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TIFU by getting my haircut by a Russian lady
My hair was getting quite long and too long to gel how I like it so I decided to get my locks cut. I go into Fantastic Sam's (probably my first fuck up) to get my hair trimmed so I can go back to looking funky fresh. I go in to be greeted by a Russian lady with the hair of a 14 year old girl who has daddy issues and loves dubstep. This lady was straight up, "carry log on her shoulder", vodka drinking, Russian lady. Picture the stereotype, but with hair that screams she doesn't know how to make decent decisions. After waiting for her to clean up her station, I sit down in the leathery throne where I am cloaked. Now I have pretty short hair, and have gone in there many times, and it normally takes about 15-20 minutes to trim it back to the length I like it. This Russian lady takes about an hour to cut my hair. Now I would have no problem with that if the haircut was decent... but the back looked like someone gave her those scissors that make designs out of the edge of the paper. She removed hair from the sides but not the top, causing me to now look like macklemore, if macklemore had now a botched back and uneven sideburns.
middle aged russian lady tortured my hair like I was in Guantanamo, now I look like a white rapper who raps about being poor
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting my haircut by a Russian lady POST: My hair was getting quite long and too long to gel how I like it so I decided to get my locks cut. I go into Fantastic Sam's (probably my first fuck up) to get my hair trimmed so I can go back to looking funky fresh. I go in to be greeted by a Russian lady with the hair of a 14 year old girl who has daddy issues and loves dubstep. This lady was straight up, "carry log on her shoulder", vodka drinking, Russian lady. Picture the stereotype, but with hair that screams she doesn't know how to make decent decisions. After waiting for her to clean up her station, I sit down in the leathery throne where I am cloaked. Now I have pretty short hair, and have gone in there many times, and it normally takes about 15-20 minutes to trim it back to the length I like it. This Russian lady takes about an hour to cut my hair. Now I would have no problem with that if the haircut was decent... but the back looked like someone gave her those scissors that make designs out of the edge of the paper. She removed hair from the sides but not the top, causing me to now look like macklemore, if macklemore had now a botched back and uneven sideburns. TL;DR:
middle aged russian lady tortured my hair like I was in Guantanamo, now I look like a white rapper who raps about being poor<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting my haircut by a Russian lady POST: My hair was getting quite long and too long to gel how I like it so I decided to get my locks cut. I go into Fantastic Sam's (probably my first fuck up) to get my hair trimmed so I can go back to looking funky fresh. I go in to be greeted by a Russian lady with the hair of a 14 year old girl who has daddy issues and loves dubstep. This lady was straight up, "carry log on her shoulder", vodka drinking, Russian lady. Picture the stereotype, but with hair that screams she doesn't know how to make decent decisions. After waiting for her to clean up her station, I sit down in the leathery throne where I am cloaked. Now I have pretty short hair, and have gone in there many times, and it normally takes about 15-20 minutes to trim it back to the length I like it. This Russian lady takes about an hour to cut my hair. Now I would have no problem with that if the haircut was decent... but the back looked like someone gave her those scissors that make designs out of the edge of the paper. She removed hair from the sides but not the top, causing me to now look like macklemore, if macklemore had now a botched back and uneven sideburns. TL;DR: middle aged russian lady tortured my hair like I was in Guantanamo, now I look like a white rapper who raps about being poor<|endoftext|>
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My First ever girlfriend of 2 months already doesn't love me
Today is our 2 month anniversary, my girlfriend decided to tell me that she is no longer in love with me. She said half of her still loves me and wants us to work but the other half is not in love with me anymore. This completely blindsided me and now I have no idea what to do because its such a confusing place I'm in right now. She lives 3 hours away from me, we've only been going out for 2 months, and I've known her since new years. We met online, and I've seen her 3 times during those 2 months, multiple days on those 2 occasions I stayed with her. I'm pretty sure she has depression, and she also has the rod in her arm so her hormones are changing dramatically and she even told me that. She said she doesn't have a reason why she stopped loving me and she's just as confused as I am. When we were talking about if it was the end of our relationship she said "I guess so" and didn't even bother to fight for us and try to work it out. I'm going to go see her next weekend to try and sort things out and hopefully win her back since I love her with all my heart. She's 17, I'm 18 and I think the main reason she doesn't love me anymore is because we barely see each other, we've never talked on the phone or through skype, only through text.
2 months in a relationship, girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Doesn't have a reason why, she didn't bother to try and work it out but she's sad about the whole thing.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My First ever girlfriend of 2 months already doesn't love me POST: Today is our 2 month anniversary, my girlfriend decided to tell me that she is no longer in love with me. She said half of her still loves me and wants us to work but the other half is not in love with me anymore. This completely blindsided me and now I have no idea what to do because its such a confusing place I'm in right now. She lives 3 hours away from me, we've only been going out for 2 months, and I've known her since new years. We met online, and I've seen her 3 times during those 2 months, multiple days on those 2 occasions I stayed with her. I'm pretty sure she has depression, and she also has the rod in her arm so her hormones are changing dramatically and she even told me that. She said she doesn't have a reason why she stopped loving me and she's just as confused as I am. When we were talking about if it was the end of our relationship she said "I guess so" and didn't even bother to fight for us and try to work it out. I'm going to go see her next weekend to try and sort things out and hopefully win her back since I love her with all my heart. She's 17, I'm 18 and I think the main reason she doesn't love me anymore is because we barely see each other, we've never talked on the phone or through skype, only through text. TL;DR:
2 months in a relationship, girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Doesn't have a reason why, she didn't bother to try and work it out but she's sad about the whole thing.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My First ever girlfriend of 2 months already doesn't love me POST: Today is our 2 month anniversary, my girlfriend decided to tell me that she is no longer in love with me. She said half of her still loves me and wants us to work but the other half is not in love with me anymore. This completely blindsided me and now I have no idea what to do because its such a confusing place I'm in right now. She lives 3 hours away from me, we've only been going out for 2 months, and I've known her since new years. We met online, and I've seen her 3 times during those 2 months, multiple days on those 2 occasions I stayed with her. I'm pretty sure she has depression, and she also has the rod in her arm so her hormones are changing dramatically and she even told me that. She said she doesn't have a reason why she stopped loving me and she's just as confused as I am. When we were talking about if it was the end of our relationship she said "I guess so" and didn't even bother to fight for us and try to work it out. I'm going to go see her next weekend to try and sort things out and hopefully win her back since I love her with all my heart. She's 17, I'm 18 and I think the main reason she doesn't love me anymore is because we barely see each other, we've never talked on the phone or through skype, only through text. TL;DR: 2 months in a relationship, girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Doesn't have a reason why, she didn't bother to try and work it out but she's sad about the whole thing.<|endoftext|>
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Me [27 M/F] with my ex [27 F] - texted her after a week. Please convince me this wasn't a bad idea...
I [posted] earlier in the week about getting blindsided by a breakup last weekend by a girl that I was in love with. She had lots of baggage and I think that if she didn't things would still be going great. All week I've been unable to eat, barely drink water, I wake up at 4 am thinking about her and just lay there until I get up for work, where I am useless (I work from home, so I'm suck by myself 10 feet from where all my memories of her are). All my friends work Friday/weekend hospitality schedules, so tonight I'm stuck by myself and stir crazy. All week I've been running through our relationship in my mind and I'm starting to make sense of it, though whatever I feel about her is pure conjecture. For myself, I realized I was really insecure about my place in her life as she grieved a deceased SO from less than a year earlier and this prevented me from fully supporting her due to me avoiding the topic near the end, when I really should have been acknowledging it. I finally broke down and texted her my feelings and told her why I acted how I did and how I think it affected us and that regretted it. I did not say sorry again and I did not ask for forgiveness or any response, only that it was my fault and I need to say it. Maybe I just needed some closure in telling her what I didn't have the wherewithal to tell her the night she ended it. I can't tell if I feel a weight lifted or if it's just stupid false hope like she might text me back. I don't know. It needed to be said, IMO. At this point unless she responds telling me she wants to get back together, I won't be contacting her again.
After a week agony I texted my ex some things I felt I needed to say to gain some closure. Not sure if it was a good move.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M/F] with my ex [27 F] - texted her after a week. Please convince me this wasn't a bad idea... POST: I [posted] earlier in the week about getting blindsided by a breakup last weekend by a girl that I was in love with. She had lots of baggage and I think that if she didn't things would still be going great. All week I've been unable to eat, barely drink water, I wake up at 4 am thinking about her and just lay there until I get up for work, where I am useless (I work from home, so I'm suck by myself 10 feet from where all my memories of her are). All my friends work Friday/weekend hospitality schedules, so tonight I'm stuck by myself and stir crazy. All week I've been running through our relationship in my mind and I'm starting to make sense of it, though whatever I feel about her is pure conjecture. For myself, I realized I was really insecure about my place in her life as she grieved a deceased SO from less than a year earlier and this prevented me from fully supporting her due to me avoiding the topic near the end, when I really should have been acknowledging it. I finally broke down and texted her my feelings and told her why I acted how I did and how I think it affected us and that regretted it. I did not say sorry again and I did not ask for forgiveness or any response, only that it was my fault and I need to say it. Maybe I just needed some closure in telling her what I didn't have the wherewithal to tell her the night she ended it. I can't tell if I feel a weight lifted or if it's just stupid false hope like she might text me back. I don't know. It needed to be said, IMO. At this point unless she responds telling me she wants to get back together, I won't be contacting her again. TL;DR:
After a week agony I texted my ex some things I felt I needed to say to gain some closure. Not sure if it was a good move.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M/F] with my ex [27 F] - texted her after a week. Please convince me this wasn't a bad idea... POST: I [posted] earlier in the week about getting blindsided by a breakup last weekend by a girl that I was in love with. She had lots of baggage and I think that if she didn't things would still be going great. All week I've been unable to eat, barely drink water, I wake up at 4 am thinking about her and just lay there until I get up for work, where I am useless (I work from home, so I'm suck by myself 10 feet from where all my memories of her are). All my friends work Friday/weekend hospitality schedules, so tonight I'm stuck by myself and stir crazy. All week I've been running through our relationship in my mind and I'm starting to make sense of it, though whatever I feel about her is pure conjecture. For myself, I realized I was really insecure about my place in her life as she grieved a deceased SO from less than a year earlier and this prevented me from fully supporting her due to me avoiding the topic near the end, when I really should have been acknowledging it. I finally broke down and texted her my feelings and told her why I acted how I did and how I think it affected us and that regretted it. I did not say sorry again and I did not ask for forgiveness or any response, only that it was my fault and I need to say it. Maybe I just needed some closure in telling her what I didn't have the wherewithal to tell her the night she ended it. I can't tell if I feel a weight lifted or if it's just stupid false hope like she might text me back. I don't know. It needed to be said, IMO. At this point unless she responds telling me she wants to get back together, I won't be contacting her again. TL;DR: After a week agony I texted my ex some things I felt I needed to say to gain some closure. Not sure if it was a good move.<|endoftext|>
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Stopping loneliness? 21yo F
I'm lonely. Being an introvert I enjoy close relationships with 1 or 2 people. One is currently too ill to feed my neediness. The other I lost in a pseudo-breakup with 22yo male after a year. I feel like I have don't have an outlet for all these things I'd normally share with these kinds of people. The kind of things your other, (still as valued), friends or family wouldn't really be interested in. The kind of crap you just spew at your partner. I have plenty of friends but I'm struggling to not feel alone. This is also on top of getting over someone. I just feel emotionally muted and end up crying every night. How can I make it easier?
Lonely after break-up causing loss of close friendship. Feel like I have no one to talk to. Looking for advice.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Stopping loneliness? 21yo F POST: I'm lonely. Being an introvert I enjoy close relationships with 1 or 2 people. One is currently too ill to feed my neediness. The other I lost in a pseudo-breakup with 22yo male after a year. I feel like I have don't have an outlet for all these things I'd normally share with these kinds of people. The kind of things your other, (still as valued), friends or family wouldn't really be interested in. The kind of crap you just spew at your partner. I have plenty of friends but I'm struggling to not feel alone. This is also on top of getting over someone. I just feel emotionally muted and end up crying every night. How can I make it easier? TL;DR:
Lonely after break-up causing loss of close friendship. Feel like I have no one to talk to. Looking for advice.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Stopping loneliness? 21yo F POST: I'm lonely. Being an introvert I enjoy close relationships with 1 or 2 people. One is currently too ill to feed my neediness. The other I lost in a pseudo-breakup with 22yo male after a year. I feel like I have don't have an outlet for all these things I'd normally share with these kinds of people. The kind of things your other, (still as valued), friends or family wouldn't really be interested in. The kind of crap you just spew at your partner. I have plenty of friends but I'm struggling to not feel alone. This is also on top of getting over someone. I just feel emotionally muted and end up crying every night. How can I make it easier? TL;DR: Lonely after break-up causing loss of close friendship. Feel like I have no one to talk to. Looking for advice.<|endoftext|>
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Me [22F] with my GF [21F] for 2 years, girlfriend in pain over my behaviour. How to make her happy?
Ok, so a little background: Me and my girlfriend met about two years ago through shared friends and started hitting it off with each other and after a while became romantically involved with each other. From that point on we've pretty much been in a steady relationship(although only officially together for a bit over 1 year) Fast forward to now and our "arguments" almost always turn in to me screaming, being violent and saying terrible things, all the while the situation does not really call for it. I carry a lot of frustrations within me, i get very frustrated over minor things she does and takes it out full force on her. Often screaming and hitting things and being violent. My girlfriend says that she still likes me as a person and she still wants to be with me, but she says that her body is disgusted by me and being close to me feels disgusting. So it's a physical feeling of disgust toward me. We both suspect that i have ADD and depression which might lead to my outbursts, i am currently seeing a doctor to get a diagnosis, i am also looking at a lot of self help sites. But what i need to know is how will i make my girlfriend happy and comfortable with me? I really need to know, i don't want to lose my girlfriend, please help me !
Me causing lots of fight and being a bad person has caused my girlfriend a big ammount of pain and i need to know ways i can rebuild our relationship and make her happy.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my GF [21F] for 2 years, girlfriend in pain over my behaviour. How to make her happy? POST: Ok, so a little background: Me and my girlfriend met about two years ago through shared friends and started hitting it off with each other and after a while became romantically involved with each other. From that point on we've pretty much been in a steady relationship(although only officially together for a bit over 1 year) Fast forward to now and our "arguments" almost always turn in to me screaming, being violent and saying terrible things, all the while the situation does not really call for it. I carry a lot of frustrations within me, i get very frustrated over minor things she does and takes it out full force on her. Often screaming and hitting things and being violent. My girlfriend says that she still likes me as a person and she still wants to be with me, but she says that her body is disgusted by me and being close to me feels disgusting. So it's a physical feeling of disgust toward me. We both suspect that i have ADD and depression which might lead to my outbursts, i am currently seeing a doctor to get a diagnosis, i am also looking at a lot of self help sites. But what i need to know is how will i make my girlfriend happy and comfortable with me? I really need to know, i don't want to lose my girlfriend, please help me! TL;DR:
Me causing lots of fight and being a bad person has caused my girlfriend a big ammount of pain and i need to know ways i can rebuild our relationship and make her happy.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my GF [21F] for 2 years, girlfriend in pain over my behaviour. How to make her happy? POST: Ok, so a little background: Me and my girlfriend met about two years ago through shared friends and started hitting it off with each other and after a while became romantically involved with each other. From that point on we've pretty much been in a steady relationship(although only officially together for a bit over 1 year) Fast forward to now and our "arguments" almost always turn in to me screaming, being violent and saying terrible things, all the while the situation does not really call for it. I carry a lot of frustrations within me, i get very frustrated over minor things she does and takes it out full force on her. Often screaming and hitting things and being violent. My girlfriend says that she still likes me as a person and she still wants to be with me, but she says that her body is disgusted by me and being close to me feels disgusting. So it's a physical feeling of disgust toward me. We both suspect that i have ADD and depression which might lead to my outbursts, i am currently seeing a doctor to get a diagnosis, i am also looking at a lot of self help sites. But what i need to know is how will i make my girlfriend happy and comfortable with me? I really need to know, i don't want to lose my girlfriend, please help me! TL;DR: Me causing lots of fight and being a bad person has caused my girlfriend a big ammount of pain and i need to know ways i can rebuild our relationship and make her happy.<|endoftext|>
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My (23F) long distance boyfriend (25M) came to visit me today but I have to do school work. Feeling guilty.
Hi reddit, I just need someone to talk to and possibly get some advice on how to handle this situation. My boyfriend suddenly got up and moved 3 hours away from me earlier this year. Things have been rough, but we have managed to make it through the summer. I go to school full-time taking a highly competitive and demanding program in the Health Sciences and also work almost full-time hours outside of class time to support myself. I generally go to class very early in the morning and work until late at night. Today I came home from work and found a trail of my favourite flowers leading to my bed where he was waiting for me. So sweet and thoughtful! Turns out he had visited one of his friends the night before that lives an hour away from me, so he decided to come see me before he drove back home. He will be staying the night but leave tomorrow. I jumped into bed and we kissed and cuddled for a little while before I told him how much school work I had to do tonight. He was very disappointed and asked if I wanted to have sex before I do school work. Well, I did, but holy eff I am extremely overwhelmed with school work tonight. Unfortunately I can't just have a sexy movie scene where I can just have a hot quickie, it takes a little while to get me going. Besides reviewing lectures, preparing for lectures, and doing quizzes online, I also already have to study for a major test this coming week. That's all I could think about when him and I were laying in bed! So now I am sitting in front of my computer doing all this school work and feel awful because I have disappointed him. From what it looks like I will be doing school work until late into the night and will be getting up for class crazy early again. Probably no time to pay much attention to him, much less have sex. I feel like a terrible girlfriend. I feel very guilty and conflicted. Do I put off the school work and fall behind or do I spend this little time that we get together with him?
Boyfriend that lives 3 hours away came to see me but I don't have time for him because of school. What to do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23F) long distance boyfriend (25M) came to visit me today but I have to do school work. Feeling guilty. POST: Hi reddit, I just need someone to talk to and possibly get some advice on how to handle this situation. My boyfriend suddenly got up and moved 3 hours away from me earlier this year. Things have been rough, but we have managed to make it through the summer. I go to school full-time taking a highly competitive and demanding program in the Health Sciences and also work almost full-time hours outside of class time to support myself. I generally go to class very early in the morning and work until late at night. Today I came home from work and found a trail of my favourite flowers leading to my bed where he was waiting for me. So sweet and thoughtful! Turns out he had visited one of his friends the night before that lives an hour away from me, so he decided to come see me before he drove back home. He will be staying the night but leave tomorrow. I jumped into bed and we kissed and cuddled for a little while before I told him how much school work I had to do tonight. He was very disappointed and asked if I wanted to have sex before I do school work. Well, I did, but holy eff I am extremely overwhelmed with school work tonight. Unfortunately I can't just have a sexy movie scene where I can just have a hot quickie, it takes a little while to get me going. Besides reviewing lectures, preparing for lectures, and doing quizzes online, I also already have to study for a major test this coming week. That's all I could think about when him and I were laying in bed! So now I am sitting in front of my computer doing all this school work and feel awful because I have disappointed him. From what it looks like I will be doing school work until late into the night and will be getting up for class crazy early again. Probably no time to pay much attention to him, much less have sex. I feel like a terrible girlfriend. I feel very guilty and conflicted. Do I put off the school work and fall behind or do I spend this little time that we get together with him? TL;DR:
Boyfriend that lives 3 hours away came to see me but I don't have time for him because of school. What to do? <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23F) long distance boyfriend (25M) came to visit me today but I have to do school work. Feeling guilty. POST: Hi reddit, I just need someone to talk to and possibly get some advice on how to handle this situation. My boyfriend suddenly got up and moved 3 hours away from me earlier this year. Things have been rough, but we have managed to make it through the summer. I go to school full-time taking a highly competitive and demanding program in the Health Sciences and also work almost full-time hours outside of class time to support myself. I generally go to class very early in the morning and work until late at night. Today I came home from work and found a trail of my favourite flowers leading to my bed where he was waiting for me. So sweet and thoughtful! Turns out he had visited one of his friends the night before that lives an hour away from me, so he decided to come see me before he drove back home. He will be staying the night but leave tomorrow. I jumped into bed and we kissed and cuddled for a little while before I told him how much school work I had to do tonight. He was very disappointed and asked if I wanted to have sex before I do school work. Well, I did, but holy eff I am extremely overwhelmed with school work tonight. Unfortunately I can't just have a sexy movie scene where I can just have a hot quickie, it takes a little while to get me going. Besides reviewing lectures, preparing for lectures, and doing quizzes online, I also already have to study for a major test this coming week. That's all I could think about when him and I were laying in bed! So now I am sitting in front of my computer doing all this school work and feel awful because I have disappointed him. From what it looks like I will be doing school work until late into the night and will be getting up for class crazy early again. Probably no time to pay much attention to him, much less have sex. I feel like a terrible girlfriend. I feel very guilty and conflicted. Do I put off the school work and fall behind or do I spend this little time that we get together with him? TL;DR: Boyfriend that lives 3 hours away came to see me but I don't have time for him because of school. What to do? <|endoftext|>
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Need some help/advice.
So here is my story: I have always been overweight since I was a kid and have never been able to lose more than a few pounds (partly due to my thyroid problems). I took up cycling two and a half years ago and finally started losing weight! I lost about 30lbs in the first year or so putting me at 150lb. I spent most of last year (january-september) dieting and exercising everyday but only managed to get down to 142 (my lowest weight since middle school!). I got down to 142 rather quickly but no matter what I did I could not manage to lose any more than that. I finally gave up and have since gained 5 more pounds. I am graduating in May from college and would really like to reach my ultimate goal of 125-130lbs by then. Does anyone have any diet/exercise plans they would be willing to share with me?
I am female, 5'5", 147lbs and only have 4 months to lose 20lbs. Don't know how to do it and need help!
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Need some help/advice. POST: So here is my story: I have always been overweight since I was a kid and have never been able to lose more than a few pounds (partly due to my thyroid problems). I took up cycling two and a half years ago and finally started losing weight! I lost about 30lbs in the first year or so putting me at 150lb. I spent most of last year (january-september) dieting and exercising everyday but only managed to get down to 142 (my lowest weight since middle school!). I got down to 142 rather quickly but no matter what I did I could not manage to lose any more than that. I finally gave up and have since gained 5 more pounds. I am graduating in May from college and would really like to reach my ultimate goal of 125-130lbs by then. Does anyone have any diet/exercise plans they would be willing to share with me? TL;DR:
I am female, 5'5", 147lbs and only have 4 months to lose 20lbs. Don't know how to do it and need help! <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Need some help/advice. POST: So here is my story: I have always been overweight since I was a kid and have never been able to lose more than a few pounds (partly due to my thyroid problems). I took up cycling two and a half years ago and finally started losing weight! I lost about 30lbs in the first year or so putting me at 150lb. I spent most of last year (january-september) dieting and exercising everyday but only managed to get down to 142 (my lowest weight since middle school!). I got down to 142 rather quickly but no matter what I did I could not manage to lose any more than that. I finally gave up and have since gained 5 more pounds. I am graduating in May from college and would really like to reach my ultimate goal of 125-130lbs by then. Does anyone have any diet/exercise plans they would be willing to share with me? TL;DR: I am female, 5'5", 147lbs and only have 4 months to lose 20lbs. Don't know how to do it and need help! <|endoftext|>
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How can we get our 9 month old daughter to sleep longer than 3 hours at night?
Our daughter's schedule is like this. Around 9pm, she gets sleepy and fussy so I breastfeed her so she has some food for the night and she is out cold 30 minutes after feeding. I transfer her over to her crib where she sleeps til about midnight (if not sooner) and wakes up wailing until I get her on the boob. I'm sure putting her right on the boob is going to (and has) conditioned her to expect the boob as soon as she stirs from any little sleep mode she's been in, so we try and pick her up and rock her to sleep with singing. This does work maybe 1 in 10 times and she'll be out again for another hour or two, but for the most part, she will get exponentially more hysterical if she isn't put to the boob. I'm pretty sure she is waking up at night missing the breast and so she cries till she gets it. She doesn't seem to be hungry as she will suck for a minute and fall back to sleep. If we put her down before she is fully asleep, she will immediately wake and cry. She's never had a period where she slept through the whole night like some lucky folks. I've read about getting the baby to sleep on her own, but we never were able to figure out how to do that. We have always had the problem of her getting hysterical if not on the breast so it has gradually gotten to this point of her waking very frequently at night. We have changed her sleeping habits and she does not take naps in the afternoon, though she does sleep in the morning with multiple short naps, until about noon, which seems to be due to sleeping less at night. And just a heads up, we don't believe in the "cry-it-out" methods. I expect her to have a good amount of crying when we are changing her sleeping habits, of course, just not leaving her there to cry it out on her own. Any advice and help is greatly appreciated!
Our daughter won't sleep at night and seems to be addicted to the breast. How do we get her to sleep the whole night?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can we get our 9 month old daughter to sleep longer than 3 hours at night? POST: Our daughter's schedule is like this. Around 9pm, she gets sleepy and fussy so I breastfeed her so she has some food for the night and she is out cold 30 minutes after feeding. I transfer her over to her crib where she sleeps til about midnight (if not sooner) and wakes up wailing until I get her on the boob. I'm sure putting her right on the boob is going to (and has) conditioned her to expect the boob as soon as she stirs from any little sleep mode she's been in, so we try and pick her up and rock her to sleep with singing. This does work maybe 1 in 10 times and she'll be out again for another hour or two, but for the most part, she will get exponentially more hysterical if she isn't put to the boob. I'm pretty sure she is waking up at night missing the breast and so she cries till she gets it. She doesn't seem to be hungry as she will suck for a minute and fall back to sleep. If we put her down before she is fully asleep, she will immediately wake and cry. She's never had a period where she slept through the whole night like some lucky folks. I've read about getting the baby to sleep on her own, but we never were able to figure out how to do that. We have always had the problem of her getting hysterical if not on the breast so it has gradually gotten to this point of her waking very frequently at night. We have changed her sleeping habits and she does not take naps in the afternoon, though she does sleep in the morning with multiple short naps, until about noon, which seems to be due to sleeping less at night. And just a heads up, we don't believe in the "cry-it-out" methods. I expect her to have a good amount of crying when we are changing her sleeping habits, of course, just not leaving her there to cry it out on her own. Any advice and help is greatly appreciated! TL;DR:
Our daughter won't sleep at night and seems to be addicted to the breast. How do we get her to sleep the whole night?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can we get our 9 month old daughter to sleep longer than 3 hours at night? POST: Our daughter's schedule is like this. Around 9pm, she gets sleepy and fussy so I breastfeed her so she has some food for the night and she is out cold 30 minutes after feeding. I transfer her over to her crib where she sleeps til about midnight (if not sooner) and wakes up wailing until I get her on the boob. I'm sure putting her right on the boob is going to (and has) conditioned her to expect the boob as soon as she stirs from any little sleep mode she's been in, so we try and pick her up and rock her to sleep with singing. This does work maybe 1 in 10 times and she'll be out again for another hour or two, but for the most part, she will get exponentially more hysterical if she isn't put to the boob. I'm pretty sure she is waking up at night missing the breast and so she cries till she gets it. She doesn't seem to be hungry as she will suck for a minute and fall back to sleep. If we put her down before she is fully asleep, she will immediately wake and cry. She's never had a period where she slept through the whole night like some lucky folks. I've read about getting the baby to sleep on her own, but we never were able to figure out how to do that. We have always had the problem of her getting hysterical if not on the breast so it has gradually gotten to this point of her waking very frequently at night. We have changed her sleeping habits and she does not take naps in the afternoon, though she does sleep in the morning with multiple short naps, until about noon, which seems to be due to sleeping less at night. And just a heads up, we don't believe in the "cry-it-out" methods. I expect her to have a good amount of crying when we are changing her sleeping habits, of course, just not leaving her there to cry it out on her own. Any advice and help is greatly appreciated! TL;DR: Our daughter won't sleep at night and seems to be addicted to the breast. How do we get her to sleep the whole night?<|endoftext|>
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[20/m] Asking post-relationship advice because my ex [20/f] still wants to hang with me
My post from a week ago: So my girlfriend left me on tuesday night, after having a really rough week, I'm finally starting to get over of this. After my ex has starting to notice that I'm getting over, she has been starting to invite me over but still making clear for me to not get any hope of getting back (yesterday and today). Yesterday I did go over, we had a romantic night, it felt like we were a happy couple. Today I asked her about her not wanting to be with me in a relationship, and she told me that she wants to be independent and alone. She has been in relationships since she was like 13, so I kind of understand what she means. Also a side note, that she has been taking depression and anxiety meds for a rough estimate of 4-5months, and those have changed her. But thing is that I'm really upset that even though she says she wants to be independent and alone, she has now asked me to come over yesterday and today. I'm not having any hopes of getting back, because I've already pretty much internalized that we wont get back together (for now, or forever). I'm not sure if I should go spend time with her, or if I should just be cold and ignore her requests, so she could really see what life is without me. I would definitely love to get back together with her, but somehow feel that filling her loneliness like this does not help the situation at all. She also told me today that she had fun hanging out with me. We did not have sex, because the ssri meds have made her pretty non-sexual, but we kissed and made out many times, and also had a goodbye kiss when she left for work in the morning. (just like a normal couple)
gf left me because she wants to independent, now she has asked me to come over to spend time with her, but still tells me to not bring any hopes of getting back together.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] Asking post-relationship advice because my ex [20/f] still wants to hang with me POST: My post from a week ago: So my girlfriend left me on tuesday night, after having a really rough week, I'm finally starting to get over of this. After my ex has starting to notice that I'm getting over, she has been starting to invite me over but still making clear for me to not get any hope of getting back (yesterday and today). Yesterday I did go over, we had a romantic night, it felt like we were a happy couple. Today I asked her about her not wanting to be with me in a relationship, and she told me that she wants to be independent and alone. She has been in relationships since she was like 13, so I kind of understand what she means. Also a side note, that she has been taking depression and anxiety meds for a rough estimate of 4-5months, and those have changed her. But thing is that I'm really upset that even though she says she wants to be independent and alone, she has now asked me to come over yesterday and today. I'm not having any hopes of getting back, because I've already pretty much internalized that we wont get back together (for now, or forever). I'm not sure if I should go spend time with her, or if I should just be cold and ignore her requests, so she could really see what life is without me. I would definitely love to get back together with her, but somehow feel that filling her loneliness like this does not help the situation at all. She also told me today that she had fun hanging out with me. We did not have sex, because the ssri meds have made her pretty non-sexual, but we kissed and made out many times, and also had a goodbye kiss when she left for work in the morning. (just like a normal couple) TL;DR:
gf left me because she wants to independent, now she has asked me to come over to spend time with her, but still tells me to not bring any hopes of getting back together.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] Asking post-relationship advice because my ex [20/f] still wants to hang with me POST: My post from a week ago: So my girlfriend left me on tuesday night, after having a really rough week, I'm finally starting to get over of this. After my ex has starting to notice that I'm getting over, she has been starting to invite me over but still making clear for me to not get any hope of getting back (yesterday and today). Yesterday I did go over, we had a romantic night, it felt like we were a happy couple. Today I asked her about her not wanting to be with me in a relationship, and she told me that she wants to be independent and alone. She has been in relationships since she was like 13, so I kind of understand what she means. Also a side note, that she has been taking depression and anxiety meds for a rough estimate of 4-5months, and those have changed her. But thing is that I'm really upset that even though she says she wants to be independent and alone, she has now asked me to come over yesterday and today. I'm not having any hopes of getting back, because I've already pretty much internalized that we wont get back together (for now, or forever). I'm not sure if I should go spend time with her, or if I should just be cold and ignore her requests, so she could really see what life is without me. I would definitely love to get back together with her, but somehow feel that filling her loneliness like this does not help the situation at all. She also told me today that she had fun hanging out with me. We did not have sex, because the ssri meds have made her pretty non-sexual, but we kissed and made out many times, and also had a goodbye kiss when she left for work in the morning. (just like a normal couple) TL;DR: gf left me because she wants to independent, now she has asked me to come over to spend time with her, but still tells me to not bring any hopes of getting back together.<|endoftext|>
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[21/m] My Gf [22/f] thinks she has to poke conversations with me every time we are away for a while [2-3 weeks]
So we've been having this problem since the beginning of our relationship (2 years+). She feels that I don't contact her often enough, and that she always has to be the one to contact me. Especially, when we are away from each other. Currently she is travelling, and for the first few days it was fine and then suddenly out of no where she drops the question "Why is it that I have to poke you to keep in touch whenever we are away? How come you don't have the willingness yourself?.......it's hard for me to believe that you can't text me once in two days. Low communication makes me feel ignored and I want to know why I need to tell you to keep in touch?" Now that's her side, I am aware I'm not the best with keeping in touch. Heck my parents complain to me for not calling them often enough (which reminds me I should call them). So I am aware, but with her I especially try to be in touch. But there are these 2-3 days where I just ignore technology and like to be with my self. Maybe my phone battery runs out and I forget to change it, maybe I don't remember to switch the wifi on. I'm not that stuck to my phone. So my point is, that we have arguments over this topic a million times. And I have promised to her at the end of those arguments that I will change, and honestly I am trying to. I understand her pain for when she needs me I am not there. But how do I answer those questions she asked me?
gf thinks she begins every conversation when we are away, asked me why is it so. I have no answer except that's who I am, and I'm trying to change.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] My Gf [22/f] thinks she has to poke conversations with me every time we are away for a while [2-3 weeks] POST: So we've been having this problem since the beginning of our relationship (2 years+). She feels that I don't contact her often enough, and that she always has to be the one to contact me. Especially, when we are away from each other. Currently she is travelling, and for the first few days it was fine and then suddenly out of no where she drops the question "Why is it that I have to poke you to keep in touch whenever we are away? How come you don't have the willingness yourself?.......it's hard for me to believe that you can't text me once in two days. Low communication makes me feel ignored and I want to know why I need to tell you to keep in touch?" Now that's her side, I am aware I'm not the best with keeping in touch. Heck my parents complain to me for not calling them often enough (which reminds me I should call them). So I am aware, but with her I especially try to be in touch. But there are these 2-3 days where I just ignore technology and like to be with my self. Maybe my phone battery runs out and I forget to change it, maybe I don't remember to switch the wifi on. I'm not that stuck to my phone. So my point is, that we have arguments over this topic a million times. And I have promised to her at the end of those arguments that I will change, and honestly I am trying to. I understand her pain for when she needs me I am not there. But how do I answer those questions she asked me? TL;DR:
gf thinks she begins every conversation when we are away, asked me why is it so. I have no answer except that's who I am, and I'm trying to change.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] My Gf [22/f] thinks she has to poke conversations with me every time we are away for a while [2-3 weeks] POST: So we've been having this problem since the beginning of our relationship (2 years+). She feels that I don't contact her often enough, and that she always has to be the one to contact me. Especially, when we are away from each other. Currently she is travelling, and for the first few days it was fine and then suddenly out of no where she drops the question "Why is it that I have to poke you to keep in touch whenever we are away? How come you don't have the willingness yourself?.......it's hard for me to believe that you can't text me once in two days. Low communication makes me feel ignored and I want to know why I need to tell you to keep in touch?" Now that's her side, I am aware I'm not the best with keeping in touch. Heck my parents complain to me for not calling them often enough (which reminds me I should call them). So I am aware, but with her I especially try to be in touch. But there are these 2-3 days where I just ignore technology and like to be with my self. Maybe my phone battery runs out and I forget to change it, maybe I don't remember to switch the wifi on. I'm not that stuck to my phone. So my point is, that we have arguments over this topic a million times. And I have promised to her at the end of those arguments that I will change, and honestly I am trying to. I understand her pain for when she needs me I am not there. But how do I answer those questions she asked me? TL;DR: gf thinks she begins every conversation when we are away, asked me why is it so. I have no answer except that's who I am, and I'm trying to change.<|endoftext|>
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does reddit know of any celebrities that openly oppose sopa/pipa/internet censorship?
my sister was recently subpoenaed for illegally downloading pirated content. the funny thing is, someone hacked into her wireless network and downloaded this. she was accused of downloading a few horrifically titled gay adult films (titled "bareback street gangs" and, if i'm not mistaken, "teen anal sensation). apparently, after doing some research, she found out that this is a huge problem and that these companies create this films with these horrendous titles in order to track the people that download them illegally - and sue. most of the victims of this don't fight against it due to job reasons. let's be honest, who wants their name tied to a federal court case involving "teen anal sensation?" after doing her research, and finding that this is a hugely controversial issue, she decided that she wants to make a feature length mocumentary. she has the connections to major media sources, and can directly contact various sources in order to make this happen... the only problem is finding the celebrities who are advocates of maintaining the internet as we know it. so, my question is, are there any celebrities that publicly oppose the various internet censorship bills that are currently in legislation? if so, who and is there any link to them stating this? thanks reddit, i know you won't let us down!
my sister is being sued/accused of downloading some pretty messed up stuff and she wants to fight back by making a feature length film to expose the assholes who do this. we need celebrities for this.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: does reddit know of any celebrities that openly oppose sopa/pipa/internet censorship? POST: my sister was recently subpoenaed for illegally downloading pirated content. the funny thing is, someone hacked into her wireless network and downloaded this. she was accused of downloading a few horrifically titled gay adult films (titled "bareback street gangs" and, if i'm not mistaken, "teen anal sensation). apparently, after doing some research, she found out that this is a huge problem and that these companies create this films with these horrendous titles in order to track the people that download them illegally - and sue. most of the victims of this don't fight against it due to job reasons. let's be honest, who wants their name tied to a federal court case involving "teen anal sensation?" after doing her research, and finding that this is a hugely controversial issue, she decided that she wants to make a feature length mocumentary. she has the connections to major media sources, and can directly contact various sources in order to make this happen... the only problem is finding the celebrities who are advocates of maintaining the internet as we know it. so, my question is, are there any celebrities that publicly oppose the various internet censorship bills that are currently in legislation? if so, who and is there any link to them stating this? thanks reddit, i know you won't let us down! TL;DR:
my sister is being sued/accused of downloading some pretty messed up stuff and she wants to fight back by making a feature length film to expose the assholes who do this. we need celebrities for this.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: does reddit know of any celebrities that openly oppose sopa/pipa/internet censorship? POST: my sister was recently subpoenaed for illegally downloading pirated content. the funny thing is, someone hacked into her wireless network and downloaded this. she was accused of downloading a few horrifically titled gay adult films (titled "bareback street gangs" and, if i'm not mistaken, "teen anal sensation). apparently, after doing some research, she found out that this is a huge problem and that these companies create this films with these horrendous titles in order to track the people that download them illegally - and sue. most of the victims of this don't fight against it due to job reasons. let's be honest, who wants their name tied to a federal court case involving "teen anal sensation?" after doing her research, and finding that this is a hugely controversial issue, she decided that she wants to make a feature length mocumentary. she has the connections to major media sources, and can directly contact various sources in order to make this happen... the only problem is finding the celebrities who are advocates of maintaining the internet as we know it. so, my question is, are there any celebrities that publicly oppose the various internet censorship bills that are currently in legislation? if so, who and is there any link to them stating this? thanks reddit, i know you won't let us down! TL;DR: my sister is being sued/accused of downloading some pretty messed up stuff and she wants to fight back by making a feature length film to expose the assholes who do this. we need celebrities for this.<|endoftext|>
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Earache due to Infection.
I have a very bad earache (due to an ear infection). I went to the doctor and they gave me hydrocodone for the pain, but I end up barfing everything and its just a horrible medicine to take. I told my doctor this but then she told me to take ibuprofen, or any NSAID. I did, Ibuprofen, acetaminophen, naproxen, and diclofenac. None of them took away the pain tbh. I took half of the dose of hydrocodone yesterday, and it really just took away the pain for like 1 hour and it came back. I have another appointment on Friday, with the doctor, but I just want to have some peace today and tomorrow. **Is there anything else I can take for the pain?** I also was given some eardrops for the pain but not working either. Info: 23/F/USA/Recurring Ear Infections/1Week
I have an Earache that won't go away. I don't want to take Hydrocodone b/c I barf. NSAIDs won't do a thing.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Earache due to Infection. POST: I have a very bad earache (due to an ear infection). I went to the doctor and they gave me hydrocodone for the pain, but I end up barfing everything and its just a horrible medicine to take. I told my doctor this but then she told me to take ibuprofen, or any NSAID. I did, Ibuprofen, acetaminophen, naproxen, and diclofenac. None of them took away the pain tbh. I took half of the dose of hydrocodone yesterday, and it really just took away the pain for like 1 hour and it came back. I have another appointment on Friday, with the doctor, but I just want to have some peace today and tomorrow. **Is there anything else I can take for the pain?** I also was given some eardrops for the pain but not working either. Info: 23/F/USA/Recurring Ear Infections/1Week TL;DR:
I have an Earache that won't go away. I don't want to take Hydrocodone b/c I barf. NSAIDs won't do a thing.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Earache due to Infection. POST: I have a very bad earache (due to an ear infection). I went to the doctor and they gave me hydrocodone for the pain, but I end up barfing everything and its just a horrible medicine to take. I told my doctor this but then she told me to take ibuprofen, or any NSAID. I did, Ibuprofen, acetaminophen, naproxen, and diclofenac. None of them took away the pain tbh. I took half of the dose of hydrocodone yesterday, and it really just took away the pain for like 1 hour and it came back. I have another appointment on Friday, with the doctor, but I just want to have some peace today and tomorrow. **Is there anything else I can take for the pain?** I also was given some eardrops for the pain but not working either. Info: 23/F/USA/Recurring Ear Infections/1Week TL;DR: I have an Earache that won't go away. I don't want to take Hydrocodone b/c I barf. NSAIDs won't do a thing.<|endoftext|>
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I [19M] am in relationship with a [19F] of 3~ months, she wants to make it work even though I have been unfaithful... but I don't
Me and a girl started seeing each other casually, and I said I was not looking for anything exclusive or serious. Over time, we started to develop feelings for each other, but she still was not 100% trustful of me due to me seeing several other women in the early stages of our relationship. Even though we did not try to define our relationship, we established that we were exclusive, and had told each other that we love each other, etc. Not a traditional relationship I guess, but for all intents and purposes, we were together. One weekend soon after, I slept with another girl and immediately regretted it. I confessed to my infidelities, to which she (understandably) did not respond very well. After insulting me and swearing me off completely, I attempted to make things right with her. Over time, she came to fully love me again, and I am still in love with her. However, she still does not trust me. I don't think she ever will. I don't want to miss out on the college experience because I'm trying to convince this girl that I'm not cheating on her. We fight constantly, which she disagrees with and just says we are communicating about our issues. At least once or twice a week, she is left in tears at something that I have done that hurt her, yet she keeps coming back. I'm left with a tough decision - stay in a dysfunctional relationship in which we both love each other very much but with intense emotional strain, or cut things off and move on even though she is fighting hard against that option.
