Source: https://eddiestephens.com/bounds-of-advocacy/
Timestamp: 2019-04-23 04:02:55+00:00

Document:
The primary purpose of the Bounds of Advocacy: Goals for Family Lawyers (Goals) is to guide family lawyers confronting professional and ethical dilemmas. Existing codes often do not provide adequate guidance to the family lawyer. The Florida Bar Rules of Professional Conduct (FRPC) are addressed to all lawyers, regardless of the nature of their practices. This generally means that, with rare exceptions, issues relevant only to a specific area of practice cannot be dealt with in detail or addressed at all. Many family lawyers have encountered situations when the FRPC provided insufficient guidance.
Most attorneys are able to distinguish between unethical or illegal conduct and ethical and proper practice. These Goals, therefore, are directed primarily to those areas in between, in which even experienced, knowledgeable family lawyers might have concerns, and are an effort to provide clear, specific guidelines in areas most important to family lawyers.
Conduct permitted by the FRPC cannot form the basis for discipline by The Florida Bar or Florida Supreme Court. Hence, the Goals established here for family lawyers generally use the terms “should” and “should not,” rather than “must,” “shall,” “must not”, and “shall not.” Because the Goals aspire to a level of practice above the minimum established in the FRPC, it is inappropriate to use them to define the level of conduct required of lawyers for purposes of malpractice liability or discipline.
Some Goals elaborate on FRPC rules or relate those rules to issues confronting family lawyers. Each Goal is followed by a Comment. The Comments are intended to provide further explanation and examples of conduct addressed and in some instances, to suggest limitations of the application of the goal.
Few human problems are as emotional and complicated, or seem so important, as those people bring to family lawyers. The break-up of a family will be felt not only by the couple but also by other family members and often by friends and others with personal or business relationships with the parties. The problems and expense of the family law system can be daunting.
Family law disputes occur in a volatile and emotional atmosphere. It is difficult for family lawyers to represent the interests of their clients without addressing the interests of other family members. Unlike most other concluded disputes, in which the parties may harbor substantial animosity without practical effect, the parties in family disputes may interact for years to come. In addition, family lawyers are obligated to consider the best interests of children, regardless of which family member they represent.
The family lawyer serves many functions. The Goals reflect a broad range of skills and methodologies to resolve disputes. When litigation is employed, the family lawyer should conduct it constructively because of the continued relationship of the parties after conclusion of the case. Advocacy skills may also be used to the client’s advantage in arbitration or mediation. An effective advocate’s stock in trade is the power to persuade.
One traditional view of the family lawyer (a view still held by many practitioners) is that of the “zealous advocate,” whose only job is to win.3 However, the emphasis on zealous representation of individual clients used in criminal and some civil cases is seldom appropriate in family law matters. Public opinion increasingly supports other models of practice and methods of conflict resolution.
A counseling, problem-solving approach for people in need of help in resolving difficult issues and conflicts within the family is another model. This is sometimes referred to as “constructive advocacy.” “Constructive advocacy” must be the goal of all family law attorneys. This approach must include a consideration of all available means of settling disputes. Family lawyers should recognize the effect that their words and actions have on their clients’ attitudes about the justice system, not just on the “legal outcome” of their cases. As a counselor, the lawyer encourages problem solving by the client.
Effective advocacy for a client means considering with the client what is in the client’s best interests and determining the most effective means to achieve that result. The client’s best interests include the well being of children, family peace, and economic stability. Clients look to time were frustrating to litigants. Attorneys added that the cost of litigation and the emotional nature of the issues were most frustrating to litigants.
The minimum level of ethical conduct mandated by the FRPC is often insufficient in family law matters. All attorneys should aspire to a higher level of ethical behavior and professionalism. The FRPC themselves do not exhaust the moral and ethical considerations that characterize the practice of law at the highest level to which family lawyers should aspire.4 Local and state bar associations, along with a number of state and federal courts, have adopted codes of professional conduct attempting to raise the level of practice above the ethical minimum necessary to avoid discipline.
The Goals reaffirm the attorney’s obligation to competently represent individual clients. They also promote a problem-solving approach that also considers the client’s children and family as well. In addition, they encourage efforts to reduce cost, delay, and emotional trauma and urge interaction between parties and attorneys on a more reasoned, cooperative level.
(1) Whenever the Goals or Comments refer to “family law,” the Committee considered that this area of practice encompasses all actions that may arise, separately or in combination. They include such actions as dissolution of marriage, paternity, parental responsibility and non- parent custody, child support, domestic violence, adoption, juvenile dependency and delinquency.
(2) The conduct of attorneys, in general, is covered in the FRPC. Therefore, an effort was made to avoid repetition of rules and principles already addressed in the RPC and FRPC. For example, the CPR and FRPC address the basic conflict of interest requirements. The Goals address only those conflicts in which additional guidance was deemed desirable, or when the FRPC do not adequately address the unique requirements of family law practice. For that reason the Goals do not address the family lawyer’s obligation of honesty and candor in dealing with the court, because that obligation is adequately covered by existing regulations.
(3) Citation to legal authority has been kept to a minimum. However, to indicate the basis and provide some support for the Goals and Comments, some footnotes have been added. When it is appropriate to cite an official code, references are to the Florida Rules of Professional Conduct (FRPC) or the ABA Model Rules of Professional Conduct (RPC).
(4) References to gender have been eliminated when possible. In those instances in which elimination of gender-specific pronouns would be unduly awkward, the masculine and the feminine are used interchangeably.
A person comes to a family lawyer with human problems that have legal aspects. Problems arising within a family are exceptionally emotional and transform the family. The family lawyer’s duties encompass many roles, from counseling to litigation. Methods for resolving conflicts include mediation, arbitration, and other problem-solving methods. The family lawyer’s approach to resolving problems is crucial to the future health of the family. The family lawyer has a critical and demanding counseling role in addressing these problems. The family lawyer serves a role similar to a physician who diagnoses the causes of the patient’s pain and counsels the patient about a variety of treatments before undertaking treatment.
The Goals reflects a shift toward the role of constructive advocacy, a counseling, problem-solving approach for a client in need of assistance to resolve difficult issues and conflicts within the family.
Candor, courtesy, and cooperation are especially important in family matters in which strong emotions can engulf the attorneys, the court, and the parties. Allowing the adverse emotional climate to infect the relations between the attorneys and parties inevitably harms everyone, including the clients, their children, and other family members. Although lawyers cannot ensure that justice is achieved, they can help facilitate the administration of justice.
Combative, discourteous, abrasive, “hard ball” conduct by family lawyers is inconsistent with both their obligation to effectively represent their clients and their role as problem-solvers. Good family lawyers can be cordial and friendly without diminishing effective advocacy on behalf of their clients. In fact, candor, courtesy and cooperation facilitate faster, less costly and mutually-acceptable resolution of disputes, reduce stress for lawyers, staff and clients, reduce waste of judicial resources, and generate respect for the court system, the individual attorney and the profession as a whole.
