Ubulili besilisa buhlanganisa imizwa ehlukahlukene kanye nokuziphatha. Imizwa yamadoda yokuheha ingahle idalwe yizici ezahlukahlukene zomzimba nezenhlalo zomlingani wabo. Ukuziphatha kwabesilisa kwezocansi kungathinteka ezintweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi ukuvela kokuvela, ubuntu bomuntu ngamunye, ukukhuliswa namasiko. Ngenkathi iningi lamadoda lingabobulili obuhlukile, abambalwa abalulekile bangongqingili noma amazinga ahlukene abesilisa nabesifazane. Izici zomzimba Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abesilisa bathambekele ekuheheni abesifazane abasebancane abanokulingana komzimba.Ukulinganiswa kobuso, ubufazi, kanye ne-averageness nakho kuhlotshaniswa nokuheha. Abesilisa ngokujwayelekile bathola amabele abesifazane ekhanga futhi lokhu kuqinisile kumasiko ahlukahlukene. Ukukhethwa kwabesifazane abanesikhumba esikhanyayo kubhalwe emasikweni amaningi. Abesifazane abanesilinganiso esiphansi okhalweni kuya okhalweni (WHR) babhekwa njengokuheha kakhulu. Isilinganiso esiqondile siyahlukahluka phakathi kwamasiko, kuya nge-WHR yabesifazane besiko lendawo. Emasikweni aseNtshonalanga, kukhethwa i-WHR engu-0.70. Ezinye izinto ezingakhanga ngokomzimba zifaka phakathi inkomba yomzimba ophansi, ububanzi bokhalo obuphansi, imilenze emide, nokugobeka komhlane okuphansi.Ukuncamela ukwakha umzimba omncane noma okhuluphele kuyahlukahluka ngokwesiko, kepha ngendlela ebikezelayo. Emasikweni lapho ukudla kuyindlala khona, ukukhuluphala kuhlotshaniswa nezinga eliphakeme futhi kuyakhanga, kepha okuphambene nalokho kuyiqiniso kumasiko acebile. Abesilisa ngokuvamile bathanda abafazi babo ukuthi babe bancane kunabo, kepha ngokuhluka kakhulu kangakanani phakathi kwamasiko. Amadoda amadala akhetha ukwehluka kweminyaka yobudala, kuyilapho abesilisa abasebasha bekhetha abesifazane abancane kunabo.