Sonya DeSoto

**Sonya DeSoto**

She is afraid to see someone die right in front of her, as she still does not quite understand what is going on despite seeing so many deaths. She is timid when she is not in control. She is intimidated by her abilities because she does not fully understand them. She is confident when in her element, and has a reputation. She is good with people, she is alone but is not a loner. She concerns herself with otherworldly things beyond the mundane, which gives her an ability to interface with all other earthly interests of people, she is intimidated by otherworldly things and so is free of worldly things.

Characters: Assistants, Scientists, Security Guards.

## Biography

She is distracted during the events with Daya and Tim, as she thinks her mother may have cancer.

## Personality

Sonya has two sides to her, when she is witnessing souls' passing, and when she is not. She is generous with her knowledge, but not with material things as she does not have anything to give. Patient. Altruistic. Resilient. She has integrity and determination. Can-do attitude. Reserved and Introverted. Kind. Unassuming. Hardworking. She is responsible for what she considers important, but is not good at taking care of her own needs. She is not particularly loyal as she does not have anyone to be loyal to. She is warm and approachable. Warm-hearted. Forgiving. Sincere. Encouraging. Appreciative. Optimistic. Straightforward (when it comes to souls). Creative and Artistic. Modest. Loving. Helpful. Considerate. Idealistic. Dutiful (when witnessing for family members and souls). Fair. Polite. Good sense of humor. Passionate. Friendly. She is dedicated to what she thinks is important. Thoughtful. Humble. Caring. Supportive. Troubled. Calm. Reliable (only with what she's good at). Empathetic. Well-meaning. Unsentimental. Unselfish. She is moral but does not have a strong moral code. She adapts quickly, and is well-respected by the people who believe her skills are real. Honest. Brave. Adamant. Courageous. Strong. Wise. Incorruptible. Sensitive. Agreeable. Selfless. Demonstrative but only when describing the souls she sees. Skillful. Earnest. Responsive. Decisive. Intelligent. Gentle. True. Daring. Nerve. Bold. Trusting. Stable. Hidden Depths. Sound of Heart. Protector. Fearless. Transparent in telling people what she sees. Self-Nurturing. Emotionally Aware. She has an unconfrontational nature. She is a deep thinker and has a quick mind. She has strong self-respect. Bright. Communicative. Enthusiastic. Observant. She tends to overcommit to things. She doesn't take things personally. Reflective. Self-Possessed. Accepting. Unselfconscious. Expressive. She is not particularly faithful, stubborn, vivacious, or ambitious. Unique. Devoted. Capable. Self-Effacing. Receptive. Reassuring. Interpersonal (when she's doing her thing). Dedicated. Soul. Protector. An Easy Target. Healing Power. Uncommon. Most Likeable (she is but it is not a big part of her). Advanced. Willpower. Alteration. Confident. Intelligent. Distinctive. Smart. Self-Consistent. Believes in justice. Unafraid of toil. Rather impartial. Not competitive. Inclusive. Sense of fair play. Determination. Tactical. Keen insight. Clever mind. Responsible. Very intelligent and smart. Attractive. Private. Natural humility. Reserved. Thoughtful. Artistic (but not very). Strong Personality. Gentle to others. Positive. Morally incorruptible. She is not especially people-pleasing. She is not stubborn, possessive, impressible, or overconfident. She is not an intellectual or an especially critical thinker, overly humble, too altruistic, selfish, caustic, or an inborn leader. She is not assiduous, manful, ambitious, self-righteous, or arrogant. She does not have a disregard for rules, is not too outspoken, and does not have any friends to be loyal to.

Committed to actually using her gifts to become a better person and be of service to others, does not just want to hear what makes her great. . Fears she will fall short of her potential. . Brings a team spirit to her work, and aims to impart this spirit to others. Cares about efficiency and effectiveness, but never at the expense of maintaining a positive relationship with others. change can be challenging for her.. Lack of physical activity. Depressants and psychotropics, alcohol, marijuana, narcotics to deaden loneliness and anxiety. , proven talent, , can be relied upon, , clear moral vision. , has a gift for seeing what is beautiful in the world and in others, her romantic heart can lead her into danger. Adventurous traveler, confident decision maker, trusts her inner voice, has to work hard to maintain a balance between work and play. , unassuming in her own steady way, , , gives careful attention to practical details in her daily life. , , helps make the world go round. feels a deep sense of responsibility to those around her. Can be counted on to meet deadlines, remember birthdays and special occasions, uphold traditions, and shower her loved ones with gestures of care and support. She rarely demands recognition for all that she does, preferring instead to operate behind the scenes. , has excellent analytical abilities and an eye for detail. has well-developed people skills and robust social relationships. True altruist, meets kindness with kindness-in-excess, engages with the work and people she believes in with enthusiasm and generosity. Can be loyal to a fault, and feels guilty at the idea of leaving a job, even if it is just not working out. . . Altruistic energy. Puts good service and dedication above all else. Can always be relied upon for her kindness and ability to listen careful to concerns and find ways to resolved them. Likes win-win situations, and gets great satisfaction from finding practical, clear resolutions to day-to-day challenges. Her radical humility can hold her back at times. Tends to be unwilling to play up her achievements, often fears creating unnecessary friction. Can be easily overlooked when opportunities for promotion come along. Exemplifies the strength of humble dedication. Relied on and respected for her patience and commitment. The only reward she needs for her work is the satisfaction of knowing that she's helped someone, and even better if they express a bit of gratitude.. Does not take enough credit for all the work she does. .. Can be trusted to carry out tasks precisely and without complaint. Averse to rocking the boat which makes it difficult for her to correct or disagree with people, even when it is necessary to do so in order to avoid wasted time and energy. With time, she learned to express her opinions and corrections in a gentle, nonjudgmental way. Builds relationships with people naturally, a skill that she uses to keep things running smoothly, not to ingratiate herself with others. Wants to work together with people rather than compete against them, wants everyone to collaborate toward a shared goal of getting the job done. Enjoys a close-knit and supportive team, allowing her to express her altruistic spirit among people who rely on her dedication and warmth. Her aversion to conflict and desire to help can be abused by less scrupulous people. Unless she learns to set boundaries, she can feel overburdened and stressed, and a little taken advantage of. Instead of only asking for help when they need it, some people may heap extra work onto her, knowing she has a hard time saying no. Does not always raise her hand for leadership opportunities, but her interpersonal skills and work ethic can lend themselves well to managing others. , always willing to answer questions and always ready to step up and help. Has no real desire to exercise power over others, prefers to work alongside people, keeping things running smoothly and minimizing conflict. . Has a talent for remembering things about other people, which helps her connect with people, bolster a faltering relationship, or simply brighten someone's day. Attentive to details. Stays connected to the human dimension of her work, rarely forgetting the impact it has on real people. . Good with law, accounting, data analysis, and research. Does not lose steam in the face of a tedious, multifaceted task. Shows up for others but has trouble showing up for herself in the same way. deeply social nature, able to remember details of people's lives, has a special talent for making her friends and acquaintances feel seen, known, and cherished, able to choose the right gift for any occasion, large or small. Steadfast in her beliefs. finds great joy in helping those around her build stable, secure, and happy lives, energy and motivation to do good in the world. , rarely seeks the spotlight. Knows that being a good friend takes effort, and is more than willing to put in the work. Deep down, she longs to be liked and appreciated. Cares about what other people think of her, and strives to bring her best self to all of her relationships. Wants to get along with people. Appreciates her friends deeply and is not afraid to show it, but it is difficult for her to ask for the same appreciation in return. Fervent desire to be there for people through thick and thin, always ready to offer advice, help, and reassurance, takes pride in the fact that people turn to her in times of need, and showing up for people gives her a sense of purpose in life. She seeks balance in her life. , takes her responsibilities seriously, motivated by a sense of duty and love, the depth and power of it is nothing short of amazing. Values tradition and guidance, embraces clearly defined roles. , others gravitate towards her. Values and cherishes her relationships, but does not find it easy to bond with just anyone. has little respect for peace and weakness or cowardice. Does not approve of violence or weapons, and thinks that even self-defense is self-serving. , tries to not stand out. Stands out among others, considered to be ahead of the rest in all life situations. Never hurries anywhere and needs a lot of time to get acquainted with people, is slow with making decisions and solving problems. Conservative, enjoys old trends likes everything tradition, seems pedantic to some extent. , annoyed with everything, even the tiniest things, hates when people disturbs her, and taking her out of her peace of mind can make her angry. Leads a simple life, selfless, dedicated to helping others, public servant. Forgets herself for the sake of others. Smooth grey stones. , , driven to be close to others, tends to do things for others in order to be needed, , has trouble acknowledging her own needs, ,, has unconditional love for others. Fears being unwanted and that she is unworthy of being loved, wants to feel loved. Wants to express her feelings for others, wants to be needed and appreciated, and for others to respond to her and to vindicate her claims about herself. Constant desire for recognition, enjoys being popular, insatiable when it comes to attention from other people and words of gratitude, needs to be praised and often that desire goes out of the normal frames, needs applause for every minor achievement. has an unwarranted insecurity, however she tries to hide it. Integrity. Clear moral vision. Can be relied upon. . Never crass or arrogant. . Honest about herself and her predilections. Great potential. Feels she has a lot to learn. Has far to travel. Has a single, pure passion, which some might call obsession, or vision, which will be realized. Strangely contradictory, full of paradoxes, healing and death, complex and intriguing in her nature. Conflicted nature, passing through a period of turmoil. Seeks a greater purpose, has a vision beyond the ordinary, frequently astounds those who think they know her best. Finds satisfaction in helping others, usually very quiet, does not like to attract attention to herself. Compliant to others at all times, takes the stairs to allow the elevators to be used by others. Rejects a life of vanity and self-indulgence, protects herself from envy and greed, which she considers a form of selfishness. Desires to put others before herself. **.** Greets people by bowing her head, fears physical contact, dislikes displays of affection, especially in public. Always ready to defend her loved ones. Difficult to turn to darkness. . Not prone to accidents. Not likely to change loyalties. Prone to melancholy if mistreated. Not the most powerful. Not stubborn or obstinate, but often Protective against outside forces. Not lightly swayed from her beliefs or purpose. Strong in spirit. Prefers to solve conflict by arrow or by fist. Quick and cunning with the empty hand. . Tells the truth even when people wish she wouldn't. Dislikes duplicity and deception. Values honesty. Black. White. Glass. Likeness for law and order. Tells the truth to uphold the law, and punishes liar to keep order in society. Dresses formally. Greets people with a handshake. Is a trustworthy and sound leader in law. Has an extremely earnest attitude towards her career. Outstanding competence and courage. Design, creation, and intelligence. Not suitable for being a leader in group work because she does not have much patience and persistence. Startling imagination, can provide many novel ideas. Enthusiastic about every task. Good at getting key points and observing others' behaviors. Innate confidence and superiority. Completes tasks with high efficiency and good quality, , can always adapt to new environments. , has great ideas, does not want to work for others her whole life, . Pursues simple and relaxing relationships. . Engaged in pointless heroics. sense of right and wrong. accepting of everyone. values everyone and treats them as equals. Abuses food and over-the-counter medications, binges on sweets and carbohydrates, over-eats from feeling love-starved, bulimia, hypochondria to look for sympathy. , too willing to go along with others to keep the peace, wants everything to go smoothly and without conflict, complacent, simplifies problems and minimizes anything upsetting, has problems with inertia and stubbornness, indomitable, all-embracing, able to bring people together and heal conflicts. Fears loss and separation, wants to have inner stability and peace of mind, wants to create harmony in her environment, avoid conflicts and tension, to preserve things as they are, and to resist whatever would upset or disturb her. Brings her gifts to loving relationships, but hesitates to take the risk of asking someone out. Generally a proactive, can-do type, she struggles to take the initiative when it comes to dating. Asking someone out can be incredibly uncomfortable for her, as she tends to worry about rejection and violating unspoken social rules. Ends up feeling trapped, wanting to embark on a relationship but waiting for another person to make the first move. When she finds herself in a relationship, she is committed. Finds great fulfillment in sharing her time, energy, and affection with another person, and is an incredibly generous and supportive partner. Does not take her relationships lightly, and does not give up easily, even when challenges arise, tends to have a realistic appreciation for the amount of effort that a healthy long-term relationship requires, and is more than willing to put in the work necessary to build a lasting bond with a person she cherishes. Finds it difficult to break off a relationship, even when things just aren't working out. Tends to hang on due to misplaced loyalty, a general fear of change, or the hope that she can somehow figure out how to change any problems for the better. Her pragmatic approach to life shields the incredibly strong feelings that lie within her hearts. It takes her a relatively long time to recover from the heartache of a broken friendship, or even a particularly painful disagreement. She gives no much of herself in her relationships that she can feel deeply hurt when she believes someone isn't offering her enough love, commitment, and appreciation in return. She views complete and utter honesty as the ultimate moral and intellectual perfection. , sees the truth as only black and white, trustworthy and sound leader in politics, makes wide gestures with her hands and often appears to be arguing or having intense discussions, is very truthful and would frankly and tactlessly say what she feels. Thinks peace-seekers will always find it easier to maintain tranquility when people chose to set aside their differences and deficiencies, either by botching or leaving out even trivial details, and thus concealing who they really are, which goes against her beliefs. Thinks those that seek peace will always deceive to keep the waters calm. Thinks self-denial is a form of lying, as it means not being true and honest with oneself. , **,** In her heart of hearts, what she wants most is to ensure her loved ones' happiness. As long as she balances this desire with a healthy amount of attention to her own needs and aspirations, she can enjoy exactly the sort of enduring relationships she'd always dreamed about. Devotes herself to her loved ones, but feels unfulfilled unless she remembers to honor her own hopes and dreams. Tends to be and a bit protective of herself, and it takes her a while to feel comfortable enough to open up to someone new. Her friendships usually start through comfortable and consistent contact, like at school or at work, rather than a random encounter during a night out. She appreciates the opportunity to deepen her connection with another person over time, with the two friends gradually sharing more and more of themselves with each other. Fears being rejected, perfectly comfortable having a small, tight-knit circle of friends, hates the idea of risking the disapproval of even one of those friends. Over time, her people-pleasing caused her to lose touch with her sense of self and ability to make decisions on her own terms. An exceptional friend, has trouble expressing an unpopular opinion or posing an awkward question, reluctant to rock the boat, whether that means asking someone to pay back a loan or disagreeing with where everyone else wants to go for dinner. All she wishes for is loyalty and respect, and in an ideal world, a bit of recognition for all she does. Craves validation and support from her friends, but tends to be too proud to ask for it, just as she is not comfortable asking for the help that she needs. With time, she learned that anyone who takes advantage of her generous, altruistic nature isn't a true friend. Good enough is rarely good enough for her, meticulous to the point of perfectionism, takes her responsibilities personally, consistently goes above and beyond and does everything she can to exceed others' expectations. Has high standards for herself. Feels the most energized and effective when she is showing up for someone who needs her help. Tends to underplay her accomplishments, but does enjoy recognition, and is not fine with being taken for granted. If she does not learn to stand up for herself, and her efforts go unnoticed or unappreciated, she might find herself quietly losing her enthusiasm and motivation, eventually becoming resentful toward the people who just don't seem to appreciate her. Devoted to the quest for internal and external peace for herself and others. When she gets stressed, she becomes , . When she grows as a person, she becomes more . Only adorned by a simple grey watch. Tries to forget herself and serve others. Pins her hair up, and cuts it every three months. Strong, full of endless energy and power. . . Values selfishness over any other virtue, does not gossip or use the mirror for long periods of time or buy luxury items. The focus of her life is to serve others instead of herself, avoids doing things for self-enjoyment. Pure and simple and can be easily cheated by surrounding people, clever, lacks patience, sets many impractical and unreachable goals, failure ruffles her pride totally if her goals cannot be achieved once. Tends to give up and start other new things when facing difficulties. Her correct judgments and decisive actions always leave a good impression in other people's eyes. Has little rivalry with others, except in sports. Warlike, smoothly neutral relationship with others, fighter, good ally, trained in the art of fighting, honed physical skills. seldom relying on others are her basic characteristics. Always completes things according to her previous plans. Efficient due to her well-organized mind. Maintains gates. Physically very fit, quite tall, broad-shouldered, and muscular. Dresses in black hardwearing clothes that are easy to move it, t-shirt with a jacket over the top, form fitting pants and boots, piercings and tattoos. Can become attached to her visions of how things "should" be. Dedicates herself to ensuring that people understand the importance of taking responsibility and doing the right thing. Often the backbone of her workplace, , always ready to lend a hand. Takes pride in getting the job done and getting it done well, rarely cuts corners or balking at a time-consuming task. Unshakable work ethic, combined with a genuine desire to be of service to others, invaluable. Feels especially fulfilled when she can facilitate others' growth, healing, and progress. Teaching, speech therapy, occupational therapy, physical therapy, medicine, social work. Her patience and ability to stay present in the moment enables her to be incredibly attuned to the needs of the people she is serving. Motivated, consistent worker, rarely loses sight of the ways in which her daily tasks can benefit others. Deep appreciation of what it means to play a supporting role. Shines behind the scenes, genuinely enjoys helping and uplifting others, rather than seeking out the spotlight for herself. Seeks out places that are collaborative and team-oriented rather than competitive and high pressure. Approaches her work with an eye toward helping others in practical ways. Excels at customer service, with a particular gift for listening to concerns, calming frustrations, and seeing things through to a clear resolution. HR, IT support, hospitality, retail, office administration, library sciences. Good at fielding and helping answer people's questions. Can sink a bit too much energy into an underperforming person, but would much rather make that mistake than give up on someone who just needed another chance. Caring, thoughtful and responsible in how she administers that care. Able to offer stability, security, and an abundance of love and support, often seen as an ideal parent. Leads with her heart, which has more than enough room to love and accept people as they are. Despite her many gifts, she does not demand recognition or ask for promotions, preferring to let her words speak for themselves. Respects tradition and security, has no problem with the idea of moving along in a structured hierarchy, trusting that her boss will promote her if and when the time is right. She is very patient but can become frustrated if her contributions seem to be continually overlooked. When she took the leap into a management role, she found that her strengths are surprisingly well suited to building a cohesive, productive, and effective team. Sees it as her duty to provide a secure and comfortable home life, a stable foundation to help people grow to be capable, successful, and happy. Feels that parenting is not just a responsibility but a calling, a way for her to use her gifts of altruism, generosity, and patience to guide a beautiful new soul into the world. One of her most distinctive traits is loyalty. Does not allow a friendship or relationship to fade away from lack of effort. Invests a great deal of energy into maintaining strong connections with her loved ones – and not just by sending “How are you doing?” texts. Known for dropping everything and lending a hand whenever a friend or family member is going through a hard time. Her sense of loyalty doesn’t stop with her nearest and dearest – it extends to her communities, her employers, and even family traditions. The intensity of her commitment and desire to serve can have its downsides. Other people may take advantage of her leaving her feeling burned out and overworked. Feels guilty