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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Don't be afraid of food like I was (a lesson learned)
POST: After loosing almost 15kg in around 6 months with the help of crossfit, I had developed a good idea of what I can and can't eat. I was afraid if I eat ice-cream, or a big bowl of pasta I would put on an insane amount of weight, ruining my weekly progress.
Well last weekend I was treated to an amazing trip to Geelong with my Boyfriend, and safe to say I ate a few 'no-no' foods because what they offer there isn't availabl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: When did you realize your sibling was an asshole?
POST: To start it off- I have a deadly fear of crickets.
This one day I plan to go to the park with my little group of friends and set up an old traditional picnic. I also brought in my brother, which later proves to be the worst mistake I've ever made, as much as I can remember. So, all of us have bought at least 8 ounces of food in those wooden baskets and so we go. When we arrived there, we set up the mat and the baskets and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] dating [22 F] but falling for her best friend [22 F], feeling like a full dirtbag.
POST: I hope to keep this short. A few weeks ago me and a friend met two girls at the bar, first impressions kind of led to who we spent the night talking to. I talked to A, my friend talked to B. A was cool and I wanted to get her know her better. Weeks later, we're unofficially seeing each other. However, my friend and B never worked out.
B thus remains single and typically hangs | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I can't get things together...
POST: I just can't get my shit together. The past couple of years I have struggled to gain respect from my peers, but I feel like I can't seem to bring anything respectable to the table. I'm intelligent but they view me as an idiot sometimes and I cannot stand it. I'm a cadet in ROTC but I'm just not good at it, and I can't seem to get the hang of ROTC life, even with 3 years in, and people in my class don't really respect me as a cadet. They lik | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 F Sophomore] was just asked out by a guy [?? M Senior] for a coffee date. This is my first date ever, and I could really use some advise.
POST: For a bit of background, in spring of my freshman year of college, I had a management class discussion group with a junior. Now it's fall of my Sophomore year of college, and I'm a TA of that very class. I just got a facebook message from him asking me out to coffee.
He said that he remembered my last name and looked me up on | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] can't stop feeling obsolete to my girlfriend [19 F]
POST: In short, I always feel obsolete to my girlfriend. She's more popular than I am, funnier than I am, more attractive than I am, and always manages to one-up me.
I have some blemishes on my ass, for example, where I was whipped by my mom when I was younger and now look like thumb nail sized zits. They're my biggest shame because of it and they're humiliating. She doesn't have a single blemish. She's already | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by drawing a historically accurate battlescene
POST: So this Fuckup actually happend a few years ago but i wanted to share it anyway. And sorry if my english is not the best, i'm not a native speaker.
As a boy growing up watching historic documentaries and war-themed movies, I imagined such scenarios and often drew pictures of them. Almost every boy, i think, played solidier as kid.. As i have no skill when it comes to drawing, my pictures are confined to basic 2D-Landscapes w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some creative ways to get the point across to my crazy neighbors that they are being loud assholes?
POST: To make a very long story short, I live in an apartment and the people across the hall from me frequently fight and yell. Myself and other neighbors have had to call the police many times in the last several months due to their insanity. Unfortunately, the woman who lives there usually lies and says they weren't fighting by the time the police show up. The polic | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] fear of losing my [19F] girlfriend because of my insecurity
POST: I've got a girlfriend for a couple of months now. I'm very happy and I believe she is the one. Before my current relationship I was in a relationship for about 6 years.
My current situation is as follows. We see each other almost every day. We call every day and miss each other like crazy when we are a part. I met her parents, she met mine, we're going on vacation together in a couple of weeks. I me | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by accidentally having leaked celebrity nudes projected on large screen at baby shower
POST: This actually happened over the weekend - I'm DJing my sister's baby shower, and we're having some technical difficulties with the projector, the screen going on and off for no reason. Suddenly, the projector decides to come back to life right as I accidentally press the windows button, and for those of you not familiar with windows 8, the start menu will conveniently have thumbnails of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me (24f) crushing hard on my friend's boyfriend (28m)
POST: I met my friend, let's call her Kay, about 4 years ago. We've cycled through times of hanging out a lot and times of hanging out sparsely, but we have a connection and I really care about her.
Recently she started dating a guy, let's call him Justin. Justin is a great catch. Handsome, intelligent, sweet, funny, wild, dreamy... Ugh! You see what I mean. Exactly my type, and I mean exactly.
The worst par | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [CT] Can an employer ask that an employee use vacation time that they haven't accrued yet?
POST: Last week, both the state and my office were officially closed due to inclimate weather. There was no way for most of my company to do any work at all. Legally, my place of employment can make salaried employees to take vacation time on these days. This is what my company did, along with the option to make up the hours over the weekend.
I understand that the law only requires that | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] have been seeing someone [23 F] for a few weeks and am confused on where it's going
POST: So a few weeks ago i started seeing a girl, and she is amazing. Our first date we talked for hours, went on a walk, kissed, all the great stuff.
