Soul Colour: Air

*The*

Lover Archetype

**Aversion:**
**Scorn**

**Strategy:**
**Affection**

Those whose souls are touched by Urana are empathetic,
sincere and warm-hearted. They dread being unwanted and unworthy of affection,
and constantly strive to feel loved and cared about. Friendly, generous and
self-sacrificing, they seek to be nurtured, to express their feelings and to
have others respond to them. However, they do not want to acknowledge their own
needs or feel like they have to ask things of others, despite valuing closeness
and friendship. At their best, Air souls selflessly give their attentions to
others, truly looking out for their best interests.

**Lawful**
Good - The
Gracious Altruist

**Liberation:**
*“****I***
have acquired true interpersonal love.”

Giving unconditional love to themselves and to others,
they become deeply unselfish, humble and altruistic. Joyous and charitable,
they believe that good will occur even without their involvement. By letting go
of their belief that their own needs are unimportant, they feel it is a
privilege to be in the lives of others. Others find them to be unconditionally
generous and caring.

**Good - The**
Nurturing Helper

**Self-Image:**
“***I am caring and loving.”***

Admiring and expressive, the character desires to do
good things for others. Encouraging and appreciative, they are also thoughtful,
dedicated and forgiving. Having become able to look out for themselves as well
as others, they are truly able to see the good in others. Devoting their time
to the assistance and betterment of others, they are generous, giving and truly
affectionate as they further pursue happiness.

**Unaligned - The**
Possessive Intimate

**Ideals:**
*“****I***
value being liked and helping others.”

Codependent and jealous, the character desires to be
needed and relied upon by others. Having ulterior motives, they hover, meddle
and control in the name of “love”. Enveloping and possessive, they
self-sacrifice to the extent that they wear themselves out and need to make
others appreciate how caring they are. Flatterers infatuated with the ideal of “love”,
if spurned they may become overbearing and sanctimonious.

**Evil - The**
Proud Manipulator

**Resentment:**
*“****No-one***
appreciates my self-sacrifice.”

Smothering and extremely self-deceptive with regard to
how aggressive and selfish they really are, the character desires to maintain
that they are righteous. They become belittling, hurtful and potentially violent,
attempting to soothe the very pain they cause others to prop up their
self-image. Domineering, they feel entitled to get anything they want from
others – debts, money, sex etc. They are prone to chronic heartbreak and
obsessive “love”.

**Chaotic**
Evil -The
Consumed Martyr

**Delusion:**
*“****The***
world cruelly deprives me of love.”

Vindicating themselves by falling apart and suffering,
they excuse their appalling and degenerate behaviour due to their victim
mentality. Emotionally consumed, deeply bitter and enraged, they are
remorseless and homicidal. Chronic health problems stemming from the
somatisation of aggression result in an ever deepening sense of hopelessness
and cosmic rejection. Blaming others for their pain, they are driven to
sabotage, hurt and destroy.