Court Opinion

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1. A parol obligation of a person to adopt the child of another as his own, accompanied by a virtual though not a statutory adoption, and acted upon by all parties concerned for many years and during the obligor's life, may be enforced in equity upon the death of the obligor, by decreeing the child entitled as a child to the property of the obligor, undisposed of by will.
(a) In this suit against an administrator, based upon an alleged agreement of the character above indicated, the petition as a whole necessarily implied that the obligors, since deceased, never actually adopted the plaintiff in compliance with the agreement. Accordingly, the petition was not subject to general demurrer as failing to allege such facts.
2. The petition having plainly and concisely alleged the ultimate facts relied on by the plaintiff, she could not be required by special demurrer to set forth the evidence or the exact conversation by which she expected to prove the allegations made.
3. This is such an equitable suit as is maintainable by a child in her own name, and the father was not a necessary party to the action.
4. The evidence was sufficient to authorize a finding that there was a contract to adopt, as alleged in the petition.
5. Under the terms of the alleged contract for adoption, it was not necessary to show performance by the plaintiff of a contract. The evidence was sufficient to show complete relinquishment by the father; and there was no fatal variance between the allegations and the proof with respect to the alleged agreement. The evidence did not demand a finding that the plaintiff was barred by laches.
6. The portion of the charge complained of, and set forth in the 6th division of the opinion, was not erroneous as contended; nor was there any error in the alleged omission to charge.
7. Evidence by a witness that he frequently visited the home of the alleged adoptive parents during a period otherwise shown to have been more than twenty years after the date of the alleged contract and after the plaintiff had married and moved away, and that he never *Page 528 
heard them say anything about having adopted the plaintiff or that they expected her to get their property, was merely negative in character, and was too remote to have any evidentiary value on the issue as to whether a contract to adopt was made, as claimed by the plaintiff.
8. Where the sole issue was whether or not a husband and wife contracted with a father to adopt his child, the exclusion of evidence, that the husband and wife had stated that two other children (not including the child here involved) were their adopted children, was not error.
9. Evidence that, while the child was living with the husband and wife who were alleged to have made a contract to adopt her, the husband in an application for homestead stated that his family consisted of "my wife and adopted daughter and myself," was relevant as illustrating whether there had been a contract to adopt the child.
10. There was no error in admitting the testimony set forth in the corresponding division of this opinion, over the objection that it was a mere conclusion of the witness.
11. Evidence that one of the parties, who was alleged to have made a contract to adopt the child, had stated "she had adopted the child since she was a baby," was relevant.
(a) The evidence authorized the verdict for the plaintiff. The court did not err in refusing a new trial.
      No. 15301. MARCH 4, 1946. ADHERED TO ON REHEARING. MARCH 25, 1946 SECOND REHEARING DENIED MARCH 29, 1946.
This case was predicated upon the doctrine of virtual adoption. In January, 1944, Mrs. Ethel Goodin filed a suit in equity, in the Superior Court of Pulaski County, against R. T. Toler, as the duly qualified administrator of C. J. Toler, deceased, making therein the following allegations:
"1. That R. T. Toler, duly appointed and acting administrator of the estate of C. J. Toler, is a resident of said State and county and in such capacity named as defendant herein.
"2. That C. J. Toler died intestate, a resident of Macon County, Georgia, on the 20th day of March, 1943, and the defendant, R. T. Toler, qualified as administrator of the estate of C. J. Toler on the 3rd day of May, 1943.
"3. Mrs. Annie E. Toler, the wife of C. J. Toler, died intestate, a resident of Macon County, Georgia, on the 7th day of July, 1941, leaving valuable real and personal property of the value of $8000.
"4. Mrs. Annie E. Toler left as her sole surviving heirs at law her husband, the said C. J. Toler, now deceased, and your petitioner. *Page 529 
"5. There has been no administration on the estate of Mrs. Annie E. Toler.
"6. The defendant herein named in his capacity as administrator of the estate of C. J. Toler, without any authority of law or contract, took possession and control of all the property of the estate of Mrs. Annie E. Toler, specifically including the portion belonging to your petitioner.
"7. Your petitioner attaches hereto, designated as Exhibit A, the description of the property left by Mrs. A. E. Toler at the time of her death. The said property has now been sold by the defendant herein with the consent of this petitioner under an agreement between petitioner and defendant that the said funds, the proceeds of the sale of the said properties, shall stand in lieu of the property without prejudice to the rights of either party to this cause. It being agreed by the parties hereto that this is a propitious time for the sale of such properties.
