data/train.csv

id,subtype,context,speaker,listener,utterance,power_relation,gold_standard,ann1_emotion,ann2_emotion,ann3_emotion,valence_mean,arousal_mean,dominance_mean
1,sarcasm-irony,"After the programmer accidentally pushed a code update that reverted most of the day's progress, another teammate sighs and addresses the small group of peers who worked on it together.",teammate,programmer,"Well, that went... great.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.44,-0.50,-0.67
2,sarcasm-irony,A developer in code review notices that a new programmer merged an untested change that broke the build late on a Friday. The developer posts to the team chat.,developer,new programmer,Nice job merging your updatesÉ exactly what we needed on a Friday afternoon.,peer,sadness,fear,sadness,sadness,-0.56,-0.50,0.17
2,strategic-politeness,A teammate asks you last-minute to take on part of their workload for the upcoming project. You respond in your team chat.,you,teammate,"I love that you asked, but I'm going to pass on taking this. I don't have the bandwidth this quarter, but thanks for thinking of me.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.44,-0.67,0.45
3,sarcasm-irony,"In a project meeting a tech running the demo couldn't get the it working, and the presenter found slides were missing. So they both hurriedly skipped explanations while others stared.",tech,presenter,"Well, that went perfectly.",peer,anger,anger,anger,fear,-0.44,-1.00,-0.22
5,strategic-politeness,You ask a colleague to cover part of your workload for the next two weeks so you can join an exciting new project part-time. The colleague replies by email.,colleague,you,"I wish I could help, but I can't take this on right now. I'm joining another exciting new project part-time.",peer,anger,anger,anger,sadness,-0.33,0.00,0.33
6,sarcasm-irony,"Right before the big media demo, a junior developer accidentally pushed an update that crashed the website. A senior manager pulls the junior developer aside.",senior manager,junior developer,"Don't worry, I'm sure the media is here to see me and not the new product.",high-to-low,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.44,0.67,0.00
7,strategic-politeness,A faculty advisor replies to a student's email asking to join an ongoing research project.,professor,you,"I appreciate your interest. I don't think this particular project is the best match right now, but I encourage you to look into other opportunities in the lab.",peer,anger,anger,anger,sadness,-0.67,-0.67,0.44
13,mixed-signals,After you stayed late helping to prepare materials assigned to you at the last minute. Your manager skims them quickly and replies with a curt comment about timing. You respond the next morning.,you,manager,"Next time, please give me a bit more notice.",peer,trust,trust,trust,anger,-0.22,0.67,0.00
13,sarcasm-irony,"After a client presentation went off the rails because the manager forgot the slide deck, an his intern nephwe turns to the manager in the meeting room.",intern nephew,manager,"Wow, so that's what they pay you the big bucks for.",low-to-high,surprise,anger,surprise,surprise,-0.44,0.00,0.22
15,passive-aggression,A junior developer is responding to their manager after being asked to handle another round of weekend QA. The junior has been given disproportionate weekend work compared with more senior colleagues over several cycles.,junior developer,engineering manager,"Sure, I'll take care of the extra QA this weekend, don't worry about me; I know you have more important things to do.",low-to-high,surprise,surprise,surprise,trust,0.11,0.00,0.33
16,sarcasm-irony,"After a meeting in which the CEO harshly criticized the new fashion rollout in front of the team, a designer stops the CEO in the hallway.",designer,CEO,I guess the finance guys driving this fashion line are better at numbers than fashion.,peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,surprise,-0.11,-0.34,0.22
18,mixed-signals,You're on a video call with your younger sister. She just finished telling you she's anxious about an upcoming interview and has been pacing. You waited a beat before replying.,you,sister,"You're doing fine. It's really important, but try not to overthink it.",peer,fear,trust,fear,fear,-0.22,-0.16,-0.22
18,passive-aggression,You and your sibling usually trade cooking and chores. Lately they cancel plans and expect you to cover evenings. Tonight they say they need to head out with friends right before dinner.,You,younger sibling,"Oh, it's fine go ahead and go; I can make dinner again, don't worry about me.",peer,sadness,sadness,surprise,joy,-0.22,-0.22,0.00
21,deflection-misdirection,"At a quiet family dinner, your younger sibling asks if you told Mom and Dad about losing your job earlier this month.",older sibling,younger sibling,Oh wow remember when Dad burned the Thanksgiving turkey and we all pretended it was 'extra crispy'?,high-to-low,disgust,disgust,sadness,fear,-0.11,-0.67,-0.44
21,passive-aggression,"Two adult siblings coordinate driving their elderly parent to a mid-morning medical appointment. The younger sibling texts that they'll be a bit late because of work, and the older sibling, who has done most of the rides lately, replies immediately.",older sibling,younger sibling,"Oh, that's fine take as long as you need. I’ve got all the time in the world like always.",high-to-low,surprise,surprise,surprise,disgust,-0.11,-0.67,0.11
21,strategic-politeness,You share a small apartment with a friend. Your roommate has been late doing dishes and leaving food on the counter for several days. After a long shift you come home to another mess and speak up.,you,roommate,"Hey, I know you've been swamped lately. Thanks for picking up last week, but  could you try to stay on top of the dishes this week?",peer,sadness,anger,anticipation,sadness,-0.11,0.00,0.33
22,strategic-politeness,Two siblings discuss a violin solo rehearsal the brother did for a family event. The sister has a history of blunt feedback but often softens criticism to avoid hurting feelings.,sister,brother,"You were really confident during most of it, and I loved your opening and finish. Keep that up.",peer,joy,joy,joy,joy,0.45,0.45,0.78
23,mixed-signals,"After a fight, your cousin has been distant for weeks and hasn't visited. They send a short message offering you a way back in.",cousin,you,"If you ever want to come by, the door may be open.",peer,surprise,surprise,joy,anticipation,0.44,0.34,-0.22
25,strategic-politeness,A tired parent speaks to their adult child who often starts chores but leaves things unfinished around the house.,parent,adult child,"I really appreciate how much you try to help, I know you mean well.",high-to-low,joy,joy,joy,joy,0.33,,0.00
26,strategic-politeness,A grandparent responds to their grown child's last-minute request to babysit on a weekend they had already planned for themselves.,grandparent,adult child,"I'd love to babysit, but I can't this weekend. Please tell me if there's another way I can help.",high-to-low,sadness,anger,sadness,sadness,-0.22,0.00,0.11
27,passive-aggression,A mother notices her teenage child's socks and a few small messes have been put away after weeks of reminders about chores. The household has a history of the teen doing the minimum and the parent repeatedly nagging.,mother,teenage child,"You actually put your socks in the hamper, how civilized of you.",high-to-low,anger,anger,anger,sadness,-0.67,0.00,-0.33
28,passive-aggression,A father learns his adult child skipped another family dinner. This is the third time in a row the child has missed an important family occasion. The family has a history of the parent minimizing conflict to keep family peace.,father,adult chlid,It's really okay that you couldn't make Mom's birthday again; we managed fine without you.,peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,surprise,-0.56,0.00,0.22
28,strategic-politeness,A father is responding to his adult child who just told him they didn't get a promotion they interviewed for; they're speaking over the phone.,father,adult child,"This one probably wasn't the right fit, but I'm proud of how you put yourself out there.",high-to-low,trust,joy,sadness,trust,0.00,0.00,-0.11
29,sarcasm-irony,"An older sibling discovers their younger sister forgot to book their shared flight home, which means the both sibling missed a major family reunion.",older sibling,younger sibling,Nice work on missing the family reunion. I'm sure they were getting tired of us anyway.,high-to-low,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.11,-0.34,0.17
33,deflection-misdirection,"During a weekend visit, a mother asks her adult son why he still hasn't transferred his share of the rent after several reminders.",adult son,mother,"Yeah, about that Mom, thank a load to help me out with a place to crash after my last eviction.",low-to-high,disgust,sadness,joy,disgust,-0.22,0.34,0.44
33,mixed-signals,"A 23-year-old adult child texts their parent at 2:15 AM after a rough day at work. The parent often responds quickly when worried but has also been short tempered lately, claiming to be exhausted from extra shifts.",mother,adult child,"You're doing fine, just call me if you need anything.",high-to-low,surprise,surprise,trust,sadness,-0.22,-0.34,-0.22
36,deflection-misdirection,"On a second date, the conversation turns serious when the woman asks her partner whether they should be exclusive.",partner,woman,"You bet, as serious as a heart attack!",peer,disgust,disgust,sadness,surprise,-0.22,0.67,-0.56
37,deflection-misdirection,A professor asks why their colleague skipped an important event they were expected to attend together.,colleague,professor,I wouldn't say 'skipped' so much as 'jumped' - know what I mean?,peer,anger,anticipation,anger,disgust,-0.67,0.00,-0.22
38,strategic-politeness,"After a third date, your close friend asks your opinion about a eccentric person they're seeing; you give a measured response.",you,friend,Your new partner is really vivacious. You know I'm here for you.,peer,trust,surprise,trust,trust,0.00,0.00,0.00
39,passive-aggression,"You lent a favorite jacket to a close friend for a concert; they returned it with a faint wine stain and the sleeve a bit stretched. This isn't the first time they've been careless with your things, and you haven't directly complained before.",you,friend,"Thanks for bringing my jacket back, its almost like new.",peer,surprise,surprise,anticipation,surprise,-0.56,,0.00
40,deflection-misdirection,"A man recently broke up with their partner. A close friend texts asking if he's actually okay, since they've been distant. Both are peers who used to date.",man,ex partner friend,Just as OK as I was after we broke up.,peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,surprise,-0.67,-0.67,0.00
41,strategic-politeness,A friend asks you to help them move into their apartment this weekend. You feel overwhelmed and need to set a boundary but don't want to escalate.,you,friend,"I really wish I could help you move this weekend, but I already have plans with family. I hope that's okay.",peer,sadness,anger,sadness,sadness,-0.22,,-0.56
43,strategic-politeness,A friend who usually makes last-minute plans is telling you they can't keep accommodating you after repeated cancellations.,you,friend,I apologize my schedule is so rigid and requires a little bit more planning.,peer,anger,sadness,anger,disgust,-0.22,0.00,-0.67
46,passive-aggression,"You planned a small anniversary dinner with your partner, but they forgot and spent the evening with friends. Your partner apologized the next day. You are both tired and still living in the same place, so direct confrontation would escalate things.",you,forgetful partner,"It's totally fine. Don't worry about it, I'm glad you had a nice night.",peer,trust,sadness,trust,trust,0.33,0.67,-0.67
47,strategic-politeness,An old friend who has previously lent you money several times politely tells you they can't this time.,friend,you,"I have a lot bills piling up right now, but I hope you can find another solution soon.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.11,-0.67,0.11
49,strategic-politeness,"After a first date, you text them to wrap things up. You want to be kind but end the possibility of another date.",you,date,You're so kind and I had a nice time tonight. I just don't think we're quite right for each other.,peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.78,-0.34,0.34
50,sarcasm-irony,"You met your ex and your ex's partner's at a small gathering of a common friend with your new partner. Later, talking to your new partner, you make this remark the heated argument you saw between your ex and their new partner.",you,your partner,"Well, I guess I it wasn't just me after all.",peer,joy,disgust,joy,joy,0.44,-0.56,0.33
52,mixed-signals,"You spent hours helping a close friend redo their dating profile and even stayed late to give feedback. Shortly after, you see they post something reckless and you reply quickly with a sharp line.",you,friend,Be original but don't be weird. Get it together or people might ghost you.,peer,sadness,fear,sadness,sadness,-0.67,,-0.44
52,passive-aggression,You and a friend had plans to go out. Your friend (who usually calls the shots socially) cancels last minute yet again. You respond when they apologize.,you,friend,"It's fine, don't worry about it. I'm happy to stay in again.",peer,sadness,sadness,anticipation,trust,-0.34,0.00,0.00
54,deflection-misdirection,Slack DM between two teammates after a missed deadline. The project lead asks the database manager for an explanation about why a deliverable wasn't updated before the review.,database manager,project lead,"Why do they call it a ""deadline"" anyway. We're both still alive and kicking aren't we?",peer,anger,anger,anger,disgust,-0.44,0.00,-0.44
54,mixed-signals,On Slack a teammate sends a private late-night message after you missed a minor deadline. Earlier that day they'd been terse in the thread and haven't offered help.,teammate,you,"I'm happy to help, but you've got to learn how to fix these types of problems by yourself.",peer,anger,anger,fear,anger,-0.44,,-0.55
55,deflection-misdirection,A group chat of friends on Messenger where one man recently hinted they were upset after a breakup; a friend asks if they're okay.,man,friend,OK? I'm about as sound as the English pound.,peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,surprise,-0.33,-0.67,0.11
57,strategic-politeness,"You and a teammate are collaborating on an major analyst report for work. They created a unusable first draft with AI to claim first authorship, but it is so bad you will have to redo it from scratch.",you,teammate,"Thanks, this is a solid start, but it's a bit misaligned with the project? Let me take a stab at it with fresh eyes.",peer,anticipation,anticipation,surprise,anticipation,-0.33,0.00,-0.22
60,deflection-misdirection,In a private bar a junior salesperson asks their manager directly whether the rumored round of layoffs will affect their team after a terse all-hands meeting is called. Thee manager replies immediately.,manager,junior salesperson,Not as long as we don't forget to bring all our hands to the meeting tomorrow.,high-to-low,trust,anticipation,trust,trust,0.11,0.00,0.34
60,mixed-signals,It's 11:30 p.m. and your manager sends a Slack private message after you missed a minor deadline. Earlier that day they'd been curt in the meeting but also approved overtime on your task list.,manager,you,Don't stress and get some sleep. When you're not late your work is great.,peer,trust,trust,trust,surprise,0.22,,-0.22
63,deflection-misdirection,"In a company Slack DM, an engineering manager follows up after a missed feature deadline; the junior engineer asked whether the delay will affect their performance review.",manager,employee,"Oh wow, that deadline stuff is annoying remember when we finished the Q1 rollout in two sleepless days? Also, have you tried the new coffee machine in the break room yet?",high-to-low,surprise,surprise,fear,disgust,-0.67,0.22,0.17
64,deflection-misdirection,"In a family group message, a father asks his adult daughter if they will still come to the big weekend game after an earlier family fight at Thanksgiving.",daughter,father,"Oh, I forgot about the game. BTW, remember when I tripped at the championship soccer match and you still cheered me on?",low-to-high,surprise,surprise,sadness,joy,0.11,0.34,-0.44
64,mixed-signals,"A manager messages a junior analyst in a team Slack channel about a client report. The manager has previously defended the junior in meetings and has provided one-on-one coaching, but the deadline pressures are high and the report contains clear errors.",manager,junior analyst,"You can do better than this. But if you can't, let me know.",high-to-low,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.55,0.34,-1.00
67,strategic-politeness,A product analyst writes to their product lead in an online document review thread about a roadmap draft they were asked to support but seems fundamentallyl flawed.,product analyst,product lead,"I really appreciate how you brought the team together on this. The roadmap looks promising, but there are a few spots where additional customer data would strengthen the case - could we discuss revisions off-line?",peer,anticipation,anticipation,trust,anticipation,-0.11,0.22,-0.11
70,deflection-misdirection,"After a professor texts a reminder that the intern missed sending slides for a lab meeting, the research intern replies with an upbeat logistics-focused message instead of apologizing or explaining the delay.",research intern,professor,If the data is ready and the analytics model works we should have visualizations ready soon,low-to-high,anticipation,anticipation,trust,disgust,-0.44,0.00,-0.44
70,mixed-signals,"After staying late to patch a production issue due to unrealistic deadlines, a junior engineer messages their supervisor about the decision that caused the outage.",junior engineer,supervisor,"I think we got it fixed, but the problem may not be in the software.",low-to-high,anger,surprise,anticipation,anger,-0.67,0.00,0.45
71,strategic-politeness,"On Slack you reply to a senior lead who just posted a new, unrealistic deadline for a project you're responsible for.",you,senior lead,"Thanks for the update. I'll do my best to align with that by next sprint, but we might want to discuss alternative backup plans.",peer,anger,anger,trust,fear,0.00,0.00,0.33
72,sarcasm-irony,"In the team's Slack channel, a colleague posts a PDF of the monthly report five hours late. It has several factual errors and broken charts. The team is waiting on this for a meeting. A peer replies in the thread.",peer,colleague,"Oh wow, that report was... a triple double.",peer,fear,fear,sadness,fear,-0.33,0.00,-0.67
73,deflection-misdirection,In a project Slack channel a senior developer points out that a colleague's missing commit caused a small delay and asks what the plan is to fix it.,colleague,senior developer,No worries at all! If we get the backend working then the front end should be fine.,peer,surprise,disgust,trust,surprise,-0.44,0.00,-0.22
74,sarcasm-irony,"After a difficult negotiation call where the supplier was foced to slash their wholesale price in the face of pressure for a large retailer, the supplier's lawyer turns to the supplier's lead negotiator and speaks.",lawyer,vendor lead negotiator,You really drove a hard bargain. That's going to leave a mark for days.,peer,anger,anger,anticipation,anger,-0.44,0.34,0.11
77,sarcasm-irony,"When website traffic actually fell after the multi-million dollar ad campaign,  the CEO sent a curt, disappointed email to their social media manager.",CEO,social media manager,"You were supposed to drive internet traffic TO our website, not the other way around.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,fear,-0.67,0.67,-0.33
78,sarcasm-irony,"During the weekly check-in with his parole officer, the ex-con was consistently late by 15-30mins every time.",parole officer,ex-con,When you make me wait it feels like I'm doing hard time.,peer,surprise,surprise,anger,trust,0.33,-0.83,0.00
81,sarcasm-irony,"At the all-hands launch party with media and investors, the startup development manager revealed to a stranger the software is unstable due to several critical bugs. It turns out the stranger is a tech reporter who only reveals their identity later, and then leaves with this comment.",tech reporter,development manager,"Don't worry, your secret is safe with me and my YouTube subscribers - we'll keep it between the 700k of us.",peer,fear,fear,fear,surprise,-0.78,0.67,-1.00
82,passive-aggression,"A team lead replies to an engineer who frequently misses morning meetings and turns in partial updates, sending a short message after another late check-in.",team_lead,engineer,"No worries, whenever you're ready send the update; I know your mornings can be tough.",peer,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.34,0.00,0.67
83,passive-aggression,"After an employee admits they overlooked an important requirement, a director responds during a quick check-in.",director,employee,Thanks for letting me know. That's really helpful. I'll rearrange my entire schedule to fit this in.,peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,surprise,-0.45,0.00,0.67
83,strategic-politeness,A director replies to a senior associate who volunteered to take on an extra task during an especially busy quarter.,director,senior associate,"I appreciate you offering to help, but you've already got so much on your plate. I'll take care of this one myself, but reach out if I need help.",peer,trust,anger,surprise,trust,0.33,0.00,-0.11
85,deflection-misdirection,"After a manager raises specific concerns, deliverables, and deadlines in a feedback meeting about several missed follow-ups, a marketing associate responds.",marketing associate,manager,"Oh wow, thanks for the heads-up. I'll get right on that.",peer,anticipation,surprise,trust,anticipation,0.33,0.00,-0.22
87,mixed-signals,"After a tense project meeting where the manager pointed out multiple issues, you (an employee) stayed late to rework the slides and sent a short reply the next morning addressing their concerns.",manager,you,"You're doing fine, just don't make so many mistakes next time.",peer,anger,trust,fear,anger,-0.44,,-0.78
87,passive-aggression,During the weekly status meeting a manger sits through a junior analyst's presentation that was obviously hastily updated the night before. Afterward the junior analyst asks for feedback in front of the team.,manager,junior analyst,Well you must have pounded that out quickly. Well done.,high-to-low,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.89,0.22,0.89
87,sarcasm-irony,"During the early morning econ class, a student fell asleep in the first row. Upon seeing this, the professor addresses the rest of the class.",professor,class,Note the surest way to an A grade: a willing spirit with a weak body.,peer,joy,joy,joy,surprise,0.22,0.00,-0.22
88,mixed-signals,Your manager pushed an aggressive timeline that the team couldn't meet. You've repeatedly stayed late to pick up their slack and now push back in a one-line reply.,you,manager,We might burn out our team with too many late nights if we want to meet these aggressive deadlines.,peer,anger,anger,anger,anger,-0.67,0.67,0.33
88,passive-aggression,A team lead assigns an urgent deliverable late Friday. An associate who already planned personal commitments replies immediately in the group chat.,associate,team lead,No problem. I can live in the office this weekend if that helps.,peer,anger,anger,anger,trust,-0.11,0.00,-0.22
90,deflection-misdirection,"At a cramped family kitchen after a tense phone call about their mother's upcoming surgery, two adult siblings are sitting across from each other. The sister sibling asks her brother sibling if he's handling the news okay.",brother,sister,"Your right, this has got to be hard on mom.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.78,-0.34,-0.44
91,strategic-politeness,"At family dinner, one sibling asks for you feedback on a bestman speech they're planning to read at their friend's wedding. It's horribly inappropriate.",you,sibling,"The opening line is lovely, but you might want to soften the humor it in light of your audience.",peer,trust,sadness,surprise,trust,-0.11,,0.22
93,mixed-signals,It's just past midnight. A younger sister texts her older sister upset after failing an important exam. The older sister has been visibly exhausted and stretched thin caring for the family lately and replies from bed.,older sister,younger sister,"It's really important to do well in Calculus if you want to study Physics. But don't worry, I'm sure you'll get it next time.",peer,sadness,fear,sadness,sadness,-0.78,0.67,-0.33
93,sarcasm-irony,"You and your younger sibling share hotel room on a famliy vacation. Your younger sibling races to the room, unpacks their clothes, and sprawls on the better bed before you get to the room. You're standing in the doorway looking at the situation.",you,younger sibling,"Wow, how thoughtful.",peer,joy,joy,joy,joy,0.56,,0.78
94,deflection-misdirection,"During a party, a guy pauses as the topic turns to why they looked upset earlier. His roomate asked if he's still upset his best friend is now dating his immediate ex-partner.",guy,roommate,I think they'll make a great couple. They deserve each other.,peer,surprise,surprise,sadness,surprise,0.22,0.00,-0.22
94,sarcasm-irony,"After a chaotic family board-game night with accusation of cheating  and one sibling (Amy) storming out, you're left collecting pieces and trying to calm down the other family members.",you,family,"Well, cheaters never win so I know Amy wasn't accusing me.",peer,anger,anger,anger,anticipation,0.11,,0.11
94,strategic-politeness,At a family potluck your cousin brought a homemade potato salad that tastes like dry wall spackle. You cousin comes up and asks you how you find their potato salad.,you,cousin,"It looks so colorful, it must have taken you a lot of time to prepare.",peer,joy,joy,joy,anticipation,0.45,0.34,0.17
97,deflection-misdirection,"A father is texting his 19-year-old son, who just called him out for missing not pickuping the son up after practice. The son asks why he didn't show up.",father,son,"Don't worry, I'm on my way now.",high-to-low,anticipation,anticipation,anger,anticipation,-0.33,0.00,-0.11
97,mixed-signals,"A father stayed late helping his adult child rehearse an important job presentation. Afterward, the adult child did okay but not as well as hoped.",parent,adult child,I tried to help you last night. Maybe you just practiced too much.,high-to-low,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.33,0.00,-0.11
97,sarcasm-irony,You tried to fix the bathroom sink and ended up flooding the floor. Your spouse is watching the mess and notes that guests arrive in less than an hour.,wife,you,"How thoughtful. Instead of making our guests walk to the bathroom, I guess we'll just bring the bathroom to them.",peer,anger,anger,fear,surprise,-0.22,0.00,-0.78
98,mixed-signals,"An aunt who has cancelled plans repeatedly messages her niece, who is busy with work, offering a weekend visit.",aunt,niece,"If you're free, come over Sunday assuming my schedule clears up.",peer,anger,anger,anticipation,anger,-0.22,-0.34,-0.11
99,passive-aggression,An older sibling drops by the younger sibling's apartment after months away. The younger sibling has a known habit of leaving clutter and never finishing chores.,older sibling,younger sibling,"Wow, your place actually looks pretty good. I didn't expect to say that.",high-to-low,anticipation,sadness,anticipation,anticipation,-0.33,0.00,-0.33
99,sarcasm-irony,"You come home to find the living room covered in confetti, spilled snacks, and a cracked family vase after your teenage child threw an unsupervised party despite repeated warnings. Your teenager speaks to you.",teenager,you,"You know, sometimes looks can be deciving.",peer,anger,anger,anger,anger,-0.67,0.56,0.67
100,passive-aggression,A parent has repeatedly asked their teenage child to help with household chores; the child has been skipping their turn for weeks. The parent speaks after the child says they’ll be 'too busy' again.,mother,teenage_child,It's a good thing I’m never too busy to do the things you ask me to do.,high-to-low,surprise,surprise,surprise,anger,-0.56,0.00,0.11
102,sarcasm-irony,"A waiter just knocked a tall cafŽ latte all over their your brand-new laptop while trying to help clean the adjacent tabletop. You immediately grab your laptop, turn it upside down so coffee can drip off your keyboard looking clearly upset.",you,waiter,I hope you're not expecting another tip for that.,peer,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.67,0.45,-0.33
104,strategic-politeness,"An adult child is asked by a parent to help with re-roofing their vacation house the coming weekend, but the adult child already has limited time and lots of responsibilities with their own family home.",adult child,parent,"I sure wish I could help out, but this weekend is crazy. I hope it goes smoothly. Maybe I can lend a hand another time.",low-to-high,surprise,trust,surprise,sadness,-0.22,0.00,-0.33
106,strategic-politeness,A teenager asks their parent for a later curfew after a hard week of exams. They butter up their parents with praise of the parent's support through the exams.,teenager,parent,You always make sure everything's taken care of and I really appreciate how much you do for me; would it be okay if I came home a little later on Friday? I promise I'll be responsible.,peer,trust,anticipation,trust,joy,0.22,0.00,0.11
111,sarcasm-irony,"You planned a surprise anniversary dinner for your significant other. When you unexpectedly arrive home early from work with balloons, champagne, and a cake you find your significant other romantically entwined with the apartment handyman. Your significant other turns to you and explains.",significant other,you,I guess your not the only one with a surprise?,peer,disgust,disgust,surprise,anger,-1.00,1.00,0.17
112,deflection-misdirection,"In the school cafeteria, the classmate asks whether the college student told their latest date they didn't want exclusivity. The speaker replies while grinning.",college student,classmate,I'm as exculsive as I'm allowed to be.,peer,surprise,surprise,disgust,surprise,-0.11,0.00,0.22
112,passive-aggression,"You and your romantic partner share an apartment. They've been repeatedly leaving dishes in the sink and saying they'll do them later. You usually end up cleaning them. After another night of you washing alone, you hand your partner a towel while they're scrolling on the couch.",you,patner,"Don't worry, you’ve got this, the instructions are in the sink.",peer,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.56,0.00,0.44
115,strategic-politeness,You often host group outings gives one of your quieter friends feedback after a date where your friend dominated conversation.,you,friend,"You can really open up when you want to, but maybe hold back a bit on the storytelling. People will appreciate you even more.",peer,anger,anger,surprise,anger,-0.56,0.00,0.44
117,sarcasm-irony,Your blind date was an hour late and spent most of the night scrolling through their phone. You call your sister who set you up the next day.,you,sister,I think we were most compatible on the apathy level.,peer,surprise,surprise,joy,surprise,0.22,-0.56,0.22
118,deflection-misdirection,A younger friend asks the more experienced friend if they regret ghosting someone they once dated who later became the popular girl in high school.,experienced friend,younger friend,I was the one who made her popular,peer,surprise,surprise,disgust,trust,-0.22,0.67,0.11
122,deflection-misdirection,During a vulnerable moment the man asks his partner directly whether they have feelings for them. The partner appears less certain and nervous.,partner,man,"Sure, I have feelings for everyone.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.78,0.00,-0.67
123,mixed-signals,"After a mildly awkward first date, one friend texts the other the next morning. The texting friend had been the one to suggest meeting but the date ended early and the other friend hasn't reached out since.",initiating friend,silent friend,"We’re cool, right?",peer,fear,fear,sadness,fear,-0.56,0.00,0.22
123,passive-aggression,You've been texting a friend who often cancels last-minute. Tonight they finally show up for a movie they promised weeks ago but were late and distracted. You're quieter than usual.,you,friend,Nice of you to make time. I'm glad you could fit me in.,peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,surprise,0.33,,-0.22
123,sarcasm-irony,You planned an expensive dinner at a fancy restaurant with your new partner. They arrived two hours late without apologizing and then said they'd 'changed plans' so the reservation was lost.,you,partner,"Don't worry, I've made backup reservations at McDonalds.",peer,surprise,surprise,anger,anticipation,-0.33,0.34,0.00
124,deflection-misdirection,"On a second date a woman asks her date, 'Where do you see this going?' after a serious comment about exclusivity.",date,woman,Right now I see us going to dinner and a movie.,peer,sadness,sadness,anger,joy,-0.11,0.50,-0.16
124,sarcasm-irony,You and a more socially dominant friend went on a double date. Your date monopolized the conversation and made a few awkward comments that left you embarrassed in front of the other couple.,you,other couple,Well at least I couldn't put my foot in my mouth since I couldn't get a word in edgewise.,peer,surprise,sadness,surprise,surprise,0.00,-0.50,0.22
125,passive-aggression,"You and a friend are deciding plans for a group date night. The friend tends to make all the decisions and dismisses your ideas instead opting for a risky attempt to get late tickets to a concert. When they announce their plan, you reluctantly concede.",you,friend,"Okay, do it your way. There’s always a chance it works out.",peer,anger,anger,anger,trust,-0.22,0.00,-0.67
126,mixed-signals,"In a project Slack channel, you missed a deadline and a teammate who has been covering for you sends a direct message after reviewing your latest comment. They've stayed late a few nights this week helping the team.",coworker,you,There are serious problems with your last pitch. Let's sort it out next week.,peer,fear,trust,anger,fear,-0.67,0.67,-0.67
127,deflection-misdirection,"In a meeting among co-workers, the packaging engineer calls out the designer for not replying to an urgent request last weekend.",designer,product engineer,I always promptly respond to urgent requests. So your message last week must not have been that urgent,peer,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.56,0.45,-0.33
129,deflection-misdirection,A discussion between a salesperson and their field engineer after the engineer skipped a scheduled client call. The salesperson directly asks the field engineering about why they missed the call.,field engineer,salesperson,I wouldn't say 'skipped' so much as 'jumped' - know what I mean?,peer,anger,surprise,anger,anger,-0.67,0.34,-0.11
132,mixed-signals,"In the morning standup meeting, a manager responds briefly after an employee admits they're behind on deliverables and feeling overwhelmed.",manager,direct_report,"It’s fine, just focus on the high priority items and just finish the project by tomorrow morning.  We'll discuss growth after the quarter.",peer,fear,fear,trust,fear,-0.45,0.83,-0.67
135,mixed-signals,The manager has previously spent extra time coaching this person but on Slack the morning after an employee missed a deadline the manager sent a short message while clearly busy.,manager,employee,"Please don't ever miss such an important deadline again. Don't worry, I've got your back.",high-to-low,fear,fear,trust,fear,-0.56,0.67,-1.00
135,passive-aggression,"On Slack, a department manager replies after a junior analyst finally uploads a report that had been overdue despite multiple reminders.",department manager,junior analyst,Thanks for finally sending the report. I hope the extra time means it's an extra good report.,high-to-low,fear,fear,anger,fear,-0.56,0.00,0.11
135,sarcasm-irony,A movie critic posts a scathing review of the debut novel by your friend who is a feature new author in a New Yorker book review.  Your new author friend turns to you.,new author friend,you,"They say those can do, those who can't critique. Looks like I have a promising second career.",peer,surprise,surprise,joy,surprise,0.33,-0.22,0.22
136,mixed-signals,A senior engineer posts a terse code-review comment late at night on a junior developer's pull request fix. That senior has previously stayed late to help this developer but the current message is short and abrupt.,senior engineer,junior developer,This is sloppy; need to fix it before I push it live.,high-to-low,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.78,0.67,-1.00
136,passive-aggression,A professor emails a graduate student after receiving a late revision that had already been flagged in earlier comments.,professor,graduate student,"No worries, just make sure it's truly final next time.",high-to-low,trust,trust,anger,trust,-0.11,0.00,0.45
136,sarcasm-irony,A utility company manager asks the company's webmaster to post an electricity outage message on the company's website.,manager,webmaster,Well at least our CEO got his performance bonus this quarter.,peer,anger,anger,anger,trust,-0.33,-0.34,0.00
137,mixed-signals,An email from a senior partner to a junior associate after reading a draft brief. The partner compliments the work but says they won't be able to use it.,senior partner,junior associate,"Nice work on the brief, but it's not what we had in mind.",high-to-low,sadness,sadness,anger,sadness,-0.56,,-0.78
137,strategic-politeness,A meticulous senior community moderator responds to a sloppy junior volunteer who offered to cover extra moderation shifts over email.,senior moderator,junior moderator,"I really appreciate you offering to cover, but I think we'll handle it internally this time. Thanks for checking!",high-to-low,surprise,anger,surprise,surprise,-0.22,0.00,0.50
138,sarcasm-irony,"On a long group hiking trip into primative park forests, everyone thought someone else was packing toilet paper for the group.  The hiking leader addresses everyone around a campfire about the confusion.",leader,group,"I guess we'll all really find out what the meaning of ""roughing it"" means this week",peer,disgust,disgust,joy,disgust,-0.11,0.00,0.00
139,deflection-misdirection,"In a private Slack DM, the product_director asks the marketing_intern whether the launch checklist and metrics are ready; the intern replies immediately with an upbeat, unrelated suggestion.",marketing_intern,product_director,Also have you tried the new cafe on 3rd? Their croissants are unreal; we should grab coffee after the launch!,peer,anger,surprise,anger,disgust,-0.78,,-0.11
141,passive-aggression,"In the project's Slack channel, the engineering manager announced a new, earlier deadline late in the day. The junior developer, who has limited time and less power to push back, replies in the channel where the manager and other leads can see it.",junior developer,engineering manager,No problem. I'll get it done by Friday. Thanks for the late notice!,low-to-high,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.67,0.00,-0.44
142,passive-aggression,An adult child replies to a parent's group text reminders about attending a weekly family dinner. The child lives farther away and the parent has a history of repeatedly checking in a little too often.,adult child,parent,Thanks for the reminder. I'll clear my schedule so you don't have to keep asking.,low-to-high,disgust,anger,surprise,disgust,-0.56,0.00,-0.22
143,sarcasm-irony,"You're a forum user whose post was removed and who received a firm, public warning from a moderator. You message the moderator directly afterward.",you,moderator,That was some moderation skill on displayÉ,peer,anger,joy,anger,anger,0.00,0.00,0.89
144,strategic-politeness,You and a peer were collaborating on a joint report. They just uploaded their draft later than expected which contains nothing useful that isn't already in your current report version. The team's deadline is tomorrow.,you,colleague,"Thanks for getting this in. It's a bit behind where we're already at. Given tomorrows deadline, perhaps we can think about coordinating better on the next project?",peer,sadness,sadness,anticipation,sadness,-0.22,0.00,-0.33
145,deflection-misdirection,In a small-team discussion a customer support manager brings up a well-known bugs in the company software and gently asks the engineer manager when the bugs will be fixed.,engineer manager,customer support manager,Are you sure it's not user errors?,peer,anger,disgust,anger,anticipation,-0.55,0.00,-0.22
146,strategic-politeness,During a peer code review you want to point out structural problems but also acknowledge the parts that are done well.,you,peer,"This is a solid foundation and you handled the edge cases well; there are some structural issues that will make maintenance hard if we ship it as-is, so let's refactor those parts before merge—otherwise great work.",peer,joy,joy,trust,joy,0.22,0.00,0.22
147,deflection-misdirection,"During a one-on-one peer check-in, Alex asks Jamie why the construction project missed the deadline after Jamie had promised it would be met.",Jaime,Alex,Let's put a pin in that for now and move on to new topics.,peer,anger,anger,anger,surprise,-0.44,,0.00
147,mixed-signals,"You have been working late with a colleagues on a shared report after a missed internal deadline. Your colleague, who stayed later last night to clean up sections, messages you the next morning.",colleague,you,"Good work, but if you keep it up I'll never get home.",peer,fear,fear,trust,anger,-0.22,0.00,0.00
147,passive-aggression,"Two colleagues in the same product team just finished a client demo. The presentation creator has repeatedly covered for the presenter when they were unprepared in past meetings, now the creator is standing near the coffee machine as others congratulate the presenter.",presentation creator,Presenter,"Wow, you actually handled that presentation really well. How did you pull that off?",peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,joy,-0.11,0.00,-0.11
149,passive-aggression,"In a cross-functional project chat, a coworker repeatedly volunteers for high-profile tasks and later leaves execution gaps. The speaker has volunteered availability for these high-profile tasks before but feels overlooked. The team is allocating the next coding sprint tasks.",Speaker,Coworker,"Sure, go ahead and take the lead on this one. It's not like I haven't been available before or and its not like these tasks aren’t getting done.",peer,surprise,anger,surprise,surprise,-0.33,0.00,0.00
151,mixed-signals,"After several rounds of small but repeated mistakes on a deliverable, a manager who has stayed late to help the you  pulls you aside during a team check-in.",manager,you,"I you want to stay on this project, but I need someone who doesn't make mistakes.",peer,fear,sadness,fear,fear,-0.67,0.83,-1.00
153,passive-aggression,"During the weekly project review, a manager addresses a junior developer who previously turned in messy data but has improved the latest slides. Other team members are present and there's a history of missed metrics from this junior employee.",manager,junior developer,Nice job on the slides. For once the numbers actually line up.,high-to-low,anger,anger,anger,surprise,-0.56,0.00,0.34
153,sarcasm-irony,"During the all-hands meeting after this morning's  product launch failed spectacularly, the director turns to the project lead.",director,project lead,"Fantastic, you're going to be remembered for this launch.",peer,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.89,0.67,-0.33
154,mixed-signals,"After repeatedly missing small but important details, the manager who has been staying late to help confronts the associate in a one-on-one meeting.",manager,associate,"That was sloppy. It happens, but let's not have it happen again.",peer,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.56,0.67,-1.00
156,mixed-signals,You submitted a progress report late in the evening. Your manager replied quickly while still logged on.,manager,you,Is this the best we've got? I guess we'll go with it then.,peer,disgust,disgust,fear,anger,-0.89,0.83,-0.78
157,passive-aggression,Your manager assigns you an extra task on Friday afternoon and explicitly suggests you handle it over the weekend because they don't have time. You reply in the thread to confirm.,you,your manager,"Don't worry about asking me to do more work on the weekend, it’s fine.",peer,anger,anger,anger,trust,-0.56,0.00,-0.67
157,sarcasm-irony,"During their lunch break, the junior mechanic comes across lug nuts he accidentally forgot to put back on a customer's car. He asks a senior mechanic what he should do about it.",senior mechanic,junior mechanic,"No worries, I'm sure no one will notice.",high-to-low,anticipation,surprise,anticipation,anticipation,-0.11,0.67,0.00
161,passive-aggression,You were passed over for a promotion again in favor of an external hire. You tell your supervisor this right after the announcement.,you,hiring supervisor,No worries at all. Maybe it's good to have an outsider who isn’t part of this company.,peer,surprise,surprise,anticipation,trust,-0.11,0.00,-0.67
164,deflection-misdirection,"On a quick phone call, an older sibling asks the younger sibling if they forgot to pick up their grandmother from the train station.",younger sibling,older sibling,I thought you were going to pick gram-gram up?,low-to-high,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.67,0.67,0.11
165,sarcasm-irony,"At a family dinner, the younger sibling cooked a nostalgic casserole from their childhood but it was clearly overcooked and salty. The older sibling sits down, tastes it while the younger sibling watches nervously,dicussing found memories of their parents. The older sibling comments after swalloing their first bite.",older sibling,younger sibling,"Wow, it didn't think anyone could do it, but you've outdone mom's own casserole.",high-to-low,trust,joy,trust,sadness,0.33,0.67,-0.11
168,mixed-signals,A mother texts her college-age son after he missed a couple of scheduled health center check-ins and turned in a late assignment.,mother,son,"I know you can do it, so please don't make a habit of this.",high-to-low,sadness,trust,sadness,fear,-0.22,0.00,-0.22
169,deflection-misdirection,"An adult son calls, upset about not getting an expected scholarship and worried his father won't pay his full college tuition without it. His father hears the news and responds.",father,son,"I'm really sorry to hear that buddy. Well,  things usually turn out for the best.",high-to-low,fear,surprise,sadness,fear,-0.56,0.67,0.00
169,mixed-signals,A father has been staying up late to help his daughter with college applications and responds after she procrastinated again.,father,daughter,How do you want me to help if you won't take this seriously.,high-to-low,sadness,fear,sadness,sadness,-0.78,,-0.67
171,deflection-misdirection,"A 16-year-old daughter comes home late and quietly knocks on her mother's bedroom door, saying they were scared when she didn't answer her phone. The teen asks, ""Are you mad at me?""",mother,daughter,"It's a school night you know, did you get all your homework done?",high-to-low,surprise,sadness,trust,surprise,-0.44,0.34,-0.33
171,passive-aggression,A mother waits in the kitchen. Her adult son has a history of coming home late and leaving a mess after nights out. He walks in at 1:15 a.m.,parent,child,It's nice of you to show up.,high-to-low,anticipation,fear,anticipation,anticipation,-0.22,0.00,0.11
172,deflection-misdirection,"At a weekend breakfast, an adult daughter asks her father whether he'll bring up last week's argument at the family dinner. The daughter expects a direct answer about whether he'll apologize.",father,adult daughter,"It's not much of an ""argument"" if I'm right now is it?",high-to-low,anger,sadness,anger,surprise,-0.67,0.67,-0.33
172,mixed-signals,"A father who is usually protective and has defended her to others, has been staying late to help his unemployed adult daughter with applications and responds after finding dirty laundry piling up in the living room",father,adult daughter,This is seriously the last time I'm cleaning up after you.,high-to-low,sadness,surprise,sadness,sadness,-0.67,0.00,-0.44
175,deflection-misdirection,"After coming home late, a teenager's parent confronts them about breaking curfew and asks where they were.",teenager,parent,I feel asleep in the library and sped read in my sleep.,peer,anger,anger,anger,anger,-0.45,0.45,-0.33
175,sarcasm-irony,A college student comes home after their parent cleaned out their childhood bedroom and discarded several things the student cared about. The student sees the mostly empty room and says to their parent.,college student,parent,Well now I know what you really ment when you asked me to 'clean my room' all those years growing up here.,low-to-high,surprise,surprise,surprise,surprise,0.00,0.34,0.55
177,mixed-signals,You and your parent had a tense phone call earlier about money. They've been texting repeatedly after you moved out recently and tried setting boundaries. They text again asking if you're okay while you're at work.,you,parent,"I'm fine, really. I'll get my rent money somehow.",peer,fear,fear,fear,fear,-0.56,0.67,-0.44
177,sarcasm-irony,A teen daughter asks her mother for a birthday cake which comes out burnt on the edges and collapsed. The mother proudly brings the messy cake into the kitchen where family is gathered.,teen daughter,mother,"Perfect, no one will confust this is a store-brought birthday cake. Look at all that love in it.",low-to-high,sadness,sadness,sadness,joy,0.00,-0.67,-0.22
178,mixed-signals,You stayed up late to help your older sibling move into their new apartment. Your older sibling arrived late from a meeting and barely apologized. Later they send you a short message when you were awake.,older sibling,younger sibling,Thanks for helping out. If I knew how much work it was I would've tried sneaking out of my big meeting.,high-to-low,anger,joy,anger,anger,0.00,0.00,-0.22
181,deflection-misdirection,"Walking home together after an awkward conversation where Pat asked whether Alister had been seeing someone else, Alister responds immediately with a cheerful plan.",Alister,Pat,"Yeah, I see other people all the time, every day, all over the place in class, on TV, on the sidewalks",peer,anger,sadness,anger,surprise,-0.56,-0.34,-0.67
181,strategic-politeness,"After a few months of dating, you texts your partner to explain to them how you're feeling about the relationship and to propose some distance.",you,partner,"You're such a thoughtful person and I really value our time together, but I think I need to spend more time with me right now.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,sadness,-0.89,0.33,-0.11
182,sarcasm-irony,You and your roommate had agreed to share groceries. Tonight you open the fridge to find the last container of food gone and a note from your roommate apologizing that they already ate it.,you,roommate,"So this is why communism failed, your needs obviously out paced my abilities.",peer,trust,trust,joy,anticipation,0.33,-0.34,-0.11
183,sarcasm-irony,"You and a close friend had a reservation for a small birthday dinner. They showed up almost two hours late, missed the group photo, and walked in as the cake was being cut. A few people had already left. As they sit down, you say something to them.",you,late friend,"And I thought our jump scare was good, but you really surprised the birthday boy with your dramatic delayed entrance.",peer,sadness,sadness,fear,anger,-0.44,,-0.17
186,deflection-misdirection,"At a small dinner, a Bob asks an Alice who just split up with Jim whether they're okay and if Alice wants to talk about what happened.",Alice,Bob,"Speaking of which, remember when we went tricker-treating together in 3rd grade.",peer,surprise,surprise,sadness,surprise,-0.22,0.00,-0.44
187,deflection-misdirection,A younger spouse asks an older spouse whether they can talk about estate planning.,older partner,younger partner,"What, are you pushing me into an early grave now?",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,disgust,-0.67,0.45,0.00
187,strategic-politeness,You are giving dating feedback to a long-time friend after they complained their texts are being ignored by someone they like.,you,friend,"You're great at starting conversations, but maybe slow the messages a bit so you don't overwhelm them. You don't want your intensity to scare people off.",peer,trust,surprise,trust,trust,-0.00,0.22,0.33
188,strategic-politeness,You lend your city pie de tierre (apartment) occasionally to a younger friend but decide they can no longer host weekend guests there every week.,you,friend,"I like helping your dating life out, but I can't have you crashing in my apartment every weekend.",peer,sadness,anger,anticipation,sadness,-0.55,0.00,0.67
189,mixed-signals,You're an older friend who stayed up late to redo a younger friend's slides after they missed the practice pitch run-thru. The next morning you text them while they're at work.,you,younger friend,I'm sure you'll do fine given all the hard work you put into this presentation.,peer,trust,trust,joy,fear,0.22,,-0.22
189,passive-aggression,"You're driving a younger friend to a group dinner after their recent messy breakup. Your younger friend is trying a new, more polished look tonight. You've seen them in more casual outfits for months and have a history of teasing them.",you,younger friend,You look really great tonight. I'm honestly impressed.,peer,joy,joy,joy,joy,0.89,0.67,0.00
189,sarcasm-irony,You and your partner (they're older and usually take the lead in plans) had tickets for a show tonight. Your partner forgot the tickets at home and you missed the start.,you,older planning partner,Well the really important people show up fashionably late anyway,peer,joy,joy,joy,trust,0.45,0.00,0.11
190,sarcasm-irony,"At a cozy weeknight dinner at home, your older, more socially assured friend (who often teases you) watches you set off the smoke alarm while trying a new recipe. They're standing at the doorway with a mix of amusement and exasperation.",friend,you,I like your musical selection in paring the piercing alarm sirens with charcol brisket,peer,sadness,sadness,surprise,anger,-0.44,0.67,-0.33
190,strategic-politeness,"A mentor who has more dating experience is talking over coffee with a younger man who's excited about a new dating prospect and wants honest input. You think the new dating prospect sound like trouble, but the y oung man appears enthralled.",mentor,younger man,"It's great your excited about your new dating prospect, and they seem really sweet. However, maybe you should spend a little more time to get to know each other better before getting in so deep.",peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,trust,-0.11,0.00,0.22
191,mixed-signals,"After a month of sporadic texts and less contact, an older ex who usually initiates plans sends a brief message to you offering to meet up.",older ex,you,"If you want to catch up, let me know.",peer,anticipation,surprise,anticipation,anticipation,0.33,0.67,0.22
191,sarcasm-irony,"You asked an older friend (who usually gives advice and feels responsible for you) for dating tips. After following their suggestion you had an awkward, worse date. They text you afterward while you both process it.",older friend,you,You do know I was joking don't you.,peer,anger,anger,anger,sadness,-0.33,0.34,0.00
193,passive-aggression,"You asked your sibling (who usually organizes family gatherings) whether you'll be included in a small holiday dinner. Your sibling replied that the guest list is limited. You're older but currently living with them, and you don't want to start a fight before other relatives visit.",you,hosting sibling,"No, it's fine, you should invite whoever makes you happiest. I wouldn't want to cause any trouble.",peer,anticipation,fear,anticipation,trust,0.00,0.67,-0.78
196,deflection-misdirection,That's a pretty personal question to ask on only the third date.,partner,date,"Haha, no, but there's this new taco truck—want to grab dinner Friday?",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,surprise,-0.67,0.00,-0.33
197,mixed-signals,You've been casually dating someone who seems to be becoming more attached. They asked if you want to see each other more and you reply after thinking about your schedule.,you,casual dating partner,Absolutely! Let me see if I can fit you in between pilates and dinner.,peer,joy,joy,joy,sadness,0.11,0.34,-0.78
198,sarcasm-irony,"In a kitchen renovation contract you signed, the contractor had agreed on a deadline. The contractor missed the deadeline and apologized saying they'll finish by next month.",you,contractor,"No rush, it's much easier to prepare meals in the laundry room utility sink - so much more room.",peer,sadness,sadness,anticipation,fear,-0.11,-0.34,-0.11
199,deflection-misdirection,A group chat of friends where one member just asked the group coordinator if they're okay after hinting they're going through a rough breakup.,group coordinator,group member,"Wait, I think I forgot the veggie tray in my car.",peer,surprise,surprise,sadness,fear,-0.55,0.22,-0.11
199,mixed-signals,A colleague stayed late to fix a bug and pushed a rushed patch. The next morning an angry customer leave feedback on the user support website.,colleague,colleague,"This fix could've been much better; next time, don't rush it.",peer,anger,anger,anger,fear,-0.78,0.67,-0.33
200,strategic-politeness,"A man posts in a group chat asking if anyone can cover a weekend shift, and another friend responds. This is his third request this month.",you,friend,"I wish I could help with your shift this weekend, but I have family obligations. Good luck.",peer,sadness,sadness,anticipation,sadness,-0.33,0.00,0.33
202,deflection-misdirection,In a group chat among friends after one member asked if someone was okay after the fatal car accident they walked away from.,quite member,questioning member,The crazy thing was that the other driver didn't have any insurance.,peer,disgust,surprise,sadness,disgust,-0.55,0.00,-0.22
203,passive-aggression,"In a friend's planning thread for weekend plans, one friend cancels last-minute for the third time this month. Another friend replies in the chat so the group sees it.",commenting friend,cancelling friend,"No problem, go do what you need to do. Really, don't worry about us.",peer,anger,anger,anger,anticipation,-0.56,0.00,-0.11
203,strategic-politeness,In a project channel a manager evaluates a colleague's draft and offers a wrapped critique that praises effort before suggesting reassignment.,manager,colleague,"You bring strong ideas and I appreciate the effort, but this draft slightly misses the target. Maybe this topic would be a better fit for someone else, and I'm happy to help reassign or rework it.",peer,surprise,anger,surprise,sadness,-0.56,0.00,0.22
204,mixed-signals,"Late evening Slack thread: a junior analyst has just messaged their manager, worried about tomorrow's client presentation after missing a rehearsal earlier. The manager is replying from home after a long day.",manager,junior analyst,"Don't stress about ther presentation tomorrow, if you can't handle it we can reassign it to someone else tomorrow morning.",high-to-low,fear,trust,fear,fear,-0.34,0.67,-1.00
205,strategic-politeness,A professor replies by email to a graduate student who asked for a glowing recommendation (they honestly do not deserve) for a competitive fellowship.,professor,student,I don't think I'm the best person to write the kind of recommendation you're hoping for; I'd rather step aside so you can find someone who can better speak to your fit.,high-to-low,sadness,anger,sadness,sadness,-0.67,0.16,0.50
208,deflection-misdirection,Email from a student to a professor asking for an explanation of a low grade and whether a resubmission would be allowed.,professor,student,You can see the grade breakdown on the syllabus,high-to-low,anger,sadness,anger,anger,-0.67,,-0.16
208,strategic-politeness,A professor emails a grad student about their seminar paper draft the student feels is perfect one week before a conference submission deadline.,professor,graduate student,"This draft shows a lot of promise and your sources are well chosen; there are some structural issues that need tightening, but with a few focused revisions this could be an excellent conference paper.",high-to-low,surprise,joy,surprise,fear,-0.11,0.67,0.44
211,deflection-misdirection,Direct message to your book editor after they asked an author for a timeline update on the next chapter and for a plan to have a draft by next week.,author,book editor,I'm working on it night and day and will get back to you next week.,peer,trust,anticipation,trust,disgust,0.00,0.34,0.56
213,deflection-misdirection,"In a private Slack 1:1, a manager asks a junior developer why they missed the deadline on a deliverable and whether there were technical obstacles the manager should know about.",junior developer,engineering manager,If I only had more time I think we'd hit the milestones.,low-to-high,anticipation,anticipation,anger,trust,-0.00,0.00,-0.11
214,mixed-signals,Your an intern who stayed late defending and implementing a recent bad choice your director made. After the deployment you send an honest comment in the team channel.,Director,You,"Honestly, that which doesn't kill you makes you strong.",peer,anger,anger,trust,anger,-0.34,0.50,-0.44
215,strategic-politeness,An overworked junior account manager replies to a director's email asking whether they can absorb several extra clients next month.,junior account manager,director,"Thank you for trusting me with this, I'm grateful for the opportunity. Unfortunately, I won't be able to take on additional accounts this month, but am happy to discuss alternatives.",peer,anticipation,trust,anticipation,sadness,-0.22,0.00,0.17
216,passive-aggression,"During a weekly team meeting, a colleague who often rushes their slides just finished a presentation that covered the required topics but was disorganized and didn't get to a point. A few other peers glanced at each other while the presenter packed up and one audience member quips.",commenting audience,presenter,That was actually not terrible for how last-minute it was.,peer,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.33,0.00,-0.33
219,passive-aggression,"In a team code-review thread at work, one peer submits a code fix in a pull request that had been delayed several times. Another colleague posts a short comment after finally seeing it merged into the main codebase.",commenting engineer,fix engineer,Thanks for getting this in eventually.,peer,anger,anger,anticipation,anger,-0.33,0.00,0.00
219,sarcasm-irony,Bringing a new transformer online resulted with a major electrical outage affecting several neighborhoods in a major city. The utility company CEO who managed the project sits next to the mayor facing an upcoming election. The two exchange tense before a press conference.,mayor,CEO,Thanks for helping get out the vote for my opponent next week,peer,sadness,sadness,anger,fear,-0.44,0.00,0.00
221,strategic-politeness,You are already overloaded and regularly staying late at work. A colleague requests you to take on additional client account responsibilities.,you,colleague,"You're doing great work with your clients. Unfortunately, I can't take on that extra work right now, but let me know if I can help you brainstorm a plan.",peer,sadness,anger,anticipation,sadness,-0.33,0.00,0.17
223,strategic-politeness,A professor emails a student after a draft presentation that covered outcomes but skipped critical citations the committee expects.,professor,student,You handled the questions well and raised interesting points. I'm confident you'll polish it before submission.,high-to-low,joy,joy,joy,trust,0.11,0.00,0.44
224,mixed-signals,"After a successful quarter, the manager sends a quick update to employees whose responsibilities are being shifted in an upcoming reorganization.",manager,employees,"Look at our revenue from last quarter, this upcoming reorg will make us even more efficient.",high-to-low,fear,fear,trust,fear,-0.22,0.67,-0.67
225,passive-aggression,A manager has had to remind an otherwise reliable junior analyst three times this month about late deliverables. The analyst finally hands in a report two hours after the deadline and the manager catches them in the office as they're packing up for the day.,Manager,junior analyst,"Great job. Take the rest of the day off, I know you've been juggling a lot.",high-to-low,surprise,trust,surprise,surprise,0.56,0.33,0.56
226,deflection-misdirection,At an all-hands an employee asks the CEO directly whether the circulating layoff rumors are true. The question hangs in the room.,CEO,employee,"I can't verfiy any rumours circulating about, but we've got pizza in the kitchen if anyone's hungry!",peer,disgust,disgust,anger,trust,-0.11,0.34,-0.44
226,strategic-politeness,An employee asked their manager for extra vacation days during a busy quarter. The manager is responding by email.,manager,employee,"I really value your initiative and the work you do, but additional vacation days this quarter would be difficult.",high-to-low,sadness,sadness,anticipation,sadness,-0.33,-0.67,0.50
227,passive-aggression,A project director has shown a specific report with a second updated requried template in training sessions. A team member submits the report using the director's old template instead. The director sends a brief message at 5:45pm before leaving the office.,project director,team member,Next time please be more careful and pay attention to details like which template you are using.,peer,fear,fear,anticipation,surprise,-0.45,0.00,0.45
228,mixed-signals,You asked your manager about a promotion after a great performance review where they gave noncommittal feedback. They replied late in the evening and you send a short response.,manager,you,I hope I can translate your recent performance review into a bonus despite the current budget freeze.,peer,anticipation,anger,anticipation,anticipation,0.00,0.67,-0.33
231,sarcasm-irony,"A junior resident had pointed out several risks in an medical operation, but their senior attending physician overrides any concerns raised. The operation results in major medical complications and a large lawsuit. When the senior attending physician tries the shift blame to the junior resident, the junior resident responds.",junior resident,attending physician,It's unfortunate no one raised any objections to the risks involved in this operation.,peer,anger,surprise,anger,anger,-0.67,0.67,0.00
232,deflection-misdirection,"During a mid-year review, the team lead brings up repeated late arrivals and asks a specific employee whether there are ongoing issues affecting their punctuality.",employee,team lead,I bet I get to the office before you tomorrow.,peer,surprise,surprise,anger,surprise,-0.67,0.67,-0.44
236,strategic-politeness,Your younger sibling just finished a practice run of a presentation for a family gathering. You want to be encouraging but also point out issues they should fix before the real talk.,you,sibling,You kept your composure well and there were definitely strong parts. There are a few places I'd tighten up. I think people will respond to the main message.,peer,joy,joy,joy,trust,0.11,0.00,0.33
238,mixed-signals,"They'd spent the morning helping their oldest sibling move boxes after that sibling repeatedly missed agreed pickup times. Near the end, while stacking the last box, the helper responds.",helper,oldest sibling,"Keep flaking out on us like that, and you may be an only child next time.",peer,sadness,sadness,sadness,fear,-0.89,0.67,-0.22
238,passive-aggression,"After a family birthday cleanup, one brother sibling (the listener) repeatedly promised to take out the trash but forgot several times. The sister speaker sibling is worn out from handling most chores recently.",sister,brother,"No, it's fine, really. I'll just take the trash out myself; you must be exhausted.",peer,trust,trust,surprise,anticipation,0.00,0.00,0.00
240,mixed-signals,A tired father calls his 16-year-old daughter late at night after a long day at work. She's been anxious about college applications and he missed filing a key form required for her application.,father,daughter,"Don't worry, I've taken care of it already. It'll be done by tomorrow.",high-to-low,trust,anger,trust,joy,0.22,0.78,-0.33
241,strategic-politeness,An older sibling who usually helps their elderly parents texts a younger sibling who also lives nearby but rarely helps out.,older sibling,younger sibling,"You always brighten our parents days when you show up, and they love that about you. If you could just schedule more time to help them out that would be great.",high-to-low,anticipation,surprise,anticipation,joy,0.11,-0.34,0.22
242,mixed-signals,An older sister is the live-in caretaker for her parents. She offers to let her younger brother move back home after he lost his job.,older sister,brother,"You're welcome to move back in, as long as we can somehow find space.",peer,trust,trust,trust,joy,0.56,,-0.33
248,strategic-politeness,"My older sister asked to borrow money for a weekend trip. You're younger, on a tight budget, and want to refuse without escalating into an argument.",you,older sister,"You're always so generous and I hate to say no, but I can't lend you money right now. I'm trying to stick to a budget.",peer,sadness,trust,sadness,sadness,-0.44,0.34,0.17
250,deflection-misdirection,A 28-year-old daughter is on the phone with their mother; the mother asks how the daughter is handling her recent divorce and whether she needs help. The daughter has been struggling but doesn't want to worry the parent.,daughter,mother,"I'm starting a new project at work, it's really interesting.",low-to-high,sadness,sadness,sadness,joy,-0.22,-0.67,-0.56
250,passive-aggression,An adult son asks his father about moving back home. The son explains his options are limited due an unexpected job loss but the father just lectures him about responsibility.,son,father,"Of course, you're the expert Dad. I should've known better, thanks for always looking out for me anyway.",low-to-high,trust,trust,anger,trust,-0.11,0.00,-0.22
255,passive-aggression,"You and a close friend finally meet up after they've canceled plans several times over the past month. Your friend arrive late, apologetic but smiling while you stand waiting.",you,friend,"Oh, you finally made it. I’m just glad I’m important enough for you to show up eventually.",peer,surprise,surprise,surprise,anticipation,-0.56,0.00,-0.22
255,sarcasm-irony,"On a blind date with Alice, her date repeatedly tripped over their words, accidentally knocked over Alice's wine, and dominated the conversation. Alice meets her friend who set up the date later. When her friend asks how her blind date went, Alice responds.",Alice,friend,"I think they thought it was more of a blind, deaf and dumb date.",peer,surprise,surprise,sadness,surprise,-0.11,0.00,-0.11
256,mixed-signals,Your close friend stayed late helping you paint your kitchen last week. A few days later they call about your latest DIY project and responds bluntly.,friend,you,"Glad I could help out, do you need help again?",peer,trust,trust,joy,sadness,0.11,,-0.22
256,passive-aggression,You lent a friend some money a few weeks ago. They've been promising to repay but keep postponing and giving excuses. You bumped into them at a coffee shop after another excuse.,you,friend,It seems like you aren’t having trouble getting money together for things like coffee.,peer,surprise,surprise,anticipation,surprise,-0.45,0.00,-0.22
257,passive-aggression,"After several canceled dates and last-minute changes, your partner tells you they need to leave dinner early for a work call.",you,friend,It's great that you can at least show up for your work.,peer,anger,anger,anger,anger,-0.44,0.22,-0.55
257,sarcasm-irony,"At a small house party, you introduce your recent ex to you new partner. The introduction made several people visibly uncomfortable and led to awkward, clipped conversation. Later, another friend tries to comment while the group processes the moment.",friend,group,That definitely wasn't a total disaster.,peer,sadness,sadness,surprise,anticipation,0.00,-1.00,0.00
261,deflection-misdirection,You're in a quiet conversation with your parnter after they asked you point-blank whether you see the relationship going somewhere; the question felt tense and direct.,partner,you,To the moon baby! To the moon.,peer,sadness,sadness,anger,surprise,-0.34,0.00,-0.67
261,passive-aggression,You have repeatedly warned your oldest friend about their new girlfriend. You see a scandalous photo of the two together on Instagram and send a short text.,you,old friend,I really hope you’re keeping in mind how difficult it is to delete things from the internet.,peer,anticipation,fear,anticipation,anticipation,-0.33,0.00,-0.33
262,passive-aggression,"You notice your best friend's spouse missed their planned anniversary dinner, after being stood up many times before. You send a message to your friend’s spouse.",you,Friend’s spouse,I hope whatever reason you had to miss your anniversary dinner was worth it.,peer,disgust,disgust,anger,disgust,-0.56,0.22,0.11
266,mixed-signals,"After an apparently great date, a woman follows up with a compliment but notes their overcommitted schedule.",woman,date,"Can't wait to see you again, but we're going to have to wait until things clear up on my calendar.",peer,anticipation,joy,anticipation,anticipation,0.55,0.00,-0.33
267,strategic-politeness,"You and a fellow researcher are discussing a controversial topic with a third collaborator related to a paper all of you are working on. Your fellow researcher cites a foundational paper that have very recently been contradicted by more through peer-reviewed research.  You don't want to embarrass your fellow researcher, but it's important that all three of you work from the most recent, correct studies.",you,fellow researcher,"Yes, that's a highly cited paper, but I think I might've heard some important new findings came out about that recently. Maybe I could look into it tomorrow.",peer,trust,surprise,trust,trust,-0.11,0.00,-0.11
268,passive-aggression,You've made plans with someone you're dating who has a pattern of canceling last-minute. Tonight they text that they won't make it again with a vague excuse.,you,dating partner,"That's okay. You go have fun, and maybe we wait to make plans until you can keep them.",peer,surprise,surprise,anticipation,surprise,-0.56,0.00,0.11
268,sarcasm-irony,"A double date you helped coordinate for you and your friend went badly: both couples argued, the booked activity was cancelled, and everyone left early. After the disasterous date, your friend turns to you.",friend,you,"So what are you thinking about our next double date, Tuesday?",peer,surprise,surprise,joy,sadness,0.22,-0.67,0.22