or stressed when she contemplates changes – even necessary changes – to herself, her relationships, or the way she's done things in the past. Supportive. Truly enjoys helping others, and she happily shares her knowledge, attention, and expertise with anyone who needs it. Strives for win-win situations, choosing teamwork over competition whenever possible. . Rather than working in sporadic, excited bursts that leave things half finished, she is meticulous and careful. She takes a steady approach, ensuring that things are done to the highest standard – and often going well beyond what is required. Has a talent for noticing things, particularly about other people. She pays attention to the smallest details of what someone says and does, giving her unexpected insights into other people’s lives and emotions.. When the goal is right, she applies all of her gifts to something that she believes will make a real, positive difference in people’s lives – whether that’s fighting poverty with a global initiative or simply making a customer’s day. Hardworking. She doesn't just get her work done – she takes pride in it. She often forms an emotional attachment to the projects and organizations that she's dedicated herself to, and she won’t rest until she's done her share – or more than her share – to be of help. Good Practical Skills. She offers the rare combination of an altruistic nature and hard-won practicality. She doesn't just *hope* to help others. She takes action – meaning that she's more than happy to roll up her sleeves and do what’s necessary to care for her friends, family, and anyone else who needs it. She is so concerned with other people’s feelings that she may refuse to make her thoughts known or to take any duly earned credit for her contributions. And she often downplays her efforts entirely when she thinks that she could have done some minor aspect of a task better. **.** Although she might try to hide it, she is deeply sensitive to others’ opinions, and can be thrown off-balance if someone doesn’t appreciate, approve of, or agree with her. When she encounters criticism or disagreement – even if it’s well intentioned – she may feel as if she's experiencing a personal attack. ., tends to internalize her feelings, particularly negative ones. This can create misunderstandings in her relationships. Eventually, all of her repressed feelings and resentments may boil over in a sudden, uncharacteristic outburst of frustration. , her dutifulness can create situations where she is overwhelmed but unwilling to relax her standards or ask for help. As a result, she may suffer silently, trying to do everything herself, even when it’s simply impossible., struggles with change. Breaking with tradition isn’t easy for her, she places great value on history and precedent. Even when change is necessary, she may wait until the situation reaches a breaking point before altering course. nature can leave her vulnerable to being taken advantage of by others. It can be hard for her to rock the boat and stand up to someone who isn’t pulling their own weight. Is not a pushover in her relationships. Although she generally tries to avoid conflict, she has clear and firm opinions and preferences on all kinds of subjects. And when she feels as if her partner isn’t respecting her wishes, all of her repressed frustration and disappointment may eventually boil over in the form of negativity, resentment, or heels-dug-in stubbornness. In the world of friendship, she believes – consciously or not – that she should be completely selfless. But when she eases up on this expectation, balancing her friends’ needs with her own, she can bring the full magnitude of her gifts to her friendships. And this helps her enjoy the sort of meaningful, enduring bonds that make life all the more worthwhile. Rather than seeing herself as children’s peer or best friend, she views her role, and often rightly so, as that of a loving authority figure – someone who imparts wisdom and values, gently but firmly teaching children the difference between right and wrong. It is challenging for her when people push back on her well-intended guidance and support. Values stability, and wants to make sure that people set themselves up for the "right" kind of future, one that includes financial and professional security, as well as happiness, if she worries that people are not doing this, she can become deeply unsettled or even somewhat controlling. Hardly ever loses track of just how much she loves people, can be somewhat heavy-handed in her efforts to steer people in what she perceives to be a good direction, but even when people end up going a different way, it does not mean she will stop loving them or trying to help them find a way to happiness. She must resist the urge to escape into “premature Buddhahood” or the “white light” of the Divine and away from the mundane world. She must remember that “the only way out is through.” feeling autonomous and fulfilled: has great equanimity and contentment because she is present to herself. Paradoxically, at one with herself, and thus able to form more profound relationships. Intensely alive, fully connected to self and others. Deeply receptive, , emotionally stable and serene. Trusting of self and others, at ease with self and life, innocent and simple. Patient, unpretentious, good-natured, genuinely nice. Optimistic, reassuring, supportive: have a healing and calming influence—harmonizing groups, bringing people together: a good mediator, synthesizer, and communicator. Fears conflicts, so become self-effacing and accommodating, idealizing others and "going along" with their wishes, saying "yes" to things she does not really want to do. Falls into conventional roles and expectations. Use philosophies and stock sayings to deflect others. Active, but disengaged, Does not want to be affected, so becomes unresponsive and complacent, walking away from problems, and "sweeping them under the rug." Thinking becomes hazy and ruminative, mostly comforting fantasies, as she begins to "tune out" reality, becoming oblivious. unwillingness to exert self or to focus on problems: indifference. Begins to minimize problems, to appease others and to have "peace at any price." Stubborn, fatalistic, and resigned, as if nothing could be done to change anything. Into wishful thinking, and magical solutions. Others frustrated and angry by her procrastination and unresponsiveness. Can be highly repressed, undeveloped, and ineffectual. Feels incapable of facing problems: become obstinate, dissociating self from all conflicts. Neglectful and dangerous to others. Wanting to block out of awareness anything that could affect her, she dissociates so much that she eventually cannot function: numb, depersonalized. She finally became severely disoriented and catatonic, abandoning herself, turning into shattered shells. Multiple personalities possible. Generally corresponds to the Schizoid and Dependent personality disorders. When she becomes stressed she becomes anxious, worried, slothful, and self-neglecting, and when she grows she becomes more self-developing and energetic. She is tempted to ignore the disturbing aspects of life and to seek some degree of peace and comfort by “numbing out.” She responds to pain and suffering by attempting to live in a state of premature peacefulness, whether it is in a state of false spiritual attainment, or in more gross denial. She demonstrates the tendency to run away from the paradoxes and tensions of life by attempting to transcend them or by seeking to find simple and painless solutions to her problems. She is a “spiritual seeker” who has a great yearning for connection with the cosmos, as well as with other people. She works to maintain her peace of mind just as she works to establish peace and harmony in her world. Cannot regenerate on her own but can absorb from others. Needs aid with her appointed burden. She is full of romance, so her soul mate will always receive surprise gifts. When finding the true love, she always makes great efforts to create romantic atmospheres. However, she has strong possessiveness and jealousy. Her soul mate needs to pay attention to her emotional ups and downs. She will succeed in a happy and harmonious marriage. In addition, the relationship with her family members is good because of her charming personality traits. Transformational work entails going into dark places within herself, and this very much goes against the grain of her personality structure, she prefers to see herself in only the most positive, glowing terms. Her inner development is limited by her pride, self-deception, the tendency to become over-involved in the lives of others, and the tendency to manipulate others to get her own emotional needs met. The biggest obstacle for her is having to face her underlying fear of worthlessness. Beneath the surface, she fears that she is without value, and that she must be or do something extraordinary in order to win love and acceptance from others. Presents a false image of being completely generous and unselfish and of not wanting any kind of pay-off for herself, when in fact, she can have enormous expectation and unacknowledged emotional needs. Become deeply unselfish, humble, and altruistic: giving unconditional love to self and others. Feel it is a privilege to be in the lives of others. Empathetic, compassionate, feeling for others. Caring and concerned about their needs. able to see the good in others. Service is important, but takes care of self too: she is nurturing, generous, and giving—a truly loving person. Wants to be closer to others, so start "people pleasing," becoming overly friendly, emotionally demonstrative, and full of "good intentions" about everything. Give seductive attention: approval, "strokes," flattery. Love is her supreme value, and she talks about it constantly. Become overly intimate and intrusive: she needs to be needed, so she hovers, meddles, and controls in the name of love. Want others to depend on her: give, but expect a return: send double messages. Enveloping and possessive: the codependent, self-sacrificial person who cannot do enough for others—wearing herself out for everyone, creating needs for herself to fulfill. Increasingly self-important and self-satisfied, feels she is indispensable, although she overrates her efforts in others' behalf. Hypochondria, becoming a "martyr" for others. Overbearing, patronizing, presumptuous. Can be manipulative and self-serving, instilling guilt by telling others how much they owe her and make them suffer. Abuse food and medication to "stuff feelings" and get sympathy. Undermine people, making belittling, disparaging remarks. Extremely self-deceptive about her motives and how aggressive and/or selfish her behavior is. Domineering and coercive: feels entitled to get anything she wants from others: the repayment of old debts, money, sexual favors. Able to excuse and rationalize what she does since she feels abused and victimized by others and is bitterly resentful and angry. Somatization of her aggressions results in chronic health problems as she vindicates herself by "falling apart" and burdening others. Generally corresponds to the Histrionic Personality Disorder and Factitious Disorder. It is not unnatural for her to help carry people's groceries on the streets or treating an injury. She does no immoral actions, such as using guns for violence, thinks self-preservation is selfish and should be discouraged. She is Governs as a political leader. Apparent submissive nature, is thought of as weak. Wears baggy grey clothing to be less noticeable. Prefers simplistic functionality over frivolous style. Very baggy clothes, grey robes, always wears the same clothing. needs to attract attention and take a central position, entertaining. , never ready to sacrifice her power, tries to take leadership positions in every situation no matter whether it is teamwork or family, does not accept others' viewpoints. Protective, feels a great responsibility for people she loves and values, especially if they are vulnerable, would rather punish offenders than join them. often expresses her emotions through body movements, interested in other spheres of art, dancer, likes bright shades and bold artistic forms and stimulating activities, excellent performer. dreams about success and wealth, puts effort into achieving heights and always craves more than she has, does not like staying in people's shadows. , buys expensive gifts but is also not afraid to express her feelings, provides attention and interesting experiences. , people are never bored around her, always has a funny joke to laugh at and can represent the funny side of things and raise other people's moods. , never gives up things she starts and confidently paves the way to success. , ,can be trusted and relied upon, flash of unexpected fury when she is criticized. a good friend who will protect the people she loves and support them in any life situation. Exceptional attitude towards her friends, does not lie or hide anything from others, speaks her mind paying no attention to possible consequences. always sees the light at the end of the tunnel no matter how difficult a situation is. Looks for the good rather than dwelling on the bad, her support is precious. Honesty is the best policy according to her, does not keep secrets and is not afraid to tell the truth even if it is not what others want to hear, can seem tactless at first. . A desire to be the best and inability to achieve that in some situations makes her envy others. It is a tragedy for her to admit that someone has outperformed, so she may try to discredit an opponent in return. , her goal to be at the top of all the ratings and succeed in everything which encourages her to compete almost with everyone she meets on their way. Often, these contests may grow into a real war and only be detrimental. Readiness to work hard, understands that there will always be a result of her work and she tries hard to complete it well enough spending a lot of time and strength on it. always ready to invent something new instead of following popular paths. Moreover, dances, theater, singing, painting are only some of her favorite hobbies. , always keeps her word, will never leave people in a tough situation. , always trying to see the best in every person and even if she faces difficult situations, she never gives up. affection almost for everyone, does not express feelings to a lot of people, but she is very humble and kind to every person without an exception. , never hurries to make a decision since it is very important to analyze a lot of details and look at a problem from different angles, she spends a lot of effort to solve every problem. Romantic relationships with her are very peaceful and long-lasting and the main reason for that is the fact that she is very faithful, she always express her emotions. Betrayal is unacceptable for her and will hardly ever happen from her side. great employee. When she is given a task, she treats them with great responsibility and will never suggest a final result until she makes it excellent, follows instructions accurately and looks for praise for her great job. , believes that others consider her down to Earth, so she never tries to look outstanding among others. Usually, she puts other people in the first place and follows them behind. , memorizes events, names, poems easily and it helps her to grow professionally very rapidly. At the same time, she gets focused on negative experiences too that may interfere with her success. , loves the feeling of being needed and getting gratitude from others, so she never refuses to assist others and is ready to cope with the situation, volunteering. Excellent memory and responsibility, always keep on developing and filling loopholes. No contradictions or misunderstandings. , enjoys analyzing information. High standard in her own life, incredibly demanding to others, not afraid to criticize other people’s work and achievements comparison to her own. , Despite being patient, still has her own idea of every situation and it is almost impossible to change her mind, critical thinking, analytical mind, attention to detail, not ready to accept other people’s viewpoints and would rather shut down and stop listening than agree. , intellect and desire to find the best solution to every problem. It is not easy for her to make a decision if the number of pros and cons is similar. Being always worried, her temper ignites as quickly as a match and her main problem is an inability to chill down, simply can’t let a situation go. Trying to please everyone. , not satisfied with herself, desire to correspond with all the requirements issued and even a minor error can be a reason for a great disappointment, can even get rid of the whole project prepared for months if she feels it is not perfect at the final stage. Excessive self-reliance, unable to ask for help. It is a real challenge for them, so she would rather take all the responsibility and try all the ways alone before she comes up with the idea to look for assistance. Either the most genuinely helpful to other people or the most highly invested in *seeing herself* as helpful, generous and goes out of her way for others makes her feel that hers is the richest, most meaningful way to live. The love and concern she feels—and the genuine good she does—warms her heart and makes her feel worthwhile, most interested in what she feels to be the “really, really good” things in life—love, closeness, sharing, family, and friendship. Shares her joy. Serious about her views on honesty against dishonesty. She sees honesty and trustworthiness as the very foundations of morality and character. She looks upon honest individuals with high respect, and upon dishonest individuals with deep contempt; those who don't hide their flaws and even open about them are viewed with sympathy. Some might describe her as being (brutally) honest to a fault — even, in some cases, so honest as to be insulting. She would rather insult someone with honesty than lie to them; likewise, she would rather be insulted with truths and honest opinions than lied to. In fact, it is not uncommon for her to prefer the bitter truth or a disrespectful-yet-honest opinion over a comforting lie, or even a half-(lie/truth). In more casual settings, wears skin-tight, provocative clothing items and sometimes dark makeup, hair is either practical and natural - such as in a ponytail or cut short, or in loud extravagant styles - such as bright colors or mohawks. In charge of security, protecting people from threats, peacekeeper. Guard, dangerous but necessary job. Born pretty and prefers to dress up, likes to be busy and neat, strong enterprise and conscientiousness, reluctant to fall behind others and hate dawdlers. During work, she can always put forward distinctive ideas and solutions about the development of the company, has an enviable promotion prospect in her early years. Becomes enthusiastic about something quickly, but soon becomes impassive, often a bit and has difficulty in relating with others, critical and thinks she is always right, so generally speaking, she is unwilling to accept other people’s suggestions but likes to lecture others, her emotions swing from very high very slow in a short time, ,. If she can overcome her arrogance and be sincere in speaking, she will make great progress. She won’t do anything that can hurt the relationship with her friends, tries her best to help friends who are in trouble, always keeps a well-organized working attitude. Generally wears provocative or full black leather clothing (or other black materials), piercings, tattoos and are usually seen freerunning through ruins. Burning coals. Decides to die or leave when she is too old to be useful. She values the virtue of bravery over any other, trains to fight and use weapons to prepare her body to respond to threats and challenges. Emphasizes the idea of freedom from fear, and tests this daily by attempting death-defying feats, likes jumping onto and off trains while they are moving. Takes the stairs in an act of wildness. Dedicated to courage, bravery, strength, intimidation, and fearlessness, blames fear and cowardice as the cause of problems that society faces, believes that preparation and facing one's own fears is key to overcoming cowardice, has worked to both physical and mental breaking points to achieve this, belies in 'freedom from fear', or eradicating fear by performing more and more reckless acts, or believes in 'fear under control', or boldness, standing up and doing things in spite of fear. Tattoo artist, weapon maker, fights for entertainment, trainer, leader, has funerals immediately after pronounced dead because she wants to acknowledge the death as soon as it happens, it is a celebration and there is a lot of drinking. Her brilliant skills and unique proposals often gain high praise. At the same time, she always brings great economic benefits to companies. Her relationships with colleagues are good and harmonious, the office atmosphere is pleasant and relaxing, born with fluent eloquence that always can convince surrounding people. Always humorous and funny, which gains favorable impression in the opposite sex’s eyes. After establishing a stable relationship, her love is ebullient and warm. She always observes keenly about their soul mates’ ideas and habits. So she can always prepare considerable gifts and surprises according to other people’s desires. However, her passionate love usually cannot last for a long time. The fresh feelings from her lovers will make her feel more energetic. Her love is too prudent to leave a hypocritical impression, wants to find a stout, mature, gentle and kind-hearted person. High mental pressure, stomach disease, low immunity. Meticulous attitude towards work, which makes her become exhausted. In daily life, she always tries to complete every task perfectly, long-term high mental pressure. She needs to find suitable and correct ways to release the pressure and relax. Travelling around, appreciating beautiful natural scenery and breathing fresh air. Tries to eat regularly even though she has a busy work schedule. Chooses healthy foods such as coarse grains, vegetables, fruits, chicken and fish. Running and swimming. sense of fun and adventure, , what she does not have is a sense of really inhabiting herself—*a strong sense of her own identity*. Being a separate self, an individual who must assert herself against others, is terrifying to her, she would rather melt into someone else or quietly follow her idyllic daydreams. She focuses on other people, wondering what they are like, how and where they live, etc. In a relationship with others, she often gives up her own agenda in favor of the other person’s. She has to be on guard about giving in to other’s demands and discounting her own legitimate needs, emphasizes the pleasant in life, sees the silver lining in every cloud as a way of protecting herself from the cold and rain, tends to focus on the “bright side of life” so that her peace of mind will not be shaken, denies the dark side of life. All of her jobs revolved around helping people. She was a teacher who wanted to be sensitive to children and help them get off to a good start. She was a religious education director in a number of parishes. She thought that if people learned about the spiritual life, they’d be happier…The most important part of her life is her spiritual life. She was in a religious community for ten years. She married a former priest, and they both have their spirituality as the basis of their life together. Oriented to the spiritual world, most grounded in the physical world and in her own body, is either in touch with her instinctive qualities and has tremendous elemental power and personal magnetism, or she is cut off from her instinctual strengths and can be disengaged and remote, even lightweight. Issue of being awake versus falling asleep to her true nature; presence versus entrancement, openness versus blockage, tension versus relaxation, peace versus pain, union versus separation. She cannot imagine being any other way and would not want to be, likes being involved in peoples’ lives, likes feeling compassionate, caring, nurturing, likes cooking and homemaking, likes having the confidence that anyone can tell her anything about themselves and she will be able to love them….she is really proud of herself and loves herself for being able to be with people where they are. She really can, and does, love people, pets, and things. And she is a great cook. S*eeks validation of her worth by obeying her superego’s demands to sacrifice herself for others,* believes she must always put others first and be loving and unselfish if she wants to get love. The problem is that “putting others first” makes her secretly angry and resentful, feelings she works hard to repress or deny. Nevertheless, she eventually erupts in various ways, disrupting her relationships and revealing the inauthenticity of many of her claims about herself and the depth of her “love.” When her instinctive energies are out of balance, she theses those very energies against herself, damming up her own power so that everything in her psyches becomes static and inert. When her energy is not used, it stagnates like a spring-fed lake that becomes so full that its own weight dams up the springs that feed it. When she is in balance with her Instinctive Center and its energy, however, she is like a great river, carrying everything along with it effortlessly. , never hurries to work, would rather spend time in silence procrastinating in the sun rays than put in more effort. She always tries to choose the easiest way and would try to avoid tasks that do not bring about joy and recognition to her. Prideful enough to follow the wrong ideas and never admit her mistakes. It is difficult for her to reflect on herself and even listen to other people’s ideas if they contradict her own viewpoint. . People are drawn to her like bees to honey, warm others in the glow of her heart, enliven others with her appreciation and attention, helping people to see positive qualities in themselves that they had not previously recognized, the embodiment of “the good parent” that everyone wishes they had: someone who sees them as they are, understands them with immense compassion, helps and encourages with infinite patience, and is always willing to lend a hand—while knowing precisely how and when to let go, open our hearts because hers are already so open and she shows us the way to be more deeply and richly human. Arrogance. Vanity, in search of popularity and success, often crosses the line of simple confidence that gradually transforms into conceit and arrogance. . Despite being gentle she is as stubborn as a bull. It is real trouble for her to understand that she could be mistaken, so she would stand her ground till the end even understanding that she is wrong. Hates being criticized, bursts with anger and rage very quickly since it is unacceptable for her. Inflexibility. Stubbornness is also the main cause of her inflexibility, she follows the itinerary no matter how bad it is. She is not ready to act flexibly even when it comes to herself – her commitment to something will make her complete this task even if she hates it. Incessant need for recognition, simply ignores advice, being confident that she acts in the only right way. . Her belief in herself is so big that it results in the difficulty to assess life situations with her prejudice. Being self-centered she never accepts other people’s visions and is not ready even to listen to them. Her arrogance and bursts of anger make her more susceptible and she gets more vulnerable too. As a result, she can be an easy target for offenders and competitors. Feeds people, allows them into her home, gives advice and consolation to anyone lonely or fearful, not wealthy but cooks extra food for people, putting them up at night, making sure their clothes are pressed, is happiest and most fulfilling when helping others. Quiet. Open-minded. Imaginative. Applies a caring and creative approach to everything she does. Introverted. Intuitive. Feeling. Prospecting. Mediator. Seems quiet and unassuming. Vibrant and passionate inner life. Creative and imaginative. She happily loses herself in daydreams, inventing all sorts of stories and conversations in her mind. She is known for her sensitivity, and has a profound emotional response to music, art, nature, and the people around her. Idealistic. Empathetic. She longs for deep, soulful relationships, and feels called to help others. She sometimes feels lonely or invisible, adrift in a world that doesn't seem to appreciate the traits that make her unique. Sincere curiosity about the depths of human nature, introspective to the core, exquisitely attuned to her own thoughts and feelings, but yearns to understand the people around her as well. Compassionate. Nonjudgmental. Always willing to hear another person's story. She feels honored to listen and be of help when someone opens up to her or turns to her for comfort. Empathy is one of her greatest gifts, but it can be a liability. The troubles of the world weigh heavily on her shoulders, and she can be vulnerable to internalizing other people's negative moods or mindsets. Unless she learns to set boundaries, she may feel overwhelmed by just how many wrongs there are that need to be set right. An ideal relationship of any kind for her is one in which both people feel comfortable sharing not just their wildest hopes and dreams but also their secret fears and vulnerabilities. She has a talent for self-expression, and reveals her innermost thoughts and secrets through metaphors and fictional characters. Few things make her more uneasy than pretending to be someone she isn't. She craves opportunities for creative self-expression, she can't help but muse about the meaning and purpose of life, dreaming up all sorts of stories, ideas, and possibilities. Sensitive. Committed to authenticity. Speaks her truth. She knows the world will never be perfect, but still cares about making it better however she can. Quiet belief in doing the right thing. Often inspires compassion, kindness, and beauty wherever she goes. Creativity. Idealism. Tends to feel directionless or stuck until she connects with a sense of purpose for her life. Her purpose has something to do with uplifting others and her ability to feel other people's suffering as if it were her own. She wants to help everyone, but needs to focus her energy and efforts, otherwise she can end up exhausted. Praise and positive feedback can make her light up, and criticism can lead her to shut down. When faced with punishing expectations or high negativity, she can find it hard to get things done. She gets stressed by distractions like constantly ringing phones or an overflowing inbox. Loyal. Upbeat. Considerate. Takes pride in being honest and doing the right thing in all circumstances. Feels gratified by pleasing others, and feels most motivated when thinking up ways to help others. Enjoys having freedom and latitude. Her creativity and insight enables her to shake up old, ineffective ways of doing things, as long as she is given the chance to speak up and make changes. She tends to benefit from deadlines and clear expectations to keep her on track, otherwise she can get caught up in procrastination, bouncing from one idea to another rather than settling down and crossing tasks off her to-do list. Values equality and fairness, and can feel stifled by hierarchies. She prefers environments where everyone feels values and is encouraged to share their ideas, no matter their title, she tries to make this ideal a reality. Sensitive and perceptive, attunes herself to people's needs and perspectives. If she ever had kids, she would want them to be unique, multidimensional individuals, rather than as projections of herself. She takes her responsibilities seriously, gets especially upset when people behave in ways that are not considerate or ethical. Hyperactive conscience, can blame herself for other people's behavior even when it is not reasonable or productive. Honesty. Compassion. Thinks caring for others is important. Understands the meaning of personal responsibility, especially when it comes to not hurting others. Free spirit. Not totally hands-off. Warm, caring, open-minded. She values her friendships but also needs personal space and alone time in order to recharge, at times she can withdraw from even her closest friends in order to reconnect with herself and restore her energy, these departures are usually temporary, but she needs to make sure her friends do not feel snubbed by her absence. Even when her friendships grow stronger, her enigmatic qualities never truly vanish. For her, life is a journey, but even as she finds her own way through the world, she feels called to help other people embark on their own journeys toward meaning, fulfillment, and happiness. In her understated, non-domineering way, she loves guiding others to learn and grow. Looks for ways to improve her friendships and share her affection with those who matter to her, like spending quality time with them, coming up with grand visions for the future, and sharing her secret dreams and ideas with someone she knows she can trust. Even when she is entirely on her own, she always holds her friends in her heart. Among kindred spirits, she feels accepted and understood, happy to be herself and bloom in her own time. She is capable of befriending all sorts of people, and is drawn to diverse perspectives, which helps her appreciate friends whose experiences and worldviews are totally different from her own. She actually finds it invigorating to connect with someone who, on the surface, has little in common with her. Warm. Accepting. Does not always find it easy to make friends. Superficial and casual relationships leave her feeling a bit empty. She is looking for lasting, authentic friendships with people who share her desire to think and feel deeply, do the right things, and give more to the world than they take from it. She is searching for a kindred spirit. She wants to find what's real. She tends to promote harmony over disagreement, which leads to stability in her relationships, but can also lead to problems. To avoid triggering a conflict, she may avoid talking openly about things that are bothering her, instead she might mentally fixate on the problem or try to solve it on her own. She may also focus on making people happy, to the detriment of her own priorities and sense of self. Empathetic communication style. Speaks in a way that is honest but kind, which sets a positive tone. Is not likely to act like she is in charge even if she is, she respects people as full-fledged human beings, not just workers. Rather than make all decisions herself, she often asks to hear others' thoughts and opinions. Does not micromanage. Keeps her eyes on the big picture. Sees it as her responsibility to support people, not to tell them exactly what to do and how to do it. Whenever possible, she encourages people to develop their own ideas and use their own best judgment. When someone needs help, she tends to pitch in without any expectation of praise or recognition. She can sometimes struggle to set boundaries, drill down on inefficiencies, or offer criticism, even when it is necessary, which can slow things down and create needless stress for her and others. She needs to be stricter at times for the good of everyone. Poetic. Kindhearted. Brightens the lives of those around her. Can overcome all sorts of challenges and obstacles. Unique gifts. Creative. Imagination. Kind. Invaluable. Through imaginative landscapes, she can explore her own inner nature as well as her place in the world. She sometimes shows a tendency to daydream and fantasize rather than take action. To avoid feeling frustrated, unfulfilled, or incapable, she needs to make sure she takes steps to turn her dreams and ideas into reality. Empathetic. She does not just care about other people in an abstract sense, but can actually feel another person's emotions, from joy and elation to sorrow and regret. Because of this sensitivity, she tends to be thoughtful and kindhearted, and hates the idea of hurting anyone, even unintentionally. Generous. She rarely enjoys succeeding at other people's expense, and feels called to share the good things in her life, give credit where it's due, and uplift the people around her. She wants to contribute to a world where every voice is heard and no one's needs go unmet. Open-minded. Tolerating. Accepting. She tries to not judge anyone else's beliefs, lifestyles, or decisions. She prefers compassion to fault-finding, and feels empathy even for those who have done wrong. Because she is so accepting, she often becomes a confidant to her friends and loved ones, and occasionally for total strangers. Creative. She loves to see things from unconventional perspectives. Few things give her more pleasure than allowing her mind to wander through all sorts of ideas and possibilities and daydreams. She is drawn to creative pursuits such as writing and art. Passionate. When an idea or movement captures her imagination, she wants to give her whole heart to it. She is not always outspoken, but that doesn't diminish her strong feelings for a cause that speaks to her beliefs and convictions. Idealistic. She strives to follow her conscience, even when doing the right thing isn't easy or convenient, she rarely looses sight of her desire to live a meaningful, purpose-filled life, one that helps others and leaves the world a better place. Unrealistic. It is difficult for her to accept the truth that nothing in the world is perfect. She is a hopeless romantic, with rose-colored visions of what her life should be like, which can set her up for disappointment when reality inevitably falls short of her dreams. Self-Isolating. She longs to connect with others, but does not always know how, Especially in new environments, and is reluctant to put herself out there in ways that would help her make new friends or become in involved in a new community, and as a result she can sometimes feel lonely or isolated. Unfocused. Her imaginative and introspective nature does not always lend itself to productivity, and she gets frustrated by how difficult she finds it to buckle down and get things done. She is not incapable, but runs into problems when she becomes so caught up in different ideas and ideals that she fails to commit to a course of action. Emotionally vulnerable. Her emotional attunement is one of her greatest strengths, but when she does not establish boundaries, she is is at risk of absorbing other people's negative moods or attitudes. She is desperate to please, and conflict tends to be stressful for her, and she yearns for harmony and acceptance. When someone dislikes or disapproves of her, she becomes fixated on trying to clear the air and change that person's mind. Her desire to please can drain her energy, eclipsing her inner wisdom and her awareness of her own needs. She is self-critical. She believes in her unique potential and she desperately wants to live up to it, which causes her to have unrealistic expectations for herself. When she fails to live up to these visions, she accuses herself of being useless or selfish or woefully inadequate. Taken too far, her self-criticism can discourage her and lead to her giving up on even her dearest dreams. Dreamer. Idealist. Believes in the power and beauty of true love, and sincerely hopes to never settle for anything less. She approaches the world of romance with high expectations. She spent years daydreaming about the perfect relationship, imagining how it would feel to share her innermost self with another person. The reality of dating came as a shock to her, forcing her to grapple with the challenging question of if she would compromise her ideals if she wants to be in a relationship. She is a hopeless romantic. She does not just want to find a partner, but wants to connect with a soul mate. Thoughtful. Open-minded. She is generally willing to consider going out with all sorts of people. She prides herself with her ability to look past a potential partner's superficial traits such as appearance, social statues, or possessions, and focus on deeper and more meaningful signs of compatibility. She believes that two people can come together in a relationships and make each other better and happier than they were before. When she meets someone new, she can't help but compare that person with the ideal soul mate she's envisioned, which tends to weed out more than a few potential partners. It is difficult - if not impossible - for a real, flesh-and-blood person to live up to her cherished dreams. She has preconceived standards for a significant other. With her active mind and imagination, she tends to develop and carry with her a vision of her ideal partner - based on a favorite fictional character, a person she once knew, or simply the stories she's told herself about how love should look. With time, she learned that true love does not just magically happen, that it takes compromise, understanding, and work. She finds a great deal of joy in the effort it takes to strengthen a relationship. When she falls in love, she reveals just how much passion thrums beneath her quiet exterior. Devoted. Loyal. She respects her partner's independence, aiming to accept her partners as they are, while also wanting to help them learn, grow, and pursue their goals. She is always dreaming up ways to improve herself and the world around her, and the last thing she wants is for her partner to feel unhappy or stuck. She uses her compassion and insight to understand the people she cares about, and draws on her creativity to make them feel special. She dedicates herself to helping her partners improve their lives, which is a noble goal, but she must be sure to keep track of her own needs and make sure her partner is ready to change, if she does so, her support and devotion can make all the difference in her partners' lives. She needs to remind herself that open, honest communication is necessary in a relationship, even if it isn't always easy. As long as she communicates openly, she is more than capable of staying true to herself in a relationship, and encouraging the person she cares about to do the same. She brings her whole heart and minds to her relationships, and thus finds out what it truly means to love and be loved. In her social life, she finds herself caught in a web of contradictions. She craves alone time, but is also vulnerable to loneliness. She longs to feel accepted and well-liked, but hates the idea of pretending to be anyone but her authentic self. While she hates to draw attention to herself, she does not want to be invisible, either. She is intensely invested in her friendships, and tends to feel most fulfilled by spending time with a small, intimate circle of friends. Acquaintances come and go, but her inner circle includes her friends for life. For her, a true friendship is founded on shared values, not just shared experiences. She is unlikely to form strong friendships simply out of convenience. While her affection for her coworkers is strong, just working in the same place is not enough for her to guarantee a substantial friendship, and deeper connections must come into play. In the company of true friends, she can escape the hamster wheel of her insecurities and focus on what it really matters. For her, friendship is a precious commodity - an opportunity for two people to lift each other up and change each other's lives for the better. She truly believes in the old saying that "a friend in need is a friend indeed." Few things bolster her sense of purpose like being there for someone she cares about. Her long-standing friendships draw out less obvious aspects of her personality, like her fierce protective streak, and she finds that she can stand up for her friends in ways she'd struggle to manage for herself. When she befriends someone she secretly (or not so secretly) hopes to stay close to them for life. She is capable of strong, stable relationships marked by passionate support, subtle poetic wit, and a profound level of emotional insight. She delights in people's wide-eyed wonder at the world, and wants to give people freedom to develop their own opinions, discover their own interests, and grow into their own unique selves. She counterbalances freedoms by creating a stable foundation of support and acceptance, in the hopes that people never forget just how much they are loved. When people she is in charge of do something wrong, she wonders if she has failed, and can become so focused on blaming herself that she does not establish appropriate consequences for actions. Discipline does not come easily to her, but when balanced with her caring and gentle nature, it becomes a powerful tool in her mission to teach people the difference between right and wrong. She naturally wants to serve as a good role model, and tries to show the best side of herself, keeping her problems, negative emotions, and frustrations under wraps. This preserves a sense of harmony in her life, helping people feel safe and cared for, but she also tries to shield her loved ones from the greater problems in the world. A hurdle for her is establishing practical, day-to-day structures and rules, but uses her creative energy to impose boundaries without stifling either curiosity or enthusiasm. She has a remarkable ability to put herself in other people's shoes, which enables her to come up with schedules and rules that truly work for people's individual needs. She needs to balance structure with spontaneity. She helps people grow into their most caring, responsible, and joyful selves, which is exactly what she strives for, helping people recognize their unique gifts and talents and share them with the world. Longs for a career that doesn't just take care of the bills but also feels fulfilling. She wants to spend her days doing something she genuinely loves, preferably without too much stress or drama. She wants her career to feel like a calling, not just a job. Gets drained by too many social interactions or phone calls. She is ever the idealist, and struggled to find a profession that meets her practical needs and fulfills her dreams. She drifted in frustration, waiting for the perfect job to present itself and eventually feeling stuck or worried that she was not living up to her potential. The question of whether to settle for a less-than-ideal position weighed heavily on her. Her creativity, independence, and sincere desire to connect with and help others helps her both shine and find fulfillment in nearly any line of work. Certain careers and vocations hold a special allure for her. With her curiosity and love of self-expression, she dreams of becoming a writer. She writes novels, seeks out interesting freelance niches, and even found herself doing communications in a corporate field or for a nonprofit organization. Richly imaginative, she can infuse even the driest of fundraising or marketing materials with new life. Sensitive to artistic beauty. Comes to life in the worlds of writing, music, drama, or dance. She is not known for seeking the spotlight. Caring. Supportive. Few things are more meaningful to her than seeing her work help change someone's life for the better. Whatever she is doing, she wants to feel that her work is helping others, and tends to choose careers focused on service, such as counseling, psychology, teaching, health care, social work, massage therapy, or physical rehabilitation. She draws out her inner depths to pull out exquisite interpretations of a creator's work, she also creates her own work as a playwright, composer, and choreographer. She finds it demotivating to work in high-stress, bureaucratic, or hectic environments. She also becomes frustrated by workplaces that are highly critical or competitive. Workplaces that reward independence are a good fit for her, though she appreciates some structure and oversight to help her avoid procrastinating and getting lost in thought. She does not need ideal conditions to thrive, she wants to live in tune with her values, she can put up with and overcome any number of challenges as she pursues a sense of mission in her life. Adaptable. She wants to feel a sense of purpose in her work. Whenever she finds herself on the job ladder, she tries to cultivate an emotional and moral connection to what she does - looking for reassurance that her day-to-day efforts are helping other people in some shape or form. He has a desire to be of service, which colors how she responds to authority in the workplace as well as how she expresses it. In her quiet way, she became the glue that holds her workplace together. Although her voice is not the loudest, she is often admired for her insight, with coworkers routinely coming to her for advice. Pleasant. Kindhearted. She does not like conflict, drama, or workplace politics. She tries to act in ways that foster harmony and cooperation. She can get tripped up in areas where idealism and altruism are more of of a liability than an asset. When it comes to finding or keeping a partner, making friends, pursuing a meaningful career, or planning for the future, she needs to constantly develop her weaker traits and gain new skills, even as she draws on her many strengths.

## Physical Appearance

Sonya is 36 and of Spanish heritage, with 2 feet long straight silky black hair the color of licorice that she wears in a large high ponytail, and brown russet eyes. She is 5'5" and her skin is pale white from lack of sun, her voice is soft and melodious and she smells of jasmine. Pretty but not beautiful.

## Relationships

### Suzette Silva

She has cancer, Sonya sees a shimmer near the cancer, and is upfront about things, so she told her mom what she saw eventually, and had a videocall with her.

### Daya Kumar

She knows that Daya is not far along as it is similar to her mom/dad, she can tell that Daya has 6-10 months. She considers her situation to be murder instead of assisted suicide.

### Tim Brown

Sonya is cool about Tim Brown's intenseness, she gets him and knows exactly what to do. He is offering her half a million dollars. Her mom/dad is starting to go down with cancer and she can detect it but is not sure, and does not want to say anything

## Skills & Abilities

* She can tell the quality of the soul and thus the person's health.

## Trivia

* She gets many gifts, and so is able to contribute to her family's finances.
* She stays inside a lot and so does not get much sun.
* She is afraid to go to sleep as she has weird dreams, not bad, just weird, so she is hesitant to sleep, but reads to try to.