Neutrality

What can be done when there are moments that we believe that either we are managing our lives or unable to grasp a situation that we are indeed focused to solved. Are we feeling and acting in a way that represent or factually adheres to who and what we are? Is the action of channeling what is affecting or inciting changes on our environment being handled with the understanding that there is no physical or intangible manner in which it can be manipulated by any means entirely.

Clarity of thought is a subject that it is easier to listen too, rather than, putting it into practice. Still, on our lives daily mission to excel and persevere on it, this is not a matter of choice, because, if self-discipline and cordial relations with the world are of interest to us, we will adhere to conscious impartiality or thinking with a clear mind. Not having a clear awareness of all that is happening around us is in reality our fault and anything positive or negative that stems from that, is by default ours to own, no questions, no buts, or no celebrations either (*we will celebrate the good occasions we are humans after all and is suggested to indulge in positivity*).

In essence, what we need to create is a routine (*mental one*) that is always scanning (*awareness*) for those moments that we tend to be hasty and jump into conclusions. Thinking before acting or speaking has to become second nature while it is a fact that, it is hard and not an easy task to perform. Numerous individuals do not practice the habit of thinking before speaking and have the common miscalculation of just reacting on a unwanted manner to situations. Regardless of intentions to any given situation the daily mission is to remain aware to our environment and always hold our selves in check before interacting at any level with individuals or situations alike.

Running into problems is a day by day aspect of life that we all encounter and it is what unconsciously motivates and pushes us to expand our consciousness unconsciously, (*no pun intended*). Understanding that fact it is extremely relevant to the higher-self because aids promoting the ability to be as neutral as possible in any and all situations to subjugate doubt, miscommunication, or seeding the wrong impression of us onto others. It is equally important to remember and engrave on our minds that there is no mission in our life's to live without mistakes or errors. On the contrary, those are welcome and required for us to solidify and continuously reinforce our foundation of values, morals, and ethics but also learn and teach our children in consequence of lived-experiences.

Innocence is that harmless and pernicious state that manifests itself by carrying with it wonder, doubt, and ignorance with radical challenges that are indeed the most extreme or simplistic lessons ever taught to us. It is also the precursor to a wide-range of mannerisms that indulge our lack of awareness or conscious interactions. At times, the reason why we fall prey to our reactive-responsiveness towards a number of occurrences that we would rather not to be near them if possible in the first place, it is precisely that, our own innocence of thought (*is not that we want to be naïve or harsh, we simply react*). The possibility exists of us wanting to engage into a desired positive subject, but due to the fact that we "do not think before speaking", that eagerness to swiftly deliver a reactive-response (not thinking) will tend to hold hostage our encapsulated minds from seeing consequences (*think before you speak*). Meaning that, reality is concealed from us (*making mistakes or reprehensible gaffes*), therefore we fail to take advantage of an opportunity by allowing ourselves to repeat old tendencies, in default of, exercising basic routines by analyzing and processing information prior to spewing our thoughts out.

One of the most challenging and meaningful suggestions that we can adhere and practice is; listen and accept situations as they come understanding that those happened or will happen. Additionally, no matter how large, grave, simple, or shape of the situation or even how it materializes to us, it will be solved simply, one day at the time.

And please, no situation should change your ability to remain neutral and innocent of thought. Sometimes simply choosing and permitting yourself to act naturally or innocently it is graceful and enlightening.

~Think before you speak