Was havin a great night down in my Utahn hometown visiting my parents, then went to this girl's house to smoke a joint and hang out for a bit. We didn't finish the jay so I saved half of it for the ride home.
About 5 minutes before I get off the highway I get pulled over for speeding. Soon enough cop takes me out of the car because it reeked of smoke. Me being | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A couple I know is having issues... I'm a concerned third party. What can I do? [35?m][32f]
POST: I know of this couple, who's identities will be changed for the sake of anonymity. They've been together for about four or give months. The woman in this couple is a very close friend of mine. Both people have been divorced previously, and his ex wife is still causing some major problems for him. It's caused him to be very cold, and very unwilling to provide basic romantic need | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to (M17) introduce my soon-to-be girlfriend(F18) to my mother(F47)?
POST: Hey! I have this friend and we have pretty much been dating without the title, and I was wondering how I could introduce her to my mom. Whenever her and I hang we always go to her house just because it works with our schedule better. My mom knows that I hang out with her frequently.
But there is one dilemma, I leave for Air Force basic training in two months, and my mom told me she doesn't want | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Quitting sweets is harder than quitting smoking. Help?
POST: Look ya'll, I quit smoking cold turkey two years ago. I went from smoking a pack a day to nothing at all. It was horrible for about a week, and I still crave them sometimes, but I did it! It's one my proudest achievements!
But I can not quit sugar! What the hell?! How does that make sense?!
I have been at a "plateau" for months now and it's the 200-400 calories of sweets each day that keeps me maintaining this weight. | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [17/m] have a crush on a girl [16/f] in my class. I only want to be friends with her. What do I do?
POST: I started higher education (don't know what to call it in english, all you need to know is that it's a new school with new classmates) last year. I immediately made new friends, one of which I now realize have have a really bad crush on. I don't want to pursue a relationship with someone I go to class with, and as such I only want to be friends with her.
The p | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do guys really like it if a girl asks them out, or would they rather the girl wait for them to muster the courage and take control of the situation?
POST: Basically, I have been crushing on a guy for about 2 months and at first I thought he was interested as well. I let his best friend know of my feelings since at the time I wasn't really seeing the guy often and I had decided that it was as good a time as any to ask him out. As it turns out he had also been talking to his best | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Question I didn't find answer to in the FAQ
POST: Hello to anyone who sees this. I am new here. I tried to do the right thing by looking at the FAQ first, but I couldn't particularly find what I was looking for.
My question is, what typically burns more weight off: strength training with weights and building muscle or consistent cardio workouts.
I have access to a gym with free weights and machines, but should I be going there and working my core, chest, arms, legs, etc. or cou | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have any of you had a near death experience?
POST: I had two of them in within 5 days. The one was legendary and the other I was being a complete derp. Legendary one first, my father, me, my brother, and a few of his buddies hired a guide to do a presidential traverse. All of us have technical experience and were fit, but none of us had encountered extreme conditions. The night before we realize the weather may be bad, but we continue on. We get to Grey Knob hut and a few peopl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How did you convince yourself stop the "I am waiting for the perfect opportunity" mind set and talk to the guy/girl you like? [18/m/never had a girlfriend]
POST: The mind set: waiting for the right opportunity to go up and talk to a girl I like. By opportunity I mean a time that will most likely not arise.
There is a girl that keeps smiling/staring at me (I try to return the gesture). We haven't spoken yet but I would like to meet her. I need to avoid the cycle of "op | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [26/M] Ugly duckling syndrome, really strange issues.
POST: I was ugly for the most part of my life, and now that I am attractive, I am not as happy as i thought i would be. I missed all the "teen fun", and had very few friends up until i started collage. I used to get picked on by everyone regarding my physical appearance, even teachers and family, but for the most part it was girls of similar age. The latter is probably the reason why I freeze like a deer caught in | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend [M25] thinks I'm a simple drug addict. Truth is, I have an eating disorder [F21]. How do I tell him?
POST: This is going to sound insane. Maybe it is. Here goes nothing.
