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ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT                                     ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE
Yvonne M. Spillers                                         Gregory F. Zoeller
Fort Wayne, Indiana                                        Attorney General of Indiana
                                                           Robert J. Henke
                                                           Abigail R. Recker
                                                           Deputy Attorneys General
                                                           Indianapolis, Indiana

                                            IN THE
    COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

In the Matter of the Termination                           September 29, 2015
of the Parent-Child Relationship                           Court of Appeals Case No.
of:                                                        02A04-1412-JT-605
                                                           Appeal from the Allen Superior
N.G., L.C., and M.C. (Minor                                Court
Children),
                                                           The Honorable Charles F. Pratt,
and                                                        Judge
                                                           The Honorable Thomas P. Boyer,
A.C. (Mother),                                             Magistrate
Appellant-Respondent,                                      Cause Nos. 02D08-1403-JT-22
                                                                      02D08-1403-JT-23
        v.                                                            02D08-1403-JT-24

The Indiana Department of
Child Services,
Appellee-Petitioner

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      Baker, Judge.

[1]   A.C. (Mother) appeals the judgment of the trial court terminating her parental

      rights as to her children N.G., L.C., and M.C. We reverse the trial court’s

      judgment insofar as it relates to L.C. and M.C. as we find insufficient evidence

      to support it. However, we find that the trial court’s judgment as to N.G. is

      supported by sufficient evidence and we affirm that portion of the judgment.

                                                      Facts
[2]   Mother and J.G. (Father) have one son, N.G., born in 2003, and twin

      daughters, L.C. and M.C., born in 2006. At the time the trial court issued its

      judgment in this case, N.G. was eleven years old and L.C. and M.C. were eight

      years old. Mother has an older child, G.C., who is not involved in this case.

[3]   In 2011, Mother and Father were no longer married and were not living

      together. One day, while at the park with her children, Mother met D.H.

      (Boyfriend), who soon began living in Mother’s home. Their relationship

      quickly took a turn for the worse when, less than six weeks later, police had to

      remove Boyfriend from the home because he had threatened to kill Mother.

      Police were called again a few weeks later to remove Boyfriend a second time.

      This time, there were concerns that Boyfriend had a gun.

[4]   On August 25, 2011, the Indiana Department of Child Services (DCS) filed a

      petition alleging all four of Mother’s children to be children in need of services

      (CHINS). The trial court held a hearing on August 30, 2011. It found that,

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      while in Mother’s care, N.G. had been struck with a belt that had metal prongs

      on it and had sustained cuts and bruising. The trial court took note of the fact

      that Mother blamed Boyfriend for the incident. However, it also noted that

      N.G. alleged that Mother had hit him with the belt as well as a wooden board.

      The trial court noted that, although Mother claimed to have ceased contact

      with Boyfriend, she admitted that he was waiting outside the courthouse that

      morning. The trial court found that this was not the first instance of Mother

      physically abusing N.G., as DCS had substantiated a previous claim in 2009.

[5]   Turning to Mother’s mental health, the trial court found that she had been

      diagnosed with bipolar disorder and had been prescribed medication, which she

      had not been taking. It also expressed concern that Mother may be a

      hypochondriac, citing the fact that all of her children were on multiple types of

      medication. In light of this, the trial court ordered N.G., L.C., and M.C. placed

      in the custody of their Father, who was at this point living with his new wife,

      K.G. (Stepmother). G.C. had previously been placed in foster care and the trial

      court ordered that this placement be continued. 1 The trial court ordered that

      any visitation between Mother and the children be supervised by DCS or an

      approved third party.

[6]   On September 27, 2011, the trial court adjudicated the children as CHINS. The

      trial court held a dispositional hearing and found that Mother could benefit

      1
          It is not clear from the record at what point or for what reason G.C. was placed in foster care.

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      from services that she would be unlikely to receive without the coercive

      intervention of the court. The trial court devised a parent participation plan

      and, among other things, ordered Mother to:

                      Enroll in Whitington home-based services program . . .
                       participate in all sessions and successfully complete the
                       program.
                      Enroll in individual counseling at Park Center . . . to include
                       anger management, attend all sessions, and successfully
                       complete the counseling program.
                      Take all medications as prescribed.
                      Obtain a psychiatric evaluation at Park Center . . . and follow
                       the recommendations.
                      Obtain a psychological evaluation at Park Center . . . and
                       follow the recommendations.
                      Refrain from physical discipline of your children at all times.
                      Attend and appropriately participate in all visits with your
                       children as directed.

      State’s Ex. 9 p. 3.

[7]   On April 30, 2012, Mother completed a psychological and parenting evaluation

      with Dr. David Lombard at the Center for Applied Behavioral Studies in Fort

      Wayne. Regarding Mother’s mental health, Dr. Lombard concluded:

              [I]t is this psychologist’s clinical opinion that [Mother] was displaying
              a symptom pattern consistent with the diagnoses of generalized
              anxiety disorder, bipolar disorder, victim of physical and sexual abuse,
              and impaired parent-child relationship. [Mother] reported that she had
              recently received the diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder.
              However, the current clinical interview and psychological testing does
              not support that diagnosis at this time.

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              It is recommended that she receive a combination of medication
              management and mental health counseling. She reported prior
              medication management for her bipolar disorder symptoms. It is
              recommended that she work with a psychiatrist to obtain proper
              medication for her bipolar disorder symptoms and her generalized
              anxiety disorder. It is this psychologist’s clinical opinion that her
              history of being the victim of physical and sexual abuse has
              significantly affected her sense of safety and increased her paranoia.
              Proper medication will significantly reduce her generalized anxiety
              disorder symptoms while improving her depression and other mood
              disorder symptoms related to her bipolar disorder. Without proper
              medication, it is unlikely that she will be able to maintain a sense of
              stability in her personal, work, or social life.
              It is recommended that [Mother] receive weekly mental health
              counseling sessions. It is recommended that she receive cognitive
              behavioral therapy to address her bipolar disorder symptom and her
              general anxiety disorder symptoms. Cognitive behavioral therapy has
              proven most effective in treating these conditions. It is also
              recommended that her individual mental health counselor address her
              history of physical and sexual abuse.
              [Mother] reported significant difficulties parenting one of her children.
              She found [N.G.] to be particularly challenging and caused her
              significant parenting stress. Therefore, it is recommended that she
              receive individual parenting skills training to improve her interactions
              and perception of the child. It is also recommended that the two of
              them have family counseling sessions. Until she reduces her parenting
              stress regarding [N.G.], she will remain at high risk for inappropriate
              parenting with him.

      State’s Ex. 41 p. 7.

[8]   Mother began receiving home-based services in September 2011. Katie

      Reichert from Whitington began visiting Mother’s home to help her work on

      budgeting and parenting. However, in March 2012, Reichert determined that

      Mother was not using the information given to her and, accordingly, “she was

      discharged for not benefitting from the services.” Tr. p. 1006. DCS and
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       Whitington made another attempt at providing Mother with home-based

       services, this time sending Stacy Dickerson. Dickerson began meeting with

       Mother in August 2013 and the two worked on Mother’s parenting skills.

       Mother fully participated in the services and successfully completed Dickerson’s

       course in December 2013. Dickerson testified that she had no difficulty

       scheduling sessions with Mother and that she had observed Mother’s home in a

       clean and safe condition. Id. at 365-66.

[9]    Mother began participating in individual therapy in February 2012. She

       initially met with Vickie Heath from SCAN2 for a six-month period. Heath

       worked with Mother on her parenting skills, focusing primarily on Mother’s

       relationship with G.C. Mother was unable to regularly attend the sessions, due

       in part to the fact that Mother had fallen and broken her leg around this time,

       and she stopped meeting with Heath altogether in August 2012. Heath

       concluded that, due to Mother’s sporadic attendance, she had not benefitted

       from the services.

[10]   Mother continued individual therapy in October 2012, this time with Michael

       Wright from the Bowen Center. Wright attempted to assist Mother through the

       use of cognitive behavioral therapy. Early on in the therapy, Wright gave

       Mother a list of many examples of types of distorted thinking and their

       2
        SCAN is a non-profit organization partially funded by DCS that provides services to family and children
       such as home-based case management and supervised visitation. See SCAN’s History & Evolution,
       https://www.scanfw.org/history (last visited Sept. 11, 2015).

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       definitions and asked that she memorize ten of them. Wright testified that his

       therapy with Mother never progressed past this stage because she did not

       complete the assignment and was not otherwise engaged in the therapy.

       Wright also testified that Mother’s attendance record was poor—she attended

       twenty-one out of forty-seven sessions—and that he did not believe she had

       benefitted from the services.

[11]   Mother’s final individual therapist was Marla McQuinn, also from the Bowen

       Center. Mother began meeting with McQuinn in January 2014 and continued

       meeting with her until the time that her parental rights were terminated.

       McQuinn also attempted to use cognitive behavioral therapy with Mother.

       During sessions, the two would discuss Mother’s distorted thinking. McQuinn

       testified that Mother attended all but one of their scheduled sessions; however,

       because the two had trouble determining what to work on, she did not believe

       that Mother had benefitted from her services.

[12]   Throughout this time, Mother was regularly visiting her children. However, on

       March 21, 2013, the trial court ordered that Mother not be allowed to visit N.G.

       until DCS and SCAN, who had been supervising the visits, deemed it to be

       appropriate. This order came as the result of an incident during a visit between

       Mother and N.G. in which Mother had asked N.G. to pick popcorn up from

       the floor. Tr. p. 620. N.G. became upset, ran out of the room, and told a

       SCAN employee that he did not want to see Mother anymore. Id. at 621. In

       the same order, the trial court also limited Mother’s visitation with G.C., L.C.,

       and M.C. to one time per month.

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[13]   Events took a drastic turn on July 3, 2013, when the trial court was forced to

       hold a detention hearing after Father was arrested for molesting one of

       Stepmother’s children. At the time, the victim resided in Father’s home

       alongside N.G., L.C, and M.C. Father was later convicted of four counts of

       child molesting and two counts of sexual misconduct with a minor and

       sentenced to a four-year executed term of imprisonment. Following his arrest,

       the trial court ordered the children removed from Father’s home and placed in

       foster care. Following his placement in foster care, N.G. had to be hospitalized

       in Parkview Behavioral Health as a result of his volatile behavior.

[14]   On October 7, 2013, DCS filed a proposed permanency plan in the trial court,

       recommending termination of Mother and Father’s parental rights as to all of

       the children. The trial court issued an order, that: (1) changed the children’s

       permanency plan to adoption; (2) continued the children’s placement in foster

       care; and (3) authorized DCS to file a petition to terminate parental rights. The

       trial court also ordered that Stepmother be allowed to visit the children in

       accordance with the recommendation of the children’s therapist.

[15]   On July 24, 2013, DCS petitioned to terminate Mother’s parental rights as to

       her oldest son, G.C. On March 14, 2014, Juvenile Court Judge Charles Pratt

       denied DCS’s petition, concluding that termination of Mother’s parental rights

       was not in G.C.’s best interests. Judge Pratt reasoned as follows:

               [DCS] must be able to demonstrate that permanency through adoption
               is preferable to permanency through foster care while reunification
               efforts continue. Of essential importance in determining the difference
               is the parent’s willingness and positive steps a parent has made to

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               achieve reunification. Clearly [Mother] has not made the progress she
               needs to make to properly meet [G.C.’s] special needs. However, she
               has completed some of the services (e.g. parenting instruction) and she
               has not stopped or refused counseling services. [Mother] and [G.C.]
               love each other. Unlike his younger siblings, [G.C.] yearns to be
               returned to her care and has a bond with her. [G.C.’s] younger
               siblings refer to [Mother] in the third person and have demonstrated a
               clear pattern of agitation following visits.

       State’s Ex. 26. Judge Pratt determined that, in light of G.C.’s special needs, his

       love for Mother, and the ongoing likelihood that he would need therapy, it

       could not conclude that G.C.’s interests would be best served by termination of

       Mother’s parental rights rather than simply continuing his placement in foster

       care. Id.

[16]   Three days later, on March 17, 2014, DCS filed petitions to terminate Mother

       and Father’s parental rights as to N.G., L.C., and M.C. This time, the case was

       heard by Magistrate Thomas Boyer. On May 21, 2014, prior to ruling on the

       petitions, the trial court suspended Mother’s visits with L.C. and M.C. entirely.

       It reasoned that “[t]he behavior of [L.C.] and [M.C.] deteriorates immediately

       following visitation with [Mother]” and that, following the visits, L.C. and

       M.C. experienced “bedwetting, nightmares, agitation, and aggression.” State’s

       Ex. 24. Magistrate Boyer concluded that Mother’s visitation significantly

       impaired L.C. and M.C.’s emotional development.

[17]   On July 3, 2014, Mother submitted a subpoena duces tecum to Lisa Burton of

       SCAN for the production of documents and other things related to N.G., L.C.,

       and M.C. Burton provided Mother with some documents but failed to provide

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       Mother with videotapes of several of the Children’s therapy sessions. Mother

       and Father learned of the existence of the tapes during the termination hearing.

       Father orally moved to dismiss the case, arguing that the tapes could contain

       vital information relevant to his defense. Magistrate Boyer denied the motion.

       Eventually, Mother’s counsel was able to view the tapes and to refer to the

       content of the tapes in her cross-examination of Burton.

[18]   On December 12, 2014, Magistrate Boyer issued an order terminating the

       parent-child relationship between Mother and Father and N.G., L.C., and

       M.C.3 Mother now appeals.

                                         Discussion and Decision
                                           I. Standard of Review
[19]   The Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution protects a

       parent’s right to establish a home and raise her children. In re G.Y., 904 N.E.2d
1257, 1259 (Ind. 2009). Our Supreme Court has observed that “[a] parent’s

       interest in the care, custody, and control of his or her children is ‘perhaps the

       oldest of the fundamental liberty interests.’” Id. (quoting Troxel v. Granville, 530
U.S. 57, 65 (2000)). However, this right is not absolute and the interests of

       parents must be subordinated to those of their children when parents are unable

       3
           Father does not appeal the termination of his parental rights.

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       or unwilling to meet the responsibilities that accompany this right. Id. at 1259-

       60.

[20]   When reviewing the termination of parental rights, we do not reweigh the

       evidence or judge the credibility of the witnesses. Id. at 1260. We consider

       only the evidence and reasonable inferences drawn therefrom that are most

       favorable to the judgment. Id. As the trial court has entered findings of fact and

       conclusions of law in this case, we will apply a two-tiered standard of review.

       Id. We will determine whether the evidence supports the findings and then

       determine whether the findings support the judgment. Id. We will reverse the

       trial court’s judgment only if it is clearly erroneous, meaning that the trial

       court’s findings do not support its conclusions or its conclusions do not support

       its judgment. Id.

[21]   Indiana Code section 31-35-2-4(b)(2) requires that a petition must allege:

               (A)      that one (1) of the following is true:
                        (i)      The child has been removed from the parent for at least
                                 six (6) months under a dispositional decree.
                        (ii)     A court has entered a finding under IC 31-34-21-5.6 that
                                 reasonable efforts for family preservation or
                                 reunification are not required, including a description of
                                 the court's finding, the date of the finding, and the
                                 manner in which the finding was made.
                        (iii)    The child has been removed from the parent and has
                                 been under the supervision of a local office or probation
                                 department for at least fifteen (15) months of the most
                                 recent twenty-two (22) months, beginning with the date
                                 the child is removed from the home as a result of the

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                                 child being alleged to be a child in need of services or a
                                 delinquent child;
               (B)      that one (1) of the following is true:
                        (i)      There is a reasonable probability that the conditions that
                                 resulted in the child's removal or the reasons for
                                 placement outside the home of the parents will not be
                                 remedied.
                        (ii)     There is a reasonable probability that the continuation of
                                 the parent-child relationship poses a threat to the well-
                                 being of the child.
                        (iii)    The child has, on two (2) separate occasions, been
                                 adjudicated a child in need of services;
               (C)      that termination is in the best interests of the child; and
               (D)      that there is a satisfactory plan for the care and treatment of the
                        child.

       DCS must prove these allegations by clear and convincing evidence. Ind. Code

       § 31-37-14-2.

                                II. Sufficiency of the Evidence
[22]   In its order, the trial court cited the same list of findings to support its

       conclusions that it was unlikely that the conditions that led to the children’s

       removal were likely to be remedied and that termination of Mother’s parental

       rights was in the children’s best interests. The trial court relied on:

               1.       [Mother’s] history of verbal abuse towards [N.G., L.C., and
                        M.C.].
               2.       [Mother’s] history of physical abuse to [N.G.].
               3.       [Mother’s] failure to protect [N.G.] from physical abuse by
                        [Boyfriend].
               4.       [Mother’s] lack of compliance and progress in counseling.

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         5.       [Mother’s] history of not taking her medications as prescribed.
         6.       [Mother’s] history of not taking [N.G.] to therapy on a
                  consistent basis.
         7.       [Mother’s] history of not following medical advice from
                  [N.G.’s] psychiatrist.
         8.       [Mother’s] inability to control and redirect the behavior of
                  [N.G., L.C., and M.C.] during visitation.
         9.       The negative behaviors exhibited by [N.G., L.C., and M.C.]
                  immediately following visitation with [Mother].
         10.      The emotional distress suffered by [N.G., L.C., and M.C.] as a
                  result of contact with [Mother].
         11.      The improvement in the behavior and mental health of [N.G.,
                  L.C., and M.C.] after visitation with [Mother] was suspended.
         12.      The invalid test results from [Mother’s] Child Abuse Potential
                  Inventory in 2010 and 2012.

Appellant’s App. p. 45. Mother argues that the evidence is insufficient to

support several of these findings and that these findings do not support the trial

court’s judgment.4 We reach different results as to the sufficiency of this

evidence as it relates to L.C. and M.C. as opposed to N.G., and we discuss each

in turn.

4
  Mother also argues that her due process rights were violated when the trial court refused to dismiss the case
following revelations that Lisa Burton had not complied with a subpoena duces tecum. We note that, as
Mother has not included the subpoena in the record, we cannot determine whether Burton failed to comply.
In any event, Mother’s counsel was given an opportunity to view the tapes and incorporate reference to their
contents into her argument. This is not to say, however, that allegations that a third party who had
possession of these tapes and knowledge of their existence blatantly disregarded a subpoena that Mother
alleges called for their production should have caused the trial court no concern. If true, the trial court would
be within its discretion to punish such actions as contempt. 17 Am. Jur. 2d Contempt § 124. While it is true
that, due to the contents of the tapes, it might be appropriate to only allow counsel for the parents, and not
the parents themselves, to view them, this does not mean that the appropriate course of action for one who
has been served with such a subpoena is simply to ignore it.

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        A. Termination of Mother’s Relationship with L.C. and
                              M.C.
                       1. The Conditions that Led to Removal
[23]   In determining whether the conditions that led to removal are not likely to be

       remedied, the trial court should judge a parent’s fitness at the time of the

       termination hearing and consider any change in conditions since the removal.

       Lang v. Starke Cnty. Office of Family & Children, 861 N.E.2d 366, 372 (Ind. Ct.

       App. 2007). The trial court can consider the services offered by DCS and the

       parent’s response to those services. In re D.J., 755 N.E.2d 679, 684 (Ind. Ct.

       App. 2001). “A pattern of unwillingness to deal with parenting problems and

       to cooperate with those providing social services, in conjunction with

       unchanged conditions, support a finding that there exists no reasonable

       probability that the conditions will change.” In re L.S., 717 N.E.2d 204, 210

       (Ind. Ct. App. 1999). However, “termination of parental rights cannot be based

       entirely upon conditions which existed in the past, but which no longer exist.”

       In re T.C., 630 N.E.2d 1368, 1374 (Ind. Ct. App. 1994).

[24]   The evidence presented as to Mother’s relationship with L.C. and M.C. differs

       markedly from that presented in regard to her relationship with N.G. There is

       little, if any, evidence in the record regarding the state of Mother’s relationship

       with L.C. and M.C. and her ability to care for them prior to their removal.

       L.C. and M.C. were removed along with N.G. after he was struck with a belt,

       but the trial court did not find, and DCS has never claimed, that L.C. and M.C.

       were the victims of physical abuse as well. The trial court makes only two
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       findings that relate to L.C. and M.C.’s home situation prior to their removal,

       citing Mother’s “history of verbal abuse” towards her children and her “history

       of not taking her medications as prescribed.” Appellant’s App. p. 45.

[25]   To begin, the trial court’s finding that Mother has a history of verbally abusing

       the children finds no support in the record. Specifically, the trial court found

       that “[Mother] has a history of verbally abusing [the children], which was

       observed by [Father].” Appellant’s Br. p. 41. Father testified extensively at the

       hearing and made no mention of having observed Mother verbally abusing the

       children.5 Tr. p. 850-925. Furthermore, we can find no other evidence in the

       record establishing that Mother verbally abused the children.

