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IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS

               MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL
                        (Memorandum Web Opinion)

                                      GILBERT V. GILBERT

  NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION
 AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).

           SUSANNAH J. GILBERT, NOW KNOWN AS SUSANNAH J. DE FEO, APPELLANT,
                                               V.

                               BRANDON L. GILBERT, APPELLEE.

                            Filed January 30, 2024.   No. A-23-257.

       Appeal from the District Court for Douglas County: TRESSA M. ALIOTH, Judge. Affirmed.
       Susannah J. De Feo, pro se.
       Stephanie Weber Milone, of Milone Law Office, for appellee.

       PIRTLE, Chief Judge, and MOORE and BISHOP, Judges.
       MOORE, Judge.
                                      I. INTRODUCTION
        Susannah J. Gilbert, now known as Susannah De Feo, appeals from an order of
modification entered by the district court for Douglas County in this custody action between
Susannah and Brandon L. Gilbert regarding their daughter. Susannah challenges the court’s orders
regarding the denial of her request to relocate the child to North Carolina, granting physical
custody and final decisionmaking authority to Brandon, and requiring the parties to obtain a
passport for the child. Susannah also asserts error regarding various evidentiary rulings made by
the district court during the modification trial. For the reasons set forth herein, we affirm.
                                 II. STATEMENT OF FACTS
                              1. DECREE AND FIRST MODIFICATION
       Susannah and Brandon were married in 2012 and together have one child, Taylence, born
in 2015.

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         Susannah filed for dissolution of marriage and the district court entered a stipulated decree
on October 30, 2018. Pursuant to their agreement, the parties were awarded joint legal custody and
Susannah was awarded primary physical custody. Susannah was also awarded sole
decisionmaking authority related to Taylence’s education, provided that the decisions were in the
best interests of the child.
         The district court awarded parenting time with Taylence per an attached stipulated
parenting plan. At the time the decree was entered, Brandon was a police officer on a rotating
schedule and the parenting plan provided that his parenting time was to be divided between his 2
days off every 12 days, allowing for parenting time to occur from 8:30 a.m. to 8:30 p.m. The
parenting plan also included provisions regarding vacations, granting each parent a specific
number of days to go on vacation with Taylence and stating that, “[v]acation is to be taken to
domestic destinations only, unless the other (non-vacationing) parent gives consent.” The
parenting plan prohibited a parent from moving Taylence out of Nebraska without court
permission and stated that both parents understood that any permanent changes affecting the terms
of the parenting plan must be approved by the court to be binding and enforceable.
         Shortly after the decree was entered Susannah removed Taylence from Nebraska, first to
South Carolina and then to North Carolina, without court permission. On June 27, 2019, Brandon
filed a complaint to modify the parties’ decree, seeking Taylence’s return to Nebraska and physical
custody. Susannah filed an answer and counterclaim, seeking sole custody of Taylence and
permission to remove Taylence from Nebraska to North Carolina. Brandon later filed a contempt
action against Susannah, alleging that Susannah’s actions were a willful violation of the decree.
Susannah thereafter filed a contempt action against Brandon. These complaints and filings by the
parties do not appear in our record on appeal, however their general claims are referenced by the
district court’s January 21, 2021, order modifying the decree.
         On September 2, 2020, the district court entered a temporary order related to Brandon’s
complaint and Susannah’s counterclaim. The court noted that trial on the matter had commenced
on August 21 but had not been completed. The court nevertheless found that based upon
Susannah’s testimony, she had not shown there to be a legitimate reason for removal of Taylence
from Nebraska. The legitimate reason offered by Susannah was consent by Brandon to the move.
The court found that even if Brandon had consented to Taylence’s removal, “there is no Nebraska
case this Court is aware of where an alleged consent to the removal would override the lack of the
Court’s not having or being able to give permission for the removal.” The court also noted that the
parties’ parenting plan explicitly stated that a parent may not move the child from Nebraska
without permission by the court, nor could a permanent change to the parenting plan be made
without court approval.
         The district court acknowledged that Susannah’s job had been terminated in Nebraska but
observed that there was no job offer in either South Carolina or North Carolina prompting
Susannah’s move. In fact, Susannah had not found employment for approximately 3 months after
her move. The court also made reference to Susannah’s second marriage, stating that the court
could not factor in the subsequent marriage since that marriage had not happened at the time of
the removal.

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        The district court ordered that Taylence be returned to Nebraska and at the time of her
return the parties would operate under the 2018 decree and parenting plan. Taylence was to be
relocated by no later than October 31, 2020.
        The first modification trial concluded on December 2, 2020. The district court entered a
final order modifying the decree on January 21, 2021. The court found that Brandon had proven a
material change in circumstance since the entry of the decree and that the best interests of Taylence
warranted a change in parenting time and physical custody. However, the court determined that
there had been no change in material circumstances to warrant modifying the decree’s award of
joint legal custody. The court awarded the parties joint physical custody, giving Susannah
parenting time 9 out of every 14 days, Brandon parenting time 5 out of every 14 days, and dividing
Taylence’s summer break equally between the parties in alternating weeks. The court also
dismissed the parties’ respective contempt actions, finding that Brandon had failed to carry his
burden of proof that Susannah’s actions were in willful violation of the decree and that Brandon
was never served with copies of Susannah’s verified motion or show cause order.
                    2. SECOND COMPLAINT FOR MODIFICATION AND REMOVAL
        On August 27, 2021, Susannah filed a complaint for modification and removal, seeking an
award of sole legal and physical custody of Taylence and an order allowing Susannah to remove
Taylence to North Carolina. Susannah alleged that she had legitimate reasons for requesting
Taylence’s removal from Nebraska including the enhancement of Taylence’s quality of life and
housing conditions; that Taylence’s emotional and physical needs would be more easily attended
to; improvement in the relationship between Taylence and her parents and between the parties
themselves; that Brandon’s parenting time would be impacted “to the benefit” of Taylence; and
that Taylence has expressed a preference to live in North Carolina. The complaint further asserted
that Taylence’s removal would be in her best interests.
        Susannah also alleged a material change in circumstances that warranted a modification of
the parties’ custody arrangement. These allegations included a deficiency in Brandon’s home
environment, emotional relationship with Taylence, and capacity to provide parental care;
Taylence’s preference to be placed in Susannah’s primary care; Brandon’s failure to use all his
allocated time to parent Taylence; and Brandon having frustrated Susannah’s ability to exercise
her right of first refusal.
        Brandon filed an answer and counterclaim in which he asserted that Susannah’s complaint
was frivolous, made in bad faith, and made for the purpose of harassing Brandon. Brandon
requested a finding regarding the motivation for Susannah’s complaint and for an award of
attorney fees for having to defend against the complaint, or in the alternative, for dismissal of the
complaint. Brandon’s counterclaim requested another modification of the decree, awarding him
legal and physical custody, and an order directing Susannah to contribute to Brandon’s fees and
costs. Brandon alleged that Susannah’s ongoing efforts to alienate Taylence from Brandon and to
interfere with Brandon’s parenting time constituted a material change in circumstance since the
first modification of the decree.
        Susannah also filed a request for specific findings of fact and conclusions of law related to
the district court’s determination of the modification and removal issues.

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                                              3. TRIAL
        Trial in the modification proceedings was held over 3 days in February 2023. Susannah
represented herself at trial. Both Susannah and Brandon testified, and the following evidence was
adduced. Additional details of the trial evidence are referenced as necessary in our analysis.
        In October 2018, Susannah moved with Taylence to the Carolinas. In Susannah’s
complaint, she lists the addresses where Taylence lived over the past 5 years. Taylence lived in
Omaha, Nebraska, from the time of her birth until October 2018; in South Carolina from October
2018 until December 2018; and in three different addresses in North Carolina from December
2018 until September 2020. At trial, Susannah acknowledged that she had changed Taylence’s
residence from Nebraska to South Carolina and then North Carolina without the required
permission of the court, but testified that she had Brandon’s permission to remove Taylence.
Brandon did not testify regarding whether he gave consent for Susannah to remove Taylence from
Nebraska.
        Susannah remarried in July 2020 in North Carolina, while the first modification complaint
was pending in Nebraska. Susannah conceded that though she was aware that Brandon wanted
Taylence to return to Nebraska because of the parties’ pending litigation, Susannah did not
voluntarily return Taylence until she was court-ordered to do so in September 2020.
        Following the entry of the order directing Taylence to be returned to Nebraska, Susannah
and her husband moved to Nebraska and lived with Taylence in Elkhorn. Susannah’s husband was
employed while living in Nebraska but quit his job and moved back to North Carolina in June
2021 to pursue a better job opportunity, as well as to care for his father who had been diagnosed
with stage IV melanoma. Susannah testified that her husband held two jobs while in Nebraska, one
at an insurance company where he earned commission and a later job at a storage unit where he
earned $15 an hour. Susannah testified that her husband now had a higher paying job in North
Carolina and the district court received a paystub of Susannah’s husband dated December 23,
2021. The paystub reflects that her husband works in environmental consulting at a base rate of
$19 an hour and receives overtime pay and benefits. Susannah also testified that she thought her
husband’s wage had recently been increased to $21 an hour.
        When Susannah moved to Elkhorn from North Carolina in 2020, she acquired a 12-month
temporary position at 3M but left that job after 10 months. Susannah testified that she tried to find
gainful employment in the Omaha area, though she had only been successful in obtaining a position
with the Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services in Columbus, Nebraska. The district
court received screen shots of an online job board, displaying positions for which Susannah had
apparently applied without success. Susannah had not been employed since leaving 3M. She would
occasionally drive for Uber while she was “waiting to move.” The court also received exhibits
demonstrating Susannah’s personal expenses while living in Nebraska.
        Susannah later moved with Taylence to Papillion, Nebraska, in November 2022. Susannah
and Taylence were living with a family with whom they were acquainted along with another adult
woman who was unrelated to the family. Susannah acknowledged that moving Taylence to
Papillion made her ineligible to attend her Elkhorn public school in the next academic year.
        Both Susannah and Brandon testified to Taylence’s behavioral issues. Taylence has
displayed aggressive and disruptive behaviors at school such as rolling on the floor, kicking, biting,

