Ubungqingili ukuheha kwezothando, ukukhangana ngokocansi, noma ukuziphatha kocansi phakathi kwamalungu wobulili obufanayo noma ubulili. [] Njengokuthambekela kwezocansi, ubungqingili "buyindlela ehlala njalo yokuheha okungokomzwelo, kwezothando, kanye / noma kocansi" kubantu bobulili obufanayo. Iphinde "ibhekise emqondweni womuntu wobuyena osuselwa kulokho okuhehayo, izindlela zokuziphatha ezihlobene, nokuba yilungu emphakathini wabanye ababelana ngalezo zinto ezikhangayo."