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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F], I don't know if I can commit to a relationship (Can a guy and a girl just be friends?)
POST: Basically in the past I have gone out with girls but eventually after time has passed I eventually I grew bored of them and couldn't even be bothered staying in the relationship.
Now I've met this girl and frankly she is a really beautiful person and I really like her. However today I lent her my jacket (it was cold), afterward I spoke to a friend | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I could use a little advice
POST: So I lost my ID last night after going to a bar (I believe it was lost on the cab ride home) and this morning I receive a message on Facebook from a girl saying she found it and if I'm still looking for it to come to her dorm since we go to the same college (she also ended the note with a smiley face). I assume she did some FB "research" before contacting me but I'm not sure if this was because she possibly finds me attractive or this w | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Making 55k at a job I dislike versus 50-52k at a job that could potentially open up doors for me down the line...what makes more sense financially?
POST: A bit of background:
I'm a fourth year high school teacher at an economically disadvantaged district. I'm young(mid 20's), but I've been given a whole lot by my administrators and they seem to want to give me more. I'm making 55K, which is extremely high for my part of the country. However, our district has been HORREN | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Pretty sure I cry in my sleep
POST: It's 3 months today and I am still overwhelmed by grief at times. I balled the entire hour drive to my parents house yesterday and again today while I blowdried my hair. This time last year we were wrapping up our move into our bigger, better apt. where his daughter could have her own room and he an office...now he's shagging a chick who knows he was living with someone just weeks before he started pursuing her, that has to share a room with h | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking
TITLE: hey, my birthday is soon so I bought myself a steak, whats the best way to prepare it
POST: my birthday is tuesday, ive got the little guy thawing now in the fridge . I try to avoid telling folks about the birthday because i don't like a big hullabaloo. it is a bonless ribeye. .75lb according to the package. its thawing in the fridge now. what is a good way to marinate(im partial to Worcestershire based). and I'm thinking of preparing spinach and a sweet potatoe with it as a side | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: Reddit, TIFU by setting a steak on fire and having the fire department come out.
POST: So, there I was making a nice pan cooked steak and oven fries for my family when I realized that my attempts at searing the steak were not going well. I messaged a pic to my husband to see WTF was up with all the smoke, and in paying attention to the texting I didn't notice immediately that the steak had really bumped it up a notch with the smoking. So, I turn the temperature down and attempt to s | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I finally said it and it's so weird
POST: We'd had sex then we'd watched Liam Neeson kick the shit out of Albanians in Taken. We were cuddled up and drowsy and my heart was racing and I waited 20 minutes and then said your name. I told you I loved you. You made me say it again and I said that you didn't have to say anything back because it was ok.
You said you loved me, too. That I made you so happy. I think my heart melted a little.
I love you. I'm in love. You love me ba | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (32m) suspected my GF of year and a half (24f) of cheating. Then get a message from the suspected guy confessing.
POST: This guy is one of her old co-workers that she started running with a few months ago. I am not a runner and this is something I often feel like she resents about me. Im happy to do physical things with her, but running isnt one of them. She claims he began to like her and wanted her to end things with me. She says she denied him and that's why he is sabo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Introducing a cat to a new dog?
POST: Whats the best way to go about doing this? My family took in a stray kitten just about 2 years ago and besides the 3 months span where my last dog was still alive she has never really lived with a dog. We recently adopted a Black Lab, who is 2 years old and fairly big, but he is a sweetheart and would never hurt the cat. The cat unfortunately is scared out of her mind and is hiding in the basement, I checked on her and got her out of the corner, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my boyfriend [27 M] have been together for three years! Just need to share!
POST: I have been with my current boyfriend for three years now. And I have never been this happy. Lately, I have started to gain weight. I have always been chubby but from past 4 months, I have gained like 10 lbs and my boyfriend has started to complain. Currently I weigh 200 lbs (5'9). Once while in a fight he told me that he is not that much physically attracted to me, just a little | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Ex/Bestfriend[22/F] 8 Months, Broke up but kinda don't know whats happening
POST: So, me and my girlfriend/bestfriend talked for like a year before we started dating and it started in October and ended at the end of November and its a long distance relationship and we officially met in October and made it official, so things were great and then one day like a switch just flipped and she despised everything I did, and everything I did just irritated her or | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I haven't felt this way in awhile; [19 M] how long should I wait before assuming this girl is ignoring my email?
POST: So I [19 M] haven't really had any strong feelings for a girl in quite some time.
But today I met a girl in one of my uni classes. She's cute, we have a lot in common, and we seem to hit it off fairly well. I wanted to talk to her after class, but after the prof dismissed us she just put on her headphones and *bolted* out of that room.
I didn't want to wa | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] think I have this crush on this guy [22M], but I'm scared to ruin our friendship.
POST: About 2 years ago I decided not to be interested on dates/relationships as I wanted to focus on myself and career, etc. However, a year ago I met a wonderful guy who ended up breaking up with me because he said he wanted to focus on school. He was my first serious boyfriend (I was in a LDR with someone I met online before him), and I liked the idea of being in a relationship. So | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: In a relationship with a serious communication problem, which my girlfriend (19/f) is seemingly unwilling to fix. [20/m]
POST: I've been dating this girl for 3½ years now, and she has almost always had a problem with checking her messages, or generally been hard to get into contact with. It has become better over the last year, probably because she uses her phone almost every day now, since she doesn't have her laptop anymore. Recently, she started going to some cospl | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How do I (continue) to make it clear to my neighbors that they're disruptive?
POST: Alright, so I live in a 3 apartment house, I'm on the second floor, my landlord is below me, and I have new neighbors above me as of February. My old neighbors were wonderful, never heard a peep, bark from their dog, or creak in the floor which is odd for a 100yr old building with both of them overweight. I'm not being mean, just stating facts. My new neighbors are not overweight and they have hav | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (M19) bring up sex with my girlfriend (F19)?
POST: I'd just like to preface this by saying I'm not super good at writing stuff and articulating my thoughts, so some of this might just be senseless rambling. Please ask me to clarify if you're confused about anything.
So I've been dating the most amazing woman for the past 10 months. Like seriously every day I've spent with her makes me happier than anything. We have the same sense of humor and nobody makes me laug | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of 3 years, doesn't know what to do with his life.
POST: Ok, well here it goes.
My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We both are into a lot of the same things, such as gaming and the same TV shows, etc. We both love each other very much, and he really is the best boyfriend a girl could ever ask for. He constantly expresses how much he loves me and will do anything for me. We talk about our future all of the time, and we both w | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by picking up dog poo. nsfw
POST: Not really today, but on Monday.
Being the responsible dog owner I am, I often have to pick up dog poo. This dog is a beast, elephant sized poo 3 or more times a day. It's insane. Anyhow, went out early on Monday morning because I was expecting my neighbor who asked over the weekend to use my driveway, home and electric to detail his newly acquired vehicle.
Went out with a bag and a glove and started searching for poo...it was already almost 8 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23F] occasionally facebook messaging with my musician crush [34M] almost a year, would talking about sex spark his interest in me again or ruin my chance at a serious relationship and make him consider me a groupie?
POST: I was literally mezmerised by his eyes the first time I saw him perform at a rock festival.
The next day I found his band name and found his name and sent him a FB friend request. When I saw he accepted my friend request I quickly started to write a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm (27f) having family issues and vented to BF (25m). We have differing views, I know the relationship should end.
POST: I'm part of the grandchildren generation of my family, and I'm the only granddaughter. We are all in our 20s now and out of school, starting careers, going off getting married and thinking about starting families. My family measures a woman's success in who she marries and how she raises her kids. In there eyes, I'm way past due because I'm approac | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my co-workder [19 F]. I have feelings and don't know what to do.
POST: So about a month ago a new store chain (more like a food place than a store) came to my town and I was hired to work there with many others. One of the girls though I quickly had feelings for after talking to her everyday. I found out we have the same favorite tv show that we both go crazy over and a few other things in common. I can't seem to get her off of my mind and whenever I glance a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Sprint blatantly lied to me and I want to cancel my "agreement"
POST: Reddit Gods,
I cancelled my AT&T account in september and joined sprint thinking that it was a fantastic deal and I could save a bunch of money. I started the $50 unlimited everything plan + i used their next program (or whatever they call it at sprint) that I pay an extra $30 per month to get a new phone IPhone every 2 years. I realized how awful their reception is in my area around Los Angeles and Ventur | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How should I [24M] go about ending contact? [25F] (Not sure you can all it a breakup)
POST: I met a girl online, and after a few messages she gave me her number. It took over 40 days for the two of us to get together for our first date (she's got a lot of things going on). During that time we texted pretty often, but it largely consisted of "How are you?" or "Have a good night!" - A lot of pleasantries without much of anything talked about. The first date was enjoyable, but | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] Talking To Girls
POST: Hi,
So I'm in my final year of high school and I'm going to be going to university next year. The biggest thing I hate about myself is that I always screw things up when I like a girl. It's not because I say the wrong things; it's because I never get a chance to. I'm horrible at simply approaching a girl and having a conversation.
When I want to go talk to a girl I feel like I need to have a reason to talk to her. This might be because if I | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My ex boyfriend (m23) tried to trick me (f21) into seeing him for Valentine's day.
POST: I broke up with him over 3 weeks ago, no contact at all to make it easier. We were together 5 years, and I was kind of over it the last 1.5 years, but he never "let" me end it. So I grew a backbone and told him we were over and ignored calls/texts/etc. So it's been about 3.5 weeks since we've heard from each other.