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punching, cursing at teachers, and stabbing teachers with pencils. Taylence also has an inability to
focus. Brandon testified that Susannah made decisions regarding Taylence’s behavioral treatment
plan, therapies, and the selection of clinicians without his consultation.
        An individualized education plan was instituted for Taylence while she was in first grade
and both parents saw an improvement in Taylence’s ability to engage in lessons. Taylence’s
behavior started to escalate again the following year when she was in second grade. Susannah
observed that Taylence’s escalation occurred after the first modification order as Taylence was
upset about having to be away from Susannah more, while Brandon attributed the escalation to the
parties being engaged in litigation, Taylence having to move constantly, and Taylence having
parents who did not get along. The parents also disagreed about whether allowing Taylence to
participate in extracurricular activities was a privilege that had to be earned through good behavior,
per Susannah, or a way to provide normalcy and model teamwork, per Brandon.
        An evaluation of Taylence was conducted on December 19, 2022, at the Monroe-Meyer
Institute. The evaluation found that Taylence demonstrates symptoms consistent with a diagnosis
of ADHD and oppositional defiant disorder. The evaluation recommended that Taylence and her
family participate in outpatient behavioral therapy addressing compliance, emotional regulation,
and reducing problem behaviors. The evaluation provided various examples of accommodations
that could be made at home and school to benefit Taylence. At the time of trial, Taylence was
working with behavioral specialists and medication for her probable ADHD was being explored.
Susannah was holding a spot with a behavioral therapist in North Carolina but could not recall the
name of the practice.
        Susannah and Brandon both testified to communication challenges and difficulty in
co-parenting Taylence. Brandon testified that Susannah frequently made decisions regarding
Taylence without his feedback, while he made an effort to consult Susannah and to find a middle
ground. Susannah described Brandon as dismissive and aggressive at times and stated that he is
controlling regarding her parenting decisions. Susannah did not intend to withhold information
from Brandon but indicated that he did not remember specific appointment information and would
continually repeat his requests for the same information already provided by Susannah.
        Brandon believed that Susannah was discussing the parties’ litigation with Taylence.
Brandon offered a note he received from Taylence’s school which includes a quotation from
Taylence that reads, “Daddy made me do this because he made me move from North Carolina.”
The district court received the exhibit, number 98, over Susannah’s objection.
        There was also testimony regarding additional complaints that Susannah made against
Brandon. Less than 1 day after the order denying Susannah’s first complaint to modify and remove,
she made an internal affairs complaint and a child abuse and neglect complaint against Brandon.
Both complaints were dismissed as unfounded. Susannah also sought a domestic abuse protection
order against Brandon, but the petition for a protection order was dismissed when Susannah failed
to appear for the hearing. Only Susannah’s internal affairs complaint appears in our record, though
Susannah admitted that she made the other complaints against Brandon.
        Brandon also found numerous tracking devices in Taylence’s items including inside of
Taylence’s glasses case and sewn into a false bottom of her backpack. Brandon continued to find
tracking devices even after he asked Susannah to stop putting them in Taylence’s items during his
parenting time. Apparently, Brandon obtained a court order to stop Susannah from placing the

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tracking devices on Taylence, but this order does not appear in our record on appeal. Brandon
requested that the district court in this case include an order prohibiting Susannah from using
tracking devices.
        Susannah presented evidence regarding what Taylence’s life would look like in North
Carolina. The district court received photographs of the property where Susannah and Taylence
would reside. The court also received the home’s property record, which reflected that it was
owned by two individuals with her husband’s last name, presumably her husband’s parents.
Susannah testified that on the property, she and Taylence have access to four-wheeling, a golf
course, and a boat. Because Taylence resided at the home previously, she is comfortable and enjoys
her time there.
        Susannah testified that she has extended family in North Carolina, including Susannah’s
mother and grandmother. All Taylence’s maternal aunts and uncles live nearby as well as multiple
cousins Taylence’s age. Susannah also implied that she, Taylence, and her husband would be
sharing their residence with her husband’s parents.
        Susannah planned to enroll Taylence in a year-round charter school in North Carolina and
stated that because of the multiple school breaks throughout the year, instead of one long summer
break, Taylence would be able to come back to Nebraska to visit Brandon five times a year.
Susannah would pay to fly Taylence with a chaperone from North Carolina to Nebraska for
parenting time with her father. The district court received photographs of Taylence’s prospective
school. Taylence previously attended the school when she lived in North Carolina and Susannah
stated that Taylence had benefited from the school’s small group approach to lessons. Susannah
had informed the school of Taylence’s behavioral issues and stated that she would give the school
Taylence’s individualized education plan once she was enrolled. Susannah also testified to the
availability of public community events and parks for Taylence. In North Carolina, Taylence
would be able to take riding lessons, participate in gymnastics, and take music lessons from
Susannah’s sister.
        Susannah has been Taylence’s primary caregiver since her birth. Susannah testified to her
consistent involvement in Taylence’s medical care and education, including volunteering at
Taylence’s school in Elkhorn. Susannah believed that Brandon overly relied on his fiancé and his
parents to take care of Taylence during his parenting time. Brandon testified that it was beneficial
for Taylence to spend time with her grandparents and other adults who love her.
        The district court received Susannah’s North Carolina early childhood educator
certification, which Susannah testified would provide her with expanded job opportunities in North
Carolina, as opposed to in Nebraska. Susannah also testified that if she lived in North Carolina she
“wouldn’t have to work if I did not want to,” and so had the ability to provide for Taylence’s
physical and emotional needs. Susannah testified that she had a job offer in North Carolina at the
time she filed her second modification complaint. When asked why a reference to the job offer
does not appear in her complaint, Susannah stated that her attorney at the time did not include it.
        Susannah did not believe that the relationship between Taylence and either parent would
be diminished with her removal to North Carolina. Rather, Susannah believed that the relationships
would be enhanced, as Taylence would not have to transition between each parent as frequently
and Brandon’s “competitive nature” would no longer cause stress to Taylence. Though Brandon’s
parenting time with Taylence would be impacted, Susanah noted that Taylence would benefit from

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a more consistent routine than Brandon could provide. Susannah conceded that in a previously
answered interrogatory she stated that decreasing Taylence’s time with Brandon would be a good
thing. Susannah also conceded that none of Taylence’s clinicians had stated that decreasing
parenting time with her father would be of benefit to Taylence. Susannah stated that Brandon’s
emotional relationship to Taylence has been detrimental to her because Brandon does not allow
Taylence to express her opinions and has been alienating Taylence from Susannah.
         Susannah testified that if the district court denied her permission to remove Taylence from
Nebraska to North Carolina, she intended to reside in North Carolina regardless. Susannah
acknowledged that if she moved to North Carolina without Taylence, Brandon would have to
obtain full custody.
         Brandon lives in Plattsmouth, Nebraska, in a private community on a lake. Taylence has
her own bedroom in his home. Brandon also has a pontoon boat that he and Taylence enjoy taking
on the water. In the summer, Taylence plays on the beach with neighborhood children. Brandon
has enrolled Taylence in activities, such as rock climbing, soccer, and swimming lessons.
Brandon’s parents relocated to Nebraska and live a mile from Brandon’s residence. Brandon
testified that Taylence has a positive relationship with her grandparents and enjoys baking, reading,
and doing outdoor activities together.
         Brandon has a fiancé, Betsy, with whom he has been in a relationship for the past 5 years.
Brandon testified that Taylence is “extremely comfortable” with Betsy. Brandon has discussed
with Taylence that Susannah is her mother, and that when he and Betsy get married, Betsy will
become Taylence’s stepmother. Betsy does not require Taylence to refer to her as “mom” or
“mother.” A note written to Taylence by Brandon and Betsy for a classroom award that was signed
“Daddy and Betsy,” was received into evidence.
         Brandon testified that in February 2021, Betsy’s parents paid for a trip to the Bahamas and
invited Brandon and Taylence to join the family on vacation. However, Susannah declined to sign
the paperwork necessary to obtain a passport for Taylence and she was not able to go on the
vacation. Brandon asked the district court to find that Taylence be permitted to have a passport
and to order Susannah to sign the necessary paperwork.
         When the first modification order was entered in January 2021, Brandon was employed as
a police officer for the city of Omaha. During that time, Brandon worked nights on a rotating
schedule, with 4 days on followed by 2 days off. At the time of trial, Brandon was still a police
officer but working as a school resource officer at an Omaha high school. Brandon’s work schedule
was now 8 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. on weekdays with holidays and weekends off. Brandon described his
work schedule as flexible and predictable, allowing him to spend more time with Taylence.
         Brandon testified that when Taylence was moved out of state in October 2018, he did not
receive all his parenting time under the original decree and saw Taylence only on occasional visits.
Brandon believed that Taylence’s removal would adversely affect his relationship with her.
         Brandon testified that he and Susannah have not discussed where Taylence will go to
school if Susannah is again denied permission to remove her. Brandon has researched a variety of
public and private schools close to his home in Plattsmouth and Susannah’s present residence in
Papillion.

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                                             4. ORDER
         The district court entered its second modification order on March 1, 2023. Regarding
Susannah’s request for permission to remove Taylence from Nebraska to North Carolina, the court
first considered whether Susannah had shown a legitimate reason to leave Nebraska. The court
noted that Susannah had alleged at trial that she had remarried and that her husband had obtained
better employment in North Carolina. However, the court noted that Susannah had not presented
any evidence related to the employment of her husband in North Carolina and that Susannah had
remarried while the previous modification litigation was pending. Because Susannah had not
offered any evidence regarding changes that occurred since the January 21, 2021, modification
order was entered, the court denied permission for Susannah to remove Taylence and her complaint
was dismissed.
         With respect to Brandon’s counterclaim seeking legal and physical custody of Taylence,
the district court found that a material change of circumstances had occurred, in that Susannah had
testified to her intent to move to North Carolina even if the court did not grant permission for
Taylence’s removal. Because Taylence was in need of immediate care, the court awarded Brandon
physical custody, subject to Susannah’s parenting time. The court also found that it was in
Taylence’s best interests for Susannah and Brandon to have joint legal custody, with Brandon
having final decisionmaking authority.
         The district court ordered both Susannah and Brandon to cooperate as necessary to obtain
a passport for Taylence and to provide written notice to the other parent of any travel with Taylence
outside of Nebraska and North Carolina, 2 weeks in advance. The court struck the vacation time
provision regarding non-domestic travel that appears in the parenting plan of the original decree.
The court ordered no GPS monitoring or tracking of Taylence by any device and made other
parenting time and child support orders not relevant to this appeal.
         Though the district court recognized that Susannah was a self-represented litigant, it
ordered that she pay Brandon $6,060 in attorney fees.
         Susannah appeals from this second modification order.
                                III. ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
        Susannah, again self-represented, assigns, consolidated and restated, that the district court
erred in (1) failing to receive various exhibits offered by Susannah during the modification trial;
(2) denying Susannah’s request for removal; (3) granting physical custody and final
decisionmaking authority to Brandon; (4) ordering that the parties obtain a passport for the child;
and (5) awarding attorney fees to Brandon.
                                  IV. STANDARD OF REVIEW
       Modification of a judgment or decree relating to child custody, visitation, or support is a
matter entrusted to the discretion of the trial court, whose order is reviewed by an appellate court
de novo on the record and will be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion. Keiser v. Keiser, 310
Neb. 345, 965 N.W.2d 786 (2021). When evidence is in conflict, the appellate court considers and
may give weight to the fact that the trial court heard and observed the witnesses and accepted one
version of the facts rather than the other. Id.

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                                           V. ANALYSIS
                            1. EXHIBITS NOT RECEIVED INTO EVIDENCE
        Susannah assigns that the district court erred in failing to receive various exhibits offered
by her during the modification trial. Where the Nebraska Evidence Rules commit the evidentiary
question at issue to the discretion of the trial court, an appellate court reviews the admissibility of
evidence for an abuse of discretion. In re Estate of Walker, 315 Neb. 510, 997 N.W.2d 595 (2023).
A self-represented litigant will receive the same consideration as if he or she had been represented
by an attorney, and, concurrently, that litigant is held to the same standards as one who is
represented by counsel. Charter West Bank v. Riddle, 314 Neb. 263, 989 N.W.2d 428 (2023).
                                     (a) Exhibits 18, 19, and 20
         Susannah argues that the district court erred in not receiving exhibits 18, 19, and 20 into
evidence. The exhibits are emails sent by two individuals identified in the emails as special
education teachers at Taylence’s Elkhorn school. Attached are forms titled “Taylence’s Daily
Behavior Data Collection Form” which detail Taylence’s behaviors and statements during
particular classroom activities. These exhibits are dated from December 9, 2021, through February
2, 2022; from February 3, 2022, through May 19, 2022; and from August 29, 2022, through
January 6, 2023, respectively.
         Susannah offered exhibits 18 and 19 during direct examination of Brandon. Brandon
objected on the basis of insufficient foundation and hearsay. The district court sustained Brandon’s
objections and Susannah argued that the exhibits were “in accordance with RIT, legally binding
document that reports directly from the school that they’re required to keep records of.” The court
again sustained Brandon’s foundation objection. While conducting redirect examination of
Brandon, Susannah again offered exhibits 18 and 19, and offered exhibit 20 for the first time.
Brandon again made a foundational objection which the district court sustained. Susannah argued
that the three exhibits were connected to exhibit 98, a handwritten note from the school transcribing
a statement made by Taylence and were “the remaining reports that go along with it.” The court
told Susannah that she could lay additional foundation but that it “can’t really help you or give you
advice there . . .” Susannah did not lay additional foundation and pursued another line of
questioning.
         At trial and on appeal Susannah argues that it was improper for the district court to exclude
these exhibits after admitting exhibit 98, as it was an incomplete record. The rule of completeness
allows a party to admit the entirety of an act, declaration, conversation, or writing when the other
party admits a part and when the entirety is necessary to make it fully understood. Schuemann v.
Menard, Inc., 27 Neb. App. 977, 938 N.W.2d 378 (2020). The statement made by Taylence appears
in its entirety on the sole page offered by Brandon as exhibit 98. We have reviewed all the emails
and behavioral forms in the offered exhibits 18, 19, and 20 and conclude that the admitted
statement by Taylence was not taken out of context and that the additional 230 pages of emails
and behavioral forms do not qualify or explain the admitted portion. Thus, the district court’s
failure to receive the three exhibits into evidence did not violate the rule of completeness.
         Further, Susannah did not provide the necessary foundation for these three exhibits, even
after she was given permission to lay additional foundation. No witnesses from the school were

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called to verify the documents. Finally, both parties testified extensively regarding Taylence’s
behavioral problems at school. We find no abuse of discretion in the district court sustaining
Brandon’s foundation objection to exhibits 18, 19, and 20, and thus not receiving the three exhibits
into evidence.
                                (b) Exhibits 26, 27, 28, 29, and 30
        Susannah argues that the district court erred in not receiving exhibits 26, 27, 28, 29, and
30 into evidence. Susannah provided direct testimony that she had suffered financial hardship
while living in Nebraska because Brandon had not been paying “child support expenses” sent by
Susannah. Brandon objected to this testimony on the basis of relevance, as Susannah had not
included allegations regarding child support or childcare expenses in her pleadings. The district
court sustained the objection. Susannah then offered exhibits 26 through 30 which she described
as “child support expense calculations I’ve sent to Mr. Gilbert.” The five exhibits are documents
detailing medical, childcare, and expenses related to Taylence, email correspondence between the
parties, and screen shots of bank account statements and online bill payment sites. None of the
exhibits are related to Brandon’s child support obligation set forth in the original decree. Brandon
made another relevancy objection, which the district court sustained.
        The admission or exclusion of evidence is not reversible error unless it unfairly prejudiced
a substantial right of the complaining party. See Jaeger v. Jaeger, 307 Neb. 910, 951 N.W.2d 367
(2020). Erroneous exclusion of evidence does not require reversal if the evidence would have been
cumulative and other relevant evidence, properly admitted, supports the trial court’s finding. Id.
        Susannah offered these exhibits to support her assertion that it was not economically
feasible for her to continue living in Nebraska. While these exhibits may have been relevant to the
removal issue, there was other evidence in the record which support this contention, including
Susannah’s testimony that she had difficulty finding employment in Nebraska and that she would
not have to be employed in North Carolina. The district court also received into evidence an exhibit
detailing Susannah’s personal expenses. Thus, even if it was error for the district court to exclude
the exhibits about allegedly unpaid child-related expenses, it was not reversible error because the
exhibits would have been cumulative. We find that the district court did not abuse its discretion in
excluding exhibits 26 through 30. To the extent that Susannah asserts that these exhibits would
have shown she had a legitimate reason to leave Nebraska, we address this issue below.
                                           (c) Exhibit 33
         Susannah argues that the district court erred in not receiving exhibit 33 into evidence.
Exhibit 33 is an email regarding a job offer to Susannah; a substitute teacher position in Taylence’s
prospective charter school in North Carolina. The email is dated May 25, 2022. Brandon objected
as to relevance, which the district court sustained.
         Susannah filed her complaint for modification and removal on August 27, 2021. Though
she testified that her husband relocated to North Carolina in June 2021 to pursue a better job
opportunity, her exhibit related to a job offer extended to her in May 2022, nearly 9 months after
her complaint was filed. Susannah’s offer of new employment was not in existence at the time she
filed a second request to remove Taylence and was therefore not a basis for her request to remove
Taylence. Even if the exhibit was relevant to the removal issue, the court heard Susannah’s

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testimony about a job offer she received in North Carolina. Thus, we cannot say that the district
court abused its discretion in sustaining Brandon’s relevancy objection to exhibit 33 and not
receiving the exhibit into evidence.
                                            (d) Exhibit 45
         Susannah argues that the district court erred in not receiving exhibit 45 into evidence, a
report generated on March 23, 2022, showing Brandon’s police timecard from January 1, 2021,
through March 21, 2022. Susannah testified that she believed that due to his work schedule,
Brandon spent little of his allotted parenting time actually parenting Taylence. Exhibit 45 does not
demonstrate the hours that Brandon worked, only the date and number of worked hours, and the
pay code used for that particular shift. Brandon made several objections to the exhibit, including
relevancy. The district court sustained the relevancy objection, noting that Brandon had testified
to a change in schedule.
         Brandon testified that in January 2021 he was working on a rotating schedule as a police
officer, working overnights for 4 days, followed by 2 days off. At the time of trial, Brandon was
still a police officer but working as a school resource officer at an Omaha high school from 8 a.m.
to 3:30 p.m. on weekdays. Thus, the paystub offered by Susannah was not indicative of Brandon’s
current schedule. The district court was within its discretion to find exhibit 45 irrelevant.
                                            2. REMOVAL
         Susannah next assigns that the district court erred in finding that she did not demonstrate a
legitimate reason to remove Taylence to North Carolina. Susannah points to the evidence that her
husband had moved to North Carolina in June 2021 to pursue a higher paying job opportunity and
to care for his father who had recently been diagnosed with skin cancer. Susannah also points to
her and her husband’s inability to find suitable employment in Omaha, the existence of their
extended family in North Carolina, and the escalation of Taylence’s behavioral issues, to be
legitimate reasons to remove Taylence.
         In order to prevail on a motion to remove a minor child to another jurisdiction, the custodial
parent must first satisfy the court that he or she has a legitimate reason for leaving the state. After
clearing that threshold, the custodial parent must next demonstrate that it is in the child’s best
interests to continue living with him or her. State on behalf of Ryley G. v. Ryan G., 306 Neb. 63,
943 N.W.2d 709 (2020). The purpose of requiring a legitimate reason for leaving the state in a
motion to remove a minor child to another jurisdiction is to prevent the custodial parent from
relocating the child because of an ulterior motive, such as frustrating the noncustodial parent’s
visitation rights. Id.
                                       (a) Legitimate Reason
         We agree with Susannah that the district court erred in finding that Susannah had not
demonstrated a legitimate reason to remove Taylence. Susannah presented evidence that in June
2021, 6 months after the first modification order had been entered, her husband left Nebraska and
moved back to North Carolina to pursue a higher paying job and to care for his ill father. Susannah
testified that her husband had previously been earning $15 an hour in Nebraska and was now
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has found career advancement of a new spouse and the desire to form a new family unit through
remarriage as legitimate reasons to remove a child to another jurisdiction. See State on behalf of
Ryley G. v. Ryan G., supra. Both reasons factor into the situation here.
                                      (b) Best Interests of Child
        However, though Susannah has cleared this threshold, she as a custodial parent must next
demonstrate that it is in Taylence’s best interest to continue living with her. In considering a motion
to remove a minor child to another jurisdiction, the paramount consideration is whether the
proposed move is in the best interests of the child. Id.
        Under the second prong of removal analysis, the Nebraska Supreme Court has articulated
in Farnsworth v. Farnsworth, 257 Neb. 242, 597 N.W.2d 592 (1999) three “broad considerations”
that should “serve as appropriate guideposts” in a trial court’s analysis. To determine whether
removal to another jurisdiction is in the child’s best interests, a trial court should consider (1) each
parent’s motive for seeking or opposing the move, (2) the potential that the move holds for
enhancing the quality of life for the child and the custodial parent, and (3) the impact such a move
will have on contact between the child and noncustodial parent when viewed in the light of
reasonable visitation. Korth v. Korth, 309 Neb. 115, 958 N.W.2d 683 (2021). These three
considerations are not exhaustive, nor will they be present in every case. See id. It is the moving
party’s burden to show, by a combination of these considerations, that removal would be in the
child’s best interests. Id.
                                      (i) Each Parent’s Motive
        With respect to the first consideration involving the motive of each parent in seeking or
opposing the move, from our de novo review we find some evidence that Susannah was seeking
to frustrate the custodial rights of Brandon or was otherwise acting in bad faith. Susannah stated
in interrogatory answers and in her second complaint to modify and remove that a move to North
Carolina, which would significantly reduce Brandon’s parenting time, would be “to the benefit”
of Taylence. Susannah’s placement of several tracking devices on Taylence while she was in
Brandon’s care also calls into question her ulterior motives. Susannah did not include Brandon in
discussions regarding the selection of Taylence’s therapies or clinicians. Though Susannah did not
admit to discussing the ongoing litigation with Taylence, the note Brandon received from
Taylence’s school was evidence that Taylence blamed Brandon for her moving back to Nebraska
and attributed the move as the impetus for Taylence’s own poor behavior.
        We are also troubled by Susannah making an internal affairs complaint and child abuse
and neglect complaint hours after she failed on her first complaint to modify and remove. Such
allegations are serious and could have resulted in professional and personal consequences for
Brandon. Additionally, Susannah filed a petition for a domestic abuse protection order against
Brandon, but she did not appear for the hearing. Susannah did not present any evidence regarding
a history of domestic violence during the modification trial. Based on the timing of these
complaints and the petition, it appears that Susannah was attempting to weaponize the reporting
process to punish Brandon for his having prevailed in the first modification order. In sum, it
appears Susannah’s motives were, in part, to frustrate Brandon’s custodial rights.

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        On the other hand, Brandon’s main motivation for opposing Taylence’s move to North
Carolina was so that he could continue to “fully participate in being a father.” Brandon testified
that when Taylence moved to North Carolina the first time, he was able to see her only on the
occasional visit. Since the entry of the first modification order, Brandon has had joint physical
custody of Taylence and parenting time for 5 out of every 14 days. Brandon testified that should
Taylence be removed to North Carolina, he “won’t be able to be the kind of father that I am now,”
and would miss out on attending Taylence’s games, recitals, and celebrations, as well as the ability
to be present for “bigger things” like medical emergencies. We find Brandon’s reasons to show a
proper motive for resisting the removal.
        This factor weighs against removal.
                                    (ii) Enhanced Quality of Life
         With respect to the second consideration, the quality of life for the children, there are nine
components that may be involved in a trial court’s consideration as to whether removal to another
jurisdiction would enhance the quality of life of the child and custodial parent: (1) the emotional,
physical, and developmental needs of the child; (2) the child’s opinion or preference as to where
to live; (3) the extent to which the custodial parent’s income or employment will be enhanced; (4)
the degree to which housing or living conditions would be improved; (5) the existence of
educational advantages; (6) the quality of the relationship between the child and each parent; (7)
the strength of the child’s ties to the present community and extended family there; (8) the
likelihood that allowing or denying the move would antagonize hostilities between the two parents;
and (9) the living conditions and employment opportunities for the custodial parent, because the
best interests of the child are interwoven with the well-being of the custodial parent. See Korth v.
Korth, supra.
         It is likely that moving to North Carolina would enhance the income of Susannah’s
household as Susannah testified that she would be able to utilize her North Carolina early
childhood educator certification to find gainful employment. As discussed above, Susannah’s
husband is employed at a slightly higher wage in North Carolina than he was in Nebraska.
Susannah briefly testified that “[w]hile living in Nebraska, I do have increased expenses that I
would not have in North Carolina.” However, there was no evidence adduced to compare the cost
of living in North Carolina as opposed to in Nebraska.
         The home that Taylence would live in in North Carolina appears adequate; the home that
she resides in with Brandon in Nebraska is on a lake, which provides recreational opportunities.
         Susannah believed that Taylence would benefit from the small group setting of her
prospective charter school but presented no evidence regarding the school other than photographs
of the building and the school’s academic calendar. Susannah did not adduce any evidence to
suggest that the school Taylence attended in Nebraska was not comparable.
         Taylence is enrolled in extracurricular activities in Nebraska and would have activities
available to her in North Carolina. She has her paternal grandparents and neighborhood friends in
Nebraska and members of Susannah’s extended family in North Carolina. She is seeing a
behavioral therapist in Nebraska and Susannah has held Taylence’s spot with a therapist in North
Carolina. No evidence regarding Taylence’s preference was offered at trial.

