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SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: n00b to Vancouver.
POST: Hey Guys/Girls, I just moved to Van, as in Yesterday. I really don't know anyone or anything about Vancouver, except that I have a feeling I'm using the skytrain wrong.
Any who a 'lil about myself: I am originally from Toronto, but spent the last 8 months in Victoria. In school I took Existential Philosophy at the University level, and Computer Systems Technician at the college level. That and I have studied the dramatic arts independently at Second City an | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] have fallen head over heels for my bf [27 M] 3 months, is it too soon to drop the love bomb?
POST: Throw away account, don't want anyone to recognize me
So this is pretty self explanatory. I met him 5 years ago, we hit is off really well. Nothing ever happened because life. We talk very little over the years, we reconnect when we're both single and the sparks fly. We connect really well on every level, and I am crazy about him. I've almost let 'i love you" slip ou | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (26F) am in love with my best friend (27M) and I don't know how he really feels
POST: I'm in love with my best friend. For the past 4 years he has been everything to me. It started when he gave me a place to stay when my marriage ended. One night we ended up having sex. And then another night and another. He termed us monogamous friends with benefits. If either of us wanted to sleep with someone else we would just tel the other.
A few months later I told him I was in lo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Serious question: In real life, can a woman make a grand gesture to fight for her ex without seeming crazy?
POST: I know the real world isn't like the movies, but seriously most people wish it was because then you would know the person you love would hold a boom box outside of your window. In most romantic comedies it's the boy who makes the ultimate gesture. Yes, there are some plots that have the woman making the effort, but usually it's men.
So in real life, I know so | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: He doesn't 'know what he wants' and I just want the relationship to work. What can I do?
POST: We're both SAPs and haven't made the relationship public yet. I think that hurt him. I have a tendency to shrink away from confronting people so the idea of a bunch of acquaintances asking about my first relationship wasn't pleasant. But when I offered to 'speed things up' relationship wise he said "No".
When I ask he whether or not he still wants this relationship, he te | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22 m] have been talking to a woman online [29]
POST: Hi,
A few weeks ago I received an email from someone called Rachel. It looked dodgy, but was intrigued so replied with something menial. She then replied saying who she was (a Russian girl) and a bit about herself, with some pics.
I replied properly and we've exchanged a couple emails since, with some pics of ourselves, pets, family, etc. I don't know if I just have trust issues, but would like some advice on | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] having a really difficult time moving on from ex [27m]
POST: My ex and I only dated for a few months but we were very much in love and serious about the future. Or, so I thought. He constantly showered me with affection - telling me I am his dream woman and how much he loved me. During the relationship I became extremely depressed (not because of him) and some things I said somehow triggered his insecurities (he has been cheated on in both of his LTR and he feels l | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Roommates (32 F, 27 M) in 3 year relationship get in volatile arguments daily
POST: When I moved in to this house it was pretty mellow, but over the years it's gotten worse. The walls of our house are thin & I hear everything. Often it occurs first thing in the morning and wakes me well before my alarm. There is much shouting, door slamming, crying & whining. Sometimes it's about the laundry, or the groceries, or sharing a ride to work. Sometimes it's about drinking. (F: If | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] feel stupidly insecure with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 months
POST: I met my current girlfriend online around 6 months ago when another one of our online friends was going through some problems. I first started a conversation with her by asking her to help out our mutual friend and from there on we starting hitting it off, talking about our problems, interests, and just anything in life.
We officially began dating 2 months ago and I went to visit her in another cou | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my ex [26F] who I haven't spoken to in 3 years is getting married. We dated for 3 years and then off and on 5 years prior to that. Is it appropriate to express some sort of congratulations?
POST: She broke up with me though it was mutual. We wanted very different things and I am still not the person who is ready to get married. Since breaking up we haven't seen each other but talked on the phone about 3 times around 3 years ago. I don't know what I expect. Pro | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by loudly singing "Dick in a box" while I ran.
POST: So I was running to the gym like I usually do, and on the way I had my Nike+ app turned on and my headphones in and I was jamming. As I was running down one road to get off base, there's another path that curves around some foliage that makes it impossible to see other people walking. Be that as it may, I had no shame to sing along to one of my favorite songs by the Lonely Island, "Dick in a box".
As I'm running down this ro | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How likely/ difficult is it to stay in a relationship after both going separate ways after college?
POST: After graduation, I'm [17F] leaving for college that is about 5 hours away. My boyfriend [18M] is staying here to get some classes done at a community college. Whenever the topic of anything slightly college related comes up he just gets upset and shuts me out because he's afraid of losing me.
We've been together for about a year and I've never felt this connection wit | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[18/M] like a friend[18F], but it's awkward/odd
POST: I have been classmates with this girl for 6-7 months now. We are friends, kind of anyway. We almost exclusively communicate by phone outside of group projes, which are fairly frequent in my school, although we are not always in the same group.
