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Tifu by not checking the mail
So this happened a while ago but I am now feeling the repercussions of my actions. So basically I'm a 17 yr old male, who has been looking forward to the day of getting his first car since the day I walked into the dmv and earned my license with my finesse driving. I was told by my parents that if my GPA was high enough I would get to choose my car. (My family rewards excellent grades with excellent rewards) Going into my junior year, my GPA was 4.21, I naturally thought that my trend of good grades would continue. Unfortunately I was wrong. I failed my advanced physics course and barely passed pre cal. My junior year GPA plummeted to a 2.93, making my cumulative a 3.53. I spent the entire year hiding my grades from my parents, especially these past few weeks. When the final report card gets mailed home. I checked the mail for weeks, but i never saw it. Then yesterday at dinner my dad slid a brown envelope across the table. He told me it was sitting in the home office for over four weeks!!!! And couldn't help bit open it.
Didn't check the mail for my report card hard enough, now no one will see my finesse driving in a whip.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by not checking the mail POST: So this happened a while ago but I am now feeling the repercussions of my actions. So basically I'm a 17 yr old male, who has been looking forward to the day of getting his first car since the day I walked into the dmv and earned my license with my finesse driving. I was told by my parents that if my GPA was high enough I would get to choose my car. (My family rewards excellent grades with excellent rewards) Going into my junior year, my GPA was 4.21, I naturally thought that my trend of good grades would continue. Unfortunately I was wrong. I failed my advanced physics course and barely passed pre cal. My junior year GPA plummeted to a 2.93, making my cumulative a 3.53. I spent the entire year hiding my grades from my parents, especially these past few weeks. When the final report card gets mailed home. I checked the mail for weeks, but i never saw it. Then yesterday at dinner my dad slid a brown envelope across the table. He told me it was sitting in the home office for over four weeks!!!! And couldn't help bit open it. TL;DR:
Didn't check the mail for my report card hard enough, now no one will see my finesse driving in a whip.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by not checking the mail POST: So this happened a while ago but I am now feeling the repercussions of my actions. So basically I'm a 17 yr old male, who has been looking forward to the day of getting his first car since the day I walked into the dmv and earned my license with my finesse driving. I was told by my parents that if my GPA was high enough I would get to choose my car. (My family rewards excellent grades with excellent rewards) Going into my junior year, my GPA was 4.21, I naturally thought that my trend of good grades would continue. Unfortunately I was wrong. I failed my advanced physics course and barely passed pre cal. My junior year GPA plummeted to a 2.93, making my cumulative a 3.53. I spent the entire year hiding my grades from my parents, especially these past few weeks. When the final report card gets mailed home. I checked the mail for weeks, but i never saw it. Then yesterday at dinner my dad slid a brown envelope across the table. He told me it was sitting in the home office for over four weeks!!!! And couldn't help bit open it. TL;DR: Didn't check the mail for my report card hard enough, now no one will see my finesse driving in a whip.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by making a lady think she was fat
This happened today while at work. I was on a jam packed elevator on my way to a meeting. We are going down and the elevator stops and the door opens. There is a short, not fat woman in her 40's wanting to get on the elevator. Everyone squeezes together to make room. The second she gets both feet on the elevator the alarm starts going off. Everyone thinks it's because we are over the weight limit. The doors are starting to close. The woman, with her head down, bolts out the door and doesn't look back. Seconds later security comes over the speaker asking if everything is ok. We then realize my ass was pushing against the alarm button.
Full elevator, woman got on, my ass hit the alarm, she thought she put us over the weight limit and bolted off the elevator.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a lady think she was fat POST: This happened today while at work. I was on a jam packed elevator on my way to a meeting. We are going down and the elevator stops and the door opens. There is a short, not fat woman in her 40's wanting to get on the elevator. Everyone squeezes together to make room. The second she gets both feet on the elevator the alarm starts going off. Everyone thinks it's because we are over the weight limit. The doors are starting to close. The woman, with her head down, bolts out the door and doesn't look back. Seconds later security comes over the speaker asking if everything is ok. We then realize my ass was pushing against the alarm button. TL;DR:
Full elevator, woman got on, my ass hit the alarm, she thought she put us over the weight limit and bolted off the elevator.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a lady think she was fat POST: This happened today while at work. I was on a jam packed elevator on my way to a meeting. We are going down and the elevator stops and the door opens. There is a short, not fat woman in her 40's wanting to get on the elevator. Everyone squeezes together to make room. The second she gets both feet on the elevator the alarm starts going off. Everyone thinks it's because we are over the weight limit. The doors are starting to close. The woman, with her head down, bolts out the door and doesn't look back. Seconds later security comes over the speaker asking if everything is ok. We then realize my ass was pushing against the alarm button. TL;DR: Full elevator, woman got on, my ass hit the alarm, she thought she put us over the weight limit and bolted off the elevator.<|endoftext|>
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Me [27/M] Confused Why She [30/F] Went MIA After Sexless Hookup
This weekend, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder. Although I generally thought the date went fine, there weren't obvious sparks. I wasn't planning on following up, but she messaged me the next day saying how much fun she'd had, and how she wanted to do it again. I invited her out that night, thinking there was no harm in seeing if maybe chemistry would develop. Our conversation was smoother; I walked her home, she invited me up, we talked on her porch, and started making out. She invited me to her room. She was more enthusiastic than anyone I've ever hooked-up with, but stopped me at some point and said she didn't want to go any farther. She seemed to feel really bad about "luring" me up to her room, but I assured her it was fine. We cuddled and talked for awhile, then I went home. On the way, I texted her that I hoped to see her again. A few days later, and still no response from her. I'm still not that invested in this, but am interested enough to make it this far. However, I don't feel like going out of the way to see what's going on if she isn't willing to just respond to a text.
Tinder date goes MIA after feeling guilty about not having second-date sex. Should I make another effort to reach out?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/M] Confused Why She [30/F] Went MIA After Sexless Hookup POST: This weekend, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder. Although I generally thought the date went fine, there weren't obvious sparks. I wasn't planning on following up, but she messaged me the next day saying how much fun she'd had, and how she wanted to do it again. I invited her out that night, thinking there was no harm in seeing if maybe chemistry would develop. Our conversation was smoother; I walked her home, she invited me up, we talked on her porch, and started making out. She invited me to her room. She was more enthusiastic than anyone I've ever hooked-up with, but stopped me at some point and said she didn't want to go any farther. She seemed to feel really bad about "luring" me up to her room, but I assured her it was fine. We cuddled and talked for awhile, then I went home. On the way, I texted her that I hoped to see her again. A few days later, and still no response from her. I'm still not that invested in this, but am interested enough to make it this far. However, I don't feel like going out of the way to see what's going on if she isn't willing to just respond to a text. TL;DR:
Tinder date goes MIA after feeling guilty about not having second-date sex. Should I make another effort to reach out?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/M] Confused Why She [30/F] Went MIA After Sexless Hookup POST: This weekend, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder. Although I generally thought the date went fine, there weren't obvious sparks. I wasn't planning on following up, but she messaged me the next day saying how much fun she'd had, and how she wanted to do it again. I invited her out that night, thinking there was no harm in seeing if maybe chemistry would develop. Our conversation was smoother; I walked her home, she invited me up, we talked on her porch, and started making out. She invited me to her room. She was more enthusiastic than anyone I've ever hooked-up with, but stopped me at some point and said she didn't want to go any farther. She seemed to feel really bad about "luring" me up to her room, but I assured her it was fine. We cuddled and talked for awhile, then I went home. On the way, I texted her that I hoped to see her again. A few days later, and still no response from her. I'm still not that invested in this, but am interested enough to make it this far. However, I don't feel like going out of the way to see what's going on if she isn't willing to just respond to a text. TL;DR: Tinder date goes MIA after feeling guilty about not having second-date sex. Should I make another effort to reach out?<|endoftext|>
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Me [25 M] with my SO [26F] taken a break but staying monogamous...
I have been dating this girl for roughly 3 years and lately we've kind of spiraled downward in our relationship. Plain and simple we've started arguing a lot about little things and essentially playing tit for tat with each other.... All this came to a fault this past weekend, I said I don't think this is working out and she suggested she leave. So she did, it's been a stressful event, were still taking but she wants to take a break for a few days and said she wants to stay monogamous, that she's not moving on, just needs a break. I'm kinda feeling a bit insecure about the whole thing. I find it hard to trust the situation for what's been stated. Looking for some input on this, has anyone ever had something like this work out? I think let's take a break as relationship over but the way it came about wasn't in standard break up form... so what should I do?
Relationship been rocky, SO left and says she just wants a break but to stay monogamous. What should I do? Trust the situation or no?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my SO [26F] taken a break but staying monogamous... POST: I have been dating this girl for roughly 3 years and lately we've kind of spiraled downward in our relationship. Plain and simple we've started arguing a lot about little things and essentially playing tit for tat with each other.... All this came to a fault this past weekend, I said I don't think this is working out and she suggested she leave. So she did, it's been a stressful event, were still taking but she wants to take a break for a few days and said she wants to stay monogamous, that she's not moving on, just needs a break. I'm kinda feeling a bit insecure about the whole thing. I find it hard to trust the situation for what's been stated. Looking for some input on this, has anyone ever had something like this work out? I think let's take a break as relationship over but the way it came about wasn't in standard break up form... so what should I do? TL;DR:
Relationship been rocky, SO left and says she just wants a break but to stay monogamous. What should I do? Trust the situation or no?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my SO [26F] taken a break but staying monogamous... POST: I have been dating this girl for roughly 3 years and lately we've kind of spiraled downward in our relationship. Plain and simple we've started arguing a lot about little things and essentially playing tit for tat with each other.... All this came to a fault this past weekend, I said I don't think this is working out and she suggested she leave. So she did, it's been a stressful event, were still taking but she wants to take a break for a few days and said she wants to stay monogamous, that she's not moving on, just needs a break. I'm kinda feeling a bit insecure about the whole thing. I find it hard to trust the situation for what's been stated. Looking for some input on this, has anyone ever had something like this work out? I think let's take a break as relationship over but the way it came about wasn't in standard break up form... so what should I do? TL;DR: Relationship been rocky, SO left and says she just wants a break but to stay monogamous. What should I do? Trust the situation or no?<|endoftext|>
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What would be a good laptop for me?
I have been saving up for awhile, and want to get a good, new laptop. My old one lasted far longer than was even thought possible (it was a hp) but I need a new one. I also quite enjoy gaming, so that is a definite I will need, plus I plan on running Linux, so there's that. I plan on keeping this one portable as well, I'd buy a desktop if i wanted to sit on my couch all the time. If it was easy to take apart and put back together, that would be nice as well. I won't pretend to be extremely tech saavy, but I know a few things, including how to fix most errors on computers.
I want something fast, not stupidly pricey, and with good battery life. Basically everything anyone would like in a laptop.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What would be a good laptop for me? POST: I have been saving up for awhile, and want to get a good, new laptop. My old one lasted far longer than was even thought possible (it was a hp) but I need a new one. I also quite enjoy gaming, so that is a definite I will need, plus I plan on running Linux, so there's that. I plan on keeping this one portable as well, I'd buy a desktop if i wanted to sit on my couch all the time. If it was easy to take apart and put back together, that would be nice as well. I won't pretend to be extremely tech saavy, but I know a few things, including how to fix most errors on computers. TL;DR:
I want something fast, not stupidly pricey, and with good battery life. Basically everything anyone would like in a laptop.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What would be a good laptop for me? POST: I have been saving up for awhile, and want to get a good, new laptop. My old one lasted far longer than was even thought possible (it was a hp) but I need a new one. I also quite enjoy gaming, so that is a definite I will need, plus I plan on running Linux, so there's that. I plan on keeping this one portable as well, I'd buy a desktop if i wanted to sit on my couch all the time. If it was easy to take apart and put back together, that would be nice as well. I won't pretend to be extremely tech saavy, but I know a few things, including how to fix most errors on computers. TL;DR: I want something fast, not stupidly pricey, and with good battery life. Basically everything anyone would like in a laptop.<|endoftext|>
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t3_2li57b
tifu
TIFU by letting my cat out
So I had a visitor yesterday who's allergic to cats (the poor soul) and rather than just confine my cat to one room I decided to let her outside to play. She's only 5 months old and is still quite small so I was a little apprehensive but I threw caution to the wind and let her out. My friend leaves and being the doting pet owner I am I bring a big bag of treats into the garden and call Momo (that's her name). I hear her calling, it's pretty loud and is echoing all around the garages. I try again shaking the bag of treats- still just a really loud miaow. Ok so it's kind of dark at this point so I decide to venture out and look for her. I walk to the end of the garden and she miaows from above me... wait, above? I have a 60ft oak tree at the bottom of my garden and my tiny cat has climbed all the way up. I instantly panic. I call my boyfriend and he says "she got herself up she can get herself down". Which isn't helpful at all. So I call the RSPCA who give the same advice- I have to wait 24 hours before the fire brigade will come and rescue her. Fast forward to this afternoon and i decide to have a bath. Cats come down a little but is still pretty high. T-1 hours til I can call fire brigade. Just manage to get in and the door goes. I'm home alone so I just ignore it and assume they'll go away. Then for the next 10 minutes someone was incessantly knocking on my door. Must be an emergency so I wrap a towel around me and answer the door. I am greeted by half my street. FUCK. I'm wearing no underwear and my hairs wet. I then proceed to have an incredibly awkward 5 minute conversation with my neighbours."yes that's my cat", "yes I've called the rspca" "sorry she's making so much noise". Worst part is my cat is still in a tree because apparently the fire service don't rescue cats when it's dark.
My cat managed climbed a tree, can't climb down and now my neighbours think I'm a half naked animal abuser.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my cat out POST: So I had a visitor yesterday who's allergic to cats (the poor soul) and rather than just confine my cat to one room I decided to let her outside to play. She's only 5 months old and is still quite small so I was a little apprehensive but I threw caution to the wind and let her out. My friend leaves and being the doting pet owner I am I bring a big bag of treats into the garden and call Momo (that's her name). I hear her calling, it's pretty loud and is echoing all around the garages. I try again shaking the bag of treats- still just a really loud miaow. Ok so it's kind of dark at this point so I decide to venture out and look for her. I walk to the end of the garden and she miaows from above me... wait, above? I have a 60ft oak tree at the bottom of my garden and my tiny cat has climbed all the way up. I instantly panic. I call my boyfriend and he says "she got herself up she can get herself down". Which isn't helpful at all. So I call the RSPCA who give the same advice- I have to wait 24 hours before the fire brigade will come and rescue her. Fast forward to this afternoon and i decide to have a bath. Cats come down a little but is still pretty high. T-1 hours til I can call fire brigade. Just manage to get in and the door goes. I'm home alone so I just ignore it and assume they'll go away. Then for the next 10 minutes someone was incessantly knocking on my door. Must be an emergency so I wrap a towel around me and answer the door. I am greeted by half my street. FUCK. I'm wearing no underwear and my hairs wet. I then proceed to have an incredibly awkward 5 minute conversation with my neighbours."yes that's my cat", "yes I've called the rspca" "sorry she's making so much noise". Worst part is my cat is still in a tree because apparently the fire service don't rescue cats when it's dark. TL;DR:
My cat managed climbed a tree, can't climb down and now my neighbours think I'm a half naked animal abuser.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my cat out POST: So I had a visitor yesterday who's allergic to cats (the poor soul) and rather than just confine my cat to one room I decided to let her outside to play. She's only 5 months old and is still quite small so I was a little apprehensive but I threw caution to the wind and let her out. My friend leaves and being the doting pet owner I am I bring a big bag of treats into the garden and call Momo (that's her name). I hear her calling, it's pretty loud and is echoing all around the garages. I try again shaking the bag of treats- still just a really loud miaow. Ok so it's kind of dark at this point so I decide to venture out and look for her. I walk to the end of the garden and she miaows from above me... wait, above? I have a 60ft oak tree at the bottom of my garden and my tiny cat has climbed all the way up. I instantly panic. I call my boyfriend and he says "she got herself up she can get herself down". Which isn't helpful at all. So I call the RSPCA who give the same advice- I have to wait 24 hours before the fire brigade will come and rescue her. Fast forward to this afternoon and i decide to have a bath. Cats come down a little but is still pretty high. T-1 hours til I can call fire brigade. Just manage to get in and the door goes. I'm home alone so I just ignore it and assume they'll go away. Then for the next 10 minutes someone was incessantly knocking on my door. Must be an emergency so I wrap a towel around me and answer the door. I am greeted by half my street. FUCK. I'm wearing no underwear and my hairs wet. I then proceed to have an incredibly awkward 5 minute conversation with my neighbours."yes that's my cat", "yes I've called the rspca" "sorry she's making so much noise". Worst part is my cat is still in a tree because apparently the fire service don't rescue cats when it's dark. TL;DR: My cat managed climbed a tree, can't climb down and now my neighbours think I'm a half naked animal abuser.<|endoftext|>
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How do I cope with my SO saying hurtful things about my weight? [serious]
When we met I wasn't a smaller girl, about 170cm and sitting around 70kg. So curvy, but not fat. Anyway we fell pregnant and I put on a shit ton of weight, 40kg to be exact and it was all my doing. After having our daughter I became severely depressed because he was always drinking, physically abusing me and saying absolutely horrible things about my weight. One example is that he used to mock me by puffing up his cheeks and shouting 'boom boom boom' as he took steps towards me. It was absolutely horrible and I was in too dark of a place to get myself out of the relationship which was now toxic. He woke up to himself, quit drinking and again became the lovely person that I once met. I was seeing a psychologist and was prescribed antidepressants which helped me out of depression. I changed my lifestyle and lost 25kg. In the past few months I've had a hard time, I have lost 2 babies- one to miscarriage and another to ectopic pregnancy, which I was in hospital for. I stopped exercising and slacked off a bit with my diet, I've only put on 2kg in about 4 months but I'm now pretty much back on track diet-wise. Since I've slacked off however, my SO has been making rude remarks about my weight again, then apologising afterwards. It hurts me a lot but I forgive him every time. Tonight he called me fat, apologised, then immediately made more hurtful remarks about my weight. Now he's grovelling and apologising profusely but I'm sick of it and I don't want to just let it slide again this time. What the fuck should I do!?
SO caused me to spiral into depression by tormenting me about pregnancy weight gain. After losing 25kg he's doing it again and I don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I cope with my SO saying hurtful things about my weight? [serious] POST: When we met I wasn't a smaller girl, about 170cm and sitting around 70kg. So curvy, but not fat. Anyway we fell pregnant and I put on a shit ton of weight, 40kg to be exact and it was all my doing. After having our daughter I became severely depressed because he was always drinking, physically abusing me and saying absolutely horrible things about my weight. One example is that he used to mock me by puffing up his cheeks and shouting 'boom boom boom' as he took steps towards me. It was absolutely horrible and I was in too dark of a place to get myself out of the relationship which was now toxic. He woke up to himself, quit drinking and again became the lovely person that I once met. I was seeing a psychologist and was prescribed antidepressants which helped me out of depression. I changed my lifestyle and lost 25kg. In the past few months I've had a hard time, I have lost 2 babies- one to miscarriage and another to ectopic pregnancy, which I was in hospital for. I stopped exercising and slacked off a bit with my diet, I've only put on 2kg in about 4 months but I'm now pretty much back on track diet-wise. Since I've slacked off however, my SO has been making rude remarks about my weight again, then apologising afterwards. It hurts me a lot but I forgive him every time. Tonight he called me fat, apologised, then immediately made more hurtful remarks about my weight. Now he's grovelling and apologising profusely but I'm sick of it and I don't want to just let it slide again this time. What the fuck should I do!? TL;DR:
SO caused me to spiral into depression by tormenting me about pregnancy weight gain. After losing 25kg he's doing it again and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I cope with my SO saying hurtful things about my weight? [serious] POST: When we met I wasn't a smaller girl, about 170cm and sitting around 70kg. So curvy, but not fat. Anyway we fell pregnant and I put on a shit ton of weight, 40kg to be exact and it was all my doing. After having our daughter I became severely depressed because he was always drinking, physically abusing me and saying absolutely horrible things about my weight. One example is that he used to mock me by puffing up his cheeks and shouting 'boom boom boom' as he took steps towards me. It was absolutely horrible and I was in too dark of a place to get myself out of the relationship which was now toxic. He woke up to himself, quit drinking and again became the lovely person that I once met. I was seeing a psychologist and was prescribed antidepressants which helped me out of depression. I changed my lifestyle and lost 25kg. In the past few months I've had a hard time, I have lost 2 babies- one to miscarriage and another to ectopic pregnancy, which I was in hospital for. I stopped exercising and slacked off a bit with my diet, I've only put on 2kg in about 4 months but I'm now pretty much back on track diet-wise. Since I've slacked off however, my SO has been making rude remarks about my weight again, then apologising afterwards. It hurts me a lot but I forgive him every time. Tonight he called me fat, apologised, then immediately made more hurtful remarks about my weight. Now he's grovelling and apologising profusely but I'm sick of it and I don't want to just let it slide again this time. What the fuck should I do!? TL;DR: SO caused me to spiral into depression by tormenting me about pregnancy weight gain. After losing 25kg he's doing it again and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Spouses & Abuse Victims: How Do I Help My Husband?
Names have been changed. My husband Bill's family consists of himself, Mom, Dad, and sister Becky. Bill and Becky are both in their 30's. Dad died a year and a half ago. Bill had always hero worshiped his father. Today, Becky told my husband that when she was 14-16, one of Dad's brothers repeatedly sexually assaulted her. The family found out, Bill was kept in the dark(he would have been a teenager at that time), and this uncle was allowed to continue coming to family events and over to the house to visit. Becky went on to explain that when she was 17, *Dad* attempted to sexually assault her. It was only when Becky began to cry and accused him of being just like his brother that Dad apparently stopped. It wasn't until many years later, shortly before Dad's death, that Becky and Dad were able to talk over what happened. Dad told her it was his biggest regret in life, and Becky forgave him. The trouble now is my husband. I have no idea what to say. Here the man he's taken so many valuable lessons from, who he loved so much in life, not only failed to protect his own daughter from a man he knew was sexually assaulting her, but then went on to attempt to do the same. Bill is beside himself with anger for his sister, and while he's trying very hard to tell me he's not that upset, he goes on to rant about how useless and bad their communication was as a family, that they wouldn't even protect their own daughter, or tell their son what had happened. He says that he's glad his Dad is dead, because he'd have had to kill him himself if he were alive, for doing what he did. Clearly, this is not a man who's "not that upset". He's normally a very open person about his emotions- the wall he's put up is clearly a defense mechanism. And that's fine. He needs to deal with this as he will.
Found out my husband's dad abused my husband's sister when they were teenagers. Dad's dead, so no closure.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Spouses & Abuse Victims: How Do I Help My Husband? POST: Names have been changed. My husband Bill's family consists of himself, Mom, Dad, and sister Becky. Bill and Becky are both in their 30's. Dad died a year and a half ago. Bill had always hero worshiped his father. Today, Becky told my husband that when she was 14-16, one of Dad's brothers repeatedly sexually assaulted her. The family found out, Bill was kept in the dark(he would have been a teenager at that time), and this uncle was allowed to continue coming to family events and over to the house to visit. Becky went on to explain that when she was 17, *Dad* attempted to sexually assault her. It was only when Becky began to cry and accused him of being just like his brother that Dad apparently stopped. It wasn't until many years later, shortly before Dad's death, that Becky and Dad were able to talk over what happened. Dad told her it was his biggest regret in life, and Becky forgave him. The trouble now is my husband. I have no idea what to say. Here the man he's taken so many valuable lessons from, who he loved so much in life, not only failed to protect his own daughter from a man he knew was sexually assaulting her, but then went on to attempt to do the same. Bill is beside himself with anger for his sister, and while he's trying very hard to tell me he's not that upset, he goes on to rant about how useless and bad their communication was as a family, that they wouldn't even protect their own daughter, or tell their son what had happened. He says that he's glad his Dad is dead, because he'd have had to kill him himself if he were alive, for doing what he did. Clearly, this is not a man who's "not that upset". He's normally a very open person about his emotions- the wall he's put up is clearly a defense mechanism. And that's fine. He needs to deal with this as he will. TL;DR:
Found out my husband's dad abused my husband's sister when they were teenagers. Dad's dead, so no closure.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Spouses & Abuse Victims: How Do I Help My Husband? POST: Names have been changed. My husband Bill's family consists of himself, Mom, Dad, and sister Becky. Bill and Becky are both in their 30's. Dad died a year and a half ago. Bill had always hero worshiped his father. Today, Becky told my husband that when she was 14-16, one of Dad's brothers repeatedly sexually assaulted her. The family found out, Bill was kept in the dark(he would have been a teenager at that time), and this uncle was allowed to continue coming to family events and over to the house to visit. Becky went on to explain that when she was 17, *Dad* attempted to sexually assault her. It was only when Becky began to cry and accused him of being just like his brother that Dad apparently stopped. It wasn't until many years later, shortly before Dad's death, that Becky and Dad were able to talk over what happened. Dad told her it was his biggest regret in life, and Becky forgave him. The trouble now is my husband. I have no idea what to say. Here the man he's taken so many valuable lessons from, who he loved so much in life, not only failed to protect his own daughter from a man he knew was sexually assaulting her, but then went on to attempt to do the same. Bill is beside himself with anger for his sister, and while he's trying very hard to tell me he's not that upset, he goes on to rant about how useless and bad their communication was as a family, that they wouldn't even protect their own daughter, or tell their son what had happened. He says that he's glad his Dad is dead, because he'd have had to kill him himself if he were alive, for doing what he did. Clearly, this is not a man who's "not that upset". He's normally a very open person about his emotions- the wall he's put up is clearly a defense mechanism. And that's fine. He needs to deal with this as he will. TL;DR: Found out my husband's dad abused my husband's sister when they were teenagers. Dad's dead, so no closure.<|endoftext|>
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Scared of commitment, letting people in... How do you get over it?
I've never been able to really let people fully into my life. I've never been in love. I always end a relationship before it gets to that point because it freaks me out. I'm 24 F and I've been dating someone for about 3 and a half months and I REALLY like this guy, and that scares me. Most of my relationships end at about this point - as this is the point that the other person begins to want to know more about me in a less superficial way. I've always had trouble opening up to people, especially people that I'm dating. There are no real reasons that have happened to me personally that I can think of. My parents are in a loving 30+ yr marriage, no abusive past, cheating partners, or even "tough" breakups. I just freak out when I read stories of people cheating on their partner of 10+ yrs or something crazy like that. Then when I start thinking about committing to someone I freak out thinking that you can never truly "know" someone. Whenever my bf asks serious questions I always change the subject. How do you get over these kinds of issues. I do know that want to have the family one day (Kids, a loving husband, etc...), but I don't know how to get those thoughts of someone else blindsiding me after we've had kids or something like that. I do read a lot about girls (and boys) who are dating for a few weeks and are okay with sharing their whole lives and fully trusting someone, but I also know that other people have to have the issue I have. How do you deal with it? I want to open up and trust someone, but it is just difficult? What do you do to get over these fears?
I am scared of commitment and opening up, but I REALLY want to. I want a partner and a family eventually. What do people do to get over this fear?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Scared of commitment, letting people in... How do you get over it? POST: I've never been able to really let people fully into my life. I've never been in love. I always end a relationship before it gets to that point because it freaks me out. I'm 24 F and I've been dating someone for about 3 and a half months and I REALLY like this guy, and that scares me. Most of my relationships end at about this point - as this is the point that the other person begins to want to know more about me in a less superficial way. I've always had trouble opening up to people, especially people that I'm dating. There are no real reasons that have happened to me personally that I can think of. My parents are in a loving 30+ yr marriage, no abusive past, cheating partners, or even "tough" breakups. I just freak out when I read stories of people cheating on their partner of 10+ yrs or something crazy like that. Then when I start thinking about committing to someone I freak out thinking that you can never truly "know" someone. Whenever my bf asks serious questions I always change the subject. How do you get over these kinds of issues. I do know that want to have the family one day (Kids, a loving husband, etc...), but I don't know how to get those thoughts of someone else blindsiding me after we've had kids or something like that. I do read a lot about girls (and boys) who are dating for a few weeks and are okay with sharing their whole lives and fully trusting someone, but I also know that other people have to have the issue I have. How do you deal with it? I want to open up and trust someone, but it is just difficult? What do you do to get over these fears? TL;DR:
I am scared of commitment and opening up, but I REALLY want to. I want a partner and a family eventually. What do people do to get over this fear?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Scared of commitment, letting people in... How do you get over it? POST: I've never been able to really let people fully into my life. I've never been in love. I always end a relationship before it gets to that point because it freaks me out. I'm 24 F and I've been dating someone for about 3 and a half months and I REALLY like this guy, and that scares me. Most of my relationships end at about this point - as this is the point that the other person begins to want to know more about me in a less superficial way. I've always had trouble opening up to people, especially people that I'm dating. There are no real reasons that have happened to me personally that I can think of. My parents are in a loving 30+ yr marriage, no abusive past, cheating partners, or even "tough" breakups. I just freak out when I read stories of people cheating on their partner of 10+ yrs or something crazy like that. Then when I start thinking about committing to someone I freak out thinking that you can never truly "know" someone. Whenever my bf asks serious questions I always change the subject. How do you get over these kinds of issues. I do know that want to have the family one day (Kids, a loving husband, etc...), but I don't know how to get those thoughts of someone else blindsiding me after we've had kids or something like that. I do read a lot about girls (and boys) who are dating for a few weeks and are okay with sharing their whole lives and fully trusting someone, but I also know that other people have to have the issue I have. How do you deal with it? I want to open up and trust someone, but it is just difficult? What do you do to get over these fears? TL;DR: I am scared of commitment and opening up, but I REALLY want to. I want a partner and a family eventually. What do people do to get over this fear?<|endoftext|>
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We [F24 & M27] of 10 months have just come back from a romantic camping trip yesterday. Found this morning he's been talking to his ex [F?] Via pintrest.
So our camping trip was wonderful, funny, romantic. We went walking and laughed when he couldn't fit in the tent (he's so tall!) He spent the weekend telling me how much he loves me, making jokes about kids names and plans to travel when I become a nurse; plans if his job moves him before that. Everything. I was really happy. He kept telling me how gappy he was too, had fantastic sex last night. This morning I was on his laptop (mine doesn't really work so I use his a lot, I've had his blessing to use it), going through pintrest. He's been messaging someone and it's still up. He isn't flirting but she is telling him she's dreaming about him and sending him songs saying it reminds he of them kissing in his kitchen. She's clearly an ex. He doesn't tell her to stop but doesn't really stop her. Just complimenting her memory of such things. We live together (as of 2 months ago) and I love him so much. I feel so disrespected and embarrassed. I don't want to break up with him but I could see this turning into something bigger in the future and me ending up even more hurt than I feel now. He's at work (I'm on a day off as I'm a support worker and work shifts) so I texted him saying 'I was on your laptop looking at pintrest. I'm heart broken (name)'. He hasn't replied which is normal as he's often busy at work. Where do I go from here reddit? Can you rebuild trust after that? Has he really been doing anything wrong or am I just over sensitive? I'm so shocked and get I can't even cry.
went on a romantic camping trip. He was talking to his ex who was REALLY flirting. He didn't tell he to stop.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: We [F24 & M27] of 10 months have just come back from a romantic camping trip yesterday. Found this morning he's been talking to his ex [F?] Via pintrest. POST: So our camping trip was wonderful, funny, romantic. We went walking and laughed when he couldn't fit in the tent (he's so tall!) He spent the weekend telling me how much he loves me, making jokes about kids names and plans to travel when I become a nurse; plans if his job moves him before that. Everything. I was really happy. He kept telling me how gappy he was too, had fantastic sex last night. This morning I was on his laptop (mine doesn't really work so I use his a lot, I've had his blessing to use it), going through pintrest. He's been messaging someone and it's still up. He isn't flirting but she is telling him she's dreaming about him and sending him songs saying it reminds he of them kissing in his kitchen. She's clearly an ex. He doesn't tell her to stop but doesn't really stop her. Just complimenting her memory of such things. We live together (as of 2 months ago) and I love him so much. I feel so disrespected and embarrassed. I don't want to break up with him but I could see this turning into something bigger in the future and me ending up even more hurt than I feel now. He's at work (I'm on a day off as I'm a support worker and work shifts) so I texted him saying 'I was on your laptop looking at pintrest. I'm heart broken (name)'. He hasn't replied which is normal as he's often busy at work. Where do I go from here reddit? Can you rebuild trust after that? Has he really been doing anything wrong or am I just over sensitive? I'm so shocked and get I can't even cry. TL;DR:
went on a romantic camping trip. He was talking to his ex who was REALLY flirting. He didn't tell he to stop.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: We [F24 & M27] of 10 months have just come back from a romantic camping trip yesterday. Found this morning he's been talking to his ex [F?] Via pintrest. POST: So our camping trip was wonderful, funny, romantic. We went walking and laughed when he couldn't fit in the tent (he's so tall!) He spent the weekend telling me how much he loves me, making jokes about kids names and plans to travel when I become a nurse; plans if his job moves him before that. Everything. I was really happy. He kept telling me how gappy he was too, had fantastic sex last night. This morning I was on his laptop (mine doesn't really work so I use his a lot, I've had his blessing to use it), going through pintrest. He's been messaging someone and it's still up. He isn't flirting but she is telling him she's dreaming about him and sending him songs saying it reminds he of them kissing in his kitchen. She's clearly an ex. He doesn't tell her to stop but doesn't really stop her. Just complimenting her memory of such things. We live together (as of 2 months ago) and I love him so much. I feel so disrespected and embarrassed. I don't want to break up with him but I could see this turning into something bigger in the future and me ending up even more hurt than I feel now. He's at work (I'm on a day off as I'm a support worker and work shifts) so I texted him saying 'I was on your laptop looking at pintrest. I'm heart broken (name)'. He hasn't replied which is normal as he's often busy at work. Where do I go from here reddit? Can you rebuild trust after that? Has he really been doing anything wrong or am I just over sensitive? I'm so shocked and get I can't even cry. TL;DR: went on a romantic camping trip. He was talking to his ex who was REALLY flirting. He didn't tell he to stop.<|endoftext|>
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How does the human body gather energy and consume it?
Hi everyone, I've been curious of something. How does the human body gather the energy from food and other things and consume it. The reason i ask is because i hear a lot of people tell me they can't have coffee in the aternoon/night or else they will be up all night and some people say the same for oranges since it gives you vitamin C and such. But i can do both of these and I can sleep fine. I did this last night with some oranges and i usually drink some green tea, which im told has caffeine.
Why do some people seem to get "large, long lasting" energy boost from coffee or other means and they can't sleep, but i can just fine.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How does the human body gather energy and consume it? POST: Hi everyone, I've been curious of something. How does the human body gather the energy from food and other things and consume it. The reason i ask is because i hear a lot of people tell me they can't have coffee in the aternoon/night or else they will be up all night and some people say the same for oranges since it gives you vitamin C and such. But i can do both of these and I can sleep fine. I did this last night with some oranges and i usually drink some green tea, which im told has caffeine. TL;DR:
Why do some people seem to get "large, long lasting" energy boost from coffee or other means and they can't sleep, but i can just fine.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How does the human body gather energy and consume it? POST: Hi everyone, I've been curious of something. How does the human body gather the energy from food and other things and consume it. The reason i ask is because i hear a lot of people tell me they can't have coffee in the aternoon/night or else they will be up all night and some people say the same for oranges since it gives you vitamin C and such. But i can do both of these and I can sleep fine. I did this last night with some oranges and i usually drink some green tea, which im told has caffeine. TL;DR: Why do some people seem to get "large, long lasting" energy boost from coffee or other means and they can't sleep, but i can just fine.<|endoftext|>
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Me [23M/] with my GF [23 F] of 20 Months, she had a black out drunk girl attempt to make out with her last night. How should this be handled?
Hey Guys, Nothing too long here, title is pretty self explanatory. My girlfriend went out last night with a group of her friends to a country concert and drinking was involved. I didn't end up going as I needed to study for a summer course and work. Apparently, one girl in the group had three to four strong drinks in quick succession and as such, became very drunk and as my gf describes, was a blackout. While said girl was drunk, she apparently pushed my girlfriend up against a wall and attempted to makeout with her, to no success. Another friend in the group, a guy, was next to my girlfriend and was shocked as well. Apparently this is not normal behavior for the girl at hand and as soon as my girlfriend got home, she gave me a quick explanation of what happened (I was asleep at this point). So my question is, what's appropriate for handling this? I'm not upset at my girlfriend at all, she held the girl off and told me immediately ( She had attempted to call me directly after while I was at work). It doesn't really bother me, but then again, I'd rather this not be a repeat offense. Live and let live? Say something? Help!
Girlfriend had a blackout drunk friend attempt to makeout with her last night with no success. Should I let it go or do something?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M/] with my GF [23 F] of 20 Months, she had a black out drunk girl attempt to make out with her last night. How should this be handled? POST: Hey Guys, Nothing too long here, title is pretty self explanatory. My girlfriend went out last night with a group of her friends to a country concert and drinking was involved. I didn't end up going as I needed to study for a summer course and work. Apparently, one girl in the group had three to four strong drinks in quick succession and as such, became very drunk and as my gf describes, was a blackout. While said girl was drunk, she apparently pushed my girlfriend up against a wall and attempted to makeout with her, to no success. Another friend in the group, a guy, was next to my girlfriend and was shocked as well. Apparently this is not normal behavior for the girl at hand and as soon as my girlfriend got home, she gave me a quick explanation of what happened (I was asleep at this point). So my question is, what's appropriate for handling this? I'm not upset at my girlfriend at all, she held the girl off and told me immediately ( She had attempted to call me directly after while I was at work). It doesn't really bother me, but then again, I'd rather this not be a repeat offense. Live and let live? Say something? Help! TL;DR:
Girlfriend had a blackout drunk friend attempt to makeout with her last night with no success. Should I let it go or do something?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M/] with my GF [23 F] of 20 Months, she had a black out drunk girl attempt to make out with her last night. How should this be handled? POST: Hey Guys, Nothing too long here, title is pretty self explanatory. My girlfriend went out last night with a group of her friends to a country concert and drinking was involved. I didn't end up going as I needed to study for a summer course and work. Apparently, one girl in the group had three to four strong drinks in quick succession and as such, became very drunk and as my gf describes, was a blackout. While said girl was drunk, she apparently pushed my girlfriend up against a wall and attempted to makeout with her, to no success. Another friend in the group, a guy, was next to my girlfriend and was shocked as well. Apparently this is not normal behavior for the girl at hand and as soon as my girlfriend got home, she gave me a quick explanation of what happened (I was asleep at this point). So my question is, what's appropriate for handling this? I'm not upset at my girlfriend at all, she held the girl off and told me immediately ( She had attempted to call me directly after while I was at work). It doesn't really bother me, but then again, I'd rather this not be a repeat offense. Live and let live? Say something? Help! TL;DR: Girlfriend had a blackout drunk friend attempt to makeout with her last night with no success. Should I let it go or do something?<|endoftext|>
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Big fight, need advice.
Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months Yesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. I told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention. Anyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, "you know better then that." After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. Now I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions.
spoke up about bf being disrespectful, blew it up he ended up saying this goes back on everything I thought about you. Need advice, what do from here?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Big fight, need advice. POST: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months Yesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. I told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention. Anyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, "you know better then that." After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. Now I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions. TL;DR:
spoke up about bf being disrespectful, blew it up he ended up saying this goes back on everything I thought about you. Need advice, what do from here?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Big fight, need advice. POST: Im 19 f hes 21 m been together 9 months Yesterday I finally spoke my mind and was civil about it. He blew it out of proportion. I told him that he was being disrespectful. For example he farts in my face randomly, its gotton old, and he throws coins at me from across the room to get my attention. Anyway fastforward to yesterday. We were at olive garden and he kept putting crutons in my soup, I told him i didn't like that. We went to his apartment and he threw a coin at me again. Thats when i told him, "you know better then that." After saying that he got mad, and went for a cig. I played a game of LoL and left. I knew I shouldve stayed and talked face to face but instead I texted him and told him he's being disrespectful via farting coin tossing. He blew it out of proportion, and said this goes back on everything I thought about you. Now I know he's sexist at times, but that's not the problem, the problem is I spoke up just this once and he blows it out of proportion. Other then that he's been there for me he's helped me and pushed me in positive directions. I still have deep feelings about.this man. Im just wondering what do I do next? Give him time? Talk about it face to face asap? I just need opinions. TL;DR: spoke up about bf being disrespectful, blew it up he ended up saying this goes back on everything I thought about you. Need advice, what do from here?<|endoftext|>
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relationship_advice
Does this girl want me to take further steps?
I am a [17/m] senior. I met this cute girl at a robotics competition (seems weird but it happened, normally you don't find any girls much less cute ones at robotics competitions) we chatted for a few minuets and then she asked me for my snap chat, we exchanged info and have been talking pretty much everyday since (almost 2 weeks now). I got her number through snapchat, but she only ever snaps me. All this has been great so far, however, most of our convos are just pointless banter back and forth, I try to actually make regular conversation but it always leads back to nothing. This may just be the nature of snapchat. I can confidently say we are friends, but I wonder if she likes me because there is no real connection in our convos. But I feel like she had to like me at least little bit to approach me and eventually ask for my snapchat. I didn't use snapchat much except for when she started talking to me. I hope this makes sense, I am just a little confused. I do not have a problem conversing with people what so ever, I am fine with talking to women. Thanks for any input.
