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[Cite as Short v. Rhodes, 2021-Ohio-1845.]

                            IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO
                                SIXTH APPELLATE DISTRICT
                                     WOOD COUNTY

Tonya Short                                       Court of Appeals No. WD-20-066

        Appellee                                  Trial Court No. 2014-DR-0120

v.

Mark J. Rhodes                                    DECISION AND JUDGMENT

        Appellant                                 Decided: May 28, 2021

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        Stephen M. Szuch and Patricia Hayden Kurt, for appellant.

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        PIETRYKOWSKI, J.

        {¶ 1} Appellant, Mark Rhodes, appeals the judgment of the Wood County Court

of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, denying his motions for a reallocation of

parental rights and responsibilities and to modify child support. Appellee, Tonya Short,

has not filed a brief in response. For the reasons that follow, we affirm.

                              I. Facts and Procedural Background

        {¶ 2} On January 22, 2015, the parties entered into a consent judgment entry of

divorce. In the consent entry, appellee was designated the residential parent and legal
custodian of the two minor children, L.R. (born in 2007), and E.R. (born in 2010).

Appellant was granted parenting time with the children for three evenings each week, as

well as Friday overnight, and alternating weekends. Appellant was also ordered to pay

$1,600 per month in child support.

                          A. History of Post-Divorce Litigation

       {¶ 3} On July 18, 2016, appellant reopened the case by filing a motion to show

cause, and for a reallocation of parental rights and responsibilities. In his motion,

appellant alleged that appellee had begun a new job which made the previous parenting

schedule impractical. Appellant also alleged that appellee had unilaterally curtailed his

parenting time with the children. Appellee responded by also seeking certain

modifications to the parenting schedule.

       {¶ 4} The hearing on appellant’s motions was vacated and rescheduled several

times, and was ultimately held on June 9 and August 17, 2017. During the intervening

period, the parties filed additional motions including motions to show cause, to relocate

the children, and to prevent the children from being dis-enrolled from a particular school,

among others.

       {¶ 5} Following the hearing, the magistrate found that appellee unilaterally

deprived appellant of parenting time on numerous occasions. Appellee also unilaterally

withdrew the children from the private school they had been attending, and enrolled them

in public school. Records from the private school show that the children were tardy

approximately 25 days, and absent 7 days over the course of the 2015-2016 school year,

all of which occurred while appellee was responsible for the children. Around April

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2017, the guardian ad litem recommended that the parties try a “week-on/week-off”

schedule with a midweek overnight visit. Following the end of the 2016-2017 school

year, appellee unilaterally suspended the midweek overnight visits. At the hearing,

appellee stated that she could not remember exercising midweek overnight visits after the

parties started the “week-on/week-off” schedule, which the magistrate found not credible

since the parties had exercised midweek visits for approximately five weeks in April and

May 2017.

       {¶ 6} The magistrate also found that appellee had filed for a domestic violence

civil protection order against appellant, and included the children as desired protected

persons. Appellee’s petition listed several dates on which appellant was at her house, but

the magistrate found that appellant had legitimate reasons involving his parenting time

for being there, noting that appellant could have handled some of the times better to avoid

upsetting appellee. In addition, the magistrate found that appellee had contacted

appellant’s pastor to make disparaging remarks about appellant. The magistrate also

found that after a referral to children’s services about appellee’s boyfriend, appellee

decided to have a police escort attend all exchanges of the minor children, which she

claimed was necessary to protect her safety, and was not a retaliatory action. Finally, the

magistrate found that both parties had made inappropriate comments to the children about

the pending case.

       {¶ 7} In light of her findings, the magistrate ordered that there was no change of

circumstances to cause the court to modify the residential parent status. However, the

magistrate ordered that the parenting time should be modified so that the parties alternate

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weeks of parenting time with the children, with exchanges to occur on Fridays at 5:15

p.m. The magistrate further ordered that the parties shall encourage frequent phone

contact with the other parent, and to allow video-call access at least two times per week.

As to child support, the magistrate ordered that appellant shall be responsible to pay the

sum of $600 per month. On January 5, 2018, the trial court denied the parties’ respective

objections, and affirmed and adopted the magistrate’s decision.

       {¶ 8} On June 15, 2018, appellee reopened the case, seeking to modify the parties’

parenting times surrounding the Wood County Fair and other holidays. Additionally,

appellee alleged that appellant was not complying with the requirement of video-calls

two times per week, and that appellant was not allowing the children to wear and use

their phone watches to freely contact appellee. Furthermore, appellee alleged that

appellant was making “nasty remarks” when the children wanted to contact appellee, and

that appellant yelled at the children, thereby intimidating the children into not wanting to

call appellee. Appellee subsequently supplemented her motion five times with additional

complaints regarding appellant’s availability to be home when the children return from

school, appellant’s inability or unwillingness to hire a babysitter, and appellant’s move to

within a block from appellee’s home and his desire to send the children to appellee’s

house after school which would require appellee to expend her own funds to hire a

babysitter.

       {¶ 9} Appellant responded to appellee’s motions by filing a motion to reallocate

the parental rights and responsibilities, as well as subsequent motions to show cause. In

his motions, appellant alleged that appellee’s behavior has become increasingly erratic,

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and that she has attempted to alienate the children from him and has failed to properly

care for the children by not providing adequate meals. Appellant also alleged that

appellee signed the children up for extracurricular activities without first consulting him

in violation of the most recent court order, that she denies the children access to their

phones to contact appellant, and that she refuses to allow L.R. to ride the bus from school

to appellant’s home and interferes with his parenting time by picking L.R. up from

school. Furthermore, appellant alleged that appellee confiscated electronic devices that

appellant had purchased for the children and refused to return them to appellant. Finally,

appellant alleged that appellee was not paying her share of the medical expenses.

       {¶ 10} Following a February 6, 2019 hearing on this round of motions, the

magistrate found that although there was still tension between the parties, the relationship

“seem[ed] to have improved somewhat,” and the children were doing relatively well.

Based upon the guardian ad litem report and her in-camera discussions with the children,

the magistrate found that the “week-on/week-off” schedule was too long, and since the

parties were now living on the same street, it would be easier for the children to travel

between the two homes. Additionally, the magistrate found that appellant has

undermined appellee’s decisions to the children, has not been respectful towards

appellee’s feelings, and has exhibited a desire to not allow the children to see appellee

during his parenting time. The magistrate also found, on the other hand, that appellee has

at times evidenced interference and a lack of cooperation. The magistrate exhorted the

parties to work together to resolve issues and act in the best interests of the children.

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       {¶ 11} In light of her findings, the magistrate ordered that appellee continue as the

residential parent, and that the parenting time should be divided based on a “2-2-3”

schedule. The magistrate further ordered that appellant pay $509.66 per month in child

support. Both parties objected to the magistrate’s decision, and on May 10, 2019, the

trial court denied their objections and affirmed and adopted the magistrate’s decision.

                           B. Current Post-Divorce Litigation

       {¶ 12} Three weeks later, on May 31, 2019, appellee reopened the case by filing a

motion to show cause in which she alleged that appellant has been withholding the

children from her in violation of the terms of the parenting schedule.

       {¶ 13} On June 19, 2019, appellant responded by filing a motion for reallocation

of parental rights and responsibilities and other relief. In his motion, appellant alleged

that there has been a change of circumstances in that the children have on numerous

occasions refused to visit with appellee. Appellant further alleged that while he has

encouraged both children to respect and visit with appellee, he is reluctant to force the

children to go with appellee given appellee’s history of making domestic violence

allegations and her litigious nature.

       {¶ 14} The matter came to be heard before the magistrate on September 23, and

October 23, 2019.

       {¶ 15} At the hearing, appellee testified regarding the timeline of events. Appellee

testified that March 18, 2019, was the last time that she had seen E.R. being herself, i.e.,

smiling, hugging, interacting, and telling appellee that she loves her. Appellee described

that since that date, E.R. has had a flat affect, does not show emotion, and does not want

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to look at appellee. Appellee explained that a short time before, appellant had moved

into the neighborhood, approximately 600 feet from appellee’s house. Appellee testified

that she was concerned that the children would ride their bikes or scooters in front of her

house and not even look at her house, and if appellee was outside the children would not

interact with her. Thinking that this behavior was not healthy for the children, appellee

decided to move two miles away. It was during the process of putting the house up for

sale and moving that E.R.’s behavior changed. Appellee did not move until May 2019.

