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Hopefully it was piss
And a lil bit of blood | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Oh yes, for sure. Or woke as they were leaving. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Ehhh fuck the mannnnn, I watched a guy put 5 large bottle of vodka in a shopping bag then walk out of the LCBO (liquor control board of Ontario). They are not allow to interfere cause it puts the workers in a possibly dangerous situation. One worker just said “hey you pay for that” and the guy proceeded to walk out. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Not Confident |
My friend reminds me of it constantly and I still feel awful, haha | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I would taste it and smell it ad a child. Remember mentioning at the dinner table and everyone thought that there was something wrong with me. I've come across some evidence that we may have latent senses that can react to electromagnetic frequencies similar to how many species in the animal kingdom can sense the magnetic polls. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
First off, screaming is abuse. So is ignoring you. One isnt worse than the other. They are equally shitty abusive behavior | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Someone raping you while being blackout drunk is not the same thing as regretting sex you disgusting rape apologist. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity,Equality | Confident |
Wow, man. You've showed us just how hard you are! Good job! You'll not be taken in by any obviously fake stories on reddit! Obviously, anything interesting is lies! Everyone lives the same gray little life I do! | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
My mom was a nurse and had an illustrated anatomy book. I liked looking at the skeletons and internal organs when I was a little kid. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
He’s a big boy. He can say no. Similarly there is 0 evidence OP is ‘coercing’ him at all. Your misogyny is showing. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Man this takes me back. I love the early 2000s computer era with everything being round and gradient and brightly colored. Totally takes me back to my childhood full of wonder and discovery of technology. Sometimes I wish I could go back and rediscover it all again. Now I try to capture the mood with the music I make, but it'll never be the same. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I agree! As opposed to just saying “thank you”, those small comments show that she really has seen what the kids have done and that she appreciates the thought behind the action as well. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
We haven't done it yet and I honestly don't care or would belittle him | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
Let's not act like threatening to ruin someone's life as "just kids being kids". | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Not Confident |
Fuck politeness.
SSDGM.
Your guilt is justified. Him hurting you is not. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Somewhat Confident |
i sincerely hope you dont have a girlfriend cause
Y I K E S | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I understand that, but while it's not an important celebration like Rosh Hashanah or Yom Kippur, it's still a celebration* that has cultural significance.
Like 3 Kings day or the Feast of the Immaculate Conception to me. They aren't -huge- but they mark important events.
ETC: Changed day to celebration. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
This was my first thought for me also and as someone how’s been living with a unemployed person during periods as soon as I knew more money where to come in I started to plan larger expenses again. I assume your wife could do the same, how would you deal with that?
I’m sorry for you but at least me honest with her. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
But they don’t care about upsetting you with this weird and frankly nasty tradition? Except for the mom of course. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I wish I could give you a hug right now (if you're a hugger that is). What he did was not ok. He didn't respect your boundaries. He's a trashbag of a human being and does not deserve any more of your time or attention. You are worthy of having sexual experiences that are enjoyable and consensual.
You have nothing to feel bad or embarrassed about. He is not a good person and has shown himself to be not worthy of you, your affections, your heart or your body.
You deserve so much better than that. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity,Equality | Confident |
I haven’t thought about my Compuserve account in at least a decade! Thanks for the trip down dial-up memory road lol | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Came here to say this. Thank you for putting it a damn sight more eloquently than I would have & with less cursing. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
You did the right thing by calling social service.
You can be happy about that | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I'm a professional artist and a devoted mother. It truly saddens me that your mother has convinced you that it's impossible to be both. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
We Southerners only date THIRD cousins- get it right. The audacity! | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
And your head. I had THICK hair and my mom would cheat and put my hair in pig tails with those ball things. Never failed, some asshat kid sitting behind me would take them out. And as I was trying to reinstall them, I'd pop them on my head. I'm looking at you, dickhead kid in second grade. Thanks for the scalp pain 😂 | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Yes I worked at Walmart as a cashier and we weren’t allowed to interfere, we had to say “are you finding everything okay” to try and spook them/they know they are being watched. Then we report it to a manager. People were blatantly walking out with cartfuls of items, to the point where they put in a police parking space and had them come walk around the store. Didn’t help. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
I had a friend who always did this, for soda they gave £3 medium cups and water was a free small cup (so they could see if anyone was using a small water cup for soda) but my friend would always just pay for a soda glass because he hated having to go back and forth for water refills.
To be fair the cups were tiny and half the size and it was annoying as someone who drinks a lot of water. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I think the worst part of this post was where OP said he’s not sure if she’s not doing it because she’s just gotten lazy. I would like OP to go shave all of his body hair on his legs, armpits, and groin area, and then come back and tell us that she’s lazy. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Closed mouths don't get fed either but on occasion the nail that sticks out needs to get hammered back into place. (I do not and am not condoning child violence or violence as a meaningful solution in anyway. I condone meaningful discipline or conversation first and foremost.)
Ps. I hate the fact that needs to be explained clearly for some people or use of the phrase results in accusations of abuse or having an abusive personality. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Equality | Confident |
If you read my comment in response to another user, I apologized and explained that I never meant to imply that anyone that suffers any form of sexual assault is in any way less harmed or traumatized. I only meant that I recognized my situation wasn’t exactly the same so I didn’t have a clear lens from which to view it. Everyone’s pain matters equally. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Dude, you really could use that excuse once or twice. But thrice, nah man... look inward. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
"My dad cheated on my dying mom with a woman half his age and married her a month after mom died. AITA for sleeping with her to break them up?" | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity,Loyalty | Confident |
Or people are allowed to be attracted to whatever they want. What are they supposed to make sure and meet an ethnicity quota when they have sex? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity,Equality | Somewhat Confident |
I'd have a replica made and sell it to her and just tell her it's the original and that you kept the replica but I am slightly awful like that. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Ignore the fucking weirdo in the comments. My girl is bi. It wasn’t easy for her to tell me she thought I’d over react. It’s been a year since she told me now and the only difference is we now both check out other girls together ( in films and tv shows and whatnot) just be normal. Be yourself. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Equality | Somewhat Confident |
The Brave Little Toaster had some that scared me quite a bit, too | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Classic Adult Swim right there. Glad they gave it another chance at life back in the day.
If you enjoy Bob's Burgers and have never seen this show, see it. And if you enjoy this show and have never seen Bob's Burgers, see it. They're made by the same guy and feature the same actors, style, and humor. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
> because the very fact that you hid it means it is effecting your life.
lol that’s fucking blatantly not true. stop telling someone who is clearly not traumatized that they should be traumatized. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Not Confident |
I will never understand people. I mean, dogs will eat literally anything, but will *especially* eat it if it's really good. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
That's a really bad situation for you and I feel why you are upset. They act like it's a request for a pair of old shoes you were never even using anyway, and it's SO NOT THE CASE!
Very insensitive assumption on your family side, very manipulative behaviour and you should REALLY research over all of It, specially since you said she had a predisposition and mentioned organ failure on more than one kin. You may have a genetic predisposition as well and should check It out before compromising on your health. Be safe. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
I think it’s normal. But please don’t act on it. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
YTA and going to sleep on the couch _is_ sulking. It is also attention seeking and immature. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
That’s why I believe that teaching even small children about consent and their bodies is very important. Otherwise you end up with fucked up situations between children and uneducated young teenagers.
Colleges require courses on consent and sexual harassment as well as alcohol for a reason. People sometimes have to be taught social skills and concepts like “enthusiastic yes.” | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
NTA. Holy fuck. How does anyone send a video of animal abuse without warning, especially to a person with anxiety?? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Purity | Confident |
Don’t worry, last year Best Buy scammed me into thinking their warranty was actually usable and then tried to steal a $1400 computer from me after I paid something like $200-$250 for a warranty.
They’ve stolen way more from people than you’ve stolen from them. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Then our changes should aim to make both partners *more* happy, not *less* happy. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Confident |
Who led you to believe that protecting your kids is overreacting to the point you don't trust your instincts? :( | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
No shit.
You're half his age. Men our age love young women | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Was an addict for years. I have never once even considered blaming my dealers. What I do blame is my mental illnesses, and the trauma I’ve experienced in my life. None of that is your fault for sourcing the thing I chose to self medicate with. I’m sorry you’re stuck doing something you hate though. But you are a victim of the system that brought you up. The same trauma that made me an addict is what made you a dealer. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Care | Somewhat Confident |
>telling he would cheat if I don't stay awake
End it based on that alone.
He is manipulative as fuck, and it will likely only get worse. Healthy people in healthy relationships *never* threaten someone with cheating, for any reason whatsoever. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Confident |
They are NOT doing the right thing. They are violating noise ordinances and disturbing the lives of surrounding residents. They are free to worship, OUTSIDE of the quiet hours established legally by the community. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
Yeah this isn't respectful behavior at all. Sure it's not hurting them, but there's standards to society and not taking pictures of people without consent is one of them. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
I think that's pretty obvious from the "does anyone elses mom sell X" | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
I would want to cut someone off if they couldn’t respect my wishes regarding my child after constantly telling them and they repeating it. MIL needs to take you seriously. I know it’s your wife’s mom but her mom is not only disrespecting you but causing sourness amongst you both. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Somewhat Confident |
To your last point
Oh you sweet summer child. Bless your heart. It must be nice living in your (fantasy) world. etc etc | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
That is an incredibly selfish viewpoint. Whatever issues you may have, that does not come before the commitment and promises you made to your family. The *choice* to cheat instead of confronting those issues is a purely selfish choice, a choice that is well known to result in an incredibly hurtful betrayal and subsequent broken family. Making that choice currently makes him a bad person and it’s up to him whether he chooses to redeem himself or not. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
Ehh.. he IS seeing it over & over in his head as long as OP is mentioning it to him. That's a picture that is burned into his brain. Something that no brother wants to ever see. So OP really should leave him alone if he asks her to. Dude probably needs some time to erase those pictures from his mind as much as he can. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
My husband brought horse chaff (cut up hay) as marijuana as a teenager | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
>Why don’t you directly ask her about the situation?
The risk of being gaslighted is too high and therefore not worth it. There are enough red flags to justify "snooping" which should be worded as "due diligence" tbh | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
I can’t comment on how true anything he accused you of is. However, this post screams of gaslighting, like he’s trying to destroy your faith and trust in yourself. The fact that he thinks you should blindly trust what he says support the idea that he is trying to control you. This person claims to love you yet gives you a 15 minute on how much you suck?? Why are you with someone who genuinely thinks so poorly of you? NTA. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
*"Try not to suck any dicks on your way though the parking lot!"* | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
NTA.
I am worried about that 2 year old though. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
Its abusive. Your husband is abusive. You need to protect your child. You need to collect evidence to prove in court he is dangerous in case he tries to get any kind of custody. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Authority | Confident |
Open a card, buy gasoline ONLY with it, pay it in full at the due date.
If you start finding yourself buying other things with it out of impulse, cut it in half, pay it off, and leave the line open. Ask for a replacement card 6 months later and see if you can maintain the discipline.
Wash, rinse, repeat and you'll have a credit history that doesn't put you underwater.
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Good luck. Discipline is key. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
A group account?? 1 day old... With only posts revolving around being gay, gay co-workers or creepy gay coworkers...?
Idk man... I think you're just trolling. And have some kind of undefined obsession with homosexuality. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Kids don’t really learn empathy until they’re about 5, so while it’s important to teach your daughter than not everything is about her, at 3 she can’t grasp that concept. I understand your perspective and agree with it, but it think she’s a little young for these life lessons now. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Read OP's responses to comments. Trust me. You'll change your opinion. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Yes, he is literally using this "client" for his fetishes and hiding it from his girlfriend and friends, knowing its wrong. Its weird how all of the comments are praising him being an entrepreneur. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
There are exceptions to at-will employment in most states. Retaliation for refusing to perform an illegal act is one of the more common exceptions - most states don’t allow it. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
Honesty isn't a blunt object to beat your partner with. Tact and discretion are things.
I feel like he's warning you. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
Is this a thing? Not trying to sound mean, I’m just legit curious bc growing up my mom was always like that, like anytime we went to blockbuster or borders she would immediately have to go to the bathroom. I never really understood it and she could never explain it. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
Also, that she basically implied her sons might sexually harrass/assault female students because they cant handle being around a knee-length skirt.
That says a lot more about her parenting skills than it does OP's. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Somewhat Confident |
Why do you find this cute/funny? It’s not. It’s immature and inexcusable. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
YTA - it is nasty that you are making this sexual. It is sunscreen...on someone’s back.. you have some issues. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
Yeah i did that too. I was from a poor family with no cash at all. Then my friend showed me the genius idea of shoving w.e. you wanted in your pants (it was late 90s so baggy pants was the rave) and walk out. We ended up filling our lockers with stolen stuff. I got so drunk off the idea of just taking i grabbed stuff i didnt even really care for. We got caught cuz my friends mom found some of it and he ratted me out as the mastermind. We dont talk anymore... | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
Respect. You don't respect him. Not your fault, but it's not going to change and you're going to end up emotionally abusing him. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
No way brū. The rules of pizza are a lawless wasteland. You see motherfuckers posting in this shit saying they put ketchup on it?
Pure anarchy. I love it. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
You’re just as bad, if he didn’t cheat you’re even worse. Tell him. He deserves to know if he wants to be with someone like you or not. Jesus you people. What a great person | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
And no mention of why he never actually gave her the second pair :/ | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
I’ve had lots of teachers offer extra points for small things. Sometimes food donations or help with school events. I don’t think OP needs to worry about that. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Not Confident |
Nope. He has proven to be untrustworthy and does not deserve a second chance. There are so many better guys out there. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
This! I agree with you 100%. Maybe the fact that she keeps saying it was a college thing, regarding the train being run on her, shows that it might not be that big of a deal to her. perhaps that is why the fiance may no longer be interested | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
NTA. People who cheat on their partner while their partner is pregnant literally deserve zero consideration of any kind whatsoever.
edit--you should probably consult an attorney if you haven't already, to play it safe. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
That’s not how relationships work. He’s not her guest, he’s her partner. Their contributions are combined, and the rent money is coming from both of them even if it’s not directly from her | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
The way we treat it is that fake or not, there's something going on. That something might just be emotional, however, and that's okay. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Not bitter, my cousin killed himself because a group of kids bullied him...
I hate bullies, I think they are cowards! | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
My boss told me to call the store and say I got 4 flat tires if that ever happens. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
I don’t know what you’re talking about as that is clearly my magic wand you are showing | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
Getty images has an album here. They're not the best photos, but it scratches the itch.
https://www.gettyimages.com/photos/kb-toy-store | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
Fun Fact: Dace Foley was in my hometown (Lincoln, NE) for some reason; got super drunk, climbed behind the bar and played bartender. He was obnoxious, but knew how to work a crowd. There has to be a hundred pictures of this out there somewhere. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Woah! I had no memory of this at all until I saw this picture. Dang. The decades old hidden chambers of the human mind are so insane. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Exactly. I don’t tell my husband what to do- he doesn’t tell me. We enjoy each other’s company and support each other’s pursuits.
Sometimes he does stuff id rather he didn’t, but I understand why he needs to.
Such is life. I’ll live through it (it affects me as well) and hope he gets home safe in one piece.
We don’t own the other person. That’s love, when they stay anyway. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
I don’t think this is fair at all. A person could work very hard to buy a nice car that they take care off and still not have a lot of money and vice versa.
My father has saved for years just to LEASE a brand new BMW. He is by no means well off but worked very hard and put away little by little just to lease the car. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Equality | Somewhat Confident |
>I can look past the racism
You deserve each other. Enjoy. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Do it again and save up for the new Ps5 | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
YTA don't whitesplain Chinese food to an actual Chinese person when literally your only knowledge of Chinese cuisine comes from an American fast food chain | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Somewhat Confident |
You don't see how the desire to preserve "normalcy" is exactly what protected the brother and prolonged the abuse? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
This is not some uncontrollable thing. You have a choice. You’re the kind of person who could rape someone and not take accountability. Get some fucking help | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality,Purity | Confident |
I promise you that an apple after 8pm is a much better option than spoonfuls of peanut butter in the middle of the night. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |