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[|Human|] hi i am 30 year old gal got married 6 months ago we are trying to have sex but its very painful so just end up in foreplay .. my hymen is intact...can i use some gel to avoid pain for only few days until t get easier ,, if so which one to use please help .. we are planning for a baby and is it 30 years to late to conceive
[|AI|]  Hello! First do not panic. You do not have reason to get worried. I think that you should start enjoy you marriage to all the meanings, even to your sexual life. Your husband will help you to get through the difficulties of intercourse. Of course, you can use lubricants agents to ease the penetration. Second, you should have at least 1 year regular sexual activity to worry about conceiving. Of course that I would recommend you to try because until 35 years old, is thought that ovarian reserve and ovarian response is the best. Medicine is not mathematics, but I told you that you should first have a pleasant, regular intercourse and then try to conceive.