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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Mother [51] not speaking to me [21] because of a trip I am planning POST: My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast (my parents are holidaying on the east coast) but because my mum was freaking out so much about me going to meet my boyfriend i said we can all road trip there together. I even invited her on the trip with us. I have given her all of our dates so that she can travel around with us. The plan was for me to stay on the 4th July and fly back on the 5th. Mum knew this. I told her I had booked a flight back already from the west coast to east coast (where she would pick me up and we would fly back to the UK together). She has gone mad at me because she can't believe I would book a flight when she told me she didn't want me flying on my own. At the time I had booked it she told me she wasn't gonna road trip with us. She knew the trip was happening.......how else was I to get home if I don't fly? I am fine flying on my own it doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I have done everything I can to make her feel comfortable with this trip and she is just trying to sabotage it. Thoughts?? TL;DR:

I have made sure my mother is comfortable with my boyfriend travelling on a trip and now my mother is mad because I booked it.

Mum is mad at me for not flying on my own trip to meet my boyfriend.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Mother [51] not speaking to me [21] because of a trip I am planning POST: My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast (my parents are holidaying on the east coast) but because my mum was freaking out so much about me going to meet my boyfriend i said we can all road trip there together. I even invited her on the trip with us. I have given her all of our dates so that she can travel around with us. The plan was for me to stay on the 4th July and fly back on the 5th. Mum knew this. I told her I had booked a flight back already from the west coast to east coast (where she would pick me up and we would fly back to the UK together). She has gone mad at me because she can't believe I would book a flight when she told me she didn't want me flying on my own. At the time I had booked it she told me she wasn't gonna road trip with us. She knew the trip was happening.......how else was I to get home if I don't fly? I am fine flying on my own it doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I have done everything I can to make her feel comfortable with this trip and she is just trying to sabotage it. Thoughts?? TL;DR:

mum isn't speaking to me because I booked a flight and she doesn't want me flying on my own.

I have made sure my mother is comfortable with my boyfriend travelling on a trip and now my mother is mad because I booked it.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Mother [51] not speaking to me [21] because of a trip I am planning POST: My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast (my parents are holidaying on the east coast) but because my mum was freaking out so much about me going to meet my boyfriend i said we can all road trip there together. I even invited her on the trip with us. I have given her all of our dates so that she can travel around with us. The plan was for me to stay on the 4th July and fly back on the 5th. Mum knew this. I told her I had booked a flight back already from the west coast to east coast (where she would pick me up and we would fly back to the UK together). She has gone mad at me because she can't believe I would book a flight when she told me she didn't want me flying on my own. At the time I had booked it she told me she wasn't gonna road trip with us. She knew the trip was happening.......how else was I to get home if I don't fly? I am fine flying on my own it doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I have done everything I can to make her feel comfortable with this trip and she is just trying to sabotage it. Thoughts?? TL;DR:

mum isn't speaking to me because I booked a flight and she doesn't want me flying on my own.

Mum thought I was going to road trip with my boyfriend. I cancelled the flight. Mum is annoyed because she thought she would be traveling with me. I am fine with that.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Mother [51] not speaking to me [21] because of a trip I am planning POST: My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast (my parents are holidaying on the east coast) but because my mum was freaking out so much about me going to meet my boyfriend i said we can all road trip there together. I even invited her on the trip with us. I have given her all of our dates so that she can travel around with us. The plan was for me to stay on the 4th July and fly back on the 5th. Mum knew this. I told her I had booked a flight back already from the west coast to east coast (where she would pick me up and we would fly back to the UK together). She has gone mad at me because she can't believe I would book a flight when she told me she didn't want me flying on my own. At the time I had booked it she told me she wasn't gonna road trip with us. She knew the trip was happening.......how else was I to get home if I don't fly? I am fine flying on my own it doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I have done everything I can to make her feel comfortable with this trip and she is just trying to sabotage it. Thoughts?? TL;DR:

Mum thought I was going to road trip with my boyfriend. I cancelled the flight. Mum is annoyed because she thought she would be traveling with me. I am fine with that.

Mum is mad at me for not flying on my own trip to meet my boyfriend.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can I sue my property management company and landlord for harassment and human rights violations? POST: My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant. Evidence: She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park Neighbours have no problem with us We requested from the property management group to have the video tapes looked at and they stated hey did not have time to go on a "wild goose chase" I want evidence hard evidence and they denied me. I want to pursue this further particularly with the human rights board of Canada based in harrassment and predjusice that goes against the human rights code. The letter calls us assholes, says we were raised in a barn, says because we are young we should be more competent, calls us pigs, days we make all the neighbours sick. It is defamatory as it was pasted for everyone to see. Also we were not born in Canada. Please see this website for your information on his situation. Also this letter was taped on our door for everyone to see. It was prejudice and defamatory on many levels Adressed in the the human rights code of Manitoba. It was defamation of character for it to be visible To everyone. Please see the following " It is also contrary to The Code for anyone responsible for rental housing to knowingly permit or fail to take reasonable steps to terminate harassment of one participant by another participant - such as harassment of one tenant by another tenant. (Please also see the sample policies on Discrimination and Harassment at the end of these guidelines.)" TL;DR:

landlord pretended to be another tenant and wrote defamatory things on our wall, property management company refuses to look at the video tapes. Want to pursue this further

My landlord is harassing me and my neighbours with the same falsified leaflets that she has done in the past. We are seeking to have the evidence examined by the Human Rights Board of Canada.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can I sue my property management company and landlord for harassment and human rights violations? POST: My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant. Evidence: She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park Neighbours have no problem with us We requested from the property management group to have the video tapes looked at and they stated hey did not have time to go on a "wild goose chase" I want evidence hard evidence and they denied me. I want to pursue this further particularly with the human rights board of Canada based in harrassment and predjusice that goes against the human rights code. The letter calls us assholes, says we were raised in a barn, says because we are young we should be more competent, calls us pigs, days we make all the neighbours sick. It is defamatory as it was pasted for everyone to see. Also we were not born in Canada. Please see this website for your information on his situation. Also this letter was taped on our door for everyone to see. It was prejudice and defamatory on many levels Adressed in the the human rights code of Manitoba. It was defamation of character for it to be visible To everyone. Please see the following " It is also contrary to The Code for anyone responsible for rental housing to knowingly permit or fail to take reasonable steps to terminate harassment of one participant by another participant - such as harassment of one tenant by another tenant. (Please also see the sample policies on Discrimination and Harassment at the end of these guidelines.)" TL;DR:

landlord is a pathological liar who is now trying to get me to sue her for defamation and human rights violations. I have tried talking to the property management company and they are saying it is irrelevant since the tape is a known fact. I want all the evidence and would like to pursue this further especially with the human rights board of Canada.

Landlord taped false message on door for everyone to see. Is this illegal?

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can I sue my property management company and landlord for harassment and human rights violations? POST: My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant. Evidence: She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park Neighbours have no problem with us We requested from the property management group to have the video tapes looked at and they stated hey did not have time to go on a "wild goose chase" I want evidence hard evidence and they denied me. I want to pursue this further particularly with the human rights board of Canada based in harrassment and predjusice that goes against the human rights code. The letter calls us assholes, says we were raised in a barn, says because we are young we should be more competent, calls us pigs, days we make all the neighbours sick. It is defamatory as it was pasted for everyone to see. Also we were not born in Canada. Please see this website for your information on his situation. Also this letter was taped on our door for everyone to see. It was prejudice and defamatory on many levels Adressed in the the human rights code of Manitoba. It was defamation of character for it to be visible To everyone. Please see the following " It is also contrary to The Code for anyone responsible for rental housing to knowingly permit or fail to take reasonable steps to terminate harassment of one participant by another participant - such as harassment of one tenant by another tenant. (Please also see the sample policies on Discrimination and Harassment at the end of these guidelines.)" TL;DR:

landlord pretended to be another tenant and wrote defamatory things on our wall, property management company refuses to look at the video tapes. Want to pursue this further

Landlord taped false message on door for everyone to see. Is this illegal?

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can I sue my property management company and landlord for harassment and human rights violations? POST: My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant. Evidence: She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park Neighbours have no problem with us We requested from the property management group to have the video tapes looked at and they stated hey did not have time to go on a "wild goose chase" I want evidence hard evidence and they denied me. I want to pursue this further particularly with the human rights board of Canada based in harrassment and predjusice that goes against the human rights code. The letter calls us assholes, says we were raised in a barn, says because we are young we should be more competent, calls us pigs, days we make all the neighbours sick. It is defamatory as it was pasted for everyone to see. Also we were not born in Canada. Please see this website for your information on his situation. Also this letter was taped on our door for everyone to see. It was prejudice and defamatory on many levels Adressed in the the human rights code of Manitoba. It was defamation of character for it to be visible To everyone. Please see the following " It is also contrary to The Code for anyone responsible for rental housing to knowingly permit or fail to take reasonable steps to terminate harassment of one participant by another participant - such as harassment of one tenant by another tenant. (Please also see the sample policies on Discrimination and Harassment at the end of these guidelines.)" TL;DR:

landlord is a pathological liar who is now trying to get me to sue her for defamation and human rights violations. I have tried talking to the property management company and they are saying it is irrelevant since the tape is a known fact. I want all the evidence and would like to pursue this further especially with the human rights board of Canada.

My landlord is harassing me and my neighbours with the same falsified leaflets that she has done in the past. We are seeking to have the evidence examined by the Human Rights Board of Canada.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for the best course of action to get my money from a rude RA. POST: A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cash. Now fast forward to 2 months later, the second time I remind her that she still owes me money, and I have her rubber ducks. I held onto the ducks until I got my money. She just verbally assaulted me. She denies ever wanting to participate in the toy race and says I pushed it on her, so I shouldn't be paid. She was quite rude and disrespectful. I'm calling bullshit because I would never sign someone up if they hadn't fully agreed. It was her idea to include her sister! Now she owes me 6 dollars and I'm angry. I would have let it go despite the rudeness and disrespect. I am now going to do everything in my power to ensure she pays me even if I have to burn down the bridge between us. In my mind it is already half burnt. What should I do to get my rude, disrespectful and cheapskate RA to pay me the money she owes? I'm not afraid to be mean. TL;DR:

RA owes me money, made me buy her toys in a fundraiser, bought my sister's toys, now owes me 6 dollars. How can I get her to pay me?

RA verbally abused me and I want to get her to pay me.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for the best course of action to get my money from a rude RA. POST: A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cash. Now fast forward to 2 months later, the second time I remind her that she still owes me money, and I have her rubber ducks. I held onto the ducks until I got my money. She just verbally assaulted me. She denies ever wanting to participate in the toy race and says I pushed it on her, so I shouldn't be paid. She was quite rude and disrespectful. I'm calling bullshit because I would never sign someone up if they hadn't fully agreed. It was her idea to include her sister! Now she owes me 6 dollars and I'm angry. I would have let it go despite the rudeness and disrespect. I am now going to do everything in my power to ensure she pays me even if I have to burn down the bridge between us. In my mind it is already half burnt. What should I do to get my rude, disrespectful and cheapskate RA to pay me the money she owes? I'm not afraid to be mean. TL;DR:

My rude RA voluntarily participated in a fundraiser and won't pay me back. How do I get my money?

RA verbally abused me and I want to get her to pay me.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for the best course of action to get my money from a rude RA. POST: A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cash. Now fast forward to 2 months later, the second time I remind her that she still owes me money, and I have her rubber ducks. I held onto the ducks until I got my money. She just verbally assaulted me. She denies ever wanting to participate in the toy race and says I pushed it on her, so I shouldn't be paid. She was quite rude and disrespectful. I'm calling bullshit because I would never sign someone up if they hadn't fully agreed. It was her idea to include her sister! Now she owes me 6 dollars and I'm angry. I would have let it go despite the rudeness and disrespect. I am now going to do everything in my power to ensure she pays me even if I have to burn down the bridge between us. In my mind it is already half burnt. What should I do to get my rude, disrespectful and cheapskate RA to pay me the money she owes? I'm not afraid to be mean. TL;DR:

RA was rude, disrespectful and cheapskate. Now owes me a lot of money. I want to get her to pay me back. What should I do?

My rude RA voluntarily participated in a fundraiser and won't pay me back. How do I get my money?

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for the best course of action to get my money from a rude RA. POST: A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cash. Now fast forward to 2 months later, the second time I remind her that she still owes me money, and I have her rubber ducks. I held onto the ducks until I got my money. She just verbally assaulted me. She denies ever wanting to participate in the toy race and says I pushed it on her, so I shouldn't be paid. She was quite rude and disrespectful. I'm calling bullshit because I would never sign someone up if they hadn't fully agreed. It was her idea to include her sister! Now she owes me 6 dollars and I'm angry. I would have let it go despite the rudeness and disrespect. I am now going to do everything in my power to ensure she pays me even if I have to burn down the bridge between us. In my mind it is already half burnt. What should I do to get my rude, disrespectful and cheapskate RA to pay me the money she owes? I'm not afraid to be mean. TL;DR:

RA was rude, disrespectful and cheapskate. Now owes me a lot of money. I want to get her to pay me back. What should I do?

RA owes me money, made me buy her toys in a fundraiser, bought my sister's toys, now owes me 6 dollars. How can I get her to pay me?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would you be mad if your SO who lives 1600 miles away, in another country, who has visited you 4 times since March, told you ahead of time, Hey Honey, I love you very much, I going to Hooters tonight for wings, cause its walking distance from the casino I going to drink alcohol at. POST: 1) I got a DWI in 2014 2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal 3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana 4) I am very much in love with her. 5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work. 6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on reddit , Christmas Eve 2015. 7) She is a wonderful, brilliant, gorgeous, sweet woman, I am clearly dating way over my head and a different league. 8) I spoke to her yesterday driving home from work. I have a coupon for a free night at a local casino, and I told her, look I can't drive once have more than I should drink, but to me this is like a 12 hour vacation, and I won't drive, I remember the last time I was at the casino, I didn't like the foods. I will going to Hooters, and I playfully joked with her, I am going for the food. She never said don't go, she never said if you go I will be hurt, 9) Today is the next day, I am work, I have apologized twice to her, and I am getting very tepid, very short emails back, clearly there is a problem with last night. TL;DR:

10) On a scale from 1-10, how mad would you be with you significant other, if he went to hooters. And if she said don't go, I would not have gone.

I am stuck at work, my girlfriend is going to Hooters, I am not.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would you be mad if your SO who lives 1600 miles away, in another country, who has visited you 4 times since March, told you ahead of time, Hey Honey, I love you very much, I going to Hooters tonight for wings, cause its walking distance from the casino I going to drink alcohol at. POST: 1) I got a DWI in 2014 2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal 3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana 4) I am very much in love with her. 5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work. 6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on reddit , Christmas Eve 2015. 7) She is a wonderful, brilliant, gorgeous, sweet woman, I am clearly dating way over my head and a different league. 8) I spoke to her yesterday driving home from work. I have a coupon for a free night at a local casino, and I told her, look I can't drive once have more than I should drink, but to me this is like a 12 hour vacation, and I won't drive, I remember the last time I was at the casino, I didn't like the foods. I will going to Hooters, and I playfully joked with her, I am going for the food. She never said don't go, she never said if you go I will be hurt, 9) Today is the next day, I am work, I have apologized twice to her, and I am getting very tepid, very short emails back, clearly there is a problem with last night. TL;DR:

10) On a scale from 1-10, how mad would you be with you significant other, if he went to hooters. And if she said don't go, I would not have gone.

I am depressed and I need to vent.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would you be mad if your SO who lives 1600 miles away, in another country, who has visited you 4 times since March, told you ahead of time, Hey Honey, I love you very much, I going to Hooters tonight for wings, cause its walking distance from the casino I going to drink alcohol at. POST: 1) I got a DWI in 2014 2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal 3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana 4) I am very much in love with her. 5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work. 6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on reddit , Christmas Eve 2015. 7) She is a wonderful, brilliant, gorgeous, sweet woman, I am clearly dating way over my head and a different league. 8) I spoke to her yesterday driving home from work. I have a coupon for a free night at a local casino, and I told her, look I can't drive once have more than I should drink, but to me this is like a 12 hour vacation, and I won't drive, I remember the last time I was at the casino, I didn't like the foods. I will going to Hooters, and I playfully joked with her, I am going for the food. She never said don't go, she never said if you go I will be hurt, 9) Today is the next day, I am work, I have apologized twice to her, and I am getting very tepid, very short emails back, clearly there is a problem with last night. TL;DR:

I am not sure what the fuck to do. I have told her I love her, she is the love of my life, I love her but I am dating way over my head.

I am depressed and I need to vent.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would you be mad if your SO who lives 1600 miles away, in another country, who has visited you 4 times since March, told you ahead of time, Hey Honey, I love you very much, I going to Hooters tonight for wings, cause its walking distance from the casino I going to drink alcohol at. POST: 1) I got a DWI in 2014 2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal 3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana 4) I am very much in love with her. 5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work. 6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on reddit , Christmas Eve 2015. 7) She is a wonderful, brilliant, gorgeous, sweet woman, I am clearly dating way over my head and a different league. 8) I spoke to her yesterday driving home from work. I have a coupon for a free night at a local casino, and I told her, look I can't drive once have more than I should drink, but to me this is like a 12 hour vacation, and I won't drive, I remember the last time I was at the casino, I didn't like the foods. I will going to Hooters, and I playfully joked with her, I am going for the food. She never said don't go, she never said if you go I will be hurt, 9) Today is the next day, I am work, I have apologized twice to her, and I am getting very tepid, very short emails back, clearly there is a problem with last night. TL;DR:

I am stuck at work, my girlfriend is going to Hooters, I am not.

I am not sure what the fuck to do. I have told her I love her, she is the love of my life, I love her but I am dating way over my head.

SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: My wedding dress looks different to how I wanted it. POST: So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me. When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead of 3/4 sleeves they were full length (slightly too short as well). There were clear beads and sparkles sown everywhere covering the entire front top half. And the one thing I made it extremely clear that I did not want was a train at the back - the dress has a massive long train. I asked my mother if we could speak to the dress maker of why she had sown the design different to how I had asked and the pictures I had shown. My mother admitted to me then that she actually asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I was upset and she was also really sad that I didn't like my dress. My mother was also unhappy when I said that at least I would like to have them arrange to cut the train off and fix the sleeves as she thinks the dress would look ruined. She offered to pay for the dress to 'make up' for it. In the end I realised that I will only be wearing this dress for a day. Been trying to look at it from all sorts of angles but I can't quite shake off the gutted disappointment and odd sense of betrayal. I feel really guilty/selfish too for seeing my mother look so sad. Anyone have any suggestions to how I can clear this up? TL;DR:

My dress looks different to how I wanted it, how do I turn this into a positive/ get over myself?

My mother asked my dress maker to change the design to be prettier and I feel awful. What do I do? EDIT: I have posted the dress here.

SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: My wedding dress looks different to how I wanted it. POST: So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me. When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead of 3/4 sleeves they were full length (slightly too short as well). There were clear beads and sparkles sown everywhere covering the entire front top half. And the one thing I made it extremely clear that I did not want was a train at the back - the dress has a massive long train. I asked my mother if we could speak to the dress maker of why she had sown the design different to how I had asked and the pictures I had shown. My mother admitted to me then that she actually asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I was upset and she was also really sad that I didn't like my dress. My mother was also unhappy when I said that at least I would like to have them arrange to cut the train off and fix the sleeves as she thinks the dress would look ruined. She offered to pay for the dress to 'make up' for it. In the end I realised that I will only be wearing this dress for a day. Been trying to look at it from all sorts of angles but I can't quite shake off the gutted disappointment and odd sense of betrayal. I feel really guilty/selfish too for seeing my mother look so sad. Anyone have any suggestions to how I can clear this up? TL;DR:

My dress looks different to how I wanted it, how do I turn this into a positive/ get over myself?

my mother asked a wedding dress tailor to make my wedding dress look like I wanted it, instead of the way I had asked. I've had it for a day and I can't shake the feeling that I'm a hypocrite.

SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: My wedding dress looks different to how I wanted it. POST: So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me. When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead of 3/4 sleeves they were full length (slightly too short as well). There were clear beads and sparkles sown everywhere covering the entire front top half. And the one thing I made it extremely clear that I did not want was a train at the back - the dress has a massive long train. I asked my mother if we could speak to the dress maker of why she had sown the design different to how I had asked and the pictures I had shown. My mother admitted to me then that she actually asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I was upset and she was also really sad that I didn't like my dress. My mother was also unhappy when I said that at least I would like to have them arrange to cut the train off and fix the sleeves as she thinks the dress would look ruined. She offered to pay for the dress to 'make up' for it. In the end I realised that I will only be wearing this dress for a day. Been trying to look at it from all sorts of angles but I can't quite shake off the gutted disappointment and odd sense of betrayal. I feel really guilty/selfish too for seeing my mother look so sad. Anyone have any suggestions to how I can clear this up? TL;DR:

My mother looked at my wedding dress and sown it differently to how I asked. She told me that she asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I feel guilty and selfish for seeing my mother look like this.

My mother asked my dress maker to change the design to be prettier and I feel awful. What do I do? EDIT: I have posted the dress here.

SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: My wedding dress looks different to how I wanted it. POST: So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me. When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead of 3/4 sleeves they were full length (slightly too short as well). There were clear beads and sparkles sown everywhere covering the entire front top half. And the one thing I made it extremely clear that I did not want was a train at the back - the dress has a massive long train. I asked my mother if we could speak to the dress maker of why she had sown the design different to how I had asked and the pictures I had shown. My mother admitted to me then that she actually asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I was upset and she was also really sad that I didn't like my dress. My mother was also unhappy when I said that at least I would like to have them arrange to cut the train off and fix the sleeves as she thinks the dress would look ruined. She offered to pay for the dress to 'make up' for it. In the end I realised that I will only be wearing this dress for a day. Been trying to look at it from all sorts of angles but I can't quite shake off the gutted disappointment and odd sense of betrayal. I feel really guilty/selfish too for seeing my mother look so sad. Anyone have any suggestions to how I can clear this up? TL;DR:

My mother looked at my wedding dress and sown it differently to how I asked. She told me that she asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I feel guilty and selfish for seeing my mother look like this.

my mother asked a wedding dress tailor to make my wedding dress look like I wanted it, instead of the way I had asked. I've had it for a day and I can't shake the feeling that I'm a hypocrite.

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question about an internship becoming a job POST: Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I am trying to create a new position of my own in demographics and writing. One month in, and they're already dropping big hints that they want to hire me. I also found the company $1600 in unclaimed funds. However... the other employees I work with seem to have side work they do, so I am guessing that it won't pay super well. The other thing is that I am unemployed right now and really hurting, so any money could help. Finding decently paid work around my internship schedule is really hard. TL;DR:

I suck at being a record label intern, need a job. Just looking for advice and/or suggestions.

I have an internship with an internship company that is looking to make me a fulltime employee. What do I do and what should I do?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question about an internship becoming a job POST: Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I am trying to create a new position of my own in demographics and writing. One month in, and they're already dropping big hints that they want to hire me. I also found the company $1600 in unclaimed funds. However... the other employees I work with seem to have side work they do, so I am guessing that it won't pay super well. The other thing is that I am unemployed right now and really hurting, so any money could help. Finding decently paid work around my internship schedule is really hard. TL;DR:

I have an internship with an internship company that is looking to make me a fulltime employee. What do I do and what should I do?

Should I ask for payment (or partial payment) now or wait out the other two months?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question about an internship becoming a job POST: Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I am trying to create a new position of my own in demographics and writing. One month in, and they're already dropping big hints that they want to hire me. I also found the company $1600 in unclaimed funds. However... the other employees I work with seem to have side work they do, so I am guessing that it won't pay super well. The other thing is that I am unemployed right now and really hurting, so any money could help. Finding decently paid work around my internship schedule is really hard. TL;DR:

Should I ask for payment (or partial payment) now or wait out the other two months?

I got some free money, how do I get some work?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question about an internship becoming a job POST: Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I am trying to create a new position of my own in demographics and writing. One month in, and they're already dropping big hints that they want to hire me. I also found the company $1600 in unclaimed funds. However... the other employees I work with seem to have side work they do, so I am guessing that it won't pay super well. The other thing is that I am unemployed right now and really hurting, so any money could help. Finding decently paid work around my internship schedule is really hard. TL;DR:

I suck at being a record label intern, need a job. Just looking for advice and/or suggestions.

I got some free money, how do I get some work?

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been unmotivated and I think it's a social thing.. help me out here? POST: My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it. I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days AND Friday I was totally active, I cleaned out my den closet, reorganized all my old papers and files and crap, did the dishes and the laundry.. it was awesome. Today? All I can do is refresh Askreddit and watch for orangereds... I suddenly realized that I'm a SIM... I'm that asshole SIM that has to have constant contact with people every damn day or I refuse to do anything because my mood bar is red. It all makes sense now. I've been depressed as hell and totally useless ever since I moved - I don't have any friends here. TL;DR:

My motivation is directly related to how much social interaction I've had. Is anyone else like this? How can I overcome this, or make more friends so that I can be more motivated?

I'm a fucking idiot and I can't control my emotions. I'm not sure how I can loose the belief that I'm going to get something done if I don't really have anything to do because I can't get myself to do anything.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been unmotivated and I think it's a social thing.. help me out here? POST: My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it. I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days AND Friday I was totally active, I cleaned out my den closet, reorganized all my old papers and files and crap, did the dishes and the laundry.. it was awesome. Today? All I can do is refresh Askreddit and watch for orangereds... I suddenly realized that I'm a SIM... I'm that asshole SIM that has to have constant contact with people every damn day or I refuse to do anything because my mood bar is red. It all makes sense now. I've been depressed as hell and totally useless ever since I moved - I don't have any friends here. TL;DR:

My motivation is directly related to how much social interaction I've had. Is anyone else like this? How can I overcome this, or make more friends so that I can be more motivated?

I'm an asshole.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been unmotivated and I think it's a social thing.. help me out here? POST: My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it. I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days AND Friday I was totally active, I cleaned out my den closet, reorganized all my old papers and files and crap, did the dishes and the laundry.. it was awesome. Today? All I can do is refresh Askreddit and watch for orangereds... I suddenly realized that I'm a SIM... I'm that asshole SIM that has to have constant contact with people every damn day or I refuse to do anything because my mood bar is red. It all makes sense now. I've been depressed as hell and totally useless ever since I moved - I don't have any friends here. TL;DR:

I'm a fucking idiot and I can't control my emotions. I'm not sure how I can loose the belief that I'm going to get something done if I don't really have anything to do because I can't get myself to do anything.

I've been depressed, I'm no longer a depressed SIM and don't know what to do. What to do? I want to do something. I just don't know how.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been unmotivated and I think it's a social thing.. help me out here? POST: My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it. I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days AND Friday I was totally active, I cleaned out my den closet, reorganized all my old papers and files and crap, did the dishes and the laundry.. it was awesome. Today? All I can do is refresh Askreddit and watch for orangereds... I suddenly realized that I'm a SIM... I'm that asshole SIM that has to have constant contact with people every damn day or I refuse to do anything because my mood bar is red. It all makes sense now. I've been depressed as hell and totally useless ever since I moved - I don't have any friends here. TL;DR:

I've been depressed, I'm no longer a depressed SIM and don't know what to do. What to do? I want to do something. I just don't know how.

I'm an asshole.

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My skill-set differs from my job demands. How do I transition? Finding a new job? What's my job title? Please help! POST: I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward: I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strategies in ways to enhance profitability and margin opportunities, but I have other interests. I really thrive off problem solving and business process optimization, and have recently developed a LAN website with many languages (PHP/AJAX/PLSQL/HTML5/CSS/JavaScript/jQuery) to make it user responsive...develop reports, save them, create timed tasks, automatically format/e-mail out/etc. It's like an easier and more responsive view of IBM Cognos. That's the type of thing I like doing -- finding business problems (processes that are redundant) and solving them. I've literally automated things and saved the company SEVERAL hours per week for SEVERAL employees and plan on saving them more in the future. Should I be talking to my boss and how I should transfer/create my own job title...or what? What type of job title should I be looking for other jobs with? Business Process Optimization Specialist? I have no idea. I also believe I'm pretty underpaid for the skill-set/amount of money I'm saving the company by automating some timed reports. I wouldn't mind staying around here, but I also would LOVE to work somewhat remotely and/or travel. Almost like a consultant. TL;DR:

I'm an IT guy that's been doing business process optimization for several years; I enjoy automating business processes, but don't know how to transfer to another job.

I've done some job-related things and I think I'm a good candidate for an improved job. What do I do?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My skill-set differs from my job demands. How do I transition? Finding a new job? What's my job title? Please help! POST: I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward: I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strategies in ways to enhance profitability and margin opportunities, but I have other interests. I really thrive off problem solving and business process optimization, and have recently developed a LAN website with many languages (PHP/AJAX/PLSQL/HTML5/CSS/JavaScript/jQuery) to make it user responsive...develop reports, save them, create timed tasks, automatically format/e-mail out/etc. It's like an easier and more responsive view of IBM Cognos. That's the type of thing I like doing -- finding business problems (processes that are redundant) and solving them. I've literally automated things and saved the company SEVERAL hours per week for SEVERAL employees and plan on saving them more in the future. Should I be talking to my boss and how I should transfer/create my own job title...or what? What type of job title should I be looking for other jobs with? Business Process Optimization Specialist? I have no idea. I also believe I'm pretty underpaid for the skill-set/amount of money I'm saving the company by automating some timed reports. I wouldn't mind staying around here, but I also would LOVE to work somewhat remotely and/or travel. Almost like a consultant. TL;DR:

I've developed a really useful tool to help companies with pricing data analysis and a passion for business process optimization. To me, this sounds like a job title that I could maybe get somewhere better (or not).**

My job demands are different than what I enjoy doing. Can you tell me what type of job I should be looking for?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My skill-set differs from my job demands. How do I transition? Finding a new job? What's my job title? Please help! POST: I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward: I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strategies in ways to enhance profitability and margin opportunities, but I have other interests. I really thrive off problem solving and business process optimization, and have recently developed a LAN website with many languages (PHP/AJAX/PLSQL/HTML5/CSS/JavaScript/jQuery) to make it user responsive...develop reports, save them, create timed tasks, automatically format/e-mail out/etc. It's like an easier and more responsive view of IBM Cognos. That's the type of thing I like doing -- finding business problems (processes that are redundant) and solving them. I've literally automated things and saved the company SEVERAL hours per week for SEVERAL employees and plan on saving them more in the future. Should I be talking to my boss and how I should transfer/create my own job title...or what? What type of job title should I be looking for other jobs with? Business Process Optimization Specialist? I have no idea. I also believe I'm pretty underpaid for the skill-set/amount of money I'm saving the company by automating some timed reports. I wouldn't mind staying around here, but I also would LOVE to work somewhat remotely and/or travel. Almost like a consultant. TL;DR:

I've developed a really useful tool to help companies with pricing data analysis and a passion for business process optimization. To me, this sounds like a job title that I could maybe get somewhere better (or not).**

I've done some job-related things and I think I'm a good candidate for an improved job. What do I do?

SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My skill-set differs from my job demands. How do I transition? Finding a new job? What's my job title? Please help! POST: I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward: I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strategies in ways to enhance profitability and margin opportunities, but I have other interests. I really thrive off problem solving and business process optimization, and have recently developed a LAN website with many languages (PHP/AJAX/PLSQL/HTML5/CSS/JavaScript/jQuery) to make it user responsive...develop reports, save them, create timed tasks, automatically format/e-mail out/etc. It's like an easier and more responsive view of IBM Cognos. That's the type of thing I like doing -- finding business problems (processes that are redundant) and solving them. I've literally automated things and saved the company SEVERAL hours per week for SEVERAL employees and plan on saving them more in the future. Should I be talking to my boss and how I should transfer/create my own job title...or what? What type of job title should I be looking for other jobs with? Business Process Optimization Specialist? I have no idea. I also believe I'm pretty underpaid for the skill-set/amount of money I'm saving the company by automating some timed reports. I wouldn't mind staying around here, but I also would LOVE to work somewhat remotely and/or travel. Almost like a consultant. TL;DR:

I'm an IT guy that's been doing business process optimization for several years; I enjoy automating business processes, but don't know how to transfer to another job.

My job demands are different than what I enjoy doing. Can you tell me what type of job I should be looking for?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] Dad[49 M] and I just had a talk about political views and I hate his response to me. I need advice on whether or not I should let him know. POST: So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was making were often 'you're 20 and acting like a 20 year old, which is fine' and 'you don't have enough life experience. You don't know. You'll change your mind when you're older'. Well I'm not ok with that attitude. Yeah I'm in my 20s but that shouldn't invalidate my opinion and it certainly doesn't mean that I'm inherently wrong or uninformed. I identify very strongly with my political views. They're a very important part of me. And yes my views may very well change in the next ten years, but that's because people are fluid and opinions can change. That doesn't belittle my opinions NOW. Or it shouldn't I don't think. I'm just really bothered by this and I'm wondering if it would be an ok idea to approach him and mention how I feel. I would like for him to respect my opinion in the same way that I do his. Should I just let it go? It's really bothering me. TL;DR:

I have political views that my Dad doesn't agree with. I'm confused on how to approach this...

My Dad may be a hypocrite. How should I approach him about it?**

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] Dad[49 M] and I just had a talk about political views and I hate his response to me. I need advice on whether or not I should let him know. POST: So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was making were often 'you're 20 and acting like a 20 year old, which is fine' and 'you don't have enough life experience. You don't know. You'll change your mind when you're older'. Well I'm not ok with that attitude. Yeah I'm in my 20s but that shouldn't invalidate my opinion and it certainly doesn't mean that I'm inherently wrong or uninformed. I identify very strongly with my political views. They're a very important part of me. And yes my views may very well change in the next ten years, but that's because people are fluid and opinions can change. That doesn't belittle my opinions NOW. Or it shouldn't I don't think. I'm just really bothered by this and I'm wondering if it would be an ok idea to approach him and mention how I feel. I would like for him to respect my opinion in the same way that I do his. Should I just let it go? It's really bothering me. TL;DR:

I don't like my Dad's politics. Should I let him know and what do I say?

My Dad may be a hypocrite. How should I approach him about it?**

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] Dad[49 M] and I just had a talk about political views and I hate his response to me. I need advice on whether or not I should let him know. POST: So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was making were often 'you're 20 and acting like a 20 year old, which is fine' and 'you don't have enough life experience. You don't know. You'll change your mind when you're older'. Well I'm not ok with that attitude. Yeah I'm in my 20s but that shouldn't invalidate my opinion and it certainly doesn't mean that I'm inherently wrong or uninformed. I identify very strongly with my political views. They're a very important part of me. And yes my views may very well change in the next ten years, but that's because people are fluid and opinions can change. That doesn't belittle my opinions NOW. Or it shouldn't I don't think. I'm just really bothered by this and I'm wondering if it would be an ok idea to approach him and mention how I feel. I would like for him to respect my opinion in the same way that I do his. Should I just let it go? It's really bothering me. TL;DR:

Talked politics with my Dad, he repeatedly boiled my thoughts down to 'well you're just young, you'll grow out of those thoughts' and I'm wondering if I should tell him how much that bothers me.