"8. Petitioner shows that she is the natural child of Mr. and Mrs. D. J. Bryan, that she was born on the 9th day of September, 1910, and that within a few hours after your petitioner's birth her mother died.
"9. That petitioner was born in Laurens County, Georgia, where her parents resided at said time, that Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler were at the said time residents of Telfair County, Georgia.
"10. Petitioner's mother and Mrs. C. J. Toler (Annie E. Toler) were sisters. Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler had no children of their bodies.
"11. On September 10, 1910, at and after the funeral of petitioner's mother, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler requested the father of petitioner to give her to them, stating to him at said time in the presence of each other that he would not be able to properly provide for and rear your petitioner, while they, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, were amply able financially to properly provide for and educate your petitioner. The Tolers further at said time and place proposed to petitioner's father that, if he would relinquish all claims of all nature to petitioner, . . they, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, would adopt petitioner as their own child, would love her and provide for her fully all things essential to her welfare, and make her their heir to inherit at their death as if she had been their natural child. D. J. Bryan then and there accepted said *Page 530 
proposition, and turned over your petitioner unreservedly to Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler.
"12. Petitioner shows that on said date when she was less than 24 hours old she was carried to the Toler home as their child, and from then till her maturity knew no other home and recognized no other parents. She moved with the Tolers to Cocoa, Florida, from there to Miona Springs in Macon County, Georgia; and her affection for the Tolers was so great and theirs for her that your petitioner did not know nor ever have any intimation that she was not the natural child of the bodies of Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler until she was some 12 years of age; that (she) rendered to said Tolers, from infancy until their respective deaths, the love, affections, and services of a dutiful child. She lived with them continuously without interruption from the time she was one-day old until her marriage. After her marriage, the consent for which was given by Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, she frequently visited in their home and they in hers. She and they corresponded regularly, and when petitioner was sick, Mrs. Toler visited and waited upon her, and when either of the Tolers was sick, your petitioner never failed to go to their aid, nurse and comfort them as a child would her natural parents.
"13. The defendant has entirely ignored your petitioner as being an heir or having any interest in the estate of C. J. Toler, and has treated the estate of Mrs. Annie E. Toler as belonging in its entirety to the estate of C. J. Toler.
"14. Petitioner shows that at the time of the death of Mrs. Annie E. Toler, as above set out, C. J. Toler owned no property of any nature; and that the entire estate of C. J. Toler [is] composed of the property that belonged to Mrs. Annie E. Toler.
"15. Petitioner shows, by virtue of the facts and circumstances hereinbefore set out, that she and C. J. Toler were the sole surviving heirs at law of Mrs. Annie E. Toler, and that petitioner is the sole surviving heir at law of C. J. Toler, deceased.
"16. That there were no debts or obligations of any nature owed by Mrs. Annie E. Toler at the time of her death.
"17. Petitioner shows that she has no adequate remedy at law."
The prayers were:
"A. That your petitioner be declared by this court to be the *Page 531 
child and the sole-surviving heir at law of Mrs. Annie E. Toler and C. J. Toler, deceased.
"B. That the defendant herein be required to fulfill the obligations and contracts of C. J. Toler by turning over to and paying to your petitioner the entire net proceeds of the C. J. Toler estate.
"C. For process.
"D. That such other and further relief, as may appear equitable and proper under the developments of this case, be granted your petitioner."
The defendant filed a general and special demurrer containing, among others, the following grounds:
"1. That said case should be dismissed because the petition sets forth no legal cause of action.
"2. Because, taking as true all of the allegations of the petition, they do not entitle the plaintiff to the relief sought.
"3. Because it does not appear from the allegations of the petition that there was any legal and proper contract for any kind of adoption, either actual or virtual, by parties able and competent at the time, to contract.
"4. Because the alleged contract sought to be plead is too vague, uncertain, and indefinite to be enforceable in a court of equity."
"6. He demurs specially to paragraph 11 of the petition because in said paragraph certain allegations appear, viz., `The Tolers further at said time and place proposed to petitioner's father that, if he would relinquish all claims of all nature to petitioner, . . they, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, would adopt petitioner as their own child;' and the following words, `D. J. Bryan then and there accepted said proposition and turned over your petitioner unreservedly to Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler.' Said expressions are conclusions of the pleader, and it is legally requisite that the identical words and the circumstances of their use should be set forth accurately in the petition."
