Pamela Stephenson

Pamela Stephenson Connolly at the blessing (religious ceremony after civil wedding) of Sting and Trudie Styler, Great Durnford.

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Barbara Coyle

**Pamela Helen Stephenson, Lady Connolly** is a New Zealand-born psychologist, writer, and performer who is now a resident in both the United Kingdom and the United States of America. She is best known for her work as an actress and comedian during the 1980s, particularly in *Not the Nine O'Clock News; History of the World, Part I;* and *Superman III.* She has written several books, which include a biography of her husband Sir Billy Connolly, and presented a psychology-based interview show called *Shrink Rap* on British and Australian television.

## Early life

Pamela Helen Stephenson was born on 4 December 1949 in Takapuna, Auckland. In 1953, she moved to Australia with her scientist parents and two sisters. She attended Boronia Park Primary School in Sydney and then Sydney Church of England Girls' Grammar School, Darlinghurst.

According to her own autobiography, Stephenson was raped at age 16 while she was living in Australia by a 35-year-old heroin addict, contracting an STD as a consequence. She concealed the fact but was expelled from her home by her parents once her medical condition was known: "I remember the feeling well, because I still experience it every time someone rejects me, even in some relatively small way."

## Comedy and acting

Stephenson began her acting career in television. In 1972, she starred as Elsie in the ABC-TV production of the opera *The Yeomen of the Guard*. She starred during 1972–73 as Julie King in the Australian TV series *Ryan*. She made numerous television and film appearances, including as Michelle Osgood in the *Space: 1999* episode "Catacombs of the Moon" (1976), Josephine in the 1977 ABC production of Malcolm Williamson's opera *The Violins of Saint-Jacques*, and Wendy in the 1977 *New Avengers* episode "Angels of Death". She had a supporting role in the inaugural episode of Roald Dahl's *Tales of the Unexpected* in 1979. She had another recurring role as Iris Reade in the UK series *Funny Man* (1981). She made a TV comedy sketch show pilot, *Stephenson's Rocket*, which was not taken up. Among her first appearances in the UK, she joined the live on-stage team at *The Comic Strip* led by Rik Mayall, Peter Richardson and Alexei Sayle at the Raymond Revuebar in Soho. This was not a happy experience, according to an interview she gave in 2014: "Doing stand-up was like a war with everyone playing this game of "I can be funnier than you".

Probably her most widely recognised television role was in the 1980s UK comedy television sketch show *Not The Nine O'Clock News*, alongside Rowan Atkinson, Mel Smith and Griff Rhys Jones (1979–82). Her parodies included Kate Bush in a song called "Oh England, My Leotard" (referencing "Oh England My Lionheart"), and Olivia Newton-John in a song called "Typical Bloody Typical" (referencing "Physical"). She also had a small part in three episodes of the British crime-action television drama series *The Professionals*. Her personal contribution as a comedian added to the success of *Not the Nine O'Clock News*, and led to a collaboration with comedy and satire writers Mike Lepine and Mark Leigh. This spawned a book, *How To Be A Complete Bitch*, and a board game. In 1982–83, she starred in the West End production of Joseph Papp's version of *The Pirates of Penzance*.

She also featured in the American comedy sketch show *Saturday Night Live* (SNL) (1984–85) making her the first female *SNL* cast member born outside North America, and the second overall, joining Tony Rosato. Her characters on the show included Angela Bradleigh (*Weekend Update* commentator) and celebrity impersonations of Madonna (in a fake commercial parodying the singer's "Lucky Star" music video), Billy Idol, Debby Douillard, Peggy Ashcroft, Joan Collins and Cyndi Lauper.

Stephenson acted in a number of films.

## Other media appearances

In 1987, Stephenson participated in Prince Edward's charity television special *The Grand Knockout Tournament*. In 1993, she hosted the Australian lifestyle program *Sex*.

In December 2010, Stephenson competed in the eighth series of the BBC1 television show *Strictly Come Dancing*, consistently winning praise. She received on 4 December a perfect score of 10 from each of the four judges for her Viennese Waltz, becoming only the eighth celebrity (up until that point) to do so. She then reached the final along with Matt Baker and Kara Tointon. On 18 December, with dancing partner James Jordan, she came third in the competition.

Also in December 2010, Stephenson was the guest on BBC Radio 3's *Private Passions*, with a choice of music including Bellini, Satie and Debussy. In 2012, Stephenson travelled as a backpacker to Papua New Guinea in the Television New Zealand travel show *Intrepid Journeys*.

## Psychology

Stephenson is a US-licensed psychologist who practices and publishes under the name Pamela Stephenson-Connolly. In her private practice in Beverly Hills, she provided mental health care to adult individuals and couples for a range of psychological complaints. Stephenson's professional specialties include human sexuality. She was founder and president of the Los Angeles Sexuality Center, an online sexual research engine that operated for five years until she moved to New York. Stephenson is a past Secretary of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). In 2002 and 2003, she served as conference program co-chair of the annual AASECT Conference. Stephenson is also a member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association and the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health.

Stephenson was an adjunct professor at the California Graduate Institute (CGI – now a part of the Chicago School of Professional Psychology) for six years. She taught Human Sexuality and Sex Therapy, Advanced Human Sexuality and Sex Therapy, and Clinical Practicum in Sex Therapy. She also taught clinical hypnosis at CGI. She received her PhD in 1996, and then in 2009 received an Honorary Doctorate in Science from the Robert Gordon University in Aberdeen for her contributions to the field of human sexuality.

Stephenson has completed research projects and other field studies on the gender-liminal people of Samoa, Tonga, and India. She has also presented the TV show *Shrink Rap*, in which she conducted psychologically-based interviews with well-known people, including Salman Rushdie, Carrie Fisher and Robin Williams. The programme premièred on More4 on 2 April 2007 and was aired in Australia on ABC2 in 2008.

## Activism

From the 1980s, Stephenson campaigned to raise awareness of food additives and colours, particularly in children's confectionery. She appeared on the daily variety show *Midday with Ray Martin*, and painted a picture using the colours she extracted from children's lollies in order to demonstrate how many are contained in them. She became involved in the Parents for Safe Food Movement. In 2010, Stephenson travelled to the Democratic Republic of Congo with the international medical aid charity Merlin to meet the survivors of sexual and gender-based violence (SGBV).