I don't like my Dad's politics. Should I let him know and what do I say?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] Dad[49 M] and I just had a talk about political views and I hate his response to me. I need advice on whether or not I should let him know. POST: So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was making were often 'you're 20 and acting like a 20 year old, which is fine' and 'you don't have enough life experience. You don't know. You'll change your mind when you're older'. Well I'm not ok with that attitude. Yeah I'm in my 20s but that shouldn't invalidate my opinion and it certainly doesn't mean that I'm inherently wrong or uninformed. I identify very strongly with my political views. They're a very important part of me. And yes my views may very well change in the next ten years, but that's because people are fluid and opinions can change. That doesn't belittle my opinions NOW. Or it shouldn't I don't think. I'm just really bothered by this and I'm wondering if it would be an ok idea to approach him and mention how I feel. I would like for him to respect my opinion in the same way that I do his. Should I just let it go? It's really bothering me. TL;DR:

Talked politics with my Dad, he repeatedly boiled my thoughts down to 'well you're just young, you'll grow out of those thoughts' and I'm wondering if I should tell him how much that bothers me.

I have political views that my Dad doesn't agree with. I'm confused on how to approach this...

SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [20M] Did I miss my chance? What can/should I do? POST: Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university. Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going pretty smoothly. We both suffer from social anxiety/depression, and have a lot of interests (politics, shows, movies, music, etc.) in common. Over the years she always joked that we "were pretty much a chick flick" and would end up getting together despite anything that came up. Even when we got drunk and made out this semester (3 separate times), I still kinda laughed the 'chick flick' thing off, but somewhere I knew she was right and we were getting a lot closer together. Anyway, she started getting a bit more hormonal, and when I was away for a weekend she slept with a mutual friend of ours. This is where the problem started. It became more than a one-time thing, and while they aren't exactly dating, they're at least friends with benefits. She's even said she wasn't really into him at first, but now she likes the FWB. She also said she only got with him to start with because she wanted to lose her virginity, and I didn't put out enough. It's gotten to the point where I know I'm interested in her, and I'm getting upset seeing her be FWBs with my friend. I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly that we would work well together (not to mention that my friend is very judgmental towards people who drink, people who need anti-depressants, etc., and has made her very upset/cry multiple times with his statements). Can anyone help me figure out what I should say to her? I'd like to prevent things from getting super awkward if possible, but I don't feel like I can stand around doing nothing anymore... TL;DR:

Female friend was willing to move further, I was unsure, she starts being FWB with a friend, I know I'm interested now, what do I do.

GF of 3 months is involved a friend who is also a FWB, and I want to tell her how I feel, because I feel I don't want to give her a reason to get upset.

SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [20M] Did I miss my chance? What can/should I do? POST: Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university. Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going pretty smoothly. We both suffer from social anxiety/depression, and have a lot of interests (politics, shows, movies, music, etc.) in common. Over the years she always joked that we "were pretty much a chick flick" and would end up getting together despite anything that came up. Even when we got drunk and made out this semester (3 separate times), I still kinda laughed the 'chick flick' thing off, but somewhere I knew she was right and we were getting a lot closer together. Anyway, she started getting a bit more hormonal, and when I was away for a weekend she slept with a mutual friend of ours. This is where the problem started. It became more than a one-time thing, and while they aren't exactly dating, they're at least friends with benefits. She's even said she wasn't really into him at first, but now she likes the FWB. She also said she only got with him to start with because she wanted to lose her virginity, and I didn't put out enough. It's gotten to the point where I know I'm interested in her, and I'm getting upset seeing her be FWBs with my friend. I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly that we would work well together (not to mention that my friend is very judgmental towards people who drink, people who need anti-depressants, etc., and has made her very upset/cry multiple times with his statements). Can anyone help me figure out what I should say to her? I'd like to prevent things from getting super awkward if possible, but I don't feel like I can stand around doing nothing anymore... TL;DR:

Friend and I are close friends, and she's been dating my friend, and she's been FWBs with him a lot. She's really into him, and I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly she's not into people who drink.

Not over a girl, but at least through a mutual friend. Want to enjoy the friendship, but don't want it to end like this. What should I say/do?

SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [20M] Did I miss my chance? What can/should I do? POST: Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university. Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going pretty smoothly. We both suffer from social anxiety/depression, and have a lot of interests (politics, shows, movies, music, etc.) in common. Over the years she always joked that we "were pretty much a chick flick" and would end up getting together despite anything that came up. Even when we got drunk and made out this semester (3 separate times), I still kinda laughed the 'chick flick' thing off, but somewhere I knew she was right and we were getting a lot closer together. Anyway, she started getting a bit more hormonal, and when I was away for a weekend she slept with a mutual friend of ours. This is where the problem started. It became more than a one-time thing, and while they aren't exactly dating, they're at least friends with benefits. She's even said she wasn't really into him at first, but now she likes the FWB. She also said she only got with him to start with because she wanted to lose her virginity, and I didn't put out enough. It's gotten to the point where I know I'm interested in her, and I'm getting upset seeing her be FWBs with my friend. I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly that we would work well together (not to mention that my friend is very judgmental towards people who drink, people who need anti-depressants, etc., and has made her very upset/cry multiple times with his statements). Can anyone help me figure out what I should say to her? I'd like to prevent things from getting super awkward if possible, but I don't feel like I can stand around doing nothing anymore... TL;DR:

GF of 3 months is involved a friend who is also a FWB, and I want to tell her how I feel, because I feel I don't want to give her a reason to get upset.

Not over a girl, but at least through a mutual friend. Want to enjoy the friendship, but don't want it to end like this. What should I say/do?

SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [20M] Did I miss my chance? What can/should I do? POST: Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university. Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going pretty smoothly. We both suffer from social anxiety/depression, and have a lot of interests (politics, shows, movies, music, etc.) in common. Over the years she always joked that we "were pretty much a chick flick" and would end up getting together despite anything that came up. Even when we got drunk and made out this semester (3 separate times), I still kinda laughed the 'chick flick' thing off, but somewhere I knew she was right and we were getting a lot closer together. Anyway, she started getting a bit more hormonal, and when I was away for a weekend she slept with a mutual friend of ours. This is where the problem started. It became more than a one-time thing, and while they aren't exactly dating, they're at least friends with benefits. She's even said she wasn't really into him at first, but now she likes the FWB. She also said she only got with him to start with because she wanted to lose her virginity, and I didn't put out enough. It's gotten to the point where I know I'm interested in her, and I'm getting upset seeing her be FWBs with my friend. I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly that we would work well together (not to mention that my friend is very judgmental towards people who drink, people who need anti-depressants, etc., and has made her very upset/cry multiple times with his statements). Can anyone help me figure out what I should say to her? I'd like to prevent things from getting super awkward if possible, but I don't feel like I can stand around doing nothing anymore... TL;DR:

Female friend was willing to move further, I was unsure, she starts being FWB with a friend, I know I'm interested now, what do I do.

Friend and I are close friends, and she's been dating my friend, and she's been FWBs with him a lot. She's really into him, and I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly she's not into people who drink.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, will you help me troll THE GAP? POST: The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Only one contestant got through with a picture like that to the final round and he is in second place behind some little kid by 100 votes. Introducing the "models" Majid is a German Egyptian Engineer and his friend Wael who is an electronics music producer. We need this photo to get insane amounts of votes. Let's make this happen. Lets troll the gap with these models in a white robe (arab dress) and pants as their alter ego - the popular folk singer ZIZO KAMBUTAR. Zizo's Music can be found here : Please like the photo and share it somehow! We don't even know what the prize is to be honest but the gap must be trolled. TL;DR:

THE GAP SPAMMED US - WE SPAM THEM! HELP US TROLL THE GAP BY LIKING THIS PICTURE OF SO CALLED MODELS!

