'Apastamba ':"If the suitor pays money (for his bride) and marries her (afterwards) that (marriage is called) the Asura rite. ' 'Kautilya ': Arthasastra: Sulkadanat Asura ' the word used is "Sulka" Medhatithi, in his commentary on Verse 54 of Manu Samhita points out that the receipt of money or money 's worth for the benefit of the girl (Kanyarthe) does not amount to her sale, and is desirable as it tends to enhance her self esteem and also raises her in the estimation of others, and concludes with the observation that receipt of a dowry for the girl (kanyartham danagrahanam) is prescribed by thus stating the good arising from it (arthavadena) : Vide at 772.