The issue and the confusion I am having is our scheduling. It seems like hanging out with me isn't big to her, but when we do hang out we have alot of fun, we have hooked up a few times, and when we are together it is great.
But out | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [FL] Manipulative mother took money for a car but registered it in her name
POST: About two years ago my mother came up with the idea of her paying for a third of a car for me, with my dad paying another third, and myself paying the rest. She told us both that this would be my car, not hers, and that I could keep it to go to college.
After all of the money was collected, I asked to go buy the car with her then register it but she said that I had school and that she would do | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M/F] with my Ex [23 M/F], Okay, this hurts. :(
POST: Had amazing holiday romance with a guy I met online. I was swept off my feet. Nothing went wrong. Out of the blue, he tells me he's just not that into me that much anymore, and after 6 glorious weeks, he dumps me. I was devastated but took it well. I haven't contacted him since the breakup because I'm trying my best to get over him and not be that clingy ex-gf. I've accepted that we both had a good time and no regr | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my SO [23 M], together 4 years, need outside perspective on my drinking
POST: Hi Reddit, Please give me your honest opinion on whether or not I have a problem drinking. I acknowledge I had a problem in the past but I thought I was doing fine now.. not sure anymore.
1. In college, I drank A LOT more but decided to cut it down when I had numerous blackouts and also after my boyfriend got really upset with me for being unreasonable one night (completely my fault | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] need to know if this girl [17F] wants to go on a date
POST: This girl that I like throws around a lot of mixed signals. She always invites me to things such as going out to eat, going to the movies, yoga, etc. But she always brings her friend along with her. Her friend isn't at all interested in me but it's just sort of awkward sometimes. My friends have made it very clear in the past that I like her but she chooses just to ignore that fact and not make things awkw | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: New girlfriend says my buddy is hot?! Reason for concern?
POST: We've been together about 3 months I'm 27 she's 33. We were recently talking about a friend of mine (20yrs old male) being clingy which brought up if he had other friends which I told her he didn't then she proceeded to ask if he had a girlfriend which I also told her he didn't because he doesn't. Then She immediately replied 'well he isn't bad looking so I don't know why he doesn't have one'.
It kind of piss | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [27M] seems to outright lie about what he's doing
POST: I don't get why he does this or if it's even something to be worried about. My boyfriend and I recently went LDR and this issue's been happening since before we got together (about a year ago) but recently it's been getting really annoying.
Whenever he asks me what I'm doing, I'll tell him exactly what I'm doing - writing an email and to whom, helping someone over text and to whom, playing a game, c | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] and my ex boyfriend [20 M] are still ridiculously in love after 4 months of no contact.
POST: After a 7 month long relationship of what started to be absolute bliss and turned into continuous arguments, we broke up. We were living together and the situation made it impossible for both of us to grow or focus on anything other than each other. We broke up about 4 months ago and have been in no contact since. However, we're at a small college and we inevitably see eac | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M 16) really like her (F 18) and she says she likes me but I'm way out of her league
POST: So I'm in marching band (ha ha get the laughs over with). Our drum major (who is basically the leader of the entire ~160 people band is a girl by the name of (not really) Sarah. Sarah is gorgeous, smart, and very talented at what she does. Towards the beginning of the school year she asked me if I wanted to go see a movie so I thought "wow she's seriously got to be joking" but s | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girls of reddit. Can one of you explain why you would end a happy relationship because "something is missing"
POST: First of all, why can't you explain this missing thing. Is it some kind of ambiguous feeling that compels you to let someone go no matter how well things are working out?
Second, why is so much importance given to an elusive feeling that has no logical basis. For instance let's say you're with a stable, successful person who you claim to love very much, you seem | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [39 M] with my GF [28 F] of 2+ months, "L-word" now being used, overanalyzing a bit
POST: So last night after we had sex (like, the second or third time, I forgot) I was kind of staring at her, she asked what I was thinking. I said "oh, I'm having all sorts of thoughts of things to say, just don't feel like saying them right now."
She responded, "Oh really. Well, I can say them then - I'm falling in love with you." I told her that was what I was wanting to say too (whi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23F] more manipulative and temperamental than I'd like to be, and I want to be better for my boyfriend [24M]
POST: Just a fair warning that this is pretty vanilla. No signs of abuse, a LOT of communicating with each other (esp. with expressing our feelings after an argument), very happy in general.
My boyfriend (Kay) is one of the sweetest, most thoughtful people I know. He makes me want to better myself for both of our sakes. He's very even-tempered and straightforwa | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Help! Four month old kitten is peeing on my bed
POST: About two months ago my husband and I got a kitten. Everything has been going fine, except for my older cat being a little cranky about the new kitten, but a couple days ago she peed on the bed! I admit that the litter boxes(we have two) could have been cleaned more often, so we figured that was the problem. We have been a lot better about cleaning the litter boxes, they probably got cleaned at least once or twice a day. Thre | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit: This didn't show up last night. Should there be a situation you can walk out on a check?