We share a number of hobbies, and get along just fine. The problem is, a few months ago, because I was having my own issues, I inadvertedly latched onto her. Basically, I was ove | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my SO [24F] of almost 2 years, she misses me like crazy when I'm not around and if it's only a short time its not a big deal to me.
POST: This is pretty simple, but I'm looking for some outside perspective to make sure neither of us is nuts. My SO and I get along great. I'm a grad student, she works full time in a job that requires strange hours at times. On occasion, the two line up poorly and we don't get to see much of one another for a few days.
We are g | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I not to get friend-zoned here?
POST: Every Redditor (men for sure, women?) hates getting friend-zoned. This might as well be part of some initiation to the site. Now, Reddit help me.
I'm hanging out with this girl I know from playing co-ed flag football. She was the MVP, they have a lot of rules to make sure girls get involved and she did awesome. We didn't really get to talk, besides the occasional high-five or good job. Then she got a bruised rib after a guy fell on | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [22M] wish my ex [23F] a happy birthday?
POST: It's been a year and a half since my ex of 3 years ended our on/off relationship. She broke up with me after 6 months, came back, then stayed for another 2+ years and left again. Both times she left to pursue someone else. Most recently she dumped me to date her friend's brother. (who dumped her after a month)
She's had many boyfriends after him (at least 3), but to this point none have lasted as long as me. She's ask | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] with my weird best friend with benefits [20F] who is my best friend but we occasionally do things?
POST: There's this girl, and she's my best friend and occasionaly when we are both drunk (which is often, were college students) sometimes things happen.
Pretty sure she is not interested in me in any way other than being friends and me occasionally getting her off. which sucks kinda but whatever. it was a pretty sweet deal for a while.
I'm pretty crazy about her, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/m] my girlfriend (21/f) is acting weird the past week and I need advice.
POST: So we been seeing each other for 2 months now ( I know its not very long) but we have an understanding that hasn't been there in my previous relationships. For the past 4 years all I have cared about is just having sex with someone and that is it. But this girl has made me feel "giddy" again. I want to do all the romantic things that i used to do. But I dont want to annoy her and become | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: How do I actually start going to the gym?! [Discussion]
POST: About a month ago I purchased a $60 gym membership with the thought in mind that actually buying one would motivate me to go... stupid mistake. In that month-long period I've been to the gym a total of 3 times - I pretty much wasted $60 and now I have realized that I am completely mistaken as to what motivates me to exercise. I'm a first year university student, so exercise is pretty scarce other than those 3 trip | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: A friend that likes a girl that likes me
POST: Before I give some background information about the subject, I would like for you guys to know something about myself. I am in highschool and I am a sociopath (this can explain my thought process to some degrees). Basically how the situation started out was my friend, that I've known for around a year, told me about this girl that he likes and at first I was like sure whatever dude. The relationship between this girl and me were prett | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: You are stranded in the Gulf of Mexico. What do you do?
POST: You're on a chartered cruise ship in the middle of the Gulf of Mexico when the engine blows. Due to explosive materials nearby, it creates a giant rip in the ship's bottom and it starts to sink. A necessary fuse box is hit and all power on the ship has given out included the radio transmitter and receiver (they probably run on their own battery just in case, but let's just say for the sake of the story) Everyone i | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24 M] "girlfriend" [21 F] of ~4 months suddenly ignoring me?
POST: When we first met, I immediately liked her. She was the one who approached me, and initiated hanging out. At first things were really great, but I knew something was up from the very start. I noticed certain things and how she would act that lead me to think there was some sort of sexual abuse in her past. Things like seeking attention from males, but having no interest in following through. Other tim | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: We have becoming 'exclusive', she calls me 'her boyfriend', but the word "relationship" freaks her out. Am I missing something here?
POST: Ages: both 26
About a month ago, we started going on dates. About 1.5 weeks ago, we became exclusive. Meaning, only seeing eachother. She refers to me as her boyfriend. This was a little fast for me, but it's all good for now.
The other day, when I casually mentioned something about "this relationship", she wigged out a little and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F20] and my SO [M20] are looking to get married but are having trouble with his Mother
POST: My SO Has joined the airforce and we are planning to get married before he gets shipped to bootcamp at the end of the year. We are looking to elope in Punta Cana to have a very intimate ceremony as opposed to if we had something in the states. We would have to invite too many people and it's not something we both want.
