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| "sorry to hear that. Are you going on any other trips this year?", | |
| "That's okay. What are your plans for the next few months?", | |
| "Oh wow. How far are you from India now?", | |
| "Do you want to keep traveling? I know a lot of people who like to travel and settle down after awhile.", | |
| "hmm..have you considered volunteering?", | |
| "I would consider it a great way to spend my time if it matches with your interests.", | |
| "You have a lot of choices! But be careful. Volunteering for an organization which does not have clear vision and purpose could turn out to be a complete waste of time.", | |
| "And I would just make sure it is not like an arm's length relationship and do it only when you are willing to commit 100%.", | |
| "Thank you for your feedback and sharing your concerns. Let me know if there is anything else I can help with?", | |
| "Okay no problem. Have a good day and please feel free to share your thoughts with us anytime. You can write them in the comment section below.", | |
| "What do you mean you feel like the mess isn't your problem? You weren't there when it happened, why are you feeling responsible?", | |
| "That is very true. Does she do her share of cleaning too?", | |
| "Perhaps he's giving up. Try to cheer him up by telling him how nice the house looks now you've cleaned it up. If that's not enough, tell him about your cleaning duties.", | |
| "Anytime :)", | |
| "No, you did fine. There are no other questions I can think of right now :)", | |
| "You're welcome. I hope all goes well with you and your roommate :)", | |
| "I'm sorry for that! What happened?", | |
| "So what does it feel like when you think about your son or daughter?", | |
| "So I guess you're worried about losing your own son or daughter?", | |
| "Ah, so you're having a hard time!", | |
| "I hear you! Is it possible to stay away from all the bad stuff and focus on the good things?", | |
| "It sounds like you need to separate yourself from the bad feelings. Can you do something every day that makes you feel good?", | |
| "Yeah, aquariums are fun!", | |
| "You're welcome! :) How does your husband feel about the worry?", | |
| "I'm glad you're having such a nice day so far! Try to do one thing for yourself every day. Your husband can always come back. I wish you all the best!", | |
| "I am sure there are many possible responses to your situation. How did you feel about the lie?", | |
| "I think most people probably feel guilty when they lie, especially about something as serious as a threat to their livelihood. Does the lie help your cause of avoiding the issue?", | |
| "There are many types of reasons we lie. It can be to protect someone, to avoid trouble, or to gain sympathy from others.", | |
| "Because I have experience in many different types of lies. Sometimes we don't feel guilty until after the fact. We often find ourselves in difficult situations and want to make things easier for ourselves.", | |
| "It's good you came here and asked the questions that you are able to, because you won't always be able to deal with these issues alone. I think I might be able to help you through some of the difficulties you are having.", | |
| "Let's start by taking a moment to breathe, okay?", | |
| "I would try to let the emotions go for now. If you continue, they will be stronger than you at the time.", | |
| "Do you feel like you need to talk to your boss?", | |
| "I think it is pretty clear that you don't want to tell him the truth. Can you try telling yourself that you were being nice to him? Did you really want to know the truth or was that the thing you wanted?", | |
| "I understand. Would you like to feel more comfortable with telling the truth?", | |
| "Do you think you are happy when you lie to others?", | |
| "If you tell the truth, you will be out of that comfortable state of affairs.", | |
| "Have you ever been in trouble for lying?", | |
| "I can see why you would be worried, but it seems like you do value your job. You also know that he cares about your education and doesn't want to hurt you.", | |
| "And you said you can't lie at work. I guess I would need to back up to the idea that you felt like the lie would help your cause. Are you willing to stick to your guns on this?", | |
| "Do you think your family would be angry with you for coming clean?", | |
| "Do you have someone you trust outside of work?", | |
| "When you told your boss that you lied, what was his response?", | |
| "I think the only reason he was not upset enough to fire you is that he wants to be lenient with you since you are new and still learning the ropes. What would you like him to do next?", | |
| "Does he seem to have confidence in you that you can be honest in the future?", | |
| "I think he can definitely help you with that, because many people have gotten their jobs on the backs of those who trusted them.", | |
| "This is such a common issue. I wonder if you are the type of person who, if you don't get what you want, does not give up.", | |
| "I'm not surprised. However, if he is working for a company that gives him the feeling that he needs to keep you around to satisfy your parents or children, then he should.", | |
| "Anytime. You are welcome. Hopefully, you will have made the right decision and come clean and your boss will be happy that you did the right thing. Good luck!", | |
| "Thank you for sharing this story. Is he a very good listener or does he tend to interrupt? What was the event that led to this behavior?", | |
| "You are right! I am trying to think of another time that would lead to his behavior. Are you in a healthy relationship?", | |
| "Well, then it's more likely that his sadness is caused by his feelings that you did not consult him about the purchase.", | |
| "I see. I wonder if there is something else in the room that would be distressing him. Is he doing ok with all this?", | |
| "Is there anyone else in the house to help you and your husband share the burden?", | |
| "You have three kids? What are their ages?", | |
| "My experience has been that four year olds have a very different perspective on life. What age is he?", | |
| "Ah! How did you manage three kids while you were still young enough to work full time? I can't imagine!", | |
| "Oh I see. So he is not old enough to share some responsibility yet.", | |
| "Well, it sounds like you're doing great! But he has to be part of the decision making process, and that might have been upsetting to him.", | |
| "So I understand your point, I just want you to know that he might be feeling overwhelmed too.", | |
| "Good news is that he is sharing in the decision making process, which is a step forward! I can tell that you are both committed to this!", | |
| "Now you can come up with a plan. Do you still want to buy the toy?", | |
| "Then go buy it! I bet it will cheer him up, and if it doesn't, then we can talk about other ways to help him deal with disappointment in the future.", | |
| "Great! That's a plan! I am rooting for you!", | |
| "I wish you all the best of luck. Now please don't let him bully you out of the relationship!", | |
| "You are welcome!", | |
| "Have a great day! Bye.", | |
| "Do you have any injury?", | |
| "What happened after that?", | |
| "Are you using crutches now?", | |
| "I hope you are okay! Do you want to cry out loud?", | |
| "Sometimes talking it out might help a lot.", | |
| "Sure! Just let go of all the hurt feelings.", | |
| "You're welcome! I hope everything is fine with you now!", | |
| "If you're feeling better, please be more confident and step out again!", | |
| "Have a nice day!", | |
| "Do you feel he does not respect you?", | |
| "What do you want from him in order to get the dish done?", | |
| "Have you told him how you feel?", | |
| "Are you able to talk to him at least once more?", | |
| "He might need time to think about things first. Have you asked him what it is that's bothering him about doing the dishes?", | |
| "That seems to be the major problem. Is there anything you can do to make him understand how important the dish is to you?", | |
| "It sounds like you're being very unfair to him. If he didn't respect you, then why should he be able to do his dishes late?", | |
| "Then do they not wash every day?", | |
| "Can you not make your point more obvious to him? Maybe it would help him see just how much the dishes mean to you.", | |
| "Do you think it might help to sit down and have a real talk with him about why the dishes are so important to you?", | |
| "I'm sure he won't. Just talk to him about how you feel, and see where things go from there.", | |
| "You're welcome. Have fun!", | |
| "That sounds really stressful. Is it because of your family?", | |
| "I think they mean well. And remember, it's not their business how you're living.", | |
| "It's perfectly normal for some people to judge others, just like it's normal to be afraid of judgment from them.", | |
| "Well, that sounds like something worth working on.", | |
| "You're welcome, it's been fun talking to you. Have a good one.", | |
| "What was your intention when you took it?", | |
| "I see. Do you think you were in the right to take it?", | |
| "Did you tell him you were not allowed to give him the candy bar?", | |
| "I understand. Did you eat it after you gave it to him?", | |
| "I see. Do you feel guilty about taking that candy bar from a child?", | |
| "Okay. Do you have anything you want to say to that little boy or girl?", | |
| "That's okay. I understand that you feel bad about taking the candy bar.", | |
| "Okay. How about this: Imagine that you had the same situation that you did, but that someone else saw you take the candy bar. Would they have done anything different than what you did?", | |
| "That's good to hear. Sometimes we feel bad about the way we act and do things. But sometimes that action is actually the right thing for us to do. I guess we just have to learn to be comfortable with the way we act.", | |
| "I did. You too. Bye!", | |
| "Why did that happen?", | |
| "That's a good reason. Is there anything you can do to help overcome that fear now?", | |
| "Did you think about how to overcome your fear when you were a kid?", | |
| "That might be true, but do you have some kind of routine that makes you feel safer in the dark?", | |
| "If you can figure out something, that would help. It's not very likely to work overnight, but it might help you get through the night if you find something that works.", | |
| "That's okay. I hope you have a nice day! :)", | |
| "Oh dear, that is tough. Are you happy to have him home?", | |
| "That is so awful for you! And you're going to have to work hard to convince him that its ok", | |
| "Wow, that's hard. How do you feel about him now?", | |
| "Hm, how do you think he feels about you? I think you need to be strong and try to help your husband if you can, but not if he will not accept your help!", | |
| "You are not heartless, but you do need to make sure he understands this, that he is wrong and he needs to get some counselling or something", | |
| "Yes, you're right. Its important to set boundaries when you and your partner go through tough times, and dont let anyone take advantage of you", | |
| "It must be difficult for you at times, you are doing the best you can", | |
| "I am glad to hear that! You need to stick by your husband and hope that things work out better in the end", | |
| "I think you will find it very difficult to be objective about the situation now that you are feeling upset by the situation.", | |
| "Perhaps getting some help from a therapist to talk to would be a good idea.", | |
| "I also think it might be a good idea to see friends and family to vent some of your feelings.", | |
| "I think there is a strong possibility you will be able to get through this. You are very resilient.", | |
| "You're welcome. What was it like before you were married?", | |
| "I'm sorry to hear you were in a bad place with your wife. Hopefully you can talk to a friend or therapist and get some perspective on things.", | |
| "It seems like she was trying to break up the marriage by being unreasonable. Have you tried talking to a therapist or friend? They might be able to give you some advice.", | |
| "I'm glad you're thinking about it. At least having some friends and family to support you will make a huge difference.", | |