POST: Here's the scenario. I was discussing this with a couple people at work the other day. If you go to a restaurant, and the server doesn't get you your check in a reasonable amount of time, should you be able to walk out on the check?
My experience that led me to this: I was in an Outback a few weeks ago. It took me 5 minutes to get a seat (no other people in the restaurant), | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20s M] with my GF [20 F] of 1 year, and I can't get past her tattoos.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for about a year, and I love more than anyone I ever have before. We get along really well, and never really fight. However, she has 5-7 tattoos, most of which she got in a short burst of time right before we got together, and they really bother me. It feels like such a shallow thing to think, but for some reason I can't stop thinking about how I don't like them. Whe | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (22m) get my girlfriend's (21f) confidence and self-esteem up?
POST: I've seen a lot of good advice on this subreddit, so hopefully you guys can help me out too.
I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 and a half years. I knew she had self-esteem issues from the start, but I hoped to remedy that problem after being with her for quite some time. She was an athlete in high school, weighing about 110-ish pounds, being 5'2". Now we're going into our final year of c | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Financially clueless husband [24M] always leaves me [27F] holding the bag to maintain his pride.
POST: My husband suffers from chronic depression. It is under control now and he is back at school and receiving student loans from the government, but for many years he had no job and I was the sole provider. Endebting myself and then paying off my debts, but never really being able to put money aside for more fun things.
The thing is, his computer broke down and his parents o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by 'sucking' at my job.
POST: A minor fuck up: I work in retail on the service desk, I have for five years. It's just a casual job while I study, and the shop I work at is generally rather relaxed - not in terms of our workload, but the attitude of the place - so I tend to have reasonable banter with my co-workers and managers throughout the shift.
As with most Australian banter, all we do is shit talk ourselves and each other. So I'm chatting with my manager as he walks pas | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: My car was hit by a city vehicle (Richmond, Va)...
POST: So, last thursday (1/8/15) my car was parked on the street and was struck by a city vehicle while I was at work. Police came to the scene and left the police report under my windshield. I contacted the company (Dominion resources) that day, and had my insurance company also try to contact them.
Neither of us heard back until Monday afternoon. Because this was 100% their fault i'm obviously going to put a claim in t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Girlfriend (18 f) has not called or written me (19 m) since she went away to National Guard school.
POST: Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. She left to finish the time she had left of highschool at this national guard program. When she left we decided go stay together and make it work.
When she left (3 months ago) she was gone all the way until thanksgiving. We talked on the phone on her call days and we also wrote each other. When she | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update on [23 M] med school applicant being cheated on my his 2 year LDR [21 F]. I'm no longer going to her.
POST: [Link to Original post](
So after to giving it a lot of thought, I've realized that my girlfriend wants to party and stay at her waitress job. She doesn't have the motivation that I do. I fell in love with who I thought she was, a woman who talked about getting married and having kids, while also keeping me stable through medical school. I do not love who she | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Advice
POST: Hello all, I've been a bad girl and have not really thought about my money before. I've always lived from paycheck to paycheck and never thought about what to do in the future, because there is really nothing left over.
To give you some background, yes, I have a college degree. I make under $30000 and am a perpetual renter. I don't have an extravagant lifestyle. My only debt is college and my car, combined less than $7000.
I don't go on shopping sprees. I do | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [26 M] mention it's been one month since our first date [24 F]?
POST: I have been dating a girl for one month. We met via Tinder and have seen each other ~10 times, and recently agreed on being exclusive. I had never dated anyone at all up until about a year ago (from a combination of being risk averse, social anxiety, etc...) I've been on plenty of dates since then but this is the first time something has lasted this long. I do realize 1 month is still a very shor | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Found our Venue! (And didn't have the reaction I thought I would)
POST: After much encouraging from all your lovely ladies we didn't give up and we found a venue that we LOVE! We took my mom and she loved it too so we knew it was it. We were able to get our date (Super Pi Day, 3.14.15... and I already changed my flair!) and we put down a deposit. When we got back in the car I was giddy and freaking out and giggling.
What I didn't expect was when my FH and I got alone- I | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 28/F dating a 29/M in the process of divorcing his wife, frustrated and wondering if it's worth it.
POST: I've been dating a man for about a month. I'd been friends with him for some time before, and it was well-known that he'd been deeply unhappy with his marriage for years (married 7 years, 2 young kids, as well as a stepson from his wife's previous relationship). He wanted to leave, but feared the impact it would have on his children. According to him, their relationship | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20f] hurt two guys [21m][24m] this past summer, don't know whether to apologize or let it go.