Length of relationship: 4 months
**Before I say anything else, I am already receiving treatment for both from a therapist.**
I met (let's call him Jim) Jim about 5 months ago. We hit it off immediately and we have been dating ever since. I am deeply in love with him and even though he has move | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: When (or should) you disclose FWBs to each other? [m24] [f23] [f22]
POST: I have a friend, we'll call her Anna. Anna and I have been in a FWB thing for a while, which we explicitly defined as nonmonogamous. Lately there hasn't been a lot of sex, just mostly cuddle dates, makeout sessions and movie nights. It's nice.
recently, I got a little more physically intimate with an old friend from college, Karen. I told Anna that I was hanging out with Karen, but not specifically w | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [33 F] with my roommate/ex-lover [24 M] 3 months, is my ex-roommate/lover sleeping with his new roommie?
POST: Guy 24, moved in, with girl he'd been hanging out with for a month and slept with for about two weeks after he moved in. Then he says he doesn't want to be her bf, sleeps with me, then goes out with her (lies to me), has sex with me again over a week or two. Night after we're together his bike is stolen and he goes with her and has sex with her, hangs out with | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] 2yr relationship with my boyfriend [25M] ended... and I was the toxic one.
POST: My boyfriend and I had a pretty good relationship, but last January one of our mutual friends accused him of cheating on me (just kissing someone drunk) and I was never the same though I never found out the truth. I became incredibly toxic - giving him ultimatums, making him choose between me vs friends, asking for constant whereabouts, not letting him go out, etc. It was bad and I am | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 F] mother [50 F] feels excluded of my life, and we have been arguing a lot because of it.
POST: Sorry if this is a bit confusing, English is not my first language.
After we moved to a new city 4 years ago, I made no friends, so I was always alone, I didn't talk to anyone and I just spent the whole day playing games and/or crying. This might be relevant because she is probably used to seeing me all alone.
This past February I moved to a new city by myself for colleg | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think I fucked up big (male and female six months 15, 14)
POST: Last few days have been high tension have been high tension between me and her. And I'm scared as fuck she will leave me.
Started with her being told that I've said to some people the stuff we do behind closed doors leading on to something about drunk me and cheating, (which I have never done) :(. we met up today and had a great time with each other but it ended badly cause she found out about me and another | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Scared of the first date, don't know what to talk about
POST: I[M22] don't want to be alone anymore, because I have been alone for the last 14 months. Well, not alone per say, because I have friends, we go out and have fun, but having a girlfriend is something completely different.
But at the same time I don't want to. I guess that I am just scared of that first date, because despite being in a 4 year relationship, I have never been on an actual first date. Seriously.
S | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is there a disorder for being preoccupied with the end of the world, societal collapse, "the Apocalypse"?
POST: Ever since I was young I used to just "make believe" about the scenarios, then after 9/11 (enlisted in 98) I spent a lot of time staring at the horizon and landscapes on guard duty and patrol in the military and it was like I could just see what it would look like afterwards in my minds eye.
Now in my 30's, I take the train home and stare out the window down the str | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of 2.5 years, I feel like an insensitive jerk towards him
POST: My boyfriend Alex and I have been dating for 2.5 years, living together 1.5 years. We've been best friends since our junior year of high school.
I have a tendency to be really sarcastic and blunt. I also think that everyone understands that 95% of the time I am joking and never assume that someone takes me seriously. Alex has always been perfectly fine with this and never tak | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Utah. My ex boyfriend kicked me out of our apartment after I became pregnant with his child. Didnt take care of things at the time, yesterday I got a call that he stopped paying rent.
POST: Yesterday I got a call from the apartment manager that my ex had stopped paying rent, and it was going to an attorney.
We had signed a year lease in january. When we found out I was expecting in February, he informed me he didnt want to be a father and wasnt going to help me at all. We be | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 2 months, we want to live together
POST: It all happened quite fast. I met her in June of this year and everything felt really great from the start. From the first date actually. The passion, energy and the mutuality of our feelings are mindblowing.
