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SEJAL M. SAGAR vs. MAHENDRA K. SAGAR.
Present: CYPHER, SMITH, & GRASSO, JJ.
Divorce and Separation, Child custody. Constitutional Law, Freedom of religion. Due Process of Law, Child custody proceeding.
COMPLAINT for divorce filed in the Middlesex Division of the Probate and Family Court Department on December 3, 1998.
The case was heard by Spencer M. Kagan, J.
Chester Darling (Elton Watkins, III, with him) for Mahendra K. Sagar.
John E. McCabe for Sejal M. Sagar.
Chudakarana shall not be performed on the minor child, until the child is of sufficient age to make that determination herself, absent a written agreement between the parties." On appeal from a divorce decree incorporating this order, the father maintains that the order violates his right to free exercise of religion as guaranteed by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution and the Constitution of the Commonwealth. He also claims the judge erred in granting the wife physical custody over the recommendation of a guardian ad litem that no designation of a primary physical custodian should be made.
We conclude that, in the circumstances presented, where neither parent demonstrated a compelling State interest justifying intervention, the judge's order should be affirmed because it intrudes least upon both parents' fundamental rights while remaining compatible with the child's health. We also conclude that the judge did not abuse his discretion in granting physical custody to the mother.
Background. We recite the following background from the judge's factual findings. Sejal Sagar (wife) and Mahendra Sagar (husband) were married in Baroda, India, in 1990 in a traditional religious ceremony. They had known each other for less than a month; the marriage had been arranged by their respective parents. After marriage, the couple moved to the United States, where their only child, a daughter, was born on June 17, 1998. They separated in November, 1998.
During and after marriage, the parties followed substantially the tenets of the Hindu faith. During the wife's pregnancy and after their daughter's birth, the parties engaged in Hindu ceremonies prescribed to mark various transitions in an infant's life, including a religious baby shower, a homecoming ceremony, a naming ceremony, a first visit to the temple, a ceremony for the child's first solid food, and an ear piercing ceremony. The parties attended temple weekly and even had a temple in their home at which they worshiped on a daily basis.
given her by her brother. The husband was very controlling. He would allow his wife to telephone her relatives only on birthdays and anniversaries; and the contents of the kitchen cabinets had to be arranged as he specified. He threatened to stop paying tuition for the wife's education should she fail to get straight A's. The husband made questionable transfers of marital assets and refused to comply with a court order to hold certain funds in escrow.
1. The disagreement over Chudakarana. Apart from disagreement over whether the Hindu sacrament of Chudakarana should be performed, the parties are in substantial agreement over the rearing of their daughter, including her religious upbringing. At trial, the husband presented evidence to support his position that a Hindu may not forgo the ritual of Chudakarana. The ceremony, which is believed to contribute to the child's longevity and ward off illness, should be performed before the child is three years old and is a necessary prerequisite to Hindu marriage. If the ceremony is not performed, an elder (here the father) may atone, allowing the ceremony to be performed at a later date. [Note 2] The wife's position was that Chudakarana is not integral to the Hindu faith. Neither she nor her extended family believe in the efficacy or necessity of the ceremony. She did not participate in the ceremony, nor did her brother or cousins. Prior to marriage, the husband never inquired whether she had participated in Chudakarana; neither did she inform him that she had not.
("If the beliefs be sincerely held they are entitled to the same protection as those more widely held by others"); Attorney Gen. v. Desilets, 418 Mass. 316 , 323 (1994) ( "Conduct motivated by sincerely held religious convictions will be recognized as the exercise of religion.") A court may not examine the truth behind a person's religious beliefs. See United States v. Ballard, 322 U.S. 78, 86 (1943) ("Men may believe what they cannot prove. They may not be put to the proof of their religious doctrines or beliefs"). However, inquiry into the sincerity of a professed belief is constitutionally appropriate under both the First Amendment, see Wisconsin v. Yoder, 406 U.S. 205, 216 (1972); and art. 2 of the Massachusetts Constitution. See Dalli v. Board of Educ., 358 Mass. at 758; Attorney Gen. v. Desilets, 418 Mass. at 329-330; Opinion of the Justices, 423 Mass. 1244 , 1246-1247 (1996).
Chudakarana is performed upon the child implicates not only the husband's but also the wife's fundamental rights. These include the right to direct their daughter's upbringing and religious formation.
The due process clause protects certain fundamental rights and liberty interests, including the right of a parent to direct a child's education and upbringing. See Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65-66 (2000), and cases cited; Opinion of the Justices, 427 Mass. 1201 , 1203 (1998) ("parents have a fundamental interest in their relationships with their children that is constitutionally protected"); Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. 649 , 652 (2002) (liberty interests of parents protected by the due process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the Federal Constitution are also protected by our State Constitution). When custody is contested, it is the divorcing parents who seek the impairment of each other's rights, and the "[S]tate is thrust into the role of mediator by necessity." Carr v. Carr, 44 Mass. App. Ct. 924 , 925 (1998) (citation omitted). "In divorce proceedings, each parent is presumed to have equal custody, G. L. c. 208, § 31, and the court is only called on to make determinations as to a child's 'best interests' because the parties normally charged with making such decisions cannot themselves agree." Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. at 677 (Sosman, J., dissenting). For the court to issue an order upholding the husband's fundamental right to direct that the ceremony of Chudakarana be performed upon the child would repudiate permanently the wife's corresponding right to direct that the ceremony not be performed. Conversely, to order that the ceremony not be performed, as the wife would have it, would repudiate the husband's fundamental rights.
as physical or psychological harm, is shown. See Kendall v. Kendall, 426 Mass. at 249-250; Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. at 656.
c. Intersection of the fundamental right to parent and the right to freely exercise one's religion. "[P]arents together have freedom of religious expression and practice which enters into their liberty to manage the familial relationships. . . . But the 'best interests' of the child are to be promoted, and when the parents are at odds, the attainment of that purpose may involve some limitation on the liberties of one or the other of the parents." Felton v. Felton, 383 Mass at 233. See Wisconsin v. Yoder, 406 U.S. at 230 (deferring to parental rights with respect to religious upbringing of children absent harm to children's physical or mental health); Kendall v. Kendall, 426 Mass. 238 , 243 (1997).
When the religious beliefs or practices of parents conflict and one parent seeks to have the court intervene and order that his religious inclinations be enforced to the exclusion of the other parent's, the parent seeking enforcement bears the burden of proving that the conflicting beliefs or practices cannot coexist without harm to the child such that a compelling State interest justifies restricting the correlative fundamental rights of the other parent. See Felton v. Felton, 383 Mass. at 240-241; Kendall v. Kendall, 426 Mass. at 248-250.
Here, the husband failed to demonstrate a compelling State interest for performing the ceremony on the child. Evidence was lacking that failure to perform the ceremony would "cause the child significant harm by adversely affecting the child's health, safety, or welfare." Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. at 658. "[H]arm to the child from conflicting religious instructions or practices, which would justify such a limitation [on a parent's right to freedom of religious expression or practice] should not be . . . assumed or surmised; it must be demonstrated in detail." Felton v. Felton, 383 Mass. at 233-234. The judge would have erred had he concluded that a compelling State interest justified restricting the wife's fundamental rights by ordering that the ceremony be performed. See and compare id. (order restricting father's fundamental right to instruct children in Jehovah's Witness religion was not constitutionally permissible because mother failed to demonstrate the requisite physical or psychological harm to the child).
The question remains, however, as to the consequence of the husband's failure of proof. The wife did not establish that performing the ceremony would subject the child to physical or psychological harm, a compelling State interest that would support an order restricting the husband's fundamental rights. The judge was not required to order that the ceremony be performed, as the husband wished, merely because the wife had failed to prove that to do so would be harmful to the child. See Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. at 656. Resolution of such a quandary that implicates both parents' fundamental constitutional rights should not depend solely upon a fortuity of pleading, upon which party initially seeks court assistance. Often, even though the competing parental religious preferences are irreconcilable, no physical or psychological harm will inure to the child from either parent's religious inclinations. "Sometimes . . . . diversity of religious experience [can be] a sound stimulant for a child." Kendall v. Kendall, 426 Mass. at 249.