Now the problem is my future MIL. She hasn't had a job or | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by walking into a woman's breast
POST: I was out. Walking. It was crowded. I was going down the street when a mother stopped in the middle of the block to pick her kid up, I was walking right behind them and had to do some Reggie Bush shit to make sure I didn't topple over them. So now I'm on the end of the sidewalk, and trying to maneuver my way out of a crowd. A woman and her boyfriend walk right past me, and my only way out is to walk between them. So I do. And they don't st | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Changed so much in previous relationship, need help getting back there
POST: So I (20F) broke up with my SO (19M) in January after just over a year. Not my longest relationship but definitely my most intense, and it came at a time where I was really vulnerable. Before him I was a party animal, confident and a hard worker but had moved away from my family to study. During and after the ending of the relationship I felt lonely, isolated, I was needy and depressed. I'm literal | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by going to sleep too early
POST: Actually this happened nearly a year ago while I was camping with a friend of mine. Btw I am a 20 year old male and English is not my native language.
After coming back from a canoe trip we decided to grill some steaks and drink some beers. In the middle of the we decided to go to sleep, so we put our campfire out and took the beer into one of our tents.
We went in our separated tents and I slept directly.
Suddenly I wake up in the middle of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Guy [29M] that I [26F] was recently seeing is friends with new guy [25M] I just started talking to.
POST: I'm still not entirely over the original guy. We went out a bunch and had plenty of great sex. Things seemed to be getting more serious (we had *the conversation*) but then he completely threw me for a loop and said he was kinda seeing someone else. I'm still not over him, but I know i need to keep my chin up and get back out there.
I matched with a new guy through an | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: asking males: my boyfriend [m19] thinks that it would be difficult for him to not have sex with other women for a month while I'm [f19] gone.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and a half and we're long distance. I dislike the idea of an open relationship but I told him we could have one if we're ever apart for a long period of time since we're both still young. He says that when he moves to the city it would be hard for him to not be with other | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by squating in front of my 1yo labrador
POST: Hi guys. So this happened just a few minutes ago. If you are part of the /r/fitness community, you know by heart that there are three major movements that can help you progress namely deadlift, bench press and squat. Out of the three, squat is the far most effective compound movement for them gains. Being a fitness newbie, I still have a long way to go on squats because of my shit poor ankle flexibility. What do I do to improve on t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] have been together with my girlfriend [20F] for 3 years but I am attracted to a new girl [20F] at school.
POST: My current girlfriend is very caring and supportive, the last 3 years have been good. We rarely fight and we're both on very good terms with each other's family. However, starting 2 months ago, I've lost interest in her and our relationship. Because of our different studies in school we don't see each other except on the weekends. But even when we spend ti | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: SO (22M) is obsessed with a video game and I (21F) don't know what to do.
POST: My SO and I have been going out around 3 years and I've always known he's an avid gamer. I've never had an issue with it, I game too. Though lately he is completely consumed with LoL (League of Legends) because he got to Platinum ranking just before season 2 ended afterward he started to lose A LOT and lost over 300 Elo. He really wants to be a pro so this really upsets him. He wants to be back | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Best Guitar For Me?
POST: Its nearing Christmas and my dad agreed to buy me a guitar. I have an acoustic guitar and ive been playing it for around 2 years. I can play finger-style well and i'm not a beginner. I was thinking of getting an electric guitar because i really wanted to start playing some rock and jazz and stuff.
So my question is what would be a good guitar for a beginner electric guitarist? I was thinking of playing songs like: [this] I love the solo and the overa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22/F] boyfriend [25/M] of over a year has been texting an old friend about getting together with her.
POST: So today I met up with my boyfriend to have dinner at his place. He bought me a huge bunch of roses and spent a long while preparing dinner (something he doesn't usually do). Anyway, something felt a bit strange, so I checked his phone after he fell asleep.
He'd been messaging with a friend of his from many years back. She had just broken up with her long term bo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] still have feelings for my exgirlfriend [21F] 4 months after break up.
POST: I was in my last year of University and it was the summer before the term began that i met her and fell in love with her. After two months of dating we decided to become a couple in a long distance relationship across borders. (She being in Norway, me being in the UK studying) It all was fine the first few months until about Christmas.
She started in a new job and quickly became close to | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23F] boyfriend [24M] had a very childish reaction to me during sex
POST: I have been with Evan for about five/six months.
The other day, I bought a new fuzzy black sweater. I was wearing it around all day, over a tank top. Later that night I go to Evan's place and we start fooling around, etc.
At one point in the middle of sex, after the sweater had been removed, I remember lifting my arms up above my head. Evan JUMPS BACK off of me (it seriously felt like something | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32 M] feel like leaving my wife[32 F] for no reason. Together 10 years, hate these feelings, help.
POST: I have been with my wife for 10+ years, dating for most of that time, married for a few years. No kids, if it matters. In the last year or so I keep having these intrusive thoughts about leaving. I don't know where they're coming from or how to make them go away.
I don't understand where this is coming from. Our relationship is generally good. Things aren't perf | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: We broke the terms on a lease for an apartment and have ten day notice. Will this affect my credit?
POST: I live with my sister in an apartment. Recently shes helping her friends by staying at our house until we can all find a house to rent to live in. Hiding them is easy enough, but the problem was the dog that they brought with them. Tried hiding her but alas the dog was discovered. The landlord just gave us a ten day notice a couple days ago telling us to move out. Our | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: The Animal Rescue Site Shelter Challenge [X-post from r/rescuedogs]
POST: The Animal Rescue Site is holding a "shelter challenge," providing shelters across the world the chance to win money for their kennel/shelter/rescue/etc.
I know that there are homeless dogs all over the world who deserve to find loving homes, but I came here to ask if you could vote for my local county dog pound. It is a very small facility and can only hold about 15 dogs on a nice day (A few of the kennels a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wife (27f) and I (30m) disagreeing on home purchase.
POST: Please excuse typos. I'm on mobile.
My wife and I are in the market to buy a house. We found a great house that we both loved but it had one defect that was a deal breaker for me but not for her. Without saying what it is - this is not a deal breaker I'm willing to compromise with for such a major purchase.
My wife is now extremely upset and feels like her opinion doesn't matter. She feels like I made the decisio | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend [21M] ditched me after a party?
POST: We have been together for two years. We do not live together. Yesterday was his birthday. I brought him over a cake and got him a present and we had amazing sex. Afterwards, his best friend John called him and asked him if we wanted to go to some house party with him and his girlfriend Sam. We agreed. I really am not a fan of parties. I'd rather casually drink and smoke in a small group than bustle around in a house p | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Lack the heart to make up my mind.
POST: 20 year old male here.
Back story:
3 years ago asked I out the girl of my dreams(first relationship). Lets call her M. She was great in every way. M helped me through many problems and I can safely say that she is the reason I am alive today. This lasts a year when she suddenly breaks up with me. Says she wants to be friends. I agree to be friends. This goes on for a year and a half before she just stops talking to me (she got a new | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My friend OD-ed on the weekend and I feel like I've failed as a friend.
POST: Okay, so I've never really posted anything like this before and this could all end up as ramblings but here goes.
So, I'm currently 18 and have just started university this year and just like everybody else who leaves highschool I kind of drifted away from a lot of my friends. One of these friends happened to be my best friend of 6 years who I do still keep in contact with but have sort of distanced m | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: One of my best friends is making me feel guilty
POST: Long story short. One of my best friend's aunt owns a beach house in our area. My friend thought it would be a great idea for her and her bf, me and my bf, and her friend and her bf (these last two I don't know) to go there and spend Valentines day weekend together.
I wasn't very comfortable with the idea, for 3 main reasons.
1. It's Valentine's day weekend. Valentines day is for couples, not friends.
2. The o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel like my boyfriend of 4 years doesn't care about our relationship due to the fact that he is pre med. Am I just being crazy?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and for the most part it's been great. Recently we started going to the same university so I'm able to see him a bit more than before. He's going to school to become an ER surgeon and has always been extremely serious about studying and getting good grades, which I'm very understanding of. He | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO of 6 years [26M] got upset when I [23F] brought up showering habits to another man.
POST: He was listening in while I was on xbox live with a couple of friends tonight and he was asleep. I didn't find out about this until a few hours later when he came out in a bad mood and I pressed him about it.
The context of the conversation: Friend A had disappeared to take a shower. Friend A often makes us wait for 30 minutes at a time on him, and friend B joined the chat.
Me: | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23F] tinder friend [29M] of one month is giving me weird vibes
POST: So I started on tinder at the advice of a friend, and immediately hit it off with this guy—I will call him Brian for the purpose of this post (not his real name).
So Brian really seems to like me and I like him, we talk about meeting but both are away for about two weeks so we put it off until we both return.
While we're both away we continue to text. He gets drunk on vacation and when I fall asleep | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Am I taking advantage or stringing this girl along?
POST: I [20 M] met a girl on tinder [19 F]. My opening line was a cheesy, dirty, funny pick up line when we matched that i'm sure some of you have heard before. So I assumed my intentions were pretty clear right off the bat.
We actually met the night we matched. I told her the truth, that I was new to town and was just trying to meet new people. We hooked up that night.
She's been messaging me a lot lately and it has be | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am [26 M] with my wife [24 F] of 3 years. We're going into a cold patch.
POST: I'm never very good with typing out my thoughts, so I'll try to make it as simple as possible.
For the majority of time we've spent together, I've basically provided for her. And during the course of our relationship, she has discontinued her education and work. She has also gained weight. The weight gain has also decreased her libido and self esteem, which furthered her policy of isolation wi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Need help with how to handle my mom
POST: So, I have alot of problems with my mom lately. No matter what I do, she screams at me on a daily basis over the smallest things, and it gives me terrible anxiety and depression. Any time I try to bring this up with her she just yells at me more and says I'm being disrespectful. I try to sound nice and respectful, I just want to understand why she yells at me so much.
She'll tell me to do something like clean my room, and when I do it'll | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] planning to ask my crush [24 F] out but found out she's crushing another guy
POST: Ive been texting this girl and hanging out with mutual friends for the past few months. We've known each other for about three years. Ive always thought she was a really great girl, although I was in a another relationship when we met. We never really talked much while I was attached, but we had a few interactions and many similar interests.
My previous relationship was already ro | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [21 M] am going on a date with this cute girl [19 F]. Is kissing on the first date a good thing or a bad thing?
POST: I'm going on a first date with this girl I met last semester in a math class. We talked a bit then and I saw her recently so I asked her on a date. She said yes and we are both pretty excited.
The last time I went on a first date I kissed the girl at the end, twice. Things didn't work out but we are still friends.
I'm not sure if I should kiss this | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Ex girlfriend [18F] is sending nudes to one of my [18M] best friends [22M]
POST: The title pretty much says it all. One of my closest mates let me know that she's been sending him lewd pictures without him doing anything to even be misconstrued as flirting or asking for them. In his typical awkward fashion he just sent memes in return, but she didn't stop.
She'll be visiting in a few weeks to hang out and drink with everyone of our mutual friends. Our college dorm is q | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Do you go cold NC or let your ex know why you're in NC. (You want to get your ex back)
POST: So i've been really struggling lately. My ex gf of 4 yrs and I are talking again after being done for 3 weeks. I maintained NC for two weeks straight and had no intention of speaking to her again. Two weeks in and she txt me asking if I needed a $5 lock that she had found in the back of her car.
Long story short it opened up a line of communication where she read my parting | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by talking my boyfriend into sending me a dick pic.
POST: Here's some background: boyfriend just got a new phone, and consequentially has a Snapchat account for the first time. He's not good with technology at all.
So today I was bored at work, and since my boyfriend just got his first snapchat account yesterday, decided to ask him for a dick pic.
I was distracted by a customer for a couple minutes, then turned back to my phone to see the following two texts: "Are you seriou | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(20) bf(19) just wants friendship and nothing more with me.
POST: hello all! tonight while trying to initiate sex my bf told me he had been meaning to talk to me about what has been on his mind, we had been in a relationship for almost five years and i know hes the one but he feels far from that, he told me that he loves me to death but ONLY and strictly wants a friendship with me , no sex no nothing just friendship. and hes been feeling like this for a while no matter ho | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25M) bf (23M) angered me, I pushed him, now he's afraid
POST: I (25M) am with my bf (23M) for almost two years now.
We had 3 of my friends over (who tend to stay for the night without even asking anymore, which seems to bother my bf). Also, I'm recently taking an antidepressant that makes me more active, and as a side effect I'm getting angry much faster.
So, he had 4 beers this night. I already wanted to go to sleep, but he was still sitting there joking and watchin | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My husband (30m) confessed to cheating in start of our relationship and sliced his wrists as an "apology"
POST: My head is spinning and I don't know who to turn to. My husband of a year and a half cheated on me about five months into our relationship. I found out when the other woman came out of nowhere and started texting him. The way he acted weird about it made me dig and question him until he admitted they had a month long fling.
I was upset clearly and started | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] found out my GF[20F] of 20 months, cheated on her previous BF
POST: I found out from a mutual friend she cheated on her previous bf about a month after she turned 18. They were dating for a month and a half. He went off the radar for 3 weeks and kept bailing on her (drug use) so she cheated on him with another man.
I have no reason to suspect she has cheated on me, however I have an anxiety and keep hearing "once a cheater always a cheater". I can't seem to shake | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girl is cheating on her boyfriend with me
POST: This girl is cheating on her boyfriend with me from time to time. It has been going on for maybe three weeks with one instance of sex and the rest mostly kissing and feeling up, along with spending time together.
I am obviously attracted physically but am unsure about mentally/emotionally because I have only known her when she is with someone else. She has been with this other guy for a while and says that there is nothing wrong | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F23) think my SO (M29) may be kind of friendzoning me...
POST: I know the title may sound weird, but it kind of is like I'm feeling lately... Half a year lately...
I've been with my BF for almost 2 years now, and the first 2 or 3 months had been great, especially since it's my first partner ever...
Before meeting me, he had rough times with his ex-gf, now I think he hadn't been fully over her for the first half year of our relationship. After these idyllic 2-3 months o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I believe my SO is done with his virtual cheating?
POST: I'm 24, Female. This weekend, I discovered my SO, 28 male, had an active dating site account for the majority of our year long relationship. In January of this year, I asked him to take his account down. Saturday, I discovered it was down for one month, then back up again for the past seven.
He has been somewhat activley messaging women and getting banter going, telling them how attractive they are, and then | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [20M] and I [20F] are in an LDR, looking to open the relationship. Advice appreciated! (x-post from r/nonmonogamy)
POST: My boyfriend and I have always had really open conversations about sexuality, desire, and experience. We've had a monogamous relationship.
He's away working in europe until Jan 2017. So far our communication and handling of the LDR has been really successful. The lack of physicality has started getting us talking about opening a relationship | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] Him[22 M] Shall I ask him on a date?
POST: So basically we met via social media site over a year ago now he randomly saw me shopping in the store he worked at and messaged me saying hey i recognise you. We got talking some more, exchanged numbers and he invited me to come back again and get discount and we spoke for hours whilst he was working.
I feel like we are getting closer now, like he spoke about some of the issues hes been having lately, but I cannot direct | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My best friend dated my ex girlfriend, advice?
POST: Background story:
So me and this girl dated, lets call her X, for 3 years throughout highschool and into my first 2 years of college. She went to college the year after I did and put stress on the relationship and all that kinda stuff. Anyway we get into a lot of arguments, took a break and she ended up breaking up with me after I told her we should try to work through it. I found out through my best friend, lets call him A, tha | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (xpost from /r/relationships) SO and I are thinking about setting up a fund for student loans in lieu of traditional wedding registry. Thoughts?
POST: Hey, PF. This is a cross-post from /r/relationships. I'm curious if any other financially minded people have ever heard of this, done this, or what their thoughts are.
My SO and I have been discussing wedding plans for some time, and are trying to figure out how we want to go about things. We have a combined household alre | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Part of me wants to go back to my hometown for community college and part of me says stay in the city and attend university. Am I making a mistake?
POST: I'm 19, and middle class but by no means "rich". I'm currently attending a state university (nothing prestigious) and currently majoring in engineering. I haven't found a job in the city but have been pulling my weight in school and I would say doing great considering I don't have a job.
Part of me wants to go back to my hometown | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M23/F23] What should I do with my relationship, I think it is going downhill.?
POST: dk where to start, but I think I would try my best to put everything out so you guys can have the better picture. First of all, thank you for taking your time to read my story, I am really appreciate it. I am not native english speaker, so there would be some grammatical errors, please bear it with me, though I would try my best to express myself clearly. Also, we both from Asian family an | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: [HELP] 315 and need advice.
POST: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By Rushing a Preflight Walk Around
POST: Well this actually happened last summer. I'm a flight student and, at the time, was training for my commercial pilot license. I got onto the ramp and to the airplane a little late and my instructor would be there soon. I did a quick walk-around and hurried back inside the plane to get the current weather information and a clearance. Well my instructor showed up and we started the plane up and went to the runway. I got my takeoff cle | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Help! I'm officiating my younger sister's wedding, but we are both humanists!
POST: Backstory:
I'm 30 and my sister is 27. This is her first marriage and we are both non-religious. She was actually married 2 years ago at a court house and since then has wanted to do a "ceremonial" wedding involving the friends and family whom could not attend her magistrate paper signing. She has asked that I do the ceremony (she was the best "man" in my wedding). I am incredible honored and | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [21M] of 1.5 years, I asked another guy to go for coffee when my boyfriend and I broke up, and now I'm feeling really guilty about it.
POST: Hey guys. My boyfriend "Jake" and I had not been dating for very long, and he was going on a trip for four months, so he decided it would be easier if we just broke up. I was completely crushed and really angry. There was another guy, lets called him Ben, who I knew had a crush on me, and I asked if he would | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Please help me (26f) translate what guy (27m) has told me regarding our relationship...
POST: I started hooking up with a friend as a casual FWB situation, as both of us were kind of on the rebound. As he is a friend, I want to keep our relationship in check and make sure we can stay friends in the future (he tends to fall for girls very quickly and easily). Whenever he starts to get a little couple-y (gazing into my eyes with a goofy grin, hand-holding, yadda yadda), I've | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I would like to see if we could talk to get closure but I'm not sure.
POST: Long story short, I met this woman who was the daughter of the then secretary at my work. I worked up the courage to ask her out, we hit it off great and had like ninety percent of the same interests. Though as time went on it seemed she couldn't come up with any ideas on what to do and it was like she'd say something that she wanted to do but when we met up it seemed like I had to be the one | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] want to get back together with my ex [22F]. How bad of an idea is it, and how do I?
POST: So I posted a thread about a week ago saying my girlfriend was having issues, and I was looking for help on how to keep her during them. By the end of that day, she had already ended things. Now I want her back.
I've been told to give her time and space, and to let her work things out on her own time without the pressure of me trying to be in a relationship. I've gone a full | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my Girlfriend [25 F] a little over a year.
POST: Need some perspective on this situation. Well gf and i have been going out for a little over a year. For the most part really positive relationship we really enjoy each others company and love each other however the last couple of months have been a little rough (petty issues like 'likes' on instagram, jealousy, not making her feel special, etc..) So she decided to break up because it was just to much to handle | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question..
POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for ventilation. They've got child bars, but because Luna is so small she can easily fit through them--and did a few moments ago. Nearly gave me a heart attack watching her slip through them and wa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: 2.5 yr old Plott Hound rescue bit my son; I lost it and hit the dog; I feel terrible. What next?
POST: We adopted a 2.5 yr old Plott Hound in December. He's been very sweet with our two sons (12 and 8) the whole time. Tonight he was eating leftovers off the kitchen counter and when my 8 year old intervened he bit him on the hand. It didn't break the skin but there are teeth marks and red welts. When I ran into the kitchen my son was crying and when the dog made a move toward | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my best friend [26 M] ten years, We've always liked each other and now we are both in a situation to be together, but he's hesitant.
POST: So yeah, he's been my friend for so long and I've always had a thing for him and he's always had a thing for me. We had a brief falling out five years ago and shortly after that he started dating someone else, and then I started dating someone too.
We became friends again and it was nice.
So in the summer he split up wi | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (18m) Parents (40) are INSANE and I am at an absolute loss of what to do.
POST: My (18m) Parents (40) are control freaks. Which I know you probably think Im some angsty punk but I legitimately think its too a point that its insane.
More Background
My parents have always ruled my house with a firm grip, and like a sheep I have always followed and obeyed. I wasnt allowed out past midnight, I had to check in every hour. No being alone with girls, the list of rules go on a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Weekend rental house changed terms of contract, won't offer refund of deposit
POST: Hello,
I would greatly appreciate some advice on this matter. This is happening in central TX. I booked a house for a birthday party using one of those popular websites like homeaway, vrbo, etc. In our conversation with the property manager we clearly stated it was a party and would have many guests over and he said, "No problem. They neighbors may complain but they can't really do anything." | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [20/f] get past my trust issues with my soon-to-be fiance [21/m]
POST: We've been together for a year and a half, and been good friends for going on six years. I love him to death, he makes me happy, all that good stuff.
Here's my problem.
My past two relationships were very unhealthy and at times abusive. I was constantly cheated on, lied to, manipulated etc. It was a rough time, but I got out of it, took several months to get myself back together, and that's | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How to explain why I took two semesters off of grad school?
POST: So I found out today that I have a job interview tomorrow morning for one of my dream positions, in an ideal location, with a very abnormally high rate of pay. I am excited and scared. Why? Because I withdrew from classes in my graduate program last semester because I was constantly getting sick to the point where I couldn't possibly make the one hour commute to class every day and quickly found myself behind. I found | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18/F] unsure if guy [18/M] is interested or just "shopping" for girls
POST: Been a long time lurker on r/relationships so please excuse me if this doesn't properly belong here!
I have been in college for over a month so far, and just a few weeks ago met this guy who lives on my floor in my dorm (we have suites so floor are co-ed). I'll call him John. John and I met randomly and started hanging out (kinda). Since I have only really hung out with him for two weeks total | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My "best friend" doesn't give me the time of day, but occasionally does. This time I vented to her about a big problem of mine going on, and she proceeded to not text me back or answer my calls! I'm fed up with this. What should I do?
POST: My best friend is very confusing. She claims to think of me as that and always comes to me for her problems, but she only sometimes helps me with mine. Recently one came up and she asked me to explain so I take some time to write it all out | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Repost: Please answer, I am very anxious about possibly sending this guy to jail for 6 months.
POST: Hi Reddit.
I live in Oakland, CA. I like it here. But one month ago, I got mugged. They took my bag with phone/wallet/keys/awesome sunglasses. The good thing is, they weren't out to harm me so I'm okay. The other good thing is, my father was kind enough to make it all better by buying me an awesome phone.
I immediately installed an app called Look Out (Android users: it is fre | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF [18F] keeps spending money on weed but not on the important things (such as a birthday gift for me [18M])
POST: We have been together for about 2.5 years now. She's had pretty consistent retail jobs for a while. She had been good with gifts, always getting me nice things.
Especially within the last year, she has been using weed a lot. She gets pay check and then spends nearly all of it on weed. However, she always complains about not having money.
For my birthday, ou | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Post breakup event - need advice
POST: So this is a follow on from my other posts. Quick summary, me 34M, wife 32F have been officialy split up and living separately about 2 weeks now after an 8 year relationship.
There's an event on this weekend that everybody who's anybody will be attending. In happier times we were of course going together, but now I still plan on attending but going with a group of my buddies.
So what do I do if I see her? It's a big event so it might no | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't know if my past is real/all I want is to be drunk
POST: Okay. I've always had dreams/nightmares of someone touching me. Inappropriatey. Like since I was little. 20 years later, I still hate sleeping if I'm not alone, any kind of physical touch, and most men intimidate me. Can't tell if I'm just that messed up from that one event, imagined or otherwise, or if I'm transgender and my past is unrelated. I like to think I'm strong, but if I'm here typing this now I'm d | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Trying to raise money for Make-A-Wish Nebraska, will get a tattoo if we break $25,000
POST: Hello! I would have put this in /r/Assitance, but I'm not the one who needs help. I'm a comic book store owner trying to raise money to benefit Make-A-Wish Nebraska. We're selling door prize tickets to win a copy of Amazing Spider-Man #1 (value $4000). Last year, doing a similar event, we raised over $8000, which is great but I want to raise even more. Which is why this year I've agreed | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 22M dating 25F went on break for the summer now dating friend 23M want to suggest dating both of us
POST: Hi everyone, so I [22M] have been dating my SO [25F] for around 2.5 years. The relationship got into a bad spot at the end because of her depression and since she was going away for the summer, we decided to go on a break.
During the course of which I was supposed to date other people. About a month into the summer, she tells me she's dating someone else. A month late | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: A graduate with some options - not sure what to do
POST: Hello. I have just graduated my business degree in UK and started to look for jobs. it's going really slow as everything so far was a rejection. I didn't get my results yet so I have no idea what my degree classification is yet, but I do know that I was lazy during my time at university which might mean that it will not be great. I live with my mum and have a zero hour cotract job which allows me to sort of pick which jobs | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Never. Give. Up. (X-Post r/keto)
POST: When I was a Junior/Senior in high school I had a very unfortunate string of injuries that tore me down, ruined my bodybuilding/sports playing ventures, and ultimately crushed my spirit. I was a huge kid my whole life and I had lost 80lbs in my Soph/Junior year to get in shape/start bodybuilding. I then blew my ankle out, then my knee, then my shoulder, and the list just kept going. I gained weight. And gained and gained and gained. I went fr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I got questionable(?) advice from my bank about disputing my credit report
POST: First, I am admittedly ignorant about all things credit/finance/good sense. Please show mercy.
So I recently had a revelation about how important it is for me to work on my credit in order to be able to get a house within the next decade. My credit is dead in the water (684 avg) with all previous cards closed, some were delinquent, but all paid off. So, I talked to my bank to see if there w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (28/m) I just got out of an abusive relationship of 5 months with my now ex (28/f) how do I heal?
POST: I just ended a relationship with my ex of 5 months. Things were fun in the beginning, but then turned sour pretty quick. She would get pissed that I was with my friends. She would always guilt trip me in to things like buying her food, doing everything she wanted so on and so forth.
I broke it off yesterday, because I drew the line. She wanted me to move out of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my Girlriend [29 F] 3 years on and off, feel like I do everything I can to help her and get nothing in return.
POST: So like it says in the title I'm 20 m, with a 29 f partner of 3 years. We're on again off again, 2 separate, one week long breaks due to her crazy ex and one break of 5 months because I had lost my feelings for her.
The problem: I love this girl with all my heart, we've been through some tough stuff together and I could see myself with her fo | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [Ontario] What will happen to my student debt if I declare bankruptcy? Other consequences?
POST: Basically, by the end of my professional degree I will have accumulated $150,000 in student debt. This will compromise of $80,000 from OSAP, and $70,000 from an RBC professional line of credit. I know this is deplorable to think about, and yes, maybe I should have just worked in my hometown factory making yarn for the rest of my life. But I didn't. I foolishly believed (was taugh | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Land management company is withholding deposit
POST: [Ca]Last year I started living in a friends apt. while watching it. He moved out during the time, and i moved in. Everything was done legally, met with the land management guy, paid for a credit check, signed a new lease. There were several things that needed work in there, which i didn't really care about, namely was the carpet which was gross. Since I was already moved in during the walk-through, I didn't want to move | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My BF[22] is moving to New York and I[19F] have no idea what to do.
POST: So we've together for almost 2 years and it has been rough, but we made it through. Recently, we went through something tough and he wanted a break. I agreed, but wasn't happy about it.
I have asked for breaks in our relationship and he would never agree to it, so I stayed with him through out all my own and our troubles. Now he wants a break and it's his way or the highway.
We got into an argument | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] possibly having a 'rebound' crush on a [16 F]
POST: So for the last year I've liked this girl (girl A) at college but girl A has always told me she doesn't like me in that way but continued to 'flirt' with me. I struggled for a year on this and it once got so worse I cut my self to like try and tell her "your being too much, I can't cope with you but I really like you but don't want to upset you"; then met another girl (girl B) last week and ever since we've been | negative |