Create Your Reality versus Attraction versus Controlling Conditions

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**Guest**

Need a little help on if the law of attraction attracts the essence of itself or the essence of the thoughts you are thinking, then doesn't that control some of the conditions that surround you? If you can't control conditions, like ester found she was in a hotel with kids screaming and meditated herself to sleep focusing on the air conditioning then she must have attracted that to her. Versus the lady who is ester's new freind who walks on the beach every morning and puts herself first and then she is happy the rest of the day as everyone knows she puts herself first and the rest can wait,would that person attract the screaming kids in the hotel room next to her or attract much less unwanted contrast?

Where is the real power in LOA? Or do we just imagine to feel better in uncontrollable conditions and see what happens? Sometimes it feels as if Contrast happens and then we shop the contrast or it surrounds us and Abe's teaching is how do we drop the unwanted as quickly as possible (or see the great expansion that it just gives you and appreciate it) and start talking about the wanted as quickly as possible. Do you just go Ostrich when you attract the unwanted or do you eventually focus right in the face of the contrast without avoidance and focus on something different and wanted right there and then? What would that person look like while in action? Would that person look likes esther's friend who puts herself first?

Or is the screaming kid contrast just good no big deal, ha, ha, ha, cute, small fly on very big dog, and I just carry my iphone with headphones and check out to Abeland to go to sleep? Do you focus wheel the screaming kid and then you see that differently.

Many questions this morning?Sometimes I wonder how focused I really am through my day or am I just a random observer? Would appreciate more focusing techniques people use during their days to makes the LOA and the benefit of the use of it more apparent. ::rocket

**cara**

ars:Imagine that the conditions around you are not simply something you have walked into or found yourself part of, imagine that the ***conditions are irresistably attracted to you, attracted to your vibrational output -*** that is the power of Law of Attraction, and you can use it with focus to create what you do want, or you can use it with focus to create what you don't want .

When you control the attraction/vibration that the conditions are responding to, then the conditions have to change to reflect your vibration - but you always have to make the first move!

**Evey**

My life has changed in a real palpatable way...and I feel better. Though I had to learn to feel better first and then good-feeling things/stuff/events/people/money/wellbeing followed.

Reading and talking or typing this stuff out is not the same thing as putting into practice and \*little\* by \*little\* things improve (it helps to remember it is a gradual process). Over a pretty short time the small improvements add up to a markedly IMPROVED life and a sense of security and empowerment and a knowing that cannot be shaken. I have found that once you acquire that \*knowing\* through experience, you dont really go back to doubting it.

The biggest focusing technique for me is to **ask myself how I am FEELING (100s of times a day)**. The feeling lets me know what my vibrational offering is which lets me know how to \*gently\* guide my thoughts to better feeliong thoughts. The vibrational offering is everything. Contrast will always be our companion until we croak, but it does not mean we need to get stuck in step one. "**Feeling Forward" is a great process (search for Patricia's thread on this) to use contrast to expand and Allow!**

Hope this helps, it has me. I love that the sharing on this site is how I got these tidbits ot tricks!

ETA and dont forget that there is a little bit of lag time and of course there is the most important component; **YOU must be a cooperative component to what you are asking for.** So...if you are wanting harmony, you must stop bichin' and a' moaning first and vibrate harmony first (as an example)... I dont mean you personally...I am universal You.

**Guest**

Thank you very much Cara and Evey. I need to make the first move mentally to feel good first! I will work on going up the EGS! Can't thank you enough for your response as it has broken the ice so to speak!

Heartfelt thanks

Tom

**Evey**

I am so glad this helped Tom. It was a major break through for me when I finally heard it. It is an emotional journey first and then things fall into place. It is so counter to how we have been taught which is put feelings aside, take action and only use intelllect. No wonder we get off track.

The biggest thing i learned is to go easy on yourself, be focused but soft about it, give yourself a break and know it is a process.

**grateful day**

Brilliant stuff here…already!

But let me just add a few thoughts.

It's always and only about you. It really is. You have projected yourself forward by the vibrations you have been offering, so what you are experiencing in the moment is always a perfect match to what you've been offering – to your mix of vibrations. It's tempting and sometimes useful to attempt to understand what it was that you did to attract something that you are now looking at and saying "I want not this:" But it's also important to realize that in reflecting back upon what you might have been vibrating to attract the screaming kids in the hotel room next door, it's useful to keep in mind that you are reactivating that very same vibration.

This quote below really seems to apply…

> Abraham (Stamford, CT 2009-JUN-13)
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> …to be really accurate and fair, you are constantly having manifestational indicators. What you are living, your life as it is right now, is a perfect manifested indicator of your vibrational mix. So the money in your bank account – MATCHES your mix, the condition of your body – MATCHES your mix, the clarity of your mind – MATCHES your mix, the people that you are hanging around with MATCH your mix, the way people treat you in traffic, MATCHES your mix, your mix of vibration. Everything that is happening to you, is a perfect – Law of Attraction, response to what you've got going on vibrationally.
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> So, do you get the angle that we are offering to you here today? If you could just here us clearly and make a decision that you are going to do a little more ignoring reality as it is, and a little more looking in the direction of the vibrational reality that you have launched, talking more about where you are going and less about where you are, talking more about what you want, and why you want it, and less about how it going to come, where it going to come from, who's going to bring it, and when it's going to get there. As you talk about who you really are, and what you really want, you will find yourself hanging around in the vicinity of this vortex, where you will finally be, and these are the words that we want to ring through you forever more – we want you to know, that in your vortex of creation, where the larger part of you is, law of attraction responding to the vibration of you, all cooperative components are assembled! And the question that you want to ask yourself, all day every day is, "Am I a cooperative component?" And the answer is, if you are frisky – YES!, if you are exhilarated, YES!, if you are loving someone YES!!!, if you are happy YES!, if you are ornery, NO! if you are afraid, no-no-no-no-no, if you are criticizing NO!, if you are worried about money, no-na-no, no-na-no, no-na-no...
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> You have control of your relationship to the vortex, and it is our desire use everything that we have to convince you, better word, to remind you, better word, to reawaken within you, better word, to restore you to your knowledge of the existence of this vortex, so that never again will you stand in an unwanted place and feel very much about it, instead you'll say "ooooo, something to want!
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Much love,

- Brian::hearts

**Deester**

> **grateful day wrote:**
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> Brilliant stuff here…already! YES I agree!
> And the question that you want to ask yourself, all day every day is, "Am I a cooperative component?" And the answer is, if you are frisky – YES!, if you are exhilarated, YES!, if you are loving someone YES!!!, if you are happy YES!, if you are ornery, NO! if you are afraid, no-no-no-no-no, if you are criticizing NO!, if you are worried about money, no-na-no, no-na-no, no-na-no...
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> You have control of your relationship to the vortex, and it is our desire use everything that we have to convince you, better word, to remind you, better word, to reawaken within you, better word, to restore you to your knowledge of the existence of this vortex, so that never again will you stand in an unwanted place and feel very much about it, instead you'll say "ooooo, something to want!
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Great quote Brian - thanks for posting it. I do have to remind myself at times to be a cooperative component, so I needed to read this today. And as Evey said "The biggest thing i learned is to go easy on yourself, be focused but soft about it, give yourself a break and know it is a process." Yes to that.

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