The court overruled the demurrer upon all grounds, and the defendant excepted pendente lite.
The defendant also filed an answer, in which he denied all allegations of the petition except those contained in paragraphs 1, 2, 5, and 10, which were admitted. *Page 532 
Before the trial term, the defendant also filed a written application to make D. J. Bryan a party plaintiff, alleging that it is necessary and desirable that he be made a party plaintiff, for the reason "that under the allegations of the petition, he was a party to the alleged contract sued on and could claim specific performance of the alleged contract or sue for damages in his own name, and it is necessary to make him a party plaintiff in order that he may be bound by the judgment in said case, and to avoid a multiplicity of suits." The court denied this application, and to this ruling the defendant also excepted pendente lite.
The jury trying the case returned a verdict in favor of the plaintiff, and upon this verdict a decree was entered granting the relief prayed. The defendant administrator filed a motion for a new trial, which after amendment was overruled, and he excepted. In the bill of exceptions, he also assigned error upon the exceptions pendente lite, as well as upon the rulings therein complained of.
The evidence shows: That the plaintiff's mother, Mrs. D. J. Bryan, died on September 10, 1909, immediately following the birth of petitioner. She was the youngest of eight small children, the oldest being about 12 years old, and her father was poor and without financial ability to care for her. The evidence relating to the agreement between the father, D. J. Bryan, and Mr. and Mrs. Toler, will be set forth in more detail in the opinion. After her mother's funeral, the plaintiff and the other seven children were taken by Mrs. Toler to the home of the latter's mother where Mrs. Toler was then residing. At this time Mr. and Mrs. Toler were not living together, although they were not divorced. All of the Bryan children remained at this home until their father remarried in March, 1910, at which time he took the other seven children back to his own home, leaving the child in question with Mrs. Toler. Shortly after his remarriage, both Mr. and Mrs. Toler, who were then living together, came to his home and there another conversation took place in reference to an agreement for the Tolers to have the child. The details of this conversation will appear in the opinion. The child remained with the Tolers, and in about 1912 they moved to Florida, taking the child with them. There was evidence to the effect that she was known as Ethel Toler, that she was known as the daughter of the Tolers, that she *Page 533 
was referred to by them as their daughter, and that she called them "Mama" and "Papa." While in Florida Mr. Toler made an application for homestead in 1914, which contained the question, "If married, of whom does your family consist?" to which he replied, "My wife, and adopted daughter and myself." The Tolers left Florida and moved to Miona Springs, Georgia, in the fall of 1925, bringing the child with them. After returning from Florida she resided with them until she married Eddie Sawyer in May, 1926. She was divorced from Sawyer in April, 1939. After leaving Sawyer, she returned to the home of the Tolers, where she resided until she married Goodin and moved to Sumter County. After the death of Mrs. Toler in 1941, the plaintiff and her husband went to the home of Mr. Toler and remained for a short time, but on account of her husband's business they returned to Sumter County. Mr. and Mrs. Toler never had any children of their own. At the time of Mrs. Toler's death, all of the property was owned by her and was taken in charge by Mr. Toler, and following his death his administrator did not recognize the plaintiff as an heir at law.
There was evidence that the Tolers stated that the plaintiff was an adopted daughter, that her birth was recorded in the Toler family Bible, and that she never saw her real father until she was twelve or fourteen years of age. By agreement, the Toler property had been reduced to cash, and according to the record, it was agreed upon the trial that the only issue to be submitted to the jury was whether or not C. J. Toler and his wife contracted with D. J. Bryan to adopt his daughter, now Mrs. Ethel Goodin, the plaintiff in the trial court.
1. The only contention urged in this court under the general demurrer is that there was no allegation in the petition that the Tolers did not adopt the plaintiff, as they allegedly agreed to do. As to this contention, so far as we are aware, there is no decision by this court directly in point, other than certain physical precedents. Crawford v. Wilson, 139 Ga. 654
(78 S.E. 30, 44 L.R.A. (N.S.) 773); Columbus Bank  Trust Co. v.Jones, 176 Ga. 620 (168 S.E. 561); Fussell v. Daniels,179 Ga. 462 (176 S.E. 369). *Page 534 
Since the plaintiff by her petition is seeking equitable relief only, it would seem that such an allegation would be necessary in order to show that she is entitled to such relief.Steed v. Savage, 115 Ga. 97 (2) (41 S.E. 272); Whitson
v. Atlanta, 177 Ga. 666 (170 S.E. 888); Pair v. Pair,147 Ga. 754, 758 (95 S.E. 295). However, it is a well-settled rule of construction that what is clearly implied is as much a part of a pleading as what is expressed; and considering the instant petition as a whole, we think that the requisite allegation was necessarily implied. 41 Am. Jur. 293, § 10; 49 C. J. 120, § 114. See also Davis v. Arthur, 139 Ga. 74 (4) (76 S.E. 676).
