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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23f) am having fantasies about being with women, and am struggling with the fact that acting on them is not feasible because I don't want to hurt my husband (32m) of 6 years.
POST: First let me say I truly love my husband. I've been with him since I was 17 (yes there's an age difference but it's always been legal in my state). I enjoy our sex life too, it's not crazy newlywed sex (especially as at have 2 kids) but we do have very passionate hot sex and are compatible in | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Which CC Should I Pay Off Next?
POST: Hi PF!
I'm so close to paying off my first credit card as I'm working on eliminating my personal debt. I started with my card that has the highest interest rate and should have it cleaned off with my next paycheck. Now I need to know where to go next.
I currently have two cards that are 0% interest rate that I've been making minimum payments on while working on my cards that have charged interest. One card doesn't have interest tha | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Try to stop me from putting my last load in ten minutes before the posted cutoff?
POST: Well, first off, this happened to my girlfriend, not me, but she told me to post it for her.
My girlfriend was doing some laundry after finishing up her orientation at the volunteer gig she recently signed up for. She started up one load, then sat down to fill out some paperwork for the volunteer position. After a few minutes she went back to the car to retrieve the second load.
Seeing | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [18 F] confused, why does my sister [12 F] speak with a baby voice?
POST: Around two weeks ago, my twelve year old sister began to talk in a funny manner.
She either makes her voice really high pitched or she begins to sputter and slurs out her words, as if she is a baby who just began to learn how to speak?
None of my other younger siblings do this (other siblings ages: 10 year old sister, 7 year old brother.) and it is getting on my nerves.
Whenever she begins to d | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Did I blow chances with my crush forever/permanently?
POST: Hey guys/girls, long-story-short, I have a crush on this girl and we've been pretty good friends the past months or so (we're both college students).
Until recently she asked if I wanted to "hang out" over the weekend through the phone, which I replied no and gave her the reason why I couldn't hang out with her.
(I was going to go snowboarding somewhere with my uncle and aunt + cousins, which doesn't seem like a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [18M] not exactly sure what I'm supposed to do now[18F].
POST: So grad was this weekend. It was alright I guess. I wasn't planning on going with anyone, but I got asked. Really, kind of a surprise for me, but whatever. She asked me about 3 months ago.
After she asked me if I wanted to go to grad, we went on a few dates, and just kinda hung out. I've never really had a real girlfriend so I thought "sweet, this might turn into something serious".
Things were alright for | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with a very confusing situation involving a wonderful gentleman [20M]
POST: Here's the deal, I'm a 22-year old single mom (my daughter is 2 months old) and I've recently fallen really hard for this 20-year old man. Everything would be fantastic except for a couple of tiny details.
1) He used to be my ex-fiance's best friend.
and
2) He is conflicted between me and an ex-girlfriend of his.
Basically, my relationship with my ex had been slowly deteriorating over a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (36M) girlfriend (24F) of three years still won't let me meet her parents
POST: Fake account because she (who I'll call Nora) visits Reddit a lot.
Also, I'm German, so English isn't my first language.
I've been with Nora for closer to four years, living just about that long as well. She's literally the woman of my dreams. Every day I wake up and she's cuddled up next to me, somehow inhaling all the warmth in our house, and I couldn't be more happy. I plan on proposing | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by going to Chick-fil-A before a funeral
POST: I come from a rather traditional Southern family, one that involves a massive extended family. My second cousin once removed passed away unexpectedly due to a car accident so my mother asked me to accompany her to the funeral since my father is away on business. I felt obligated so I agreed to go. The funeral began at six so naturally we decided to get dinner beforehand. It turns out that there is a Chick-fil-A about half a mile fr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: blood in new dogs diarrhea? Should I take him to the vet immediately?
POST: I have a new dog I adopted last saturday. Last night during his leash training I used cheese. It was mild cheddar and the total amount was probably 1-2 tablespoons. He is 52 pounds. This morning his poop was pure liquid. On his walk he went twice more and both times it was liquid with some bright red blood drops. He only ate half his kibble and is now sleeping (he normally sleeps all morning so this is prett | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Need advice on a cat with seemingly endless energy
POST: A few months ago, I decided to keep a cat that wandered up to my door one morning after I wasn't able to locate the owner or place it in a rescue. He's an awesome cat - good tempered, clean, full of personality. He's also pretty young still (about 18 months would be my guess) and has an abundance of energy. He's neutered.
I've mostly taken care of dogs, so my first thought was that he should go for "walks." I bought him a wal | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [27/F] How can I ask my new dude [27/M] to be more communicative?
POST: I have been dating this guy for about two months now. He doesn't respond to texts and chat messages and it drives me nuts! Especially when I know he's there. It does make me think he doesn't like to talk to me. He is an introverted guy though. When we do talk, he seems like he wants this relationship and he's very affectionate. Sex is amazing with him. I am naturally a very communicative, anxious person | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend I started liking stopped talking to me.
POST: I am a 17 year old guy. This new girl moved to my school and we ended it up becoming really good friends. I ended up liking her and told her a few weeks ago. We haven't talked all that much since then, and I valued our friendship so I sent her a text saying
"I am happier than I have been in a while because you and I became friends, You are the one person I feel like I can tell anything to and not be judged. You allow me | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19/M] Should I change myself to be more loveable?
POST: Some words about me: I'm an average looking guy, who is great with people. I have an active social life and a lot of friends. They always seem to enjoy the time with me and I enjoy it too. Yet, everytime I have deeper feelings for someone, they ignore me to hell.
This bothered me a lot and I came to the conclusion, that the problem lies within my personality. I had the impression, that I needed a girlfriend to be com | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Ex-Spouse's Collections Account Showing on My Credit
POST: I had a question related to my ex and a medical collections account. I searched but couldn't find a similar situation. I'm looking for some advice of what my steps should be. Thanks in advance for anything you can provide.
Background: I had been separated from my ex-wife from Oct 2011 until this past January when we became legally divorced. She has always had separate insurance from me, even when we were married. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Long Distance relationship on the fritz, need help Reddit!
POST: So here is the back story I'm a 21 year old man from Milwaukee, currently going to school in Chicago. My girlfriend of 4 years is going to school in Milwaukee, since it was the best choice for her financially. Since year two of our relationship we have been doing the long distance thing, and rather well I might add, but here is where the problem comes in. Over the last year I have been feeling more and more in | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I [20F] ended my relationship with boyfriend [22M] of 5 1/2 years recently
POST: I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years about a month ago. I had always thought that if someone wasn't 100% sure they wanted to be in a relationship with someone, then they probably shouldn't be. I was questioning my feelings for him for a while and finally decided to do something about it. He really wanted to "fix" things, but for me there wasn't anything to fix because I didn't feel in love an | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm (31m) in love with my crush/friend/roommate (28f). And I don't know if I should tell her....
POST: As the title says I'm in love with this girl. We've known each other for over 10 years and there have been instances of flirting and even a failed alcohol assisted hookup in our past. I wanna lay it all out there and tell her how I feel for better or worse, but there's a part of me that is also hesitant because I'm not 100% sure where she stands on her feelings towar | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] met a man [34M] through a mutual friend... can I ask our friend for his number?
POST: I recently went to a party thrown by a friend who was visiting from out of state, where I met this man. We did some light flirting, I thought he was cute, it was all peachy.
I saw him again a couple nights later, at a get-together at our friend's hotel. This time there was much heavier flirting - he was touching me, danced with me, even pulled me onto a bed at one point. Trust me | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I need ideas Reddit. New car with repeat problems. The dealer and Infiniti corporate seem like they are giving me the run around.
POST: I need some ideas Reddit.
I leased a new 2011 G37X Infiniti in Upstate NY.
The vehicle has a problem where the side mirrors appear warped and distorted when it is cold out.
The dealer has replaced the mirrors 3 times, but the problem keeps coming back.
The dealer will not replace the mirrors again, stating I needed to contact Infiniti Consumer | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Miserable at my new job.
POST: I fell prey to a retail position as a merchandiser. I thought working at this company would be different, as they are a major electronics store.
I've been on the job for almost a month. I have been deemed unworthy by the veteran merchandiser team because I am seen as a threat and have lead to a decrease in their hours. The two full timers wont even look at me.
My immediate boss pretty much always pushes us to our limit, whether I am stocking at 6 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [17F] Telling my parents about an older guy I'm seeing [20M]. Please help!
POST: I met this guy, Alex, on Tinder two weeks ago. I am fully aware about how lame it is that I met him on Tinder, but I don't really care anymore because he's super awesome.
Since then, we've hung out quite a bit, like almost every other day. I've slept over at his place three times now.
Problem is that I've lied to my grandma, whom I am living with, and said that I was hanging out with girlfrie | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I (24/M) an idiot for wanting to break up with my amazing girlfriend (24/F)?
POST: I have been dating this amazing girl for the past 6 months. She is kind, funny, attentive, caring, gorgeous, and one of my favorite people to talk to. She is my dream girl. The only issue is that I feel like I met my dream girl too early. I'm not interested in other women, but there's so much that I want to do, but I don't want her there for those things. I'm sure that doesn't make a | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] have seen some suspicious activity from my girlfriend of 7 months [23F] when we swapped phones by accident. What do I do next? Help!
POST: Some background info... My girlfriend broke up with her last boyfriend of 3 years after cheating on him 4 times when away on an exchange program, for the last 4 months of they're relationship (she fucked the first guy 5 days in), the last guy was me, and we started going out.
So, my girlfriend and I went on holiday together, we | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your craziest story?
POST: Recently we have gotten a new house, but just before had finished our move, someone broke into our old house (It had been bought by our old neighbors). So it is like 2am when we get a call from them, and they say that someone had broken into our old house. So we tell them that we have nothing valuable in there anymore, and our neighbor, he says that the guy who broke in the house was riding down the road on his bicycle with a trash bag full of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is a "sheet"?
POST: Today me and my friends went to Quick Check to buy food. As my friend (lets call him El) was leaving his keys where falling out of his pocket, they were attached to a brown wallet type thing. The clerk told him he had something hanging out of his pocket, so El put his keys back in.
Well anyway, there was a slightly deranged lady behind us in line that asked if she could have one form El (she must have mistaken his keys for something else). I jokingly s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 29[M] talking with a 23[f] for about a week and a half. We have gone on three dates. One was testers and we talked about possibly meeting up today. Need advice
POST: She sent me this text earlier today:
"So my ex texted me today and we met up. He needs help paying for a surgery on his mouth. He fractured his back teeth last year when he fell off his motorcycle. Now they are rotting out. Really gross. Should I help him? I just want am opinion other than my own" She already | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Help please! These cats are constantly terrified of absolutely nothing.
POST: Hi r/cats. I posted here a while ago about some fatass cats I'm catsitting. Now they are slightly less fatass, which is good.
Anyways, and please keep in mind, this is not a new thing. I've known them for several years, and they've always been terrified, but this is the longest I've ever watched them.
It is clear to me that these cats are completely miserable. There is no way that they are happy or well | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How much "fake it 'til you make it" can you get away with in a job application?
POST: Let's say I have the connections to forge a Nuclear Engineering degree from some well-known, non ivy league university in the USA.
Let's say I have a bomb-ass alt life story for how I graduated from Midwest-State-People-May-or-May-Not-Care-About University with a PhD in Nuclear Engineering.
I go online and I find a job like this:
I say "hmmm, I think I would like that job." Let's also for the s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] just discovered my family has been tracking me through my phone.
POST: Using a throwaway for this.
A bit of background first, I am a 24 year old who is still living at home with my family. I am not completely deprived of freedom but majority of the time it does feel like it.
Recently I started dating a girl who is two years older and has two kids, my family disapproves of this relationship saying that I would be throwing my life away and nothing good could come | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF (20F) of nearly 3 years has a crush on another guy and told him, I (20M) feel alone and betrayed
POST: My girlfriend (20F) and I (20M) have been going out for nearly 3 years. We rarely, rarely fight and I thought it was going really well. She means everything to me. Things have been a little awkward recently but I feel like I can only see that with hindsight.
Anyway in the past month she has developed a crush on some guy she goes to uni with. Apparently she told him | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21,M] am in love with my best friend [20,F] of 8 years, however I am afraid to express my feelings to her because I am afraid it could ruin our friendship. Help me out!?
POST: Update 1: [HERE](
Hey r/relationships! So there is this girl who we will call Alice[20,F]; I first met her in the 8th grade when I moved into public school system. She was in a number of my classes, and as a result of that, we became good friends. About eight years later, we are both now Juniors i | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Met girl, want to progress with her.
POST: Hey guys. I'm new here(reddit), this is my first post ever. Sorry if this belongs somewhere else.
I met a girl last weekend. Nothing happened that night between us but i ran into her on Wednesday night at a club. We hit it off and she later invited me back to hers. All is going well until she says something like 'Would you be mad if i said i couldn't go on with this?'
Even though i was super disappointed i didn't want to pressure | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIP my family and friends on Facebook, it backfired they thought I was going to kill myself.
POST: I attempted to recreate a prank/joke I saw on /r/antijokes that goes as followed:
"May I have everyone's attention for a second please"
"... Thank you."
Seemed funny enough for a small chuckle, but I made the second part a comment instead of part of the post. Guess people didn't see it or didn't get it and I got a phone call moments later from my very panicked mom asking if everythi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Falsely Accused of Cheating
POST: My husband and I have been married for almost two years. For marriages, this is a very short amount of time for what we have been through.
We are in our early 20's. I'm a full-time student and employee. I'm sure that you can imagine the amount of time I invest in these things to maintain a 4.0.
He works, but has plenty of free time on his hands.
Tonight, I was accused of cheating.
I met a classmate at a coffee shop for a few hours to wo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why do humans dis-like exercising?
POST: Clarification, I'm talking more as a biological drive rather than habitual. Thinking about how humans have evolved and other explanations for human desires it's always struck me as odd that humans would rather lay around then exercise.
Here's my main point of confusion. In terms of diet humans are driven to eat fats and sugars. One of the most common reasons for this desire I've heard/read is that fats and sugars have a larger ener | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: When/How to suggest a Career Change?
POST: My friend and I are 29/30 respectively, and we seem to have diverged into different directions over the last few years. When we met, I worked at a pizza place, and she at a diner, and that was just normal for people our age (early 20s).
Over the last few years, my husband and I have shifted dramatically in the job field, all thanks to good networking and the help of a great temp agency he discovered. He's now a buyer, while I have been w | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M18] started talking to a girl [F17] on Facebook. I'm sure we will talk more, but as of right now I barely know her. Am I crazy for letting myself get interested already?
POST: So basically, I joined a Facebook group "University of ______ Class of 2018". I posted about the housing I preferred, which happens to be the athletic dorms, and she commented asking which sport I'm gonna be playing.
We start talking in the comments, etc, etc. She sends me a friend request, I ac | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I M(18) am having trouble with my girlfriend(18) of 2.5 years in deciding what is best for the future.
POST: Now that my girlfriend and I are in college, I want to see what other options there are for us. I love her to death and she knows that, but she says she is ready for marriage...
What am I supposed to do in this situation? I want to go out and just see if there might be someone better for both of us, I'm not saying that I want to have sex with random women, or that | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 22F with my SO's ex 27 F liked a photo of me pregnant on my instagram.
POST: I've been with my SO for over a year now and we are expecting a child in august. His ex of 6 years liked a photo on my instagram of me holding my baby bump. I don't know what to think about it, it kind of creeps me out. Why would she like that picture? I haven't told my SO and dont really want to because I'm not about drama, and I dont want him starting something with her. I've never met her n | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30/F] with my husband [42M], 5 years, we feel like friends, at best, can romance come back?
POST: Hi All - I've been married for 5 years with a year and of dating before and I am just not in love anymore. Nothing epic happened, I guess we've just grown apart. I want to do things, like activities, hike, beach, anything really, he doesn't. I guess I thought this would change or we would find compromise but that hasn't happened and feels like it never will. When I try to d | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: how do you deal
POST: Look, I'm a smart fucker. I have a high IQ (don't know what it is now though), I was in the gifted program growing up, etc.. I'm an introvert, I have ADD that I take Ritalin for (and it helps IMMENSELY). I despise small talk.
The thing is I was raised by parents who grew up as farm folk. I have little to no social graces, and what's more, I HATE the game of life. I don't kiss ass or play politics. That's burned me many times and continues to burn me. I val | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by melting my classmates 800$ shoes.
POST: Long time lurker of this particular sub reddit. I haven't shared anything yet because I'm not a man of fuck ups.
So right now I'm having my chemistry practical FINALS at school. They usually involve simple stuff like organic and inorganic salt analysis, titrations etc. I'm just minding my business doing the chromyl chloride test which involves heating of Concentrated sulphuric acid along with a few grams of potassium dichromate to wh | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (19M) and her (18F) had a long distance for a short time. We were not good at it and now we feel like friends.
POST: So, I (19M) have met this girl (18) at the end of July. We really started to like each other right away, and we kissed the second day after meeting and yada yada. She was staying at my town for the summer holidays, but she lives in another town. So yeah, it was really new thing for us. We knew we only had maybe a month worth of time to be together before s | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[25M] talking to my [26/F] again, need advice
POST: Soo where to begin.. I went out with this girl (A) about 3 years ago. It was a relationship in which I was unbearable at times. I had a lot of issues and I was immature. Eventually she got sick of it and left me and I was left in pieces. It took me a long time to recover but I then met a girl(B) who I went out with for about 2 years. She was amazing and changed me as a person, although I feel I cleaned up my attitude bet | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Asked a girl(18) out, she said no. I'm(M18) somewhat relieved, but how do I play it now?
POST: [Previous Post](
So, as per the advice of Reddit, I asked this girl out. I laid foundation over the course of the week, and asked her out two days ago. She said no.
I liked this girl, but upon her rejection, I felt little sadness; my overwhelming feeling was one of relief. This next bit might make me unpopular, but this year was meant to be about me getting good grades, and no t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M/F] with my potential gf [17 F]friend's ex girlfriend and i kissed.
POST: okay so heres a little back story my best friend had his birthday party and he invited a friend of ours and ive known her for about 5 years i used to like her in the first year but then i got over it cause i was too short.
about 2 years later she gets a boyfriend which we will call tom for now. tom and this girl had a relationship for 8 months then broke up but still kept talking a bit even ti | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I[21 F] stay living with my ex [24 M] 2 years, who I just had a baby with??
POST: We just broke up a couple weeks ago and have stayed living together and even sleeping in the same bed ever since. We've even hooked up a couple times and gone out drinking and dancing together.
We are still living together because of financial issues and because we have a baby together. I will be starting college full time soon and working part time. He will watch the baby while I'm i | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Fresh out of a 3 year relationship, best way to rebound afterwards, 22/m?
POST: So, my ex and I recently broke up after dating for 3 years. When we met she was 20/f and I was 18/m. We met my sophomore year of college and dated up until my college graduation (she is 23 now and I am 22); which turned out to be the last time we were together before breaking up too. During the 3 years, everything was perfect in my opinion and I was there for her for everything (highs, lows, fam | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Took the plunge and asked a guy out!
POST: So after several weeks of blushing around this cute barista [M28], I [F27] finally got the courage to ask him out.
What finally gave me the courage was him preparing some tea for me (after I had bought some coffee) because I had casually mentioned my stomach was bothering me. He brought it over and it was such a sweet gesture that I thought, "Hey, if he's this caring now that I'm practically a stranger, things could only get bett | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: I believe my sister's 4yo has an eating disorder. I've supported my sister until now, but don't know how to *gently* confront or bring this up.
POST: This is a combination of discipline and my sister not noticing. She regularly rants to me about how other people tell her to raise her kids.. I hate to be that person! I believe the 4yo daughter (call her Jane) has an eating disorder. Jane is a bit of a "black sheep" and has a very dynamic and moody temperament. The older daughter | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my ex [28 M] 10 months, should I tell him about being pregnant?
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. I'll keep it short.
I met an amazing guy last year and we started dating. We dated for about 10 months till I found out about his huge trust issues. I have a shady past which I never revealed to him and he found out about it. Anyway, we both fucked up and it ended on an ugly note about 2 months ago.
Last month, we met and ended up hate fucking. As neither o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm 18, I was texting a girl, her friend took over, then called me and put me on speaker phone. What happened?
POST: So I was texting a girl (yes I like her) and a few texts later her friend starts to answer. Anyways her friend calls me and puts me on speaker and she starts messing with me along with her other friends. I asked where the girl was and they claimed she was in the bathroom, then I asked if she knew they were doing this and they just said "Yes and no."
Anyways | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: This is my [19/m] first "real" relationship. My girlfriend [18/f] has had previous relationships and I feel as though I might have trouble comparing to those past relationships because she treats me very differently.
POST: My girlfriend doesn't frequent Reddit so I don't think she'll find this post, at least I hope not. Anyway, as explained above, I don't know what to make of my girlfriend's decision. I've been in my current relationship for about two months now. Yes, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: I request revenge help from you creative minds. (X-post from r/askreddit
POST: I'm in highschool and I asked advice of a couple girls who I thought were friends, turns out two were two weren't. What I said to them was basically, I think I'm going to break up with my boyfriend because I want really having feelings for him anymore and I liked another guy who was also on our bus. I had to tell them because earlier that year he had a crush on girl #2 so I wanted to make sure tha | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] was recently broken up with by a guy I was seeing. It's hit me very hard and I've spiraled into a depression. Can anyone help me gain some perspective?
POST: I was dating a guy for about two months and everything seemed to be going well. We made it official then just over a week later he decided to end it. He said he wasn't happy with us living in two different cities.
That was about 2 weeks ago and I've taken the news very badly. I felt like if he was really into | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Is she interested? (crosspost from r/askwomen)
POST: Hello r/askwomenadvice
I am a mid 20's man who has recently gotten out of a very long relationship. I have a friend that I see quite a bit where I live. Often we hangout with our big group of friends and we are all very open about things. We talk about sex, love, life, books...basically the whole gamut of things. On a few occasions it has just been her and I out for drinks or walking somewhere. Typically in these instan | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Once, a neighbour took my family to court over a couple inches of land. Reddit, what are your bad/crazy neighbour stories?
POST: This happened when I was a kid, so forgive me if my memory is a little hazy. We moved into a new house when I was about 7 or 8. Our next door neighbours were an older couple, a German man and his Brazilian wife(What a German man was doing in Brazil...well I'm sure you can guess what I think). Anyway, they seemed pretty nice for the first couple of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (25m) and her (24f) - dating 8 weeks - is any lie an indicator of future dishonesty?
POST: Since the second week (and it's been mentioned a handful of times since) we've been exclusive. Things are perfect when were together, but I have some issue with our different ideas of communication (how often to speak, Etc).
Today, I caught her in a lie. I asked if shes seen her ex lately, because he texts and snaps her repeatedly. I plugged her phone in and saw one of them, talki | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I 17[m] am wondering if I should leave it as it is with 17[f] or try again.
POST: On a side note, i've never been in a relationship before. So I became friends with this girl like 3 months ago and we became pretty good friends. We hangout in a group about every weekend.As time went on though I began to become more attracted to her, and some mutual friends said she too was a bit interested in me.
However, being the inexperienced person that I am, I sort of kept acting mor | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by opening picture files on the home computer
POST: So, little background story...My mom is a lesbian and at the time she and my kind of like "stepmom" were fresh into their relationship. Anyways there had been multiple occasions that I had been in my bedroom and heard moaning noises coming from my mom and her bedroom, but I usually just shook them off. So before I had my own laptop, back in the day, I had to use the home computer to do any homework or search the web, or even | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] was just informed by my [23 F] gf of 3 years, that she is pretty much set on absolutely no sex.
POST: My gf and I were talking last night, and we got onto the subject of how we haven't had sex in over 6 months. She feels bad about doing this to me, but she said she was pretty set in the idea of us not going at it again. She is perfectly content with the Hitachi gift I got for her back in December. She also is not into oral or anything else.
The reason is, she | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How to overcome a ET fear
POST: As a child I was obsessed with space. I knew at 7 years of age I would be an astronomer. I joined space clubs, was accepted in to an adult only telescope observation group, asked for telescopes and parts for every present.
Suddenly (I don't remember the exact time but it was about 11 years old) I had a fear of aliens. I would have nightmares, I couldn't look at a night sky any longer without chills and tears. It's paralyzing. Literally. I can't m | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [15M] with my parents[46 M/F] and my grandmother [85F]. She wants me to get confirmed.
POST: Hi all. I'm 15 y/o and this is the year I'd be getting confirmed at my parish. I go to a Catholic school. IK Reddit is anti-religion and I accept people's views etc,. but I don't want people to be bias towards their replies.
My dear-old grandmother, that I deeply love, wants me to get confirmed, especially this year. Now, my parents were explaining to me how it's hard to get con | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Can I get my girlfriend back?
POST: Four days ago, my girlfriend of four years left me without any notice. I am 25 and she is 23. This totally crept up on me and now I'm left just confused and wanting her back. We had just returned from a cruise and seemed happy to be with each other. And right before the cruise we were looking at houses and talking about exciting things in the future. After our cruise I had to work the next day for 12 hours. When I came home I new someth | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by catching mono from my married professor
POST: Technically this didn't happen today, but I just found out about it today, so it counts. I have a relatively young, quite attractive lecture professor for my Differential Equations class that just so happens to live only a couple blocks away from my apartment. Because of that, we tend to walk back home after class in the same direction. Usually I leave soon enough after class that I'm a ways ahead of her and we aren't actually wa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Officiant? Do I out my father?
POST: My fiancé was raised in a church-going household while I was raised by a secular humanist and agnostic who used Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure as a teaching film (Be excellent to each other was a mantra in our house).
We were going to ask my oldest uncle to officiate as he's a yogi and pretty Christian. But then he said some old guy racist things while we were visiting him, and I crossed him off the list.
My future father-in-law (FF | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 F] boyfriend [30m] embarrasses me regularly in public. Now he proposed to me in public and humiliated me.
POST: My boyfriend of four years, knows that I am quiet and reserved, and always does things when I strictly ask him not to. Such as when we go to a restaurant for my birthday, even though I tell him not to, he has them all come out and sing.
When friends or his family are over, he is always telling them private stories that should only be for us, or frequently | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making a 9th grade student learn about sodomy
POST: So the FU is fresh from this morning (first TIFU btw). I'm a french 2nd year med student. My parents support me a lot giving me money for anything necessary but I decided to work a bit in order to make some money of my own. Not something huge but enough to enjoy free time and parties.
Being good in mathematics and physics, I decided to offer help for students having difficulties in these fields. Last September, a family c | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey, Reddit! I just found out my brother works at a bar in a casino two hours from where I live. I'm adopted, and I've never met him before. What is the most awesome way to introduce myself?
POST: I'm a female in my late twenties, my brother is probably 24. I was adopted at birth. I recently met my biological grandmother, and she was freaking rad (she offered me a hug, a beer, and a sandwich... in that order, right after opening the door). From her I learned that:
*My mom had | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with the guy I've been dating [27M] for 6 weeks - advice on how to move forward
POST: So I've been dating a guy I met online for about 6 weeks now and things seem to be going extremely well, we're having a ton of fun together. We've hung out 3-4x a week since our first date and have spent the night together several times. I casually told him I liked him and he responded staying he likes me too. I was gone for the holidays and was landing at the airport on NYE an | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: The Interesting Story of a Not So Interesting Man.
POST: >Be 22, going through divorce
>Ex wife pregnant with my baby, found out a month after she left me.
>Cyber Cafe that I owned closes due to lack of revenue, like so many others have.
>Ex wife moves on, finds another man, evicts me. I couch hop for months while job hunting.
>Land a job at a hotel, staying rent free with a very good friend, things looking up.
>Get diagnosed with Wegener's Granulomatosis.
>Doctor puts me on a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] just want some damn alone time but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend [19F] to just back off every once in a while. (College students)
POST: I have been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years and it's all been wonderful. I really love her, she's beautiful and fun and smart. However, she wants to hang out with me with ANY free time we have! When I get home from class? "Hey wanna come over?" When I get home from work at 10:30 at night? "Hey come over." We live in the sa | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with guy [23M] I've been seeing for a month, moving so slow... please send help.
POST: So I met this guy off of Tinder, we've seen each other 5 times so far. I think we're hitting it off? I'm just not quite sure anymore. I really like him, that's all I know. We made out until like, 3 am, on one date but that's pretty much as far as it's gone physically. He was so sweet, he kept telling me how beautiful I was and just ahhh. But he hasn't really gotten touchy on any | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [16/M] What's my next move?
