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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
                            AT KNOXVILLE
                                     May 10, 2005 Session

        CHRISTY MICHELLE BERRY v. LESTER STEPHEN BERRY

                      Appeal from the Chancery Court for Knox County
                       No. 148677-2    Daryl R. Fansler, Chancellor

                    No. E2004-01832-COA-R3-CV - FILED MAY 31, 2005

This is a post divorce child custody case. The trial court changed custody to the father based upon
the mother's homosexuality and the effect it would have on the child as he grew older. We hold that
the evidence preponderates against the trial court's finding that there had been a material change in
circumstances to justify a change of custody in the absence of proof that the mother's sexual
orientation had affected or would affect the child's well-being in any meaningful way. Accordingly,
the trial court's decision is reversed.

 Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court Reversed; Case
                                       Remanded

SHARON G. LEE, J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which HERSCHEL P. FRANKS, P.J., joined.
CHARLES D. SUSANO , JR., J., filed a separate concurring opinion.

Morna Kathleen Reynolds McHargue, Knoxville, Tennessee, for the Appellant, Christy Michelle
Berry.

John Thomas Jones and Elizabeth K. B. Meadows, Knoxville, Tennessee, for the Appellee, Lester
Stephen Berry.

                                             OPINION

         This is a dispute between two parents over custody of their eight-year-old son. Christy
Michelle Berry and Lester Stephen Berry were married on November 23, 1996, one month after their
son, Stephen, was born. After nearly four years of marriage, the parties separated and Ms. Berry
filed for divorce. The parties reached an amicable settlement of all issues, including custody and
visitation, and were granted a divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences on April 25, 2001.
The parties’ marital dissolution agreement provided that the parties would have joint custody of their
son; designated Ms. Berry as the primary residential parent; and gave Mr. Berry parenting time on
alternate weekends, certain holidays and two weeks in the summer.
         After the parties’ separation, Mr. Berry lived with his mother, his cousin and then moved in
with his girlfriend. After one or two months of living together, he and his girlfriend were married
on June 23, 2001. At the time of the trial, they were residing in a three-bedroom home with a new
baby born of their marriage; a child of Mr. Berry’s new wife; and a child from one of Mr. Berry’s
previous relationships. After the divorce, Ms. Berry also began dating, but unlike Mr. Berry, she
dated individuals of her gender. Sometime after April 2001, Ms. Berry and the parties’ son lived
with Ms. Berry’s female partner and her partner’s son for approximately a year and a half. This
relationship ended and about five months later, Ms. Berry began living with another female partner.
This living arrangement lasted for about six months and ended, upon advice of counsel, after Mr.
Berry filed for a change of custody. The relationship terminated about one month later. At the time
of trial, Ms. Berry had a female friend who visited regularly, but did not reside with her.

       Mr. Berry claims he did not know Ms. Berry was gay until one month after the divorce. Ms.
Berry claims she told him she was gay before the divorce. In any event, Mr. Berry did not become
concerned about her sexual orientation until he underwent a post divorce religious conversion.

         On October 15, 2002, Mr. Berry filed a petition for a change of custody alleging that there
had been a material change of circumstances and that it was in the child’s best interest for custody
to be changed to Mr. Berry based on Ms. Berry’s homosexuality and multiple partners. Ms. Berry
opposed the change of custody. The trial court, after hearing the testimony of the parties and their
witnesses on June 1, 2004, ruled that there had been a material change of circumstances and that it
was in the best interests of the child for custody to be changed to the father. On June 30, 2004, the
trial court issued a memorandum opinion in which the court noted that the father’s grounds to
support a change of custody were primarily based on the mother’s sexual preference, her “openly gay
lifestyle”, and the child’s exposure to that lifestyle. The trial court found that, although the child was
well-adjusted and doing well in school, he would have to contend with his mother’s openly gay
lifestyle as he grew older. The trial court was concerned over the mother’s admission that she saw
nothing wrong with introducing three lovers into her child’s life in less than three years and that she
saw nothing morally wrong with sharing her bedroom with her lovers. The trial court found no
evidence that the child had been affected by the mother’s “openly promiscuous lifestyle,” but
“[u]ndoubtably he will have to deal with his mother’s sexuality and the controversy associated with
that sexuality as he matures.” Relying on a 1988 unreported decision of this court, Collins v. Collins,
No. 87-238-II, 1988 WL 30173, 1988 Tenn. App. LEXIS 123, (Tenn. Ct. App. W.S., filed March
30, 1988, perm. app. denied June 27, 1988), the trial court found a material change of circumstance
had occurred and that it was in the child’s best interest that the father assume the role of primary
residential parent. Ms. Berry appealed.

        The dispositive issue in this case is whether the mother’s post divorce homosexuality and
her exercise of same constituted a material change in circumstances to warrant a change in custody.
After careful review of the record, we conclude that the evidence preponderates in favor of the trial
court’s finding that the child had not been affected by his mother’s sexual orientation. We further
conclude that the evidence preponderates against the trial court’s finding that the child will be
adversely affected by his mother’s sexual orientation as he grows older. Because there is insufficient

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evidence that the mother’s homosexuality has had or will have an effect on the child’s well-being
in a meaningful way, we hold that there has not been a material change in circumstances to warrant
a change in custody.

        In this non-jury case, our review is de novo upon the record of the proceedings below; but
the record comes to us with a presumption of correctness as to the trial court's factual determinations
which we must honor unless the evidence preponderates against those findings. Tenn. R. App. P.
13(d); Wright v. City of Knoxville, 898 S.W.2d 177, 181 (Tenn. 1995); Union Carbide Corp. v.
Huddleston, 854 S.W.2d 87, 91 (Tenn.1993). The trial court's conclusions of law, however, are
accorded no such presumption. Campbell v. Florida Steel Corp., 919 S.W.2d 26, 35 (Tenn. 1996);
Presley v. Bennett, 860 S.W.2d 857, 859 (Tenn.1993). Trial courts are vested with wide discretion
in matters involving custody of children. Edwards v. Edwards, 501 S.W.2d 283, 291 (Tenn. Ct. App.
1973). Accordingly, a trial court’s decision regarding custody or visitation should be set aside only
when it “falls outside the spectrum of rulings that might reasonably result from an application of the
correct legal standards to the evidence found in the record.” Eldridge v. Eldridge, 42 S.W.3d 82,
88 (Tenn. 2001).

       We begin our review by reaffirming the premise that custody and visitation decisions are
among the most important decisions that courts make. Steen v. Steen, 61 S.W.3d 324, 327 (Tenn.
Ct. App. 2001); Adelsperger v. Adelsperger, 970 S.W.2d 482, 484 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1997).
Promoting the child’s welfare by creating an environment that promotes a nurturing relationship with
both parents is the chief purpose in custody decisions. Aaby v. Strange, 924 S.W.2d 623, 629 (Tenn.
1996).

        The courts favor existing custody arrangements since children thrive in stable environments.
Aaby v. Strange, 924 S.W.2d at 627; Taylor v. Taylor, 849 S.W.2d 319, 332 (Tenn. 1993);
Hoalcraft v. Smithson, 19 S.W.3d 822, 828 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1999). A custody decision, once made
and implemented, is considered res judicata upon the facts in existence or reasonably foreseeable
when the decision was made. Young v. Smith, 193 Tenn. 480, 485, 246 S.W.2d 93, 95 (1952); Steen
v. Steen, 61 S.W.3d at 327; Solima v. Solima, 7 S.W.3d 30, 32 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1998).

        In cases wherein a party seeks to modify an existing custody arrangement, the threshold issue
is whether a material change in circumstances has occurred since the initial custody determination.
We recognize that the circumstances of children and their parents change - children grow older, their
needs change, one or both parties remarry. But not all changes in the circumstances of the parties and
the child warrant a change in custody. There are no hard and fast rules for when there has been a
change of circumstance sufficient to justify a change in custody. A court’s decision with regard to
modification of custody is contingent upon the circumstances presented and the court should
consider whether:

       1) the change occurred after the entry of the order sought to be modified, and

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       2) the changed circumstances were not reasonably anticipated when the underlying decree
was entered, and

        3) the change is one that affects the child’s well-being in a meaningful way.

 Kendrick v. Shoemake, 90 S.W.3d 566, 570 (Tenn. 2002); Blair v. Badenhope, 77 S.W.3d 137
(Tenn. 2002).

       The party seeking to change an existing custody arrangement has the burden of proving that
there has been a material change of circumstances. If the person seeking the change of custody
cannot demonstrate that the child’s circumstances have changed in some material way, the trial court
should not reexamine the comparative fitness of the parents, Caudill v. Foley, 21 S.W.3d 203, 213
(Tenn. Ct. App. 1999), or engage in a “best interests of the child” analysis. In the absence of proof
of a material change in the child’s circumstances, the trial court should not change custody.
Hoalcraft v. Smithson, 19 S.W.3d at 828.