Some clients expect and want the family lawyer to reflect the highly emotional, vengeful relationship between the parties. The attorney must decline to do so and must explain to the client that discourteous or uncivil conduct is inappropriate and counterproductive, that measures of respect are consistent with competent and ethical representation of the client and that it is unprofessional for the attorney to act otherwise.
Pleadings, motions, and correspondence should contain only necessary facts, allegations, and conclusions. Unnecessary and scurrilous language and allegations are inappropriate.
Ideally, the relationship between counsel is that of colleagues using constructive problem-solving techniques to settle their clients’ disputes consistent with the realistic objectives of each client. Examples of appropriate measures of respect include; cooperating with mediation, meeting with opposing counsel to reduce issues and facilitate settlement, promptly answering phone calls and correspondence, advising opposing counsel at the earliest possible time of any perceived conflict of interest, and refusing to attack, demean, or disparage other counsel, the court, or other parties.
The attorney should ensure that no adversarial relationship with, or personal feeling toward, another attorney interferes with negotiations, the level of professionalism maintained, or effective representation of the client. Although it may be difficult to be courteous and cooperative when opposed by an overzealous lawyer, an attorney should not react in kind to unprofessional conduct. Pointing out the unprofessional conduct and requesting that it cease is appropriate.
Inflammatory and purely derogatory statements serve no purpose and must be avoided. Family lawyers must recognize the effect that their words and actions have on their client’s attitudes about the justice system in general and about the conduct and outcome of the client’s case. The client’s interests in a family matter may include the well-being of children, future relations with a former spouse and family members, and family financial interests. Family law clients look to attorneys’ words and deeds for guidance for their own actions and attitudes. Even when involved in a highly contested matter, family lawyers must demonstrate and promote civility and professional behavior toward the parties, the lawyers, and the court.
1.2 An attorney should stipulate to undisputed relevant matters.
By stipulating to undisputed matters, the attorney avoids unnecessary expense and waste of the court’s time. The attorney seeking a stipulation should do so in writing, attempting to state the true agreement of the parties. The other attorney should promptly indicate whether the stipulation is acceptable.
Attorneys should be able to rely on statements by other counsel. They should be able to assume that the family lawyer will correct any misimpression caused by an inaccurate or misleading prior statement by counsel or a client. Although an attorney must maintain the client’s confidences, the duty of confidentiality does not require the attorney to deceive, or permit the client to deceive other counsel. When another party or counsel specifically requests information that: (a) the attorney is not required to provide; (b) the attorney has been instructed to withhold; or (c) may be detrimental to the client’s interests, the attorney should refuse to provide the information, rather than mislead other counsel.
1. The wife’s lawyer is approached by husband’s lawyer, who asks, “Although my client realizes there is no hope for reconciliation, he is desperate to know whether his wife is seeing another man. Is she?” The wife’s attorney knows that the wife has been having an affair. It would be proper for the attorney to indicate an unwillingness or inability to answer that question, but it would be improper to suggest that the client has not had an affair.
2. The attorney believes that the other party has engaged in activity that the party would not want made public. It is improper to threaten public disclosure of potentially embarrassing matters that would be clearly inadmissible or irrelevant in the case.
1.4 An attorney should neither overstate the authority to settle nor represent that the attorney has authority that the client has not granted.
In doing so, the attorney has improperly induced reliance by other counsel that could damage the attorney-client relationship. A family lawyer who is uncertain of his authority, or simply does not believe that other counsel is entitled to know such information, should either truthfully disclose his uncertainty, or state that he is unwilling or unable to respond at all.
1.5 An attorney should not induce or rely on a mistake by other counsel as to agreeing on matters to obtain an unfair benefit for the client.
1. In an effort to compromise a dispute over alimony, the parties agree that payments are to be deductible by the husband and taxable to the wife. While reviewing the agreement, the attorney for the wife realizes that the language will not create the tax consequences both sides had assumed and will, in fact, benefit his client because the payments will be treated neither as deductible alimony to the husband nor taxable to the wife. The family lawyer should disclose this discovery to opposing counsel.
If, however, counsel’s mistake goes to a matter not discussed and agreed on, either explicitly or implicitly, the obligation to the client precludes disclosure of the mistake without the client’s permission. Therefore, if alimony was agreed on without any discussion of tax consequences, the wife’s lawyer would not be obligated to provide the language necessary to make payments tax deductible by the husband and includable by the wife.
6 But see RPC 3.3(a)(3) (duty to disclose to the court “legal authority in the controlling jurisdiction known to the lawyer to be directly adverse to the position of the client and not disclosed by opposing counsel”). See also FRPC 4-3.3(a)(3).
1.6 An attorney who receives materials that appear to be confidential should refrain from reviewing the materials and return them to the sender.
There are many circumstances in which an attorney receives materials that were inadvertently sent by another attorney or party. Such instances have been increasing because of the use of e-mail, the ability to send simultaneous faxes to multiple persons, and the sheer volume of materials provided through discovery in complex cases. If the materials are not harmful or confidential, no issue is raised. If, however, the materials were not intended to be provided and contain confidential information, the temptation to use them to the client’s benefit is great.
1. The wife’s lawyer receives a fax with a cover sheet addressed to the husband from the husband’s lawyer. In many cases that would be sufficient to indicate that the wife’s lawyer was an unintended recipient. If, however, the receiving lawyer has a reasonable basis to believe a copy was intended for him, he may read the message unless and until it becomes evident that the message was unintentionally sent to him.
7 See FRPC 4.1; 8.4.
8 Florida Bar Prof’l Ethics Comm., Op. 93-3 (1994).
9 ABA Comm. on Ethics and Prof’l Responsibility, Informal Op. 85-1518 (1986). There is no mention of any necessity to notify the client. However, Under FRPC 4-1.4 Comments: “ [t]he guiding principle is that the lawyer should fulfill reasonable client expectations for information consistent with the duty to act in the client’s best interests and the client’s overall requirements as to the character of misrepresentation.” As such, if the client’s best interests are not compromised by the misdelivered documents, then it could be suggested that the attorney does not need to disclosure the inadvertent delivery of the documents.
2. The lawyer for the husband has sought discovery of numerous documents from the wife relating to issues in the case. In response to the document request, the wife’s attorney sends over ten large boxes of materials. While reviewing the documents, the husband’s lawyer discovers in a seemingly unrelated file, a letter from the wife’s attorney to the wife that begins: “As to your question about your use of drugs prior to your marriage to Husband . . . .” Unless the husband’s lawyer has a reasonable basis to believe the letter was provided intentionally, was relevant, and was not otherwise confidential, the lawyer should stop reading and return the letter to the wife’s attorney.
1.7 An attorney may use materials intentionally sent from an unknown or unauthorized source unless the materials appear to be privileged, confidential, or improperly obtained.
Attorneys occasionally receive papers from outside of the expected sources. Such materials may have been sent anonymously. The materials should be treated differently depending on both their source (if known) and apparent nature.
Clearly confidential or privileged material, regardless of the sender, should be returned to the other lawyer, preferably unread.10 Documents not clearly confidential may be used by the receiving attorney. For example, a lawyer receiving an unmarked envelope containing statements of undisclosed accounts in the name of the other party may use the materials. A receiving lawyer who believes the materials were intentionally withheld from a response to a proper discovery request should report the fraud to the court.
