Case Title: Shurupoff v. Vockroth

Citation: 372 Md. 639

Docket Number: 31/02

State: maryland

Court: Maryland Supreme Court

Date: 2003-01-07T00:00:00Z

Document:
Lawrence J. Shurupoff v. Carol E. Vockroth, et vir.
No. 31, September Term, 2002
Standard of proof to rebut presumption favoring parent in custody action between parent and
third party is preponderance of the evidence.
Circuit Court for Harford County
Case No. 12-C-98-032581
IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF MARYLAND
No. 31
September Term, 2002
______________________________________
LAWRENCE J. SHURUPOFF
v.
CAROL E. VOCKROTH, et vir.
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Bell, C.J.
Eldridge
Raker
Wilner
Cathell
Harrell
Battaglia,
   JJ.
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Opinion by Wilner, J.
          Cathell, J. concurs in the result only.
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Filed:    January 7, 2003
1 As a purely grammatical matter, we are not sure why, in describing the presumption,
our predecessors used the word “subserved,” which means to serve in a subordinate or
inferior capacity, to be useful or helpful to some purpose or cause.  In context, “served” is
probably a better descriptive word.
In Ross v. Hoffman, 280 Md. 172, 372 A.2d 582 (1977), we announced standards and
guidelines for the judicial resolution of  child custody disputes between the child’s parent and
someone who is not the child’s parent – a third party.  Synthesizing holdings and statements
from earlier cases, we made clear, first, that “the best interest of the child standard is always
determinative in child custody disputes,” including those kinds of cases.  Id. at 178, 372 A.2d
at 587.  More particularly, we held that, in disputes between a parent and a third party, “it is
presumed that the child’s best interest is subserved by custody in the parent,” but “[t]hat
presumption is overcome and such custody will be denied if (a) the parent is unfit to have
custody, or (b) if there are such exceptional circumstances as make such custody detrimental
to the best interest of the child.”  Id. at 178-79, 372 A.2d at 587.1  We then stated:
“[I]n parent-third party disputes over custody, it is only upon a
determination by the equity court that the parent is unfit or that
there are exceptional circumstances which make custody in the
parent detrimental to the best interest of the child, that the court
need inquire into the best interest of the child in order to make
a proper custodian disposition.”
Id. at 179, 372 A.2d at 587.  Those statements and conclusions have been confirmed by us
on a number of occasions and, except as stated later in this Opinion, remain expressive of the
Maryland law.  See Sider v. Sider, 334 Md. 512, 531, 639 A.2d 1076, 1085 (1994); Monroe
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v. Monroe, 329 Md. 758, 773-74, 621 A.2d 898, 905 (1993).
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This appeal arises from a battle over the custody of Kimberly S., nearly twelve years
old at the time of trial.  The disputants are Kimberly’s father (petitioner here) and her
maternal grandparents, the Vockroths.  After hearing seven days of testimony and
considering the wishes expressed by Kimberly, the Circuit Court for Harford County granted
custody of Kimberly to the grandparents, with whom she had been living for about a year.
Petitioner complains that (1) the court did not apply the proper standard of proof in
determining that the presumption announced in Ross v. Hoffman had been rebutted, (2) the
court misapplied the Ross v. Hoffman standards in any event, and (3) those standards are in
need of some modification and clarification.
We agree that some clarification is necessary, and we shall provide it, but we do not
agree that the court applied an incorrect standard of proof, that it erred in its application of
the Ross standards, or that its ultimate conclusion constituted legal error or an abuse of
discretion.
BACKGROUND
Kimberly is the child of petitioner and Pamela Vockroth.  Petitioner and Pamela met
and began living together in 1980, when both were employed in the Washington, D.C. area.
In January, 1985, they moved to Michigan.  In early 1987, Pamela announced that she was
pregnant.  The relationship at that time was somewhat strained, and, indeed, petitioner
initially doubted whether he was the father and urged Pamela to abort the pregnancy.  She
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refused and, in the spring, returned to her parents’ home in Maryland.  Kimberly was born
here in October, 1987.  She and Pamela lived with the Vockroths until December, 1988,
when they moved into an apartment about 10 minutes away.  The Vockroths cared for
Kimberly, both when she was staying with them and after she and Pamela moved.
Petitioner was not immediately informed of Kimberly’s birth, and, although he and
Pamela discussed reconciliation on a number of occasions, he apparently did not see the child
until she was a year old.  Thereafter, he had only sporadic contact with Kimberly and did not
provide regular support for her.  In April, 1989, petitioner and Pamela married but remained
for a time in their separate residences.  Pamela and Kimberly moved to Michigan in August.
Pamela did not seek employment but instead stayed home to care for Kimberly.  Once again,
the relationship began to deteriorate, apparently over Pamela’s drinking and excitable
behavior.  There was evidence that Pamela was a chronic abuser of alcohol; there was also
evidence that she was a manic-depressive.  In May, 1990, without notice, she and Kimberly
returned to Maryland and took residence in her parents’ home.  Petitioner visited Pamela
from time to time and there was some telephone contact, but he had little contact with
Kimberly.  During this period, the Vockroths were deeply involved with Kimberly and
provided financial support for her and Pamela.  In December, Pamela and Kimberly moved
to a nearby apartment.  The Vockroths continued to support them and remained involved
with the child, taking her to medical and dental appointments and participating in various
other activities with her.