         The trial court found that Ms. Berry began pursuing a “gay lifestyle” after the divorce and
that this was not anticipated when the divorce decree was entered. The trial court found that the child
had not been affected by his mother’s sexual conduct since the divorce. We find that the evidence
supports these findings. The trial court further found that the mother’s “openly promiscuous
lifestyle” would have an adverse effect on the child in the future. We find that the evidence does
not support this finding.

        A parent’s sexual orientation can be a factor that the trial court should consider in making
a custody decision, but it does not control the outcome of the case absent evidence of its adverse
effect on the child. In re Parsons, 914 S.W.2d 889, 894 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1995). Homosexuality is
not a per se bar to custody. The key consideration is whether a parent’s sexuality has a negative
effect on a child’s welfare. In re Parsons, 914 S.W. 2d at 894. This is in accord with decisions from
other jurisdictions, see H.J.B. v. P.W., 628 So. 2d 753 (Ala. Civ. App. 1993); S.N.E. v. R.L.B., 699
P.2d 875 (Alaska 1985); Taylor v. Taylor, 110 S.W.2d 731 (Ark. 2003); Downey v. Muffley, 767
N.E.2d 1014 (Ind. Ct. App. 2002); Lundin v. Lundin, 563 So. 2d 1273 (La. Ct. App. 1990); Bezio
v. Patenaude, 410 N.E.2d 1207 (Mass. 1980); Hollon v. Hollon, 784 So. 2d 943, 949 (Miss. 2001);
Hassenstab v. Hassenstab, 570 N.W.2d 368 (Neb. Ct. App. 1997); M.P. v. S.P., 404 A.2d 1256 (N.J.
Super. Ct. App. Div. 1979); Guinan v. Guinan, 477 N.Y.S.2d 830 (1984); Conkel v. Conkel, 509
N.E.2d 983 (Ohio Ct. App. 1987); Stroman v. Williams, 353 S.E.2d 704 (S.C. Ct. App. 1987);
Van Driel v. Van Driel, 525 N.W.2d 37 (S.D. 1994); In re Marriage of Cabalquinto, 669 P.2d 886
(Wash. 1983), later appeal, 718 P.2d 7 (Wash. Ct. App. 1986); See, also, Bruce Gill, Best Interest
of the Child? A Critique of Judicially Sanctioned Arguments Denying Child Custody to Gays and
Lesbians, 68 Tenn. L. Rev. 361 (2001); Christopher Carnahan, Inscribing Lesbian and Gay
Identities: How Judicial Imaginations Intertwine with the Best Interests of Children, 11 Cardozo
Women’s L. J. 1 (2004); Julie Shapiro, Custody and Conduct: How the Law Fails Lesbian and Gay
Parents and Their Children, 71 Ind. L.J. 623 (1986).

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        We find nothing in this record to indicate that the mother’s sexual orientation has affected
the child’s welfare in a meaningful way. The evidence clearly supports the trial court’s finding that
the child was well-adjusted, doing well in school, and not affected by his mother’s homosexuality.
Mr. Berry agreed at trial that his son was a healthy, well-adjusted honor roll student. His testimony
was supported by the testimony of other witnesses, including the child’s school guidance counselor
who testified that he was a “well-rounded kid;” a child with no behavior issues; a child with good
social skills; and a “fun kid” with a good sense of humor who interacts well with others.

         The trial court based its decision in part on the future effect the mother’s sexual conduct may
have on the child and that he would have to “contend with the mother’s gay lifestyle as he grew
older.” The trial court relied on a 1988 decision in Collins v. Collins, No. 87-238-II, 1988 WL
30173, 1988 Tenn. App. LEXIS 123, (Tenn. Ct. App. W.S., filed March 30, 1988, perm. app. denied
June 27, 1988), in which the appellate court affirmed the judgment of the trial court which changed
custody from a homosexual mother to a heterosexual father. Collins is an unreported decision and
as such is persuasive authority rather than controlling authority. McConnell v. State, 12 S.W.3d 795
(Tenn. Ct. App. 2000), Allstate Ins. Co. v. Watts, 811 S.W.2d 883, 886 n.2 (Tenn. 1991). In Collins
the child testified that her mother slept in the same bed with her female partner, kissed her, hugged
her and told her that she loved her. Because there was no such testimony in the case at bar, the cases
are factually distinguishable. However, we note that in Collins, the appellate court found that the
mother had done a “good job in raising her to be a normal, well-adjusted child, and there has been
no proof that the Mother’s lifestyle has adversely affected the child’s growth or development.
However, if the child remains with her mother, she faces a life that requires her to keep the secret
of her mother’s lifestyle, or face possible social ostracism and contempt.” Collins, 1988 Tenn. App.
LEXIS 123 at *6-7. So in that respect Collins is very similar to the case at bar. In explanation we
note that Collins was decided in 1988 prior to the Kendrick decision which clarified the criteria for
determining when there has been a material change of circumstances; prior to this court’s decision
in In re M.J.S., 44 S.W.3d 41 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2000) (a proposed adoptive parent’s alternative
lifestyle is not a determinative factor unless it is shown to have an effect on the child); and prior to
In re Parsons, 914 S.W.2d at 894 (a parent’s alternative lifestyle is not a determinative factor in a
custody case absent proof of an effect on the child).

        The trial court’s finding of future harm was speculative and presupposed that the mother’s
homosexuality would cause the child problems as he matured. There was no credible proof in the
record to support a finding that the mother’s sexual orientation would have an adverse impact on the
child as he grew older. Further, this was not a proper matter of which the court could take judicial
notice. Tenn. R. Evid. 201(b) only allows a court to take judicial notice of adjudicative facts “either
(1) generally known within the territorial jurisdiction of the trial court or (2) capable of accurate and
ready determination by resort to sources whose accuracy cannot reasonably be questioned.” We do
not find that homosexuality and its effects on children as they mature is of such a nature that judicial
notice is appropriate. Therefore, we hold that the evidence preponderates against the trial court’s
finding that the child will be adversely affected in the future by his mother’s sexual orientation.

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          The trial court also based its decision in part on the mother’s sexual conduct which the court
described as “promiscuous”. A parent’s sexual conduct, be it heterosexual or homosexual, if
practiced inappropriately or indiscriminately, can adversely affect a child’s well-being and in those
cases, a parent’s sexual conduct can be a determinative factor in custody determinations. In Parker
v. Parker, 986 S.W.2d 557, 563 (Tenn. 1999), the Tennessee Supreme Court acknowledged that
“sexual indiscretion does not, by itself, disqualify a parent from being awarded custody, but it may
be a relevant factor if it involves the neglect of the child.” See also, Lockmiller v. Lockmiller, No.
E2002-02586-COA–R3-CV, 2003 WL 23094418, at *5, 2003 Tenn. App. LEXIS 953, at *14 (Tenn.
Ct. App. E.S., filed Dec. 30, 2004). The record before us offers no proof that Ms. Berry neglected
the parties’ child because of sexual indiscretion. By all accounts, she was a good mother who
provided him with a good home, was involved in his school activities, and regularly attended his
athletic events. There was no indication that she had ever engaged in any inappropriate sexual
conduct in the presence of the child. The trial court was concerned because she had been involved
with three different women over the course of three years and described her conduct as
“promiscuous”. Even assuming for the sake of argument that this was promiscuous conduct, there
still must be evidence of an adverse effect on the child before it will be a sufficient reason for a
change in custody. Smith v. Smith, No. 86-43-II, 1986 Tenn. App. LEXIS 3116 (Tenn. Ct. App. M.S
. filed July 9, 1986) (although in the three years since the parties’ divorce, the mother had slept with
and dated approximately four different men, the children did not suffer any ill effects and the trial
court’s decision changing custody from the mother to the father was reversed.)

        While we have no doubt that the trial court’s ruling was well-intentioned with a genuine
concern for the best interests of the child, we are constrained by our construction of the applicable
law and our stated findings to respectfully disagree with such ruling. After carefully reviewing the
record in this case, we find no evidence that the child has been or will be jeopardized by the mother’s
sexual orientation. Therefore we conclude that the preponderance of the evidence does not support
the trial court’s ruling that a material change in circumstances had occurred. Accordingly, we
reverse the trial court’s decision and remand to the trial court. The parties shall continue to have joint
custody; the mother shall be the primary residential parent; and all other provisions of the permanent
parenting plan executed by the parties on April 25, 2001, shall continue to be in effect. We note that
because the child has been primarily residing with the father since the trial court’s decision, this
order shall take effect five days after its entry to allow the child time to adjust to this new parenting
arrangement.

       Costs of this cause shall be taxed to the father, Lester Stephen Berry and his surety for which
execution may issue if necessary.

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                                                         SHARON G. LEE, J.

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