This was not a suit to require any one to adopt the plaintiff, but it was a suit to establish title to property by decreeing the plaintiff entitled thereto as a child of the alleged obligors, just as though she had been legally adopted according to the alleged agreement. "A parol obligation by a person to adopt the child of another as his own, accompanied by a virtual though not a statutory adoption, and acted upon by all parties concerned for many years and during the obligor's life, may be enforced in equity upon the death of the obligor, by decreeing the child entitled as a child to the property of the obligor, undisposed of by will." Crawford v. Wilson, 139 Ga. 654 (supra). In such a case, "equity considers that done which ought to have been done, and as one of the consequences, if the act of adoption had been formally consummated, would be that the child would inherit as an heir of the adopter, equity will enforce the contract by decreeing that the child is entitled to the fruits of a legal adoption." Ibid, p. 659; Code, § 37-106. The petition here was in harmony with this principle, and by its allegations and prayers clearly showed an intention to invoke it. The petition was thus, in effect, nothing less than a representation to the court that the plaintiff was entitled to a decree treating as done that which ought to have been done, and this necessarily implied that the Tolers had not adopted her, in accordance with the alleged agreement. Its whole tenor and import are utterly inconsistent with any supposition that she was ever so adopted, and therefore it shows by clear and necessary implication that no such formal adoption was ever consummated. It is true that a petition, when considered on general demurrer, must be construed most strongly against the pleader, and that in *Page 535 
applying this rule the petition should be construed in the light of its omissions as well as its averments. Toney v. Ledford,184 Ga. 856 (2) (193 S.E. 761); Mackler v. Lahman,196 Ga. 535 (27 S.E.2d 35). But this does not mean that the petition must be given a strained construction, in violation of its reasonable and necessary intendment. Krueger v.MacDougald, 148 Ga. 429 (96 S.E. 867); Georgia Power Co.
v. Leonard, 187 Ga. 608, 614 (4) (1 S.E.2d 579). While some of the allegations here might perhaps have been subject to a special demurrer calling for more specific information with respect to the matter under consideration, we do not think that the petition, when construed reasonably according to its natural import, was subject to general demurrer for the reason urged.
2. The plaintiff in error insists only on the 6th ground of his special demurrer, to wit: "He demurs specially to paragraph eleven of the petition because in said paragraph certain allegations appear, viz., `The Tolers further at said time and place proposed to petitioner's father that, if he would relinquish all claims of all nature to petitioner, that they, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, would adopt petitioner as their own child;' and the following words, `D. J. Bryan then and there accepted said proposition and turned over your petitioner unreservedly to Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler;'" the objections being that "said expressions are conclusions of the pleader, and it is legally requisite that the identical words and the circumstances of their use should be set forth accurately in the petition." The allegations were not subject to the objections made. They set forth plain, definite, and traversable facts, and the plaintiff can not be required to set forth the evidence, or the exact conversation by which he expects to prove the allegations made.Bittick v. Ga. Fla. c. Ry. Co., 136 Ga. 138
(70 S.E. 1106); Lefkoff v. Sicro, 189 Ga. 554 (10) (6 S.E.2d 687, 133 A.L.R. 738); Cedartown Cotton  Export Co. v. Miles,2 Ga. App. 79 (58 S.E. 289); Wrightsville  Tennille R. Co. v.Vaughan, 9 Ga. App. 371 (2) (71 S.E. 691); Watts v.Rich, 49 Ga. App. 334 (2) (175 S.E. 417).
3. Before the trial term, the defendant filed a written application praying that D. J. Bryan, the father of the child, be made a party plaintiff. The court denied the rule nisi, exceptions pendente lite were taken, and error is now assigned thereon. It *Page 536 
was urged that the father was a necessary party plaintiff for the reason that he was a party to the alleged contract. In Crawford
v. Wilson, 139 Ga. 654 (2) (supra), it was held that, "Such an equitable suit is maintainable by the child in her own name against the administrators of the obligor." In Copelan v.Montfort, 153 Ga. 558 (113 S.E. 514), a case involving the same question, it is stated on p. 567 that "the father was not a necessary party to the petition." See also Lansdell v.Lansdell, 144 Ga. 571 (1, 2) (87 S.E. 792).
4. We consider next the general grounds of the motion for a new trial. As to this phase of the case, the principal question is whether the evidence was sufficient to prove the alleged contract between the plaintiff's father, D. J. Bryan, and Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler, whereby the Tolers agreed to adopt the plaintiff as their child. Accordingly, in addition to the evidence set forth in the statement, it is necessary to consider the testimony relating to the conversation between Mrs. Toler and the father, Bryan, and also the conversation between both Mr. and Mrs. Toler and Bryan. Mr. Bryan testified: "Mrs. Ethel Goodin . . is my daughter. She was born September 9, 1909. Her mother died the next morning after she was born. I had seven other children at the time. The oldest about 12 years. . . My wife was Mrs. C. J. Toler's sister. . . Had no one to properly care for my infant baby except Mrs. Toler. They did not have any children. . . She told me that she wanted to ask about taking the child, said I was not in shape . . with seven other children and financial conditions not good. . . I told her she could have the child. . . We carried the baby then down to Mrs. Toler's mother. Mrs. Toler cared for the baby. . . The physical condition of the child was not good. . . My other children were staying there until I could get settled . . until I married again, . . I remarried . . some time in March. . . After I married I took the larger children back, all except the baby. She stayed with Mrs. Toler. I had a conversation with C. J. Toler — he talked some with me in Lumber City about it about 1910. . . The way he spoke they would be glad to have her and they would treat her just as good as they could. . . I had one conversation with him at McRae . . similar to . . that . . in Lumber City. I had a conversation with Mr. and Mrs. Toler when *Page 537 
they were together after I married. . . They came over to see me about the child, . . and wanted to know if after I married I . . had decided to change my mind possibly and take her back. . . I told them the trade was the same. . . The trade was they were to take the child as their own child. I retained no claim whatever. She never lived in my home. I never saw her from her birth until twelve years of age. . . I contributed nothing whatever to her support."
Upon cross-examination, the witness's attention was called to previous interrogatories in which he had testified: "Her and Toler were separated and they had no children, seemed is [if?] they had one of their own, that was the talk they had with me — that they wanted the child — that was all I know except they wanted me to give her to them. At first I hated to part from her but afterwards I gave her the child. I told them that I would not ever interfere if they treated her all right. I did not interfere. At the time the transaction was entered into I have told you all I know and I have not interfered. The conversation with Mrs. Toler and Mr. Toler referred to occurred in Telfair County, not at the funeral of my wife. That conversation at the funeral of my wife was with Mrs. Toler." He then stated, "I don't know anything I want to add to the statement."
The witness was then asked the following question: "The case on which your daughter relies states that on September 10, at and after the funeral of petitioner's mother, Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler requested the father of your petitioner to give her to them, stating at that time in the presence of each other that he would not be able to properly provide for and rear your petitioner, while they, Mrs. Toler and C. J. Toler, were amply able financially to properly provide for and educate your petitioner. The Tolers further said at that time and place and proposed to your petitioner's father that, if he would relinquish all claims of any nature to petitioner, that they would (Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler) adopt petitioner as their own, would love and provide for her fully all things essential to her welfare and make her the heir to inherit at their death as if she had been their natural child. D. J. Bryan then and there accepted said proposition and turned over your petitioner unreservedly to Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Toler." To which he replied, "Well, I did." Continuing, the witness stated: *Page 538 
"As to whether the agreement happened in accordance with that allegation — it happened there first pretty much like that petition, and the same thing occurred again after I married. . . Toler was not at my wife's funeral. . . At that time they were living separate. . . My second wife . . is dead. I relied on the last contract. . . That was the last talk we had. . . I can not tell you right definite the length of time it was from the first to the last conversation with C. J. Toler. . . I remember the conversation very well. . . The Tolers were in fairly good shape. . . When I did see her [the child], I never related to her anything about any scheme I had up for her living and betterment and location. . . I don't know whether she was ever told or not. . . I was never with her to tell her anything. I had never told her before I saw her at 14 years of age or since."
Upon a redirect examination, after a motion for nonsuit, the witness further testified: "Referring to consideration and agreement between me and Mr. and Mrs. Toler, . . they wanted . . to know if I would make any interference complaint against them about the child, anything like that; I told them, `No.'. . The subject of the words . . were about like this: . . That she would be their child, in their home, fare as they fared, and would be an heir to anything that they possessed during their life, or something along like that, or at their death she would inherit whatever they possessed at their death as one of their children. That is about the pith of all I remember about that. In response to that, I gave the child to them, and told them that I would never interfere."
The general principle on which a court of equity may in a proper case allow a recovery under the so-called doctrine of virtual adoption has been quoted in the first division, supra. On the general subject, see Richardson v. Cade, 150 Ga. 535
(104 S.E. 207); Copelan v. Monfort (supra); Ansley v.Ansley, 154 Ga. 357 (114 S.E. 182); Chamblee v. Wayman,167 Ga. 821 (3) (146 S.E. 851); Columbus Bank  Trust Co. v.Jones, 176 Ga. 620 (supra); Fussell v. Daniels, 179 Ga. 462
(176 S.E. 369); Rieves v. Smith, 184 Ga. 657
(192 S.E. 372, 112 A.L.R. 368); Butler v. Ross, 188 Ga. 329
(4 S.E.2d 21); Savannah Bank  Trust Co. v. Wolff, 191 Ga. 111
(11 S.E.2d 766); Pierce v. Harrison, 199 Ga. 197
(33 S.E.2d 680). *Page 539 
There is no contention on the part of the plaintiff in error as to the soundness of the rule, but he takes the position that the instant case does not meet its requirements, in that the evidence does not establish a contract to adopt the child. More particularly he insists that nowhere in the evidence is the word "adopt" used in any agreement on the part of the alleged foster parents; and that there could be no valid contract without the express use of the term "adopt." Whether or not the foregoing statement of the witness Bryan, "Well, I did," considered with the context, could have been taken by the jury as showing a specific offer by the Tolers to "adopt," and an acceptance of such offer by the parent, we do not think that the specific word "adopt" must in every case be used in a contract of this nature. It is true that, in order to be enforceable under the doctrine of virtual adoption, the contract must comprehend and intend a legal adoption according to statute. Jones v. O'Neal, 194 Ga. 49
(20 S.E.2d 585). This, however, is not to say that language clearly having that meaning under the attendant and surrounding circumstances, though not containing precise legal phraseology, would be insufficient. In this connection, attention is also specifically called to the following additional testimony of the witness Bryan, as stated above: "As to whether the agreement happened in accordance with that allegation — it happened there first pretty much like that petition, and the same thing occurred after I married. . . The subject of the words . . were about like this: . . That she would be their child, in their home, fare as they fared, and would be an heir to anything that they possessed during their life, or something like that, or at their death she would inherit whatever they possessed at their death as one of their children. That is about the pith of all I remember about that. In response to that, I gave the child to them, and told them I would never interfere." While this language did not contain the technical word "adopt," it did contain a clear definition of the legal status created by a statutory adoption. Code, § 74-404. And if the Tolers did agree to establish the status and relationship as indicated by such testimony, the agreement would include an obligation to do all things reasonably necessary to effectuate such result. Martin v. Martin,250 Mo. 539 (157 S.W. 575). "The difference between a necessary allegation in a declaration and the evidence which may be sufficient to sustain such allegation *Page 540 
is clear." Kendall v. Wells, 126 Ga. 343, 352
(55 S.E. 41). Witnesses are not expected to be as definite and precise as a pleader must be, and there is authority to the effect that an oral agreement to adopt may be shown by the acts, conduct, and admissions of the parties, and that in order to establish such a contract, the exact word "adopt" need not be used. See in this connection, 2 C. J. S. 396, § 26; Remmers v. Remmers (Mo.)239 S.W. 509; Taylor v. Coberly, 327 Mo. 940 (38 S.W.2d 1055); Lynn v. Hockaday, 162 Mo. 111 (61 S.W. 885, 85 Am. St. R. 480); Parks v. Burney, 103 Neb. 572 (173 N.W. 478); Lamb v.
Feehan (Mo.) 276 S.W. 71.
In the instant case, the proof did not depend entirely upon the testimony of the witness Bryan. There was, as we have indicated, much additional evidence, relating to statements of the Tolers, the conduct and apparent relations as between them and the child, and other circumstances corroborating his testimony, and pointing toward the conclusion that there was an agreement to adopt. Considering the evidence as a whole, we think that the jury were authorized to find that there was such a contract. Nor, in so holding, do we overlook the rule that in such a case the alleged agreement must be proved so clearly, strongly, and satisfactorily as to leave no reasonable doubt in the minds of the jury. Ansley v. Ansley, 154 Ga. 357 (5) (supra); Salmon v. McCrary, 197 Ga. 281 (29 S.E.2d 58).
5. The 1st ground of the amended motion is divided into six subheads, all being mere elaborations of the general grounds. They make the following contentions, in addition to those above dealt with: The evidence failed to show that the child was not legally adopted by the Tolers, and also failed to show the performance of a contract by the child; it showed that there was no contract or intention of the father to relinquish control or dominion over her, for the reason that he reserved the right to interfere if the child was not "treated right;" and it further showed that, if there was a contract to adopt, it was made with Mrs. Toler alone, and if such a contract was made with Mrs. Toler alone, and the custody of the child was unconditionally surrendered to her, the evidence did not authorize a recovery on the alleged contract sued on, to wit, a contract with Mr. and Mrs. Toler.
There is no merit in these contentions. The alleged agreement *Page 541 
did not stipulate anything as to performance by the child, and so there was no defect in proof as to this point. Chamblee v.Wayman, 167 Ga. 821 (3) (supra). This statement is not contrary to the ruling in Rahn v. Hamilton, 144 Ga. 644 (2) (87 S.E. 1061), referring to "equitable status." The evidence showed relinquishment by the father. Nor was there a fatal variance as between the allegations and proof with respect to the alleged agreement. Napier v. Strong, 19 Ga. App. 401
(91 S.E. 579). Moreover, under the agreement made at the trial, the only issue to be submitted to the jury was whether or not the Tolers contracted with D. J. Bryan to adopt the child; accordingly, the question as to whether the child performed a contract was not in issue. Nor under this agreement, was it necessary to prove that there had been no statutory adoption. While the defendant did not waive his demurrer, he apparently rested thereon, without requiring proof as to this matter.Albany Phosphate Co. v. Hugger Bros., 4 Ga. App. 771 (1a) (62 S.E. 533). The evidence did not demand a finding that the plaintiff was barred by laches, even if such a finding might have been authorized.
6. In the 2nd ground of the amended motion, it is alleged that the court erred in charging as follows: "So the question for you to determine in this case is — did the Tolers contract with the father of plaintiff to adopt the plaintiff as their child as alleged, and was the contract complied with on the part of the father? If you find that the Tolers contracted with the father of the child to adopt her as alleged in the petition and the contract was performed by the father, then you should find for the plaintiff." The movant contends that this charge was error because the evidence did not authorize it, and he further set forth the identical reasons that were assigned under the 1st ground of the amended motion. The evidence authorized the charge, and there was no merit in any of the exceptions taken thereto.
The same ruling will apply to the 3rd ground of the amended motion, complaining of an omission to charge.
7. The 4th ground of the amended motion was the refusal of the court to admit in evidence a letter written by Justice Warren Grice to the attorney for the defendant in the court below, and as to which there had been an agreement between counsel "that the foregoing letter shall be used as a deposition under the *Page 542 
rules of law as to admissibility." The letter related certain matters that would prevent the writer from attending the trial as a witness, and then stated that for a period of five or six years (computed as being from about 1931 to 1937), he was intimate with the Tolers, that he spent the week-end with them about once a month, and he visited with them in other homes, and they visited his home. A portion of the letter told of the great affection the Tolers manifested for a nephew, Bill Powell, who on all of the writer's visits was present in their home. The letter stated also that on one occasion there was a niece of Mrs. Toler whom the writer saw there, but that according to his recollection, she left after supper to spend the night elsewhere. The writer did not say whether this niece was the present plaintiff, or some other niece of Mrs. Toler. After stating that the writer could not recall whether he had ever heard either of the Tolers say they had adopted Bill Powell, or that he would get their property, the letter concluded as follows: "I know I have never heard either Mr. or Mrs. Toler say anything about having adopted any one else, nor have I heard either of them speak in terms of affection of any niece of either of them. My recollection of many visits to the Tolers and of the many conversations we had is, that I was left with a distinct impression that the future of this couple was very much wrapped up in Bill Powell, and he was a [as] near a son to them as one could be. I did not from these conversations get the impression that either of them had the same kind of affection for any other niece or nephew of Mr. and Mrs. Toler. I am sure that I never heard either Mr. or Mrs. Toler say that he or she had adopted any niece, or that either of them expected any niece to get the property of either of them; and never while I was there did I witness any niece looking after them or staying with them, or contributing anything to their support or comfort."