I'm spending Valentine's with a guy I've been seeing. Today my ex | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] broke up one month ago with my Girlfriend [22 F] because she wanted to make out and have sex with other guys while she is on Holiday in Sweden. I'm heartbroken and dont know what to do.
POST: So everything started when my girlfriend was a skiing instructor here where i live. Thats now six months in the past. Two Months ago i found out that she she was up to something with some other skiing instructor. At first i wasn't really concerned because apparently it was not | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by entering a bathroom cubicle while a kid was still in there
POST: This happened yesterday while I was at the grocery. I went into the bathroom, and it was pretty small, so there were only two stalls (one for disabled people). The first one was open so I went in without looking since I was on my phone. After five seconds of being inside the cubicle, I only then noticed that there was this little kid who was taking a shit, and his dad shouted at me saying that his son was there | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16M] with my ex girlfriend [17f] want to restart the relationship
POST: My girlfriend now ex were dating for about a month and the relationship was going really well. We are both in high school and we were nearing going all the way when out of no where she decided she didn't want a relationship. This sent me into a spiral of depression because I really like her. All of this happened last Saturday 3/14/15.
Today (3/19/15) I learned she has had a boyfriend the whole time | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21m) have loved nothing but her (20f) for 5 years, but she needs me as a friend. How do I handle this in the best way to make her happy?
POST: I originally typed up a very long explanation of the 5 years leading up to this, but I re-read it and realized it was pretty much a rant. So here is a very brief description of the situation:
I have been in love with my best friend for 5 years. 2 years ago, I told her I had feelings for her and she politely explained that she did | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [21 F] told me [21 M] she would stop being a cam girl and is still doing it in secret
POST: Shortly after my girlfriend and I became involved about three months ago, she started working on a cam girl site to make money because she didn't have a job. I wasn't really okay with it but I didn't say anything because I knew she needed some sort of income. Additionally, I felt like I'd be telling her what to do with her body if expressed my concern.
I was more okay | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of a year, wants me to constantly post about us on social media
POST: Now by this I mean that I would not ever say anything nice about her. I love her very much and she's a wonderful girlfriend to me. She has supported me while I finish my degree and has been a great source of happiness and direction in my life. However she actively insists that I do not post enough things about her online and it bothers her. I draw it back to her great d | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] want to know where I stand with her [21 F], need advice
POST: Alright, backstory. So I've been hanging out with this girl for the past couple of months, and we've been holding hands, cuddling, making out, going on dates, and we slept together last week. A couple of weeks before we started getting physical, she'd broken up with a boyfriend. So because of this, she's told me she isn't ready for a relationship right now (most likely wants to go out and have fun) - but | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] and this girl I used to date [17 F] for 2 months, didn't end up in a relationship, now she's showing signs of life.
POST: Long story short, I had a massive crush on this girl in my program and we dated for a while, I loved her but never told her and I think she loved me but her feelings were hidden by the fact that I reminded her of her ex and he came back in her life. The reason I'm saying that I think she loved me even though she admitted that she was attracted | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I wrong here? Valentines gone wrong. "You didn't get me flowers."
POST: Soo I got my GF a box of 4 cupcakes picked to order. Cute box hearts and bow etc. She loves red velvet cake and cuban crackers with guava and cheese. I got her 2 red velvet, 1 guava, 1 dulce de leche. We were also going to go have sushi.
I give her the gift but she didn't want to eat any at the moment because she already had another cupcake from a friend. She then proceeds to complain "I can't believe y | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not jerking it in a long time...(NSFW)
POST: This just happened unfortunately...
Important note, I ran out of shirts and was using my brothers favorite shirt
So basically same old story with hormones getting the better of a teen...badly
So basically I haven't done..."research" in a long time (almost a year now"). And I decided to do it tonight. Being the honor student I am, I forgot to take off my brothers shirt. I'll spare you the details and fast foward when I finished. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [24M] of 4 years. Not sure if I am falling out of love or if I'm just bored.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and it's been great, we live together and have done for almost all of our relationship. It helps that he is also my best friend! However, for the past 6 or so months I have been speaking to other guys in flirty ways online. I have tried tinder and even thought about cheating but I know I couldn't live with the guilt. My bo | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: [M26/220/6'/Rant] Lost 15lbs but nothing for two months now.
POST: I started counting calories in January and I lost 15lbs in three months. Awesome. My girlfriend and I joined a gym two months ago. We both go a minimum of three times a week. I use a routine the gym provides on their website. One day of full body weight lifting and one day core/cardio. Since I've joined I've seen zero weight change. I ate 1800 calories a day the first month which I realized was too low. I started u | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with a girl I have been talking to for 2 weeks [21F], she cancelled our date
POST: Now, for the past, almost, 2 weeks I have been speaking to a girl on the phone. She is wonderful. She is perfect. It has been at least a couple of hours a day.
We planned a date for tomorrow. She cancelled today.
The thing is, she lives 2 hours away (by bus).