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In April, 1991, after but two years of marriage, Pamela and petitioner were divorced.
The judgment of the Michigan court gave them joint legal custody of Kimberly but awarded
sole physical custody to Pamela.  It made no provision for specific visitation but did order
petitioner to pay child support, which he then began faithfully to do.  Petitioner, a patent
lawyer, visited with Kimberly on a number of occasions, but only when business or some
other activity took him to the Maryland area, and those visits lasted only a few hours.  During
the period 1992 - 1994, petitioner took Kimberly on two trips to Florida to visit his parents,
on two overnight trips to New York, and on two apparently overnight trips to an amusement
park.  Additionally, in 1994, Kimberly spent six days with him in Michigan.  During that
visit, she wrote a number of letters to the Vockroths in which she complained that she was
homesick and unhappy.
In 1992, Pamela met and began living with Charles Hall.  Eventually, the household
consisted of Pamela, Kimberly, Hall, and Hall’s two daughters, one of whom was Kimberly’s
age and one a year older.  Hall helped Pamela with her drinking problem and also helped to
raise Kimberly.  He and the child became close enough for Kimberly to begin referring to
Hall as “daddy.”  She also became close with Hall’s children.  The Vockroths remained a part
of Kimberly’s life, visiting her several times a week and taking her to their home on
weekends.  Petitioner made no attempt to alter the custody arrangement, even when Pamela
and Hall were evicted from their apartment and were forced to live, for a time, in a small
trailer in need of repair.  Nor, except for a visit to New York in 1995, did he have any
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extended visits with the child in 1995, 1996, 1997, or 1998.
In 1995, petitioner met Maria and, within six months, began living with her.  Shortly
thereafter, Maria became pregnant; the baby was born in September, 1996.  Petitioner did not
disclose the child’s existence to Kimberly until 1998.  In the summer of 1997, Kimberly
informed petitioner that she wanted to visit him in Michigan but, because petitioner had just
started a new, and stressful, job, he was unable to accommodate her.  Meanwhile, Kimberly
was spending every other weekend and several weeks during the summer with the Vockroths,
who also took her on other excursions.  She had her own room at their house.  Petitioner
visited Kimberly in Maryland six to eight times in 1997 and 1998.
On August 11, 1998, Pamela suffered a stroke which, twelve days later, proved fatal.
Immediately after the stroke, Kimberly went to stay with the Vockroths.  Petitioner was
notified and came to Maryland in connection with a planned business trip.  He saw Kimberly
several times during the week but did not exercise any overnight visitation.  After consulting
an attorney in Michigan, however, he did discuss with the Vockroths taking Kimberly back
to Michigan.  One of those discussions occurred immediately after Pamela’s funeral, at the
Vockroths’ home.
The testimony was in some dispute regarding that conversation, but it apparently was
a pivotal event.  It is clear that, after the funeral, petitioner went to the Vockroth home, with
their permission, and spoke privately with Kimberly in the kitchen.  He either asked her
whether she wanted to return with him to Michigan (his version) or told her that he was
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taking her (her and the Vockroths’ version), but, in either event, she kept saying “no, no, no”
and began to cry.  At that point, Mrs. Vockroth intervened and had Kimberly leave the room.
When Mr. Vockroth entered, Mrs. Vockroth left the room to console Kimberly, and
petitioner and Mr. Vockroth continued the conversation.  It was clear that Kimberly was
distraught, the Vockroths were upset, and the battle lines were drawn.  The Vockroths were
no longer supportive of contact between Kimberly and petitioner and acted to make such
contact difficult.  The trial court faulted the Vockroths for their conduct, which it found
inappropriate.
On August 28, within days after that argument, the Vockroths filed a complaint in the
Circuit Court for Harford County for immediate custody of Kimberly and other ancillary
relief.  After an ex parte proceeding, apparently without notice to petitioner, the court granted
them temporary custody and set a hearing on the matter.  Petitioner then filed a similar action
in Michigan and contested the jurisdiction of the Maryland Circuit Court.  At a hearing on
October 5, 1998, the Circuit Court struck its ex parte order upon an agreement that, pending
resolution of the jurisdictional issue, Kimberly would remain with the Vockroths.  After a
conference with the Michigan court, the Circuit Court assumed jurisdiction, and petitioner
filed a counter-complaint for custody in that action.  A guardian was appointed for Kimberly.
As noted, the court heard seven days of testimony, and it received many documents.
Among the documents received was a report from the Oakland County [Michigan] Friend
of the Court, apparently an official or semi-official advisor to the Michigan Circuit Court,
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regarding visitation issues that arose in connection with the 1991 divorce.  The Report noted
that petitioner did not even see Kimberly until she was a year old, that he “has had little
regular and consistent involvement in the child’s life,” and that based on petitioner’s
assertions, it was reasonable to assume that “the child has very little bonding with the father.”
It concluded that “[t]he burden is on the father to establish a meaningful relationship with the
child before separating her from her mother.”
The court also received an evaluation from its own Office of Family Court Services.
