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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by opening the fire exit door.
POST: So this didn't happen today, or this month, or this year. I was a young little person still learning about the world and being very curious about things.
I've always wanted to find out what a fire exit looked like, so in a Kmart store I came across one and thought I would look inside. I open the door a little bit when all of a sudden
BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP!!!!
I jumped back and quickly tried to run away from the noise, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [17 F] just told me [17 M] something about her sexuality and I have no idea how to handle it.
POST: First off my girlfriend is bisexual. I'm fine with it, I don't care that she is bi. However, she told me today that she is physically attracted to women but emotionally attracted to men. This is obviously detrimental, to an extent, to any couple. I don't know if I'm entirely ready for sex yet, we are only in high school and the relationship is still young, but how am I sup | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: What happens if you let someone borrow your car when they do not have a driver's license?
POST: And they get pulled over for some reason?
Why I'm asking: My sister keeps letting this piece of scum guy borrow her car. They're like hookup buddies or whatever (I really hate him, can you tell?). He's in his mid/late-20s and doesn't have a driver's license. I'm not entirely sure WHY he doesn't have one, but I KNOW that he had one AT SOME POINT and now no longer does (leading me t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My girlfriend has slept with 7 guys.
POST: Hey Reddit, Something's been bugging me for a while, and I'd appreciate it if anyone had any advice.
Basically, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now, things are great and we get along and everything, I think we make a great couple, and she feels the same way . I'm 18, she's 19.
Though, as the title says, between the ages of 17 and 19, she slept with 7 guys (and kissed a few others too), all of which are peop | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [25M] to the ends of the earth, but everything reminds me of him [22M]...
POST: I'll try to keep this fairly brief...
I met J about a year ago, and we hit it off straight away. Since then, I've really struggled with my feelings for him, as I'm in a long term relationship with S. At one point, J and I confessed that we actually did have feelings for each other, but as I was determined to try and make it work with S, we didn't act on it.
I a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19m] am thinking of breaking up with my [19f] girlfriend of 9 months but I don't know how.
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around 9 months and for about 99% of the time the relationship has been a LDR which has made this difficult and because of it I have started to lose interest in the relationship. Because of the locations of our schools and my lack of funds to go see her at school, I have only been able to see her once in the past 6 months o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Confusion With a Girl From a Different Culture [M/21], [F/22]
POST: First time posting here everybody. Forgive me if I don't get the rules right on the head but I think I read the rules properly.
I'm [M/21] a senior in college and started dating a girl [F/22] I met freshman year, but never really talked to until this summer (funny story if anybody wants to hear it). We have a very nice relationship and everything is great, except when it comes to her mother.
Slig | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I too insecure or do we just have different ways of being in a relationship?
POST: I laugh at myself a little bit because I feel like I'm in a role reversal of some 1970's rom com. I'm a 31 year old guy, she's a 26 year old woman and we've been dating for seven months. My relationship with her is the greatest I've ever been in my far. We communicate pretty well, have lots of chemistry, compatible values, and I love her tremendously. I'm pretty damn confident she feels t | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24m) have tried, but just can't break up with my girlfriend (24f).
POST: Been with her for a few years now and have known for a while that I'm not gonna marry her. I am more happy when I am alone or with friends than I am while with her.
I have tried to end things a couple of times but end up backing out. I just can't do it in person. Emotions run high and it just really complicates things. I know it's best for both of us, but I just can't make it happen, and I know she | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27F] husband [29M] took my medication without asking
POST: My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for 1.
Me: I have for the last about 2 years been prescribed an medication for anxiety that I take extremely sparingly when I'm having an anxiety attack. My anxiety is real and this medication really helps me when I am in this situation. I take it maybe 1 time a week, sometimes i'll go weeks without taking it though. It makes me drowsy so I never take it | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] desperately need help with second thoughts about breaking up with girlfriend [17/f]
POST: fairly recently i broke up with my girlfriend of about 1 1/2 years and after not talking for a month or so we are back to being able to talk like friends and im having second thoughts about breaking up with her...
more information that im not sure how to fit in a paragraph:
she was much more serious about the relationship than i was (i.e. seeing us dating past high schoo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF of four years has a $50,000 scholarship that he will lose if he does not attend college next fall. I am worried this is a bad decision.
POST: We are both 23, me Jane him Tarzan, and our relationship is at its four year mark. The conditions of the scholarship are that once an individual begins secondary education, you must never take a fall or spring semester off, lest you lost the 50K. Also, you must attend a school within the state we live in.
Tarzan is burnt out on sc | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19/F] with my _best friend__ [19/F] 6 years, Best friend's boyfriend and I are not on good terms, should I be forced to be around him for the sake of my friendship?