| "You too.", | |
| "I would be worried that you friend may over-indulge the kid or her friends.", | |
| "I am glad to hear your friend is getting birthday presents for her child!", | |
| "Perhaps you can speak to your friend about her plan beforehand to make sure she doesn't go overboard.", | |
| "Please try to convey that this is not a well thought out plan of hers. Just like the rest of us, she is thinking of her child as though he will live forever.", | |
| "Just remind her about how other children need to have fun and play with toys.", | |
| "My guess is she really doesn't care that her child is having fun. What worries me is that she is setting him up to be a heavy drinker at such a young age. If she has a problem in life, he will have it even more because alcohol is just so readily available.", | |
| "I would suggest perhaps taking a few bottles of water and an energy drink with you to her party. As you enter the party, see if you can find your friend and discreetly offer them a bottle of water or an energy drink. Ask her if she wants you to get her something and then leave before the party starts.", | |
| "Great, and ask her to use them during the party.", | |
| "Do you mind describing your feeling?", | |
| "i understand how you feel. would you like to be cautious and be careful?", | |
| "do you have the money to pay for the couch if you are not interested?", | |
| "do you think this person has a history of doing this kind of thing?", | |
| "ok, have you had any other dealings with this person?", | |
| "I understand. I think you are right to be a bit cautious. i hope you find the couch!", | |
| "i understand, bye!", | |
| "You are concerned that you have not taught your dog to eliminate indoors?", | |
| "Is there any reason that the weather would be so cold?", | |
| "I'm sorry to hear that this is causing your concern. I am sure you will be able to overcome this problem. Have you tried some training techniques with your dog to get her to do her business outdoors?", | |
| "Has she ever done it in these locations before?", | |
| "Hmmm... Have you tried training again?", | |
| "Let's take some time to think of some solutions, ok?", | |
| "Do you have a room in your home which is warm enough for you to train in, such as a garage or basement?", | |
| "Ahhh! That's perfect for training! So the window is on the north side of the building?", | |
| "Good! This may help when trying to train your dog indoors. When you are training indoors, you can make use of that light, as well as the sound of wind blowing through the window.", | |
| "I would bring an extra dish that smells really good, maybe a bowl of kibble or something, to distract her while you work with her.", | |
| "Yes, the light and the wind may help. Also, you can tap on the floor repeatedly in front of her as a warning that you are going to count to three if she doesn't move off of the spot.", | |
| "Also, think about using food rewards! Your dog may have had a bad experience somewhere, and associating a good smell with food may help in encouraging her to keep doing the right thing.", | |
| "Definitely. Good thinking! How did you start training in the first place?", | |
| "Sometimes forcing it can be more stressful than just setting the expectation and helping the dog to figure out how to do it without being forced. I think you may find that for your dog it will go better once you establish a strong routine.", | |
| "Would you be comfortable talking about any other reasons why this may be a problem for you?", | |
| "I am so sorry that you are having these difficulties. It seems like it would be hard to find someone who understands your situation as well as you.", | |
| "No! You should definitely stick with your goal! We can help and encourage you along the way. I can help brainstorm solutions to specific problems.", | |
| "Do you mind sharing what the main issue is that you are having with your dog now?", | |
| "This is a very valid concern! What sort of tasks are you asking her to learn?", | |
| "Are they things she knows already? If she knows those, then we can definitely help you practice these skills more.", | |
| "How often does she exhibit this behavior?", | |
| "This may be a sign that you need to help her figure out how to calm herself down. Maybe even practice relaxing outside.", | |
| "Perhaps trying lying down for awhile and enjoying the sun. Then after a few minutes you could sit up and play with her to get her attention.", | |
| "Do you think there might be a chance that she might not be ready for these kinds of tasks yet?", | |
| "Well, she is likely anxious about being down for too long, especially if you're asking her to lay down in an unfamiliar place. Just trying to give you some thoughts here, okay?", | |
| "She does seem so stressed, and it's hard to see that from your perspective. Maybe there's a difference between indoor and outdoor that might make her uncomfortable, or it could just be anxiety over the newness of the situation. Either way, we can help!", | |
| "I'm glad we were able to talk.", | |
| "How are you feeling?", | |
| "Are they okay?", | |
| "Is the driver hurt?", | |
| "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to pry, it must be upsetting", | |
| "Ah, did she say why she would do that?", | |
| "That's understandable, it seems like it would be hard to drive that car around with only one working tire", | |
| "Thank you for sharing your story, and my condolences go out to you and your kids", | |
| "Is there anything else that's troubling you right now?", | |
| "You're welcome, glad to help", | |
| "Have you had any other issues in your life recently?", | |
| "Well, thanks again for sharing your story, I hope you and your family have a good night!", | |
| "That's not good! I hope they aren't being annoying. How many days do you think they're doing that?", | |
| "Hmmm, that's sad. Do they have kids, pets, anything else around them?", | |
| "Wow! Have you asked your neighbors to maybe take some time off to get some sleep?", | |
| "Not ideal! But I don't think it's unreasonable. Do you mind if I ask where they live?", | |
| "Hmm. North Fulton sounds like the perfect place to go for an all-day nap! Is there anything else I can help you with?", | |
| "Of course there isn't. Why didn't you come to me sooner?", | |
| "I love your humor! Let me know if you want to discuss anything else.", | |
| "When you say \"feel\", do you mean emotionally? Does it make you angry?", | |
| "Have you talked to your neighbors about this? You could call ahead and have them invite you over for a cup of tea while you explain the problem? Maybe they will come up with a solution to get your neighbours to stop the slamming.", | |
| "Did you find out where they work from home? If they work outside the house, I'd consider calling their boss and telling them to let their workers rest!", | |
| "It does sound silly but maybe they just don't think it's necessary when they're at work. Is it worth trying? If they do work out of the house, it might even be worth bringing a snack or a bottle of water to their door to encourage a chat?", | |
| "OK, I appreciate you letting me know and thanks for your help. If you still have questions, remember, you can always email me anytime.", | |
| "Yeah, definitely bring something, a friendly gesture. Best of luck!", | |
| "oh that's ok sweetie! The worst thing about these days is feeling bad about food.", | |
| "i don't know..", | |
| "if you really need to lose weight, you should try walking or running more.", | |
| "i am like that too.. when i run, i eat less. But of course you are going to need a healthy meal when you're running.", | |
| "yes i have felt this way too.", | |
| "yes, sometimes, but mostly not.", | |
| "but you need a healthy breakfast at least.", | |
| "breakfast should be a BIG meal for you.", | |
| "but you need a larger meal", | |
| "i can make you a nice pancake if you want.", | |
| "no problem!", | |
| "i'll make a BIG pancake for you today", | |
| "please let me know how you did!", | |
| "i'll do a happy dance after your pancake pops up!", | |
| "You said you were going to go on the rollercoaster anyway, right?", | |
| "That sounds like a sensible way to proceed.", | |
| "So, what happens if you don't get your fear out of the way first?", | |
| "Can you explain the guilt feeling? I'm guessing you might feel a bit embarrassed about being afraid of something.", | |
| "Okay. It's good that you are thinking ahead.", | |
| "When it comes to face our fears, we want to do what feels right and avoid doing anything that will make us unhappy. It doesn't have to be perfect, but it does have to feel good.", | |
| "How do you feel now, after speaking with me?", | |
| "I'm glad you had the courage to reach out to me. That is definitely an excellent thing to do. What other types of support could you ask from me?", | |
| "I have some great suggestions for you! Do you like to read?", | |
| "Me neither, I love the rides but they're not my favorite. I feel we are all stuck at different points on this journey. Some people have been afraid of riding rollercoasters forever, and some people have never been able to do so. We all just have different fears.", | |
| "It's okay! Just remember to talk about your worries and then take action!", | |
| "Of course! Just remember that you are not alone and there are other people who have gone through similar experiences!", | |
| "No problem! Have a nice day!", | |
| "It must be hard for you to leave your girls behind on a day out when they really want to come.", | |
| "Does the fear of heights mean that your anxiety goes up too?", | |
| "It's hard when children don't understand what it is you are afraid of. How old are your daughters?", | |
| "My eldest daughter went to a theme park with me one year, and I was quite upset about the number of things that frightened me - she didn't get it. I think I have a similar reaction to going on a cruise ship.", | |
| "Is there anything else that might make you feel better?", | |
| "Then perhaps try looking at it like it's a visit to some fun location", | |
| "And maybe you will be able to do it more often then.", | |
| "You have already made progress because you have got yourself there, so you know it's not too scary!", | |
| "What's your favourite type of coaster?", | |
| "I have never been on one. Do you have a place near where you live where you could go?", | |
| "Are you still nervous? It will pass after the first go", | |
| "Also, maybe you should check out some of the other rides, they may have others that aren't as scary.", | |
| "Well, I certainly hope so, you deserve to have fun!", | |
| "No problem, hopefully this time we can get some good advice from you.", | |
| "Remember, you have done it before, and you can do it again", | |
| "Bye!", | |
| "That's a tough loss. How has that changed your life?", | |
| "I've had pets die in the past and it's really awful. Sometimes it helps to have other animals to keep you company though. Do you have any pet animals of your own?", | |
| "I understand that. I don't think I could ever replace my dog, but it sounds like having other animals to be around might help. Have you considered a service animal? That could help make your house feel less empty if you need it.", | |
| "You could also look into a service dog that could help you socialize.", | |
| "Another thing you could do is to try spending some time volunteering. It seems like it would be rewarding for you to offer your time, and I think that would probably have a positive effect on you.", | |
| "I think that volunteering is the best way to get away from your depression. If you just stay inside and don't get out, then that's never going to change. Try doing something that gives you a sense of accomplishment.", | |
| "No matter how bad things are, you can always find ways to make yourself happy, even if it's just spending time with your pets.", | |
| "I think you're getting better at handling your depression and I wish you the best. I hope things continue to get better for you.", | |
| "You're welcome.", | |
| "Thats terrible. What are you going to do about it?", | |
| "It doesnt matter if your sibling gets his own car. You have to be happy for yourself.", | |
| "Its your life and its your choice to make. No one has to know what you are doing.", | |
| "Yeah, what does it matter if he knows you got the car?", | |
