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[1160.54 --> 1161.72] and this is where
[1161.72 --> 1162.42] I haven't read
[1162.42 --> 1163.02] anywhere else yet.
[1163.10 --> 1164.34] Instead of giving back
[1164.34 --> 1165.72] the pain I received
[1165.72 --> 1166.46] because it's real
[1166.46 --> 1167.44] and it hurts,
[1167.88 --> 1169.30] I absorb the pain
[1169.30 --> 1170.20] into myself
[1170.20 --> 1172.58] with God's help
[1172.58 --> 1175.18] and the reason I like
[1175.18 --> 1175.78] the second half
[1175.78 --> 1176.38] of that definition
[1176.38 --> 1177.28] is because it sounds
[1177.28 --> 1178.82] a lot like Jesus to me,
[1179.24 --> 1179.56] right?
[1179.96 --> 1181.72] Jesus takes on our sin,
[1181.82 --> 1182.72] he takes on our offense,
[1182.84 --> 1183.86] he takes on the ways
[1183.86 --> 1184.80] that we rebel against him
[1184.80 --> 1186.34] and takes it in himself,
[1186.82 --> 1187.58] ultimately bringing it
[1187.58 --> 1188.16] to the cross
[1188.16 --> 1189.46] and dealing with it
[1189.46 --> 1190.64] for us
[1190.64 --> 1193.66] and by his grace
[1193.66 --> 1194.32] we learn
[1194.32 --> 1195.82] how to absorb
[1195.82 --> 1197.58] that sin as well
[1197.58 --> 1198.70] and have it transformed.
[1199.22 --> 1200.82] There's a very popular phrase,
[1200.96 --> 1201.52] maybe you've heard it
[1201.52 --> 1202.32] in the counseling world,
[1202.38 --> 1202.72] it says,
[1203.34 --> 1203.94] sin and hurt
[1203.94 --> 1205.38] that is not transformed
[1205.38 --> 1207.28] is transferred.
[1208.12 --> 1208.72] Have you heard that before?
[1209.18 --> 1210.46] Sin that is not transformed
[1210.46 --> 1211.58] is transferred
[1211.58 --> 1212.20] and I think that's
[1212.20 --> 1213.86] a really wise thing,
[1214.00 --> 1214.24] in fact,
[1214.52 --> 1215.46] non-believing counselors
[1215.46 --> 1216.18] talk about this
[1216.18 --> 1217.38] and what they mean by that
[1217.38 --> 1218.42] is if you don't deal
[1218.42 --> 1218.94] with the ways
[1218.94 --> 1219.92] you've been hurt by people,
[1220.54 --> 1222.38] it's gonna hurt other people
[1222.38 --> 1224.10] or maybe a simpler version
[1224.10 --> 1225.22] of this is hurt people,
[1225.64 --> 1226.06] hurt people
[1226.06 --> 1227.82] and that's why sin
[1227.82 --> 1229.80] is so often generational sin.
[1230.32 --> 1230.62] Let me give you
[1230.62 --> 1231.84] two very common examples,
[1231.94 --> 1233.16] a very grudge-holding,
[1233.26 --> 1234.12] vindictive mother
[1234.12 --> 1235.92] often raises children
[1235.92 --> 1237.38] who grow up to be
[1237.38 --> 1238.24] grudge-keeping,
[1238.38 --> 1239.34] vindictive parents
[1239.34 --> 1240.36] or, you know,
[1240.42 --> 1241.26] the stereotypical
[1241.26 --> 1242.78] angry, hot-headed father
[1242.78 --> 1244.18] raises children
[1244.18 --> 1246.00] who often grow up
[1246.00 --> 1246.58] to be angry,
[1246.78 --> 1247.76] hot-headed parents.
[1248.48 --> 1250.02] That's sin
[1250.02 --> 1251.70] that is transferred
[1251.70 --> 1253.86] and what I'm after
[1253.86 --> 1255.00] in this series,
[1255.10 --> 1255.84] what we are after
[1255.84 --> 1256.96] is how do we forgive
[1256.96 --> 1258.34] people from the heart
[1258.34 --> 1260.34] when the wound is real?
[1260.34 --> 1262.12] Like, how do we allow
[1262.12 --> 1263.38] Jesus by his power
[1263.38 --> 1265.16] to allow us the grace
[1265.16 --> 1266.16] to forgive
[1266.16 --> 1267.68] and to not hold the grudge
[1267.68 --> 1268.68] and to release them
[1268.68 --> 1269.20] from vengeance?
[1269.76 --> 1271.14] This is hard work
[1271.14 --> 1274.14] and that is why
[1274.14 --> 1275.20] when Pastor Sid preached
[1275.20 --> 1275.86] last week
[1275.86 --> 1277.10] and he talked about
[1277.10 --> 1277.60] his relationship
[1277.60 --> 1278.28] with his dad,
[1279.02 --> 1280.10] he said this very quickly
[1280.10 --> 1280.90] and I'm gonna tease this out
[1280.90 --> 1281.86] more slowly this Sunday,
[1282.60 --> 1284.68] that it took prayer,
[1284.68 --> 1287.02] it took community
[1287.02 --> 1287.74] and counseling
[1287.74 --> 1289.90] and it took time
[1289.90 --> 1291.44] to forgive.