POST: This past summer I [20f] met two guys from Tinder. They are both [21m][24m] good friends and seem like decent people.
I could get into what I've done but basically I didn't know what I wanted, acted selfishly, was looking for things no one could give me, and hurt them. A friend since has pointed out I have no self esteem and in response, I've decided they were right and | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my BF [24M] 4-years, he accidentally played a voice note that I "wasn't supposed to hear".
POST: His voice notes are typically for things he's planning on doing/creating, he was showing me a bunch of him singing/humming different melodies when he opened one. It started with "The sound effect of a pokeball opening" and then he turned if off really quick and said to me "You weren't supposed to hear that."
Now IF IT'S WHAT I THINK IM THINKING, I'm pretty stoked. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] confused by [21F] after she said no
POST: I had fallen for a girl who i got to know at our part time job. I thought i really connected well with this person so why not ask her out.
She was the first girl i asked out sober.
So to my anxiety filled ask out attempt she said "i'm not looking for a relationship right now".
Which at first i thought i would be okay with[rejection], but when ever i saw her, it felt like someone punched you in the gut, so i avoided her | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Ex-girlfriend is visiting, afterwards leaving for a long trip, should I talk to her?
POST: Hi Hivemind,
I have a problem, and I need opinion of a someone smarter than I am in relationships issues.
So my exgirlfriend is visiting my city, and she asked for a place to stay for a weekend, on Sunday she is living to US, for couple of months.
I gave her my apartment, and I found an excuse to excape to my officec for a weekend, so I won't be forced to see her. My initial p | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my [20 F] roommates, just started seeing one (~3 weeks) and we want the other to leave us alone sometimes.
POST: Hi r/relationships!
I live with two women and two other men. We all go to the same school and we get along really well. However, I just started dating one of the women that I'm living with (we'll call her Stacy) (and please don't focus on that fact, this is about a separate question) and the other female roommate (Catherine) doesn't know about it | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 /F] 5 month, how do I not fall out love?
POST: Me and my girlfriend have started dating again a month ago after almost a year we were separated after a five month relationship.
What happened is that we broke up over some silly issue and ever since I was trying to get her back. Over all that time I didn't really want to date anyone else, I was constantly thinking about her. I have letters I wrote her but never sent. I have blogposts dedicat | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Dentist Is Claiming I Owe Money A Year After Rendering Services (x-post r/personalfinance)
POST: Hello, I'm new to this subreddit so I apologize if this is not the appropriate place to ask about my situation. I am also crossposting with /r/personalfinance.
I am located in Arizona and last August I needed two root canals and crowns placed. The dentist I went to ended up being a horrible experience. I was told it would only take one appointment, but it actually took them four | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating pizza
POST: Was going to post this Thursday, but then I noticed the rules. Anyway.
I'm on a trip to Washington DC. Long day of walking and whatnot. Decide to get some dinner at some Italian restaurant. Get in and sit down. See some tasty pizza on the menu. Hell yeah I'm starving. So I order that. Food comes, super tasty. So we're done eating and decide to walk down to the White House since it's only about a 40 minute walk. So, we reach the White House, take a few pic | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am not sure if I should let her [21 F] go and move on.
POST: I started dating this girl about a month and a half ago. The dates have all been great and she tells me she has a great time. We had an upcoming date scheduled for this sunday, but we began talking and I just asked out of curiosity if she was seeing anyone else and where we kind of stood. She responded that she had actually gone on a date last night with a guy she has known and kind of liked for 5 years n | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I only want what I can't have
POST: This applies to many aspects of my life but more specifically to my relationships.
I am always most attracted to girls who I know I can't be with, either because they're already in relationships, my family (or theirs) won't approve, they live far away etc.
I've been *in love* with this girl for like 6 months, she was in a relationship but she told me that she had a crush on me too and that we would have been together had she been single (*I kn | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Which chemicals, compounds or elements that get used in day-to-day life do you suspect will cause significant damage to our health in ways we don't yet realize?
POST: Question inspired in part by [this thread](
We were once a society that used asbestos for insulation, mercury in fillings and lead in paint. It amazes me how deadly and pervasive some everyday items were, due to us not yet fully understanding how the materials we were dealing with affected us (or perhaps, on a da | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Getting ready to buy my first car with no credit under my belt. Helps?
POST: Alright, so I'm gearing up to buy a new car. I have little to no credit history, though I did just get a credit card and started using it this past month. First payment was yesterday, everything is paid off wonderfully. As far as a job goes, I'm a server who makes about $2000/month, but nearly all of that appears in my tips. I have plenty of paycheck stubs saved, but when I went to a local H | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: I just bought two red eared slider turtles from a guy over craigslist...
POST: ...and they are both in horrible condition. I have 3 other red eared sliders and know how to take care of them but I found myself in a situation I cannot handle.