10 ABA Comm. on Ethics and Prof’l Responsibility, Informal Op. 94-382 (1994) deals with the situation in which the confidential materials were intentionally sent by a person not authorized to send them. For the most part, the Committee applied the same analysis as in Formal Opinion 92¬368 (1992) (discussed in the Comment to Goal 7.6). However, the opinion indicates that if the receiving lawyer has a legitimate claim that the documents should have been, but were not, produced by an adverse party in response to pending discovery requests, the receiving lawyer may seek to obtain from a court a definitive resolution of the proper disposition of the materials. See, e.g., In re Shell Oil Refinery, 1992 WL 275426 (E.D. La. 1992) (ordering that such documents not be used by receiving party unless they “are publicly available, were previously introduced by Shell, or were the subject of a proper discovery request and were improperly withheld by Shell”).
principle applies both to attorneys attempting to obtain discovery and to those from whom discovery is sought. The discovery rules are designed to eliminate or reduce unfair surprise, excessive delay and expense, unnecessary and futile litigation, and the emotional and financial costs of extended and overly adversarial litigation. In addition, pretrial discovery often results in settlements more beneficial than results obtained after protracted litigation.
It is in the interest of all counsel and the parties to avoid improper tactics. In a misguided effort to advance the interest of their clients, attorneys may be tempted to wear down the opposing party or counsel by means of oppressive “hardball” discovery tactics. These tactics do not advance the legitimate interests of clients and are clearly improper.
11 Fla. Fam. L. R. P. 12.285(e)(i).
12 Joint Committee of the Trial Lawyers Sec. of the Fla. Bar and Conference of Circuit Judges, 2003 Handbook on Discovery Practice.
(7) requests for sanctions before making a good faith effort to resolve legitimate discovery disputes.
An attorney’s behavior during depositions is as important as behavior before the court. Because most cases are settled rather than tried, the parties’ only direct experience with the legal process may be during depositions. Attorneys, therefore, should conduct themselves at a deposition with the same courtesy and respect for the legal process as is expected in court. For example, they should not conduct an examination or engage in other behavior that is purposely offensive, demeaning, harassing, or intimidating or that unnecessarily invades the privacy of anyone. Attorneys should attempt to minimize arguments during deposition. If sensitive or controversial matters are to be the subject of deposition questioning, when not contrary to the client’s interests, the deposing attorneys should consider discussing such matters in advance to reach any appropriate agreements.
With the focus of discovery being the legitimate pursuit of information rather than strategic confrontation, attorneys should not coach deponents by objecting, commenting, or otherwise acting in a manner that suggests a particular answer to a question. Nor should attorneys object for the purpose of disrupting or distracting the questioner or witness. Objections should only be made in the manner and on grounds provided by applicable court rules. Attorneys should not intentionally misstate facts, prior statements, or testimony. Such conduct increases animosity without legitimate purpose.
Trial courts now have great power to enforce appropriate conduct at depositions. Rule 1.310(d) gives the court great latitude to order sanctions, limit the scope of discovery, or impose other restrictions on a showing that the deposition is being conducted in bad faith or in such a manner as unreasonably to annoy, embarrass, or oppress the deponent or party or that objections are being made in violation of Rule 1.310(c).
1.9 An attorney should grant to other counsel reasonable extensions of time that will not have a material, adverse effect on the legitimate interest of the client.
The attorney should attempt to accommodate counsel who, because of schedule, personal considerations, or heavy workload, requests additional time to prepare a response or comply with a legal requirement. Such accommodations save the time and expense of unnecessary motions and hearings. No lawyer should request an extension of time to obtain an unfair advantage.
Good faith attempts by attorneys to avoid scheduling conflicts tend to avoid unnecessary delays, expense to clients, and stress to attorneys and their staff. In return, other counsel should confirm the availability of the suggested time within a reasonable period (i.e. twenty-four hours) and should indicate conflicts or unavailability only when necessary. Because prior consultation concerning scheduling is a courtesy measure, it is proper to schedule hearings or depositions without agreement if the other counsel fails or refuses to respond promptly to the time offered, raises unreasonable calendar conflicts or objections, or persistently fails to comply with this Goal. The attorney is reminded that attempts to pre-arrange schedules are a focus on availability. It is not a request for “permission” or “consent” to schedule a particular hearing or deposition.
1.11 An attorney should provide notice of cancellation of depositions and hearings at the earliest possible time.
Notice of cancellation should be given to the court, all counsel, the client and witnesses. Adherence to this Goal will avoid unnecessary travel, expense, and expenditure of time by other counsel and will also free the court’s time other matters. The same principles apply to all scheduled meetings, conferences, and production sessions with other counsel.
Proposed orders following a hearing should generally be submitted at the earliest practicable time. Proposed orders should be limited to and accurately reflect the judge’s ruling. Only after submitting the order to other counsel should the proposed order be submitted to the court.
1.13 An attorney should not seek an ex parte order without prior notice to other counsel, except in exigent circumstances.
There are few things more damaging to a client’s confidence in his lawyer, or to relationships between lawyers, than for a party to be served with an ex parte order about which his lawyer knows nothing.15 Even where there are exigent circumstances (substantial physical or financial risk to the client), or where local rules permit ex parte proceedings, notice, or the appearance of notice to other counsel will not usually be able to prevent appropriate relief from issuing.
1.14 An attorney should not attempt to gain advantage by delay in the service of filed pleadings or correspondence on other counsel.
When pleadings or correspondence are mailed or delivered to the court, copies should normally be transmitted on the same day and in the same manner to all other counsel of record. An identical method need not be employed, as long as delivery on the same day will be achieved. For example, if the court is one block from counsel’s office and opposing counsel’s office is 50 miles away, it would be acceptable to hand deliver a document to the court and to fax it to counsel so that it arrives on the same day.
2.1 An attorney is responsible for the competent handling of all aspects of a representation, no matter how complex.
Family law matters almost always involve issues beyond questions of dissolution of marriage, parental responsibility, and support, such as property, tax, business entities, trusts and estates, bankruptcy, and pensions. All family lawyers should possess enough knowledge to recognize the existence of potential issues in the myriad legal areas relevant to the representation. That knowledge is not limited to legal information. Children’s issues require knowledge of child development and, at times, understanding of mental and emotional disorders. A family lawyer should also be familiar with the dynamics of domestic violence and alcohol and chemical dependence as well as appropriate intervention for families that experience these issues.
15Even when authorized by law, ex parte proceedings present the potential for unfairness since “there is no balance of presentation by opposing advocates.” RPC 3.3(d) Comment,. The lawyer for the represented party has a duty to disclose all “material facts known to the lawyer that will enable the tribunal to make an informed decision, whether or not the facts are adverse.” RPC 3.3(d). Fairness and professional courtesy call for notice to other counsel as well.
Attorneys may properly undertake a matter for which they lack the necessary experience or expertise if the attorney can reach the requisite level of competence by reasonable preparation.16 Proper preparation might include engaging (with the client’s informed consent) persons knowledgeable in other fields to assist in obtaining the knowledge and information necessary to effectively represent the client. An attorney who cannot obtain competence through reasonable study and preparation should seek to withdraw or, with the client’s consent, associate with or recommend a more qualified lawyer.
2.2 An attorney should advise the client of the emotional and economic impact of restructuring family relationships and explore the possibility of reconciliation.
The divorce process can exact a heavy economic and emotional toll. The decision to dissolve a marriage should never be made casually. An attorney should discuss reconciliation and whether the client has considered counseling or therapy.
A lawyer’s role in family matters is to act as a counselor and advisor, as well as an advocate. The Rules of Professional Conduct specifically permit the lawyer to address moral, economic, social, and political factors that may be relevant to the client’s situation. When consultation with a professional in another field is appropriate, the attorney should make such a recommendation. However, a discussion of the emotional and monetary repercussions of restructuring family relationships is always appropriate.
If the client wishes to attempt reconciliation, the family lawyer should attempt to mitigate litigation-related activities that might undermine the effectiveness of counseling and marital harmony. However, the attorney should be mindful of the obligation to advise the client to protect the client’s legal interest while the reconciliation is attempted.
Some clients expect and want the family lawyer to reflect the highly emotional and vengeful personal feelings between the parties. The attorney should counsel the client that discourteous and retaliatory conduct is inappropriate, unprofessional and counterproductive. Respect is consistent with competent and ethical representation. It is unprofessional for the attorney to act otherwise.
the attorney will and will not do regarding vindictive conduct or actions likely to adversely affect the children’s interests. For example, the attorney will not respond in kind to unnecessary or unreasonable discovery requests or accusations of irrelevant fault or misconduct. The attorney should never counsel the use of injunctions for protection against domestic violence solely for the purpose of gaining an advantage. If the client is unwilling to accept the attorney’s limitations on objectives or means, the attorney should decline the representation.
2.4 An attorney should know about different methods of dispute resolution.
Many clients favor a problem-solving model over litigation. It is essential that family lawyers have sufficient knowledge about dispute resolution to understand the advantages and disadvantages for a particular client and to counsel the client appropriately concerning the particular dispute resolution mechanism selected. For example, an attorney who represents a client in mediation should understand the differences between the traditional litigation role and the role of negotiator in mediation. The lawyer should also understand the effects that the dynamics of domestic violence have on the negotiating process.
The ability of the attorney to understand and assess the probable outcome of litigation are essential to the problem-solving process.
2.5 An attorney should attempt to resolve family disputes by agreement and should consider all appropriate means of achieving resolution.
In family law matters, a cooperative resolution of disputes is highly desirable. Family law is not a matter of winning or losing. At its best, family law should result in disputes being resolved fairly for all parties, including children. Major tasks of the family lawyer include helping the client develop realistic objectives and attempting to attain them with the least injury to the family. The vast majority of cases should be resolved by lawyers negotiating settlements on behalf of their clients.
17 See Pearson & Thoennes, The Benefits Outweigh the Costs in Divorce Mediation, Fam Advoc., Winter 1982, at 26, 32 (“[S]uccessful mediation clients are less likely to report problems with their court orders and more likely to report that their parties are in total compliance”). See also Guffman, For Better or Worse, Till ADR Do Us Part: Using Antenuptial Agreements to Compel Alternatives to Traditional Adversarial Litigation, 12 Ohio St. J. on Disp. Resol. 175 (1996).
A settlement may be achieved by negotiation between the lawyers (with or without the parties presence) or by other means. The family lawyer’s task includes informing the client about the availability and nature of mediation or other alternatives to traditional negotiation or litigation.
Although the litigation process is expensive and emotionally draining, compromise may not be appropriate or workable in some cases due to the nature of the dispute (such as cases involving domestic violence) or the animosity of the parties. Litigation may be the best course in those cases.
In no area of law is the relationship of trust between attorney and client more important than in family law. Clients come to family lawyers when there is a significant problem in the family relationship. The problem may have arisen suddenly or without sufficient time for the client to engage in rational thought. There may have been a move to an emergency shelter or an arrest of the client’s minor child. The client may have been the victim of a recent incident of domestic violence. Even in a routine dissolution of marriage, emotions often render rational decision making difficult. Clients seek the advice and judgment of their family law attorneys, even about non-legal matters.
3.1 An attorney should accord clients respect.
To achieve a successful attorney-client relationship, the attorney must treat the client with respect. The attorney’s attitude of respect for the client should also be conveyed by the attorney’s staff.
Examples of the respect to be accorded to clients include: appearing on time for all appointments; being prepared for appointments, depositions, and meetings; immediately notifying the client of the results of a hearing, deposition, or a meeting at which the client was not in attendance; listening, understanding and recognizing a client’s concern; and training the office staff to treat the client with professional respect and to assist in problem-solving.
The attorney should recognize the client’s perception of meetings held between the court and counsel, without the client being present. The client should be advised in advance, if practical, of the possibility of any such meetings and must be advised of the content and outcome of any meeting actually held. Should the court request such a meeting, the attorney may request the court to permit the client’s attendance.
19 Sometimes cost considerations preclude copying voluminous records, but clients should be afforded an opportunity to review them.
20 The Florida Bar v. Roberts, 770 So. 2d 1207, 1209 (Fla. 2000) (Attorney failed to keep client reasonably informed of status of representation and failed to explain matter to client to extent reasonably necessary to permit client to make an informed decision, when Attorney referred client’s marriage dissolution case to another lawyer without client’s knowledge that referred lawyer was unaffiliated with attorney’s law firm. Attorney then agreed to remain on case when the client expressed dissatisfaction with referred lawyer. Attorney attempted to refer client to third lawyer, and attorney refused or failed to return client’s telephone calls.) Compare: The Florida Bar v. Bryant, 813 So. 2d 38, 40 (Fla. 2002) Bryant was found guilty of violating FRPC 4-1.3 with regard to the client because he “did not sufficiently attempt to protect [the client’s] interest after it was clear that there had been a loss of communication.” The finding was upheld by the Florida Supreme Court. imprudently to an immediate communication.21 A lawyer is never justified in withholding information solely for the lawyer’s own convenience.
(3) Do not criticize the court, opposing counsel, or the system unless necessary for the client to make informed decisions or to understand delays or the necessity of responding to conduct of the court or opposing counsel.
Unnecessary criticism of the court, the legal system, or opposing counsel undermines the effectiveness and enforceability of judgments and harms the trust and confidence in the legal system.
It is important for the family lawyer to accurately and thoroughly advise the client and, if necessary, to provide the client with a negative assessment of the case.
3.3 An attorney should keep the client informed of developments in the representation and respond promptly to communications from the client.
22 RPC 1.3 and 1.4(a).
23 The Florida Bar v. Nowacki, 697 So. 2d 828, 830, 831 (Fla. 1997) (Attorney failed to act with reasonable diligence and promptness in representing marriage dissolution client and failed to uphold client communication obligation. In addition, as to a separate client, the attorney failed to uphold client communication obligations by failing to return the client’s repeated phone calls.).
Frequent and prompt communication with the client on important matters empowers the client. It satisfies the client’s need for information about the progress of the case and helps build a positive attorney-client relationship. This helps the client understand the amount and nature of the work the attorney is performing, thereby reducing concern that nothing is happening and that the attorney’s fees are not being earned.24 The family lawyer should understand that a pending family law case is usually the most important matter in the life of the client. He or she should also help the client to understand that a successful lawyer has many clients, to each of whom their family law case is usually the most important matter in their life.
3.4 An attorney should share decision making responsibility with the client, but should not abdicate responsibility for the propriety of the objectives sought or the means employed to achieve them.
24 See, e.g., In re Knobel, 699 N.E.2d 1142, 1145 (Ind. 1998) (“We find that the respondent violated Ind. Professional Conduct Rule 1.4(a) by failing to keep his clients informed about the status of their [marital] actions and by failing to respond to their requests for information.”).
Although the lawyer is entitled to make decisions that do not affect the merits of the cause or substantially prejudice the rights of a client, the attorney and client should jointly make significant decisions, such as whether to file a costly motion or whether to retain certain experts. Even when the client has ultimate decision making authority, as in the decision to surrender parental rights, the attorney should provide counsel and advice.
28 FRPC 4-1.16(b)(3) and Comment.
29 Moakley v. Smallwood, 826 So. 2d 221 (Fla. 2002) (court has inherent authority to assess attorneys’ fees against an attorney for bad faith conduct); Bitterman v. Bitterman, 714 So. 2d 356 (Fla. 1998); Rosen v. Rosen, 696 So. 2d 697, 701 (Fla. 1997) (court may deny party’s request for attorneys’ fees because litigation was frivolous or spurious or was brought primarily to harass the adverse party).
1. In a domestic relations case in which the wife has a claim for alimony that the lawyer believes will succeed, the husband offers to give a larger share of the assets to the wife if she will waive the right to alimony. Alimony will terminate at the death of either party or on the wife’s remarriage. If the client does not remarry, she will benefit far more from alimony than the additional assets. If she remarries, she will benefit more from the additional assets. The family lawyer’s role is to educate the client and allow her to make the choice.
2. The father, in a dependency case, wishes to admit dependency, agree the mother should have sole custody, and agree to have no contact with the children. The mother and the Department of Children and Families are eager to accept this outcome. The mother’s attorney should fully inform the mother on the risks of future litigation and the potential adverse consequences to the children. The attorney representing the father should explain the legal options that would allow him to maintain contact with the children and the potential adverse consequences to the children. When a client insists on settlement that the attorney feels is unfair, inadvisable, or harmful, the attorney should consider: 1) putting the advice in writing 2) advising the client to obtain the advice of another lawyer, a counselor, or a responsible friend or family member or 3) withdrawing from the case, subject to approval by the court.
The economic and emotional turmoil caused by family law matters often affects a client’s ability to make rational decisions in his own best interest. The client whose ability to make reasonable decisions is impaired poses special problems for the lawyer.
30 FRPC 4-1.14. See also Fla. Prof’l Ethics Comm. Op. 73-25, (1974) (If the client refuses to consent to a competency determination, a lawyer having good reason to doubt the client’s competency should move for leave to withdraw from the cause. The motion for leave to withdraw should not mention incompetency and should be framed so as to cause the least possible prejudice to the client’s rights.) and Schetter v. Schetter, 239 So. 2d 51 (Fla. 4th DCA 1970) (appointment of a guardian ad litem for a dissolution of marriage client was reversed when the expert testimony given in support of the application for appointment arose from privileged attorney-client communications).
should attempt to dissuade the client before accepting any clearly detrimental decision. The attorney should encourage the client to consult with others who may have a stabilizing influence on the client such as the client’s therapist, doctor, or clergy. Under extraordinary circumstances, it may be necessary for an attorney to initiate appointment of a guardian in a situation in which the client appears to be legally incapacitated.
When rejection of the attorney’s advice is likely to adversely affect the client’s interests, the attorney should document both the advice and the client’s refusal to follow it. This documentation emphasizes the risk to the client, formalizes and marks the importance of the client’s decision, and protects the attorney from subsequent allegations of complicity in the conduct or failure to properly advise the client of the risks involved. In appropriate cases, the attorney may withdraw from representation.
3.6 An attorney should not permit a client’s relatives, friends, employers, or other third persons to interfere with the representation, affect the attorney’s independent professional judgment, or, except with the client’s express consent, make decisions affecting the representation.
Third persons often try to play a part in family law cases. Frequently, the client asks to have one or more of these people present at conferences and to consult them about major decisions. The potential conflicts are exacerbated when the third person is paying litigation expenses or the attorney’s fee. Neither payment to the attorney, nor sincere concern about the client’s welfare makes those third persons clients. At the outset, the lawyer must inform the client and the person paying for the representation that nothing related by the client to the attorney will be disclosed without the client’s consent. The lawyer shall also explain the protection of attorney-client privilege and how it may be waived by disclosures to third persons and by their presence during confidential discussions. 32 Then, if the client consents, the lawyer may discuss the client’s options with third parties.
In some situations, the presence of a third person may undermine or impair the decision-making ability of the client. In those situations, the lawyer shall confer with the client in private. While it is important for persons with family law issues to receive advice and support from those they trust, the client must live with the decisions. The client, with the advice of the family lawyer, should make the final decision on important issues.
32 First Southern Baptist Church of Mandarin, Fla., Inc. v. First National Bank , 610 So. 2d 452, 454 (Fla. 1st DCA 1992) (communications between attorney and client with or in the presence of third persons are not protected by attorney-client privilege); Hamilton v. Hamilton Steel Corp., 409 So. 2d 1111 (Fla. 4th DCA 1982) (voluntary disclosure of privileged matters to a third party waives the privilege). explain the attorney’s obligation to act only as requested by the client. Additionally, the attorney may not accept payment from the son without consent of the client and unless the attorney can avoid interference with the client-lawyer relationship and preserve the confidentiality of communications with the client.33 Although the son’s instructions may be best for the client, the attorney must assure that the client has exercised her choice independently with the appropriate advice of the attorney.
Attorneys would not be human without personal beliefs about issues affecting family law practice. No lawyer should be expected to ignore strongly held beliefs. But the matrimonial lawyer may only limit the objectives of the representation if the client consents after the consultation.34 The client even has the right to be consulted about the means by which the objectives are to be pursued, matters normally within the lawyer’s discretion.35 Therefore, the lawyer should withdraw from representation if personal, moral or religious beliefs are likely to cause the attorney to take actions that are not in the client’s best interest. If there is any question as to the possible effect of those beliefs on the representation, the client should be consulted and consent obtained. See Goal 2.4 & Comment.
The attorney should discourage a client or prospective client from interviewing other attorneys solely for the purpose of denying the other party access to counsel of choice. The attorney should not assist the client, for example, by responding to the client’s request for a list of family lawyers, if improper motives are suspected. When the client has already contacted other lawyers for the purpose of disqualifying them, the attorney should advise the client of the advantages and disadvantages of waiving any conflicts so created.