Here, the evidence did not establish either proposition -- that the child would suffer physical or psychological harm by undergoing or by not undergoing the disputed ceremony. A rule whereby the opposing parent's religious inclination must prevail when the moving parent fails to carry the requisite burden of proof would create an arbitrary and unsatisfying basis for decision. Had the other parent been the moving party, such a burden would have been upon her. Consequently, the rule cannot require that, unless the moving party proves physical or psychological harm, the other parent's inclination necessarily prevails.
right is to be examined under a strict scrutiny formula requiring (1) a compelling State interest, and (2) action narrowly tailored to further that interest. Blixt v. Blixt, 437 Mass. at 655-656.
The order neither imposes any limitation upon nor favors either parent's ability to communicate beliefs concerning Chudakarana or to participate in any other beliefs or practices of their shared Hindu faith. The order does not coerce the father to believe as the mother does; nor does it compel him to practice his religion in a particular way. Contrast Kendall v. Kendall, 426 Mass. at 249-250 (demonstrable physical and psychological harm to the children's Jewish identity justified restricting the father's rights to free exercise of his Fundamentalist Christianity and to determine the religious upbringing of his children). The order leaves open to the parties the opportunity to agree in the future and does not bar future court intervention on this issue should the child be suffering from physical or psychological harm. Finally, the order respects the child's ability to eventually control her own religious destiny while encouraging continued exposure to her parents' religion. See Wisconsin v. Yoder, 406 U.S. at 243 (Douglas, J., dissenting) ("[r]eligion is an individual experience" and children are also granted freedom of religion). In fact, the law encourages a child's "exposure" to her parents' religious views even when the views are divergent, provided the exposure is not harmful. Felton v. Felton, 383 Mass. at 234.
was an accommodation that intruded least upon both parents' religious inclinations and, at the same time, was compatible with the child's health and well being. The challenged order represents such an accommodation.
2. The order for physical custody. The father also appeals from the judge's order granting physical custody to the wife. "The decision of which parent will promote a child's best interests 'is a subject peculiarly within the discretion of the judge.' " Bak v. Bak, 24 Mass. App. Ct. 608 , 616 (1987) (internal citation omitted). While a judge may consider a guardian ad litem's recommendations, the judge is required to draw his own conclusions: "[T]he responsibility of deciding the case [is] his and not that of the guardian." Delmolino v. Nance, 14 Mass. App. Ct. 209 , 212 (1982), quoting from Jones v. Jones, 349 Mass. 259 , 265 (1965). Here, the judge found that both parents truly love the child and that the child is equally comfortable with both parents. The judge also found that both parents are willing to meet the child's needs and work together to comply with the parenting plan. The judge accepted the guardian ad litem's finding that both parents agreed that it was appropriate for the wife to stay at home due to the child's age. The visitation schedule allows the husband to spend every weekend and one day a week with the child. The judge did not abuse his discretion in awarding joint legal custody to the parents and designating the wife's residence as the child's primary residence with liberal visitation to the husband.
[Note 1] On this record, Chudakarana can be described as a ceremony involving tonsure and prayer. While mantras are recited, a priest removes hair from five parts of the child's head, offering some of the hair ritually. The child's entire head is shaved, an auspicious mark is then placed on the child's head, and benedictions are offered.
[Note 2] The atonement consists of a twelve-day fast, during which only food given voluntarily by others may be eaten on three of the days. Other variations on the fast permit consumption only of five products of the cow: urine, dung, milk, curd, and ghee (clarified butter).
[Note 3] We also cannot delve into differences between the parties over whether strict adherence to Hindu religious belief requires that Chudakarana be performed. Resolution of that matter clearly would involve assessment of the religion's doctrine. See Williams v. Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts, 436 Mass. 574 , 579-580 (2002). The First Amendment protects sincerely held religious beliefs even when these differ from the established dogma of a religion or are not accepted as dogma by any religion. See Pielich v. Massasoit Greyhound, Inc., 423 Mass. 534 , 538 (1996).

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