Source: http://www.womenslaw.org/laws_state_type.php?id=110&state_code=CA&open_id=10926
Timestamp: 2014-11-24 14:39:01
Document Index: 730277254

Matched Legal Cases: ['§ 3020', '§ 3011', '§ 3042', '§ 3044', '§ 3421', '§ 3421', '§ 3424', '§ 3022', '§ 3120', '§ 3010', '§ 3161', '§ 1775', '§ 3164', '§1775', '§ 3183', '§3170', '§ 3181', '§ 6303']

WomensLaw.org | California: Custody
WomensLaw.org strongly recommends that you get in touch with a lawyer in your community for more information on custody. Go to the CA Where to Find Help page for a listing of organizations that can help. For more information about custody and visitation, you can also visit the California Courts Self Help Center.Definitions and basic infoWho can get custody Who can get visitationThe custody process How will a judge make a decision about custody?Do I need a lawyer?Where can I file for child custody? (Which state has jurisdiction?)What are the steps for filing for custody?The judge referred my case for mediation. What is mediation?Do I have to go to mediation even if I am a domestic violence victim?After an order is in placeThe effect of military deployment on custody/visitationThe custody process back to topHow will a judge make a decision about custody?The judge will try to come up with a custody arrangement that s/he thinks is in your child’s best interest.* The judge will look at many factors to decide what is in the best interest of your child. Some of these factors may include:
Any history of abuse by the parent seeking custody against you or against a child s/he was related to or took care of, his/her parent, his/her current spouse or cohabitant, or someone s/he is dating;
The nature and amount of contact that the child has with both parents (unless the contact is limited due to the situations described in If I have moved away from the house where the abuser and my children currently live, will this hurt my chances of gaining custody?);
The regular abuse of prescribed drugs or illegal drugs or the regular abuse of alcohol by one or both of the parents;** and
The wishes of the child if the child is old enough to make an intelligent decision. If the child is over 14 years old and wants to talk to the judge about custody or visitation, the judge must allow the child to do so unless it is not in the child’s best interests. Children under 14 years old might be able to talk to the judge as well.***
California has laws that may help survivors of abuse. The judge will assume that giving an abuser sole or joint custody goes against your child’s best interest if the judge finds that the abuser committed domestic violence against you, the child, or the child's siblings within the past 5 years. If an abuser wants sole or joint custody, the burden is on him/her to change the judge’s mind by proving how it is in the child’s best interest for him/her to have custody rights.**** See Can a parent who committed violence get custody? for more information.
* See Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3020
** Ann.Cal. Fam.Code § 3011
*** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3042
**** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3044
back to topDo I need a lawyer?You do not need a lawyer to file for custody. However, it may be difficult for you to file a proper petition without the help of a lawyer. Also, if the other parent has a lawyer, it will be particularly helpful if you have a lawyer as well. For legal help, go to CA Finding a Lawyer.
back to topWhere can I file for child custody? (Which state has jurisdiction?)Generally, you can file for custody only in the "home state" of the child. (There are exceptions to the "home state" rule -- see below.)
If you and your child recently moved to a new state, you usually cannot file for custody in that new state until you have lived there for at least six months. Until then, the other parent can start a custody action in the state where your children most recently lived for at least six months.*
There are exceptions to the "home state rule." In some cases, you can file for custody in a state where the child and at least one parent have "significant connections," and where there is evidence available about the child’s care, protection, training, and personal relationships. Usually, however, you can only do this if there is no home state or if the home state has agreed to let another state have jurisdiction (decide the case).** This can be complicated, and if you think this applies to your situation, please talk to a lawyer in both states about this.
You can also file for temporary emergency custody in a state other than the home state if the child is present in that state and one of the following is true:
Custody is necessary in an emergency to protect the child because you, the child, or a sibling of the child, is subjected to or threatened with mistreatment or abuse.