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       Based on our review of the record, we find that Taylence’s quality of life would be
generally the same in either North Carolina or Nebraska. However, we are also mindful that a
move back to North Carolina would be the seventh time Taylence has changed residences in her
young life.
       This factor is neutral as to removal.
                      (iii) Impact on Noncustodial Parent’s Parenting Time
        The third factor to be considered is the impact such removal will have on contact between
the children and the noncustodial parent, when viewed in the light of reasonable parenting time
arrangements. Susannah testified that enrolling Taylence in a year-round charter school would
allow Taylence to visit Brandon five times a year and that she would pay for the airfare necessary
to effectuate these visitations. The significant distance between Nebraska and North Carolina
would make it impractical for Brandon to visit in person with Taylence on a regular basis.
        Obviously, any move away from a parent is likely to hinder that parent’s relationship with
the child. See Korth v. Korth, 309 Neb. 115, 958 N.W.2d 683 (2021). A reduction in parenting
time therefore does not necessarily preclude a custodial parent from relocating for a legitimate
reason. Id. However, based on Susannah’s retaliatory behavior, circumstantial evidence that she
had been discussing the case with Taylence, and Susannah’s statements that she believed a
reduction in Brandon’s parenting time would benefit Taylence, we are not confident that Susannah
would do her best to facilitate contact between Brandon and Taylence after her removal. We find
that a move to North Carolina would have a significantly negative impact on Brandon’s ability to
exercise parenting time with Taylence on a regular basis and be a part of her daily life.
        This third factor weighs against removal.
        Based on our de novo review of these three considerations discussed in Farnsworth,
Susannah has not met her burden of showing that removal was in Taylence’s best interests. Thus,
although based upon different reasoning, we conclude that the district court did not abuse its
discretion when it denied Susannah’s request to remove Taylence from Nebraska. This assignment
of error fails.
                                3. LEGAL AND PHYSICAL CUSTODY
        Susannah also assigns that the district court erred in granting Brandon sole physical custody
and final decisionmaking authority. However, in her brief on appeal, Susannah presents no specific
argument regarding Brandon’s award of physical custody and she discusses only the enhanced
quality of life components under the second Farnsworth consideration. To be considered by an
appellate court, an alleged error must be both specifically assigned and specifically argued in the
brief of the party asserting the error. Simons v. Simons, 312 Neb. 136, 978 N.W.2d 121 (2022).
For the sake of completeness, however, we note that Susannah acknowledged that physical custody
would need to be placed in Brandon should the court deny her request to remove Taylence to North
Carolina.
        Susannah and Brandon have maintained joint legal custody of Taylence since the original
decree was entered. Here, the district court modified legal custody only to the extent that Brandon
was awarded final decisionmaking authority. In its order the district court found that while there
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between the parties, those issues did not rise to a level to justify a change in the existing joint legal
custody.
        However, after the district court denied Susannah’s request to remove Taylence and
awarded Brandon physical custody of Taylence, based on Susannah’s testimony that she planned
to move to North Carolina, the court granted Brandon “final say” in any disputes that may arise
after the parties engage in discussions related to major decisions about Taylence’s education,
health, and general welfare. The order also noted that “an award of joint legal custody imposes
upon [the parties] a duty to discuss issues relating to Taylence’s welfare with the other parent as
well as inform the other parent in a timely manner of what is going on with Taylence,” prior to
any final decisionmaking authority being exercised by Brandon.
        Brandon testified that he has tried to co-parent productively with Susannah and to find a
middle ground on issues concerning Taylence. We cannot say that the district court abused its
discretion by awarding Brandon final decisionmaking authority, particularly given that he has
physical custody of Taylence and will be the only parent residing with her in Nebraska. This
assignment of error fails.
                                         4. PASSPORT ORDER
        Susannah assigns that the district court erred in ordering Susannah to apply for a passport
for Taylence. She argues that this order runs counter to the parenting plan provision incorporated
in the decree, which prohibited taking Taylence on vacations to foreign destinations without the
consent of the non-vacationing parent. However, in its second modification order, the district court
struck the provisions of the parenting plan which required the non-vacationing parent to consent
to Taylence going on foreign vacations with the other parent.
        Brandon asked the district court to order that Taylence be permitted to have a passport and
that Susannah be ordered to sign the necessary paperwork. Brandon testified that Susannah had
declined to execute the paperwork necessary for Taylence to obtain a passport in order to join a
vacation with Brandon and his fiancé’s family.
        Based on this evidence in the record, the district court was within its discretion to conclude
that requiring the consent of the non-vacationing parent to take Taylence on foreign vacations was
no longer appropriate and to modify the parenting plan accordingly. Thus, the order requiring that
the parents cooperate in obtaining a passport for Taylence is not prohibited by the parenting plan,
as that provision is no longer applicable. This assignment of error fails.
                                    5. AWARD OF ATTORNEY FEES
         Susannah assigns that the district court abused its discretion in awarding attorney fees to
Brandon. The court received the attorney fee affidavit offered by Brandon, reflecting his attorney
fees of $6,060 as of January 21, 2023. The court recognized that Susannah was a self-represented
litigant but ordered her to pay $6,060 to Brandon as attorney fees.
         Attorney fees and expenses may be recovered only where provided for by statute or when
a recognized and accepted uniform course of procedure has been to allow recovery of attorney
fees. Garza v. Garza, 288 Neb. 213, 846 N.W.2d 626 (2014). Customarily, attorney fees are
awarded only to prevailing parties or assessed against those who file frivolous suits. Id. A uniform

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course of procedure exists in Nebraska for the award of attorney fees in dissolution and
modification cases. Id.
        Susannah filed her complaint for a second modification and removal only 7 months after
she failed on her claims in the first modification. In awarding attorney fees to Brandon, the district
court found that there had been no material change in circumstances and so Susannah had not
prevailed on her claims. We agree with the ultimate findings of the district court, though for
different reasons, and thus, we conclude the court did not abuse its discretion in awarding Brandon
attorney fees. This assignment of error fails.
                                        VI. CONCLUSION
        For the reasons set forth above, we affirm the order of modification related to the child’s
legal and physical custody, acquisition of a passport, and allocation of fees. Though Susannah
presented legitimate reasons to remove Taylence from Nebraska, we conclude that removal would
not have been in the child’s best interests. We also find that the district court did not abuse its
discretion in declining to receive Susannah’s various exhibits into evidence at trial.
                                                                                        AFFIRMED.

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