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an interesting profession Kyle you're a public person okay and when you're a public person people know who you are

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right and that can that can have some risks you know it might give people carte blanche to criticize you but it

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also benefits you know if you're recognized you might get a special benefit of some kind whatever form it

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takes does that matter to you it doesn't matter if I get a special benefit yeah

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let me again I'm saying that you're a public person do you expect it no no bill let's be real I'm public compared

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to like somebody who maybe works in a restaurant but not Ryan Seacrest and I mean met circle videos get a lot of

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views sure I I don't expect any of that and I don't think I would ever expect do

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you covet it having that like ability to you know people making parting the seas for you

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here comes Kyle no that would feel uncomfortable okay alright so that kind

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of attention on you yeah and especially now that I'm thinking about especially if it was only because they saw in that

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circle video right well they give they if I went to a restaurant and they were

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like we have a table right up here and I was like oh cool thank you I would feel special because they just did just

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happen to happen yeah but if they were like because you're from med circle we gave this table be like why because I

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did a job right cuz I did my everyone everyone did so the producer doesn't get

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a table because she just worked as hard as everybody else but she doesn't get one because she didn't ask questions on

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a couch absolutely okay alright so how do you deal with frustration mm-hm

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sometimes I go eat fast food sometimes I take a nap

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sometimes I have a fake conversation with myself or the person that I'm

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frustrated with and just get it all out like that but I try to if I feel

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frustration coming on I'm pretty good about getting under control before it's out of control his rage ever been a

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problem for you mmm what let's say you were talking about I mean I always I'm

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always interested to hear how people deal with you know one of the most frustrating things we could do is deal with customer service yeah that's right

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you're on hold for a long time then the person answers it's clear that they you know they're probably answered you're

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one of a million calls they might even be working for 20 companies that day you can't get to the person who can answer the question and they keep clearly the

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reading from a script' you get frustrated what would you deal with the call like that okay well I'll tell you very

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honestly today I would deal with a call like that I would be frustrated huh but

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I would deal with it and what I think is the most efficient way to a solution for whatever the reason I'm calling now ten

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years ago it would have not been that way I would have been irate screaming

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yelling I mean just just so it did my my

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anger right we're not equal what was actually happening happen what caused the change because I realized it was

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I was having I was losing okay I was losing all right I still didn't get my

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cable bill paid and now I'm angry and all worked up for a stupid reason and I

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knew this would go on for as long as I was alive so I might as well make these things not angry today I had to call a

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roofing company and they had not called me back they had not emailed they said they were gonna do this and this and

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this and they did none of those things and normally 10 years ago I would have told them what was up today I said guys

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this is what's happened I don't know why you're promising one thing but not delivering but can you please XYZ all

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right I already know and that just makes everything better uh-huh okay when you when you overall

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think about how you feel about your life right now hmm how do you how do you feel about

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like where you're at in life well I was just thinking about this yesterday I don't what a night I don't think this is

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the most overall content and happy that

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I've ever been in my life ever and that

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includes the time I had my first dream job of working with animals mm-hmm

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when I thought oh man it doesn't get better than this this is this is it for me it was my childhood dream to work

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with animals I got to do it but now I look at life and five pillars and

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friends family finances career which are different and health and all of those

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are so good right now that I like I think this is the best it's ever been

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yeah okay so I'm gonna I'm gonna put a sort of hypothetical to you Greg hey things are good yeah anyone's able to be

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doing doing well when things in those in those realms are good to be honest with you no not at all sorry I will say some

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people even with all those things good they still find something to harp at but most would tomorrow mentor Collette did

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you go yeah okay you get fired okay we found someone who found someone else to do your job you're not.you know or and

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you love this job you may very clear you love what you get to do here love the people you work with how

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do you how would you cope with something like that I would honestly just throw

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myself back into the other in front of camera projects that I'm not doing

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because I'm okay how would you feel about yourself if okay if I'll just add

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to your hypothetical if they fired me because they the company was like we

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just we just don't want they want a woman now you know we've had all these great these had all these great

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interviews with you're a guy we're on a woman so it's not you like you could not morph into a woman so you couldn't do so

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yeah no but even though I can't warfarin a woman that would be devastated I would okay yeah I'd be really upset mm-hmm

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yeah why well because I'm losing like my thing mm-hmm I'm losing I'm losing a really important

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thing in my life yeah and I I did and I

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don't want to lose it for any for any reason yeah so that would hurt a lot

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would you be able to let go of it yeah of course mm-hmm yeah yeah and I would watch like the next two videos and then

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critique everything she did and be like that's not good that's not and then I would stop watching the videos because it goes be too hard I would just move on

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with my life okay yeah um how do you handle criticism I'd say 90% of the time

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incredibly well no what about the other 10% terrible why what what differentiates the 90 normally the

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source the source what kind of source can be that part of that ten percent which throws you off a source that would

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have no reason to critique those subjects that we're talking about uh-huh it's like I see you know I I was an

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animal behaviorist for 15 years mm-hmm so you're a first-time dog owner and you

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want to set me down and talk about how to potty train your dog and I'm not gonna take those critiques very well

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because I just don't think they know okay but if you're gonna critique me on mental health I'm going to be all-in

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right if director critiques me on my hosting performance and be like yeah I need to

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listen to that yeah do you have any people in your life that you feel genuinely jealous or covetous of their

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lives that I'm jealous of their lives occasionally I'm jealous of one friend

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because she's done so well in the industry in her career so well in an

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industry that's so competitive and I know there's a couple friends who have

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really great marriages and relationships and I guess I am jealous I don't think

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I'm like jealous where I can't you know my friends and have you member or would you maybe I should ask you or have you

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ever take advantage of a person to forward your cause or get your needs met

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of course mm-hmm yeah I think when you

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say take advantage I feel like it's it sounds like I didn't they didn't know I

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was doing it but I'm pretty transparent I go hey do you know that person can you

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email them for me I would like to meet them you know like let's do it so yeah I

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do that has it ever happened in a way that were someone's like oh here comes Kyle thank you so you're okay I mean if

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if someone watched that and I have done that tell me because I don't think that's the case at all yeah so how do

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you I mean none of us are perfect we all have parts of ourselves that we're not fond of no how do you manage

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that part of yourself well I go to therapy okay good yeah I read a lot I

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try to be as honest with myself as I am with everybody else and there's also a point of just knowing

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that I'm not perfect okay ever like and you're never going to get to a place

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where you're like I and I'm done like self improvement over and so I think that's how I manager mm-hmm what's your

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what's your favorite part of yourself your favorite aspect of yourself probably my ability to have a relentless

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pursuit on whatever my target is okay whether that's a career

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getting my dog to do what she needs to do anything finances relationships

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friendships family once I narrow in on something then that's it I mean listen

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after this conversation I'm not you do not have narcissistic sorry yeah I know

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you were could you could you imagine okay but I trust me I've done interviews

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with people in the media where I'm like oh absolutely if I got to do this with them I think it would be quite different

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you know listen you brought up some interesting issues that I poked at you know one was that sort of that

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emotionality you're like I can't always bring it you know you own that I can't always bring it and that if that person

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does call me fifty three times there's a point at which I'm done that could be experienced by another person as a lack

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of empathy or coldness that was probably the only little like little red flag that popped up a little bit for me you