POST: My best friend and I have known each other for a while and I even introduced her to her boyfriend of almost 3 years but certain events occurred that made me angry with him for good reason, and now I'm not so sure about him.
She knows how I feel about the situation and yet she is considering inviting | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What was the hackers plan in using my gmail to set up his own - apparently personal - facebook account?
POST: I have a gmail that hasn't been used in about 5 years (it was temporarily set up for a project). It was set up however to auto forward emails to my main email. Last week I received a load of messages about a facebook account being set up and realised it was coming from this email account. I logged in, changed the password, then logged into the new facebook account and d | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of 2 years, I broke up with him and now regret it.
POST: This is a long story, but I am going to keep it as brief as possible. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Around 1 year ago, my dad cheated on my mom and they divorced. Since then, I have had trust issues and problems in my own relationship that I am in therapy for.
About a week ago, my boyfriend told me that he was feeling unhappy with all of my trust issues and told | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are you passionate about in life? How did you discover / develop that passion? What advice would you give to someone searching for something to be passionate about?
POST: I'm a guy in his mid 20's who does not have a *passion* for anything.
I am currently unemployed and searching for a new career path. I've spent 6 years in corporate finance; and while I love the study of economics and the math behind it, I hate working for major corporations. As I search for somethin | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Love/Friend Triangle 22m/22m/21f. How do you deal with it?
POST: This story has long passed. Time did its job and the thought impacts me less than it did when it happened. Basically, my best friend who we'll call Him(22m) finally gets together with my good friend, Her(21f) after 4 years of HS and 2 of college. I didn't see it coming because both of them were in a relationship with other people then, but when they did I was set into a state of happiness/sadness. I knew that | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] want to open up to my recently exclusive "thing"[22 M] but can't. Any advice?
POST: Have recently decided to "test the waters" with the nicest, hilarious, most kind man ever. He is graduating soon so we haven't committed to a true relationship as we both want to see where things lead... however I am hoping for the best.
We have been seeing each other for over a month and have recently decided to be exclusive with one another. He makes me incredibly happy when I a | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] a year, had sex in an adult theater and feel weird (in a bad way) [NSFW]
POST: My boyfriend and I were eating dinner and saw a suspicious looking theater. We looked up the name and found out that it was a sex theater and decided that maybe it would be a good idea to try it. Some background, we're quite vanilla when it comes to sex.
Anyways, we went to the theater and there was some retro porn playing and a lot of older men in the theat | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advice on meetin my[21M] Vietnamese girlfriend's[20F] parents
POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for around 9 months. We both go to the same university and met at the beginning of the academic year.
A bit about myself. I am a decent looking, fairly outgoing and I can easily talk to people. Also, I am surrounded by high society people, so I have been taught etiquette and manners thoroughly.
My issue is that I am from North Eastern Europe. My girlfriend was born an | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[26M] dating a girl [26F] for about a month. Is she's taking me for a ride?
POST: It's my first time dating. Through circumstances, she got to know that I never kissed a girl before. This seems to have changed things and I feel like even though I'm giving her high priority, she's keeping me on the back burner. She even tells me about her plans with friends and then tells me that we can't meet up. Is asking to see her twice in a 4 day period too much? when she's telling me | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How to I gain confidence in my logic, resolve, and my general self?
POST: I do things and feel crappy about them all the time. People point out things to me, parts of the pattern of ups and downs but I'm stubborn and keep at whatever destructive behavior I carry out. I'm not in an unstable mental state or anything, I just want to know ways I can come to terms with my flawed logic, my dissatisfaction for the rationalizations I make, and I want to discover myself and the reasoning f | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What jobs could I get while in grad school that can allow me to do school work while I work? Details in text...
POST: I am in my final year of grad school and am currently working full-time. I work at the University I am attending and therefore am allotted significant employee discounts towards my tuition cost. The catch is that these discounts are still taxed in full by good old Uncle Sam and thus my two courses, which I am taking for free, will be taxed in full for the origin | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [m17] met a girl [f18] this summer who has left for college. Unsure what to do.
POST: One night in late June (two months ago) I decided to screw around on Omegle late at night. I somehow met a girl and we talked for hours. Got each other's skypes and subsequently talk endlessly for weeks. See each other in person a few times, and get along perfectly. I've never connected this well with someone (guys included), ever. I've been fine with girls so I never thought I'd met a g | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] for about 7mo (unoffically) 3mo (officially), unsure about her history...
POST: Currently in college, met this girl who lived in the apartment down the hall from me. We hooked up one drunken night and then continued to do that for a few weeks until we started hooking up when we were sober. It eventually blossomed into a relationship.
I have only had one girlfriend before her in high school, for about 2 years, it ended terribly and we n | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: My GF and I are dating for the first time, are taking it slow, but feel like we are in over our heads.
POST: Hi /r/Dating_Advice. I am long-time lurker on /r/relationships, but having just entered a relationship wanted to contribute my bit to the pool.
Short background: I am 23, she is 19. We have known each other for a few months now, have grabbed lunch together frequently (we are both in college), had some excellent conversations, and have in general become very good fri | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I'm a perv and I just ruined my relationship. Please help.
POST: I've been in a relationship for about 6 years now. I love my girlfriend with all my heart. But... I'm fucked in the head. I've had my third strike. First time I got caught texting another girl about 1 yr into relationship. Then roughly 3 years she found a fake facebook profile I had that I would use to perv on girls profiles. Now.... She just today found some creepshots I forgot to delete. There's no coming back from t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [18F] support my mother [50F] through getting a divorce from my cheating father [60M]?
POST: My parents have been married for 20 years. Won't go too into depth about my father's affair, but long story short he was planning to just leave us hanging next year and run away with his mistress. (Which, okay, whatever, good riddance.)
My father's a narcissistic piece of trash who thinks that responsibility towards the family is just paying the bills. He's not important, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22/m]: My friend [19/f] of a few months suddenly and abruptly acting distant and cold towards me
POST: There is this woman [19/f] I've [22/m] known from the start of the year and have since become friends with her.
As we talked to each other, she became fun, outgoing and playful towards me but suddenly and abruptly, as in; within the last week and it was sudden, she has practically gone cold, acting distant; as if she's putting up her guard towards me. She blocked me o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (m18) girlfriend (f16). We've been together for 8 months. My mind has been eating at me and i need r/relationships help.
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and things are great. But when we were only dating for about 1 1/2 months things weren't doing so good and we hadn't seen each other in over 3 weeks for reasons I don't remember. I felt things fizzling out so I asked for a break until we saw each other again.
Soon after that, my ex started t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A rumor has been spread through the college I attended a few years ago and I have recently moved back to that I raped a girl, I have done no such thing, what can I do?
POST: throwaway for various reasons.
I joined a fraternity midway through my school career there, and dropped out of the fraternity and the school for various reasons. I have since moved back but it seems that members of that fraternity, as well as members of a few others have started spreading the rumor that I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [32/M]'s sexual past makes me [28/F] feel jealous and insecure. How do I get past this?
POST: I feel silly and immature, but I'm jealous and I feel bad about it.
We've been together for six months now, but we never spoke of each other's past in much detail. For some reasons, the subject of when we lost our virginities came up. I had a lot of mental health issues, so I didn't have sex until last year with a tinder match. He on the other hand told me he lost it at | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Trying to decide if I should keep more facial hair or not?
POST: I am in my second year of university. Since I came to university it has become very difficult for me to meet girls I'm into or hook-up.
I am confident that I am a pretty attractive guy, going by the girls I dated/had things with in high school. But as soon as I came to uni, bam that all sort of stopped.
Could be a number of reasons, but I've also realized, especially for a club setting (can go to bars/clubs | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Do you have any friends that won't stop calling you or trying to spend time with you, even though you either don't have time or you don't feel like spending time with anybody?
POST: This is happening with two friends and I've known them since elementary, as we met through our church. Since then until high-school, they call and text me everyday non-stop, proposing to hang out every weekend or any day they're free. I'm not sure how they don't have homework or anything else that might | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26m] shuts down emotionally when I'm with my gf [23f] and her friends (guys) since she seems to pay little attention to me. Help?
POST: Our first date was 3 months ago. We've broken up a few times but always get right back together. So we went to a wedding of one of her friends recently and we sat down at the dinner table. Another guy friend of hers from high school was there and my girlfriend talked and interacted with him for like 15 minutes without even acknowledging | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17f) don't know how to cope with my gramma's (67) impending death.
POST: For the past eight years after my grandmother remarried she's lived entirely cross country from my family and I. Over the years she's been diagnosed with COPD so her coming to visit was near impossible and I haven't been able to travel to where she is because of my young age and my parents both working. Now that I've gotten older and am about to graduate I was going to visit her over the summer. Tod | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: He ended it cause he thinks I cheated, but I don't. Whose right?
POST: My 23 year old boyfriend of almost six months just broke up with me (I'm 19) when I decided to reveal what happened a month ago. When we first started dating I promised him I wouldn't freak dance with guys at parties, but unfortunately it happened once and I struggled with whether or not to tell him. When I did, I didn't expect his reaction. He said I broke his trust, which I understand and agree with, howeve | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Finally asked her on a date - she says she's "emotionally unavailable" (M[27] - F[28])
POST: I have known this girl for a couple years now, and had a crush on her since the day we met. Unfortunately for me she was in a 8-year long relationship with another guy. Her and I became good friends and I pretty much just sat on my hands. She had been having some problems with her boyfriend that she would talk to me about from time to time, mostly trivial arguments.
Last thanksgivi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [23] is always bored with me[20], is there something I'm doing wrong?
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I have always consistently been happy with him, but when he is not it shows and it really sucks. We hang out at his house most days in a week, I come over after getting out of work or classes. He will ask me what I want to do, every time we hang out, and I find myself struggling to create plans. Lately I've had some breakthrough | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [27F] make it through my LT bf's [27M] serious bout of depression?
POST: I know the title appears selfish and that I should be focusing on how to help my boyfriend (which I am doing), but his mental health issues are really burning me out and I'm currently feeling unsupported and alone.
To begin, my partner and I have been together for a number of years. He has struggled with depression in the past, but nothing like this before. He is going through a serious episo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to have a party.
POST: So on the 5th I turned 18 years old. I had never really had a good party but my house is great for entertaining. I decide to have an 18th birthday and invited about 40 people. Turns out my driveway and grass arent big enough for 40 people and it rained. After the rain (which also killed the bonfire), someone tried to leave and was stuck over a foot deep in my neighbors grass so I have to apologize tomorrow. That was at about 7. At 8 people start | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I shared a cab with my friend and my crush, then watched them hook up the whole ride. What are your worst third wheel stories, Reddit?
POST: After a party I was trying to help my very drunk friend get to a park to meet up with some other friends before we go home. On the way out we run into the girl that he had hooked up with that night, who I had really liked for a while. My friend was already upset with himself for hooking up with her because he knew that his best friend (not | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: We [20] just have grown apart. I am afraid and honestly wish we never started dating.
POST: So my girlfriend [F20] and I [M20] are approaching our 1 year anniversary. And lately its just not going so well. We both are in college and have extremely busy schedules. She's pre-med and I'm engineering. She constantly tells me that we don't see each other enough and is mad that we don't. The problem is that we're both just so busy and I can't always work around her schedule as sh | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: This week's argument with my mother - Receiving Lines [Rant]
POST: Short back story: My mom has been momzilla from the minute FH and I got engaged. She physically went to bridal salons within days of engagement to send photos of dresses to me (would be less weird if looked online or in a magazine..). She also has set up multiple appointments with venues and other vendors without asking me and then SURPRISE "Katesquire, we have an appointment today." (all vendors/venues | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24M) think I made an enormous mistake breaking up with my girlfriend of 7 years (24F) last night.
POST: Throwaway because obvious.
Last night I broke up with my girlfriend of seven years for a few shitty reasons. One, I was extremely nervous about her wanting to move in to a house that I just bought, despite her constantly reassuring me that she could wait until I was ready. Two, my parents aren't the biggest fans of her. And three, we've been together since we were 17 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My friend [22 F] is in a bad relationship. How do I convince her to break up with him [22 M]?
POST: They have been dating for 2 years. When they started dating, he was in college and on, presumably, a positive path. Now he's a dropout, works a minimum wage job, deflects all responsibility for his life onto other parties, is dealing with his problems with alcohol, and is content to allow my friend to financially support him (~$400 a month). He's manipulative, does his best to cut h | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] 4 months, have never felt this way before.
POST: So this girl I am seeing I have worked with for 4 years. Never really talked or anything, but after one company party we ended up home together. Decided to be FWB and both started to like each other so it worked out. *I am leaving for a new job btw so working together isn't the issue.
So this is the first girl I have ever felt like I want to "go all out with." I have always been in relat | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30/F] with my SO [33M] 2 years, his choices in porn make me more insecure.
POST: Throwaway as my partner knows my main account.
I'm a curvy (not plus sized but not thin) 5'9 athletic woman. I am not fit by any stretch, but I play soccer and volleyball. The problem I'm having is that my partner constantly watches porn and YouTube videos of super fit girls. I get it... But it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and insecure. I'm doing what I can to make myself feel bet | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [26/F] I have an interesting tale for you all, nothing to urgent...just want the opinions of random internet strangers [25/M]
POST: Met a guy[25/M] that I [26/m] liked, and he didn't feel the same. Nbd, it's not fun to deal with but it's part of life. Put on your big girl panties and deal with it.
We were friends for a year or so, but after a few rough patches the friendship slowly deteriorated.
Our friends mingled, so I saw him around and everything, but I never felt co | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [23 F] 2 year relation, feel like she isn't physically attracted to me anymore.
POST: As all starting couples we had a lot of sex during the beginning of our relationship. However lately she doesn't like it anymore when I touch her/ make a move to have sex. I also tried all kind of romantic stuff to get her in the mood, but eventually she tells me she's not in the mood. It's not like I tried to have sex every evening and I don't want her to have sex whe | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] need some seriously help with my new [17F] girlfriend
POST: I am an 18 year old male who has just recently started dating a girl who is 17 years old. I've known her for a little while but recently when I started showing interest in her, she told me about a lot of the issues she has dealt with.
The issues range from being bullied from when she was in 1st grade to her father passing 5 months ago. I told her that I am there for her and I want to do my best to underst | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (M33) and I (F31) broken up after 4.5 yrs. He's not moving out for 7 weeks.
POST: My SO and I have been together for 4.5 years and living together for 12 months.
Recently I've felt ready to start a family, and three weeks ago I decided to broach it with him. It didn't go smoothly - he instantly clammed up, and said 'he'd think about it'.
A week ago, I brought the subject up again and expressed my frustration at his inability to discuss his feelings with me. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my close friend [19 F] of 7 months have been arguing a lot.
POST: I met her when we went through recruitment for sororities together and we ended up in the same one. We became close really fast attending events and things that new members get to go to. Before I ever met her, I had a boyfriend that I hung out with most weekends just because it was more fun to hang out with him and our friends collectively than what I usually used to do with other people.
At | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] can't stop thinking that my GF [18] is Pregnant.
POST: Basically I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and it is a long distance relationship. I make it out to see her every 6 months for a week or 2 since we're both in school and her moving is a bit more into the future.
In the first week of August I went for such a visit and we ended up having sex. The thing is she was way too tight and I only got in about once before she said nope. And no there w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M [23] in need of advice, SO [20] wants to go on a "break", what should I do?
POST: Long story short, my SO of 1 year wants to take a break. I was willing to give my SO the space that they wanted but they want to completely end the relationship while on this break.
I do not want this, while I don't have a problem with given them some time apart, dumping our relationship is another story. The truth is, I don't want to lose them to someone else, or lose them at all, period.
| negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my ex-girlfriend [19 F] of almost 2 years, confused by her response to something I just did.
POST: So my girlfriend of almost two years broke up with me about 3-4 weeks ago, but it wasn't a terrible breakup or anything. She just felt differently now, and although I was very hurt, and am still hurt, I knew that there was no point to trying to continue the relationship and was very polite (in my opinion at least!) and haven't texted her at all in the last few w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: It's Thanksgiving and I just found out 2 days ago that my girlfriend of 5 years was cheating on me. I need your help Reddit. What do you do to make yourself feel better? What's so great about being single? Do you ever feel lonely when you're single? Is there really someone great out there?
POST: So basically she cheated on me last week and has been flirting with the guy for awhile without me knowing. I feel so stupid for being so trusting. Now we're split and she's living with | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Hi Reddit, need some emotional support. My (20, F) two year relationship with my (20, M) boyfriend just ended. Taking it pretty hard. What helps stop the hurt?
POST: Hi Reddit, you're usually very nice. Just ended a two year long relationship with the sweetest, most loving and understand person I've ever met. Something just changed in him. Ever since he went to Ultra about six weeks ago with a bunch of his friends he just hasn't been the same. He hasn't been into hanging ou | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Should I quit my coop job (that's making me unhappy) and risk getting poor reference?
POST: I started work at this place over the summer and since then I absolutely hate it. The work they give me is mind numbing. Im not crazy about the people here but they're okay to talk to. But get this- I spend an hour commuting in the morning and an hour and a half in the evening. Its mentally exhausting. I know for sure I don't want to work here when I graduate. I only get one coop term tho(a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: To run away or to face the in-laws...
POST: My boyfriend and I have been talking more and more about our wedding. He hasn't proposed yet (he's asking my father in April) but we have a date set and did have a venue picked out, colors, etc.
But then about a week ago, we were going over about what size guest list we'd want, and we realized that on his side alone, the immediate, must-have family members come out to 50 people.....and they all HATE each other. That fact alone | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (m24) of 6 months dumped me (f21) over something that did not need to end in a break up.
POST: I slept at his house last night after work. We get along great, i always saw myself as being more into him than he was into me but i attributed that to just personalities. My dad and sister both cheat regularly on my mom/sisters boyfriend. He knows this upsets me and how anti-cheating i am because i just think its so disrespectful. I snooped. I was wrong. I apologized | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] don't know how to end it with my GF who is on a trip out of country [20 F]
POST: We've dated for 8 months. Began out of a friendship. It's been nice, but I have known for a few months now that I would be wanting to end it. There have been problems, and I am now at a point where I don't feel comfortable being in a relationship and want to have some time to meet new people and create new relationships.
Buut, my GF is really attached. Currently on a summer abroad tri | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Mum wasn't there when I bought my dress, now I feel guilty.
POST: Sorry for the wall of text!!
Okay, so I went to the other end of the country (UK so not that far really) to look at a dress I loved over the Christmas holidays. It was a last minute appointment and my mum couldn't make it, she was having a huge dinner party and would be cooking all day. I thought 'fair enough, its just a trying-on day anyway and I have other dress appointments she can come to'
Well Dress- | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [17 f] 8 month: Seems like she just wants to be friends?