Note: If there is no prior custody order and no current custody case from the home state involving the child, but either parent files for custody in the home state over the next 6 months, the temporary custody order from CA would only be effective until a court in your home state makes a custody decision. If no one files for custody in the home state over the next 6 months, the CA temporary custody order can become a final order. If there is a prior custody order or a current custody case in the home state, the temporary custody order would only last for a specific time period so that you can go back to the home state court to have that judge issue a custody order. The judge in CA has to contact the judge in your home state to decide how to best protect the child and to agree on the time period for how long the order will last. ***
Judges may be reluctant to grant temporary emergency custody. If at all possible, we suggest that you talk to a lawyer before filing. Go to CA Finding a Lawyer for legal help. * Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3421(a)(1)
** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3421(a)(2)
*** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3424(a)-(d)
back to topWhat are the steps for filing for custody?It depends on the particulars of your situation. To find out what the process will be like for you, please consult a lawyer in your area. Go to our CA Finding a Lawyer page for more information.
Generally, if the parents are married, one or both of the parents files for custody as part of a divorce or legal separation action.* However, a married parent can also file a petition for custody without asking for a divorce.** If the parents are already divorced, there would have been a custody order in the divorce decree. Therefore, if either parent wants to change it, s/he can file a petition for a change in custody in the county where the divorce was granted.*** If the parents were never married, either parent can file for custody in the county in which the child is living.****
* See Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3022
** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3120
*** See California Courts Self Help Center for forms and instructions needed to change your custody order
**** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3010
back to topThe judge referred my case for mediation. What is mediation?Mediation is when a neutral third party helps people communicate in the hope that the two parties can come to an agreement. When mediation is used in a custody case, the mediator will try to bring you and the other parent to an agreement about custody and visitation that is in the child’s best interest.* The mediator could be a staff member of family court, the probation department, mental health service agency, or anyone else the judge decides to appoint as the mediator.** Whether or not the judge will make you go to mediation before moving forward with a hearing will depend on the county you are in as well as the judge you’ve been assigned.***
If you don’t reach an agreement with the other parent, in some counties, the mediator will make a recommendation to the judge about what s/he thinks the custody / visitation order should be. However, the mediator will have to give the parties and their attorneys, including counsel for any minor children, the recommendations in writing in advance of the hearing. The judge will ask at the hearing if the parties and their attorneys have received the recommendations in writing. Also, the mediator could recommend that there be an investigation into the condition of the home and family life, recommend other services (counseling, etc.) that the mediator thinks would help you and the other parent come to an agreement, and also recommend that the judge issue restraining orders if the mediator thinks that the child could be in danger of domestic violence. In other counties, the mediator will not tell the judge anything that happened during mediation and will not make any recommendations.****
There should be no fee for the mediation but you can check with the court personnel to be certain.
* See Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3161; see also Ann.Cal.C.C.P. § 1775.1
** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3164(a)
*** Ann.Cal.C.C.P. §1775.2(b)
**** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3183
back to topDo I have to go to mediation even if I am a domestic violence victim?If your county court uses mediation, yes. In those counties, a judge is supposed to refer the parties for mediation whenever the parents don’t agree on custody and visitation matters.* However, if you have made allegations of domestic abuse in the custody case or if you have a DVRO, you can request that the mediator meet with you and the other parent in separate sessions.** Therefore, remember to speak up if you do not want to be in the same room with the abuser during mediation. Note: Some counties will allow you to bring your lawyer with you into mediation; others will not. However, if you don’t have a lawyer, you should be allowed to bring a support person with you (a friend, family member, pastor, etc.) to mediation or to sit with you in court at the custody hearing (where a lawyer would normally sit) when you have made allegations of domestic abuse.***
* Ann.Cal.Fam.Code §3170
** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 3181
*** Ann.Cal.Fam.Code § 6303(c)
WomensLaw.org would like to thank Dennis K. Rothhaar for his help in putting together a prior version of this material.	back to top