        {¶ 16} On March 29, 2019, E.R. became upset at appellee and ran away to

appellant’s house. Appellee testified that E.R. was upset that she had to pick up her room

and pack, and that they could not have a bonfire that night. Appellee stated that appellant

held E.R. at his house for one and one-half hours. Eventually, with the help of the

Bowling Green Police Department, E.R. returned to appellee’s house and things settled

down.

        {¶ 17} The next day, March 30, 2019, appellee took the children to Columbus,

Ohio, where appellee met a friend at the hotel bar/restaurant while the children remained

in the hotel room. Appellee testified that the friend was known to the children, and had a

child that had gone through some similar issues as E.R. Appellee stated that the children

had a great time in Columbus, and expressed that they did not want the weekend to end.

        {¶ 18} Appellee testified that at the next scheduled exchange, appellant held the

kids from her, so that she did not see them for five days. Then, during the period of April

4 through April 11, 2019, appellant arranged for E.R. to be driven in a car to the bus stop

in front of appellee’s house, where E.R. remained in the car until the moment that the bus

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arrived. Appellee testified that she believed this was done so that she could not go out

and say hello or good morning to E.R. Several videos of these incidents were recorded

by appellee and played at the hearing.

       {¶ 19} On April 8, 2019, appellee picked up the children for her parenting time at

the baseball field during L.R.’s practice. Appellee recorded the exchange. Although the

audio in the recording is hard to hear, appellee testified that when she asked E.R. to get

L.R.’s belongings from appellant’s truck, appellant commented to E.R. that “your mom

just wants [L.R.]’s stuff so he doesn’t have to come back to me and say goodbye.”

Further, when appellee told E.R. that it was time to leave, appellant stated to E.R. that

“your mom just wants you to go so that she can take you away from me.” Appellee then

left with E.R. to find E.R.’s missing smart watch while L.R. was still at baseball practice.

The watch was at an address near appellant’s house, but appellee did not realize it was

the house immediately next door to appellant’s house. When they could not find the

watch, E.R. stated that maybe it was in appellant’s house, and so she went in to look for

it. But once E.R. went into the house she shut the blinds and closed the door and refused

to come out. E.R. then called appellant. After 15 or 20 minutes, appellee messaged

appellant that E.R. was in his house, and that she was going to return to the baseball field

to pick up L.R. and then come back to get E.R. for her parenting time. When appellee

came back to the house, E.R. came out to the car twice and asked if they were going to

watch a movie that night. When appellee said no, that it was a school night and it was

too late, E.R. returned to appellant’s house. The third time that E.R. came out, she took

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her belongings from appellee’s vehicle and went back into appellant’s house and did not

come back out. Appellee took L.R. and had her parenting time with just him.

       {¶ 20} On April 12, 2019, a similar scenario occurred where E.R. came to the car

but ultimately refused to go with appellee, and so appellee had her parenting time with

just L.R. Appellee testified that the next morning, April 13, 2019, the children had an

appointment with a counselor, but appellant did not bring E.R. to the appointment.

       {¶ 21} On April 17, 2019, L.R. notified appellee that they would not be coming

for her parenting time that night. Appellee testified that L.R. told her that appellant was

putting pressure on him, and making it difficult for him.

       {¶ 22} On April 22, 2019, the exchange was to take place at the baseball fields.

Appellee testified that all of the cars were in a line, and that her car was several cars in

front of appellant’s truck. Appellee observed E.R. sneak up to her car and put her hand

on the door handle, but then back away to appellant’s truck. On the third time, E.R.

opened the door to appellee’s car, and told appellee that she was not coming. Appellee

again had her parenting time with just L.R.

       {¶ 23} On April 24, 2019, while it was still during appellee’s scheduled parenting

time, the school called appellee and told her that E.R. was sick with a fever and needed to

go home. Appellee went to the school to pick up E.R. When appellee arrived, E.R.

refused to go with her, despite encouragement to do so from her principal, teacher, and

two guidance counselors. Ultimately, the school contacted appellant and he came to get

E.R. While they were waiting, E.R. calmed down and had a good conversation with

appellee. At the end of the conversation, they hugged, and expressed love for each other.

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       {¶ 24} On April 26, 2019, appellee arrived for the exchange. E.R. came out to the

car, and as she had done previously, asked if they were going to a movie. When appellee

responded that they were not, E.R. said that she was not going to go with appellee, and

went back into appellant’s house.

       {¶ 25} The next morning, April 27, 2019, E.R. went with appellee from the

baseball field and had breakfast with appellee and L.R. E.R. then went home with

appellee. At home, E.R. was looking for something that appellee had already packed to

move, and appellee told her that they would find it once they moved to the new house.

E.R. then wanted to jump on the trampoline, and appellee informed her that she would

jump with her after she finished mowing the grass. While appellee was mowing, E.R.

came outside and asked her if she could ride her bike over to appellant’s house. Appellee

asked E.R. if she was going to go and not come back, to which E.R. replied “No.”

Appellee then told E.R. to go over for 15 minutes, and they hugged and E.R. left. E.R.

did not return to appellee’s house. The next day, E.R. returned to gather her things, but

did not stay for the rest of appellee’s parenting time even though she was being

encouraged to do so by appellee and L.R.

       {¶ 26} On May 1, 2019, appellee did not have any parenting time with E.R., and

E.R. did not even come out to speak with her. The same thing happened on May 6 and

May 10, 2019.

       {¶ 27} On May 13, 2019, appellant picked up L.R. from appellee’s house. Shortly

thereafter, L.R. ran back to appellee’s house upset and crying. L.R. told appellee that he

had said to appellant that he was excited about picking out a room at appellee’s new

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house, to which appellant allegedly responded “if you’re that happy about moving away

from me, go back to your mom’s, I don’t want you here.” Appellee consoled L.R. over

dinner, and after he was calm, returned him to appellant.

       {¶ 28} Appellee testified that she did not have any parenting time with E.R. on

May 15, May 24, May 29, June 3, and June 7, 2019.

       {¶ 29} On June 9, 2019, E.R. text messaged appellee while appellee was at church.

E.R. stated that she wanted to go with appellee to go shopping for Father’s Day and to

pick out her things for an upcoming 4-H camp. Appellee messaged back that she already

had plans to visit her parents in Defiance, Ohio, and that she wished that E.R. would join

her. Appellee told E.R. that she was unable to take her shopping and drop her back off at

appellant’s house. Appellee messaged E.R. to tell her that she loved her and missed her.

But the next day, E.R. stated that she never received the message.

       {¶ 30} On June 12, 2019, appellee again had parenting time with L.R., but not

E.R.

       {¶ 31} On June 22, 2019, appellee had parenting time with L.R. Two days earlier,

appellant demanded to have both kids on June 22 so that they could attend a cousin’s

birthday party. Appellee noted that L.R. had a 4-H obligation earlier in the afternoon,

then was playing with the neighborhood kids, and later they were going to have a cookout

and bonfire. Because of this, appellee told appellant that L.R. would not be able to go to

the cousin’s birthday party. Nevertheless, appellant arrived at appellee’s house and

yelled for L.R. to come. Appellant also sent E.R. to persuade L.R. to come, and both of

them attempted to make L.R. feel guilty for not going.

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       {¶ 32} On June 26, 2019, appellee arrived at 4-H for “rabbit ID day” with her

boyfriend. Appellee’s parenting time with the children began at 6:00. The boyfriend

videotaped an interaction where appellee was helping E.R. fill out the paperwork for her

rabbit, during which appellant approached and told them to hurry up. Appellee testified

that appellant had already approached two or three times before that, despite court orders

to not approach each other in public. After the rabbit was checked in, E.R. informed

appellee that she was not going with appellee for appellee’s parenting time.

       {¶ 33} Appellee continued to not have parenting time with E.R. through July 12,

2019. Appellee testified that during that time, appellant did not encourage or assist E.R.

in completing the tasks necessary to show her rabbit at the county fair. Instead, appellee

received notification that E.R. was not going to do her rabbit project.

       {¶ 34} On July 12, 2019, the counselor had arranged a dinner for E.R., L.R., and

appellee during appellee’s parenting time. Appellee initially expressed doubt that she

would be available for the dinner given the various 4-H and baseball commitments, but

ultimately decided to leave work early so that she could carve out 45 minutes for dinner.

