MarriageLMSW

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: so-

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I absolutely

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: H A T E

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: H

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: A

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: T

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:08 PM ] ⁨II⁩: E

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: in every single fucking piece of media or just general mindset of society

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: is that

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: a family

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: MUST

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: have children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and whenever there's a ship in a book or movie or show

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: if it's an adult ship

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: there's

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: ALWAYS

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:09 PM ] ⁨II⁩: children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:10 PM ] ⁨II⁩: (and well it's 95% of the time a het ship but like that's another point for another time)

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:10 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like- I hate how it's always children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:15 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: I don't really get what you mean-

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:16 PM ] ⁨II⁩: what don't you get?

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:16 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Nvm

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:17 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I'm just saying how it's really \*really\* annoying how in like every single relationship it's expected that there is/will be children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:17 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and it's portrayed that way in media (books, movies, shows, etc)

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:17 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like every single adult relationship should/will consist of children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:17 PM ] ⁨II⁩: because

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:17 PM ] ⁨II⁩: \*everyone likes children and wants to have children, r i g h t ?\*

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: tbh in 99.999999% of cases it just ruins it for me.

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Oh, yeah...

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: I agreee

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: And every time there's like-

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: A time skip with an adult ship

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: They always get married and have children.

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I K R

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: that's exactly what I was refering to

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Like for example Katniss and Peeta

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: yeah and while you just mentioned that

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: marriage...

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:18 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it's expected

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: that if a couple

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: is

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: \*an actual couple\*

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: or \*reeaally in love\*

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: they'll get married

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: \*because everyone wants to get married, r i g h t ?\*

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:19 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and like

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:20 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it totally basically invalidates any long term serious relationship that doesn't end in marriage

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:20 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like why is marriage such a big deal

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:20 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and tbh

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:20 PM ] ⁨II⁩: in like most media

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:20 PM ] ⁨II⁩: marriage is like- \*really\* superficial

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:21 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and even in real life

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:21 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:21 PM ] ⁨II⁩: not every couple that plans to stay together for the rest of the foreseeable future needs to get married.

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:21 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and have children

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and kinda unrelated to that

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: but still related

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I mean it's unrelated to any logical argument I have on the topic

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: just a personal thing

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I strongly dislike

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: the terms husband and wife

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: IDK why

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: so don't ask

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I have no idea why.

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:22 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I just- \*really\* find it annoying

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:23 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and usually very heteronormative (obvizusli) and just in general

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:23 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I mean I guess my argument before does have something to do with it

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:24 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like the whole idea of marriage is like overdone and in some cases too superficial

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:24 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and so like the terms are also, but even so I dislike the terms just as words

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:25 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I mean like obviously I'm not trying to shit on the concept or the idea of it, or any married couples or any people who love the terms husband and wife

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:26 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Yeah

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:26 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it's that it has a specific connotation to it

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:26 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and also

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:27 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like so obvizusli this is not directed to any person or married people or whatever

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:27 PM ] ⁨II⁩: I just wanna point out

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:27 PM ] ⁨II⁩: that

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:27 PM ] ⁨II⁩: Marriage is

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:27 PM ] ⁨II⁩: or was ig

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:28 PM ] ⁨II⁩: deeply rooted in very sexist homophobic ideals

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:28 PM ] ⁨II⁩: like up until a few years ago (not like literally few but I mean like up until a very recent point in history)

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:28 PM ] ⁨II⁩: the ideal married couple

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:29 PM ] ⁨II⁩: was obvizusli a husband and a wife, the wife is a house wife, cooks, cleans, takes care of the children that always exist in those marriages, and the husband who provides for the family, works

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:29 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and like it just feels like however much we change it

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: (slowly (very \*very\* slowly) getting rid of gender roles, starting (\*starting\*) to accept gay/lesbian marriages (and marriages where someone isn't either man or woman)

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it's still

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: unfortunately

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it still carries

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: what it once was

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:31 PM ] ⁨II⁩: which is a pretty bigoted ideal system

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:32 PM ] ⁨II⁩: and ig that's pretty close if not the root of why I dislike the idea of marriage- or at least think it's not what it's idealized to be

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:32 PM ] ⁨II⁩: wow-

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:32 PM ] ⁨II⁩: that felt

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:33 PM ] ⁨II⁩: g o o d

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:33 PM ] ⁨II⁩: it's like the Xiao's orientation thing in the tier list on the 8th of March

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:33 PM ] ⁨II⁩: thanks for listening to my rant.

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:35 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Yeah, and like

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:35 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Another thing

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:35 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: Is that, in the past, in royal families marriage was a \*must\*

[ Wednesday, March 9, 2022 5:35 PM ] ⁨ConspFiqDrin⁩: And like having children and all that shit