Exclusive with girl, I cheated. I tried to fix things, but am realizing that it's impossible to fix. Stay with the dysfunctional relationship or move on?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] am in relationship with a [19F] of 3~ months, she wants to make it work even though I have been unfaithful... but I don't POST: Me and a girl started seeing each other casually, and I said I was not looking for anything exclusive or serious. Over time, we started to develop feelings for each other, but she still was not 100% trustful of me due to me seeing several other women in the early stages of our relationship. Even though we did not try to define our relationship, we established that we were exclusive, and had told each other that we love each other, etc. Not a traditional relationship I guess, but for all intents and purposes, we were together. One weekend soon after, I slept with another girl and immediately regretted it. I confessed to my infidelities, to which she (understandably) did not respond very well. After insulting me and swearing me off completely, I attempted to make things right with her. Over time, she came to fully love me again, and I am still in love with her. However, she still does not trust me. I don't think she ever will. I don't want to miss out on the college experience because I'm trying to convince this girl that I'm not cheating on her. We fight constantly, which she disagrees with and just says we are communicating about our issues. At least once or twice a week, she is left in tears at something that I have done that hurt her, yet she keeps coming back. I'm left with a tough decision - stay in a dysfunctional relationship in which we both love each other very much but with intense emotional strain, or cut things off and move on even though she is fighting hard against that option. TL;DR:
Exclusive with girl, I cheated. I tried to fix things, but am realizing that it's impossible to fix. Stay with the dysfunctional relationship or move on?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] am in relationship with a [19F] of 3~ months, she wants to make it work even though I have been unfaithful... but I don't POST: Me and a girl started seeing each other casually, and I said I was not looking for anything exclusive or serious. Over time, we started to develop feelings for each other, but she still was not 100% trustful of me due to me seeing several other women in the early stages of our relationship. Even though we did not try to define our relationship, we established that we were exclusive, and had told each other that we love each other, etc. Not a traditional relationship I guess, but for all intents and purposes, we were together. One weekend soon after, I slept with another girl and immediately regretted it. I confessed to my infidelities, to which she (understandably) did not respond very well. After insulting me and swearing me off completely, I attempted to make things right with her. Over time, she came to fully love me again, and I am still in love with her. However, she still does not trust me. I don't think she ever will. I don't want to miss out on the college experience because I'm trying to convince this girl that I'm not cheating on her. We fight constantly, which she disagrees with and just says we are communicating about our issues. At least once or twice a week, she is left in tears at something that I have done that hurt her, yet she keeps coming back. I'm left with a tough decision - stay in a dysfunctional relationship in which we both love each other very much but with intense emotional strain, or cut things off and move on even though she is fighting hard against that option. TL;DR: Exclusive with girl, I cheated. I tried to fix things, but am realizing that it's impossible to fix. Stay with the dysfunctional relationship or move on?<|endoftext|>
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I [20M] went on a dinner with a long-time friend [20F] and not sure if she's interested
I've known this girl for about 10 years since middle school. We are not particularly close and for the last 2 years do not really talk to each other. Let's call her Megan. Both Megan and I go to college in the same city. Two or three weeks ago, she messaged me to go out with her for a dinner, supposedly with another mutual friend of us. To be honest, I was just expecting a reunion between long-time friends. However, when we met up, the third friend did not join our dinner and it was just me and Megan. It was an awkward dinner as we have not seen each other for quite a while but we found a lot of things in common to talk about. Throughout the dinner, I found out that she recently broke up with her boyfriend. From then, she kept hinting that we should get together more often, naming places and restaurants that we should go together. After that, we went back to her place, now that our third friend joined in having completed his commitments of the night. We three talked and caught up with one another. Again, the third friend left early again and it was about 1 or 2 a.m. Only me and Megan left. I stayed there for another half an hour after we watched some videos online. So the thing is I am not sure what is going on here, whether she's interested in me or I'm making all this up in my head. I am afraid that if I make a move on her and she does not feel the same, it would ruin our friendship. We haven't talked since and I kinda want to ask her out for another dinner.
Long-time friend, who recently broke up with her boyfriend, suddenly asked me out for dinner. I'm not sure whether she's interested or if I am being delusional.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] went on a dinner with a long-time friend [20F] and not sure if she's interested POST: I've known this girl for about 10 years since middle school. We are not particularly close and for the last 2 years do not really talk to each other. Let's call her Megan. Both Megan and I go to college in the same city. Two or three weeks ago, she messaged me to go out with her for a dinner, supposedly with another mutual friend of us. To be honest, I was just expecting a reunion between long-time friends. However, when we met up, the third friend did not join our dinner and it was just me and Megan. It was an awkward dinner as we have not seen each other for quite a while but we found a lot of things in common to talk about. Throughout the dinner, I found out that she recently broke up with her boyfriend. From then, she kept hinting that we should get together more often, naming places and restaurants that we should go together. After that, we went back to her place, now that our third friend joined in having completed his commitments of the night. We three talked and caught up with one another. Again, the third friend left early again and it was about 1 or 2 a.m. Only me and Megan left. I stayed there for another half an hour after we watched some videos online. So the thing is I am not sure what is going on here, whether she's interested in me or I'm making all this up in my head. I am afraid that if I make a move on her and she does not feel the same, it would ruin our friendship. We haven't talked since and I kinda want to ask her out for another dinner. TL;DR:
Long-time friend, who recently broke up with her boyfriend, suddenly asked me out for dinner. I'm not sure whether she's interested or if I am being delusional.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] went on a dinner with a long-time friend [20F] and not sure if she's interested POST: I've known this girl for about 10 years since middle school. We are not particularly close and for the last 2 years do not really talk to each other. Let's call her Megan. Both Megan and I go to college in the same city. Two or three weeks ago, she messaged me to go out with her for a dinner, supposedly with another mutual friend of us. To be honest, I was just expecting a reunion between long-time friends. However, when we met up, the third friend did not join our dinner and it was just me and Megan. It was an awkward dinner as we have not seen each other for quite a while but we found a lot of things in common to talk about. Throughout the dinner, I found out that she recently broke up with her boyfriend. From then, she kept hinting that we should get together more often, naming places and restaurants that we should go together. After that, we went back to her place, now that our third friend joined in having completed his commitments of the night. We three talked and caught up with one another. Again, the third friend left early again and it was about 1 or 2 a.m. Only me and Megan left. I stayed there for another half an hour after we watched some videos online. So the thing is I am not sure what is going on here, whether she's interested in me or I'm making all this up in my head. I am afraid that if I make a move on her and she does not feel the same, it would ruin our friendship. We haven't talked since and I kinda want to ask her out for another dinner. TL;DR: Long-time friend, who recently broke up with her boyfriend, suddenly asked me out for dinner. I'm not sure whether she's interested or if I am being delusional.<|endoftext|>
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t3_3j1rr0
Advice
Stuck between learning a skilled trade or continue college. Please Help.
I'm in my second year at Community College and I need help deciding my future. Coming from a low-income family, I never had much of any opportunities growing up. My siblings are virtually useless people, who would rather go to parties and do drugs and never help our parents. Luckily I have always been one to help my family during tough times, as I continue to go to school to better my life. The problem is that I don't know what to do. I want to learn a skilled trade because it has always been a fascination of mine (HVAC, Carpentry, Automotive Repair, Plumbing) something that is both useful and functional. Don't get me wrong, I'm currently working on a mathematics degree. My past intention was to go to a four-year university and get a Bachelor's degree in Mathematics; however, unlike most of my peers that ignore the current trends of higher education, it is getting more and more expensive to get a bachelors degree, and I know that the trades are highly underrated. The problem is that I am the first person in my family to go to college, and with a viable chance of earning a Bachelor's. I feel that my family wants to make an example of me, in which I am some sort of beacon of hope, and if I diverge on my current path and go learn a trade, it would be a slap in the face to all of my friends and mentors, as well as being seen as a waste of potential. So here I am on Reddit seeking the infinite wisdom of my fellow redditors. Please help.
Smart first-generation college student from a poor family. Likes building stuff and learning technical skills, friends and family thinks I am wasting potential. I am lost and don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Stuck between learning a skilled trade or continue college. Please Help. POST: I'm in my second year at Community College and I need help deciding my future. Coming from a low-income family, I never had much of any opportunities growing up. My siblings are virtually useless people, who would rather go to parties and do drugs and never help our parents. Luckily I have always been one to help my family during tough times, as I continue to go to school to better my life. The problem is that I don't know what to do. I want to learn a skilled trade because it has always been a fascination of mine (HVAC, Carpentry, Automotive Repair, Plumbing) something that is both useful and functional. Don't get me wrong, I'm currently working on a mathematics degree. My past intention was to go to a four-year university and get a Bachelor's degree in Mathematics; however, unlike most of my peers that ignore the current trends of higher education, it is getting more and more expensive to get a bachelors degree, and I know that the trades are highly underrated. The problem is that I am the first person in my family to go to college, and with a viable chance of earning a Bachelor's. I feel that my family wants to make an example of me, in which I am some sort of beacon of hope, and if I diverge on my current path and go learn a trade, it would be a slap in the face to all of my friends and mentors, as well as being seen as a waste of potential. So here I am on Reddit seeking the infinite wisdom of my fellow redditors. Please help. TL;DR:
Smart first-generation college student from a poor family. Likes building stuff and learning technical skills, friends and family thinks I am wasting potential. I am lost and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Stuck between learning a skilled trade or continue college. Please Help. POST: I'm in my second year at Community College and I need help deciding my future. Coming from a low-income family, I never had much of any opportunities growing up. My siblings are virtually useless people, who would rather go to parties and do drugs and never help our parents. Luckily I have always been one to help my family during tough times, as I continue to go to school to better my life. The problem is that I don't know what to do. I want to learn a skilled trade because it has always been a fascination of mine (HVAC, Carpentry, Automotive Repair, Plumbing) something that is both useful and functional. Don't get me wrong, I'm currently working on a mathematics degree. My past intention was to go to a four-year university and get a Bachelor's degree in Mathematics; however, unlike most of my peers that ignore the current trends of higher education, it is getting more and more expensive to get a bachelors degree, and I know that the trades are highly underrated. The problem is that I am the first person in my family to go to college, and with a viable chance of earning a Bachelor's. I feel that my family wants to make an example of me, in which I am some sort of beacon of hope, and if I diverge on my current path and go learn a trade, it would be a slap in the face to all of my friends and mentors, as well as being seen as a waste of potential. So here I am on Reddit seeking the infinite wisdom of my fellow redditors. Please help. TL;DR: Smart first-generation college student from a poor family. Likes building stuff and learning technical skills, friends and family thinks I am wasting potential. I am lost and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Me [19 M] with my GF [20 F] 6 months, Am I overthinking?
Background: Im currently at college 5 hours away, she goes to a community college. we were friends for about 6 months before. We are religious but not freaks you know? We were talking about whether she she should join a sorority. She was super excited and said after she gets her associate's degree she is transferring to a 4 year University. I obviously agreed, it's a great idea. Then she brought up that in the spring she wanted to join a sorority. Here's were im a little hesitant. Im supportive of her decisions but I also know how sorority's are ( at least for my school) There are parties occasionally, a lot of extra curricular activities that take up a lot of time. That being said, i told her that it's a lot of work (she is already super busy and suffers from anxiety regularly) and that it could be overwhelming. and im not sure if i would be comfortable with her going to parties, socials, formals, etc. anything with alcohol really (she has a history of easily succumbing to peer pressure). She gets super defensive and tells me that i haven't said anything positive about it and im not seeing her point. I DO see her point (its good to make friends, life experiences, etc.) It's just that she refuses to see the cons. She says i just dont want her to forget about me (true, but its not the only reason) Also, she says that im not supporting her decisions, and that i dont care. Which is completely NOT true. I guess my question is; Am i wrong to be the voice of reason? or Should i just let her make her decisions and support no matter what? It hurts my heart to hear her say that i dont care about her decisions please help!
She wants to join a sorority and presents only Pros, I offer some Cons; She says i dont care about her wishes...Am i wrong and overthinking?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [20 F] 6 months, Am I overthinking? POST: Background: Im currently at college 5 hours away, she goes to a community college. we were friends for about 6 months before. We are religious but not freaks you know? We were talking about whether she she should join a sorority. She was super excited and said after she gets her associate's degree she is transferring to a 4 year University. I obviously agreed, it's a great idea. Then she brought up that in the spring she wanted to join a sorority. Here's were im a little hesitant. Im supportive of her decisions but I also know how sorority's are ( at least for my school) There are parties occasionally, a lot of extra curricular activities that take up a lot of time. That being said, i told her that it's a lot of work (she is already super busy and suffers from anxiety regularly) and that it could be overwhelming. and im not sure if i would be comfortable with her going to parties, socials, formals, etc. anything with alcohol really (she has a history of easily succumbing to peer pressure). She gets super defensive and tells me that i haven't said anything positive about it and im not seeing her point. I DO see her point (its good to make friends, life experiences, etc.) It's just that she refuses to see the cons. She says i just dont want her to forget about me (true, but its not the only reason) Also, she says that im not supporting her decisions, and that i dont care. Which is completely NOT true. I guess my question is; Am i wrong to be the voice of reason? or Should i just let her make her decisions and support no matter what? It hurts my heart to hear her say that i dont care about her decisions please help! TL;DR:
She wants to join a sorority and presents only Pros, I offer some Cons; She says i dont care about her wishes...Am i wrong and overthinking?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [20 F] 6 months, Am I overthinking? POST: Background: Im currently at college 5 hours away, she goes to a community college. we were friends for about 6 months before. We are religious but not freaks you know? We were talking about whether she she should join a sorority. She was super excited and said after she gets her associate's degree she is transferring to a 4 year University. I obviously agreed, it's a great idea. Then she brought up that in the spring she wanted to join a sorority. Here's were im a little hesitant. Im supportive of her decisions but I also know how sorority's are ( at least for my school) There are parties occasionally, a lot of extra curricular activities that take up a lot of time. That being said, i told her that it's a lot of work (she is already super busy and suffers from anxiety regularly) and that it could be overwhelming. and im not sure if i would be comfortable with her going to parties, socials, formals, etc. anything with alcohol really (she has a history of easily succumbing to peer pressure). She gets super defensive and tells me that i haven't said anything positive about it and im not seeing her point. I DO see her point (its good to make friends, life experiences, etc.) It's just that she refuses to see the cons. She says i just dont want her to forget about me (true, but its not the only reason) Also, she says that im not supporting her decisions, and that i dont care. Which is completely NOT true. I guess my question is; Am i wrong to be the voice of reason? or Should i just let her make her decisions and support no matter what? It hurts my heart to hear her say that i dont care about her decisions please help! TL;DR: She wants to join a sorority and presents only Pros, I offer some Cons; She says i dont care about her wishes...Am i wrong and overthinking?<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by condemning my best friend's life choices
(Throwaway, obviously) Backstory: I'm 30 and living the other side of the world from "home". Acquaintances are many, friends are few. I've been spending more and more time with M, one of the most wonderful people I've ever met. M is single, gay and plans to raise children by herself in the near future. Having already been invited to spend Xmas with M and her family, on Saturday I went to a party held by one of M's friends. I drank all day, she was driving and so did not. On the drive home (and I had to be reminded of this after the event), the conversation turned to M's plans for children and I mentioned my reservations about this being the best way to go about starting a family. Here's the thing: the way I said it is not my opinion at all. At best, I would want her to think about things carefully, and would suggest that having a solid partner/career first might be the best way forward. But I'm absolutely on board with her decision (she's a super-intelligent woman and I trust her explicitly). Apparently, the way I phrased it included words like "unconventional" and "a bad idea", and I came across like a narrow-minded tool. Now, this isn't about the politics or rights and wrongs of her decision. I'm now in the situation where, despite her being patient with me, I'm uninvited from Xmas as she doesn't want me causing a scene like that around her family. She's one of my only friends in the world, and I've alienated her to the point where she thinks what I said at that time was "the real me" and the rest of the time I've been holding back. So yeah, sorry this isn't a story about sending an email to the wrong person by mistake or pooping myself in public. It's just a cathartic means of dealing with what I have to live with; an incredibly important friendship, now held together by a thread because of a conversation I don't even remember having, and don't agree with.
I got drunk, I said things I don't remember and don't mean, my best friend now sees me totally differently.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by condemning my best friend's life choices POST: (Throwaway, obviously) Backstory: I'm 30 and living the other side of the world from "home". Acquaintances are many, friends are few. I've been spending more and more time with M, one of the most wonderful people I've ever met. M is single, gay and plans to raise children by herself in the near future. Having already been invited to spend Xmas with M and her family, on Saturday I went to a party held by one of M's friends. I drank all day, she was driving and so did not. On the drive home (and I had to be reminded of this after the event), the conversation turned to M's plans for children and I mentioned my reservations about this being the best way to go about starting a family. Here's the thing: the way I said it is not my opinion at all. At best, I would want her to think about things carefully, and would suggest that having a solid partner/career first might be the best way forward. But I'm absolutely on board with her decision (she's a super-intelligent woman and I trust her explicitly). Apparently, the way I phrased it included words like "unconventional" and "a bad idea", and I came across like a narrow-minded tool. Now, this isn't about the politics or rights and wrongs of her decision. I'm now in the situation where, despite her being patient with me, I'm uninvited from Xmas as she doesn't want me causing a scene like that around her family. She's one of my only friends in the world, and I've alienated her to the point where she thinks what I said at that time was "the real me" and the rest of the time I've been holding back. So yeah, sorry this isn't a story about sending an email to the wrong person by mistake or pooping myself in public. It's just a cathartic means of dealing with what I have to live with; an incredibly important friendship, now held together by a thread because of a conversation I don't even remember having, and don't agree with. TL;DR:
I got drunk, I said things I don't remember and don't mean, my best friend now sees me totally differently.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by condemning my best friend's life choices POST: (Throwaway, obviously) Backstory: I'm 30 and living the other side of the world from "home". Acquaintances are many, friends are few. I've been spending more and more time with M, one of the most wonderful people I've ever met. M is single, gay and plans to raise children by herself in the near future. Having already been invited to spend Xmas with M and her family, on Saturday I went to a party held by one of M's friends. I drank all day, she was driving and so did not. On the drive home (and I had to be reminded of this after the event), the conversation turned to M's plans for children and I mentioned my reservations about this being the best way to go about starting a family. Here's the thing: the way I said it is not my opinion at all. At best, I would want her to think about things carefully, and would suggest that having a solid partner/career first might be the best way forward. But I'm absolutely on board with her decision (she's a super-intelligent woman and I trust her explicitly). Apparently, the way I phrased it included words like "unconventional" and "a bad idea", and I came across like a narrow-minded tool. Now, this isn't about the politics or rights and wrongs of her decision. I'm now in the situation where, despite her being patient with me, I'm uninvited from Xmas as she doesn't want me causing a scene like that around her family. She's one of my only friends in the world, and I've alienated her to the point where she thinks what I said at that time was "the real me" and the rest of the time I've been holding back. So yeah, sorry this isn't a story about sending an email to the wrong person by mistake or pooping myself in public. It's just a cathartic means of dealing with what I have to live with; an incredibly important friendship, now held together by a thread because of a conversation I don't even remember having, and don't agree with. TL;DR: I got drunk, I said things I don't remember and don't mean, my best friend now sees me totally differently.<|endoftext|>
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I owe a lot of money and would appreciate any advice to fix that.
This time last year I took out a loan for AU$25k in order to pay for travelling the world for a year and generally to have a wild time without worrying about money. The time has come for me to return home and start earning cold hard cash again with a 9-5 job. I owe roughly AU$19k at the moment and I'm looking to pay it off as quickly as possible. I'm going to be working from January onward and I see no reason I couldn't simply make the required payments for the next few years and pay it off the normal way but I'd really like to knock it out quickly. To that end, I'd appreciate any advice anyone has on ways to save money quickly or some smart investments I should make that would see large returns quickly. I'm very bad with money (as you may have guessed) and so I turn to those with experience and wisdom to impart. Teach me the ways of the financially responsible so that I might pay my debt early and still afford to buy beer and noodles and maybe one of those new xbox's sometime next year.
I suck with money and I want to make 20k as fast as possible without dealing drugs (unless you know someone?), help me out in exchange for cookies and kind thoughts.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I owe a lot of money and would appreciate any advice to fix that. POST: This time last year I took out a loan for AU$25k in order to pay for travelling the world for a year and generally to have a wild time without worrying about money. The time has come for me to return home and start earning cold hard cash again with a 9-5 job. I owe roughly AU$19k at the moment and I'm looking to pay it off as quickly as possible. I'm going to be working from January onward and I see no reason I couldn't simply make the required payments for the next few years and pay it off the normal way but I'd really like to knock it out quickly. To that end, I'd appreciate any advice anyone has on ways to save money quickly or some smart investments I should make that would see large returns quickly. I'm very bad with money (as you may have guessed) and so I turn to those with experience and wisdom to impart. Teach me the ways of the financially responsible so that I might pay my debt early and still afford to buy beer and noodles and maybe one of those new xbox's sometime next year. TL;DR:
I suck with money and I want to make 20k as fast as possible without dealing drugs (unless you know someone?), help me out in exchange for cookies and kind thoughts.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I owe a lot of money and would appreciate any advice to fix that. POST: This time last year I took out a loan for AU$25k in order to pay for travelling the world for a year and generally to have a wild time without worrying about money. The time has come for me to return home and start earning cold hard cash again with a 9-5 job. I owe roughly AU$19k at the moment and I'm looking to pay it off as quickly as possible. I'm going to be working from January onward and I see no reason I couldn't simply make the required payments for the next few years and pay it off the normal way but I'd really like to knock it out quickly. To that end, I'd appreciate any advice anyone has on ways to save money quickly or some smart investments I should make that would see large returns quickly. I'm very bad with money (as you may have guessed) and so I turn to those with experience and wisdom to impart. Teach me the ways of the financially responsible so that I might pay my debt early and still afford to buy beer and noodles and maybe one of those new xbox's sometime next year. TL;DR: I suck with money and I want to make 20k as fast as possible without dealing drugs (unless you know someone?), help me out in exchange for cookies and kind thoughts.<|endoftext|>
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t3_4wgo0z
dating_advice
Confused
I met a girl, maybe 2 months. Met her at a bar. Both of us were very drunk and ended up having quickie in a bathroom (I know...grimy. Passion and not having anyone else to go were leading factors). Got her number and we were talking little bits from there. She's in her mid 30s, I'm in my early 20s so this is new to me. Hasn't had a boyfriend-type (cause I'm not boyfriend) in 6 years due to her busy-ness. Both us are very busy (caught her on like the only night she found time to go out, so luck there!) and live about an hour away from each other. She's on vacation now, though. I've seen her in person two times since that first interaction, one of the times we had sex again (fucking incredible chemistry in that territory). Most interaction is through text and photo. Here's where I get confused. When we chat (usually via text; seldom phone call), we'll be chatting for a little bit and then she'll hit me with that radio silence. Normally I wouldn't give a shit, but it makes me question whether she's really interested. When this happens and I wait a few days to message her again (seldom does she first initiate), she'll say shit like "what happen to you? why I no hear from you?" or whatever and then talk about how much she misses me. Last weekend, she actually called me very late talking about how when she thinks of me with other girls (even though we're not in anything monogamous), she gets very jealous. Then as our conversation went on, she said we should talk on the phone more if I have time. I'm like "sure. you're fun to talk to". Trying to initiate this more hasn't worked out really, mainly due to her inconsistent phone usage (again, will randomly stop responding in mid conversation or just not respond and most of the time won't initiate until I do so).
Talking to a girl who seems into me. Sex is great, awesome communication when we do chat. But she has a habit of no response to texts or just randomly stop texting mid convo.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Confused POST: I met a girl, maybe 2 months. Met her at a bar. Both of us were very drunk and ended up having quickie in a bathroom (I know...grimy. Passion and not having anyone else to go were leading factors). Got her number and we were talking little bits from there. She's in her mid 30s, I'm in my early 20s so this is new to me. Hasn't had a boyfriend-type (cause I'm not boyfriend) in 6 years due to her busy-ness. Both us are very busy (caught her on like the only night she found time to go out, so luck there!) and live about an hour away from each other. She's on vacation now, though. I've seen her in person two times since that first interaction, one of the times we had sex again (fucking incredible chemistry in that territory). Most interaction is through text and photo. Here's where I get confused. When we chat (usually via text; seldom phone call), we'll be chatting for a little bit and then she'll hit me with that radio silence. Normally I wouldn't give a shit, but it makes me question whether she's really interested. When this happens and I wait a few days to message her again (seldom does she first initiate), she'll say shit like "what happen to you? why I no hear from you?" or whatever and then talk about how much she misses me. Last weekend, she actually called me very late talking about how when she thinks of me with other girls (even though we're not in anything monogamous), she gets very jealous. Then as our conversation went on, she said we should talk on the phone more if I have time. I'm like "sure. you're fun to talk to". Trying to initiate this more hasn't worked out really, mainly due to her inconsistent phone usage (again, will randomly stop responding in mid conversation or just not respond and most of the time won't initiate until I do so). TL;DR:
Talking to a girl who seems into me. Sex is great, awesome communication when we do chat. But she has a habit of no response to texts or just randomly stop texting mid convo.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Confused POST: I met a girl, maybe 2 months. Met her at a bar. Both of us were very drunk and ended up having quickie in a bathroom (I know...grimy. Passion and not having anyone else to go were leading factors). Got her number and we were talking little bits from there. She's in her mid 30s, I'm in my early 20s so this is new to me. Hasn't had a boyfriend-type (cause I'm not boyfriend) in 6 years due to her busy-ness. Both us are very busy (caught her on like the only night she found time to go out, so luck there!) and live about an hour away from each other. She's on vacation now, though. I've seen her in person two times since that first interaction, one of the times we had sex again (fucking incredible chemistry in that territory). Most interaction is through text and photo. Here's where I get confused. When we chat (usually via text; seldom phone call), we'll be chatting for a little bit and then she'll hit me with that radio silence. Normally I wouldn't give a shit, but it makes me question whether she's really interested. When this happens and I wait a few days to message her again (seldom does she first initiate), she'll say shit like "what happen to you? why I no hear from you?" or whatever and then talk about how much she misses me. Last weekend, she actually called me very late talking about how when she thinks of me with other girls (even though we're not in anything monogamous), she gets very jealous. Then as our conversation went on, she said we should talk on the phone more if I have time. I'm like "sure. you're fun to talk to". Trying to initiate this more hasn't worked out really, mainly due to her inconsistent phone usage (again, will randomly stop responding in mid conversation or just not respond and most of the time won't initiate until I do so). TL;DR: Talking to a girl who seems into me. Sex is great, awesome communication when we do chat. But she has a habit of no response to texts or just randomly stop texting mid convo.<|endoftext|>
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[Relationship/Personal Issue] I'm [22/F] am kinda heart broken at the moment. My boyfriend [26/M] won't spend my birthday with me. More in the extended.
So I asked my boyfriend to take the day off which is a month from now. He said no but within the same month he was gonna take a week off to go out of town with me but I had to cancel it before he could ever request those days off. I don't see why he wouldn't take off for it but for some reason he won't. I tried talking him into it but he called me a bad influence for trying to get him to take the day off. This is the first I've ever been actually unhappy about something in our relationship. I never really cared about birthdays because I've never had a good one. I've always been alone for them but I guess I got my hopes up thinking it might be different this year. I'd tell him this but I don't want him to take off out of pity. I'd rather be alone and heartbroken. Just kinda needed to get this off my chest I guess.
Boyfriend doesn't wanna take off a day of work to spend my birthday with me but was willing to take a week off for a trip that had to be cancelled.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Relationship/Personal Issue] I'm [22/F] am kinda heart broken at the moment. My boyfriend [26/M] won't spend my birthday with me. More in the extended. POST: So I asked my boyfriend to take the day off which is a month from now. He said no but within the same month he was gonna take a week off to go out of town with me but I had to cancel it before he could ever request those days off. I don't see why he wouldn't take off for it but for some reason he won't. I tried talking him into it but he called me a bad influence for trying to get him to take the day off. This is the first I've ever been actually unhappy about something in our relationship. I never really cared about birthdays because I've never had a good one. I've always been alone for them but I guess I got my hopes up thinking it might be different this year. I'd tell him this but I don't want him to take off out of pity. I'd rather be alone and heartbroken. Just kinda needed to get this off my chest I guess. TL;DR:
Boyfriend doesn't wanna take off a day of work to spend my birthday with me but was willing to take a week off for a trip that had to be cancelled.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Relationship/Personal Issue] I'm [22/F] am kinda heart broken at the moment. My boyfriend [26/M] won't spend my birthday with me. More in the extended. POST: So I asked my boyfriend to take the day off which is a month from now. He said no but within the same month he was gonna take a week off to go out of town with me but I had to cancel it before he could ever request those days off. I don't see why he wouldn't take off for it but for some reason he won't. I tried talking him into it but he called me a bad influence for trying to get him to take the day off. This is the first I've ever been actually unhappy about something in our relationship. I never really cared about birthdays because I've never had a good one. I've always been alone for them but I guess I got my hopes up thinking it might be different this year. I'd tell him this but I don't want him to take off out of pity. I'd rather be alone and heartbroken. Just kinda needed to get this off my chest I guess. TL;DR: Boyfriend doesn't wanna take off a day of work to spend my birthday with me but was willing to take a week off for a trip that had to be cancelled.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU, cuz my pc (GPU) caught fire!
Heyy guys, Storytime ;) 2 days ago my PC randomly shuts, i ask my brother (whos sitting next to me) why the fuck did u shut down my pc? his response: I've done nothing. so i start my pc again and see my fans start working no screen tho. then i notice a flame coming out of my graphics card!(msi twin frozr gtx 770) i freaked out and started pulling out all of the wires of my pc! (luckily ive done this otherwise my whole pc died) so i've concluded now my gpu died. So went back to the store where i bought the gpu and got a sweet ass deal to upgrade for 100 euro to a msi gtx 970! nice service :)
GPU caught fire, freaked out, went back to the store were i bought it from and got a nice cheap upgrade :)
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU, cuz my pc (GPU) caught fire! POST: Heyy guys, Storytime ;) 2 days ago my PC randomly shuts, i ask my brother (whos sitting next to me) why the fuck did u shut down my pc? his response: I've done nothing. so i start my pc again and see my fans start working no screen tho. then i notice a flame coming out of my graphics card!(msi twin frozr gtx 770) i freaked out and started pulling out all of the wires of my pc! (luckily ive done this otherwise my whole pc died) so i've concluded now my gpu died. So went back to the store where i bought the gpu and got a sweet ass deal to upgrade for 100 euro to a msi gtx 970! nice service :) TL;DR:
GPU caught fire, freaked out, went back to the store were i bought it from and got a nice cheap upgrade :)<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU, cuz my pc (GPU) caught fire! POST: Heyy guys, Storytime ;) 2 days ago my PC randomly shuts, i ask my brother (whos sitting next to me) why the fuck did u shut down my pc? his response: I've done nothing. so i start my pc again and see my fans start working no screen tho. then i notice a flame coming out of my graphics card!(msi twin frozr gtx 770) i freaked out and started pulling out all of the wires of my pc! (luckily ive done this otherwise my whole pc died) so i've concluded now my gpu died. So went back to the store where i bought the gpu and got a sweet ass deal to upgrade for 100 euro to a msi gtx 970! nice service :) TL;DR: GPU caught fire, freaked out, went back to the store were i bought it from and got a nice cheap upgrade :)<|endoftext|>
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I [22F] am moving in with my boyfriend [24M] of 2.5 years and I don't know how to tell my catholic mother.
My boyfriend and I are financially independent and plan on moving in together. I am starting a Master's in Physics halfway across the country (Canada) and he is getting transferred here. We are ready and the timing is right. There is just one issue. I am worried about how to explain this to my very catholic mother. I know she will be *devastated*. (If you aren't familiar with catholic teaching on 'living in sin', check [this] out.) Keeping this from her has been very hard as I lived at home before I left, and she still feels very close to me and texts me everyday. The catholic church has ruined so much for me, but I want to respect her beliefs when I talk to her. So how can I ease the blow? Is it better to tell her in person when I visit or from a distance? Before or after he moves in? How should we word it?
Just moved away from home and don't know how to tell my fanatically catholic mother that my boyfriend and I will be living together
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] am moving in with my boyfriend [24M] of 2.5 years and I don't know how to tell my catholic mother. POST: My boyfriend and I are financially independent and plan on moving in together. I am starting a Master's in Physics halfway across the country (Canada) and he is getting transferred here. We are ready and the timing is right. There is just one issue. I am worried about how to explain this to my very catholic mother. I know she will be *devastated*. (If you aren't familiar with catholic teaching on 'living in sin', check [this] out.) Keeping this from her has been very hard as I lived at home before I left, and she still feels very close to me and texts me everyday. The catholic church has ruined so much for me, but I want to respect her beliefs when I talk to her. So how can I ease the blow? Is it better to tell her in person when I visit or from a distance? Before or after he moves in? How should we word it? TL;DR:
Just moved away from home and don't know how to tell my fanatically catholic mother that my boyfriend and I will be living together<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] am moving in with my boyfriend [24M] of 2.5 years and I don't know how to tell my catholic mother. POST: My boyfriend and I are financially independent and plan on moving in together. I am starting a Master's in Physics halfway across the country (Canada) and he is getting transferred here. We are ready and the timing is right. There is just one issue. I am worried about how to explain this to my very catholic mother. I know she will be *devastated*. (If you aren't familiar with catholic teaching on 'living in sin', check [this] out.) Keeping this from her has been very hard as I lived at home before I left, and she still feels very close to me and texts me everyday. The catholic church has ruined so much for me, but I want to respect her beliefs when I talk to her. So how can I ease the blow? Is it better to tell her in person when I visit or from a distance? Before or after he moves in? How should we word it? TL;DR: Just moved away from home and don't know how to tell my fanatically catholic mother that my boyfriend and I will be living together<|endoftext|>
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My [25 M] past two relationships [25 F] lasted for a month, and ended very similarly. Should I have done something different?
Back in November, I was really hitting it off with a girl I had initially met on Tinder. After about five weeks, it abruptly ended after her grandmother passed away. She said she was already feeling overwhelmed and stressed, and now she had to deal with family stuff as well. There wasn't any discussion of going on break, or saying we would meet up again when she figured things out, it was a pure breakup which ended very calmly. In March, I found myself in a very similar situation. I was a rebound for a friend of a friend. Things were going well, and then about a month into our relationship, she said she needed some time to be single to "sort things out". I figured that was perfectly reasonable, so we stopped talking, but promised to stay friends. About a week later, she was back with her ex. The last time we talked on the phone, she said I "should have fought harder for her". Obviously there are added details (which I'd be more than happy to share), but I'm mostly thinking about the parallels between these two break-ups. In both cases, I was extremely laid-back while getting dumped because I could not think of any better action to take. Obviously, in a more serious relationship, both people would work hard to understand the other person's needs and make things work, but it seems obsessive to be making demands after the first month. Or maybe that's just a very Nice-Guy, White Knight way of looking at these situations. I've always had a "if you love someone, set them free" mentality about this kind of stuff, but given my track record, I'm starting to have some doubts. Even then, I have no idea how I could have approached those two situations differently. Thoughts?
I think I am too passive when my relationships hit their first bump, and need a better approach when the word "break-up" is first suggested, even in a non-serious relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25 M] past two relationships [25 F] lasted for a month, and ended very similarly. Should I have done something different? POST: Back in November, I was really hitting it off with a girl I had initially met on Tinder. After about five weeks, it abruptly ended after her grandmother passed away. She said she was already feeling overwhelmed and stressed, and now she had to deal with family stuff as well. There wasn't any discussion of going on break, or saying we would meet up again when she figured things out, it was a pure breakup which ended very calmly. In March, I found myself in a very similar situation. I was a rebound for a friend of a friend. Things were going well, and then about a month into our relationship, she said she needed some time to be single to "sort things out". I figured that was perfectly reasonable, so we stopped talking, but promised to stay friends. About a week later, she was back with her ex. The last time we talked on the phone, she said I "should have fought harder for her". Obviously there are added details (which I'd be more than happy to share), but I'm mostly thinking about the parallels between these two break-ups. In both cases, I was extremely laid-back while getting dumped because I could not think of any better action to take. Obviously, in a more serious relationship, both people would work hard to understand the other person's needs and make things work, but it seems obsessive to be making demands after the first month. Or maybe that's just a very Nice-Guy, White Knight way of looking at these situations. I've always had a "if you love someone, set them free" mentality about this kind of stuff, but given my track record, I'm starting to have some doubts. Even then, I have no idea how I could have approached those two situations differently. Thoughts? TL;DR:
I think I am too passive when my relationships hit their first bump, and need a better approach when the word "break-up" is first suggested, even in a non-serious relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25 M] past two relationships [25 F] lasted for a month, and ended very similarly. Should I have done something different? POST: Back in November, I was really hitting it off with a girl I had initially met on Tinder. After about five weeks, it abruptly ended after her grandmother passed away. She said she was already feeling overwhelmed and stressed, and now she had to deal with family stuff as well. There wasn't any discussion of going on break, or saying we would meet up again when she figured things out, it was a pure breakup which ended very calmly. In March, I found myself in a very similar situation. I was a rebound for a friend of a friend. Things were going well, and then about a month into our relationship, she said she needed some time to be single to "sort things out". I figured that was perfectly reasonable, so we stopped talking, but promised to stay friends. About a week later, she was back with her ex. The last time we talked on the phone, she said I "should have fought harder for her". Obviously there are added details (which I'd be more than happy to share), but I'm mostly thinking about the parallels between these two break-ups. In both cases, I was extremely laid-back while getting dumped because I could not think of any better action to take. Obviously, in a more serious relationship, both people would work hard to understand the other person's needs and make things work, but it seems obsessive to be making demands after the first month. Or maybe that's just a very Nice-Guy, White Knight way of looking at these situations. I've always had a "if you love someone, set them free" mentality about this kind of stuff, but given my track record, I'm starting to have some doubts. Even then, I have no idea how I could have approached those two situations differently. Thoughts? TL;DR: I think I am too passive when my relationships hit their first bump, and need a better approach when the word "break-up" is first suggested, even in a non-serious relationship.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend [28M] has been living with his ex-gf and I'm [21F] unsure of what to say to him
I've [21F] been dating my boyfriend [28M] for only a couple months. We work together at a motorcycle shop and we met through the HR department who swapped us phone numbers. We hit it off really well and have been dating. He's sweet, caring, and thoughtful; much different than the college aged bozo's I've been seeing. Except one thing bothers me. He's been living with his ex-woman for a few months...since like February. He hasn't moved out because he says he doesn't have to money to do so. He tried to move back home to his parent's house, but he said his dad was more annoying than her, and he moved back after two weeks. I have been living with roommates (there are five of us in a three-bedroom place, its cramped) and I don't have the ability to really move him with me, though I wouldn't really want us living together since we haven't seen each other more than 3 months. I also really do like my personal space and since I don't have much of it, I savor what I do have. I guess my question here is, should I be worried he's still living there? He's bailed out a couple times when he said he's going to visit me on our one day off during the week. Am I the only one who finds it weird that he's STILL living with his ex?
I don't know what to say to my boyfriend about him living with his ex=girlfriend for almost half a year.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [28M] has been living with his ex-gf and I'm [21F] unsure of what to say to him POST: I've [21F] been dating my boyfriend [28M] for only a couple months. We work together at a motorcycle shop and we met through the HR department who swapped us phone numbers. We hit it off really well and have been dating. He's sweet, caring, and thoughtful; much different than the college aged bozo's I've been seeing. Except one thing bothers me. He's been living with his ex-woman for a few months...since like February. He hasn't moved out because he says he doesn't have to money to do so. He tried to move back home to his parent's house, but he said his dad was more annoying than her, and he moved back after two weeks. I have been living with roommates (there are five of us in a three-bedroom place, its cramped) and I don't have the ability to really move him with me, though I wouldn't really want us living together since we haven't seen each other more than 3 months. I also really do like my personal space and since I don't have much of it, I savor what I do have. I guess my question here is, should I be worried he's still living there? He's bailed out a couple times when he said he's going to visit me on our one day off during the week. Am I the only one who finds it weird that he's STILL living with his ex? TL;DR:
I don't know what to say to my boyfriend about him living with his ex=girlfriend for almost half a year.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [28M] has been living with his ex-gf and I'm [21F] unsure of what to say to him POST: I've [21F] been dating my boyfriend [28M] for only a couple months. We work together at a motorcycle shop and we met through the HR department who swapped us phone numbers. We hit it off really well and have been dating. He's sweet, caring, and thoughtful; much different than the college aged bozo's I've been seeing. Except one thing bothers me. He's been living with his ex-woman for a few months...since like February. He hasn't moved out because he says he doesn't have to money to do so. He tried to move back home to his parent's house, but he said his dad was more annoying than her, and he moved back after two weeks. I have been living with roommates (there are five of us in a three-bedroom place, its cramped) and I don't have the ability to really move him with me, though I wouldn't really want us living together since we haven't seen each other more than 3 months. I also really do like my personal space and since I don't have much of it, I savor what I do have. I guess my question here is, should I be worried he's still living there? He's bailed out a couple times when he said he's going to visit me on our one day off during the week. Am I the only one who finds it weird that he's STILL living with his ex? TL;DR: I don't know what to say to my boyfriend about him living with his ex=girlfriend for almost half a year.<|endoftext|>
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After 10 years I've found it.
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After almost 11 years of having a small idea of what I want to do with music I finally have grasped the concept of it on this day. Yeeeeaahhhhhh.
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: After 10 years I've found it. POST: Ever since I was 5 I loved the drums. So much so that I'd spend hours banging on myself with my hands, I'd always loved percussion and always had particular ideas for songs and album concepts. At the age of 13 I got my first set, I played on it, just banged on it for a year to find my musical soul. Starting last year my thoughts towards the drums and music started to cohere together and I had a basic understanding of what I wanted to achieve. Fast forward to early this year when I found the relatively small progressive rock. Slowly getting into, I decided to add some influences of progressive rock into my playing and music ideas. These past two weeks I had an epiphany, these bands specifically Porcupine Tree was the music I wanted to play. Ambient, psychedelic, I know it's not that big of deal all bands and artists have had these first moments. But I never thought I'd have it.... The feeling is just beyond unreal experience. To finally and completely know what you want in your life and at such a young age. Tonight it's raining heavily here in LA, I love the rain, I always feel inspired in it. And tonight I had the most important epiphany I've had so far, the musical idea that's been tantalizing me for almost 11 years has now finally come fully to my mind, I know what I want. After 11 years it's all come together and I'm so close, I can't believe this moment is happening to me. TL;DR:
After almost 11 years of having a small idea of what I want to do with music I finally have grasped the concept of it on this day. Yeeeeaahhhhhh.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: After 10 years I've found it. POST: Ever since I was 5 I loved the drums. So much so that I'd spend hours banging on myself with my hands, I'd always loved percussion and always had particular ideas for songs and album concepts. At the age of 13 I got my first set, I played on it, just banged on it for a year to find my musical soul. Starting last year my thoughts towards the drums and music started to cohere together and I had a basic understanding of what I wanted to achieve. Fast forward to early this year when I found the relatively small progressive rock. Slowly getting into, I decided to add some influences of progressive rock into my playing and music ideas. These past two weeks I had an epiphany, these bands specifically Porcupine Tree was the music I wanted to play. Ambient, psychedelic, I know it's not that big of deal all bands and artists have had these first moments. But I never thought I'd have it.... The feeling is just beyond unreal experience. To finally and completely know what you want in your life and at such a young age. Tonight it's raining heavily here in LA, I love the rain, I always feel inspired in it. And tonight I had the most important epiphany I've had so far, the musical idea that's been tantalizing me for almost 11 years has now finally come fully to my mind, I know what I want. After 11 years it's all come together and I'm so close, I can't believe this moment is happening to me. TL;DR: After almost 11 years of having a small idea of what I want to do with music I finally have grasped the concept of it on this day. Yeeeeaahhhhhh.<|endoftext|>
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Am I doing the right thing? Both 20.
After being "off" with a girl for a seven months she comes back. I'm incredibly happy, everything is going great. She then tells me while we were apart she tried things with her ex again, he really screwed her up and she is super depressed about it. I then find out she went on a date with another guy within two days of telling me she was feeling super depressed and cutting off all contact with her ex, when I asked her about it she said that she thought she was falling for this guy because she didn't feel the pain from her last boyfriend. That is something I can't give her, as we were a long distance couple. I then decided to just give her space because I'm not entirely sure what she wants. If she's using this guy as a rebound or if I was the rebound. Am I doing the right thing by just letting things run it's course? Right now I'm fighting the biggest urges to just fight for her. It's a messed up situation and I'm a mess. I really do care about this girl, I thought about her everyday while we were apart. She said she thought about me a lot too and regrets ever getting back with her ex and that I am the first girl she's ever had true feelings for.
don't know if I should fight for a girl or just let her figure herself out. Scared she won't come back like she did last time.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I doing the right thing? Both 20. POST: After being "off" with a girl for a seven months she comes back. I'm incredibly happy, everything is going great. She then tells me while we were apart she tried things with her ex again, he really screwed her up and she is super depressed about it. I then find out she went on a date with another guy within two days of telling me she was feeling super depressed and cutting off all contact with her ex, when I asked her about it she said that she thought she was falling for this guy because she didn't feel the pain from her last boyfriend. That is something I can't give her, as we were a long distance couple. I then decided to just give her space because I'm not entirely sure what she wants. If she's using this guy as a rebound or if I was the rebound. Am I doing the right thing by just letting things run it's course? Right now I'm fighting the biggest urges to just fight for her. It's a messed up situation and I'm a mess. I really do care about this girl, I thought about her everyday while we were apart. She said she thought about me a lot too and regrets ever getting back with her ex and that I am the first girl she's ever had true feelings for. TL;DR:
don't know if I should fight for a girl or just let her figure herself out. Scared she won't come back like she did last time.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I doing the right thing? Both 20. POST: After being "off" with a girl for a seven months she comes back. I'm incredibly happy, everything is going great. She then tells me while we were apart she tried things with her ex again, he really screwed her up and she is super depressed about it. I then find out she went on a date with another guy within two days of telling me she was feeling super depressed and cutting off all contact with her ex, when I asked her about it she said that she thought she was falling for this guy because she didn't feel the pain from her last boyfriend. That is something I can't give her, as we were a long distance couple. I then decided to just give her space because I'm not entirely sure what she wants. If she's using this guy as a rebound or if I was the rebound. Am I doing the right thing by just letting things run it's course? Right now I'm fighting the biggest urges to just fight for her. It's a messed up situation and I'm a mess. I really do care about this girl, I thought about her everyday while we were apart. She said she thought about me a lot too and regrets ever getting back with her ex and that I am the first girl she's ever had true feelings for. TL;DR: don't know if I should fight for a girl or just let her figure herself out. Scared she won't come back like she did last time.<|endoftext|>
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My sister (early teens) is starting to talk to friends via webcam. I assured our mother it was safe. How much did I lie?
My sister, as do most early teens here, has discovered the delights of talking to her friends on Windows Live Messenger. And recently has found the use of the camera at the top of her laptop. Our mum, being not great at understanding modern technology is a bit dubious. Shs's not that worried that she will talk to strangers and get stabbed in a field but she is worried that things she types or does over the webcam can be found and used against her by others. She asked me and I assured her that there is no way that anyone other than the other person in the coversation can see or read anything the goes between them. How much of a lie was that?
I told mum that there is no way anyone can see or read anything my sister does over Windows Live Messenger. How wrong was I?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My sister (early teens) is starting to talk to friends via webcam. I assured our mother it was safe. How much did I lie? POST: My sister, as do most early teens here, has discovered the delights of talking to her friends on Windows Live Messenger. And recently has found the use of the camera at the top of her laptop. Our mum, being not great at understanding modern technology is a bit dubious. Shs's not that worried that she will talk to strangers and get stabbed in a field but she is worried that things she types or does over the webcam can be found and used against her by others. She asked me and I assured her that there is no way that anyone other than the other person in the coversation can see or read anything the goes between them. How much of a lie was that? TL;DR:
I told mum that there is no way anyone can see or read anything my sister does over Windows Live Messenger. How wrong was I?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My sister (early teens) is starting to talk to friends via webcam. I assured our mother it was safe. How much did I lie? POST: My sister, as do most early teens here, has discovered the delights of talking to her friends on Windows Live Messenger. And recently has found the use of the camera at the top of her laptop. Our mum, being not great at understanding modern technology is a bit dubious. Shs's not that worried that she will talk to strangers and get stabbed in a field but she is worried that things she types or does over the webcam can be found and used against her by others. She asked me and I assured her that there is no way that anyone other than the other person in the coversation can see or read anything the goes between them. How much of a lie was that? TL;DR: I told mum that there is no way anyone can see or read anything my sister does over Windows Live Messenger. How wrong was I?<|endoftext|>
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My friends and I (M23) after approx 2 years of relationships with girls (F21) would like to understand why girls seem to give up in relationships without trying to solve the issues.
This is more of a question directed to the females, but if any guys have any insight too, that would be great! So a couple of my friends and I have had a couple of serious relationships before and 9 times out of 10, the girls have broken up with us because their reason was that they weren't happy. Now, we're all very committed guys, who 100% would try and work out and work through these issues in order to keep the girl happy or keep the relationship happy and working. But very often, the girl just gives up. She will claim that she still loves him, but if that were the case, surely she would stick around and attempt at solving the problems that lie ahead, rather than just giving up. We understand that if the problem cannot be solved then fair enough, we should part ways, but it seems like the girls that we've come across just don't even want to try. Am I wrong to think that the reason for girls in these situations doing this is because they're either lazy or don't love the guy enough to work through the problems? Or is it perfectly acceptable to just give up just because the girl is "unhappy"? And if so, why is that acceptable? Thank you for your insight! Just trying to understand the other half's perspective as to hurt a little less in the future.
Do girls just give up on relationships because they're lazy or don't love the other one enough to work through problems? Or is it acceptable to just walk away without trying because they're unhappy? If so, why is that acceptable?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friends and I (M23) after approx 2 years of relationships with girls (F21) would like to understand why girls seem to give up in relationships without trying to solve the issues. POST: This is more of a question directed to the females, but if any guys have any insight too, that would be great! So a couple of my friends and I have had a couple of serious relationships before and 9 times out of 10, the girls have broken up with us because their reason was that they weren't happy. Now, we're all very committed guys, who 100% would try and work out and work through these issues in order to keep the girl happy or keep the relationship happy and working. But very often, the girl just gives up. She will claim that she still loves him, but if that were the case, surely she would stick around and attempt at solving the problems that lie ahead, rather than just giving up. We understand that if the problem cannot be solved then fair enough, we should part ways, but it seems like the girls that we've come across just don't even want to try. Am I wrong to think that the reason for girls in these situations doing this is because they're either lazy or don't love the guy enough to work through the problems? Or is it perfectly acceptable to just give up just because the girl is "unhappy"? And if so, why is that acceptable? Thank you for your insight! Just trying to understand the other half's perspective as to hurt a little less in the future. TL;DR:
Do girls just give up on relationships because they're lazy or don't love the other one enough to work through problems? Or is it acceptable to just walk away without trying because they're unhappy? If so, why is that acceptable?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friends and I (M23) after approx 2 years of relationships with girls (F21) would like to understand why girls seem to give up in relationships without trying to solve the issues. POST: This is more of a question directed to the females, but if any guys have any insight too, that would be great! So a couple of my friends and I have had a couple of serious relationships before and 9 times out of 10, the girls have broken up with us because their reason was that they weren't happy. Now, we're all very committed guys, who 100% would try and work out and work through these issues in order to keep the girl happy or keep the relationship happy and working. But very often, the girl just gives up. She will claim that she still loves him, but if that were the case, surely she would stick around and attempt at solving the problems that lie ahead, rather than just giving up. We understand that if the problem cannot be solved then fair enough, we should part ways, but it seems like the girls that we've come across just don't even want to try. Am I wrong to think that the reason for girls in these situations doing this is because they're either lazy or don't love the guy enough to work through the problems? Or is it perfectly acceptable to just give up just because the girl is "unhappy"? And if so, why is that acceptable? Thank you for your insight! Just trying to understand the other half's perspective as to hurt a little less in the future. TL;DR: Do girls just give up on relationships because they're lazy or don't love the other one enough to work through problems? Or is it acceptable to just walk away without trying because they're unhappy? If so, why is that acceptable?<|endoftext|>
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My [17M] girlfriend [18F] is moving to university soon and I need some advice for maintaining the relationship
So basically my girlfriend is moving to university soon. We've been together for 6 months and we have both said that we really want to keep the relationship going while she's at uni. It'll be about an hour on the train between us so it's not too much but we don't know how often we will be able to see each other because she knows nothing about her schedule yet. I'm looking for ways that I can keep the relationship healthy while possibly not being able to see her as often as I can now. Any advice is very much appreciated!
Girlfriend of 6 months is moving to uni and we want to keep the relationship. Looking for ways I can keep the relationship healthy and show her I love her.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] girlfriend [18F] is moving to university soon and I need some advice for maintaining the relationship POST: So basically my girlfriend is moving to university soon. We've been together for 6 months and we have both said that we really want to keep the relationship going while she's at uni. It'll be about an hour on the train between us so it's not too much but we don't know how often we will be able to see each other because she knows nothing about her schedule yet. I'm looking for ways that I can keep the relationship healthy while possibly not being able to see her as often as I can now. Any advice is very much appreciated! TL;DR:
Girlfriend of 6 months is moving to uni and we want to keep the relationship. Looking for ways I can keep the relationship healthy and show her I love her.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] girlfriend [18F] is moving to university soon and I need some advice for maintaining the relationship POST: So basically my girlfriend is moving to university soon. We've been together for 6 months and we have both said that we really want to keep the relationship going while she's at uni. It'll be about an hour on the train between us so it's not too much but we don't know how often we will be able to see each other because she knows nothing about her schedule yet. I'm looking for ways that I can keep the relationship healthy while possibly not being able to see her as often as I can now. Any advice is very much appreciated! TL;DR: Girlfriend of 6 months is moving to uni and we want to keep the relationship. Looking for ways I can keep the relationship healthy and show her I love her.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU By not eating dinner.
I recently visited the (in)famous Oktoberfest in Munich Germany. I am studying abroad in Vienna so we took a party train from Vienna to Munich where there was an open bar that was very well stocked. I slept very little. Once there I had an apple and a pastry as a nice light breakfast and then the festivities started. With my trip I was given 2 vouchers for a Liter of beer and 1 voucher for half of a chicken at lunchtime (Noon-1 pm). Before leaving Oktoberfest (around 8 pm) I had 2 more liters of beer. Then once on the train back to Vienna I had more of something but I'm not sure what... My dinner was a few Pringles. Fast forward to the last 12-18 hours back in Vienna and I have been trying every possible hangover cure suggestion but eating and drinking is very hard when your whole body hates you. Lesson here is to know your limits and be aware of your eating/drinking habits. Because fuck I'm impressed I could type this. Also, it was an incredible experience to be at Oktoberfest I just wish I had planned better.
Went to Oktoberfest and ate very little while drinking a lot and now I'm praying to Bloody Mary full of Vodka that the hour of my death will be soon.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By not eating dinner. POST: I recently visited the (in)famous Oktoberfest in Munich Germany. I am studying abroad in Vienna so we took a party train from Vienna to Munich where there was an open bar that was very well stocked. I slept very little. Once there I had an apple and a pastry as a nice light breakfast and then the festivities started. With my trip I was given 2 vouchers for a Liter of beer and 1 voucher for half of a chicken at lunchtime (Noon-1 pm). Before leaving Oktoberfest (around 8 pm) I had 2 more liters of beer. Then once on the train back to Vienna I had more of something but I'm not sure what... My dinner was a few Pringles. Fast forward to the last 12-18 hours back in Vienna and I have been trying every possible hangover cure suggestion but eating and drinking is very hard when your whole body hates you. Lesson here is to know your limits and be aware of your eating/drinking habits. Because fuck I'm impressed I could type this. Also, it was an incredible experience to be at Oktoberfest I just wish I had planned better. TL;DR:
Went to Oktoberfest and ate very little while drinking a lot and now I'm praying to Bloody Mary full of Vodka that the hour of my death will be soon.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By not eating dinner. POST: I recently visited the (in)famous Oktoberfest in Munich Germany. I am studying abroad in Vienna so we took a party train from Vienna to Munich where there was an open bar that was very well stocked. I slept very little. Once there I had an apple and a pastry as a nice light breakfast and then the festivities started. With my trip I was given 2 vouchers for a Liter of beer and 1 voucher for half of a chicken at lunchtime (Noon-1 pm). Before leaving Oktoberfest (around 8 pm) I had 2 more liters of beer. Then once on the train back to Vienna I had more of something but I'm not sure what... My dinner was a few Pringles. Fast forward to the last 12-18 hours back in Vienna and I have been trying every possible hangover cure suggestion but eating and drinking is very hard when your whole body hates you. Lesson here is to know your limits and be aware of your eating/drinking habits. Because fuck I'm impressed I could type this. Also, it was an incredible experience to be at Oktoberfest I just wish I had planned better. TL;DR: Went to Oktoberfest and ate very little while drinking a lot and now I'm praying to Bloody Mary full of Vodka that the hour of my death will be soon.<|endoftext|>
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Was Scammed On A Game, Whats Your Worst "I Was Scammed Stories"?
Nothing to big I guess, but I was playing Team Fortress 2. A very addicting FPS cartoonish fun game with a lot of unique features and stuff to do in it. For anyone who plays Team Fortess, I got the "Unusual Flamboyant Flamenco" hat with the "Smoke Effect". One of my buddies I have been playing with for awhile said he would trade me 5 strange weapons, 10 keys, and 5 hats. I thought that was a solid deal right? NOT... Little did I know its one of the rarest hats with the best effect, I could have gotten 3-4 buds. I know its virtual but I'm a little bummed out, and everyone who saw it started giving me stuff cause they completely saw how bad I was pretty much scammed. I still am saddened it had to happen, but shit happens I guess.
I got scammed on a virtual game, which could result in real money lost. But in the end was just completely fucked over.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Was Scammed On A Game, Whats Your Worst "I Was Scammed Stories"? POST: Nothing to big I guess, but I was playing Team Fortress 2. A very addicting FPS cartoonish fun game with a lot of unique features and stuff to do in it. For anyone who plays Team Fortess, I got the "Unusual Flamboyant Flamenco" hat with the "Smoke Effect". One of my buddies I have been playing with for awhile said he would trade me 5 strange weapons, 10 keys, and 5 hats. I thought that was a solid deal right? NOT... Little did I know its one of the rarest hats with the best effect, I could have gotten 3-4 buds. I know its virtual but I'm a little bummed out, and everyone who saw it started giving me stuff cause they completely saw how bad I was pretty much scammed. I still am saddened it had to happen, but shit happens I guess. TL;DR:
I got scammed on a virtual game, which could result in real money lost. But in the end was just completely fucked over.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Was Scammed On A Game, Whats Your Worst "I Was Scammed Stories"? POST: Nothing to big I guess, but I was playing Team Fortress 2. A very addicting FPS cartoonish fun game with a lot of unique features and stuff to do in it. For anyone who plays Team Fortess, I got the "Unusual Flamboyant Flamenco" hat with the "Smoke Effect". One of my buddies I have been playing with for awhile said he would trade me 5 strange weapons, 10 keys, and 5 hats. I thought that was a solid deal right? NOT... Little did I know its one of the rarest hats with the best effect, I could have gotten 3-4 buds. I know its virtual but I'm a little bummed out, and everyone who saw it started giving me stuff cause they completely saw how bad I was pretty much scammed. I still am saddened it had to happen, but shit happens I guess. TL;DR: I got scammed on a virtual game, which could result in real money lost. But in the end was just completely fucked over.<|endoftext|>
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What are some television plot holes or continuity errors that bother you till this day?
So my friend emailed me this today which got me thinking about what are other ill written story lines that have been made: My friend Daniel's email: "I was watching Saved By The Bell as I'm getting dressed and this is too weird to not say anything. Scenario: Zach and Kelly are going to the dance dressed as Romeo and Juliet. It is Monday and the dance is on Saturday. Kelly can't buy the dress cause her parents have so many other kids (which doesn't seem to stop them from buying her other nice clothes). SO, she says she'll get a job at the Max to pay for the dress (even if she gets hired THAT VERY DAY, there's no way that 4 days of work will get her enough money to buy the dress.) OK OK, I know, but she could make good tips - it still takes 2 weeks just to get the first paycheck! OK - so that aside, assuming that she gets hired and makes enough money in those few days, AND gets paid immediately, Zach shows up at her house one night (when she's not working) and surprises her by giving her the dress that he bought with his own money. Then - THEN - she tells Zach she can't goto the dance on Saturday night because she has to work. WHY? WHY CAN SHE NOT GOTO THE DANCE??? SHE GOT THE DAMN JOB BECAUSE SHE NEEDED A DRESS FOR THE DANCE!!! HE EVEN BOUGHT THE SHIT DRESS FOR HER AND SHE STILL WON'T GO?!? THE WHOLE REASON SHE WENT TO WORK WAS TO GET MONEY TO BUY THE DRESS?! HOW MANY OUNCES OF DRO WAS THE WRITER ON NOT TO REALIZE THIS DOESN'T MAKE SENSE?!"
Kelly gets a job to afford a dress for the dance, tells Zach she cant attend the dance because she has to work.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some television plot holes or continuity errors that bother you till this day? POST: So my friend emailed me this today which got me thinking about what are other ill written story lines that have been made: My friend Daniel's email: "I was watching Saved By The Bell as I'm getting dressed and this is too weird to not say anything. Scenario: Zach and Kelly are going to the dance dressed as Romeo and Juliet. It is Monday and the dance is on Saturday. Kelly can't buy the dress cause her parents have so many other kids (which doesn't seem to stop them from buying her other nice clothes). SO, she says she'll get a job at the Max to pay for the dress (even if she gets hired THAT VERY DAY, there's no way that 4 days of work will get her enough money to buy the dress.) OK OK, I know, but she could make good tips - it still takes 2 weeks just to get the first paycheck! OK - so that aside, assuming that she gets hired and makes enough money in those few days, AND gets paid immediately, Zach shows up at her house one night (when she's not working) and surprises her by giving her the dress that he bought with his own money. Then - THEN - she tells Zach she can't goto the dance on Saturday night because she has to work. WHY? WHY CAN SHE NOT GOTO THE DANCE??? SHE GOT THE DAMN JOB BECAUSE SHE NEEDED A DRESS FOR THE DANCE!!! HE EVEN BOUGHT THE SHIT DRESS FOR HER AND SHE STILL WON'T GO?!? THE WHOLE REASON SHE WENT TO WORK WAS TO GET MONEY TO BUY THE DRESS?! HOW MANY OUNCES OF DRO WAS THE WRITER ON NOT TO REALIZE THIS DOESN'T MAKE SENSE?!" TL;DR:
Kelly gets a job to afford a dress for the dance, tells Zach she cant attend the dance because she has to work.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some television plot holes or continuity errors that bother you till this day? POST: So my friend emailed me this today which got me thinking about what are other ill written story lines that have been made: My friend Daniel's email: "I was watching Saved By The Bell as I'm getting dressed and this is too weird to not say anything. Scenario: Zach and Kelly are going to the dance dressed as Romeo and Juliet. It is Monday and the dance is on Saturday. Kelly can't buy the dress cause her parents have so many other kids (which doesn't seem to stop them from buying her other nice clothes). SO, she says she'll get a job at the Max to pay for the dress (even if she gets hired THAT VERY DAY, there's no way that 4 days of work will get her enough money to buy the dress.) OK OK, I know, but she could make good tips - it still takes 2 weeks just to get the first paycheck! OK - so that aside, assuming that she gets hired and makes enough money in those few days, AND gets paid immediately, Zach shows up at her house one night (when she's not working) and surprises her by giving her the dress that he bought with his own money. Then - THEN - she tells Zach she can't goto the dance on Saturday night because she has to work. WHY? WHY CAN SHE NOT GOTO THE DANCE??? SHE GOT THE DAMN JOB BECAUSE SHE NEEDED A DRESS FOR THE DANCE!!! HE EVEN BOUGHT THE SHIT DRESS FOR HER AND SHE STILL WON'T GO?!? THE WHOLE REASON SHE WENT TO WORK WAS TO GET MONEY TO BUY THE DRESS?! HOW MANY OUNCES OF DRO WAS THE WRITER ON NOT TO REALIZE THIS DOESN'T MAKE SENSE?!" TL;DR: Kelly gets a job to afford a dress for the dance, tells Zach she cant attend the dance because she has to work.<|endoftext|>
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Unknown half sister[24 possibly] that I[14] have just been told about, never expected this from my dad[46]
Yesterday I got in some trouble with my parents, I was on the phone with my gf[14] and we were talking and I believed I was home alone as i had just got home and one of the cars was gone, long story short my dad was home and he listened to our convo and i was being stupidly vulgar and inapropriate, and talking sexually, jokingly but still not apropriate, and so my dad finally comes down and is very angered and tells my mom to come home. I get yelled at, which i deserved, and am not upset about that, but the stupid sexual talk bothered my dad, I was basically just sarcastically talking about sexual things, and it worried him, and he didnt want me to take it as a joke, so he told me that sexuality is serious and wanted me to get that. He continued and told me that he has a daughter he has never met, she was born in '89 and was concieved when he was drunk on an accident one night, with Im assuming to be a one night stand, and I know have a half sister that him and I have never met because the mother had moved away, and he has payed 100,000 dollars in child support. I feel horrible, mostly because of how unexpected this is, my dad is far from perfected but he is no stupid person, he is really smart and respectable and a great role model. Knowing that he has a daughter he has never met kind of hurts me, he said I am able to ask questions but I have just kept to my self and kept quiet. What should I do? Thinking of him makes me uneasy now, I know it was a mistake, and we all have mistakes but it still hurts. [
] Just found out about a half sister that was an accident when my dad was young, and I am not sure how to react to this suprising news and it is consuming me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unknown half sister[24 possibly] that I[14] have just been told about, never expected this from my dad[46] POST: Yesterday I got in some trouble with my parents, I was on the phone with my gf[14] and we were talking and I believed I was home alone as i had just got home and one of the cars was gone, long story short my dad was home and he listened to our convo and i was being stupidly vulgar and inapropriate, and talking sexually, jokingly but still not apropriate, and so my dad finally comes down and is very angered and tells my mom to come home. I get yelled at, which i deserved, and am not upset about that, but the stupid sexual talk bothered my dad, I was basically just sarcastically talking about sexual things, and it worried him, and he didnt want me to take it as a joke, so he told me that sexuality is serious and wanted me to get that. He continued and told me that he has a daughter he has never met, she was born in '89 and was concieved when he was drunk on an accident one night, with Im assuming to be a one night stand, and I know have a half sister that him and I have never met because the mother had moved away, and he has payed 100,000 dollars in child support. I feel horrible, mostly because of how unexpected this is, my dad is far from perfected but he is no stupid person, he is really smart and respectable and a great role model. Knowing that he has a daughter he has never met kind of hurts me, he said I am able to ask questions but I have just kept to my self and kept quiet. What should I do? Thinking of him makes me uneasy now, I know it was a mistake, and we all have mistakes but it still hurts. [ TL;DR:
] Just found out about a half sister that was an accident when my dad was young, and I am not sure how to react to this suprising news and it is consuming me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unknown half sister[24 possibly] that I[14] have just been told about, never expected this from my dad[46] POST: Yesterday I got in some trouble with my parents, I was on the phone with my gf[14] and we were talking and I believed I was home alone as i had just got home and one of the cars was gone, long story short my dad was home and he listened to our convo and i was being stupidly vulgar and inapropriate, and talking sexually, jokingly but still not apropriate, and so my dad finally comes down and is very angered and tells my mom to come home. I get yelled at, which i deserved, and am not upset about that, but the stupid sexual talk bothered my dad, I was basically just sarcastically talking about sexual things, and it worried him, and he didnt want me to take it as a joke, so he told me that sexuality is serious and wanted me to get that. He continued and told me that he has a daughter he has never met, she was born in '89 and was concieved when he was drunk on an accident one night, with Im assuming to be a one night stand, and I know have a half sister that him and I have never met because the mother had moved away, and he has payed 100,000 dollars in child support. I feel horrible, mostly because of how unexpected this is, my dad is far from perfected but he is no stupid person, he is really smart and respectable and a great role model. Knowing that he has a daughter he has never met kind of hurts me, he said I am able to ask questions but I have just kept to my self and kept quiet. What should I do? Thinking of him makes me uneasy now, I know it was a mistake, and we all have mistakes but it still hurts. [ TL;DR: ] Just found out about a half sister that was an accident when my dad was young, and I am not sure how to react to this suprising news and it is consuming me.<|endoftext|>
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dating_advice
Need advice: Very new to this dating/relationship scene (20/M)
Last weekend a friend of mine from high school invited herself over to just chill. We played video games, card games, lateral thinking puzzles and I even played her a few songs I know on the guitar. We sort of hit off and I knew she said she was having a good time. She also met several of my housemates. Some housemates sort of played around with her assuming we were a couple telling jokes about the situation which she thought was funny. I then invited her to a party I was going to that she just happened to live near where we talked a little more. Unfortunately my ride left me there with her and she suggested that I sleep over, in which I did. We layed down on her bed together and watched a movie. But I didn't really doing anything like a make a move or whatever. We just ended up talking some more and she eventually fell alseep. The next day we ended up studying with friend of mine and then went to another party. The following day she came over my house to do some homework but ended up not doing it and watching some youtube videos instead. So basically this entire labor day weekend we hung out. I suggested that we have lunch sometime this week so I'll have to see how that goes. I guess the thing I want to know is if I'm doing this right, because I have never hung out with a girl like this before. It's my first time talking and hanging out with a girl this much so I'm just looking for some insight. I'm showing interest in her but only slightly by giving her complements once in a while but as of now we are just talking like friends. That's why I invited her to get some lunch with me so we can talk more and get to know each other better. She is a really cool and beautiful girl.
Started hanging out and talking with a girl and just want to know if I should keep a slow pace of getting to know her better.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Need advice: Very new to this dating/relationship scene (20/M) POST: Last weekend a friend of mine from high school invited herself over to just chill. We played video games, card games, lateral thinking puzzles and I even played her a few songs I know on the guitar. We sort of hit off and I knew she said she was having a good time. She also met several of my housemates. Some housemates sort of played around with her assuming we were a couple telling jokes about the situation which she thought was funny. I then invited her to a party I was going to that she just happened to live near where we talked a little more. Unfortunately my ride left me there with her and she suggested that I sleep over, in which I did. We layed down on her bed together and watched a movie. But I didn't really doing anything like a make a move or whatever. We just ended up talking some more and she eventually fell alseep. The next day we ended up studying with friend of mine and then went to another party. The following day she came over my house to do some homework but ended up not doing it and watching some youtube videos instead. So basically this entire labor day weekend we hung out. I suggested that we have lunch sometime this week so I'll have to see how that goes. I guess the thing I want to know is if I'm doing this right, because I have never hung out with a girl like this before. It's my first time talking and hanging out with a girl this much so I'm just looking for some insight. I'm showing interest in her but only slightly by giving her complements once in a while but as of now we are just talking like friends. That's why I invited her to get some lunch with me so we can talk more and get to know each other better. She is a really cool and beautiful girl. TL;DR:
Started hanging out and talking with a girl and just want to know if I should keep a slow pace of getting to know her better.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Need advice: Very new to this dating/relationship scene (20/M) POST: Last weekend a friend of mine from high school invited herself over to just chill. We played video games, card games, lateral thinking puzzles and I even played her a few songs I know on the guitar. We sort of hit off and I knew she said she was having a good time. She also met several of my housemates. Some housemates sort of played around with her assuming we were a couple telling jokes about the situation which she thought was funny. I then invited her to a party I was going to that she just happened to live near where we talked a little more. Unfortunately my ride left me there with her and she suggested that I sleep over, in which I did. We layed down on her bed together and watched a movie. But I didn't really doing anything like a make a move or whatever. We just ended up talking some more and she eventually fell alseep. The next day we ended up studying with friend of mine and then went to another party. The following day she came over my house to do some homework but ended up not doing it and watching some youtube videos instead. So basically this entire labor day weekend we hung out. I suggested that we have lunch sometime this week so I'll have to see how that goes. I guess the thing I want to know is if I'm doing this right, because I have never hung out with a girl like this before. It's my first time talking and hanging out with a girl this much so I'm just looking for some insight. I'm showing interest in her but only slightly by giving her complements once in a while but as of now we are just talking like friends. That's why I invited her to get some lunch with me so we can talk more and get to know each other better. She is a really cool and beautiful girl. TL;DR: Started hanging out and talking with a girl and just want to know if I should keep a slow pace of getting to know her better.<|endoftext|>
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Me [27M] with girl [27F] I have been seeing for almost a month, confused with where we stand, fear that she might be emotionally un-avaliable/incompatible
I started dating this girl about a month ago. Throughout this month, several things have stood out. Firstly, we don't really talk over the phone/text that often. Secondly, she likes to shit-test me very often. Specifically, she would asked me " Do you miss me?," and never answering that question herself. Or she would ask me if I could bring her younger brother out clubbing to meet girls. Needless to say, I've sidestepped these questions by basically not dignifying them with answers. I am verbally, and physically affirming to her. She on the other hand, would reciprocate one moment only to play hard to get in the next. This is very frustrating and I have stated that to her on more than one occasion. Last Sunday evening was a perfect example. We had a great dinner and she was supposed to meet up with one of her best friends after that. Her friend had to cancel due to her feeling unwell and suggested my date hung out with me instead. Over text, her friend referred to me as my date's "friend." I didn't say anything about that, as we haven't had the 'exclusivity talk' yet. We ended up watching a movie and we were cuddling the whole time, out of her own initiative. I thought that finally broke the intimacy barrier we've had(she is usually much more touchy and open after a drink; she's a pretty stiff person normally). Unfortunately, our weekday routine of sparse conversation continues. I am confused. Is she just emotionally not available? If so, why would she want to make holiday plans with me alone? And why bother going on these dates in the first place? I have a feeling that if this drags on for too long, it could become a " friends with benefits" situation, and I am definitely not cool with that. I have always been a relationship kind of person; a FWB relationship is just emotionally toxic for me from my one experience before. How do I communicate to her what I want at this juncture, or should I do so in the first place?
been seeing a girl for about a month/confused and not sure if she is emotionally available. I want to take what we have to the next level. What are your thoughts?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with girl [27F] I have been seeing for almost a month, confused with where we stand, fear that she might be emotionally un-avaliable/incompatible POST: I started dating this girl about a month ago. Throughout this month, several things have stood out. Firstly, we don't really talk over the phone/text that often. Secondly, she likes to shit-test me very often. Specifically, she would asked me " Do you miss me?," and never answering that question herself. Or she would ask me if I could bring her younger brother out clubbing to meet girls. Needless to say, I've sidestepped these questions by basically not dignifying them with answers. I am verbally, and physically affirming to her. She on the other hand, would reciprocate one moment only to play hard to get in the next. This is very frustrating and I have stated that to her on more than one occasion. Last Sunday evening was a perfect example. We had a great dinner and she was supposed to meet up with one of her best friends after that. Her friend had to cancel due to her feeling unwell and suggested my date hung out with me instead. Over text, her friend referred to me as my date's "friend." I didn't say anything about that, as we haven't had the 'exclusivity talk' yet. We ended up watching a movie and we were cuddling the whole time, out of her own initiative. I thought that finally broke the intimacy barrier we've had(she is usually much more touchy and open after a drink; she's a pretty stiff person normally). Unfortunately, our weekday routine of sparse conversation continues. I am confused. Is she just emotionally not available? If so, why would she want to make holiday plans with me alone? And why bother going on these dates in the first place? I have a feeling that if this drags on for too long, it could become a " friends with benefits" situation, and I am definitely not cool with that. I have always been a relationship kind of person; a FWB relationship is just emotionally toxic for me from my one experience before. How do I communicate to her what I want at this juncture, or should I do so in the first place? TL;DR:
been seeing a girl for about a month/confused and not sure if she is emotionally available. I want to take what we have to the next level. What are your thoughts?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with girl [27F] I have been seeing for almost a month, confused with where we stand, fear that she might be emotionally un-avaliable/incompatible POST: I started dating this girl about a month ago. Throughout this month, several things have stood out. Firstly, we don't really talk over the phone/text that often. Secondly, she likes to shit-test me very often. Specifically, she would asked me " Do you miss me?," and never answering that question herself. Or she would ask me if I could bring her younger brother out clubbing to meet girls. Needless to say, I've sidestepped these questions by basically not dignifying them with answers. I am verbally, and physically affirming to her. She on the other hand, would reciprocate one moment only to play hard to get in the next. This is very frustrating and I have stated that to her on more than one occasion. Last Sunday evening was a perfect example. We had a great dinner and she was supposed to meet up with one of her best friends after that. Her friend had to cancel due to her feeling unwell and suggested my date hung out with me instead. Over text, her friend referred to me as my date's "friend." I didn't say anything about that, as we haven't had the 'exclusivity talk' yet. We ended up watching a movie and we were cuddling the whole time, out of her own initiative. I thought that finally broke the intimacy barrier we've had(she is usually much more touchy and open after a drink; she's a pretty stiff person normally). Unfortunately, our weekday routine of sparse conversation continues. I am confused. Is she just emotionally not available? If so, why would she want to make holiday plans with me alone? And why bother going on these dates in the first place? I have a feeling that if this drags on for too long, it could become a " friends with benefits" situation, and I am definitely not cool with that. I have always been a relationship kind of person; a FWB relationship is just emotionally toxic for me from my one experience before. How do I communicate to her what I want at this juncture, or should I do so in the first place? TL;DR: been seeing a girl for about a month/confused and not sure if she is emotionally available. I want to take what we have to the next level. What are your thoughts?<|endoftext|>
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I'm[26 M] interested in my friend of about a week [25 F] that has suffered from sexual abuse.
No too long ago I met a girl on OKCcupid. Things are going pretty well and we've had a lot of fun talking to each other, but I'm a concerned because she's suffered from a very long history of abuse. Without going too far into detail, she was exploited as a child, and very recently she finalized a divorce with her husband of seven years (he was an abusive tool). As a result of all of this she's very sensitive to anything sexual in entertainment (movies, books, etc.) and she's, understandably, very cautious. That said, she's going through therapy and she seems to be adjusting well. Additionally, we've been getting along pretty well and both of us enjoy talking to each other. I'm wondering if anyone in r/relationships has experienced anything similar. I understand that dating an individual with that much history isn't always going to be easy, but right now I'm willing to take things slowly and see where they lead.
I'm interested in a girl that has suffered significant amounts of abuse and I'm looking for advice, particularly from people who have dated abused individuals.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm[26 M] interested in my friend of about a week [25 F] that has suffered from sexual abuse. POST: No too long ago I met a girl on OKCcupid. Things are going pretty well and we've had a lot of fun talking to each other, but I'm a concerned because she's suffered from a very long history of abuse. Without going too far into detail, she was exploited as a child, and very recently she finalized a divorce with her husband of seven years (he was an abusive tool). As a result of all of this she's very sensitive to anything sexual in entertainment (movies, books, etc.) and she's, understandably, very cautious. That said, she's going through therapy and she seems to be adjusting well. Additionally, we've been getting along pretty well and both of us enjoy talking to each other. I'm wondering if anyone in r/relationships has experienced anything similar. I understand that dating an individual with that much history isn't always going to be easy, but right now I'm willing to take things slowly and see where they lead. TL;DR:
I'm interested in a girl that has suffered significant amounts of abuse and I'm looking for advice, particularly from people who have dated abused individuals.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm[26 M] interested in my friend of about a week [25 F] that has suffered from sexual abuse. POST: No too long ago I met a girl on OKCcupid. Things are going pretty well and we've had a lot of fun talking to each other, but I'm a concerned because she's suffered from a very long history of abuse. Without going too far into detail, she was exploited as a child, and very recently she finalized a divorce with her husband of seven years (he was an abusive tool). As a result of all of this she's very sensitive to anything sexual in entertainment (movies, books, etc.) and she's, understandably, very cautious. That said, she's going through therapy and she seems to be adjusting well. Additionally, we've been getting along pretty well and both of us enjoy talking to each other. I'm wondering if anyone in r/relationships has experienced anything similar. I understand that dating an individual with that much history isn't always going to be easy, but right now I'm willing to take things slowly and see where they lead. TL;DR: I'm interested in a girl that has suffered significant amounts of abuse and I'm looking for advice, particularly from people who have dated abused individuals.<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by slamming a fridge door into my head
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Accidentally grabbed the wrong door handle, which led to me destroying my senses and dignity in an instant. I am not a smart man.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by slamming a fridge door into my head POST: In my house we keep most of our food in a large fridge-freezer. It's approximately 2 meters in height, with the fridge part taking up about 2/3 of the unit. About 20 minutes ago, my parents went out, leaving 15 y/o me in charge of the house and my two brothers. As he left, my dad mentioned that we had some screwball ice cream in, and as I was really in the mood for one I went for the freezer. I grabbed the handle without looking and yanked a door open. Remember, this is not THE door; just A door... Now, as the handle is about three feet off the ground, (almost) 6'0 me had to bend down and, as a result, my vision went to the floor and my long fringe blocked my view of where my hand was going. The fridge door handle is only about an inch above the freezer handle and feels exactly the same, so without thinking I grabbed the FRIDGE door, which was right in front of my head. As the freezer door sometimes gets frozen up, I opened it really hard and, as a result smashed the massive door into my head with cranium-shaking force, knocking the seven bells out of me. Also, the fact that the door was covered with shelves of loose jars made a DEAFENING noise. The combined impact of the door and noise of the jars made me collapse to the floor, disoriented and in shock. Everyone laughed at my magnificent incompetence, and I felt utterly stupid, but at least I got a some tasty ice cream and bubblegum out of it. TL;DR:
Accidentally grabbed the wrong door handle, which led to me destroying my senses and dignity in an instant. I am not a smart man.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by slamming a fridge door into my head POST: In my house we keep most of our food in a large fridge-freezer. It's approximately 2 meters in height, with the fridge part taking up about 2/3 of the unit. About 20 minutes ago, my parents went out, leaving 15 y/o me in charge of the house and my two brothers. As he left, my dad mentioned that we had some screwball ice cream in, and as I was really in the mood for one I went for the freezer. I grabbed the handle without looking and yanked a door open. Remember, this is not THE door; just A door... Now, as the handle is about three feet off the ground, (almost) 6'0 me had to bend down and, as a result, my vision went to the floor and my long fringe blocked my view of where my hand was going. The fridge door handle is only about an inch above the freezer handle and feels exactly the same, so without thinking I grabbed the FRIDGE door, which was right in front of my head. As the freezer door sometimes gets frozen up, I opened it really hard and, as a result smashed the massive door into my head with cranium-shaking force, knocking the seven bells out of me. Also, the fact that the door was covered with shelves of loose jars made a DEAFENING noise. The combined impact of the door and noise of the jars made me collapse to the floor, disoriented and in shock. Everyone laughed at my magnificent incompetence, and I felt utterly stupid, but at least I got a some tasty ice cream and bubblegum out of it. TL;DR: Accidentally grabbed the wrong door handle, which led to me destroying my senses and dignity in an instant. I am not a smart man.<|endoftext|>
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Dear Reddit, what was the very FIRST date you ever went on?
Inspired by the awesome dating tragedies over at [this kickass post.] -- I went to share mine there, but then I thought it might be fun to hear all about everyone's FIRST date, good, bad or whatever. :) ~~~ I was 14 and a serious tomboy and big time nerd. When a super cute (and equally nerdy!) boy from another school asked me out, I was SO EXCITED. I'd never been on an actual date before. I had, however, watched A LOT of television and movies. In my head, I was expecting him to show up in a tuxedo, bouquet of flowers in hand -- like every boy does in every sitcom when going on Their First Date. I knew we were going to a movie, but I didn't know what else he had planned. Dinner? DANCING? I really let myself run with it, waiting for Friday. The doorbell rang. I answered the door. And there he was -- in a gold lamé bustier, lacy black bra, high heels and full make-up. O_O .... He had neglected to say that the movie we were going to was "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" -- which I'm not sure would have prepared me, since I didn't know what that was at the time. Out of everything I was expecting, answering the door to my 15 year old date in full lingerie drag was NOT one of them. His mom drove us all the way across town to the show. I remember sitting in the back of the car feeling a weird mix of emotions: disappointment due to my ridiculously high expectations, utter confusion, and feeling a little strange because I could see every inch of his hairy legs all the way up to his crotch. I ended up having a great time, but we only dated for a few weeks. A few years later he came out to everyone, I wasn't even a little surprised.
Got asked to the movies for my first date, opened the door to find him in full lingerie and high heels.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dear Reddit, what was the very FIRST date you ever went on? POST: Inspired by the awesome dating tragedies over at [this kickass post.] -- I went to share mine there, but then I thought it might be fun to hear all about everyone's FIRST date, good, bad or whatever. :) ~~~ I was 14 and a serious tomboy and big time nerd. When a super cute (and equally nerdy!) boy from another school asked me out, I was SO EXCITED. I'd never been on an actual date before. I had, however, watched A LOT of television and movies. In my head, I was expecting him to show up in a tuxedo, bouquet of flowers in hand -- like every boy does in every sitcom when going on Their First Date. I knew we were going to a movie, but I didn't know what else he had planned. Dinner? DANCING? I really let myself run with it, waiting for Friday. The doorbell rang. I answered the door. And there he was -- in a gold lamé bustier, lacy black bra, high heels and full make-up. O_O.... He had neglected to say that the movie we were going to was "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" -- which I'm not sure would have prepared me, since I didn't know what that was at the time. Out of everything I was expecting, answering the door to my 15 year old date in full lingerie drag was NOT one of them. His mom drove us all the way across town to the show. I remember sitting in the back of the car feeling a weird mix of emotions: disappointment due to my ridiculously high expectations, utter confusion, and feeling a little strange because I could see every inch of his hairy legs all the way up to his crotch. I ended up having a great time, but we only dated for a few weeks. A few years later he came out to everyone, I wasn't even a little surprised. TL;DR:
Got asked to the movies for my first date, opened the door to find him in full lingerie and high heels.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dear Reddit, what was the very FIRST date you ever went on? POST: Inspired by the awesome dating tragedies over at [this kickass post.] -- I went to share mine there, but then I thought it might be fun to hear all about everyone's FIRST date, good, bad or whatever. :) ~~~ I was 14 and a serious tomboy and big time nerd. When a super cute (and equally nerdy!) boy from another school asked me out, I was SO EXCITED. I'd never been on an actual date before. I had, however, watched A LOT of television and movies. In my head, I was expecting him to show up in a tuxedo, bouquet of flowers in hand -- like every boy does in every sitcom when going on Their First Date. I knew we were going to a movie, but I didn't know what else he had planned. Dinner? DANCING? I really let myself run with it, waiting for Friday. The doorbell rang. I answered the door. And there he was -- in a gold lamé bustier, lacy black bra, high heels and full make-up. O_O.... He had neglected to say that the movie we were going to was "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" -- which I'm not sure would have prepared me, since I didn't know what that was at the time. Out of everything I was expecting, answering the door to my 15 year old date in full lingerie drag was NOT one of them. His mom drove us all the way across town to the show. I remember sitting in the back of the car feeling a weird mix of emotions: disappointment due to my ridiculously high expectations, utter confusion, and feeling a little strange because I could see every inch of his hairy legs all the way up to his crotch. I ended up having a great time, but we only dated for a few weeks. A few years later he came out to everyone, I wasn't even a little surprised. TL;DR: Got asked to the movies for my first date, opened the door to find him in full lingerie and high heels.<|endoftext|>
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First car accident in Medina County, Ohio
Yesterday after having my license for about a year and two months I was in my first car accident. I rear ended a lady after my foot slipped off the brake due to a chunk of snow still stuck to the bottom of my shoe. I am insured, I put in the accident report that my foot had slipped and by the time I could recover it was too late and impact was made. Her back bumper was pretty smashed in while the grill of my car was damaged, my hood was crunched up a bit and my drivers side door won't open more than 4 inches. The officer told me that I can waive the citation since no one was injured. My question is basically what are the pros and cons of waiving the ticket versus going to the court date? Is there anything else I should be thinking about? Is there any action the woman could take against me? My grandfather is helping deal with all of my insurance stuff but I can get very paranoid and neurotic and thought this sub would help with clearing up a lot of the stuff I've been worrying about.
First accident, I'm at fault and no one is hurt. I'm insured but really paranoid, tell me what to worry about.
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: First car accident in Medina County, Ohio POST: Yesterday after having my license for about a year and two months I was in my first car accident. I rear ended a lady after my foot slipped off the brake due to a chunk of snow still stuck to the bottom of my shoe. I am insured, I put in the accident report that my foot had slipped and by the time I could recover it was too late and impact was made. Her back bumper was pretty smashed in while the grill of my car was damaged, my hood was crunched up a bit and my drivers side door won't open more than 4 inches. The officer told me that I can waive the citation since no one was injured. My question is basically what are the pros and cons of waiving the ticket versus going to the court date? Is there anything else I should be thinking about? Is there any action the woman could take against me? My grandfather is helping deal with all of my insurance stuff but I can get very paranoid and neurotic and thought this sub would help with clearing up a lot of the stuff I've been worrying about. TL;DR:
First accident, I'm at fault and no one is hurt. I'm insured but really paranoid, tell me what to worry about.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: First car accident in Medina County, Ohio POST: Yesterday after having my license for about a year and two months I was in my first car accident. I rear ended a lady after my foot slipped off the brake due to a chunk of snow still stuck to the bottom of my shoe. I am insured, I put in the accident report that my foot had slipped and by the time I could recover it was too late and impact was made. Her back bumper was pretty smashed in while the grill of my car was damaged, my hood was crunched up a bit and my drivers side door won't open more than 4 inches. The officer told me that I can waive the citation since no one was injured. My question is basically what are the pros and cons of waiving the ticket versus going to the court date? Is there anything else I should be thinking about? Is there any action the woman could take against me? My grandfather is helping deal with all of my insurance stuff but I can get very paranoid and neurotic and thought this sub would help with clearing up a lot of the stuff I've been worrying about. TL;DR: First accident, I'm at fault and no one is hurt. I'm insured but really paranoid, tell me what to worry about.<|endoftext|>
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Me [25/M] wondering if I should show my jealous girlfriend some texts I have received from a drunk girl.
Long story short, I am working the graveyard shift at work. It's a hotel situated in the middle of the city. Due to it being weekend I see a lot of drunk people passing by (huge window, everyone can see me, it's like a damn aquarium) 3 girls just walked in, completely drunk and demanded my number and refused to leave until I gave it, even sent a confirmation text to see if it's the legit number. Now to me, this is hilarious and I want to show the texts they have sent me, however my girlfriend is quite the jealous type. I want to show it though but I am afraid it will turn into a useless discussion/"fight" that can easily be avoided.
3 drunk girls walked into my work, demanded my phone number, have sent a few texts to me (that are hilarious). Show the girlfriend (who is jealous) or not?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/M] wondering if I should show my jealous girlfriend some texts I have received from a drunk girl. POST: Long story short, I am working the graveyard shift at work. It's a hotel situated in the middle of the city. Due to it being weekend I see a lot of drunk people passing by (huge window, everyone can see me, it's like a damn aquarium) 3 girls just walked in, completely drunk and demanded my number and refused to leave until I gave it, even sent a confirmation text to see if it's the legit number. Now to me, this is hilarious and I want to show the texts they have sent me, however my girlfriend is quite the jealous type. I want to show it though but I am afraid it will turn into a useless discussion/"fight" that can easily be avoided. TL;DR:
3 drunk girls walked into my work, demanded my phone number, have sent a few texts to me (that are hilarious). Show the girlfriend (who is jealous) or not?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/M] wondering if I should show my jealous girlfriend some texts I have received from a drunk girl. POST: Long story short, I am working the graveyard shift at work. It's a hotel situated in the middle of the city. Due to it being weekend I see a lot of drunk people passing by (huge window, everyone can see me, it's like a damn aquarium) 3 girls just walked in, completely drunk and demanded my number and refused to leave until I gave it, even sent a confirmation text to see if it's the legit number. Now to me, this is hilarious and I want to show the texts they have sent me, however my girlfriend is quite the jealous type. I want to show it though but I am afraid it will turn into a useless discussion/"fight" that can easily be avoided. TL;DR: 3 drunk girls walked into my work, demanded my phone number, have sent a few texts to me (that are hilarious). Show the girlfriend (who is jealous) or not?<|endoftext|>
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I [18F] really like my bestfriend [19M]. But so does my friend / roommate [19F]
Okay so I've known my bestfriend Chris* for years. In around November/ December we became good friends who always hungout and texted. I always had a little crush on him but never told anyone about it because i felt dumb about it. It went like that for months. Until he met my friend Casy* [19F] who I've known my whole life and she told me she liked him. I was pissed but let it go. Now shes VERY into him and is very delusional to the fact that he doesnt like her. He hangs out with us everyday and its very noticable that he doesnt like her. I think he might like me though... We text alllll day and snapchat and we always hangout and hes so open with me and we just click so much. I also met his older sisterlast night and she made the comment ' she knew aloooooooot" . ( not in a bitchy way though, were actually really good friends now!!! Anyways, what the hell do i do??
I really like my boy bestfriend but when i introduced him to my friend that i live with, she said she likes him. alot.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] really like my bestfriend [19M]. But so does my friend / roommate [19F] POST: Okay so I've known my bestfriend Chris* for years. In around November/ December we became good friends who always hungout and texted. I always had a little crush on him but never told anyone about it because i felt dumb about it. It went like that for months. Until he met my friend Casy* [19F] who I've known my whole life and she told me she liked him. I was pissed but let it go. Now shes VERY into him and is very delusional to the fact that he doesnt like her. He hangs out with us everyday and its very noticable that he doesnt like her. I think he might like me though... We text alllll day and snapchat and we always hangout and hes so open with me and we just click so much. I also met his older sisterlast night and she made the comment'she knew aloooooooot". ( not in a bitchy way though, were actually really good friends now!!! Anyways, what the hell do i do?? TL;DR:
I really like my boy bestfriend but when i introduced him to my friend that i live with, she said she likes him. alot.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] really like my bestfriend [19M]. But so does my friend / roommate [19F] POST: Okay so I've known my bestfriend Chris* for years. In around November/ December we became good friends who always hungout and texted. I always had a little crush on him but never told anyone about it because i felt dumb about it. It went like that for months. Until he met my friend Casy* [19F] who I've known my whole life and she told me she liked him. I was pissed but let it go. Now shes VERY into him and is very delusional to the fact that he doesnt like her. He hangs out with us everyday and its very noticable that he doesnt like her. I think he might like me though... We text alllll day and snapchat and we always hangout and hes so open with me and we just click so much. I also met his older sisterlast night and she made the comment'she knew aloooooooot". ( not in a bitchy way though, were actually really good friends now!!! Anyways, what the hell do i do?? TL;DR: I really like my boy bestfriend but when i introduced him to my friend that i live with, she said she likes him. alot.<|endoftext|>
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What was your first time like?
I'm a 23 year old guy and I nearly just took the virginity of a 25 year old girl. We're getting into it at the club, and I notice she kisses like a 16 year old. We go back to my place and get nakey and I notice she's really REALLY tight. Like I can't even get my finger in there. "Are you a virgin?" I ask. "It's been a long time," she says. "Actually I am," she says later. A minute later she throws up on my floor and runs to the bathroom naked. She's throwing up and coughing in there, the landlord is in the room down the hall. He comes out and says, "Is there a cat retching or something?". "No," I say, as he walks towards the bathroom. He opens the door before I can do or say anything and sees her naked and throwing up into his pristine toilet. "There's a naked girl in there," he says and walks back to his room. She decides she had better go (I completely agree) and I call her a cab. The landlord and I laughed about it later, with of course a stern warning about inviting people into the house without asking.
Girl comes home with me, she's a virgin, throws up in my room and gets me in trouble with my landlord.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What was your first time like? POST: I'm a 23 year old guy and I nearly just took the virginity of a 25 year old girl. We're getting into it at the club, and I notice she kisses like a 16 year old. We go back to my place and get nakey and I notice she's really REALLY tight. Like I can't even get my finger in there. "Are you a virgin?" I ask. "It's been a long time," she says. "Actually I am," she says later. A minute later she throws up on my floor and runs to the bathroom naked. She's throwing up and coughing in there, the landlord is in the room down the hall. He comes out and says, "Is there a cat retching or something?". "No," I say, as he walks towards the bathroom. He opens the door before I can do or say anything and sees her naked and throwing up into his pristine toilet. "There's a naked girl in there," he says and walks back to his room. She decides she had better go (I completely agree) and I call her a cab. The landlord and I laughed about it later, with of course a stern warning about inviting people into the house without asking. TL;DR:
Girl comes home with me, she's a virgin, throws up in my room and gets me in trouble with my landlord.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What was your first time like? POST: I'm a 23 year old guy and I nearly just took the virginity of a 25 year old girl. We're getting into it at the club, and I notice she kisses like a 16 year old. We go back to my place and get nakey and I notice she's really REALLY tight. Like I can't even get my finger in there. "Are you a virgin?" I ask. "It's been a long time," she says. "Actually I am," she says later. A minute later she throws up on my floor and runs to the bathroom naked. She's throwing up and coughing in there, the landlord is in the room down the hall. He comes out and says, "Is there a cat retching or something?". "No," I say, as he walks towards the bathroom. He opens the door before I can do or say anything and sees her naked and throwing up into his pristine toilet. "There's a naked girl in there," he says and walks back to his room. She decides she had better go (I completely agree) and I call her a cab. The landlord and I laughed about it later, with of course a stern warning about inviting people into the house without asking. TL;DR: Girl comes home with me, she's a virgin, throws up in my room and gets me in trouble with my landlord.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by using my shopvac
So as with most tifu this happened about 6 weeks ago,but I am now just feeling the effects of this fuck up. So I am married with a wonderful 5y/o daughter....let's call her Athena. So one night Athena is with my inlaws having dinner at the local restaurant. All seems to go well and Athena is dropped back at my home. Now a little backstory....Athena has epilepsy and constipation issues...so naturally she is on multiple meds. When Athena is with said inlaws she doesn't get her meds until she gets home, which is normally past her bedtime. She is in full day kindergarten. So I administer said meds in an oral fashion quite quickly. Here is where the fuck up occurs. Athena sucks down her 5ml each of 2 meds and her 12 ounce of third med. wait 3-5 minutes after ingestion and projectile vomits occurs. Contents include but are not limited to the salad bar. Pretty much enough said on that. I being all testosterone based choose a shopvac as my tool of choice to clean it off my carpet. Cleanup goes well. Fast forward to tonight. Decide to use my shopvac and it turns out the hose is clogged. With what you may ask?? Dryed up salad bar/medicine puke. I now have to figure out how to clean the hose. Welcome to my life at 8:15 Saturday night.
kid pukes. I clean with shopvac. 6wks Later cleaning dry moldy puke out of shopvac hose.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using my shopvac POST: So as with most tifu this happened about 6 weeks ago,but I am now just feeling the effects of this fuck up. So I am married with a wonderful 5y/o daughter....let's call her Athena. So one night Athena is with my inlaws having dinner at the local restaurant. All seems to go well and Athena is dropped back at my home. Now a little backstory....Athena has epilepsy and constipation issues...so naturally she is on multiple meds. When Athena is with said inlaws she doesn't get her meds until she gets home, which is normally past her bedtime. She is in full day kindergarten. So I administer said meds in an oral fashion quite quickly. Here is where the fuck up occurs. Athena sucks down her 5ml each of 2 meds and her 12 ounce of third med. wait 3-5 minutes after ingestion and projectile vomits occurs. Contents include but are not limited to the salad bar. Pretty much enough said on that. I being all testosterone based choose a shopvac as my tool of choice to clean it off my carpet. Cleanup goes well. Fast forward to tonight. Decide to use my shopvac and it turns out the hose is clogged. With what you may ask?? Dryed up salad bar/medicine puke. I now have to figure out how to clean the hose. Welcome to my life at 8:15 Saturday night. TL;DR:
kid pukes. I clean with shopvac. 6wks Later cleaning dry moldy puke out of shopvac hose.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using my shopvac POST: So as with most tifu this happened about 6 weeks ago,but I am now just feeling the effects of this fuck up. So I am married with a wonderful 5y/o daughter....let's call her Athena. So one night Athena is with my inlaws having dinner at the local restaurant. All seems to go well and Athena is dropped back at my home. Now a little backstory....Athena has epilepsy and constipation issues...so naturally she is on multiple meds. When Athena is with said inlaws she doesn't get her meds until she gets home, which is normally past her bedtime. She is in full day kindergarten. So I administer said meds in an oral fashion quite quickly. Here is where the fuck up occurs. Athena sucks down her 5ml each of 2 meds and her 12 ounce of third med. wait 3-5 minutes after ingestion and projectile vomits occurs. Contents include but are not limited to the salad bar. Pretty much enough said on that. I being all testosterone based choose a shopvac as my tool of choice to clean it off my carpet. Cleanup goes well. Fast forward to tonight. Decide to use my shopvac and it turns out the hose is clogged. With what you may ask?? Dryed up salad bar/medicine puke. I now have to figure out how to clean the hose. Welcome to my life at 8:15 Saturday night. TL;DR: kid pukes. I clean with shopvac. 6wks Later cleaning dry moldy puke out of shopvac hose.<|endoftext|>
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I'm sure this has been beaten to death but - My [23 M] Long Distance Girlfriend [23 F] of 6 months is still friends with her ex (BF and best friend) and it is making me uncomfortable.
I met my girlfriend this summer and she is now away for school. She dated this gentleman for a year and that ended in April-May (They were best friends beforehand). She has explained that the two are not enemies (which is fine) and still remain semi close. In the past he has sent her some worrying emails regarding himself (mental health) and his mother has gone through some health problems and he wrote my SO a long email, basically using her as an emotional crutch. She has been honest and open with me about their relationship and assured me she feels nothing romantic towards him and has also stated that if I ever felt uncomfortable with their relatonship that she would end it. He posted on her facebook wall about a new TV season of the show they used to watch and she responded that she was excited and they had to watch it. This is what leads me to my question(s) 1. How do I approach this topic over skype the phone or should I wait till we are in person (less than 2 weeks)? 2. I don't want to control who she hangs out, but their relationship makes me uncomfortable, despite the fact this guy seems pretty ok.What steps could I take to be ok with this? I trust her, but past experiences have shown she is slightly oblivious to when men are hitting on her. 3. Everyone is different, but do you think there is a chance that she would resent me for communicating this to her as she has offered to "end" their relationship?
Long Distance GF is still close with ex Boyfriend and close friend, how do I learn to be ok with this? / What would be the most tactful way to tell her it makes me uncomfortable to think about them hanging out?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm sure this has been beaten to death but - My [23 M] Long Distance Girlfriend [23 F] of 6 months is still friends with her ex (BF and best friend) and it is making me uncomfortable. POST: I met my girlfriend this summer and she is now away for school. She dated this gentleman for a year and that ended in April-May (They were best friends beforehand). She has explained that the two are not enemies (which is fine) and still remain semi close. In the past he has sent her some worrying emails regarding himself (mental health) and his mother has gone through some health problems and he wrote my SO a long email, basically using her as an emotional crutch. She has been honest and open with me about their relationship and assured me she feels nothing romantic towards him and has also stated that if I ever felt uncomfortable with their relatonship that she would end it. He posted on her facebook wall about a new TV season of the show they used to watch and she responded that she was excited and they had to watch it. This is what leads me to my question(s) 1. How do I approach this topic over skype the phone or should I wait till we are in person (less than 2 weeks)? 2. I don't want to control who she hangs out, but their relationship makes me uncomfortable, despite the fact this guy seems pretty ok.What steps could I take to be ok with this? I trust her, but past experiences have shown she is slightly oblivious to when men are hitting on her. 3. Everyone is different, but do you think there is a chance that she would resent me for communicating this to her as she has offered to "end" their relationship? TL;DR:
Long Distance GF is still close with ex Boyfriend and close friend, how do I learn to be ok with this? / What would be the most tactful way to tell her it makes me uncomfortable to think about them hanging out?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm sure this has been beaten to death but - My [23 M] Long Distance Girlfriend [23 F] of 6 months is still friends with her ex (BF and best friend) and it is making me uncomfortable. POST: I met my girlfriend this summer and she is now away for school. She dated this gentleman for a year and that ended in April-May (They were best friends beforehand). She has explained that the two are not enemies (which is fine) and still remain semi close. In the past he has sent her some worrying emails regarding himself (mental health) and his mother has gone through some health problems and he wrote my SO a long email, basically using her as an emotional crutch. She has been honest and open with me about their relationship and assured me she feels nothing romantic towards him and has also stated that if I ever felt uncomfortable with their relatonship that she would end it. He posted on her facebook wall about a new TV season of the show they used to watch and she responded that she was excited and they had to watch it. This is what leads me to my question(s) 1. How do I approach this topic over skype the phone or should I wait till we are in person (less than 2 weeks)? 2. I don't want to control who she hangs out, but their relationship makes me uncomfortable, despite the fact this guy seems pretty ok.What steps could I take to be ok with this? I trust her, but past experiences have shown she is slightly oblivious to when men are hitting on her. 3. Everyone is different, but do you think there is a chance that she would resent me for communicating this to her as she has offered to "end" their relationship? TL;DR: Long Distance GF is still close with ex Boyfriend and close friend, how do I learn to be ok with this? / What would be the most tactful way to tell her it makes me uncomfortable to think about them hanging out?<|endoftext|>
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Me (22M) in a relationship with my gf (22F) for just over a month. I'm concerned that she's not as social as me, settled with her job and isn't undertaking study or as ambitious as me.
I've been seeing my gf for about a month and have been officially together for just over a month. Something just drew me to her, I'm attracted to her but she isn't as social as I am on an individual or group basis. When we first started dating she was quiet, didn't start conversations and kept to herself or on her phone. She's improved now where she's herself around me, she starts conversations, she's more cheeky and opinionated, makes me laugh etc. She comes from a good family, everyone is nice and easy going and I'm her 2nd serious relationship. My family also likes her even though she seems a bit quiet and reserved (this has improved though.) Whilst this isn't the main concern, my concern is that she isn't as ambitious as me and she is stuck in a dead end job working at a retail pharmacy settling in life. She has the 'can't be bothered' attitude to work which makes me sick because I believe everyone has a choice and that she can do whatever she truly wants to do in life and in a relationship you should be inspired by your partner. Me on the otherhand, I have a Business degree with two majors and am currently studying a postgraduate Master's degree in International Business. On top of this, I DJ on the weekends and am planning to invest into the nightclub scene and run my own nights as well as other types of investments and business. I also have interests in a lot of other fields. Basically, I don't want to settle and have high ambitions. This is not taking away that she's a good girl, she cares for me, puts me first and treats me well. We get along good. I am a bit turned off that she doesn't study at University and is 'content' with her job and doesn't know otherwise.
What do I do? I really like the girl, but in the back of my mind something is telling me to be careful. Am I settling?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22M) in a relationship with my gf (22F) for just over a month. I'm concerned that she's not as social as me, settled with her job and isn't undertaking study or as ambitious as me. POST: I've been seeing my gf for about a month and have been officially together for just over a month. Something just drew me to her, I'm attracted to her but she isn't as social as I am on an individual or group basis. When we first started dating she was quiet, didn't start conversations and kept to herself or on her phone. She's improved now where she's herself around me, she starts conversations, she's more cheeky and opinionated, makes me laugh etc. She comes from a good family, everyone is nice and easy going and I'm her 2nd serious relationship. My family also likes her even though she seems a bit quiet and reserved (this has improved though.) Whilst this isn't the main concern, my concern is that she isn't as ambitious as me and she is stuck in a dead end job working at a retail pharmacy settling in life. She has the 'can't be bothered' attitude to work which makes me sick because I believe everyone has a choice and that she can do whatever she truly wants to do in life and in a relationship you should be inspired by your partner. Me on the otherhand, I have a Business degree with two majors and am currently studying a postgraduate Master's degree in International Business. On top of this, I DJ on the weekends and am planning to invest into the nightclub scene and run my own nights as well as other types of investments and business. I also have interests in a lot of other fields. Basically, I don't want to settle and have high ambitions. This is not taking away that she's a good girl, she cares for me, puts me first and treats me well. We get along good. I am a bit turned off that she doesn't study at University and is 'content' with her job and doesn't know otherwise. TL;DR:
What do I do? I really like the girl, but in the back of my mind something is telling me to be careful. Am I settling?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22M) in a relationship with my gf (22F) for just over a month. I'm concerned that she's not as social as me, settled with her job and isn't undertaking study or as ambitious as me. POST: I've been seeing my gf for about a month and have been officially together for just over a month. Something just drew me to her, I'm attracted to her but she isn't as social as I am on an individual or group basis. When we first started dating she was quiet, didn't start conversations and kept to herself or on her phone. She's improved now where she's herself around me, she starts conversations, she's more cheeky and opinionated, makes me laugh etc. She comes from a good family, everyone is nice and easy going and I'm her 2nd serious relationship. My family also likes her even though she seems a bit quiet and reserved (this has improved though.) Whilst this isn't the main concern, my concern is that she isn't as ambitious as me and she is stuck in a dead end job working at a retail pharmacy settling in life. She has the 'can't be bothered' attitude to work which makes me sick because I believe everyone has a choice and that she can do whatever she truly wants to do in life and in a relationship you should be inspired by your partner. Me on the otherhand, I have a Business degree with two majors and am currently studying a postgraduate Master's degree in International Business. On top of this, I DJ on the weekends and am planning to invest into the nightclub scene and run my own nights as well as other types of investments and business. I also have interests in a lot of other fields. Basically, I don't want to settle and have high ambitions. This is not taking away that she's a good girl, she cares for me, puts me first and treats me well. We get along good. I am a bit turned off that she doesn't study at University and is 'content' with her job and doesn't know otherwise. TL;DR: What do I do? I really like the girl, but in the back of my mind something is telling me to be careful. Am I settling?<|endoftext|>
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My [17M] girlfriend [17F] wants to sleep over at her male friend's house for his birthday.
So I've been best friends with this girl for about 4 years now and we started dating 9 months ago. It's been going great so far, no major problems, but today she told me her new-ish [18M] friend is having a few friends over for a birthday party, and they'd all be spending the night. Now, I've never met this guy OR any of the other guys attending, (she'd be the only girl), and this whole situation is making me extremely uncomfortable. She's reassured me that he hasn't tried anything, and if he did she would immediately leave for my house (I live a couple blocks away from him). I let her know how uncomfortable it made me feel, and her takeaway from it seems to be that I don't trust her and that her reassurances should be enough to put me at ease. So reddit, should I be worried? I don't think it's really my place to expressly forbid her from doing anything, but at this point should that be my next course of action?
My girlfriend wants to go to her male friend's birthday and sleep over, I am uncomfortable with this and have talked to her about it. What's my next course of action?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] girlfriend [17F] wants to sleep over at her male friend's house for his birthday. POST: So I've been best friends with this girl for about 4 years now and we started dating 9 months ago. It's been going great so far, no major problems, but today she told me her new-ish [18M] friend is having a few friends over for a birthday party, and they'd all be spending the night. Now, I've never met this guy OR any of the other guys attending, (she'd be the only girl), and this whole situation is making me extremely uncomfortable. She's reassured me that he hasn't tried anything, and if he did she would immediately leave for my house (I live a couple blocks away from him). I let her know how uncomfortable it made me feel, and her takeaway from it seems to be that I don't trust her and that her reassurances should be enough to put me at ease. So reddit, should I be worried? I don't think it's really my place to expressly forbid her from doing anything, but at this point should that be my next course of action? TL;DR:
My girlfriend wants to go to her male friend's birthday and sleep over, I am uncomfortable with this and have talked to her about it. What's my next course of action?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] girlfriend [17F] wants to sleep over at her male friend's house for his birthday. POST: So I've been best friends with this girl for about 4 years now and we started dating 9 months ago. It's been going great so far, no major problems, but today she told me her new-ish [18M] friend is having a few friends over for a birthday party, and they'd all be spending the night. Now, I've never met this guy OR any of the other guys attending, (she'd be the only girl), and this whole situation is making me extremely uncomfortable. She's reassured me that he hasn't tried anything, and if he did she would immediately leave for my house (I live a couple blocks away from him). I let her know how uncomfortable it made me feel, and her takeaway from it seems to be that I don't trust her and that her reassurances should be enough to put me at ease. So reddit, should I be worried? I don't think it's really my place to expressly forbid her from doing anything, but at this point should that be my next course of action? TL;DR: My girlfriend wants to go to her male friend's birthday and sleep over, I am uncomfortable with this and have talked to her about it. What's my next course of action?<|endoftext|>
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My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings?
My boyfriend is a very loving and caring man. He has his quirks, is newly discovered to have Aspergers and is admittedly a misogynist. He is cocky and his brilliance is a harm to others. To him all women are the same, including myself. We are evil creatures. Which deeply hurts me as I love him for his differences, he faults me for mine. He is one in a million to me and I feel like just another face in the crowd of second class citizens that live below his throne. There are countless examples, side remarks, rude comments, etc etc. So much more than I can write. I am looking for a delicate, non defensive way to explain to him that these views and remarks hurt my feelings deeply, and that they make me feel like his reasonings for loving me for me are invalidated. Please be kind.
My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings? POST: My boyfriend is a very loving and caring man. He has his quirks, is newly discovered to have Aspergers and is admittedly a misogynist. He is cocky and his brilliance is a harm to others. To him all women are the same, including myself. We are evil creatures. Which deeply hurts me as I love him for his differences, he faults me for mine. He is one in a million to me and I feel like just another face in the crowd of second class citizens that live below his throne. There are countless examples, side remarks, rude comments, etc etc. So much more than I can write. I am looking for a delicate, non defensive way to explain to him that these views and remarks hurt my feelings deeply, and that they make me feel like his reasonings for loving me for me are invalidated. Please be kind. TL;DR:
My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings? POST: My boyfriend is a very loving and caring man. He has his quirks, is newly discovered to have Aspergers and is admittedly a misogynist. He is cocky and his brilliance is a harm to others. To him all women are the same, including myself. We are evil creatures. Which deeply hurts me as I love him for his differences, he faults me for mine. He is one in a million to me and I feel like just another face in the crowd of second class citizens that live below his throne. There are countless examples, side remarks, rude comments, etc etc. So much more than I can write. I am looking for a delicate, non defensive way to explain to him that these views and remarks hurt my feelings deeply, and that they make me feel like his reasonings for loving me for me are invalidated. Please be kind. TL;DR: My (28/f) boyfriend (30/M) of 3 years is a vapid misogynist. How do I cope or explain his opinion of women hurts my feelings?<|endoftext|>
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5yo boy suffers from massive b.m. that clog toilet every time
My brother is 5. Today he used the bathroom, clogged the toilet, it overflowed. He tried to use a plunger himself but only made more of a mess. He was embarrassed and didn't tell his mother and so she had a nice surprise. I remember changing him when he was in diapers, and he would frequently have baseball sized (and shaped) poops that were as hard as a rock. Flushing them would clog the toilet even then. I am posting this on behalf of my mother who wouldn't have any idea how to do this. He refuses to eat anything besides meat and potatoes (if that) and occasionally some fruit. The best solution I can think of is to either MAKE him eat other foods too (I don't know if his mom has the strength to force him to do anything), or to give him some sort of fiber supplement. Maybe both. Is it safe for a 5 year old to take fiber pills? Is there some other solution we can't come up with?
my brother (5) has had hard, toilet clogging bowel movements his entire life. How can we alter the size and toughness of his poop?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: 5yo boy suffers from massive b.m. that clog toilet every time POST: My brother is 5. Today he used the bathroom, clogged the toilet, it overflowed. He tried to use a plunger himself but only made more of a mess. He was embarrassed and didn't tell his mother and so she had a nice surprise. I remember changing him when he was in diapers, and he would frequently have baseball sized (and shaped) poops that were as hard as a rock. Flushing them would clog the toilet even then. I am posting this on behalf of my mother who wouldn't have any idea how to do this. He refuses to eat anything besides meat and potatoes (if that) and occasionally some fruit. The best solution I can think of is to either MAKE him eat other foods too (I don't know if his mom has the strength to force him to do anything), or to give him some sort of fiber supplement. Maybe both. Is it safe for a 5 year old to take fiber pills? Is there some other solution we can't come up with? TL;DR:
my brother (5) has had hard, toilet clogging bowel movements his entire life. How can we alter the size and toughness of his poop?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: 5yo boy suffers from massive b.m. that clog toilet every time POST: My brother is 5. Today he used the bathroom, clogged the toilet, it overflowed. He tried to use a plunger himself but only made more of a mess. He was embarrassed and didn't tell his mother and so she had a nice surprise. I remember changing him when he was in diapers, and he would frequently have baseball sized (and shaped) poops that were as hard as a rock. Flushing them would clog the toilet even then. I am posting this on behalf of my mother who wouldn't have any idea how to do this. He refuses to eat anything besides meat and potatoes (if that) and occasionally some fruit. The best solution I can think of is to either MAKE him eat other foods too (I don't know if his mom has the strength to force him to do anything), or to give him some sort of fiber supplement. Maybe both. Is it safe for a 5 year old to take fiber pills? Is there some other solution we can't come up with? TL;DR: my brother (5) has had hard, toilet clogging bowel movements his entire life. How can we alter the size and toughness of his poop?<|endoftext|>
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I suck at friendship
My friends made plans without me. I got really lonely, upset, ashamed, mad, passive aggressive and sad. I just want to rant. I transferred to a 4-year college in the fall from a community college and made a small group of transfer friends (since we had a full week of transfer orientation). They're starting to branch out and and push me out of the group. For a while now, I've known that most of my transfer friends have only been friends with me through my also transfer roommate, who is now avoiding me and not inviting me to group stuff that she always used to. She usually talks on the phone in the room and doesn't have the courtesy to step out. But recently when she's making plans with mutual friends, she'll step out so I don't hear what they're saying. I'm also in varsity sports but I'm not close with my teammates that much. I posted on the team facebook group about hanging out to play cards, but no one responded. Feels shitty. I'm starting to take it out on my boyfriend, who is amazing. He hung out with his friends last night and tonight. Normally I'm okay with us doing our own things. But I'm upset because of my friends. So I'm upset that he is hanging out with his friends than me, also because I'm going to move back home for the summer in a week. But I don't tell him that, because I don't want to be clingy. I feel so passive aggressive toward him. I turned off chat so he would stop chatting me and call or text me. Ugh, I'm so immature. I also can't bring myself to tell him how much of a loner I am and that I have no real friends. I am afraid that would turn him off. I mean, wouldn't anyone be turned off if they know their partner doesn't have anything else to do by herself and just wants to hang out with you all the time?
My friends are not inviting me to have fun. I can't bring myself to invite myself. I take it out on bf who is doing nothing wrong. I'm disgusted with myself.
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I suck at friendship POST: My friends made plans without me. I got really lonely, upset, ashamed, mad, passive aggressive and sad. I just want to rant. I transferred to a 4-year college in the fall from a community college and made a small group of transfer friends (since we had a full week of transfer orientation). They're starting to branch out and and push me out of the group. For a while now, I've known that most of my transfer friends have only been friends with me through my also transfer roommate, who is now avoiding me and not inviting me to group stuff that she always used to. She usually talks on the phone in the room and doesn't have the courtesy to step out. But recently when she's making plans with mutual friends, she'll step out so I don't hear what they're saying. I'm also in varsity sports but I'm not close with my teammates that much. I posted on the team facebook group about hanging out to play cards, but no one responded. Feels shitty. I'm starting to take it out on my boyfriend, who is amazing. He hung out with his friends last night and tonight. Normally I'm okay with us doing our own things. But I'm upset because of my friends. So I'm upset that he is hanging out with his friends than me, also because I'm going to move back home for the summer in a week. But I don't tell him that, because I don't want to be clingy. I feel so passive aggressive toward him. I turned off chat so he would stop chatting me and call or text me. Ugh, I'm so immature. I also can't bring myself to tell him how much of a loner I am and that I have no real friends. I am afraid that would turn him off. I mean, wouldn't anyone be turned off if they know their partner doesn't have anything else to do by herself and just wants to hang out with you all the time? TL;DR:
My friends are not inviting me to have fun. I can't bring myself to invite myself. I take it out on bf who is doing nothing wrong. I'm disgusted with myself.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I suck at friendship POST: My friends made plans without me. I got really lonely, upset, ashamed, mad, passive aggressive and sad. I just want to rant. I transferred to a 4-year college in the fall from a community college and made a small group of transfer friends (since we had a full week of transfer orientation). They're starting to branch out and and push me out of the group. For a while now, I've known that most of my transfer friends have only been friends with me through my also transfer roommate, who is now avoiding me and not inviting me to group stuff that she always used to. She usually talks on the phone in the room and doesn't have the courtesy to step out. But recently when she's making plans with mutual friends, she'll step out so I don't hear what they're saying. I'm also in varsity sports but I'm not close with my teammates that much. I posted on the team facebook group about hanging out to play cards, but no one responded. Feels shitty. I'm starting to take it out on my boyfriend, who is amazing. He hung out with his friends last night and tonight. Normally I'm okay with us doing our own things. But I'm upset because of my friends. So I'm upset that he is hanging out with his friends than me, also because I'm going to move back home for the summer in a week. But I don't tell him that, because I don't want to be clingy. I feel so passive aggressive toward him. I turned off chat so he would stop chatting me and call or text me. Ugh, I'm so immature. I also can't bring myself to tell him how much of a loner I am and that I have no real friends. I am afraid that would turn him off. I mean, wouldn't anyone be turned off if they know their partner doesn't have anything else to do by herself and just wants to hang out with you all the time? TL;DR: My friends are not inviting me to have fun. I can't bring myself to invite myself. I take it out on bf who is doing nothing wrong. I'm disgusted with myself.<|endoftext|>
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Is my buddy's plan really a "great investment?"
