Question: what are the essential characteristics of a partner?
Answer: Maturity. This statement is not meant to echo the ever-advised mantra that maturity is important. ... 
Openness. The ideal partner is open, undefended and willing to be vulnerable. ... 
Honesty & Integrity. ... 
Respect & Independence. ... 
Empathy. ... 
Affection. ... 
Sense of Humor.