Question: what does it mean when a guy sits next to you instead of across from you?
Answer: 4 He Sits Close to You If a guy sits next to you rather than across from you at a restaurant or coffee shop, it means he's into you. It's his way of showing he doesn't want any distance, and enjoys being close to you. A flirting rule of thumb: the less distance he leaves between you, the more he's flirting with you.