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Below is state-specific information about custody in Virginia.DefinitionsBasic informationWho can get custody and visitationThe custody processWhat will the custody process look like?How will a judge make a decision about custody?If I have moved away from the house where my husband and children currently live, will this hurt my chances of gaining custody? How much does it cost to file a custody petition?Do I need a lawyer?Can I file for custody in Virginia? (Which state has jurisdiction?)What is mediation and who pays for it?If the judge denies a request for custody, does s/he have to explain why?Steps for filing for custody After an order is in placeChild support The custody processback to topWhat will the custody process look like?It depends. Most of the time, after one or both parents file for custody in court, the parents (possibly with their attorneys) will come to some sort of agreement about child custody. If they can agree, the judge will review that agreement and, under most circumstances, turn it into a formal court order.
Sometimes, parents cannot come to an agreement. In that case, a judge might order the parents into mediation, where a mediator tries to get you and the other parent to come to an agreement.* If you are afraid of the other parent, or there is a history of family abuse, be sure to tell this to the judge since mediation may likely not be appropriate. For more information, see What is mediation and who pays for it? A judge may also order that the parents attend a seminar or program that addresses the effects of separation or divorce on children, parenting responsibilities, options for conflict resolution and financial responsibilities. The fee charged for participation in such program cannot be more than $50 but the exact amount charged will be based on the parent's ability to pay.** If the parents still cannot agree, or the judge does not order mediation, then there is a trial where both parents can present evidence and witnesses to strengthen their case. There may be one hearing date or a series of hearings. At the end of the trial, the judge will decide who will get custody and what other terms will go into the custody order. If you think that your case is headed for trial, we strongly suggest that you get a lawyer to represent you. Custody cases can be complicated and it is often best to have someone in court by your side, who can help you through the process. See our VA Finding a Lawyer page for more information on how to find a lawyer in VA. * Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.4 ** Va. Code Ann. §§ 16.1-278.15(A); 20-103(A)
back to topHow will a judge make a decision about custody?A judge will make a decision about custody based on what s/he thinks is in your child’s best interest.* The judge will look at any factor that s/he thinks is important in making this decision. Some of the things a judge will look at include: The age and physical and mental condition of the child;
Note: The court will consider any likelihood of improper influence by one or both parents on the child’s decision.**
Any other factor the court feels is necessary and proper in order to make a decision about custody.***
* Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.2(B)
*** Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.3
back to topIf I have moved away from the house where my husband and children currently live, will this hurt my chances of gaining custody? Maybe. The judge will take into consideration the role that each parent has played in the child’s life, and the willingness of each parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child.* If you have moved away from your child for a significant period of time, it may affect how the judge views these two factors. However, it is important to remember that a judge will take into account a history of family abuse and sexual abuse.** Therefore, if you have moved away to escape abuse, you can explain to the judge why it was necessary for you to leave the home where your child currently lives. You may strongly consider getting a lawyer in this situation. Go to VA Finding a Lawyer for more information.
* Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.3(5) & (7)
** Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.3(9)
back to topHow much does it cost to file a custody petition?A fee of $25 is generally required for filing either a custody or visitation petition in court.* There may be an additional fee for serving the other parent with the custody papers, which is usually done by a sheriff, third party, or process server. If you cannot afford the filing fee, you may be able to have the fee waived. Under Virginia law, if you are unable to afford the fees and costs related to your case because you have a low-income, a court can order that you don’t have to pay.** You can ask the clerk of court for more information about how to do this when you file your petition.
* Va. Code Ann. § 16.1-69.48:5
** Va. Code Ann. § 17.1-606
back to topDo I need a lawyer?You do not need a lawyer to file for custody. However, it is highly recommended that you get a lawyer if you can, especially if the other parent has one. Custody cases can be complicated, and it is helpful to have someone guide you through the process. If you cannot afford a lawyer, you may be able to find free or low-cost legal help in your area on the VA Finding a Lawyer page.
If you plan to file for custody on your own, you may want to visit the VA Legal Aid website, which provides more information about custody laws and how to file for custody in VA. Even if you plan on representing yourself, you may want to consider having a lawyer review your papers before you file them. Avoiding mistakes as much as possible will help to save time and money, and can improve your chances of success.
back to topCan I file for custody in Virginia? (Which state has jurisdiction?)Generally, you can file for custody in Virginia only if Virginia is your child’s “home state.”* There are exceptions, however, which will be discussed more below.
Virginia will qualify as your child’s home state if: Your child has lived in Virginia for the last 6 months in a row or longer, OR
Virginia was the last state that your child lived in for at least 6 months in a row or longer (and now s/he has been living somewhere else for less than 6 months but a parent still lives in VA), OR
Leaving Virginia for a short period of time will not change the fact that VA is your child’s home state.** Moving concerns
If you and your child recently moved from Virginia to another state, generally you cannot file for custody in that new state until you have lived there for at least six months. Until then, you or the other parent can start a custody action in Virginia, as long as your child has most recently lived there for at least six months. There are some exceptions, however - please see below.
If you and your child recently moved to Virginia from another state, generally you cannot file for custody in Virginia until you have lived there for at least six months. Until then, you or the other parent can start a custody action in the state you moved from, as long as your child has most recently lived there for at least six months. There are some exceptions, however - please see below.
Exceptions to the "home state rule"
In some cases, you can file for custody in Virginia when it is not your child’s home state if you (or the other parent) and your child have a “significant connection” to Virginiaand substantial evidence is available in VA concerning the child's care, protection, training, and personal relationships. Generally, however, you can only do this if no other state qualifies as your child’s home state, or if the home state has agreed to let Virginia have jurisdiction (power) over your case.***
This can be complicated, and if you think this applies to you, please talk to a lawyer in both states about this if possible. For a list of legal resources in Virginia, please see VA Finding a Lawyer.
You can also file for temporary emergency custody in Virginia, even if it is not your child’s home state if:
The child is present in Virginia AND
It is necessary in an emergency to protect the child because the child, a sibling or a parent of the child (you) is subjected to or threatened with mistreatment or abuse.****
* Va. Code Ann. § 20-146.12(1)
** Va. Code Ann. § 20-146.1
*** Va. Code Ann. § 20-146.12(2) & (3)
**** Va. Code Ann. § 20-146.15(A)
back to topWhat is mediation and who pays for it?Mediation is a process where both parents will meet to try to come to an agreement on how to divide up custody and visitation, without leaving the decision to the judge. A third party who is neutral, generally called a mediator, meets with the parents to help them reach an agreement that both parties are happy with. Virginia law states that in all appropriate cases, the court should order that parents go through mediation before seeing a judge.* This is done in an effort to save time and money for everyone. However, if there is a history of family abuse, you can ask the court to skip the mediation process, and go straight to a hearing in front of a judge.** The goals of mediation include coming up with a schedule of when the child will see each parent, and figuring out how any disagreements between the parents will be handled in the future.*** You do not have to agree to anything you are not comfortable with or do not want. If an agreement cannot be reached, a hearing will be scheduled in front of a judge.
* Va. Code Ann. §§ 20-124.4; 20-124.2(A)
** Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.4
*** Va. Code Ann. §20-124.2(A)
back to topIf the judge denies a request for custody, does s/he have to explain why?Yes. Virginia law requires that the judge communicate the reasons for his/her decision, either face to face or in writing. If the judge did not do this at the hearing, you may want to contact his/her court assistant to ask for an explanation in writing.* However, the judge does not have to explain every aspect of his/her decision-making process in detail, only the main reasons for the decision.** * Va. Code Ann. § 20-124.3