Now, she told me it had nothing to do with me (she had genuine reasons, something about missing rent and now needing to ea | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I work with my and I hate it. What should I do?
POST: I'm a stupid fucking college graduate with tons of loans. I do anything for money. Me, being a dumbass, decided to teach public school when a job opened up at the same school my mom works at. I got the job nice and easy. Well, I found out that I love teaching. I get the highest ratings on every principal evaluation. All of my students love me. I work till 5 everyday. Yadda yadda yadda. My mother is being so unprofessional th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M], confessed my regret and love for a friend I fell for and lost at the end of high school [23 F]
POST: So I sent a letter confessing my regret and love to the girl I have been in love with for the past 5 years. I acted on feelings I developed and ruined our friendship. We haven't spoken since and it has been gnawing a me ever since then. I don't have some grand fantasy that it will sweep her off her feet, and we'll be together but I needed to tell her. We stopped t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] and my gf [21 F] of 2 months, both come from different religious backgrounds, and it is becoming a problem
POST: Even though we have only been in an official relationship for around 2 months, my girlfriend and I have basically been dating for about a year. We are both in college and got to know each other fairly well last year. Unfortunately we only saw each other a few times last summer, and I was out of the country for the entirety of last fall. We talked alm | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] am addicted to drugs and don't know how to tell my SO [21F] that I need help detoxing (possible triggers?)
POST: Please tell me if this isn't the correct place to post this, I was a little unsure.
Just last year my girlfriend (who was also a friend of my current girlfriend) passed away from a drug overdose. Fast forward a year and after months of me being clean after what had happened, a friend of mine quit drugs and trusted that I would dispose of a bottle of 350 | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not wearing my glasses
POST: Like a typical tifu post, this didn't happen to me today. It was back when I was in 9th grade. I just started my 5th year at a university, so it's been a while since this happened. A little back story, my eyesight is so bad that I failed my permit test because of it. I didn't get contacts until after I graduated high school, which is why I always had my glasses with me. Anyways, I lived in this small town that had this public golf course right no | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should my boyfriend [17M] and I [18F] approach a situation involving another female who continues to flirt with him?
POST: Hey Reddit! I've been a long time lurker on r/relationships and am finally posting as my boyfriend and I are in need of outside opinions.
Long-story short, my boyfriend is apart of a Youth Programme and will be for the next 10 weeks along with 7 other teenagers around his age (6 of them being female, with only one other male teen). Due to the natur | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Affection between friend's fiancé and me making things awkward
POST: A good buddy of mine proposed to a woman a couple years ago fairly quickly. The first time all of his friends and I met her, she and I had an immediate, witty rapport. I think everyone noticed.
If I had to make an over generalization, I'd say they have a great physical connection with a pretty classic male-female dynamic, but lack a bit on the understanding and intellectual connection. Perhaps she f | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: It doesn't bother me anymore and I feel great!!!
POST: I am a 22 year old male who is about to graduate college at the end of the year. Throughout my whole life, I had one girlfriend.....and it lasted a few weeks (wasn't that fruit-full). Besides that one girl, I have had no experience in any relationship what-so-ever. For many years it took over me, from middle school till last week; I was thinking something was wrong with me for not having any relationship experience. I know | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21M] with my gf [21F] of ~ 3 years, 90% sure she is emotionally cheating
POST: Through catching glances of chat clients that are subsequently quickly minimised etc, i am fairly certain my girlfriend is having some sort of emotional affair or something she wants to hide with a friend. Additionally, recently she has not been showing me any affection, and takes her phone with her everywhere she goes.
I have trusted her for 3 years without ever having a single doubt, but t | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 22M - People only use me to get answers. Nobody wants to be my friend.
POST: Most people know me as a nice guy. I'll be honest I'm not the most outgoing person, but I'm very active in the community. I volunteer 3-6 hours a week and I'm active doing good things for others. I help the homeless and disadvantaged and try to just be a good person to everyone I meet.
However, it seems that nothing good ever happens in my life. I have a hard time with girls and even sometimes | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Patio lawn - Need a good artifical grass
POST: So, recently my wife and I came to be the proud owners of a cute little Siberian Husky (Anna), who is about 8 weeks old. We bought all the items she needs but now, I want to build her sort of a mini yard for herself.
We do have a yard but its a no fence yard and I'm not allowed to build one and I don't want to use the invis. fence for her with the shock collar. My plan is to turn our concrete slab patio into her own little play/hang o | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[32M] with anxiety issues, [32F] 6 months, lost the "feeling"
POST: Met her back in January and had one of the best connections I've ever had. We never fought, disagreed or felt any negative pressure. Fun dates and good sex (early on)
While we only saw each other 2-3 times a week on average, it was always great and full of smiles, with most evening ending with us sharing the sentiment that it "just feels right".
I slowly let my anxiety get the best of me which basically | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is My(21M) father cheating on my mother?
