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Timestamp: 2019-04-19 19:10:13+00:00

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January 3, 2014 | Karen T. Willitts, Esq.
As stated by the New Jersey Supreme Court, “The emotional attachments between grandparents and grandchildren have been described as unique in that the relationship is exempt from the psycho-emotional intensity and responsibility that exists in parent/child relationships. The love, nurturance, and acceptance which grandchildren have found in the grandparent/grandchild relationship ‘confers a natural form of social immunity on children that they cannot get from any other person or institution.'” Moriarty v. Bradt, 177 N.J. 84, 97 (2003)[quoting Chrystal C. Ramirez Barranti, The Grandparent/Grandchild Relationship: Family Resource in an Era of Voluntary Bonds, 34 Fam. Rel. 343, 346 (1985) (citing Arthur Kornhaber, M.D. & Kenneth L. Woodward, Grandparents/Grandchildren: The Vital Connection, xiii-xiv (1981))).]] Our highest court has further stated, “when an individual does not have intergenerational family relationships there is a resulting lack of cultural and historical sense of self”. Id.
What occurs if a parent does not support a grandparent having a relationship with a child or the relationship between the parent and grandparent is sour, but the grandparents still wants to visit with a grandchild? Given the importance of grandparents in a child’s life, should a parent be forced by a court to allow a grandparent visitation with one’s child?
Such disputes have risen all the way to the United States Supreme Court. In Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65-66 (2000), the United States Supreme Court addressed the constitutionality of Washington’s non-parental visitation statute as applied to grandparents seeking visitation with their grandchildren. The Court recognized that parents have a fundamental right to make determinations as to the “custody, care and nurture” of their children without state interference. The U.S. Supreme Court held that Washington’s grandparent visitation statute was so broad that it was an unconstitutional infringement on the fundamental rights of parents by merely stating that “any person” (without regard to that person’s relationship to the child) may petition the court for visitation rights “at any time” and that the court may grant visitation rights to that third party whenever “visitation may serve the best interest of the child.” The Supreme Court criticized the lack of deference to the views of a child’s parents as to their children’s visitation with any other person. The Court stated “so long as a parent adequately cares for his or her children (i.e., is fit), there will normally be no reason for the State to inject itself into the private realm of the family to further question the ability of that parent to make the best decisions concerning the rearing of that parent’s children.” Id. at 69. The Court further recognized that such a litigation itself my infringe on a parent’s constitutional rights to make decision’s for his/her child because the financial consequence of legal fees may impede the parent’s ability to plan for the child’s future. Id. at 101.
Consequently, third parties like grandparents and siblings have an uphill battle in seeking visitation rights with a child because they are not on equal footing with the parents, whose decisions as to whether to allow their children to visit with grandparents are given deference by the court due to their fundamental right to autonomous privacy in rearing their children without government interference.
Grandparents should proceed to litigate cautiously with a child’s parents over visitation. The Appellate Division has warned that “Before engaging the courts, grandparents should be obligated to make substantial efforts at repairing the breach and, in addition, litigation ordinarily should not be threatened before visitation has been denied with finality. If litigation becomes necessary because the parent or parents have persistently resisted the grandparents’ respectful and patient overtures, it must be conducted with restraint. In other words, the grandparents must refrain from denouncing, demeaning, and impugning the parent’s character.” Wilde v. Wilde, 341 N.J. Super. 381, 397 (App.Div. 2001).
The New Jersey Supreme Court has held that “the best interest of the child” standard cannot be used to make an initial determination as to whether the court should order a parent to allow a grandparent visitation with a child. Grandparents seeking visitation must demonstrate by a preponderance of the evidence specific harm that would result to the child if the child were denied visitation with the grandparent. Moriarty, 177 N.J. at 88. A “clear and specific allegation of concrete harm to the children” must be estabilshed by the grandparents, and it must be the kind of harm that justifies state intervention. Daniels v. Daniels, 381 N.J. Super. 286, 294 (App.Div. 2005). Consequently, the harm to the child in not allowing visitation with the grandparent cannot be generalized. This may require expert testimony. Rente v. Rente, 390 N.J. Super. 487, 493 (App.Div. 2007). Only after the court finds that the grandparents have demonstrated the potential for harm to the child from being denied visitation with the grandparents, and the presumption in favor of parental decision-making has been overcome, will the court review and approve a visitation schedule that is in the child’s best interest, based on the applicable statutory factors of N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1(b) above. Id. at 494-95.
In a May, 2013 unpublished opinion in the matter of L.A.B. v. B.L.P., parents were accused by the grandparents seeking grandparent visitation rights of parental unfitness. The Appellate Division disagreed that the grandparents were entitled to visitation. Parental unfitness might allow the grandparents to seek custody of the children, but the grandparents were only seeking visitation. They did not demonstrate that the harm to the children from the parents’ unfitness would be cured by visitation with the grandparents. Thus the grandparents did not establish by a preponderance of the evidence that the children were harmed by a lack of visitation with the grandparents.
In the matter of Tortorice v. Vanartsdalen, 422 N.J. Super. 242, 250-51 (App.Div. 2011), a grandparent sought visitation with a child who was in the custody of another grandparent, although the child’s parents’ still had parental rights. The custodial grandparent opposed having a visitation schedule forced on her from another grandparent, arguing that she was the “psychological parent” and, therefore, her views in whether to allow the other grandparent visitation should be entitled to deference. The Appellate Division disagreed. In terms of visitation for the other grandparent, the psychological parent was not given the same presumption of autonomous privacy that the legal parents would otherwise have had because the legal parents gave up the expectation of autonomous privacy by allowing a third party custody of the children from the start.
Grandparent visitation can be a delicate litigation. In order to determine if there is an issue for grandparent visitation in your situation, the lawyers at the law office of James P. Yudes, A Professional Corporation are prepared to assist you.

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