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That's also not helpful. Sometimes we need to check what is really helpful in these situations, whilst 21 weeks may be not in the early stages, a babies chance of survival (outside the body) at this stage is low and miscarriages can still occur at this gestational age. Also, babies that have severe issues in utero can spontsneously abort. It is also common to miscarry if the mother is particulatly young. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Not Confident |
NTA. His entitlement and attitude would stop me from giving gifts until he grows up enough to appreciate them. If he never does, welp - no more gifts. Gifts are treat, not a requirement. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Confident |
Do yourself a favour and apologize. I know it was an honest mistake. But be the bigger person here and realize that despite your intentions you offended some people. You're not an ass. But do the right thing an apologize anyways. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Care | Somewhat Confident |
If you’re that guilty you should let him know u are sorry and it haunts you. He may forgive you or he may not. At least you can let him know you feel bad about it! That is also good you feel bad about it :) | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
I dont know if your friend is just your friend if hes swallowing your baked cum dude | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
She definitely cheated. Also considering her little tantrum about not getting sex on demand, yeah cheater. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
Bro if this is legit you need therapy. So you can understand a normal family dynamic and maybe work on earning your sisters/ families trust. You need to cut the porn because that has desensitized you to normal relationships. It’s gonna take ages to regain their trust. Also, if applicable you need to actually feel bad about what you did and understand that it’s wrong instead of being sad that you got caught. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Purity | Confident |
I’ve known women with healthy relationships who have large age gaps with their husbands. Unlike OP, they have healthy relationships with their fathers. The age difference in this case raised my eyebrow because she’s posting about sexual issues with her father. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
B/c it's reddit. Aka a cess pool of uninformed idiots sharing their opinion as if it's fact | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Yeah, you’re right. No one’s managing, but they know it’s going on. I guarantee SOMEONE has a line item in a ledger SOMEWHERE, that accounts for “Spillage”. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Hollyyy fuuuuck this gives me memories I used play with my wwf/e wrestlers on this shit too & make matches out of it 🤣🤣🤣 | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Here’s an article with some techniques on how to talk to racist family and friends (full disclosure- I wrote it): https://medium.com/@ly.pr11/how-to-debate-racism-with-the-ones-you-love-f3548f16cc08 . It includes useful statistics and talking points.
Good luck, you’re gonna need it. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
Why would you openly admit that!? I understand that Reddit is a pretty anonymous platform, but nothing good can come from you sharing that information. I even think there’s a list somewhere for people that commit such heinous acts! | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
You make no sense at all. You help people type the domain name?? | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Well I guess we thought it was wrong because we went to a catholic grade school. I don’t believe anymore tho. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
Holy shit you are an asshole. I feel so fucking sorry for your daughter. YTA | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
INFO: why does the paternity test need to be prior to the birth? | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
NTA. Your mom was waaaaay out of bounds. It should have been done the first time you said you weren't interested. 100% NTA. And as for yelling at your mom, someone else said YTA cuz you yelled at her... Eff that. Everyone has a limit. Your mom pushed you to yours. Way to stand up for yourself. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
thank you for this. it’s really reassuring to know i’m not in the wrong here.
my mom told me the same thing. $500 is a cheap price to pay for peace of mind. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
I was being sarcastic. I’m just saying, don’t tell OP there is no statute of limitation on rape because it varies by state. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Confident |
I don't doubt it. I think some people are misconstruing what I'm saying as like defending heroine use or something. I know its bad and spirals downwards, I'm just challenging the comment the idea that everyone definitely knows, when its absolutely possible for some people to hide their addictions. Heroine is one of the few I've never fucked with because of all I've heard about it. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Not sure that would convince them considering how big the stereotype is with some Asian countries and trans women. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Not Confident |
I think you mistake what I mean by ruin their life, and missed an inferred exaggeration. Expose them, get them fired. Not harm them physically. Nothing that would put me in any legal or professional harm, but expose them to others which would have a negative repercussion on their life...as it well should in my opinion. They operate on a different spectrum of morals or lack there of, and are deserving of exposure, punishment and social exile.
It’s also not anger at the thought...it’s utter disgust. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
So you're not going to grow up and own up to it like you should? Seems like you still have the same childish attitude and don't want to accept responsibility. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
This is probably the most overdramatic, extra comment I’ve read in all my time on Reddit. Government Corruption? Are you being serious? That’s hysterical. Hot take: Seniors in Highschool cheating on a take home, open book test, is what’s causing government corruption.
ESH at most, your son’s a major asshole here, snitching over something so minuscule is just - inexplicable to me. His friends shouldn’t be cheating, I don’t think it’s a big deal but, yea it’s still wrong. Your response wasn’t the best, or most constructive. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity,Authority | Somewhat Confident |
These were great. Their microplastics are probably still with us | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
People love to act like racism is about culture like skin color somehow prevents you from respecting and helping participate in the cultural traditions | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Confident |
I will observe this rule next time I attempt to contact my great aunt Juniper through my ivory Ouija board. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
I didn't realize he was busted for possession. I had always heard that he demanded too much money and so Dell dropped him. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
I can still *feel* the texture of the black plastic case. Absolutely wild. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Our hate of corporations is so great we justify our depriving morales. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Somewhat Confident |
So are very many families in very many other professions. Totally onboard with discounts for service members, but not extending it to their families. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
i guess literally 99% of mothers and fathers (and indeed, human beings in general) on Earth are "cockroaches" if yelling is enough to qualify as such | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
That’s muscular, toned, and healthy. Very little body fat. Not sure I’d call that skinny. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Relateable. Grew up poor, now my wife and I have decent incomes, still need to be "convinced/reminded" to buy coffee, or anything for myself over about $30 | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Not Confident |
One day they will put a hidden camera in that area. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
jesus christ.
1. spending more time watching a random person who doesnt give a fuck about you... check.
2. spending money on said person regularly instead of your partner... check
3. gaslighting and saying shes jealous when she has a right to be upset.... check
4. you dismissing her boundaries and going against them.... check.
here we have an AH.
oh and went into your post history
5 . CHEATING on her with her friend.
r/iamatotalpieceofshit | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
SOOOOO NTA. Mark and your daughter undoubtedly have a great uncle-niece relationship, while he has no such relationship with your other brother's kids. David chose to destroy the relationship and do something that was truly trashy and destructive to his own brother...David made that choice, that's 100% on him and his wife...who, I might add again, ARE AWFUL. Your parents should not encourage them! | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Nostalgia is nostalgia. There’s no timeline for when you’re allowed to feel it. You could have nostalgia about something that happened yesterday. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
We all make mistakes as kids, but you admitted in your confession that you felt no guilt about someone else getting convicted of a crime you committed. You’re awful and god will think so too. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Proportionality | Confident |
Mate, no. She HIT the guy and lied about doing class A drugs. If OP were a chick you'd change your tune. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Do you actually want an open relationship or is this an attempt to get her to change jobs? | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Confident |
It’s not. It’s part levo, part dextro and more. It is absolutely NOT street meth and while they share certain things chemically you’re basically asserting there is NO difference between Will and Jaden Smith. Related is NOT identical. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Purity | Somewhat Confident |
Are you even sure he cares about you, OP? He will not feel guilty for failing you if he could hardly even care about your panic attack to start with. Maybe have a plan B where you can call and or be with someone else.
I’m sorry that happened to you. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Confident |
McDonald’s coffee is gastly, wouldn’t feel guilty, you punished yourself enough drinking that. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
> or take a short cut through a playground
Those speed bumps may not be what you think they be... | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
~~Just out of curiosity because this sub gets a bad rap for immediately saying “dump them!!”, what do you like about this guy? From this post it sounds like he doesn’t respect your belongings, and more importantly your personal boundaries. He doesn’t value your life experiences and is disrespectful toward your memories. He isn’t willing to communicate or apologize when he causes problems in your relationship.~~
After seeing the comment below I’ve changed my tune. It is abusive to ruin your partners belongings on purpose. It doesn’t matter what you like about him, there’s no redemption for abusers. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Equality,Loyalty | Confident |
Do not take him back!!! **This is not your responsibility**. He is a grown man he figure this out on his own. You need to put yourself first for once. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Care | Confident |
Not available in the United States unfortunately. I believe due to the fact that Viacom may have rights to the show in the US? | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
Everyone has given you the best advice they can. But if you ever need to talk more personally about anything we are all here too!!
I know it's impossible to not be scared, but trust me when I say there are people here who'll do everything they can to look after you | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
This is so dismissive as well. As if the sex isn’t as much cheating because it’s another woman. Sex is sex, regardless of genders. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Purity | Confident |
A developing brain means it makes sense not to put children in prison. I don't know how it's interpreted to mean no discipline, no consequences. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
Political views are more than just opinions. They reflect a person's overall VALUES.
He might be nice, and funny, or whatever but that does not make him relationship material for you.
I strongly recommend you keep this relationship in the friend zone. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
Don't play disability olympics. Who is "more disabled" only matters if there are limited seats. If you're disabled, you're disabled. Period. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality | Somewhat Confident |
Do you expect the woman to struggle making her half of payments while heavily pregnant thus risking her child and herself ? This is abuse. Financial or not. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality,Care | Somewhat Confident |
Ugh same. I don't even like sour candy all that much anymore, but I remember the sort of thrill I got from that uncontrollable puckering...
God is this what it's like to be a drug addict? | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
Again, so? She’s an asshole for a lot of reasons. Her shitty parenting decisions are only a few of those reasons. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
it’s cruel to feed someone food they’ve actively said they find disgusting, vegan or not. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
or just....don’t spend time looking at things that annoy you or piss you off. they’re just having fun. imo the rick and morty fan base is really cringe but they aren’t doing anything wrong - go look at shit you like. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Thank you for the request, comrade.
I have looked through xxdeathwishxx_x's posting history and found 6 N-words, of which 1 were hard-Rs. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
My cousin did. He was believed every word until he saw the cast accepting awards. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
"It" jesus christ. YTA and honestly a horrible, sociopathic person. I hope your parents DO kick you out; you don't deserve their generosity. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Confident |
Yeah, it was her umbilical cord. Also turns out he was over a decade older than her and treating her like his servant. I know that one was too ridiculous to be real, especially with all the edits (he somehow managed to find it at a landfill but she dumped him anyway), but it pissed me off nonetheless. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Because killing her is the only bad thing that can happen? He has made her life scary, her workplace unsafe and damaged her car. He is out of line and you did the right thing. Your family is blind to his crimes.
Killing??? WTF, I don’t know anyone that comes even up in my mind. That goes for harassing and damaging properties too btw.
You are a decent human, either you family sees that or not. Does not change the fact that you sound like the very best one in you family. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Equality,Care | Confident |
yta. Academic honesty is serious and what she's doing isn't petty, you're just an asshole | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Why is it playing a song from 2013? Winamp was meant to play like Dragula or Sugar Ray. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
I think I would have just thought I lost the food to the regular schedule of fridge cleaning.
But really, a note usually suffices to keep things untouched. If they leave a note and you eat it anyway then yes, that’s a jerk move. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Same. I’m a 30yr old woman with a great life and family and I don’t want my HS bully contacting me, not even for an apology. Apologies only serve the one who did the act not the victim. I’ve moved on and was not doting on whether or not she would realize how much of a bitch she was to me for years. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Masturbation is not cheating... People should stop trying to control the sexual lives of their partner.
It's ok to be insecure. But she is outright manipulating him.
It's time to cut it short before it becomes an emotionally abusive relationship. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Confident |
"Hey, don't gimme that attitude you guys I'm doin it all for you."
Love this movie.
Also justice for Bobby! Homeboy asked a simple existential question about the gloves in Goofy Movie 2 and we never saw him again. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I mean I use to steal my neighbors underwear so don’t worry | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
NTA -- The guy who made you rewatch Citizen Kane is calling YOU pretentious?!? hahahahahahahahahaha! | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
Considering there were no EMTs there they just left him. In the full video you can see it happen, its brutal. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
I think it's a power and control thing for some people. They love and jump at the opportunity to complain because it feels good to them. They lack any sort of authority/power and control over their daily lives so the "customer is always right" thing gives them the false sense of power. That's my theory anyway. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
So if you're aware that most people aren't ok with that lifestyle, I wonder if you warn them about the consequences of engaging in such behavior? I find extremely irresponsible for someone to promote their lifestyle to young people knowing the possible consequences and not warning them. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Seconding this, OP.
If your counselor recommends noy working for a year then you need to look into what benefits you can apply for. Depression can qualify as a disability. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Authority | Confident |
Imagine, when the stupid war on drugs ends, we can smoke weed with cops and won't have to fear them unless we're actually violent criminals. (Barring any police abuse which I'm sure will happen but far less often.) Imagine, police actually building positive relationships with the people who might be able to best help point them in the right directions. What a crazy world that would be. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Authority | Confident |
have you given ANY thought to your son's grief? maybe he doesn't celebrate holidays because his mother is dead and he is having trouble moving past it?
Get over yourself and work with your son to get him through his grief and to a place where he can be happy again. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Confident |
ESH
You shouldn't be slagging off your niece. Also "ditzy" is a rather gendered word; you certainly wouldn't use it to describe a boy/man, and it smacks of sexism.
She shouldn't have told her daughter what you said, because all that would do is hurt her. Also she could be more tactful when you're talking about your son. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Hey, I was being calm and rational, trying to explain why people have little tolerance for cheaters. It's clear you have no interest in seeing anyone's view but your own. Good day. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Equality | Somewhat Confident |
The touching children’s story about sacrificing your goodness and all you cherish in an attempt to avoid the hatred of the envious, unappreciative collective. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
Ours were orange and I remember pretending the tens were carrot sticks. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
I wish I knew the right way to do it. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
I was in one too but almost all the time if someone was leaving it was because they never worked on themselves but instead blamed everything on the staff. Now with hindsight I understand that they were just not ready to be healed. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
I have one of these too and it still works. I still have the alarm sounds burned into my brain, including the order they play in demo mode.
I won't use it because it's a really terrible way to wake up in the morning, I know the point of alarms is to be loud but this thing could wake up my entire neighborhood. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Not Confident |
The nice thing about guilt and shame is it’s a prime indicator that you’ve grown as a person. Was it disgusting and terrible? Yes, definitely. Have you done it again or ever thought about doing it again? I’m gonna guess and say probably not. You don’t need to kill yourself, and if you’re genuinely thinking about it you need help. But ultimately just grow from your mistakes and move on. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Super Salad Bar. I use to stock that thing while I was in high school.
I use to sing a parody of the INXS song Suicide Blonde while I did it.
“You wanna make a Super Salad Bar.” | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Confident |
see ive only met nice Garys, Roberts however have all been cheaters, manipulators, abusers, and bullies | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Confident |
NTA
I fucking hate the "I thought you were natural". She should know better as a woman than to say that shit. It's horrible that she shamed you for needing to take erection medication. How would she respond if you needed antidepressants (another medication with stigma attached)?
And I have to tell ya, if there was a female equivalent, she would probably have a jar of the stuff. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality,Equality | Somewhat Confident |
It was once the best... Then a few years later after dabbling in Counter-strike i tried to play Goldeneye and it was intolerable. you can't even jump!
Unfortunately, there are a lot of first person shooters to compete with now.
On a lighter note, i think Star Fox would still hold up. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
NTA, "throwing your individuality in her face"?! I thought part of being family was loving and respecting one another as individuals. Your tattoos are a part of you and you're right not to let yourself be shamed! | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care,Loyalty | Somewhat Confident |
I made more money doing that in my teens than anybody mowing lawns. Miss those days. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Somewhat Confident |
I remember. He, his little brown friend used to get into adventures with his dad and Mike Pence. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Non-Moral | Not Confident |
Date a high school student, deal with some high school bullshit. I'm glad you have a therapist. Accept that it's over, move on, and date someone your own age until you're old enough that 5 years isn't a big deal. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
You know what isn't nostalgic? Fucking joker cuts from those evil sleeves. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |
Yes, I am empathetic to the fact that people handle situations like that in very different ways way. My response was very narrowminded in that regard. | AmItheAsshole | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Care | Somewhat Confident |
Sit down and talk to him. Explain that you had a hard time believing him because he had broken your trust before. Let him know you’re proud of him and that you have his back. Now, you broke *his* trust and you need to earn it back. It’s ok to mess up, but learn from it and make it right. Tell him all of this. It may be good for both of you. | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty,Care | Somewhat Confident |
Soooooo YOU get insulted because OTHER people are insulted by YOU? | confession | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Proportionality | Somewhat Confident |
> I asked my mom if she could just get a seperate room for him and I; she said yes and he said he would sleep on the couch since it extends into a bed.
Mother didn't suggest that, the guy himself did. | relationship_advice | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Loyalty | Not Confident |
One asshole make a documentary and the nation has to suffer as a result. | nostalgia | Everyday Morality | annotator05 | Thin Morality | Somewhat Confident |