Appellee testified that appellant was 15 minutes late bringing E.R. to the dinner, despite

knowing that they were on a tight schedule. As soon as appellee walked out of the

restaurant after dinner, appellant was sitting there on the bench and left with E.R.

Appellee testified that she was not given time to say goodbye to E.R., or hug or kiss her.

       {¶ 35} According to appellee, after the dinner on July 12, 2019, appellant did not

allow appellee to have her next parenting time with the children beginning July 15, 2019.

Appellee testified that appellant informed her that the children did not want to go with

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her. The children did not even come out to appellee’s car to say hello. Later, appellee

learned that appellant had taken the children with him to his sister’s house for that week.

       {¶ 36} Appellee also described difficulties surrounding the county fair schedule.

Appellee testified that appellant did not abide by the court order regarding the fair and

deprived her of two and one-half days of parenting time. In addition, appellee testified

that appellant was yelling and attempted to engage in a confrontation with her boyfriend

during one of the exchanges at the fairgrounds.

       {¶ 37} On August 7, 2019, the parties went back to court, and at the hearing it was

decided that exchanges would take place at the library going forward. Appellee’s

understanding was that there was to be a 10 minute delay between the person dropping

the children off, and the person picking the children up.

       {¶ 38} The first exchange at the library took place on August 9, 2019. Appellee

testified that E.R. was “stand-offish,” and that she did not want to interact with appellee.

Appellee tried to encourage her to pick out a book for an upcoming vacation that E.R.

had been excited about only a few days earlier, but E.R. ignored her. E.R. then told

appellee that she was not going with her for appellee’s parenting time. In refusing to go,

E.R. stated that she did not have to listen to the counselor or the guardian ad litem. The

guardian ad litem, who was present to supervise the exchange, tried to encourage E.R. to

go with appellee, but E.R. ran and locked herself in the bathroom. Eventually, the

guardian ad litem contacted appellant to pick up E.R.

       {¶ 39} Appellee testified that she had a vacation planned for August 13 through

August 19, 2019. Appellee stated that the court orders allowed for a week of vacation if

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they were going out of town, and that the other parent was to get an itinerary for the trip.

Appellee testified that she told appellant that she was going to allow the children to

decide whether they wanted to go to Toledo or Findlay for ice cream on the night of

August 13, 2019, and when they decided she would let appellant know. Appellant

refused to allow the children to go with appellee.

       {¶ 40} On August 14, 2019, appellee celebrated her birthday. Appellee testified

that the court orders provided that appellee would have the children from 5:00 – 9:00

p.m. on her birthday. Appellee waited at the library for 15 or 30 minutes, messaged

appellant, and then went home. After about an hour, appellee checked her messages and

saw that appellant had replied, “I’m sorry, I forgot it was your birthday.” Appellee

responded and asked if he was not going to give her the kids for her parenting time, her

vacation, or her birthday, why has he not even allowed the kids to call her. A few

minutes later, appellee received a phone call from L.R., who said that they were at the

library and wanted to know where appellee was. When appellee arrived at the library,

she found out that the children had been waiting for one and one-half hours. During the

time with the children at the library, appellee had a conversation with E.R. about going

on vacation, and how she wanted E.R. to come with her. L.R. also tried to convince E.R.

to come on vacation. After the 45-minute conversation, appellee felt like E.R. was just

being manipulative, and so she became more direct with E.R. and told her that she could

walk politely and respectfully to the car, or appellee could take her by the hand and walk

her to the car, and if E.R. threw a temper tantrum and fell to the ground and flailed she

would only embarrass herself. Appellee testified that E.R. agreed to come to the car.

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After they were outside, E.R. returned to the front of the library to get a paper that she

had been coloring. Appellee testified that appellant must have honked his horn or flashed

his lights to signal to E.R. because she then refused to come, and bolted across the road to

appellant’s truck. Appellant refused to return E.R. Ultimately, appellee went on vacation

with L.R.

        {¶ 41} On August 26, 2019, the exchange for appellee’s parenting time was

scheduled to occur at the same time as L.R.’s soccer practice. Appellee told appellant

that since he did not want to do the exchange before the soccer practice, she would be at

the library to pick up the children at 8:00 after practice. Appellant refused to bring the

children to the library, but instead had L.R. call appellee from the soccer field to ask her

where she was. L.R. was frustrated that appellee would not pick him up at the soccer

field. Appellee did not have parenting time with the children that night. The next

morning, appellee met L.R. at the bus stop, and explained to him that she wanted to do

the exchange at the library—as had been agreed in court—because at least then she could

see E.R. for 10 or 15 minutes, whereas if the exchange was at the soccer field, she would

not have gotten to spend any time with E.R. Appellee then asked L.R. if he wanted to

come for the rest of appellee’s parenting time, and he said no, “dad won’t do it.”

Appellee did not have any of her parenting time with the children on August 26 and 27,

2019.

        {¶ 42} On August 30, 2019, appellee met at the library to pick up the children for

an extended Labor Day weekend. After 15 minutes of speaking with E.R. and L.R.,

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appellee told E.R. that it was time to leave. E.R. responded that she was not going and

ran out of the library, across the road, and directly to appellant’s vehicle.

       {¶ 43} On September 9, 2019, appellant again refused to meet appellee at the

library either before or after soccer practice. Appellant informed appellee that if she did

not show up at the soccer field then she was forfeiting her parenting time with the

children.

       {¶ 44} On September 13, 2019, appellant was late for the exchange at the library.

When appellant arrived, E.R. left his vehicle, walked into the entrance to the library, and

yelled down the hall that she was not coming. E.R. then got back into appellant’s truck

and they left. Appellee had her parenting time with L.R. A similar scenario unfolded on

September 18, 2019.

       {¶ 45} Finally, appellee testified as a general matter that appellant did not

consistently bring the children to counseling appointments in that they missed four out of

six visits, that he did not cooperate with her on getting information from the children’s

school, and that he does not work with her to enforce consistent discipline of the children.

       {¶ 46} Appellant testified next. Appellant testified that appellee contacted the

Bowling Green Police Department to oversee the exchanges in March 2019, and that the

police presence upset the children. Regarding the March 29, 2019 incident where E.R.

ran away from appellee’s house, appellant testified that appellee was yelling and

screaming at E.R. and raised her hand with her phone in it as if she was going to strike

E.R., which scared E.R. and caused her to run. Appellant testified multiple times that

E.R. is afraid of appellee.

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       {¶ 47} Appellant also testified generally that he speaks with E.R. all the time

trying to convince her to go with appellee, and trying to explain to her that she is missing

out on making memories with her mother. Appellant further described an incident in

April where he messaged appellee and offered a suggestion on a time that appellee could

speak with E.R. during one of L.R.’s baseball games. However, appellee did not get the

message in time because she does not get phone notifications. Appellant testified that he

and L.R. both try to convince E.R. to go with appellee, but that their efforts upset E.R.

Appellant explained that he does not want to force E.R. to go because appellee has tried

to convince the children that he is a monster or an evil-person, and he feels that if he

forced E.R. to go he would be playing into appellee’s description of him. In addition,

appellant is concerned that if he physically forced E.R. to go with appellee, that he would

be accused of child abuse.

       {¶ 48} Appellant testified that he believed it was in E.R.’s best interest to spend

time with appellee, and that he has never disparaged appellee to the children. Appellant

testified that he has never told the children that they cannot interact with appellee at

practices or games, and in fact has encouraged E.R. to go over and say hello to appellee.

Appellant also encourages the children to call appellee during his parenting time.

       {¶ 49} Appellant next testified that appellee does not attend all of the children’s

baseball and soccer practices. He stated that the children have remarked that appellee

“has no interest in what we do.” Appellant, on the other hand, attends all of their

practices, even those that occur during appellee’s parenting time. Appellant testified that

frequently appellee will have a coach or another parent transport L.R. to and from games,

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despite the fact that appellant is present and able to transport L.R. Appellant explained

that L.R. is embarrassed by this, and to appellant it is an example of appellee not wanting

to spend time with her children. Appellant also testified regarding the times that appellee

has left the children alone, highlighting the night in the Columbus hotel room and a time

when L.R. was left at the fairgrounds.

       {¶ 50} As to appointments with the counselor, appellant testified that the children

have missed three appointments. On two of those occasions, appellant only found out

about the appointment on the day of the appointment. On the third occasion, the

appointment was the same day as when E.R. was sent home from school for being sick.

Other than those, appellant testified that the children have been seeing the counselor

every two weeks for a total of approximately nine appointments.

       {¶ 51} On the subject of the exchanges at the library, appellant testified that on

August 14, 2019, he took the kids to the library shortly before 6:00, not remembering that

it was appellee’s birthday and that he should have delivered the children at 5:00.

Appellant dropped off the children and then went home. Over an hour later, he received

a call from L.R. that appellee was not there to pick them up. Appellant then had L.R.

contact appellee. Appellant testified that after that night, he informed the children that he

would not leave until he knew that they were going with appellee. He denied, however,

that he ever told or signaled E.R. to come back to his truck.

       {¶ 52} Appellant next testified regarding his interaction with the guardian ad

litem. Appellant stated that although the guardian ad litem has been on the case for a

long time, he has not spent much time in the last two rounds of litigation. Appellant

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testified that the guardian has only observed him with the children one time, which was at

the August 9, 2019 exchange at the library, and that the guardian has never observed the

children at appellant’s house. Appellant also testified that the guardian did not interview

L.R. before filing his report. Appellant noted that the children wrote letters to the

guardian because they wanted to talk to him but he did not have the time. Appellant

explained that the children do not feel like their voices are being heard.

       {¶ 53} Finally, appellant testified that he believes there has been a change in

circumstances in that once he moved into his new house, appellee told the children that it

was not healthy or safe to live in that neighborhood and she decided to move again.

Appellant also noted that appellee constantly has boyfriends around. Appellant feels that

it is in E.R.’s best interest to stay with him and work on spending time with appellee.

Appellant testified that E.R. feels safe at his house, but does not feel safe with appellee,

and although L.R. is comfortable going back and forth, appellant testified that he thought

it would be best for the children to remain together. Appellant testified that he is willing

to co-parent with appellee, but it is difficult when she is constantly telling the children

that he is abusive and threatening.

       {¶ 54} The matter was then continued to October 23, 2019, for the rest of the

hearing. Appellant testified that during the intervening time, L.R. had a scooter accident

on a Saturday during appellant’s parenting time, which resulted in L.R. chipping his front

teeth. Appellant took L.R. to an emergency after-hours dentist visit, at which the dentist

decided that it would be best to wait until Monday to try to do a permanent repair. On

Monday morning, the dentist was unable to repair the teeth because L.R. would not let

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the dentist numb his mouth. The dentist recommended a pediatric dentist that could see

L.R. that afternoon. At 10:00 a.m., appellee messaged appellant that appellant was to

remain quiet, not approach her, and was to remain in the waiting room during the

pediatric dentist appointment. If appellant did not agree to those conditions by noon, then

appellee would cancel the appointment. Appellant testified that appellee ultimately

cancelled the appointment, and L.R.’s teeth were not fixed until Wednesday.

         {¶ 55} Appellant testified that as a result of the cancellation, L.R. experienced

embarrassment at school as a result of his chipped teeth, he could not participate in a

band performance because playing the trumpet put too much pressure on the front of his

teeth and mouth, and he missed a field trip on Wednesday because he had to go to the

rescheduled dentist appointment.

         {¶ 56} Appellant testified that since the dental ordeal on October 5, 2019, L.R. has

refused to go with appellee for her parenting time. Appellant explained that L.R. viewed

the situation as appellee putting herself before him and his needs of getting his teeth

fixed.

         {¶ 57} Appellant also testified that on October 14, 2019, appellee contacted him to

take the children’s pets because they are taking up space in her garage, and if he did not,

then she would give the pets away. Appellant felt the threat to give the pets away was

mental abuse and an attack on the children’s emotions.

         {¶ 58} Appellant next testified that appellee did not show up for the exchange at

the library on October 21, 2019.

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       {¶ 59} Appellant then described several bills and expenses for the children that he

alleged appellee has not paid.

       {¶ 60} Finally, appellant testified that the children are not currently in counseling,

but that he believes that they should be in counseling. However, appellant stated that he

is not allowed to make appointments for them.

       {¶ 61} The only other witness to testify at the hearing was the guardian ad litem.

The guardian concluded that it was in the children’s best interests to maintain the current

arrangement with appellee as the residential parent and both parents splitting parenting

time on the “2-2-3” schedule.

       {¶ 62} The guardian spoke about E.R.’s issues with visiting appellee, and

commented that based upon his interactions with her, he does not perceive that E.R. is

afraid of appellee or is unsafe with her. The guardian noted that during the first library

exchange, E.R. was sitting with appellee and talking and interacting with her in a positive

manner. It was only when it came time to leave that E.R.’s mood changed and she

became “stone-faced” and said that she did not want to go with appellee. The guardian

believed that the issue with E.R. could have been more easily resolved at the beginning,

but because it has been going on for months, it presented a much more difficult

challenge. The guardian explained that he believed appellant could have been firmer

with E.R. in the beginning, and could have worked with appellee and E.R. to restore

E.R.’s relationship with appellee.

       {¶ 63} The guardian also testified that the children hear a lot of negative

information from appellant and appellee about the other parent, including information

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about the other parent’s compliance or non-compliance with court orders. The guardian

explained that one of the concerns of the counselor was that the children felt a need to

protect appellant emotionally because they disclosed to the counselor that appellant

would cry when they leave. The guardian further noted that it was a significant problem

when appellee explained to the children that she was moving away from appellant

because he made her feel unsafe.

       {¶ 64} As to the letters sent to him by the children, the guardian expressed

skepticism that the letters were written free of influence because they contained phrasing

that he would not normally expect from children, such as “I want so and so to have

custody so they can sign me up for activities.”

       {¶ 65} Based upon his interactions with the family, the guardian recommended

that both parents need to engage in individual counseling and family counseling. He

recommended that each parent should say something positive about the other parent to

the children at least once a day. Lastly, the guardian recommended a parenting

coordinator given the parents’ history of being unable to work together to parent the

children.

       {¶ 66} Following the hearing, the magistrate determined that there had not been a

change in circumstances to warrant a change in the residential parent. The magistrate

ordered that the children shall resume their counseling and that the counselor shall

implement a schedule to normalize the mother-child relationships, with the goal of

resuming the full parenting schedule in three months. The magistrate further ordered that

each parent shall make a positive statement about the other parent each day that the

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children are with him or her, and ensure that the children have a picture of the other

parent in his or her room.

       {¶ 67} Appellant objected to the magistrate’s decision. On August 31, 2020, the

trial court overruled appellant’s objections and approved and adopted the magistrate’s

decision.

                                II. Assignments of Error

       {¶ 68} Appellant has timely appealed the trial court’s August 31, 2020 judgment,

and now asserts five assignments of error for our review:

              1. The trial court abused its discretion when it neglected to find a

       change of circumstances to warrant a change in the residential parent from

       [appellee] to [appellant].

              2. The trial court abused its discretion when it neglected to find a

       change of circumstances before issuing numerous orders that modified the

       then-existing orders relating to the parties’ two minor children, to wit:

       [L.R.] and [E.R.].

              3. The trial court abused its discretion when it accepted and relied

       upon a Guardian ad Litem Report and Recommendation although the

       Guardian failed to carry out numerous responsibilities set forth in Ohio

       Sup. R. 48(D).

              4. The trial court abused its discretion when it neglected to modify

       the existing child support orders although there had been a clear and

       substantial change of circumstances. At the time of the trial, Appellant was

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       acting as the children’s primary caretaker and was paying for all of the

       children’s ongoing expenses in addition to the full child support order to

       Appellee.

              5. The trial court abused its discretion when it adopted a

       Magistrate’s Decision that contained numerous Findings of Fact that were

       unsupported by the evidence on the record. Many of the facts relied upon

       by the magistrate were not presented at the trial.

                                       III. Analysis

       {¶ 69} For ease of discussion, we will address appellant’s assignments of error out

of order. In his third and fifth assignments of error, appellant challenges the evidentiary

and factual underpinnings supporting the trial court’s conclusion that there was not a

change in circumstances to warrant a change in the residential parent. In his first

assignment of error, appellant challenges the trial court’s conclusion itself. In his second

assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial court erred in modifying the parental

rights and responsibilities without finding a change of circumstances. Finally, in his

fourth assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial court erred in failing to modify

the child support order.

                                 A. Guardian Ad Litem

       {¶ 70} In his third assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial court erred

when it considered the guardian ad litem’s report because the guardian failed to comply

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with his responsibilities under Ohio Sup. R. 48, et seq.1 Specifically, appellant argues

that the guardian failed: to promptly notify the court as required by Sup. R. 48.03(A)(5)

that his conclusion was in conflict with the children’s wishes; to maintain independence,

objectivity, and fairness as required by Sup. R. 48.03(A)(2); to meet, interview, and

observe the children as required by Sup. R. 48.03(D); and to file a report no less than

seven days before the hearing as required by Sup. R. 48.06(C)(1).

       {¶ 71} “Appellate courts will not reverse trial court decisions to admit a guardian

ad litem’s testimony and recommendation unless the trial court abused its discretion.” In

re T.C., 6th Dist. Lucas No. L-15-1106, 2015-Ohio-3665, ¶ 20, citing Corey v. Corey, 2d

Dist. Greene No. 2013-CA-73, 2014-Ohio-3258, ¶ 9. An abuse of discretion connotes

that the trial court’s attitude is unreasonable, arbitrary, or unconscionable. Blakemore v.

Blakemore, 5 Ohio St.3d 217, 219, 450 N.E.2d 1140 (1983).

       {¶ 72} Sup. R. 48, et seq., provides “good guidelines for the conduct of a guardian

ad litem in meeting his or her responsibilities in representing the best interest of a child in

order to provide the court with relevant information and an informed recommendation.”

In re M.S., 2015-Ohio-1847, 34 N.E.3d 420, ¶ 45 (8th Dist.), quoting In re C.O., 8th Dist.

Cuyahoga Nos. 99334, 99335, 2013-Ohio-5239, ¶ 14. However, the rules of

superintendence are only general guidelines, and “do not create substantive rights in

individuals or procedural law.” Id., quoting In re C.O. at ¶ 14. “As such, it has generally

1
  Appellant references Ohio Sup. R. 48(D), but subsequent to the filing of his brief, Sup.
R. 48(D) has been amended and renumbered by the Ohio Supreme Court. We will refer
to the appropriate sections as renumbered.

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been held that a guardian ad litem’s failure to comply with Sup.R. 48 is not, in and of

itself, grounds for reversal of a custody determination.” Id.

       {¶ 73} In Nolan v. Nolan, 4th Dist. Scioto No. 11CA3444, 2012-Ohio-3736, ¶ 26,

the Fourth District held that the trial court abused its discretion in considering the

guardian ad litem’s report and recommendation where the guardian ad litem “fell so far

below the minimum standards.” In that case, the guardian ad litem failed to interview the

mother’s boyfriend—with whom the child would be living—failed to investigate the

relevant details of the boyfriend’s life, did not interview the child’s half-sister, did not

visit the residences of either parent, did not interview the child’s school personnel or

medical-health providers despite the child being diagnosed with ADHD and having

behavioral issues, and did not meet with the child in a one-on-one setting. Id. at ¶ 25.

       {¶ 74} Here, in contrast, the guardian ad litem was familiar with the family from

his years of service as a guardian, spoke with the children’s counselor, spoke with

personnel at E.R.’s school, spoke with L.R., observed E.R. with appellant and appellee

during an exchange at the library, had a walking interview with E.R. in an attempt to

divert her attention so that he would get more organic responses from her, observed her

with appellant in the waiting room of his office, and received letters from the children

discussing their wishes. Therefore, we find the present case to be distinguishable from

Nolan, and hold that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in considering the report

and recommendation from the guardian ad litem. See In re T.C. at ¶ 23 (trial court did

not abuse its discretion in considering guardian ad litem’s testimony where the guardian

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testified at length as to the extent of her investigation and was subject to cross-

examination by all parties).

       {¶ 75} Accordingly, appellant’s third assignment of error is not well-taken.

                             B. Magistrate’s Factual Findings

       {¶ 76} In his fifth assignment of error, appellant challenges several of the

magistrate’s factual conclusions, which were adopted by the trial court, as not being

supported by the evidence.

       {¶ 77} First, appellant challenges the magistrate’s findings that:

               5. Father moved into Mother’s neighborhood sometime in May of

       2019.

               6. Father is aware that Mother is uncomfortable around him,

       however he did not take that into consideration prior to moving around the

       corner from Mother. He refuses to acknowledge that Mother is

       uncomfortable around him because he does not feel that he has done

       anything to make her fear him. It is not clear if this is a control issue or a

       lack of empathy. He testified that he moved because he wanted the

       children to be able to go back and forth between the houses so that the

       parents could co-parent. Although that would be an ideal situation, and it

       sounds wonderful, it does not reflect the reality of the current situation.

       {¶ 78} Appellant argues that the magistrate’s findings were factually incorrect as

the testimony revealed that he moved into his new home in February 2019, not May

2019. Further, he argues that the timing of the move is important because the close

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proximity of the parties was taken into consideration at a hearing on March 7, 2019, and

because the subsequent events of E.R. running away and the children becoming upset at

mother occurred because of appellee’s comments that the neighborhood was no longer

safe.

        {¶ 79} We agree with appellant that the magistrate’s finding that he moved into

the neighborhood in May 2019 was factually incorrect. However, we do not find any

prejudicial effect from this error, because although the magistrate may have been

confused on the specific dates, the magistrate recognized the events and consequences in

an appropriate timeline. Rather than ignore appellee’s conduct and its impact on her

relationship with the children, the magistrate later found,

               23. Mother has done some things that have caused or contributed to

        the children’s turmoil:

               a. She made statements that it was unsafe and unhealthy when

        Father moved into the neighborhood. The children resented her for these

        comments.

               b. As a result of Father’s move, Mother decided that she had to

        move again, so she wasn’t so close to Father. This move upset the children.

Therefore, we find the magistrate’s error in the date that appellant moved into the

neighborhood to be of no practical consequence.

        {¶ 80} Second, appellant challenges the magistrate’s findings that:

               7. There is no evidence that the children are unsafe at either parent’s

        home. On one occasion, [L.R.] left Father’s home and did not want to

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       return. Mother handled it very well. She made sure that Father was aware

       of [L.R.]’s location, she talked things through with [L.R.] and then had

       [L.R.] return to Father’s home.

              8. On the other hand, [E.R.] left Mother’s home on April 22, 2019,

       went to Father’s home and never returned. There is no indication that

       Father communicated with Mother or encouraged [E.R.] to return to

       Mother’s. Father claims he doesn’t want to force [E.R.] to go where she

       does not feel safe. Knowing that she would be safe at Mother’s, he needs

       to reassure her that she will be safe, calm her down and send her back.

              9. [E.R.] has left Mother’s home when Mother has corrected her

       about inappropriate behavior. Instead of trying to learn the cause of the

       interrupted parenting time and reinforcing the importance of good behavior,

       Father reinforced [E.R.]’s avoidance and poor behavior of running away

       and this can lead to manipulative behavior. As a parent, there are many

       occasions when it is necessary to “force” something on a child such as

       medicine or going to school. It is not a negative.

       {¶ 81} Appellant disagrees with the magistrate’s finding that appellee’s home is

not unsafe. Appellant points to the fact that E.R. was allowed to run away twice, and the

fact that appellee left E.R. unsupervised at appellant’s home on one occasion as evidence

of clear safety risks. Furthermore, appellant argues that forcing the children to visit with

appellee against their will, and when they have stated that they do not feel safe with

appellee, perpetuates the ongoing risk to the children’s health. Appellant notes that E.R.

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stated in her letter to the guardian ad litem that appellee “gets very angry and yells too

much.”

       {¶ 82} In addition, appellant argues that there is no evidence that he reinforced

E.R’s behavior in running away, and identifies that he was not home on either occasion

that she ran away. Furthermore, appellant testified about his efforts to encourage the

children to visit and communicate with appellee. Lastly, appellant highlights that he does

not “force” E.R. to visit with appellee because E.R. does not feel safe at appellee’s house,

and because appellee has previously accused him of domestic violence and child abuse

and he believes that if he forced E.R. to visit, he would face similar allegations.

       {¶ 83} Upon review, we find that the magistrate’s findings are supported by the

evidence. Although running away from home obviously is concerning, there is no

evidence that either child has been abused, neglected, or harmed at either home. To that

end, the magistrate has implicitly concluded that to the extent that E.R. is afraid of

appellee, that fear is irrational. Assuming that E.R. accurately reported that appellee

raised her hand one time as if to strike E.R., there is no evidence that E.R. was ever

actually struck. Appellant had an opportunity when he discussed the incident with E.R.

to calm her and reassure her that she was safe with appellee, but appellant did not do so

as evidenced by the fact that E.R. has since consistently refused to visit with appellee,

claiming that she is afraid of her. Notably, the guardian ad litem testified that he does not

believe that E.R. is afraid of appellee or is unsafe with her. Thus, E.R.’s persistent

refusal to visit with appellee following a relatively minor incident supports the

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magistrate’s conclusion that appellant is reinforcing E.R.’s avoidance of appellee and her

poor behavior of running away.

      {¶ 84} Appellant next challenges the magistrate’s findings that:

             12. Since picking up on Father’s cues, [E.R] has now, on her own,

      adopted the attitude of not wanting to see Mother. Following are some

      examples:

             a. She has gone to Mother’s car on several occasions and told her

      that she was not going with Mother. At times this was because Mother told

      her it was too late to watch a movie or do something else.

             b. On March 29, 2019, [E.R.] ran away from Mother’s home. She

      was upset because she wanted to call Father. [E.R] stated Mother was

      yelling at her.

             c. On April 24, 2019, Mother had planned to pick up [E.R.] at

      lunchtime to take her to lunch and then pick up [L.R.] from school, as they

      both had a counseling appointment at 4:30 pm. The school called Mother

      around 9:15 am and stated [E.R.] had a temperature of 101.8 and needed to

      be picked up from school. Mother went to the school to pick up [E.R.].

      When she arrived, [E.R.] said hello and asked why she was there. [E.R.]

      stated that it was her dad’s time. Mother told [E.R.], “No, it is not your

      dad’s time,” and asked her to get her things so they could go home. [E.R.]

      stated, “No, dad is to come and get me.” [E.R.] stated that she needed to go

      to her classroom, as there was something she had forgotten. She went to

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      the classroom and called her dad. [E.R.] then began crying and

      hyperventilating, stating that she did not want to go with Mother. Both

      [E.R.]’s teacher and principal attempted to intervene and get [E.R.] to go

      with her mother. After nearly an hour, [E.R.] calmed down but still would

      not leave with Mother. Then, Father was called to come to get her. After

      leaving, Mother sent a message to Father on Our Family Wizard informing

      him of the counseling appointment that day, but [E.R.] was not brought to

      the counseling appointment.

             d. On April 27, 2019, [E.R.] ran away from Mother’s home to

      Father’s home. Earlier that day, [E.R.] went to breakfast with [L.R.] and

      Mother. At breakfast [E.R] went under the table and sat on the floor to let

      [L.R.] out of the booth. Mother talked to [E.R.] about making good choices

      and reminded her that she is very aware that sitting on the floor under the

      table is not a good choice. When [L.R.] returned, [E.R.] stood up at the

      corner of the table, not allowing [L.R.] enough room to get back to his seat.

      [L.R.] asked [E.R.] two times to move, however, [E.R.] remained obstinate

      and did not move her foot. [L.R.] tripped over [E.R.]’s foot getting back

      into the booth. Mother then stated to [E.R.] if she continues this behavior

      and continues to not make good choices, she will get a consequence. [E.R.]

      did not like to hear that and stated she did not know her foot was in the

      way. When they returned home around 11:00 am, Mother felt she had to

      mow the lawn before it rained. Mother told [E.R.] she would jump on the

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       trampoline with her after mowing. [E.R.] then asked where her slime kit

       was located, however it had been packed and Mother was unsure of its

       location. [E.R.] became upset, went upstairs, came down a few minutes

       later and asked to ride her bike to her dad’s house to say hi. Mother asked

       [E.R.] if she was going to go to her dad’s to not return and she said no she

       was only going to say hi. Mother had [E.R.] wear a Gizmo watch so that

       she would be able to call her. Mother asked [E.R.] to come back in 15

       minutes and [E.R.] told her she would return at 12:05 pm. [E.R.] gave

       Mother a kiss and told her she loved her. [E.R.] did not return to Mother’s

       home.

               e. On August 9, 2019, the Guardian Ad Litem met the parties at the

       library. [E.R.] stated she was not going with Mother for her parenting time.

       [E.R.] stated that she did not have to listen to the Guardian Ad Litem or Ms.

       Kroniser. The Guardian Ad Litem eventually called Father to come back

       and pick up [E.R.] from the library after she locked herself in the bathroom.

       {¶ 85} In his appellate brief, appellant takes issue with some minor discrepancies

between the record and the magistrate’s findings. For example, appellant argues that

certain direct quotes do not exist in the record, nor does the record reflect that E.R. called

appellant while she was sick at school. We find these discrepancies to be trivial.

Moreover, our review of the record leads us to conclude that the salient points of the

magistrate’s findings are, in fact, supported by the record.

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       {¶ 86} More significantly, appellant argues that it is not fair to conclude that E.R.

adopted an attitude of not wanting to visit appellee because she was “picking up on

Father’s clues.” As alluded to above, this is not an unreasonable conclusion to reach.

E.R. initially ran away from appellee’s home on March 29, 2019, because she was upset

that appellee was moving, and because she reportedly feared that appellee was going to

strike her. Despite that, E.R. went with appellee the next day to Columbus, and had a

good time. However, the record reflects that at the very next exchange, appellant denied

appellee parenting time with the children. This appears to be a consistent pattern with

appellant as the record shows that he denies appellee parenting time immediately after

she is able to spend time with E.R. For example, in addition to the exchange following

the trip to Columbus, appellant denied appellee her next parenting time after E.R. spent

time with appellee on April 27, 2019, before she ran away, and after appellee’s dinner

with E.R. on July 12, 2019.

       {¶ 87} Relatedly, the record shows that appellant has communicated to the

children that he does not want them to leave him to go visit with appellee. At the April 8,

2019 exchange, appellant reportedly told E.R., “your mom just wants you to go so that

she can take you away from me.” On April 17, 2019, when L.R. informed appellee that

they were not coming for her parenting time, L.R. allegedly stated that appellant was

putting pressure on him and making it difficult on him. The children have also reported

to their counselor that appellant cries when it is time for them to leave.

       {¶ 88} Furthermore, appellant testified repeatedly that E.R. is afraid of appellee,

but the guardian ad litem does not believe that to be the case. Upon review, the record in

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this case is replete with examples that suggest there may be a different motivation other

than fear to explain why E.R. does not want to go with appellee for her parenting time.

Early on, after the first running away incident, E.R. refused to go with appellee after

learning that appellee was not going to let her watch movies. The second running away

incident came after appellee told E.R. that she was not going to look for something that

had been packed away, and that she would only jump on the trampoline with E.R. after

she finished mowing the grass. Since then, E.R. has had multiple interactions with

appellee whether at dinner, 4-H, or the library that have been positive until the moment

that it is time to leave to go with appellee.

       {¶ 89} We recognize that we are not counselors or medical professionals, and we

do not attempt to diagnose E.R.’s motivation for not visiting appellee. We merely

highlight these incidents to demonstrate that there is support for the magistrate’s

conclusion that appellant is influencing E.R.—whether intentionally or unintentionally—

to maintain in her decision not to visit appellee. Thus, we do not find the magistrate’s

conclusion that E.R. is picking up on appellant’s clues to be unsupported by the record.

       {¶ 90} Finally, appellant contests the magistrate’s findings that:

              16. Father did not explain why Mother was not called after [the

       scooter accident where L.R. chipped his teeth] when he was working and

       Mother was at home. Instead, [L.R.] was with the babysitter since it was

       Father’s parenting time. When one parent is available in this type of

       situation, that parent should be with the child. Instead, Father refuses to

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      give up his parenting time to Mother, even when he is not available and it

      would be best for the child.

             17. On Monday, October 7, 2019, Father contacted the dentist’s

      office at approximately 7:45 am. The office said that [L.R.] could be seen

      at 8:30 am, so Father took the children to the dentist’s office to have [L.R.]

      seen. Father did not notify Mother, he testified that he was rushed to get to

      the office. Mother, who had also called the office in the morning, learned

      of the appointment and was also present for [L.R.]’s visit.

             18. Because the pediatric dentist was not able to give [L.R.] nitrous

      oxide, a second appointment to fix [L.R.]’s teeth was scheduled for 3:00

      pm later that same day (10/7/19) at another office.

             19. Prior to the 3:00 pm dentist appointment on October 7, 2019,

      Mother sent Father a message via Our Family Wizard insisting that he

      conduct himself a certain way at the 3:00 pm appointment (e.g. “stay in the

      lobby,” “stay quiet and not approach me,” and stay out of the room where

      [L.R.] will be treated). Mother stated that, if Father did not confirm by

      noon that he would comply with these rules, she would cancel the 3:00 pm

      appointment to fix [L.R.]’s teeth. Father viewed these as demands from

      Mother that he did not have to follow, but Mother testified that these were

      the doctor’s rules.

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              20. Ultimately Mother did cancel the appointment.

              21. [L.R.] was not able to participate in his band concert on Tuesday

       October 8, 2019 and he had to miss a field trip on Wednesday. Father let

       [L.R.] know that Mother cancelled the appointment so now the children and

       Father are all blaming Mother.

              22. Father kept [E.R.] out of school on Monday to take her to the

       dentist with [L.R.]. He testified that he did that because he did not know

       how long it would take and whether he would be available to pick [E.R.] up

       from school. There was no reason for [E.R.] to miss school; this is an

       example of his lack of acknowledgment that the children have two parents

       who can work together to accommodate both children.

       {¶ 91} Appellant argues that the magistrate’s decision was wrong in two respects.

First, appellant argues that the magistrate erroneously found that he did not explain why

he did not contact appellee after the scooter accident. Appellant stated that L.R. required

immediate medical attention, and appellant was able to make that appointment. He then

notified appellee of the incident later that night. The magistrate’s point, however, was

that in that situation it may have made more sense for appellee to respond to the injury

because appellant was at work. The fact that appellant did not have appellee contacted

was just an example of his unwillingness to truly co-parent the child.

       {¶ 92} Second, appellant contests the magistrate’s finding that “Mother testified

that these were the doctor’s rules.” Appellant argues that appellee’s assertion that the

dentist’s office created those rules lacked all credibility. However, the magistrate’s

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finding was factually correct. Notably, the magistrate did not make a finding whether or

not the rules were created by the dentist’s office, but instead recounted what each party

said.

        {¶ 93} Appellant further criticized the magistrate for not reprimanding appellee for

cancelling the dentist appointment. The extent to which the magistrate specifically

considered appellee’s cancellation of the dentist appointment is unclear, but it suffices to

say that the magistrate recognized that “Mother has done some things that have caused or

contributed to the children’s turmoil,” and “There are numerous examples of both parties

contributing to the conflict affecting the children.” Thus, as with the above findings, the

trial court’s findings regarding the chipped-teeth incident are supported by the record.

        {¶ 94} Accordingly, appellant’s fifth assignment of error is not well-taken.

                                C. Change of Circumstances

        {¶ 95} In his first assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial court erred

when it found that there was not a change of circumstances to warrant a change in the

residential parent.

               R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a) provides,

               The court shall not modify a prior decree allocating parental rights

        and responsibilities for the care of children unless it finds, based on facts

        that have arisen since the prior decree or that were unknown to the court at

        the time of the prior decree, that a change has occurred in the circumstances

        of the child, the child’s residential parent, or either of the parents subject to

        a shared parenting decree, and that the modification is necessary to serve

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       the best interest of the child. In applying these standards, the court shall

       retain the residential parent designated by the prior decree or the prior

       shared parenting decree, unless a modification is in the best interest of the

       child and one of the following applies:

              ***

              (iii) The harm likely to be caused by a change of environment is

       outweighed by the advantages of the change of environment to the child.

       {¶ 96} “In determining whether a ‘change’ has occurred, we are mindful that

custody issues are some of the most difficult and agonizing decisions a trial judge must

make. Therefore, a trial judge must have wide latitude in considering all the evidence

before him or her * * * and such a decision must not be reversed absent an abuse of

discretion.” Davis v. Flickinger, 77 Ohio St.3d 415, 418, 674 N.E.2d 1159 (1997). “The

reason for this standard of review is that the trial judge has the best opportunity to view

the demeanor, attitude, and credibility of each witness, something that does not translate

well on the written page.” Id. “This is even more crucial in a child custody case, where

there may be much evident in the parties’ demeanor and attitude that does not translate to

the record well.” (Emphasis sic.) Id. at 419.

       {¶ 97} In support of his assignment of error, appellant argues that there has been a

clear change of circumstances, as evidenced by the fact that E.R. stopped visiting with

appellee in April 2019, and L.R. stopped visiting with appellee in October 2019.

Appellant claims that the trial court ignored the new reality that he is effectively the sole

caretaker for the children. In addition, appellant argues that the trial court failed to

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consider that the children no longer wish to visit with appellee, that E.R. has run away

from appellee’s house on multiple occasions, that appellee has left the children

unattended, that appellee failed to follow through on dental care for L.R., and that

appellee told the children that she moved because she was afraid of appellant and he

made their neighborhood unsafe.

       {¶ 98} Upon our review, it is clear that the circumstances have changed in light of

the fact that E.R. has not been visiting appellee since April 2019, and L.R. has not been

visiting since October 2019. However, a change in circumstances is only a threshold

determination, and the trial court should not modify the parental rights and

responsibilities unless such a modification is in the children’s best interests, and should

not change the residential parent unless the harm caused by a change of environment is

outweighed by the benefits from a change of environment. R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a). Here,

although the trial court did not artfully word its decision in finding that there “has not

been a change of circumstances to warrant a change in the residential parent,” (emphasis

added), we think it is clear that the trial court’s decision was based on the best interests of

the children and the potential harm to the children. Indeed, the trial court emphasized the

harm to the children in its comments that “[appellee] and [appellant] are irresponsibly

damaging their children during this war,” that “a Parenting Coordinator is necessary to

try and curb the sophomoric actions of both [appellee] and [appellant],” that “the parents

don’t even appear to marginally recognize the damage they are doing by showing the

children how not to parent. [Appellant] in particular is letting [E.R.] run the show by

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failing to enforce [appellee’s] parenting time,” and that “[appellant] is undermining

counseling. The passive/aggressive actions are more fitting of a teenager, not a parent.”

       {¶ 99} As to the best interests of the children, appellant argues that the trial court

did not conduct an analysis of the relevant factors under R.C. 3109.04(F)(1), which

provides:

                In determining the best interest of a child pursuant to this section,

       whether on an original decree allocating parental rights and responsibilities

       for the care of children or a modification of a decree allocating those rights

       and responsibilities, the court shall consider all relevant factors, including,

       but not limited to:

                (a) The wishes of the child’s parents regarding the child’s care;

                (b) * * * [T]he wishes and concerns of the child, as expressed to the

       court;

                (c) The child’s interaction and interrelationship with the child’s

       parents, siblings, and any other person who may significantly affect the

       child’s best interest;

                (d) The child’s adjustment to the child’s home, school, and

       community;

                (e) The mental and physical health of all persons involved in the

       situation;

                (f) The parent more likely to honor and facilitate court-approved

       parenting time rights or visitation and companionship rights;

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              (g) Whether either parent has failed to make all child support

       payments, including all arrearages, that are required of that parent pursuant

       to a child support order under which that parent is an obligor;

              ***

              (i) Whether the residential parent or one of the parents subject to a

       shared parenting decree has continuously and willfully denied the other

       parent’s right to parenting time in accordance with an order of the court.

       {¶ 100} Here, while the magistrate’s decision does not expressly list the R.C.

3109.04(F)(1) factors, the decision itself demonstrates that consideration was given to

each one. The magistrate’s decision, as adopted by the trial court, contains nearly 12

pages of detailed findings touching on each of the relevant factors. Thus, we disagree

with appellant’s assertion that the trial court did not conduct a best interest analysis.

       {¶ 101} In sum, the trial court found that there was not a change in circumstances

warranting a change in the residential parent. Giving due deference to the trial court, and

upon consideration of the evidence, including evidence which suggests that the children’s

desire to stop visiting appellee is at the least partly influenced by appellant’s own conduct

and that it would not be in the children’s best interests to change the residential parent,

we cannot say that the trial court’s decision constitutes an abuse of discretion.

       {¶ 102} Accordingly, appellant’s first assignment of error is not well-taken.

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                                   D. Change in Terms

       {¶ 103} In his second assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial court

erred by modifying the existing parenting orders without finding a change of

circumstances.

       {¶ 104} Appellant does not specify how the previous order was modified, but our

comparison of the orders shows that in the August 31, 2020 judgment the trial court

maintained appellee as the residential parent, and continued the parenting time schedule

that had been previously ordered in the May 10, 2019 judgment entry. The trial court,

however, did modify the May 10, 2019 judgment entry by eliminating the requirement

that mother’s vacation time does not have to occur out of town, and by requiring the

itinerary to be provided no later than 12 hours before the start of the trip. Additionally,

the trial court modified the May 10, 2019 judgment entry by requiring that exchanges

take place at the library as opposed to curbside.

       {¶ 105} Aside from those modifications, the trial court imposed additional

requirements upon the parties that were not contained in the May 10, 2019 judgment

entry. For example, the trial court ordered that the parties resume the children’s

counseling, and that both parents are to participate in counseling as recommended by the

children’s counselor. The court ordered that the counselor shall establish a schedule to

normalize the mother-child relationship with the goal of resuming the court-ordered

parenting time as soon as possible and within three months. The court appointed a

parenting coordinator, and ordered the parties to participate in communication counseling

as recommended by the parenting coordinator. The court ordered that if a parent has the

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children for three straight days, that parent must email the other parent describing at least

one recent activity or saying something positive about each child. The court ordered the

parties to ensure that the children have a picture of the other parent in their rooms. The

court ordered that each parent make a positive statement about the other parent each day

that the children are with him or her. Finally, the court ordered each parent to

acknowledge his or her actions that have contributed to the current situation and work

with the children to overcome the resistance.

       {¶ 106} The question we are presented with is whether the modifications and

additional requirements imposed by the court in its August 31, 2020 judgment entry

constitute a modification of “a prior decree allocating parental rights and responsibilities

for the care of children.” R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a).2 We hold that they do not.

       {¶ 107} In Fisher v. Hasenjager, 116 Ohio St.3d 53, 2007-Ohio-5589, 876 N.E.2d

546, ¶ 22, 26, the Ohio Supreme Court noted,

              “Parental rights and responsibilities” is not defined in the statute.

       However, a majority of this court commented that the General Assembly

       changed the terms “custody and control” to “parental rights and

       responsibilities” when it amended R.C. 3109.04 in 1991. Braatz v. Braatz

       (1999), 85 Ohio St.3d 40, 43, 706 N.E.2d 1218. “‘“Custody” resides in the

       party or parties who have the right to ultimate legal and physical control of

       a child.’” Id. at 44, 706 N.E.2d 1218, quoting In re Gibson (1991), 61 Ohio

2
 There is no shared parenting decree in this case, so modification of the terms of a shared
parenting plan under R.C. 3109.04(E)(2) is inapplicable.

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       St.3d 168, 171 573 N.E.2d 1074. Therefore, parental rights and

       responsibilities reside in the party or parties who have the right to the

       ultimate legal and physical control of a child.

       ***

              In summary, R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a) expressly provides for the

       modification of parental rights and responsibilities in a decree. An

       allocation of parental rights and responsibilities is a designation of the

       residential parent and legal custodian. Therefore, R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a)

       controls when a court modifies an order designating the residential parent

       and legal custodian.

       {¶ 108} From the language in Fisher, we hold that a trial court does not modify an

order allocating parental rights and responsibilities when it makes minor changes to the

terms of a parent’s vacation time or imposes additional conditions such as counseling or

saying nice things about the other parent. Because those minor modifications and

conditions do not change the residential parent designation or even alter the parenting

time between the parties, we hold that the trial court was not required to first find a

change of circumstances under R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a). Truly, if a “party requesting a

change in visitation rights need make no showing that there has been a change in

circumstances in order for the court to modify those rights,” Kelley v. Kelley, 6th Dist.

Wood No. WD-19-073, 2020-Ohio-1535, ¶ 34, quoting Braatz v. Braatz, 85 Ohio St.3d

40, 706 N.E.2d 1218 (1999), paragraph two of the syllabus, it follows that a change of

circumstances likewise would not be required where the trial court imposes minor

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conditions such as counseling. This is particularly so in light of the purpose of R.C.

3109.04(E)(1)(a), which is to “spare children from a constant tug of war between their

parents who would file a motion for change of custody each time the parent out of

custody thought he or she could provide the children a ‘better’ environment. The statute

is an attempt to provide some stability to the custodial status of the children, even though

the parent out of custody may be able to prove that he or she can provide a better

environment.” Davis, 77 Ohio St.3d at 418, 674 N.E.2d 1159, quoting Wyss v. Wyss, 3

Ohio App.3d 412, 416, 445 N.E.2d 1153 (10th Dist.1982).

       {¶ 109} Accordingly, appellant’s second assignment of error is not well-taken.

                                    E. Child Support

       {¶ 110} In his fourth and final assignment of error, appellant argues that the trial

court erred when it failed to modify his child support obligation.

       {¶ 111} R.C. 3119.79(C) provides,

              If the court determines that the amount of child support required to

       be paid under the child support order should be changed due to a substantial

       change of circumstances that was not contemplated at the time of the

       issuance of the original child support order or the last modification of the

       child support order, the court shall modify the amount of child support

       required to be paid under the child support order to comply with the

       schedule and the applicable worksheet, unless the court determines that

       those amounts calculated pursuant to the basic child support schedule and

       pursuant to the applicable worksheet would be unjust or inappropriate and

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       therefore not in the best interest of the child and enters in the journal the

       figure, determination, and findings specified in section 3119.22 of the

       Revised Code.

              “It is well established that a trial court’s decision regarding child support

       obligations falls within the discretion of the trial court and will not be disturbed

       absent a showing of an abuse of discretion.” Pauly v. Pauly, 80 Ohio St.3d 386,

       390, 686 N.E.2d 1108 (1997); Funkhouser v. Funkhouser, 6th Dist. Erie No. E-18-

       039, 2019-Ohio-733, ¶ 31 (“We review a trial court’s child support modification

       order for an abuse of discretion.”).

       {¶ 112} Appellant argues that the trial court’s decision not to modify the child

support orders was unreasonable and arbitrary where there was a change of circumstances

resulting in appellant being the primary caregiver for E.R. beginning in April 2019, and

for L.R. beginning in October 2019. As the primary caregiver, appellant states that he

has incurred all of the children’s expenses. He concludes that it is unjust and inequitable

for him to also be required to pay child support to appellee.

       {¶ 113} In this instance, we disagree. Although appellant claims a change of

circumstances, the trial court did not find the changed circumstances to be desirable.

Instead, the trial court entered orders that it hoped would resolve the issues between

appellee and the children, and that would restore the original distribution of parenting

time. In light of the trial court’s goal of equal parenting time, and its efforts toward

achieving that goal within three months, we hold that it was not an abuse of discretion for

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the trial court to maintain the current child support order, particularly where the trial

court considered that appellant is at least partially responsible for the children refusing to

visit appellee.

       {¶ 114} Accordingly, appellant’s fourth assignment of error is not well-taken.

                                      IV. Conclusion

       {¶ 115} For the foregoing reasons, we find that substantial justice has been done

the party complaining, and the judgment of the Wood County Court of Common Pleas,

Domestic Relations Division, is affirmed. Appellant is ordered to pay the costs of this

appeal pursuant to App.R. 24.

                                                                         Judgment affirmed.

       A certified copy of this entry shall constitute the mandate pursuant to App.R. 27.
See also 6th Dist.Loc.App.R. 4.

Mark L. Pietrykowski, J.                         _______________________________
                                                             JUDGE
Thomas J. Osowik, J.
                                                 _______________________________
Christine E. Mayle, J.                                       JUDGE
CONCUR.
                                                 _______________________________
                                                             JUDGE

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