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my friend is buying a house because it's what people do, but I'm not sure he's being wise with his monies
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is my buddy's plan really a "great investment?" POST: My friend has been irrationally exuberant lately, constantly saying he needs to buy a house. The market is kinda hot now, but wages are still stagnant so I tend to lean a little bearish on this economy until that changes. Here's the #s He makes around $85k/yr and has a company car. His fiancé is HORRIBLE with her money and recently told him (after 6 years dating plus 2.5 years of on/off engagement) that she had been hiding $75K in private student loans. She's a nurse and makes around $60K, and has $60k federal loans and $75k private. She can contribute $1k per month to the house. They currently pay $1,400/mo rent for a nice 2bdrm with a little lake for the dog to fuck around. The house will close in a month with a VA loan with just my buddy's name on it for veteran reasons. Smart, because as an aside I think his fiancé is cheating on him. The house will cost him $2,400/mo with taxes, on a THIRTY YEAR at 3.4%. My boss owns a wealth management firm and hates when I do this, but that's a total payout of $865,000. The house is like $285K, I don't feel like doing that math. When I asked why he feels so compelled to by a house, he said because equity. Quote: "renting is NOT the way to go." However, he's also a known idiot. Can we just look at what he stands to lose by not investing that extra $1,000 per month for the next 1-3 decades? The difference between his assumed equity and just putting his money in the DJIA? He doesn't understand simple shit like liquidity, and that trying to get money from your house is the opposite of deciding to sell off some bonds or stocks. TL;DR:
my friend is buying a house because it's what people do, but I'm not sure he's being wise with his monies<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is my buddy's plan really a "great investment?" POST: My friend has been irrationally exuberant lately, constantly saying he needs to buy a house. The market is kinda hot now, but wages are still stagnant so I tend to lean a little bearish on this economy until that changes. Here's the #s He makes around $85k/yr and has a company car. His fiancé is HORRIBLE with her money and recently told him (after 6 years dating plus 2.5 years of on/off engagement) that she had been hiding $75K in private student loans. She's a nurse and makes around $60K, and has $60k federal loans and $75k private. She can contribute $1k per month to the house. They currently pay $1,400/mo rent for a nice 2bdrm with a little lake for the dog to fuck around. The house will close in a month with a VA loan with just my buddy's name on it for veteran reasons. Smart, because as an aside I think his fiancé is cheating on him. The house will cost him $2,400/mo with taxes, on a THIRTY YEAR at 3.4%. My boss owns a wealth management firm and hates when I do this, but that's a total payout of $865,000. The house is like $285K, I don't feel like doing that math. When I asked why he feels so compelled to by a house, he said because equity. Quote: "renting is NOT the way to go." However, he's also a known idiot. Can we just look at what he stands to lose by not investing that extra $1,000 per month for the next 1-3 decades? The difference between his assumed equity and just putting his money in the DJIA? He doesn't understand simple shit like liquidity, and that trying to get money from your house is the opposite of deciding to sell off some bonds or stocks. TL;DR: my friend is buying a house because it's what people do, but I'm not sure he's being wise with his monies<|endoftext|>
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My girlfriend is in danger of being fired for taking 'too many' sick days at work. No health insurance, and the free clinics are closed until the middle of next week. What can she do? (Bonus question included)
**Resolved** Backstory: 20 year old girlfriend works minimum wage, hourly at a burger joint in San Diego. She just transferred to a different location about a few weeks ago. She got pretty sick (Seems to be the flu) and called for a sick day last week, worked a couple days in between, and again yesterday. Her supervisor doesn't like her very much, and hinted on that call that calling in sick so soon could be dangerous if she wants to keep her job. And now to today. Girlfriend is bedridden, and nearly collapsed from exertion walking back from the bathroom from vomiting. She called in sick again, and her supervisor told her that she would need a doctor's note, or else she would be terminated. The problem is that she has no health insurance, and can't afford to go to a doctor to get a note. The only local free clinics we could find don't open until Tuesday, and the supervisor refused to take any other form of verification. Company policy is that no note is required for less than three consecutive days, but she's on at-will employment, and is probably going to be too sick to work tomorrow as well by the look of things. Also, we have no way of getting her to work today. She drives manual, and I have no idea how to do that, and I'm not able to drive her out there and back tonight.
Girlfriend got sick, supervisor threatening to fire her without a note from a doctor, despite company policy. No insurance, and can't afford urgent care. Can't find a free clinic until Tuesday. Need advice.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is in danger of being fired for taking 'too many' sick days at work. No health insurance, and the free clinics are closed until the middle of next week. What can she do? (Bonus question included) POST: **Resolved** Backstory: 20 year old girlfriend works minimum wage, hourly at a burger joint in San Diego. She just transferred to a different location about a few weeks ago. She got pretty sick (Seems to be the flu) and called for a sick day last week, worked a couple days in between, and again yesterday. Her supervisor doesn't like her very much, and hinted on that call that calling in sick so soon could be dangerous if she wants to keep her job. And now to today. Girlfriend is bedridden, and nearly collapsed from exertion walking back from the bathroom from vomiting. She called in sick again, and her supervisor told her that she would need a doctor's note, or else she would be terminated. The problem is that she has no health insurance, and can't afford to go to a doctor to get a note. The only local free clinics we could find don't open until Tuesday, and the supervisor refused to take any other form of verification. Company policy is that no note is required for less than three consecutive days, but she's on at-will employment, and is probably going to be too sick to work tomorrow as well by the look of things. Also, we have no way of getting her to work today. She drives manual, and I have no idea how to do that, and I'm not able to drive her out there and back tonight. TL;DR:
Girlfriend got sick, supervisor threatening to fire her without a note from a doctor, despite company policy. No insurance, and can't afford urgent care. Can't find a free clinic until Tuesday. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is in danger of being fired for taking 'too many' sick days at work. No health insurance, and the free clinics are closed until the middle of next week. What can she do? (Bonus question included) POST: **Resolved** Backstory: 20 year old girlfriend works minimum wage, hourly at a burger joint in San Diego. She just transferred to a different location about a few weeks ago. She got pretty sick (Seems to be the flu) and called for a sick day last week, worked a couple days in between, and again yesterday. Her supervisor doesn't like her very much, and hinted on that call that calling in sick so soon could be dangerous if she wants to keep her job. And now to today. Girlfriend is bedridden, and nearly collapsed from exertion walking back from the bathroom from vomiting. She called in sick again, and her supervisor told her that she would need a doctor's note, or else she would be terminated. The problem is that she has no health insurance, and can't afford to go to a doctor to get a note. The only local free clinics we could find don't open until Tuesday, and the supervisor refused to take any other form of verification. Company policy is that no note is required for less than three consecutive days, but she's on at-will employment, and is probably going to be too sick to work tomorrow as well by the look of things. Also, we have no way of getting her to work today. She drives manual, and I have no idea how to do that, and I'm not able to drive her out there and back tonight. TL;DR: Girlfriend got sick, supervisor threatening to fire her without a note from a doctor, despite company policy. No insurance, and can't afford urgent care. Can't find a free clinic until Tuesday. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
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How to fight my own cowardice
Hi reddit, If I were to wright down some of my worst character traits - which I still didn't - cowardice would be the top one. * I was bullied at school - but not at the university (and found lots of friends there) - mostly because I lacked confidence to fight back and since I am basically a non-violent person. * I was failed to stand up for people a couple of times for fear of being caught in the fight. * I restrained my love feelings for one girl for lack of confidence in myself, fear to face some personal issues. Things have become better over the years. I gained a bit of confidence (but not enough), been into martial arts course which lends me some physical confidence. But whenever i face some physical/phychological challenge fear overwhelms me: facing off a bigger pal at the disco who hits on the girls I dance with or getting more physical (touching and kissing) with a girl I like or standing up for some cause. Have you experienced that? What are the best ways to fight one own's cowardice. I heard that picking up some extreme sport (like snowbording) does add some confidence. What are some other, cheaper and more available ways to do that. Thank you lots :)
I am a coward and lack self-confidence, things got better as I got older, but not enough. How to fight my own cowardice?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to fight my own cowardice POST: Hi reddit, If I were to wright down some of my worst character traits - which I still didn't - cowardice would be the top one. * I was bullied at school - but not at the university (and found lots of friends there) - mostly because I lacked confidence to fight back and since I am basically a non-violent person. * I was failed to stand up for people a couple of times for fear of being caught in the fight. * I restrained my love feelings for one girl for lack of confidence in myself, fear to face some personal issues. Things have become better over the years. I gained a bit of confidence (but not enough), been into martial arts course which lends me some physical confidence. But whenever i face some physical/phychological challenge fear overwhelms me: facing off a bigger pal at the disco who hits on the girls I dance with or getting more physical (touching and kissing) with a girl I like or standing up for some cause. Have you experienced that? What are the best ways to fight one own's cowardice. I heard that picking up some extreme sport (like snowbording) does add some confidence. What are some other, cheaper and more available ways to do that. Thank you lots :) TL;DR:
I am a coward and lack self-confidence, things got better as I got older, but not enough. How to fight my own cowardice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to fight my own cowardice POST: Hi reddit, If I were to wright down some of my worst character traits - which I still didn't - cowardice would be the top one. * I was bullied at school - but not at the university (and found lots of friends there) - mostly because I lacked confidence to fight back and since I am basically a non-violent person. * I was failed to stand up for people a couple of times for fear of being caught in the fight. * I restrained my love feelings for one girl for lack of confidence in myself, fear to face some personal issues. Things have become better over the years. I gained a bit of confidence (but not enough), been into martial arts course which lends me some physical confidence. But whenever i face some physical/phychological challenge fear overwhelms me: facing off a bigger pal at the disco who hits on the girls I dance with or getting more physical (touching and kissing) with a girl I like or standing up for some cause. Have you experienced that? What are the best ways to fight one own's cowardice. I heard that picking up some extreme sport (like snowbording) does add some confidence. What are some other, cheaper and more available ways to do that. Thank you lots :) TL;DR: I am a coward and lack self-confidence, things got better as I got older, but not enough. How to fight my own cowardice?<|endoftext|>
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Is me [27 F] dating a coworker [27 M] of one month unprofessional?
I've heard a lot that dating a coworker is considered unprofessional. Career is more important than a relationship for me, but I tend to get infatuated/obsessed/etc with coworkers, so my question is how bad for my professional reputation dating a coworker would be? The specific coworker I have in mind right now is a new guy who barely worked at the company for one month but I generally tend to fall for people I work with, so if you decide to give advice to me, please do not limit yourselves to this particular situation. I'm kinda a serial workplace romance person... The difference this time around is that I actually value this job. Additional question for people who think it's unprofessional or not recommended to date a coworker, how should I deal with my feelings and is there a way to avoid having them or move on from them faster? Thanks!
Tend to develop crushes on coworkers; with my career in mind, should I act on my romantic feelings or not?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is me [27 F] dating a coworker [27 M] of one month unprofessional? POST: I've heard a lot that dating a coworker is considered unprofessional. Career is more important than a relationship for me, but I tend to get infatuated/obsessed/etc with coworkers, so my question is how bad for my professional reputation dating a coworker would be? The specific coworker I have in mind right now is a new guy who barely worked at the company for one month but I generally tend to fall for people I work with, so if you decide to give advice to me, please do not limit yourselves to this particular situation. I'm kinda a serial workplace romance person... The difference this time around is that I actually value this job. Additional question for people who think it's unprofessional or not recommended to date a coworker, how should I deal with my feelings and is there a way to avoid having them or move on from them faster? Thanks! TL;DR:
Tend to develop crushes on coworkers; with my career in mind, should I act on my romantic feelings or not?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is me [27 F] dating a coworker [27 M] of one month unprofessional? POST: I've heard a lot that dating a coworker is considered unprofessional. Career is more important than a relationship for me, but I tend to get infatuated/obsessed/etc with coworkers, so my question is how bad for my professional reputation dating a coworker would be? The specific coworker I have in mind right now is a new guy who barely worked at the company for one month but I generally tend to fall for people I work with, so if you decide to give advice to me, please do not limit yourselves to this particular situation. I'm kinda a serial workplace romance person... The difference this time around is that I actually value this job. Additional question for people who think it's unprofessional or not recommended to date a coworker, how should I deal with my feelings and is there a way to avoid having them or move on from them faster? Thanks! TL;DR: Tend to develop crushes on coworkers; with my career in mind, should I act on my romantic feelings or not?<|endoftext|>
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Me [24M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 8 months, She suddenly seems uncomfortable with any long-term plans.
Not sure where to begin. My girlfriend of 8 months has been on exchange in Korea whilst I've been studying in Japan over tge last 2 months or so. We met in Japan (she's Japanese) and we really hit it off. She met with me frequently, helped me through the Japanese hospital system, took me to meet her friends and even her parents and grandparents. It was incredible and we were totally in sync with one another. during Christmas, she came and met my family in Australia and as best I could I took care of her as she did for me in Japan. Things continued going well, and we made plans to rent an apartment together in Japan, knowing she would have to leave in 2 months for exchange in Korea. We moved in together and became even closer. in that 2 month span we also travelled in Japan together and even went to hawaii. She said just before leaving for Korea, that she wanted to move to Australia with me after her exchange. Every 2-3 weeks we arranged to see each other on weekends. Even as I write this, we are holidaying in the Philippines together. Suddenly though, she became more distant and less enthusiastic for our relationship. Sex also dried up. I confronted her after a month of effectively being stonewalled. She tearfully confided in me that she was having second thoughts about moving to Australia, that she wasn't sure what she wanted yet and that she was having trouble being intimate with me both emotionally and physically. She reassured me she still loves me, and to give her time. She also said however, that she's unsure if she will come to Australia at all - which will probably be the end of us. I guess my question is, how do I react to this? I've fallen head over heels for this girl and now feel totally powerless. I also have way too much spare time in Japan and dwell on this predicament far more than is healthy. I just want closure, but don't want to force her into making a premature choice. Reddit, what can I do?
GF is suddenly unsure of a future with me and wants time. Not sure how to react. I'm afraid I'll lose her...
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 8 months, She suddenly seems uncomfortable with any long-term plans. POST: Not sure where to begin. My girlfriend of 8 months has been on exchange in Korea whilst I've been studying in Japan over tge last 2 months or so. We met in Japan (she's Japanese) and we really hit it off. She met with me frequently, helped me through the Japanese hospital system, took me to meet her friends and even her parents and grandparents. It was incredible and we were totally in sync with one another. during Christmas, she came and met my family in Australia and as best I could I took care of her as she did for me in Japan. Things continued going well, and we made plans to rent an apartment together in Japan, knowing she would have to leave in 2 months for exchange in Korea. We moved in together and became even closer. in that 2 month span we also travelled in Japan together and even went to hawaii. She said just before leaving for Korea, that she wanted to move to Australia with me after her exchange. Every 2-3 weeks we arranged to see each other on weekends. Even as I write this, we are holidaying in the Philippines together. Suddenly though, she became more distant and less enthusiastic for our relationship. Sex also dried up. I confronted her after a month of effectively being stonewalled. She tearfully confided in me that she was having second thoughts about moving to Australia, that she wasn't sure what she wanted yet and that she was having trouble being intimate with me both emotionally and physically. She reassured me she still loves me, and to give her time. She also said however, that she's unsure if she will come to Australia at all - which will probably be the end of us. I guess my question is, how do I react to this? I've fallen head over heels for this girl and now feel totally powerless. I also have way too much spare time in Japan and dwell on this predicament far more than is healthy. I just want closure, but don't want to force her into making a premature choice. Reddit, what can I do? TL;DR:
GF is suddenly unsure of a future with me and wants time. Not sure how to react. I'm afraid I'll lose her...<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 8 months, She suddenly seems uncomfortable with any long-term plans. POST: Not sure where to begin. My girlfriend of 8 months has been on exchange in Korea whilst I've been studying in Japan over tge last 2 months or so. We met in Japan (she's Japanese) and we really hit it off. She met with me frequently, helped me through the Japanese hospital system, took me to meet her friends and even her parents and grandparents. It was incredible and we were totally in sync with one another. during Christmas, she came and met my family in Australia and as best I could I took care of her as she did for me in Japan. Things continued going well, and we made plans to rent an apartment together in Japan, knowing she would have to leave in 2 months for exchange in Korea. We moved in together and became even closer. in that 2 month span we also travelled in Japan together and even went to hawaii. She said just before leaving for Korea, that she wanted to move to Australia with me after her exchange. Every 2-3 weeks we arranged to see each other on weekends. Even as I write this, we are holidaying in the Philippines together. Suddenly though, she became more distant and less enthusiastic for our relationship. Sex also dried up. I confronted her after a month of effectively being stonewalled. She tearfully confided in me that she was having second thoughts about moving to Australia, that she wasn't sure what she wanted yet and that she was having trouble being intimate with me both emotionally and physically. She reassured me she still loves me, and to give her time. She also said however, that she's unsure if she will come to Australia at all - which will probably be the end of us. I guess my question is, how do I react to this? I've fallen head over heels for this girl and now feel totally powerless. I also have way too much spare time in Japan and dwell on this predicament far more than is healthy. I just want closure, but don't want to force her into making a premature choice. Reddit, what can I do? TL;DR: GF is suddenly unsure of a future with me and wants time. Not sure how to react. I'm afraid I'll lose her...<|endoftext|>
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Can my employer do this?
I work at a Victoria's Secret retail store and have worked there for quite some time. I first started in a bigger store in my hometown and worked part time getting plenty of hours. But then I moved to a smaller town to go to my university for the year and needed a job so I found another VS store to work at which is much smaller than the first store I worked at. I didn't get as many hours as i did in the bigger store but I knew it was because of the size of the store (I work as sales support so I do shipment, so the smaller the store, the less shipment therefore less work). Since I started, the hours were significantly lower and they told me they would pick up which they have, then recently they shot back down drastically. In three weeks time, I only acquired 10 hours of work. I have 40 hours a week of availability and have only worked 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this illegal in any way? I feel like they can't do that but I need true legal advice. Now I know what some will say. "why don't you try simply asking for more hours?". I would if I could. See, at the larger stores they have shipment shifts and replenishing shifts. But this store is so small that sales support only does shipment. They don't need or have the payroll for replenishing shifts. So I can't really ask for more hours because my hours depend on the amount of shipment we receive. I can't say "hey, can we get more shipment so I can work more?". I'd appreciate any legal advice or any type of advice actually. Thank you.
My hours were cut drastically at work. I have 40 hours of availability a week and will have worked only 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this legal?
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can my employer do this? POST: I work at a Victoria's Secret retail store and have worked there for quite some time. I first started in a bigger store in my hometown and worked part time getting plenty of hours. But then I moved to a smaller town to go to my university for the year and needed a job so I found another VS store to work at which is much smaller than the first store I worked at. I didn't get as many hours as i did in the bigger store but I knew it was because of the size of the store (I work as sales support so I do shipment, so the smaller the store, the less shipment therefore less work). Since I started, the hours were significantly lower and they told me they would pick up which they have, then recently they shot back down drastically. In three weeks time, I only acquired 10 hours of work. I have 40 hours a week of availability and have only worked 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this illegal in any way? I feel like they can't do that but I need true legal advice. Now I know what some will say. "why don't you try simply asking for more hours?". I would if I could. See, at the larger stores they have shipment shifts and replenishing shifts. But this store is so small that sales support only does shipment. They don't need or have the payroll for replenishing shifts. So I can't really ask for more hours because my hours depend on the amount of shipment we receive. I can't say "hey, can we get more shipment so I can work more?". I'd appreciate any legal advice or any type of advice actually. Thank you. TL;DR:
My hours were cut drastically at work. I have 40 hours of availability a week and will have worked only 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this legal?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can my employer do this? POST: I work at a Victoria's Secret retail store and have worked there for quite some time. I first started in a bigger store in my hometown and worked part time getting plenty of hours. But then I moved to a smaller town to go to my university for the year and needed a job so I found another VS store to work at which is much smaller than the first store I worked at. I didn't get as many hours as i did in the bigger store but I knew it was because of the size of the store (I work as sales support so I do shipment, so the smaller the store, the less shipment therefore less work). Since I started, the hours were significantly lower and they told me they would pick up which they have, then recently they shot back down drastically. In three weeks time, I only acquired 10 hours of work. I have 40 hours a week of availability and have only worked 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this illegal in any way? I feel like they can't do that but I need true legal advice. Now I know what some will say. "why don't you try simply asking for more hours?". I would if I could. See, at the larger stores they have shipment shifts and replenishing shifts. But this store is so small that sales support only does shipment. They don't need or have the payroll for replenishing shifts. So I can't really ask for more hours because my hours depend on the amount of shipment we receive. I can't say "hey, can we get more shipment so I can work more?". I'd appreciate any legal advice or any type of advice actually. Thank you. TL;DR: My hours were cut drastically at work. I have 40 hours of availability a week and will have worked only 10 hours in 3 weeks. Is this legal?<|endoftext|>
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t3_3n1846
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Should I (22M) get a car?
So I'm 22, in college part-time and working around 25 hours a week as a server. I make anywhere between $1000 - $1500 a month depending on tips. Luckily my only expenses are rent, $560 /month, food, $500-$600 /month. So by the end of the month there really isn't much leftover and what ever is I try and save to use for tuition/school. I know I can lower my food costs by maybe $100. So I am just wondering if it would be worth getting a car in my situation. I work at a restaurant , but I have been looking for a different job hoping to make more money and not work overnight shifts. I stuck with overnights because I have pretty much free access to my girlfriend's or roommate's car to use for work. So if I get a different job it will be harder to get to work. I hope a new job would mean more money but honestly I am not sure.
Has anyone been in a situation where they bought a car in hopes of a better job (server)? Was it worth it? Did you end up making more money even after the car payments?
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I (22M) get a car? POST: So I'm 22, in college part-time and working around 25 hours a week as a server. I make anywhere between $1000 - $1500 a month depending on tips. Luckily my only expenses are rent, $560 /month, food, $500-$600 /month. So by the end of the month there really isn't much leftover and what ever is I try and save to use for tuition/school. I know I can lower my food costs by maybe $100. So I am just wondering if it would be worth getting a car in my situation. I work at a restaurant, but I have been looking for a different job hoping to make more money and not work overnight shifts. I stuck with overnights because I have pretty much free access to my girlfriend's or roommate's car to use for work. So if I get a different job it will be harder to get to work. I hope a new job would mean more money but honestly I am not sure. TL;DR:
Has anyone been in a situation where they bought a car in hopes of a better job (server)? Was it worth it? Did you end up making more money even after the car payments?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I (22M) get a car? POST: So I'm 22, in college part-time and working around 25 hours a week as a server. I make anywhere between $1000 - $1500 a month depending on tips. Luckily my only expenses are rent, $560 /month, food, $500-$600 /month. So by the end of the month there really isn't much leftover and what ever is I try and save to use for tuition/school. I know I can lower my food costs by maybe $100. So I am just wondering if it would be worth getting a car in my situation. I work at a restaurant, but I have been looking for a different job hoping to make more money and not work overnight shifts. I stuck with overnights because I have pretty much free access to my girlfriend's or roommate's car to use for work. So if I get a different job it will be harder to get to work. I hope a new job would mean more money but honestly I am not sure. TL;DR: Has anyone been in a situation where they bought a car in hopes of a better job (server)? Was it worth it? Did you end up making more money even after the car payments?<|endoftext|>
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[M33] her [f28] one date, shes we hit it off but she is freaked out about a medical condition i have.
All kidding aside, i had liver failure about 9 months ago, doing ok now, but need a transplant, and i'm on the to do list. Meant a really nice gal online, we hit it off great, good chemistry etc, but shes scared to date me in case something goes wrong, and yeah i know that's possible but nothing is a safe bet is basically the way i look at it, to me it would be a non issue. She also does not like the fact that im on antidepresents, and again don't think that has anything to do with anything. Anyhow, i know she really likes me but is scared, i've continued to lightly stay after her, and she does respond - shes just genuinely freaked out by this.
I have a medical condition which may require a major operation, good chemistry, shes freaked out by the fact i may die
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M33] her [f28] one date, shes we hit it off but she is freaked out about a medical condition i have. POST: All kidding aside, i had liver failure about 9 months ago, doing ok now, but need a transplant, and i'm on the to do list. Meant a really nice gal online, we hit it off great, good chemistry etc, but shes scared to date me in case something goes wrong, and yeah i know that's possible but nothing is a safe bet is basically the way i look at it, to me it would be a non issue. She also does not like the fact that im on antidepresents, and again don't think that has anything to do with anything. Anyhow, i know she really likes me but is scared, i've continued to lightly stay after her, and she does respond - shes just genuinely freaked out by this. TL;DR:
I have a medical condition which may require a major operation, good chemistry, shes freaked out by the fact i may die<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M33] her [f28] one date, shes we hit it off but she is freaked out about a medical condition i have. POST: All kidding aside, i had liver failure about 9 months ago, doing ok now, but need a transplant, and i'm on the to do list. Meant a really nice gal online, we hit it off great, good chemistry etc, but shes scared to date me in case something goes wrong, and yeah i know that's possible but nothing is a safe bet is basically the way i look at it, to me it would be a non issue. She also does not like the fact that im on antidepresents, and again don't think that has anything to do with anything. Anyhow, i know she really likes me but is scared, i've continued to lightly stay after her, and she does respond - shes just genuinely freaked out by this. TL;DR: I have a medical condition which may require a major operation, good chemistry, shes freaked out by the fact i may die<|endoftext|>
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Me [20 M] has a crush on [20 F] who I've reconnected with, but very long distance
I recently reconnected with an old friend I'd known for a few years who lives in Scotland, while I am living in Canada currently. I didn't expect us to chat more than thirty minutes, it was more of update, how's your life been type of deal. Surprisingly, we've been talking a lot recently, via text because of the cost of international calls but you get the picture. Sometimes a few hours a day, and shared some pretty personal stuff it hasn't been all superficial talk. Unfortunately, I've developed a bit of a crush on her, and I can't seem to shake it. I've told her how I feel because I don't want to keep this totally bottled up, or for me to have anger towards her. That helped bring me a bit of peace, and it hasn't hurt our friendship. She took it really well, was flattered, told me I was brave for sharing it, and shared some feelings about the distance stopping us from really exploring this further. I enjoy talking to her, and would like to continue to do so, but I'm worried it might be eating up too much time, and hurting me emotionally. I'd really like an outside perspective on this, as I feel I'm not thinking 100% straight. I can share any details that I've forgotten to include, as long as their relevant to the discussion of course.
Reconnected with internet friend living in another country, dating is pretty much impossible, but I've developed a crush on her. Is there anyway for me to maintain this relationship without it getting unhealthy for either of us?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] has a crush on [20 F] who I've reconnected with, but very long distance POST: I recently reconnected with an old friend I'd known for a few years who lives in Scotland, while I am living in Canada currently. I didn't expect us to chat more than thirty minutes, it was more of update, how's your life been type of deal. Surprisingly, we've been talking a lot recently, via text because of the cost of international calls but you get the picture. Sometimes a few hours a day, and shared some pretty personal stuff it hasn't been all superficial talk. Unfortunately, I've developed a bit of a crush on her, and I can't seem to shake it. I've told her how I feel because I don't want to keep this totally bottled up, or for me to have anger towards her. That helped bring me a bit of peace, and it hasn't hurt our friendship. She took it really well, was flattered, told me I was brave for sharing it, and shared some feelings about the distance stopping us from really exploring this further. I enjoy talking to her, and would like to continue to do so, but I'm worried it might be eating up too much time, and hurting me emotionally. I'd really like an outside perspective on this, as I feel I'm not thinking 100% straight. I can share any details that I've forgotten to include, as long as their relevant to the discussion of course. TL;DR:
Reconnected with internet friend living in another country, dating is pretty much impossible, but I've developed a crush on her. Is there anyway for me to maintain this relationship without it getting unhealthy for either of us?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] has a crush on [20 F] who I've reconnected with, but very long distance POST: I recently reconnected with an old friend I'd known for a few years who lives in Scotland, while I am living in Canada currently. I didn't expect us to chat more than thirty minutes, it was more of update, how's your life been type of deal. Surprisingly, we've been talking a lot recently, via text because of the cost of international calls but you get the picture. Sometimes a few hours a day, and shared some pretty personal stuff it hasn't been all superficial talk. Unfortunately, I've developed a bit of a crush on her, and I can't seem to shake it. I've told her how I feel because I don't want to keep this totally bottled up, or for me to have anger towards her. That helped bring me a bit of peace, and it hasn't hurt our friendship. She took it really well, was flattered, told me I was brave for sharing it, and shared some feelings about the distance stopping us from really exploring this further. I enjoy talking to her, and would like to continue to do so, but I'm worried it might be eating up too much time, and hurting me emotionally. I'd really like an outside perspective on this, as I feel I'm not thinking 100% straight. I can share any details that I've forgotten to include, as long as their relevant to the discussion of course. TL;DR: Reconnected with internet friend living in another country, dating is pretty much impossible, but I've developed a crush on her. Is there anyway for me to maintain this relationship without it getting unhealthy for either of us?<|endoftext|>
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Is skipping meals an option?
I know, I know, I shouldn't skip meals. The thing is, with my job a have a ton of dinner meetings and dinner functions that I have to attend. I also have a busy work schedule, so while I do cook and eat throughout the day when I can, this is not always an option. I'm a relatively short female (5'4''), and I currently weigh about 140. I'm trying to get down to about 120, and because of my height I'm recommended to eat about 1,200 calories a day, which isn't many when I'm eating out all the time. Other things about my eating habits are that I do not eat breakfast—unless I have a breakfast meeting) and I tend to snack at night, but I make sure I have things like apples, celery, low-cal bread, and so on.
Is it better to stay within my calorie limit and not eat a lunch than to eat all day and maybe go over?
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Is skipping meals an option? POST: I know, I know, I shouldn't skip meals. The thing is, with my job a have a ton of dinner meetings and dinner functions that I have to attend. I also have a busy work schedule, so while I do cook and eat throughout the day when I can, this is not always an option. I'm a relatively short female (5'4''), and I currently weigh about 140. I'm trying to get down to about 120, and because of my height I'm recommended to eat about 1,200 calories a day, which isn't many when I'm eating out all the time. Other things about my eating habits are that I do not eat breakfast—unless I have a breakfast meeting) and I tend to snack at night, but I make sure I have things like apples, celery, low-cal bread, and so on. TL;DR:
Is it better to stay within my calorie limit and not eat a lunch than to eat all day and maybe go over?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Is skipping meals an option? POST: I know, I know, I shouldn't skip meals. The thing is, with my job a have a ton of dinner meetings and dinner functions that I have to attend. I also have a busy work schedule, so while I do cook and eat throughout the day when I can, this is not always an option. I'm a relatively short female (5'4''), and I currently weigh about 140. I'm trying to get down to about 120, and because of my height I'm recommended to eat about 1,200 calories a day, which isn't many when I'm eating out all the time. Other things about my eating habits are that I do not eat breakfast—unless I have a breakfast meeting) and I tend to snack at night, but I make sure I have things like apples, celery, low-cal bread, and so on. TL;DR: Is it better to stay within my calorie limit and not eat a lunch than to eat all day and maybe go over?<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by skipping out on work
So, I ignored my alarm this morning and woke up at 6:45 am, while I needed to be at work at 7:00 am. I live 35 minutes away. I decide I'm better off taking a sick day than being written up for being late. That's fine for me; play some League, enjoy a movie, relax for the day. I messaged by boss to let him know I wouldn't be in due a stomach bug that was really tearing up my stomach. I felt fine, but what he doesn't know won't hurt, right? Apparently, karma had a different plan. As I was loading into a game of League, I had a rumbling in my stomach. It felt like normal gastric distress, like some harmless flatulence, so I trusted it. I let loose what I thought was just a fart, and all the sudden I feel this warmth. I knew immediately what I had done. I had shit my pants for the first time since I was a child. All because I trusted a fart.
Overslept, called in sick (actually felt fine), soiled myself trusting a fart. Karma is a bitch.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by skipping out on work POST: So, I ignored my alarm this morning and woke up at 6:45 am, while I needed to be at work at 7:00 am. I live 35 minutes away. I decide I'm better off taking a sick day than being written up for being late. That's fine for me; play some League, enjoy a movie, relax for the day. I messaged by boss to let him know I wouldn't be in due a stomach bug that was really tearing up my stomach. I felt fine, but what he doesn't know won't hurt, right? Apparently, karma had a different plan. As I was loading into a game of League, I had a rumbling in my stomach. It felt like normal gastric distress, like some harmless flatulence, so I trusted it. I let loose what I thought was just a fart, and all the sudden I feel this warmth. I knew immediately what I had done. I had shit my pants for the first time since I was a child. All because I trusted a fart. TL;DR:
Overslept, called in sick (actually felt fine), soiled myself trusting a fart. Karma is a bitch.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by skipping out on work POST: So, I ignored my alarm this morning and woke up at 6:45 am, while I needed to be at work at 7:00 am. I live 35 minutes away. I decide I'm better off taking a sick day than being written up for being late. That's fine for me; play some League, enjoy a movie, relax for the day. I messaged by boss to let him know I wouldn't be in due a stomach bug that was really tearing up my stomach. I felt fine, but what he doesn't know won't hurt, right? Apparently, karma had a different plan. As I was loading into a game of League, I had a rumbling in my stomach. It felt like normal gastric distress, like some harmless flatulence, so I trusted it. I let loose what I thought was just a fart, and all the sudden I feel this warmth. I knew immediately what I had done. I had shit my pants for the first time since I was a child. All because I trusted a fart. TL;DR: Overslept, called in sick (actually felt fine), soiled myself trusting a fart. Karma is a bitch.<|endoftext|>
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Exclusivity but not dating? (18F)
I'm a freshman and I've been hookup buddies (no sex) with a sophomore guy. The furthest we've gone is him fingering me. Last night he really wanted me to give him a hand job (I've never before and didn't want to). I felt like he was pushing it and told him and then he stopped pressuring me (I never ended up giving him one). I said "if you really want it then you can find someone else" and he said "I don't want someone else...I want you..." What does this mean? He wants exclusivity? Or was he just using this as a way to get me to give it to him? He hasn't asked me out. If he wants exclusivity but hasn't asked me to be his gf, then is he a commitment-phone?
I've been hookup buddies with this guy and he seemed desperate for a hand job but idk if he actually likes me or is just a horny college kid
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Exclusivity but not dating? (18F) POST: I'm a freshman and I've been hookup buddies (no sex) with a sophomore guy. The furthest we've gone is him fingering me. Last night he really wanted me to give him a hand job (I've never before and didn't want to). I felt like he was pushing it and told him and then he stopped pressuring me (I never ended up giving him one). I said "if you really want it then you can find someone else" and he said "I don't want someone else...I want you..." What does this mean? He wants exclusivity? Or was he just using this as a way to get me to give it to him? He hasn't asked me out. If he wants exclusivity but hasn't asked me to be his gf, then is he a commitment-phone? TL;DR:
I've been hookup buddies with this guy and he seemed desperate for a hand job but idk if he actually likes me or is just a horny college kid<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Exclusivity but not dating? (18F) POST: I'm a freshman and I've been hookup buddies (no sex) with a sophomore guy. The furthest we've gone is him fingering me. Last night he really wanted me to give him a hand job (I've never before and didn't want to). I felt like he was pushing it and told him and then he stopped pressuring me (I never ended up giving him one). I said "if you really want it then you can find someone else" and he said "I don't want someone else...I want you..." What does this mean? He wants exclusivity? Or was he just using this as a way to get me to give it to him? He hasn't asked me out. If he wants exclusivity but hasn't asked me to be his gf, then is he a commitment-phone? TL;DR: I've been hookup buddies with this guy and he seemed desperate for a hand job but idk if he actually likes me or is just a horny college kid<|endoftext|>
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t3_4mt48k
tifu
TIFU by going to the bathroom before a concert
This happened a couple days ago. So I'm at my 4th grade brother's band concert, which is being held at my high school. Before I went in, I decided to go to to the bathroom. I go down the hallway to the bathroom we were supposed to use (the rest of the school was closed off for cleaning), and I see about 15 4th grade boys standing outside the bathroom, my brother included. Apparently the door was locked because the janitors forgot to open it for the concert. So I go up to my brother and whisper "I know where another bathroom is," because I go to this school and I know my way around. I intended to take just him over to the bathroom, so that he isn't late for his concert. However, being the 4th grader he is, he shouts "GUYS, THERES ANOTHER BATHROOM!!" I end up leading an army of running, screaming 4th grade boys down the empty hallway that is being cleaned by the janitor. As we are leaving the bathroom, the janitor walks in and starts yelling at me.
I was at a concert, and had to go to the bathroom, I end up leading an army of 4th grade boys down a hallway I'm not supposed to be on.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the bathroom before a concert POST: This happened a couple days ago. So I'm at my 4th grade brother's band concert, which is being held at my high school. Before I went in, I decided to go to to the bathroom. I go down the hallway to the bathroom we were supposed to use (the rest of the school was closed off for cleaning), and I see about 15 4th grade boys standing outside the bathroom, my brother included. Apparently the door was locked because the janitors forgot to open it for the concert. So I go up to my brother and whisper "I know where another bathroom is," because I go to this school and I know my way around. I intended to take just him over to the bathroom, so that he isn't late for his concert. However, being the 4th grader he is, he shouts "GUYS, THERES ANOTHER BATHROOM!!" I end up leading an army of running, screaming 4th grade boys down the empty hallway that is being cleaned by the janitor. As we are leaving the bathroom, the janitor walks in and starts yelling at me. TL;DR:
I was at a concert, and had to go to the bathroom, I end up leading an army of 4th grade boys down a hallway I'm not supposed to be on.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the bathroom before a concert POST: This happened a couple days ago. So I'm at my 4th grade brother's band concert, which is being held at my high school. Before I went in, I decided to go to to the bathroom. I go down the hallway to the bathroom we were supposed to use (the rest of the school was closed off for cleaning), and I see about 15 4th grade boys standing outside the bathroom, my brother included. Apparently the door was locked because the janitors forgot to open it for the concert. So I go up to my brother and whisper "I know where another bathroom is," because I go to this school and I know my way around. I intended to take just him over to the bathroom, so that he isn't late for his concert. However, being the 4th grader he is, he shouts "GUYS, THERES ANOTHER BATHROOM!!" I end up leading an army of running, screaming 4th grade boys down the empty hallway that is being cleaned by the janitor. As we are leaving the bathroom, the janitor walks in and starts yelling at me. TL;DR: I was at a concert, and had to go to the bathroom, I end up leading an army of 4th grade boys down a hallway I'm not supposed to be on.<|endoftext|>
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How do I(24F) properly tell my boyfriend(23M) that I'm not okay with him policing my body?
Hey, folks! I could use a bit of advice. Long story short, my significant other doesn't like when I wear low-cut shirts or show any bit of my cleavage. He's worried about 'other guys looking'. I understand that he's bothered by this, and I'm trying to find a good way to explain to him that I don't much care for his policing of my body and what I decide to wear. I've pretty much told him that if he has a problem with other people staring, he can go take it up with them. He's also disappointed that I'm not trying to prevent other men's behavior by covering up. (Ew.) I'm all for the, 'teach men not to stare' approach instead of having to dance around them. He's even gone as far as to reach over and pull up my shirt in public, and this makes me feel really uncomfortable. He's not a bad person, just a bit insecure. Any one have any advice or idea as to how I can explain how none of what he's acting on is okay? I'm looking for healthy ways to properly communicate and help him understand. (And, just to clarify, I choose to wear clothing that makes me feel comfortable and confident. My choices have nothing to do with random guys and people I've never met. )
My boyfriend does not like how I present myself and I'm trying to find ways to communicate that it makes me uncomfortable.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I(24F) properly tell my boyfriend(23M) that I'm not okay with him policing my body? POST: Hey, folks! I could use a bit of advice. Long story short, my significant other doesn't like when I wear low-cut shirts or show any bit of my cleavage. He's worried about 'other guys looking'. I understand that he's bothered by this, and I'm trying to find a good way to explain to him that I don't much care for his policing of my body and what I decide to wear. I've pretty much told him that if he has a problem with other people staring, he can go take it up with them. He's also disappointed that I'm not trying to prevent other men's behavior by covering up. (Ew.) I'm all for the, 'teach men not to stare' approach instead of having to dance around them. He's even gone as far as to reach over and pull up my shirt in public, and this makes me feel really uncomfortable. He's not a bad person, just a bit insecure. Any one have any advice or idea as to how I can explain how none of what he's acting on is okay? I'm looking for healthy ways to properly communicate and help him understand. (And, just to clarify, I choose to wear clothing that makes me feel comfortable and confident. My choices have nothing to do with random guys and people I've never met. ) TL;DR:
My boyfriend does not like how I present myself and I'm trying to find ways to communicate that it makes me uncomfortable.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I(24F) properly tell my boyfriend(23M) that I'm not okay with him policing my body? POST: Hey, folks! I could use a bit of advice. Long story short, my significant other doesn't like when I wear low-cut shirts or show any bit of my cleavage. He's worried about 'other guys looking'. I understand that he's bothered by this, and I'm trying to find a good way to explain to him that I don't much care for his policing of my body and what I decide to wear. I've pretty much told him that if he has a problem with other people staring, he can go take it up with them. He's also disappointed that I'm not trying to prevent other men's behavior by covering up. (Ew.) I'm all for the, 'teach men not to stare' approach instead of having to dance around them. He's even gone as far as to reach over and pull up my shirt in public, and this makes me feel really uncomfortable. He's not a bad person, just a bit insecure. Any one have any advice or idea as to how I can explain how none of what he's acting on is okay? I'm looking for healthy ways to properly communicate and help him understand. (And, just to clarify, I choose to wear clothing that makes me feel comfortable and confident. My choices have nothing to do with random guys and people I've never met. ) TL;DR: My boyfriend does not like how I present myself and I'm trying to find ways to communicate that it makes me uncomfortable.<|endoftext|>
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dating_advice
Is this weird? Or am I totally clueless?
Long story short, I haven't dated or tried to date anyone in two years. The last one was a bust, and I figured that I needed to work on myself before I started to date again. Anyways, a guy sent me a message on OKC, and really, he was funny, good looking, charming, and I was in laughs. We talked through OKC for at least three days (Maybe four? I have to go check), about the most random stuff you can come up with, it seemed easy to chat this guy up and we shared a many interest and theories about subjects that I've always wanted to talk to someone about. So, he gave me his number, and we continued on with the texting from there, him calling me adorable, asking why I haven't been in a relationship, usual flirty texts. So, I threw caution into the wind and asked if we could get coffee sometimes. Now, I'm a busy person, so I totally understand if someone else is busy as well, and he cancels because of work overload. I figure that's alright, it's fine, and I ask that he schedule since he'll know if he has a busy workload or not, my job is a lot easier, so I can plan, plus I'm hardly ever tired after work and I still have a lot of energy and I'm raring to go. It's been two weeks. Nothing. At. All. This guy even so much says that I don't need to see him or he doesn't need to see me to know that he wants me to be his girl. And he asked. Like.. really? I don't get it at all. I really, really don't. I'm under the impression that hanging out with someone to know their nuances in person is something that's important in the whole dating deal, instead of just jumping into a serious, there's still a lot that I don't know about this guy yet. Any advice?
Meet guy on OKC, conversation is pretty awesome, but doesn't set a date and immediately asks to be bf/gf without ever meeting. WTF?
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is this weird? Or am I totally clueless? POST: Long story short, I haven't dated or tried to date anyone in two years. The last one was a bust, and I figured that I needed to work on myself before I started to date again. Anyways, a guy sent me a message on OKC, and really, he was funny, good looking, charming, and I was in laughs. We talked through OKC for at least three days (Maybe four? I have to go check), about the most random stuff you can come up with, it seemed easy to chat this guy up and we shared a many interest and theories about subjects that I've always wanted to talk to someone about. So, he gave me his number, and we continued on with the texting from there, him calling me adorable, asking why I haven't been in a relationship, usual flirty texts. So, I threw caution into the wind and asked if we could get coffee sometimes. Now, I'm a busy person, so I totally understand if someone else is busy as well, and he cancels because of work overload. I figure that's alright, it's fine, and I ask that he schedule since he'll know if he has a busy workload or not, my job is a lot easier, so I can plan, plus I'm hardly ever tired after work and I still have a lot of energy and I'm raring to go. It's been two weeks. Nothing. At. All. This guy even so much says that I don't need to see him or he doesn't need to see me to know that he wants me to be his girl. And he asked. Like.. really? I don't get it at all. I really, really don't. I'm under the impression that hanging out with someone to know their nuances in person is something that's important in the whole dating deal, instead of just jumping into a serious, there's still a lot that I don't know about this guy yet. Any advice? TL;DR:
Meet guy on OKC, conversation is pretty awesome, but doesn't set a date and immediately asks to be bf/gf without ever meeting. WTF?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is this weird? Or am I totally clueless? POST: Long story short, I haven't dated or tried to date anyone in two years. The last one was a bust, and I figured that I needed to work on myself before I started to date again. Anyways, a guy sent me a message on OKC, and really, he was funny, good looking, charming, and I was in laughs. We talked through OKC for at least three days (Maybe four? I have to go check), about the most random stuff you can come up with, it seemed easy to chat this guy up and we shared a many interest and theories about subjects that I've always wanted to talk to someone about. So, he gave me his number, and we continued on with the texting from there, him calling me adorable, asking why I haven't been in a relationship, usual flirty texts. So, I threw caution into the wind and asked if we could get coffee sometimes. Now, I'm a busy person, so I totally understand if someone else is busy as well, and he cancels because of work overload. I figure that's alright, it's fine, and I ask that he schedule since he'll know if he has a busy workload or not, my job is a lot easier, so I can plan, plus I'm hardly ever tired after work and I still have a lot of energy and I'm raring to go. It's been two weeks. Nothing. At. All. This guy even so much says that I don't need to see him or he doesn't need to see me to know that he wants me to be his girl. And he asked. Like.. really? I don't get it at all. I really, really don't. I'm under the impression that hanging out with someone to know their nuances in person is something that's important in the whole dating deal, instead of just jumping into a serious, there's still a lot that I don't know about this guy yet. Any advice? TL;DR: Meet guy on OKC, conversation is pretty awesome, but doesn't set a date and immediately asks to be bf/gf without ever meeting. WTF?<|endoftext|>
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t3_1ja1k1
Advice
First time poster - just got fired but have options. Need some advice!
I'm gonna preface the story with some background info: I work in a small café Inside of an office building. The cafe is mainly for the tenants. I've been there since last December and today was my "last day in the kitchen". The staff includes me (kitchen guy), a day porter, and the building manager\my boss. We have another kitchen staff lady that works mon/wed/fri. I'm there everyday in the morning at 5:30. This morning when I walked in there was a puddle on the floor near the freezer, which is when I noticed the freezer door was slightly ajar. All of the contents in the freezer were slightly thawed and so since most of the contents in there were cooked I assumed it would be fine if I just shut the freezer and let the stuff re-freeze. I knew it wasnt good, but I didn't think it was a big enough deal to bother my boss about. What I didn't realize is that my mistake would've been very bad for my boss if anyone had consumed the food cause people would've gotten sick. My boss gave me an ultimatum: either quit, get fired, or switch jobs with the day porter where I would make the same wage but with 30hr/week instead of 40. The problem is I need money and I've been pretty unhappy there since I've been there and don't really want to go back. This happened maybe 15 min ago and I was sent home to think about what I want to do. Help please reddit?
I had my last strike in the kitchen; got a choice to quit or switch jobs for less hours, but have been unhappy there and want to leave.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: First time poster - just got fired but have options. Need some advice! POST: I'm gonna preface the story with some background info: I work in a small café Inside of an office building. The cafe is mainly for the tenants. I've been there since last December and today was my "last day in the kitchen". The staff includes me (kitchen guy), a day porter, and the building manager\my boss. We have another kitchen staff lady that works mon/wed/fri. I'm there everyday in the morning at 5:30. This morning when I walked in there was a puddle on the floor near the freezer, which is when I noticed the freezer door was slightly ajar. All of the contents in the freezer were slightly thawed and so since most of the contents in there were cooked I assumed it would be fine if I just shut the freezer and let the stuff re-freeze. I knew it wasnt good, but I didn't think it was a big enough deal to bother my boss about. What I didn't realize is that my mistake would've been very bad for my boss if anyone had consumed the food cause people would've gotten sick. My boss gave me an ultimatum: either quit, get fired, or switch jobs with the day porter where I would make the same wage but with 30hr/week instead of 40. The problem is I need money and I've been pretty unhappy there since I've been there and don't really want to go back. This happened maybe 15 min ago and I was sent home to think about what I want to do. Help please reddit? TL;DR:
I had my last strike in the kitchen; got a choice to quit or switch jobs for less hours, but have been unhappy there and want to leave.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: First time poster - just got fired but have options. Need some advice! POST: I'm gonna preface the story with some background info: I work in a small café Inside of an office building. The cafe is mainly for the tenants. I've been there since last December and today was my "last day in the kitchen". The staff includes me (kitchen guy), a day porter, and the building manager\my boss. We have another kitchen staff lady that works mon/wed/fri. I'm there everyday in the morning at 5:30. This morning when I walked in there was a puddle on the floor near the freezer, which is when I noticed the freezer door was slightly ajar. All of the contents in the freezer were slightly thawed and so since most of the contents in there were cooked I assumed it would be fine if I just shut the freezer and let the stuff re-freeze. I knew it wasnt good, but I didn't think it was a big enough deal to bother my boss about. What I didn't realize is that my mistake would've been very bad for my boss if anyone had consumed the food cause people would've gotten sick. My boss gave me an ultimatum: either quit, get fired, or switch jobs with the day porter where I would make the same wage but with 30hr/week instead of 40. The problem is I need money and I've been pretty unhappy there since I've been there and don't really want to go back. This happened maybe 15 min ago and I was sent home to think about what I want to do. Help please reddit? TL;DR: I had my last strike in the kitchen; got a choice to quit or switch jobs for less hours, but have been unhappy there and want to leave.<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend of over 2 years [16/F] has secret attraction to one of my [16/M] best friends.
I know that reddit doesn't tend to take well to teenagers normally, so I'm expecting downvotes for that alone, but any feedback would be nice. What's happening is this: I started dating my girlfriend over 2 years ago and over the 2+ years it's been absolutely great. Recently though, I've realized that she's been flirting with one of our mutual friends quite a bit and always seems to want to turn our normal 2 people dates into 3 person affairs. A quick chat with one of my friends confirms that she is attracted to him and has been for about 6 months now. From what I'd gathered from asking around, she doesn't seem like she enjoys being attracted to this mutual friend, and she still acts the same around me as she has for the 2 years so I doubt there is any loss of attraction coming my way (i.e, still plenty of flirting, kissing, and spending time with each other). I also don't think our mutual friend would do anything since he's generally pretty socially awkward, doesn't know the first thing about the opposite sex, and I would like to think that he wouldn't do anything to hurt one of his only real friends (me). My girlfriend is currently on vacation and will be coming back mid of next week when I plan on confronting her about this. Mainly, I'm not sure how I should go about talking to her about this in such a way that it doesn't come off as me being a jackass of a boyfriend or make it seem like I want her to cut every time with this guy for the rest of her life. My plan for right now is to ask if she does have any sort of feelings for him, and play it off like I managed to deduce she did (which isn't far from the truth, I was starting to get suspicious before I even found out for sure). Any advice from you guys would be greatly appreciated!
Girlfriend of 2+ years has a thing for a mutual friend. Not sure how to confront her with my knowing when she comes back from vacation.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of over 2 years [16/F] has secret attraction to one of my [16/M] best friends. POST: I know that reddit doesn't tend to take well to teenagers normally, so I'm expecting downvotes for that alone, but any feedback would be nice. What's happening is this: I started dating my girlfriend over 2 years ago and over the 2+ years it's been absolutely great. Recently though, I've realized that she's been flirting with one of our mutual friends quite a bit and always seems to want to turn our normal 2 people dates into 3 person affairs. A quick chat with one of my friends confirms that she is attracted to him and has been for about 6 months now. From what I'd gathered from asking around, she doesn't seem like she enjoys being attracted to this mutual friend, and she still acts the same around me as she has for the 2 years so I doubt there is any loss of attraction coming my way (i.e, still plenty of flirting, kissing, and spending time with each other). I also don't think our mutual friend would do anything since he's generally pretty socially awkward, doesn't know the first thing about the opposite sex, and I would like to think that he wouldn't do anything to hurt one of his only real friends (me). My girlfriend is currently on vacation and will be coming back mid of next week when I plan on confronting her about this. Mainly, I'm not sure how I should go about talking to her about this in such a way that it doesn't come off as me being a jackass of a boyfriend or make it seem like I want her to cut every time with this guy for the rest of her life. My plan for right now is to ask if she does have any sort of feelings for him, and play it off like I managed to deduce she did (which isn't far from the truth, I was starting to get suspicious before I even found out for sure). Any advice from you guys would be greatly appreciated! TL;DR:
Girlfriend of 2+ years has a thing for a mutual friend. Not sure how to confront her with my knowing when she comes back from vacation.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of over 2 years [16/F] has secret attraction to one of my [16/M] best friends. POST: I know that reddit doesn't tend to take well to teenagers normally, so I'm expecting downvotes for that alone, but any feedback would be nice. What's happening is this: I started dating my girlfriend over 2 years ago and over the 2+ years it's been absolutely great. Recently though, I've realized that she's been flirting with one of our mutual friends quite a bit and always seems to want to turn our normal 2 people dates into 3 person affairs. A quick chat with one of my friends confirms that she is attracted to him and has been for about 6 months now. From what I'd gathered from asking around, she doesn't seem like she enjoys being attracted to this mutual friend, and she still acts the same around me as she has for the 2 years so I doubt there is any loss of attraction coming my way (i.e, still plenty of flirting, kissing, and spending time with each other). I also don't think our mutual friend would do anything since he's generally pretty socially awkward, doesn't know the first thing about the opposite sex, and I would like to think that he wouldn't do anything to hurt one of his only real friends (me). My girlfriend is currently on vacation and will be coming back mid of next week when I plan on confronting her about this. Mainly, I'm not sure how I should go about talking to her about this in such a way that it doesn't come off as me being a jackass of a boyfriend or make it seem like I want her to cut every time with this guy for the rest of her life. My plan for right now is to ask if she does have any sort of feelings for him, and play it off like I managed to deduce she did (which isn't far from the truth, I was starting to get suspicious before I even found out for sure). Any advice from you guys would be greatly appreciated! TL;DR: Girlfriend of 2+ years has a thing for a mutual friend. Not sure how to confront her with my knowing when she comes back from vacation.<|endoftext|>
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I (M/22) seem to be having troubles emoting to my fiancée (F/22), its tearing us apart.
So to start off my fiancée (f22) and I (m22) have been together for a little under a year. I know it seems to be like we are moving fast and I feel that way sometimes too, I just can't imagine a life without her in it. She's my best friend and the woman of my dreams. This woman is truly amazing, even writing this I can't help but smile. We moved in together a little over 3 months ago and it has been working great. We clean the house together, cook together, really dont argue about trivial things like that. Although recently it seems she has been really upset with me, being that she feels I don't emote well. I can't argue this, my whole life I have been taught to bottle things up and deal with them on your own. I have been working on this a much as I can, and have been really trying to open up. Honestly she is the only person in my life I feel comfortable exposing myself to and letting down these walls Iv built up over the years. Recently she is upset with the fact that she feels she has to worry for the both of us. As in I'm always being an optimist and brushing problems off rather than opening up and talking about them with her. So I'm the "happy" one and in turn she feels the need to be the "worried" one. There's no doubt about it, i can see where she is coming from, and I guess I'm just coming to you guys to see how I can better open up with her. Recently Iv been trying to come to her with my work problems and vent a bit along with financial problems we have been having as of late. I really just dont know what I should do. I love this woman more than I can can even fathom, she's everything I want in a life partner and I really do not want to loose her de to my lack of openness. I would really appreciate any advice you guys have. Thanks.
fiancée (f22) of almost a year feels that I (m22) do not emote enough for her and that I'm very one dimensional with my life long need to shelter my feelings.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M/22) seem to be having troubles emoting to my fiancée (F/22), its tearing us apart. POST: So to start off my fiancée (f22) and I (m22) have been together for a little under a year. I know it seems to be like we are moving fast and I feel that way sometimes too, I just can't imagine a life without her in it. She's my best friend and the woman of my dreams. This woman is truly amazing, even writing this I can't help but smile. We moved in together a little over 3 months ago and it has been working great. We clean the house together, cook together, really dont argue about trivial things like that. Although recently it seems she has been really upset with me, being that she feels I don't emote well. I can't argue this, my whole life I have been taught to bottle things up and deal with them on your own. I have been working on this a much as I can, and have been really trying to open up. Honestly she is the only person in my life I feel comfortable exposing myself to and letting down these walls Iv built up over the years. Recently she is upset with the fact that she feels she has to worry for the both of us. As in I'm always being an optimist and brushing problems off rather than opening up and talking about them with her. So I'm the "happy" one and in turn she feels the need to be the "worried" one. There's no doubt about it, i can see where she is coming from, and I guess I'm just coming to you guys to see how I can better open up with her. Recently Iv been trying to come to her with my work problems and vent a bit along with financial problems we have been having as of late. I really just dont know what I should do. I love this woman more than I can can even fathom, she's everything I want in a life partner and I really do not want to loose her de to my lack of openness. I would really appreciate any advice you guys have. Thanks. TL;DR:
fiancée (f22) of almost a year feels that I (m22) do not emote enough for her and that I'm very one dimensional with my life long need to shelter my feelings.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M/22) seem to be having troubles emoting to my fiancée (F/22), its tearing us apart. POST: So to start off my fiancée (f22) and I (m22) have been together for a little under a year. I know it seems to be like we are moving fast and I feel that way sometimes too, I just can't imagine a life without her in it. She's my best friend and the woman of my dreams. This woman is truly amazing, even writing this I can't help but smile. We moved in together a little over 3 months ago and it has been working great. We clean the house together, cook together, really dont argue about trivial things like that. Although recently it seems she has been really upset with me, being that she feels I don't emote well. I can't argue this, my whole life I have been taught to bottle things up and deal with them on your own. I have been working on this a much as I can, and have been really trying to open up. Honestly she is the only person in my life I feel comfortable exposing myself to and letting down these walls Iv built up over the years. Recently she is upset with the fact that she feels she has to worry for the both of us. As in I'm always being an optimist and brushing problems off rather than opening up and talking about them with her. So I'm the "happy" one and in turn she feels the need to be the "worried" one. There's no doubt about it, i can see where she is coming from, and I guess I'm just coming to you guys to see how I can better open up with her. Recently Iv been trying to come to her with my work problems and vent a bit along with financial problems we have been having as of late. I really just dont know what I should do. I love this woman more than I can can even fathom, she's everything I want in a life partner and I really do not want to loose her de to my lack of openness. I would really appreciate any advice you guys have. Thanks. TL;DR: fiancée (f22) of almost a year feels that I (m22) do not emote enough for her and that I'm very one dimensional with my life long need to shelter my feelings.<|endoftext|>
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Manager insults my sister, I completely ruin her day.
I already posted in this sub today, but I feel like this story fits here too perfectly as well. Years ago I worked at American Eagle Outfitters. Douchey store, douchey employees. One of my managers was the absolute worst. She would make comments over the headset about fat people in the store who "have no right to be here," and all other kinds of nasty stuff. So, my sister asked me if I could buy her a pair of jeans with my 40% discount. I obliged, and went to the store and picked out the pair she wanted in a size 12. I brought them to the cash where my douchette manager was working. She picked them up and said, "Well these clearly aren't for you." (I'm a size 2.) I said, "No, they're a gift for my sister." She rolls her eyes and laughs and says, "You and your sister must be ... very different." I asked her what she meant, she said, "Well ... Let's just say, one of you lost the genetic lottery." So the next day I was supposed to work at 12. I went to the store at open, and bought everything I wanted in the store. The total was 500 dollars *after* my 40% discount. Then I left and never showed up for my shift. My manager blew up my phone all day asking where I was and whether or not I was coming in because they were understaffed and she couldn't work a 12 hour shift because she had a date that night ... Well, tough titties for you.
Manager insulted my sister, so I used my store discount to treat myself to a metric tonne of clothing, never returned and caused my manager to work for 12 hours.
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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Manager insults my sister, I completely ruin her day. POST: I already posted in this sub today, but I feel like this story fits here too perfectly as well. Years ago I worked at American Eagle Outfitters. Douchey store, douchey employees. One of my managers was the absolute worst. She would make comments over the headset about fat people in the store who "have no right to be here," and all other kinds of nasty stuff. So, my sister asked me if I could buy her a pair of jeans with my 40% discount. I obliged, and went to the store and picked out the pair she wanted in a size 12. I brought them to the cash where my douchette manager was working. She picked them up and said, "Well these clearly aren't for you." (I'm a size 2.) I said, "No, they're a gift for my sister." She rolls her eyes and laughs and says, "You and your sister must be... very different." I asked her what she meant, she said, "Well... Let's just say, one of you lost the genetic lottery." So the next day I was supposed to work at 12. I went to the store at open, and bought everything I wanted in the store. The total was 500 dollars *after* my 40% discount. Then I left and never showed up for my shift. My manager blew up my phone all day asking where I was and whether or not I was coming in because they were understaffed and she couldn't work a 12 hour shift because she had a date that night... Well, tough titties for you. TL;DR:
Manager insulted my sister, so I used my store discount to treat myself to a metric tonne of clothing, never returned and caused my manager to work for 12 hours.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Manager insults my sister, I completely ruin her day. POST: I already posted in this sub today, but I feel like this story fits here too perfectly as well. Years ago I worked at American Eagle Outfitters. Douchey store, douchey employees. One of my managers was the absolute worst. She would make comments over the headset about fat people in the store who "have no right to be here," and all other kinds of nasty stuff. So, my sister asked me if I could buy her a pair of jeans with my 40% discount. I obliged, and went to the store and picked out the pair she wanted in a size 12. I brought them to the cash where my douchette manager was working. She picked them up and said, "Well these clearly aren't for you." (I'm a size 2.) I said, "No, they're a gift for my sister." She rolls her eyes and laughs and says, "You and your sister must be... very different." I asked her what she meant, she said, "Well... Let's just say, one of you lost the genetic lottery." So the next day I was supposed to work at 12. I went to the store at open, and bought everything I wanted in the store. The total was 500 dollars *after* my 40% discount. Then I left and never showed up for my shift. My manager blew up my phone all day asking where I was and whether or not I was coming in because they were understaffed and she couldn't work a 12 hour shift because she had a date that night... Well, tough titties for you. TL;DR: Manager insulted my sister, so I used my store discount to treat myself to a metric tonne of clothing, never returned and caused my manager to work for 12 hours.<|endoftext|>
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I [19F] have been with my incredible boyfriend [19M] for 7 months, and I'm struggling to vocalize my feelings.
I never expected to find myself in a relationship like the one I'm currently in. It's better than I ever would have dreamed--he's the most caring, intelligent, all-around wonderful person I've ever met. I'm completely head-over-heels in love with him. But I haven't told him that yet. I've been trying to say it for about 3 months now, but every single time the right moment comes along, the words turn my tongue to lead and I miss my chance. We've actually talked about saying the phrase 'I love you' before, in regards to how often we say it to our parents and relatives. He told me he's only said it to his parents (with whom he has an awesome relationship) twice before, only at very important moments in their lives, which only made me more nervous about saying it to him. What if I don't pick a moment that seems important enough to him? Maybe that's a silly fear, but it's stopped me in my tracks several times anyway. It's not that we don't have our sweet, sentimental moments. He's told me how lucky he is to have me and often talks about our future. We both get excited about nights when our roommates are gone and we can spend a whole night together. Neither of us has been in a long-term relationship before, so that makes this task all the more daunting to me. Any advice/similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.
I want to tell my boyfriend of 7 months that I love him, but I chicken out every single time I get a good opportunity. Help!
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] have been with my incredible boyfriend [19M] for 7 months, and I'm struggling to vocalize my feelings. POST: I never expected to find myself in a relationship like the one I'm currently in. It's better than I ever would have dreamed--he's the most caring, intelligent, all-around wonderful person I've ever met. I'm completely head-over-heels in love with him. But I haven't told him that yet. I've been trying to say it for about 3 months now, but every single time the right moment comes along, the words turn my tongue to lead and I miss my chance. We've actually talked about saying the phrase 'I love you' before, in regards to how often we say it to our parents and relatives. He told me he's only said it to his parents (with whom he has an awesome relationship) twice before, only at very important moments in their lives, which only made me more nervous about saying it to him. What if I don't pick a moment that seems important enough to him? Maybe that's a silly fear, but it's stopped me in my tracks several times anyway. It's not that we don't have our sweet, sentimental moments. He's told me how lucky he is to have me and often talks about our future. We both get excited about nights when our roommates are gone and we can spend a whole night together. Neither of us has been in a long-term relationship before, so that makes this task all the more daunting to me. Any advice/similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:
I want to tell my boyfriend of 7 months that I love him, but I chicken out every single time I get a good opportunity. Help!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] have been with my incredible boyfriend [19M] for 7 months, and I'm struggling to vocalize my feelings. POST: I never expected to find myself in a relationship like the one I'm currently in. It's better than I ever would have dreamed--he's the most caring, intelligent, all-around wonderful person I've ever met. I'm completely head-over-heels in love with him. But I haven't told him that yet. I've been trying to say it for about 3 months now, but every single time the right moment comes along, the words turn my tongue to lead and I miss my chance. We've actually talked about saying the phrase 'I love you' before, in regards to how often we say it to our parents and relatives. He told me he's only said it to his parents (with whom he has an awesome relationship) twice before, only at very important moments in their lives, which only made me more nervous about saying it to him. What if I don't pick a moment that seems important enough to him? Maybe that's a silly fear, but it's stopped me in my tracks several times anyway. It's not that we don't have our sweet, sentimental moments. He's told me how lucky he is to have me and often talks about our future. We both get excited about nights when our roommates are gone and we can spend a whole night together. Neither of us has been in a long-term relationship before, so that makes this task all the more daunting to me. Any advice/similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: I want to tell my boyfriend of 7 months that I love him, but I chicken out every single time I get a good opportunity. Help!<|endoftext|>
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I (21M) just broke up with my (21F) girlfriend of 4 years. Did I make the right choice?
A few days ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. We were a happy couple and I didn't do it on bad terms. My problem with her was that I like to do adventurous, active things like mountain bike, ride my motorcycle, and generally be in the out doors. She on the other hand is not very interested in these activities, and I feel that she was holding me back from doing the things I like. There are a few other issues like her hot head and a big mouth at times. She is also very clingy and attached to me, which doesn't give me the opportunity to do the things I like without her. Sometimes she is difficult to be with, but sometimes she is the only one I want with me. I still love her though... I still want to be with her. Logically I feel I made the right choice, being so young I can play the single life and find myself, but I have spent my entire adult life with this girl, making memories and friends together like we were tied at the hip. I feel like I am loosing 4 years of my life by giving her up.
just broke up with what just a month ago I thought was my life partner. Now I'm sad and conflicted if it was a smart move.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21M) just broke up with my (21F) girlfriend of 4 years. Did I make the right choice? POST: A few days ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. We were a happy couple and I didn't do it on bad terms. My problem with her was that I like to do adventurous, active things like mountain bike, ride my motorcycle, and generally be in the out doors. She on the other hand is not very interested in these activities, and I feel that she was holding me back from doing the things I like. There are a few other issues like her hot head and a big mouth at times. She is also very clingy and attached to me, which doesn't give me the opportunity to do the things I like without her. Sometimes she is difficult to be with, but sometimes she is the only one I want with me. I still love her though... I still want to be with her. Logically I feel I made the right choice, being so young I can play the single life and find myself, but I have spent my entire adult life with this girl, making memories and friends together like we were tied at the hip. I feel like I am loosing 4 years of my life by giving her up. TL;DR:
just broke up with what just a month ago I thought was my life partner. Now I'm sad and conflicted if it was a smart move.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21M) just broke up with my (21F) girlfriend of 4 years. Did I make the right choice? POST: A few days ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. We were a happy couple and I didn't do it on bad terms. My problem with her was that I like to do adventurous, active things like mountain bike, ride my motorcycle, and generally be in the out doors. She on the other hand is not very interested in these activities, and I feel that she was holding me back from doing the things I like. There are a few other issues like her hot head and a big mouth at times. She is also very clingy and attached to me, which doesn't give me the opportunity to do the things I like without her. Sometimes she is difficult to be with, but sometimes she is the only one I want with me. I still love her though... I still want to be with her. Logically I feel I made the right choice, being so young I can play the single life and find myself, but I have spent my entire adult life with this girl, making memories and friends together like we were tied at the hip. I feel like I am loosing 4 years of my life by giving her up. TL;DR: just broke up with what just a month ago I thought was my life partner. Now I'm sad and conflicted if it was a smart move.<|endoftext|>
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Had a "right to life " rally on my college's campus today. It killed my mood for the rest of the day.
So every now and then we have some Christian group that shouts at people to repent ad preaches in the court yard. I'm sure this is fairly common at most universities, but today was different. I was coming back from the library after a good study session to see enormous billboard like signs and to my shock, it was pictures of dead fetuses and babies etc. Now I've never seen such graphic images or attended a sponsor event, I always assumed that was for DC and such, but the images were just seared into my mind. The local student body created some human chains and posters to counteract the preaching, some of which was humorous and at the same time, sad. Both sides going back and forth and even drowning then out in song. Anti abortion, (pro-life people) had a grand total of three to four people going against the university body. One side freedom speech and shocking graphics to make their point, the other side drowning out the message and getting aggressive and personal because they disagreed. It was a circus. Just felt shitty for both sides. The entire thing kind of hit close to home because I was almost a late term abortion. That could be part of the reason my mood sank, but at the same time I just felt disheartened by the whole thing and it put me in a depressed mood. Thanks for listening
Good day ruined by graphic images of dead babies and touchy subjects I didn't need to see or hear that day.
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Had a "right to life " rally on my college's campus today. It killed my mood for the rest of the day. POST: So every now and then we have some Christian group that shouts at people to repent ad preaches in the court yard. I'm sure this is fairly common at most universities, but today was different. I was coming back from the library after a good study session to see enormous billboard like signs and to my shock, it was pictures of dead fetuses and babies etc. Now I've never seen such graphic images or attended a sponsor event, I always assumed that was for DC and such, but the images were just seared into my mind. The local student body created some human chains and posters to counteract the preaching, some of which was humorous and at the same time, sad. Both sides going back and forth and even drowning then out in song. Anti abortion, (pro-life people) had a grand total of three to four people going against the university body. One side freedom speech and shocking graphics to make their point, the other side drowning out the message and getting aggressive and personal because they disagreed. It was a circus. Just felt shitty for both sides. The entire thing kind of hit close to home because I was almost a late term abortion. That could be part of the reason my mood sank, but at the same time I just felt disheartened by the whole thing and it put me in a depressed mood. Thanks for listening TL;DR:
Good day ruined by graphic images of dead babies and touchy subjects I didn't need to see or hear that day.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Had a "right to life " rally on my college's campus today. It killed my mood for the rest of the day. POST: So every now and then we have some Christian group that shouts at people to repent ad preaches in the court yard. I'm sure this is fairly common at most universities, but today was different. I was coming back from the library after a good study session to see enormous billboard like signs and to my shock, it was pictures of dead fetuses and babies etc. Now I've never seen such graphic images or attended a sponsor event, I always assumed that was for DC and such, but the images were just seared into my mind. The local student body created some human chains and posters to counteract the preaching, some of which was humorous and at the same time, sad. Both sides going back and forth and even drowning then out in song. Anti abortion, (pro-life people) had a grand total of three to four people going against the university body. One side freedom speech and shocking graphics to make their point, the other side drowning out the message and getting aggressive and personal because they disagreed. It was a circus. Just felt shitty for both sides. The entire thing kind of hit close to home because I was almost a late term abortion. That could be part of the reason my mood sank, but at the same time I just felt disheartened by the whole thing and it put me in a depressed mood. Thanks for listening TL;DR: Good day ruined by graphic images of dead babies and touchy subjects I didn't need to see or hear that day.<|endoftext|>
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Did I [24 M] break-up with my GF [22 F] ,of almost 3 years,for the right reasons?
i am 24, male, employed and going to school, and have a heart condition (this is relevant). to start off, i just broke up with my GF a few hours ago. allot has happened and i need help. over these past 2 and a half years we have gone through allot together: me breaking my wrist, her family going through hard times, me almost dying and being diagnosed with having heart condition, her slowly becoming bipolar, me falling back into depression after my uncles death, her unhealthy habits, spending 6 weeks apart and most recently my broken thumb. now for some background: while she was away for 6 weeks, i went to sleep at my friends (20F) who my GF hates. and i flirted with a friend (25F) (no interest at all). these are things i did, i acknowledge that it was not smart. i told my GF everything. i have no secrets from her. now here is why i broke up with her even though im the one who fucked up. ever since she came back, it has been one guilt trip after another. i did not cheat, i did not lie and i was straight forward about everything. when she cheated on me, i forgave her and moved on even when she lied about it and hid the facts. We talked everything out, i tried to cover everything with her (i taught we did after she told me she was ok) and make sure we could fix any lingering problems. but despite my best efforts. things got worse and worse. being treated like a cheater by the person i love is not something that i can emotionally stand. Reddit, did i do the right thing?
GF went away for 6 weeks, i visit friend she hates and flirt with girl while she is gone. i tell GF. she holds it against me. i break up with her. did i do the right thing?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did I [24 M] break-up with my GF [22 F],of almost 3 years,for the right reasons? POST: i am 24, male, employed and going to school, and have a heart condition (this is relevant). to start off, i just broke up with my GF a few hours ago. allot has happened and i need help. over these past 2 and a half years we have gone through allot together: me breaking my wrist, her family going through hard times, me almost dying and being diagnosed with having heart condition, her slowly becoming bipolar, me falling back into depression after my uncles death, her unhealthy habits, spending 6 weeks apart and most recently my broken thumb. now for some background: while she was away for 6 weeks, i went to sleep at my friends (20F) who my GF hates. and i flirted with a friend (25F) (no interest at all). these are things i did, i acknowledge that it was not smart. i told my GF everything. i have no secrets from her. now here is why i broke up with her even though im the one who fucked up. ever since she came back, it has been one guilt trip after another. i did not cheat, i did not lie and i was straight forward about everything. when she cheated on me, i forgave her and moved on even when she lied about it and hid the facts. We talked everything out, i tried to cover everything with her (i taught we did after she told me she was ok) and make sure we could fix any lingering problems. but despite my best efforts. things got worse and worse. being treated like a cheater by the person i love is not something that i can emotionally stand. Reddit, did i do the right thing? TL;DR:
GF went away for 6 weeks, i visit friend she hates and flirt with girl while she is gone. i tell GF. she holds it against me. i break up with her. did i do the right thing?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did I [24 M] break-up with my GF [22 F],of almost 3 years,for the right reasons? POST: i am 24, male, employed and going to school, and have a heart condition (this is relevant). to start off, i just broke up with my GF a few hours ago. allot has happened and i need help. over these past 2 and a half years we have gone through allot together: me breaking my wrist, her family going through hard times, me almost dying and being diagnosed with having heart condition, her slowly becoming bipolar, me falling back into depression after my uncles death, her unhealthy habits, spending 6 weeks apart and most recently my broken thumb. now for some background: while she was away for 6 weeks, i went to sleep at my friends (20F) who my GF hates. and i flirted with a friend (25F) (no interest at all). these are things i did, i acknowledge that it was not smart. i told my GF everything. i have no secrets from her. now here is why i broke up with her even though im the one who fucked up. ever since she came back, it has been one guilt trip after another. i did not cheat, i did not lie and i was straight forward about everything. when she cheated on me, i forgave her and moved on even when she lied about it and hid the facts. We talked everything out, i tried to cover everything with her (i taught we did after she told me she was ok) and make sure we could fix any lingering problems. but despite my best efforts. things got worse and worse. being treated like a cheater by the person i love is not something that i can emotionally stand. Reddit, did i do the right thing? TL;DR: GF went away for 6 weeks, i visit friend she hates and flirt with girl while she is gone. i tell GF. she holds it against me. i break up with her. did i do the right thing?<|endoftext|>
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Running Fibula Fail
Runnit, I'm out -- after 2 years of running(/walking) at least 5 days a week and going from 320 lbs to 170 lbs, I finally got an injury that has put me out. It was a pain that has slowly built up on the outside of my calf, and the doc thinks it's a stress fracture of the head of the fibula (given the xray which had a small mark there). I just finished my first 50 mile week at the end of December and was hoping to run an ultra this year. Now, I'm totally bummed. I'm not just here to complain though: Two things: I've been using the elliptical pretty heavily this week, but I'm a bit worried that might be aggravating my injury as the pain is not letting up. Anyone have any insight into this? Do stress fractures often hurt even when they're not being aggravated? Also, I'm having trouble burning the kind of calories I used to burn running 45-50 miles a week. An hour on the elliptical for me burns only 6 miles worth of calories, and I can't sustain it for as long as I can running (it's too much of exactly the same thing). I have also been swimming a bit and am going to try indoor rowing today. Anyone have any good cardio ideas to add on? Thanks Runnit!
I'm out with a stress fracture of the upper fibula. Could the elliptical be making it worse? Got any high-calorie burning no-impact cardio ideas?
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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Running Fibula Fail POST: Runnit, I'm out -- after 2 years of running(/walking) at least 5 days a week and going from 320 lbs to 170 lbs, I finally got an injury that has put me out. It was a pain that has slowly built up on the outside of my calf, and the doc thinks it's a stress fracture of the head of the fibula (given the xray which had a small mark there). I just finished my first 50 mile week at the end of December and was hoping to run an ultra this year. Now, I'm totally bummed. I'm not just here to complain though: Two things: I've been using the elliptical pretty heavily this week, but I'm a bit worried that might be aggravating my injury as the pain is not letting up. Anyone have any insight into this? Do stress fractures often hurt even when they're not being aggravated? Also, I'm having trouble burning the kind of calories I used to burn running 45-50 miles a week. An hour on the elliptical for me burns only 6 miles worth of calories, and I can't sustain it for as long as I can running (it's too much of exactly the same thing). I have also been swimming a bit and am going to try indoor rowing today. Anyone have any good cardio ideas to add on? Thanks Runnit! TL;DR:
I'm out with a stress fracture of the upper fibula. Could the elliptical be making it worse? Got any high-calorie burning no-impact cardio ideas?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Running Fibula Fail POST: Runnit, I'm out -- after 2 years of running(/walking) at least 5 days a week and going from 320 lbs to 170 lbs, I finally got an injury that has put me out. It was a pain that has slowly built up on the outside of my calf, and the doc thinks it's a stress fracture of the head of the fibula (given the xray which had a small mark there). I just finished my first 50 mile week at the end of December and was hoping to run an ultra this year. Now, I'm totally bummed. I'm not just here to complain though: Two things: I've been using the elliptical pretty heavily this week, but I'm a bit worried that might be aggravating my injury as the pain is not letting up. Anyone have any insight into this? Do stress fractures often hurt even when they're not being aggravated? Also, I'm having trouble burning the kind of calories I used to burn running 45-50 miles a week. An hour on the elliptical for me burns only 6 miles worth of calories, and I can't sustain it for as long as I can running (it's too much of exactly the same thing). I have also been swimming a bit and am going to try indoor rowing today. Anyone have any good cardio ideas to add on? Thanks Runnit! TL;DR: I'm out with a stress fracture of the upper fibula. Could the elliptical be making it worse? Got any high-calorie burning no-impact cardio ideas?<|endoftext|>
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Women of reddit. What is her intention by constantly telling me her family asks about me and wants to meet me?
So I(26m) have been seeing a wonderful woman(26) for the past 5 months now. Back in November(2 months in) she mentioned her family wanting to meet me, but said she was not ready for that. Which I wasn't too and we talked about it all for a little bit then. Now it's 3 months later and on multiple occasions she has brought up her family asking to meet me and her mom asking questions about me. I have told her I would gladly meet her family. She said good and would let me know when. She was suppose to meet my family, but due to weather issues didn't happen. But since then she has still brought up them asking and all. So I need some female input on what this means. Because I do like her a lot, and would gladly meet her family. I just don't want to misinterpret this to mean less than what I think it means. Done it before and got burned big time.
the person I have been dating keeps telling me her family wants to meet me, and I have told her I would gladly meet them. What could her intentions be by bringing it up to me constantly.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Women of reddit. What is her intention by constantly telling me her family asks about me and wants to meet me? POST: So I(26m) have been seeing a wonderful woman(26) for the past 5 months now. Back in November(2 months in) she mentioned her family wanting to meet me, but said she was not ready for that. Which I wasn't too and we talked about it all for a little bit then. Now it's 3 months later and on multiple occasions she has brought up her family asking to meet me and her mom asking questions about me. I have told her I would gladly meet her family. She said good and would let me know when. She was suppose to meet my family, but due to weather issues didn't happen. But since then she has still brought up them asking and all. So I need some female input on what this means. Because I do like her a lot, and would gladly meet her family. I just don't want to misinterpret this to mean less than what I think it means. Done it before and got burned big time. TL;DR:
the person I have been dating keeps telling me her family wants to meet me, and I have told her I would gladly meet them. What could her intentions be by bringing it up to me constantly.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Women of reddit. What is her intention by constantly telling me her family asks about me and wants to meet me? POST: So I(26m) have been seeing a wonderful woman(26) for the past 5 months now. Back in November(2 months in) she mentioned her family wanting to meet me, but said she was not ready for that. Which I wasn't too and we talked about it all for a little bit then. Now it's 3 months later and on multiple occasions she has brought up her family asking to meet me and her mom asking questions about me. I have told her I would gladly meet her family. She said good and would let me know when. She was suppose to meet my family, but due to weather issues didn't happen. But since then she has still brought up them asking and all. So I need some female input on what this means. Because I do like her a lot, and would gladly meet her family. I just don't want to misinterpret this to mean less than what I think it means. Done it before and got burned big time. TL;DR: the person I have been dating keeps telling me her family wants to meet me, and I have told her I would gladly meet them. What could her intentions be by bringing it up to me constantly.<|endoftext|>
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Me [33 M] with my wife [33 F] of 13 years, self mediatiation techniques for better communicating
My wife and I have a hard time communicating. Whenever we touch on a contriversal subject there is a 65% change that we will explode into an argument that will put us in a bad place for days. The 35% of the time we manage to recognize the danger in time and manage to scramble to safety with just a fleshwound or two. I tend to get defensive and always attack her arguments when I feel that she is being inconsistant or making assumptions. She has little patience and does not like explaining things and often feels that I take on an air of superiority that irritates her (I never feel that I am doing this). She is against joint counseling (and I am unsure we can afford it and there are potential language/culture barrier issues). All of the people we know on this side of the ocean are people I would be uncomfortable having as a mediator.
Are there any self mediation tips you could share that we can try out? Methods that might allow us to throughly discuss a touchy subject without makin things worse?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 M] with my wife [33 F] of 13 years, self mediatiation techniques for better communicating POST: My wife and I have a hard time communicating. Whenever we touch on a contriversal subject there is a 65% change that we will explode into an argument that will put us in a bad place for days. The 35% of the time we manage to recognize the danger in time and manage to scramble to safety with just a fleshwound or two. I tend to get defensive and always attack her arguments when I feel that she is being inconsistant or making assumptions. She has little patience and does not like explaining things and often feels that I take on an air of superiority that irritates her (I never feel that I am doing this). She is against joint counseling (and I am unsure we can afford it and there are potential language/culture barrier issues). All of the people we know on this side of the ocean are people I would be uncomfortable having as a mediator. TL;DR:
Are there any self mediation tips you could share that we can try out? Methods that might allow us to throughly discuss a touchy subject without makin things worse?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 M] with my wife [33 F] of 13 years, self mediatiation techniques for better communicating POST: My wife and I have a hard time communicating. Whenever we touch on a contriversal subject there is a 65% change that we will explode into an argument that will put us in a bad place for days. The 35% of the time we manage to recognize the danger in time and manage to scramble to safety with just a fleshwound or two. I tend to get defensive and always attack her arguments when I feel that she is being inconsistant or making assumptions. She has little patience and does not like explaining things and often feels that I take on an air of superiority that irritates her (I never feel that I am doing this). She is against joint counseling (and I am unsure we can afford it and there are potential language/culture barrier issues). All of the people we know on this side of the ocean are people I would be uncomfortable having as a mediator. TL;DR: Are there any self mediation tips you could share that we can try out? Methods that might allow us to throughly discuss a touchy subject without makin things worse?<|endoftext|>
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I have some emotional scars from my childhood that sometimes affect my personal and social lives. I have never sought after professional help. Can we open up a conversation on this topic and what I should do to combat this?
Backstory: My parents divorced when I was too young to even remember them being together. My mother remarried not long after that and is currently still with my step father. From a pretty young age, around 10 probably, I became terrified of my step father. He had an extremely short temper and was the type of person that would get in your face and raise his voice for the smallest of offenses. He would also play these games (I saw them as games) where he would get in your face, threaten you with whatever punishment, and then say that we weren't to speak. Then, he would ask if you understood what he was saying. If you said yes, he would yell at you for speaking. If you didn't say anything, he would yell at you for not responding. Besides spankings now and then and a face slap a couple of times, he really wasn't all that physically violent. But, as you can imagine, a lot of what he did was emotionally damaging to me. I've always been a quiet, introverted person and I've never figured out if this is my personality or I have been shut up so many times by my step father that this is how I am. I have mild social anxiety, sometimes worse than others, am very sensitive and have trouble expressing myself. I generally see myself as a gentle person but some things set me off and I feel this intense building rage, just like I witnessed very often from my step father, and it really scares me (I have only told 2 people this ever but I have recurring dreams of violently fighting my stepfather, less frequently now that I am older). I don't want to be that type of person to my wife or my children. What should I do to help this situation?
I had a childhood filled with a lot of anxiety because of my troubled relationship with my step father and I think that problems in my personal and social lives are feeling some consequences. What can I do to help this situation?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have some emotional scars from my childhood that sometimes affect my personal and social lives. I have never sought after professional help. Can we open up a conversation on this topic and what I should do to combat this? POST: Backstory: My parents divorced when I was too young to even remember them being together. My mother remarried not long after that and is currently still with my step father. From a pretty young age, around 10 probably, I became terrified of my step father. He had an extremely short temper and was the type of person that would get in your face and raise his voice for the smallest of offenses. He would also play these games (I saw them as games) where he would get in your face, threaten you with whatever punishment, and then say that we weren't to speak. Then, he would ask if you understood what he was saying. If you said yes, he would yell at you for speaking. If you didn't say anything, he would yell at you for not responding. Besides spankings now and then and a face slap a couple of times, he really wasn't all that physically violent. But, as you can imagine, a lot of what he did was emotionally damaging to me. I've always been a quiet, introverted person and I've never figured out if this is my personality or I have been shut up so many times by my step father that this is how I am. I have mild social anxiety, sometimes worse than others, am very sensitive and have trouble expressing myself. I generally see myself as a gentle person but some things set me off and I feel this intense building rage, just like I witnessed very often from my step father, and it really scares me (I have only told 2 people this ever but I have recurring dreams of violently fighting my stepfather, less frequently now that I am older). I don't want to be that type of person to my wife or my children. What should I do to help this situation? TL;DR:
I had a childhood filled with a lot of anxiety because of my troubled relationship with my step father and I think that problems in my personal and social lives are feeling some consequences. What can I do to help this situation?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have some emotional scars from my childhood that sometimes affect my personal and social lives. I have never sought after professional help. Can we open up a conversation on this topic and what I should do to combat this? POST: Backstory: My parents divorced when I was too young to even remember them being together. My mother remarried not long after that and is currently still with my step father. From a pretty young age, around 10 probably, I became terrified of my step father. He had an extremely short temper and was the type of person that would get in your face and raise his voice for the smallest of offenses. He would also play these games (I saw them as games) where he would get in your face, threaten you with whatever punishment, and then say that we weren't to speak. Then, he would ask if you understood what he was saying. If you said yes, he would yell at you for speaking. If you didn't say anything, he would yell at you for not responding. Besides spankings now and then and a face slap a couple of times, he really wasn't all that physically violent. But, as you can imagine, a lot of what he did was emotionally damaging to me. I've always been a quiet, introverted person and I've never figured out if this is my personality or I have been shut up so many times by my step father that this is how I am. I have mild social anxiety, sometimes worse than others, am very sensitive and have trouble expressing myself. I generally see myself as a gentle person but some things set me off and I feel this intense building rage, just like I witnessed very often from my step father, and it really scares me (I have only told 2 people this ever but I have recurring dreams of violently fighting my stepfather, less frequently now that I am older). I don't want to be that type of person to my wife or my children. What should I do to help this situation? TL;DR: I had a childhood filled with a lot of anxiety because of my troubled relationship with my step father and I think that problems in my personal and social lives are feeling some consequences. What can I do to help this situation?<|endoftext|>
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[HI] Individual I am subletting from refuses to return security deposit
Sublet what can only be described as a vacation rental for a month, "landlord" stated that I had paid her for one month and after that time I would just need to pay any remaining days spent there to, what is essentially her landlord (actual property owner). I informed her that I did not intend on staying past the end of the month I paid for (Aug 14th - Sept 14th). She then stated that I would have to pay her landlord regardless in addition to a $100 cleaning before she would return my deposit. My question essentially is: as far as I can discern from Hawaii tenant rights, because it was not a written lease/fixed term, it becomes either a week to week or month to month type situation, in which after 14 days of lease termination she is legally bound to return my deposit unless she can document significant damage (she can't) not to mention she cannot charge me additional cleaning fees outside of what is equal to one months rent (I'm going to leave it clean despite it being dirty and ant infested when I moved in). Is there anything I'm overlooking? Additionally, if I do intend to go to small claims, should I file a dispute against her through PayPal because that is how I paid her, or skip that all together and just file a claim with small claims? Thanks.
Sublet "landlord" failed to find a new tenant to maintain her lease with actual property owner, wants me to foot the bill.
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [HI] Individual I am subletting from refuses to return security deposit POST: Sublet what can only be described as a vacation rental for a month, "landlord" stated that I had paid her for one month and after that time I would just need to pay any remaining days spent there to, what is essentially her landlord (actual property owner). I informed her that I did not intend on staying past the end of the month I paid for (Aug 14th - Sept 14th). She then stated that I would have to pay her landlord regardless in addition to a $100 cleaning before she would return my deposit. My question essentially is: as far as I can discern from Hawaii tenant rights, because it was not a written lease/fixed term, it becomes either a week to week or month to month type situation, in which after 14 days of lease termination she is legally bound to return my deposit unless she can document significant damage (she can't) not to mention she cannot charge me additional cleaning fees outside of what is equal to one months rent (I'm going to leave it clean despite it being dirty and ant infested when I moved in). Is there anything I'm overlooking? Additionally, if I do intend to go to small claims, should I file a dispute against her through PayPal because that is how I paid her, or skip that all together and just file a claim with small claims? Thanks. TL;DR:
Sublet "landlord" failed to find a new tenant to maintain her lease with actual property owner, wants me to foot the bill.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [HI] Individual I am subletting from refuses to return security deposit POST: Sublet what can only be described as a vacation rental for a month, "landlord" stated that I had paid her for one month and after that time I would just need to pay any remaining days spent there to, what is essentially her landlord (actual property owner). I informed her that I did not intend on staying past the end of the month I paid for (Aug 14th - Sept 14th). She then stated that I would have to pay her landlord regardless in addition to a $100 cleaning before she would return my deposit. My question essentially is: as far as I can discern from Hawaii tenant rights, because it was not a written lease/fixed term, it becomes either a week to week or month to month type situation, in which after 14 days of lease termination she is legally bound to return my deposit unless she can document significant damage (she can't) not to mention she cannot charge me additional cleaning fees outside of what is equal to one months rent (I'm going to leave it clean despite it being dirty and ant infested when I moved in). Is there anything I'm overlooking? Additionally, if I do intend to go to small claims, should I file a dispute against her through PayPal because that is how I paid her, or skip that all together and just file a claim with small claims? Thanks. TL;DR: Sublet "landlord" failed to find a new tenant to maintain her lease with actual property owner, wants me to foot the bill.<|endoftext|>
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I (M15) think I might have screwed up majorly with a girl (F15) I had a crush on last night.
**Throwaway Because I have Redditor Friends** So I have this friend that I didn't really know I liked until about a month ago. Well she has made it clear that we are "Just friends" on a few occasions, yet she still shows signs of liking me. So our ROTC program (which we are both in) had a ball last night (I'm not a formal person at all. It is the exact opposite of my very being.). I had planned on going stag because I don't have the balls to ask anyone to it (mostly because my parents always made me feel uncomfortable around girls when I was little so I tell them nothing of my "love life", for lack of a better phrase.) A month ago, she asks me to go with her to the ball "just as friends" so of course I said yes. Last night when we are there, I find myself sort of pissed off because I was thinking "What if the only reason she asked me was because she didn't want to go alone and look like a loner?" So we eat and everything and once the formal part of the evening is over the dancing begins. I had warned her prior to the ball that I know nothing of dancing or the Formal Arts of Fanciness. I sit there and just make small talk THE WHOLE NIGHT! I wouldn't even dance with her (mostly because I didn't know how) or take a picture with her (because I don't like my face and I hate the Class A uniform) and I can't help but feel as though I am a huge douchebag for it. My cousin/best friend danced with her because I wouldn't (which I didn't care for, he just felt sorry for her because I'm a dick). I probably ruined any chance I had with her because of it. She said it was fine that I didn't dance with her and she understood but I can't help but stress over it. Did I screw myself over on this one? What do I do?
I didn't dance with my date at a ball because I thought she only went with me so she didn't have to go alone.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (M15) think I might have screwed up majorly with a girl (F15) I had a crush on last night. POST: **Throwaway Because I have Redditor Friends** So I have this friend that I didn't really know I liked until about a month ago. Well she has made it clear that we are "Just friends" on a few occasions, yet she still shows signs of liking me. So our ROTC program (which we are both in) had a ball last night (I'm not a formal person at all. It is the exact opposite of my very being.). I had planned on going stag because I don't have the balls to ask anyone to it (mostly because my parents always made me feel uncomfortable around girls when I was little so I tell them nothing of my "love life", for lack of a better phrase.) A month ago, she asks me to go with her to the ball "just as friends" so of course I said yes. Last night when we are there, I find myself sort of pissed off because I was thinking "What if the only reason she asked me was because she didn't want to go alone and look like a loner?" So we eat and everything and once the formal part of the evening is over the dancing begins. I had warned her prior to the ball that I know nothing of dancing or the Formal Arts of Fanciness. I sit there and just make small talk THE WHOLE NIGHT! I wouldn't even dance with her (mostly because I didn't know how) or take a picture with her (because I don't like my face and I hate the Class A uniform) and I can't help but feel as though I am a huge douchebag for it. My cousin/best friend danced with her because I wouldn't (which I didn't care for, he just felt sorry for her because I'm a dick). I probably ruined any chance I had with her because of it. She said it was fine that I didn't dance with her and she understood but I can't help but stress over it. Did I screw myself over on this one? What do I do? TL;DR:
I didn't dance with my date at a ball because I thought she only went with me so she didn't have to go alone.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (M15) think I might have screwed up majorly with a girl (F15) I had a crush on last night. POST: **Throwaway Because I have Redditor Friends** So I have this friend that I didn't really know I liked until about a month ago. Well she has made it clear that we are "Just friends" on a few occasions, yet she still shows signs of liking me. So our ROTC program (which we are both in) had a ball last night (I'm not a formal person at all. It is the exact opposite of my very being.). I had planned on going stag because I don't have the balls to ask anyone to it (mostly because my parents always made me feel uncomfortable around girls when I was little so I tell them nothing of my "love life", for lack of a better phrase.) A month ago, she asks me to go with her to the ball "just as friends" so of course I said yes. Last night when we are there, I find myself sort of pissed off because I was thinking "What if the only reason she asked me was because she didn't want to go alone and look like a loner?" So we eat and everything and once the formal part of the evening is over the dancing begins. I had warned her prior to the ball that I know nothing of dancing or the Formal Arts of Fanciness. I sit there and just make small talk THE WHOLE NIGHT! I wouldn't even dance with her (mostly because I didn't know how) or take a picture with her (because I don't like my face and I hate the Class A uniform) and I can't help but feel as though I am a huge douchebag for it. My cousin/best friend danced with her because I wouldn't (which I didn't care for, he just felt sorry for her because I'm a dick). I probably ruined any chance I had with her because of it. She said it was fine that I didn't dance with her and she understood but I can't help but stress over it. Did I screw myself over on this one? What do I do? TL;DR: I didn't dance with my date at a ball because I thought she only went with me so she didn't have to go alone.<|endoftext|>
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HELP! I have a 10 year old Bull Mastiff
My male bull mastiff has had horrible allergies, hip problems, and eye issues for years, but lately they have all gotten worse. He will scratch himself and chew on his paws until he bleeds and scabs. He constantly shakes his head because his ears are itchy. When he does this, a horrible smell comes from them. I can tell how miserable he is. He'll just pace around the house shaking his head and whining. Also, he let's out this God awful yelps that sound as if he is in the worst imaginable pain ever. Lately he won't even get up to go outside and I don't want to make him get up in fear of causing him more pain. I have tried everything the vet has told me to do. I have given him every medicine that was supposed to help relieve his itchiness. I was told to give him baby aspirin for his pain and benadryl for his allergies everyday, but I see no change. I've made a veterinarian appointment, but I don't know how I'm going to get him in the car because he won't get in on his own. I also can't lift him up because he weighs forty lbs more than me. I am so worried and helpless. Does anyone have any sort of advice to give? Please help me. I am desperate. I don't want my baby to hurt anymore.
My dog is in excruciating pain everyday and I've tried everything the vet told me to do. It isn't working. I need help.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: HELP! I have a 10 year old Bull Mastiff POST: My male bull mastiff has had horrible allergies, hip problems, and eye issues for years, but lately they have all gotten worse. He will scratch himself and chew on his paws until he bleeds and scabs. He constantly shakes his head because his ears are itchy. When he does this, a horrible smell comes from them. I can tell how miserable he is. He'll just pace around the house shaking his head and whining. Also, he let's out this God awful yelps that sound as if he is in the worst imaginable pain ever. Lately he won't even get up to go outside and I don't want to make him get up in fear of causing him more pain. I have tried everything the vet has told me to do. I have given him every medicine that was supposed to help relieve his itchiness. I was told to give him baby aspirin for his pain and benadryl for his allergies everyday, but I see no change. I've made a veterinarian appointment, but I don't know how I'm going to get him in the car because he won't get in on his own. I also can't lift him up because he weighs forty lbs more than me. I am so worried and helpless. Does anyone have any sort of advice to give? Please help me. I am desperate. I don't want my baby to hurt anymore. TL;DR:
My dog is in excruciating pain everyday and I've tried everything the vet told me to do. It isn't working. I need help.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: HELP! I have a 10 year old Bull Mastiff POST: My male bull mastiff has had horrible allergies, hip problems, and eye issues for years, but lately they have all gotten worse. He will scratch himself and chew on his paws until he bleeds and scabs. He constantly shakes his head because his ears are itchy. When he does this, a horrible smell comes from them. I can tell how miserable he is. He'll just pace around the house shaking his head and whining. Also, he let's out this God awful yelps that sound as if he is in the worst imaginable pain ever. Lately he won't even get up to go outside and I don't want to make him get up in fear of causing him more pain. I have tried everything the vet has told me to do. I have given him every medicine that was supposed to help relieve his itchiness. I was told to give him baby aspirin for his pain and benadryl for his allergies everyday, but I see no change. I've made a veterinarian appointment, but I don't know how I'm going to get him in the car because he won't get in on his own. I also can't lift him up because he weighs forty lbs more than me. I am so worried and helpless. Does anyone have any sort of advice to give? Please help me. I am desperate. I don't want my baby to hurt anymore. TL;DR: My dog is in excruciating pain everyday and I've tried everything the vet told me to do. It isn't working. I need help.<|endoftext|>
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t3_2xxoyl
tifu
TIFU by asking about bills
Unlike most fuck ups, this has just happened. A bit of background first. It started when i was in school today when I recieve a text from O2 (my service provider) stating that if my phone bill from the previous month isnt paid soon my phone will be terminated, were not a completely well off family theres still months were internet bills arent paid. Anyway, getting home i inquire about this to my older brother who started the contract for me. He becomes mad and quickly rings my mum whos out of home, mad that the bill still hasnt been paid, he pays it instead. Crisis over right? No. Mum gets home and begins to get stupidly angry about how my brother and i treat her like shit, it erupts into a full argument in which mum tears out the internet cable, kicks out my brother and now says im soon losing all of my privilages and hobbies (my phone, my internet, my gym membership, ect) and blames me for it all. I've torn my family apart and im all to blame, ive sat upstairs crying for 20 minutes, i have no idea whats gonna happen next.
brother paid my phone bill for me, somehow pissed off my mum. He's been thrown out and im losing everything.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking about bills POST: Unlike most fuck ups, this has just happened. A bit of background first. It started when i was in school today when I recieve a text from O2 (my service provider) stating that if my phone bill from the previous month isnt paid soon my phone will be terminated, were not a completely well off family theres still months were internet bills arent paid. Anyway, getting home i inquire about this to my older brother who started the contract for me. He becomes mad and quickly rings my mum whos out of home, mad that the bill still hasnt been paid, he pays it instead. Crisis over right? No. Mum gets home and begins to get stupidly angry about how my brother and i treat her like shit, it erupts into a full argument in which mum tears out the internet cable, kicks out my brother and now says im soon losing all of my privilages and hobbies (my phone, my internet, my gym membership, ect) and blames me for it all. I've torn my family apart and im all to blame, ive sat upstairs crying for 20 minutes, i have no idea whats gonna happen next. TL;DR:
brother paid my phone bill for me, somehow pissed off my mum. He's been thrown out and im losing everything.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking about bills POST: Unlike most fuck ups, this has just happened. A bit of background first. It started when i was in school today when I recieve a text from O2 (my service provider) stating that if my phone bill from the previous month isnt paid soon my phone will be terminated, were not a completely well off family theres still months were internet bills arent paid. Anyway, getting home i inquire about this to my older brother who started the contract for me. He becomes mad and quickly rings my mum whos out of home, mad that the bill still hasnt been paid, he pays it instead. Crisis over right? No. Mum gets home and begins to get stupidly angry about how my brother and i treat her like shit, it erupts into a full argument in which mum tears out the internet cable, kicks out my brother and now says im soon losing all of my privilages and hobbies (my phone, my internet, my gym membership, ect) and blames me for it all. I've torn my family apart and im all to blame, ive sat upstairs crying for 20 minutes, i have no idea whats gonna happen next. TL;DR: brother paid my phone bill for me, somehow pissed off my mum. He's been thrown out and im losing everything.<|endoftext|>
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I [29 M] keep getting a dread sensation after I feel she's into me
Hi, The last times I've seen girls that I like, I start flirting with them and during this phase I actually feel that I like them and want to be around them all the time. But as soon as I start to sense that they get interested in me, I start questioning whether they are the one or not, and get a feeling like I everything is wrong. Even when I wake up and remember about them I get this feeling of dread. We don't even have to had gone on a proper date and I start feeling like this. But then when I see them talking to other men, I get a little bit jealous, not enough to act on it, but enough to make me think "Ok, so you really like her". Shortly later though I'll get the dread feeling again. I'm pretty sure it's not normal behavior, and rationally it makes no sense to me to feel like they're not the one when we haven't even gone out on dates. Currently I'm at this exact problem as I'm flirting with a girl from work, who I think is awesome, cute and fun. Some people have said to me that we look very well together, even thinking that we were already in a relationship. But as I said, when I started to feel she was into me, the questioning and dread began along with the sensation of wanting to flee. Has any one of you had this problem before? How did you managed to solve or cope with it? I keep thinking that it will make me die alone because I'll never get to start a meaningful relationship.
Keep getting dread sensation after feeling she's into me but before even going on real dates, preventing me to start a relationship as I want to flee.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 M] keep getting a dread sensation after I feel she's into me POST: Hi, The last times I've seen girls that I like, I start flirting with them and during this phase I actually feel that I like them and want to be around them all the time. But as soon as I start to sense that they get interested in me, I start questioning whether they are the one or not, and get a feeling like I everything is wrong. Even when I wake up and remember about them I get this feeling of dread. We don't even have to had gone on a proper date and I start feeling like this. But then when I see them talking to other men, I get a little bit jealous, not enough to act on it, but enough to make me think "Ok, so you really like her". Shortly later though I'll get the dread feeling again. I'm pretty sure it's not normal behavior, and rationally it makes no sense to me to feel like they're not the one when we haven't even gone out on dates. Currently I'm at this exact problem as I'm flirting with a girl from work, who I think is awesome, cute and fun. Some people have said to me that we look very well together, even thinking that we were already in a relationship. But as I said, when I started to feel she was into me, the questioning and dread began along with the sensation of wanting to flee. Has any one of you had this problem before? How did you managed to solve or cope with it? I keep thinking that it will make me die alone because I'll never get to start a meaningful relationship. TL;DR:
Keep getting dread sensation after feeling she's into me but before even going on real dates, preventing me to start a relationship as I want to flee.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 M] keep getting a dread sensation after I feel she's into me POST: Hi, The last times I've seen girls that I like, I start flirting with them and during this phase I actually feel that I like them and want to be around them all the time. But as soon as I start to sense that they get interested in me, I start questioning whether they are the one or not, and get a feeling like I everything is wrong. Even when I wake up and remember about them I get this feeling of dread. We don't even have to had gone on a proper date and I start feeling like this. But then when I see them talking to other men, I get a little bit jealous, not enough to act on it, but enough to make me think "Ok, so you really like her". Shortly later though I'll get the dread feeling again. I'm pretty sure it's not normal behavior, and rationally it makes no sense to me to feel like they're not the one when we haven't even gone out on dates. Currently I'm at this exact problem as I'm flirting with a girl from work, who I think is awesome, cute and fun. Some people have said to me that we look very well together, even thinking that we were already in a relationship. But as I said, when I started to feel she was into me, the questioning and dread began along with the sensation of wanting to flee. Has any one of you had this problem before? How did you managed to solve or cope with it? I keep thinking that it will make me die alone because I'll never get to start a meaningful relationship. TL;DR: Keep getting dread sensation after feeling she's into me but before even going on real dates, preventing me to start a relationship as I want to flee.<|endoftext|>
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Me [16 M] in an unclear relationship with[15 F] , difficult to move forward
We have been talking/texting for over a year now. But my main problem is that in that year, we've hung out maybe three times and it bothers and frustrates me. I believe it is because of her social anxiety( she can have random panic attacks in crowded areas, as she has told me). Every time I ask I always get " I'm busy" or " I can't". Every single weekend. And then I dont know, a couple weeks later she will say that she's hung out with her girl friends. And I ask often. And to be clear, she has told me she has feelings for me and vice versa. So I'm out of ideas
so, girl so wontt hang out with me, but says she has feelings, so what should I do? Move on or continue to crack on?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] in an unclear relationship with[15 F], difficult to move forward POST: We have been talking/texting for over a year now. But my main problem is that in that year, we've hung out maybe three times and it bothers and frustrates me. I believe it is because of her social anxiety( she can have random panic attacks in crowded areas, as she has told me). Every time I ask I always get " I'm busy" or " I can't". Every single weekend. And then I dont know, a couple weeks later she will say that she's hung out with her girl friends. And I ask often. And to be clear, she has told me she has feelings for me and vice versa. So I'm out of ideas TL;DR:
so, girl so wontt hang out with me, but says she has feelings, so what should I do? Move on or continue to crack on?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] in an unclear relationship with[15 F], difficult to move forward POST: We have been talking/texting for over a year now. But my main problem is that in that year, we've hung out maybe three times and it bothers and frustrates me. I believe it is because of her social anxiety( she can have random panic attacks in crowded areas, as she has told me). Every time I ask I always get " I'm busy" or " I can't". Every single weekend. And then I dont know, a couple weeks later she will say that she's hung out with her girl friends. And I ask often. And to be clear, she has told me she has feelings for me and vice versa. So I'm out of ideas TL;DR: so, girl so wontt hang out with me, but says she has feelings, so what should I do? Move on or continue to crack on?<|endoftext|>
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Not sure how I(15M) should ask out girl(14F)
All my life I have been shy, and have never had a girlfriend nor have I tried to ask someone out. But I really like this girl and have decided that I don't want to have anything to regret, so I'm going to at least try to ask her out. She is average looking, as am I, but I'm not a very outgoing person. I've thought a lot about her rejecting me, or me embarrassing myself if she says no, but I think it might work. We used to be friends a couple of years ago, but we just stopped talking for no reason. We live in the same town and went to the same school for a long time, but now we go to different high schools. How do I ask her out? Should I message her on Facebook, or wait for the unlikely event that I will see her in person? Also, is it even worth it now, or should I just wait until i'm older to have a relationship with someone?
I(15M) like a girl (14F), but we go to different schools and haven't talked in a while. Not sure how or if I should ask her out.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Not sure how I(15M) should ask out girl(14F) POST: All my life I have been shy, and have never had a girlfriend nor have I tried to ask someone out. But I really like this girl and have decided that I don't want to have anything to regret, so I'm going to at least try to ask her out. She is average looking, as am I, but I'm not a very outgoing person. I've thought a lot about her rejecting me, or me embarrassing myself if she says no, but I think it might work. We used to be friends a couple of years ago, but we just stopped talking for no reason. We live in the same town and went to the same school for a long time, but now we go to different high schools. How do I ask her out? Should I message her on Facebook, or wait for the unlikely event that I will see her in person? Also, is it even worth it now, or should I just wait until i'm older to have a relationship with someone? TL;DR:
I(15M) like a girl (14F), but we go to different schools and haven't talked in a while. Not sure how or if I should ask her out.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Not sure how I(15M) should ask out girl(14F) POST: All my life I have been shy, and have never had a girlfriend nor have I tried to ask someone out. But I really like this girl and have decided that I don't want to have anything to regret, so I'm going to at least try to ask her out. She is average looking, as am I, but I'm not a very outgoing person. I've thought a lot about her rejecting me, or me embarrassing myself if she says no, but I think it might work. We used to be friends a couple of years ago, but we just stopped talking for no reason. We live in the same town and went to the same school for a long time, but now we go to different high schools. How do I ask her out? Should I message her on Facebook, or wait for the unlikely event that I will see her in person? Also, is it even worth it now, or should I just wait until i'm older to have a relationship with someone? TL;DR: I(15M) like a girl (14F), but we go to different schools and haven't talked in a while. Not sure how or if I should ask her out.<|endoftext|>
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A homeless black Lab is roaming our neighborhood and appears to be starving. I don't know what to do. [x-post from /r/rescuedogs]
[This black Labrador] has been roaming my neighborhood for nearly 3 weeks. It's pretty obvious at this point that she's homeless, and I feel awful for her. She seems to be very skittish around people, but has shown zero signs of aggression towards anyone. Because of this, I have reason to believe that she may have been in an abusive household. She's been a sweetheart so far, but looks very skinny and I'm worried that she's starving. I'm trying to share my own puppy's food with her when I can, but I can't afford to keep doing so. I live in a nice urban neighborhood, but we're outside of city limits and I've had no luck in being able to get her into a shelter. So far I just been trying to share treats and food, both to keep her fed, and more importantly to get her to gain trust in humans. [I've made a CraigsList post] for my area to try and get her some help (or even better, a home), but it's really rough and tears me up to see her. I would adopt her myself, but I do not have a big enough property to properly sustain her, and I also cannot afford the food and vet bills. My local humane society can't take anymore animals for at least a couple weeks. I'm constantly trying to build trust in the meantime, with moderate results. I feel awful looking at her and thinking that I should be able to do more. I'm considering asking for donations to at least let me feed her for a few weeks until I can possibly transport her to the humane society of Springfield, MO. I talk to people in the neighborhood and they all feel bad, but have no idea whose dog this was. We're pretty sure she was just abandoned at this point. What should I do?
There's an abandoned and possibly abused black Lab running around our neighborhood. I'm unable to take her in myself, and the local animal shelter can't take her in for at least a couple weeks. I need some advice
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A homeless black Lab is roaming our neighborhood and appears to be starving. I don't know what to do. [x-post from /r/rescuedogs] POST: [This black Labrador] has been roaming my neighborhood for nearly 3 weeks. It's pretty obvious at this point that she's homeless, and I feel awful for her. She seems to be very skittish around people, but has shown zero signs of aggression towards anyone. Because of this, I have reason to believe that she may have been in an abusive household. She's been a sweetheart so far, but looks very skinny and I'm worried that she's starving. I'm trying to share my own puppy's food with her when I can, but I can't afford to keep doing so. I live in a nice urban neighborhood, but we're outside of city limits and I've had no luck in being able to get her into a shelter. So far I just been trying to share treats and food, both to keep her fed, and more importantly to get her to gain trust in humans. [I've made a CraigsList post] for my area to try and get her some help (or even better, a home), but it's really rough and tears me up to see her. I would adopt her myself, but I do not have a big enough property to properly sustain her, and I also cannot afford the food and vet bills. My local humane society can't take anymore animals for at least a couple weeks. I'm constantly trying to build trust in the meantime, with moderate results. I feel awful looking at her and thinking that I should be able to do more. I'm considering asking for donations to at least let me feed her for a few weeks until I can possibly transport her to the humane society of Springfield, MO. I talk to people in the neighborhood and they all feel bad, but have no idea whose dog this was. We're pretty sure she was just abandoned at this point. What should I do? TL;DR:
There's an abandoned and possibly abused black Lab running around our neighborhood. I'm unable to take her in myself, and the local animal shelter can't take her in for at least a couple weeks. I need some advice<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A homeless black Lab is roaming our neighborhood and appears to be starving. I don't know what to do. [x-post from /r/rescuedogs] POST: [This black Labrador] has been roaming my neighborhood for nearly 3 weeks. It's pretty obvious at this point that she's homeless, and I feel awful for her. She seems to be very skittish around people, but has shown zero signs of aggression towards anyone. Because of this, I have reason to believe that she may have been in an abusive household. She's been a sweetheart so far, but looks very skinny and I'm worried that she's starving. I'm trying to share my own puppy's food with her when I can, but I can't afford to keep doing so. I live in a nice urban neighborhood, but we're outside of city limits and I've had no luck in being able to get her into a shelter. So far I just been trying to share treats and food, both to keep her fed, and more importantly to get her to gain trust in humans. [I've made a CraigsList post] for my area to try and get her some help (or even better, a home), but it's really rough and tears me up to see her. I would adopt her myself, but I do not have a big enough property to properly sustain her, and I also cannot afford the food and vet bills. My local humane society can't take anymore animals for at least a couple weeks. I'm constantly trying to build trust in the meantime, with moderate results. I feel awful looking at her and thinking that I should be able to do more. I'm considering asking for donations to at least let me feed her for a few weeks until I can possibly transport her to the humane society of Springfield, MO. I talk to people in the neighborhood and they all feel bad, but have no idea whose dog this was. We're pretty sure she was just abandoned at this point. What should I do? TL;DR: There's an abandoned and possibly abused black Lab running around our neighborhood. I'm unable to take her in myself, and the local animal shelter can't take her in for at least a couple weeks. I need some advice<|endoftext|>
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I want to work in IT. Please help.
I don't have any experience, although I am pretty good at learning computer-related things and enjoy fixing technical things. I also owe a lot of money for school for another career that didn't pan out - job market that seems to be extremely volatile that also pays very low. And it has been my dream since I was a child to work in IT... I just ended up doing unrelated things for some bad reason. Now I can't go back to school and get a 4-year degree in computer science or something (cost, rent, time). So, I want to start a career in IT. I don't mind going to school for it, but because of my other degree, I already owe a lot of money. What is the cheapest way to get into IT, which would also show the employers I know what I am doing? What are the best certifications to get? What are the easiest certifications to get? What are the cheapest certifications to get? And what jobs can I get based on those certifications? My dream in life is to work in IT. I have no experience really. I have no money either, and owe a lot of money to school loans for a separate career that didn't pan out. I am ok with taking out some more loans for school, but I honestly can't afford really that much more. I would love to hear the opinions and advice from reddit. Thank you.
Want to work in IT. No experience. No money. Cheap school and certifications? Where? Also, what type of job to get with that to start out?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I want to work in IT. Please help. POST: I don't have any experience, although I am pretty good at learning computer-related things and enjoy fixing technical things. I also owe a lot of money for school for another career that didn't pan out - job market that seems to be extremely volatile that also pays very low. And it has been my dream since I was a child to work in IT... I just ended up doing unrelated things for some bad reason. Now I can't go back to school and get a 4-year degree in computer science or something (cost, rent, time). So, I want to start a career in IT. I don't mind going to school for it, but because of my other degree, I already owe a lot of money. What is the cheapest way to get into IT, which would also show the employers I know what I am doing? What are the best certifications to get? What are the easiest certifications to get? What are the cheapest certifications to get? And what jobs can I get based on those certifications? My dream in life is to work in IT. I have no experience really. I have no money either, and owe a lot of money to school loans for a separate career that didn't pan out. I am ok with taking out some more loans for school, but I honestly can't afford really that much more. I would love to hear the opinions and advice from reddit. Thank you. TL;DR: Want to work in IT. No experience. No money. Cheap school and certifications? Where? Also, what type of job to get with that to start out?<|endoftext|>
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[Text] Do you like Top Gear?
Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.
picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection.
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SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear? POST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can. TL;DR:
picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear? POST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can. TL;DR: picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection.<|endoftext|>
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I [20 M] broke up with my ex[20 F] 1 months ago, and she still seems to be my fuc**** kryptonite
Hey everyone! I broke up with my ex approximately one month ago, some 2/3 weeks after I told her I didn´t feel the same for her anymore. I know she loved me, but we were constantly fighting, and after 3 months together, I felt we were to incompatible. The decision to move on was unanimous, but even knowing we weren´t compatible, not meant to be together and all that, I still had the strongest attachment to her, we were great together, very supportive to eachother, caring and with great chemistry. I´ve been loyal to the No Contact rule since then, and I usually feel great or absolutely ok and moving on, but knowing about her, having a friend saying he talked to her, knowing that she will be in a particular place in a particular time, I don´t know, she seems to be my fuc*ing kryptonite, I feel sad when something like that happens, and I feel like she´s my weakness. Because overall I feel ok, I´ve been busy, going out with friends, studying, going to kickboxing, planning my vacations, etc, and as soon as I feel great about myself, the simple knowledge that she talked to a friend of mine, or that she went to a party, or that she is moving on, can really put me down. Even doing the best for me and even knowing that I feel well most of the times, it seems it´s being hard to really move on. Getting to that state of not giving a fuc* about her or about what she´s doing seems to be a far thing. Sorry for the long post!! Would be grateful to hear similar stories, and how did you overcame the whole thing.
One month after breaking up, I feel well and moving on, but knowing about my ex can really put me down again
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] broke up with my ex[20 F] 1 months ago, and she still seems to be my fuc**** kryptonite POST: Hey everyone! I broke up with my ex approximately one month ago, some 2/3 weeks after I told her I didn´t feel the same for her anymore. I know she loved me, but we were constantly fighting, and after 3 months together, I felt we were to incompatible. The decision to move on was unanimous, but even knowing we weren´t compatible, not meant to be together and all that, I still had the strongest attachment to her, we were great together, very supportive to eachother, caring and with great chemistry. I´ve been loyal to the No Contact rule since then, and I usually feel great or absolutely ok and moving on, but knowing about her, having a friend saying he talked to her, knowing that she will be in a particular place in a particular time, I don´t know, she seems to be my fuc*ing kryptonite, I feel sad when something like that happens, and I feel like she´s my weakness. Because overall I feel ok, I´ve been busy, going out with friends, studying, going to kickboxing, planning my vacations, etc, and as soon as I feel great about myself, the simple knowledge that she talked to a friend of mine, or that she went to a party, or that she is moving on, can really put me down. Even doing the best for me and even knowing that I feel well most of the times, it seems it´s being hard to really move on. Getting to that state of not giving a fuc* about her or about what she´s doing seems to be a far thing. Sorry for the long post!! Would be grateful to hear similar stories, and how did you overcame the whole thing. TL;DR:
One month after breaking up, I feel well and moving on, but knowing about my ex can really put me down again<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] broke up with my ex[20 F] 1 months ago, and she still seems to be my fuc**** kryptonite POST: Hey everyone! I broke up with my ex approximately one month ago, some 2/3 weeks after I told her I didn´t feel the same for her anymore. I know she loved me, but we were constantly fighting, and after 3 months together, I felt we were to incompatible. The decision to move on was unanimous, but even knowing we weren´t compatible, not meant to be together and all that, I still had the strongest attachment to her, we were great together, very supportive to eachother, caring and with great chemistry. I´ve been loyal to the No Contact rule since then, and I usually feel great or absolutely ok and moving on, but knowing about her, having a friend saying he talked to her, knowing that she will be in a particular place in a particular time, I don´t know, she seems to be my fuc*ing kryptonite, I feel sad when something like that happens, and I feel like she´s my weakness. Because overall I feel ok, I´ve been busy, going out with friends, studying, going to kickboxing, planning my vacations, etc, and as soon as I feel great about myself, the simple knowledge that she talked to a friend of mine, or that she went to a party, or that she is moving on, can really put me down. Even doing the best for me and even knowing that I feel well most of the times, it seems it´s being hard to really move on. Getting to that state of not giving a fuc* about her or about what she´s doing seems to be a far thing. Sorry for the long post!! Would be grateful to hear similar stories, and how did you overcame the whole thing. TL;DR: One month after breaking up, I feel well and moving on, but knowing about my ex can really put me down again<|endoftext|>
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Me [28 M] with my valentine [25 F] dating for a few weeks, not sure what I'm supposed to be feeling.
Ok, my question is for older redditors or those with perspective on dating again AFTER a significant relationship has ended. My ex and I were together for 6 years, lived together for 3, and broke up a few weeks before our scheduled wedding. I took some time, stayed single for a long time and over the last few months I have been trying to get back out there. Dating has gone well. I have had some fun quick hook-ups, some utter failures, and I have had some really fun times hanging out with new people. Over the last few weeks I have been seeing a girl who is GREAT. Objectively she is everything I am looking for. Smart, GORGEOUS, fun, and we seem very compatible on everything that's important to me. We have had some awesome dates, and recently things have started to get physically intimate. The problem is, I remember what it felt like to fall in love before. I remember my hands shaking, and not being able to get my ex off of my mind. I remember being swept up. This isn't like that.... I am not swept up. Not at all. I can't seem to stop myself from being weirdly analytical about this whole "process". My mind has gone through steps like a pilot performing pre-flight checks. * Sorting phase: Complete * Primary Target: Identified * Physical Attraction: Check * Intelligence: Check * Suitable Career: Check * Initialize Courting Procedures: Commencing * First Date: Complete * Second Date: Complete * First Kiss: Complete * Third Date: Complete * Sexual Intercourse: Initializing... * Attain Girlfriend: Incomplete So my question is, if I am not feeling butterflies what does that mean? Am I not ready to date? Is this just what dating is like now that I'm older and jaded? Am I just too jaded? Has anyone else experienced this?
I'm back on the market for the first time in years. It feels like I am shopping for groceries instead of falling in love. Is this normal?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my valentine [25 F] dating for a few weeks, not sure what I'm supposed to be feeling. POST: Ok, my question is for older redditors or those with perspective on dating again AFTER a significant relationship has ended. My ex and I were together for 6 years, lived together for 3, and broke up a few weeks before our scheduled wedding. I took some time, stayed single for a long time and over the last few months I have been trying to get back out there. Dating has gone well. I have had some fun quick hook-ups, some utter failures, and I have had some really fun times hanging out with new people. Over the last few weeks I have been seeing a girl who is GREAT. Objectively she is everything I am looking for. Smart, GORGEOUS, fun, and we seem very compatible on everything that's important to me. We have had some awesome dates, and recently things have started to get physically intimate. The problem is, I remember what it felt like to fall in love before. I remember my hands shaking, and not being able to get my ex off of my mind. I remember being swept up. This isn't like that.... I am not swept up. Not at all. I can't seem to stop myself from being weirdly analytical about this whole "process". My mind has gone through steps like a pilot performing pre-flight checks. * Sorting phase: Complete * Primary Target: Identified * Physical Attraction: Check * Intelligence: Check * Suitable Career: Check * Initialize Courting Procedures: Commencing * First Date: Complete * Second Date: Complete * First Kiss: Complete * Third Date: Complete * Sexual Intercourse: Initializing... * Attain Girlfriend: Incomplete So my question is, if I am not feeling butterflies what does that mean? Am I not ready to date? Is this just what dating is like now that I'm older and jaded? Am I just too jaded? Has anyone else experienced this? TL;DR:
I'm back on the market for the first time in years. It feels like I am shopping for groceries instead of falling in love. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my valentine [25 F] dating for a few weeks, not sure what I'm supposed to be feeling. POST: Ok, my question is for older redditors or those with perspective on dating again AFTER a significant relationship has ended. My ex and I were together for 6 years, lived together for 3, and broke up a few weeks before our scheduled wedding. I took some time, stayed single for a long time and over the last few months I have been trying to get back out there. Dating has gone well. I have had some fun quick hook-ups, some utter failures, and I have had some really fun times hanging out with new people. Over the last few weeks I have been seeing a girl who is GREAT. Objectively she is everything I am looking for. Smart, GORGEOUS, fun, and we seem very compatible on everything that's important to me. We have had some awesome dates, and recently things have started to get physically intimate. The problem is, I remember what it felt like to fall in love before. I remember my hands shaking, and not being able to get my ex off of my mind. I remember being swept up. This isn't like that.... I am not swept up. Not at all. I can't seem to stop myself from being weirdly analytical about this whole "process". My mind has gone through steps like a pilot performing pre-flight checks. * Sorting phase: Complete * Primary Target: Identified * Physical Attraction: Check * Intelligence: Check * Suitable Career: Check * Initialize Courting Procedures: Commencing * First Date: Complete * Second Date: Complete * First Kiss: Complete * Third Date: Complete * Sexual Intercourse: Initializing... * Attain Girlfriend: Incomplete So my question is, if I am not feeling butterflies what does that mean? Am I not ready to date? Is this just what dating is like now that I'm older and jaded? Am I just too jaded? Has anyone else experienced this? TL;DR: I'm back on the market for the first time in years. It feels like I am shopping for groceries instead of falling in love. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>
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How the fuck does it work?
Hey reddit! Need some opinions... probably the wrong sub, but don't really care about that right now. Also, sorry about the new account, but IRL people know me here, and I want frank advice from honest people, not texts from friends and acquaintances. So my wife just told me that she's been cheating on me with a guy for 2 months. And she realizes that she wants to be with me. For those who'll read, here's the details: Apparently she has been "done" with our relationship for about 6 months now... we've had our difficulties, and there are things I do that bug her, but the biggest has been that I don't romance her enough... without making excuses for myself, we have 3 kids, both work and go to school full time, so unfortunately the amazing romance we had when we got together isn't so easy any more. She's been feeling like it is over because of this, and met some guy, fell for him, but now that she looks back she has realized that our love didn't dissolve, it just matured, and that it is actually better than it was even though it is different. Without writing a novel - I want to stay with her. I don't know if I can, I don't know how to do that, but I know there are people who have been through this, worked through it and actually come out better than they were. She has already admitted everything to me, and has even gone so far as to destroy her phone and facebook account so that I know she's not just playing me. I asked her to go call the guy (pulled his number from her phone records, then changed her PW) from a payphone (so his number isn't in our home phone records) and tell him that it is done. completely. I know most of you will say differently, but I believe her, I love her, and because of that (and not some other motive like keeping the house together for the kids) I want to work it out. If anyone has been through this on either end, please grant me some wisdom. How the fuck does it work when people work through this?
wife fucked someone else, we have decided to try to work it out, not sure if I can, but need advice on how to do it if I can.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How the fuck does it work? POST: Hey reddit! Need some opinions... probably the wrong sub, but don't really care about that right now. Also, sorry about the new account, but IRL people know me here, and I want frank advice from honest people, not texts from friends and acquaintances. So my wife just told me that she's been cheating on me with a guy for 2 months. And she realizes that she wants to be with me. For those who'll read, here's the details: Apparently she has been "done" with our relationship for about 6 months now... we've had our difficulties, and there are things I do that bug her, but the biggest has been that I don't romance her enough... without making excuses for myself, we have 3 kids, both work and go to school full time, so unfortunately the amazing romance we had when we got together isn't so easy any more. She's been feeling like it is over because of this, and met some guy, fell for him, but now that she looks back she has realized that our love didn't dissolve, it just matured, and that it is actually better than it was even though it is different. Without writing a novel - I want to stay with her. I don't know if I can, I don't know how to do that, but I know there are people who have been through this, worked through it and actually come out better than they were. She has already admitted everything to me, and has even gone so far as to destroy her phone and facebook account so that I know she's not just playing me. I asked her to go call the guy (pulled his number from her phone records, then changed her PW) from a payphone (so his number isn't in our home phone records) and tell him that it is done. completely. I know most of you will say differently, but I believe her, I love her, and because of that (and not some other motive like keeping the house together for the kids) I want to work it out. If anyone has been through this on either end, please grant me some wisdom. How the fuck does it work when people work through this? TL;DR:
wife fucked someone else, we have decided to try to work it out, not sure if I can, but need advice on how to do it if I can.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How the fuck does it work? POST: Hey reddit! Need some opinions... probably the wrong sub, but don't really care about that right now. Also, sorry about the new account, but IRL people know me here, and I want frank advice from honest people, not texts from friends and acquaintances. So my wife just told me that she's been cheating on me with a guy for 2 months. And she realizes that she wants to be with me. For those who'll read, here's the details: Apparently she has been "done" with our relationship for about 6 months now... we've had our difficulties, and there are things I do that bug her, but the biggest has been that I don't romance her enough... without making excuses for myself, we have 3 kids, both work and go to school full time, so unfortunately the amazing romance we had when we got together isn't so easy any more. She's been feeling like it is over because of this, and met some guy, fell for him, but now that she looks back she has realized that our love didn't dissolve, it just matured, and that it is actually better than it was even though it is different. Without writing a novel - I want to stay with her. I don't know if I can, I don't know how to do that, but I know there are people who have been through this, worked through it and actually come out better than they were. She has already admitted everything to me, and has even gone so far as to destroy her phone and facebook account so that I know she's not just playing me. I asked her to go call the guy (pulled his number from her phone records, then changed her PW) from a payphone (so his number isn't in our home phone records) and tell him that it is done. completely. I know most of you will say differently, but I believe her, I love her, and because of that (and not some other motive like keeping the house together for the kids) I want to work it out. If anyone has been through this on either end, please grant me some wisdom. How the fuck does it work when people work through this? TL;DR: wife fucked someone else, we have decided to try to work it out, not sure if I can, but need advice on how to do it if I can.<|endoftext|>
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I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M]. I recently met someone that I liked. How do I avoid a rebound relationship?
I recently broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. We knew each other for about 6 years and dated off and on, the most recent lasting about 8 months. I recently met a guy [22M] that I really like. We hit it off really well and share a lot of the same interest in music and many other things. He really likes me and I really like him. We are interested in possibly becoming boyfriends in the future. However, I want to be sure that I am ready and not just coming into a rebound relationship. How can I avoid this?
Recently broke up with my long-time friend and boyfriend. I met a guy that I really like and who really likes me. How do I avoid rebounding?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M]. I recently met someone that I liked. How do I avoid a rebound relationship? POST: I recently broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. We knew each other for about 6 years and dated off and on, the most recent lasting about 8 months. I recently met a guy [22M] that I really like. We hit it off really well and share a lot of the same interest in music and many other things. He really likes me and I really like him. We are interested in possibly becoming boyfriends in the future. However, I want to be sure that I am ready and not just coming into a rebound relationship. How can I avoid this? TL;DR:
Recently broke up with my long-time friend and boyfriend. I met a guy that I really like and who really likes me. How do I avoid rebounding?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M]. I recently met someone that I liked. How do I avoid a rebound relationship? POST: I recently broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. We knew each other for about 6 years and dated off and on, the most recent lasting about 8 months. I recently met a guy [22M] that I really like. We hit it off really well and share a lot of the same interest in music and many other things. He really likes me and I really like him. We are interested in possibly becoming boyfriends in the future. However, I want to be sure that I am ready and not just coming into a rebound relationship. How can I avoid this? TL;DR: Recently broke up with my long-time friend and boyfriend. I met a guy that I really like and who really likes me. How do I avoid rebounding?<|endoftext|>
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Me [27 M] dating [50 M] for three weeks, I want to end it and don't know why
Hi there everyone. I am a 26 year old male and I've recently started dating a friend with benefits. We met online and shed to go on a date. When we first met, we both agreed that the other was outside of each other's acceptable dating range, and we decided it would be best to be fwb. We meet the following week and have a casual good time, but then he tells me the day after that he's starting to develop feelings for me. I tell him a couple days later that the feeling isn't mutual, and we agree to remain friends. Well, we hang out about a week ago, and I have a really good time, and I begin to think that I could see us dating, and I become affectionate, which leads him on, and he thinks we are dating. The next day at work I'm utterly consumed with obsessive thoughts that I just don't feel romantic feelings for this guy, and I can't shake this feeling no matter how hard I try. I tell him how I feel, and we have a very intense and emotional conversation, but we agree to give it a chance with no pressure. That very evening, I feel like I miss him and I look forward to seeing again. We meet up the following evening and we spend the weekend together, and I had a good time. We meet up again Monday night, and that is also nice. But yesterday those obsessive thoughts came back, and I can't shake this feeling of guilt, because I feel the same kind of connection with him as he with me, and now I'm thinning I just need to end things firmly with him. But I'm in turmoil because on paper he's everything I look for in a guy: he's sweet, smart, funny, handsome and gentle. But I just don't feel the same kind of excitement I felt for previous guys I was in to. Not to sound cheesy, but I want to want him, and I feel like if I could just feel the same way he does, we'd be so good together.
I'm not feeling romantic feelings towards a guy i've been dating, but I want to, but don't know if I ever will, and want to know if I should just end things.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] dating [50 M] for three weeks, I want to end it and don't know why POST: Hi there everyone. I am a 26 year old male and I've recently started dating a friend with benefits. We met online and shed to go on a date. When we first met, we both agreed that the other was outside of each other's acceptable dating range, and we decided it would be best to be fwb. We meet the following week and have a casual good time, but then he tells me the day after that he's starting to develop feelings for me. I tell him a couple days later that the feeling isn't mutual, and we agree to remain friends. Well, we hang out about a week ago, and I have a really good time, and I begin to think that I could see us dating, and I become affectionate, which leads him on, and he thinks we are dating. The next day at work I'm utterly consumed with obsessive thoughts that I just don't feel romantic feelings for this guy, and I can't shake this feeling no matter how hard I try. I tell him how I feel, and we have a very intense and emotional conversation, but we agree to give it a chance with no pressure. That very evening, I feel like I miss him and I look forward to seeing again. We meet up the following evening and we spend the weekend together, and I had a good time. We meet up again Monday night, and that is also nice. But yesterday those obsessive thoughts came back, and I can't shake this feeling of guilt, because I feel the same kind of connection with him as he with me, and now I'm thinning I just need to end things firmly with him. But I'm in turmoil because on paper he's everything I look for in a guy: he's sweet, smart, funny, handsome and gentle. But I just don't feel the same kind of excitement I felt for previous guys I was in to. Not to sound cheesy, but I want to want him, and I feel like if I could just feel the same way he does, we'd be so good together. TL;DR:
I'm not feeling romantic feelings towards a guy i've been dating, but I want to, but don't know if I ever will, and want to know if I should just end things.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] dating [50 M] for three weeks, I want to end it and don't know why POST: Hi there everyone. I am a 26 year old male and I've recently started dating a friend with benefits. We met online and shed to go on a date. When we first met, we both agreed that the other was outside of each other's acceptable dating range, and we decided it would be best to be fwb. We meet the following week and have a casual good time, but then he tells me the day after that he's starting to develop feelings for me. I tell him a couple days later that the feeling isn't mutual, and we agree to remain friends. Well, we hang out about a week ago, and I have a really good time, and I begin to think that I could see us dating, and I become affectionate, which leads him on, and he thinks we are dating. The next day at work I'm utterly consumed with obsessive thoughts that I just don't feel romantic feelings for this guy, and I can't shake this feeling no matter how hard I try. I tell him how I feel, and we have a very intense and emotional conversation, but we agree to give it a chance with no pressure. That very evening, I feel like I miss him and I look forward to seeing again. We meet up the following evening and we spend the weekend together, and I had a good time. We meet up again Monday night, and that is also nice. But yesterday those obsessive thoughts came back, and I can't shake this feeling of guilt, because I feel the same kind of connection with him as he with me, and now I'm thinning I just need to end things firmly with him. But I'm in turmoil because on paper he's everything I look for in a guy: he's sweet, smart, funny, handsome and gentle. But I just don't feel the same kind of excitement I felt for previous guys I was in to. Not to sound cheesy, but I want to want him, and I feel like if I could just feel the same way he does, we'd be so good together. TL;DR: I'm not feeling romantic feelings towards a guy i've been dating, but I want to, but don't know if I ever will, and want to know if I should just end things.<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by being accidentally racist while supervising a children's birthday party.
Okay so I am the new manager at a "build-a-bear-type" of place. We do birthday parties, and today was my first one. As you could imagine, it was madness --every kid was crowded around the fluff machine and fighting over who got to go next. I'm filling up each bear as fast as possible because kids are impatient. We allow the kids to push down on the "gas pedal" to make the machine spit out the fluff. I slip while holding the bear I'm stuffing, and the kid is still on the gas pedal, so fluff goes shooting across the room. The kids freak out "COOL!" And start running to collect the fluff off the ground. I continue to fill bears, somewhat pleased that I've formed a distraction. Suddenly a tap on my shoulder, and this little girl has a big ball of the fluff in her hands, giving it back to me. Otherwise, I would have to sweep up the fluff after, so my first thought is to turn this into a fun game. I say "thanks honey! Now can you go collect me as big of a ball of that stuff as you can?" As she drops to her hands and knees, and starts picking up the tiny cotton pieces off the floor. .... And then the realization that I had told the one black girl at the party to go collect the cotton off the floor.
was accidentally racist when I asked the one black girl at a children's birthday party to help me collect cotton off the floor.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being accidentally racist while supervising a children's birthday party. POST: Okay so I am the new manager at a "build-a-bear-type" of place. We do birthday parties, and today was my first one. As you could imagine, it was madness --every kid was crowded around the fluff machine and fighting over who got to go next. I'm filling up each bear as fast as possible because kids are impatient. We allow the kids to push down on the "gas pedal" to make the machine spit out the fluff. I slip while holding the bear I'm stuffing, and the kid is still on the gas pedal, so fluff goes shooting across the room. The kids freak out "COOL!" And start running to collect the fluff off the ground. I continue to fill bears, somewhat pleased that I've formed a distraction. Suddenly a tap on my shoulder, and this little girl has a big ball of the fluff in her hands, giving it back to me. Otherwise, I would have to sweep up the fluff after, so my first thought is to turn this into a fun game. I say "thanks honey! Now can you go collect me as big of a ball of that stuff as you can?" As she drops to her hands and knees, and starts picking up the tiny cotton pieces off the floor. .... And then the realization that I had told the one black girl at the party to go collect the cotton off the floor. TL;DR:
was accidentally racist when I asked the one black girl at a children's birthday party to help me collect cotton off the floor.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being accidentally racist while supervising a children's birthday party. POST: Okay so I am the new manager at a "build-a-bear-type" of place. We do birthday parties, and today was my first one. As you could imagine, it was madness --every kid was crowded around the fluff machine and fighting over who got to go next. I'm filling up each bear as fast as possible because kids are impatient. We allow the kids to push down on the "gas pedal" to make the machine spit out the fluff. I slip while holding the bear I'm stuffing, and the kid is still on the gas pedal, so fluff goes shooting across the room. The kids freak out "COOL!" And start running to collect the fluff off the ground. I continue to fill bears, somewhat pleased that I've formed a distraction. Suddenly a tap on my shoulder, and this little girl has a big ball of the fluff in her hands, giving it back to me. Otherwise, I would have to sweep up the fluff after, so my first thought is to turn this into a fun game. I say "thanks honey! Now can you go collect me as big of a ball of that stuff as you can?" As she drops to her hands and knees, and starts picking up the tiny cotton pieces off the floor. .... And then the realization that I had told the one black girl at the party to go collect the cotton off the floor. TL;DR: was accidentally racist when I asked the one black girl at a children's birthday party to help me collect cotton off the floor.<|endoftext|>
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Google incorrectly deleted my account and I've lost my main email account with 10 years of history. Reddit, can you spread my story so that I might get it back?
As Google discontinued the Free/Standard edition of Google Apps, I received an email saying that I had to login to my account as an administrator to be able to continue using the service, so I did. However, some 30 days after I received another email stating that my account was now closed. I then contacted Google Enterprise Support (ticket #04137618) on the 8th of April and it was confirmed that my account wouldn't get deleted, despite the email stating it was closed. As requested by support I also logged in with both of my admin accounts to make sure. Then today, 13th of May, my account has been deleted. According to the [free edition help pages] *Your and your users' account data, such as your Gmail messages and contacts, will be permanently deleted to protect your privacy.* For someone who has lived more online than afk the last 10 years, I can't begin to tell you how I'm feeling right now, just the thought of having lost all of my emails makes me vomit. * I can't reply to the old support ticket since *your email was not received or processed, as the case it referred to has been closed for over 30 days.* * I can't submit an email support ticket since it requires me to login (to my deleted) account first * I can't call support since a PIN is required that I don't have (free account) * [Google Apps product forums] couldn't help me at all, only giving me generic, templated replies.
My Google Apps email account and 10 years of emails has been deleted. Reddit, can you please spread the word / upvote so I might get someone's attention at Google and get it back?
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Google incorrectly deleted my account and I've lost my main email account with 10 years of history. Reddit, can you spread my story so that I might get it back? POST: As Google discontinued the Free/Standard edition of Google Apps, I received an email saying that I had to login to my account as an administrator to be able to continue using the service, so I did. However, some 30 days after I received another email stating that my account was now closed. I then contacted Google Enterprise Support (ticket #04137618) on the 8th of April and it was confirmed that my account wouldn't get deleted, despite the email stating it was closed. As requested by support I also logged in with both of my admin accounts to make sure. Then today, 13th of May, my account has been deleted. According to the [free edition help pages] *Your and your users' account data, such as your Gmail messages and contacts, will be permanently deleted to protect your privacy.* For someone who has lived more online than afk the last 10 years, I can't begin to tell you how I'm feeling right now, just the thought of having lost all of my emails makes me vomit. * I can't reply to the old support ticket since *your email was not received or processed, as the case it referred to has been closed for over 30 days.* * I can't submit an email support ticket since it requires me to login (to my deleted) account first * I can't call support since a PIN is required that I don't have (free account) * [Google Apps product forums] couldn't help me at all, only giving me generic, templated replies. TL;DR:
My Google Apps email account and 10 years of emails has been deleted. Reddit, can you please spread the word / upvote so I might get someone's attention at Google and get it back?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Google incorrectly deleted my account and I've lost my main email account with 10 years of history. Reddit, can you spread my story so that I might get it back? POST: As Google discontinued the Free/Standard edition of Google Apps, I received an email saying that I had to login to my account as an administrator to be able to continue using the service, so I did. However, some 30 days after I received another email stating that my account was now closed. I then contacted Google Enterprise Support (ticket #04137618) on the 8th of April and it was confirmed that my account wouldn't get deleted, despite the email stating it was closed. As requested by support I also logged in with both of my admin accounts to make sure. Then today, 13th of May, my account has been deleted. According to the [free edition help pages] *Your and your users' account data, such as your Gmail messages and contacts, will be permanently deleted to protect your privacy.* For someone who has lived more online than afk the last 10 years, I can't begin to tell you how I'm feeling right now, just the thought of having lost all of my emails makes me vomit. * I can't reply to the old support ticket since *your email was not received or processed, as the case it referred to has been closed for over 30 days.* * I can't submit an email support ticket since it requires me to login (to my deleted) account first * I can't call support since a PIN is required that I don't have (free account) * [Google Apps product forums] couldn't help me at all, only giving me generic, templated replies. TL;DR: My Google Apps email account and 10 years of emails has been deleted. Reddit, can you please spread the word / upvote so I might get someone's attention at Google and get it back?<|endoftext|>
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Need help with getting an internship
I saw an internship I'm really interested in and I made some changes to my resume so it would look a little better. I'm looking for some advice on how to write my resume for this internship. The internship is for a financial firm that helps turnaround failing businesses; they are looking for someone part-time to help with preparation of financial presentations, business plans, plus graphs and charts. Also they are looking for students who have training and insight in the financial performance of companies. I don't have a lot of experience and I'm not trained or have insight in the financial performance of companies. I do have some skills and achievements which I decided to put in front of experience and education on my resume to grab the employer's attention. Do you think that's a good move or does it make me seem like a show-off, since I don't have much experience and I'm still a college student? I would love to hear from more experienced and successful people in business/ finance but anyone who feels they have good advice please share! I would appreciate advice on primarily resume/hiring but interview and other professional advice is welcome too.
Need help with my resume so I can get an internship. I want to show my best skills but I don't know if that will come across the wrong way.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Need help with getting an internship POST: I saw an internship I'm really interested in and I made some changes to my resume so it would look a little better. I'm looking for some advice on how to write my resume for this internship. The internship is for a financial firm that helps turnaround failing businesses; they are looking for someone part-time to help with preparation of financial presentations, business plans, plus graphs and charts. Also they are looking for students who have training and insight in the financial performance of companies. I don't have a lot of experience and I'm not trained or have insight in the financial performance of companies. I do have some skills and achievements which I decided to put in front of experience and education on my resume to grab the employer's attention. Do you think that's a good move or does it make me seem like a show-off, since I don't have much experience and I'm still a college student? I would love to hear from more experienced and successful people in business/ finance but anyone who feels they have good advice please share! I would appreciate advice on primarily resume/hiring but interview and other professional advice is welcome too. TL;DR:
Need help with my resume so I can get an internship. I want to show my best skills but I don't know if that will come across the wrong way.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Need help with getting an internship POST: I saw an internship I'm really interested in and I made some changes to my resume so it would look a little better. I'm looking for some advice on how to write my resume for this internship. The internship is for a financial firm that helps turnaround failing businesses; they are looking for someone part-time to help with preparation of financial presentations, business plans, plus graphs and charts. Also they are looking for students who have training and insight in the financial performance of companies. I don't have a lot of experience and I'm not trained or have insight in the financial performance of companies. I do have some skills and achievements which I decided to put in front of experience and education on my resume to grab the employer's attention. Do you think that's a good move or does it make me seem like a show-off, since I don't have much experience and I'm still a college student? I would love to hear from more experienced and successful people in business/ finance but anyone who feels they have good advice please share! I would appreciate advice on primarily resume/hiring but interview and other professional advice is welcome too. TL;DR: Need help with my resume so I can get an internship. I want to show my best skills but I don't know if that will come across the wrong way.<|endoftext|>
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I [19 F] am best friends with my boyfriend's[18 M] best friend. Should I give up my friendship with him in order to make my boyfriend happier?
To make this easier I'm going to refer to my best friend's name as T. T and I have been good friends for over a year now, hung out before and talk on Skype a lot. He was the only person there for me when I was depressed and I really enjoy our friend. 4 months ago I met my current boyfriend who was T's best friend. Of course this was complicated as T had some feelings for me but I was honest with him and let him know how I felt about my boyfriend and how much I liked him. He was very supportive which I admire and still today offers advice if I'm ever having large arguments with my boyfriend and have no idea how to handle it. The problem is my boyfriend doesn't like how close I am with T. Before I have to say I trusted T more than my boyfriend just because I had known him longer but now this is definitely not the case. I love and care for my boyfriend a lot but sometimes just talk to T when I think my boyfriend is busy. An example of this is today, I am home feeling poorly and was texting my boyfriend who then stopped replying. I saw him on Skype but knew he had a class so talked to T instead. Turns out my boyfriend was sitting next to T and just watched us chatting (there was no flirting or anything but I can see how this can be irritating). He is now angry with me for not messaging him and when I argued I thought he was busy and that he could have messaged me first he just denied it. So here's my question. My friendship with T is obviously annoying my boyfriend. So do I give up being friends with T to make my boyfriend feel more secure or do I just let him deal with it?
Boyfriend and I are sharing a best friend, best friend and I are closer and it's annoying my boyfriend, should I give up my friendship to make my boyfriend happy?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] am best friends with my boyfriend's[18 M] best friend. Should I give up my friendship with him in order to make my boyfriend happier? POST: To make this easier I'm going to refer to my best friend's name as T. T and I have been good friends for over a year now, hung out before and talk on Skype a lot. He was the only person there for me when I was depressed and I really enjoy our friend. 4 months ago I met my current boyfriend who was T's best friend. Of course this was complicated as T had some feelings for me but I was honest with him and let him know how I felt about my boyfriend and how much I liked him. He was very supportive which I admire and still today offers advice if I'm ever having large arguments with my boyfriend and have no idea how to handle it. The problem is my boyfriend doesn't like how close I am with T. Before I have to say I trusted T more than my boyfriend just because I had known him longer but now this is definitely not the case. I love and care for my boyfriend a lot but sometimes just talk to T when I think my boyfriend is busy. An example of this is today, I am home feeling poorly and was texting my boyfriend who then stopped replying. I saw him on Skype but knew he had a class so talked to T instead. Turns out my boyfriend was sitting next to T and just watched us chatting (there was no flirting or anything but I can see how this can be irritating). He is now angry with me for not messaging him and when I argued I thought he was busy and that he could have messaged me first he just denied it. So here's my question. My friendship with T is obviously annoying my boyfriend. So do I give up being friends with T to make my boyfriend feel more secure or do I just let him deal with it? TL;DR:
Boyfriend and I are sharing a best friend, best friend and I are closer and it's annoying my boyfriend, should I give up my friendship to make my boyfriend happy?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] am best friends with my boyfriend's[18 M] best friend. Should I give up my friendship with him in order to make my boyfriend happier? POST: To make this easier I'm going to refer to my best friend's name as T. T and I have been good friends for over a year now, hung out before and talk on Skype a lot. He was the only person there for me when I was depressed and I really enjoy our friend. 4 months ago I met my current boyfriend who was T's best friend. Of course this was complicated as T had some feelings for me but I was honest with him and let him know how I felt about my boyfriend and how much I liked him. He was very supportive which I admire and still today offers advice if I'm ever having large arguments with my boyfriend and have no idea how to handle it. The problem is my boyfriend doesn't like how close I am with T. Before I have to say I trusted T more than my boyfriend just because I had known him longer but now this is definitely not the case. I love and care for my boyfriend a lot but sometimes just talk to T when I think my boyfriend is busy. An example of this is today, I am home feeling poorly and was texting my boyfriend who then stopped replying. I saw him on Skype but knew he had a class so talked to T instead. Turns out my boyfriend was sitting next to T and just watched us chatting (there was no flirting or anything but I can see how this can be irritating). He is now angry with me for not messaging him and when I argued I thought he was busy and that he could have messaged me first he just denied it. So here's my question. My friendship with T is obviously annoying my boyfriend. So do I give up being friends with T to make my boyfriend feel more secure or do I just let him deal with it? TL;DR: Boyfriend and I are sharing a best friend, best friend and I are closer and it's annoying my boyfriend, should I give up my friendship to make my boyfriend happy?<|endoftext|>
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How to tell boyfriend I goofed up?
24/f, 29/m together for a year. I performed poorly in high school and B.A, while my boyfriend has done pretty well for himself. Two months before my M.A finals, I decided to skip them because, in my case, it is of no use to score just pass marks with poor preparation. In view of my career goals, I need to be among the top-scorers otherwise I might as well drop out. I need at least four months of consistent hard-work to face exams with confidence. But I did not tell any of this to my boyfriend who thinks I'm going to sit my finals this month. If i told him the truth, he would tag me a loser. I don't want to think I am a loser (read: any longer) because now I have completed a major chunk of my syllabus and my mock tests say I will do well. But I have no spine to confess my admittedly loser-like act to my boyfriend. Given my history of skipping exams and poor scores, he already thinks that I'm delusional to set up a challenging career goal for myself, that I am not intellectually capable to perform well academically.
Lied to my boyfriend about appearing in my finals because otherwise he will judge me. Can't face him any more.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to tell boyfriend I goofed up? POST: 24/f, 29/m together for a year. I performed poorly in high school and B.A, while my boyfriend has done pretty well for himself. Two months before my M.A finals, I decided to skip them because, in my case, it is of no use to score just pass marks with poor preparation. In view of my career goals, I need to be among the top-scorers otherwise I might as well drop out. I need at least four months of consistent hard-work to face exams with confidence. But I did not tell any of this to my boyfriend who thinks I'm going to sit my finals this month. If i told him the truth, he would tag me a loser. I don't want to think I am a loser (read: any longer) because now I have completed a major chunk of my syllabus and my mock tests say I will do well. But I have no spine to confess my admittedly loser-like act to my boyfriend. Given my history of skipping exams and poor scores, he already thinks that I'm delusional to set up a challenging career goal for myself, that I am not intellectually capable to perform well academically. TL;DR:
Lied to my boyfriend about appearing in my finals because otherwise he will judge me. Can't face him any more.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to tell boyfriend I goofed up? POST: 24/f, 29/m together for a year. I performed poorly in high school and B.A, while my boyfriend has done pretty well for himself. Two months before my M.A finals, I decided to skip them because, in my case, it is of no use to score just pass marks with poor preparation. In view of my career goals, I need to be among the top-scorers otherwise I might as well drop out. I need at least four months of consistent hard-work to face exams with confidence. But I did not tell any of this to my boyfriend who thinks I'm going to sit my finals this month. If i told him the truth, he would tag me a loser. I don't want to think I am a loser (read: any longer) because now I have completed a major chunk of my syllabus and my mock tests say I will do well. But I have no spine to confess my admittedly loser-like act to my boyfriend. Given my history of skipping exams and poor scores, he already thinks that I'm delusional to set up a challenging career goal for myself, that I am not intellectually capable to perform well academically. TL;DR: Lied to my boyfriend about appearing in my finals because otherwise he will judge me. Can't face him any more.<|endoftext|>
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My [19f] boyfriend [28] of 2 years smokes too much pot in my opinion.
We started dating, and I would smoke with him, and he would smoke pot 5 or 6 times a week. I would smoke maybe 3 times a week and we would go through a 25 bag in a week. About 4 months ago, he started smoking very heavy with our room mate. They go through $150 a week. Our roommate doesn't pay rent and he doesn't have a job or pay for weed. He just sleeps on the couch and cleans the apartment. Now, I would love to say it doesn't bother me. Maybe it shouldn't. But it does. My boyfriend and I work 40 hours a week. I can't smoke anymore because of my work. I have tried talking to him. He gets so mad at me because he says it is a way for him to relax at the end of the day. I understand, but 150 a week... I dont know. I feel like the "uncool" girlfriend that doesn't want her boyfriend to smoke pot. I just want him to smoke less. Since then, he has never been in the mood for sex. He never wants to go on dates with me (I offer to pay every time.) He won't come to bed with me before 4am and he doesn't acknowledge me unless I make him and our room mate food. Im so done. I need advice on how to talk to him....
boyfriend smokes 150 worth of weed a week and he is losing his sex drive and his motivation to hang out with me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19f] boyfriend [28] of 2 years smokes too much pot in my opinion. POST: We started dating, and I would smoke with him, and he would smoke pot 5 or 6 times a week. I would smoke maybe 3 times a week and we would go through a 25 bag in a week. About 4 months ago, he started smoking very heavy with our room mate. They go through $150 a week. Our roommate doesn't pay rent and he doesn't have a job or pay for weed. He just sleeps on the couch and cleans the apartment. Now, I would love to say it doesn't bother me. Maybe it shouldn't. But it does. My boyfriend and I work 40 hours a week. I can't smoke anymore because of my work. I have tried talking to him. He gets so mad at me because he says it is a way for him to relax at the end of the day. I understand, but 150 a week... I dont know. I feel like the "uncool" girlfriend that doesn't want her boyfriend to smoke pot. I just want him to smoke less. Since then, he has never been in the mood for sex. He never wants to go on dates with me (I offer to pay every time.) He won't come to bed with me before 4am and he doesn't acknowledge me unless I make him and our room mate food. Im so done. I need advice on how to talk to him.... TL;DR:
boyfriend smokes 150 worth of weed a week and he is losing his sex drive and his motivation to hang out with me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19f] boyfriend [28] of 2 years smokes too much pot in my opinion. POST: We started dating, and I would smoke with him, and he would smoke pot 5 or 6 times a week. I would smoke maybe 3 times a week and we would go through a 25 bag in a week. About 4 months ago, he started smoking very heavy with our room mate. They go through $150 a week. Our roommate doesn't pay rent and he doesn't have a job or pay for weed. He just sleeps on the couch and cleans the apartment. Now, I would love to say it doesn't bother me. Maybe it shouldn't. But it does. My boyfriend and I work 40 hours a week. I can't smoke anymore because of my work. I have tried talking to him. He gets so mad at me because he says it is a way for him to relax at the end of the day. I understand, but 150 a week... I dont know. I feel like the "uncool" girlfriend that doesn't want her boyfriend to smoke pot. I just want him to smoke less. Since then, he has never been in the mood for sex. He never wants to go on dates with me (I offer to pay every time.) He won't come to bed with me before 4am and he doesn't acknowledge me unless I make him and our room mate food. Im so done. I need advice on how to talk to him.... TL;DR: boyfriend smokes 150 worth of weed a week and he is losing his sex drive and his motivation to hang out with me.<|endoftext|>
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Advice
I found an internship online. I think it's a fraud what do I do?
I applied to several IT internships online at internships.com. On Monday I got an e-mail reply asking for an online Hangouts interview for a position as a virtual data entry position that worked at home. I looked at the e-mail I noticed some spelling errors this got me suspicious. But didn't think it was a big deal. I went through with the interview making sure I didn't give out any crucial information such as SSN. The interview was done through messages on Hangouts. I only gave the recruiting officer my name and address but that was already on my resume. I answered a couple of questions. And the officer said I was hired and paid $35.00 an hour. This got me so suspicious $35.00 an hour that's crazy for an beginning internship. Then he sent a list of programs that I needed to purchase but he will send me a check via mail so I can purchase the products. He said to purchase it after I get the check. He also asked what bank provider I have. I replied to him "Chase" I didn't give him my bank number or anything. And he that training and orientation started tomorrow, not in-person interview or anything. Then later today I got another e-mail for another online internship. It was the same e-mail I got before but with a different company name and a different recruitment officer. The same typos even occurred. This further confirms that these internships are fake. I am not sure what to do now. They have some of my personal information such as name, phone and address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning. Should I just ignore and block him? Thanks for everyone that replies.
Got an beginner internship with a wage of $35.00 believing it's fake, but they have some of my information such as name, phone, address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I found an internship online. I think it's a fraud what do I do? POST: I applied to several IT internships online at internships.com. On Monday I got an e-mail reply asking for an online Hangouts interview for a position as a virtual data entry position that worked at home. I looked at the e-mail I noticed some spelling errors this got me suspicious. But didn't think it was a big deal. I went through with the interview making sure I didn't give out any crucial information such as SSN. The interview was done through messages on Hangouts. I only gave the recruiting officer my name and address but that was already on my resume. I answered a couple of questions. And the officer said I was hired and paid $35.00 an hour. This got me so suspicious $35.00 an hour that's crazy for an beginning internship. Then he sent a list of programs that I needed to purchase but he will send me a check via mail so I can purchase the products. He said to purchase it after I get the check. He also asked what bank provider I have. I replied to him "Chase" I didn't give him my bank number or anything. And he that training and orientation started tomorrow, not in-person interview or anything. Then later today I got another e-mail for another online internship. It was the same e-mail I got before but with a different company name and a different recruitment officer. The same typos even occurred. This further confirms that these internships are fake. I am not sure what to do now. They have some of my personal information such as name, phone and address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning. Should I just ignore and block him? Thanks for everyone that replies. TL;DR:
Got an beginner internship with a wage of $35.00 believing it's fake, but they have some of my information such as name, phone, address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I found an internship online. I think it's a fraud what do I do? POST: I applied to several IT internships online at internships.com. On Monday I got an e-mail reply asking for an online Hangouts interview for a position as a virtual data entry position that worked at home. I looked at the e-mail I noticed some spelling errors this got me suspicious. But didn't think it was a big deal. I went through with the interview making sure I didn't give out any crucial information such as SSN. The interview was done through messages on Hangouts. I only gave the recruiting officer my name and address but that was already on my resume. I answered a couple of questions. And the officer said I was hired and paid $35.00 an hour. This got me so suspicious $35.00 an hour that's crazy for an beginning internship. Then he sent a list of programs that I needed to purchase but he will send me a check via mail so I can purchase the products. He said to purchase it after I get the check. He also asked what bank provider I have. I replied to him "Chase" I didn't give him my bank number or anything. And he that training and orientation started tomorrow, not in-person interview or anything. Then later today I got another e-mail for another online internship. It was the same e-mail I got before but with a different company name and a different recruitment officer. The same typos even occurred. This further confirms that these internships are fake. I am not sure what to do now. They have some of my personal information such as name, phone and address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning. Should I just ignore and block him? Thanks for everyone that replies. TL;DR: Got an beginner internship with a wage of $35.00 believing it's fake, but they have some of my information such as name, phone, address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by sleeping through supervising kids
This literally just happened a few minutes ago. I am 16 and I babysit the next door's neighbor's kids sometimes. The mother of the kids I sit asked me to supervise them when they get home until their dad came home. This should take about an hour, from 4:30 to 5:30. I get home from school about 3:00 so I have a bit of time. I eat a bowl of cereal, browse Reddit for a bit, shower, and its 3:50. I have had a boring, tiring day, and I decide that I have time for a short nap, so I set my phone alarm to 4:27, turn my volume up all the way, and go to sleep. I wake up at 5:30 because despite me even adding in three minutes to get ready, and adjusting the volume, my alarm was set to AM, not PM. So, I immediately got up, and rushed next door to see how the kids were doing. Their dad was there thankfully, and he said its okay and that these things happen.
Set carefully thought out alarm to AM not PM and slept through watching a kinder gardener and a second grader.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sleeping through supervising kids POST: This literally just happened a few minutes ago. I am 16 and I babysit the next door's neighbor's kids sometimes. The mother of the kids I sit asked me to supervise them when they get home until their dad came home. This should take about an hour, from 4:30 to 5:30. I get home from school about 3:00 so I have a bit of time. I eat a bowl of cereal, browse Reddit for a bit, shower, and its 3:50. I have had a boring, tiring day, and I decide that I have time for a short nap, so I set my phone alarm to 4:27, turn my volume up all the way, and go to sleep. I wake up at 5:30 because despite me even adding in three minutes to get ready, and adjusting the volume, my alarm was set to AM, not PM. So, I immediately got up, and rushed next door to see how the kids were doing. Their dad was there thankfully, and he said its okay and that these things happen. TL;DR:
Set carefully thought out alarm to AM not PM and slept through watching a kinder gardener and a second grader.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sleeping through supervising kids POST: This literally just happened a few minutes ago. I am 16 and I babysit the next door's neighbor's kids sometimes. The mother of the kids I sit asked me to supervise them when they get home until their dad came home. This should take about an hour, from 4:30 to 5:30. I get home from school about 3:00 so I have a bit of time. I eat a bowl of cereal, browse Reddit for a bit, shower, and its 3:50. I have had a boring, tiring day, and I decide that I have time for a short nap, so I set my phone alarm to 4:27, turn my volume up all the way, and go to sleep. I wake up at 5:30 because despite me even adding in three minutes to get ready, and adjusting the volume, my alarm was set to AM, not PM. So, I immediately got up, and rushed next door to see how the kids were doing. Their dad was there thankfully, and he said its okay and that these things happen. TL;DR: Set carefully thought out alarm to AM not PM and slept through watching a kinder gardener and a second grader.<|endoftext|>
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I [21 F] cheated on my partner [21 M] of 3 years last night while drunk. I don't know how to talk to him about it or what to do. I don't think I've ever felt worse about something I did.
I'm a college student, and my boyfriend and I have been dating since the first month of college. I'm on one of those college student guided tours of Europe, and last night I got drunk and partied with some people from my group. I danced with a guy I vaguely know from the trip, and he asked if I wanted to hang out, but I didn't expect to actually do anything. I went to his hotel room and we hooked up. We didn't have sex, but came close. This morning I woke up feeling more shitty than I have in years. I love my partner so much, but I often wish I could have the experience of beginning something with someone again. However, my partner isn't comfortable with open relationships or anything. To top it off, my partner has been having a super hard time recently, and his parents are getting divorced after his dad cheated on his mom. I don't know how I could have done something so terrible to him while he's having this experience. I want to talk to him about it after I get home, but I have no idea what to say or do. I need advice, and hopefully someone to make me feel less like an utter piece of shit, although I know I am.
I'm on a trip to Europe and cheated on my boyfriend, who's having a hard time because his dad just cheated on his mom. I need help.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] cheated on my partner [21 M] of 3 years last night while drunk. I don't know how to talk to him about it or what to do. I don't think I've ever felt worse about something I did. POST: I'm a college student, and my boyfriend and I have been dating since the first month of college. I'm on one of those college student guided tours of Europe, and last night I got drunk and partied with some people from my group. I danced with a guy I vaguely know from the trip, and he asked if I wanted to hang out, but I didn't expect to actually do anything. I went to his hotel room and we hooked up. We didn't have sex, but came close. This morning I woke up feeling more shitty than I have in years. I love my partner so much, but I often wish I could have the experience of beginning something with someone again. However, my partner isn't comfortable with open relationships or anything. To top it off, my partner has been having a super hard time recently, and his parents are getting divorced after his dad cheated on his mom. I don't know how I could have done something so terrible to him while he's having this experience. I want to talk to him about it after I get home, but I have no idea what to say or do. I need advice, and hopefully someone to make me feel less like an utter piece of shit, although I know I am. TL;DR:
I'm on a trip to Europe and cheated on my boyfriend, who's having a hard time because his dad just cheated on his mom. I need help.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] cheated on my partner [21 M] of 3 years last night while drunk. I don't know how to talk to him about it or what to do. I don't think I've ever felt worse about something I did. POST: I'm a college student, and my boyfriend and I have been dating since the first month of college. I'm on one of those college student guided tours of Europe, and last night I got drunk and partied with some people from my group. I danced with a guy I vaguely know from the trip, and he asked if I wanted to hang out, but I didn't expect to actually do anything. I went to his hotel room and we hooked up. We didn't have sex, but came close. This morning I woke up feeling more shitty than I have in years. I love my partner so much, but I often wish I could have the experience of beginning something with someone again. However, my partner isn't comfortable with open relationships or anything. To top it off, my partner has been having a super hard time recently, and his parents are getting divorced after his dad cheated on his mom. I don't know how I could have done something so terrible to him while he's having this experience. I want to talk to him about it after I get home, but I have no idea what to say or do. I need advice, and hopefully someone to make me feel less like an utter piece of shit, although I know I am. TL;DR: I'm on a trip to Europe and cheated on my boyfriend, who's having a hard time because his dad just cheated on his mom. I need help.<|endoftext|>
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