The guy said he needed a home for them because he had no more time to take care of them (what an UNDERSTATEMENT!). I met him at a public location and saw them in his hands, their shells rotten/rotting and broken/chipped in many areas. I handed h | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [23 M] been thinking about breaking up with with my boyfriend [28 M] on and off during the entire duration of our 2.5 year relationship. What should I do?
POST: Hi! I'm really glad I found this subbreddit because I'm trying to solve a problem I've been having for a long time, and I'm hoping to find some advice. There are a million details I could talk about, but I think I'm going to keep this post fairly down to the point.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years no | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [25 M] get my coworker [40s M] to pull his weight on a project?
POST: I've been at my job for about 3 years, now and have had bad experiences with my coworker in the past. He acts charming and talks the talk, but I can't tell whether he actually does any work.
Every time I go to him for help (well within his job description), he just deflects it to someone else or says he's too busy. On top of that, he used to get me involved in projects saying "the experience | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why does everybody here hate the kindle?
POST: I was surprised when I got a kindle for christmas. Surprised and horrified. Not a week befire I'd been telling my friend how I'd hate to have one because I love the authenticity and magic of a good solid book. Since getting the kindle I've started reading even more than I used to, I'm now reading 2 books a week minimum which to me is a lot. The kindle fits in my pocket and has 800 books on it. It's so convienent! Don't get me wrong | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: Tifu i smoked and drunk and i never wanted to do this anymore.
POST: I actually dont know where to start. Im that kind of guy who isnt very suspicious. I learned a respective job (something like emt/paramedic in english) and right now im sitting here and dont know how it should go further. Im sorry redddit this is my first post at all in here, im kinda lurker you call it? (person who just read and doesnt post somwthing?) But right now, im sitting here and dont know about my future. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] have started dating [20 F] for about three weeks. At what point do I tell her i'm a virgin?
POST: So i've been seeing a girl for about 3 weeks now, we've gone out a total of four times and we have great chemistry and always have a fun time. We've managed to keep it at a slow pace and fairly casual which I have quite enjoyed. Last night was our 4th date and the first time we kissed.
So far I think we have had good open communication and have both shared things th | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with a [18F] sort of stranger that wants to be more than friends.
POST: So in one of my lectures last week, a random girl sits besides me and starts to hit on me during the lecture. At the end of the lecture, after we talk during most of it she asks me out unexpectedly.
Me not thinking it through, said yes. She seemed pretty excited at the end of it though since she wanted to hang out that night but I declined since I had work. We didn't end up exchanging number | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Has anyone gotten engaged super early and it lasted? [22F] at that point and my parents did the same and I have no support.
POST: First the question then my story.
Has anyone gotten engaged early on in a relationship? How did you know and did you follow through?
Well I have met this great guy and the way we have hit it off is insane. I've known him for about 9 years (we were never close friends) but we have just recently been talking more and now in a serious relationship | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: I have a plus-size MOH, where is a good place to find dresses?
POST: So here is the deal: I have 3 bridesmaids, and they are all very different sizes. One bridesmaid is very petite (around 4'11") and a size 2. My other bridesmaid is a size 10. And my wonderful MOH (my older sister) is a size 24.
My problem has been most retailers only go up to a size 16 in bridesmaid/cocktail dresses. This is really discouraging me because I love my sister and don't want her to feel bad | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [32 M] have waited until after finals to call it off with her [23 F] (grad student)?
POST: Met her at friend's house party (she is my friend's sister-in-law). Talked for a while that night, found out we had similar interests like the theater. Took her to a play for our first date. Second date was a pub crawl some friends of mine organized this past Saturday.
She's a sweet gal, don't have a single bad word to say against her, but for me the spark wasn't there. Knew | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by literally giving my mother shit for her birthday.
POST: Yesterday was my mother's 55th birthday and the first time I had been in town to celebrate in a while. I decided to throw her a big, fancy party for once, since my father rarely does anything. I ordered sushi with decorative flowers, bought nice champagne, created a pub trivia game, decorated the living room-- everything was going perfectly.
Near the end of the night I was getting rather bored with all old people and d | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my asexual more then friend [25 F] and the confusing, and sad mess im in now
POST: So I have been in love with my friend for years (closing on 9 in a month). In highschool we dated into university and didn't really end it nor continue it when she had to move away. While we stopped dating we stayed more than friends to the point most people we know think were still in a long distance relationship which honestly I tend to agree as it basically is one without th | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My past two mornings have been really weird. What's going on, Reddit?
POST: OK, so Friday mornings I have class at 11AM and normally get up at around 10:15. Yesterday, I remember waking up and going to the bathroom to take a piss and brush my teeth. I walk back to my room and notice that it's 5 AM. Surprised, I go back to bed.
This morning, I had to get up at 8 to attend College Gameday (Go Pitt!). I have almost no recollection of this but my roommate said I was up at 3 and pa | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think my [23F] boyfriend's [25M] friends are trying to pull him away from me and I don't know why. Their leaving on a trip soon and I'm worried.