POST: So I had a crush on a classmate that I was friends with for a while, I finally asked her out and she accepted and we've been dating ever since. But honestly, seems like she's either way too immature for a relationship or just wants to be friends? She doesn't like me kiss her, but only occasional hugs, and she always seems to prioritize me pretty low? Like she has no issues telling me | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] have an awful relationship with myself [23F]. How do I stop this?
POST: Obviously, I could think that all my problems are formed by some mighty spirit god that's simply out to get me. Hell, it might even be true.
But, internally, I know. My own emotional tribulations are caused by myself. Yet, I can't let it go.
My thoughts run throughout the day, uplifting every possibility of something deeply failing and flailing. A certain form of control. Those thoughts sto | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my ex [25 M] Dated for 6.5 years, broke up 6 months ago. Today would have been our 7 year anniversary
POST: We are trying to remain friends, we talk have talked each other through the break up and [hopefully] have been helping each other to move on.
It's not like we broke up on bad terms, but I did break his heart. I figured out I was lesbian - it was a very slow and gradual realization. He saw it coming, but it didn't ease the pain.
Today would have been | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having a garbage disposal
POST: So, awhile ago I was diagnosed with cluster headaches. Both of our family members have offered anytime I need help just to call.
Last night I had a not-so-nice attack and my SO didnt want me to be left alone with our daughter today. So, he called his mom but didn't tell me until this morning. Now when I am told someone is coming over I go into panic mode. Everything must be wiped down. When my SO was leaving he told me the house was fine and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: New car loan
POST: Ok so here is the deal went car shopping and ended up settling for a 2014 hyndai Veloster woth 14 miles on it. And the worked me out a deal on a payment that i thought my wife would be ok with even tho it was higher then what we talked about. Problem is the wife is not okay with it. On the contract she is listed as the buyer and i am listed as the co-signer. I signed my portion of all the paper work still owe the dealership POI and the check for the down pa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (19 m) Having difficulties with my gf (18). She has been... Distant lately.
POST: So I've been with my gf for almost two years and we have always had a very good relationship. However, a month ago she broke up with me citing "personal issues" as the reason. Two weeks later though we got back together and we were as happy we used to be. However a few days after we got back together she began becoming... Distant. I tried holding her hand and she yelled at me telling me not to | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, where are my cockroaches coming from?
POST: I moved into my current apartment last February and for the first few months i would get one cockroach per month (roughly). After about 4 months i told the management, and they said the cockroaches were coming up through the drains and i needed to pour bleach down every so often. (I also got my room [inside and out] sprayed with bug killer.) So i start pouring bleach down my drains, and in the amount of 3 moths, i got about tw | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Want to be smart about a 25k inheritance.
POST: Recently my gramps passed away and I was told to expect an inheritance. I figured I would make out like a bandit with 1k, so when my mom sat me down and handed me the envelope I was shocked to see a check for 25k usd.
So a little about my situation:
* I have an AA degree with no student loan debt
* My fiancee has a BS with no student loan debt
* We've been living paycheck to paycheck with help from parents for rent. No sa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/M] was broken up with by my gf ___ [19/F] and ive never felt so lost.
POST: Just gonna be short and sweet. We were very happy together, we were together for about 2 years and lived together. She worked overnights all week so i never really saw her at night, so i started hanging out with friends more, and befriended a girl, we'll call her Emily. I started to like Emily, so i told her we couldnt hang out anymore, and tried to talk to my friends about it, who then let it | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Interplead process for property
POST: My mom had commercial property sold through an auction several months ago (lawyer's advice). The property was owned jointly with my dad before divorce, and my dad had several liens on it. My mom paid off the top two liens so she would be the primary lienholder.
When the property sold she received her lien part and the rest of the money was held. My mom's lawyer is trying to win the rest of the money away from the junior lien holders. Th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What should I do? Meh, this is a bit long..
POST: Ok here's the thing.
Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up 3 years ago. I must admit that it wasn't a good breakup. A lot of drama and so on. But now me and my ex have managed to become good friends. He even has a girlfriend and I'm completely fine by that, doesn't bother me at all.
The main characters are me, my ex and one of my ex's best friend. Let's call him J.
J hated me when me and my ex were dating so I never re | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why would my ex-fiance [30 M] continue texting me [29 F] when I try to stop after he said we can't be together?
POST: My fiance and I were engaged for 1.5 years. I had moved away for work, as we were both struggling but making it work. He blames himself partly for what happened next, but I assure you I know where the blame belongs, so you can bash me, of course, but I know. Trust me, I know.
I cheated after confiding in someone when I should have confided in him. It wasn't | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Found out my girlfriend had a child.....
POST: Hi guys,
Just looking to clear my head.
Me and my girlfriend are very open and talk a lot and not really worried about sharing devices and accounts etc.
I was on her email on her phone the other day when traveling with her, which I am normally not but was trying to find an email i sent her i needed to forward. Well anyway I found out that she has had a child and has had just signed the adoption papers. I believe he is | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] with my Romantic Interest [16F] Confused about how she's reacting to me telling her how I feel
POST: So I told the girl I like that I liked her. Now she is a close friend so it was slightly unexpected but she seemed cool but said she didn't feel that at that time but would think about it, that was 4 days ago. During the week we would play fight but it became more intimate I guess. Then yesterday we have a long phone call in which she made it sound as if she didn't | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Feelin' a bit lonesome lately
POST: I'm finally outta school for the first time and, while everything is all right overall, I have been feeling lonely this past week.
It's been 4 months since I've graduated uni, and of course friends have left to go back home or move to where their career takes them; but a good amount of my close friends are still here - post-grad and undergrad. The only issue is timing. I think back 2 years and it seemed like hanging out was second-nature. N | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having sex with my ex-girlfriend on a beach
POST: Well, technically it happened last night, but I'll continue the story anyways.
I was out at a bar with some friends drinking fairly heavily. My ex-girlfriend had recently turned 21 and had happened to go the same bar. I was not on bad terms with my ex-girlfriend so as the night progressed and the more drinks had been consumed, we made the mistake of thinking leaving the bar together was a great idea.
Fortunately, I was | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] am with my girlfriend [21 F] of nearly three years, But I'm developing feelings for someone else. I don't know what to do.
POST: I started dating my girlfriend in high school when I was a freshman and she was a senior. Now, she's a junior in college and I am a high school senior. We've been through so much and I really like her a lot, as well as her family, and they like me as well.
The problem is that with her being in college, the distance makes keeping the spa | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19 M] don't believe my girlfriend [17 f] is "the one". What should I do?
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. I am a freshman at college, and she is a year younger than me in school. We are in a long distance relationship (4 hours away) and I see her about once a month. Anyways, here is the deal.
We fight about once a week, and over trivial things. These fights can go on for a few days but a new one is almost certain to rise soon af | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help! My [M36] wife [F26] has a power over me through sex that I feel has become unhealthy.
POST: I really need help. I'm not sure where else to turn. I've had 2 years of therapy, and aside from becoming more in touch with my feelings (great!), No progress has been made on the following issue.
My wife and I have been together for 8 years, and within that time I would say we've had a pretty great relationship. However, we're now at a point where my libido is significantl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by asking if someone interviewing me was going to retire soon
POST: I currently work for a symphony orchestra in a middle management position, but I want to be an executive director of one. I have been fortunate enough to receive several calls from search firms about available jobs this past spring that have lead to substantial interviews.
This afternoon I was being interviewed on Skype for one of these positions. I will say that I dislike Skype interviews for several reason | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 M] Christian girlfriend [20 F] can't make up her mind on sex
POST: I've been dating a girl for roughly a year and it's the most blissful relationship I've ever been in. She's sweet, affectionate, and caring and I think it's not unrealistic that I see myself spending my life with this girl.
Recently, we started diving into the topic of having sex for the first time. We're very sexually active in all departments BUT sex. Sex is a big step for the both of us, as we'r | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Read my [22f] gf's (of over a year) email and saw some sketchiness. [24m]
POST: She left her email open on my computer and I saw an email from this guy who is really into her (she told me that he is a while ago). Apparently while she was on vacation, she organized a meetup with him. The issue I have is that she practically begged the guy to buy a plane ticket to meet her in the city she was visiting. They hung out for a few nights and even stayed in the same friend's house. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By Texting my crush too much
POST: Not so much as a today i fucked up, more of a, last few months i fucked up. Ok so im just a 16 year old high school kid, trying to get with a girl, as you do. Me, thinking it was normal, got her number i would text her (pretty much whenever i got the chance) and we would talk. I wouldnt call because she was at work a lot. She would always tell me how much she hates texting when we talked at school. Me, not thinking properly kept on texting her | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ok Redditors, your advice needed. My ex bringing her new boyfriend over - he used to be my friend that backstabbed me to get together with her. What do I do?
POST: Ok, so quick background. I used to be friends with that guy for few years. Then I started dating a girl and we were together for almost 4 years. The friend went off for gap year, and when he came back, he became best friends with my girl and helped her to break up with me. Then they started dating after about a month | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (36 M) girlfriend (22 F) doesn't want to have sex anymore.
POST: Last time we had sex was in November. She was preparing for final exams so we slowed down a bit. Then we went seeing our families during the holidays. Our schedules clashed until she started her classes in January. She's not into it anymore. I don't know why. I try my best but its not working. there's always an excuse like "I have to study, I have a headache, I just ate, I have to wake up early tomorrow, et | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] have been on 3 dates with a girl [20F], we seemed to be getting along really well, but now she has stopped talking to me
POST: This is probably a typical question, but i dont have a whole lot of dating experience so I'm kind of in the dark at the moment.
I've been on three dates with this girl, we get along really well, and she has displayed quite a lot of affection towards me. Our latest date was particularly good. Near its end she asked me when she was going to | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO told me I'm not his type physically...
POST: My boyfriend of a few months (22 M) told me (20 F) early on when we first starting hooking up that I'm not his type, but I'm still cute. He's super into tiny asian girls and although I'm half asian, I have a pretty large frame and a sort of stocky build. I've always been self-conscious about this and have always worried with past boyfriends if they were turned off by it, but he's the first to actually say so.
I didn't giv | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need help with some philosophy questions here.
POST: My philosophy teacher has recently placed some questions that I found difficult to comprehend. I'm not asking for the answer, but if someone could maybe simplify and help me to understand the questions at hand, that would be greatly appreciated. Here are the two questions **1** What is wrong with this premise: you cannot force your values upon other people? Would this conclusion, "You cannot tell me whether or not I can live | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My family is splitting up and I [18F] am really worried about my mom [55F] who has depression
POST: This might be a dumb question but I would be thankful for your suggestions.
My mom has always been the glue that's held my whole family together (it's her, me, my little sister, and my dad).
She loves us all a lot and the concept of family is very important to her. Her and my sister are like best friends, they have really similar personalities (both extroverts) and they re | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/M] with my Mom [59/F] She tries to talk to me too damn much.
POST: I love my mom. Shes basically the only family I have. However this lady has no problem texting and emailing me literally all day. She just emailed me. I didn't respond, but by the time I had read it, I looked down and she was texting me. She texts me more than ANY girlfriend or fuck buddy I have EVER had. IT IS PISSING ME OFF MORE THAN ANYTHING!!!!! I have literally asked her to stop texting me until | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [15/M] I'm in a sort of relationship limbo with a girl (15/F), need advice on what to do
POST: So a few months ago, a girl that I had had a flame for for about a year told me she was interested in me. Normally I'm ok with getting into relationships, but the problem with her is that her parents are incredibly strict on her dating. So for the past few months we've talked more, and gotten to know each other, but have never acted on any feelings. I'm completely fine with | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: It's been a while since my last first date, so I need a quick advice here...
POST: I am 23, she is 20. Met out of random, since she was at work that same day we texted like animals (?) all day, and then she suggested to go for a late night walk. We did and we both had a lot of fun. She sent all the signals, which I caught and she was the one asking me what did I think of all this. She said that she is super intrigued and definitely wants to see me again. The lovely first da | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I think my dad is proposing to his girlfriend only because my boyfriend wants to propose to me
POST: A little background; my boyfriend and I started dating last April and at first the relationship started out long distance. He was in Florida, and I was in Vermont. He moved to Fort Bragg with his brother and once a month we'd visit each other. In an attempt to promise a future together, my boyfriend decided to enlist in the military. We're madly in love, and luckily we had a gr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Having trouble dealing with my girlfriend's past. Advice needed.
POST: Hello everyone. New to r/relationships and looking for some advice.
Will try to keep it as short as possible.
Recently, me and a girl who used to be my best friend became boyfriend and girlfriend after a few months of dating. We were best friends for about a year and then in a drunken haze we ended up hooking up, enjoyed it, kept it going until it eventually turned to something with real feelings and w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Why am I realizing this now?
POST: Today I went to a friend's (let's call her Katy, 21) concert. I was very excited to hear her play since I had never heard her before. When she got done I was excited to see her in the lobby, where everyone meets after a recital. When I got there, she was happy to see me and we talked for a little while. All of a sudden I noticed a mutual friend (let's call him Bill, 21) come up to us and, without another word, she runs up to him.
I've known | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (cont.) Me [17 F] with my Ex-Internet BF [18 M] Yesterday was threatening to post *pictures* of me online, has done so once shortly ago (claims it was not him, used a different FB account)
POST: [This is a continuation from yesterday](
Still the new Boyfriend talking. Girlfriend does not have a reddit.
Yesterday he was threatening to post nude photos of her (she is a minor) to various places after breaking up. One leaked out and ended up on her personal art alias page on | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Crush (22/F) recently broke-up. I'm (22/M) trying to figure out the best way to ask her out.
POST: So I've had a year long crush on one of my friends. We had a nice vibe going on but I ended up never asking her out before I left to study abroad for six-months and she ended up in what would be a 10-month long-distance relationship shortly before I left.
Since I returned we still talk and hang out sometimes but it hasn't felt the same as before. I still like her but have tr | negative |