| "If your brother tells him it wont be a problem. I mean I guess it would cause a little tension but its not worth it.", | |
| "Tell him no one else knows. So you dont have to worry about him saying anything bad about you behind your back.", | |
| "Well maybe if you were to get a second job so you can buy the car. It might stop him from telling others. If not, just live with it", | |
| "Just like you, it doesnt matter how much money he has. Its just money.", | |
| "I'm sure you will find a way.", | |
| "Once you start paying for it you can ask them for help in paying for other things", | |
| "Have they agreed to support you to that extent?", | |
| "Ok, then you should go and let them know.", | |
| "Do you have any friends who live in a place far away and would you be willing to help them move there?", | |
| "Heres an example, my friend from Ohio moved to Georgia and the month of moving cost him a total of $5000", | |
| "He got a loan from his parents to cover that amount", | |
| "Sounds great. Then once your brother knows you are willing to move he might become more supportive and give you some cash as well", | |
| "Yes, you just need to tell him, make sure you write a nice letter. It will help in making him trust you. And he will help you with it.", | |
| "I hope you are able to resolve the situation", | |
| "Sure thing, its always better to sort things out than letting them remain unresolved.", | |
| "Just remember to keep him close and dont take any step without informing him.", | |
| "Wow. That's unfortunate. What kind of work are you doing?", | |
| "Oh, that sounds really difficult. Is there anything you're working on at the moment that could help?", | |
| "I think you may need some time to adjust. I've found that new jobs are stressful sometimes. If there is something that needs doing and your boss isn't willing to help then it might be a sign that they aren't happy with you.", | |
| "Sure, but you might not want to say this straight away as it might sound like you're not wanting to do their job.", | |
| "Of course. Take all the time you need to.", | |
| "Is your sister rude?", | |
| "Are you angry?", | |
| "Maybe you could go buy a different cookie for her?", | |
| "Okay, that's understandable.", | |
| "Why do you think that is?", | |
| "Maybe you could talk to her about this? She might want to apologize or give you some more cookies?", | |
| "Okay, that's great! Good work!", | |
| "You could maybe tell her she can make cookies at home too?", | |
| "Did you tell her that the dog may have stolen it?", | |
| "That is really silly of you to think that. You should have known your sister was very aware of the dog's actions before giving her the food.", | |
| "I believe that you shouldn't blame your sister for your bad judgement about the dog.", | |
| "If your sister hadn't had this dog for such a short time, I believe that she would not be accusing you of any wrongdoing.", | |
| "What happens if the dog eats her food? Does she get angry at him?", | |
| "I wouldn't feel very comfortable leaving my pet out in the cold during the winter months.", | |
| "Do you have anything to stop him from eating her food?", | |
| "Have you tried making him his own meals, or getting him a dog bowl?", | |
| "Some dogs are happiest if they get the chance to eat what they prefer. I wouldn't let your sister dictate to you what your pet eats, that's not right.", | |
| "I'm surprised that you say that! I love giving my pets food that they like. I don't make them eat stuff they don't like.", | |
| "Are you able to teach your sister that sometimes animals just eat what they like?", | |
| "Sounds like you are already making progress!", | |
| "I am very sorry to hear that you were not able to reach your goal. Can you tell me more about what happened?", | |
| "That is quite a shame. Did you make any preparations for the presentation? Did you have everything prepared before going to bed?", | |
| "How do you think you are feeling now about your failure?", | |
| "Can you explain why you are so bothered by the thought of your classmates blaming you?", | |
| "You do have some good points there. It is normal for classmates to feel annoyed at sleeping students. I think you need to take care of yourself first and focus on getting more sleep before your next presentation. I have had times when I didn't want to go to bed at all and had to force myself to do it because I couldn't afford to sleep all day!", | |
| "I agree. Your presentation will still be assessed regardless of whether you have it done on time or not. I think focusing on getting a good sleep tonight is definitely more important. If you don't feel like sleeping tonight, I suggest taking a nap for a few hours before trying to fall asleep again.", | |
| "That sounds like a great plan. After you do that, I suggest going outside and getting some fresh air. Try walking around the block and see if that helps calm you down and makes you feel more energetic.", | |
| "That's alright. I hope you manage to get some rest tonight and get ready for tomorrow. Good luck.", | |
| "That is probably a scary feeling for you", | |
| "What do you think your daughter would be doing?", | |
| "That is quite a common experience at school. So it's not so scary?", | |
| "Where did you live?", | |
| "How old is your daughter?", | |
| "What is the secret?", | |
| "How do you know this?", | |
| "Can he prove it?", | |
| "Have you talked to him about it?", | |
| "And your husband has?", | |
| "Do you have evidence of your husbands infidelity?", | |
| "What kind of email did you receive?", | |
| "You've been married before?", | |
| "What kind of relationship does your husband have with his friends?", | |
| "Have any other family members ever found out?", | |
| "Do you live with your mother?", | |
| "What is your fathers response to your affair?", | |
| "That's understandable. How are you doing mentally and physically after this discovery?", | |
| "Do you think your friend will leave her husband for you?", | |
| "That is a good reason for an affair.", | |
| "You could do the same thing if you were pregnant and sick.", | |
| "How do you feel about your affair?", | |
| "Do you think you would be happier with your friend?", | |
| "When did you find out about her affair?", | |
| "Is there a chance you two will work it out?", | |
| "That makes me happy. Were you close with your husband before this?", | |
| "What happened?", | |
| "You sound like you're a good person. I have nothing to say against you.", | |
| "It's not often I hear someone speak so honestly.", | |
| "When did you find out he'd cheated on you?", | |
| "Did your parents find out about it as well?", | |
| "Then, are you going to break up with your husband over this?", | |
| "That's a good idea, but you will need to be patient.", | |
| "Are you trying to end the affair by telling your husband to get back with your friend?", | |
| "I commend you for standing up for yourself, it's not always easy.", | |
| "If you didn't think it was a betrayal before, you'll probably feel even worse about it now.", | |
| "People do things for reasons they believe are justified.", | |
| "Have you ever considered therapy to help you cope?", | |
| "Maybe talking to a professional could help you get your perspective straightened out.", | |
| "Well, it sounds like you have a lot going on in your life and you just need some time to work it out.", | |
| "What happens when you do finally stand up to your husband? Will he listen to you or will he remain passive?", | |
| "Sounds like you have no choice but to sit down and discuss it.", | |
| "I hope you find some peace.", | |
| "Is she upset? What's the problem?", | |
| "Is there any way she can move it or give you permission to take it?", | |
| "I'd say that's not good neighbor behavior. Does she have a vehicle to move it?", | |
| "That's pretty hard to get permission from someone without a vehicle, I guess. I would talk to your landlord if she doesn't have one. Perhaps they can bring in a truck to pick up the junk and haul it away themselves.", | |
| "I'd say it is a little embarrassing. But you should tell her to please clean up after herself. It's the right thing to do.", | |
| "A person might be very nice in their own home, but if that's where you're going to live, then they need to be considerate of others who may share the road.", | |
| "I think she could probably be charged with trespassing if she didn't have a reason for being there, but you probably don't want to do that either. Maybe she just needs to get someone to help her clear the driveway.", | |
| "I'd suggest bringing your complaints to her landlord. He may be able to get her to clean up the area. You may be able to work something out between you and your neighbor. It's really good that you're talking about it.", | |
| "In that case, I think it would be best to contact your landlord to get this resolved before you get into a bigger argument.", | |
| "Yes, you need to talk to your landlord and tell him what is happening. If he doesn't do anything, it won't be long before he wants to talk to you.", | |
| "If you contact your landlord first, she might realize how much trouble it would be to clean up that mess.", | |
| "Maybe your landlord can have her move her things inside her house so you can park your car in your driveway again.", | |
| "Have you tried to speak to her in a nicer way, explaining your concerns?", | |
| "Good luck. I hope it all works out for you.", | |
| "Bye.", | |
| "Sad! That's a tough blow, there's really no easy way to handle it. What are your feelings right now?", | |
| "Are you ready for new things in your life?", | |
| "OK, sounds good. Have you gone out with any new people since?", | |
| "Were they nice?", | |
| "You may have been set up to be taken advantage of.", | |
| "I don't think you can change how you are. Do you think your ex-girlfriend took advantage of you because you didn't know what to do to make her happy?", | |
| "Has anyone been kind to you since your break up?", | |
| "Have you talked to her about your breakup?", | |
| "I think you've handled it well. Can you go to a new place and try something new? Maybe even some volunteering or doing community work.", | |
| "I'd hate to see you stay sad because you don't think she'll come back.", | |
| "You might be seeing your ex in a different light now than you did when you first broke up. It may seem like they're all out to take advantage of you but maybe they're just trying to be nice.", | |
| "Yes, it's easy to get caught up in our own perceptions of people.", | |
| "Of course, your feelings are going to be complicated and you should just take it one day at a time. You shouldn't give up on your happiness.", | |
| "I'm sure she's not the only person who's hurt you. If you can let go of the anger, I think you'll have a better day.", | |
| "If you're open to new friendships, your loneliness will fade as time goes by. It's really a great thing to do, to take care of yourself.", | |
| "Well, you could just talk to people in new ways, like more online. Another friend wouldn't replace the ones you have now.", | |
| "Yes, and then you can still keep in touch with your old friends too.", | |
| "Yes, we all do, but we do it with new people too!", | |
| "I love you. I hope you're feeling better today. Take care. Bye for now.", | |
| "Bye.", | |
| "So how did you get out? Did you jump first or were you injured?", | |
| "Oh that is really bad! I am sorry to hear that. I am glad you are ok.", | |
| "You should have that down as one of your skills. If you think that it happened again, you should say something so you won't feel any more afraid about jumping again. Do you have people that will help you?", | |
| "I agree with you, sometimes you don't know what you can handle until you try it. I understand the fear because I have been there. If I feel the fear again, I will tell them when I land.", | |
| "Sorry to hear that. I am glad that you are safe.", | |
| "Are you close to a phone? I might ask some more questions if it doesn't bother you too much.", | |
| "Great! I hope this helps and has made you feel better. I hope that it helps you too.", | |
| "That's wonderful! I'm very glad you have an interview. Is this job a possibility?", | |
| "Wow. That's amazing. Taking off of work is always difficult. Perhaps going to the interview early, leaving your phone at home and just be present might help you feel more comfortable.", | |
| "I'm not worried about having a message. Take all the time you need and call me back when you are ready. This may also be a good opportunity to pick up some extra money if you need it.", | |
| "I'm sure you will do great! It's nice to hear that you are excited. Have fun!", | |
| "You too! Good luck on the interview and please call me back!", | |
| "What do you mean \"no new friends\"? Do you already know some of the kids?", | |
| "Oh! That sounds like a challenging experience. Have you ever been in a new school before?", | |
| "Yeah, that makes sense. How is the work going? Is it something you like doing?", | |
| "Well, that is a good way to look at things. Do you think that this might be your problem too? You seem pretty busy studying, and that seems to be the time when people make friends.", | |
| "That is probably true, and since you say you're busy with your studies, maybe you could get help with your homework?", | |
| "That's a great idea, and maybe you should ask the teacher for help?", | |
| "Maybe it will help you to talk about it?", | |
| "Sounds like you are very smart, and maybe you can find a tutor?", | |
| "So you really can't afford a tutor?", | |
| "Well, you could try tutoring at a local library or community center.", | |
| "Well, it's a shame you don't have enough to afford the tuition. Have you thought about applying for grants?", | |
| "Well, that's a good idea. Maybe you could talk to your guidance counselor?", | |
| "Good luck and hope you can find a solution.", | |
| "Anytime :)", | |
| "Bye.", | |
| "You don't need to worry about that. Its just your brain playing tricks on you.", | |
| "Thats normal for humans to see things like that. Do you want to share anything else?", | |
| "Was she nude?", | |
| "I hope she didn't harm you. You are safe right now. Please continue talking about this.", | |
| "What do you feel when you see her?", | |
| "If you're scared, you might want to talk to your family and friends. They'll help you get rid of this ghost. You are safe right now, so please continue talking.", | |
| "Try writing down all the names of your family members and ask them to meet you somewhere. Maybe even go to their homes to see if there are any signs of ghosts.", | |
| "Don't worry, you're safe right now. You should sleep soon. Take care.", | |
| "What was the problem?", | |
| "How did you decide to go into the store in the first place?", | |
| "How do you feel now that you've made the decision?", | |
| "Does your mind race with thoughts and ideas of how to get there more often?", | |
| "That sounds so exciting to me. We all want to try something new and also see what we have at our disposal.", | |
| "Can you tell me more about your feelings? How does that idea make you feel?", | |
| "I don't want to overstate things by saying we can solve every issue or even know every single issue that comes up in life, but it makes me happy knowing you are trying something different.", | |
| "It takes time for us to see the value in change and it doesn't always happen immediately.", | |
| "That is a nice goal, and I look forward to it being possible.", | |
| "I'm happy to talk with you.", | |
| "He's probably friendly", | |
| "Did he bark at you?", | |
| "I think it's a nice dog!", | |
| "Not sure, it seems really friendly", | |
| "No idea, sorry", | |
| "Sure, I'd say it's just happy to see you!", | |
| "Well the first thing is to greet him. A bow would be the way to go, don't get too close though", | |
| "Then try to talk to him. Ask if he likes water, and then maybe give him a little reward like a treat or something.", | |
| "I think he will be much more receptive if you're having a conversation", | |
| "I'm so glad you took my advice :)", | |
| "Does he like treats?", | |
| "That sounds great! I'll say hi to him again. Maybe this time you can bring a few biscuits too", | |
| "Oh I'm so excited! Say hello back", | |
| "Of course! I'll turn away from the computer too", | |
| "Bye bye!", | |
| "I had been separated from my parents and a few of my friends when they went out on their own. I felt like an outsider because of it. It was very confusing and took time for me to figure out how to talk to them again.", | |
| "You are not alone in this. You may have an uncomfortable reunion at first but you will find that you can talk with your parents again. Just like you have to move on after being away from your parents for a little while, you have to do so with your friends too.", | |
| "Yes, just like you cannot avoid talking to your parents once every two days you cannot avoid talking with your friends once every two days.", | |
| "You are welcome! How long has it been since you talked to your parents?", | |
| "Oh, that's a long time. Do they have any special reasons why they stopped talking to you?", | |
| "That must be very hard on you. Does your parents know about these things? Have they talked to you about this?", | |
| "If they know that you have done bad things, it is important that you do talk to them.", | |
| "Is there someone else who could be there with you, who would be able to remind you of the things that you have done wrong?", | |
| "Have you talked to any other people about what you've done?", | |
| "Who are these friends? Do they know why you are feeling guilty?", | |
| "They sound like a good choice of friend, and if they don't know why you feel guilty, they can help you to remember what you've done wrong.", | |
| "Sometimes it takes some time to convince ourselves of the wrongs we've done. I think if you tell your parents how you feel, they will listen. You can start by telling them that you are sorry, and ask them to forgive you.", | |
| "Yes, just like I said earlier, you don't have to do anything right away. You can slowly move forward with your parents, making sure that you both feel safe.", | |
| "You are welcome. I hope that your parents will be back home soon.", | |
| "You're welcome. I enjoyed speaking to you. Have a nice day.", | |
| "You are safe and healthy, don't worry about that cat; take care of yourself! I hope you feel better soon", | |
| "Ahhh I'm sorry that happened, it is frustrating as well, but I know you will find him and you will be happy together again. Take care!", | |
| "Well at least that you can do! He is one great cat, it must have been hard for you to give him up; you deserve some time to yourself now! Take care!", | |
| "You're welcome! It's ok! It sounds like you have enough on your plate right now with your family situation, your husband being in the military, and your job is demanding...", | |
| "Ohh That must be really hard. I know it is stressful, maybe you can take some time off to sort out all the matters?", | |
| "Well, if you decide to take the time, then take it! Take it easy and rest. Take care!", | |
| "Sounds good! Take care!", | |
| "that is kind of creepy, and i guess you are lucky that you were not injured in this incident", | |
| "do you think that he is just having some kind of psychotic episode?", | |
| "oh dear", | |
| "what kind of work does he do?", | |
| "oh wow, that is really scary", | |
| "i am sorry", | |
| "have you reported him to the police?", | |
| "it sounds like he is very unwell", | |
| "yes, that is definitely not something you want to hear", | |
| "i hope you feel better soon!", | |
| "it sounds very scary", | |
| "i hope you get through this difficult situation", | |
| "yes, if he tries to hurt you then he will have caused you considerable harm", | |
| "it sounds like he has some real issues", | |
| "i don't know if he is just trying to scare you or truly serious", | |
| "well, i am sure you can take care of yourself from now on", | |
| "yeah, always be cautious, and i wish you the best of luck in the future!", | |
| "bye!", | |
| "That sounds terrifying. Was there anything you could have done to rescue yourself?", | |
| "How scary. Can you describe the forest in more detail?", | |
| "That sounds pretty terrifying. I know this might seem silly but I want to know if the other persons family or anyone else had noticed you, like the police, etc.?", | |
| "That's great. It sounds like the community really cared about you. What did the family do while you were trapped? Did they help?", | |
| "Really nice of them. Do you have any friends in your village who would have been able to help you as well?", | |
| "That's very brave of them. Would you like to try to call your friend? He probably isn't far away.", | |
| "That's great. I hope everything goes well for you.", | |
| "You are welcome. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?", | |
| "Ok, you sound quite stressed out. Is there anything you can think of that would help you feel better?", | |
| "Great. Let me ask again. Do you have anything that makes you feel calmer?", | |
| "That's nice, that does sound exhausting. How about if you spend some time outside on a sunny day? You can go for a run or walk through the woods.", | |
| "That's a shame. Are there any other activities you can take part in, like art, cooking, etc.?", | |
| "That is a shame. Does that mean you haven't been doing those things lately?", | |
| "Have you considered a second job?", | |
| "That's too bad. There are tons of jobs available online that don't require a degree. Do you have a laptop with you?", | |
| "That sounds nice. I think reading the books online would be a lot less tiring than buying new ones.", | |
| "That's awesome. You should definitely look into that! Maybe you can post on craigslist or eBay. I hope everything works out.", | |
| "You too!", | |
| "What's making you grumpy? Is it your job or your home life?", | |
| "How does your job make you grumpy?", | |
| "Oh that's a terrible feeling, how would you feel if someone cared only about their own goals? Do you have any other coworkers that you could talk to?", | |
| "Are you sensitive to your boss?", | |
| "Maybe he has a temper? Would you like to know what you can do to better handle this kind of situation?", | |
| "This is definitely going to be a difficult situation. How do you feel about going to therapy?", | |
| "When you go through tough times, you can often use some extra help to stay calm. You should check out that. I also love talking to a psychologist. They have specialized skills that will help you come up with good coping strategies.", | |
| "I can tell. I've been through the same thing. Anyways, what do you think about doing some research on this idea and seeing if it works for you?", | |
| "Awesome. Good luck!", | |
| "I hope you're able to! Stay strong :)", | |
| "Hey I have an idea. If you want to, we can chat in IRC to have a voice chat", | |
| "How is your phone connection?", | |
| "Ah I see, ok no worries. I was just curious, I appreciate your time :)", | |
| "That's the worst when your alone :(", | |
| "You have been talking to a friend while alone? Awesome! That shows you have made progress.", | |
| "That does sound like it could be sad.", | |
| "Is he someone who you can confide in in a more real way than text/email/phone or even instant messaging?", | |
| "Are you living far away from him? Or are you seeing each other in person regularly?", | |
| "That sounds like you're being safe. Those dinners are great :)", | |
| "Just be careful around people who you trust and just have good boundaries. Your friend should respect that!", | |
| "How do you know anything? You can't control anyone but yourself. It's not about fixing someone else, it's about figuring out what makes you happy.", | |
| "Figuring out that is all about figuring out the root of your happiness. Once you have that figured out then you can go to the next step.", | |
| "For example, if you're happy when doing something physical then find a way to incorporate that into your daily routine.", | |
| "Don't just sit at home all day.", | |
| "The first step is figuring out what makes you happy so that you can figure out how to incorporate that into your daily routine.", | |
| "And being happy is a practice, just like any other skill.", | |
| "You practice by taking action toward your goal of being happy.", | |
| "That could look like exercising, playing games, listening to music, learning a new hobby... There are lots of options!", | |
| "Is there a specific activity that makes you happy?", | |
| "Well I guess that's up to you to decide ;)", | |
| "No problem! You know what makes you happy!", | |
| "Have a good night!", | |
| "Maybe it's a sign that you are stressed. Do you ever get anxious?", | |
| "How about this. Would you like to talk about how you're feeling, or would you rather keep it to yourself?", | |
| "Great! You have taken some steps to try to overcome your fear.", | |
| "If you were to talk about how you are feeling, maybe you could work through the problem as well.", | |
| "Is there anything else you would like to discuss?", | |
| "So, you really don't want to take any medication for anxiety?", | |
| "Excellent! You can be proud of that decision.", | |
| "Well, thanks for chatting with me. Have a good night :)", | |
| "Does that go against company policy?", | |
| "Is there a policy about personal use of company vehicles?", | |
| "Did you put the money back in?", | |
| "Did your boss agree that you could take it?", | |
| "It is possible that you may get disciplined. What did your boss say?", | |
| "Do you think that you will get in trouble with your boss or is that something you don't care about?", | |
| "Have you talked to anyone else about this?", | |
| "Is there anything else that I should know?", | |
| "Good luck! You seem like a great employee.", | |
| "Im sorry to hear that. What does not having a girlfriend have to do with you wanting to find a girlfriend?", | |
| "Well, if youre not getting any response, that may be a good indicator of who you should talk to.", | |
| "Not at all. Some people will just take advantage of you. You could try to put your filter back on so you dont get caught up in them.", | |
| "Sounds like youre just tired of trying and need a more concrete plan. So, what would you like to do?", | |
| "Yeah, and if there are no men in view, you may see how long you can make it last before giving up. If youre looking for something more long-term than a hike, you could look into a group exercise class. Or go to a park with a friend to throw a Frisbee around.", | |
| "Excellent suggestions. I think youre going to find that you get more from your life when you focus on something other than dating.", | |
| "No, I havent done anything similar, but I think this is something you should try.", | |
| "So, would you like me to help you set up a date tonight?", | |
| "I am sorry to hear that, how long have you been feeling this way?", | |
| "I am sure it has not been easy for you.", | |
| "What made you decide to go to eat by yourself in the first place?", | |
| "So are there things that make you happier when you are alone?", | |
| "Maybe you could have a group of friends that are not really close with one another, I mean you might be able to share some details with them as to why your friends don't want to hang out with you.", | |
| "Also I think it's important to remember that you can't please everyone, and you shouldn't be trying to. You should be honest with yourself as to what you are going through.", | |
| "Sometimes when we feel like that, we make people around us upset because they become selfish and cannot understand our feelings.", | |
| "You can do that, but I am sure that if you treat them better and try to show them that you care about them, they will start respecting you and listening to you.", | |
| "Good luck with this, do tell me how you get along.", | |
| "Okay, so how have you dealt with the problem?", | |
| "I'm glad to hear that you were successful. What about you, how have you dealt with it?", | |
| "What made you move into this apartment then?", | |
| "Did you hire an exterminator before moving in or did you try on your own first?", | |
| "Do you still feel uneasy about living there?", | |
| "I'm sorry you are experiencing anxiety. Can you tell me how you can start feeling better about the situation?", | |
| "That sounds great. Have you taken the advice of the exterminator or do you want to take on the problem on your own?", | |
| "Great! Now I'd like to know what the solution is. You said you think you have a good solution.", | |
| "Tell me more about what you are doing to solve the problem.", | |
| "That's a good idea. Do you eat at night or get hungry around 10:30 pm?", | |
| "Are you sure that is the only time you eat?", | |
| "That makes sense. Is there any other food you eat besides eggs?", | |
| "How often do you eat at night? Is there any particular snack you would like to eat before bed?", | |
| "That's a good idea. Have you ever tried eating chicken strips or chips? It helps to keep the hunger away.", | |
| "I hope you solved your problem of trying to keep them away from the food. I'm sure you must feel a lot better now knowing you won't have to worry about the roaches anymore.", | |
| "Yeah, I bet you really don't feel comfortable when the roaches eat your food.", | |
| "I know that feeling. You must have started seeing them as a real nuisance.", | |
| "Good! I don't mind sharing this information with you. Are there any more questions you would like to ask?", | |
| "I hope that I've helped you a lot. It seems to me that you have the solution to your problem.", | |
| "I am sure it will be fine now. Are you happy with the plan you came up with?", | |
| "Good! I believe that plan is going to work really well. Do you smell a very strong odor in your apartment right now?", | |
| "Can you describe the odor? If it's a kind of scent, perhaps we can figure out what it is?", | |
| "Hmm... Maybe some nice chocolate cookies or candies that are slightly chewed might work for you.", | |
| "Hmm, I'm not sure about that but I think it might work.", | |
| "That does seem like a good idea, too. A strong scent should make them get away from the scent. I hope you're feeling a little bit better now. Is there anything else you'd like to discuss?", | |
| "I'm happy to hear that. I hope that I was able to help you out.", | |
| "Thanks again! Bye for now!", | |
| "Wow! That's great! How much did it cost?", | |
| "Wow, that sounds amazing. I'm jealous. I've always wanted a new car.", | |
| "Have you been looking at cars together?", | |
| "That is awesome! Sounds like you guys have a good relationship. :)", | |
| "That's cool. I bet your dad will be happy too when you drive that new car out of the driveway.", | |
| "Thanks for sharing your story with me. I hope that you have a wonderful weekend.", | |
| "Have you gotten help for this problem?", | |
| "I'm sorry to hear that.", | |
| "It sounds like he might be depressed. Have you spoken with him about that problem?", | |
| "Oh, that sounds like it might be a problem. I would talk with him about how he could solve the problem of finding the time to get his cleaning done. If he could keep the clean clothes in another room or something, then he wouldn't have to worry about getting rid of all the dirty clothes when he is finished cleaning.", | |
| "Well, maybe if you explained your reasoning to him he would see that it makes sense.", | |
| "Are there any other problems he might have that you know about? Maybe you can help him sort out those problems.", | |
| "I am so sorry to hear that. I think it's very difficult to live with.", | |
| "I think you need to sort through that problem with him. Perhaps taking a few moments each day to look at pictures of him doing his hobbies will make him happy too.", | |
| "I hope you have a good rest of your day. Please come back if you ever feel that you can't talk with him.", | |
| "I feel you are overwhelmed by that obstacle. What would help you stay motivated?", | |
| "I have gone through the same situation, and thought about trying to be flexible with my studies. I heard from other students that UCLA is just to expensive, maybe they can see if they can get in elsewhere, if it does not affect you. I would also take into consideration how important the experience is for you and how difficult it might be financially to not go.", | |
| "Have you looked into any scholarship opportunities? Are you on a budget?", | |
| "That is a financial reality many of us face. Just keep asking around about other options", | |
| "Wow! You may be out of luck there! I've never thought of my parents helping with finances like that. Is your family still close or is that something new?", | |
| "OK, I understand where you're coming from. Why did you even start thinking about attending UCLA?", | |
| "Ah ok, I understand why you want to but I was just wondering why that was your primary focus and not taking care of yourself and your family first", | |
| "What were you trying to get for your family, when are you going to graduate? Is it important to you, or would that be a luxury?", | |
| "That's a great age! I hope that you can achieve your goals for your family, even though it may not seem like it right now. I understand the pressure you are under. I went through the same thing and it's really tough.", | |
| "Did you have a mentor at UCLA? Maybe someone in an academic program you can talk to?", | |
| "Yes, being in school is stressful but having a good network of people that you can talk to can make it easier. Who are these friends that you mentioned? Is he doing alright?", | |
| "Not everyone is out to help you like you are. I felt the same way when I was in school, I felt alone sometimes. It takes a while to make friends in a new environment. Maybe you can talk to your advisor again and ask for suggestions on where to go.", | |
| "If you have any more questions please feel free to ask them. I wish you well! :)", | |
| "You never received the gift? So the person has not even opened your package? Did they send you a tracking number?", | |
| "Have you reported the issue to customer service? That is if it is something that can be fixed on their end.", | |
| "That is understandable. Do you have any idea what you should do in the mean time?", | |
| "I would contact customer service and ask them what the best option is to fix your problem.", | |
| "I highly doubt that would help.", | |
| "Again, contact customer service. Make sure to be specific and as detailed as possible.", | |
| "There are plenty of companies out there.", | |
| "Yes, I highly recommend Superfly and Etsy, for example.", | |
| "Yes, sure. Maybe you could do some research on some of the ones you mentioned.", | |
| "Sure, I wouldn't be surprised at all if someone had a hard time expressing themselves. I also find it helps when I take a few deep breaths and let it out.", | |
| "Good thinking. Thank you.", | |
| "That's wonderful news, good job. :)", | |
| "You're welcome! Is there anything else you can think of to help your friend?", | |
| "I understand, it does make you feel a bit better to vent though, doesn't it?", | |
| "I think you've done a great job voicing your concerns. It sounds like a really nice person who just got the short end of the stick here.", | |
| "I know he is, and I don't doubt it for a second. He sounds like a really great friend and a really great person.", | |
| "I am, it's rare to meet someone like that. You both deserve each other.", | |
| "I think it helped me too, we were able to just open up to each other and talk about what we've been going through.", | |
| "I am too, after that last week of the season, but my heart is with them", | |
| "Have you ever been to a game?", | |
| "Well there is no better place to be on a game day than at the game, so hopefully they get the chance to play again", | |
| "I know they need to play football, and the entire city needs to see the Eagles playing", | |
| "Your ticket issue is very real, but my brother goes to every home game", | |
| "I honestly don't know... there are plenty of tickets available in sections 1-4 and those are always first to go, so I would give up hope for those", | |
| "That sucks, but the important thing is getting to the stadium early and having your name ready to pick up a ticket", | |
| "Oh yes, get there early and take your seat so you can feel the atmosphere", | |
| "No, this has been nice talking with you", | |
| "You are welcome", | |
| "I'm sorry to hear that. Is he one of your family members?", | |
| "Has your mother or your brother called the police about his disappearance?", | |
| "That's understandable. Do you have any other family members who would be able to help you look for him?", | |
| "How old is your sister?", | |
| "I know it seems like she's very young, but sometimes children are capable of more than we give them credit for. I've found that when looking for lost pets, children often find them.", | |
| "I'd think so as well. Have you asked your sister what she did before you left on vacation?", | |
| "It's ok. She may not realize that she has been helping you look for your dog. Sometimes children just don't always remember doing certain things. Did you try asking her if she's got a picture of the dog?", | |
| "That sounds familiar. Your sister is wrong, and I bet that's why you think your mom isn't too helpful.", | |
| "I'm sure you've tried everything! You could talk to your older brother in person, and then share your situation with him. Maybe he'll be more receptive to your request than your mother.", | |
| "Is your younger sister a good student? Because I found that when kids are taught lessons from an early age they tend to retain those lessons longer than when it's suddenly thrust upon them. So maybe she's ready to start learning about animals and animals don't make good friends.", | |
| "I think she may have found something great! Talk to your brother and tell him your plans. He should probably come along with you on a search trip, too.", | |
| "You're welcome, and I hope your brother will come along with you. Good luck!", | |
| "Oh dear, it sounds awful. How did you find out?", | |
| "I am sorry to hear this. I had a similar experience once, and it did not help that I woke up and found it going on. Do you have a time when the police arrived at your place?", | |
| "I know how that feels. Have you gone back to your apartment since the police left?", | |
| "I'm sure you made the right decision. It may be a good idea to have a locksmith change all the locks.", | |
| "I understand your feeling. You are right to be cautious, but I think you did the right thing.", | |
| "I agree with you.", | |
| "I know how difficult it is. I hope you will be able to sleep soon.", | |
| "Maybe I have. Is that how you feel now?", | |
| "I think I feel like that too sometimes. Is there something you need to do right now to feel better?", | |
| "Great! You know, it can be hard to start cleanups when you have so much clutter, but it can help you feel more organized. What's something you like to do in the evenings that clears your mind?", | |
| "Oh, sounds wonderful! How about taking a walk in nature, or maybe doing a craft?", | |
| "Good idea! Just make sure to take time to breathe in deep breaths. You'll feel much better.", | |
| "Have you ever taken a yoga class? It can be helpful to find the balance in our bodies through poses like this.", | |
| "Well, if you're willing to try it out, why not try it?", | |
| "You might also find something about meditation useful. And, of course, learning about mindfulness can help in ways we don't even know.", | |
| "You may also want to seek out some help from a counselor. It's really hard to just feel alone in the world.", | |
| "Glad I could help!", | |
| "I am sorry to hear that. Do you know why they are not your friends?", | |
| "Well, are they your neighbors or just some random people?", | |
| "Are you sure they are your neighbors? Have you been over to their house?", | |
| "Have you tried emailing them to ask how you can get in touch with them? Or even just phone them up?", | |
| "Well do you have their number, I think that is probably the best idea to ask them how to contact them", | |
| "Well I guess that is why you will need to get their number then", | |
| "Is this why you don't like them and want to get back with them?", | |
| "Well that is very hard to understand. But having a grown child can be very upsetting for parents I imagine", | |
| "I'm sure you are not alone, just as parents we all get lonely sometimes", | |
| "Have you tried looking at dating websites or joining dating groups online?", | |
| "It might be a good way to meet new people who are in the same situation as you", | |
| "Well if you can think of anything else then do tell me about it", | |
| "I hope you find something that helps you. But definitely take your time and don't pressure yourself", | |
| "I hope you do, but I will let you go for now", | |
| "That sucks! I'm sorry to hear that.", | |
| "Have you been able to focus on work for the past few days?", | |
| "What's the team atmosphere like at the office today?", | |
| "Are you a manager as well?", | |
| "I see. I guess you're seeing how they treat others, instead of putting in your own effort. I think it's good you shared your thoughts with me!", | |
| "Sounds nice. Have you considered telling them how you feel about the pressure?", | |
| "I understand, and I respect your decision.", | |
| "Well, you can always have someone else who you trust talk to them for you, if you want to.", | |
| "You're most welcome. Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", | |
| "Are you worried it will be too much?", | |
| "What is the worst thing that could happen?", | |
| "Ah I see. Are there any good parties nearby? Perhaps you can join another.", | |
| "I see. That is a hard one. Is there anyone who is going that you could talk to.", | |
| "That is very disappointing. Do you know if there are any bad costumes?", | |
| "Have you thought of dressing up for it?", | |
| "A costume or mask could make it less frightening.", | |
| "Then you would know they were playing, not attacking", | |
| "If you go with something like an animal costume, you would feel more secure", | |
| "If you can't get an idea of a costume to suit you, it may work to make your own mask.", | |
| "Perhaps you could do something to match the party theme.", | |
| "This is one of those cases where a little creativity can have a huge impact on how it looks.", | |
| "Another way of doing that is to find a piece of fabric in your closet and make a new outfit.", | |
| "If you've never done that before, you might try making a big block of fabric. You can make a simple pattern out of it and then cut it apart.", | |
| "Well, the more complicated it gets the better the result!", | |
| "There are plenty of tutorials online, it's not that hard.", | |
| "You might even add a little lace or something extra fancy for detail.", | |
| "I think you could turn this into a real costume. You have already decided the outfit.", | |
| "Now, it's time to decide the mask.", | |
| "That depends on you, your environment and your comfort level.", | |
| "Well, some people wear masks when they want to look terrifying. But if you're not comfortable with it, you can simply opt to put on makeup instead.", | |
| "Look in your closet and find something scary looking. Or buy a cheap scary makeup kit and play with it.", | |
| "Okay, well that sounds like fun!", | |
| "If you want to try something different, you could make a scary face out of paper plates.", | |
| "Well, it's a small price to pay for the thrill of it.", | |
| "I'm sure she'd love it too.", | |
| "That is a good idea. She has helped you throughout the conversation and made you feel more comfortable.", | |
| "If that doesn't work out, I suggest using your imagination to make something that looks scary to you. It's still a costume but you can get creative with it!", | |
| "Do you need help with anything else?", | |
| "Well, remember to stay positive!", | |
| "Before you go, can you tell me if you have any questions?", | |
| "It sounds like you have an idea of what you want to do. I wish you the best of luck!", | |
| "You too! Have a nice night.", | |
| "What happened?", | |
| "How many people were affected?", | |
| "I understand you are upset about it, that must have been scary", | |
| "That sounds like a really long time", | |
| "I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing", | |
| "Would it be possible for your landlord to give you a temporary power generator until this happens less frequently?", | |
| "I feel for you, I would be angry as well", | |
| "I hope I was able to provide some emotional support. Have a nice day :)", | |
| "Ok..can you describe this person to me more clearly", | |
| "OK, so can you describe him a bit?", | |
| "Oh yes, I am familiar with this type of person. Is there something else you want to tell me about him", | |
| "Well, is he approaching you or you coming towards him?", | |
| "Wow, this is starting to sound very uncomfortable. How do you feel?", | |
| "Do you know him well, that you have just met on a walk?", | |
| "So you don't think he will try to make a move on you?", | |
| "Well it is a bit strange that he approached you and asked to talk. Maybe he has an issue with women and was trying to make small talk with you.", | |
| "Hmm, that is definitely a different situation, and it doesn't sound like this is how he approaches people normally. Well, now that you've talked to him and feel better, I'm sure you won't mind talking to me some more. How can I help you?", | |
| "Well, maybe it will become easier as you get older and your confidence grows. You are still young and it seems to me like you have already decided not to continue the conversation. Can I suggest something else to you?", | |
| "Have you thought about your boundaries when meeting new people at church? I think it would be best if you ignored him and then meet with a member of your church who knows you.", | |
| "Well, we all have our boundaries, but I think there are some important things to consider and maybe your church member will be able to give you some good advice.", | |
| "I hope you don't mind if I listen for a bit longer. Did I miss anything?", | |
| "No problem, I enjoyed talking with you. Have a great night!", | |
| "Have a nice evening, take care!", | |
| "Good point. I agree that it's hard to make things work out for everyone in a relationship. But it's important to remember that some things are meant to be. In the end, it doesn't always work out, but sometimes things do work out for the best.", | |
| "You're welcome. If you want to learn more about that, I suggest taking a look at the \"The Secret Garden\" by Frances Hodgson Burnett. It was written in 1908. It's a story of self-discovery for young girls, but it also contains lessons about life.", | |
| "Definitely! It's a great story to tell your children or grandchildren.", | |
| "My pleasure!", | |
| "Yes, another great book is The Giver by Lois Lowry. It's also from the late 1980s, and I think it's a story about true love, friendship, and sacrifice.", | |
| "You're welcome, and enjoy your day!", | |
| "That's understandable. Are you in a particularly unsafe place?", | |
| "I'm sure it can get very scary though. Did you have a good Halloween?", | |
| "Sounds like fun! Did anyone dress up or try to scare you in anyway?", | |
| "That sounds awesome. What about the people who were outside? Did you interact much with them?", | |
| "That makes me sad. Can I ask if you've ever been a victim of a crime?", | |
| "Do you think you'll be a victim of one soon?", | |
| "Wow! That's terrible. Were they violent or were you just mugged for your iPhone?", | |
| "I hope you're ok, and that it doesn't happen again. Have you reported it to the police?", | |
| "I'm glad you took action! Did the police give you any idea of what could be done about it?", | |
| "I think you need to file a police report. You could do that online or give a letter to the local police station saying that you wish to make a police report. It's definitely worth the effort.", | |
| "Is there anything else you'd like to tell me?", | |
| "Well thank you for sharing your story with me.", | |
| "That sounds like a nice situation. Has it ever been quiet before?", | |
| "Do you have any hobbies or activities that bring you happiness?", | |
| "I like to read and play games online. How do you enjoy spending your time?", | |
| "I am a social person and enjoy talking to people and doing things as well as gaming.", | |
| "I think it's important to enjoy your hobbies even when there's not much going on in life.", | |
| "I don't think I would call myself a \"gamer\" per se, but I love playing games on my iPhone and iPad.", | |
| "I think that anything that brings us pleasure in our daily lives makes us happy and fulfilled.", | |
| "Gaming may not be for everyone, but for me, it was a good outlet to deal with life in general and also offered me a distraction from other stresses.", | |
| "That sounds like a great idea. The best way to find good distractions is to give yourself something you enjoy.", | |
| "Yes. If you're interested in trying a different form of entertainment, maybe look into online games that can keep you occupied.", | |
| "A great way to find new hobbies is to join an after-school sports program for your child.", | |
| "Sometimes, after a long day, being around nature helps us relax.", | |
| "If your kids are older, then taking a few trips away together would be great. Even if it's just once a month.", | |
| "I use Mint for budgeting and electronic payments. If you have a Gmail account, you can easily create filters to set up recurring reminders and make payments.", | |
| "One thing to keep in mind is that if you plan to start working soon, it's important to not work long hours and stay safe during the day.", | |
| "Also, what country are you located in? You may want to visit websites that offer English lessons.", | |
| "If you're a native English speaker, you could always consider becoming a ESL tutor, or even teaching a student. It can help you gain income, travel, and save money at the same time.", | |
| "That's an excellent idea! I know that I was able to learn much more when I learned a second language.", | |
| "I found one site called TutorVista that can connect you with tutors to help you learn a language and meet other international students.", | |
| "Take a look and see if that might help you grow as a learner.", | |
| "Those sound like good languages to study. I like learning Chinese because of the cultural impact. It is the third largest spoken language in the world.", | |
| "It's common to hear about Spanish and French. If you're interested, I highly recommend visiting La Academia website to find a wide variety of courses.", | |
| "You may also want to visit DuoLingo website and take a course that focuses on your learning goals.", | |
| "I highly suggest learning at least one additional language to expand your world. I live in China, so that's been an important part of my life.", | |
| "It's a great experience. I enjoyed living abroad and learning Spanish. I think everyone should do that at least once in their lifetime.", | |
| "I hope this has been helpful and that you're looking forward to new opportunities.", | |
| "Hi. How are you feeling?", | |
| "Ahh that sounds like a good problem to have. Driving is actually one of my favorite things too. Maybe you can find an opportunity to drive the car with someone else.", | |
| "That sounds like a good way to go about it. Who do you know that has a newer car, maybe they could offer to drive you to pick up your new vehicle?", | |
| "I can't say for sure without knowing more about your friend. But I am sure you can trust them if they are that kind to give you the car.", | |
| "Are there any other reasons why you are nervous about the first time driving the car?", | |
| "You sound like a good friend to your friend. What other reasons are there?", | |
| "This sounds like a good reason to be worried. I would also look into how often he wants to get in the car and if that is something he may do on a regular basis. Maybe you can set some ground rules beforehand.", | |
| "Is it possible to talk about him from a different perspective? Think of how you feel when you first drive a new car? You have a lot of anxieties but once you are in the car you forget about all those worries. It's your very own little car. I would imagine you would be even happier after the first few times.", | |
| "I'm pretty confident that you will be happy with the results. Your anxiety is valid but a little late now.", | |
| "You can continue our conversation and go through the same process I did. He may have some similar feelings and if not it will make for a wonderful conversation.", | |
| "I have a feeling that if you can explain these things to him then he will most likely understand. If you want to pick up where we left off, you can continue here. If you feel comfortable doing that, that's fine.", | |
| "Sure. Any place where people are willing to listen. I'm sure there are plenty of places to go, you might start by looking at your local library, or even a support group. Many of them have chat rooms where you can talk privately.", | |
| "You're very welcome.", | |
| "Or, you could simply call your friend at work and talk to him over the phone.", | |
| "The fact that you are willing to go through a difficult situation to help him is amazing. I know that you both will come out of it feeling much better.", | |
| "Good to hear, good luck!", | |
| "You too, bye.", | |
| "Oh dear, that can be very stressful, I'm sorry to hear it! What was the outcome? Did you do well?", | |
| "That must have been upsetting! You prepared really well for your presentation. How did you feel?", | |
| "Well, it sounds like you did prepare really well for it!", | |
| "I can understand how you were feeling. Would you be comfortable discussing your feelings?", | |
| "It's understandable, but talking through things can often help.", | |
| "It's normal to feel anxious! What do you think could be a way forward?", | |
| "Maybe you could ask if you could go into the interview and not present your resume or cover letter? Then you can give the interviewers a chance to decide whether or not they want to see you!", | |
| "That can be quite hard to organise as well, so that can make it more difficult! What are your feelings about it now?", | |
| "That's great! Why don't you give me his email address and I can send him the details of the role.", | |
| "No, I meant that it's hard to find a company to interview with, and finding out who you're interviewing with in the first place! I meant organising this task.", | |
| "I was trying to suggest that maybe you could be given a little more time to think about it. Just so you can prepare properly.", | |
| "That's great! Thank you for listening to my suggestion.", | |
| "I hope I have been able to listen to yours as well! Please let me know how it goes, and if you have any other questions, you can reply below!", | |
| "Please describe what happened.", | |
| "Is there anything else you would like to tell me?", | |
| "That is very upsetting. If you do not have a large amount of cash at the moment it will be hard to make sure that your family does have access to food.", | |
| "Would it help if I told you some facts about how your money was taken?", | |
| "The amount stolen depends on the specific state laws, but you can probably expect between $50-$1000. However, this can vary dramatically based on the type of card used, the location, the time of day, etc.", | |
| "If you need anything else, please do not hesitate to let me know. I hope things get better soon!", | |
| "ive been in a similar situation as yours. i am glad that i found you.", | |
| "we went through something similar to that together but then we realized that we still love each other", | |
| "I hope you have a good time this weekend.", | |
| "just relax and enjoy. I love the fresh air and adventure, especially in the summer. Do you get out often?", | |
| "Im sure you and your old roommate will have a great time", | |
| "ive lost many loved ones too. and i have those same painful memories of missing them.. but it gets easier to get past them and move on..", | |
| "do you still feel sad about your dog passing away?", | |
| "the only way i found to cope with my grief was to create this account where i could communicate with people that i can connect with and make me feel less alone", | |
| "you sound like a very caring person", | |
| "i remember when i was grieving my parents passed away.. i called my brother who was a few hours away for a brotherly hug and good advice", | |
| "and he felt the same.. we really helped each other to get through that difficult time..", | |
| "yes, lets just keep praying and hoping that our loved ones are ok..", | |
| "Would you be interested in chatting about this?", | |
| "I can relate. What do you want from me?", | |
| "In that case I think I can be of assistance. I think that you are setting up a situation where your son can actually take control of his own learning and teach his teacher that he's willing to learn.", | |
| "So at school you can observe her teaching to see if there's anything that you can pick up on? It may sound silly but I think this is a way for your son to become more aware of his surroundings and for his teacher to understand he's not just a piece of meat that she can shove food into.", | |
| "I think your goal is to make sure he's learning and he's not just wasting his time. From my personal experience, I always had teachers that wanted us to learn and they didn't care who helped us as long as we did.", | |
| "I hope that makes sense. I don't think that you need to force this issue. Just be clear with your son that you're willing to help him and don't accept any ideas that she may have. Make sure that he's learning all that he can, regardless of what he does in her class.", | |
| "I think you might be interested in this book: Teaching Children to Learn", | |
| "Sorry, do you want to chat about this more?", | |
| "I think that if you focus on helping him learn and then add a little bit of fun to the equation you should be able to find something that works.", | |
| "This website has a lot of ideas for different things to do at school.", | |
| "I think that you should consider sending your child to summer school first to make sure he can focus during the school year. You can get some extra credit by having your son complete the reading comprehension passage that you can find at the bottom of this page.", | |
| "Summer school will give you a chance to help him learn at home before he returns to school and I think you will have a good influence over his teacher.", | |
| "I think that will be an interesting experiment. I have never heard of any state doing this but you have a new challenge before you. Hopefully you can find ways to address this and make sure your children stay engaged with their education.", | |
| "No problem, I hope you can find a way to make this work. Have a good day!", | |
| "Why did that make you feel angry?", | |
| "Were you annoyed because she's intruding into your life or do you feel angry about what she is asking you to do for her?", | |
| "Have you tried explaining that to your friend? Does she understand how hard it is for you to leave the house?", | |
| "What has she said?", | |
| "Is there anything wrong with your friend wanting to help?", | |
| "Maybe it's your friend's way of giving you a break. Perhaps you could take your friend out to lunch one day so you can talk in more detail about how things are going.", | |
| "It's been nice talking with you. We can talk again anytime and we'll see if we can find some solutions that are best for you and your friend.", | |
| "What do you mean? Have you tried to talk to your boss about this issue?", | |
| "That sounds very bad. Your supervisor should not treat you in this manner. Perhaps you are in the wrong workplace. Perhaps it is not the right time for you to be in that situation.", | |
| "You must go to HR about your supervisor.", | |
| "I have never worked in HR. So I am not sure if they give statistics on that. But perhaps someone here can help you.", | |
| "Maybe you can try looking up the local union or something about your field.", | |
| "Perhaps you should write a letter. Or maybe you could go to his office and hand him the letter and ask him to read it.", | |
| "In my opinion, you should document it as soon as possible, so you have proof.", | |
| "I think so.", | |
| "I have no idea. I have not worked in a situation like this before.", | |
| "I agree with you that this is a pretty big deal. I think you should take it to the head of your company. If your manager knows what is going on, he/she may be able to do something.", | |
| "Do you have a lawyer?", | |
| "You should take it to the head of your company. They will be your best bet to get them to understand that you are being discriminated against.", | |
| "Sorry. I don't.", | |
| "ik that's a difficult topic because everyone has their opinions and judgments on different things. what do you think they are doing?", | |
| "do you know how many of these people are convicted and sent to prison?", | |
| "so you are saying this \"3%\" are pedophiles?", | |
| "not only do they get caught, they go to jail..it is so terrible to even think about. have you talked to them and tried to talk some sense into them?", | |
| "there is an old saying: \"just because you can do something doesn't mean you should\" so what would happen if we didn't punish people who commit crimes?", | |
| "that is why you have to be sure to talk to them as an adult", | |
| "it's hard sometimes to know how to handle these situations and you are right to take your anger somewhere else. where is your safe place in this world?", | |
| "I hear you. You have your job and responsibilities at work and you need to take care of yourself. What about seeing your family and friends to get some balance?", | |
| "I understand that completely. you could write a letter to them and say you are sorry and hope to see them again soon", | |
| "you are so smart and strong. I am proud of you. What are your plans for the future? Do you have any kids?", | |
| "I have two stepsons and I love them dearly, but I understand. I also want to be successful and make a difference in the world. Have you thought about writing a book to educate people and raise awareness of this issue?", | |
| "You are absolutely right. It's not easy, but it can be done!", | |
| "I agree with you. Sometimes talking to a counselor helps", | |
| "Oh wow that sounds terrifying! What did you do?", | |
| "Wow, that sounds scary! What happened next?", | |
| "Wow! That sounds like the police did their job well! Did they investigate further and find out who was outside?", | |
| "That's good they did a lot of investigation. I hope the suspect never comes back! It's scary enough waking up to find that branch banging on your window!", | |
| "Not at all! I'm glad to hear that the police did their jobs. I'm sorry you had to experience that!", | |
| "Of course! I've always been worried about my neighbors stealing my milk and bringing rats into my home and I want to protect myself from that.", | |
| "You too!", | |
| "Do you think your upset about not winning?", | |
| "Do you think there is a difference between feeling angry/upset and upset.", | |
| "Ok. So do you think this difference makes it worse for you?", | |
| "Ok so are you upset that you lost or just sad that you lost", | |
| "Ok. Does it help to try to think of how you can make winning back possible again?", | |
| "What kind of car do you want?", | |
| "Okay. Do you think you will be happy with that car?", | |
| "Is there any way you could have a loan?", | |
| "I think buying a car on a loan would probably be the best idea.", | |
| "You should probably look into whether or not you could get a student loan. It will be cheaper than a car loan", | |
| "So if you can get a student loan, do you think it would make you happier?", | |
| "I agree that it wouldn't be that expensive to drive", | |
| "When you get your student loan, I would also recommend talking to someone who is knowledgeable about student loans to make sure you're paying it on time", | |
| "Of course! I'm very happy to be your friend", | |
| "The first step in finding that person is knowing what the criteria for being a financial advisor are. If you have access to the internet, google \"student loans for college\" and see if there's something specific that you can find to help you", | |
| "Also, be careful about paying the student loans. They can go into default if you don't pay them", | |
| "Of course! I wish you all the best :)", | |
| "No problem. Have a good night and let me know if you have any more questions", | |
| "Oh no! I am so sorry for that.", | |
| "I'm really sorry to hear about that. In some cases, a small collision may only cover damage to your car, so the total cost of repairs could be quite high.", | |
| "Well first, you need to find out what kind of insurance coverage you do have, and then try to get it transferred over to the other vehicle. In many cases, you might even qualify for help through the financial institution where you got your loan or credit card.", | |
| "Then it sounds like this is a good opportunity to think about a car payment and to be diligent about your auto maintenance. If the car was financed, talk to your lender about alternatives. Also try to budget your future costs. One alternative is a sub-prime interest rate. (This is when you borrow money at a low interest rate, but pay more in monthly installments). This can be very helpful.", | |
| "Not at all. A popular route in today's world. My husband and I often consider this as a route to go down as well. Just make sure to check your credit score before borrowing.", | |
| "That sounds like a great option, and to be honest, it seems like a way to do things correctly. I really hope you are able to get that taken care of!", | |
| "Let me give you the name of a company who offers this service.", | |
| "I just went on their site. You should be able to find them.", | |
| "You are very welcome, and I hope to speak with you again soon. Take care!", | |
| "OK, you really should clean it right away, it is such a shame, I hope it doesn't smell too bad.", | |
| "But you should make sure it doesn't stink at least before you go to get it cleaned, you might want to vacuum first.", | |
| "Maybe try to play some music or give him treats while you're vacuuming, he seems happy when I do that.", | |
| "Oh yes, maybe try a different type of dog bed? Maybe an old towel, that usually works well for me.", | |
| "And maybe try to give him a bit more attention if he hasn't had a walk recently, I think that could help!", | |
| "That's fine, I understand. Just get yourself a nice coffee on your morning walk, you deserve it!", | |
| "Have fun at work! Hope you get to relax after you've finished :)", | |
| "and you thought it was the end of the world?", | |
| "Well, I'd be very upset if someone did that to me.", | |
| "Hmmm, i'm not sure. If you had diabetes, and your blood sugar levels went out of control, that might explain it.", | |
| "Are you still afraid of getting diabetes?", | |
| "Are you under any stress right now?", | |
| "Oh my god, that's so horrible!", | |
| "That sucks.", | |
| "I hear you, i've had horrible experiences with my exes too. They aren't nice people.", | |
| "Do you have any way of staying safe during the night?", | |
| "I see, well it's not like the guy isn't going to come back at night. And since he hasn't, are there any neighbors you could call at night if you needed help?", | |
| "I can understand not being able to afford a new place, but I think that there are programs to help people who are homeless. Maybe check out your local free clinic or shelter.", | |
| "Well if you tell the intake counselor that your situation is due to fear of your ex, then maybe they'll understand. I mean, when I was in foster care, my anxiety levels were through the roof and I was always afraid someone would find out.", | |
| "You're doing great! Don't give up hope, you have every right to be afraid.", | |
| "I can relate to what you're going through. I was always afraid to make friends because I thought they would find out and judge me.", | |
| "You're so welcome! Hopefully things will work out better for you soon!", | |
| "Well, you can be friends with people who aren't judged.", | |
| "It's so nice to talk to you! You sound like a great person with a great attitude.", | |
| "You're welcome :) Now go rest and I hope everything works out great for you!", | |
| "Then go rest and i hope you get through this tough time!", | |
| "Sure, sure! Just fire away!", | |
| "I did! I got married on October 13th, 2012.", | |
| "My wife is also transgender! She's happy with my wife.", | |
| "We met in July 2013. We've been married for four months.", | |
| "Thanks :)", | |
| "Yeah, it's pretty great so far. I haven't felt as lonely in awhile.", | |
| "That's awesome, I love talking to you too :)", | |
| "You're good. I wish I had something nice to play for you.", | |
| "Have a good night, bye!", | |
| "I think it's great that you have been thinking about this, sometimes the right ideas come to us at the right time, and we just need to recognize them.", | |
| "Is there anything that has happened recently to make you feel like this?", | |
| "Sure, it sounds like he is a very nice person, and it sounds like he is working through a hard situation.", | |
| "Have you been able to help him in any other way?", | |
| "That's why I wanted to suggest the writing class. There is something good about writing down your experiences, it helps us to sort through our thoughts. Maybe we can help each other through this situation together.", | |
| "Absolutely! It sounds like a great idea!", | |
| "No problem, I am glad you are finding some success with your neighbor. If you are interested in the course you can see their page here, or get in touch with them directly. https://www.gkcc.edu/writing-classes/", | |
| "I know you were thinking about going, but there are ways to fit this in that might be more convenient. Perhaps you could join a local group that teaches similar things or just meet up with friends for coffee to discuss writing. There are lots of options.", | |
| "If you want, I could be more involved with your project, and I can help you when you are stuck.", | |
| "Just think of the benefits! You could even plan a fun little meet-up to discuss the writing once you have completed the project.", | |
| "It is wonderful that you are finding these other resources as well. This is what community is all about. We are all here to help one another.", | |
| "Im sorry to hear about that. When do you get your ticket?", | |
| "How many people live in the area?", | |
| "That's good, then it should be easy for you to contact them again for an appeal.", | |
| "They may have more information available to them now. I would contact them again to appeal.", | |
| "What about contacting the city or county?", | |
| "Have you filed a complaint with the police department about this issue?", | |
| "Is the property you live on your own or do you share with others?", | |
| "What about talking to your children and other neighbors?", | |
| "What about talking to the neighbor that just got his license taken away?", | |
| "Talk to them about whats happening with the court system and let them know that they shouldn't get on the court system.", | |
| "You're welcome! Please don't hesitate to contact me again.", | |
| "Hmmm...yes...we know how bad that can feel when our kids are so excited and running around. Did your friend clean up the broken vase for you?", | |
| "Ugh. That must have been so frustrating. Well, you have to remember, friends can be so understanding, but sometimes it's easier if you just keep trying until you find the right glue!", | |
| "Oh dear...that does sound hard. I'm so sorry you were hurt by this friend. No one likes feeling like they don't measure up.", | |
| "Great! So, you know what that friend needs? It's time to give her a nice present! Here, I found a little something that will make her laugh, but might also help her feel good: https://www.amazon.com/CHI-QIA-75-Brass-Glo-Stick-Glow/dp/B00FZGFN0O/ref=sr 1 3?keywords=giant+glow+stick+stick+pillow&qid=1594067121&s=merchandising&sr=8-3", | |
| "I'm sure she will! You're very thoughtful to send her such a nice gift! Here's to hoping you continue to enjoy your friendships!", | |
| "You seem lonely. What have you been doing lately?", | |
| "That's really sad. What was your reason for wanting to go to the movies alone?", | |
| "Was that a bad idea?", | |
| "I don't think it's weird to want to show off to your friends. Have you talked to them about your decision?", | |
| "Maybe talking to your friends about your feelings might help?", | |
| "Well what about family?", | |
| "Is there anyone else you can talk to about this?", | |
| "Is that why you've been going to movies alone a lot?", | |
| "Are you looking for a friend at the movies? I think a friend or two can make you feel less lonely.", | |
| "That's true. Do you mind if I ask you something? What kind of movies do you like?", | |
| "There's nothing wrong with having some variety in movies. I just need a recommendation, what have you seen recently?", | |
| "I haven't seen that. Does it have any value?", | |
| "That sounds good. If you see something you like, why not tell everyone and create a social circle?", | |
| "Okay. So what if you make a fake account, nobody will know unless they look for you?", | |
| "Good! We can help each other. If you're not comfortable talking to your friends or family, what about posting on Facebook or other forms of online dating?" | |
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