POST: I've been with my man for 4 months now and I love him more than anything. I could spend every last minute with him. Two month's ago he finally let me move in to his apartment. He's handsome, tall, responsible, warm, funny and he has a well paying job. However I have a big problem with his friends. I'm always nice to them bu | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22M] mother [44F] seems me as a failure and a disappointment
POST: All this happened because I got my ears and my nose pierced.
We were in the car when she finally saw it and started crying and slamming the car wheel. She told me she failed at setting the right example and that what I was doing wasn't right and wrong. I have some tattoos and she pointed those out too. She said I'm soon to dress up like the demonic people that wear black all the time. It hurt me that sh | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by flashing my friends
POST: I was in about the fifth grade and I had just gotten out of a very long lecture about how I wasn't working very hard, me being the teacher's pet I was, I was quite upset at this news. So I sat down at my table with my friends (there was no seating chart). I'd like to point out that all of these people were guys and I was a girl. They were in a deep discussion about Pokemon and what was super effective on what. The oldest of our group, let's call him | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't know what to do... I feel like I'm trapped.
POST: I'm 30, married for 6 years, have a 1.5 year old with another kid on the way.
I can tell I'm just becoming miserable with life... I'm angrier quicker, stressed out and not performing well at work. I dread coming home and I feel like I'm living with my mom.
"Don't stay up past 10."
"Are you coming to bed now?"
"Come to bed!"
I'm a zombie in the morning, I've had my blood work done and everything seems fine... I t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Shocked to receive a collections notice - Now I need to fix my credit score! Need advice.
POST: I was medically discharged from the Army National Guard in December of 2014. In November of 2015, I received a document from the Department of the Treasury stating that I would be placed on Administrative Wage Garnishment (obviously the AWG didnt matter because I wasnt employed by the government anymore) and owed near $400!
I checked my deposit statements and agreed that I do | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18F girlfriend lied about having oral sex with some [?M] guy the day before her and I were officially a couple.
POST: My current girlfriend went to a party and performed oral sex on a guy there. I did not know about it at the time. Her and I were talking about taking our relationship to the next level at this time too.
The next day I asked her to be mine and we became a couple. She told me she kissed him a week later but I forgave her. Fast forward a month and she reve | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Whats your best, I got lost and.... Story.
POST: Here is one of mine.
So i was in a new city, i decided to go for a look around, i was in a kind of suburb area when i notice 2 extremly tall muggerish looking fellows. I keep on walking down a fairly empty street (Quite late around 9-10ish). I look behind me again and notice that the 2 fellows are now in quite a fast jog clutching something in their hands, i take this as a sign to quickly run around the corner and hide in someone | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: New Car for the Wife: Lease vs. Buy
POST: Hello PF. Long time lurker here. I know what the knee-jerk reaction is to my title, but hear me out!
**The Facts:** Wife (lawyer) & I (CPA) have no kids. Currently have her large student loans paying off in early 2016 (currently paying double the minimum payment on a 10 year payoff). Wife has driven her current car for 12 years, and it's time for a replacement. She has always dreamed of driving a sportier car before having childr | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [19 F] an introvert and any tips/advice on how to get along/not feel awkward with boyfriend's [20M] friends?
POST: I'm an introvert, and I am usually sociable when I am around my close friends. I have asked questions to them how to make friends in my new college and they all think I'm bluffing because from their POV, I'm quite a social butterfly. However, that is only true if I'm around my close friends as I am comfortable and safe, which as a result I can easily be one | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description
POST: I'm 21, just a few months older than he is. We have only been dating for almost 6 months. First serious relationship for us both. Our families love each other, everything is literally PERFECT. He's financially stable, I'm still a mess financially and scholastically (still haven't graduated, in debt), but he's always so supportive of me. We love each other and I know I want to marry him. But I'm also the kin | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making tea in front of my boss
POST: Happened this morning. I was in the office break room getting my morning caffeine fix. We have a selection of tea and two big pump coffee dispensers. There's a big coffee machine that fills up the coffee tanks and an attachment on the coffee maker for hot water (for tea). I decided on green tea. As I'm rummaging through the assortment of tea, my boss strolls in and starts chatting me up. I rip open the teabag and distractedly place i | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] developed feelings for my friend [22F] of 2 and a half year after she started a relationshi
POST: My friend[22F] is in a relationship since december. At the beginning of January i have gotten extremly jealous of the guy she is together with.
Somehow I discovered through her new relationship my strong amorous feelings for her.
I thought about it and tried to bury this feeling in me, but it is not possible.
I am not really sure if i should tell her, since things woul | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I start my first day of community college tomorrow, how do I...
POST: Meet people and make new friends? All of my close/constant friends have moved off across the country for college.
Because of financial issues with my family, I had to stay and attend the nearby local community college (about 200 dollars a semester).
I have one class a day (the rest I'm working) in the mornings form 8:00-9:50am but two classes overall at the same time alternating M/W/F and T/Th.
Now | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] met a guy [23M] online, who lives in a different state. We're planning to meet up. What due diligence should I do to make sure I'm safe?
POST: A few weeks ago, I started talking to a guy online. We got along amazingly well and exchanged information to talk over the phone. It's been an unimaginable connection for both of us - talking or texting hours a day, with nothing comparable in past relationships. (I know I sound like an infatuated teenager, but whatever). | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think my [24f] boyfriend [30m] is holding onto his ex [27f]
POST: My boyfriend (30m) recently got a message from his ex (27f) asking to meet up to catch up. The two of them haven't dated in years. He told her that he didn't want to meet up with her because he still had feelings for her and didn't want to complicate his relationship with me (24f). Though he did not actually betray me, it kind of bothers me that he is not over her yet. Again it's been years since he has | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[M23] should I say something to her[F19]?
POST: So this cute new girl started working at my work about a month ago. I was on tinder one day and she popped up so I liked her. I told my manager about this and she apparently relayed the message to her. She thought I was cute too and found me on tinder and liked me back. I texted her after this and we seemed to hit it off (we had only worked together once at that point).
Anyway we hung out together with her cousin and her co | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [17/M] Trying to talk to a girl in band
POST: So a bit of backstory first: I'm homeschooled and take classes outside of high school, so I don't see people too often. I'm pretty shy, but I can talk to people normally and make friends pretty easily. I play in an outside of school band once a week with a lot of other people, but the problem is a lot of them know each other from school, so it's hard for me to talk to them. I talk to one or two people in the band, but not | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to get some cake.
POST: Mind you, this was in *COMPLETE* darkness (Besides the very little amount of light from my fridge.) throughout the entire length of the story.
So, I'm nerding out, getting ready to play some ranked on CS:GO with my buddies. We decided to take 5 before starting to dominate some boosted animals. So, I decide to go take a piss and and grab some snacks. So I go into the kitchen and yes! Cake! I grab myself a fat slice and go to grab some water to | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (26/f) and my boyfriend (28) broke up today because of our long distance relationship
POST: First, sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language
I've been with my now ex boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We live ~ 250 miles apart and because we are both broke students, we only could meet every few months for a week or two.
I really did love him and still do, but I realized over time, that I want to stay here in my hometown where my family and friends are and he want | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Former SO refuses to let go.
POST: Relevant information:
Four years together, two of which we were engaged
Living in a small town with very little opportunity to network (don't have many friends)
Trying to remain civil/be a friend is being misinterpreted as rekindling a relationship.
What do I do to alleviate that feeling of re-breaking-up every single week?
TL;DR: | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: 17F, no money, no support from family. What can I do?
POST: I've lived with my mom my whole life (father passed away when I was an infant) and she recently passed away a few days ago, leaving me with only the clothes on my back.
I'm currently living with her sister (my aunt) but she has made it very clear that she wants me out as soon as possible. I'll be turning 18 next month and she said she is willing to let me stay for maybe half a year longer, but that's the limit o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I thought I loved my GF but I'm not so sure now.
POST: Here goes for my first post....
I've known this girl for three years prior to us dating, we've been dating now for about two years. I'm [m20] she's [f18]. its gotten to a point where I feel as though the relationship is at a stand-still. We just argue all the time and spent very little time together mostly because I don't really enjoy our time together anymore. We broke up once before (my doing) and then got back tog | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (16/M) Dated my girlfriend (17/F) but think I'm falling for someone else (19/F) what do I do?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. I've had a whole lot of fun and really like her. I've always thought that she was really funny, smart and fun to be around and really cute. Lately, we've been fighting a whole lot and it's gotten to the point where we fight almost daily. Our relationship is starting to feel like we're staying together just for the s | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (F30) think the man I've been seeing for 3 mo (M31) is married. I'm not sure and I'm not sure how to proceed.
POST: I was overseas in January for a family event and I met a man on tinder. We agreed to stay in touch and maybe meet up the next time I was overseas visiting family. (Im an American with family in the UK) We have been seeing each other long distance for 3 months.
We started slowly, just chatting about common interests, jobs, movies, pop culture, etc. Then we | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not accepting that I don't know short cuts
POST: So my Gf and I decided to take a spring break trip to go hiking in California about 2 hrs from where I live. We carefully plan the trip as we will leave at 10ish and be there about 12.
So we are driving up to the forest when she tells she wants to check out this small town she used to go to. (check out trinkets and such I guess idk...) I agree and I Google map it. About 40 min away.. But then I see a couple small roads th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Long Distance Relationship: HARD MODE!
POST: I'm currently 20 and my gf is 22. We both met freshman year in school but didn't start our relationship until the first day of sophmore year. So we've been going out now for about A year and eight months. No relationship is without fault or problems and one the biggest ones we have is her parents. They have no knowledge of my exsistance mainly because her father is an physically abusive controlling man so me being a threat to tha | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22,M] with my ex [22,F] (dated 3 years, broken up for a month), thinking about going to her mom for help?
POST: Ok so my girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. At first she wanted space which we both gave eachother and we have since been talking again. Basically the breakup was my fault as I had stopped trying in the relationship and wasnt treating her as good as I should have. I want to get back together and asked her the other day if she would give me a chance g | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Are we having sex often enough?
POST: I'm 27 year old guy and have been going out with my girlfriend (23 years old) for 6 months now. We see each other twice a week and stay the night. As I only see her twice a week, naturally there is sexual anticipation on my end. We are really close, affectionate and communicate really well. Recently she feels that I expect sex from her because I always come on to her whenever we are in bed rather than it being spontaneous.
It's diffic | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] am upset that my ex [24M] and my friend [21F] are talking about going out. Is it unreasonable to end the friendship?
POST: I am still friends with my ex because we like all the same things, have the same friends, go to the same university, etc. He broke up with me over a year ago.
Here is the deal, a big problem in our relationship is that he got drunk one night early one and told me he had doubts about our relationship because he had a crush on this mutual friend | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a 3 year relationship. I don't know what to do.
POST: Background: I am 18 (male) and she is 17. We have been dating for 3 years and a month. We started dating in my sophomore year of high school (her freshman year). She came onto me first, I was oblivious to her because I was extremely shy. We started going out and I met her family and they were really cool. It was a rocky start but it got incredibly better after the 5 month period. We were both virgins and we decided th | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not remembering day light saving time
POST: Sorry for shitty formating cuz I'm retarded
So I'm in the states, and my girlfriend went back to China for winter break, and I promised her I would FaceTime her when it's 0:00 A.M in china, since the U.S time is behind china time. Now this is where I fucked up. 11:00 A.M here would be their 0:00 A.M, so there would be a 13 hours time difference, but i totally forgot about the whole summer day light saving time thing so I thought m | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the best way to go about this??
POST: So my roommate decided he's bringing in a pit-bull puppy into the house against my will. I like all animals, I've lived with many of them, from birds to snakes to rottweilers. I have an old cat named Hobbes, and have had to live with a pit-bull puppy before with him at another place I was renting, he was constantly under stress as the puppy was always trying to "play" with him (biting and scratching). My cat is a 17 year old fire-poi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: How can I sue a town in SC for illegal speeding ticket practice?
POST: I need some advice here. I was pulled over for "Speeding" in the town of Turbeville, South Carolina. The ticket is pure extortion for money. The town is an area of 1.3 square miles, if it wasn't directly between Myrtle Beach and getting back on I95 South no one would ever hear of it, anyways, pulled over for speeding, the fine is $388 because they have enacted their own town ordinance to regulate speed in | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the best money savers out there when it comes to cell phones, internet, cable, and home phones? Useful alternatives?
POST: What do you all use to keep a low bill? My bill is right around $400 a month for terrible service, and talking to sales reps who have the intelligence of kangaroo's. I have a package from Verizon wireless, for a home phone, the cheapest speed fios internet, the cheapest cable package, and three cell phones for my family. My wife and I have | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[21] get overly jealous way too easy with my gf[23]
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. She's amazing and I love her. She knows I get jealous but she doesn't know exactly how jealous... I'll get jealous when she'll go out with friends. Even if I'm with a friend(s). I get jealous and upset. I know that I shouldn't so I try my best to not seem upset to her because I'm worried she'll take it the wrong way. And tonight she's going out with 3 of her frien | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[M19] told this fantastic girl[19] i liked her and she said it was mutual but wouldn't work
POST: I've been friends with this girl from school for about a year, acquaintances for a year before that. We've gradually been growing closer and it really became obvious that we liked each other but no one said anything. Last week i told her i liked her and she said she really liked me too but (probably) couldn't be in a relationship because her parents wanted her to be a lawyer | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [F 17] in a very confusing FWB situation with my best friend [M 17] and I don't know what to do!!
POST: I made the mistake of thinking that being friends with benefits was a good idea.
I [F 17] recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. My best friend of about a year [M 17], Charlie, also recently broke up with his girlfriend of a year.
Charlie and I have practically hung out everyday since. There is a part of me that has liked him since the day I m | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] started talking to a guy[20M] and he said suggested something I didnt like..
POST: So... i [19F] have been single for about 10 months and I was thinking about talking to this one guy... He's in the military, a bit to sophisticated for me.. but he's a sweet person so I was thinking about continuing talking to him..we continued for a bit until he said I need to change the way I talk because I said "Cool Beans Bro" to him...
He said I either become more lady like or | negative |