Court Opinion

ID: 7934518
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Date Created: 2022-09-08 23:08:03.981263+00
Date Added: 2024-06-11T16:33:19.239599
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Chahpdin, J.,
(dissenting). These parties were married in 1884. He had been a widower, and she twice a widow. At the time of this marriage he was 61, and she was 41, years of age. He was worth about $3,000, and all she possessed was her household goods. Shortly after the marriage he purchased a house and lot in the village of Northville, for which he paid $1,200, and caused the same to be conveyed to himself and wife jointly; the effect of which is that upon the death of either the survivor will succeed to the whole estate. He has no trade, *127but, when he can find work to do, works as a common laborer to earn a livelihood. They remained in the house so purchased, and lived there until about the time the bill of complaint was filed; when, during his absence, while at labor, chopping wood, she removed the greater part of her goods from the house, and filed this bill, praying for a divorce from the bonds of matrimony, and injunction against his selling or- disposing of any of his estate pending suit, a decree compelling him to convey to her his interest in the house and lot standing in their joint names, and for alimony out of his other property.
Her complaint is that he was guilty of extreme cruelty towards her, consisting of personal violence, harsh and ■abusive and indecent language to her, and of untrue, calumnious statements about her to her friends and neighbors. She alleges that such acts of cruelty commenced within six months after their marriage, and continued until November 17, 1887, when she filed her bill in this cause. She 'says that in; 1885 he made use of opprobrious epithets, and swore at her, and struck a ■ severe blow upon the side of her face and head, which stunned her, and from which she has suffered more or less since, it having produced a roaring and numbness which still exists; that about the month of January, 1886, she .requested him to give her some money to buy ■flannel underwear, and he refused, again using opprobrious epithets imputing a want of chastity in her; that on or about October 15, 1887, he became angry at her without cause, and, using oaths, seized her by the throat, and choked her until she was black in the face, her tongue protruded, and she lost consciousness; that about the last of October, 1887, he stated to a neighbor and friend of hers that she could do nothing to defend herself, — he could put her behind the bars; that she had stolen one or more thousand dollars from a bank, and *128he knew it. That he has been in the constant habit of using the same or similar language about her, in consequence of which false and calumnious rumors have been circulated against her in the neighborhood where she resided, causing her great mental and physical suffering.
The defendant answered, denying all the specific allegations and charges, and all acts of cruel and inhuman treatment. Replication was filed, and proofs taken in open court, and hearing had upon pleadings and proofs, and the court below dismissed her bill of complaint.
Her cause has been prosecuted with zeal and ability by her solicitor; and we have given patient and careful attention to the proofs and arguments, and are constrained to sustain the holding of the court below, and to dismiss the bill of complaint. It appears from the testimony that he maintained and supported his wife with all the necessaries of life, and according to that rank and degree in which they were accustomed to move in society. He allowed her to purchase on his credit anything which she deemed necessary, and paid the bills therefor without complaint. When she was ill he employed a -physician, and at one time a nurse. He purchased an organ for her gratification, and also assisted her in her household duties. She desired to visit friends in New York, and he paid the expenses of her trip. She does not testify, to any ill usage until 1885, when she says that he struck her a severe blow upon the right side of the head. He denies it in his testimony, and she is not corroborated; and this charge is not made out by the proofs. The charge of his refusal to buy flannel in January, 1886, is not sustained. On the contrary, she admits that he told her to go to the store, and purchase anything she needed; and she did so, and he paid for it, as appears from his testimony. She used this permission freely, as appears from the testimony of Mrs. Tinham, to whom she related her *129trouble with her husband, and told her that she had married him for a home, and to be taken care of, and said if she left him she was provided with clothes enough to last her four years; that she had b'een .looking out for them, and had plenty.
We do not think, however, that he was altogether blameless, but that he was blameworthy in some of his conduct towards her. We are satisfied that he choked his wife on the occasion testified to by her, and this without provocation. This is the only act of personal violence that we think the proof sustains; and, although we are satisfied that the act was not as severe as she claims, yet it stands without justification or excuse. Neither can we justify, palliate, or excuse his statements made to the witness Blair. Whether they were as Blair testifies or as he admits, they were unjustifiable and disgraceful to him as a husband. It is quite probable that .he did not suppose that the statements would be repeated by Blair; and Blair testifies that he did not repeat them to anybody except to his wife, and it is not shown that they went any further.
We do not think the proof establishes a sufficient cause for a decree for a divorce. When - a woman marries a man 20 years her senior for the purpose of obtaining a home, and of being taken care of, she should expect—
“To submit to. the ordinary consequences of human infirmities and of unwise selections; and the misconduct which will form a good ground for a legal separation must be very serious and such as amounts to extremn cruelty, entirely subverting the family relations by rendering the association intolerable.” Cooper v. Cooper, 17 Mich. 210.
There is another consideration that is entitled to some weight in reaching a conclusion in this case. The deed of the house and lot which he voluntarily procured runs *130to them jointly, and constitutes now the bulk of the property which formerly belonged to him. What complications or embarrassments a divorce would place upon the title of this property we need not determine. She does not offer to convey her interest to him; and, without such conveyance, were she entitled to a decree, no decree for alimony could be made which would do justice between the parties.
The decree of the court below dismissing the bill should be affirmed, without costs to either party.
Campbell, J., concurred with Champlin, J.