POST: Hello,
the last few weeks the feeling that my dad(47M) is cheating on my mum (49F).
They are married for 23 years now and have one child, me(21m)
As far as I can judge their marriage is not as happy as I would expect a marriage to be.
It sometimes feels like a convenience marriage or they want to protect me(as I still live with them) or want to avoid gossip.
So Divorce has not been an option for them to far, but it doesnt f | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Did I [21m] just make a "creep" move on a girl [19f]?
POST: I met this girl earlier this year while looking to buy a used car from someone off Craigslist. I was with my mother and her dad was selling the car. We were at their house so while the parents were talking about paperwork, the girl and I made smalltalk about school. She was going to be a freshman at our local university. She was a sweet girl and enjoyed rock climbing. She said that we should go rock climbing someti | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [TX] Apartment Troubles.
POST: So, I have a two bedroom apartment in the DFW area and have had some major problems that have compiled over the few months I've been here. I lived in this same complex about 4 years ago and had no problems. Two months before moving out they changed ownership. Fast forward Two years and my girlfriend and I moved back. We had a 1 bedroom unit for 12 months and ownership changed again about 7 months in. We moved up to the 2 bedroom unit in November | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Ex that dumped me texted me after a week of NC and I feel kinda bad for her now...
POST: She (22) broke up with me (21) about 3 weeks ago after 5ish months because she was loosing interest/attraction. The first 2 weeks after the break up with hang out occasionally and text but I finally put an end to that about a week and a half ago.
She texts me last night at like 12:30am saying that it probably wasn't a good idea to text me but she wanted to talk to me. Now I don't know what | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: where should i stash my aging parent?
POST: love mom. but... she is unhappy with her move to our area...
facts:
1) she moved from a warm climate to be near us for her grandchild's sake. unfortunately, she cannot afford a detached home in our area and refuses a condo/townhome so she had to buy 2 hours away.
2) $600/month mortgage, $117 payoff, $180-$200k value, no property taxes due to age and maybe $1,200ish coming in a month and $5-20k in bank…sorry, I do not know but | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I ( 24 F) really, really miss and long for my ex ( 25 M) and I feel like I cannot move forward in my life.
POST: Hi guys, I desperately miss my ex boyfriend, we broke up recently because things werent going to work out (work, school, distance, etc) - too many factors to name. Our relationship was amazing, he was perfect and really loved me and cared for me. I wanted to keep it going but, he was more rational, reasonable, and logical in deciding that we should break it off | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] am wondering what is considered a serious relationship
POST: Recently, at a friend's bachelor party I was asked if my relationship with my current girlfriend [24 F] of 3 years was serious. I honestly had no idea how to answer that.
For background purposes, my girlfriend and I have been living together for more than a year now, we have 2 dogs together (though, we did designate each one to individual ownership), we've "met the family" so to speak,we've been on seve | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I've [20M] dated a girl [17F] twice. Shes now 7weeks away. How can i surprise her?
POST: Hi
I [20M] have met a nice girl at bbq and we talked and everything went good. The following week we texted alot and agreed to met again on the next monday. We're enjoyed talking at the lake and ended up kissing eachother. On thursday we met again, same story. She then told me that she has a upcomming 7week trip to america (we're from europa) where she needs to go from school. She | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My parents [47M, 42F] impose strict rules on me [17F].
POST: I live in Australia if that helps. I just moved states to live with my mum and step dad as I couldn't stand living with my dad any longer.
I use to be bullied at school and have refused to go since moving here instead I work full time doing a business traineeship.
My parents make me do the laundry, cleaning, babysitting and cooking as well as various other chores despite the fact that my mother doesn't work.
Th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Mutual Breakup, I'm (M, 25) seemingly stuck...
POST: Roughly four months ago my girlfriend (F, 23) ended our seven year relationship. We began dating in high school (my junior year) and stayed together when she went away for college (about 13 hours away). We were together through her mother's passing, my college graduation, her college graduation, and my acceptance to graduate school. We chose to end things when she was beginning her doctoral program and moving again, this | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Approach advice
POST: M(21)/F(22)
We've been dating about a month now. And its been kinda awkward. We met at work. She's heavy into 4/20 and other feel-good activities, and I'm pretty straight-laced. I think she likes that I'm safe, which probably says bad things about me, but I'll live. Jane also has this problem where she hates to be asked what's wrong. Rather, it stretches into infinity and she hates if you try to help her or anything supportive.
But she's also needy. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Every time I find myself interested in a girl, one of my friends ends up sweeping her off her feet. How do I deal with this?