[26]   As for Mother’s history of not taking her medications as prescribed, while this

       finding is supported by the record, it has little relevance here given the lack of

       evidence of any resulting consequence to L.C. and M.C. Although not taking

       prescribed medication is certainly not advisable, a trial court cannot simply

       assume that this fact counsels in favor of terminating parental rights without

       any evidence of a connection between a parent’s failure to take the medication

       and a negative consequence to her children. Although a nexus could be

       5
         We do not mean to imply that, had Father uttered the magic words “verbal abuse” while testifying, this
       would have been sufficient to support the trial court’s finding. Adults frequently speak to children in a
       manner that would be considered inappropriate if used in conversation with other adults and we wish to
       make clear that parents need not fear that they will lose their children for having lost their temper and yelled.
       Were we to consider verbal abuse as a factor in determining whether parental rights should be terminated, the
       record would need to contain evidence describing that verbal abuse and its extent so that we could determine
       whether it reaches a level that would counsel in favor of termination.

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       inferred had there been evidence of negative consequences to L.C. and M.C.,

       such consequences are not necessarily implied by Mother’s failure to take her

       medication.

[27]   Furthermore, the trial court’s finding on this point takes no account of Mother’s

       recent history of regularly taking her medication. While the trial court found

       that up until 2013, Mother had not taken her medication as directed, it also

       found that between October 2013 and July 31, 2014, just before the

       commencement of the termination hearing, she had taken her medication as

       directed. Appellant’s App. p. 38.

[28]   We note that when deciding whether there is a reasonable probability that the

       conditions that led to removal will not be remedied, a trial court must judge a

       parent’s fitness to care for her children at the time of the termination hearing

       and take into consideration evidence of changed conditions. In re D.K., 968
N.E.2d 792, 798 (Ind. Ct. App. 2012). With this in mind, while the trial court’s

       findings regarding the distressing nature of Mother’s past noncompliance with

       medication are supported by evidence, if the trial court wishes to use these

       findings to support the conclusion that the conditions that led to the children’s

       removal are unlikely to change, it may not simply ignore its own findings as to

       Mother’s recent improvement.

              2. The Reasons for Placement Outside the Home
[29]   By requiring the State to establish a reasonable probability that “the conditions

       that resulted in the child’s removal or the reasons for placement outside the

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       home of the parents will not be remedied,” our termination statute makes clear

       that the trial court may consider the initial basis for removal as well as any basis

       resulting in a child’s continued placement outside of the home in determining

       whether parental rights should be terminated. I.C. § 31-35-2-4(b)(2) (emphasis

       added); In re A.I., 825 N.E.2d 798, 806 (Ind. Ct. App. 2005). With regard to

       L.C. and M.C., the trial court focused almost exclusively on reasons for their

       continued placement outside of Mother’s care, citing:

               4.       [Mother’s] lack of compliance and progress in counseling.
                                                         ***
               8.       [Mother’s] inability to control and redirect the behavior of
                        [N.G., L.C., and M.C.] during visitation.
               9.       The negative behaviors exhibited by [N.G., L.C., and M.C.]
                        immediately following visitation with [Mother].
               10.      The emotional distress suffered by [N.G., L.C., and M.C.] as a
                        result of contact with [Mother].
               11.      The improvement in the behavior and mental health of [N.G.,
                        L.C., and M.C.] after visitation with [Mother] was suspended.

       Appellant’s App. p. 45.

                                    a. Progress in Counseling
[30]   As for Mother’s lack of compliance and progress in counseling, the evidence

       suggests that Mother had a mixed history of compliance that was steadily

       improving at the time of termination. Mother’s latest counselor, Marla

       McQuinn, testified that Mother had attended all but one of their scheduled

       sessions. DCS acknowledges that Mother has regularly attended recent

       sessions, but argues that, even if Mother has been compliant, she has still failed

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       to make progress. It points out that McQuinn “questioned whether Mother was

       benefitting” from the services. Appellee’s Br. p. 25. For its part, the trial court

       made three specific findings as to Mother’s progress with cognitive behavioral

       therapy:

               35.      Marla McQuinn of the Bowen Center has been [Mother’s]
                        therapist since January 24, 2014. [Mother’s] attendance and
                        participation in therapy has improved since she has been
                        working with Ms. McQuinn.
               36.      Ms. McQuinn is uncertain of whether [Mother] is benefitting
                        from cognitive behavioral therapy. [Mother] still demonstrates
                        closed thinking patterns and distortion in her perception of
                        events.
               37.      [Mother] has been involved in cognitive behavioral therapy for
                        over (2) years with little or no benefit or improvement in her
                        thinking patterns. As noted by Dr. Lombard in his testimony
                        there should be some signs of improvement after three (3) to six
                        (6) months of participation in cognitive behavioral therapy.

       Appellant’s App. p. 38. Mother challenges the accuracy of findings #36 and

       #37.

[31]   We agree with Mother that the evidence does not support these findings.

       Particularly, the trial court’s finding that “[Mother] still demonstrates closed

       thinking patterns and distortion in her perception of events” is not supported by

       clear and convincing evidence. Id. The trial court apparently bases this finding

       on portions of McQuinn’s testimony where she discussed alleged differences

       between Mother’s perception of events that took place during supervised visits

       with the children and SCAN employees’ perceptions of those same events.

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       McQuinn testified to two examples of these “cognitive distortions,” the first of

       which she described as follows:

               Counsel:          Okay. So what exactly did you work on with [Mother]
                                 in C.B.T.? [cognitive behavioral therapy]
               McQuinn:          Well, the request was made that we work on cognitive
                                 distortions, and I needed clarification on what those
                                 were. And we have family team service provider
                                 meetings with other service providers [such as SCAN],
                                 and it would be discussed as far, you know, how the
                                 visits were going, things that happened, and, you know,
                                 how the service providers kind of felt those were going
                                 and then, you know, how [Mother] felt those were
                                 going.
               Counsel:          Okay. Now, what—can you—real—we’re gonna be
                                 specific now: What type of distorted thoughts are you
                                 specifically referencing?
               McQuinn:          One example is that they were saying that she brought
                                 unsealed food to the visit, it sounded like they felt she
                                 did that more than one (1) time and, you know, those
                                 were things—like I would address that in session with
                                 her and just say, you know, “Let’s talk about, you
                                 know— this is what they’re seeing.” And she would—
                                 she stated that she only brought, you know, unsealed
                                 food, like that only happened one (1) time.

       Tr. p. 71-72.

[32]   We pause to note that, even were it true that Mother was mistaken about how

       many times she brought unsealed food to a visit with the children, we believe

       that, although this may technically qualify as a cognitive distortion, it would be

       so trivial as to lend no support to the trial court’s overall conclusion in this

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       case.6 But more importantly, there is no evidence in the record that Mother was

       actually wrong about how many times she brought unsealed food.

       Consequently, there is no evidence that this triviality was even a cognitive

       distortion in the first place. McQuinn testified that she had been given different

       versions of events related to the unsealed food and that she could not tell which

       was correct. Id. at 105.

[33]   McQuinn’s next, and final, example of Mother’s cognitive distortions also

       cannot be taken seriously:

                Counsel:          What other perceptions or distorted thoughts did you
                                  work on with [Mother]?
                McQuinn:          One of the other examples was that she, during a visit,
                                  would tell the girls that she was their mother, she would
                                  cradle their face. Service providers didn’t feel like that
                                  was appropriate. And, you know, her perception is she
                                  was trying, I think, to express that she is their mother,
                                  but I—you know, I don’t know, I wasn’t there.

       Id. at 74. We wish to take this opportunity to make clear that a mother cradling

       her daughters’ faces and telling them that she is their mother is not evidence of

       a mental health issue. We are at a loss as to why SCAN would find this

       behavior inappropriate. As a final note, and most tellingly, we observe that

       when asked if she felt as though she had been given clear direction from DCS

       6
        We do not mean to suggest that Mother’s failure to comply with a service provider’s rules would be a trivial
       matter. We merely observe that a disagreement over the exact number of times Mother had broken a
       particular rule is trivial when considering the state of Mother’s mental health. Even if Mother were mistaken,
       we would hope that a commonplace mistake such as this would be viewed with empathy lest we all be
       deemed unfit to raise children.

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       about what services to provide to Mother, McQuinn responded: “Not really.”

       Id. at 103. We cannot be surprised that Mother had not reached the level of

       improvement anticipated if DCS had not clearly indicated to the service

       provider what that level was.

[34]   In short, the trial court found that Mother “still demonstrates closed thinking

       patterns and distortion in her perception of events” because she had a

       disagreement with SCAN employees, which remains unresolved, and because

       she told her own children that she was their mother. Appellant’s App. p. 38. It

       is self-evident that the trial court’s finding on this point is not supported by clear

       and convincing evidence. And it therefore follows that the trial court’s next

       finding, that there has been little or no improvement in Mother’s thinking

       patterns, is based on insufficient evidence as well. Id.

            b. L.C. and M.C.’s Behavior During and Following
                                 Visits
[35]   We are left with L.C. and M.C.’s poor behavior during and following visits as

       the sole basis for the trial court’s finding that the reason for their placement

       outside Mother’s home will not be remedied. Mother attended supervised visits

       with L.C. and M.C. from the time they were removed from her care in August

       2011 until the trial court ordered a cessation of visits in May 2014. The visits

       were held at SCAN as well as Dr. Lombard’s office and supervised by five

       different individuals who testified at Mother’s termination hearing.

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[36]   Joyce Spieth supervised these visits from September 2011 to approximately

       May 2012. At this time, Mother was allowed to visit all four of the children on

       a bi-weekly basis. Spieth testified that Mother behaved appropriately during the

       visits, that she appeared to share a bond with the children, and that the children

       referred to Mother as “mommy.” Tr. p. 726-27. Spieth also testified that

       Mother was able to manage the children during visitation and that she had no

       concern as to Mother’s ability to parent. Id. at 731.

[37]   From May 2012 to October 2013, visits were held in Dr. Lombard’s office.

       Throughout this time, Dr. Lombard personally observed only one of the visits.7

       As to Mother’s interaction with the children, Dr. Lombard testified that “[t]he

       children wanted to talk to her, wanted to do activities with her, wanted to

       interact with her, so they seemed comfortable with her, wanting to engage, so

       there seemed to be a bond with the children and the mother.” Id. at 552.

[38]   Ashlee Rager of SCAN supervised the visits from November 2012 through June

       2013. Rager testified that Mother would come prepared for the visits and that

       she and the children would watch movies, play board games, and occasionally

       make crafts that Mother had brought for them. Id. at 616. Rager observed L.C.

       and M.C. had an emotional attachment to their Mother and that they would

       engage in activities with her and hug her. Id. at 628.

       7
        The other visits were observed by a staff member at Dr. Lombard’s office who did not testify at the hearing.
       Tr. p. 543-44.

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[39]   As to discipline, Rager testified that Mother “had set up different techniques”

       and “had brought in a paper once, kind of outlining rules and guidelines that

       she wanted the kids to follow, and had kind of like a meeting with all the kids to

       discuss that.” Id. at 618. Rager testified that Mother’s discipline techniques

       were not always effective and that sometimes the children were not obedient.

       Rager described some portions of the visits as “chaotic,” noting that when

       Mother would attempt to have all the children sit down together as a family

       “the kids would not settle down to do family as a group or they would be off

       doing their own things during the visit.” Id. at 619.

[40]   On March 21, 2013, on Rager’s recommendation, the trial court suspended

       visitation between Mother and N.G. entirely, and restricted Mother’s visitation

       with L.C., M.C., and G.C. to one time per month. Rager explained the reason

       for her recommendation as follows:

               This visitation had occurred, there was an incident in which [N.G] and
               [G.C.] were both asked to pick up, they had thrown some popcorn on
               the floor. [N.G.] would not go over and pick up like he was supposed
               to, so [Mother] kind of got close to him, kind of in his boundary, in his
               space, and didn’t form a boundary with him; and he got angry and ran
               out of the room at that time. When he ran out, we were in the SCAN
               waiting room, which is directly off of that office. The receptionist was
               sitting there and [N.G.] ran straight to [Father] and [Stepmother], who
               were sitting in the waiting room, and said that he no longer wanted to
               have visitations with his mom and that he did not want to see her. A
               therapist, another SCAN therapist, came out who had been down the
               hall to see what was going on, was trying to comfort [N.G.], and then
               once he walked out . . . I believe he walked out the door with
               [Stepmother], I don’t know that a hundred percent sure, I don’t recall;
               but [Mother] then came back into the room and said that she was just

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                trying to discipline him and to get him to do what he was supposed to
                do and follow the directions.

       Id. at 620-21.8

[41]   Rager went on to testify that she had recommended that visitation between

       Mother and her other three children be restricted to one time per month

       because of what she viewed as the general chaos of the visits—citing an incident

       where Mother had attempted unsuccessfully to put M.C. in a time-out. Id. at

       623. Rager noted that around this time, L.C. and M.C. would refer to Mother

       by her first name and refer to Stepmother as “mom.” Id. at 625-28.

[42]   Kenneth Shields was the next to supervise the visits, meeting with Mother and

       L.C. and M.C. between July 2013 and February 2014. This period immediately

       followed Father’s incarceration and L.C. and M.C.’s removal from his care and

       placement in foster care. DCS relies heavily on Shields’s testimony to support

       its contention that Mother exhibited inappropriate behavior during visits with

       the children. Appellee’s Br. p. 8.

[43]   In particular, Shields testified that “in relation to [G.C.] asking about a future

       visit . . . [Mother] had made the comment, you know, if the Court granted

       another visit.” Tr. p. 326. Focusing on Mother’s use of the word “if,” Shields

       8
         The record contains other evidence of N.G.’s proclivity for fleeing from rooms to avoid discipline. N.G.’s
       therapist, Lynn Baker, testified to having observed N.G. head-butt his parents during a therapy session and
       then attempt to run out of the room. Tr. p. 194. Baker had to block the door with her chair to prevent his
       escape, which she deemed an appropriate response given the circumstances. Id. Similarly, Mother testified
       to having attempted to block the door to prevent N.G.’s escape during the above-described incident,
       however, she maintains that Rager instructed her to move out of the way. Id. at 976-77.

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       concluded that such conditional language was inappropriate as “it seemed that

       it would leave the kids in the tenuous position of whether they would get to see

       their mother or not again.” Id. Shields also noted an incident in which L.C.

       and M.C. informed Mother that they had visited Stepmother at some point after

       their removal from Stepmother’s care. Mother wondered aloud whether such

       visits were authorized and asked Shields if they had occurred. Shields also

       believed this to be inappropriate. Id. at 326-27. Finally, he noted that Mother

       would occasionally whisper to the children, which was against SCAN policy.

       Id. at 340-41.

[44]   As for Mother’s interaction with L.C. and M.C. during the visits, Shields

       testified:

               It was typical during the visits for [Mother] to always bring a lot of
               stuff, usually gifts or clothing or food and that sort of thing, so the kids
               would become very excited . . . excitable at that point, it would kind of
               escalate their behavior. And when the girls would get overexcited like
               that, she would . . . she would do her best to try to distract them by,
               you know, saying, “Let’s all line up like ducks” was one example of
               what she had done at one point. And then it would . . . at that time,
               she would say “I’m gonna put you in time out if you can’t . . . you
               know, if you don’t settle down.”

       Id. at 327. Shields testified that when Mother warned L.C. and M.C. that they

       were going to be put in time-out, their behavior would “not always” change and

       that Mother often failed to follow through by actually putting L.C. and M.C. in

       time-out if they continued to misbehave. Id. at 360. Shields testified that he

       could have helped Mother work on effective modes of discipline but he did not

       do so because Mother never asked. Id. at 338-39.

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[45]   Lisa Burton, also of SCAN, began meeting with L.C. and M.C. individually in

       January 2014. She observed one visit between Mother and L.C. and M.C. in

       February 2014. As to Mother’s behavior during the visit, Burton testified that

       “[h]er behavior, her appearance, her timeliness, all of that was perfectly

       appropriate.” Id. at 760. However, Burton noted that “[w]hat was

       inappropriate was the girls’ reaction.” Id. Burton noted that L.C. and M.C. got

       up on the table on several occasions and that—in the month or so that she had

       known them—she had never seen them behave in that fashion. Burton also

       noted Mother’s insistence that L.C. and M.C. not refer to anyone else as their

       mother.

[46]   Burton also observed L.C. and M.C.’s behavior when she conducted therapy

       sessions with the girls following the visits with Mother. Burton testified that

       L.C. and M.C. “would go home in tears, they were wetting the bed, they were

       having nightmares, and so we did almost a debriefing kind of session

       afterward.” Id. at 769. However, Burton also testified to having observed very

       similar behavior from L.C. and M.C. following a visit with someone other than

       Mother. Id. at 747.

[47]   In March of 2014, Burton requested that visits between Mother and L.C. and

       M.C. be suspended entirely. Burton explained that:

               At this point, we had several months of documentation of explosive
               behavior from them and no indication of their interest, need, or desire
               to have contact with biological parents; so I requested that we suspend
               it and see if there was any change in both that . . . the negative
               behavior, as well as if there would be an increase in requesting in the

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               absence, if there would be, after a pause, perhaps an ability to refresh,
               trust, and a desire to build a relationship at that point. Sometimes a
               little time and a little break can be helpful.

       Id. at 776. Following this recommendation, the trial court suspended all

       visitation in May 2014 and visitation never resumed prior to Mother’s parental

       rights being terminated. Burton noted an improvement in L.C. and M.C.’s

       behavior following cessation of the visits. Id. at 777.

[48]   Viewed in its totality, this evidence indicates that Mother has a substantial

       history of coming to visits prepared and behaving appropriately. Though DCS

       tries its best to highlight the instances in which Mother failed to comply with

       the rules laid out by supervisors, these infractions are minor—involving things

       such as whispering to the children and an allegedly improper use of the word

       “if.” And the record indicates that when warned about these infractions,

       Mother would comply with the service provider’s wishes. Id. at 631. This

       behavior pales in comparison to other instances where we have determined that

       a parent’s behavior during visitation and actions towards service providers

       counselled in favor of termination. See In re A.H., 832 N.E.2d 563, 566 (Ind. Ct.

       App. 2005) (father displayed a complete lack of ability to control his anger

       during visitations, became combative and angry with service providers, and

       threatened to bomb the office of family and children).

[49]   This evidence also reflects that after nearly three years of being kept outside of

       Mother’s care, L.C. and M.C.’s relationship with Mother has deteriorated.

       However, the evidence sheds little light on whether this deterioration is

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       attributable to Mother. The trial court did not find that L.C. and M.C.’s

       behavior came as a result of Mother’s actions or that she was otherwise

       responsible for the children’s reactions. And we do not believe such a finding

       would have been supported by this evidence had it been made. Because a

       decline in the quality of the relationship between Mother and her children was a

       foreseeable consequence of affording Mother such limited contact, were we to

       use this as the sole basis for terminating her parental rights absent a showing of

       significant responsibility on her part, we would be paying little more than lip

       service to Mother’s constitutional right to raise her children.

                             c. L.C. and M.C.’s Best Interests
[50]   We acknowledge that L.C. and M.C. have suffered as a result of the

       tumultuous events of the past few years and we do not doubt that the children

       could benefit from stability. However, the law of this State manifests a clear

       preference for the reunification of families. Indiana Code section 31-34-21-5.5

       requires DCS to “make reasonable efforts to preserve and unify families.” It

       goes without saying that children who have been removed from their mother’s

       care for a number of years may grow less attached to her. This is perhaps one

       reason why, when a child has been removed from a home, DCS is directed “to

       make it possible for the child to return safely to the child’s home as soon as

       possible.” I.C. § 31-34-21-5.5.

[51]   The children have been removed from Mother’s home since 2011 because N.G.

       had been subjected to physical abuse. However, there is no evidence in the

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       record indicating that L.C. and M.C. were subjected to this abuse and DCS

       does not allege that a return to Mother’s care would jeopardize L.C. and M.C.’s

       physical safety. Furthermore, the evidence suggests that Mother now maintains

       stable housing, which is kept in a clean and orderly manner, that she has been

       taking her prescribed medication, that she has regularly attended her therapy

       sessions, and that she has otherwise complied with the requirements of her

       parent participation plan.

[52]   DCS’s case in support of termination in regard to L.C. and M.C. rests entirely

       on the premise that the children suffer emotionally as a result of contact with

       Mother. However, as previously discussed, the evidence does not indicate that

       L.C. and M.C.’s negative reactions towards Mother are anything other than the

       foreseeable consequence of years of separation with limited contact. In sum,

       the evidence in the record does not support the conclusion that L.C. and M.C.’s

       best interests would be served by terminating their relationship with their

       Mother.9 Therefore, we reverse the portion of the termination order relating to

       L.C. and M.C.

           B. Termination of Mother’s Relationship with N.G.
[53]   While many of the trial court’s findings that purport to relate to all three

       children are not supported by the evidence, this is not the case regarding the

       9
        For these same reasons we find that the evidence in the record does not support a conclusion that
       continuation of the parent-child relationship between L.C. and M.C. and Mother poses a threat to the well-
       being of the children. I.C. § 31-35-2-4(b)(2)(B).

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       numerous findings that relate specifically to N.G. We believe that these

       findings, viewed in light of the evidence most favorable to them, compel us to

       affirm the trial court’s decision to terminate Mother’s parental rights as to N.G.,

       given our highly deferential standard of review.

[54]   The evidence makes clear that Mother has had a particularly difficult time

       parenting N.G. N.G. has been seeing therapists since he was three years old

       and has been diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder as well as

       oppositional defiant disorder. Appellee’s Br. p. 10. Mother complained that

       N.G. behaved aggressively and could not be managed in any setting. In 2012,

       Dr. Ahmad, one of N.G.’s psychiatrists, noted his concern over Mother’s ability

       to care for N.G. State’s Ex. 43. Dr. Ahmad noted that Mother had sought to

       have N.G. admitted to the hospital on many occasions, which Dr. Ahmad

       deemed unnecessary and inappropriate. Id. At the time N.G. was removed

       from Mother’s care, he had been prescribed eight different medications.

[55]   The trial court also found that Mother had a history of physically abusing

       N.G.10 In 2009, DCS substantiated a report that Mother had physically abused

       N.G., apparently by hitting him with a dowel rod. Tr. p. 898. Two years later,

       10
          Though our CHINS statute provides that it shall not be construed to “limit the right of a parent, guardian,
       or custodian of a child to use reasonable corporal punishment when disciplining a child,” Mother has never
       argued that her actions were reasonable or intended as a punishment. I.C. § 31-34-1-15; See Willis v. State,
       888 N.E.2d 177, 183 (Ind. 2008) (parent’s use of a belt or extension cord to strike her son five to seven times
       on the buttocks held to be reasonable corporal punishment when it was reasonably necessary and appropriate
       to compel obedience to Mother’s insistence that her son tell the truth).

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       while N.G. was in Mother’s care, Boyfriend hit N.G. with a belt, which led to

       the removal of all three children and the commencement of this case. 11

[56]   Lynn Baker, a mental health therapist who has worked with N.G. for years,

       testified to her belief that N.G.’s memories of this physical abuse played a

       significant role in his continued negative behavior. Id. at 178. Baker testified as

       to N.G.’s aggressive behavior during therapy sessions, which involved head-

       butting his parents, trying to destroy things in her office, and trying to open the

       door and run from the building. Baker believed that N.G. had lost the ability to

       trust that he was safe with Mother. Id. at 182. Baker also testified that Mother

       had a poor record of bringing N.G. to therapy sessions consistently. Id. at 172.

[57]   Given Mother’s past inability to control N.G.’s behavior coupled with her

       history of resorting to physical abuse, we believe the trial court could infer that

       the circumstances would remain unchanged if N.G. were returned to her care.

       Although Mother has a recent history of taking her medication and a recent

       history of complying fully with the services provided her, we believe that given

       the evidence of Mother’s lengthy troubled relationship with N.G., the trial court

       was within its discretion to determine that the conditions that led to his removal

       were unlikely to change.

       11
          There is contradictory evidence in the record regarding whether Mother or Boyfriend hit N.G. with the belt
       in 2011. We note that the trial court did not find that it was Mother who struck N.G., but instead found that
       Mother had failed “to protect [N.G.] from physical abuse by [Boyfriend].” Appellant’s App. p. 45.

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[58]   Furthermore, given N.G.’s special needs, we also believe that the trial court

       could have concluded that termination was in his best interests. The evidence

       indicates that N.G. is in need of continuing therapy and medication. Mother’s

       history of not taking N.G. to therapy sessions could allow the trial court to

       conclude that his needs would not be met were he returned to Mother’s care.

                                                  Conclusion
[59]   We have long observed that the “parent-child relationship is one of the most

       valued relationships in our culture.” In re D.L.M., 725 N.E.2d 981, 983 (Ind.

       Ct. App. 2000). The State has authority to interfere with this relationship only

       in certain limited circumstances. In re L.S., 717 N.E.2d at 208. As the

       involuntary termination of parental rights severs all rights of a parent to her

       children, we recognize that it is “the most extreme sanction a court can impose”

       and “is intended only as a last resort, available when all other reasonable efforts

       have failed.” Id.

[60]   Accordingly, when the State seeks to terminate the relationship between a

       parent and her child, the parent has an extremely important interest in the

       accuracy and justice of such a decision. Lassiter v. Dep’t of Soc. Servs. of Durham

       Cnty., N.C., 452 U.S. 18, 31 (1981). This is why the State is required to prove its

       case by clear and convincing evidence, a heightened standard applied in cases,

       such as this, “where the wisdom of experience has demonstrated the need for

       greater certainty.” In re G.Y., 904 N.E.2d at 1260 n.1 (quotations omitted).

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[61]   The evidence presented in regard to L.C. and M.C. falls far short of meeting

       this standard. At the end of the day, we cannot say with any confidence that

       the conditions that led to L.C. and M.C.’s removal will not be remedied—in

       part because we cannot determine what those conditions were—nor can we be

       at all certain that termination is in the children’s best interests. Given the

       gravity and permanence of the sanction, such certainty is required in

       termination cases.

[62]   We reach a different conclusion in regard to N.G. in light of the evidence in the

       record regarding his special needs and instances of physical abuse.

[63]   The judgment of the trial court is affirmed in part and reversed in part.

       Bailey, J., concurs, and Mathias, J., concurs in part and dissents in part with a

       separate opinion.

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                                                   IN THE
           COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

       In the Matter of the Termination                           Court of Appeals Case No.
                                                                  02A04-1412-JT-605
       of the Parent-Child Relationship
       of:
       N.G., L.C., and M.C. (Minor
       Children),
       and
       A.C. (Mother),
       Appellant-Respondent,

               v.

       The Indiana Department of
       Child Services,
       Appellee-Petitioner

       Mathias, Judge, concurring in part and dissenting in part.

[64]   I concur in the majority’s decision affirming termination of Mother’s parental

       rights to N.G., but I respectfully dissent from my colleagues’ conclusion that

       the trial court’s judgment terminating Mother’s parental rights to L.C., and

       M.C. is not supported by sufficient evidence. Although termination of Mother’s

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       parental rights to L.C. and M.C. might be a close call, given the well-

       established deference our court is required to give to trial courts in these

       matters, I would affirm the trial court in all respects.

[65]   We have long had a highly deferential standard of review in cases involving the

       termination of parental rights. In re D.B., 942 N.E.2d 867, 871 (Ind. Ct. App.

       2011). In deference to the trial court’s unique position to assess the evidence in

       the context of its repeated contacts with Mother and her service providers, we

       will set aside a judgment terminating a parent-child relationship only if it is

       clearly erroneous. Id. Clear error is that which “leaves us with a definite and

       firm conviction that a mistake has been made.” J.M. v. Marion Cnty. Office of

       Family & Children, 802 N.E.2d 40, 44 (Ind. Ct. App. 2004), trans. denied.

[66]   The children were removed from Mother’s care in 2011 for a litany of very

       good reasons. Whether by Mother or by her boyfriend, N.G. had been struck by

       a belt with metal prongs that caused cuts and bruising. Mother also had a

       previous substantiated case of physical abuse toward N.G. Mother is bipolar,

       and at the time she was decompensating, or not taking her prescribed

       medications, and she was non-compliant with ordered services. In addition, she

       continued to maintain a relationship with the man who she alleged struck N.G.

       with the belt and who had threatened to kill her. Ex. Vol., State’s Ex. 5. DCS

       also believed that Mother was possibly a hypochondriac, and the children had

       seen several physicians. Father alleged that Mother verbally abused the children

       and had numerous old medications that she dispensed to them. In light of

       volume and seriousness of these allegations, it was reasonable for the court to

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       infer that Mother’s failure to take her medication, and the fact that she

       physically abused N.G., resulted in a volatile and unstable home environment

       causing numerous behavioral issues in the children, which were discussed at

       length in these proceedings.

[67]   Although the facts in the record are a bit less stark than those supporting

       termination of parental rights to N.G., I believe the evidence is nonetheless

       sufficient for termination.

[68]   The twins, who were eight-years-old on the date the termination judgment was

       issued, were five-years-old when they were removed from Mother’s care. L.C.

       and M.C.’s therapist observed that “they both clearly have trauma processing

       and anger management issues and concerns.” Tr. p. 779. When the twins are

       fearful of a person or experience, “their reactions are far more extreme . . . .

       They become so physically and emotionally worked up that there’s crying,

       there’s wetting, there’s screaming, there’s shaking. It is a very physical and

       emotional reaction.” Tr. p. 780. Also, the twins’ therapist believes that because

       the twins have the ability to attach to and trust other adults in their life, such as

       teachers and their foster parent, L.C. and M.C.’s refusal to talk about Mother

       and their negative reaction when Mother is discussed with them is “clinically

       significant.”12 Tr. pp. 784, 787-89. Therefore, their therapist concluded that the

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          Given this evidence, I strongly disagree with the majority’s conclusion that “the evidence does not indicate
       that L.C. and M.C.’s negative reactions towards Mother are anything other than the foreseeable consequence
       of years of separation with limited contact.” See Slip op at 29.

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       twins do not “feel safe and healthy or interested in” Mother. Tr. p. 790. From

       this evidence, it is reasonable to infer that the twins suffered emotional harm

       while in Mother’s care.

[69]   As noted by the majority, on the date of the termination hearings, Mother had a

       stable home, was married, and her husband, who also has a daughter, was

       gainfully employed. Mother had also consistently taken her medication for her

       bipolar disorder for over six months prior to the hearings. These were good

       developments in Mother’s life. See In re A.B., 924 N.E.2d 666, 670 (Ind. Ct.

       App. 2010) (stating that to determine whether the conditions that led to a

       child’s removal will not be remedied, the juvenile court must judge a parent’s

       fitness to care for his or her child at the time of the termination hearing).

       Mother also had a history of positive supervised visitation with the twins.

[70]   The juvenile court considered Mother’s recent stability but also appropriately

       weighed Mother’s recent improvements against her history of decompensating,

       or failing to take her medication. See id. (stating the juvenile court’s inquiry

       must also evaluate a parent’s habitual patterns of conduct to determine the

       probability of future neglect or deprivation of the child). DCS presented

       evidence that without proper medication, “it is unlikely that [Mother] will be

       able to maintain a sense of stability in her personal, work, or social life.” Ex.

       Vol., Petitioner’s Ex. 41. Also, Mother failed to benefit from therapy. See e.g.

       Tr. pp. 49-50 (stating that Mother did not benefit from therapy and cancelled

       numerous appointments); Tr. p. 77 (stating that Mother’s sense of reality is

       different from the service providers); Tr. p. 412 (concluding that Mother has

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       poor coping skills); Tr. pp. 1016, 1077 (stating that after three years of services,

       Mother failed to successfully complete services and benefit from therapy).

       Mother’s current therapist testified that it is difficult to work with Mother in

       therapy because Mother’s version of reality is significantly different from the

       reports the therapist receives from Mother’s service providers.

[71]   When this evidence is considered under our highly deferential standard of

       review, I would conclude that DCS presented clear and convincing evidence

       that the conditions that resulted in the children’s removal from Mother’s care

       will not be remedied because 1) we may reasonably infer that the twins suffered

       damaging emotional harm while in Mother’s care, and continued to suffer

       emotionally throughout these proceedings; 2) Mother lacks insight with respect

       to her mental health and behavior issues; 3) Mother failed to benefit from

       therapy and take responsibility for the harm she caused her children; and 4)

       Mother has historically been unable to take her prescribed medication

       consistently to treat her bipolar disorder. See In re M.S., 898 N.E.2d 307, 311

       (Ind. Ct. App. 2008); McBride v. Monroe Cnty. OFC, 798 N.E.2d 185, 199 (Ind.

       Ct. App. 2003) (stating that the juvenile court may properly consider a parent’s

       history of neglect and her response to services offered by the DCS to determine

       whether the conditions that led to the children’s removal will be remedied).

       Sadly, all of these proven facts lead me to conclude that the emotional distress

       suffered by L.C. and M.C. combined with Mother’s failure to take her

       medication for bipolar disorder irreparably harmed the parent-child

       relationship, particularly because Mother failed to consistently engage in and

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       complete services provided to her during the first two years of the CHINS

       proceedings.

[72]   Similarly, I would also conclude that termination of Mother’s parental rights

       was in the children’s best interests. In determining what is in a child’s best

       interests, the trial court must look to the totality of the evidence. See A.D.S. v.

       Ind. Dep’t of Child Servs., 987 N .E.2d 1150, 1158 (Ind. Ct. App. 2013), trans.

       denied. “In so doing, the trial court must subordinate the interests of the parent

       to those of the child.” Id. The court need not wait until a child is irreversibly

       harmed before terminating the parent-child relationship. Id.

[73]   The twins exhibited numerous behavioral problems throughout these

       proceedings, including bed-wetting, inability to sleep, defiant behavior,

       impulsiveness, and trouble in school. Mother failed to provide a stable home for

       the children, and the children have been removed from her care for over three

       years. These children require stability, and a safe and healthy home

       environment. Mother’s poor coping skills, inability to benefit from therapy, and

       historical medication non-compliance lead me to conclude that Mother has not

       demonstrated that she will be able to provide a safe and stable home for the

       twins for any significant length of time.

[74]   Moreover, after M.C.’s and L.C.’s visitation with Mother ceased, M.C. stopped

       wetting the bed, the twins’ behavior improved both at school and in the foster

       home, their sleep habits improved, and the number of nightmares decreased.

       Tr. pp. 774, 777, 794. Finally, many service providers testified that termination

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       of Mother’s parental rights was in the children’s best interests. See e.g. Tr. pp.

       144, 780, 1093.

[75]   For all of these reasons, I conclude that clear and convincing evidence supports

       the trial court’s determination that termination of Mother’s parental rights is in

       L.C.’s and M.C.’s best interests. See In re A.I., 825 N.E.2d 798 (Ind. Ct. App.

       2005) (testimony of caseworkers, together with evidence that the conditions

       resulting in placement outside the home will not be remedied, was sufficient to

       prove by clear and convincing evidence that termination was in child’s best

       interests), trans. denied; see also In re S.P.H., 806 N.E.2d 874, 883 (Ind. Ct. App.

       2004) (children’s needs are too substantial to force them to wait while

       determining if their parents will be able to parent them).

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