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UPDATE: She rented a pickup from U-Haul. Backed it into her own car. I feel vindicated. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
You didn't know. She didn't know. You apologized. Good. She wasn't affected. Live the rest of your life decently and I think you'll be a great human. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Some business expressly forbid it for fire hazard reasons (I believe my work does but some people ignore it and don't get called out). Could be a liability thing. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
If you see someone, your son in fact, in an abusive relationship you're not obligated to smile and pretend like that's just fine. Idk if cheating is (emotional?) abuse but it's pretty damn close | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Confident |
Oh my god thank you for this! I used to play this over and over.
That and the courage the cowardly dog mystery game! (Can’t quite remember the name of that one) | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
literally nobody is blaming anyone else but this man for his poor, inconsiderate behavior. if anyone's implying it's "every other man's" fault, it's you. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Ummm I did actually cut one of these in half just out of curiosity and kept the two halves bc they were cool too lol | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
OP please consider this advice from this comment carefully. You deserve better and what he is doing to you is not loving you. It’s not healthy and it is not something you should tolerate. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
i mean i kind of get your thoughts. male sexuality definitely is framed as more predatory or dangerous, and female sexuality is a little more elusive and is a treat.
whether or not those things are true or not, they are commonly perceived to be that way. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
I didn't even had to click that link to know what meme it was hiding. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
The amount if people condoning this behavior is terrible. Regardless of what the company makes, you shouldnt steal. It's wrong. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Its strange because its inconsistent. Youre getting played. Trust yourself. You know this isn't right | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Do you want his forgiveness or do you want to say sorry? If the first, don’t contact him.
If the second, write to him and say sorry. In that letter or email, do not ask for his forgiveness, do not say you hope to re-establish contact, do not ask to meet him. Just say sorry.
Don’t expect to hear from him. He probably won’t forgive you - what you did was truly terrible - but you can at least say sorry. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Proportionality | Confident |
i, too, run to raw dog my best friend whenever my relationships are having struggles. totally normal thing to do is it not? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Not Confident |
He cheated on you and then has the audacity to guilt you about using sex toys... that is outrageously unfair and manipulative. That will not make for a happy life. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality,Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
That’s an effed up thing to say. It’s like you blaming your wife for your own issues.
“I’m an alcoholic because my of my husband.” Take responsibility for your own actions. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
NTA. Please know this. You are absolutely entitled to rest and need more than you’re getting. I honestly don’t know how you do it, and I hope you have resources in your life to help you get some kind of occasional respite. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
Nothing was ever right with this world except our innocence as children. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
yeah i feel really bad :/ next time i’ll do it better thank u so much :)) | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
This. He will never trust a word you say again. This deceit on deceit ploy is a great way to never see your son again. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
100% NTA. It absolutely is your place to get involved if you suspect animal abuse. If there is an explanation this will be uncovered and no real harm done except the owner may be a bit peeved. Alternatively, if they shouldn't be owning a dog, you'll be putting an animal into a much nicer situation away from the cruelty/ abuse. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Be weird. Be rude. Stay alive.
Trust your instincts here!!! | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
She could have slept in the bed of her girlfriend, but decided that she would rather sleep beside him. That just seem off. She normally wouldn't even sleep in the same bed as her girlfriend and would take the couch. Isn't there a possibility that she at first wanted to have sex with him but changed her mind? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Somewhat Confident |
This is like a complete Mandela Effect situation for me.
I am 41 and never missed an episode of Family Ties.
Could have sworn it was 'Sit, Boo Boo, Sit... Good dog. (Woof!)'
But, it's obviously Ubu. Holy shit. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
You'd have to be some kind of idiot to believe mass produced plastic Chinese crap will be worth something as an investment. I think Funko's/pops whatever are way more cringey than even Beanie Babies.
It's masterful marketing on both accounts though. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Someone I'm casual friends with is a stay at home dad by choice, and refers to himself as Mr Mom. Makes me cringe. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Sounds like a Krampus thing – bags bad kids and beats it with a stick. 😂 | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
My sister had one and never drew on it cuz ,” what if it doesn’t come off” | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
Frankly, and I don't mean to put you down by saying this, but this almost seems like an elaborate plan to cover up the fact your husband is doing something shady. Getting mad at you over small things, having his sister, friend, etc gang up on you (which is unbelievably immature), lying about where he stayed... honestly it sounds like hes cheating. You're too young to deal w this shit
Seriously... how are you being manipulative when hes the one blowing up at you, lying, etc. Cause its just straight up deflection from his own crappy behavior | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Give them each a gift card for a shop they like. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
It isnt about legality/age of consent here but the fact that she's a predator. You can still be a sexual predator towards someone who is above the age of consent. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
Dude now more than ever don’t tolerate any racism. Fuck that. He isn’t willing to address that? Then move on. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | null |
I mean I get your frustration, but this isn’t AITA in this hypothetical situation, it’s AITA in this specific situation based on the information given, so it makes sense that people would question an assumption you made based on no evidence. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
That’s less of a confession and more of a good idea... | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Did he say that he’d stop saying things like that? It’s normal for men to be attracted to other women while in a committed relationship but if he was seriously wanting to do these sexual things with other women it’s a red flag. Even saying that he could have cheated doesn’t sit well with me | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
Thank you for saying that. Really puts things in perspective. Momentary insecurity vs core being. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
YTA. There are plenty of non sexist reasons why he might have asked you to take the note.
Doubly YTA for arguing with everyone here. Did you come here for judgement or not? If you're just goigg to refuse to accept what is obviously the majority judgement then... we can't help. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
This is an escalation instead of discourse and or conflict resolution. It’s only service is to be petty. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Tell your mother so your sister can get to the doctors for her migraines. Also, maybe never get a puppy or a kitten. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Not Confident |
Is there a good sub for modding/repairing gameboys?
I have two GB colors that work fine but I actually just got my wife's old original gameboy but the screen isn't displaying correctly so I was thinking of doing something with it | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Not everyone is in a spot to just hop jobs like that. I for example felt this way every single day while I was in the army. Hoped a semi would fucking plow me over just bad enough to maim me so I didn't have to get fucked by the big green weenie that day. Never happened and I sucked that weenie to completion :( | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Naah it sure paid off for me. From fake medicals to getting an improvement test to improve my grade. I graduated with 3.8 GPA with half the work I would have needed to get that much of a score. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
my boys where saying the same shit. imagine your girl having a problem with you jerking off to HER OWN PICS | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
NTA just break up with him. “Girls he’s cheated on with me”? So he has cheated in past relationships? Why are you with him? You know what they say there’s an open spot now that your the “main.” | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
One thing worse...
Ca-lunk... thunk... <no final clunk at the bottom> (and no more change)
:( | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
My friend had this back in the eighties . I had the Rancor monster and used to attack the village and eat his Ewoks .
Good times . | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
*If* you asked to speak to a "Native English speaker" out of personal animus, then you'd be a racist and an AH. But, being in hospital is very serious, and the desire and need to get comprehensible information is essential. Yes, tact and diplomacy, but ultimately the goal is simple communication.
NTA | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Equality | Confident |
Target when they were operating in Canada , same shit. Weak internal controls, no cameras or even prop cameras that doesn’t even function. LMAOO | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
#She changed the password of every device and social media so she could keep cheating. OP wake up and smell the roses, You deserve better | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I feel like there's a happy medium between letting her know that intending to cheat on you wasn't okay and you're not comfortable continuing the relationship, but to also assure her that it's not because she was raped. It's okay to not trust her anymore and want a divorce but to also acknowledge her terror and shame. Emphasize that her actions beforehand were a deal breaker but also that she didn't deserve to be hurt.
Basically what I'm saying is distance yourself, but try not to be too big a dick about it. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
What is the legal age in your Country? Because over here it's 18 so the parents would not be able to do anything at all. They could call the police as often as they wanted but because she is 18 she can do whatever she wants. Either way I'd say NTA. Just be careful if what I said isn't the case you should be ready to pay lawyers and be able to prove good reason. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
>I think the issue is it took 10 minutes of questioning
No, I think the issue is the 10 minutes of questioning. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
My husband and I are the ages of OP and his fiance, and his daughter is the age of one of OP's kids. So definitely agreed that the age difference in and of itself isn't an issue here, but I think in a sea of red flags the age difference becomes one too | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
If he'd not taken stupid advice to treat unreasonable people reasonably (I've been there) he'd have plausible deniability. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
If you do break up, I think you should text him a picture of Gollum just before blocking his number. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Nta. That’s what dogs do when they play. Plus, if the dog actually WAS being aggressive how is hitting it supposed to teach it anything??! I have no respect for people that smack dogs (or kids) | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
No, it needs a new bulb and it’s out focus. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
“I see you are enticed by my daughter’s rocking tits.” | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
You're totally right, I mixed up the two.
Like a messed up country song: her husband died and her dog left her. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Came here just to say this\^ her behavior sounds very abusive and the red flags are all lined up in front of you OP. She's cutting you away from your loved ones and friends and making you distance yourself from things you used to love which is what a lot of abusers do. It sounds like you're starting to get depressed/anxious from all her abusive behavior- I definitely would be the same. It's best to pack your things and go to your dad and maybe discuss what to do from there with him or better yet, a lawyer... | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Mostly because even if you say no, they’re like, “are you sure?”Yes, I’m sure. “But you get POINTSSSSSSS” *spittle flies out* Fine!!!! Just give me the damn shirt!!
And by the time you finally pay, you could have been in line at Cinnabon... | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
They're just mad they couldn't do it themselves. Jealousy can be ugly. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
This isn’t fair! How can I be on the council and not be a master??! | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Thats a carpet pattern that can hold decades of dirt before its noticeable | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Its gunna be awkward as fuck when word inevitably spreads, and you're outed as a person who lies about having disabilities. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Not Confident |
Being racist is not an opinion. It’s just wrong. It’s not even political. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
I don't feel the need to explain my art to you, warren. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
I'm afraid that's a risk we are going to have to take. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Well I haven't told anyone this story so and I am confessing the stealing | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
I have no idea why I had and currently still have such disdain for him | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
To add to that, Zapotec culture have the Muxes. There are the guevodoce, and also Albanian sworn virgins.
I have a bachelors in psych focusing on sexual psychology and with quite a bit of neuroscience and anthropology thrown in. Until you look at sex and gender cross culturally you’re really just examining western ideas and not truly understanding the depth of humanity. Ethnocentrism is the death of science. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
My continued faith in humanity requires this man to not be real. Therefore, I shall pretend that I never saw your update. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
The smell of shoe spray and a spritz of mold | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
You can talk about the Bulls, the Patriots, and Yankees all you want, but we all know the real dynasty was the Babaganoush family! | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Not Confident |
Thought this was a cum jar video for a minute 😐 | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
I think this happens when you’re in love AND feel safe with/trust them (which is very rare) I’ve only ever felt this in my very first relationship when I was a teen, and have never since felt it again. Congrats, I wish you guys a very happy one ❤️ | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Confident |
Yup, when you "buy" something via an online/digital service, you are paying for the rights to stream or watch it, under their limited terms, until they terminate that right for whatever reason. They could rescind a movie you bought the day after, for copyright or political reasons, and you'd just be shit outta luck.
Don't buy digital goods unless you have to or don't care about losing access to the content. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Junkies? Come on bro. These are human beings with a medical or mental condition. So dehumanizing. That word needs to be gone. Same with clean and dirty. Not all drug use is problematic and everyone uses drugs. Racism is the only reason some are legal and some aren’t. Look it up. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
You are not legally required to divulge personal medical information.
If your work has not been affected, they have no need to know about it. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Authority | Somewhat Confident |
NTA- She’s entitled and doesn’t understand the value of time, effort, or money. You were totally in the right. She needs to learn a lesson. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
As others have pointed out shes having an affair, physical or not. That she wont let you see their correspondence tells you everything you need to know. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
It's also hard to focus when you are starving and your belly hurts so bad from the stomach acid eating your own stomach lining.
The gnawing pain of hunger is literally torture. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
NTA - the guy was. Unless he is just math deficient and doesn't understand money, but I doubt that.
$35 on a $105 service is approx a 35% tip! I think that's quite sufficient.
On the other hand, I've never had a mani pedi, so what do I know. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
It’s weird how they know those are everyone’s favorites but they throw one in a bag, two tops. As if opaque gummies cost ten times as much to produce. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
People go to nudist colonies with parents. Nudity isn’t always sexual. So as long as you’re both comfortable doing it, all good. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
I’m glad you said this. I can’t imagine how dehumanizing this would make Kylie feel. Bottom surgery is a MAJOR surgery and I can’t imagine the pressure she feels now to get it. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Honestly just typed “9gag + I thought she was naked at first” on Google.
Idk if you have body dysmorphia but my pale ass is jealous of them legs. Just sayin. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
If I’m not mistaken, isn’t this show translated to Takeshi’s Castle? | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
> He **basically** said 'all women are used up wh\*res living paycheck to paycheck' and made some other really ugly, prejudiced, over-generalized comments.
This is really galvanizing statement that is going to get a specific response based in emotion because this is a disgusting thing to say. That said, what did he **actually** say.
There is a big difference between *what* someone says and *how* you *interpret* it. I would recommend giving people the information as objectively as possible, to get the best advice. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
You seem to be misjudging just based on too little info | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
It might be a white flag. Time to surrender this relationship. He sounds like a total asshole. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
What kind of man are you? It’s natural!
Boobs are even on the way down! | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Not Confident |
All these comments are from the past few hours her Reddit age is 0 days. All this in 5 hours, disgusting. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
My sister and I tried to weaponize these at each other when we would fight! | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
What? It's feelings, it's absolutely a problem but you're acting like he did something to someone when he said he hasn't and has absolutely no intention to. People aren't monsters for their feelings or thoughts or even fantasies, they're monsters for their actions | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
The Tale of the Midnight Madness with Nosferatu coming through the screen freaked me right the fuck out. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
People are going to say it doesn't do anything and people are gonna say it fucks you to death. Truth is we actually just don't know enough because governments have refused to fund any extensive research into Marijuana
Edit: I think all of these replies proves my point. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
For real lol I’ve been fucking around on reddit since 2009 which was DEFINITELY just a couple of years ago and I refuse to believe otherwise. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Yeah, me too. And it’s not normal whatsoever that a 11-year old girl tries to seduce anyone. A 11-year old is a child. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Because seeing your GF makes her real now. Work-wife feels guilty because she too noticed things escalated over the last few weeks. So, she's either jealous and more distant or feeling guilty/awkward and distancing herself. Honestly, it's probably for the best. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |