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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

                                   No. 15-0224
                            Filed September 23, 2015

JOHN K. SUSIE,
     Plaintiff-Appellee,

vs.

MARILYN TEJEDA,
     Defendant-Appellant.
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       Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Plymouth County, Mary Jane

Sokolovske, Judge.

       Marilyn Tejeda appeals the district court’s order and ruling awarding John

Susie physical care of their child. AFFIRMED.

       Zachary S. Hindman of Bikakis, Mayne, Arneson, Hindman & Hisey, Sioux

City, for appellant.

       John S. Moeller of John S. Moeller, P.C., Sioux City, for appellee.

       Considered by Doyle, P.J., and Mullins and Bower, JJ.
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DOYLE, Presiding Judge.

       Marilyn Tejeda appeals the district court’s order awarding John Susie

physical care of their child. Upon our de novo review, we affirm.

       I. Background Facts and Proceedings.

       John and Marilyn are the parents of D.K.S., born in 2008. The parents

and child lived together after the child’s birth.   In approximately 2009, John

became a stay-at-home dad and was the child’s primary caregiver. John and

Marilyn separated in 2012, and the child continued to reside with John, with

Marilyn having overnight visitation on her days off, generally two days a week.

       The parents were able to co-parent effectively until late 2013, when John

began dating another woman. Marilyn stopped talking to John in person, and

she said negative things about John to their child. Ultimately, John in November

2013 filed his petition in district court to establish child custody and visitation.

John sought placement of the child in his physical care; Marilyn sought

placement of the child in her physical care or alternatively, joint physical care.

       Trial commenced in October 2014. John and Marilyn both testified, but

their testimony conflicted in many instances, such as why Marilyn shaved their

child’s head, why Marilyn refused to communicate verbally with John, who called

the other names in front of their child, and what happened when Marilyn was

dropping the child off at John’s and an argument between the parties occurred.

Concerning the latter issue, Marilyn had previously alleged at the temporary

custody hearing that John had assaulted her during the argument, causing her to

miscarry a child. At trial, she was unable to provide any medical documentation

concerning the alleged miscarriage, though she claimed to have gone to a doctor
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for care.   When asked on cross-examination if she had lied, Marilyn simply

responded, “Can we continue talking about [D.K.S.], please?”

       Following the trial, the district court entered its order and ruling placing the

child in the parties’ joint legal custody and John’s physical care, with Marilyn

having visitation.   The court found shared physical care was not an option,

finding:

       Marilyn in particular has not acted in a manner that would ensure
       that shared care would work. She has become hostile toward
       John, his wife, and John’s extended family and has generally acted
       contrary to the concepts that would make shared care successful.
       She is quite willing to use D.K.S. to hurt John, as was the case in
       repeatedly shaving D.K.S.’s hair when asked not to in anticipation
       of special events. She has also been willing to make derogatory
       remarks to D.K.S. about John.

Ultimately, the court found Marilyn’s credibility “questionable,” noting many of her

allegations “could have easily been substantiated by her if the events claimed

had occurred.” The court granted Marilyn visitation, allowing her one overnight

visit every Tuesday night and every other weekend with the child.

       Marilyn now appeals.      She contends she should be awarded primary

physical care of the parties’ child or, alternatively, the parties should be awarded

joint physical care of the child. Marilyn also asserts in the alternative that if her

physical care requests are denied, the decree should be modified to award her

increased visitation. We address her arguments in turn.

       II. Discussion.

       We review child custody and physical care disputes de novo. Iowa R.

App. P. 6.907; see also In re Marriage of Hynick, 727 N.W.2d 575, 577 (Iowa

2007). Despite our de novo review, we give strong consideration to the district
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court’s fact findings, especially with regard to witness credibility. Hynick, 727
N.W.2d at 577; see also Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). This is because the trial

court, in making its credibility assessment, has the distinct advantage of listening

and observing each witness’s demeanor firsthand, while we must rely on a cold

transcript. See In re Marriage of Udelhofen, 444 N.W.2d 473, 474 (Iowa 1989);

In re Marriage of Vrban, 359 N.W.2d 420, 423 (Iowa 1984).            The first and

foremost consideration in child custody cases “is the best interest of the child

involved.” In re Marriage of Weidner, 338 N.W.2d 351, 356 (Iowa 1983); see

also Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(o).

      A. Physical Care.

      “Physical care” is “the right and responsibility to maintain a home for the

minor child and provide for routine care of the child.” Iowa Code § 598.1(8)

(2013).   If joint physical care is awarded, “both parents have rights to and

responsibilities toward the child including, but not limited to, shared parenting

time with the child, maintaining homes for the child, [and] providing routine care

for the child.” Id. § 598.1(4). Even though the parties disagree on some matters,

these problems should be able to be resolved to the benefit of the children. See

In re Marriage of Gensley, 777 N.W.2d 705, 716 (Iowa Ct. App. 2009).

      In determining whether to award joint physical care or physical care with

one parent, the district court is guided by the factors enumerated in section

598.41(3), as well as other nonexclusive factors enumerated in In re Marriage of

Winter, 233 N.W.2d 165, 166-67 (Iowa 1974), and In re Marriage of Hansen, 733
N.W.2d 683, 696-99 (Iowa 2007) (holding that although section 598.41(3) does

not directly apply to physical care decisions, “the factors listed [in this code
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section] as well as other facts and circumstances are relevant in determining

whether joint physical care is in the best interest of the child”).          Although

consideration is given in any custody dispute to allowing the children to remain

with a parent who has been the primary caretaker, see Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at

696, the fact that a parent was the primary caretaker of the child prior to

separation does not assure an award of physical care. See In re Marriage of

Toedter, 473 N.W.2d 233, 234 (Iowa Ct. App. 1991). The ultimate objective of a

physical care determination is to place the children in the environment most likely

to bring them to healthy physical, mental, and social maturity. In re Marriage of

Murphy, 592 N.W.2d 681, 683 (Iowa 1999); In re Marriage of Courtade, 560
N.W.2d 36, 38 (Iowa Ct. App. 1996). As each family is unique, the decision is

primarily based on the particular circumstances of each case.           Hansen, 733
N.W.2d at 699.

       In this case, it is clear the district court’s findings turned on its assessment

of the credibility of the witnesses, or, more specifically, its finding that Marilyn

was not credible. Upon our de novo review of the record, we defer to the district

court’s credibility findings and reach the same conclusion.

       At the earlier temporary-custody hearing, Marilyn made serious allegations

against John, including that he had previously assaulted her and caused her to

have a miscarriage, which John denied.          During discovery, John requested

information concerning Marilyn’s allegations, including specific details and

medical records. Her answer to the related interrogatory stated that “a few days

after John physically abused [her],” she went to the emergency room concerning

the altercation, and then, a few days after that, she
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      started bleeding heavily accompanied by a little pain. [She] waited
      a couple of days to see if it would stop and it didn’t. That was when
      [she] went back to [the hospital]. They took blood and gave [her] a
      urine pregnancy test. Both of the those tests came back negative
      that [she] was pregnant and the doctor told [her that she] lost the
      pregnancy.

Marilyn did provide an initial record of going to the emergency room, which only

stated she presented with “complaints of having [a] slip and fall,” having “[f]ell

against her left shoulder and arm,” and “she [thought] she could be pregnant.”

However, she provided no record showing that she was pregnant or that she

went to the doctor thereafter and was told she had a miscarriage. That she was

able to provide medical documentation for her first visit but not her claimed

second visit is telling, particularly in light of her cross-examination answers to

questions concerning the alleged miscarriage, as well as other topics she did not

wish to discuss, seeking to change the subject instead of giving substantive

answers. Her refusal to provide answers substantially diminishes her credibility.

      Additionally, Marilyn admitted to committing certain actions, such as

entering John’s home without permission on one occasion, wherein she put all of

his underwear in the hamper and filled the hamper with water, as well as sending

John vulgar text messages out of anger. She admitted she talked badly about

John in front of the child, which the child repeated back to John. She refused to

send the child’s baseball glove with the child when he returned from a visit with

her. Marilyn shaved the child’s head on school picture day, testifying she had to

do it because the barber John had taken the child to had “cut his hair

inappropriately.” Yet, the picture supplied by John entered into evidence shows
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a normal haircut. Moreover, John specifically asked her not to shave the child’s

head again, but she did anyway—the week before John’s wedding.

       Marilyn’s lack of credibility coupled with her juvenile behaviors do not lend

any support to her other more serious, yet unsubstantiated claims, such as

claiming John returned the child to her care with bruises and restricted her

interaction and visitation with the child, among other things. John admitted at

trial he had denied Marilyn the opportunity to talk with the child on one

occasion—when she called during his wedding rehearsal dinner, which she knew

was going on. More than anything, the record evidences Marilyn’s use of the

child as a pawn and putting the child directly in the middle of the parties’ conflict.

       The overwhelming evidence at trial was that joint physical care was not a

viable option. While we believe both parties love and care for their child, John

has been the child’s primary caregiver for most of his life. Though John is not a

perfect parent—no such parent exists—we agree with the district court that the

child’s continued placement in John’s primary care was the environment most

likely to bring the child to a healthy physical, mental, and social maturity.

Consequently, we affirm the district court’s physical care placement of the child

with John.

       B. Visitation.

       Marilyn alternatively argues that the district court did not give her

maximum visitation as required under Iowa Code section 598.41(1)(a), arguing

the court should have granted her visitation when John was at work, and at a

minimum, should have kept the temporary visitation schedule in place. In the

temporary order, the court awarded Marilyn visitation generally “every Tuesday
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from 8:00 a.m. until Wednesday at 7:00 a.m.” and “every other weekend from

5:00 p.m. on Friday until Sunday at 8:00 p.m.”        In the final order, the court

changed Marilyn’s visitation hours to “every Tuesday from 6:00 p.m. until

Wednesday at 7:00 a.m.” and every other weekend from “5:00 p.m. on Friday

until 6:00 p.m. on Sunday.”

          “In establishing visitation rights, our governing consideration is, once

again, the best interest of the children.” In re Marriage of Stepp, 485 N.W.2d
846, 849 (Iowa Ct. App. 1992). Generally, liberal visitation serves children’s best

interests. Id. Although section 598.41(1)(a) directs courts to reach a custody

determination with liberal visitation that “will assure the child the opportunity for

the maximum continuing physical and emotional contact with both parents,” that

directive is in the context of what “is reasonable and in the best interest of the

child.”

          Here, having reviewed the record de novo, we conclude the visitation

schedule ordered by the district court is both reasonable and in the best interests

of the child.    In the parties’ pretrial stipulation, both parties noted they were

seeking physical care of the child and requesting the other parent have the child

every other weekend plus alternating holidays.       The visitation granted by the

court was more than John requested, in that the schedule permitted Marilyn an

overnight visit during the week in addition to every other weekend. Though the

court’s final schedule effectively reduces the total number of hours of Marilyn’s

visitation with the child, given their child’s school-age, the changes are in the

child’s best interests. The temporary order setting weekly visits for Tuesdays at

8:00 a.m. does not seem workable, given that for most of the year, the child will
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be in school at that time. Changing it to 6:00 p.m. allows the child to come home

and get ready before Marilyn’s visit, as well as participate in sports after school or

finish homework. Similarly, the minimally shortened Sunday visit every other

week permits the child time to return home with time to eat dinner and to finish

homework. Given the child’s age, we find the schedule to be in the child’s best

interests. We note that the parents are free to change the visitation schedule if

they are able to reach an agreement.

       Furthermore, this court expects the parties will follow through with the

current court-ordered parenting schedule and facilitate a healthy and nurturing

environment for their child. We remind the parents that “[e]ven though [they] are

not required to be friends, they owe it to [their] child to maintain an attitude of

civility, act decently toward one another, and communicate openly with each

other.” In re Marriage of Grantham, 698 N.W.2d 140, 146 (Iowa 2005); see also

In re Marriage of Crotty, 584 N.W.2d 714, 716 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998) (“Iowa courts

do not tolerate hostility exhibited by one parent to the other.”). It is time for the

parents to put their child first and work together as grownups for the best

interests of everyone, and we trust they understand the importance of showing

respect for one another as they continue their joint-parenting venture.

       III. Conclusion.

       For the foregoing reasons, we affirm the district court’s order and ruling

placing the parties’ child in John’s physical care and setting the aforementioned

visitation schedule.

       AFFIRMED.