Conversation: The conversation between human and AI assistant.
[|Human|] I ve been diagnosed with bi polar and he has add is this why we can t get along I take medication but he refuses we are in our 30 s and been together off and on for 13 years we have identical twin girls that are three and half and a 2 and half year old son or are we just crazy because of our kids lol I am a stay at home mom and he works midnights how can I get him to take meds for add he sais it makes him focus way to much on them is there anything that you would recommend that would make him focus but not really focus we can never get along
[|AI|]  Hi. Medication is the best method of treatment for ADHD. If your partner is able to manage without medication and doing his work and other activities without difficulty than diagnosis need revision. He may be having something else. Secondly your relationship issue need evaluation, to know the cause of discord. Is it because of the illness or maladjustment, because intervention need to because specific. Consult a psychologist for your relationship issue along with your husband and sort it out differently. By this both of your problem can be solved