3.9 As a general rule, an attorney should not communicate with the media about a family law case.
An attorney’s desire to obtain publicity conflicts with the duty to the client. If contacted by the media, the attorney should respond by saying: “I cannot give you information on that matter because it deals with the personal life of my client.” The attorney, as an officer of the court, has duties to both the courts and the client. The parties, subject to order of the court, have a right to discuss their case if they so desire, despite the advice of their counsel. However, a lawyer’s statements may have the effect of influencing an adjudicative body presently sitting or to be convened in the future. An attorney may withdraw if the client disobeys instructions not to speak publicly about the case.
A family law attorney should never attempt to gain an advantage for the client by providing information to the media to embarrass or humiliate the opposing party or counsel.
36 See FRPC 3.6 and Comment.
37 See RPC 3.6(c) (lawyer “may make a statement a reasonable lawyer would believe is required to protect a client from the substantial undue prejudicial effect of recent publicity not initiated by the lawyer or the lawyer’s client. A statement made pursuant to this paragraph shall be limited to such information as is necessary to mitigate the recent adverse publicity.”) See also Cal. St. RPC 5-120.
A conflict of interest is prohibited because it diminishes a lawyer’s loyalty to the client.38 A lawyer’s loyalty can be affected by personal interests (financial security, prestige, and self-esteem) and interests of third persons (family, friends, business associates, employer, colleagues, and society as a whole). A conflict exists if the representation of a client may be materially limited by the lawyer’s responsibilities to another client or a third person, or by the lawyer’s own interests.39 The key to preventing unintentional violations of the conflict of interest rules lies in anticipating the possibility that a conflict will develop.
The influences that might diminish a family lawyer’s loyalty to a client are unlimited.40 The interests of children, relatives, friends, lovers, employers, and the opposing party, along with a perceived obligation to the court and the interest of society, may be compelling in a given case. In family law matters, where “winning” and “losing” in the traditional sense often lose their meaning, determination of the appropriate ethical conduct can be extremely difficult.
4.1 An attorney may not represent both parties in a family law matter, even if the parties do not wish to obtain independent representation.
40 See generally Saylors, Conflicts of Interest in Family Law, 28 Fam.L.Q. 451 (1994).
41 RPC 1.7 Comments 5 and 27. For example, an attorney representing a husband with respect to his corporation would be precluded from representing his wife against him in an unrelated dissolution of marriage or custody proceeding.
42 See, e.g., Walden v. Hoke, 429 S.E.2d 504, 509 (1993) (unethical for lawyer to represent husband and wife at any stage of separation and divorce proceeding, even if simple or uncontested and with full disclosure and informed consent); Board of Bar Overseers of the Bar v. Dineen, 500 A.2d 262 (Me 1985).
Representation of both parties should be distinguished, however, from mediation of a dispute, when the attorney represents neither of the parties.44 The mediator must remain impartial and advise the participants that the mediator represents neither of them.
(1) I am not your lawyer.
(2) I do not and will not represent you.
(3) I will at all times represent my client’s interests, not yours.
(4) Any statements I make to you about this case should be taken by you as negotiation or argument on behalf of my client and not as advice to you as to your best interest.
(5) I urge you to obtain your own lawyer.
4.3 An attorney should not simultaneously represent both a client and another person with whom the client is sexually involved.
A family lawyer is often asked to represent a client and the client’s lover. Joint representation may make it difficult to advise the client of the need to recover from the emotional trauma of divorce, the desirability of a prenuptial agreement, or the dangers of early remarriage. The testimony of either might be adverse to the other at deposition or trial. In addition, the client may want to waive support payments because she believes she is going to marry her lover. The inherent conflicts in attempting to represent both the client and her lover render such representation improper.
43This Goal does not apply in adoption proceedings or other matters in which the parties’ positions are not adverse.
44 Cf FRPC 4-2.2 (permitting intermediation between two or more clients only under extremely narrow circumstances that would not include a dispute between two family members).
v. Oxford, 127 So. 2d 107, 112 (Fla. 1961).
the danger of the client’s undermining her own best interests in an effort to accommodate her new partner. The attorney/client privilege is waived by a joint meeting with the client and their lover.
4.4 An attorney should not have a sexual relationship with a client, opposing counsel, or a judicial officer assigned to the case during the time of the representation.
Persons in need of a family lawyer are often in a highly vulnerable emotional state. Some degree of social contact (particularly if a social relationship existed prior to the events that occasioned the present representation) may be desirable, but a more intimate relationship may endanger both the client’s welfare and the lawyer’s objectivity. These risks, present in all lawyer-client sexual relations, are particularly serious in family law matters. Both Florida’s rule46 and the ABA’s model rule47permit lawyers to continue in non-exploitive preexisting sexual relations with clients.
Intimate relations with others involved in a particular family law matter may also present problems. Attorneys are expected to maintain personal relationships with others, but must be sensitive to the threat to independent judgment and the appearance of impropriety when an intimate relationship exists with opposing counsel or other persons involved in the proceedings.
Many family law clients have never hired an attorney and are vulnerable because of fear, insecurity, and the emotional upheaval associated with family problems.48 Clients may not have an understanding about fees that evolved out of a long-standing business relationship with a lawyer. As a result, clients may misunderstand or forget the terms of a fee agreement unless it is in writing.
It is not unusual for a party to a family law matter to lack sufficient funds to pay an attorney. This lack of resources is aggravated by restrictions against contingent fee contracts and the unwillingness of some courts to redress the economic balance between the parties with fee awards. Also, the tendency of clients to blame their attorneys for undesirable results can make collecting fees extremely difficult.
These factors help to explain why the number of fee disputes arising from family law cases is several times greater than those from any other type of case. Thus, financial arrangements with clients should be clearly explained, agreed upon, and documented.
47 RPC 1.8(j) provides that “a lawyer shall not have sexual relations with a client unless a consensual sexual relationship existed between them when the client-lawyer relationship commenced.
48 See Portnoy, The Family Lawyer’s Guide to Building Successful Client Relationships (ABA 2000).
5.1 Fee agreements should be in writing.
The family lawyer should tell the client the basis on which fees will be charged.49 and when and how the attorney expects to be paid.50 Written fee agreements should delineate the obligations of the attorney and the client. Agreements should specify the scope of the representation. Fee agreements should be presented in a manner that allows the client an opportunity to consider the terms, consult another attorney before signing, and obtain answers to any questions to fully understand the agreement before entering into it.
(1) Our representation includes advising, counseling, drafting, negotiating, investigating, analyzing and handling this family law matter to a final resolution, whether by negotiated settlement or, if necessary, by trial and adjudication by a court. Depending on the specifics of your case, issues may include parental responsibility, parenting time, and child support; classification of assets as marital or non-marital; the valuation and division of marital property; the determination of maintenance for you or for your spouse; and the determination of whether the attorney’s fees and costs incurred may be shifted from you to your spouse, or vice versa.
(2) Our representation as co-counsel is limited to settlement or trial of the following specific issue. We have not agreed to appeal any decisions or court orders.
(3) Our representation is limited to assisting in settlement through negotiation and mediation. If attempts at settlement are unsuccessful and litigation is instituted, our representation will cease. You agree to then retain trial counsel to represent you thereafter.
(4) I understand that this Agreement covers legal representation only through trial and final judgment. It does not include appeals, filing or defending motions for contempt, or post-judgment proceedings to modify or enforce the final judgment. I also understand that the firm’s representation does not include other related matters such as temporary or permanent injunctions for protection from domestic violence, bankruptcy proceedings, or real estate transactions, unless these are included in the instant action and bear the same case number. Additionally, I understand you are not responsible for the preparation of a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) if one is required in my case. In the event a QDRO is necessary, you will refer me to a specialist in that area of law and I will be solely responsible for the payment of their fees.
5.2 An attorney should provide periodic statements of fees and costs.
49 When appropriate, this information might include the fact that total fees and costs cannot be predicted. RPC 1.5(b) provides the factors to be used in determining a reasonable fee.
50 Family lawyers and clients would normally enter into a mutually executed fee agreement. However, some attorney-client relationships would justify the attorney’s drafting a letter confirming an oral agreement. Such a confirming letter would be permissible under this Goal, provided that the client indicates approval in writing.
When the fee arrangement is based on an hourly rate or similar arrangement, this information is part of the necessary communications concerning the case addressed in Goal 2.3 and Comment. The statement should be sufficiently detailed to apprise the client of the basis of the charges incurred.
5.3 All transactions that provide security for payment of attorney’s fees should be in writing.
5.4 An attorney’s fee should be reasonable and based on appropriate factors, including those listed in R. Reg. Fla. Bar 4-1.5.
Lawyers should charge reasonable fees for services performed under a valid fee agreement. Although the starting point in determining a reasonable fee is often the lawyer’s hourly rate multiplied by the hours spent on the case, a number of other factors may be relevant in determining an appropriate fee in a particular representation. FRPC 4-1.5(b) lists many of those factors.
Clients, as consumers, should be able to negotiate fee agreements that best suit their needs and circumstances. In addition to fees based solely on an hourly rate, a fee agreement may provide for a flat fee, or one or more of the factors provided in FRPC 4-1.5(b). No single factor is appropriate in all family law cases because clients and the nature of the representations vary greatly. Therefore, it is important at the outset for the attorney to explain the factors to be used in determining the fee and provide the fee agreement in writing (see Goal 5.1).
A fee may be based on the attorney’s usual hourly rate, but enhanced by any combination of the following circumstances: the complexity of the case; the shortness of the time between the attorney’s retention and impending proceedings; the difficult or aggressive nature of the opposing party and counsel; a particular attorney’s unique ability to settle a case quickly and avoid lengthy and acrimonious trial proceedings; and a substantial risk that the representation will be unsuccessful due to an unfavorable factual or legal context.
5.5 An attorney may move to withdraw from a case when the client fails to honor the fee agreement.
5.6 An attorney may take all appropriate steps to collect fees, including mediation, arbitration, or suit, from a client who fails to honor the fee agreement.
Lawyers are entitled to be paid reasonable fees for services performed. Alternatives to litigation should be used to collect a fee unless they are unlikely to be effective. The lawyer should be cautioned that a suit for fees may be followed by a malpractice action. For that reason, some malpractice insurance policies exclude coverage if the lawyer has first filed an action against the client for collection of attorney’s fees or costs.
Many clients seek advice in contemplation of future litigation. To obtain advice about “what if” is a frequent reason for the first visit to a lawyer in a family law case. It is very helpful to the client to have a general understanding of the law that will govern the case and the economic and emotional impact on the family before making a final decision to pursue litigation. A family lawyer should advise the client about the repercussions of any family law litigation, including factors that are likely to be considered in deciding parental responsibility and financial issues. The lawyer should also determine if reconciliation is possible and discuss alternatives to adversarial litigation such as mediation.
Lawyers should not assist the client in using the consulting process to design strategies for engaging in fraudulent conduct. Family lawyers should never participate in a client’s plan to essentially defraud the other party, such as rendering advice to create a trust that will remove property from the marital estate and defeat a claim by the other party.
6.1 An attorney should not condone, assist, or encourage a client to transfer, hide, dissipate, or move income or assets to improperly defeat another party’s claim.
It is improper for a lawyer to counsel a client to engage, or assist a client, in conduct that the lawyer knows or reasonably should know is criminal or fraudulent. A lawyer should discuss the legal consequences of any proposed course of conduct with a client. Whether the client proposes opening a secret out-of-state bank account, moving assets to an offshore trust, or having a family member hold sums of cash for the purpose of concealment, the advice to the client must be the same: Don’t do it. A client’s efforts to transfer assets beyond the reach of the court indicates an improper motive.
Hiding assets to defeat a claim is a fraud upon the client’s spouse and likely to result in a fraud upon the court. The client must also be advised not to conceal information about property, fail to furnish relevant documents or insist on placing unrealistic values on properties in, or omit assets from, sworn financial statements.
The client should be warned about the potential legal consequences of intercepting and opening mail addressed to another. The client should also understand Florida’s prohibition against interception of oral and written wire communications. Fla. Stat. Ch. 934 has criminal penalties for unlawful interceptions and the interception is not admissible. Federal statutes prohibit unauthorized access of stored electronic communications, which include e-mails.64 This is an emerging area of the law, but lawyers should not encourage or condone a client obtaining e-mail by accessing the opposing party’s e-mail account.
6.2 An attorney should advise the client of the potential effect of the client’s conduct in disputes involving children.
The parties’ conduct may affect the children’s adjustment, the children’s relationship with the parents, and ultimate decisions on parental responsibility and parenting time. The client is entitled to advice when children’s issues are involved in the potential litigation. Conduct conforming to such advice will often benefit both the children and both parents, independent of any dispute. Suggesting the client spend more time with the child and consult, from time to time with the child’s doctor, teacher, and babysitter, is appropriate. It is also proper to describe the potential harmful consequences to the children (and to the client legally) of prematurely introducing the children to a new romantic partner or engaging in substance abuse, abusive or derogatory behavior toward the other parent, or other inappropriate behavior.
Pre-litigation planning is an ideal opportunity to advise the client on ways to make the transition easier for the children. For example, the lawyer might describe ways for the parents to inform the children together of the separation and to reassure the children that both parents will always be there for them. The lawyer might describe programs available in the client’s community to aid both parents and children in adjusting to the change. Most important, pre-litigation planning is an opportunity to orient the client toward consideration of the children’s needs first and the desirability of working out a cooperative parenting plan.
The lawyer should explain that adversarial litigation may be harmful to children because it drives parents further apart when the children need them to work together. The lawyer should explain that family relationships last forever. If parental responsibility is an issue in the litigation, the lawyer should refer the client to the parent stabilization course required by F.S.
61.21 at the earliest opportunity. The lawyer should describe how mediation of children’s issues might help the parents reach an agreement and in the process conserve emotions and money. When appropriate, the client should be referred to a mental health professional, not only to counsel the client about his or her adjustment to the circumstances, but also to advise in developing a parenting plan that is in the best interests of the re-structured family..
The lawyer should consider whether the client’s position on children’s issues is asserted in good faith. If not, the lawyer should advise the client of the harmful consequences of a meritless claim to the client, the child, and the client’s spouse. If the client persists in demanding advice to build a spurious case or to use a parenting claim as a bargaining chip or a means of inflicting revenge (see Goal 6.2 and Comment), the lawyer should withdraw.
One of the most troubling issues in family law is determining a lawyer’s obligation to the parties’ children. The lawyer must competently represent the interests of his or her client (a parent), but should not do so at the expense of the children. The parents’ fundamental obligations for the well being of children provide a basis for the attorney’s consideration of the children’s best interests consistent with traditional advocacy and client loyalty principles.
The Florida Supreme Court has stated: “The traditional adversarial process is detrimental to children because it drives parents farther apart at the time their children need them to work together to restructure their system of parenting. The legal system should focus on the needs of children who are involved in the litigation, refer families to resources that will make their relationships stronger, coordinate their cases to provide consistent results, and strive to leave families in better condition than when they entered the system.”65 A new and more important problem solving role for lawyers is envisioned as they adapt their practices to these ideals.
Although the substantive law in Florida concerning parental responsibility, child abuse, and termination of parental rights is premised on “best interests of the child,” the ethical codes provide little (or contradictory) guidance for an attorney whose client’s expressed wishes, interests, or conduct are in direct conflict with the well-being of children. This Goal emphasizes that the welfare of each family member is interrelated.
The adversarial process is usually not ideal for solving problems when the parties will have an ongoing relationship. The heightened conflict between the parents creates frustration and stress that detracts from the parents’ attention to the children and litigation costs drain resources that could otherwise be used to meet the children’s needs. The very process intended to protect the best interests of the children may work to their detriment. Family lawyers should counsel parties to examine their wishes in light of the needs and interests of the children and the relationship to other family members. In so doing, the family lawyer is not only advising the client to adhere to applicable substantive law, but is also reminding the client that the family relationship continues.
Both parents owe a continuing, fundamental duty to their children to serve their children’s best interests. In many instances, parents should subordinate their own interests to those of their children. When appropriate, family lawyers and parents should cooperatively seek parenting arrangements that eliminate fractious contact between parents, minimize transition or transportation difficulties, and preserve stability for the children.
Children suffer from involvement in their parents’ family law litigation. The attorney should warn the client against leaving papers from the attorney out where children can read them and to avoid talking about the case when children can overhear, or allowing others to do so.
If the parents are in conflict and disagree about parental responsibility and other parenting issues, the attorney should consider, with the cooperation of the other parent’s attorney, sending the parties to a neutral mental health professional who is a family therapist. The goal of this referral is to resolve their disputes through counseling with a mental health professional. The referring agreement or court order should include confidentiality for all contacts with the therapist and exclusion of that therapist as a witness in the family law case. The attorney must know what services are effective and available in the particular community to help restructure a dysfunctional family and to preserve the child’s relationship with each parent. All professionals involved in family law litigation should become sufficiently educated in the interdisciplinary aspects of their work to function effectively in collaborative problem-solving. Judges and attorneys need basic training in child development to understand and work with other professionals who have more specific training in issues related to child-parent relationships, child development, and risk assessment.
The attorney should discourage the client, and refuse to participate in, conducting multiple psychological evaluations of children for the purpose of finding an expert who will testify in the client’s favor. Repeated psychological evaluations of children are contrary to the children’s best interest.66 Delays that have no real positive role in the determination of the best outcome for the family and children are not justifiable. The best thing a lawyer can do for a child is to keep the child out of the case so that the child can get on with important activities in the child’s life, such as going to school, playing with friends, and growing up.
7.2 An attorney should not permit a client to contest parental responsibility or contact and access for either financial leverage or vindictiveness.
Resolving the issues fairly by directly focusing on the best interests of the children, not “winning,” should be the goal of the participants.
7.3 An attorney should not communicate with a minor child of the parties, except with court permission or in the presence of the child’s lawyer or guardian ad litem.
Issues affecting a child’s welfare may arise before, during, and after legal proceedings. There is a risk of harm to the child from an attorney’s contacts and attempts to involve the child. Advice to or manipulation of the child by a parent’s lawyer has no place in the lawyer’s efforts on behalf of the parent. Necessary information from a child regarding the parents and the parents’ disputes should be obtained under circumstances that protect the child’s best interests.
7.4 An attorney should not seek to bring a child to court without a full discussion with the client and a reasonable belief that it is in the best interests of the child.
When a child’s information is material on an issue other than parental responsibility, counsel should explore whether the same information can be introduced from another source, rendering the child’s testimony cumulative and unnecessary.
7.5 An attorney should disclose information relating to a client or former client to the extent the lawyer reasonably believes it is necessary to prevent physical or sexual abuse of a child.
It may also be appropriate to seek the appointment of a guardian ad litem or attorney for the child or children. The entire thrust of the family law system is intended to make the child’s well-being the highest priority. The vindictiveness of a parent, the ineffective legal representation of the spouse, or the failure of the court to perceive on its own the need to protect the child’s interests do not justify an attorney’s failure to act. However, even the appointment of a guardian or lawyer for the child is insufficient if the family lawyer is aware of physical abuse or similarly extreme parental deficiency. Nor would withdrawal (even if permitted) solve the problem if the attorney is convinced that the child will suffer adverse treatment by the client or other parent.
7.6 An attorney should not make or assist a client in making an allegation of child abuse unless there is a reasonable basis and evidence to believe it is true.
72See Aronson, What About the Children? Are Family Lawyers the Same (Ethically) as Criminal Lawyers. A Mortality Play,, 1 Inst. For Study of Leg. Ethics 141 (1996); Rosencrantz, Rejecting ‘Hear No Evil Speak No Evil’: Expanding the Attorney’s Role in Child Abuse Reporting, 8 Geo.
J. Legal Ethics 327 (1995).
73The ABA revision of RPC 1.6(b)(1) is embodied in FRPC 4-1.6.
74See also Restatement of the Law (Third), The Law Governing Lawyers§ 117A (Proposed Final Draft No. 2) ( 1998.
An attorney who is made aware of abuse by a party (or someone closely associated with a party) is permitted, if not obligated, to report that information during family law proceedings.75 While reporting the existence of child abuse is crucial, a claim that a parent has abused a child leads to the most unpleasant and harmful litigation in the field of family law. Such claims draw the child into testing or some other form of examination, which itself may be traumatic. The harm to the accusing and accused parent and the children will almost always be very great.
Desperate or angry parents sometimes cannot resist the temptation to use such a strong weapon as an abuse charge. Use of such charges to obtain an unfair advantage in the dispute is inexcusable. If a client insists on making a claim that the lawyer believes is unjustified, the lawyer should withdraw from further representation. The lawyer should use all available information and resources, including evaluation by a doctor, therapist, or other health professional, to be sure there is a reasonable basis and substantial supporting evidence for such a charge. Even when the allegation is believed to be justified, it should be made in a manner that is least harmful to the children. Pleadings should be carefully crafted in a way that does not unnecessarily exacerbate the situation.
Any information about whether Texas courts are taking similar approach?

References: v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 
 v. 

v.