Enter contestants with photos of Egyptian girls in Arab dress and pants as their alter egos and get crazy amounts of votes.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, will you help me troll THE GAP? POST: The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Only one contestant got through with a picture like that to the final round and he is in second place behind some little kid by 100 votes. Introducing the "models" Majid is a German Egyptian Engineer and his friend Wael who is an electronics music producer. We need this photo to get insane amounts of votes. Let's make this happen. Lets troll the gap with these models in a white robe (arab dress) and pants as their alter ego - the popular folk singer ZIZO KAMBUTAR. Zizo's Music can be found here : Please like the photo and share it somehow! We don't even know what the prize is to be honest but the gap must be trolled. TL;DR:

Unintentional joke that could ruin the GAP's chances for getting the models in. EDIT: If you like this, please subscribe to the subreddit.

Troll the gap with models!

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, will you help me troll THE GAP? POST: The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Only one contestant got through with a picture like that to the final round and he is in second place behind some little kid by 100 votes. Introducing the "models" Majid is a German Egyptian Engineer and his friend Wael who is an electronics music producer. We need this photo to get insane amounts of votes. Let's make this happen. Lets troll the gap with these models in a white robe (arab dress) and pants as their alter ego - the popular folk singer ZIZO KAMBUTAR. Zizo's Music can be found here : Please like the photo and share it somehow! We don't even know what the prize is to be honest but the gap must be trolled. TL;DR:

THE GAP SPAMMED US - WE SPAM THEM! HELP US TROLL THE GAP BY LIKING THIS PICTURE OF SO CALLED MODELS!

Troll the gap with models!

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, will you help me troll THE GAP? POST: The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Only one contestant got through with a picture like that to the final round and he is in second place behind some little kid by 100 votes. Introducing the "models" Majid is a German Egyptian Engineer and his friend Wael who is an electronics music producer. We need this photo to get insane amounts of votes. Let's make this happen. Lets troll the gap with these models in a white robe (arab dress) and pants as their alter ego - the popular folk singer ZIZO KAMBUTAR. Zizo's Music can be found here : Please like the photo and share it somehow! We don't even know what the prize is to be honest but the gap must be trolled. TL;DR:

Unintentional joke that could ruin the GAP's chances for getting the models in. EDIT: If you like this, please subscribe to the subreddit.

Enter contestants with photos of Egyptian girls in Arab dress and pants as their alter egos and get crazy amounts of votes.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unsolicited medical advice from gf POST: Hey everyone 26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to know im going to the doctor because (insert reason) happened. Most of the times I tell her this, she tells me what she thinks is wrong with me and sometimes will suggest that I do 'X' whether that is take some over the counter drug, insist that my doctor ruin some test or even to the point one time where she will try to get me to take a prescription drug prescribed to her mom for the issue that she thinks I also have. I am not OK with doing things outside what my doctor recommended. Because of that I will usually get defensive as i am not asking for help, just letting her know I am going to the doctor and we argue about it. She does have some medical background in regards to sports related injuries, but is not a doctor trained in what my doctors think is wrong (gi issues). How can I communicate about this without being confrontational, or am I in the wrong for getting defensive ( totally fine with that if it's the case ). I also want to note that I do go to the doctors when something is wrong regardless of what it is, not the type to hold out for long. TL;DR:

how can I communicate with my gf to let her know I am going to the doctor without becoming confrontational?

I'm an issue solver and have medical issues, sometimes my GF will suggest things i should do like take some over the counter drugs etc because she thinks im going to the doctor. How do I communicate about it?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unsolicited medical advice from gf POST: Hey everyone 26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to know im going to the doctor because (insert reason) happened. Most of the times I tell her this, she tells me what she thinks is wrong with me and sometimes will suggest that I do 'X' whether that is take some over the counter drug, insist that my doctor ruin some test or even to the point one time where she will try to get me to take a prescription drug prescribed to her mom for the issue that she thinks I also have. I am not OK with doing things outside what my doctor recommended. Because of that I will usually get defensive as i am not asking for help, just letting her know I am going to the doctor and we argue about it. She does have some medical background in regards to sports related injuries, but is not a doctor trained in what my doctors think is wrong (gi issues). How can I communicate about this without being confrontational, or am I in the wrong for getting defensive ( totally fine with that if it's the case ). I also want to note that I do go to the doctors when something is wrong regardless of what it is, not the type to hold out for long. TL;DR:

I am sick with something unknown long term, girlfriend gets upset with me if I don't follow her medical advice in addition to what doctor recommended. Girlfriend is not a doctor but is a medical professional in athletic injury discipline and my issues are GI related. How do I communicate my discomfort or am I in the wrong.

Girlfriend won't listen to my advice on what to do in regards to my medical issues.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unsolicited medical advice from gf POST: Hey everyone 26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to know im going to the doctor because (insert reason) happened. Most of the times I tell her this, she tells me what she thinks is wrong with me and sometimes will suggest that I do 'X' whether that is take some over the counter drug, insist that my doctor ruin some test or even to the point one time where she will try to get me to take a prescription drug prescribed to her mom for the issue that she thinks I also have. I am not OK with doing things outside what my doctor recommended. Because of that I will usually get defensive as i am not asking for help, just letting her know I am going to the doctor and we argue about it. She does have some medical background in regards to sports related injuries, but is not a doctor trained in what my doctors think is wrong (gi issues). How can I communicate about this without being confrontational, or am I in the wrong for getting defensive ( totally fine with that if it's the case ). I also want to note that I do go to the doctors when something is wrong regardless of what it is, not the type to hold out for long. TL;DR:

how can I communicate with my gf to let her know I am going to the doctor without becoming confrontational?

Girlfriend won't listen to my advice on what to do in regards to my medical issues.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unsolicited medical advice from gf POST: Hey everyone 26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to know im going to the doctor because (insert reason) happened. Most of the times I tell her this, she tells me what she thinks is wrong with me and sometimes will suggest that I do 'X' whether that is take some over the counter drug, insist that my doctor ruin some test or even to the point one time where she will try to get me to take a prescription drug prescribed to her mom for the issue that she thinks I also have. I am not OK with doing things outside what my doctor recommended. Because of that I will usually get defensive as i am not asking for help, just letting her know I am going to the doctor and we argue about it. She does have some medical background in regards to sports related injuries, but is not a doctor trained in what my doctors think is wrong (gi issues). How can I communicate about this without being confrontational, or am I in the wrong for getting defensive ( totally fine with that if it's the case ). I also want to note that I do go to the doctors when something is wrong regardless of what it is, not the type to hold out for long. TL;DR:

I am sick with something unknown long term, girlfriend gets upset with me if I don't follow her medical advice in addition to what doctor recommended. Girlfriend is not a doctor but is a medical professional in athletic injury discipline and my issues are GI related. How do I communicate my discomfort or am I in the wrong.

