Abe-ish Love Stories?

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**rani84**

I love hearing about how couples met...

   Actually, one of my favourite things to do is to open up the Sunday newspaper and read the Wedding Section on how the bride and groom met...

   I have noticed a few people on the forum wanting to meet their mate, and I thought it would be nice inspiration to read other Aber's love stories.

   I'd love to hear whether you:

   Deliberately manifested/co-created your ideal relationship? What was your frame of mind just before you met your partner? Did you apply Abraham's teachings to manifest him or her?

   Looking forward to reading your love stories

   P.S It doesn't even have to be your own love story!

**lili3005**

I'd love to hear it too! thanks for opening this thread!

I remembering asking about relationship before and I receive some great answers. People meeting their other half so easily, so effortlessly. It doesn't matter if we don't go out much or search everywhere for our other half because it's alignment with it that does the work. I'm still not there so either it's coming soon or I still have resistance to it.

**apples22**

The frame of mind when I met someone a short while back, was total freedom and adventure/discovery... without worries or cares, like just sitting on a balcony looking at the view or sitting on a beach and admiring the air, and the sunshine, soaking it in. I liked that feeling of freedom and surprise.

**rani84**

I think it's coming soon lili Can't wait to hear your love story soon

**rani84**

I love that apples22, when you have let go of the oars and relaxed...

**paradise-on-earth**

Ohhh sweet thread!

When I was 14, I decided that I would have seen enough not working love-relationships (don´t laugh, I was precocious in many ways ) even I didn´t really lived a "real" relationship yet. But I was fallen in love several times and had eyes to look around, in family and so...

So (not knowing about Abe at all) I decided that I would **meet the PERFECT soulmate for me, and together- we would live ALL our dreams and visions- "happily together for all the rest of our life"**.

Of course everybody I told about that, told me back I would be nuts, and I should grow up and face reality. But I realized, that I would never be able to become less than that, again- so I would need to live up to the vision!

2 looong years went by, I felt that the Universe or God would be out to lunch, because "nothing" happened then that a few guys tried to catch my interest in which I was NOT interested at all.

When I was 16, a schoolfellow of mine (2 grades lower and 1 year younger than me ) managed to get my attention on a party. Of all things- a party on Valentine´s Day! It was like being struck by a lightning for me, I just tumbled and felt incredible unworthy of the giant love I sensed in this... child??

Ooh... he was 15, but no child anymore... even I knew him the last 2 (!!) years already, since he was 13 (AND a child). I knew he was courting me all this 2 years, so very bravely, I liked him pretty well, I knew he was brilliant and handsome and witty and incredible strong and deeply good hearted... but he was much too young, much too calm, much too nice, much too everything. I hadn't SEEN him, at all. Now, suddenly, I did. And I decided to give this a try, even I thought he would be WAY to good for me. But I got over this, quickly...

When I look back, I can´t describe it otherwise than that his steady alignment and love (being ITV about his desire) had literally swept me in finally, with him. It´s an example of "one who is in alignment is more powerful than millions who are not"! His friends, I myself and his own logic had told him, that I would be unavailable for him. He didn't care. HOW GOOD FOR ME!!!! And as soon I was ITV with him, we evolved like rockets, together.

We lived through times of huge confusion regarding our families (who wherent... uhm, really supportive... ), We married against all odds, we lived a few years an open marriage because I fell in love with his best friend, we lived decades "below official poverty level", we got and raised 4 children in a kind of hulk together and moved through contrast of him being depressive and me, being labeled deadly ill.

We challenged each other and got challenged by life to our edges of ability. We sometimes hated us- and nevertheless always KNEW our love, unconditionally. We never gave up on our dreams- one of us always was strong enough to focus on them, again. And since we know Abe and about LoA, we even let each other off the hook to be responsible for each others happiness.

I experienced- WHILE I have the freedom to choose other partners also, if I wish- that **he** is the person I want on my side, **for ever**. The deeper I know him, the longer I experience life with him, the deeper, more delicious, more sure, more detailed, more refined, more incredible beautiful our love becomes. We grew wings- and roots. We are completely free- and love nothing more than to be together.

Next February, it´s 32 years that the lightning struck me...

And from now on, we will choose MUCH less drama and even MORE joy!

**...We can be, do or have EVERYTHING we want.**

**rani84**

Omg that is a beautiful love story!!! Deliciously inspirational (Triumphs over the wedding section of my newspaper!!), you look very happy in that picture- thank you so much for sharing

**paradise-on-earth**

Thanks so much for the question- that was FUN to write!!!

**CreatorChristine**

I've described my AMAZING, WHIRLWIND (to me, at least :lol) Love Story a few times here on the forum - you'll be guided to those posts when they're a match. But I WILL tell you my "frame of mind" - nothing was FURTHER from my mind than trying to "manifest" a relationship. I was LIBERALLY "applying Abraham's teachings" , if you will, toward feeling the best I could with my life as it was. And then there he was ... in a time, place, and manner I would NEVER have expected to be so EASY and NATURAL and UNCONTRIVED. He just GLOWED for me - and HE WON'T QUIT GLOWING  !

Christine

**Fukami**

> We are completely free- and love nothing more than to be together.
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Oh, Elke, I love what you said above so much, I highlighted in RED!

I SO enjoyed reading your love story... and how wonderful that as young as he was, Wolf was totally aligned with his desire... for YOU!
Your love story (as you know, I knew bits of it previously) has always inspired me, ever since we were playing on the ABC thread this summer.
And for sharing your awesome, lovey-dovey pic, too!
So much love for you!
Love, Fukami

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