Girl asked me for my snapchat, we have been talking for about 2 weeks, but convos have been endless banter. We are friends, not sure if she actually likes me, or just being nice.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Does this girl want me to take further steps? POST: I am a [17/m] senior. I met this cute girl at a robotics competition (seems weird but it happened, normally you don't find any girls much less cute ones at robotics competitions) we chatted for a few minuets and then she asked me for my snap chat, we exchanged info and have been talking pretty much everyday since (almost 2 weeks now). I got her number through snapchat, but she only ever snaps me. All this has been great so far, however, most of our convos are just pointless banter back and forth, I try to actually make regular conversation but it always leads back to nothing. This may just be the nature of snapchat. I can confidently say we are friends, but I wonder if she likes me because there is no real connection in our convos. But I feel like she had to like me at least little bit to approach me and eventually ask for my snapchat. I didn't use snapchat much except for when she started talking to me. I hope this makes sense, I am just a little confused. I do not have a problem conversing with people what so ever, I am fine with talking to women. Thanks for any input. TL;DR:
Girl asked me for my snapchat, we have been talking for about 2 weeks, but convos have been endless banter. We are friends, not sure if she actually likes me, or just being nice.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Does this girl want me to take further steps? POST: I am a [17/m] senior. I met this cute girl at a robotics competition (seems weird but it happened, normally you don't find any girls much less cute ones at robotics competitions) we chatted for a few minuets and then she asked me for my snap chat, we exchanged info and have been talking pretty much everyday since (almost 2 weeks now). I got her number through snapchat, but she only ever snaps me. All this has been great so far, however, most of our convos are just pointless banter back and forth, I try to actually make regular conversation but it always leads back to nothing. This may just be the nature of snapchat. I can confidently say we are friends, but I wonder if she likes me because there is no real connection in our convos. But I feel like she had to like me at least little bit to approach me and eventually ask for my snapchat. I didn't use snapchat much except for when she started talking to me. I hope this makes sense, I am just a little confused. I do not have a problem conversing with people what so ever, I am fine with talking to women. Thanks for any input. TL;DR: Girl asked me for my snapchat, we have been talking for about 2 weeks, but convos have been endless banter. We are friends, not sure if she actually likes me, or just being nice.<|endoftext|>
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Questions about relocating a feral cat
My mom has been taking care of a feral cat at our grandfathers house for a few years now. We live in the north east where we have some pretty brutal winters, and he has survived them by sleeping near warm vents at the house and in the garage itself. Problem is my grandfather has passed away and the house is now unoccupied and on the market. We can't really sell the house with the cat, and we can't keep going to the house to take care of the cat. We want to relocate him up to our house, but it is literally an eighth mile away, so we know he will just take off back to his territory if we stuck him in the car and drove him up. He is far too old and too feral to be tamed into a house cat. What we are looking for is a way or method to teach him that in this house, this area, there will be a warm, sheltered place for him to sleep and food for him in the dead of winter. My mom is afraid if she cannot do this before the weather gets truly cold he will freeze to death, and is talking about putting him down rather than letting that happen. For those that will inevitably ask, he is neutered and vaccinated. We trapped him and had it all done when we realized he was feral. We have socialized him, and we can approach/pet him without issue. He'll come to us when we call for him. The biggest reason why we cannot make him a house cat is he reacts extremely negatively to other cats and sprays.
we need to relocate a feral cat. He trusts us and is socialized but making him a house cat is out of the question. Need advice.
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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Questions about relocating a feral cat POST: My mom has been taking care of a feral cat at our grandfathers house for a few years now. We live in the north east where we have some pretty brutal winters, and he has survived them by sleeping near warm vents at the house and in the garage itself. Problem is my grandfather has passed away and the house is now unoccupied and on the market. We can't really sell the house with the cat, and we can't keep going to the house to take care of the cat. We want to relocate him up to our house, but it is literally an eighth mile away, so we know he will just take off back to his territory if we stuck him in the car and drove him up. He is far too old and too feral to be tamed into a house cat. What we are looking for is a way or method to teach him that in this house, this area, there will be a warm, sheltered place for him to sleep and food for him in the dead of winter. My mom is afraid if she cannot do this before the weather gets truly cold he will freeze to death, and is talking about putting him down rather than letting that happen. For those that will inevitably ask, he is neutered and vaccinated. We trapped him and had it all done when we realized he was feral. We have socialized him, and we can approach/pet him without issue. He'll come to us when we call for him. The biggest reason why we cannot make him a house cat is he reacts extremely negatively to other cats and sprays. TL;DR:
we need to relocate a feral cat. He trusts us and is socialized but making him a house cat is out of the question. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Questions about relocating a feral cat POST: My mom has been taking care of a feral cat at our grandfathers house for a few years now. We live in the north east where we have some pretty brutal winters, and he has survived them by sleeping near warm vents at the house and in the garage itself. Problem is my grandfather has passed away and the house is now unoccupied and on the market. We can't really sell the house with the cat, and we can't keep going to the house to take care of the cat. We want to relocate him up to our house, but it is literally an eighth mile away, so we know he will just take off back to his territory if we stuck him in the car and drove him up. He is far too old and too feral to be tamed into a house cat. What we are looking for is a way or method to teach him that in this house, this area, there will be a warm, sheltered place for him to sleep and food for him in the dead of winter. My mom is afraid if she cannot do this before the weather gets truly cold he will freeze to death, and is talking about putting him down rather than letting that happen. For those that will inevitably ask, he is neutered and vaccinated. We trapped him and had it all done when we realized he was feral. We have socialized him, and we can approach/pet him without issue. He'll come to us when we call for him. The biggest reason why we cannot make him a house cat is he reacts extremely negatively to other cats and sprays. TL;DR: we need to relocate a feral cat. He trusts us and is socialized but making him a house cat is out of the question. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
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I [22, F] slept with my roommate [22, M] and he wants to pretend like nothing happened?
Been living with two roommates for the past 5 months or so. The two of them were in the same friend group for years, while I only recently met them within the past two years. So yeah, title pretty much explains it all. Saturday night, we all got really drunk, and he and I left the bar early (which isn't weird, we do this a lot). Went back to our place, started watching the Tick (again, not weird) but next thing I know we're making out and having the best sex of my life. I wish I was exaggerating, but dayum. Next morning was a little awkward. He had a bunch of friends from out of town visiting, so we never really got a chance to talk, and for a brief moment I thought that he honestly didn't remember (we were all *super* drunk). Later that day, when everyone had left, he had trouble finding his glasses, which I knew were in his room because I had tried them on the night before and he said I looked sexy or something like that. We eventually found them, and he said that he must have passed out with them on, giving me a bit of a look that told me he remembers everything. I told our third roommate [22, F] and she was surprised, a little pissed and told me to be cautious, etc because he can be a bit of a womanizer. But honestly, I have no desire to date him, I just want to have sex with him again, because it was *awesome.* So basically, I want to approach him about it, but I'm not too sure how. Any advice?
hooked up with my roommate, he's pretending like it never happened, I don't want to date him but I want it to happen again.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22, F] slept with my roommate [22, M] and he wants to pretend like nothing happened? POST: Been living with two roommates for the past 5 months or so. The two of them were in the same friend group for years, while I only recently met them within the past two years. So yeah, title pretty much explains it all. Saturday night, we all got really drunk, and he and I left the bar early (which isn't weird, we do this a lot). Went back to our place, started watching the Tick (again, not weird) but next thing I know we're making out and having the best sex of my life. I wish I was exaggerating, but dayum. Next morning was a little awkward. He had a bunch of friends from out of town visiting, so we never really got a chance to talk, and for a brief moment I thought that he honestly didn't remember (we were all *super* drunk). Later that day, when everyone had left, he had trouble finding his glasses, which I knew were in his room because I had tried them on the night before and he said I looked sexy or something like that. We eventually found them, and he said that he must have passed out with them on, giving me a bit of a look that told me he remembers everything. I told our third roommate [22, F] and she was surprised, a little pissed and told me to be cautious, etc because he can be a bit of a womanizer. But honestly, I have no desire to date him, I just want to have sex with him again, because it was *awesome.* So basically, I want to approach him about it, but I'm not too sure how. Any advice? TL;DR:
hooked up with my roommate, he's pretending like it never happened, I don't want to date him but I want it to happen again.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22, F] slept with my roommate [22, M] and he wants to pretend like nothing happened? POST: Been living with two roommates for the past 5 months or so. The two of them were in the same friend group for years, while I only recently met them within the past two years. So yeah, title pretty much explains it all. Saturday night, we all got really drunk, and he and I left the bar early (which isn't weird, we do this a lot). Went back to our place, started watching the Tick (again, not weird) but next thing I know we're making out and having the best sex of my life. I wish I was exaggerating, but dayum. Next morning was a little awkward. He had a bunch of friends from out of town visiting, so we never really got a chance to talk, and for a brief moment I thought that he honestly didn't remember (we were all *super* drunk). Later that day, when everyone had left, he had trouble finding his glasses, which I knew were in his room because I had tried them on the night before and he said I looked sexy or something like that. We eventually found them, and he said that he must have passed out with them on, giving me a bit of a look that told me he remembers everything. I told our third roommate [22, F] and she was surprised, a little pissed and told me to be cautious, etc because he can be a bit of a womanizer. But honestly, I have no desire to date him, I just want to have sex with him again, because it was *awesome.* So basically, I want to approach him about it, but I'm not too sure how. Any advice? TL;DR: hooked up with my roommate, he's pretending like it never happened, I don't want to date him but I want it to happen again.<|endoftext|>
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Me (26m) need help with a girl (25f) with whom i almost fucked up my chances.
Ive been seeing her for 3 months now, we went from cold to very hot but back to cold again. Basicly what I did was fuck up by moving too fast and being to clingy. Too much texting, not knowing when no really is no (not gone too far, but emotionally), basicly ive been the posterboy of how youre not supposed to win over a girl. She has however confessed recently that one of the times we were together was one of the best times she had and she misses that day and that version of me. It was a different me because that day I thought I had "closed the deal" so to speak. So my behaviour changed. Me, being very insecure, acts alot different when im not 100% sure this is goong to work, I try to hard. Im basicly the kind of guy who is perfect in a relationship but sucks in getting in one. She knows this now, I told her in a long convo and at the end she confessed she misses the guy I was that day. I feel like I have one chance left, next sunday im going out to dinner with her, do you guys have any tips, advice or help? I want to make her feel like this is everything she needs, how do I go about this? Even though I fucked up big time, i still have been given 1 chance. Which means to me she still hopes for me to be the right one right? Or am I getting my hopes up?
ive been with a girl, almost completely fucked up due to being to clingy, need help with my last chance: dinner on sunday whixh she agreed with.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26m) need help with a girl (25f) with whom i almost fucked up my chances. POST: Ive been seeing her for 3 months now, we went from cold to very hot but back to cold again. Basicly what I did was fuck up by moving too fast and being to clingy. Too much texting, not knowing when no really is no (not gone too far, but emotionally), basicly ive been the posterboy of how youre not supposed to win over a girl. She has however confessed recently that one of the times we were together was one of the best times she had and she misses that day and that version of me. It was a different me because that day I thought I had "closed the deal" so to speak. So my behaviour changed. Me, being very insecure, acts alot different when im not 100% sure this is goong to work, I try to hard. Im basicly the kind of guy who is perfect in a relationship but sucks in getting in one. She knows this now, I told her in a long convo and at the end she confessed she misses the guy I was that day. I feel like I have one chance left, next sunday im going out to dinner with her, do you guys have any tips, advice or help? I want to make her feel like this is everything she needs, how do I go about this? Even though I fucked up big time, i still have been given 1 chance. Which means to me she still hopes for me to be the right one right? Or am I getting my hopes up? TL;DR:
ive been with a girl, almost completely fucked up due to being to clingy, need help with my last chance: dinner on sunday whixh she agreed with.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26m) need help with a girl (25f) with whom i almost fucked up my chances. POST: Ive been seeing her for 3 months now, we went from cold to very hot but back to cold again. Basicly what I did was fuck up by moving too fast and being to clingy. Too much texting, not knowing when no really is no (not gone too far, but emotionally), basicly ive been the posterboy of how youre not supposed to win over a girl. She has however confessed recently that one of the times we were together was one of the best times she had and she misses that day and that version of me. It was a different me because that day I thought I had "closed the deal" so to speak. So my behaviour changed. Me, being very insecure, acts alot different when im not 100% sure this is goong to work, I try to hard. Im basicly the kind of guy who is perfect in a relationship but sucks in getting in one. She knows this now, I told her in a long convo and at the end she confessed she misses the guy I was that day. I feel like I have one chance left, next sunday im going out to dinner with her, do you guys have any tips, advice or help? I want to make her feel like this is everything she needs, how do I go about this? Even though I fucked up big time, i still have been given 1 chance. Which means to me she still hopes for me to be the right one right? Or am I getting my hopes up? TL;DR: ive been with a girl, almost completely fucked up due to being to clingy, need help with my last chance: dinner on sunday whixh she agreed with.<|endoftext|>
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It seems my(24m) SO(20f) has a "damaged sex drive"
(Throw away because SO is a redditor.) Me and my SO have been going strong lately, a little over 3 months to be exact . We've been in a "serious" relationship for a few months now, but we've always been very very close. She has told me that her drive is damaged from her previous relationship from it almost seeming like a requirement and it feeling like a chore. We have talked about this, and the sex is always great. We have been under a bit of stress lately with a few things. It almost felt like the subject of sex was almost taboo. Is there a good way to approach this without seeming like a "sex maniac"? I would like to know if it is merely an attitude change I need, due to the feeling of possibly being out of line by "trying" on a given night. To close, there is no way on earth that I would ever stop this relationship over this. I love her way too much, and vice versa.
SO has "diminished sex drive" from previous relationship. Do I let it be and have her get comfortable again? Or do I approach her about this?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It seems my(24m) SO(20f) has a "damaged sex drive" POST: (Throw away because SO is a redditor.) Me and my SO have been going strong lately, a little over 3 months to be exact. We've been in a "serious" relationship for a few months now, but we've always been very very close. She has told me that her drive is damaged from her previous relationship from it almost seeming like a requirement and it feeling like a chore. We have talked about this, and the sex is always great. We have been under a bit of stress lately with a few things. It almost felt like the subject of sex was almost taboo. Is there a good way to approach this without seeming like a "sex maniac"? I would like to know if it is merely an attitude change I need, due to the feeling of possibly being out of line by "trying" on a given night. To close, there is no way on earth that I would ever stop this relationship over this. I love her way too much, and vice versa. TL;DR:
SO has "diminished sex drive" from previous relationship. Do I let it be and have her get comfortable again? Or do I approach her about this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It seems my(24m) SO(20f) has a "damaged sex drive" POST: (Throw away because SO is a redditor.) Me and my SO have been going strong lately, a little over 3 months to be exact. We've been in a "serious" relationship for a few months now, but we've always been very very close. She has told me that her drive is damaged from her previous relationship from it almost seeming like a requirement and it feeling like a chore. We have talked about this, and the sex is always great. We have been under a bit of stress lately with a few things. It almost felt like the subject of sex was almost taboo. Is there a good way to approach this without seeming like a "sex maniac"? I would like to know if it is merely an attitude change I need, due to the feeling of possibly being out of line by "trying" on a given night. To close, there is no way on earth that I would ever stop this relationship over this. I love her way too much, and vice versa. TL;DR: SO has "diminished sex drive" from previous relationship. Do I let it be and have her get comfortable again? Or do I approach her about this?<|endoftext|>
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Me [19 M] with my ex [19 F] duration a couple months, help, i texted my ex i still had feelings for her, she broke up with me months ago.
Basically just got shot down. Regretted it very much, not only because I probably could have said something better (how are you, just checking in) instead of what I said (basically, I still have feelings for you). And she was right with her response, in that my feelings might not actually be genuine, that it might be a phase, or because I was reminded of her because I recently met one of her friends. But now I just feel stupid, it was left off at such a nice place. The only reason why I texted her was because I saw a FB group chat with her in it responding to pictures of me, saying she "felt something", and when a friend asked if she was jealous replied "mixed feelings" etc. I think I just need help coping with this...
Stupidly messaged ex who broke up with me months ago. Said I still had feelings. She replied she was flattered, but said to question if they were genuine, or a phase. (Basically shutting me back down).
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my ex [19 F] duration a couple months, help, i texted my ex i still had feelings for her, she broke up with me months ago. POST: Basically just got shot down. Regretted it very much, not only because I probably could have said something better (how are you, just checking in) instead of what I said (basically, I still have feelings for you). And she was right with her response, in that my feelings might not actually be genuine, that it might be a phase, or because I was reminded of her because I recently met one of her friends. But now I just feel stupid, it was left off at such a nice place. The only reason why I texted her was because I saw a FB group chat with her in it responding to pictures of me, saying she "felt something", and when a friend asked if she was jealous replied "mixed feelings" etc. I think I just need help coping with this... TL;DR:
Stupidly messaged ex who broke up with me months ago. Said I still had feelings. She replied she was flattered, but said to question if they were genuine, or a phase. (Basically shutting me back down).<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my ex [19 F] duration a couple months, help, i texted my ex i still had feelings for her, she broke up with me months ago. POST: Basically just got shot down. Regretted it very much, not only because I probably could have said something better (how are you, just checking in) instead of what I said (basically, I still have feelings for you). And she was right with her response, in that my feelings might not actually be genuine, that it might be a phase, or because I was reminded of her because I recently met one of her friends. But now I just feel stupid, it was left off at such a nice place. The only reason why I texted her was because I saw a FB group chat with her in it responding to pictures of me, saying she "felt something", and when a friend asked if she was jealous replied "mixed feelings" etc. I think I just need help coping with this... TL;DR: Stupidly messaged ex who broke up with me months ago. Said I still had feelings. She replied she was flattered, but said to question if they were genuine, or a phase. (Basically shutting me back down).<|endoftext|>
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I [20/m] really like her [18/f] but her best friend [17/f] has been coming onto me since February.
I really like this girl [Sonya] that I've sorta known for a while and she really likes me. Simple enough right? No. Her best friend [Jazmin] has been coming onto me since February. Strong. I feel like I've made it clear that I wasn't interested, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Sonya came into the picture about a month ago and I began to pursue her. We've been on two dates and we both really like each other. The only thing is, she feels really bad about Jazmin because Sonya feels I had sorta lead Jazmin on. I told her I was just being friendly and that I was never interested in her which is true. Jazmin has no clue about Sonya and I right now. Sonya thinks that I should talk to Jazmin about this whole thing...but I don't even know what to say. Any advice?
I really like a girl, but her best friend has been coming onto me for a long time and I can't pursue the girl I actually like until I deal with the best friend. Help =/
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/m] really like her [18/f] but her best friend [17/f] has been coming onto me since February. POST: I really like this girl [Sonya] that I've sorta known for a while and she really likes me. Simple enough right? No. Her best friend [Jazmin] has been coming onto me since February. Strong. I feel like I've made it clear that I wasn't interested, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Sonya came into the picture about a month ago and I began to pursue her. We've been on two dates and we both really like each other. The only thing is, she feels really bad about Jazmin because Sonya feels I had sorta lead Jazmin on. I told her I was just being friendly and that I was never interested in her which is true. Jazmin has no clue about Sonya and I right now. Sonya thinks that I should talk to Jazmin about this whole thing...but I don't even know what to say. Any advice? TL;DR:
I really like a girl, but her best friend has been coming onto me for a long time and I can't pursue the girl I actually like until I deal with the best friend. Help =/<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/m] really like her [18/f] but her best friend [17/f] has been coming onto me since February. POST: I really like this girl [Sonya] that I've sorta known for a while and she really likes me. Simple enough right? No. Her best friend [Jazmin] has been coming onto me since February. Strong. I feel like I've made it clear that I wasn't interested, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Sonya came into the picture about a month ago and I began to pursue her. We've been on two dates and we both really like each other. The only thing is, she feels really bad about Jazmin because Sonya feels I had sorta lead Jazmin on. I told her I was just being friendly and that I was never interested in her which is true. Jazmin has no clue about Sonya and I right now. Sonya thinks that I should talk to Jazmin about this whole thing...but I don't even know what to say. Any advice? TL;DR: I really like a girl, but her best friend has been coming onto me for a long time and I can't pursue the girl I actually like until I deal with the best friend. Help =/<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by dropping my work keys
This was actually last night, but any who... My job is to lock up the campus after students leave. I have only been working this job for two semesters. Upon being hired they tell you that if you lose the keys it will result in an obnoxious fine of like 25,000 dollars. However, I was reassured that no one has ever lost the keys and not to worry. This calmed my nerves about handling the keys a bit. Well, for every shift you have to log out keys, so they know who had which keys and when, etc. So, I logged out the keys needed to lock up the campus and go on my merry way. When it's time to lock up my coworker and I split up. I start out great, I'm locking the doors in record time. There are multiple floors I have to lock up in the building I am in, so I go up the elevator and head to the second floor. As I am exiting I go to take my keys off my key hook and they slip out of my fingers right into the crack between the elevator and the floor. They disappear into oblivion before I could even attempt to save them before their terrible plummet into the shaft of hell. I had to tell my boss and his boss of my idiocy and I'm just waiting to hear my fate. Also, I told my mom and she asked automatically went to me being fired.
I dropped my work keys through a crack between the floor and elevator and might have to pay a huge fine. That will successfully break my bank for a lifetime.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by dropping my work keys POST: This was actually last night, but any who... My job is to lock up the campus after students leave. I have only been working this job for two semesters. Upon being hired they tell you that if you lose the keys it will result in an obnoxious fine of like 25,000 dollars. However, I was reassured that no one has ever lost the keys and not to worry. This calmed my nerves about handling the keys a bit. Well, for every shift you have to log out keys, so they know who had which keys and when, etc. So, I logged out the keys needed to lock up the campus and go on my merry way. When it's time to lock up my coworker and I split up. I start out great, I'm locking the doors in record time. There are multiple floors I have to lock up in the building I am in, so I go up the elevator and head to the second floor. As I am exiting I go to take my keys off my key hook and they slip out of my fingers right into the crack between the elevator and the floor. They disappear into oblivion before I could even attempt to save them before their terrible plummet into the shaft of hell. I had to tell my boss and his boss of my idiocy and I'm just waiting to hear my fate. Also, I told my mom and she asked automatically went to me being fired. TL;DR:
I dropped my work keys through a crack between the floor and elevator and might have to pay a huge fine. That will successfully break my bank for a lifetime.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by dropping my work keys POST: This was actually last night, but any who... My job is to lock up the campus after students leave. I have only been working this job for two semesters. Upon being hired they tell you that if you lose the keys it will result in an obnoxious fine of like 25,000 dollars. However, I was reassured that no one has ever lost the keys and not to worry. This calmed my nerves about handling the keys a bit. Well, for every shift you have to log out keys, so they know who had which keys and when, etc. So, I logged out the keys needed to lock up the campus and go on my merry way. When it's time to lock up my coworker and I split up. I start out great, I'm locking the doors in record time. There are multiple floors I have to lock up in the building I am in, so I go up the elevator and head to the second floor. As I am exiting I go to take my keys off my key hook and they slip out of my fingers right into the crack between the elevator and the floor. They disappear into oblivion before I could even attempt to save them before their terrible plummet into the shaft of hell. I had to tell my boss and his boss of my idiocy and I'm just waiting to hear my fate. Also, I told my mom and she asked automatically went to me being fired. TL;DR: I dropped my work keys through a crack between the floor and elevator and might have to pay a huge fine. That will successfully break my bank for a lifetime.<|endoftext|>
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I [28F] talked with my friend [35 M] about dating(in general, not with each other. I told him about one guy I was interested in and he shot him down?
We were just conversing the other day about each other, and I brought up dating because I felt I needed advice. I asked him a few questions, partially about online dating, which he gave the advice to "explore my sexuality" which I do agree, I just don't think it should be just any Jo smo. I have been talking to a few guys from online, and they all seem to go for sex first thing. I don't know how to handle that, I was raised LDS(Mormon) and was hardcore until about 5 years ago. Sex to me is where I meet the guy, find out if I like him, then go for it. Online dating makes that a bit hard. One of the guys I had been conversing with we seemed to hit it off. He is looking to sell fly boarding equipment, and is currently living with his dad and step mom. He works as a bartender at a local bar and is saving up money to go traveling. I told my guy friend( who I dated briefly for a month) all of this except that he lives with his parents. He told me I don't want to date someone that works for tips. While this may/may not be a jealousy thing, I did tell my guy friend that my sister works for tips, and he gave the excuse of well, she is married, right? What is so bad about someone that works for tips?
I told my guy friend (who I briefly dated for 2 months.I broke it off) that I was interested in a bartender, and he told me, wfw that I don't want to date a bartender.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28F] talked with my friend [35 M] about dating(in general, not with each other. I told him about one guy I was interested in and he shot him down? POST: We were just conversing the other day about each other, and I brought up dating because I felt I needed advice. I asked him a few questions, partially about online dating, which he gave the advice to "explore my sexuality" which I do agree, I just don't think it should be just any Jo smo. I have been talking to a few guys from online, and they all seem to go for sex first thing. I don't know how to handle that, I was raised LDS(Mormon) and was hardcore until about 5 years ago. Sex to me is where I meet the guy, find out if I like him, then go for it. Online dating makes that a bit hard. One of the guys I had been conversing with we seemed to hit it off. He is looking to sell fly boarding equipment, and is currently living with his dad and step mom. He works as a bartender at a local bar and is saving up money to go traveling. I told my guy friend( who I dated briefly for a month) all of this except that he lives with his parents. He told me I don't want to date someone that works for tips. While this may/may not be a jealousy thing, I did tell my guy friend that my sister works for tips, and he gave the excuse of well, she is married, right? What is so bad about someone that works for tips? TL;DR:
I told my guy friend (who I briefly dated for 2 months.I broke it off) that I was interested in a bartender, and he told me, wfw that I don't want to date a bartender.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28F] talked with my friend [35 M] about dating(in general, not with each other. I told him about one guy I was interested in and he shot him down? POST: We were just conversing the other day about each other, and I brought up dating because I felt I needed advice. I asked him a few questions, partially about online dating, which he gave the advice to "explore my sexuality" which I do agree, I just don't think it should be just any Jo smo. I have been talking to a few guys from online, and they all seem to go for sex first thing. I don't know how to handle that, I was raised LDS(Mormon) and was hardcore until about 5 years ago. Sex to me is where I meet the guy, find out if I like him, then go for it. Online dating makes that a bit hard. One of the guys I had been conversing with we seemed to hit it off. He is looking to sell fly boarding equipment, and is currently living with his dad and step mom. He works as a bartender at a local bar and is saving up money to go traveling. I told my guy friend( who I dated briefly for a month) all of this except that he lives with his parents. He told me I don't want to date someone that works for tips. While this may/may not be a jealousy thing, I did tell my guy friend that my sister works for tips, and he gave the excuse of well, she is married, right? What is so bad about someone that works for tips? TL;DR: I told my guy friend (who I briefly dated for 2 months.I broke it off) that I was interested in a bartender, and he told me, wfw that I don't want to date a bartender.<|endoftext|>
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"The talk"
I've been seeing this guy for a few months. In the beginning, we agreed to keep it casual but didn't talk about it much. Anyway, as time has gone on, I've started wanting to talk about our situation more, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. I hate "the talk." I had an exclusivity conversation with the last couple of guys I dated about a month or so in, and they ended things about a week later. Current guy ended things with last girl because they'd gotten too serious. We're both in our 20s. I don't really want something serious, but just want to know where he stands. How do I bring it up without scaring him off? Or get him to bring it up?
Don't know how to bring up the dreaded "talk" with guy I've been seeing without scaring him away.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: "The talk" POST: I've been seeing this guy for a few months. In the beginning, we agreed to keep it casual but didn't talk about it much. Anyway, as time has gone on, I've started wanting to talk about our situation more, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. I hate "the talk." I had an exclusivity conversation with the last couple of guys I dated about a month or so in, and they ended things about a week later. Current guy ended things with last girl because they'd gotten too serious. We're both in our 20s. I don't really want something serious, but just want to know where he stands. How do I bring it up without scaring him off? Or get him to bring it up? TL;DR:
Don't know how to bring up the dreaded "talk" with guy I've been seeing without scaring him away.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: "The talk" POST: I've been seeing this guy for a few months. In the beginning, we agreed to keep it casual but didn't talk about it much. Anyway, as time has gone on, I've started wanting to talk about our situation more, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. I hate "the talk." I had an exclusivity conversation with the last couple of guys I dated about a month or so in, and they ended things about a week later. Current guy ended things with last girl because they'd gotten too serious. We're both in our 20s. I don't really want something serious, but just want to know where he stands. How do I bring it up without scaring him off? Or get him to bring it up? TL;DR: Don't know how to bring up the dreaded "talk" with guy I've been seeing without scaring him away.<|endoftext|>
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Me [25 M] and GF [21 F] of 1.5y broke up, floating around. Don't know what i should do. (like 99% of all people..)
Hi people, last night my gf and i broke up. long story short, we had some issues earlier this year. she told me, she's unsure about her future (what she should study, what's with her family and her current apprenticeship and most of all, herself. She didn't like some body parts of her (no she's not fat or smtg, she's beautiful)) and she couldn't clearly think about anything anymore. Yes, i was a little bit guilty with this case too. I was a kind of "nice guy". Doing things for her and not for me. But after I realized it, in january, and begun to change the things went better. Nevertheless, we broke up yesterday. She said, she loved me, she needs my hugs, my warmth, and me around her, but she couldn't develop sexual desiere towards me. She want some time for herself and want to think about this all. She want to expierence if she missed me after a week or two or if its all neutral. She feels numb. (about everything) We talked a lot yesterday and i told her, that I put a lot effort in the last few weeks in our realtionship, but also feel that i'm not receving the attention from her i should deserve. And she realized it too. When we hung out. everything was fine. we made love and had a good time. but when she was at home / with her friends out or by herself she didn't waste her time with me. ((texting or something else) and NO I'm not herassing her or sending her texts every hour.) ___________________________________________________ now, the morning after. I'm the one who feels numb. Tonight i will meet my best friend and will talk about it.. But i could use some advice from internet strangers too. What do you recommend me? Should I wait until she come back to me or should i cancel the whole story in my head and go on? Personally I'm still loving her and yes. I'm confused.
gf and i broke up, pretty confused what i should do now. girlfriend needs time for herself, she is unsure about her future and herself.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and GF [21 F] of 1.5y broke up, floating around. Don't know what i should do. (like 99% of all people..) POST: Hi people, last night my gf and i broke up. long story short, we had some issues earlier this year. she told me, she's unsure about her future (what she should study, what's with her family and her current apprenticeship and most of all, herself. She didn't like some body parts of her (no she's not fat or smtg, she's beautiful)) and she couldn't clearly think about anything anymore. Yes, i was a little bit guilty with this case too. I was a kind of "nice guy". Doing things for her and not for me. But after I realized it, in january, and begun to change the things went better. Nevertheless, we broke up yesterday. She said, she loved me, she needs my hugs, my warmth, and me around her, but she couldn't develop sexual desiere towards me. She want some time for herself and want to think about this all. She want to expierence if she missed me after a week or two or if its all neutral. She feels numb. (about everything) We talked a lot yesterday and i told her, that I put a lot effort in the last few weeks in our realtionship, but also feel that i'm not receving the attention from her i should deserve. And she realized it too. When we hung out. everything was fine. we made love and had a good time. but when she was at home / with her friends out or by herself she didn't waste her time with me. ((texting or something else) and NO I'm not herassing her or sending her texts every hour.) ___________________________________________________ now, the morning after. I'm the one who feels numb. Tonight i will meet my best friend and will talk about it.. But i could use some advice from internet strangers too. What do you recommend me? Should I wait until she come back to me or should i cancel the whole story in my head and go on? Personally I'm still loving her and yes. I'm confused. TL;DR:
gf and i broke up, pretty confused what i should do now. girlfriend needs time for herself, she is unsure about her future and herself.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and GF [21 F] of 1.5y broke up, floating around. Don't know what i should do. (like 99% of all people..) POST: Hi people, last night my gf and i broke up. long story short, we had some issues earlier this year. she told me, she's unsure about her future (what she should study, what's with her family and her current apprenticeship and most of all, herself. She didn't like some body parts of her (no she's not fat or smtg, she's beautiful)) and she couldn't clearly think about anything anymore. Yes, i was a little bit guilty with this case too. I was a kind of "nice guy". Doing things for her and not for me. But after I realized it, in january, and begun to change the things went better. Nevertheless, we broke up yesterday. She said, she loved me, she needs my hugs, my warmth, and me around her, but she couldn't develop sexual desiere towards me. She want some time for herself and want to think about this all. She want to expierence if she missed me after a week or two or if its all neutral. She feels numb. (about everything) We talked a lot yesterday and i told her, that I put a lot effort in the last few weeks in our realtionship, but also feel that i'm not receving the attention from her i should deserve. And she realized it too. When we hung out. everything was fine. we made love and had a good time. but when she was at home / with her friends out or by herself she didn't waste her time with me. ((texting or something else) and NO I'm not herassing her or sending her texts every hour.) ___________________________________________________ now, the morning after. I'm the one who feels numb. Tonight i will meet my best friend and will talk about it.. But i could use some advice from internet strangers too. What do you recommend me? Should I wait until she come back to me or should i cancel the whole story in my head and go on? Personally I'm still loving her and yes. I'm confused. TL;DR: gf and i broke up, pretty confused what i should do now. girlfriend needs time for herself, she is unsure about her future and herself.<|endoftext|>
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[35, M] I'm not sure I want to marry my fiancee [29, F] and I need advice (long story)
Length of relationship: 5 years My fiancee, let's call her L, and I have known each other for 7 years, and we've been dating for 5. We recently got engaged (the wedding is a month away), and I thought things were going well until I overheard a conversation between her and her mother, C, where she told her that she no longer loved me and was thinking of leaving me for another man. I didn't say anything at the time because I wanted to talk to her alone. I trust L, and she has never given me any reason in the past to doubt her faithfulness. I have a well paying job, at a bank, and she has just started her own computer business. We've been living together for the last 3 years, surrounded by our circle of close friends, and she is especially close with my best friend, M. We've even discussed starting a family in the future, and we've unofficially "adopted" a young orphaned neighbour, D. I don't know why she would be unhappy with our relationship. I provide for her, I give her financial support, I love her so much.
I think my fiancee is cheating on me, maybe with my best friend, I don't know what to do because this is tearing me apart.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [35, M] I'm not sure I want to marry my fiancee [29, F] and I need advice (long story) POST: Length of relationship: 5 years My fiancee, let's call her L, and I have known each other for 7 years, and we've been dating for 5. We recently got engaged (the wedding is a month away), and I thought things were going well until I overheard a conversation between her and her mother, C, where she told her that she no longer loved me and was thinking of leaving me for another man. I didn't say anything at the time because I wanted to talk to her alone. I trust L, and she has never given me any reason in the past to doubt her faithfulness. I have a well paying job, at a bank, and she has just started her own computer business. We've been living together for the last 3 years, surrounded by our circle of close friends, and she is especially close with my best friend, M. We've even discussed starting a family in the future, and we've unofficially "adopted" a young orphaned neighbour, D. I don't know why she would be unhappy with our relationship. I provide for her, I give her financial support, I love her so much. TL;DR:
I think my fiancee is cheating on me, maybe with my best friend, I don't know what to do because this is tearing me apart. <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [35, M] I'm not sure I want to marry my fiancee [29, F] and I need advice (long story) POST: Length of relationship: 5 years My fiancee, let's call her L, and I have known each other for 7 years, and we've been dating for 5. We recently got engaged (the wedding is a month away), and I thought things were going well until I overheard a conversation between her and her mother, C, where she told her that she no longer loved me and was thinking of leaving me for another man. I didn't say anything at the time because I wanted to talk to her alone. I trust L, and she has never given me any reason in the past to doubt her faithfulness. I have a well paying job, at a bank, and she has just started her own computer business. We've been living together for the last 3 years, surrounded by our circle of close friends, and she is especially close with my best friend, M. We've even discussed starting a family in the future, and we've unofficially "adopted" a young orphaned neighbour, D. I don't know why she would be unhappy with our relationship. I provide for her, I give her financial support, I love her so much. TL;DR: I think my fiancee is cheating on me, maybe with my best friend, I don't know what to do because this is tearing me apart. <|endoftext|>
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I'm a [30/F] trying to regain intimacy with my BF [31/M] of almost two years.
Hello /r/relationships, I am a 30 year old woman with a long history of financial instability and poor dating choices. Just under a year ago I finally straightened up and started dating a really wonderful guy, whom I have lived with for about six months now. I changed jobs several times and was generally broke for the first year of our relationship. I've just now gotten my career on track, doing a job I love, and I'm finally making enough money to keep my head above water and fully share financial responsibilities for our apartment, etc. During the last few months of living together, we have started to drift apart a little. He has his own hobbies (video games, horror movies, smoking pot and drinking Scotch) that he does in his part of the house. I have my hobbies (I work from home, watch Netflix, do yoga, etc) that I mostly do in my part of the house. Apart from eating dinner together a couple times a week, we don't really HANG OUT much anymore. Honestly, I think we both like being alone a lot. The problem is that now that we've really settled into being a long-term relationship (including growing pains, fights, hard discussions, etc), it feels like we're getting pretty distant. We hardly ever have sex, and when we do it's brief and awkward and unsatisfying. Part of all of this is that I used to drink and party and invite him out to a lot of fun events when we lived apart, but I no longer drink and I socialize a lot less than I used to. I'm starting to get cold feet about our long-term compatibility, though we have a lot of the same life goals and interests. We are honestly good together, but I do have a history of getting bored and bailing on long-term relationships. I really, really want to make this work with him! On top of all this, my BF surprised me this week by telling me that he wants to buy a house. Not with me, just on his own, though he wants me to tour houses and give him my opinion, I guess. That's a whole other can of worms.
After two years and lots of growing pains, how should I go about trying to regain some of the intimacy and fun that we had at the beginning of our relationship?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a [30/F] trying to regain intimacy with my BF [31/M] of almost two years. POST: Hello /r/relationships, I am a 30 year old woman with a long history of financial instability and poor dating choices. Just under a year ago I finally straightened up and started dating a really wonderful guy, whom I have lived with for about six months now. I changed jobs several times and was generally broke for the first year of our relationship. I've just now gotten my career on track, doing a job I love, and I'm finally making enough money to keep my head above water and fully share financial responsibilities for our apartment, etc. During the last few months of living together, we have started to drift apart a little. He has his own hobbies (video games, horror movies, smoking pot and drinking Scotch) that he does in his part of the house. I have my hobbies (I work from home, watch Netflix, do yoga, etc) that I mostly do in my part of the house. Apart from eating dinner together a couple times a week, we don't really HANG OUT much anymore. Honestly, I think we both like being alone a lot. The problem is that now that we've really settled into being a long-term relationship (including growing pains, fights, hard discussions, etc), it feels like we're getting pretty distant. We hardly ever have sex, and when we do it's brief and awkward and unsatisfying. Part of all of this is that I used to drink and party and invite him out to a lot of fun events when we lived apart, but I no longer drink and I socialize a lot less than I used to. I'm starting to get cold feet about our long-term compatibility, though we have a lot of the same life goals and interests. We are honestly good together, but I do have a history of getting bored and bailing on long-term relationships. I really, really want to make this work with him! On top of all this, my BF surprised me this week by telling me that he wants to buy a house. Not with me, just on his own, though he wants me to tour houses and give him my opinion, I guess. That's a whole other can of worms. TL;DR:
After two years and lots of growing pains, how should I go about trying to regain some of the intimacy and fun that we had at the beginning of our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a [30/F] trying to regain intimacy with my BF [31/M] of almost two years. POST: Hello /r/relationships, I am a 30 year old woman with a long history of financial instability and poor dating choices. Just under a year ago I finally straightened up and started dating a really wonderful guy, whom I have lived with for about six months now. I changed jobs several times and was generally broke for the first year of our relationship. I've just now gotten my career on track, doing a job I love, and I'm finally making enough money to keep my head above water and fully share financial responsibilities for our apartment, etc. During the last few months of living together, we have started to drift apart a little. He has his own hobbies (video games, horror movies, smoking pot and drinking Scotch) that he does in his part of the house. I have my hobbies (I work from home, watch Netflix, do yoga, etc) that I mostly do in my part of the house. Apart from eating dinner together a couple times a week, we don't really HANG OUT much anymore. Honestly, I think we both like being alone a lot. The problem is that now that we've really settled into being a long-term relationship (including growing pains, fights, hard discussions, etc), it feels like we're getting pretty distant. We hardly ever have sex, and when we do it's brief and awkward and unsatisfying. Part of all of this is that I used to drink and party and invite him out to a lot of fun events when we lived apart, but I no longer drink and I socialize a lot less than I used to. I'm starting to get cold feet about our long-term compatibility, though we have a lot of the same life goals and interests. We are honestly good together, but I do have a history of getting bored and bailing on long-term relationships. I really, really want to make this work with him! On top of all this, my BF surprised me this week by telling me that he wants to buy a house. Not with me, just on his own, though he wants me to tour houses and give him my opinion, I guess. That's a whole other can of worms. TL;DR: After two years and lots of growing pains, how should I go about trying to regain some of the intimacy and fun that we had at the beginning of our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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What stupid little things did a family member of yours tell you that you believed as a kid? How did you find out it was a lie?