I'm an issue solver and have medical issues, sometimes my GF will suggest things i should do like take some over the counter drugs etc because she thinks im going to the doctor. How do I communicate about it?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nightmares of my ex [F 22] makes it so hard to move on POST: It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendencies. They aren't violent nightmares, nor scary ones. But they are the issues in which she used to guilt trip me with. And happy dreams in which I wake up from and I wake up to the sad reality that we aren't even together anymore. I dreamt a few times this week that we reconciled, and I woke up crying because I knew that it wasn't the case. Last night I dreamt that she was dying from anorexia (she is also anorexic and blamed me before) and that it was all my fault, but getting back together in my dream Results to me saving her. I am so tired. I can't fully move on with all this in my head. When I am conscious and awake, I am feeling better. It's whenever I sleep that memories and illusions of being with her and all of the guilt of her haunt me. I just want to be happy again. I feel like I'm drowning... She cut all ties with me and doesn't respond anymore even when I tried to reach out to her a couple of days her, so I can't exactly ask her or talk to her anymore. TL;DR:

I can't sleep because I'm scared of my ex who likes to guilt trip me. I'm having nightmares of her and depression and suicidal tendencies.

I miss my ex :(

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nightmares of my ex [F 22] makes it so hard to move on POST: It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendencies. They aren't violent nightmares, nor scary ones. But they are the issues in which she used to guilt trip me with. And happy dreams in which I wake up from and I wake up to the sad reality that we aren't even together anymore. I dreamt a few times this week that we reconciled, and I woke up crying because I knew that it wasn't the case. Last night I dreamt that she was dying from anorexia (she is also anorexic and blamed me before) and that it was all my fault, but getting back together in my dream Results to me saving her. I am so tired. I can't fully move on with all this in my head. When I am conscious and awake, I am feeling better. It's whenever I sleep that memories and illusions of being with her and all of the guilt of her haunt me. I just want to be happy again. I feel like I'm drowning... She cut all ties with me and doesn't respond anymore even when I tried to reach out to her a couple of days her, so I can't exactly ask her or talk to her anymore. TL;DR:

I'm so tired. I'm feeling better and have a clear mind when I'm awake, but it's whenever I sleep I dream of my ex, which makes it harder to move on. She is suffering from a personality disorder, eating disorder, and suicidal tendencies.

I am feeling better and realized that I was not the cause of her problems. I wish I could sleep just to sleep and be happy again.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nightmares of my ex [F 22] makes it so hard to move on POST: It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendencies. They aren't violent nightmares, nor scary ones. But they are the issues in which she used to guilt trip me with. And happy dreams in which I wake up from and I wake up to the sad reality that we aren't even together anymore. I dreamt a few times this week that we reconciled, and I woke up crying because I knew that it wasn't the case. Last night I dreamt that she was dying from anorexia (she is also anorexic and blamed me before) and that it was all my fault, but getting back together in my dream Results to me saving her. I am so tired. I can't fully move on with all this in my head. When I am conscious and awake, I am feeling better. It's whenever I sleep that memories and illusions of being with her and all of the guilt of her haunt me. I just want to be happy again. I feel like I'm drowning... She cut all ties with me and doesn't respond anymore even when I tried to reach out to her a couple of days her, so I can't exactly ask her or talk to her anymore. TL;DR:

I'm so tired. I'm feeling better and have a clear mind when I'm awake, but it's whenever I sleep I dream of my ex, which makes it harder to move on. She is suffering from a personality disorder, eating disorder, and suicidal tendencies.

I miss my ex :(

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nightmares of my ex [F 22] makes it so hard to move on POST: It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendencies. They aren't violent nightmares, nor scary ones. But they are the issues in which she used to guilt trip me with. And happy dreams in which I wake up from and I wake up to the sad reality that we aren't even together anymore. I dreamt a few times this week that we reconciled, and I woke up crying because I knew that it wasn't the case. Last night I dreamt that she was dying from anorexia (she is also anorexic and blamed me before) and that it was all my fault, but getting back together in my dream Results to me saving her. I am so tired. I can't fully move on with all this in my head. When I am conscious and awake, I am feeling better. It's whenever I sleep that memories and illusions of being with her and all of the guilt of her haunt me. I just want to be happy again. I feel like I'm drowning... She cut all ties with me and doesn't respond anymore even when I tried to reach out to her a couple of days her, so I can't exactly ask her or talk to her anymore. TL;DR:

I can't sleep because I'm scared of my ex who likes to guilt trip me. I'm having nightmares of her and depression and suicidal tendencies.

I am feeling better and realized that I was not the cause of her problems. I wish I could sleep just to sleep and be happy again.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my wife [25 F] married for just over a year. She doesnt have any local friends. POST: Some background. I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy. So the problem, she's been stateside for a year and she doesn't have any friends yet. I don't know if it's healthy for her to have her entire world based around me. She's worked a few hours temping at my place of employment, but she says she's not ready for a job yet. I suggested she take a few community college classes, but she's very embarrassed by her written word. She speaks and reads English perfectly, but her written word is not great at all. I don't know how else to help her make some friends. Is this something I should be more encouraging for or is it not as big of a deal as I think it might be? TL;DR:

My married wife doesn't speak English very well and I don't know how to help her make friends.

My wife isnt ready for her entire world to be based on me, help.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my wife [25 F] married for just over a year. She doesnt have any local friends. POST: Some background. I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy. So the problem, she's been stateside for a year and she doesn't have any friends yet. I don't know if it's healthy for her to have her entire world based around me. She's worked a few hours temping at my place of employment, but she says she's not ready for a job yet. I suggested she take a few community college classes, but she's very embarrassed by her written word. She speaks and reads English perfectly, but her written word is not great at all. I don't know how else to help her make some friends. Is this something I should be more encouraging for or is it not as big of a deal as I think it might be? TL;DR:

My wife is from Greece, but has been living here for a year and is not ready for a job yet. I'm not sure if it will be a big deal or not, but I'm not sure if it is.

My wife isnt ready for her entire world to be based on me, help.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my wife [25 F] married for just over a year. She doesnt have any local friends. POST: Some background. I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy. So the problem, she's been stateside for a year and she doesn't have any friends yet. I don't know if it's healthy for her to have her entire world based around me. She's worked a few hours temping at my place of employment, but she says she's not ready for a job yet. I suggested she take a few community college classes, but she's very embarrassed by her written word. She speaks and reads English perfectly, but her written word is not great at all. I don't know how else to help her make some friends. Is this something I should be more encouraging for or is it not as big of a deal as I think it might be? TL;DR:

Wife moved from Europe, doesnt have any friends, dont know how to help.

My married wife doesn't speak English very well and I don't know how to help her make friends.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my wife [25 F] married for just over a year. She doesnt have any local friends. POST: Some background. I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy. So the problem, she's been stateside for a year and she doesn't have any friends yet. I don't know if it's healthy for her to have her entire world based around me. She's worked a few hours temping at my place of employment, but she says she's not ready for a job yet. I suggested she take a few community college classes, but she's very embarrassed by her written word. She speaks and reads English perfectly, but her written word is not great at all. I don't know how else to help her make some friends. Is this something I should be more encouraging for or is it not as big of a deal as I think it might be? TL;DR:

Wife moved from Europe, doesnt have any friends, dont know how to help.

My wife is from Greece, but has been living here for a year and is not ready for a job yet. I'm not sure if it will be a big deal or not, but I'm not sure if it is.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Girlfriend got into Fight in Another State at PANTyRAiD Concert, has to appear! POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar