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Reflection of feelings

I am so glad you have been able to look within yourself to see that you have all the resources you need to handle this period of life. You have a optimistic attitude and a can do spirit, and those will take you far!

Restatement or Paraphrasing

So you are missing your mom?

Reflection of feelings

Yeah, I've definitely felt that way...especially during COVID and having to adjust to working from home. What are some of the things in your routine during the day?

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That sounds really tough. It's hard to find work these days

Others

I do not have a recommendation due to potential geographical differences, but on google.com you can search counselors in your area and find some. The reviews may help you decide on a solution

Self-disclosure

They can be really very helpful. I have reached out to them myself previously

Others

yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after

Question

I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you

Affirmation and Reassurance

Oh, that's not good

Providing Suggestions

Some children may act out if they have trouble expressing how they feel. I would suggest having regular talks with them and being transparent.

Question

do you have other friends

Self-disclosure

Ah I totally hear you .. the old 'we're getting divorced' line. I've been in that one! You are well out of this.

Affirmation and Reassurance

Really though I think that your problem is self esteem .. you should think better of yourself :)

Providing Suggestions

Have you tried any other ways besides alcohol?

Providing Suggestions

Could you bring your hamster home with you? Even the smallest things could help a place feel more loving

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That's true and divorce can be expensive. You mentioned before that you feel like you are with him mostly because you are lonely, is that how your relationship started?

Self-disclosure

i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given

Self-disclosure

Ive actually had that same situation happen to me before.

Providing Suggestions

Maybe there is a discussion board where you could be anonymous.

Question

Do you want the relationship to be over or you are truly done and want to move on?

Others

You are not alone. It is a phase of life. all have to go through it. Just stay focused and calm and motivated.

Affirmation and Reassurance

Dont think that. You are worthy, you just need to apply yourself in the right direction :)

Reflection of feelings

I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.

Affirmation and Reassurance

Those sound like positive ways of handling stress. It is natural of course to feel stressed out by the pandemic so it can be useful to think of ways to help manage that stress.

Question

Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?

Others

You too, I hope I helped. Take care!

Providing Suggestions

you just need to press quit and take the survey now :) I can't do it this end

Question

Uh, oh, how do you think she will react?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

I see you aren't feeling so well. What seems to be going on?

Affirmation and Reassurance

lol, very true they do not. :)

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From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.

Others

you are welcome, take care

Self-disclosure

It's why I'm here as well.

Affirmation and Reassurance

Live the dream and seek Him always

Question

ok. thanks for asking. what on your mind

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hi

Others

You as well!

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hi..how are you today..What is it you want to talk about today?

Affirmation and Reassurance

I agree, but don't you think those are worth given that you might gain covid 19 immunity?

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So just to make sure I understand, you have an exam coming up in economics and you are very stressed about it.

Affirmation and Reassurance

you have 5 years exp, i'm sure you deserve a better role and pay

Affirmation and Reassurance

You have good instincts when you can face a situation and make a judgment and decision.

Question

Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?

Affirmation and Reassurance

Very good. I am glad that you have a good family who can support you whenever you need a help.

Providing Suggestions

In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?

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(You need to finish from your end .. I can't :))

Reflection of feelings

I feel your pain. Being laid off is a stab to the heart. Very disconcerting. Sounds as if you have been thrown out of your comfort zone.

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I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?

Reflection of feelings

It sounds like you are overwhelmed and want to come up with a plan to move forward.

Reflection of feelings

I can understand that. You don't want two people disrespecting you.

Providing Suggestions

That sounds really horrific. May I suggest you seek some professional help?

Question

Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you

Providing Suggestions

No problem, I hope I have helped you some.

Providing Suggestions

Oh sweet me too actually! I definitely recommend heartstone or any game that has a battle mode form

Question

Can you think of anything you can do, to help make your studying be more successful?

Providing Suggestions

Yes, meditation is very good at calming down the mind. Does it help you? If it does maybe do it more continuously and more frequently

Information

As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine

Question

How important is it for you to be able to work right now? Does your husband make enough money to pay the bills and make sure you have somewhere to stay?

Others

true

Self-disclosure

I try to spend more time outdoor and keep myself busy.

Question

You need to be aware that that can and will happen. Ignore it. What sort of benefits do you feel that there are?

Question

was it a common thing that he didn't give you the attention you wanted?

Providing Suggestions

I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.

Reflection of feelings

Yes I think people should be more supportive of each other, especially during these times! Just don't ever give up! I'm really glad that I was able to be of help/support today for you :)

Others

I hate that you feel that way about yourself, but I can also relate to having a rough time learning via online classes. I'm the same way. However, that does not disable you from being able to learn. It impedes your quality of learning, no doubt. But it isn't something that YOU can help.

Providing Suggestions

You're welcome Riya. I hope you take my advice moving forward and things improve for you.

Self-disclosure

I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.

Question

Hello. How are you doing today?

Affirmation and Reassurance

From my personal experience, I can say that your support really means everything to her. She may not want to admit the truth to herself, but with your support, I believe she can find the strength to get out of the relatioship

Affirmation and Reassurance

Those are completely valid feelings to have at this time

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Hi, what's going on?

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Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while

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Did he have children with his x

Providing Suggestions

that pandemic was followed byt he roaring 20s

Reflection of feelings

I can understand how you are feeling.

Providing Suggestions

Yes. you should do that. It's not good to hold crying. You should just do what you want to do now

Restatement or Paraphrasing

Oh, so sorry to hear that!

Affirmation and Reassurance

I went through the same process. I understand what you are feeling. I am glad that you are on Mechanical Turk and interacting with people. Which area do you live in? It is springtime and pretty outside. Have you thought about walking more walks?

Self-disclosure

I have had the same problems in the past with some friends not being there for me when I need it, so I completely understand where you're coming from.

Restatement or Paraphrasing

So you have had a lot of stress with school lately and are struggling to keep yourself cheerful?

Providing Suggestions

Definitely keep talking to those people because that's gonna help a ton.

Others

Yes sure I can .

Restatement or Paraphrasing

Not doing well in college or high school?

Providing Suggestions

And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things.

Question

sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?

Question

That is difficult. What caused the break up? Was it mutual? Or was it one sided?

Others

:) we will

Providing Suggestions

did you ever try to go in sports ?because you like that

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hi what seems to be the problem

Others

Bye now! God bless!

Others

That sounds like a really good idea! All the best

Others

There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places.

Providing Suggestions

How about Craigslist? Not my favorite personally speaking, but might be worth taking a look.

Self-disclosure

I would agree with you on that! That was how I felt too.

Others

I get it now. I believe she feels like she has finally gotten what she was yearning for after four years of Trumps administration and now she is elated that her candidate has finally won right?

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but HAS anyone laughted at you? or told you they don't like you? or not responded when you have talked to them?

Providing Suggestions

Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation.

Question

Tell me more.

Reflection of feelings

I understand, it's hard to be positive right now

Restatement or Paraphrasing

Hello what can i help you with today?