POST: I'm a student at a rigorous science/engineering university. Ever since I've been here, my friends have been inadvertently ruining potential relationships for me. Basically, I'm an overall average guy while my friends can be perceived as extraordinary people. They are handsome, talented, and experienced with women (or at least are when compared to me | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[F/17] think my phone got hacked and my boyfriend[M/16] thinks I cheated
POST: A few months ago my boyfriend(of a year) texted me and told me how his bestfriend told him that friends of his saw my nudes. Apparently, an acquaintance of ours(Let's call him John) was showing everyone pictures of me naked that I supposedly sent him. I confronted John about it and he said he told everyone that it was his ex and he has no idea where they got the idea that it was me. He is known | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I just got friendzoned my my girlfriend... WTF
POST: Some background first, my girlfriend[19] and I[19] have been dating for about 9 months, we met in our first yea of college. The first year was amazing and i thought we had something going for us and so did she. But then the summer came. She doesn't live to far off campus but i on the other hand live about an hour and a half from campus. Through the summer i text her everyday and and call her every weekend to see whats up. | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Fiance [20 F], been together 2 years. cyber-stalking my exes?
POST: First of all, for background, when we first started our relationship, we were seeing other people, and a lack of honesty on both of our parts caused a lot of distrust. Because of this, we are very open now, and know each others phone/facebook/ etc passwords.
Since we share passwords and live together so not much is hidden. A few months ago I stumbled across searches in the internet histo | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] closest female friend [18F] is absolutely mad at me for seeing my friend [19F] who she hates.
POST: My closest female friend is completely mad at me, to the point of utterly ignoring calls and texts.
The reason for that is: last night I went out for drinks with some friends, including this girl who I hadn't seen in a long time, and kindly asked for us to get back in touch with the gang. These two girls don't talk and apparently hate each other for some complicate | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf[20] of 5 years doesn't want sex anymore, help. I'm [20] too.
POST: Please help me, I've been with my girlfriend since high school, its been 5 years now. She was always deeply in love with me, I was everything in her eyes. Around 4 months ago, I sensed that her feelings were changing towards me. Since then, we have been in 2 arguments where she kept saying to me that I was not confident (not true), not fun, life is short, she is not happy with me. I felt like she was b | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[19 M] friend [19M] is accusing me of trying to steal his girlfriend, and ruining his relationship?
POST: About 3 months ago my two friends, lets call them Jason [19m] and Jessica [17F] started a relationship. For the first month they were fine with each other but by the second, it was clear that obvious communication problems were arising in their relationship.
The both turned to me for advice and before I knew it I was in the middle of their relationship and knew thei | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [24M] didn't gave me [24F] anything for our 1 year anniversary and I still can't forgive him.
POST: Throwaway because he browses reddit a lot. Also sorry for any mistakes, English is not my native language.
Last moth me and my boyfriend had our 1 year anniversary, we kind of agree not to do anything special, but a few day before we discussed going to a motel to spend the night (we still live with our parents) or to do something different for a day. At the end | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: REM and tripping when coming back to consciousness. I've had this... I hope.
POST: I've talked to only one other person who has experienced this so I was wondering if anyone else has seen some shit like this before.
During the time I experienced this I was 19 and working a 4am morning shift job so I never got much sleep, which probably didn't help. I tend to close the door all the way in my bedroom but just enough to be cracked open. This way the light from the hallway can co | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the most awesome thing your ASIAN girlfriend has said?
POST: It's my birthday so I wanted to post my "Ultimate Reddit" thread: It allows you to mention your ASIAN girlfriend (yes the caps are meant to be ridiculous) so feel free to start each story with "I was dating this asian girl..."
I was dating this amazingly beautiful Korean girl, she was absolutely without a doubt the greatest joy to be around of any woman I have to this day dated: sweet, funny, full of energy, | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [16m] am at a crossroads with 2 different girls [17 senior/16 sophmore]
POST: The 16 year old girl ( GIRL A ) is the girl that i have been talking to for about 6 weeks and we were kinda on a break bc i was too stressed out with her. then over memorial day weekend (i was sober and down the shore) i met this girl whose a senior(17) from my town (GIRL B). we spent a very awesome weekend together cuddling on the beach and talking about everything but never kissing.
After one | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Extra Student Loan Payments vs. Fun
POST: Hi guys, so I'm trying to figure my finances out here and get some opinions.
So I am going to be graduating from college this year and I will have a little over 90k of student loan debt.
Fed Loans- around 28k @ 2-4.5% interest
Sallie Mae Loans-
around 24k @ 2.25% interest
Around 23k @ 5.675% interest
Around 22 @ 5.675% interest
I have a job lined up at one of the big 4 firms for accounting, starting @56k and will receive a | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: (MN) My aunt destroyed my PS4
POST: I am currently not in the US, but will be returning in about 2 weeks. My aunt (who is unemployed and who I have a very bad history with) is currently living at mothers house (which is also where I live but not currently like I said). My aunt called me a few days ago asking me to buy some clothes/jewerly worth thousands of dollars in the country I am in, promising to pay me back when I come home.
Like I said I have a bad history with her an | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23F) am a lonely grad student and soon-to-be wife, and I don't really know what to do about it.
POST: I guess this is more of a me problem than a relationship problem, but my fiance (23M) is also a factor so I'll bring him in as well.
We've been together for five years, and got engaged last year. We're planning to get married in a year, once I'm done with grad school. We currently live together. He works full time in software.
My grad school program is pretty small, | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do you have any good ninja driving stories?
POST: Here is a recent one of mine from last winter:
I was merging onto a 65mph expressway ([here] with a line of drivers taking up just the right lane (closest to ramp). The roads weren't icy and the left lane was open, so I accelerated out to pass, and as soon as I got into the other lane I started going into a spin (at 65mph).
My wife (she is real) put her hand on my leg and said (somehow slowly and calmly) "it's fine, we're gonn | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Cats fighting after dog's death?
POST: Around a year ago my dog of almost 15 years had to be put down due to some major medical issues. We are doing a bit better and about five to six months ago decided to get a new dog. We got a new puppy and my older cat is *terrified* of the puppy. It can't be in the same room as the puppy without being on a counter or something. The puppy is not violent in the slightest and gets along with my little cat just fine. The little cat and the pup | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend[28 M] of almost two years almost broke up...I am hurting
POST: My boyfriend and I almost broke up on Friday. And I am hurting as if we had. I can't stop thinking about it. And I find myself crying at random moments After an argument on that Friday, he said that he was having a hard time with the "hassle" of being a boyfriend. He says it is stressful and that he doesn't know if he is up for it. He is unsure of what he wants now and in the future. | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I deem this guy (M 20) uninterested in me (F 20) based on his message response?
POST: I've had a longtime crush on this guy, and we've talked a few times and see each other regularly, and for a while now I've been thinking that he was at least a bit interested. We went to the same party and I ended up kind of hanging out with him and my friend. Honestly, it almost seemed as if he were more into my friend than me, which was really surprising based on past interaction. | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear reddit: Windows Vista is going to make me kill myself.
POST: Ok, perhaps a little over dramatic, but I've been plagued by a mystery problem for a few weeks now, and it's starting to drive me crazy.
I run Windows Vista Home Premium (I know, I know, it's only temporary) on a Lenovo G530 with a 221 GB hard drive. Now Windows Explorer is telling me that I've used 180 GB of this space, and I know it is lying to me. I've only used 77 GB of the space.
Now let's clear a few thin | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the weirdest dream you have ever had Reddit?
POST: First of all I rarely dream, and when I do its something you small and I barely remember it. This one is weird long and pretty vivid. I told a friend he said he also had weird dreams after watching inception, but I haven't seen that movie yet. Anyways I am getting off topic so this is my dream last night:
For some reason I was being chased, so naturally I did what anyone would do and stole a car to get away, unfortunat | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20/F] am starting to feel sort of worthless. I tried dating again after a bad break up and up getting ignored.
POST: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in February after almost 2 years to have the single life and be able to flirt/fuck with other girls. I was a mess but lately I've been doing really good. I decided it was time I started dating. My friend hooked me up with (what I assumed) was a really nice guy. All was well for 3 weeks and we were having a good time.
This | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I'm homebound for 5 more months, I need new things to learn/do, any suggestions?
POST: In August I got into a bad water skiing accident and busted my knee. This has caused me to miss my entire senior year of college and stay at home to recover and have surgery (need to have one more). Being home is nice...but is also extremely boring if I don't have anything to do.
I've spent my time reteaching myself a math course, learning guitar, reading some books and watching a l | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21f] and his [20m] hobbies...wondering how to be tactful.
POST: We've (21f and 20m) been together for over 1.5 years. Things are pretty over the moon. He's incredibly patient and understanding. He humors me when I go rambling off on crazy topics. We support each other and care about what the other one is doing. We're different, but we work.
We got into a discussion about the online game League of Legends. He's been big into it for a few years and loves playing it and | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21F) ask my boyfriend (21M) to drive me to school once every OTHER week, but he is cranky about it every time. Is my anger/frustration justified?
POST: My boyfriend and I started living together back in August, and things have been great since then. We actually fight a lot less than we used to, I guess because our fights were usually about not being able to spend enough time with each other because of our schedules. Anyway...
Just some background as to why I ask him to | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the weirdest thing a TSA Agent or Border Patrol Agent has ever found?
POST: Alright, coming back from Canada into the good ol' USA..my friend had two Enhanced Licenses in the system (let's you go to Canada without a passport and some parts of the Caribbean). He lost one and ended up getting a new one, only to have his original one mailed back to him. So at the border they asked him and he said he just never got the old one back. We go inside cause he has to fi | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (30f) am so humiliated and angry. I don't know how to move forward.
POST: My BF (30m) and I have dated for over a year and half. I hate myself right now. I fell for him so hard and I gave up a lot to be with him (I mean to move closer to him, my time, etc).
