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Apparently any kind of product like this is really bad for your eyes. They temporarily contract the blood vessels and later they come back worse than ever. Your eyes become adapted to this stuff and are dependent | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Yeah, she clearly doesn’t have some philosophical objection to societies over dependence on phones if she herself can use it and OP Cant.
It doesn’t matter if you (op) don’t mind if she does or not, it’s problematic anytime someone sets double standards in a relationship. She is being controlling and most likely wants to severely restrict your communication with anyone besides her and attention to anything besides her. Unhealthy and unsustainable | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
What is it you think the military actually do? What's their service?
They're thanked for their service when postmen aren't because we need to manufacture bizarre moral rituals around the military precisely to smooth over and justify how cruel and morally reprehensible the actions of the (particularly US) military really are. It just blows my mind that people like you swallow that shit so easily. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
Agreed, though I’m a collector. Feel free to send me any of your remaining, useless bills. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
You have no idea how bad I wanted this as a kid. My mom would never let me get it.
My life will never be complete. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
You seem genuine and sometimes hesitation strikes us at the worst, sometimes karma-filled, times. There’s no wrong way to make something like this right. Wait until an off-chance you bump into or see him again..? Utilize the cashier, assuming he’ll remember, knows the guy is a regular, and will keep his word..? Donations and/or paying it forward..? Do what it takes to make it right in your own mind. Good luck! | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
you need mental help, all your kids definitely have at LEAST a few anxiety disorders, and finally YTA | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Equality | Confident |
Might be what we need to do. In a respectful way. We both care deeply about each other. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
That doesn't sound stupid, in fact it's pretty smart considering your age. I couldn't manage to do such thing, not because morality but I was socially dumb around that age. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Been 6 years since I first read about Kevin and I can see his legacy will last for a long time to come. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Just remember, winners do what losers don't want to do. Get out there and finish the fucking class like the winner you are or sit there and wallow in your own self pity knowing that you took the path of least resistance and regret it for the rest of your life. Don't be afraid to admit your own shortcomings. Own it and address the problem. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I was not loyal to any one brand, whatever the store had I bought. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
Are you honestly asking if you're the AH? Is this fake or are you that dense that you can't see why you asking someone to leave your house over a tarot reading is actually insane. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
It’s also incredibly difficult to keep young kids safely occupied in a place not set up for them. There’s little for them to do, only whatever you brought with you, if anything it’s worse trying to socialize as a parent away from home for that reason. Safety aside, they’re gonna be *bored*. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
You guys can turn into a cute accidental couple after she finds the truth and thinks how smart you played XD | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
This girl ISNT your friend.....
She clearly just tolerates you and intends to remove you from the situation if possible | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Some of the hard-hitting and serious episodes are what was missing from Girl Meets World. I get that it's Disney Channel and they can't have an episode about sex, poverty, discrimination, death, etc. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
Just FYI, the reason you aren't supposed to drink is because the alcohol ends up in your milk, and alcohol is bad for babies. lt has nothing to do with the risk of dropping your child. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
This. The adults should be able to sort this out, and put the blame on the idiots that put a vulnerable small animal in harms way and caused its death. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
IMHO People say that to pay homage but they really weren't that funny. Rosana Dana was "the funniest shit ever" and so I respectfully disagree. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Every time I see a post about that I just think, "so do you want us to ask what your Only Fans is, or..." | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
Accept the gift. Tell him how much you appreciate what he’s done for you. That’s all. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
your girlfriends body hair isn’t your family’s business or your decision. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Somewhat Confident |
Oh, you've probably already made wife miserable over this. You need to stop fooling around and clean it ASAP, then apologize to her. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Somewhat Confident |
Your opinion is sexist and allows women to be treated like property. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
My HEART
That's
Oh god
Abuse
Sweet bby
Please be the parent they need rn while you can. You're an angel. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
Interesting, its like counting cards but with tickets.
Are you allowed to buy tickets for yourself if you wanted? | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
I just don’t understand why women NEED such an elaborate proposal. People have become so materialistic and hungry for these fairy tale memories and moments. I blame social media, tv, and movies for filling people with these senses that proposals and weddings need to be perfect. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
NTA. This has NOTHING to do with coming out. This is about respect for personal boundaries. No matter the reason, one does not spy on others. That lesson should not be lost here. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Equality | Confident |
Yeah spidey sense is tingling. I wouldn't treat friends like this let alone 4 year long gf. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Disgusting, dude. Did you also these women if you could "dance" with them? Did you care about whether they wanted to interact with you? You need to learn consent and chivalry. Seriously just asking a girl if she will dance with you will get you much farther than just coming up and rubbing your dick on them. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
I feel like Cousin Skeeter was a fever dream and I imagined the whole thing | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
Don’t worry bro she thinks it’s funny and u feel remorseful but u were only a young kid so don’t beat urself ip | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Came here to comment this too! Defunct land is such a good channel | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Could she do what most people do when they don't have all the information about some topic... Like search on Google? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Will you be attracted if they have a sex change? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Not Confident |
Lmaoooo I swear! I would be very very happy if I was you God warned you early girl. No worries | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
It’s not really about the grammar, it’s more about how you are wrong | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I hope so. Because that mild inconvenience is all the satisfaction I need | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
“It even had two windows”
Um, don’t they all still have two? Or am I missing something? | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
> and T doesnt prompt him or anything
Because that's how you're supposed to handle it. If H wants help he can make it clear he wants help. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Oral sex isn't foreplay, it's sex. It sounds like a lot of y'all skip all foreplay. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
I never said he should. He is the type that would tell you about how he refuses to change as an icebreaker. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Orgasms are not the defining standard that makes something sexual. Are you also going to say that dudes who have their dicks in little cages are participating in non-sexual acts, too? That’s goddamn silly. They might not be **having sex** but that doesn’t mean what’s happening is **non-sexual**.
EDIT: “non” got autocorrected to “nom” | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
Well, if you read my comment, if they’re both consenting adults, it shouldn’t matter. It’s also not illegal lol | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
You should not feel good about it.
You ARE a creep.
Do not take pictures of people without their consent. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
That’s not what I meant by “shift ends”. I meant that the SAHP is no longer solely responsible for childcare. Once both parents are home you move into Family Time where both parents share childcare, cooking, and housework responsibilities equally. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
Are the two younger siblings minors still? Is Charlie still around them? If so, call child protective services and report the fact that minors are still in contact with this man. Has he ever been convicted of anything? See if he is on the Meghan’s law registry and if he has any restrictions. You could also report the original abuse to the police and see if they can investigate. The younger ones probably are afraid and don’t want him around but can’t stand up to all this insanity. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Gonorrhea and chlamydia is by a dirty urine sample. Syphilis, hepatitis and HIV are blood tests. And the only real way we can test for herpes is swabbing a sore. But you're right, most people don't realize that. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
Some people don’t like neck kisses, that’s not that big of a deal. The big deal is the fact that he *repeatedly* ignored her saying no to them. If he won’t listen for simple neck kisses, what’s to say he’ll listen later for other intimate acts?
We also have no idea what he had done previously that crossed her boundaries. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Question, does your ex even pay rent or contribute to anything? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
You can do this honey! 💪 You're a strong,intelligent, badass, capable woman believe in yourself! | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
We are the reason it's not around for us anymore. We ruined this for ourselves. I was also one of the kids | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Liberals on the whole tend to have more empathy for victims of sexual assault and trafficking. Bill Clinton deserves to be taken down as well if he was involved, that has nothing to do with party lines. Everyone involved should be in jail. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Purity | Confident |
Crocodile tears cuz she got busted.. Save the future grief dump her ass now! | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
his pants are too baggy. Your kick misses and now he’s mad. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Glad to see that OP has some self-respect, dignity and a grounded moral compass. Things sorely lacking in many people when blinded by a relationship. I'm also glad OP kept the PS5! | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
If you are physically incapable of caring for yourself, you need to look into resources to hire a caregiver or cleaner. Roommates are not caregivers. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Hey even if you’re kidding don’t shit on a fucking nurse. They’re busting their ass to take care of people’s loved ones during a pandemic. Leave them alone. You’re not being cute. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
So agree, the fact our healthcare system is so ducked that it forces someone to do this proves something needs to change. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
Holy shit, this awakened something primal in my brain. I don't think I actually had any of these, but I must have known a friend that did, because they look so familiar! | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
With all the character and all that.
I think people should still try to stay away from temptation and opportunities. Humans are emotional beings, not machines. Having set characters doesn’t mean you won’t taking into temptations. - once or twice... | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Not Confident |
Yeah came here to say, do not let this woman around your future kids | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Hearing that you’re indirectly involved with the end of someone’s marriage and potentially the end of two brothers relationship is not a fucking compliment. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
>Ah, reverse sexism.
I agree with everything you wrote, except this. It's not "reverse sexism." There's no such thing as "reverse sexism." It's just "sexism." No matter which gender is being discriminated against, it's just sexism. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
I remember hoarding them because nothing was good enough for them | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
He really did and that might be the most disturbing part. The whole mindset is unfathomable. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I agree. She is very unresponsive to help. Not sure how to approach the idea without backlash. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
its not an " endeavor" you steal something you dont own or deserve so dont call it that... what you do deserve is to get caught.
seek professional help if you cant stop it on your own. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
i was the kid who hated pizza day. the slices were the WRONG SHAPE and the cheese was FOUL! it was always served with CORN on the side?!
i'll take the small soft pretzel with mustard pls. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
It means he’s an arrogant, pompous, and quite possibly sexist jerk. Avoid at all costs! | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
As much as OPs feelings are in the gutter cause of what happened, they did a terrible thing and there isn’t much to lighten their feelings. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
There's something off about this post. You said to her that the perfume was giving you massive headaches and the rest, and she was like "na, I doubt it"--that part I sort of get. Like she was wrong, but I can imagine this happening. Then after that you never talked about it again, but distanced yourself to the degree that your wife is breaking down and thinking you're cheating on her, but you haven't said anything more about the perfume during all this time?
What is going on with the communication between you and your wife?? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Not the same exact thing, but the fact that they were devolved to their basest traits. Basically an underskilled overachiever and a brainless idiot. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
It’s not a reward for having children though?? If it’s on a trust, I’m pretty sure that means her siblings legally can’t touch it and it will either go to the kids when they turn 18 or depending on the circumstances in the will, get put in their college fund or something.
As far as I know, you can’t go into a trust someone else set up for somebody in your care and just take that money.
So the daughter will be getting the same amount as her sisters.
How is that unfair? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
If it's a resort or something then being like "we are going to spend the last 2 weeks of <month> at the <resort>" isn't exactly over sharing, and something that would be totally normal to tell you're friends about... | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Why are you still feeding her cats? Tell her to pay a pet sitter | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
He likely has mixed emotions. Many people do and it’s okay to make space for those. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
ESH, sounds like you don't treat your SIL well and don't really give a good reason for that, and the assumption that she should be closer to your child because she is closer to you is gross. They're both her grand kids and she sounds awful for picking favorites because she doesn't like her other DIL. Your husband has no right to yell at her for being upset, and if i were in her shoes i would be upset too. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
I mean if you're doing the job right and excelling at it, that compensate for lies | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Yikes... I was so prepared for you to be in the wrong, but you are definitely not TA. Under other circumstances I might say N AH, but your boyfriend is reacting very harshly over a mistake when you were doing something very kind for him. And, let’s be honest, that shirt was a cumrag. If you stay together, the fact that he was using a gift from his ex as a sentimental jizz receptacle merits a conversation. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
I felt like this was on for 9 years lol | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
This. I know its weird but for some reason the compulsion for free cake overrides any logic | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Ah that makes sense. I wasn't even thinking of him using it to continue to pay child support. Either way NTA. OP I think you're totally in the right to make sure your son is responsible for his actions and not bail him out. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
You're under no obligation to share what isn't yours to share. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
THIS
if the in-laws are pressuring you, it's likely they'll try to arrange something behind your back | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Some people would gladly help strangers before their extended family, even during a pandemic. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Confident |
Because I never signed a form saying so, with his parents permission on it. So technically, I could go to prison for it, because I did not have legal permission to do so. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Authority | Somewhat Confident |
What? How could you do this? This is outrageous! It’s unfair. How can you be on the council, and not be a master?
Take a seat, young skywalker. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
But the things that last foreverrrrrr are our dearrr friendships | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
You’re a drug addict in denial. You’re not fooling anyone. People know. Sorry to burst your bubble... | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Not Confident |
The world and social media were so much nicer when Tom was everyone’s friend. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
“Dad omg I hate my name so much!”
“Come on, Tylerdurden it’s not so bad. And let’s not forget the first two rules ok?” | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
do you even know how her marks are? honestly, i wish i had read more in university. i was so burnt out and exhausted and depressed from university that i never read, and i think if i had that outlet to just let go once in a while, i would've been much happier and my marks would be better. YTA, honestly. you're making it seem like she's an addict or something. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
>as he didn’t hurt me **or do anything inappropriate** or sexual.
On what planet is that appropriate? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
"Joking" about KILLING your girlfriend to make you suffer ... That's not funny, let them suffer the consequences. You did right. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
This is literally dehumanizing you, and as you said, treats you as a fleshlight. Different couples have different opinions on the use of porn, but even if you're comfortable with him using porn in general, there is no reason to have to go along with something like this.
This goes beyond normal, balanced use of porn and shows an addiction. If you aren't okay with this -- and why would you be? -- then he needs to be honest with himself about how problematic his dependence on porn has become. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Purity | Confident |
And its always done because its easier to get the rational person to capitulate than it is to deal with the irrational one. Which of course starts a spiral that reinforces the irrational behavior. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
In the US, black slaves typically weren’t permitted to have last names, so when they were freed they’d often either choose a last name, sometimes take their former owner’s last name, or be given a name something like Freeman (Free+man). | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
The memories! It's funny that so many of us did the same things as kids. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |