Repository: react-native
Issue: SectionList unnecessarily unmounts and mounts items when filtering (in between renders)
Labels: Platform: Android,Component: SectionList,Needs: Attention

## Description
When a SectionList rerenders, sometimes it unmounts and remounts some of its items unnecessarily, even though the items preserve the same "key" prop in between renders. This impacts performance.

A scenario where this could happen is when filtering data. Imagine a SectionList with a search bar (TextInput) above it. Every time the user types something in the search bar, the section list gets filtered so it shows the items that contain the text in the search bar. Sometimes, the items get remounted unnecessarily when typing (Why remount an item when it was already there? It passed the filter, it should stay there.)

## React Native version:
System:
    OS: Windows 10 10.0.18363
    CPU: (8) x64 Intel(R) Core(TM) i7-6820HQ CPU @ 2.70GHz
    Memory: 6.52 GB / 15.87 GB
  Binaries:
    Node: 12.14.0 - C:\Program Files\nodejs\node.EXE
    Yarn: Not Found
    npm: 6.13.4 - C:\Program Files\nodejs\npm.CMD
    Watchman: Not Found
  SDKs:
    Android SDK: Not Found
  IDEs:
    Android Studio: Version  3.6.0.0 AI-192.7142.36.36.6392135
  Languages:
    Java: Not Found
    Python: 2.7.17 - C:\Python27\python.EXE
  npmPackages:
    @react-native-community/cli: Not Found
    react: 16.11.0 => 16.11.0
    react-native: 0.62.2 => 0.62.2
  npmGlobalPackages:
    *react-native*: Not Found

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Create a new react-native project. `npx react-native init sectionlisttest`
2. Modify the App.js file so it looks like the following.
```js
import React, {useEffect, useState} from 'react';
import {SectionList, Text, View} from 'react-native';

const originalData = [{
  key: 'header1',
  header: 'Header 1',
  data: [{key: 'firstItem'}, {key: 'byebye1'}],
}];

const filteredData = [{
  key: 'header1',
  header: 'Header 1',
  data: [{key: 'firstItem'}],
}];

export default function App() {
  useEffect(() => {
    setTimeout(() => setSections(filteredData), 5000);
  }, []);

  const [sections, setSections] = useState(originalData);

  return (
    <SectionList
      sections={sections}
      renderItem={renderItem}
      renderSectionHeader={renderSectionHeader}
      ItemSeparatorComponent={Separator}
    />
  );
}

const renderItem = ({item}) => <Item item={item} />;

const Item = ({item}) => {
  useEffect(() => {
    console.log('item mounted');
  }, []);
  return <Text>{item.key}</Text>;
};

const renderSectionHeader = ({section}) => <Text>{section.header}</Text>;

const Separator = () => <View style={{height: 1, backgroundColor: 'black'}} />;
```
3. Run the app. I ran it in Android (`npx react-native run-android`).

IMPORTANT: Fully reload the app, don't depend on hot reloading.

## Expected Results
**Expected result:** 2 lines saying "Item mounted" get printed to the logs. 

**Actual Result:** 2 lines saying "Item mounted" get printed to the logs. . But then, 5 seconds later, it prints a third line also saying "Item mounted".

## Snack, code example, screenshot, or link to a repository:

Snack: [https://snack.expo.io/@hectorricardo/sectionlist-bug](https://snack.expo.io/@hectorricardo/sectionlist-bug)