POST: Thish girl [16/F] and i was chatting (on facebook) and we got to the subject of fetishes. We told eachother what ours were and it was with a generally flirty tone.
Then she told me to make a list of girls that are mutual friends of ours, and that i you sleep with and who i would want a relationship with. I made her a list of seven girls (including her) and said that relationship were the same people.
She then made her list of seven, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How do I deal with feeling all eyes - male and female - are on me when I walk into a bar or party?
POST: I'm 20, female, and single.
On a typical day, I'm wearing little to no makeup, a t-shirt and jeans. I blend in for the most part and I'm comfortable in that zone. But when I'm getting ready to go out with friends, either at a party or to a club or bar, I go all-out - do my hair, put a lot of effort into my makeup, bust out the push-up bra and wear something that shows | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Ex (20f) wants closure do I (22m) give it to her
POST: Me-22m her-20f
Dated a girl for 20 months... She was out of the country for 10 weeks (early May- late July)... I haven't seen her since she got back but I broke up with her about 10 days ago. We got along very well, but the physical / sexual attraction isn't what it should be and I'm only 22. She isn't ugly, but I have been told forever that I can do better. Anyways with her being gone all summer, I started going out a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I Need Advice, I'm Completely Lost Here
POST: My (currently ex) boyfriend and I started dating around late March of last year. It was a good relationship, a lot of trust, very laid back and we just had fun. Best friends who went on dates, held hands, and hugged is a good way to put it.
We broke up in June because we would not be able to see each other over the summer, and decided it would be beneficial to split for an indefinite amount of time. After summer, we be | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] am confused about whether my girlfriend of a year [18 F] and I should stay together through college
POST: Oh boy, never been on this subreddit and prepping for anything. I have no idea what to do as my girlfriend is moving away for college (four or so hours away) and I am staying local. I don't know what to do. I feel a spark when we are together and I may be hypnotized by stereotypical teenage love, but I can't imagine more than a week without her. But also, I kee | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Step Parent Adoption- Questions/Advice/Experiences are much needed!
POST: I found out today that my oldest child's bio father is fighting our step parent adoption. There are a lot of facts so bare with me and thank you for reading. I've been crying all day about this.
-He abandoned my child at 5 months old. No contact, no support, etc. My son turned 6 in May.
- He lives out of state and it took us a couple of months to find him because he was off the grid. Probably hiding bec | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] is wondering how can I make my BF [22M] feel less self concious about his body.
POST: Hi Reddit
So I have been dating this guy for a year now. His name is Jude, I have known him since high school.
He was over weight back then, he was not obese but he was over weight. He had a really good sense of humour about it, he would always make himself the but of the joke in a class like home ec.
But for a big guy like he could move I think his nick name in PE was the arm | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26M] need help deciding if my engagement to my fiance [27F] is over or I should fight for it
POST: Let me preface this by saying that we are Indian...which makes the gravity of breaking it off worse (culturally once you are engaged or married there's no such thing as divorce)
I met my fiance a year ago through a friend and we got off to a really fast start...she said she loved me within 3 dates and we were both looking for marriage so we kind of went at light speed. W | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I tell him?
POST: 19F here. My boyfriend just turned 23. We've been dating for roughly 8 months. Things are going very nicely and we are both happy, but... I have some secrets from my past. It mostly involves myself and another person (whom I trusted very much) that got me to do inappropriate things with them when I was younger. This incident has greatly affected my trust towards men.
I have only told 2 people about what happened when I was younger, and both of them | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [26f] recently single after 3 years
POST: I've posted before on here about my break-up, but I find myself resisting moving on right now.
The relevant back story is that I was dumped by my boyfriend while I was in a transitional period at work. Because of some medical issues I've been dealing with, I'm unable to make it into the office and was just recently set up to work from home.
I didn't want to end the relationship, but my boyfriend did, and I've been working on | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why am I [20F] sort of afraid of being asked out?
POST: I'm a college senior and I haven't gone out with a guy in about five years. That was in high school and I like to pretend it didn't happen. Just thinking I was with him kind of grosses me out. I'm completely heterosexual though.
I often notice there are guys staring at me in classes. There's this one guy in particular that has been staring at me in my classes (a 3 class sequence) for the past year and a half. I'm no | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: My company and I have "mutually agreed to part ways." I'm conflicted. Half panicking and half relieved and optimistic. Need some perspective.
POST: I know there's a million "fired" threads here, but most of them seem to focus on things that are out of the fired persons' hands. For me, I messed up and I accept that.
I've had three or four small time mistakes this year topped off with a big $2k mistake.
My boss called me into his office and after a frank discussion he asked me if I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: [Tech trouble] Problem with PS2 controller on PC
POST: Hey all,
I recently bought a third party adapter to allow me use my old
TL;DR: | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Well I [19 M] confessed to a girl i liked [19 F] and got rejected, is it supposed to feel like my heart got ripped out?
POST: So I just finished this year of college, and I went to a party for the class, and had a good time, afterwards we went our separate ways and i texted (<This maybe the reason) her if she would be interested, but she said no, mainly because she thinks of me as a brother, (Shit I fell into the friendzone).
Anyway I'm asking for advice how to move on fro | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18F] am petrified about telling my parents [40s F, 50s M] I'm moving in with SO [20M] of two years.
POST: So, you've probably heard this before. I'm going away for college. It's just a state away, but my Dad in particular is very disappointed. It wouldn't matter if I had been accepted into an Ivy League; he's furious and scared about me moving away, period. My parents are Christians, and they absolutely disagree with premarital sex and living together before marriage.
| negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: My girlfriend and I just broke up. par for my course
POST: So I'm a 22 year old male who just ended a relationship with a 21 year old female. We had an amazing year and we both had never been happier. But there had been some major communication issues that never got fully panned out, and that led to ambivalence. I'm the majority of the blame here as we got into a huge argument while I was sleep deprived and overstressed with work. That doesn't justify what happened, but tho | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Don't know what to do....
POST: So I started talking to this guy over the summer who lives in Canada while I am in the United States. At the beginning we hit it off really well, we would literally talk all day and all night. We made plans to meet but he got really busy with school and work and we haven't met yet. Slowly we started talking less and and less and eventually would not talk for weeks but then we'll talk once and it seemed fine. Yesterday I decided to text | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool (me F, they are M, all early 20s)
POST: I have to keep this kind of vague for privacy reasons but I really am torn and confused about this whole ordeal and really would appreciate any advice. Be brutally honest if need be.
I am in a sort of long-distance relationship with my ex (dated for 2+ years, broken up for about a year now - but since the breakup we have been on and off). We are not in the same country at the moment and wi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (25f) having trouble connecting with guys my age.
POST: I have very limited experience with men, and I can't seem to connect with guys around my age.
I've tried dating websites: I've been interested in a few guys I've been out with, but things always seem to fizzle out around the third date.
Dudes I've met at clubs : have been generally too persistent. By persistent I mean like several voicemail messages the day after I give my number. I think because I'm sort of re | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Passive income I can't invest
POST: Hello,
I would like some advice on investing a few thousand dollars in a way that does not affect my financial aid to my university.
**Background:**
I was in the foster system when I turned 18, so I have nearly full financial aid to a very expensive (62k/year) university, supported by the state, of which I was a ward.
I also receive $500 a month until I am 22 years old, which technically goes to my foster parents. Since I live at | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20M] ldr GF[16F] started to smoke again. She stopped the first time, because i said otherwise i woud brake up.
POST: Our relationship (now together since 7 month) developed in my first semester in college (now im in the second), she lives in my hometown and we got to know each other at a few partys we randomly both attended.
I didn't know back then that she smoked. In october i went 600 km away and knew i would come back home 4-5 times a year. The third time i came bac | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] girlfriend [21F] of 2 years is away traveling for the next 5 weeks. She told me today she wants to go "on a break".
POST: I posted here just a few days ago and a lot has changed. We talked and I loosened up a lot. I told her I trusted her and I was sorry for being overly jealous and things were great. I also have just recently finished plans for our 2 year anniversary which included tickets to Broadway, etc... And was going to be the day after she got home. This mo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with person I'm starting to date [39 M] for 3 months, seems like maybe he's an emotional wreck
POST: I've been starting to see someone that I've known for nearly four years, we met because he was one of my closest friend's boyfriends. Their relationship ended a few years ago, she moved abroad, and over time he and I became close friends. We both asked separately if our friendship was alright and she approved.
Late last year I realized my feelings for him went be | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I have 3 part-time jobs. I don't know whether to quit waiting tables to focus on the other 2.
POST: It's a long post so bear with me!
**The Context**
I'm a recent graduate with a good degree from an excellent university but I have struggled to get a job. I took a full-time job at a restaurant (waiting tables) in my local town to help dig myself out of a large amount of overdraft (from my student days). After about 6 months of this I went part-time to start developing my experience | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my girlfriend [21/F] of three years, she's curious about what sex with another is like
POST: Hi /r/Relationships, posting on a throwaway because my girlfriend is pretty active on reddit.
A little background:
I've been with my girlfriend, lets call her Tiffany, for over three years (Known her for about 9) and plan on marrying her. She's really perfect for me, and we get along really really well. We are currently in a long-distance relationship because of | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Possibly friend-zoned. Any chance out of this?
POST: Well, it basically all started about 11 years ago (please keep reading =\ ). I have known this girl since she was 13 and a I, 15. I have *always* had a thing for her, and she has *always* had a thing for me.
We were just always tied up in other relationships or didn't talk for a while here and there. Fast forward to almost 3 years ago (her 22 and me 25), and she's always hanging out with me and having troubles with | negative |