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There were many red flags that I blatantly ignored. I let myself be treated abusively. He was in a lot of trouble financially at one point so | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(F24) boyfriend(M25) of years recently got a job offer at Google, I'm nervous about how that might affect our relationship.
POST: We're not in California so we will need to relocate. We're not married and don't have any solid obligations where we currently live. I have 1 year left in my undergrad and can transfer to a school nearby when we move. He has asked me to move with him and really thinks that it will just be a location change. What's making me uneasy about all of | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Mechanically Inclined of Reddit...
POST: I drive a 2001 Chevy Prizm (Toyota Corolla), and there is something wrong with it.
Yesterday while driving out of the bank parking lot onto a main street I heard a loud thunk out of the right rear quadrant of my car. As I was pulling up to a stop my front left front wheel assembly started making a loud banging noise, in time with the speed of the wheels. This banging coincides with a drop in pressure from the brake pedal. I used en | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] developed feelings for two room mates who might be onto me. Things are crazy, dangerous and complicated. Could I get some advice, please?
POST: It all started about 6 months ago when I (24M) started living with strangers (1xM & 3xF). We are all single and our ages do not vary too greatly. This might sound strange to some, but where I live, students, even if they don't know each other, can end up sharing a house to reduce rent costs. Effectively, we rent our own bed | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have an embarrassing health problem. Can anyone offer some dating advice?
POST: Hey reddit, over the past few years I've been struggling with a rather embarrassing health issue and could really use some advice. For whatever reason, about 4 years ago I began having difficulties with achieving and maintaining erections. ...I am only 25.
I am not posting here to seek medical advice, as I've already been to a crap load of doctors/urologists and it's been well-established th | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Why is my cat meowing?
POST: I've had this cat for two years. Normally, she's very quiet; she only meows to greet someone or if she sees someone holding her bag of treats.
For the past two days, she's been walking around the house, meowing constantly. If the door to my room is closed, she'll sometimes scratch at the frame. As soon as I leave my room, she stops meowing; I don't even have to be in the same room as her, as long as I'm not in my room, the meowing stops. When I go back | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.
POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen him smoke. It's not a secret that I absolutely hate the habit (cigarettes). I just think it's disgusting and I personally don't (usually) date guys that smoke. I just prefer not to be grossed | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (22 m) in a relationship since high school curious if others in my position have felt trapped.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years and it's been great. The only problem is things are starting to slow down and I feel as if I'm losing individuality. My girlfriend has lost a lot of motivation in life and is satisfied without accomplishing anything but I've turned into the kind of person that wants to be the best person I can be. I've dated other girls bef | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I need help. How can I make it through University?
POST: So, I have an interesting situation. I am a Canadian citizen, living in the USA on my father's work visa, in my senior year of highschool. I don't much like it here, and I intend to return to Canada as soon as possible after I graduate, and attend University there. My parents make about $160 K a year, but are terrible with finances and therefore my mother has decided that I have to either pay the entire way throug | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Late last evening I walked into my fathers backyard to see him sprawled out on the ground. I was too late. His eyes milky, saliva and blood stains coming out of his mouth. Skin cold to the touch. Has any other Redditor found the dead body of a family member?
POST: I'll be honest and panicked when he would't respond to calling out his name. I dropped to the ground and grabbed his cold wrist, hoping for a heart beat. Then I laid my head on his chest hoping for the same. Bu | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] and my ex-boyfriend [23 M] have run out of things to talk about.
POST: I dated my ex-boyfriend for a little over a year. The last few months of our relationship was shaky. We were fighting every single day over little things and got way too dependent on each other. We both seemed to lose touch of who we used to be because we were so wrapped up in each other. We decided to break up to focus on ourselves and finding happiness independently. We decided to stay friend | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/F] with man I am dating[28/M] for over a month. Is he being cold and hinting for me to back off?
POST: Hi Reddit,
I am a 25 year old woman dating a guy named Thom.
Thom and I met on tinder two months ago. We messaged eachother for about a month before meeting (we both work in the finance industry and the fourth quarter craze was overwhelming. Thom was very chatty during the month before we met (to keep the connection alive, I suppose.
We went on seven dates since | negative |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F26] don't feel smart enough for my boyfriend [M28].
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. Something that has always bothered me a bit is that I don't feel like I'm smart enough for him. He is a theoretical physicist (and I think he does research in math too). I love that he's smart. It's just that he is so much smarter that I am. He'll come home and tell me about something that happened at work and I will have literally no idea what he's ta | positive |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Missouri/Arkansas: questions about custody
POST: Going to try and keep this short and simple. I'm just trying to prepare myself for what may happen.
My BIL and his (ex) girlfriend are having a baby. She is due in July. She has 2 previous children from 2 different fathers and does not have custody of either child. Her mother has custody of one and baby daddy has custody of the other. She has done nothing but lie to us and my BIL and we are concerned for the child's safety now | negative |