Your story can be an answer to a question they answered incorrectly like "why is the sky blue" and they supposedly say "because god peed in it" It can be something silly they always thought you like if you finger yourself you go to hell. (yes my mom told me that). and if your family didn't tell you a lie you believed, then tell us some silly explanation you made up on your own for everything. I'll start, The usual question..."where do babies come from?". I asked my mom and her answer was that automatically when someone gets married they get pregnant. When I was a kid it made sense because it explained why my parents had me after they were married. When I look back at it today was it was a real smart answer to give me to avoid the conversation of sex with a 6-year-old kid. (yes my parents we're extremely religious.) How I found out? A little embarrassing sadly. My Third teacher was having a discussion with the class on why men and women we're equally important. Her statement was "If all the men on this planet disappeared even if women could survive for a good amount of time they wouldn't be able to reproduce and the women would all eventually become extinct". Then I raised my hand happily and said "BUT ALL THE GIRLS CAN JUST GET MARRIED. THEY AUTOMATICALLY HAVE KIDS RIGHT AFTER RIGHT". Everyone turned and stared at me, some of them with the eyebrows raised especially my teacher. I still kept going "What! its true! that's how babies are made!". No one said anything and the topic was changed. Later that day an old friend came to me and had to explain to me the true story. "you do know where babies come from right?" "yeah marriage! right." "uhhh. no. its from something else" "well what is it? tell me." she walks away and gets a dictionary and points to the word sex. I literally said "oh.....OHHHHHHHH"
asked my parents where do babies come from, they lied. found out by embarrassing myself in front of my third grade class
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What stupid little things did a family member of yours tell you that you believed as a kid? How did you find out it was a lie? POST: Your story can be an answer to a question they answered incorrectly like "why is the sky blue" and they supposedly say "because god peed in it" It can be something silly they always thought you like if you finger yourself you go to hell. (yes my mom told me that). and if your family didn't tell you a lie you believed, then tell us some silly explanation you made up on your own for everything. I'll start, The usual question..."where do babies come from?". I asked my mom and her answer was that automatically when someone gets married they get pregnant. When I was a kid it made sense because it explained why my parents had me after they were married. When I look back at it today was it was a real smart answer to give me to avoid the conversation of sex with a 6-year-old kid. (yes my parents we're extremely religious.) How I found out? A little embarrassing sadly. My Third teacher was having a discussion with the class on why men and women we're equally important. Her statement was "If all the men on this planet disappeared even if women could survive for a good amount of time they wouldn't be able to reproduce and the women would all eventually become extinct". Then I raised my hand happily and said "BUT ALL THE GIRLS CAN JUST GET MARRIED. THEY AUTOMATICALLY HAVE KIDS RIGHT AFTER RIGHT". Everyone turned and stared at me, some of them with the eyebrows raised especially my teacher. I still kept going "What! its true! that's how babies are made!". No one said anything and the topic was changed. Later that day an old friend came to me and had to explain to me the true story. "you do know where babies come from right?" "yeah marriage! right." "uhhh. no. its from something else" "well what is it? tell me." she walks away and gets a dictionary and points to the word sex. I literally said "oh.....OHHHHHHHH" TL;DR:
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What stupid little things did a family member of yours tell you that you believed as a kid? How did you find out it was a lie? POST: Your story can be an answer to a question they answered incorrectly like "why is the sky blue" and they supposedly say "because god peed in it" It can be something silly they always thought you like if you finger yourself you go to hell. (yes my mom told me that). and if your family didn't tell you a lie you believed, then tell us some silly explanation you made up on your own for everything. I'll start, The usual question..."where do babies come from?". I asked my mom and her answer was that automatically when someone gets married they get pregnant. When I was a kid it made sense because it explained why my parents had me after they were married. When I look back at it today was it was a real smart answer to give me to avoid the conversation of sex with a 6-year-old kid. (yes my parents we're extremely religious.) How I found out? A little embarrassing sadly. My Third teacher was having a discussion with the class on why men and women we're equally important. Her statement was "If all the men on this planet disappeared even if women could survive for a good amount of time they wouldn't be able to reproduce and the women would all eventually become extinct". Then I raised my hand happily and said "BUT ALL THE GIRLS CAN JUST GET MARRIED. THEY AUTOMATICALLY HAVE KIDS RIGHT AFTER RIGHT". Everyone turned and stared at me, some of them with the eyebrows raised especially my teacher. I still kept going "What! its true! that's how babies are made!". No one said anything and the topic was changed. Later that day an old friend came to me and had to explain to me the true story. "you do know where babies come from right?" "yeah marriage! right." "uhhh. no. its from something else" "well what is it? tell me." she walks away and gets a dictionary and points to the word sex. I literally said "oh.....OHHHHHHHH" TL;DR: asked my parents where do babies come from, they lied. found out by embarrassing myself in front of my third grade class<|endoftext|>
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Me [16 M] with my long distance girlfriend [16 F] 7 months doesn't really seem to care about me coming down and the time we can spend together.
So me and my gf have been together for a few months and i see her whenever i'm able to. I have to pay £60 to take the train each time i want to see her and when i tell her i'm coming down she doesn't really seem excited and it makes me feel as if the relationship is one way. All i wanna do is see her and spend time with her but she takes our time for granted and spends it with long distance friends i also have down there instead of spending what little time we have with me and when mentioned that i'm coming down i get the worlds fakest excitement. I've spoke to her about it and her reasoning for the former seems reasonable (she wants everyone to feel included) but the latter seems to be getting to me more than it should. Any advice?
Would you call more one sided if i wanted to spend time with her more than she does with me during a long distance relationship?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my long distance girlfriend [16 F] 7 months doesn't really seem to care about me coming down and the time we can spend together. POST: So me and my gf have been together for a few months and i see her whenever i'm able to. I have to pay £60 to take the train each time i want to see her and when i tell her i'm coming down she doesn't really seem excited and it makes me feel as if the relationship is one way. All i wanna do is see her and spend time with her but she takes our time for granted and spends it with long distance friends i also have down there instead of spending what little time we have with me and when mentioned that i'm coming down i get the worlds fakest excitement. I've spoke to her about it and her reasoning for the former seems reasonable (she wants everyone to feel included) but the latter seems to be getting to me more than it should. Any advice? TL;DR:
Would you call more one sided if i wanted to spend time with her more than she does with me during a long distance relationship?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my long distance girlfriend [16 F] 7 months doesn't really seem to care about me coming down and the time we can spend together. POST: So me and my gf have been together for a few months and i see her whenever i'm able to. I have to pay £60 to take the train each time i want to see her and when i tell her i'm coming down she doesn't really seem excited and it makes me feel as if the relationship is one way. All i wanna do is see her and spend time with her but she takes our time for granted and spends it with long distance friends i also have down there instead of spending what little time we have with me and when mentioned that i'm coming down i get the worlds fakest excitement. I've spoke to her about it and her reasoning for the former seems reasonable (she wants everyone to feel included) but the latter seems to be getting to me more than it should. Any advice? TL;DR: Would you call more one sided if i wanted to spend time with her more than she does with me during a long distance relationship?<|endoftext|>
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t3_14wab5
tifu
TIFU by vomiting in a movie theater
Actually happened last night but I am now finally conscious enough to type. I am going out to see the Hobbit with a few friends. It's night and I haven't eaten since breakfast. Before the movies we go to a bar where I drink about 7 beers. I make the horrible decision that I am not drunk enough yet. We go back to my apartment where I do shots with various people. I do 4 in under 30 minutes. Now it's time for the movie. I continue my fuck up by deciding to sneak in a pint of vodka and dump about half of it in my theater drink. I quickly chug quite a bit of it and then the drunk hits me all at once. I realize Biblo Baggins head is doubling and I can't see straight. I begin to feel sick and make a run for the bathroom. I don't make it. I throw up in the dark hall leaving the theater. Get to the bathroom and throw up several more times. After a while I think I am going to be okay. I get up and go back into the movie. I have somehow managed to keep the vomit off my clothes up to this point. I have still have double vision. Make it through about 30 more minutes of the movie and feel the urge to vomit again. I only manage to stand up this time and then vomit all over the floor in my aisle and my clothes because I turned my head to avoid hitting my friends or any other people with the spray. I go back to the bathroom, throw up some more, attempt to clean myself up, and eventually admit defeat and call my roommate to come pick me up. I continued vomiting after I got home. Woke up this morning to find my friends dropped off my cup of mello yello and vodka. It is sitting on my kitchen counter now making me feel nauseous again. I feel terrible. I paid for a movie and snacks and then became a fountain of vomit. Didn't get to really watch the movie myself and probably ruined most of it for my friends. Not to mention the horrible mess I left for the theater workers.
drank way too much on an empty stomach, threw up beer, vodka, and popcorn all over myself and the theater floor, and had to leave after seeing maybe 1/3 of the movie
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by vomiting in a movie theater POST: Actually happened last night but I am now finally conscious enough to type. I am going out to see the Hobbit with a few friends. It's night and I haven't eaten since breakfast. Before the movies we go to a bar where I drink about 7 beers. I make the horrible decision that I am not drunk enough yet. We go back to my apartment where I do shots with various people. I do 4 in under 30 minutes. Now it's time for the movie. I continue my fuck up by deciding to sneak in a pint of vodka and dump about half of it in my theater drink. I quickly chug quite a bit of it and then the drunk hits me all at once. I realize Biblo Baggins head is doubling and I can't see straight. I begin to feel sick and make a run for the bathroom. I don't make it. I throw up in the dark hall leaving the theater. Get to the bathroom and throw up several more times. After a while I think I am going to be okay. I get up and go back into the movie. I have somehow managed to keep the vomit off my clothes up to this point. I have still have double vision. Make it through about 30 more minutes of the movie and feel the urge to vomit again. I only manage to stand up this time and then vomit all over the floor in my aisle and my clothes because I turned my head to avoid hitting my friends or any other people with the spray. I go back to the bathroom, throw up some more, attempt to clean myself up, and eventually admit defeat and call my roommate to come pick me up. I continued vomiting after I got home. Woke up this morning to find my friends dropped off my cup of mello yello and vodka. It is sitting on my kitchen counter now making me feel nauseous again. I feel terrible. I paid for a movie and snacks and then became a fountain of vomit. Didn't get to really watch the movie myself and probably ruined most of it for my friends. Not to mention the horrible mess I left for the theater workers. TL;DR:
drank way too much on an empty stomach, threw up beer, vodka, and popcorn all over myself and the theater floor, and had to leave after seeing maybe 1/3 of the movie<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by vomiting in a movie theater POST: Actually happened last night but I am now finally conscious enough to type. I am going out to see the Hobbit with a few friends. It's night and I haven't eaten since breakfast. Before the movies we go to a bar where I drink about 7 beers. I make the horrible decision that I am not drunk enough yet. We go back to my apartment where I do shots with various people. I do 4 in under 30 minutes. Now it's time for the movie. I continue my fuck up by deciding to sneak in a pint of vodka and dump about half of it in my theater drink. I quickly chug quite a bit of it and then the drunk hits me all at once. I realize Biblo Baggins head is doubling and I can't see straight. I begin to feel sick and make a run for the bathroom. I don't make it. I throw up in the dark hall leaving the theater. Get to the bathroom and throw up several more times. After a while I think I am going to be okay. I get up and go back into the movie. I have somehow managed to keep the vomit off my clothes up to this point. I have still have double vision. Make it through about 30 more minutes of the movie and feel the urge to vomit again. I only manage to stand up this time and then vomit all over the floor in my aisle and my clothes because I turned my head to avoid hitting my friends or any other people with the spray. I go back to the bathroom, throw up some more, attempt to clean myself up, and eventually admit defeat and call my roommate to come pick me up. I continued vomiting after I got home. Woke up this morning to find my friends dropped off my cup of mello yello and vodka. It is sitting on my kitchen counter now making me feel nauseous again. I feel terrible. I paid for a movie and snacks and then became a fountain of vomit. Didn't get to really watch the movie myself and probably ruined most of it for my friends. Not to mention the horrible mess I left for the theater workers. TL;DR: drank way too much on an empty stomach, threw up beer, vodka, and popcorn all over myself and the theater floor, and had to leave after seeing maybe 1/3 of the movie<|endoftext|>
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Me [18/m] and my gf [18/f] are moving away for college, do we continue our relationship?
So me and my gf are going to college in September and are going to be across the country from each other. We plan to not continue out relationship long distance, because we know that never really works out. We have been dating for a year now, and we both love each other very much. We are best friends, have great sex, and spend almost every possible minute together. We both are going to have busy summer jobs, her hours in the morning and my hours in the evening, almost every day. We are certainly not going to have as much time with each other over summer. The feeling of knowing when our relationship will end due to college has changed our relationship dramatically. I still love her a lot and want to continue making memories until we must absolutely stop, but she feels like she wants to slow it down so she doesn't feel as impacted when it's time to leave. What do you guys think is the best option? I can't imagine leaving her, but I also don't want her to feel hurt.
Both of us are going to college and we don't know whether to continue our relationship through summer before college or just end it to prevent a difficult start to college.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [18/m] and my gf [18/f] are moving away for college, do we continue our relationship? POST: So me and my gf are going to college in September and are going to be across the country from each other. We plan to not continue out relationship long distance, because we know that never really works out. We have been dating for a year now, and we both love each other very much. We are best friends, have great sex, and spend almost every possible minute together. We both are going to have busy summer jobs, her hours in the morning and my hours in the evening, almost every day. We are certainly not going to have as much time with each other over summer. The feeling of knowing when our relationship will end due to college has changed our relationship dramatically. I still love her a lot and want to continue making memories until we must absolutely stop, but she feels like she wants to slow it down so she doesn't feel as impacted when it's time to leave. What do you guys think is the best option? I can't imagine leaving her, but I also don't want her to feel hurt. TL;DR:
Both of us are going to college and we don't know whether to continue our relationship through summer before college or just end it to prevent a difficult start to college.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [18/m] and my gf [18/f] are moving away for college, do we continue our relationship? POST: So me and my gf are going to college in September and are going to be across the country from each other. We plan to not continue out relationship long distance, because we know that never really works out. We have been dating for a year now, and we both love each other very much. We are best friends, have great sex, and spend almost every possible minute together. We both are going to have busy summer jobs, her hours in the morning and my hours in the evening, almost every day. We are certainly not going to have as much time with each other over summer. The feeling of knowing when our relationship will end due to college has changed our relationship dramatically. I still love her a lot and want to continue making memories until we must absolutely stop, but she feels like she wants to slow it down so she doesn't feel as impacted when it's time to leave. What do you guys think is the best option? I can't imagine leaving her, but I also don't want her to feel hurt. TL;DR: Both of us are going to college and we don't know whether to continue our relationship through summer before college or just end it to prevent a difficult start to college.<|endoftext|>
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Inlaws [70 M/F] visiting and want to bring their cats. Both daughter & I are allergic.
Inlaws live in a different state. Also own a house in FL. We are located kinda in the middle. They want to stop by and stay with us on their drive back from FL. With their cats. I [34 F] am sensitive to pet dander and my daughter gets full on reactions from it. When we visit their houses, we make her take allergy medicine, we don't wear our coats inside and we wash anything we wore inside so the allergens don't linger. We stay in hotels and don't stay at their houses very long. Husband [43 M] says the cats can stay in the garage. I think it's thoughtless and disrespectful to bring an animal to the house of an allergic person. He is upset that I don't want them to come. (In fairness to him I don't like the idea of any family staying in my house...that's what hotels are for. But this is honestly about cats.) **Another important, very critical thing to mention - we JUST moved into a new house. Our things are still in boxes and all over the floor. We had tentatively discussed their visit in December but it was before we had to move. Now with a house that is still partially in boxes, I feel like it's really bad taste for a person to not realize how horrible the timing is.
Inlaws want to visit, with cats. Both daughter and I are allergic. We just moved into a new house, still unpacking. Am I the asshole for not wanting them to stay in my home?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Inlaws [70 M/F] visiting and want to bring their cats. Both daughter & I are allergic. POST: Inlaws live in a different state. Also own a house in FL. We are located kinda in the middle. They want to stop by and stay with us on their drive back from FL. With their cats. I [34 F] am sensitive to pet dander and my daughter gets full on reactions from it. When we visit their houses, we make her take allergy medicine, we don't wear our coats inside and we wash anything we wore inside so the allergens don't linger. We stay in hotels and don't stay at their houses very long. Husband [43 M] says the cats can stay in the garage. I think it's thoughtless and disrespectful to bring an animal to the house of an allergic person. He is upset that I don't want them to come. (In fairness to him I don't like the idea of any family staying in my house...that's what hotels are for. But this is honestly about cats.) **Another important, very critical thing to mention - we JUST moved into a new house. Our things are still in boxes and all over the floor. We had tentatively discussed their visit in December but it was before we had to move. Now with a house that is still partially in boxes, I feel like it's really bad taste for a person to not realize how horrible the timing is. TL;DR:
Inlaws want to visit, with cats. Both daughter and I are allergic. We just moved into a new house, still unpacking. Am I the asshole for not wanting them to stay in my home?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Inlaws [70 M/F] visiting and want to bring their cats. Both daughter & I are allergic. POST: Inlaws live in a different state. Also own a house in FL. We are located kinda in the middle. They want to stop by and stay with us on their drive back from FL. With their cats. I [34 F] am sensitive to pet dander and my daughter gets full on reactions from it. When we visit their houses, we make her take allergy medicine, we don't wear our coats inside and we wash anything we wore inside so the allergens don't linger. We stay in hotels and don't stay at their houses very long. Husband [43 M] says the cats can stay in the garage. I think it's thoughtless and disrespectful to bring an animal to the house of an allergic person. He is upset that I don't want them to come. (In fairness to him I don't like the idea of any family staying in my house...that's what hotels are for. But this is honestly about cats.) **Another important, very critical thing to mention - we JUST moved into a new house. Our things are still in boxes and all over the floor. We had tentatively discussed their visit in December but it was before we had to move. Now with a house that is still partially in boxes, I feel like it's really bad taste for a person to not realize how horrible the timing is. TL;DR: Inlaws want to visit, with cats. Both daughter and I are allergic. We just moved into a new house, still unpacking. Am I the asshole for not wanting them to stay in my home?<|endoftext|>
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Found a girl JUST like me... Is It Meant to Be?
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we're like the same person, but different genders. Would you take this as a sign from "above" (if you believe such things) that we're meant to be together?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found a girl JUST like me... Is It Meant to Be? POST: We have the same face-shape, eye color (A crazy, odd-looking wierd color, like a mix of brown and green), same hair-style (blonde, to the same degree - Of course, hers is more "femanine", but shorter.), VERY similar facial features, skin-color, etc, literally the same personallity and everything, too... We're both 23, born on the same (number) day, of different months etc. So much so, that even the things about us that almost nobody would have (personality type, wants, etc.), we've got... Like, it's almost supernatural... It's like we're meant to be. For those who believe in such things... Would you take this as a sign that she and I are meant to be together? (Sidenote. 100% positive we're not related, and we know each other to a decent degree, and it's very awesome seeing us interact apparently... people thought she was my twin, haha!!!!) I'd like to be in a relationship with her at some point... TL;DR:
we're like the same person, but different genders. Would you take this as a sign from "above" (if you believe such things) that we're meant to be together?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found a girl JUST like me... Is It Meant to Be? POST: We have the same face-shape, eye color (A crazy, odd-looking wierd color, like a mix of brown and green), same hair-style (blonde, to the same degree - Of course, hers is more "femanine", but shorter.), VERY similar facial features, skin-color, etc, literally the same personallity and everything, too... We're both 23, born on the same (number) day, of different months etc. So much so, that even the things about us that almost nobody would have (personality type, wants, etc.), we've got... Like, it's almost supernatural... It's like we're meant to be. For those who believe in such things... Would you take this as a sign that she and I are meant to be together? (Sidenote. 100% positive we're not related, and we know each other to a decent degree, and it's very awesome seeing us interact apparently... people thought she was my twin, haha!!!!) I'd like to be in a relationship with her at some point... TL;DR: we're like the same person, but different genders. Would you take this as a sign from "above" (if you believe such things) that we're meant to be together?<|endoftext|>
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Help! What should I do about my kitties & allergies?
Seeking advice. My mom recently developed allergies to our two cats (11&6yo). The medicine to keep it under control is not only expensive, but takes a few days/several doses before it kicks in. When she is not on the medicine, she is sick - runny nose, hard to breathe, cold like symptoms. I do not want to give away our cats, but is this is the only option? My heart would be broken if I had to get rid of my boy who has been with me for over half of my life. Have you been in this situation? Am I being irrational to want to keep them despite my mom's health? I cried for the entire day when she told me we need to find them a new home. She cleans their area/litter box 2x a day so she is tired of doing that too. My one cleaning per day evidently will not suffice her standards.
mom allergic to our cats, should we get rid of them even though I don't know how I would survive that?
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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Help! What should I do about my kitties & allergies? POST: Seeking advice. My mom recently developed allergies to our two cats (11&6yo). The medicine to keep it under control is not only expensive, but takes a few days/several doses before it kicks in. When she is not on the medicine, she is sick - runny nose, hard to breathe, cold like symptoms. I do not want to give away our cats, but is this is the only option? My heart would be broken if I had to get rid of my boy who has been with me for over half of my life. Have you been in this situation? Am I being irrational to want to keep them despite my mom's health? I cried for the entire day when she told me we need to find them a new home. She cleans their area/litter box 2x a day so she is tired of doing that too. My one cleaning per day evidently will not suffice her standards. TL;DR:
mom allergic to our cats, should we get rid of them even though I don't know how I would survive that?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Help! What should I do about my kitties & allergies? POST: Seeking advice. My mom recently developed allergies to our two cats (11&6yo). The medicine to keep it under control is not only expensive, but takes a few days/several doses before it kicks in. When she is not on the medicine, she is sick - runny nose, hard to breathe, cold like symptoms. I do not want to give away our cats, but is this is the only option? My heart would be broken if I had to get rid of my boy who has been with me for over half of my life. Have you been in this situation? Am I being irrational to want to keep them despite my mom's health? I cried for the entire day when she told me we need to find them a new home. She cleans their area/litter box 2x a day so she is tired of doing that too. My one cleaning per day evidently will not suffice her standards. TL;DR: mom allergic to our cats, should we get rid of them even though I don't know how I would survive that?<|endoftext|>
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I [20F] have a bf [24M] of 3 months but recently got in contact with an ex [24M]
I posted this in another subreddit but didn't get responses so I figured I'd try here! Hope you ladies can offer some help, support, and ideas. So let's get to the story. This past summer I was seeing a guy, let's call him John. John and I were together for only a few months before conflict arose. It was a really messed up situation and if you'd like more details I'd explain later but it's not really important. Long story short, we stopped speaking immediately after. Come a month or so later, I start seeing another guy who we'll call Al. Al and I have been together for 3 months and we're really happy. He makes me laugh so much and it doesn't hurt that the sex is wonderful. But he doesn't really have his life together. He's working two part time jobs, doesn't make much money, and has no real motivation to do something he loves. Now John recently messaged me saying he was sorry for what happened and that it was in no way my fault and he explained why what happened occurred. He is a wonderful, sweet man with dedication to farthering himself in life and doing what he loves. I don't know if I want to leave Al for John but I'm afraid if I don't I'll never have the chance with John that I wanted and still kind of want. I have always seen Al as more of a fun-time type of guy and haven't really expected anything long term but it still hurts to thinking about leaving him. John is definitely more of a long term guy and has the motivation in life that I also have and look for.
John and I had a conflict, now talking again. Al and I are dating but Al doesn't have his life together. John does. I still like John.
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [20F] have a bf [24M] of 3 months but recently got in contact with an ex [24M] POST: I posted this in another subreddit but didn't get responses so I figured I'd try here! Hope you ladies can offer some help, support, and ideas. So let's get to the story. This past summer I was seeing a guy, let's call him John. John and I were together for only a few months before conflict arose. It was a really messed up situation and if you'd like more details I'd explain later but it's not really important. Long story short, we stopped speaking immediately after. Come a month or so later, I start seeing another guy who we'll call Al. Al and I have been together for 3 months and we're really happy. He makes me laugh so much and it doesn't hurt that the sex is wonderful. But he doesn't really have his life together. He's working two part time jobs, doesn't make much money, and has no real motivation to do something he loves. Now John recently messaged me saying he was sorry for what happened and that it was in no way my fault and he explained why what happened occurred. He is a wonderful, sweet man with dedication to farthering himself in life and doing what he loves. I don't know if I want to leave Al for John but I'm afraid if I don't I'll never have the chance with John that I wanted and still kind of want. I have always seen Al as more of a fun-time type of guy and haven't really expected anything long term but it still hurts to thinking about leaving him. John is definitely more of a long term guy and has the motivation in life that I also have and look for. TL;DR:
John and I had a conflict, now talking again. Al and I are dating but Al doesn't have his life together. John does. I still like John.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [20F] have a bf [24M] of 3 months but recently got in contact with an ex [24M] POST: I posted this in another subreddit but didn't get responses so I figured I'd try here! Hope you ladies can offer some help, support, and ideas. So let's get to the story. This past summer I was seeing a guy, let's call him John. John and I were together for only a few months before conflict arose. It was a really messed up situation and if you'd like more details I'd explain later but it's not really important. Long story short, we stopped speaking immediately after. Come a month or so later, I start seeing another guy who we'll call Al. Al and I have been together for 3 months and we're really happy. He makes me laugh so much and it doesn't hurt that the sex is wonderful. But he doesn't really have his life together. He's working two part time jobs, doesn't make much money, and has no real motivation to do something he loves. Now John recently messaged me saying he was sorry for what happened and that it was in no way my fault and he explained why what happened occurred. He is a wonderful, sweet man with dedication to farthering himself in life and doing what he loves. I don't know if I want to leave Al for John but I'm afraid if I don't I'll never have the chance with John that I wanted and still kind of want. I have always seen Al as more of a fun-time type of guy and haven't really expected anything long term but it still hurts to thinking about leaving him. John is definitely more of a long term guy and has the motivation in life that I also have and look for. TL;DR: John and I had a conflict, now talking again. Al and I are dating but Al doesn't have his life together. John does. I still like John.<|endoftext|>
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Family disapproves of current bf. Not sure what to do.
I [19 F] have been dating my current boyfriend [20 M] for 3 months now and I really like the guy. Unfortunately, my parents and sister really disapprove of him because he used to smoke pot. (He has been clean for more than 6 months and plans to keep it that way.)   This is becoming more and more of a problem because I am still living with my parents and they have forbidden me from seeing him. Since we go to different universities and my parents expect me to be home as soon as classes finish, I am having a hard time finding a time to see my boyfriend. Texting is our only method of communication, at the moment.   So Reddit, I need some advice. Should I continue on with this relationship? If yes, how can this relationship progress? Or should I focus more on school? Move out of my parents' place? I know a 3 months long relationship shouldn't weigh so much on my heart but I really like the guy and I know he likes me.
I live with my parents. Family don't like current boyfriend of 3 months. Can't see boyfriend but want relationship to continue. Don't know how the relationship can continue.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Family disapproves of current bf. Not sure what to do. POST: I [19 F] have been dating my current boyfriend [20 M] for 3 months now and I really like the guy. Unfortunately, my parents and sister really disapprove of him because he used to smoke pot. (He has been clean for more than 6 months and plans to keep it that way.)   This is becoming more and more of a problem because I am still living with my parents and they have forbidden me from seeing him. Since we go to different universities and my parents expect me to be home as soon as classes finish, I am having a hard time finding a time to see my boyfriend. Texting is our only method of communication, at the moment.   So Reddit, I need some advice. Should I continue on with this relationship? If yes, how can this relationship progress? Or should I focus more on school? Move out of my parents' place? I know a 3 months long relationship shouldn't weigh so much on my heart but I really like the guy and I know he likes me. TL;DR:
I live with my parents. Family don't like current boyfriend of 3 months. Can't see boyfriend but want relationship to continue. Don't know how the relationship can continue.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Family disapproves of current bf. Not sure what to do. POST: I [19 F] have been dating my current boyfriend [20 M] for 3 months now and I really like the guy. Unfortunately, my parents and sister really disapprove of him because he used to smoke pot. (He has been clean for more than 6 months and plans to keep it that way.)   This is becoming more and more of a problem because I am still living with my parents and they have forbidden me from seeing him. Since we go to different universities and my parents expect me to be home as soon as classes finish, I am having a hard time finding a time to see my boyfriend. Texting is our only method of communication, at the moment.   So Reddit, I need some advice. Should I continue on with this relationship? If yes, how can this relationship progress? Or should I focus more on school? Move out of my parents' place? I know a 3 months long relationship shouldn't weigh so much on my heart but I really like the guy and I know he likes me. TL;DR: I live with my parents. Family don't like current boyfriend of 3 months. Can't see boyfriend but want relationship to continue. Don't know how the relationship can continue.<|endoftext|>
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competing for time with gf's parents
I am in the town where both my GF and my parents live for three days and I got the chance to take the trip rather suddenly. Turns out her parents are in town for this weekend. I spent about two hours with her and the rest of the time she has spent with her parents without me even being invited to tag along. I tried to invite them all to dinner with me and my parents and they said no. Is this something to be upset over. I feel like I have to compete with her parents for her time instead of her trying to at least try to fit me into her schedule. (Her parents live three hours away so its not an unusual occurrence for her to see them). Am I right in feeling upset and is there a way I can say this without coming off as trying to get between her and her parents? Ages 25 and 24 and We have been dating four years distance for two
I am in town and will not be able to see my long distance GF because she is spending all her time with her parents
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: competing for time with gf's parents POST: I am in the town where both my GF and my parents live for three days and I got the chance to take the trip rather suddenly. Turns out her parents are in town for this weekend. I spent about two hours with her and the rest of the time she has spent with her parents without me even being invited to tag along. I tried to invite them all to dinner with me and my parents and they said no. Is this something to be upset over. I feel like I have to compete with her parents for her time instead of her trying to at least try to fit me into her schedule. (Her parents live three hours away so its not an unusual occurrence for her to see them). Am I right in feeling upset and is there a way I can say this without coming off as trying to get between her and her parents? Ages 25 and 24 and We have been dating four years distance for two TL;DR:
I am in town and will not be able to see my long distance GF because she is spending all her time with her parents<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: competing for time with gf's parents POST: I am in the town where both my GF and my parents live for three days and I got the chance to take the trip rather suddenly. Turns out her parents are in town for this weekend. I spent about two hours with her and the rest of the time she has spent with her parents without me even being invited to tag along. I tried to invite them all to dinner with me and my parents and they said no. Is this something to be upset over. I feel like I have to compete with her parents for her time instead of her trying to at least try to fit me into her schedule. (Her parents live three hours away so its not an unusual occurrence for her to see them). Am I right in feeling upset and is there a way I can say this without coming off as trying to get between her and her parents? Ages 25 and 24 and We have been dating four years distance for two TL;DR: I am in town and will not be able to see my long distance GF because she is spending all her time with her parents<|endoftext|>
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I've [18M] has started university, my new friend [18M] is trying to hit on a girl [19F] i really like. He knows i like her, and said he wasn't flirting. What do i do? I don't wanna lose one of my only friends.
I started university about a month ago. I made a friend on my first day. A nice guy, I also kept my eye on a certain girl (Meg), so I started talking to her and everything started going well, until my friend, let's call him Redge, started hitting on Meg. Whenever I'm with her, he's there. I've told him I like her, to which he replied saying that he'd never try anything... The annoying thing is that he's very close to a girl (Ellie) back at his previous home (circa uni home) and she's coming up next Friday, yet in the presence of the Meg, he refers to Ellie as a 'mate'. What should I do? I don't want to lose my only friend on my course. But I also want him to know I'm not comfortable with his conduct.
new friend i made on my course is basically flirting with a girl i like. Is it worth losing a friend over a girl who may or may not be into me?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [18M] has started university, my new friend [18M] is trying to hit on a girl [19F] i really like. He knows i like her, and said he wasn't flirting. What do i do? I don't wanna lose one of my only friends. POST: I started university about a month ago. I made a friend on my first day. A nice guy, I also kept my eye on a certain girl (Meg), so I started talking to her and everything started going well, until my friend, let's call him Redge, started hitting on Meg. Whenever I'm with her, he's there. I've told him I like her, to which he replied saying that he'd never try anything... The annoying thing is that he's very close to a girl (Ellie) back at his previous home (circa uni home) and she's coming up next Friday, yet in the presence of the Meg, he refers to Ellie as a'mate'. What should I do? I don't want to lose my only friend on my course. But I also want him to know I'm not comfortable with his conduct. TL;DR:
new friend i made on my course is basically flirting with a girl i like. Is it worth losing a friend over a girl who may or may not be into me? <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [18M] has started university, my new friend [18M] is trying to hit on a girl [19F] i really like. He knows i like her, and said he wasn't flirting. What do i do? I don't wanna lose one of my only friends. POST: I started university about a month ago. I made a friend on my first day. A nice guy, I also kept my eye on a certain girl (Meg), so I started talking to her and everything started going well, until my friend, let's call him Redge, started hitting on Meg. Whenever I'm with her, he's there. I've told him I like her, to which he replied saying that he'd never try anything... The annoying thing is that he's very close to a girl (Ellie) back at his previous home (circa uni home) and she's coming up next Friday, yet in the presence of the Meg, he refers to Ellie as a'mate'. What should I do? I don't want to lose my only friend on my course. But I also want him to know I'm not comfortable with his conduct. TL;DR: new friend i made on my course is basically flirting with a girl i like. Is it worth losing a friend over a girl who may or may not be into me? <|endoftext|>
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Me [19 M] with [18 f] week, first date and panicking. Don't quite understand the norm for dating vs relationship. Help appreciated!
This is my first post here so sorry if it's horridly formatted or I miss something. Basically I met a girl on okcupid recently, we've really hit it off, and have been texting the entire week. I asked her on a date this weekend, she said yes. awesome! However I have no clue what the social norms are for something like this. I don't know what to call her if someone were to ask what we are, I don't know if it's normal for after a date to ask to turn it into a relationship, I don't know the words to use or if that's even a normal question. I know none of it. I'm terribly new to all of this and an really looking for some basic help do that I can maybe pull this off. I'm not too worried about the date itself, just how to handle the above and whether a kiss or hug upon the end of the date or if hugging at the begining is okay or any of it, I know it is pretty situational. But yeah. Sorry to be a deer in headlights right now but I'm just annoyingly nervous with this whole thing.
So, 19 year old that knows nothing of dating norms needs to be rescued by some assistance. Care to help? Thanks in advance to any serious assistance.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with [18 f] week, first date and panicking. Don't quite understand the norm for dating vs relationship. Help appreciated! POST: This is my first post here so sorry if it's horridly formatted or I miss something. Basically I met a girl on okcupid recently, we've really hit it off, and have been texting the entire week. I asked her on a date this weekend, she said yes. awesome! However I have no clue what the social norms are for something like this. I don't know what to call her if someone were to ask what we are, I don't know if it's normal for after a date to ask to turn it into a relationship, I don't know the words to use or if that's even a normal question. I know none of it. I'm terribly new to all of this and an really looking for some basic help do that I can maybe pull this off. I'm not too worried about the date itself, just how to handle the above and whether a kiss or hug upon the end of the date or if hugging at the begining is okay or any of it, I know it is pretty situational. But yeah. Sorry to be a deer in headlights right now but I'm just annoyingly nervous with this whole thing. TL;DR:
So, 19 year old that knows nothing of dating norms needs to be rescued by some assistance. Care to help? Thanks in advance to any serious assistance.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with [18 f] week, first date and panicking. Don't quite understand the norm for dating vs relationship. Help appreciated! POST: This is my first post here so sorry if it's horridly formatted or I miss something. Basically I met a girl on okcupid recently, we've really hit it off, and have been texting the entire week. I asked her on a date this weekend, she said yes. awesome! However I have no clue what the social norms are for something like this. I don't know what to call her if someone were to ask what we are, I don't know if it's normal for after a date to ask to turn it into a relationship, I don't know the words to use or if that's even a normal question. I know none of it. I'm terribly new to all of this and an really looking for some basic help do that I can maybe pull this off. I'm not too worried about the date itself, just how to handle the above and whether a kiss or hug upon the end of the date or if hugging at the begining is okay or any of it, I know it is pretty situational. But yeah. Sorry to be a deer in headlights right now but I'm just annoyingly nervous with this whole thing. TL;DR: So, 19 year old that knows nothing of dating norms needs to be rescued by some assistance. Care to help? Thanks in advance to any serious assistance.<|endoftext|>
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I (19/m) don't want to be reminded of her (17/f) everyday. Is there a specific amount of time I should wait before I get rid of the old gifts?
My ex and I were together for two years and I saw myself getting married with her in the future. The road was bumpy for a while before we called it quits. She broke up with me because I was mad that she hung around guys and I wasn't even allowed to so much as talk to other girls. Although it was unfair, I knew I was not at wrong here. She's moved on, not in the sense of finding someone else, but she hasn't talked to me in *well* over a month. I don't want to look like an ungrateful bastard by disposing of the things, but I feel like keeping them would only make things worse for me. I want to start the new year off on the right foot and look forward to the year, not look back two years back. If it were up to me, I would keep the things forever, but there are some that are shirts and a framed picture of her and love notes. It honestly doesn't seem like the relationship mattered to her, so I don't want to be the guy who tries to force anything into happening. I've already tried to patch things up, but she's blocked me and changed her number and doesn't want anything to do with me. Please help.
I don't want to trash my ex's stuff, but I feel like keeping it will make me mope. I need advice on what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (19/m) don't want to be reminded of her (17/f) everyday. Is there a specific amount of time I should wait before I get rid of the old gifts? POST: My ex and I were together for two years and I saw myself getting married with her in the future. The road was bumpy for a while before we called it quits. She broke up with me because I was mad that she hung around guys and I wasn't even allowed to so much as talk to other girls. Although it was unfair, I knew I was not at wrong here. She's moved on, not in the sense of finding someone else, but she hasn't talked to me in *well* over a month. I don't want to look like an ungrateful bastard by disposing of the things, but I feel like keeping them would only make things worse for me. I want to start the new year off on the right foot and look forward to the year, not look back two years back. If it were up to me, I would keep the things forever, but there are some that are shirts and a framed picture of her and love notes. It honestly doesn't seem like the relationship mattered to her, so I don't want to be the guy who tries to force anything into happening. I've already tried to patch things up, but she's blocked me and changed her number and doesn't want anything to do with me. Please help. TL;DR:
I don't want to trash my ex's stuff, but I feel like keeping it will make me mope. I need advice on what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (19/m) don't want to be reminded of her (17/f) everyday. Is there a specific amount of time I should wait before I get rid of the old gifts? POST: My ex and I were together for two years and I saw myself getting married with her in the future. The road was bumpy for a while before we called it quits. She broke up with me because I was mad that she hung around guys and I wasn't even allowed to so much as talk to other girls. Although it was unfair, I knew I was not at wrong here. She's moved on, not in the sense of finding someone else, but she hasn't talked to me in *well* over a month. I don't want to look like an ungrateful bastard by disposing of the things, but I feel like keeping them would only make things worse for me. I want to start the new year off on the right foot and look forward to the year, not look back two years back. If it were up to me, I would keep the things forever, but there are some that are shirts and a framed picture of her and love notes. It honestly doesn't seem like the relationship mattered to her, so I don't want to be the guy who tries to force anything into happening. I've already tried to patch things up, but she's blocked me and changed her number and doesn't want anything to do with me. Please help. TL;DR: I don't want to trash my ex's stuff, but I feel like keeping it will make me mope. I need advice on what to do.<|endoftext|>
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What is something that happened to you that was so strange or surreal that you only fully processed it after it had happened?
The other day I was sitting in my car at a red light. There was a man entering the crosswalk to the left of me. He was wearing dirty clothes and walking very strangely (all hunched over and staggering). I'm assuming he was homeless. Instead of sticking to the crosswalk and walking in front of my car he veered off onto the road walking towards the back of my car. I assumed he was just cutting across to the sidewalk to save some time so I kept looking forward. At the last second I got this really strange feeling that something was wrong so I looked behind me just in time to see his hand reach out and try my back-drivers side door. Thankfully it was locked. We made brief eye contact and he just sort of walked away. The light turned green and I drove away. A minute or two later I kind of realized what had just happened. Did he just try to carjack me? Why the fuck didn't I react at all? I think the strangeness of the whole situation made it take a couple minutes to fully sink in.
Homeless guy tries to get in my back seat. I don't fully realize it until I'm a couple miles down the road.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is something that happened to you that was so strange or surreal that you only fully processed it after it had happened? POST: The other day I was sitting in my car at a red light. There was a man entering the crosswalk to the left of me. He was wearing dirty clothes and walking very strangely (all hunched over and staggering). I'm assuming he was homeless. Instead of sticking to the crosswalk and walking in front of my car he veered off onto the road walking towards the back of my car. I assumed he was just cutting across to the sidewalk to save some time so I kept looking forward. At the last second I got this really strange feeling that something was wrong so I looked behind me just in time to see his hand reach out and try my back-drivers side door. Thankfully it was locked. We made brief eye contact and he just sort of walked away. The light turned green and I drove away. A minute or two later I kind of realized what had just happened. Did he just try to carjack me? Why the fuck didn't I react at all? I think the strangeness of the whole situation made it take a couple minutes to fully sink in. TL;DR:
Homeless guy tries to get in my back seat. I don't fully realize it until I'm a couple miles down the road.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is something that happened to you that was so strange or surreal that you only fully processed it after it had happened? POST: The other day I was sitting in my car at a red light. There was a man entering the crosswalk to the left of me. He was wearing dirty clothes and walking very strangely (all hunched over and staggering). I'm assuming he was homeless. Instead of sticking to the crosswalk and walking in front of my car he veered off onto the road walking towards the back of my car. I assumed he was just cutting across to the sidewalk to save some time so I kept looking forward. At the last second I got this really strange feeling that something was wrong so I looked behind me just in time to see his hand reach out and try my back-drivers side door. Thankfully it was locked. We made brief eye contact and he just sort of walked away. The light turned green and I drove away. A minute or two later I kind of realized what had just happened. Did he just try to carjack me? Why the fuck didn't I react at all? I think the strangeness of the whole situation made it take a couple minutes to fully sink in. TL;DR: Homeless guy tries to get in my back seat. I don't fully realize it until I'm a couple miles down the road.<|endoftext|>
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Me [25 /F] being asked to apologize to woman [30 /F], for a short-lived emotional fling with her BF.
There's a guy I've worked with for about a year who I'm really attracted to, probably because we spend a lot of time together, he's incredibly smart, our interests are closely aligned, and my own long-term relationship was down the drain (officially over as of two days ago, but not the reason I'm here). I went on a work trip with said coworker a week ago, during which time we talked about (a) we both are attracted to each other (b) nothing could ever happen for us to act on those feelings because that's crazy because we don't know each other and were both in relationships and (c) we hugged for a long time. Nothing happened after that. We went out to coffee during work hours a few times after we got back and talked through how we're both in weird situations, and the feelings we have probably aren't about us, but about our uncertainty about the relationships we were in. We decided to keep our distance. This was all decided within a few days. It probably could have been fine and faded away, but (props to him), he spilled the beans about it to his girlfriend of 7 years and she is now demanding I meet face-to-face to apologize. What do I do? My first reaction is that it's not going to bring any good. But if it's what it takes to make her feel better and make his relationship right, I'm of course going to do it. I don't really know what to apologize for, though. I can't apologize for being attracted. I can probably apologize for telling him about it. I think she should respect the fact that he didn't act on any feelings he expressed. Do I apologize for hugging him? I just feel really awkward about the whole thing. Advice please.
Exchanged admissions with a co-worker that we have feelings for each other. Didn't act on them. Decided to keep our distance. His gf still wants a face-to-face apology. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 /F] being asked to apologize to woman [30 /F], for a short-lived emotional fling with her BF. POST: There's a guy I've worked with for about a year who I'm really attracted to, probably because we spend a lot of time together, he's incredibly smart, our interests are closely aligned, and my own long-term relationship was down the drain (officially over as of two days ago, but not the reason I'm here). I went on a work trip with said coworker a week ago, during which time we talked about (a) we both are attracted to each other (b) nothing could ever happen for us to act on those feelings because that's crazy because we don't know each other and were both in relationships and (c) we hugged for a long time. Nothing happened after that. We went out to coffee during work hours a few times after we got back and talked through how we're both in weird situations, and the feelings we have probably aren't about us, but about our uncertainty about the relationships we were in. We decided to keep our distance. This was all decided within a few days. It probably could have been fine and faded away, but (props to him), he spilled the beans about it to his girlfriend of 7 years and she is now demanding I meet face-to-face to apologize. What do I do? My first reaction is that it's not going to bring any good. But if it's what it takes to make her feel better and make his relationship right, I'm of course going to do it. I don't really know what to apologize for, though. I can't apologize for being attracted. I can probably apologize for telling him about it. I think she should respect the fact that he didn't act on any feelings he expressed. Do I apologize for hugging him? I just feel really awkward about the whole thing. Advice please. TL;DR:
Exchanged admissions with a co-worker that we have feelings for each other. Didn't act on them. Decided to keep our distance. His gf still wants a face-to-face apology. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 /F] being asked to apologize to woman [30 /F], for a short-lived emotional fling with her BF. POST: There's a guy I've worked with for about a year who I'm really attracted to, probably because we spend a lot of time together, he's incredibly smart, our interests are closely aligned, and my own long-term relationship was down the drain (officially over as of two days ago, but not the reason I'm here). I went on a work trip with said coworker a week ago, during which time we talked about (a) we both are attracted to each other (b) nothing could ever happen for us to act on those feelings because that's crazy because we don't know each other and were both in relationships and (c) we hugged for a long time. Nothing happened after that. We went out to coffee during work hours a few times after we got back and talked through how we're both in weird situations, and the feelings we have probably aren't about us, but about our uncertainty about the relationships we were in. We decided to keep our distance. This was all decided within a few days. It probably could have been fine and faded away, but (props to him), he spilled the beans about it to his girlfriend of 7 years and she is now demanding I meet face-to-face to apologize. What do I do? My first reaction is that it's not going to bring any good. But if it's what it takes to make her feel better and make his relationship right, I'm of course going to do it. I don't really know what to apologize for, though. I can't apologize for being attracted. I can probably apologize for telling him about it. I think she should respect the fact that he didn't act on any feelings he expressed. Do I apologize for hugging him? I just feel really awkward about the whole thing. Advice please. TL;DR: Exchanged admissions with a co-worker that we have feelings for each other. Didn't act on them. Decided to keep our distance. His gf still wants a face-to-face apology. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by likely ruining my life and my best friend's life as well
This monumental fuck up has been building up over the past few months and finally culminated today. Some Back-story: in January I started my first semester of college, I started talking to this girl that I will refer to as "Jen". We both are 19 and live with our families, Jen however can't move out since her mother is a piece of shit that doesn't feel like raising all of Jen's siblings, so the responsibility falls on Jen. We started hooking up, now normally that would be okay but not in her case. Her mother controls her whole life so, we had to sneak around before she had to go home. Having to do this lead us to start skipping class so we could hang out. We hit a rough patch when we both realized her mother would find out about us being together and called it off. I admittedly fell for Jen. Out of sadness, I began drinking Jack Daniels and smoking pot like I used to in High School. My family found out about this and were very upset because they thought I had quit that stuff. They threatened to throw me out. The two of us stayed friends because our friends wanted us too. Jen told me she had never smoked pot before and wanted to try it, so I obligated and smoked with her for her first time. after that she disappeared for this past week and no one could find her. Today: I get a message from Jen saying she wasn't coming back to campus because her mother took her phone and went through ALL of our messages and found out about us hooking up and me smoking with her.
I failed myself and a good friend out of college, got her barred from ever seeing me again or coming back to campus, and almost got myself thrown out. Moral of the story is stay in school and drugs actually are bad.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by likely ruining my life and my best friend's life as well POST: This monumental fuck up has been building up over the past few months and finally culminated today. Some Back-story: in January I started my first semester of college, I started talking to this girl that I will refer to as "Jen". We both are 19 and live with our families, Jen however can't move out since her mother is a piece of shit that doesn't feel like raising all of Jen's siblings, so the responsibility falls on Jen. We started hooking up, now normally that would be okay but not in her case. Her mother controls her whole life so, we had to sneak around before she had to go home. Having to do this lead us to start skipping class so we could hang out. We hit a rough patch when we both realized her mother would find out about us being together and called it off. I admittedly fell for Jen. Out of sadness, I began drinking Jack Daniels and smoking pot like I used to in High School. My family found out about this and were very upset because they thought I had quit that stuff. They threatened to throw me out. The two of us stayed friends because our friends wanted us too. Jen told me she had never smoked pot before and wanted to try it, so I obligated and smoked with her for her first time. after that she disappeared for this past week and no one could find her. Today: I get a message from Jen saying she wasn't coming back to campus because her mother took her phone and went through ALL of our messages and found out about us hooking up and me smoking with her. TL;DR:
I failed myself and a good friend out of college, got her barred from ever seeing me again or coming back to campus, and almost got myself thrown out. Moral of the story is stay in school and drugs actually are bad.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by likely ruining my life and my best friend's life as well POST: This monumental fuck up has been building up over the past few months and finally culminated today. Some Back-story: in January I started my first semester of college, I started talking to this girl that I will refer to as "Jen". We both are 19 and live with our families, Jen however can't move out since her mother is a piece of shit that doesn't feel like raising all of Jen's siblings, so the responsibility falls on Jen. We started hooking up, now normally that would be okay but not in her case. Her mother controls her whole life so, we had to sneak around before she had to go home. Having to do this lead us to start skipping class so we could hang out. We hit a rough patch when we both realized her mother would find out about us being together and called it off. I admittedly fell for Jen. Out of sadness, I began drinking Jack Daniels and smoking pot like I used to in High School. My family found out about this and were very upset because they thought I had quit that stuff. They threatened to throw me out. The two of us stayed friends because our friends wanted us too. Jen told me she had never smoked pot before and wanted to try it, so I obligated and smoked with her for her first time. after that she disappeared for this past week and no one could find her. Today: I get a message from Jen saying she wasn't coming back to campus because her mother took her phone and went through ALL of our messages and found out about us hooking up and me smoking with her. TL;DR: I failed myself and a good friend out of college, got her barred from ever seeing me again or coming back to campus, and almost got myself thrown out. Moral of the story is stay in school and drugs actually are bad.<|endoftext|>
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What's the biggest lie that you've ever told? I'll start.
Mine isn't really that bad, but it has scarred me for life. In kindergarten, I had a friend named George. One day, I told George a funny (and inappropriate) song that I had heard somewhere. I don't really remember where I heard the song or why it was inappropriate, but remember, this was in kindergarten. So I'm pretty sure that it just said the word "stupid" or "butt" or something like that. However, at that age, we both thought that this song was hilarious. Anyway, I told him the song, and I specifically told him to NEVER tell it to anybody else, and especially not to tell people that he heard it from me. Well, later in the day, the teacher comes up to me, and she's holding a crying George by the arm. She screams, "PokeSalad! George was singing a song that was very inappropriate, and he said that you taught it to him! Is this true?!?" Through a ton of tears, George cried, "Yeah! Tell her, PokeSalad! Tell her that you taught it to me!" Without skipping a beat, I calmly reply, "Mrs. Derp, I have no idea what he's talking about." The teacher screamed at George, "I KNEW IT! YOU LIAR!" She then pulled him out of the room as he screamed in defiance. I honestly have no clue what happened to him, or where he is now.....
I told an inappropriate song to a classmate and then lied about ever telling it to him, which may have put his life in jeopardy from a crazy teacher.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest lie that you've ever told? I'll start. POST: Mine isn't really that bad, but it has scarred me for life. In kindergarten, I had a friend named George. One day, I told George a funny (and inappropriate) song that I had heard somewhere. I don't really remember where I heard the song or why it was inappropriate, but remember, this was in kindergarten. So I'm pretty sure that it just said the word "stupid" or "butt" or something like that. However, at that age, we both thought that this song was hilarious. Anyway, I told him the song, and I specifically told him to NEVER tell it to anybody else, and especially not to tell people that he heard it from me. Well, later in the day, the teacher comes up to me, and she's holding a crying George by the arm. She screams, "PokeSalad! George was singing a song that was very inappropriate, and he said that you taught it to him! Is this true?!?" Through a ton of tears, George cried, "Yeah! Tell her, PokeSalad! Tell her that you taught it to me!" Without skipping a beat, I calmly reply, "Mrs. Derp, I have no idea what he's talking about." The teacher screamed at George, "I KNEW IT! YOU LIAR!" She then pulled him out of the room as he screamed in defiance. I honestly have no clue what happened to him, or where he is now..... TL;DR:
I told an inappropriate song to a classmate and then lied about ever telling it to him, which may have put his life in jeopardy from a crazy teacher.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest lie that you've ever told? I'll start. POST: Mine isn't really that bad, but it has scarred me for life. In kindergarten, I had a friend named George. One day, I told George a funny (and inappropriate) song that I had heard somewhere. I don't really remember where I heard the song or why it was inappropriate, but remember, this was in kindergarten. So I'm pretty sure that it just said the word "stupid" or "butt" or something like that. However, at that age, we both thought that this song was hilarious. Anyway, I told him the song, and I specifically told him to NEVER tell it to anybody else, and especially not to tell people that he heard it from me. Well, later in the day, the teacher comes up to me, and she's holding a crying George by the arm. She screams, "PokeSalad! George was singing a song that was very inappropriate, and he said that you taught it to him! Is this true?!?" Through a ton of tears, George cried, "Yeah! Tell her, PokeSalad! Tell her that you taught it to me!" Without skipping a beat, I calmly reply, "Mrs. Derp, I have no idea what he's talking about." The teacher screamed at George, "I KNEW IT! YOU LIAR!" She then pulled him out of the room as he screamed in defiance. I honestly have no clue what happened to him, or where he is now..... TL;DR: I told an inappropriate song to a classmate and then lied about ever telling it to him, which may have put his life in jeopardy from a crazy teacher.<|endoftext|>
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[23/m] About a week ago, I began dating one of my closest friends [22/f] of over 4 years. How fast is too fast to progress the relationship?
Let me just start by saying both of us feel totally comfortable saying that we love each other. In my heart, I feel I do and she has told me the same. We have been friends for years, and it was only just recently I finally managed to bring up the courage to progress our friendship to being in a relationship. We have been very clear with each other with communicating how we feel and what we want. It just felt natural for us to go from friends to best friends to being romantic partners. We had the intention of taking things slow, but there's quite a bit of sexual tension between us that makes that difficult. We've already made out once, there was some touching/fondling (clothes stayed on) but nothing past second base. We have both declared we are in love with each other (which I know on my end is true, and I don't in any way doubt her saying it either). At this point we have already talking about "how fast is too fast" for us, and we are conflicted over taking it slow because we don't want to ruin anything, versus just going for it because we don't care, we know how we feel about each other. I'm kind of in the mentality that we've been close friends for so long, I know how I feel about her, we already shared so much with each other even before I asked her out. It's been like a week and half, so I realize how crazy fast we have been going already, both by saying we're in love and with the desire for physical romance. But the thing is, it's not like we're dating to get to know each other, we already know and trust each other a lot. Would it be wrong or destructive to our relationship if we were to just let ourselves progress the relationship quickly? If anyone has any personal experience with something similar, or just has some good advice or thoughts on this, I would be very appreciative.
How fast is too fast to say "I love you" and become sexually active with the person you are in a relationship with if they are one of your best friends?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] About a week ago, I began dating one of my closest friends [22/f] of over 4 years. How fast is too fast to progress the relationship? POST: Let me just start by saying both of us feel totally comfortable saying that we love each other. In my heart, I feel I do and she has told me the same. We have been friends for years, and it was only just recently I finally managed to bring up the courage to progress our friendship to being in a relationship. We have been very clear with each other with communicating how we feel and what we want. It just felt natural for us to go from friends to best friends to being romantic partners. We had the intention of taking things slow, but there's quite a bit of sexual tension between us that makes that difficult. We've already made out once, there was some touching/fondling (clothes stayed on) but nothing past second base. We have both declared we are in love with each other (which I know on my end is true, and I don't in any way doubt her saying it either). At this point we have already talking about "how fast is too fast" for us, and we are conflicted over taking it slow because we don't want to ruin anything, versus just going for it because we don't care, we know how we feel about each other. I'm kind of in the mentality that we've been close friends for so long, I know how I feel about her, we already shared so much with each other even before I asked her out. It's been like a week and half, so I realize how crazy fast we have been going already, both by saying we're in love and with the desire for physical romance. But the thing is, it's not like we're dating to get to know each other, we already know and trust each other a lot. Would it be wrong or destructive to our relationship if we were to just let ourselves progress the relationship quickly? If anyone has any personal experience with something similar, or just has some good advice or thoughts on this, I would be very appreciative. TL;DR:
How fast is too fast to say "I love you" and become sexually active with the person you are in a relationship with if they are one of your best friends?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] About a week ago, I began dating one of my closest friends [22/f] of over 4 years. How fast is too fast to progress the relationship? POST: Let me just start by saying both of us feel totally comfortable saying that we love each other. In my heart, I feel I do and she has told me the same. We have been friends for years, and it was only just recently I finally managed to bring up the courage to progress our friendship to being in a relationship. We have been very clear with each other with communicating how we feel and what we want. It just felt natural for us to go from friends to best friends to being romantic partners. We had the intention of taking things slow, but there's quite a bit of sexual tension between us that makes that difficult. We've already made out once, there was some touching/fondling (clothes stayed on) but nothing past second base. We have both declared we are in love with each other (which I know on my end is true, and I don't in any way doubt her saying it either). At this point we have already talking about "how fast is too fast" for us, and we are conflicted over taking it slow because we don't want to ruin anything, versus just going for it because we don't care, we know how we feel about each other. I'm kind of in the mentality that we've been close friends for so long, I know how I feel about her, we already shared so much with each other even before I asked her out. It's been like a week and half, so I realize how crazy fast we have been going already, both by saying we're in love and with the desire for physical romance. But the thing is, it's not like we're dating to get to know each other, we already know and trust each other a lot. Would it be wrong or destructive to our relationship if we were to just let ourselves progress the relationship quickly? If anyone has any personal experience with something similar, or just has some good advice or thoughts on this, I would be very appreciative. TL;DR: How fast is too fast to say "I love you" and become sexually active with the person you are in a relationship with if they are one of your best friends?<|endoftext|>
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How do you save a long distance relationship?
Me (20F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. We are still in the same country, but live about a 7 hour drive from each other. At first it was tough, I weeped all the way home the first time I left. Over time, it wasn't so tough. I still missed him of course.... I don't know. I feel like we lost a spark, or it fizzled. I feel like it's lost it's spark since I got a new job that is full time for me, and that means we don't get to see each other as often now that I have two jobs. I can't blame it on that I suppose, but maybe that contributed. He admitted when I pulled him up on it that he did want to move in with me, he just didn't say it. I feel like if he mentioned it back then, things would be different now. We kind of split up last night... And I initiated it. I don't know if I did the right thing or not. I'm very confused. He told me we could try and save it.. I just don't know how we could. Sometimes I don't see a future with him, mainly because I don't think he's trying his best to get a job and I worry that we would never move in together, and that if he truly wanted to be mine for the rest of my life, he would have moved mountains to be with me right now... I feel like because of that, and that I don't particularly yearn for him when he's not around (which I thought was a good thing??) means it's not really all that special. He really is very sweet, I said I couldn't see a future with him, but I can't quite imagine life without him yet. I know that's normal granted how long we've been together.. I just don't know. I feel hollow.
two year long distance relationship possibly fizzled and I initiated a breakup and now I don't know if this is the right thing to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you save a long distance relationship? POST: Me (20F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. We are still in the same country, but live about a 7 hour drive from each other. At first it was tough, I weeped all the way home the first time I left. Over time, it wasn't so tough. I still missed him of course.... I don't know. I feel like we lost a spark, or it fizzled. I feel like it's lost it's spark since I got a new job that is full time for me, and that means we don't get to see each other as often now that I have two jobs. I can't blame it on that I suppose, but maybe that contributed. He admitted when I pulled him up on it that he did want to move in with me, he just didn't say it. I feel like if he mentioned it back then, things would be different now. We kind of split up last night... And I initiated it. I don't know if I did the right thing or not. I'm very confused. He told me we could try and save it.. I just don't know how we could. Sometimes I don't see a future with him, mainly because I don't think he's trying his best to get a job and I worry that we would never move in together, and that if he truly wanted to be mine for the rest of my life, he would have moved mountains to be with me right now... I feel like because of that, and that I don't particularly yearn for him when he's not around (which I thought was a good thing??) means it's not really all that special. He really is very sweet, I said I couldn't see a future with him, but I can't quite imagine life without him yet. I know that's normal granted how long we've been together.. I just don't know. I feel hollow. TL;DR:
two year long distance relationship possibly fizzled and I initiated a breakup and now I don't know if this is the right thing to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you save a long distance relationship? POST: Me (20F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. We are still in the same country, but live about a 7 hour drive from each other. At first it was tough, I weeped all the way home the first time I left. Over time, it wasn't so tough. I still missed him of course.... I don't know. I feel like we lost a spark, or it fizzled. I feel like it's lost it's spark since I got a new job that is full time for me, and that means we don't get to see each other as often now that I have two jobs. I can't blame it on that I suppose, but maybe that contributed. He admitted when I pulled him up on it that he did want to move in with me, he just didn't say it. I feel like if he mentioned it back then, things would be different now. We kind of split up last night... And I initiated it. I don't know if I did the right thing or not. I'm very confused. He told me we could try and save it.. I just don't know how we could. Sometimes I don't see a future with him, mainly because I don't think he's trying his best to get a job and I worry that we would never move in together, and that if he truly wanted to be mine for the rest of my life, he would have moved mountains to be with me right now... I feel like because of that, and that I don't particularly yearn for him when he's not around (which I thought was a good thing??) means it's not really all that special. He really is very sweet, I said I couldn't see a future with him, but I can't quite imagine life without him yet. I know that's normal granted how long we've been together.. I just don't know. I feel hollow. TL;DR: two year long distance relationship possibly fizzled and I initiated a breakup and now I don't know if this is the right thing to do.<|endoftext|>
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I [m22] am suspicious of my SO [f22] about her heart transplant.
I have known her for almost two years and we have been seeing each other exclusively for 8 months now. Every once in a while she brings up some story that I find a little hard to be true. Heart transplant when she was 13 and no scar. Being shot in the arm yet still no scars. Allergic to peanuts but doesn't react when she accidentally eats something with peanuts in it. I know she likes to keep secrets which is fine. She doesn't like anyone knowing her financial situation, etc. My history: I had an SO a few years back who lied nonstop. She had all these different phobias that were incredibly uncommon. I confronted her about it and she admitted she made up lies to feel different and unique because she felt inadequate. My current SO and I are moving in together soon and these doubts are starting to surface again. In my mind, if she is lying about this kind of stuff then what else is she going to keep from me. I am going to confront her about this but I feel like I'm just neurotic and its all in my head.
I am suspicious that my SO has been making up stories in order to get pitty. I have an ex who did the same thing. I feel like I'm an asshole for doubting her.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m22] am suspicious of my SO [f22] about her heart transplant. POST: I have known her for almost two years and we have been seeing each other exclusively for 8 months now. Every once in a while she brings up some story that I find a little hard to be true. Heart transplant when she was 13 and no scar. Being shot in the arm yet still no scars. Allergic to peanuts but doesn't react when she accidentally eats something with peanuts in it. I know she likes to keep secrets which is fine. She doesn't like anyone knowing her financial situation, etc. My history: I had an SO a few years back who lied nonstop. She had all these different phobias that were incredibly uncommon. I confronted her about it and she admitted she made up lies to feel different and unique because she felt inadequate. My current SO and I are moving in together soon and these doubts are starting to surface again. In my mind, if she is lying about this kind of stuff then what else is she going to keep from me. I am going to confront her about this but I feel like I'm just neurotic and its all in my head. TL;DR:
I am suspicious that my SO has been making up stories in order to get pitty. I have an ex who did the same thing. I feel like I'm an asshole for doubting her.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m22] am suspicious of my SO [f22] about her heart transplant. POST: I have known her for almost two years and we have been seeing each other exclusively for 8 months now. Every once in a while she brings up some story that I find a little hard to be true. Heart transplant when she was 13 and no scar. Being shot in the arm yet still no scars. Allergic to peanuts but doesn't react when she accidentally eats something with peanuts in it. I know she likes to keep secrets which is fine. She doesn't like anyone knowing her financial situation, etc. My history: I had an SO a few years back who lied nonstop. She had all these different phobias that were incredibly uncommon. I confronted her about it and she admitted she made up lies to feel different and unique because she felt inadequate. My current SO and I are moving in together soon and these doubts are starting to surface again. In my mind, if she is lying about this kind of stuff then what else is she going to keep from me. I am going to confront her about this but I feel like I'm just neurotic and its all in my head. TL;DR: I am suspicious that my SO has been making up stories in order to get pitty. I have an ex who did the same thing. I feel like I'm an asshole for doubting her.<|endoftext|>
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[28/m]With adhd-pi getting mixed signals from a (24/F) friend whom I am fond of.
So I've have a friend who I know has a boyfriend and I'm quite fond of her. I met her through work and we used to chat through out the day online. She recently resigned and but we've kept in contact and still message each other alot via text.( 20+ a day) Being the happy go lucky socially awkward person I am, I'm kind of not chasing her, as my ADD has only recently been diagnosed and have mild depression as well - she's one of the few people I talk to about this. I'm not medicated yet & I've only been taking anti-depressants. I found out she had a long-term boyfriend during one of our first chats together & have never met the guy. Recently she has started to ask me more personal questions, arranged times to meet up and haven't really questioned her status. (by personal questions mean like interrogation type stuff that you'd ask on a date) I'm a pretty clueless guy and who doesn't really respond to social cues well. Any advice on what steps to take next? Without shooting myself in the foot.
I like this girl who isn't single but gives me alot of attention throughout the day and I'm unsure of how to proceed.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/m]With adhd-pi getting mixed signals from a (24/F) friend whom I am fond of. POST: So I've have a friend who I know has a boyfriend and I'm quite fond of her. I met her through work and we used to chat through out the day online. She recently resigned and but we've kept in contact and still message each other alot via text.( 20+ a day) Being the happy go lucky socially awkward person I am, I'm kind of not chasing her, as my ADD has only recently been diagnosed and have mild depression as well - she's one of the few people I talk to about this. I'm not medicated yet & I've only been taking anti-depressants. I found out she had a long-term boyfriend during one of our first chats together & have never met the guy. Recently she has started to ask me more personal questions, arranged times to meet up and haven't really questioned her status. (by personal questions mean like interrogation type stuff that you'd ask on a date) I'm a pretty clueless guy and who doesn't really respond to social cues well. Any advice on what steps to take next? Without shooting myself in the foot. TL;DR:
I like this girl who isn't single but gives me alot of attention throughout the day and I'm unsure of how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/m]With adhd-pi getting mixed signals from a (24/F) friend whom I am fond of. POST: So I've have a friend who I know has a boyfriend and I'm quite fond of her. I met her through work and we used to chat through out the day online. She recently resigned and but we've kept in contact and still message each other alot via text.( 20+ a day) Being the happy go lucky socially awkward person I am, I'm kind of not chasing her, as my ADD has only recently been diagnosed and have mild depression as well - she's one of the few people I talk to about this. I'm not medicated yet & I've only been taking anti-depressants. I found out she had a long-term boyfriend during one of our first chats together & have never met the guy. Recently she has started to ask me more personal questions, arranged times to meet up and haven't really questioned her status. (by personal questions mean like interrogation type stuff that you'd ask on a date) I'm a pretty clueless guy and who doesn't really respond to social cues well. Any advice on what steps to take next? Without shooting myself in the foot. TL;DR: I like this girl who isn't single but gives me alot of attention throughout the day and I'm unsure of how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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Me [38 M] with my [31 F] "friend" of 6 months. Have I been friendzoned??!! Or maybe even worse?!
I live in Vegas. Met girl from L.A. through mutual friend. Uber flirty. Didn't react because was dating someone. We stay in contact. Stop dating aforementioned person. Start texting her. More and more. She comes and visits me twice with another friend. Hang out all night, blah blah blah. Nothing more than that (emotionally or physically). Still blows up my phone. She has me meet her dad. She wants me to come visit her. She wants me to come to her mom's 65th birthday. Etc. Finally ask her WTF. She says "it's complicated because we don't live in the same city". Then keeps up with the come visit me, how was your holidays, I keep thinking about all the great times we had in Vegas, blah blah blah. Discuss.
think I've been friend zoned because she blows up my phone and wants me to do family shit with her but there's nothing more emotionally or physically. or maybe I'm just being used.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [38 M] with my [31 F] "friend" of 6 months. Have I been friendzoned??!! Or maybe even worse?! POST: I live in Vegas. Met girl from L.A. through mutual friend. Uber flirty. Didn't react because was dating someone. We stay in contact. Stop dating aforementioned person. Start texting her. More and more. She comes and visits me twice with another friend. Hang out all night, blah blah blah. Nothing more than that (emotionally or physically). Still blows up my phone. She has me meet her dad. She wants me to come visit her. She wants me to come to her mom's 65th birthday. Etc. Finally ask her WTF. She says "it's complicated because we don't live in the same city". Then keeps up with the come visit me, how was your holidays, I keep thinking about all the great times we had in Vegas, blah blah blah. Discuss. TL;DR:
think I've been friend zoned because she blows up my phone and wants me to do family shit with her but there's nothing more emotionally or physically. or maybe I'm just being used.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [38 M] with my [31 F] "friend" of 6 months. Have I been friendzoned??!! Or maybe even worse?! POST: I live in Vegas. Met girl from L.A. through mutual friend. Uber flirty. Didn't react because was dating someone. We stay in contact. Stop dating aforementioned person. Start texting her. More and more. She comes and visits me twice with another friend. Hang out all night, blah blah blah. Nothing more than that (emotionally or physically). Still blows up my phone. She has me meet her dad. She wants me to come visit her. She wants me to come to her mom's 65th birthday. Etc. Finally ask her WTF. She says "it's complicated because we don't live in the same city". Then keeps up with the come visit me, how was your holidays, I keep thinking about all the great times we had in Vegas, blah blah blah. Discuss. TL;DR: think I've been friend zoned because she blows up my phone and wants me to do family shit with her but there's nothing more emotionally or physically. or maybe I'm just being used.<|endoftext|>
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Coworker [F/20s] has been stealthily manipulating me [F/20s] for the past few months. Advice?
I have a situation at work where I was being manipulated by a coworker who appears to be sweet and innocent. She has potentially screwed me over and "won". Despite this, I feel that she is either trying to waste my time or push my buttons. I'm leaving this job soon so I have no idea why. She might try one more stunt at an upcoming meeting and now that I realize she's manipulative, I'm not sure what I should do to deflect any more harm my way.
Girl at work is manipulative and I don't see how she benefits from continuing her trickery, but I'm trying to prepare for her next move.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Coworker [F/20s] has been stealthily manipulating me [F/20s] for the past few months. Advice? POST: I have a situation at work where I was being manipulated by a coworker who appears to be sweet and innocent. She has potentially screwed me over and "won". Despite this, I feel that she is either trying to waste my time or push my buttons. I'm leaving this job soon so I have no idea why. She might try one more stunt at an upcoming meeting and now that I realize she's manipulative, I'm not sure what I should do to deflect any more harm my way. TL;DR:
Girl at work is manipulative and I don't see how she benefits from continuing her trickery, but I'm trying to prepare for her next move.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Coworker [F/20s] has been stealthily manipulating me [F/20s] for the past few months. Advice? POST: I have a situation at work where I was being manipulated by a coworker who appears to be sweet and innocent. She has potentially screwed me over and "won". Despite this, I feel that she is either trying to waste my time or push my buttons. I'm leaving this job soon so I have no idea why. She might try one more stunt at an upcoming meeting and now that I realize she's manipulative, I'm not sure what I should do to deflect any more harm my way. TL;DR: Girl at work is manipulative and I don't see how she benefits from continuing her trickery, but I'm trying to prepare for her next move.<|endoftext|>
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NJ Child Support - Have custody of my bio-niece - is child support amassing for her bio-parents?
I've had custody of my niece T (3.5yo) for almost a year. My sister and her boyfriend signed off on temporary custody with no visitation clause last year when they were in active addiction. The day after the judge signed and filed it, her bio dad was arrested for burglary with bodily injury. His sentencing was last week and he was released on time served (a big surprise to us - we had been advised he'd be in for at least a few years). Basically he's just not a nice guy, and I don't want him around T. She's doing great and began calling my husband and me Mommy & Daddy (we have a therapist who advised us to follow her lead on that). She hasn't seen her bio dad since March of last year and I don't think she'd remember him. The nature of the temporary custody agreement is that it can only be removed by a judge. I had heard that because we aren't her bio-parents that they owe us a great amount of child support - however neither of them work. It's not about the money, it's just about having a safeguard against them completely disrupting our lives. Any advice?
If you're raising someone else's kids, how does child support work? And also the bio parents have no income?
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: NJ Child Support - Have custody of my bio-niece - is child support amassing for her bio-parents? POST: I've had custody of my niece T (3.5yo) for almost a year. My sister and her boyfriend signed off on temporary custody with no visitation clause last year when they were in active addiction. The day after the judge signed and filed it, her bio dad was arrested for burglary with bodily injury. His sentencing was last week and he was released on time served (a big surprise to us - we had been advised he'd be in for at least a few years). Basically he's just not a nice guy, and I don't want him around T. She's doing great and began calling my husband and me Mommy & Daddy (we have a therapist who advised us to follow her lead on that). She hasn't seen her bio dad since March of last year and I don't think she'd remember him. The nature of the temporary custody agreement is that it can only be removed by a judge. I had heard that because we aren't her bio-parents that they owe us a great amount of child support - however neither of them work. It's not about the money, it's just about having a safeguard against them completely disrupting our lives. Any advice? TL;DR:
If you're raising someone else's kids, how does child support work? And also the bio parents have no income?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: NJ Child Support - Have custody of my bio-niece - is child support amassing for her bio-parents? POST: I've had custody of my niece T (3.5yo) for almost a year. My sister and her boyfriend signed off on temporary custody with no visitation clause last year when they were in active addiction. The day after the judge signed and filed it, her bio dad was arrested for burglary with bodily injury. His sentencing was last week and he was released on time served (a big surprise to us - we had been advised he'd be in for at least a few years). Basically he's just not a nice guy, and I don't want him around T. She's doing great and began calling my husband and me Mommy & Daddy (we have a therapist who advised us to follow her lead on that). She hasn't seen her bio dad since March of last year and I don't think she'd remember him. The nature of the temporary custody agreement is that it can only be removed by a judge. I had heard that because we aren't her bio-parents that they owe us a great amount of child support - however neither of them work. It's not about the money, it's just about having a safeguard against them completely disrupting our lives. Any advice? TL;DR: If you're raising someone else's kids, how does child support work? And also the bio parents have no income?<|endoftext|>
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Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 3.5 years, need advice on how to improve myself
Let me start with I love my SO and want to do anything I can to make things work. To keep things short; I want to be a better SO as I find I am lacking and it is becoming a one-sided relationship due to such. I find myself always giving one word answers in conversations and not expanding on a topic that she might bring up. I seem to lack romance, which I haven't quite figured out how to start improving on. I almost never suggest to do anything as I am generally fine with doing nothing, however she wants to do things more often (which I am also okay with doing) but I never think of it. Overall I think I am being a horrible boyfriend and want to improve but can't figure out how to break the bad habits.
Need help figuring out how to become a more attentive, better boyfriend as I've dug myself into a rut of bad habits and lazy responses.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 3.5 years, need advice on how to improve myself POST: Let me start with I love my SO and want to do anything I can to make things work. To keep things short; I want to be a better SO as I find I am lacking and it is becoming a one-sided relationship due to such. I find myself always giving one word answers in conversations and not expanding on a topic that she might bring up. I seem to lack romance, which I haven't quite figured out how to start improving on. I almost never suggest to do anything as I am generally fine with doing nothing, however she wants to do things more often (which I am also okay with doing) but I never think of it. Overall I think I am being a horrible boyfriend and want to improve but can't figure out how to break the bad habits. TL;DR:
Need help figuring out how to become a more attentive, better boyfriend as I've dug myself into a rut of bad habits and lazy responses.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 3.5 years, need advice on how to improve myself POST: Let me start with I love my SO and want to do anything I can to make things work. To keep things short; I want to be a better SO as I find I am lacking and it is becoming a one-sided relationship due to such. I find myself always giving one word answers in conversations and not expanding on a topic that she might bring up. I seem to lack romance, which I haven't quite figured out how to start improving on. I almost never suggest to do anything as I am generally fine with doing nothing, however she wants to do things more often (which I am also okay with doing) but I never think of it. Overall I think I am being a horrible boyfriend and want to improve but can't figure out how to break the bad habits. TL;DR: Need help figuring out how to become a more attentive, better boyfriend as I've dug myself into a rut of bad habits and lazy responses.<|endoftext|>
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Roommate got a girl pregnant. She lied about the using the pill. Advice?
A couple of weeks ago my friend's girlfriend brought her cousin over to my apartment. This cousin was really was really into my roommate and after a few drinks they went to her house and had sex. He has seen her twice since then and we have come to realize she is a bit of a basket case. Yesterday she told him she was pregnant. He claims that the first time they had sex, he didn't have a condom but she told him she was on birth control. Now she is telling him that she had been off it for over a month now. She won't abort and she said adoption is highly unlikely. I know unprotected sex is an awful idea, but her misleading about being on the pill just seems so wrong to me. Worst case scenario, he'll be paying child support. But is there anything he can do to avoid it because she lied to him?
Roommate got a girl pregnant and she lied about being on the pill. She won't abort or put it up for adoption. How much is he legally obligated to support the child?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Roommate got a girl pregnant. She lied about the using the pill. Advice? POST: A couple of weeks ago my friend's girlfriend brought her cousin over to my apartment. This cousin was really was really into my roommate and after a few drinks they went to her house and had sex. He has seen her twice since then and we have come to realize she is a bit of a basket case. Yesterday she told him she was pregnant. He claims that the first time they had sex, he didn't have a condom but she told him she was on birth control. Now she is telling him that she had been off it for over a month now. She won't abort and she said adoption is highly unlikely. I know unprotected sex is an awful idea, but her misleading about being on the pill just seems so wrong to me. Worst case scenario, he'll be paying child support. But is there anything he can do to avoid it because she lied to him? TL;DR:
Roommate got a girl pregnant and she lied about being on the pill. She won't abort or put it up for adoption. How much is he legally obligated to support the child?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Roommate got a girl pregnant. She lied about the using the pill. Advice? POST: A couple of weeks ago my friend's girlfriend brought her cousin over to my apartment. This cousin was really was really into my roommate and after a few drinks they went to her house and had sex. He has seen her twice since then and we have come to realize she is a bit of a basket case. Yesterday she told him she was pregnant. He claims that the first time they had sex, he didn't have a condom but she told him she was on birth control. Now she is telling him that she had been off it for over a month now. She won't abort and she said adoption is highly unlikely. I know unprotected sex is an awful idea, but her misleading about being on the pill just seems so wrong to me. Worst case scenario, he'll be paying child support. But is there anything he can do to avoid it because she lied to him? TL;DR: Roommate got a girl pregnant and she lied about being on the pill. She won't abort or put it up for adoption. How much is he legally obligated to support the child?<|endoftext|>
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t3_17tiun
BreakUps
Need help after GF [f18] broke up with me [m17]. Lost in thoughts
Late 2011 me and this beautiful girl started chatting and it all seemed awesome. Things went on really fast, but she had a boyfriend who was basically ignoring her. I helped her during those times, although I developed stronger feelings for her and I'd say that's what prompted this whole situation. Things started getting rather messy and eventually they broke up. I was in love with her, and three months later we kissed after 1 week of them breaking up because she no longer knew what she felt about him. Our relationship started off great, although after a month she asked me for a time off to think about what she wanted. The situation resolved, and it happened again twice after another month and in August. In August, she broke up with me definitely and we stood trying to make her be sure she loved me again. I admit I might have tried too hard, and eventually she gave up on me. On December she refused to be with me and on New Year's Eve she and her EX kissed. Such a great way to start this year, my love kissing the man who had been shadowing our relationship. She has said the most horrible things lately. Well, at least for my point of view. I even saw them together a week ago, that got me as low as one can be. I am lost in what to do about her, I've fought since August for her love, and in the end I lost. I gave my very best, everything I had for this girl in my somewhat delusional forever. It was, indeed, my first love. I know I should move on, she's been an idiot to me treating me like shit. But I care too much for her. What should I do? Should I talk to her? Should I do what? It's a whole mess and this past months and been nothing but sad. Sorry for the throwaway account, but she knows about my reddit account and hopefully won't find this. I just need to get the stuff out of my chest. Thanks
How can I forget this, move on and accept that they are together now, just like before I and she did. How do I accept the intimacy between them and all this? I'm really lost in what comes to this.
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Need help after GF [f18] broke up with me [m17]. Lost in thoughts POST: Late 2011 me and this beautiful girl started chatting and it all seemed awesome. Things went on really fast, but she had a boyfriend who was basically ignoring her. I helped her during those times, although I developed stronger feelings for her and I'd say that's what prompted this whole situation. Things started getting rather messy and eventually they broke up. I was in love with her, and three months later we kissed after 1 week of them breaking up because she no longer knew what she felt about him. Our relationship started off great, although after a month she asked me for a time off to think about what she wanted. The situation resolved, and it happened again twice after another month and in August. In August, she broke up with me definitely and we stood trying to make her be sure she loved me again. I admit I might have tried too hard, and eventually she gave up on me. On December she refused to be with me and on New Year's Eve she and her EX kissed. Such a great way to start this year, my love kissing the man who had been shadowing our relationship. She has said the most horrible things lately. Well, at least for my point of view. I even saw them together a week ago, that got me as low as one can be. I am lost in what to do about her, I've fought since August for her love, and in the end I lost. I gave my very best, everything I had for this girl in my somewhat delusional forever. It was, indeed, my first love. I know I should move on, she's been an idiot to me treating me like shit. But I care too much for her. What should I do? Should I talk to her? Should I do what? It's a whole mess and this past months and been nothing but sad. Sorry for the throwaway account, but she knows about my reddit account and hopefully won't find this. I just need to get the stuff out of my chest. Thanks TL;DR:
How can I forget this, move on and accept that they are together now, just like before I and she did. How do I accept the intimacy between them and all this? I'm really lost in what comes to this.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Need help after GF [f18] broke up with me [m17]. Lost in thoughts POST: Late 2011 me and this beautiful girl started chatting and it all seemed awesome. Things went on really fast, but she had a boyfriend who was basically ignoring her. I helped her during those times, although I developed stronger feelings for her and I'd say that's what prompted this whole situation. Things started getting rather messy and eventually they broke up. I was in love with her, and three months later we kissed after 1 week of them breaking up because she no longer knew what she felt about him. Our relationship started off great, although after a month she asked me for a time off to think about what she wanted. The situation resolved, and it happened again twice after another month and in August. In August, she broke up with me definitely and we stood trying to make her be sure she loved me again. I admit I might have tried too hard, and eventually she gave up on me. On December she refused to be with me and on New Year's Eve she and her EX kissed. Such a great way to start this year, my love kissing the man who had been shadowing our relationship. She has said the most horrible things lately. Well, at least for my point of view. I even saw them together a week ago, that got me as low as one can be. I am lost in what to do about her, I've fought since August for her love, and in the end I lost. I gave my very best, everything I had for this girl in my somewhat delusional forever. It was, indeed, my first love. I know I should move on, she's been an idiot to me treating me like shit. But I care too much for her. What should I do? Should I talk to her? Should I do what? It's a whole mess and this past months and been nothing but sad. Sorry for the throwaway account, but she knows about my reddit account and hopefully won't find this. I just need to get the stuff out of my chest. Thanks TL;DR: How can I forget this, move on and accept that they are together now, just like before I and she did. How do I accept the intimacy between them and all this? I'm really lost in what comes to this.<|endoftext|>
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Am I [25/F] in the wrong for talking to this guy[26/M]?
This guy[26/M] and I, we'll call him D, have been friends since elementary school. He was my first real big crush that lasted from elementary all the way to the end of high school when I realized that we just weren't ever going to get together. A couple of years ago, D ended up meeting a girl in college, getting married, and having a kid. Throughout this process we would talk maybe once every year as just a catch up message or when we'd see each other when he was home from out of state. A couple of days ago I received a message from D asking me why we never ended up getting together during our childhood years. I thought it was an odd question so I just ignored it. He kept up the conversation asking me general "How are you" questions but every once in a while would throw in something about our past or how he "still has a crush on me." After digging and interrogation I found out that D separated from his wife 3 months ago. He says he misses her and wants to make it work but for the past two days he's been asking me to come visit him out of state. Saying that he'll "pay for the flight and hotel." But I just don't think it's a good idea. I still have my girlish crush on him but I just got out of bad relationship and don't really feel like being used by a guy who's mourning his marriage. I know if I go I will try my hardest to keep it just as a friendship trip, which he says it will be, but I know if he tries something more I'll end up caving in and going for it. But then again, he keeps telling me that I've been the only person to try and talk him through this process and because of that kindness he really wants to see me and reconnect. And though I know I'm being used I really would enjoy a vacation. Is that selfish of me? Is it wrong of me to be talking to a, technically still, married man? Should I continue to tell him to work on his marriage and if it ends up failing **THEN** we'll hang out? Or should I just go and have a good time?
Old crush just recently separated from his wife and wants to fly me to his state to hang out with him for week. Am I wrong for wanting to go?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for talking to this guy[26/M]? POST: This guy[26/M] and I, we'll call him D, have been friends since elementary school. He was my first real big crush that lasted from elementary all the way to the end of high school when I realized that we just weren't ever going to get together. A couple of years ago, D ended up meeting a girl in college, getting married, and having a kid. Throughout this process we would talk maybe once every year as just a catch up message or when we'd see each other when he was home from out of state. A couple of days ago I received a message from D asking me why we never ended up getting together during our childhood years. I thought it was an odd question so I just ignored it. He kept up the conversation asking me general "How are you" questions but every once in a while would throw in something about our past or how he "still has a crush on me." After digging and interrogation I found out that D separated from his wife 3 months ago. He says he misses her and wants to make it work but for the past two days he's been asking me to come visit him out of state. Saying that he'll "pay for the flight and hotel." But I just don't think it's a good idea. I still have my girlish crush on him but I just got out of bad relationship and don't really feel like being used by a guy who's mourning his marriage. I know if I go I will try my hardest to keep it just as a friendship trip, which he says it will be, but I know if he tries something more I'll end up caving in and going for it. But then again, he keeps telling me that I've been the only person to try and talk him through this process and because of that kindness he really wants to see me and reconnect. And though I know I'm being used I really would enjoy a vacation. Is that selfish of me? Is it wrong of me to be talking to a, technically still, married man? Should I continue to tell him to work on his marriage and if it ends up failing **THEN** we'll hang out? Or should I just go and have a good time? TL;DR:
Old crush just recently separated from his wife and wants to fly me to his state to hang out with him for week. Am I wrong for wanting to go?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for talking to this guy[26/M]? POST: This guy[26/M] and I, we'll call him D, have been friends since elementary school. He was my first real big crush that lasted from elementary all the way to the end of high school when I realized that we just weren't ever going to get together. A couple of years ago, D ended up meeting a girl in college, getting married, and having a kid. Throughout this process we would talk maybe once every year as just a catch up message or when we'd see each other when he was home from out of state. A couple of days ago I received a message from D asking me why we never ended up getting together during our childhood years. I thought it was an odd question so I just ignored it. He kept up the conversation asking me general "How are you" questions but every once in a while would throw in something about our past or how he "still has a crush on me." After digging and interrogation I found out that D separated from his wife 3 months ago. He says he misses her and wants to make it work but for the past two days he's been asking me to come visit him out of state. Saying that he'll "pay for the flight and hotel." But I just don't think it's a good idea. I still have my girlish crush on him but I just got out of bad relationship and don't really feel like being used by a guy who's mourning his marriage. I know if I go I will try my hardest to keep it just as a friendship trip, which he says it will be, but I know if he tries something more I'll end up caving in and going for it. But then again, he keeps telling me that I've been the only person to try and talk him through this process and because of that kindness he really wants to see me and reconnect. And though I know I'm being used I really would enjoy a vacation. Is that selfish of me? Is it wrong of me to be talking to a, technically still, married man? Should I continue to tell him to work on his marriage and if it ends up failing **THEN** we'll hang out? Or should I just go and have a good time? TL;DR: Old crush just recently separated from his wife and wants to fly me to his state to hang out with him for week. Am I wrong for wanting to go?<|endoftext|>
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Is my bf a liar or just forgetful?
I (20F) have been with my bf (20M) for 3.5 years. I admit that I am insanely insecure and get jealous easily. I have been having trust issues in my relationship for a while now. I've found that my bf constantly "forgets" to tell me certain things when I ask a question. For example, when we tell each other what we've been up to, he'll say everything he did, but then forget to mention that he was chatting with a female friend. When I find out later on and ask him about it, he'll just say he "forgot" because it didn't matter to him. This has been his excuse for a lot of things. Then if I ask what they talked about, he'll just shrug and say he doesn't remember cause it was nothing special. I keep thinking he is lying to hide these things because he thinks it will upset me, and he doesn't want to deal with that. But really I just want him to be more honest with me, and I want him to tell me these things because when he's open about it, I feel more comfortable in the relationship. However, when it's things like these where I find out later on that he omitted/forgot to mention something, it really bothers me, and I feel like my trust has been shattered. I know he forgets certain things that aren't strictly related to girls. But, I feel like when it's something that you did, how do you not remember it? I don't leave out anything when I tell my bf these things. But I feel like it's just so convenient that he forgets these things related to girls, and his excuse is "it wasn't important, so why would I remember?" When I tried to talk to him about it, he would say something like: "Should I just make them important so I remember every time I talk to them?" I've told him that whenever he says he forgot, it feels like he's hiding things. But then he says he has nothing to hide. Am I just overreacting and going crazy? I REALLY want to trust him, but he makes it hard. Are guys seriously that forgetful?
Bf always forgets to mention things, especially about girls. Says he doesn't remember because they're small and unimportant. Can't tell if he is lying to avoid upsetting me or genuinely forgetful.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my bf a liar or just forgetful? POST: I (20F) have been with my bf (20M) for 3.5 years. I admit that I am insanely insecure and get jealous easily. I have been having trust issues in my relationship for a while now. I've found that my bf constantly "forgets" to tell me certain things when I ask a question. For example, when we tell each other what we've been up to, he'll say everything he did, but then forget to mention that he was chatting with a female friend. When I find out later on and ask him about it, he'll just say he "forgot" because it didn't matter to him. This has been his excuse for a lot of things. Then if I ask what they talked about, he'll just shrug and say he doesn't remember cause it was nothing special. I keep thinking he is lying to hide these things because he thinks it will upset me, and he doesn't want to deal with that. But really I just want him to be more honest with me, and I want him to tell me these things because when he's open about it, I feel more comfortable in the relationship. However, when it's things like these where I find out later on that he omitted/forgot to mention something, it really bothers me, and I feel like my trust has been shattered. I know he forgets certain things that aren't strictly related to girls. But, I feel like when it's something that you did, how do you not remember it? I don't leave out anything when I tell my bf these things. But I feel like it's just so convenient that he forgets these things related to girls, and his excuse is "it wasn't important, so why would I remember?" When I tried to talk to him about it, he would say something like: "Should I just make them important so I remember every time I talk to them?" I've told him that whenever he says he forgot, it feels like he's hiding things. But then he says he has nothing to hide. Am I just overreacting and going crazy? I REALLY want to trust him, but he makes it hard. Are guys seriously that forgetful? TL;DR:
Bf always forgets to mention things, especially about girls. Says he doesn't remember because they're small and unimportant. Can't tell if he is lying to avoid upsetting me or genuinely forgetful.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my bf a liar or just forgetful? POST: I (20F) have been with my bf (20M) for 3.5 years. I admit that I am insanely insecure and get jealous easily. I have been having trust issues in my relationship for a while now. I've found that my bf constantly "forgets" to tell me certain things when I ask a question. For example, when we tell each other what we've been up to, he'll say everything he did, but then forget to mention that he was chatting with a female friend. When I find out later on and ask him about it, he'll just say he "forgot" because it didn't matter to him. This has been his excuse for a lot of things. Then if I ask what they talked about, he'll just shrug and say he doesn't remember cause it was nothing special. I keep thinking he is lying to hide these things because he thinks it will upset me, and he doesn't want to deal with that. But really I just want him to be more honest with me, and I want him to tell me these things because when he's open about it, I feel more comfortable in the relationship. However, when it's things like these where I find out later on that he omitted/forgot to mention something, it really bothers me, and I feel like my trust has been shattered. I know he forgets certain things that aren't strictly related to girls. But, I feel like when it's something that you did, how do you not remember it? I don't leave out anything when I tell my bf these things. But I feel like it's just so convenient that he forgets these things related to girls, and his excuse is "it wasn't important, so why would I remember?" When I tried to talk to him about it, he would say something like: "Should I just make them important so I remember every time I talk to them?" I've told him that whenever he says he forgot, it feels like he's hiding things. But then he says he has nothing to hide. Am I just overreacting and going crazy? I REALLY want to trust him, but he makes it hard. Are guys seriously that forgetful? TL;DR: Bf always forgets to mention things, especially about girls. Says he doesn't remember because they're small and unimportant. Can't tell if he is lying to avoid upsetting me or genuinely forgetful.<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, if you work <10 miles from your home and currently drive, what incentives would make it irresistible to bike to work?
I posted something similar in /r/bicycling, but I wanted a broader audience that isn't current enamored with bikes. My office building was built with only enough parking for 60% of the workforce (by federal mandate). Parking is a fucking nightmare. I get here early enough that I never have an issue, but for many it is an issue. I work with a lot of government personnel, who I know get 3hrs per week of paid exercise. That's right, they can work 37hrs a week, exercise for 3 hrs, and call it a work-week. This got me thinking. I was mulling over the idea: If it takes me 30 minutes to drive to work, or 1 hour to ride, this means that riding to work would make my workday 1hr longer (for both ways total). If my company compensated me for that 1hr, I feel like I wouldn't be able to resist biking to work. As it stands, my time is precious to me (we have a newborn in the house). What other incentives could help sway someone to ride to work?
What would a company have to offer to make it irresistible to ride your bike to work? If they compensated you for the difference of time between riding and driving, would that work?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, if you work <10 miles from your home and currently drive, what incentives would make it irresistible to bike to work? POST: I posted something similar in /r/bicycling, but I wanted a broader audience that isn't current enamored with bikes. My office building was built with only enough parking for 60% of the workforce (by federal mandate). Parking is a fucking nightmare. I get here early enough that I never have an issue, but for many it is an issue. I work with a lot of government personnel, who I know get 3hrs per week of paid exercise. That's right, they can work 37hrs a week, exercise for 3 hrs, and call it a work-week. This got me thinking. I was mulling over the idea: If it takes me 30 minutes to drive to work, or 1 hour to ride, this means that riding to work would make my workday 1hr longer (for both ways total). If my company compensated me for that 1hr, I feel like I wouldn't be able to resist biking to work. As it stands, my time is precious to me (we have a newborn in the house). What other incentives could help sway someone to ride to work? TL;DR:
What would a company have to offer to make it irresistible to ride your bike to work? If they compensated you for the difference of time between riding and driving, would that work?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, if you work <10 miles from your home and currently drive, what incentives would make it irresistible to bike to work? POST: I posted something similar in /r/bicycling, but I wanted a broader audience that isn't current enamored with bikes. My office building was built with only enough parking for 60% of the workforce (by federal mandate). Parking is a fucking nightmare. I get here early enough that I never have an issue, but for many it is an issue. I work with a lot of government personnel, who I know get 3hrs per week of paid exercise. That's right, they can work 37hrs a week, exercise for 3 hrs, and call it a work-week. This got me thinking. I was mulling over the idea: If it takes me 30 minutes to drive to work, or 1 hour to ride, this means that riding to work would make my workday 1hr longer (for both ways total). If my company compensated me for that 1hr, I feel like I wouldn't be able to resist biking to work. As it stands, my time is precious to me (we have a newborn in the house). What other incentives could help sway someone to ride to work? TL;DR: What would a company have to offer to make it irresistible to ride your bike to work? If they compensated you for the difference of time between riding and driving, would that work?<|endoftext|>
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Me [26 F] with my 30[M] 1 year, long distance and feeling drained.
So I've been with my SO for about a year and it's long distance- like transatlantic long :( We've had our ups and downs but he is generally a considerate and kind guy who is always there for me. Personality wise there are some things that put me off such as differences in ambition and career goals that I thought I could look past but I'm having a lot of trouble doing that. (that's another issue) My problem is sometimes mostly the distance. I feel guilty about not having enough time to talk to him because I'm very much a face-to-face person and over the internet/skype is killing me emotionally. We don't really have an end date and I have a sinking feeling that he doesn't grasp how difficult the immigration process really is; or maybe I'm just a bit pessimistic. The last thing is my career goals. I want so badly to finish school and get into my dream career. I've managed to network a bit and find someone willing to mentor me and help me get to where I want to be and ... not so sure moving to where he is would be a good option in the next 5 years and him moving here wouldn't be a great option. I love this guy but I'm just not in it romantically and I feel like I've failed him, failed myself and feel like I'll make the worst mistake of my life by breaking up with him over silly things but I'm feeling so overwhelmed with stress with him and I know without him I'll feel pretty damn bad too.
Long distance relationship taking a toll on my sanity, feeling like a failure if I break it off and afraid of making the biggest mistake by letting him go by getting "cold feet".
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my 30[M] 1 year, long distance and feeling drained. POST: So I've been with my SO for about a year and it's long distance- like transatlantic long :( We've had our ups and downs but he is generally a considerate and kind guy who is always there for me. Personality wise there are some things that put me off such as differences in ambition and career goals that I thought I could look past but I'm having a lot of trouble doing that. (that's another issue) My problem is sometimes mostly the distance. I feel guilty about not having enough time to talk to him because I'm very much a face-to-face person and over the internet/skype is killing me emotionally. We don't really have an end date and I have a sinking feeling that he doesn't grasp how difficult the immigration process really is; or maybe I'm just a bit pessimistic. The last thing is my career goals. I want so badly to finish school and get into my dream career. I've managed to network a bit and find someone willing to mentor me and help me get to where I want to be and... not so sure moving to where he is would be a good option in the next 5 years and him moving here wouldn't be a great option. I love this guy but I'm just not in it romantically and I feel like I've failed him, failed myself and feel like I'll make the worst mistake of my life by breaking up with him over silly things but I'm feeling so overwhelmed with stress with him and I know without him I'll feel pretty damn bad too. TL;DR:
Long distance relationship taking a toll on my sanity, feeling like a failure if I break it off and afraid of making the biggest mistake by letting him go by getting "cold feet".<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my 30[M] 1 year, long distance and feeling drained. POST: So I've been with my SO for about a year and it's long distance- like transatlantic long :( We've had our ups and downs but he is generally a considerate and kind guy who is always there for me. Personality wise there are some things that put me off such as differences in ambition and career goals that I thought I could look past but I'm having a lot of trouble doing that. (that's another issue) My problem is sometimes mostly the distance. I feel guilty about not having enough time to talk to him because I'm very much a face-to-face person and over the internet/skype is killing me emotionally. We don't really have an end date and I have a sinking feeling that he doesn't grasp how difficult the immigration process really is; or maybe I'm just a bit pessimistic. The last thing is my career goals. I want so badly to finish school and get into my dream career. I've managed to network a bit and find someone willing to mentor me and help me get to where I want to be and... not so sure moving to where he is would be a good option in the next 5 years and him moving here wouldn't be a great option. I love this guy but I'm just not in it romantically and I feel like I've failed him, failed myself and feel like I'll make the worst mistake of my life by breaking up with him over silly things but I'm feeling so overwhelmed with stress with him and I know without him I'll feel pretty damn bad too. TL;DR: Long distance relationship taking a toll on my sanity, feeling like a failure if I break it off and afraid of making the biggest mistake by letting him go by getting "cold feet".<|endoftext|>
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What's your most embarrassing puke story?
I'll start. When I was in second grade I was preparing for First Communion at my Catholic church. I hadn't been feeling great that morning, but since everyone my age had to go through communion on the same day my mom had no choice but to stuff me in my pristine white dress, shoes and socks and haul me to the pew. About halfway through the service I had had it, so mom tries to discreetly walks me to the bathroom. What this ended up looking like: 8-yr old me ushered to the bathroom by my mother, whose hand was trying to stop the spout of vomit exploding from my mouth, all the while both of us are slipping on my puke on the floor. Luckily, neither of us fell down. I spent the rest of the ceremony sitting in a back room with my mother and did not receive communion that day. We had to throw out the white dress and I wore a (much less interesting) pink dress to a regular church service a few weeks later, where I was singled out and given my first communion; I distinctly remember being flush and embarrassed because I thought everyone knew I had to go a different day because I barfed all over the church.
I puked on my first communion day and had to take communion alone on a different day. Am now an atheist.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your most embarrassing puke story? POST: I'll start. When I was in second grade I was preparing for First Communion at my Catholic church. I hadn't been feeling great that morning, but since everyone my age had to go through communion on the same day my mom had no choice but to stuff me in my pristine white dress, shoes and socks and haul me to the pew. About halfway through the service I had had it, so mom tries to discreetly walks me to the bathroom. What this ended up looking like: 8-yr old me ushered to the bathroom by my mother, whose hand was trying to stop the spout of vomit exploding from my mouth, all the while both of us are slipping on my puke on the floor. Luckily, neither of us fell down. I spent the rest of the ceremony sitting in a back room with my mother and did not receive communion that day. We had to throw out the white dress and I wore a (much less interesting) pink dress to a regular church service a few weeks later, where I was singled out and given my first communion; I distinctly remember being flush and embarrassed because I thought everyone knew I had to go a different day because I barfed all over the church. TL;DR:
I puked on my first communion day and had to take communion alone on a different day. Am now an atheist.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your most embarrassing puke story? POST: I'll start. When I was in second grade I was preparing for First Communion at my Catholic church. I hadn't been feeling great that morning, but since everyone my age had to go through communion on the same day my mom had no choice but to stuff me in my pristine white dress, shoes and socks and haul me to the pew. About halfway through the service I had had it, so mom tries to discreetly walks me to the bathroom. What this ended up looking like: 8-yr old me ushered to the bathroom by my mother, whose hand was trying to stop the spout of vomit exploding from my mouth, all the while both of us are slipping on my puke on the floor. Luckily, neither of us fell down. I spent the rest of the ceremony sitting in a back room with my mother and did not receive communion that day. We had to throw out the white dress and I wore a (much less interesting) pink dress to a regular church service a few weeks later, where I was singled out and given my first communion; I distinctly remember being flush and embarrassed because I thought everyone knew I had to go a different day because I barfed all over the church. TL;DR: I puked on my first communion day and had to take communion alone on a different day. Am now an atheist.<|endoftext|>
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Should I pay to break the lease since I'm the one leaving?
Female, 24, broke up with Male, 28, after 3 years. We've lived together for two years. We moved out of a cheap, shitty, month-to-month place into a nice place with a year lease. Three months in and I am more unhappy than ever and have decided to move back home and break it off with him. We still live together pretty civilly for now. We've been friendly, semi-still acting like we're in our relationship while we both figure out the moving situation. He just realized today that we would be splitting the cost of breaking the lease, rather than me paying the full cost by myself. I have a full-time steady job, but I make about $200 a week. His job is not steady--though he always seems to find work--and he makes about $600 a week. Rent is $850 a month. I argued that he can afford to live here without me, thus it is his decision to break the lease, which costs $1000. I am more than happy to split the cost, but he thinks I should pay in full, because I am technically breaking the lease by leaving, since my name is on the lease. I don't think this is fair. We have always split the rent and bills perfectly even, even though he makes a lot more money than I do. Even if he is unable to find work for a period, he can file and receive unemployment for that time, and he also has a savings of about $6,000 that he can pull from.
Should I pay in full by myself to break the lease since I'm the one leaving, even though he can afford to live here by himself?
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Should I pay to break the lease since I'm the one leaving? POST: Female, 24, broke up with Male, 28, after 3 years. We've lived together for two years. We moved out of a cheap, shitty, month-to-month place into a nice place with a year lease. Three months in and I am more unhappy than ever and have decided to move back home and break it off with him. We still live together pretty civilly for now. We've been friendly, semi-still acting like we're in our relationship while we both figure out the moving situation. He just realized today that we would be splitting the cost of breaking the lease, rather than me paying the full cost by myself. I have a full-time steady job, but I make about $200 a week. His job is not steady--though he always seems to find work--and he makes about $600 a week. Rent is $850 a month. I argued that he can afford to live here without me, thus it is his decision to break the lease, which costs $1000. I am more than happy to split the cost, but he thinks I should pay in full, because I am technically breaking the lease by leaving, since my name is on the lease. I don't think this is fair. We have always split the rent and bills perfectly even, even though he makes a lot more money than I do. Even if he is unable to find work for a period, he can file and receive unemployment for that time, and he also has a savings of about $6,000 that he can pull from. TL;DR:
Should I pay in full by myself to break the lease since I'm the one leaving, even though he can afford to live here by himself?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Should I pay to break the lease since I'm the one leaving? POST: Female, 24, broke up with Male, 28, after 3 years. We've lived together for two years. We moved out of a cheap, shitty, month-to-month place into a nice place with a year lease. Three months in and I am more unhappy than ever and have decided to move back home and break it off with him. We still live together pretty civilly for now. We've been friendly, semi-still acting like we're in our relationship while we both figure out the moving situation. He just realized today that we would be splitting the cost of breaking the lease, rather than me paying the full cost by myself. I have a full-time steady job, but I make about $200 a week. His job is not steady--though he always seems to find work--and he makes about $600 a week. Rent is $850 a month. I argued that he can afford to live here without me, thus it is his decision to break the lease, which costs $1000. I am more than happy to split the cost, but he thinks I should pay in full, because I am technically breaking the lease by leaving, since my name is on the lease. I don't think this is fair. We have always split the rent and bills perfectly even, even though he makes a lot more money than I do. Even if he is unable to find work for a period, he can file and receive unemployment for that time, and he also has a savings of about $6,000 that he can pull from. TL;DR: Should I pay in full by myself to break the lease since I'm the one leaving, even though he can afford to live here by himself?<|endoftext|>
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After little less than 6 months, I [31M] feel decrease in attraction to my girlfriend [34F]
Hi All, Long time reader, first time-poster... here we go. My girlfriend and myself are really in love, and also very much loving. Our relationship goes well and overall I am content, but thinking about the long term, I am afraid that the decrease in passion is not just a momentary thing. I had it in past relationships, but usually after a longer period. Although we have great communication, I have no idea how to bring this up. Should I tell her "I have sexual thoughts about other women?" - we all have! Should I tell her "I don't fancy you as I used to?" -- that's no constructive comment. Should I just discuss our sex life? When we're making love / having sex [pick your preferred term] it's actually good. Any advice would be welcome :) Vinnie
we are happy together, I love her and she loves me. However, my passion for her decreases, and I find myself too much thinking/looking at others.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After little less than 6 months, I [31M] feel decrease in attraction to my girlfriend [34F] POST: Hi All, Long time reader, first time-poster... here we go. My girlfriend and myself are really in love, and also very much loving. Our relationship goes well and overall I am content, but thinking about the long term, I am afraid that the decrease in passion is not just a momentary thing. I had it in past relationships, but usually after a longer period. Although we have great communication, I have no idea how to bring this up. Should I tell her "I have sexual thoughts about other women?" - we all have! Should I tell her "I don't fancy you as I used to?" -- that's no constructive comment. Should I just discuss our sex life? When we're making love / having sex [pick your preferred term] it's actually good. Any advice would be welcome :) Vinnie TL;DR:
we are happy together, I love her and she loves me. However, my passion for her decreases, and I find myself too much thinking/looking at others.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After little less than 6 months, I [31M] feel decrease in attraction to my girlfriend [34F] POST: Hi All, Long time reader, first time-poster... here we go. My girlfriend and myself are really in love, and also very much loving. Our relationship goes well and overall I am content, but thinking about the long term, I am afraid that the decrease in passion is not just a momentary thing. I had it in past relationships, but usually after a longer period. Although we have great communication, I have no idea how to bring this up. Should I tell her "I have sexual thoughts about other women?" - we all have! Should I tell her "I don't fancy you as I used to?" -- that's no constructive comment. Should I just discuss our sex life? When we're making love / having sex [pick your preferred term] it's actually good. Any advice would be welcome :) Vinnie TL;DR: we are happy together, I love her and she loves me. However, my passion for her decreases, and I find myself too much thinking/looking at others.<|endoftext|>
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Kindergarten woes.... am I over reacting?
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my daughter, starting kindergarten in a week, does not have a teacher yet, and will be in a class mixed with per-kindergarteners.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Kindergarten woes.... am I over reacting? POST: **A little back story**: when choosing a grade for my 4 year old daughter (5 Oct 30) we were told she could go into Pre-K or Kindergarten, she took the test and passed with flying colors. They told me she was "beyond smart enough" for Kindergarten, but her age may play into it. After much debate we decided to skip Pre-K, and go straight to kindergarten. If she wasn't ready for 1st by the end of the year I'm not afraid to hold her back and do it again, but I wanted her to have that challenge. **Story:** So, today was my daughters Kindergarten Orientation, the day you go to school and see your classroom, meet your teacher, your classmates, find your seat, your cubbie, etc. We were escorted into a room, it was half the size of the class room my step daughter had, it didn't have cubbies or desks, no decorations on the walls, we were confused. We were told it used to be the art room, then we were informed that we wouldn't be meeting the teacher today because... *there was no teacher to meet.* They haven't hired one yet. **School starts on Tuesday!** On top of that, I was told she was in an "overflow class," so she'll be in a class where the (one) teacher is teaching kindergarten AND pre-k at the same time. I understand that they can't be THAT much different, but there's a reason they are separate classes after all. I'm really upset about this, it just doesn't feel right at all. I adore this school, my step daughter (going into 4th grade) has gone here since pre-k, and we've never had the slightest problem. TL;DR:
my daughter, starting kindergarten in a week, does not have a teacher yet, and will be in a class mixed with per-kindergarteners.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Kindergarten woes.... am I over reacting? POST: **A little back story**: when choosing a grade for my 4 year old daughter (5 Oct 30) we were told she could go into Pre-K or Kindergarten, she took the test and passed with flying colors. They told me she was "beyond smart enough" for Kindergarten, but her age may play into it. After much debate we decided to skip Pre-K, and go straight to kindergarten. If she wasn't ready for 1st by the end of the year I'm not afraid to hold her back and do it again, but I wanted her to have that challenge. **Story:** So, today was my daughters Kindergarten Orientation, the day you go to school and see your classroom, meet your teacher, your classmates, find your seat, your cubbie, etc. We were escorted into a room, it was half the size of the class room my step daughter had, it didn't have cubbies or desks, no decorations on the walls, we were confused. We were told it used to be the art room, then we were informed that we wouldn't be meeting the teacher today because... *there was no teacher to meet.* They haven't hired one yet. **School starts on Tuesday!** On top of that, I was told she was in an "overflow class," so she'll be in a class where the (one) teacher is teaching kindergarten AND pre-k at the same time. I understand that they can't be THAT much different, but there's a reason they are separate classes after all. I'm really upset about this, it just doesn't feel right at all. I adore this school, my step daughter (going into 4th grade) has gone here since pre-k, and we've never had the slightest problem. TL;DR: my daughter, starting kindergarten in a week, does not have a teacher yet, and will be in a class mixed with per-kindergarteners.<|endoftext|>
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I have no idea how to approach issues with my (28F) boyfriend (34M)
We've been together ten months, living together seven. My boyfriend sighs & immediately gets defensive when I try to bring an issue up. I've asked him not to sigh too many times, I given him reasons, he has said he'll try not to, he still does. We've discussed the defensive thing, he said he knows it's an issue & said he would try to work on it. He hasn't. He's asked me to bring up issues ASAP so they don't compound & we end up fighting, so I've been doing that, but he sighs, he gets defensive "Stop grumbling at me, I was just getting up to hang out with you before work" when I calmly brought up that he ate a couple of things he said I could have, I tried to explain that I don't like being told I can have something only to find the following morning/a few days later it's gone. Small thing, but I mentioned it as he's asked me to do & he gets defensive. I feel like I can't win! I've tried to change how I bring them up, I speak as calmly & almost meekly as I can & I still get the sighs & defensiveness. It's becoming a dealbreaker. I really struggle to discuss things that I feel need to be discussed & this reaction is just making it a whole lot worse. I'm becoming anxious about bringing issues up, even small ones. He's asked me to stop calling him a particular name because he doesn't like it, I was using it as a term or endearment, I stopped, I slipped up maybe a handful of times & always apologised afterwards. He's asked me to bring things up ASAP, I do, it gets, effectively, thrown in my face. I feel like I'm not asking anything ridiculous, nothing crazy. But I could be wrong. I feel like he's being selfish & not taking my feelings into consideration, but I have no idea how to bring it up, because he'll sigh, get defensive & take it way too personally. What do I do?
My boyfriend sighs & gets defensive when I bring things up, it makes me anxious about trying to bring things up with him, it's becoming a dealbreaker & I don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have no idea how to approach issues with my (28F) boyfriend (34M) POST: We've been together ten months, living together seven. My boyfriend sighs & immediately gets defensive when I try to bring an issue up. I've asked him not to sigh too many times, I given him reasons, he has said he'll try not to, he still does. We've discussed the defensive thing, he said he knows it's an issue & said he would try to work on it. He hasn't. He's asked me to bring up issues ASAP so they don't compound & we end up fighting, so I've been doing that, but he sighs, he gets defensive "Stop grumbling at me, I was just getting up to hang out with you before work" when I calmly brought up that he ate a couple of things he said I could have, I tried to explain that I don't like being told I can have something only to find the following morning/a few days later it's gone. Small thing, but I mentioned it as he's asked me to do & he gets defensive. I feel like I can't win! I've tried to change how I bring them up, I speak as calmly & almost meekly as I can & I still get the sighs & defensiveness. It's becoming a dealbreaker. I really struggle to discuss things that I feel need to be discussed & this reaction is just making it a whole lot worse. I'm becoming anxious about bringing issues up, even small ones. He's asked me to stop calling him a particular name because he doesn't like it, I was using it as a term or endearment, I stopped, I slipped up maybe a handful of times & always apologised afterwards. He's asked me to bring things up ASAP, I do, it gets, effectively, thrown in my face. I feel like I'm not asking anything ridiculous, nothing crazy. But I could be wrong. I feel like he's being selfish & not taking my feelings into consideration, but I have no idea how to bring it up, because he'll sigh, get defensive & take it way too personally. What do I do? TL;DR:
My boyfriend sighs & gets defensive when I bring things up, it makes me anxious about trying to bring things up with him, it's becoming a dealbreaker & I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have no idea how to approach issues with my (28F) boyfriend (34M) POST: We've been together ten months, living together seven. My boyfriend sighs & immediately gets defensive when I try to bring an issue up. I've asked him not to sigh too many times, I given him reasons, he has said he'll try not to, he still does. We've discussed the defensive thing, he said he knows it's an issue & said he would try to work on it. He hasn't. He's asked me to bring up issues ASAP so they don't compound & we end up fighting, so I've been doing that, but he sighs, he gets defensive "Stop grumbling at me, I was just getting up to hang out with you before work" when I calmly brought up that he ate a couple of things he said I could have, I tried to explain that I don't like being told I can have something only to find the following morning/a few days later it's gone. Small thing, but I mentioned it as he's asked me to do & he gets defensive. I feel like I can't win! I've tried to change how I bring them up, I speak as calmly & almost meekly as I can & I still get the sighs & defensiveness. It's becoming a dealbreaker. I really struggle to discuss things that I feel need to be discussed & this reaction is just making it a whole lot worse. I'm becoming anxious about bringing issues up, even small ones. He's asked me to stop calling him a particular name because he doesn't like it, I was using it as a term or endearment, I stopped, I slipped up maybe a handful of times & always apologised afterwards. He's asked me to bring things up ASAP, I do, it gets, effectively, thrown in my face. I feel like I'm not asking anything ridiculous, nothing crazy. But I could be wrong. I feel like he's being selfish & not taking my feelings into consideration, but I have no idea how to bring it up, because he'll sigh, get defensive & take it way too personally. What do I do? TL;DR: My boyfriend sighs & gets defensive when I bring things up, it makes me anxious about trying to bring things up with him, it's becoming a dealbreaker & I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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What's your biggest "trip" on reality you've ever had? To the point where you had to convince yourself this is real.
I just saw in a previous post a chick who looks JUST. LIKE. ME. Body shape, belly piercing, eyes, hair, hand size and finger size...everything The only, and I mean the ONLY, reason I know it's not me....after googleing her....I found out she was a porn star from Britain. That made things so much worse. I couldn't sleep last night I was up all night looking at pictures of her and trying to convince myself it was not me. I've never had a trip on reality so bad before. I'm terrified a co-worker will see it and think it's me, or my parents, or even worse...my own kid. I don't know how I could explain that. I feel like no one would believe me. I eventually had a good laugh but trust me, it took a while.
I thought I was a porn star last night and didn't know about it, but eventually hit reality and found out it's just a twin I don't know about :)
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your biggest "trip" on reality you've ever had? To the point where you had to convince yourself this is real. POST: I just saw in a previous post a chick who looks JUST. LIKE. ME. Body shape, belly piercing, eyes, hair, hand size and finger size...everything The only, and I mean the ONLY, reason I know it's not me....after googleing her....I found out she was a porn star from Britain. That made things so much worse. I couldn't sleep last night I was up all night looking at pictures of her and trying to convince myself it was not me. I've never had a trip on reality so bad before. I'm terrified a co-worker will see it and think it's me, or my parents, or even worse...my own kid. I don't know how I could explain that. I feel like no one would believe me. I eventually had a good laugh but trust me, it took a while. TL;DR:
I thought I was a porn star last night and didn't know about it, but eventually hit reality and found out it's just a twin I don't know about :)<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your biggest "trip" on reality you've ever had? To the point where you had to convince yourself this is real. POST: I just saw in a previous post a chick who looks JUST. LIKE. ME. Body shape, belly piercing, eyes, hair, hand size and finger size...everything The only, and I mean the ONLY, reason I know it's not me....after googleing her....I found out she was a porn star from Britain. That made things so much worse. I couldn't sleep last night I was up all night looking at pictures of her and trying to convince myself it was not me. I've never had a trip on reality so bad before. I'm terrified a co-worker will see it and think it's me, or my parents, or even worse...my own kid. I don't know how I could explain that. I feel like no one would believe me. I eventually had a good laugh but trust me, it took a while. TL;DR: I thought I was a porn star last night and didn't know about it, but eventually hit reality and found out it's just a twin I don't know about :)<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by buying my dog a dildo
Obligatory disclaimer. This happened about 3 years ago. I only remembered this FU as I'm watching my dog enjoy his "dildo" right now. I had never had my own dog before. In my early 30's and being a new home owner I decided to buy a border collie, the dog I always wanted. I found Thor at a local pet store (my naivety didn't let me realise how terrible those places are - I'm sorry) and fell I love with him. An adorable blue eyed border collie. As he grew, I did everything I could to keep him safe and happy. He would accompany me on long runs, but had an obsession for carrying sticks as we ran. I read that this is unsafe as the dog may slip and end up with splinters in his throat. I went to the pet shop and discovered a toy called "safe stix", a malleable plastic version of a stick. My dog sniffed it, loved it, we bought it. Straight to the park across the road from my house for a trial run: I threw it, he grabbed it and bounced back to me in joy. As he brought it to me I would take it and say in a playful voice "you want it? You want it? You'll get it!" As I waggled it in his face. I hear a voice from behind me: "You are disgusting young man, you should be ashamed of yourself" The voice came from a 60 something year old lady with a small child with her. Only then did I realise the resemblance was uncanny. As I tried to explain, the woman walked off in a huff and I felt like the sleaziest person to walk the earth. Thor still plays with his toy, but only in the seclusion of our home.
Trying to protect my dog, bought a dog toy that resembled a sex toy an offended an old lady and young child.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by buying my dog a dildo POST: Obligatory disclaimer. This happened about 3 years ago. I only remembered this FU as I'm watching my dog enjoy his "dildo" right now. I had never had my own dog before. In my early 30's and being a new home owner I decided to buy a border collie, the dog I always wanted. I found Thor at a local pet store (my naivety didn't let me realise how terrible those places are - I'm sorry) and fell I love with him. An adorable blue eyed border collie. As he grew, I did everything I could to keep him safe and happy. He would accompany me on long runs, but had an obsession for carrying sticks as we ran. I read that this is unsafe as the dog may slip and end up with splinters in his throat. I went to the pet shop and discovered a toy called "safe stix", a malleable plastic version of a stick. My dog sniffed it, loved it, we bought it. Straight to the park across the road from my house for a trial run: I threw it, he grabbed it and bounced back to me in joy. As he brought it to me I would take it and say in a playful voice "you want it? You want it? You'll get it!" As I waggled it in his face. I hear a voice from behind me: "You are disgusting young man, you should be ashamed of yourself" The voice came from a 60 something year old lady with a small child with her. Only then did I realise the resemblance was uncanny. As I tried to explain, the woman walked off in a huff and I felt like the sleaziest person to walk the earth. Thor still plays with his toy, but only in the seclusion of our home. TL;DR:
Trying to protect my dog, bought a dog toy that resembled a sex toy an offended an old lady and young child.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by buying my dog a dildo POST: Obligatory disclaimer. This happened about 3 years ago. I only remembered this FU as I'm watching my dog enjoy his "dildo" right now. I had never had my own dog before. In my early 30's and being a new home owner I decided to buy a border collie, the dog I always wanted. I found Thor at a local pet store (my naivety didn't let me realise how terrible those places are - I'm sorry) and fell I love with him. An adorable blue eyed border collie. As he grew, I did everything I could to keep him safe and happy. He would accompany me on long runs, but had an obsession for carrying sticks as we ran. I read that this is unsafe as the dog may slip and end up with splinters in his throat. I went to the pet shop and discovered a toy called "safe stix", a malleable plastic version of a stick. My dog sniffed it, loved it, we bought it. Straight to the park across the road from my house for a trial run: I threw it, he grabbed it and bounced back to me in joy. As he brought it to me I would take it and say in a playful voice "you want it? You want it? You'll get it!" As I waggled it in his face. I hear a voice from behind me: "You are disgusting young man, you should be ashamed of yourself" The voice came from a 60 something year old lady with a small child with her. Only then did I realise the resemblance was uncanny. As I tried to explain, the woman walked off in a huff and I felt like the sleaziest person to walk the earth. Thor still plays with his toy, but only in the seclusion of our home. TL;DR: Trying to protect my dog, bought a dog toy that resembled a sex toy an offended an old lady and young child.<|endoftext|>
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My SO[23f] is pregnant and is confusing me[23m]
So my SO told me she was pregnant in november(2nd child). I was not looking forward to it as I didn't want a 2nd kid but my wife is not the abortion type. We were very close on the verge to going seperate ways as well as I was deploying in december. It mostly overall blows over and I accept my fate. Today I was talking to her and were talking about her sister being pregnant with a 3rd and that her baby's daddy said he would leave if she has that kid. I told her I would do the same and that I almost did it 6 months ago. Then she tells me that if we would've gotten divorced we would've gone our seperate ways and she would've aborted the baby.
Ok so divorcing she takes the common sense route of being able to support our son but not a 2nd kid and would abort out of "necessity"/
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My SO[23f] is pregnant and is confusing me[23m] POST: So my SO told me she was pregnant in november(2nd child). I was not looking forward to it as I didn't want a 2nd kid but my wife is not the abortion type. We were very close on the verge to going seperate ways as well as I was deploying in december. It mostly overall blows over and I accept my fate. Today I was talking to her and were talking about her sister being pregnant with a 3rd and that her baby's daddy said he would leave if she has that kid. I told her I would do the same and that I almost did it 6 months ago. Then she tells me that if we would've gotten divorced we would've gone our seperate ways and she would've aborted the baby. TL;DR:
Ok so divorcing she takes the common sense route of being able to support our son but not a 2nd kid and would abort out of "necessity"/<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My SO[23f] is pregnant and is confusing me[23m] POST: So my SO told me she was pregnant in november(2nd child). I was not looking forward to it as I didn't want a 2nd kid but my wife is not the abortion type. We were very close on the verge to going seperate ways as well as I was deploying in december. It mostly overall blows over and I accept my fate. Today I was talking to her and were talking about her sister being pregnant with a 3rd and that her baby's daddy said he would leave if she has that kid. I told her I would do the same and that I almost did it 6 months ago. Then she tells me that if we would've gotten divorced we would've gone our seperate ways and she would've aborted the baby. TL;DR: Ok so divorcing she takes the common sense route of being able to support our son but not a 2nd kid and would abort out of "necessity"/<|endoftext|>
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(Progress, 20F 157 > 138) Picture of me from last year at my first attempted 5K run (155lbs) next to a picture from today's Memorial Day 5K Run (138lbs)
* Face comparison: * Upper Body comparison: The first 5k was brutal. I didn't like to run-- not even to the fridge. Yet, there I was, standing like a lost child at the starting line, nervously kicking my discount sneakers in the dirt. I had no idea just what I'd gotten myself into. At around 157 and nearly 33% body fat, I was not healthy nor happy. Oh, but I did 'run' that 5K alright-- all 48 minutes of it. I would have been last, if not for a group of powerwalking ladies and some elderly folks who finished behind me. How disappointing! I would never run a 5K again as long as I can help it! Or so I thought. That was one year ago, and I thought there was no hope for me. But the strangest thing happened-- I dared myself to go back and do a 5K the next week. And the week after that. And the week after that. Eventually, I'd run 5K three times a week, and even a 10K here and there. Today, I ran a 5K for a Memorial Day event (in 29 minutes flat!), and after lining up my first and most recent 5K face pictures side-by-side, I realized that a lot can change in one year. A lot can change when you dare yourself to step out of your comfort zone.
Hate running? Challenge yourself to jog for 20 minutes today. You can only do one pushup today? Shoot for two tomorrow. You can only get better if you keep at it!
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: (Progress, 20F 157 > 138) Picture of me from last year at my first attempted 5K run (155lbs) next to a picture from today's Memorial Day 5K Run (138lbs) POST: * Face comparison: * Upper Body comparison: The first 5k was brutal. I didn't like to run-- not even to the fridge. Yet, there I was, standing like a lost child at the starting line, nervously kicking my discount sneakers in the dirt. I had no idea just what I'd gotten myself into. At around 157 and nearly 33% body fat, I was not healthy nor happy. Oh, but I did 'run' that 5K alright-- all 48 minutes of it. I would have been last, if not for a group of powerwalking ladies and some elderly folks who finished behind me. How disappointing! I would never run a 5K again as long as I can help it! Or so I thought. That was one year ago, and I thought there was no hope for me. But the strangest thing happened-- I dared myself to go back and do a 5K the next week. And the week after that. And the week after that. Eventually, I'd run 5K three times a week, and even a 10K here and there. Today, I ran a 5K for a Memorial Day event (in 29 minutes flat!), and after lining up my first and most recent 5K face pictures side-by-side, I realized that a lot can change in one year. A lot can change when you dare yourself to step out of your comfort zone. TL;DR:
Hate running? Challenge yourself to jog for 20 minutes today. You can only do one pushup today? Shoot for two tomorrow. You can only get better if you keep at it!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: (Progress, 20F 157 > 138) Picture of me from last year at my first attempted 5K run (155lbs) next to a picture from today's Memorial Day 5K Run (138lbs) POST: * Face comparison: * Upper Body comparison: The first 5k was brutal. I didn't like to run-- not even to the fridge. Yet, there I was, standing like a lost child at the starting line, nervously kicking my discount sneakers in the dirt. I had no idea just what I'd gotten myself into. At around 157 and nearly 33% body fat, I was not healthy nor happy. Oh, but I did 'run' that 5K alright-- all 48 minutes of it. I would have been last, if not for a group of powerwalking ladies and some elderly folks who finished behind me. How disappointing! I would never run a 5K again as long as I can help it! Or so I thought. That was one year ago, and I thought there was no hope for me. But the strangest thing happened-- I dared myself to go back and do a 5K the next week. And the week after that. And the week after that. Eventually, I'd run 5K three times a week, and even a 10K here and there. Today, I ran a 5K for a Memorial Day event (in 29 minutes flat!), and after lining up my first and most recent 5K face pictures side-by-side, I realized that a lot can change in one year. A lot can change when you dare yourself to step out of your comfort zone. TL;DR: Hate running? Challenge yourself to jog for 20 minutes today. You can only do one pushup today? Shoot for two tomorrow. You can only get better if you keep at it!<|endoftext|>
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I [22 M] am in a long distance relationship with my GF [23/F] for 4 months and it's getting tough. Should I move back?
I'll try to keep it as short as I can, so I won't take you through the entire relationship background - just a brief overview. I've actually known my girlfriend since we were ~ 15 and we were good friends for a few years until we lost touch with one another. Last I saw her was at a workplace which I applied for and she happened to be there as well. Naturally, I picked up a conversation with her and from the beginning I noticed that this wasn't a typical small talk conversation. I enjoyed speaking with her very much. We began talking more frequently, until we starting meeting outside of our workplace. We fell in love with each other quickly after going out on a few occasions. We have been together for about 7 months - probably the best of my entire life. The reason that I left the country is because It was very challenging. I was having a very rough time in that country and was not enjoying living there so much. I made the decision to leave (back to the place from which I originally came). It has been about 4 months that we've been doing LDR. I've seen her for two weeks in between this time so far and it's so hard on my heart, and hers too. It hurts me to think that she doesn't have her man beside her. I need my woman. I love her with all my heart. I want to be with her every day, and every night. Now that the distance is between us, I really feel the difficulties. To make matters more complicated, I haven't been able to start college yet and have only been enrolled for one month. College was the primary reason for my return. I don't have the education/means to support ourselves. I don't want to do something ignorant and risk my education (and therefore my income capability) or our future. Also, she cannot reside where I do, but I can always live back with her. So I am absolutely confused and would love to hear some advice from all of you. Should I stay put? go back and stay with her? --- Thank you.
In an amazing relationship with my GF of 10 months. Long distance for 4. It's very hard to be away from her and I don't know whether I should consider going back.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am in a long distance relationship with my GF [23/F] for 4 months and it's getting tough. Should I move back? POST: I'll try to keep it as short as I can, so I won't take you through the entire relationship background - just a brief overview. I've actually known my girlfriend since we were ~ 15 and we were good friends for a few years until we lost touch with one another. Last I saw her was at a workplace which I applied for and she happened to be there as well. Naturally, I picked up a conversation with her and from the beginning I noticed that this wasn't a typical small talk conversation. I enjoyed speaking with her very much. We began talking more frequently, until we starting meeting outside of our workplace. We fell in love with each other quickly after going out on a few occasions. We have been together for about 7 months - probably the best of my entire life. The reason that I left the country is because It was very challenging. I was having a very rough time in that country and was not enjoying living there so much. I made the decision to leave (back to the place from which I originally came). It has been about 4 months that we've been doing LDR. I've seen her for two weeks in between this time so far and it's so hard on my heart, and hers too. It hurts me to think that she doesn't have her man beside her. I need my woman. I love her with all my heart. I want to be with her every day, and every night. Now that the distance is between us, I really feel the difficulties. To make matters more complicated, I haven't been able to start college yet and have only been enrolled for one month. College was the primary reason for my return. I don't have the education/means to support ourselves. I don't want to do something ignorant and risk my education (and therefore my income capability) or our future. Also, she cannot reside where I do, but I can always live back with her. So I am absolutely confused and would love to hear some advice from all of you. Should I stay put? go back and stay with her? --- Thank you. TL;DR:
In an amazing relationship with my GF of 10 months. Long distance for 4. It's very hard to be away from her and I don't know whether I should consider going back.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am in a long distance relationship with my GF [23/F] for 4 months and it's getting tough. Should I move back? POST: I'll try to keep it as short as I can, so I won't take you through the entire relationship background - just a brief overview. I've actually known my girlfriend since we were ~ 15 and we were good friends for a few years until we lost touch with one another. Last I saw her was at a workplace which I applied for and she happened to be there as well. Naturally, I picked up a conversation with her and from the beginning I noticed that this wasn't a typical small talk conversation. I enjoyed speaking with her very much. We began talking more frequently, until we starting meeting outside of our workplace. We fell in love with each other quickly after going out on a few occasions. We have been together for about 7 months - probably the best of my entire life. The reason that I left the country is because It was very challenging. I was having a very rough time in that country and was not enjoying living there so much. I made the decision to leave (back to the place from which I originally came). It has been about 4 months that we've been doing LDR. I've seen her for two weeks in between this time so far and it's so hard on my heart, and hers too. It hurts me to think that she doesn't have her man beside her. I need my woman. I love her with all my heart. I want to be with her every day, and every night. Now that the distance is between us, I really feel the difficulties. To make matters more complicated, I haven't been able to start college yet and have only been enrolled for one month. College was the primary reason for my return. I don't have the education/means to support ourselves. I don't want to do something ignorant and risk my education (and therefore my income capability) or our future. Also, she cannot reside where I do, but I can always live back with her. So I am absolutely confused and would love to hear some advice from all of you. Should I stay put? go back and stay with her? --- Thank you. TL;DR: In an amazing relationship with my GF of 10 months. Long distance for 4. It's very hard to be away from her and I don't know whether I should consider going back.<|endoftext|>
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Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [27 F] of 1.5 years, is giving me problems about drug habits
So First off I'm not really sure if we are going to get back together or not. Also my family and her had an 'intervention' for my pot use and its a bit unclear how involved with this she was or if she really got the ball rolling on the whole thing. I've quit smoking weed. The story behind the vaporizer is that she broke my really expensive one $500 and it was irreplaceable and unfixable due to the company launching Version 2, she also didn't mention it when she broke it so I came home to use it only to find it broken and she was out on the town somewhere. So after realizing we couldn't replace or fix it she bought this portable vaporizer to fix the situation This morning I get an email from the portable vaporizers tech support acknowledging they got my request and I this point since it was no longer in the place that I kept it and I wasn't here when she was moving out its pretty safe to assume that she took it. I feel like the vaporizer was mine since she bought it to replace something she broke. Now if she had asked I probably would have given it to her. But at the same time I could have sold it to put money towards a guitar amp that I have been saving for. I thought about just forwarding the email to her and saying that I wish she had told me, but I don't want to stir up any drama. Also I know what needs to happen to fix it. It feels a bit like she stole from me.
GF took vaporizer that she bought to replace mine she broke, moved out and took it back without telling me. What to say?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [27 F] of 1.5 years, is giving me problems about drug habits POST: So First off I'm not really sure if we are going to get back together or not. Also my family and her had an 'intervention' for my pot use and its a bit unclear how involved with this she was or if she really got the ball rolling on the whole thing. I've quit smoking weed. The story behind the vaporizer is that she broke my really expensive one $500 and it was irreplaceable and unfixable due to the company launching Version 2, she also didn't mention it when she broke it so I came home to use it only to find it broken and she was out on the town somewhere. So after realizing we couldn't replace or fix it she bought this portable vaporizer to fix the situation This morning I get an email from the portable vaporizers tech support acknowledging they got my request and I this point since it was no longer in the place that I kept it and I wasn't here when she was moving out its pretty safe to assume that she took it. I feel like the vaporizer was mine since she bought it to replace something she broke. Now if she had asked I probably would have given it to her. But at the same time I could have sold it to put money towards a guitar amp that I have been saving for. I thought about just forwarding the email to her and saying that I wish she had told me, but I don't want to stir up any drama. Also I know what needs to happen to fix it. It feels a bit like she stole from me. TL;DR:
GF took vaporizer that she bought to replace mine she broke, moved out and took it back without telling me. What to say?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [27 F] of 1.5 years, is giving me problems about drug habits POST: So First off I'm not really sure if we are going to get back together or not. Also my family and her had an 'intervention' for my pot use and its a bit unclear how involved with this she was or if she really got the ball rolling on the whole thing. I've quit smoking weed. The story behind the vaporizer is that she broke my really expensive one $500 and it was irreplaceable and unfixable due to the company launching Version 2, she also didn't mention it when she broke it so I came home to use it only to find it broken and she was out on the town somewhere. So after realizing we couldn't replace or fix it she bought this portable vaporizer to fix the situation This morning I get an email from the portable vaporizers tech support acknowledging they got my request and I this point since it was no longer in the place that I kept it and I wasn't here when she was moving out its pretty safe to assume that she took it. I feel like the vaporizer was mine since she bought it to replace something she broke. Now if she had asked I probably would have given it to her. But at the same time I could have sold it to put money towards a guitar amp that I have been saving for. I thought about just forwarding the email to her and saying that I wish she had told me, but I don't want to stir up any drama. Also I know what needs to happen to fix it. It feels a bit like she stole from me. TL;DR: GF took vaporizer that she bought to replace mine she broke, moved out and took it back without telling me. What to say?<|endoftext|>
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I (M17) need some advice on asking a girl (F18) out as a first timer, but there are a few problems.
So I (a 17 yo. male) have never asked a girl out before ever. I have no problems talking with them, but getting any deeper is no good. So I have just been that single guy not asking anyone out or anything of that sort. So on to the task before me: I'm pretty sure I found "the" one, or at least a one, that I am crazy over. She's 18 and we're good friends. We have a lot of similar interests with the biggest one being music. The biggest issues I see getting in a relationship with her are that she's graduating this year and moving to college 2 hours away in the fall. The other problem is that her previous relationships have been terrible with terrible guys. She swore off dating for the rest of high school and I don't want to come off as an ass for starting with essentially "Hey you're not in high school anymore, want to go out?" as that is what I feel like asking her out right now would be saying. All that said, she is an amazing person and is really everything I'm looking for in a girl.
As a first timer I cant work up the courage to go out with an amazing girl because she has had some bad relationships and is moving 2 hours away in the fall.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (M17) need some advice on asking a girl (F18) out as a first timer, but there are a few problems. POST: So I (a 17 yo. male) have never asked a girl out before ever. I have no problems talking with them, but getting any deeper is no good. So I have just been that single guy not asking anyone out or anything of that sort. So on to the task before me: I'm pretty sure I found "the" one, or at least a one, that I am crazy over. She's 18 and we're good friends. We have a lot of similar interests with the biggest one being music. The biggest issues I see getting in a relationship with her are that she's graduating this year and moving to college 2 hours away in the fall. The other problem is that her previous relationships have been terrible with terrible guys. She swore off dating for the rest of high school and I don't want to come off as an ass for starting with essentially "Hey you're not in high school anymore, want to go out?" as that is what I feel like asking her out right now would be saying. All that said, she is an amazing person and is really everything I'm looking for in a girl. TL;DR:
As a first timer I cant work up the courage to go out with an amazing girl because she has had some bad relationships and is moving 2 hours away in the fall.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (M17) need some advice on asking a girl (F18) out as a first timer, but there are a few problems. POST: So I (a 17 yo. male) have never asked a girl out before ever. I have no problems talking with them, but getting any deeper is no good. So I have just been that single guy not asking anyone out or anything of that sort. So on to the task before me: I'm pretty sure I found "the" one, or at least a one, that I am crazy over. She's 18 and we're good friends. We have a lot of similar interests with the biggest one being music. The biggest issues I see getting in a relationship with her are that she's graduating this year and moving to college 2 hours away in the fall. The other problem is that her previous relationships have been terrible with terrible guys. She swore off dating for the rest of high school and I don't want to come off as an ass for starting with essentially "Hey you're not in high school anymore, want to go out?" as that is what I feel like asking her out right now would be saying. All that said, she is an amazing person and is really everything I'm looking for in a girl. TL;DR: As a first timer I cant work up the courage to go out with an amazing girl because she has had some bad relationships and is moving 2 hours away in the fall.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend [23M] of 2.5 years and I [21] broke up last week due to distance complications. I'm suddenly hating 80% of all music and film. How do I fill he silence?
Hey there, /r/relationships, So, due to some long and painful reasons involving long-term long distance and future uncertainty vis a vis locale and other such logistical delights, my boyfriend and I broke up. It wasn't precisely mutual, but neither one of us wanted to be in a situation where he was the bad guy, so we tend to present "we broke up" rather than "he dumped me and it was terrible." The advice I have received from friends and family is overwhelmingly in the style of "you need a good cry," "listen to some Joni," and "he's an asshole, forget him." In the 30 hours between breaking up and touching down in the states, I'd estimate I spent 4 of them asleep, ~18 crying on and off and the rest distracting my feelings with reggaeton. Also being silently mocked by an 11 year old passenger on my flight. This is a person whom I love very dearly, who in my absence is lonely and is equally upset by the circumstances as I am. He is not an asshole, nor will I forget him easily. I frankly dwell on the issue enough as it is, and think Joni will make me sadder which I feel to be an odd aim. I burst into tears on the subway the other day when a vaguely affectionate line from an Irish folk tune ("Though autumn leaves may droop and dry/ A bud of spring are you") caught me off guard. I'd like to have some refuge from my sadness and also hold on to enough dignity to not cry in public when I can avoid it. I hate ruining good songs with breakups, but all of the cathartic fuck you or I'm so sad breakup songs that have helped me before are proving useless. I've watched a few older movies whose aims are not romantic (12 Angry Men, Shawshank, Dr. Strangelove) and listened to some folk tunes, but am running out of ideas. Do y'all know of any media that could provide some non-romantic solace?
Breakups suck and I really don't want to dwell on mine more than I already do. Know any good breakup tunes/shows/movies which are distracting rather than on the nose?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [23M] of 2.5 years and I [21] broke up last week due to distance complications. I'm suddenly hating 80% of all music and film. How do I fill he silence? POST: Hey there, /r/relationships, So, due to some long and painful reasons involving long-term long distance and future uncertainty vis a vis locale and other such logistical delights, my boyfriend and I broke up. It wasn't precisely mutual, but neither one of us wanted to be in a situation where he was the bad guy, so we tend to present "we broke up" rather than "he dumped me and it was terrible." The advice I have received from friends and family is overwhelmingly in the style of "you need a good cry," "listen to some Joni," and "he's an asshole, forget him." In the 30 hours between breaking up and touching down in the states, I'd estimate I spent 4 of them asleep, ~18 crying on and off and the rest distracting my feelings with reggaeton. Also being silently mocked by an 11 year old passenger on my flight. This is a person whom I love very dearly, who in my absence is lonely and is equally upset by the circumstances as I am. He is not an asshole, nor will I forget him easily. I frankly dwell on the issue enough as it is, and think Joni will make me sadder which I feel to be an odd aim. I burst into tears on the subway the other day when a vaguely affectionate line from an Irish folk tune ("Though autumn leaves may droop and dry/ A bud of spring are you") caught me off guard. I'd like to have some refuge from my sadness and also hold on to enough dignity to not cry in public when I can avoid it. I hate ruining good songs with breakups, but all of the cathartic fuck you or I'm so sad breakup songs that have helped me before are proving useless. I've watched a few older movies whose aims are not romantic (12 Angry Men, Shawshank, Dr. Strangelove) and listened to some folk tunes, but am running out of ideas. Do y'all know of any media that could provide some non-romantic solace? TL;DR:
Breakups suck and I really don't want to dwell on mine more than I already do. Know any good breakup tunes/shows/movies which are distracting rather than on the nose?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [23M] of 2.5 years and I [21] broke up last week due to distance complications. I'm suddenly hating 80% of all music and film. How do I fill he silence? POST: Hey there, /r/relationships, So, due to some long and painful reasons involving long-term long distance and future uncertainty vis a vis locale and other such logistical delights, my boyfriend and I broke up. It wasn't precisely mutual, but neither one of us wanted to be in a situation where he was the bad guy, so we tend to present "we broke up" rather than "he dumped me and it was terrible." The advice I have received from friends and family is overwhelmingly in the style of "you need a good cry," "listen to some Joni," and "he's an asshole, forget him." In the 30 hours between breaking up and touching down in the states, I'd estimate I spent 4 of them asleep, ~18 crying on and off and the rest distracting my feelings with reggaeton. Also being silently mocked by an 11 year old passenger on my flight. This is a person whom I love very dearly, who in my absence is lonely and is equally upset by the circumstances as I am. He is not an asshole, nor will I forget him easily. I frankly dwell on the issue enough as it is, and think Joni will make me sadder which I feel to be an odd aim. I burst into tears on the subway the other day when a vaguely affectionate line from an Irish folk tune ("Though autumn leaves may droop and dry/ A bud of spring are you") caught me off guard. I'd like to have some refuge from my sadness and also hold on to enough dignity to not cry in public when I can avoid it. I hate ruining good songs with breakups, but all of the cathartic fuck you or I'm so sad breakup songs that have helped me before are proving useless. I've watched a few older movies whose aims are not romantic (12 Angry Men, Shawshank, Dr. Strangelove) and listened to some folk tunes, but am running out of ideas. Do y'all know of any media that could provide some non-romantic solace? TL;DR: Breakups suck and I really don't want to dwell on mine more than I already do. Know any good breakup tunes/shows/movies which are distracting rather than on the nose?<|endoftext|>
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My boss [~40m] playing favorites with coworkers...should I [30F] go to HR or keep my mouth shut?
I'm becoming increasingly frustrated at work because my boss seems to be playing favorites with some employees, and it's interfering with my productivity. I need some advice on what to do. There are about 10 of us in the office, I'm 30F, everyone else is between 30-40, male and female, about 50/50. There are 3-4 employees that are regularly invited to have lunch with the boss. I have never been invited, and neither have some of the other employees. This small group sort of forms an inner clique among our work group. The issue is that I regularly have a problem with a couple of these people not doing their job, and when I try to bring it to light they are never held accountable by the boss, I suspect because they are part of the 'lunch clique'. This has happened three times now. I am not the only person experiencing this, I've talked to some of my fellow coworkers who feel the same. Apparently I'm not the only one having problems with the laziness of our team members...others have noticed that not only do they take hour lunches with the boss (the rest of us get 30 mins), but they spend a good portion of their workday schmoozing him. The quality of their work is not really great because they waste so much of their work day, leaving the rest of us to pick up the slack. However, no one seems really brave enough to say anything since the boss is at the head of the clique. Quite honestly, I think he is enjoying the attention. How should I handle this situation? Part of me wants to have a conversation with him if I can ever get some 1 on 1 time with him, and just calmly let him know that I'm feeling excluded and frustrated, but part of me is afraid that if I do this I'll put a target on my back. Should I just go to HR?
Boss plays favorites at work, making myself and other employees frustrated, no one brave enough to speak up about it. What should I (we) do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boss [~40m] playing favorites with coworkers...should I [30F] go to HR or keep my mouth shut? POST: I'm becoming increasingly frustrated at work because my boss seems to be playing favorites with some employees, and it's interfering with my productivity. I need some advice on what to do. There are about 10 of us in the office, I'm 30F, everyone else is between 30-40, male and female, about 50/50. There are 3-4 employees that are regularly invited to have lunch with the boss. I have never been invited, and neither have some of the other employees. This small group sort of forms an inner clique among our work group. The issue is that I regularly have a problem with a couple of these people not doing their job, and when I try to bring it to light they are never held accountable by the boss, I suspect because they are part of the 'lunch clique'. This has happened three times now. I am not the only person experiencing this, I've talked to some of my fellow coworkers who feel the same. Apparently I'm not the only one having problems with the laziness of our team members...others have noticed that not only do they take hour lunches with the boss (the rest of us get 30 mins), but they spend a good portion of their workday schmoozing him. The quality of their work is not really great because they waste so much of their work day, leaving the rest of us to pick up the slack. However, no one seems really brave enough to say anything since the boss is at the head of the clique. Quite honestly, I think he is enjoying the attention. How should I handle this situation? Part of me wants to have a conversation with him if I can ever get some 1 on 1 time with him, and just calmly let him know that I'm feeling excluded and frustrated, but part of me is afraid that if I do this I'll put a target on my back. Should I just go to HR? TL;DR:
Boss plays favorites at work, making myself and other employees frustrated, no one brave enough to speak up about it. What should I (we) do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boss [~40m] playing favorites with coworkers...should I [30F] go to HR or keep my mouth shut? POST: I'm becoming increasingly frustrated at work because my boss seems to be playing favorites with some employees, and it's interfering with my productivity. I need some advice on what to do. There are about 10 of us in the office, I'm 30F, everyone else is between 30-40, male and female, about 50/50. There are 3-4 employees that are regularly invited to have lunch with the boss. I have never been invited, and neither have some of the other employees. This small group sort of forms an inner clique among our work group. The issue is that I regularly have a problem with a couple of these people not doing their job, and when I try to bring it to light they are never held accountable by the boss, I suspect because they are part of the 'lunch clique'. This has happened three times now. I am not the only person experiencing this, I've talked to some of my fellow coworkers who feel the same. Apparently I'm not the only one having problems with the laziness of our team members...others have noticed that not only do they take hour lunches with the boss (the rest of us get 30 mins), but they spend a good portion of their workday schmoozing him. The quality of their work is not really great because they waste so much of their work day, leaving the rest of us to pick up the slack. However, no one seems really brave enough to say anything since the boss is at the head of the clique. Quite honestly, I think he is enjoying the attention. How should I handle this situation? Part of me wants to have a conversation with him if I can ever get some 1 on 1 time with him, and just calmly let him know that I'm feeling excluded and frustrated, but part of me is afraid that if I do this I'll put a target on my back. Should I just go to HR? TL;DR: Boss plays favorites at work, making myself and other employees frustrated, no one brave enough to speak up about it. What should I (we) do?<|endoftext|>
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t3_2coogg
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Here is my [M17] delema...
To start off with, I am not in a relationship at the moment. I am writing this based on what I know will be a sure future for me. School is comming to an end for me and I have a vague idea of what I want to do with my life. Without being too specific, the career I am interested requires one to be out at sea for a month, and off for a month. The pay is excellent and the job seems very interesting. Now I've always imagined myself as a family man, married with a couple kickers on the side. The problem which is worrying me is that I don't think I could a) Spend excessive time away from my family and b) Trust someone enough not to have an affair. Now I don't know if I would adapt to these conditions or if I'd just continuously hate my job and regret the choice which I am attempting to make now. I'm sorry that this post doesn't deal with a crazy wife of a sax ex husband but I don't really know where else to ask and I know the community here are amazing. Cheers for any advice you could possibly give me :)
I don't know if I will be able to fulfil my dream of being a family man while working at the career I'm interested in.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Here is my [M17] delema... POST: To start off with, I am not in a relationship at the moment. I am writing this based on what I know will be a sure future for me. School is comming to an end for me and I have a vague idea of what I want to do with my life. Without being too specific, the career I am interested requires one to be out at sea for a month, and off for a month. The pay is excellent and the job seems very interesting. Now I've always imagined myself as a family man, married with a couple kickers on the side. The problem which is worrying me is that I don't think I could a) Spend excessive time away from my family and b) Trust someone enough not to have an affair. Now I don't know if I would adapt to these conditions or if I'd just continuously hate my job and regret the choice which I am attempting to make now. I'm sorry that this post doesn't deal with a crazy wife of a sax ex husband but I don't really know where else to ask and I know the community here are amazing. Cheers for any advice you could possibly give me :) TL;DR:
I don't know if I will be able to fulfil my dream of being a family man while working at the career I'm interested in.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Here is my [M17] delema... POST: To start off with, I am not in a relationship at the moment. I am writing this based on what I know will be a sure future for me. School is comming to an end for me and I have a vague idea of what I want to do with my life. Without being too specific, the career I am interested requires one to be out at sea for a month, and off for a month. The pay is excellent and the job seems very interesting. Now I've always imagined myself as a family man, married with a couple kickers on the side. The problem which is worrying me is that I don't think I could a) Spend excessive time away from my family and b) Trust someone enough not to have an affair. Now I don't know if I would adapt to these conditions or if I'd just continuously hate my job and regret the choice which I am attempting to make now. I'm sorry that this post doesn't deal with a crazy wife of a sax ex husband but I don't really know where else to ask and I know the community here are amazing. Cheers for any advice you could possibly give me :) TL;DR: I don't know if I will be able to fulfil my dream of being a family man while working at the career I'm interested in.<|endoftext|>
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My [24F] parents [50sM/F] constantly make "concerned" comments about my weight, how to get them to stop?
I've been living on my own for a while, and now every single time I see my parents they feel the need to comment on my weight and appearance extensively. Every time I say something, they say that they are just making a comment, just concerned, or just checking in, etc. My mom: tells me I'm *sooo* thin, asks me if I'm eating enough, even tells me not to have an eating disorder. She says my face is getting so bony, I'm so tiny, etc., and constantly asks if I'm taking my vitamins/going to the doctor, worried that I'm too skinny. My dad: tells me I need to work out more, that I still have some chubbiness to get rid of, encourages me to avoid junk food/suggests healthier snacks. Always asks me if I have been going running. Right now, I am at a healthy weight, I am eating the healthiest I ever have, trying to cut down on junk and soda, and being really good about exercising. I don't know why they keep making comments and I don't know how to get them to stop. Advice?
Parents keep making unwanted/unwarranted comments about my weight. Why do they keep doing this and how can I get them to stop?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] parents [50sM/F] constantly make "concerned" comments about my weight, how to get them to stop? POST: I've been living on my own for a while, and now every single time I see my parents they feel the need to comment on my weight and appearance extensively. Every time I say something, they say that they are just making a comment, just concerned, or just checking in, etc. My mom: tells me I'm *sooo* thin, asks me if I'm eating enough, even tells me not to have an eating disorder. She says my face is getting so bony, I'm so tiny, etc., and constantly asks if I'm taking my vitamins/going to the doctor, worried that I'm too skinny. My dad: tells me I need to work out more, that I still have some chubbiness to get rid of, encourages me to avoid junk food/suggests healthier snacks. Always asks me if I have been going running. Right now, I am at a healthy weight, I am eating the healthiest I ever have, trying to cut down on junk and soda, and being really good about exercising. I don't know why they keep making comments and I don't know how to get them to stop. Advice? TL;DR:
Parents keep making unwanted/unwarranted comments about my weight. Why do they keep doing this and how can I get them to stop?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] parents [50sM/F] constantly make "concerned" comments about my weight, how to get them to stop? POST: I've been living on my own for a while, and now every single time I see my parents they feel the need to comment on my weight and appearance extensively. Every time I say something, they say that they are just making a comment, just concerned, or just checking in, etc. My mom: tells me I'm *sooo* thin, asks me if I'm eating enough, even tells me not to have an eating disorder. She says my face is getting so bony, I'm so tiny, etc., and constantly asks if I'm taking my vitamins/going to the doctor, worried that I'm too skinny. My dad: tells me I need to work out more, that I still have some chubbiness to get rid of, encourages me to avoid junk food/suggests healthier snacks. Always asks me if I have been going running. Right now, I am at a healthy weight, I am eating the healthiest I ever have, trying to cut down on junk and soda, and being really good about exercising. I don't know why they keep making comments and I don't know how to get them to stop. Advice? TL;DR: Parents keep making unwanted/unwarranted comments about my weight. Why do they keep doing this and how can I get them to stop?<|endoftext|>
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TIFU and am never going back to a certain Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop again...
So I was working today and went to go get me and my manager coffees at a Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop. Go to the Starbuck's, all is good, get my managers coffee, a small hot black, and mine, small iced, then go around the corner of the Starbucks kiosk to put cream and sugar in my coffee. Now mind you, the two people staffed at the little Starbucks shop cannot clearly see me now that I have moved to cream and sugar my coffee. So I go to put cream in my coffee, all is well. I snap the lid back on and realize I forgot the sugar. No problem. I snap the lid back off and put sugar in my coffee. Now here is how the devil lid fucks everything up. I try to snap the plastic lid back onto my coffee and struggle. Then as I push down trying to get it on, the lid goes one way and the coffee the other. Almost my entire iced coffee goes spilling all over the little table with cream, sugars, and stirrers and all over the nearby trash can. I get about 10 napkins and try to mop up all the coffee but it's too much, fuck. I realize now I should tell the employees. But then it dawns on me there are no other customers, and the employees cannot see me. So I decide to just make my escape and quickly walk off leaving the sugar and cream table covered in my iced coffee. Yes I realize I am an asshole but it was out of pure awkwardness and panic. I get out into the parking lot and drive off, with only one coffee in hand. So yeah, next time I go for coffee break, I don't think I will choose that place because they will have realized what I did and probably think I'm the world's biggest ass hole.
Spilt iced coffee all over Starbucks kiosk in Stop and Shop, escaped, and now I am the coffee asshole.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU and am never going back to a certain Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop again... POST: So I was working today and went to go get me and my manager coffees at a Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop. Go to the Starbuck's, all is good, get my managers coffee, a small hot black, and mine, small iced, then go around the corner of the Starbucks kiosk to put cream and sugar in my coffee. Now mind you, the two people staffed at the little Starbucks shop cannot clearly see me now that I have moved to cream and sugar my coffee. So I go to put cream in my coffee, all is well. I snap the lid back on and realize I forgot the sugar. No problem. I snap the lid back off and put sugar in my coffee. Now here is how the devil lid fucks everything up. I try to snap the plastic lid back onto my coffee and struggle. Then as I push down trying to get it on, the lid goes one way and the coffee the other. Almost my entire iced coffee goes spilling all over the little table with cream, sugars, and stirrers and all over the nearby trash can. I get about 10 napkins and try to mop up all the coffee but it's too much, fuck. I realize now I should tell the employees. But then it dawns on me there are no other customers, and the employees cannot see me. So I decide to just make my escape and quickly walk off leaving the sugar and cream table covered in my iced coffee. Yes I realize I am an asshole but it was out of pure awkwardness and panic. I get out into the parking lot and drive off, with only one coffee in hand. So yeah, next time I go for coffee break, I don't think I will choose that place because they will have realized what I did and probably think I'm the world's biggest ass hole. TL;DR:
Spilt iced coffee all over Starbucks kiosk in Stop and Shop, escaped, and now I am the coffee asshole.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU and am never going back to a certain Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop again... POST: So I was working today and went to go get me and my manager coffees at a Starbuck's within a Stop and Shop. Go to the Starbuck's, all is good, get my managers coffee, a small hot black, and mine, small iced, then go around the corner of the Starbucks kiosk to put cream and sugar in my coffee. Now mind you, the two people staffed at the little Starbucks shop cannot clearly see me now that I have moved to cream and sugar my coffee. So I go to put cream in my coffee, all is well. I snap the lid back on and realize I forgot the sugar. No problem. I snap the lid back off and put sugar in my coffee. Now here is how the devil lid fucks everything up. I try to snap the plastic lid back onto my coffee and struggle. Then as I push down trying to get it on, the lid goes one way and the coffee the other. Almost my entire iced coffee goes spilling all over the little table with cream, sugars, and stirrers and all over the nearby trash can. I get about 10 napkins and try to mop up all the coffee but it's too much, fuck. I realize now I should tell the employees. But then it dawns on me there are no other customers, and the employees cannot see me. So I decide to just make my escape and quickly walk off leaving the sugar and cream table covered in my iced coffee. Yes I realize I am an asshole but it was out of pure awkwardness and panic. I get out into the parking lot and drive off, with only one coffee in hand. So yeah, next time I go for coffee break, I don't think I will choose that place because they will have realized what I did and probably think I'm the world's biggest ass hole. TL;DR: Spilt iced coffee all over Starbucks kiosk in Stop and Shop, escaped, and now I am the coffee asshole.<|endoftext|>
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Me [29F] with my coworker [33F] duration, called me stupid
Yesterday after another coworker mentioned that we always seem to be having fun while the boss is away so she must be the Monica of the group, 33F says very loudly that must make me (29F) the Joey of the group because I'm 'ok looking but really dumb'. She's quite nice to me when it's jut the 2 of us and even refers to me as her bestie but when others are around she often makes reference, out of nowhere, to my stupidity in front of others. She does it as if it's banter/ joking but it's never funny and I find it offensive. I'm quite self conscious about my intelligence and have fairly low self esteem lately so not sure if I'm upset about it because of that or if I am right in being offended and should actually say something, maybe next time it happens? What should I say to something like that? I'm also shy and slightly a pushover.
Coworker says I'm Joey from Friends because I'm ok looking and am really dumb. Has often makes similar remarks. I am offended but am self conscious of my intelligence. Not sure what to say, if anything.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my coworker [33F] duration, called me stupid POST: Yesterday after another coworker mentioned that we always seem to be having fun while the boss is away so she must be the Monica of the group, 33F says very loudly that must make me (29F) the Joey of the group because I'm 'ok looking but really dumb'. She's quite nice to me when it's jut the 2 of us and even refers to me as her bestie but when others are around she often makes reference, out of nowhere, to my stupidity in front of others. She does it as if it's banter/ joking but it's never funny and I find it offensive. I'm quite self conscious about my intelligence and have fairly low self esteem lately so not sure if I'm upset about it because of that or if I am right in being offended and should actually say something, maybe next time it happens? What should I say to something like that? I'm also shy and slightly a pushover. TL;DR:
Coworker says I'm Joey from Friends because I'm ok looking and am really dumb. Has often makes similar remarks. I am offended but am self conscious of my intelligence. Not sure what to say, if anything.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my coworker [33F] duration, called me stupid POST: Yesterday after another coworker mentioned that we always seem to be having fun while the boss is away so she must be the Monica of the group, 33F says very loudly that must make me (29F) the Joey of the group because I'm 'ok looking but really dumb'. She's quite nice to me when it's jut the 2 of us and even refers to me as her bestie but when others are around she often makes reference, out of nowhere, to my stupidity in front of others. She does it as if it's banter/ joking but it's never funny and I find it offensive. I'm quite self conscious about my intelligence and have fairly low self esteem lately so not sure if I'm upset about it because of that or if I am right in being offended and should actually say something, maybe next time it happens? What should I say to something like that? I'm also shy and slightly a pushover. TL;DR: Coworker says I'm Joey from Friends because I'm ok looking and am really dumb. Has often makes similar remarks. I am offended but am self conscious of my intelligence. Not sure what to say, if anything.<|endoftext|>
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Me [24 M] with my GF[22 F] for a year n a half, and the hard part of an easy choice
This is more of a rant than a question. I just need to write it down more than anything. Recently, as in past 4 months, I left the girl I loved and expected to marry in the USA. The breakup wasn't harsh or foul it came arose out of pure luck and what seems to be the right choice. For context there is a bit of a story. While at college in colorado I had met a girl that I previously knew vaguely during high school. We started chatting about this and that and eventually I started to think to myself "this girl Is awesome, why not ask her out?" So I did. We Went on a wonderful date and blah blah blah we hit it off. The next few flew by and I fell for her hard. Since we went to the same HS keeping the relationship outside of college going was easy. We argued about simple things and loved every minute together for another year. However, after college I had the chance to travel back home to South Africa for a while. I though cool! A few months in SA is a bad thing. I never expected to spend more than 3 months in SA. That was until I was takin golf lessons and started chatting to my coach about turning pro. My lessons are at a well know golf academy in Johannesburg. As soon as my coach said I have all the drive to make it happen, the opportunity was too big to pass up. But, what about my girlfriend? Who knows how long this will take, but it will take a long time. We talked about it but No decisions made yet. Eventually we started to force the talking and relationship. At that point we both agreed to break it off while we were both friends. Now several months have passed and to be honest, I haven't lost an once of love for the girl. I fear.
I fear I have made a wrong decision. A decision that will hunt me for years to come. I decision that will take me away from a woman I wanted to marry.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF[22 F] for a year n a half, and the hard part of an easy choice POST: This is more of a rant than a question. I just need to write it down more than anything. Recently, as in past 4 months, I left the girl I loved and expected to marry in the USA. The breakup wasn't harsh or foul it came arose out of pure luck and what seems to be the right choice. For context there is a bit of a story. While at college in colorado I had met a girl that I previously knew vaguely during high school. We started chatting about this and that and eventually I started to think to myself "this girl Is awesome, why not ask her out?" So I did. We Went on a wonderful date and blah blah blah we hit it off. The next few flew by and I fell for her hard. Since we went to the same HS keeping the relationship outside of college going was easy. We argued about simple things and loved every minute together for another year. However, after college I had the chance to travel back home to South Africa for a while. I though cool! A few months in SA is a bad thing. I never expected to spend more than 3 months in SA. That was until I was takin golf lessons and started chatting to my coach about turning pro. My lessons are at a well know golf academy in Johannesburg. As soon as my coach said I have all the drive to make it happen, the opportunity was too big to pass up. But, what about my girlfriend? Who knows how long this will take, but it will take a long time. We talked about it but No decisions made yet. Eventually we started to force the talking and relationship. At that point we both agreed to break it off while we were both friends. Now several months have passed and to be honest, I haven't lost an once of love for the girl. I fear. TL;DR:
I fear I have made a wrong decision. A decision that will hunt me for years to come. I decision that will take me away from a woman I wanted to marry.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF[22 F] for a year n a half, and the hard part of an easy choice POST: This is more of a rant than a question. I just need to write it down more than anything. Recently, as in past 4 months, I left the girl I loved and expected to marry in the USA. The breakup wasn't harsh or foul it came arose out of pure luck and what seems to be the right choice. For context there is a bit of a story. While at college in colorado I had met a girl that I previously knew vaguely during high school. We started chatting about this and that and eventually I started to think to myself "this girl Is awesome, why not ask her out?" So I did. We Went on a wonderful date and blah blah blah we hit it off. The next few flew by and I fell for her hard. Since we went to the same HS keeping the relationship outside of college going was easy. We argued about simple things and loved every minute together for another year. However, after college I had the chance to travel back home to South Africa for a while. I though cool! A few months in SA is a bad thing. I never expected to spend more than 3 months in SA. That was until I was takin golf lessons and started chatting to my coach about turning pro. My lessons are at a well know golf academy in Johannesburg. As soon as my coach said I have all the drive to make it happen, the opportunity was too big to pass up. But, what about my girlfriend? Who knows how long this will take, but it will take a long time. We talked about it but No decisions made yet. Eventually we started to force the talking and relationship. At that point we both agreed to break it off while we were both friends. Now several months have passed and to be honest, I haven't lost an once of love for the girl. I fear. TL;DR: I fear I have made a wrong decision. A decision that will hunt me for years to come. I decision that will take me away from a woman I wanted to marry.<|endoftext|>
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How do you figure out what to do in life?!
Hey Reddit, I am a 21 year old person who is a 3rd year university student currently studying anthropology. I have no passion for the subject since I basically chose it cause I wasn't interested in anything else my university has to offer. This has made me become depressed, confused, and just plain miserable in school. I'm taking a year of school right now to 'figure it all out' and so far for the past 3 months all I have done is work at the same place I have worked at since highschool. I've finally found a new job which allows me to have more time to 'figure it out' but have no idea what that entails. I feel like if I don't figure it out soon, for the next 6 months all I'll be doing is working part time and going on reddit/youtube/etc (not that reddit doesn't rule!) and wasting my year. Which then afterwards I'll go back to school and flunk all my classes cause I don't give a damn and still be as lost as I am. Anyways, any advice on what to do on trying to figure this out?
21 year old with no direction in life. Don't care about school and trying to 'figure it out'. Have 5 months and limited cash. If you were me, what would you do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: How do you figure out what to do in life?! POST: Hey Reddit, I am a 21 year old person who is a 3rd year university student currently studying anthropology. I have no passion for the subject since I basically chose it cause I wasn't interested in anything else my university has to offer. This has made me become depressed, confused, and just plain miserable in school. I'm taking a year of school right now to 'figure it all out' and so far for the past 3 months all I have done is work at the same place I have worked at since highschool. I've finally found a new job which allows me to have more time to 'figure it out' but have no idea what that entails. I feel like if I don't figure it out soon, for the next 6 months all I'll be doing is working part time and going on reddit/youtube/etc (not that reddit doesn't rule!) and wasting my year. Which then afterwards I'll go back to school and flunk all my classes cause I don't give a damn and still be as lost as I am. Anyways, any advice on what to do on trying to figure this out? TL;DR:
21 year old with no direction in life. Don't care about school and trying to 'figure it out'. Have 5 months and limited cash. If you were me, what would you do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: How do you figure out what to do in life?! POST: Hey Reddit, I am a 21 year old person who is a 3rd year university student currently studying anthropology. I have no passion for the subject since I basically chose it cause I wasn't interested in anything else my university has to offer. This has made me become depressed, confused, and just plain miserable in school. I'm taking a year of school right now to 'figure it all out' and so far for the past 3 months all I have done is work at the same place I have worked at since highschool. I've finally found a new job which allows me to have more time to 'figure it out' but have no idea what that entails. I feel like if I don't figure it out soon, for the next 6 months all I'll be doing is working part time and going on reddit/youtube/etc (not that reddit doesn't rule!) and wasting my year. Which then afterwards I'll go back to school and flunk all my classes cause I don't give a damn and still be as lost as I am. Anyways, any advice on what to do on trying to figure this out? TL;DR: 21 year old with no direction in life. Don't care about school and trying to 'figure it out'. Have 5 months and limited cash. If you were me, what would you do?<|endoftext|>
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Hired 6 months ago as an intern, $12/hour, boss quit, other boss quit, now working directly under CEO/VP, long term projects, analytical work, SEO work, feels like I earned a raise.
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Negotiating a Pay Raise as an "Intern" POST: I work in a mid-size tech company and was hired as an intern. I get paid $12/hour which was more than I expected getting hired. I learned everything very quickly and my boss left for another job. I now took on much of the responsibility my boss used to take on. Now, my other boss left for another position, leaving me with more work. Continuing, the only other intern in the office is leaving in two weeks. The other intern already only does administrative work, whereas I do the analytical work, excel reporting, and long/short term projects given to me by the VP and the CEO. In two weeks, I will be alone working directly under the VP and CEO. I am managing almost 10 weekly reports where I am responsible for putting together the reports and analyzing business trends. The CEO also assigned me the long term project of managing a website where I am in charge of content creation, SEO, and revenue. In one week I have already nearly doubled the traffic. I used to SEO for my own websites in High school and I made far more than this company could pay me, so I am definitely being underpaid in this regard. At this point, I have not heard any valid argument for why I shouldn't get a raise from professors and people I have spoken to. I am doing far more work than before and doing higher quality work. Not only, but with the office short 2 managers and one intern in two weeks, that frees up salary that wont be spent for the foreseeable future. How do I go about getting a raise? I know I need to have a figure in mind, but I don't know what would be fair myself and the employer. Since I receive no benefits, I believe making over $20/hour is fair for the work I am doing. Especially considering I already had SEO experience, and the work I am doing should pay for itself in ad revenue. TL;DR:
Hired 6 months ago as an intern, $12/hour, boss quit, other boss quit, now working directly under CEO/VP, long term projects, analytical work, SEO work, feels like I earned a raise.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Negotiating a Pay Raise as an "Intern" POST: I work in a mid-size tech company and was hired as an intern. I get paid $12/hour which was more than I expected getting hired. I learned everything very quickly and my boss left for another job. I now took on much of the responsibility my boss used to take on. Now, my other boss left for another position, leaving me with more work. Continuing, the only other intern in the office is leaving in two weeks. The other intern already only does administrative work, whereas I do the analytical work, excel reporting, and long/short term projects given to me by the VP and the CEO. In two weeks, I will be alone working directly under the VP and CEO. I am managing almost 10 weekly reports where I am responsible for putting together the reports and analyzing business trends. The CEO also assigned me the long term project of managing a website where I am in charge of content creation, SEO, and revenue. In one week I have already nearly doubled the traffic. I used to SEO for my own websites in High school and I made far more than this company could pay me, so I am definitely being underpaid in this regard. At this point, I have not heard any valid argument for why I shouldn't get a raise from professors and people I have spoken to. I am doing far more work than before and doing higher quality work. Not only, but with the office short 2 managers and one intern in two weeks, that frees up salary that wont be spent for the foreseeable future. How do I go about getting a raise? I know I need to have a figure in mind, but I don't know what would be fair myself and the employer. Since I receive no benefits, I believe making over $20/hour is fair for the work I am doing. Especially considering I already had SEO experience, and the work I am doing should pay for itself in ad revenue. TL;DR: Hired 6 months ago as an intern, $12/hour, boss quit, other boss quit, now working directly under CEO/VP, long term projects, analytical work, SEO work, feels like I earned a raise.<|endoftext|>
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How do I (F/26) make it up to a friend (F/26) over my bad wedding etiquette?
This will seem really petty but I was hoping I could get advice. I am about to see a childhood friend (we're both female, 26) who I haven't seen since her wedding reception 2 years ago. I have literally only talked to this friend a few times in the last 5 years but next month I'll be seeing her at a mutual friends hen party. Even though I live in a different country and wasn't invited to the full wedding, I flew in especially for it. Basically this was my first wedding and I didn't know proper wedding etiquette. Not only did I not reply to the evening invite (I didn't realise this was necessary!?), I also didn't give a wedding gift. So I showed up unexpectedly, stayed 2 hours and gave a card with no money inside like an idiot. Now a few years have passed and I've been to lots of weddings I've realised I must have seemed really rude and I've also heard various couples complain about guests who didn't give them adequate gifts. I feel really bad! I just asked my parents who were invited to the evening do also but didn't go, and they said they gave my friend a card with £100 inside! She is a lovely person and I want to explain myself/make it up to her. Is it too late?? If you were this friend what would be a good way to apologise? Would it be weird to now give her £50 in a card even though the wedding was years ago and I haven't seen her since? I feel really pathetic asking about this but it's worrying me!
How do I make it up to a friend after I didn't reply to the evening invite of her wedding then still showed up, and also didn't bring a gift?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (F/26) make it up to a friend (F/26) over my bad wedding etiquette? POST: This will seem really petty but I was hoping I could get advice. I am about to see a childhood friend (we're both female, 26) who I haven't seen since her wedding reception 2 years ago. I have literally only talked to this friend a few times in the last 5 years but next month I'll be seeing her at a mutual friends hen party. Even though I live in a different country and wasn't invited to the full wedding, I flew in especially for it. Basically this was my first wedding and I didn't know proper wedding etiquette. Not only did I not reply to the evening invite (I didn't realise this was necessary!?), I also didn't give a wedding gift. So I showed up unexpectedly, stayed 2 hours and gave a card with no money inside like an idiot. Now a few years have passed and I've been to lots of weddings I've realised I must have seemed really rude and I've also heard various couples complain about guests who didn't give them adequate gifts. I feel really bad! I just asked my parents who were invited to the evening do also but didn't go, and they said they gave my friend a card with £100 inside! She is a lovely person and I want to explain myself/make it up to her. Is it too late?? If you were this friend what would be a good way to apologise? Would it be weird to now give her £50 in a card even though the wedding was years ago and I haven't seen her since? I feel really pathetic asking about this but it's worrying me! TL;DR:
How do I make it up to a friend after I didn't reply to the evening invite of her wedding then still showed up, and also didn't bring a gift?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (F/26) make it up to a friend (F/26) over my bad wedding etiquette? POST: This will seem really petty but I was hoping I could get advice. I am about to see a childhood friend (we're both female, 26) who I haven't seen since her wedding reception 2 years ago. I have literally only talked to this friend a few times in the last 5 years but next month I'll be seeing her at a mutual friends hen party. Even though I live in a different country and wasn't invited to the full wedding, I flew in especially for it. Basically this was my first wedding and I didn't know proper wedding etiquette. Not only did I not reply to the evening invite (I didn't realise this was necessary!?), I also didn't give a wedding gift. So I showed up unexpectedly, stayed 2 hours and gave a card with no money inside like an idiot. Now a few years have passed and I've been to lots of weddings I've realised I must have seemed really rude and I've also heard various couples complain about guests who didn't give them adequate gifts. I feel really bad! I just asked my parents who were invited to the evening do also but didn't go, and they said they gave my friend a card with £100 inside! She is a lovely person and I want to explain myself/make it up to her. Is it too late?? If you were this friend what would be a good way to apologise? Would it be weird to now give her £50 in a card even though the wedding was years ago and I haven't seen her since? I feel really pathetic asking about this but it's worrying me! TL;DR: How do I make it up to a friend after I didn't reply to the evening invite of her wedding then still showed up, and also didn't bring a gift?<|endoftext|>
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My bf [25m] has been taking care of me while I [25f] have been sick, what can I do to thank him?
I've been really sick the last week or so and my awesome boyfriend of over 2 years who I live with has been looking after me, getting me drinks, making me food, going to the shops, telling me I'm beautiful and other nice lies... Basically he's been amazing and when I'm recovered I'd love to do something to show how much I appreciate him. I'm not sure what to do, I'm a good cook so I'll probably make a nice meal but that's not too unusual for me, I love cooking. A gift doesn't seem great either, his birthday was only a few of weeks ago and Christmas is coming up so I have no ideas, but I'm also not sure he'd want a gift for looking after me, I think he'd feel weird. But I still want to make a gesture of some sort. Any suggestions?
awesome boyfriend has been taking care me while I've been sick, what can I do to show how much I appreciate him?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My bf [25m] has been taking care of me while I [25f] have been sick, what can I do to thank him? POST: I've been really sick the last week or so and my awesome boyfriend of over 2 years who I live with has been looking after me, getting me drinks, making me food, going to the shops, telling me I'm beautiful and other nice lies... Basically he's been amazing and when I'm recovered I'd love to do something to show how much I appreciate him. I'm not sure what to do, I'm a good cook so I'll probably make a nice meal but that's not too unusual for me, I love cooking. A gift doesn't seem great either, his birthday was only a few of weeks ago and Christmas is coming up so I have no ideas, but I'm also not sure he'd want a gift for looking after me, I think he'd feel weird. But I still want to make a gesture of some sort. Any suggestions? TL;DR:
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My bf [25m] has been taking care of me while I [25f] have been sick, what can I do to thank him? POST: I've been really sick the last week or so and my awesome boyfriend of over 2 years who I live with has been looking after me, getting me drinks, making me food, going to the shops, telling me I'm beautiful and other nice lies... Basically he's been amazing and when I'm recovered I'd love to do something to show how much I appreciate him. I'm not sure what to do, I'm a good cook so I'll probably make a nice meal but that's not too unusual for me, I love cooking. A gift doesn't seem great either, his birthday was only a few of weeks ago and Christmas is coming up so I have no ideas, but I'm also not sure he'd want a gift for looking after me, I think he'd feel weird. But I still want to make a gesture of some sort. Any suggestions? TL;DR: awesome boyfriend has been taking care me while I've been sick, what can I do to show how much I appreciate him?<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend [20] is starting to worry me [17] with his behavior.
Me and my SO (20) started dating January 5th of this year. We talked for awhile before dating. He eventually asked me out and everything went downhill from there. My closest friend died that night he asked me out and I found out the next day. I was beyond upset and hurt. I actually was contemplating leaving my SO until I could cope with this. Instead I stayed and he stressed me out during my grieving process. He'd tell me about his trust issues with me and all this bullshit I didn't want to to hear. I listened though and I started to get frustrated with him. I complained to my ex who lived in the UK and he'd talk me down and relaxed me until I could function. He flirted with me and I did flirt back. My SO saw the messages and I apologized. I felt very guilty. The next day, he showed me messages he sent to a girl and he called me a whore. I was upset, but I stood with him and he kept having trust issues. So I gave him my Facebook password which is a big problem. I shouldn't have. He checked it and even started messaging people without my permission. I changed my password. I tried to leave him at one point and I felt guilty and upset without him, but during this time he'd called me a whore. And he'd passively aggressively tell me he's moving on. He said he was trying to make a good woman out of me. We got back together and he still has trust issues. And he acts very insecure. He doesn't like me talking to guys or hanging around them. He also is very possessive. I tried working through this with him, but he keeps stressing me out. I want to leave him, but I'm actually worried if I should. I know I'm not happy. I don't know what's stopping me.
My SO is very possessive and insecure. He has major trust issues and I can't handle it. I don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [20] is starting to worry me [17] with his behavior. POST: Me and my SO (20) started dating January 5th of this year. We talked for awhile before dating. He eventually asked me out and everything went downhill from there. My closest friend died that night he asked me out and I found out the next day. I was beyond upset and hurt. I actually was contemplating leaving my SO until I could cope with this. Instead I stayed and he stressed me out during my grieving process. He'd tell me about his trust issues with me and all this bullshit I didn't want to to hear. I listened though and I started to get frustrated with him. I complained to my ex who lived in the UK and he'd talk me down and relaxed me until I could function. He flirted with me and I did flirt back. My SO saw the messages and I apologized. I felt very guilty. The next day, he showed me messages he sent to a girl and he called me a whore. I was upset, but I stood with him and he kept having trust issues. So I gave him my Facebook password which is a big problem. I shouldn't have. He checked it and even started messaging people without my permission. I changed my password. I tried to leave him at one point and I felt guilty and upset without him, but during this time he'd called me a whore. And he'd passively aggressively tell me he's moving on. He said he was trying to make a good woman out of me. We got back together and he still has trust issues. And he acts very insecure. He doesn't like me talking to guys or hanging around them. He also is very possessive. I tried working through this with him, but he keeps stressing me out. I want to leave him, but I'm actually worried if I should. I know I'm not happy. I don't know what's stopping me. TL;DR:
My SO is very possessive and insecure. He has major trust issues and I can't handle it. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [20] is starting to worry me [17] with his behavior. POST: Me and my SO (20) started dating January 5th of this year. We talked for awhile before dating. He eventually asked me out and everything went downhill from there. My closest friend died that night he asked me out and I found out the next day. I was beyond upset and hurt. I actually was contemplating leaving my SO until I could cope with this. Instead I stayed and he stressed me out during my grieving process. He'd tell me about his trust issues with me and all this bullshit I didn't want to to hear. I listened though and I started to get frustrated with him. I complained to my ex who lived in the UK and he'd talk me down and relaxed me until I could function. He flirted with me and I did flirt back. My SO saw the messages and I apologized. I felt very guilty. The next day, he showed me messages he sent to a girl and he called me a whore. I was upset, but I stood with him and he kept having trust issues. So I gave him my Facebook password which is a big problem. I shouldn't have. He checked it and even started messaging people without my permission. I changed my password. I tried to leave him at one point and I felt guilty and upset without him, but during this time he'd called me a whore. And he'd passively aggressively tell me he's moving on. He said he was trying to make a good woman out of me. We got back together and he still has trust issues. And he acts very insecure. He doesn't like me talking to guys or hanging around them. He also is very possessive. I tried working through this with him, but he keeps stressing me out. I want to leave him, but I'm actually worried if I should. I know I'm not happy. I don't know what's stopping me. TL;DR: My SO is very possessive and insecure. He has major trust issues and I can't handle it. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by joking with an employee at Chipotle
This didn't happen today, but considering how bad it was I figured it deserved to be shared. So I'm going to hang out with friends and we decide to grab a bite to eat at the local Chipotle. Chipotle has this system where one worker handles the beans, one handles meat, and condiments, and so on. So as I get to the meat station I'm greeted by this very large and bulky Asian man whose over 6'0 tall, and obviously very bored and slightly annoyed from the looks of things. He grabs my burrito, slides it to his station and very seriously asks whether I'd like chicken, steak, etc. Only this is where I fucked up. Instead of a burly and stoic voice asking what I want on my burrito, I'm greeted by what only could be described as Mickey Mouse's voice inside a professional wrestler's body. Quickly I shut my mouth, to keep myself from cracking up. In my head, this guy is having a bad day and he's just goofing off to try and get through it. So I glance at my friend, whose also laughing, and figure I'll try and joke with this guy to at least brighten his day. So I reply in as shrill of a voice as I can produce, "I'll have steak and chicken." My friend and I are now cracking up, but as I look at the Chipotle employees, all of them are silent, and completely still. When I make eye contact with the Asian Chipotle employee , he's fighting back tears in his eyes, scoops up half chicken and steak and slides my burrito to the next employee. But not before whispering under his breath "That was hurtful..." This doesn't register in my head until about 20 seconds later when I'm purchasing my food and by now I'm now public enemy number 1 of Chipotle. Before I can go back to apologize to the employee, he's in the back being consoled by other employees. And now I'm stuck with a burito, that's lightly seasoned with the tears of a man who has a medical condition, and is highly self-conscious about it.
Joked with a large Chiptole employee to chear him up and accidentally mocked his medical condition, making him break down during his shift.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by joking with an employee at Chipotle POST: This didn't happen today, but considering how bad it was I figured it deserved to be shared. So I'm going to hang out with friends and we decide to grab a bite to eat at the local Chipotle. Chipotle has this system where one worker handles the beans, one handles meat, and condiments, and so on. So as I get to the meat station I'm greeted by this very large and bulky Asian man whose over 6'0 tall, and obviously very bored and slightly annoyed from the looks of things. He grabs my burrito, slides it to his station and very seriously asks whether I'd like chicken, steak, etc. Only this is where I fucked up. Instead of a burly and stoic voice asking what I want on my burrito, I'm greeted by what only could be described as Mickey Mouse's voice inside a professional wrestler's body. Quickly I shut my mouth, to keep myself from cracking up. In my head, this guy is having a bad day and he's just goofing off to try and get through it. So I glance at my friend, whose also laughing, and figure I'll try and joke with this guy to at least brighten his day. So I reply in as shrill of a voice as I can produce, "I'll have steak and chicken." My friend and I are now cracking up, but as I look at the Chipotle employees, all of them are silent, and completely still. When I make eye contact with the Asian Chipotle employee, he's fighting back tears in his eyes, scoops up half chicken and steak and slides my burrito to the next employee. But not before whispering under his breath "That was hurtful..." This doesn't register in my head until about 20 seconds later when I'm purchasing my food and by now I'm now public enemy number 1 of Chipotle. Before I can go back to apologize to the employee, he's in the back being consoled by other employees. And now I'm stuck with a burito, that's lightly seasoned with the tears of a man who has a medical condition, and is highly self-conscious about it. TL;DR:
Joked with a large Chiptole employee to chear him up and accidentally mocked his medical condition, making him break down during his shift.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by joking with an employee at Chipotle POST: This didn't happen today, but considering how bad it was I figured it deserved to be shared. So I'm going to hang out with friends and we decide to grab a bite to eat at the local Chipotle. Chipotle has this system where one worker handles the beans, one handles meat, and condiments, and so on. So as I get to the meat station I'm greeted by this very large and bulky Asian man whose over 6'0 tall, and obviously very bored and slightly annoyed from the looks of things. He grabs my burrito, slides it to his station and very seriously asks whether I'd like chicken, steak, etc. Only this is where I fucked up. Instead of a burly and stoic voice asking what I want on my burrito, I'm greeted by what only could be described as Mickey Mouse's voice inside a professional wrestler's body. Quickly I shut my mouth, to keep myself from cracking up. In my head, this guy is having a bad day and he's just goofing off to try and get through it. So I glance at my friend, whose also laughing, and figure I'll try and joke with this guy to at least brighten his day. So I reply in as shrill of a voice as I can produce, "I'll have steak and chicken." My friend and I are now cracking up, but as I look at the Chipotle employees, all of them are silent, and completely still. When I make eye contact with the Asian Chipotle employee, he's fighting back tears in his eyes, scoops up half chicken and steak and slides my burrito to the next employee. But not before whispering under his breath "That was hurtful..." This doesn't register in my head until about 20 seconds later when I'm purchasing my food and by now I'm now public enemy number 1 of Chipotle. Before I can go back to apologize to the employee, he's in the back being consoled by other employees. And now I'm stuck with a burito, that's lightly seasoned with the tears of a man who has a medical condition, and is highly self-conscious about it. TL;DR: Joked with a large Chiptole employee to chear him up and accidentally mocked his medical condition, making him break down during his shift.<|endoftext|>
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I [25 F] need help on confronting my parents [50's M&F] that I don't want to go on our family's annual vacation to North Carolina this year. Help!
I need some guidance. If I am in the wrong sub please kindly guide me to a more appropriate one. Every year since 1999 (except last year) my dad's side of the family takes vacations together and rents a big house on the beach. The vacations are always fun because we have a big family. A couple months ago when my immediate family asked if I was going I said yes (even though I wasn't crazy about going this year…I'm getting tired of it to be honest but it has nothing to do with my family members). Well now, I don't want to go anymore and I'm terrified of confronting my parents about it. My dad's super old-fashioned and scary (hot-headed and strict Italian). I would honestly rather go on vacation with my boyfriend of almost a year [26] this summer (we have taken weekend trips away but that has been the extent). I think it would be cool to go somewhere I haven't been before. BUT my whole extended family thinks I'm coming and I don't want to disappoint anyone. It wouldn't be like I'm the only one who isn't going though. My two cousins, aunt, and uncle aren't going this year either (not sure why). It's not like I won't be the only person missing. Anyway, I'm afraid of the reaction my parents will give me. I don't want them to resent me or be disappointed but the fact is, I'm an adult and can make my own decisions. I need to tell them today at some point so I can request off work. Does anyone have any tips, advice, etc? I'd really appreciate it!
I want to tell my parent's that I don't want to go on our annual vacation this year. Don't want to disappoint my parents though and freaking out.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] need help on confronting my parents [50's M&F] that I don't want to go on our family's annual vacation to North Carolina this year. Help! POST: I need some guidance. If I am in the wrong sub please kindly guide me to a more appropriate one. Every year since 1999 (except last year) my dad's side of the family takes vacations together and rents a big house on the beach. The vacations are always fun because we have a big family. A couple months ago when my immediate family asked if I was going I said yes (even though I wasn't crazy about going this year…I'm getting tired of it to be honest but it has nothing to do with my family members). Well now, I don't want to go anymore and I'm terrified of confronting my parents about it. My dad's super old-fashioned and scary (hot-headed and strict Italian). I would honestly rather go on vacation with my boyfriend of almost a year [26] this summer (we have taken weekend trips away but that has been the extent). I think it would be cool to go somewhere I haven't been before. BUT my whole extended family thinks I'm coming and I don't want to disappoint anyone. It wouldn't be like I'm the only one who isn't going though. My two cousins, aunt, and uncle aren't going this year either (not sure why). It's not like I won't be the only person missing. Anyway, I'm afraid of the reaction my parents will give me. I don't want them to resent me or be disappointed but the fact is, I'm an adult and can make my own decisions. I need to tell them today at some point so I can request off work. Does anyone have any tips, advice, etc? I'd really appreciate it! TL;DR:
I want to tell my parent's that I don't want to go on our annual vacation this year. Don't want to disappoint my parents though and freaking out.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] need help on confronting my parents [50's M&F] that I don't want to go on our family's annual vacation to North Carolina this year. Help! POST: I need some guidance. If I am in the wrong sub please kindly guide me to a more appropriate one. Every year since 1999 (except last year) my dad's side of the family takes vacations together and rents a big house on the beach. The vacations are always fun because we have a big family. A couple months ago when my immediate family asked if I was going I said yes (even though I wasn't crazy about going this year…I'm getting tired of it to be honest but it has nothing to do with my family members). Well now, I don't want to go anymore and I'm terrified of confronting my parents about it. My dad's super old-fashioned and scary (hot-headed and strict Italian). I would honestly rather go on vacation with my boyfriend of almost a year [26] this summer (we have taken weekend trips away but that has been the extent). I think it would be cool to go somewhere I haven't been before. BUT my whole extended family thinks I'm coming and I don't want to disappoint anyone. It wouldn't be like I'm the only one who isn't going though. My two cousins, aunt, and uncle aren't going this year either (not sure why). It's not like I won't be the only person missing. Anyway, I'm afraid of the reaction my parents will give me. I don't want them to resent me or be disappointed but the fact is, I'm an adult and can make my own decisions. I need to tell them today at some point so I can request off work. Does anyone have any tips, advice, etc? I'd really appreciate it! TL;DR: I want to tell my parent's that I don't want to go on our annual vacation this year. Don't want to disappoint my parents though and freaking out.<|endoftext|>
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Boyfriend [22] said extremely hurtful things to me [21f], and I'm feeling incredibily low right now
Hey Reddit, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have started to have some real issues lately. His interaction with his exes makes me uneasy. The first ex, was a girl he met while he studied abroad. They had a thing and then moved back to their hometowns. This was two years ago, and they text every single day, sometimes even called. He would text get while literally being naked next to me in bed. He told me I had nothing to worry about. However, I had a bad feeling in my gut. I didn't even snoop, I was watching a video on Facebook with him when she chatted him something very flirtatious, reading "oh so that's why you're attracted to me". He told me I was completely misunderstanding. It made me feel so crappy. Now, he planned a trip to go to a concert with another ex girlfriend of his. They dated pretty seriously, and in all honesty I felt jealous. I didn't understand why he didnt include me at all. The concert was 7 hours away and they drove earlier today. When I would text him during the day, he was very moody and being snappy at me. I tried to let it go. However, this was my mistake. My mind kind of ran wild. He didnt text me all night. I finally texted him at 2 am, asking how the show was. He gave me a quick response and I then told him I was a little upset with him right then. He told me I was being absolutely ridiculous and he was not going to respond to me. I don't know why. I was emotional. I called him like 5 times, which was so stupid of me. He's responded now, telling me I'm "batshit crazy" and I don't deserve him. Reddit, I'm just really having a hard time. When we're together we get along great. Maybe I'm insecure, but I don't how to fix it if I am. He told me he'd talk to me the next day. I don't know where to go from here. Please help, and please be honest with me if I have done anything wrong.
boyfriend has questionable interaction with his exes. I got nervous and acted a little irrational. He went off on a rant of hurtful words.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [22] said extremely hurtful things to me [21f], and I'm feeling incredibily low right now POST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have started to have some real issues lately. His interaction with his exes makes me uneasy. The first ex, was a girl he met while he studied abroad. They had a thing and then moved back to their hometowns. This was two years ago, and they text every single day, sometimes even called. He would text get while literally being naked next to me in bed. He told me I had nothing to worry about. However, I had a bad feeling in my gut. I didn't even snoop, I was watching a video on Facebook with him when she chatted him something very flirtatious, reading "oh so that's why you're attracted to me". He told me I was completely misunderstanding. It made me feel so crappy. Now, he planned a trip to go to a concert with another ex girlfriend of his. They dated pretty seriously, and in all honesty I felt jealous. I didn't understand why he didnt include me at all. The concert was 7 hours away and they drove earlier today. When I would text him during the day, he was very moody and being snappy at me. I tried to let it go. However, this was my mistake. My mind kind of ran wild. He didnt text me all night. I finally texted him at 2 am, asking how the show was. He gave me a quick response and I then told him I was a little upset with him right then. He told me I was being absolutely ridiculous and he was not going to respond to me. I don't know why. I was emotional. I called him like 5 times, which was so stupid of me. He's responded now, telling me I'm "batshit crazy" and I don't deserve him. Reddit, I'm just really having a hard time. When we're together we get along great. Maybe I'm insecure, but I don't how to fix it if I am. He told me he'd talk to me the next day. I don't know where to go from here. Please help, and please be honest with me if I have done anything wrong. TL;DR:
boyfriend has questionable interaction with his exes. I got nervous and acted a little irrational. He went off on a rant of hurtful words.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [22] said extremely hurtful things to me [21f], and I'm feeling incredibily low right now POST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have started to have some real issues lately. His interaction with his exes makes me uneasy. The first ex, was a girl he met while he studied abroad. They had a thing and then moved back to their hometowns. This was two years ago, and they text every single day, sometimes even called. He would text get while literally being naked next to me in bed. He told me I had nothing to worry about. However, I had a bad feeling in my gut. I didn't even snoop, I was watching a video on Facebook with him when she chatted him something very flirtatious, reading "oh so that's why you're attracted to me". He told me I was completely misunderstanding. It made me feel so crappy. Now, he planned a trip to go to a concert with another ex girlfriend of his. They dated pretty seriously, and in all honesty I felt jealous. I didn't understand why he didnt include me at all. The concert was 7 hours away and they drove earlier today. When I would text him during the day, he was very moody and being snappy at me. I tried to let it go. However, this was my mistake. My mind kind of ran wild. He didnt text me all night. I finally texted him at 2 am, asking how the show was. He gave me a quick response and I then told him I was a little upset with him right then. He told me I was being absolutely ridiculous and he was not going to respond to me. I don't know why. I was emotional. I called him like 5 times, which was so stupid of me. He's responded now, telling me I'm "batshit crazy" and I don't deserve him. Reddit, I'm just really having a hard time. When we're together we get along great. Maybe I'm insecure, but I don't how to fix it if I am. He told me he'd talk to me the next day. I don't know where to go from here. Please help, and please be honest with me if I have done anything wrong. TL;DR: boyfriend has questionable interaction with his exes. I got nervous and acted a little irrational. He went off on a rant of hurtful words.<|endoftext|>
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GF is manipulating me emotionally - how do I break out of this?
I am in my beginning forties, she's in her ending thirties. Our relationship is over five years old, with some highs and lows. What bothers me about it is that she has a recurring need for drama. If everything is sunny and carefree, you can be dead sure that it won't stay that way. It is always the small things that lead to major conflicts. For example, she's jumping on the jealousy train. She demands that I break off all contact to a girl. I shouldn't do as much as saying "Hello" or exchange a couple of sentences in everyday conversation. Why? It is because of her emotions. *She doesn't like it, it hurts her. And if I really love her, I surely must avoid to hurt her.* I need to follow through and stop talking to that person at all - or I am a major asshole and I'm showing that I have no real feelings for her. Of course, an asshole get's treated as an asshole. Heated and with snide and hurting comments in the fight, and cold afterwards - or even silent. While I agree in principle - if I love someone, I won't hurt him/her on purpose - I feel controlled and manipulated. It can't be sanely demanded from an adult person to just cut contact to anybody she displeases, or can it? And that was just an example. It is the same pattern with all other relationship conflicts. She's playing the "her emotions must'n be hurt under any circumstances" card and if I am resisting to be controlled, it's big bang time. After some time, she's ready and willing to start over, but the bottom line of the previous conflict is always the same: I am the bad guy who isn't respecting her precious and fragile emotions enough. As I'm writing this, I am asking myself why I'm having masochistic tendencies or why I'm enduring this. Besides running for the hills, is there any approach to treat this better?
I am ruling you with my emotions. Do everything to please them, or pay the price. What kind of relationship is this?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF is manipulating me emotionally - how do I break out of this? POST: I am in my beginning forties, she's in her ending thirties. Our relationship is over five years old, with some highs and lows. What bothers me about it is that she has a recurring need for drama. If everything is sunny and carefree, you can be dead sure that it won't stay that way. It is always the small things that lead to major conflicts. For example, she's jumping on the jealousy train. She demands that I break off all contact to a girl. I shouldn't do as much as saying "Hello" or exchange a couple of sentences in everyday conversation. Why? It is because of her emotions. *She doesn't like it, it hurts her. And if I really love her, I surely must avoid to hurt her.* I need to follow through and stop talking to that person at all - or I am a major asshole and I'm showing that I have no real feelings for her. Of course, an asshole get's treated as an asshole. Heated and with snide and hurting comments in the fight, and cold afterwards - or even silent. While I agree in principle - if I love someone, I won't hurt him/her on purpose - I feel controlled and manipulated. It can't be sanely demanded from an adult person to just cut contact to anybody she displeases, or can it? And that was just an example. It is the same pattern with all other relationship conflicts. She's playing the "her emotions must'n be hurt under any circumstances" card and if I am resisting to be controlled, it's big bang time. After some time, she's ready and willing to start over, but the bottom line of the previous conflict is always the same: I am the bad guy who isn't respecting her precious and fragile emotions enough. As I'm writing this, I am asking myself why I'm having masochistic tendencies or why I'm enduring this. Besides running for the hills, is there any approach to treat this better? TL;DR:
I am ruling you with my emotions. Do everything to please them, or pay the price. What kind of relationship is this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF is manipulating me emotionally - how do I break out of this? POST: I am in my beginning forties, she's in her ending thirties. Our relationship is over five years old, with some highs and lows. What bothers me about it is that she has a recurring need for drama. If everything is sunny and carefree, you can be dead sure that it won't stay that way. It is always the small things that lead to major conflicts. For example, she's jumping on the jealousy train. She demands that I break off all contact to a girl. I shouldn't do as much as saying "Hello" or exchange a couple of sentences in everyday conversation. Why? It is because of her emotions. *She doesn't like it, it hurts her. And if I really love her, I surely must avoid to hurt her.* I need to follow through and stop talking to that person at all - or I am a major asshole and I'm showing that I have no real feelings for her. Of course, an asshole get's treated as an asshole. Heated and with snide and hurting comments in the fight, and cold afterwards - or even silent. While I agree in principle - if I love someone, I won't hurt him/her on purpose - I feel controlled and manipulated. It can't be sanely demanded from an adult person to just cut contact to anybody she displeases, or can it? And that was just an example. It is the same pattern with all other relationship conflicts. She's playing the "her emotions must'n be hurt under any circumstances" card and if I am resisting to be controlled, it's big bang time. After some time, she's ready and willing to start over, but the bottom line of the previous conflict is always the same: I am the bad guy who isn't respecting her precious and fragile emotions enough. As I'm writing this, I am asking myself why I'm having masochistic tendencies or why I'm enduring this. Besides running for the hills, is there any approach to treat this better? TL;DR: I am ruling you with my emotions. Do everything to please them, or pay the price. What kind of relationship is this?<|endoftext|>
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[f/19] My boyfriend [m/21] broke trust in our relationship by emotionally cheating, how to fix?...
My boyfriend (m/21) and I (f/19) have been dating for almost 6 months, we hit it off immediately and he began contacting me through facebook and eventually texting me. He would text me how pretty and awesome I am etc... and call me pet names, generally being really flirty. Throughout our relationship we have been really close and tell each other everything. However, I had this suspicion that he was flirting/looking for emotional validation with other girls. Now, I am totally comfortable with him interacting with the opposite sex, he has even picked one of his drunk girl friends (that I have never met) in the middle of the night from a bar and they ended up hanging out for a little after and I had no problem with that. Here is where I did something wrong, after having this suspicion for awhile I checked his facebook (he leaves it logged in on his computer). I found that he had messages with girls (I looked at 7 different messages then stopped looking) calling them pet names he calls me (baby, monkey, sweetie etc...), telling them he misses them and even going out of his way to tell them how pretty they are. He was also bad mouthing me to some of the girls about a fight we had, which I understand he was mad but what he said really hurt... I confronted him with the intention of calling off the relationship but I gave him a second chance. I gave him a second chance because he claims that he has always talked to these girls this way and didn't know it was inappropriate to do so and was genuinely upset that I was so angry. I feel as though he has emotionally cheated on me. I feel so insecure and have anxiety of him doing it again. I do want to work on the relationship because I really care about him... but every time things start getting normal I think about what he has said to all these girls and it hurts me so badly... What can I do to stop this anxiety and feeling so insecure? Also wondering how to get the trust back into our relationship? I want to have a healthy and happy relationship but this is tearing me apart...
Boyfriend emotionally cheated on me by being emotionally intimate with many girls online. Don't know how to move past the situation and have a healthy relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [f/19] My boyfriend [m/21] broke trust in our relationship by emotionally cheating, how to fix?... POST: My boyfriend (m/21) and I (f/19) have been dating for almost 6 months, we hit it off immediately and he began contacting me through facebook and eventually texting me. He would text me how pretty and awesome I am etc... and call me pet names, generally being really flirty. Throughout our relationship we have been really close and tell each other everything. However, I had this suspicion that he was flirting/looking for emotional validation with other girls. Now, I am totally comfortable with him interacting with the opposite sex, he has even picked one of his drunk girl friends (that I have never met) in the middle of the night from a bar and they ended up hanging out for a little after and I had no problem with that. Here is where I did something wrong, after having this suspicion for awhile I checked his facebook (he leaves it logged in on his computer). I found that he had messages with girls (I looked at 7 different messages then stopped looking) calling them pet names he calls me (baby, monkey, sweetie etc...), telling them he misses them and even going out of his way to tell them how pretty they are. He was also bad mouthing me to some of the girls about a fight we had, which I understand he was mad but what he said really hurt... I confronted him with the intention of calling off the relationship but I gave him a second chance. I gave him a second chance because he claims that he has always talked to these girls this way and didn't know it was inappropriate to do so and was genuinely upset that I was so angry. I feel as though he has emotionally cheated on me. I feel so insecure and have anxiety of him doing it again. I do want to work on the relationship because I really care about him... but every time things start getting normal I think about what he has said to all these girls and it hurts me so badly... What can I do to stop this anxiety and feeling so insecure? Also wondering how to get the trust back into our relationship? I want to have a healthy and happy relationship but this is tearing me apart... TL;DR:
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [f/19] My boyfriend [m/21] broke trust in our relationship by emotionally cheating, how to fix?... POST: My boyfriend (m/21) and I (f/19) have been dating for almost 6 months, we hit it off immediately and he began contacting me through facebook and eventually texting me. He would text me how pretty and awesome I am etc... and call me pet names, generally being really flirty. Throughout our relationship we have been really close and tell each other everything. However, I had this suspicion that he was flirting/looking for emotional validation with other girls. Now, I am totally comfortable with him interacting with the opposite sex, he has even picked one of his drunk girl friends (that I have never met) in the middle of the night from a bar and they ended up hanging out for a little after and I had no problem with that. Here is where I did something wrong, after having this suspicion for awhile I checked his facebook (he leaves it logged in on his computer). I found that he had messages with girls (I looked at 7 different messages then stopped looking) calling them pet names he calls me (baby, monkey, sweetie etc...), telling them he misses them and even going out of his way to tell them how pretty they are. He was also bad mouthing me to some of the girls about a fight we had, which I understand he was mad but what he said really hurt... I confronted him with the intention of calling off the relationship but I gave him a second chance. I gave him a second chance because he claims that he has always talked to these girls this way and didn't know it was inappropriate to do so and was genuinely upset that I was so angry. I feel as though he has emotionally cheated on me. I feel so insecure and have anxiety of him doing it again. I do want to work on the relationship because I really care about him... but every time things start getting normal I think about what he has said to all these girls and it hurts me so badly... What can I do to stop this anxiety and feeling so insecure? Also wondering how to get the trust back into our relationship? I want to have a healthy and happy relationship but this is tearing me apart... TL;DR: Boyfriend emotionally cheated on me by being emotionally intimate with many girls online. Don't know how to move past the situation and have a healthy relationship.<|endoftext|>
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This scenario just happened... And I need some honest feedback... Please read
I am a 22(m) - GF (21) - Relationship duration - 4 years. Currently do not live together. The scenario begins @ 8:45 pm She facetimes me at 8:45 I dont answer (the phone is upstairs) I was cooking steak, then ate it I Facetime you back at 9:20 (30min later) She does not answer I call her 5 minutes later - No answer She then calls me back 5min later (@ 9:30) and says "WHAT?" I said "hey" She responded with "im busy" I said "ok".... and she hung up WTF What did I do? What am I missing? My question to you is this: Is she being dramtic, rr am I trippin'? Why play dumb, how is she busy and I can tell she's upset? "going insane over here" Am I wrong for this or overreacting?
Girlfriend is overreacting to me not answering her calls and I honestly think her way of thinking is a little strange.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This scenario just happened... And I need some honest feedback... Please read POST: I am a 22(m) - GF (21) - Relationship duration - 4 years. Currently do not live together. The scenario begins @ 8:45 pm She facetimes me at 8:45 I dont answer (the phone is upstairs) I was cooking steak, then ate it I Facetime you back at 9:20 (30min later) She does not answer I call her 5 minutes later - No answer She then calls me back 5min later (@ 9:30) and says "WHAT?" I said "hey" She responded with "im busy" I said "ok".... and she hung up WTF What did I do? What am I missing? My question to you is this: Is she being dramtic, rr am I trippin'? Why play dumb, how is she busy and I can tell she's upset? "going insane over here" Am I wrong for this or overreacting? TL;DR:
Girlfriend is overreacting to me not answering her calls and I honestly think her way of thinking is a little strange.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This scenario just happened... And I need some honest feedback... Please read POST: I am a 22(m) - GF (21) - Relationship duration - 4 years. Currently do not live together. The scenario begins @ 8:45 pm She facetimes me at 8:45 I dont answer (the phone is upstairs) I was cooking steak, then ate it I Facetime you back at 9:20 (30min later) She does not answer I call her 5 minutes later - No answer She then calls me back 5min later (@ 9:30) and says "WHAT?" I said "hey" She responded with "im busy" I said "ok".... and she hung up WTF What did I do? What am I missing? My question to you is this: Is she being dramtic, rr am I trippin'? Why play dumb, how is she busy and I can tell she's upset? "going insane over here" Am I wrong for this or overreacting? TL;DR: Girlfriend is overreacting to me not answering her calls and I honestly think her way of thinking is a little strange.<|endoftext|>
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Going to California this July- need help making an adventure!
Hey r/travel! I'm a 17 year old high school student from Canada, I'll be graduating this June and heading to University next year. Before I head off to University I want to experience California. I'll be 18 when I go. I'm going to be adventuring by myself, I'm planning on bringing a backpack with a weeks worth of clothes and my Longboard. I really want to backpack/longboard throughout California Here's the plan: -Leave for San Diego July 3rd -Stay in San Diego for a few days -Make my way to Palm Springs -See LA -Go to San Fran for a few days -fly back from San Fran to Canada July 24th What do I need to do in between these stops? What do I need to see at these stops? Any special towns, beaches, people to see in Cali? I'll be bringing about $1000 to last me the three weeks. How should I shelter myself- hostels? Couch surfing? Hospitable redditors?
Going to California for three weeks in July with nothing but a backpack and a longboard. What do I do to have fun and survive?
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SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Going to California this July- need help making an adventure! POST: Hey r/travel! I'm a 17 year old high school student from Canada, I'll be graduating this June and heading to University next year. Before I head off to University I want to experience California. I'll be 18 when I go. I'm going to be adventuring by myself, I'm planning on bringing a backpack with a weeks worth of clothes and my Longboard. I really want to backpack/longboard throughout California Here's the plan: -Leave for San Diego July 3rd -Stay in San Diego for a few days -Make my way to Palm Springs -See LA -Go to San Fran for a few days -fly back from San Fran to Canada July 24th What do I need to do in between these stops? What do I need to see at these stops? Any special towns, beaches, people to see in Cali? I'll be bringing about $1000 to last me the three weeks. How should I shelter myself- hostels? Couch surfing? Hospitable redditors? TL;DR:
Going to California for three weeks in July with nothing but a backpack and a longboard. What do I do to have fun and survive?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Going to California this July- need help making an adventure! POST: Hey r/travel! I'm a 17 year old high school student from Canada, I'll be graduating this June and heading to University next year. Before I head off to University I want to experience California. I'll be 18 when I go. I'm going to be adventuring by myself, I'm planning on bringing a backpack with a weeks worth of clothes and my Longboard. I really want to backpack/longboard throughout California Here's the plan: -Leave for San Diego July 3rd -Stay in San Diego for a few days -Make my way to Palm Springs -See LA -Go to San Fran for a few days -fly back from San Fran to Canada July 24th What do I need to do in between these stops? What do I need to see at these stops? Any special towns, beaches, people to see in Cali? I'll be bringing about $1000 to last me the three weeks. How should I shelter myself- hostels? Couch surfing? Hospitable redditors? TL;DR: Going to California for three weeks in July with nothing but a backpack and a longboard. What do I do to have fun and survive?<|endoftext|>
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"I think we need a Christmas Miracle"....Reddit I need advice...
Pre-lude: GF moved to Pittsburgh strip district for a job. Awesome place. Bestbuy: I order a 50" tv for her. Set up free delivery and installation. I call to verify the delivery date and they can no longer offer that. supervisor calls and says he will credit my card for $30. I got an email for a $30 coupon to best buy today. Not what they promised Lowes: Order two rugs online. Schedule delivery. Never show. Call lowes , they rescheduled for thursday delivery without notifying me saying no one was home. This is an apartment with a doorman, deliveries all go through him. Lowes offers no compensation. Also cannot give delivery time for Thursday. Comcast: This is the kicker. I take a personal day from work last Friday. Drive to Pittsburgh thursday night. Move her apartment in Fri morning and wait for 12-4pm cable set up since she will be working. Guy never shows. I call his cell phone all weekend leaving messages just pleading him to install, even if saturday. (yea this guy gave my girl his personal cell phone like they were going to be friends after the installation) He calls me Monday saying our address was wrong and he is coming back Thursday from 12-4, but he will throw in 3 months free HBO. He already offered my girl a year of hbo for free. Call comcast monday night because clearly i dont want to work with this cuntrod anymore and they can only offer Sunday install now. 16 days after initial set up. Her building only lets us use comcast. Reddit, besides the BBB, which doesn't do a fucking thing cause only your grandpa reads that shit, what can I do? There is already at least 5 hours of phone time. Best part is, "I think we need a christmas miracle" is what my girlfriend has chalked all this shit up too
Lowes, bestbuy, and comcast have not delivered on services paid for or deliveries/installs set up based on their rules. Anything to do besides bend over?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: "I think we need a Christmas Miracle"....Reddit I need advice... POST: Pre-lude: GF moved to Pittsburgh strip district for a job. Awesome place. Bestbuy: I order a 50" tv for her. Set up free delivery and installation. I call to verify the delivery date and they can no longer offer that. supervisor calls and says he will credit my card for $30. I got an email for a $30 coupon to best buy today. Not what they promised Lowes: Order two rugs online. Schedule delivery. Never show. Call lowes, they rescheduled for thursday delivery without notifying me saying no one was home. This is an apartment with a doorman, deliveries all go through him. Lowes offers no compensation. Also cannot give delivery time for Thursday. Comcast: This is the kicker. I take a personal day from work last Friday. Drive to Pittsburgh thursday night. Move her apartment in Fri morning and wait for 12-4pm cable set up since she will be working. Guy never shows. I call his cell phone all weekend leaving messages just pleading him to install, even if saturday. (yea this guy gave my girl his personal cell phone like they were going to be friends after the installation) He calls me Monday saying our address was wrong and he is coming back Thursday from 12-4, but he will throw in 3 months free HBO. He already offered my girl a year of hbo for free. Call comcast monday night because clearly i dont want to work with this cuntrod anymore and they can only offer Sunday install now. 16 days after initial set up. Her building only lets us use comcast. Reddit, besides the BBB, which doesn't do a fucking thing cause only your grandpa reads that shit, what can I do? There is already at least 5 hours of phone time. Best part is, "I think we need a christmas miracle" is what my girlfriend has chalked all this shit up too TL;DR:
Lowes, bestbuy, and comcast have not delivered on services paid for or deliveries/installs set up based on their rules. Anything to do besides bend over?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: "I think we need a Christmas Miracle"....Reddit I need advice... POST: Pre-lude: GF moved to Pittsburgh strip district for a job. Awesome place. Bestbuy: I order a 50" tv for her. Set up free delivery and installation. I call to verify the delivery date and they can no longer offer that. supervisor calls and says he will credit my card for $30. I got an email for a $30 coupon to best buy today. Not what they promised Lowes: Order two rugs online. Schedule delivery. Never show. Call lowes, they rescheduled for thursday delivery without notifying me saying no one was home. This is an apartment with a doorman, deliveries all go through him. Lowes offers no compensation. Also cannot give delivery time for Thursday. Comcast: This is the kicker. I take a personal day from work last Friday. Drive to Pittsburgh thursday night. Move her apartment in Fri morning and wait for 12-4pm cable set up since she will be working. Guy never shows. I call his cell phone all weekend leaving messages just pleading him to install, even if saturday. (yea this guy gave my girl his personal cell phone like they were going to be friends after the installation) He calls me Monday saying our address was wrong and he is coming back Thursday from 12-4, but he will throw in 3 months free HBO. He already offered my girl a year of hbo for free. Call comcast monday night because clearly i dont want to work with this cuntrod anymore and they can only offer Sunday install now. 16 days after initial set up. Her building only lets us use comcast. Reddit, besides the BBB, which doesn't do a fucking thing cause only your grandpa reads that shit, what can I do? There is already at least 5 hours of phone time. Best part is, "I think we need a christmas miracle" is what my girlfriend has chalked all this shit up too TL;DR: Lowes, bestbuy, and comcast have not delivered on services paid for or deliveries/installs set up based on their rules. Anything to do besides bend over?<|endoftext|>
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t3_35lwqh
tifu
TIFU by inviting a girl over to study and accidentally hitting on her
Ok so this happened to me last semester. I was taking a class and not doing very well on the weekly online quizzes so I asked this girl (we'll call her Shayna) in my class who I barely know if she wanted to take the next quiz together, and she agrees. Few days go by and it's quiz time. In the morning I texted her to come over and we could take it together around 4pm. Ok so I've got nothing to do till then so I eat dinner and watch Netflix until a floormate of mine asks if I wanted to blaze. I completely blanked on my plans with Shayna and proceed to get quite stoned. 3:45 rolls around and I get a text from Shayna that she's on her way. I panic a little because all my high-ass was doing was browsing the Internet while listening to the Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack. I get my textbook out and light some candles so it won't reek of kush and much. Shayna comes to the door and I let her in. GotG still playing in the background. We sit down on my bed and make awkward small talk before starting the quiz. Here's where it gets weird. My dorm was designed with "energy efficiency" in mind and the lights will automatically shut off after a while with no movement. And just as we were finishing the quiz, simultaneously the lights go out so the only illumination is from the candles I lit earlier and the song "Fooled Around and Fell in Love" started playing from my speakers. We make awkward eye contact and I was 100% too high for it. I blither something about the damn lights and she packs up her stuff and leaves without a word. Hardest quiz I've ever taken
I invited a girl over, got high, the lights turned off and mood music was playing making it look like I was fully trying to seduce her...
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by inviting a girl over to study and accidentally hitting on her POST: Ok so this happened to me last semester. I was taking a class and not doing very well on the weekly online quizzes so I asked this girl (we'll call her Shayna) in my class who I barely know if she wanted to take the next quiz together, and she agrees. Few days go by and it's quiz time. In the morning I texted her to come over and we could take it together around 4pm. Ok so I've got nothing to do till then so I eat dinner and watch Netflix until a floormate of mine asks if I wanted to blaze. I completely blanked on my plans with Shayna and proceed to get quite stoned. 3:45 rolls around and I get a text from Shayna that she's on her way. I panic a little because all my high-ass was doing was browsing the Internet while listening to the Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack. I get my textbook out and light some candles so it won't reek of kush and much. Shayna comes to the door and I let her in. GotG still playing in the background. We sit down on my bed and make awkward small talk before starting the quiz. Here's where it gets weird. My dorm was designed with "energy efficiency" in mind and the lights will automatically shut off after a while with no movement. And just as we were finishing the quiz, simultaneously the lights go out so the only illumination is from the candles I lit earlier and the song "Fooled Around and Fell in Love" started playing from my speakers. We make awkward eye contact and I was 100% too high for it. I blither something about the damn lights and she packs up her stuff and leaves without a word. Hardest quiz I've ever taken TL;DR:
I invited a girl over, got high, the lights turned off and mood music was playing making it look like I was fully trying to seduce her...<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by inviting a girl over to study and accidentally hitting on her POST: Ok so this happened to me last semester. I was taking a class and not doing very well on the weekly online quizzes so I asked this girl (we'll call her Shayna) in my class who I barely know if she wanted to take the next quiz together, and she agrees. Few days go by and it's quiz time. In the morning I texted her to come over and we could take it together around 4pm. Ok so I've got nothing to do till then so I eat dinner and watch Netflix until a floormate of mine asks if I wanted to blaze. I completely blanked on my plans with Shayna and proceed to get quite stoned. 3:45 rolls around and I get a text from Shayna that she's on her way. I panic a little because all my high-ass was doing was browsing the Internet while listening to the Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack. I get my textbook out and light some candles so it won't reek of kush and much. Shayna comes to the door and I let her in. GotG still playing in the background. We sit down on my bed and make awkward small talk before starting the quiz. Here's where it gets weird. My dorm was designed with "energy efficiency" in mind and the lights will automatically shut off after a while with no movement. And just as we were finishing the quiz, simultaneously the lights go out so the only illumination is from the candles I lit earlier and the song "Fooled Around and Fell in Love" started playing from my speakers. We make awkward eye contact and I was 100% too high for it. I blither something about the damn lights and she packs up her stuff and leaves without a word. Hardest quiz I've ever taken TL;DR: I invited a girl over, got high, the lights turned off and mood music was playing making it look like I was fully trying to seduce her...<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, I need some guidance. I'm essentially "floating through space" in terms of where I'm taking my life. Can you give me some advice, some inspirational quotes, some movies to watch, anything I can use to get my head straight?
Here's a bit of backstory: I was born in 1994, my parents splitting up shortly after, and my mother proceeding to file a restraining order in December of 1999 against my father. In around 2001, my mother met a man named Alex, and they were married shortly after. I am an introvert, so naturally I didn't want to let Alex in, and close to 6 years went by this way. We didn't exactly see eye to eye. I have no memories whatsoever of anything special we did together, nothing that would motivate me into any sort of life pursuit. Somewhere in this space of time, my name was changed to Alex's last name, which was fair, but I didn't understand at the time. My step-siblings began having children, and Alex became softer. I snapped out of the funk I had been all my life and decided to do something more. I began reading a lot, playing music, and exercising. Nothing really spoke to me except the music, and I've been playing guitar since. In Winter 2010, my mom was diagnosed with cancer, and has since been pushing for me to go to university (closure, I assume) as well as sending me to a boarding school across the country. I really feel like I'm being pushed into something I am incapable of, or just have no interest in, and will fail due to lack of motivation, throwing me further off course. My request of you is essentially to be my father. I need a little help, and Reddit has always delivered (from what I've seen). I mean, hundreds of thousands of people? If 30 people see and respond to my post, I could easily find something I'm interested in, is worth pursuing, and **is profitable
No father figure, unsure of life, no motivation (not unhappy, weirdly) need something to get interested in and pursue.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need some guidance. I'm essentially "floating through space" in terms of where I'm taking my life. Can you give me some advice, some inspirational quotes, some movies to watch, anything I can use to get my head straight? POST: Here's a bit of backstory: I was born in 1994, my parents splitting up shortly after, and my mother proceeding to file a restraining order in December of 1999 against my father. In around 2001, my mother met a man named Alex, and they were married shortly after. I am an introvert, so naturally I didn't want to let Alex in, and close to 6 years went by this way. We didn't exactly see eye to eye. I have no memories whatsoever of anything special we did together, nothing that would motivate me into any sort of life pursuit. Somewhere in this space of time, my name was changed to Alex's last name, which was fair, but I didn't understand at the time. My step-siblings began having children, and Alex became softer. I snapped out of the funk I had been all my life and decided to do something more. I began reading a lot, playing music, and exercising. Nothing really spoke to me except the music, and I've been playing guitar since. In Winter 2010, my mom was diagnosed with cancer, and has since been pushing for me to go to university (closure, I assume) as well as sending me to a boarding school across the country. I really feel like I'm being pushed into something I am incapable of, or just have no interest in, and will fail due to lack of motivation, throwing me further off course. My request of you is essentially to be my father. I need a little help, and Reddit has always delivered (from what I've seen). I mean, hundreds of thousands of people? If 30 people see and respond to my post, I could easily find something I'm interested in, is worth pursuing, and **is profitable TL;DR:
No father figure, unsure of life, no motivation (not unhappy, weirdly) need something to get interested in and pursue.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need some guidance. I'm essentially "floating through space" in terms of where I'm taking my life. Can you give me some advice, some inspirational quotes, some movies to watch, anything I can use to get my head straight? POST: Here's a bit of backstory: I was born in 1994, my parents splitting up shortly after, and my mother proceeding to file a restraining order in December of 1999 against my father. In around 2001, my mother met a man named Alex, and they were married shortly after. I am an introvert, so naturally I didn't want to let Alex in, and close to 6 years went by this way. We didn't exactly see eye to eye. I have no memories whatsoever of anything special we did together, nothing that would motivate me into any sort of life pursuit. Somewhere in this space of time, my name was changed to Alex's last name, which was fair, but I didn't understand at the time. My step-siblings began having children, and Alex became softer. I snapped out of the funk I had been all my life and decided to do something more. I began reading a lot, playing music, and exercising. Nothing really spoke to me except the music, and I've been playing guitar since. In Winter 2010, my mom was diagnosed with cancer, and has since been pushing for me to go to university (closure, I assume) as well as sending me to a boarding school across the country. I really feel like I'm being pushed into something I am incapable of, or just have no interest in, and will fail due to lack of motivation, throwing me further off course. My request of you is essentially to be my father. I need a little help, and Reddit has always delivered (from what I've seen). I mean, hundreds of thousands of people? If 30 people see and respond to my post, I could easily find something I'm interested in, is worth pursuing, and **is profitable TL;DR: No father figure, unsure of life, no motivation (not unhappy, weirdly) need something to get interested in and pursue.<|endoftext|>
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Why is it wrong to like something that's not meant for you?
I've been a fan of the show My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic for the past year and a half. I know just saying that on anywhere but MLP boards or forums guarantees instant hate, but this is the place to vent or confess something, right? About 90% of people I know either are haters of the show or think that if I don't conform to gender standards, I'm not a male. The only safe way I can express my liking for the show is anonymously and I'm afraid of what others around me would think if I told them I liked the show. My question is this: why is it a bad thing to like something that's not meant for your demographic? Since when did it mean instant alienation if you are a guy and like something meant for girls or vice-versa. Thanks for hearing me out, r/offmychest.
I'm a brony and am afraid to say anything about it for fear of being ostracized by my friends and being thought of as "the weird one" in my family.
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Why is it wrong to like something that's not meant for you? POST: I've been a fan of the show My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic for the past year and a half. I know just saying that on anywhere but MLP boards or forums guarantees instant hate, but this is the place to vent or confess something, right? About 90% of people I know either are haters of the show or think that if I don't conform to gender standards, I'm not a male. The only safe way I can express my liking for the show is anonymously and I'm afraid of what others around me would think if I told them I liked the show. My question is this: why is it a bad thing to like something that's not meant for your demographic? Since when did it mean instant alienation if you are a guy and like something meant for girls or vice-versa. Thanks for hearing me out, r/offmychest. TL;DR:
I'm a brony and am afraid to say anything about it for fear of being ostracized by my friends and being thought of as "the weird one" in my family.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Why is it wrong to like something that's not meant for you? POST: I've been a fan of the show My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic for the past year and a half. I know just saying that on anywhere but MLP boards or forums guarantees instant hate, but this is the place to vent or confess something, right? About 90% of people I know either are haters of the show or think that if I don't conform to gender standards, I'm not a male. The only safe way I can express my liking for the show is anonymously and I'm afraid of what others around me would think if I told them I liked the show. My question is this: why is it a bad thing to like something that's not meant for your demographic? Since when did it mean instant alienation if you are a guy and like something meant for girls or vice-versa. Thanks for hearing me out, r/offmychest. TL;DR: I'm a brony and am afraid to say anything about it for fear of being ostracized by my friends and being thought of as "the weird one" in my family.<|endoftext|>
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Me [32F] with my fiance [37 M] of 3.5 years, I am overweight with pcos and working on it, he keeps wanting to "talk" about *my* issues, but never wants to take actions to help
I have been overweight my entire life. 10 years ago I lost 80 lbs and kept it off for 5. An unhealthy relationship enabled me to put it all back on plus some. I'm older now, its harder to take off than it was years ago and I also have pcos. My fiance has overcome drug addiction (years ago now) and keeps trying to say he understands my plight because of that and wants to keep 'talking about my issues'. I've talked and every talk ends with me asking if he will help me in very easy ways - ask me if im tracking on mfp, if ive had my vitamins and if i had enough veggies. I figure that's simple enough for someone else to do - 3 questions and it would be an awesome accountability point for me. He never once asks and then inevitably a month later we have a blow up over my weight again. I ask him to go for walks after supper and he won't. I wanted to get bikes and he wouldn't jump on that with me. He won't workout with me and he only ever wants to go hiking (which I hate - allergic to bug bites, hate the woods etc...). I was this size when he met me. It isn't like I randomly gained 80 lbs while we were together. Im obviously sensitive about the topic as most people are, but Im also working on it. He freaks out every time I get upset or cry after he badgers me and tells me my coping skills are terrible. Im sitting here in tears once again over the same flippin conversation and I just don't know what to do at this point. His method of support just isn't supportive to me. I truly love this guy and fall in love with him more every day except when this happens over and over.
Im fat, always been fat, fiance is freaking out at me over not wanting to analyze the finer points of it on his terms.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] with my fiance [37 M] of 3.5 years, I am overweight with pcos and working on it, he keeps wanting to "talk" about *my* issues, but never wants to take actions to help POST: I have been overweight my entire life. 10 years ago I lost 80 lbs and kept it off for 5. An unhealthy relationship enabled me to put it all back on plus some. I'm older now, its harder to take off than it was years ago and I also have pcos. My fiance has overcome drug addiction (years ago now) and keeps trying to say he understands my plight because of that and wants to keep 'talking about my issues'. I've talked and every talk ends with me asking if he will help me in very easy ways - ask me if im tracking on mfp, if ive had my vitamins and if i had enough veggies. I figure that's simple enough for someone else to do - 3 questions and it would be an awesome accountability point for me. He never once asks and then inevitably a month later we have a blow up over my weight again. I ask him to go for walks after supper and he won't. I wanted to get bikes and he wouldn't jump on that with me. He won't workout with me and he only ever wants to go hiking (which I hate - allergic to bug bites, hate the woods etc...). I was this size when he met me. It isn't like I randomly gained 80 lbs while we were together. Im obviously sensitive about the topic as most people are, but Im also working on it. He freaks out every time I get upset or cry after he badgers me and tells me my coping skills are terrible. Im sitting here in tears once again over the same flippin conversation and I just don't know what to do at this point. His method of support just isn't supportive to me. I truly love this guy and fall in love with him more every day except when this happens over and over. TL;DR:
Im fat, always been fat, fiance is freaking out at me over not wanting to analyze the finer points of it on his terms.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] with my fiance [37 M] of 3.5 years, I am overweight with pcos and working on it, he keeps wanting to "talk" about *my* issues, but never wants to take actions to help POST: I have been overweight my entire life. 10 years ago I lost 80 lbs and kept it off for 5. An unhealthy relationship enabled me to put it all back on plus some. I'm older now, its harder to take off than it was years ago and I also have pcos. My fiance has overcome drug addiction (years ago now) and keeps trying to say he understands my plight because of that and wants to keep 'talking about my issues'. I've talked and every talk ends with me asking if he will help me in very easy ways - ask me if im tracking on mfp, if ive had my vitamins and if i had enough veggies. I figure that's simple enough for someone else to do - 3 questions and it would be an awesome accountability point for me. He never once asks and then inevitably a month later we have a blow up over my weight again. I ask him to go for walks after supper and he won't. I wanted to get bikes and he wouldn't jump on that with me. He won't workout with me and he only ever wants to go hiking (which I hate - allergic to bug bites, hate the woods etc...). I was this size when he met me. It isn't like I randomly gained 80 lbs while we were together. Im obviously sensitive about the topic as most people are, but Im also working on it. He freaks out every time I get upset or cry after he badgers me and tells me my coping skills are terrible. Im sitting here in tears once again over the same flippin conversation and I just don't know what to do at this point. His method of support just isn't supportive to me. I truly love this guy and fall in love with him more every day except when this happens over and over. TL;DR: Im fat, always been fat, fiance is freaking out at me over not wanting to analyze the finer points of it on his terms.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by playing Worms 3
My phone was stolen about a month ago, so I havent been able to play any app games for a while. Once i restored my old ipod 3, I was immediately hooked to the only game I could download: Worms 3. I go on the metro a lot, and I usually do not leave the metro system for a long time so I end up playing on my iphone along the way. Since I didnt have my phone at the time, I tried Worms 3 for the first time. By the time the game started, the doors of the metro closed, heading to the next station. I played for about 30 minutes, almost sweating because it was so intense. I looked up for a little breather, when I find almost everyone the in whole kart looking at me as if I was crazy. It took me a few minutes to realize that for that entire time, I've been so into the game that I was yelling and smacking my face repeatedly when I messed up... I pretended nothing happened until we stopped at the next station where I swiftly escaped the haunting attention.
I got really into Worms 3, and humiliated myself in front of people by reenacting a weak version of Fight Club.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing Worms 3 POST: My phone was stolen about a month ago, so I havent been able to play any app games for a while. Once i restored my old ipod 3, I was immediately hooked to the only game I could download: Worms 3. I go on the metro a lot, and I usually do not leave the metro system for a long time so I end up playing on my iphone along the way. Since I didnt have my phone at the time, I tried Worms 3 for the first time. By the time the game started, the doors of the metro closed, heading to the next station. I played for about 30 minutes, almost sweating because it was so intense. I looked up for a little breather, when I find almost everyone the in whole kart looking at me as if I was crazy. It took me a few minutes to realize that for that entire time, I've been so into the game that I was yelling and smacking my face repeatedly when I messed up... I pretended nothing happened until we stopped at the next station where I swiftly escaped the haunting attention. TL;DR:
I got really into Worms 3, and humiliated myself in front of people by reenacting a weak version of Fight Club.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing Worms 3 POST: My phone was stolen about a month ago, so I havent been able to play any app games for a while. Once i restored my old ipod 3, I was immediately hooked to the only game I could download: Worms 3. I go on the metro a lot, and I usually do not leave the metro system for a long time so I end up playing on my iphone along the way. Since I didnt have my phone at the time, I tried Worms 3 for the first time. By the time the game started, the doors of the metro closed, heading to the next station. I played for about 30 minutes, almost sweating because it was so intense. I looked up for a little breather, when I find almost everyone the in whole kart looking at me as if I was crazy. It took me a few minutes to realize that for that entire time, I've been so into the game that I was yelling and smacking my face repeatedly when I messed up... I pretended nothing happened until we stopped at the next station where I swiftly escaped the haunting attention. TL;DR: I got really into Worms 3, and humiliated myself in front of people by reenacting a weak version of Fight Club.<|endoftext|>
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Sometimes I [22/m] just want to break up with her [22/f]
I went to university this year and it kind of screwed our relationship. We've been together for 10 months now, we dated 3 years ago for 7 months but we ended up breaking up and I went into a depression but made my way through it and went good. 10 months ago we started dating again and until 2 months ago it was all perfect. Now it's just all ruined, we talk by the phone all the time every week and are only together on weekends, and is pretty difficult because she works at the same time so we don't have much time together. We don't have anything to talk about now, it's the same drill every day and it's really boring. We get into discussions often now yelling at each other for nothing worrying. 3 weeks ago she almost tried to give us a time but then said she couldn't do this to me and so we just forgot about it and continued. We both agreed in giving the best out of us to ensure this relationship doesnt end but it has been very difficult. I really love her, she's the most important person in my life, I really can't imagine my life without her and I don't want to get into a depression again, but sometimes I think the best is just to end this and try to live my life. Can you people help me? It's really frustating, I really don't know what to do, should I just hold on and wait for it to get better or just end it? Thanks.
Our relation was perfect, went into university, screwed it up now don't know if we should break up or just give it another try.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Sometimes I [22/m] just want to break up with her [22/f] POST: I went to university this year and it kind of screwed our relationship. We've been together for 10 months now, we dated 3 years ago for 7 months but we ended up breaking up and I went into a depression but made my way through it and went good. 10 months ago we started dating again and until 2 months ago it was all perfect. Now it's just all ruined, we talk by the phone all the time every week and are only together on weekends, and is pretty difficult because she works at the same time so we don't have much time together. We don't have anything to talk about now, it's the same drill every day and it's really boring. We get into discussions often now yelling at each other for nothing worrying. 3 weeks ago she almost tried to give us a time but then said she couldn't do this to me and so we just forgot about it and continued. We both agreed in giving the best out of us to ensure this relationship doesnt end but it has been very difficult. I really love her, she's the most important person in my life, I really can't imagine my life without her and I don't want to get into a depression again, but sometimes I think the best is just to end this and try to live my life. Can you people help me? It's really frustating, I really don't know what to do, should I just hold on and wait for it to get better or just end it? Thanks. TL;DR:
Our relation was perfect, went into university, screwed it up now don't know if we should break up or just give it another try.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Sometimes I [22/m] just want to break up with her [22/f] POST: I went to university this year and it kind of screwed our relationship. We've been together for 10 months now, we dated 3 years ago for 7 months but we ended up breaking up and I went into a depression but made my way through it and went good. 10 months ago we started dating again and until 2 months ago it was all perfect. Now it's just all ruined, we talk by the phone all the time every week and are only together on weekends, and is pretty difficult because she works at the same time so we don't have much time together. We don't have anything to talk about now, it's the same drill every day and it's really boring. We get into discussions often now yelling at each other for nothing worrying. 3 weeks ago she almost tried to give us a time but then said she couldn't do this to me and so we just forgot about it and continued. We both agreed in giving the best out of us to ensure this relationship doesnt end but it has been very difficult. I really love her, she's the most important person in my life, I really can't imagine my life without her and I don't want to get into a depression again, but sometimes I think the best is just to end this and try to live my life. Can you people help me? It's really frustating, I really don't know what to do, should I just hold on and wait for it to get better or just end it? Thanks. TL;DR: Our relation was perfect, went into university, screwed it up now don't know if we should break up or just give it another try.<|endoftext|>
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I (18f) think my boyfriend (19/m) has lost interest in me.
We've been together for 9 months now. He used to be really caring and loving and everything was fantastic. But lately, he doesn't really listen to me that much (he's usually on reddit when I'm trying to have a conversation with him) and he just doesn't seem interested. Sometimes I feel like I'm not even in a realtionship with him, it feels like we're just fwb like we were before our actual relationship. Sometimes I have to ask him to cuddle with me, or do romantic-like things with me (have sex, stuff like that). He NEVER plans dates, which hurts. I just feel like he doesn't care about me and I'm starting to slip into depression. I love him to death but I can't stand not feeling cared about or important. Whenever I bring up this issue with him, he gets really mad. Also, he doesn't like for me to use his phone. He's had a horrible temper towards me recently, which is new. Should I even stay in this relationship? I feel like he doesn't love me anymore.
I think my boyfriend has lost interest, he never plans dates and I have to practically ask him to be intimate with me. He has an unusual temper towards me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (18f) think my boyfriend (19/m) has lost interest in me. POST: We've been together for 9 months now. He used to be really caring and loving and everything was fantastic. But lately, he doesn't really listen to me that much (he's usually on reddit when I'm trying to have a conversation with him) and he just doesn't seem interested. Sometimes I feel like I'm not even in a realtionship with him, it feels like we're just fwb like we were before our actual relationship. Sometimes I have to ask him to cuddle with me, or do romantic-like things with me (have sex, stuff like that). He NEVER plans dates, which hurts. I just feel like he doesn't care about me and I'm starting to slip into depression. I love him to death but I can't stand not feeling cared about or important. Whenever I bring up this issue with him, he gets really mad. Also, he doesn't like for me to use his phone. He's had a horrible temper towards me recently, which is new. Should I even stay in this relationship? I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. TL;DR:
I think my boyfriend has lost interest, he never plans dates and I have to practically ask him to be intimate with me. He has an unusual temper towards me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (18f) think my boyfriend (19/m) has lost interest in me. POST: We've been together for 9 months now. He used to be really caring and loving and everything was fantastic. But lately, he doesn't really listen to me that much (he's usually on reddit when I'm trying to have a conversation with him) and he just doesn't seem interested. Sometimes I feel like I'm not even in a realtionship with him, it feels like we're just fwb like we were before our actual relationship. Sometimes I have to ask him to cuddle with me, or do romantic-like things with me (have sex, stuff like that). He NEVER plans dates, which hurts. I just feel like he doesn't care about me and I'm starting to slip into depression. I love him to death but I can't stand not feeling cared about or important. Whenever I bring up this issue with him, he gets really mad. Also, he doesn't like for me to use his phone. He's had a horrible temper towards me recently, which is new. Should I even stay in this relationship? I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. TL;DR: I think my boyfriend has lost interest, he never plans dates and I have to practically ask him to be intimate with me. He has an unusual temper towards me.<|endoftext|>
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My girlfriend is severely depressed due to past relationship, what can i do to help her?
Ive been going out with her for two months now, i am 17 she is 16. It is my first relationship so i'm not very good at dealing with a situation like this. The source of her depression is linked to her previous relationships but more so her last one. The dude was absolutely insane and ultimately destroyed the person my girlfriend used to be. The dude was a real cook, according my girlfriend he went to a renowned psycologist and his case was extremely interesting to the psycologist. The kid abused my girlfriends goodwill and trust. She sacrificed her welfare for a year and a half to try and make this kid happy but in response all she would get were depricating insults, minor physical abuse, and an inability to express her own feelings. All the ex-boyfriend would get from her would be sympathy and whenever he would get it, he would throw it back in her face with very demeaning insults. Then one day he was really sad and she showed little interest (obviously acceptable) and he responded by cutting himself in order to recieve the sympathy that he never once appreciated. The kid was just absolutely insane. There's more too but hopefully you get the point. She lost her old personality becase now she always depressed And is now on zolaft. Ive tried telling her multiple times not to dwell in the padt tat you cant change, dont forget about it because you should learn from this experience, but just dont let it bring you down, focus on your future and present instead. It just doesnt seem to be working, everything i do, its very hard for me becusde it makes me seem powerless. Worst of all, our relationship is suffering drastically on an emotional level because fears that ill just be another shitty relationship, she is afraid to install her trust into me and to be vulnerable again. Im willing to wait because i do love her, but if there's anything else you suggest i could do to help her please comment. Thank you.
girlfriend is severely depressed to a horrible relationship she was in, destroyed her completely and now our relationship is lacking growth. Help please.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is severely depressed due to past relationship, what can i do to help her? POST: Ive been going out with her for two months now, i am 17 she is 16. It is my first relationship so i'm not very good at dealing with a situation like this. The source of her depression is linked to her previous relationships but more so her last one. The dude was absolutely insane and ultimately destroyed the person my girlfriend used to be. The dude was a real cook, according my girlfriend he went to a renowned psycologist and his case was extremely interesting to the psycologist. The kid abused my girlfriends goodwill and trust. She sacrificed her welfare for a year and a half to try and make this kid happy but in response all she would get were depricating insults, minor physical abuse, and an inability to express her own feelings. All the ex-boyfriend would get from her would be sympathy and whenever he would get it, he would throw it back in her face with very demeaning insults. Then one day he was really sad and she showed little interest (obviously acceptable) and he responded by cutting himself in order to recieve the sympathy that he never once appreciated. The kid was just absolutely insane. There's more too but hopefully you get the point. She lost her old personality becase now she always depressed And is now on zolaft. Ive tried telling her multiple times not to dwell in the padt tat you cant change, dont forget about it because you should learn from this experience, but just dont let it bring you down, focus on your future and present instead. It just doesnt seem to be working, everything i do, its very hard for me becusde it makes me seem powerless. Worst of all, our relationship is suffering drastically on an emotional level because fears that ill just be another shitty relationship, she is afraid to install her trust into me and to be vulnerable again. Im willing to wait because i do love her, but if there's anything else you suggest i could do to help her please comment. Thank you. TL;DR:
girlfriend is severely depressed to a horrible relationship she was in, destroyed her completely and now our relationship is lacking growth. Help please.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is severely depressed due to past relationship, what can i do to help her? POST: Ive been going out with her for two months now, i am 17 she is 16. It is my first relationship so i'm not very good at dealing with a situation like this. The source of her depression is linked to her previous relationships but more so her last one. The dude was absolutely insane and ultimately destroyed the person my girlfriend used to be. The dude was a real cook, according my girlfriend he went to a renowned psycologist and his case was extremely interesting to the psycologist. The kid abused my girlfriends goodwill and trust. She sacrificed her welfare for a year and a half to try and make this kid happy but in response all she would get were depricating insults, minor physical abuse, and an inability to express her own feelings. All the ex-boyfriend would get from her would be sympathy and whenever he would get it, he would throw it back in her face with very demeaning insults. Then one day he was really sad and she showed little interest (obviously acceptable) and he responded by cutting himself in order to recieve the sympathy that he never once appreciated. The kid was just absolutely insane. There's more too but hopefully you get the point. She lost her old personality becase now she always depressed And is now on zolaft. Ive tried telling her multiple times not to dwell in the padt tat you cant change, dont forget about it because you should learn from this experience, but just dont let it bring you down, focus on your future and present instead. It just doesnt seem to be working, everything i do, its very hard for me becusde it makes me seem powerless. Worst of all, our relationship is suffering drastically on an emotional level because fears that ill just be another shitty relationship, she is afraid to install her trust into me and to be vulnerable again. Im willing to wait because i do love her, but if there's anything else you suggest i could do to help her please comment. Thank you. TL;DR: girlfriend is severely depressed to a horrible relationship she was in, destroyed her completely and now our relationship is lacking growth. Help please.<|endoftext|>
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My [21] girlfriend's [18] dad physically abused her because we had a pretty bad fight
We live in a pretty conservative environment, with her family being more conservative than mine. My parents know about us but her parents think i'm just a suitor who is still courting her. We have been in this relationship for 9 months now but we are currently going over a rough patch. You see, I sometimes panic and tell her what she wants to instead of telling her what she needs to. And she notices. I know she deserves the truth, but sometimes to spare her feelings, I try to tell her what she wants to hear. I don't cheat, i am loyal and faithful, but she wants me to tell her everything, from the smallest of things the biggest of things. Something i am still in the process of doing. We are currently in a fight about it, and it got to the point where she couldnt hold back her emotions and her parents heard. She tells them everything and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her. I heard it all through the phone. I do not know what happened but i heard a smack and cries of pain and sobs from the woman I love. I truly care about her and want to fix everything in our relationship, but I do not want her to continually be hurt because of my failure to tell her everything, and because of her dad abusing her. What do I do?
My girlfriend of 9 months and I get into a fight and it gets to the point where she cant hold back emotionally, and her parents hear and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21] girlfriend's [18] dad physically abused her because we had a pretty bad fight POST: We live in a pretty conservative environment, with her family being more conservative than mine. My parents know about us but her parents think i'm just a suitor who is still courting her. We have been in this relationship for 9 months now but we are currently going over a rough patch. You see, I sometimes panic and tell her what she wants to instead of telling her what she needs to. And she notices. I know she deserves the truth, but sometimes to spare her feelings, I try to tell her what she wants to hear. I don't cheat, i am loyal and faithful, but she wants me to tell her everything, from the smallest of things the biggest of things. Something i am still in the process of doing. We are currently in a fight about it, and it got to the point where she couldnt hold back her emotions and her parents heard. She tells them everything and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her. I heard it all through the phone. I do not know what happened but i heard a smack and cries of pain and sobs from the woman I love. I truly care about her and want to fix everything in our relationship, but I do not want her to continually be hurt because of my failure to tell her everything, and because of her dad abusing her. What do I do? TL;DR:
My girlfriend of 9 months and I get into a fight and it gets to the point where she cant hold back emotionally, and her parents hear and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21] girlfriend's [18] dad physically abused her because we had a pretty bad fight POST: We live in a pretty conservative environment, with her family being more conservative than mine. My parents know about us but her parents think i'm just a suitor who is still courting her. We have been in this relationship for 9 months now but we are currently going over a rough patch. You see, I sometimes panic and tell her what she wants to instead of telling her what she needs to. And she notices. I know she deserves the truth, but sometimes to spare her feelings, I try to tell her what she wants to hear. I don't cheat, i am loyal and faithful, but she wants me to tell her everything, from the smallest of things the biggest of things. Something i am still in the process of doing. We are currently in a fight about it, and it got to the point where she couldnt hold back her emotions and her parents heard. She tells them everything and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her. I heard it all through the phone. I do not know what happened but i heard a smack and cries of pain and sobs from the woman I love. I truly care about her and want to fix everything in our relationship, but I do not want her to continually be hurt because of my failure to tell her everything, and because of her dad abusing her. What do I do? TL;DR: My girlfriend of 9 months and I get into a fight and it gets to the point where she cant hold back emotionally, and her parents hear and her dad gets mad and physically abuses her.<|endoftext|>
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Me [33M] with my wife [33F] of five years - we have different definitions of a 'clean' home.
We have different definitions of clean. She see's clean as 'a kitchen counter that has been wiped down' and I see clean as "the couch is not covered with stuff'. Not sure how to bridge the gap. Basically, I want things in our home to have a 'home', to have a place to go, so they are not strewn around our place , getting in the way all the time. In my opinion, having stuff all over the ground in our bedroom and living room, etc is a distraction from how I want to be spending my time at home. I would rather have a clear area for my son to walk around in and be able to focus all of my attention on him - instead of having to move stuff out of his way or watch him stumble on something. My wife thinks that spending too much time on this, on keeping things out of the way is a waste of time and investing time in that regard takes away from spending attention on family because you are always thinking about cleaning it up. She says she will be clean if I keep the counter tops clean. I've tried that, but there's always stuff all over the counter. I try to explain to her that I can't vacume if there's stuff all over the ground - it's double the work to have to pick everything up every night. I'm not asking that the place be impeccable, I'm just asking that the state of 'normal' is that I don't have to constantly watch out for tripping on something, knocking something over - or waste time looking for something I need. The reason for wanting this is because I want to spend the few spare moments I have , really enjoying time with my family. I've tried to explain to her, I've tried to compromise, but when she does try to clean up - it's still a total mess. It's still chaos and she asks me 'how clean is it to you' with this look in her eye that shows that she tried really hard. I don't have the heart to say that it's still messy.
Wife thinks clean is having a clean kitchen counter , I think clean is putting things back and not leaving them everywhere. It drains me and I feel defeated by it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33M] with my wife [33F] of five years - we have different definitions of a 'clean' home. POST: We have different definitions of clean. She see's clean as 'a kitchen counter that has been wiped down' and I see clean as "the couch is not covered with stuff'. Not sure how to bridge the gap. Basically, I want things in our home to have a 'home', to have a place to go, so they are not strewn around our place, getting in the way all the time. In my opinion, having stuff all over the ground in our bedroom and living room, etc is a distraction from how I want to be spending my time at home. I would rather have a clear area for my son to walk around in and be able to focus all of my attention on him - instead of having to move stuff out of his way or watch him stumble on something. My wife thinks that spending too much time on this, on keeping things out of the way is a waste of time and investing time in that regard takes away from spending attention on family because you are always thinking about cleaning it up. She says she will be clean if I keep the counter tops clean. I've tried that, but there's always stuff all over the counter. I try to explain to her that I can't vacume if there's stuff all over the ground - it's double the work to have to pick everything up every night. I'm not asking that the place be impeccable, I'm just asking that the state of 'normal' is that I don't have to constantly watch out for tripping on something, knocking something over - or waste time looking for something I need. The reason for wanting this is because I want to spend the few spare moments I have, really enjoying time with my family. I've tried to explain to her, I've tried to compromise, but when she does try to clean up - it's still a total mess. It's still chaos and she asks me 'how clean is it to you' with this look in her eye that shows that she tried really hard. I don't have the heart to say that it's still messy. TL;DR:
Wife thinks clean is having a clean kitchen counter , I think clean is putting things back and not leaving them everywhere. It drains me and I feel defeated by it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33M] with my wife [33F] of five years - we have different definitions of a 'clean' home. POST: We have different definitions of clean. She see's clean as 'a kitchen counter that has been wiped down' and I see clean as "the couch is not covered with stuff'. Not sure how to bridge the gap. Basically, I want things in our home to have a 'home', to have a place to go, so they are not strewn around our place, getting in the way all the time. In my opinion, having stuff all over the ground in our bedroom and living room, etc is a distraction from how I want to be spending my time at home. I would rather have a clear area for my son to walk around in and be able to focus all of my attention on him - instead of having to move stuff out of his way or watch him stumble on something. My wife thinks that spending too much time on this, on keeping things out of the way is a waste of time and investing time in that regard takes away from spending attention on family because you are always thinking about cleaning it up. She says she will be clean if I keep the counter tops clean. I've tried that, but there's always stuff all over the counter. I try to explain to her that I can't vacume if there's stuff all over the ground - it's double the work to have to pick everything up every night. I'm not asking that the place be impeccable, I'm just asking that the state of 'normal' is that I don't have to constantly watch out for tripping on something, knocking something over - or waste time looking for something I need. The reason for wanting this is because I want to spend the few spare moments I have, really enjoying time with my family. I've tried to explain to her, I've tried to compromise, but when she does try to clean up - it's still a total mess. It's still chaos and she asks me 'how clean is it to you' with this look in her eye that shows that she tried really hard. I don't have the heart to say that it's still messy. TL;DR: Wife thinks clean is having a clean kitchen counter , I think clean is putting things back and not leaving them everywhere. It drains me and I feel defeated by it.<|endoftext|>
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Me [18 M] and my girlfriend [18 F] are on a break... But she saw another guy
We've been together for 9 months and I love her more than anything. But we recently been on a break where (reluctantly for me might i add) we see other people. I didn't think anything of this and didnt bother to try to see anyone. I had no desire to. It's been 10 days... I've been lonely just working and staying at home. Well... She came over today and informed me she saw this guy, a real scumbag, like when I say scumbag I mean he bragged at football about "fucking this hot ass milf in the bed of my truck and she gave me a rim job and she called but I never talked to her again" kinda guy. Like that's a true story. Well she recently moved to here and I know she didnt know how much of a shit bag this guy is, and well they went on 4 dates. I know it's not too big a deal, she apologized and cried a lot today, but they did stuff that her and I do on our dates, which sucked to think about. He took her to downtown, then to a really nice fudge place her and I go to. It sucks knowing this, she also saw a movie with him. They only kissed, well "made out" twice. That's fine. It bothers me but life goes on I suppose. She said she wants to be with me and not him, and I'm seeing her again tomorrow.. I guess I'm just writing this cause I'm hurt, don't know what to do or how to feel. I punched a God damned tree today for crying out loud.. Which shows I don't know what to do.. I've never cried so much... Fuck relationships are hard :'(
girlfriend went out and dated and I didn't think she was seriously going to... I know this guy too and sent a message to him.. Fuck this guy. Really. >:(
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] and my girlfriend [18 F] are on a break... But she saw another guy POST: We've been together for 9 months and I love her more than anything. But we recently been on a break where (reluctantly for me might i add) we see other people. I didn't think anything of this and didnt bother to try to see anyone. I had no desire to. It's been 10 days... I've been lonely just working and staying at home. Well... She came over today and informed me she saw this guy, a real scumbag, like when I say scumbag I mean he bragged at football about "fucking this hot ass milf in the bed of my truck and she gave me a rim job and she called but I never talked to her again" kinda guy. Like that's a true story. Well she recently moved to here and I know she didnt know how much of a shit bag this guy is, and well they went on 4 dates. I know it's not too big a deal, she apologized and cried a lot today, but they did stuff that her and I do on our dates, which sucked to think about. He took her to downtown, then to a really nice fudge place her and I go to. It sucks knowing this, she also saw a movie with him. They only kissed, well "made out" twice. That's fine. It bothers me but life goes on I suppose. She said she wants to be with me and not him, and I'm seeing her again tomorrow.. I guess I'm just writing this cause I'm hurt, don't know what to do or how to feel. I punched a God damned tree today for crying out loud.. Which shows I don't know what to do.. I've never cried so much... Fuck relationships are hard :'( TL;DR:
girlfriend went out and dated and I didn't think she was seriously going to... I know this guy too and sent a message to him.. Fuck this guy. Really. >:(<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] and my girlfriend [18 F] are on a break... But she saw another guy POST: We've been together for 9 months and I love her more than anything. But we recently been on a break where (reluctantly for me might i add) we see other people. I didn't think anything of this and didnt bother to try to see anyone. I had no desire to. It's been 10 days... I've been lonely just working and staying at home. Well... She came over today and informed me she saw this guy, a real scumbag, like when I say scumbag I mean he bragged at football about "fucking this hot ass milf in the bed of my truck and she gave me a rim job and she called but I never talked to her again" kinda guy. Like that's a true story. Well she recently moved to here and I know she didnt know how much of a shit bag this guy is, and well they went on 4 dates. I know it's not too big a deal, she apologized and cried a lot today, but they did stuff that her and I do on our dates, which sucked to think about. He took her to downtown, then to a really nice fudge place her and I go to. It sucks knowing this, she also saw a movie with him. They only kissed, well "made out" twice. That's fine. It bothers me but life goes on I suppose. She said she wants to be with me and not him, and I'm seeing her again tomorrow.. I guess I'm just writing this cause I'm hurt, don't know what to do or how to feel. I punched a God damned tree today for crying out loud.. Which shows I don't know what to do.. I've never cried so much... Fuck relationships are hard :'( TL;DR: girlfriend went out and dated and I didn't think she was seriously going to... I know this guy too and sent a message to him.. Fuck this guy. Really. >:(<|endoftext|>
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