Source: http://www.gordonfamilylaw.com/blog/category/Divorce+Process
Timestamp: 2019-04-22 06:37:40+00:00

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I cannot locate my spouse, can we still get a divorce?
Experienced Bay Area Divorce Attorneys know that sometimes a client cannot find their ex.
It may have been many years since you have been separated and you have lost lost touch with their spouse. You may not know where your spouse is living or have any contact information.
The fact that you cannot locate your spouse often makes it much more difficult to finalize your divorce. This is because the first step in filing for divorce is serving the other person with paperwork. If you cannot locate your spouse, you cannot serve them with paperwork. The failure to serve the other person with paperwork will result in your divorce not going through.
In these situations our recommended first step is typically attempting to find the spouse with the help of a private investigator.
If we cannot find someone’s spouse despite diligent attempts by our private investigator, then we can apply to the Court for a request to serve your spouse by publication. California Code of Civil Procedure §415.50 permits a summons to be served by publication upon demonstration by affidavit that the party cannot be served with reasonable diligence personally, by mail, or by substitute service and that party, and that a cause of action exists against that party, or that a person is a necessary party, or the party claims an interest in real or personal property that is subject to the jurisdiction of the court.
We have found at Gordon Family Law that the Court will grant service by publication only if we have made diligent attempts to locate the person, including hiring a private investigator and sending mail to the last known address.
If you are trying to finalize your divorce and cannot locate your spouse, Contact Amanda at Amanda@gordonfamilylaw.com to learn more information and to see if our offices can help.
Can a foreign domestic partnership be dissolved in California?
Unfortunately, no. A foreign domestic partnership which is not "substantially equivalent" to a CA domestic partnership cannot be dissolved in CA and is not recognized for purposes of property and support.
What should I do to protect my finances now that we have filed for divorce?
1. Set up a divorce notebook. Use a binder or file folder that have sides to them so that when you lift up the file, things don’t fall out the sides. There can be a lot of paper generated during your divorce and having those papers organized allows you to be more prepared and less disoriented.
2. Open individual bank account(s) in your name. New accounts often have more restrictions such as deposit holds. The sooner you can start a history with a bank, credit union or other financial institution, the sooner you will establish credibility with that institution. These are accounts in your name individually, and minimally you need a checking account and a savings account.
3. Apply for a credit card in your name. If you have kept your credit cards separate, then you already have individual accounts. If you’ve been operating your credit cards as joint accounts, however, you want to have an account in your name. If you’re not sure if you’ll qualify, then get your FICO credit score first. Remember that whenever you apply for a credit card, you get an inquiry on your credit report.
4. Scan financial statements and documents. You’ll want to get into the habit saving and downloading any financial statements that you receive so that you have them at hand, or file them in your divorce file for easy access. These documents include investment and bank statements, tax returns (most recent two years), debt statements, social security reports (usually received before your birthday), and any other statements that have to do with assets and liabilities (debts).
5. Get your credit report and credit score. Your credit score will give you information about what your credit options are, and the credit report will let you know which of your existing credit cards are joint vs. individual, as well as letting you see if there are any financial items you don’t recognize.
Can you appeal your family law court decision?
If you are likely many litigants and have recently had a disappointing court hearing with a family law court, you may be wondering if you can appeal that decision. Experienced family law attorneys in the Bay Area will tell you that the first step is for you to request the Reporters Transcript from the hearing.
Whether your hearing was a law and motion hearing for 20 minutes or a longer hearing where evidence was taken, you will first need a copy of your hearing’s transcript to determine your options.
If you have a temporary order for Attorneys fees, child support, or spousal support you normally have 60 days from Notice of Entry of Judgment to appeal the order.
How much time do I have to fill out my financial disclosures?
Have you filed and served your petition? Turned in your proof of service? Great, the next step after you have filed for divorce will be to start working on your financial disclosures. This means you need to disclose everything you own and owe to the other party.
How soon should you start working on this? Right away! The deadlines for preliminary disclosures are quick as a preliminary disclosure declaration may be served with the summons and petition or thereafter. See Fam C §2104(a). The declaration must be served within 60 days of filing the petition. Fam C §2104(a), (f).
The respondent may serve his or her preliminary declaration, along with his or her response, no later than 60 days after filing the response. Fam C §2104(a), (f). These deadlines may be extended by court order or by written agreement of the parties. Fam C §2104(f) (operative Jan. 1, 2013). See also Fam C §2450; Cal Rules of Ct 5.83(c)(4)(C).
FL 141: Proof of Service of Declaration of Disclosure.
Check out our post about how to fill out FL 150 here for details on how to fill out your FL 150 properly.

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