For me, this is my 3rd or so real relationship. For her it's her second one. We are so much in love with one another, we both never experienced these feelings this intense. I know it's st | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Got Screwed on Kijiji, is there anything I can do?
POST: I posted a deal on kijiji asking someone to cut down apple trees for free and as a result they get to keep the wood. Someone replied almost immediately agreeing to the deal (I have emails and texts which shows agreement to the deal). I give him permission to start working. I work out of town often and am not always home. I come back one day and find my yard like this:
Being a little worried I text the guy asking what his p | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[23/f] found emails my boyfriend[26/m] sent to women on Craigslist looking for sex
POST: I (23) found old emails my boyfriend (26) sent to Craigslist escorts and "random hookups" asking about sex. We've been together for almost 2 years. I know this is a huge invasion of privacy, but I'm pretty concerned. The emails are from a few years back (before we were together), asking to hook up, looking for a "sex teacher", describing fetishes he's never told me about. He'd emailed | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M, 19] am a college student who is a bit shy in a huge college and I'm looking for advice on how to start a conversation with a girl who always locks eyes with me but I don't even know her name.
POST: The title says most all of it. We live in the same tower and we always lock eyes. I'm not saying that means she likes me but I know I like her and that's why I always lock eyes with her so perhaps it's the same reason? Even if that's debatable I'd still like to talk to her | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M], She [20 F] kind of seeing each other, says she doesn't know what she want's, I don't think she want's anything.. Need help..
POST: I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months, we have progressed to seeing each other pretty much every day for the past couple of weeks and kissing each other and all that stuff..
But last night we spoke on the phone and I asked her something and she didn't want to answer, this turned into a whole conversation lasting 3 hours | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] racist and very traditional parents [45M/46F] are having a hard time accepting my [22 M] boyfriend.
POST: So off the bat I was very hesitant to have my boyfriend of 7 months meet my parents. They're devout Christians who also are extremely traditional. But eventually when the time came around, it went less than ideal, as I expected. My boyfriend, like me, was raised in the church but doesn't practice as much. They thought him to be disrespectful because he didn't t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my now ex-girlfriend [18 F] of a year and half, recently broken up.
POST: A few days ago I initiated the break up, it was very out of the blue and with not much reason other than feeling we have changed, and that now is the right time to move on.
I have been thinking about it for a while, also there's a short period between now and our exams, and I'm going away to university in September.
She's a great girl, but keeps to herself a lot other than with me, an | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Ex-girlfriend [26 F] still contacts me every couple months. I'm asking if and how I should follow through, as well as your story on this!
POST: What does it mean when you ex calls you and texts you every couple of months? She broke up with me and we've been broken up for nearly 2 years now, and she still calls me every couple months. She at one point even surprise visited me 7 or 8 months ago in college, without even telling me beforehand haha. Talk about a shocker...she | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19, M] New Girlfriend [19, F] Is Uncomfortable With Me With My Shirt Off
POST: So over the past couple of months, I have really turned my life around health wise. I dropped from 190 to 165 as a 5'10 male and it has changed my life. I have done better in school, become a more happier individual and even have a girlfriend.
She knew me when I was on the chubbier side and stuck with me, becoming my best friend and love of my life. There is just one problem. With the fact | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I found out about something that I should not have.
POST: Yesterday, my girlfriend had her facebook page opened on my laptop. It was in the messages, I look at it and, since curiosity beat me, I starting reading a conversation she was having with another girl. In that conversation she talked about a guy that she described as "OMG FUCKING HOT", that wouldn't usually matter to me, but it kept going and she said "unfortunately the has dating some other dude" and continue | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Was my friend's [47M] compliment to my wife [30F] inappropriate?
POST: A few nights ago, my wife and I were at the house of some friends (a couple) for a birthday party. We used to be close to these friends, but hadn't seen them in a while since they lived rather far across town. It was a pretty casual party. Most everyone was in jeans and sweaters. In the first few minutes of arriving, the husband of the couple approached us and excitedly commented on how great my wife lo | positive |