It is insisted that this letter was admissible for the purpose of illustrating whether there was a contract for adoption. The period covered by the evidence was from 20 to 25 years after the contract was alleged to have been made, and was several years after the child had grown to womanhood, and had married and moved away. It was a statement to the effect that the writer of the letter had never heard either Mr. or Mrs. Toler say they had adopted a niece or that either expected any niece to inherit their property. *Page 543 
This evidence was merely negative in character, and was too remote to have any evidentiary value on the issue as to whether a contract to adopt was made, as claimed by the plaintiff.DeNieff v. Howell, 138 Ga. 248 (2) (75 S.E. 202).
8. In the 5th ground of the amended motion, error is assigned on a ruling of the court excluding testimony that Mr. and Mrs. Toler had stated that two other children (not including the child here involved) were their adopted children. Counsel stated to the court that the purpose of this evidence was to show "what Mr. and Mrs. Toler meant by the word `adopted.'" We cannot see how this type of evidence, especially a bare and unexplained statement such as that mentioned by the witness, could illustrate the issue as to whether the parties ever entered into a contract to adopt the child here in question. There is no merit in this ground.
9. The 6th ground alleged that the court erred in admitting in evidence an authenticated copy of an application of C. J. Toler for a homestead in Florida which contained the following question and answer: Q. "If married, of whom does your family consist? A. My wife and adopted daughter and myself." Inasmuch as the evidence discloses that at the time this application was made the child in question was living with the Tolers, it was relevant as illustrating whether there had been a contract to adopt the child.
10. The 7th ground alleged that the court erred in admitting in evidence, over the objection that it was a conclusion of the witness, Mrs. W. A. Spillers, the statement, "Mr. and Mrs. Toler and their daughter Ethel constitute their family;" contending no facts were stated upon which such a conclusion could be based. Reviewing the testimony of this witness, we find that she further testified that she met the Tolers in Cocoa, Florida, when they brought their daughter Ethel to her to take music, and that she taught the daughter for three years. At this time Ethel was about eight years old, and called them "Mama" and "Daddy." The witness did not know for a long time that the child was not their own child, and she knew the child only as Ethel Toler. When the Tolers moved to Georgia, Ethel stayed with the witness for about three months, until they returned and carried her to Miona Springs. In view of the entire testimony of this witness, the objection was without merit.
11. The 8th ground of the amended motion contends that the *Page 544 
court erred in admitting the following testimony of the witness H. H. Sams: "She (Mrs. Toler) told me that . . she had adopted the child (Ethel Toler, plaintiff) since she was a baby." As already ruled in the 6th division of this opinion, this evidence was relevant as illustrating whether there had been a contract to adopt the child.
The evidence authorized the verdict for the plaintiff. The court did not err in refusing a new trial.
Judgment affirmed. All the Justices concur, except Duckworth,J., who dissents, and Head, J., who dissents in part.
                              ON REHEARING.
After affirmance of the judgment in this case, a motion for rehearing was granted, and the opinion has now been revised and supplemented, but since we still find no error, the judgment must be adhered to.
Judgment adhered to on rehearing. All the Justices concur,except Duckworth, J., who dissents, and Head, J., who dissents inpart.
                     ON SECOND MOTION FOR REHEARING.
1. As to the general demurrer: The petition having alleged an oral contract between the plaintiff's father and the Tolers (both now deceased), wherein the Tolers agreed to adopt her, together with additional facts showing that she is entitled to the benefits of such contract, and having further alleged that the administrator has entirely ignored her as being an heir or having any interest in the estate of C. J. Toler, and having prayed that the administrator be required to fulfill the obligations and contracts of C. J. Toler by turning over and paying to the plaintiff the entire net proceeds of the C. J. Toler estate, these facts and circumstances as shown by the petitionnecessarily implied that the plaintiff had never been legally adopted by the Tolers, in compliance with such alleged contract. The first ground of the motion for rehearing is without merit.
2. The contentions urged in the other grounds of the motion have been sufficiently dealt with in the opinion, and show no cause for a different judgment.
Motion for rehearing denied. All the Justices concur, exceptDuckworth, J., who dissents, and Head, J., who dissents in part.