That report summarized the family history and the various allegations of the parties, but most
telling was the social worker’s summary of his conversation with Kimberly, which he found
to be honest and reliable.  When asked about “life in general,” she said that the Vockroths
“treat me like a daughter,” that “[t]hey fix my meals – make sure I do my homework.  They
have raised me.  They do a lot for me – take me places – buy things for Christmas – they
make sure things are good.  They are my version of what it means to be good parents.”  In
contrast, she said of petitioner that he “does not know things that I like – he’s never bothered
with me for 11 years – he really doesn’t know what I like.  I really don’t know him, he keeps
to himself.  I can’t love him if I don’t know him.”  The author concluded that the 1990 Friend
of the Court Report remained the standard for the behavior that petitioner needed to
demonstrate toward his daughter.  The judge, himself, interviewed Kimberly in chambers,
and she expressed similar sentiments.  She said that she had been with the Vockroths all her
life and that they “are like my second mom and dad.”  She told the court, “Well, I want to
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stay here, but he wants me to go out there, and I don’t know him. . . I hardly ever see him,
and all of a sudden he wants to be dad, and I don’t know, I rather stay here because this is
my home.  I lived here all my life.  That’s my grandparents[’] house was the only house that
I really ever known to be a home.”
Upon all of the evidence, including that favorable to petitioner, the court concluded
that Kimberly should remain with the Vockroths.  It acknowledged that, in a dispute between
a parent and a non-parent, there is a presumption that the best interest of the child is served
by placing the child with the parent and that the presumption could be rebutted only if (1) the
parent is unfit, or (2) exceptional circumstances existed so that custody with the parent would
not be in the child’s best interest.  It found no evidence that petitioner was unfit.  In
examining whether there were exceptional circumstances that would make awarding custody
to petitioner detrimental to Kimberly’s best interest, the court discussed and made findings
with respect to the various factors that we mentioned in Ross v. Hoffman as being of
probative value:
“[T]he length of time the child has been away from the
biological parent, the age of the child when care was assumed by
the third party, the possible emotional effect on the child of a
change of custody, the period of time which elapsed before the
parent sought to reclaim the child, the nature and strength of the
ties between the child and the third party custodian, the intensity
and genuineness of the parent’s desire to have the child, the
stability and certainty as to the child’s future in the custody of
the parent.”
Ross v. Hoffman, supra, 280 Md. at 191, 372 A.2d at 593.
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As to the first factor, the court noted that petitioner resided with Kimberly for only
nine months in 1989-90 and that his contacts with her since then had been minimal.  The
court was critical of petitioner for not including Kimberly more in his life and not making
greater efforts to visit with her.  It concluded that, in petitioner’s “mindset,” Kimberly was
“distant,” that she was “not a real part of his life” and “was not family.”  On the second
factor, the court observed that, although Kimberly was nearly eleven when the Vockroths
assumed full care of her following Pamela’s death, they had been very active in her life since
she was born and had acted “like back-up parents.”  Addressing the third and fourth factors,
the court noted that, petitioner made no effort to seek custody while Pamela was alive and,
indeed, “shouldered no responsibilities for Kim, except for his paying child support,” but that
he did act promptly upon Pamela’s death.  His current desire to have custody, the court said,
was genuine and intense.
On the next two factors – the nature and strength of ties between Kimberly and the
Vockroths and the possible emotional effect on Kimberly if custody was changed – the court
found that Kimberly was emotionally tied to the Vockroths.  It concluded that Mr. Vockroth
and Mr. Hall had been the father figures in her life and that she remained close to her two
cousins (the children of Pamela’s brother) and to Hall’s two daughters.  The court largely
dismissed the concerns expressed by petitioner, Maria, and a Michigan psychologist retained
by petitioner regarding Kimberly’s emotional status and noted that, if custody were given to
petitioner, on top of the loss of her mother, with whom she had been very close, Kimberly
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would lose “all anchors of stability, her friends, all of her relatives, her parent figures, her
school environment.”  Keying on evidence of encounters and her behavior and feelings
during her visit to Michigan, the court pointed out that she would be going to a totally new
environment “into a family unit that is just forming where she doesn’t know the father, the
sister, or the stepmother figure, where she is viewed with suspicion, where she has been
accused, in essence, of lying, of being sneaky, where they don’t trust her around her sister
[petitioner’s child with Maria], where the sister is the apple of dad’s eye, and where Maria
did not come across as very warm towards Kim, and frankly, [petitioner] himself never
expressed his love for Kim from the stand.”  In the Vockroth’s home, by way of contrast,
Kimberly “is very much of a success story and viewed very positively.”
Turning to the last of the enumerated factors – certainty and stability if custody was
given to petitioner – the court noted that the Vockroths were in their late 60’s, that they had
done little to encourage contact between Kimberly and her father, and that they may not
recognize Kimberly’s need for counseling, but it observed also that, although stable and
secure financially and more sensitive to the child’s need for counseling, petitioner had never
really been a parent to her.  He is, the court said, “an untried entity, and to date his actions
indicate his own lack of competence being a parent or his indifference to it.”  The court
observed that he was making less than a real effort to solidify his relationship with Maria,
with whom he had put off marriage, and concluded that he “does not present as much of a
model for family values, love or commitment, and the Court questions if that is going to
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change.”
Considering all of those factors, the court determined that “it is in the best interest of
Kimberly to keep her here in Maryland with the [Vockroths].”  Because it believed that, if
directed to do so, the parties would be able to work together, the court ordered joint legal
custody in petitioner and the Vockroths, primary residence with the Vockroths, and liberal
visitation for petitioner in accordance with a schedule enunciated by the court.  The court
added that it would retain jurisdiction to modify that arrangement if the Vockroths failed to
work with petitioner to foster a parent-child relationship or if petitioner failed to follow
through with his obligations.
Petitioner appealed that judgment to the Court of Special Appeals which, in an
unreported opinion, affirmed.  The intermediate appellate court concluded that (1) to rebut
the presumption in favor of parental custody, it was sufficient to prove parental unfitness or
exceptional circumstances that would make parental custody detrimental to the child’s best
interest by a preponderance of evidence, (2) the trial court applied the Ross v. Hoffman
standards correctly, and (3) the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding joint legal
custody with residential custody in the Vockroths.
DISCUSSION
Standard of Proof
From cases involving the termination of parental rights (TPR), through either adoption
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or guardianship proceedings, petitioner draws and asserts the principle that a parent has a
fundamental liberty interest, protected by the Fourteenth Amendment to the Constitution, to
raise his or her children and that any justification for depriving a parent of that right must be
supported by clear and convincing evidence.  He treats a custody battle between a parent and
a non-parent in the same manner as a TPR proceeding, as placing in jeopardy the parent’s
right to raise the child, and thus insists that the same standard of clear and convincing
evidence should apply if the Ross v. Hoffman presumption favoring the parent is to be found
rebutted and custody is to be awarded to the non-parent.  The trial court, he urges, failed to
apply that standard but instead acted only upon a preponderance of the evidence.  To the
extent the Maryland law allows such a decision to be founded upon a mere preponderance
of evidence, he claims, that law deprives the parent of due process of law and is therefore
invalid.
As a preliminary matter, we note our inability to find anywhere in the record that
petitioner raised this issue in the Circuit Court.  Nothing was said about the standard of proof
to be applied, either by the parties or by the court.  It may well be that, in making his findings
and ultimate decision, the judge did apply a preponderance standard, but there is no evidence
that he did or that he was asked to apply any other standard.  Nonetheless, because the Court
of Special Appeals addressed the issue, we shall address it as well.
The nature of petitioner’s argument has been noted.  In the context of attempts to
terminate all of a natural parent’s parental rights, through proceedings for adoption or
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guardianship with the right to consent to adoption, the Supreme Court has made clear that
those rights are fundamental ones that have Constitutional protection and that they may be
abrogated only when a paramount need to do so is established by clear and convincing
evidence.
The Supreme Court has long recognized the right of a parent to raise his or her
children as a fundamental one protected by the due process clause of the Fourteenth
Amendment.  See cases beginning with Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390, 43 S. Ct. 625, 67
L. Ed. 1042 (1923), extending, among other intermediate cases, through Prince v.
Massachusetts, 321 U.S. 158, 64 S. Ct. 438, 88 L. Ed. 645 (1944), Stanley v. Illinois, 405
U.S. 645, 92 S. Ct. 1208, 31 L. Ed. 2d 551 (1972), and Santosky v. Kramer, 455 U.S. 745,
102 S. Ct. 1388, 71 L. Ed. 2d 599 (1982), to, most recently, Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57,
120 S. Ct. 2054, 147 L. Ed. 2d 49 (2000).  We have echoed that principle as well, on many
occasions.
The one Supreme Court case actually touching on the standard of proof required when
the State seeks to deprive a parent of that right was Santosky v. Kramer, supra, and that case
bears some examination.  Before the Court was a New York TPR statute that authorized the
State to terminate all parental rights and free a child for adoption upon proof, by a
preponderance of the evidence, that the child had been permanently neglected.  The judgment
in such a case, the Court noted, “denies the natural parents physical custody, as well as the
rights ever to visit, communicate with, or regain custody of the child.”  Santosky, 455 U.S.
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at 749, 102 S. Ct. at 1392, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 603.  Whether due process requires the factual
predicate for such a judgment to be established by more than a mere preponderance of the
evidence depended, the Court held, on a balancing of the three factors set forth in Matthews
v. Eldridge, 424 U.S. 319, 96 S. Ct. 893, 47 L. Ed. 2d 18 (1976) – the private interests
affected by the proceeding, the risk of error created by the State’s chosen procedure, and the
countervailing governmental interest supporting use of the challenged procedure.
The focus of that balancing was on the function of a standard of proof, which the
Court defined as the degree of confidence society believes a fact finder should have in the
correctness of factual conclusions that the fact-finder draws in a particular kind of
adjudication.  Santosky, at 754-55, 102 S. Ct. at 1395, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 607 (quoting
Addington v. Texas, 441 U.S. 418, 423, 99 S. Ct. 1804, 1808, 60 L. Ed. 2d 323, 329 (1979))
and In re Winship, 397 U.S. 358, 370, 90 S. Ct. 1068, 1076, 25 L. Ed. 2d 368, 379 (1970)
(Harlan, J., concurring).  The preponderance of evidence standard, the Court noted, indicates
society’s “minimal concern with the outcome” and a conclusion that the litigants should
“share the risk of error in roughly equal fashion.”  Santosky, 455 U.S. at 755, 102 S. Ct. at
1395, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 607 (quoting Addington, supra, at 423, 99 S. Ct. at 1808, 60 L. Ed. 2d
at 329).  On the other end of the spectrum was proof beyond a reasonable doubt, applicable
in criminal cases where, because of the magnitude of the private interest, that interest must
be protected by a standard of proof “designed to exclude as nearly as possible the likelihood
of an erroneous judgment.”  Id. (quoting Addington v. Texas, supra).  The intermediate
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standard of clear and convincing evidence is mandated “when the individual interests at stake
in a state proceeding are both ‘particularly important’ and ‘more substantial than mere loss
of money.’”  Santosky, 455 U.S. at 756, 102 S. Ct. at 1396, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 608 (quoting
Addington, supra).
Turning to the three Matthews v. Eldridge factors, the Court held the private interest
affected by a TPR proceeding to be a “commanding” one.  Id. at 758, 102 S. Ct. at 1397, 71
L. Ed. 2d at 609.  It explained that, in such a proceeding, the State is the adversary actor and
seeks not merely to infringe the parent’s fundamental liberty interest in raising his or her
child but to end it, noting that if the State prevails in a TPR case, “it will have worked a
unique kind of deprivation.”  Id. at 759, 102 S. Ct. at 1397, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 610 (quoting
Lassiter v. Department of Social Services, 452 U.S. 18, 27, 101 S. Ct. 2153, 2160, 68 L. Ed.
2d 640, 650 (1981)).  That first factor, therefore, “weigh[ed] heavily against use of the
preponderance standard at a state-initiated permanent neglect proceeding.”  Santosky, 455
U.S. at 759, 102 S. Ct. at 1398, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 610.  The fact-finding aspect of such a
proceeding, the Court emphasized, was not intended to balance the child’s interest in a
normal family home against the parent’s interest in raising the child, but rather “pits the State
directly against the parents” in a proceeding in which “[t]he State marshals an array of public
resources to prove its case and disprove the parents’ case.”  Id. at 759-60, 102 S. Ct. at 1398,
71 L. Ed. 2d at 610.
In examining the risk of an erroneous deprivation of private interests – the second
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Matthews factor – the Court regarded the fact-finding stage of a State-initiated TPR
proceeding as “bear[ing] many of the indicia of a criminal trial.”  Id. at 762, 102 S. Ct. at
1399, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 612.  The issues to be resolved employ imprecise substantive standards
and leave a great deal of discretion to the judge and, given that many parents subject to TPR
proceedings are poor and uneducated, “[t]he State’s ability to assemble its case almost
inevitably dwarfs the parents’ ability to mount a defense.”  Id. at 763, 102 S. Ct. at 1400, 71
L. Ed. 2d at 613.  The primary witnesses will be the agency’s own professional caseworkers,
whom the State has employed to investigate the family and testify against the parents, and,
because the child is already in State custody, the State has the power to shape the historical
events that form the basis for termination.  Those factors, and others, the Court held, when
coupled with a preponderance standard, “create a significant prospect of erroneous
termination.”  Id. at 764, 102 S. Ct. at 1400, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 613.
The Court viewed the State’s interest in maintaining the preponderance standard – the
third Matthews factor – as a dual one of providing the child with a permanent home and
reducing the cost of a TPR proceeding, but it concluded that both were consistent with a clear
and convincing evidence standard.  Id. at 766, 102 S. Ct. at 1401, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 615.  The
State’s parens patriae interest, it said, favored preservation, rather than severance, of parental
ties, and that goal was served by procedures that promote an accurate determination of
whether the natural parents can provide a normal home.  As to administrative burden, the
Court noted that 35 States (including Maryland) then employed a higher standard than
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preponderance in TPR cases, and it doubted that such a higher standard would create any real
administrative problems.  Id. at 767, 102 S. Ct. at 1402, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 615.
Upon these various conclusions, the Court held that, at a TPR proceeding, the near-
equal allocation of risk between the parties afforded by the preponderance standard was
Constitutionally impermissible, that, although not Constitutionally required, the States were
free to adopt a reasonable doubt standard if they chose to do so, but that the clear and
convincing evidence standard adequately conveyed to the fact-finder the level of certainty
necessary to satisfy due process.  Id. at 768-69, 102 S. Ct. at 1402-03, 71 L. Ed. 2d at 616-17.
There are, of course, a number of important differences between, on the one hand, the
State seeking to terminate permanently a parent’s entire spectrum of rights – the right to
participate in the raising and education of the child, the right to continue to inculcate the
parent’s values and help shape the character of the child, the reciprocal rights of inheritance,
the right to see, visit, or communicate with the child, or even possibly to know of his or her
whereabouts – and, on the other, a dispute between two private individuals over who should
have custody of the child during his or her minority, subject to modification by the court
upon a proper showing of changed circumstances.
Apart from the temporal difference – a permanent, ordinarily unmodifiable
deprivation as opposed to a temporary, modifiable one – the scope and depth of those
differences may depend, in part, on the nature of the “custody” at issue.  As we pointed out
in Taylor v. Taylor, 306 Md. 290, 296, 508 A.2d 964, 967 (1986), two very different
2 The term “custody” has long been used, almost universally, to embrace both aspects,
often without any articulation, or clear recognition, of the difference between them, and it
has thus tended to assume, in the minds of some, almost a proprietary or possessory patina,
suggesting and sometimes being touted as an exclusive right to possess and control the child
and direct his or her destiny.  When viewed in that manner, the term can distract the parties
– usually the child’s parents – from what is really at stake: how responsibility for both the
general upbringing of the child and for meeting the child’s immediate day-to-day needs
should be shared and allocated for the child’s best benefit.  Perhaps we should begin to
express this allocation in a more neutral and descriptive fashion, one that focuses on the
parties’ responsibilities rather than on their control or possession of the child.
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concepts are embraced within the meaning of the word – “legal custody,” which connotes
“the right and obligation to make long range decisions involving education, religious
training, discipline, medical care, and other matters of major significance concerning the
child’s life and welfare,” and “physical custody,” which refers to the “right and obligation
to provide a home for the child and to make the day-to-day decisions required during the time
the child is actually with the parent having such custody.”2  Even when both aspects of
custody are placed solely with one person, the non-custodial parent does not ordinarily lose
the right, even during that custodial period, to visit and have the child with him or her at
convenient times, to communicate with the child, to keep abreast of the child’s life and
activities and to observe or participate in them, or to influence the child’s development, and
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the parent and child certainly do not lose the right of reciprocal inheritance.  See Boswell v.
Boswell, 352 Md. 204, 721 A.2d 662 (1998).  The question, of course, is whether those
differences, when coupled with the substantive requirements necessary under Ross v.
Hoffman to rebut the presumption favoring the parent, suffice to create a different balance
in the Matthews v. Eldridge factors that would make a preponderance standard permissible
in a custody battle between a parent and a non-parent.
There does not seem to be any clearly predominant rule in this regard.  Most, if not
all, States have created a presumption in parent/third party custody disputes in favor of the
parent – a presumption that must be overcome by the third party in order to win custody.
Unfortunately, the articulation of both the presumption and the circumstances that must be
shown in order to overcome it differ somewhat from State to State.  When a custodial parent
dies and a dispute arises between the surviving parent and a third party, some States
apparently give immediate custody to the surviving parent.  See In re Guardianship of K.N.,
929 P.2d 870 (Mont. 1996); Walker v. Arnall, 970 P.2d 625 (Okla. 1998); In re Abelsen, 225
P.2d 768 (Ore. 1950).  Others in that situation, or one where a parent seeks custody after
having either abandoned the child or acquiesced in someone else having custody, use a
guardianship proceeding to determine legal and physical custody.  See Roydes v. Cappy, 762
N.E.2d 1268 (Ind. 2002); Fisher v. Fisher, 670 P.2d 572 (Nev. 1983).  In some of those
States, the guardianship order is treated more like a TPR order than a normal custody
determination.  See Watkins v. Nelson, 748 A.2d 558 (N.J. 2000); Clark v. Wade, 544 S.E.2d
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99 (Ga. 2001).
To some extent, these differences may account for some of the language used by the
courts in describing the standard of proof applicable in those cases.  Maryland law is
somewhat ambiguous.  On the one hand, Maryland Code, § 5-203(a)(2) of the Family Law
Article, provides that a parent is the sole natural guardian of his or her minor child if the
other parent dies, abandons the family, or is incapable of acting as parent.  On the other, we
have not viewed custody disputes between a surviving parent and a third party as in the
nature of legal guardianship proceedings, but, subject to the Ross v. Hoffman analysis, as like
any other custody case.
Some States, as petitioner notes, have, indeed, adopted a clear and convincing
evidence standard in parent/third party custody cases (or in cases that the court found
equivalent to a custody dispute).  See Murphy v. Markham-Crawford, 665 So. 2d 1093 (Fla.
App. 1995); S.G. v. C.S.G., 726 So. 2d 806 (Fla. App. 1999); Clark v. Wade, 544 S.E.2d 99,
108 (Ga. 2001); In Re Guardianship of B.H., 770 N.E.2d 283 (Ind. 2002); Greer v.
Alexander, 639 N.W.2d 39 (Mich. App. 2001).  Other States have adopted that standard in
cases that, under the law of those States, are treated more like TPR proceedings than pure
custody disputes (Guardianship of Stephen G., supra, 40 Cal. App. 4th at 1426), or upon
rationales that are inconsistent with the Maryland experience and approach.  See Watkins v.
Nelson, 748 A.2d 558 (N.J. 2000) (requiring the third party seeking custody to show
circumstances that would justify terminating the parent’s parental rights and treating custody
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in the third party as effectively terminating those rights).  A few States have expressly
adopted a preponderance standard for parent/third party custody cases.  See Larkin v.
Pridgett, 407 S.W.2d 374 (Ark. 1966); Greening v. Newman, 640 S.W.2d 463 (Ark. 1982);
In re Perales, 369 N.E.2d 1047 (Ohio 1977).  Some have articulated other tests –
“satisfactory evidence” (In re Dependency of Terry Klugman, 97 N.W.2d 425 (Minn. 1959))
or “evidence evincing” (In re Custody of N.A.K., 649 N.W.2d 166 (Minn. 2002)); “showing
clearly” (Kees v. Fallen, 207 So. 2d 92 (Miss. 1968)); “clear and conclusive” (McDonald v.
Wrigley, 870 P.2d 777 (Okla. 1994)); “cogent and convincing” (Bailes v. Sours, 340 S.E.2d
824 (Va. 1986)).  Most States, it appears, have not defined any particular standard of proof
but have sought to protect parental rights through the heavy substantive burden placed on the
third party – to show unfitness, or “compelling” or “cogent” reasons (In re Custody of
Townsend, 427 N.E.2d 1231 (Ill. 1981)), or “convincing reasons” (see Ellerbe v. Hooks, 416
A.2d 512 (Pa. 1980); Albright v. Commonwealth ex re. Fetters, 421 A.2d 157 (Pa. 1980)) or,
as in Watkins v. Nelson, supra, circumstances that would justify termination of parental
rights.
We are aware of no case in which a State Supreme Court has concluded that the clear
and convincing evidence standard is required in pure custody disputes between a parent and
third party as a matter of Constitutional law.  Those that have chosen to adopt that standard
seem to have done so either as a matter of their own jurisprudence or because the effect of
the decree, especially one of guardianship, was treated under that State’s law as akin to an
3 Even in CINA cases, where a juvenile court is empowered to assume custody of a
child, remove the child from his or her home, and place the child with either a public agency
or another individual, the standard of proof is preponderance of the evidence.  See Maryland
Rule 11-114e.3 (at adjudicatory hearing, petition alleging delinquency or contributing to
status of the child must be proved beyond reasonable doubt; all other allegations of a juvenile
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effective termination of parental rights. 
We do not regard an order granting custody of a child to a third party, subject to
modification and with appropriate visitation privileges reserved to the parent, as the
equivalent of terminating parental rights or as having the incidents or effects found important
in Santosky v. Kramer, supra, 455 U.S. 745, 102 S. Ct. 1388, 71 L. Ed. 2d 599.  It does not
deny the parent the right to visit, communicate with, or ever regain custody; it does not
terminate the parent’s liberty interest in raising his or her child; it is not a “unique kind of
deprivation”; it does not “pit[] the State directly against the parents” and does not bear any
of the “indicia of a criminal trial.”  The parents are not necessarily economically or
intellectually disadvantaged parties left to face the vast array of State resources; indeed,
except for supplying a neutral arbiter in the form of the equity court, the State is usually not
involved in the dispute.
We regard TPR proceedings as unique – different in kind and not just in degree – and
that has a heavy bearing on how the Matthews v. Eldridge factors should be balanced and
applied.3  As noted, a custody case is not one in which there is a singular private interest
petition, including petition alleging CINA, must be proved by preponderance of the
evidence).
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being attacked by the State, in its capacity as parens patriae; there are, instead, two private
interests that need to be considered – that of the parent and that of the child.  Under Ross v.
Hoffman, the ultimate standard remains the best interest of the child, and, although, to some
extent, the presumption that the child’s best interest is served by parental custody suggests
a confluence or consistency between those two private interests, custody proceedings often
disclose a real divergence between them.
The circumstances that must be shown in order to rebut the presumption, especially
when coupled with the various factors that the court must consider in determining the
existence of those circumstances, suggests that the issue in parent/third party custody cases
may be, and often is, the immediate safety and short-term welfare of the child, not necessarily
his or her long-term immutable best interest.  The modifiability of custody orders based on
a change in circumstances tacitly recognizes that premise.  Many of those cases reveal a
situation in which the child’s best interest lies in maintaining the parental relationship but
having a third party assume responsibility for the child’s immediate and short-term needs.
Ross v. Hoffman, itself, was such a case; the circumstances there, while justifying custody
in the third party, would never have warranted a termination of the mother’s parental rights.
The Legislature has recognized the different role that custody plays in this regard.  Section
9-101 of the Family Law Article requires that, in any custody proceeding in which the court
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has reasonable grounds to believe that a child has been abused or neglected by a party to the
proceeding, the court must deny custody to that party, even a parent, unless it finds that there
is no likelihood of further abuse or neglect.  In that setting too, the child’s actual safety may
require custody in a third party, even if his or her best interest lies in maintaining the parental
relationship.  See  In re Adoption No. 12612, 353 Md. 209, 725 A.2d 1037 (1999).
The heavy substantive burden that must be met in order to rebut the presumption
favoring parental custody protects quite well the parent’s private interest, but if the standard
of proof for rebutting that presumption is too high, it may well be the child who will suffer.
When that central fact is considered in light of the much lesser intrusion on parental rights
of a modifiable custody order than a permanent TPR order, the private interest of the parent
becomes far less “commanding” than that which exists in TPR cases.
Consideration of the child’s immediate interest, coupled with the more equivalent
power balance between the competing applicants and the modifiability of a custody order
upon a showing of changed circumstances, affect the second Matthews factor as well – the
risk of error.  In looking at that factor, the Santosky Court was concerned about both the
dramatic and permanent effect of a TPR order on the parent and the increased prospect of an
erroneous ruling arising from the power imbalance in the proceeding itself between the State,
as prosecutor, and the parent.  Neither is ordinarily a factor in a custody proceeding.  As
already explained, the custody order is not permanent and does not even suspend many
important aspects of the parental relationship; nor is there necessarily any power imbalance
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between the parties that might serve to increase the risk of error.
As we have explained, the State ordinarily has no direct interest in the outcome of any
particular custody case.  It has a general interest, of course, in the welfare of the children
living within its borders but, in the context of custody disputes, is usually content to allow
that interest to be gratified through the normal litigation process, which increasingly
incorporates mediation.  The State does have an interest in preserving the normal standard
of proof applicable in civil actions, however.
As a common law State, Maryland has adopted preponderance of the evidence as the
standard of proof generally applicable in civil actions, unless some higher standard is either
clearly required by Constitutional considerations, is mandated by statute or rule of court, or
is firmly established by common law principles.  Notwithstanding the Supreme Court’s
suggestion in Santosky that a clear and convincing standard is required whenever the State
proceeding is “particularly important” and “more substantial than mere loss of money,”
neither Maryland nor, we think, other States have taken that notion literally.  There are many
kinds of civil actions, especially equitable ones, that are both “particularly important” and
involve more than “mere loss of money” in which preponderance of the evidence remains
the standard of proof.  Judgments entered in actions for injunctive relief or for specific
performance, for divorce or annulment, to establish or foreclose liens, testing the
Constitutional authority of Government to take or regulate property or to control economic
activity, and for declaratory relief of one kind or another may be very important, involve
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more than money, and yet be based on findings made on a preponderance of evidence.  From
the points of view of judicial efficiency and simplicity and certainty in the law, the State has
an interest in not having civil proceedings unnecessarily balkanized with differing standards
of proof.  Obviously, that interest must yield when outweighed by countervailing imperatives,
but it is a substantial and cognizable interest.
On these considerations, we conclude that a clear and convincing evidence standard
is neither Constitutionally required nor appropriate in custody disputes under a Ross v.
Hoffman analysis.
Application of Ross v. Hoffman
In announcing his findings from the bench, the judge noted the presumption in favor
of petitioner and stated that the presumption could be rebutted “through exceptional
circumstances existing so that custody with the natural parent would not be in the best
interest of the child.”  No objection was made to that statement, but petitioner now complains
that it constituted a misapplication of the ruling announced in Ross v. Hoffman.  What needs
to be shown, he argues, is that parental custody would be “detrimental to the best interest of
the child,” not that parental custody would not be in the child’s best interest.
The court’s oral opinion in this case consumed 36 pages of transcript.  The judge was
obviously aware of Ross v. Hoffman and its progeny, as he carefully articulated and discussed
the various specific considerations we enunciated in those cases.  It seems clear to us from
4 As part of his argument on this point, petitioner takes issue with some of the court’s
findings.  It will suffice for us to say that we have considered his argument and conclude that
there was substantial evidence to support each of the factual findings and that, in reaching
its ultimate conclusion, the court did not abuse its discretion.  See Davis v. Davis, 280 Md.
119, 372 A.2d 231 (1977).
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the ruling as a whole that he applied the correct standard, and we have no doubt that, had
petitioner called his attention to the one passage in contention, he would have restated it in
the proper way.  All of the findings that, in his view, militated against forcing Kimberly to
leave her home, the people she regarded as her effective parents, and her whole support
system and live in Michigan with a father and family she hardly knew, sufficed to show, and
were no doubt intended to declare, that custody in petitioner would, indeed, have been
detrimental to her best interest.  We find no misapplication.4
Restatement of Ross v. Hoffman
Petitioner points out one aspect of Ross v. Hoffman that is confusing and needs
clarification.  After discussing earlier cases, we stated, as noted earlier in this Opinion:
“To recapitulate: the best interest of the child standard is always
determinative in child custody disputes.  When the dispute is
between a biological parent and a third party, it is presumed that
the child’s best interest is [served] by custody in the parent.
That presumption is overcome and such custody will be denied
if (a) the parent is unfit to have custody, or (b) if there are such
exceptional circumstances as make such custody detrimental to
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the best interest of the child.”
Ross v. Hoffman, supra, 280 Md. at 178-79, 372 A.2d at 587.
We should have stopped there.  Instead, we continued, in the very next sentence:
“Therefore, in parent-third party disputes over custody, it is only
upon a determination by the equity court that the parent is unfit
or that there are exceptional circumstances which make custody
in the parent detrimental to the best interest of the child, that the
court need inquire into the best interest of the child in order to
make a proper custodial disposition.”
Id. at 179, 372 A.2d at 587.
Having first announced that the best interest of the child “is always determinative in
child custody disputes,” we did muddy the waters a bit by stating that, unless the trial court
finds unfitness or exceptional circumstances that would make custody in the parent
detrimental to the child’s best interest, it need not “inquire into the best interest of the child
in order to make a proper custodial disposition.”  The court must always, necessarily, inquire
into what is in the child’s best interest, for that is the ultimate, determinative factor.  
The real point made in Ross v. Hoffman and carried forth since is that, when the
dispute is between a parent and a third party, it is presumed that the child’s best interest lies
with parental custody.  If there is a sufficient showing that the parent is unfit, however, or
that exceptional circumstances exist which would make parental custody detrimental to the
child’s best interest, the presumption is rebutted and custody should not be given to the
parent, for, in either situation, parental custody could not possibly be in the child’s best
interest.  So long as the best interest of the child remains the definitive standard and there is
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any reasonable alternative, it defies both logic and common sense to place a child in the
custody of anyone, including a parent, when either that person is unfit to have custody or
such action, because of exceptional circumstances, would be detrimental to the child’s best
interest.  What Ross teaches is that (1) the best interest standard applies and prevails, and
(2) that standard is gratified by giving custody to the parent when the presumption has not
been rebutted and by denying custody to the parent when it has been rebutted.  The last
sentence that we quoted from that case was simply intended to make clear that, because of
the presumption, a parent and a third party do not stand on an equal footing, and that, before
the third party may be granted custody, he or she must rebut the presumption in one of the
manners indicated.
As we do not believe that the trial court was in any way confused about the proper
standard to apply, and as we have found that it applied that standard properly, we shall
affirm.
JUDGMENT 
OF 
COURT 
OF 
SPECIAL
APPEALS AFFIRMED, WITH COSTS.
Judge Cathell concurs in the result only.