Repository: react-native
Issue: iOS TextInput - text undo/redo doesn't work if value, defaultValue, or onChange is set
Labels: Platform: iOS,Component: TextInput

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## Description
Setting `value`, or `defaultValue` with `onChange` will cause iOS undo/redo keyboard feature (mostly on iPads) to break or rarely work.  Additionally, it may cause a native crash from time to time.

Basically, the undo button gets enabled for half a second, and then gets disabled again. The issue will not happen if `value` or `defaultValue` is not set. I suspect this is related to the code that sends the JS value to native which in turn clears/updates the native input.


## React Native version:
Run `react-native info` in your terminal and copy the results here.

```
info Fetching system and libraries information...
System:
    OS: macOS 10.15.4
    CPU: (4) x64 Intel(R) Core(TM) i5-6267U CPU @ 2.90GHz
    Memory: 108.54 MB / 8.00 GB
    Shell: 5.7.1 - /bin/zsh
  Binaries:
    Node: 12.16.3 - /usr/local/bin/node
    Yarn: 1.22.4 - /usr/local/bin/yarn
    npm: 6.14.4 - /usr/local/bin/npm
    Watchman: 4.9.0 - /usr/local/bin/watchman
  Managers:
    CocoaPods: 1.9.1 - /usr/local/bin/pod
  SDKs:
    iOS SDK:
      Platforms: iOS 13.5, DriverKit 19.0, macOS 10.15, tvOS 13.4, watchOS 6.2
    Android SDK:
      API Levels: 23, 26, 28, 29
      Build Tools: 28.0.3, 29.0.2
      Android NDK: Not Found
  IDEs:
    Android Studio: 4.0 AI-193.6911.18.40.6626763
    Xcode: 11.5/11E608c - /usr/bin/xcodebuild
  Languages:
    Java: 1.8.0_121 - /usr/bin/javac
    Python: 2.7.15 - /Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.7/bin/python
  npmPackages:
    @react-native-community/cli: Not Found
    react: 16.13.1 => 16.13.1 
    react-native: 0.63.1 => 0.63.1 
  npmGlobalPackages:
    *react-native*: Not Found
```

## Steps To Reproduce
- Render a `<TextInput value={this.state.value}>` somewhere.
- Type something on an ipad simulator/device
- Observe the undo/redo buttons flashing


## Expected Results
Either undo/redo should not be possible, or it should behave just as if a native input was used (do not clear the stack after each component update)

## Snack, code example, screenshot, or link to a repository:
The issue can be observed even with the sample code from the docs:

```
import React, { Component } from 'react';
import { TextInput } from 'react-native';

const UselessTextInput = () => {
  const [value, onChangeText] = React.useState('Useless Placeholder');

  return (
    <TextInput
      style={{ height: 40, borderColor: 'gray', borderWidth: 1 }}
      onChangeText={text => onChangeText(text)}
      value={value}
    />
  );
}

export default UselessTextInput;
```

Additionally, the following crash will happen from time to time, presumably from this poor undo/redo handling of the component, or even Apple's source code.

```
EXC_BAD_ACCESS Attempted to dereference garbage pointer 0x105c3fa0. 
    /usr/lib/libobjc.A.dylib _objc_msgSend
    Frameworks/Foundation.framework/Foundation -[_NSUndoStack popAndInvoke]
    Frameworks/Foundation.framework/Foundation -[NSUndoManager undoNestedGroup]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore ___58-[UIApplication _showEditAlertViewWithUndoManager:window:]_block_invoke_2.2401
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore +[UIUndoGestureInteraction presentProductivityGestureTutorialIfNeededWithCompletion:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore ___58-[UIApplication _showEditAlertViewWithUndoManager:window:]_block_invoke.2400
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIAlertController _invokeHandlersForAction:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore ___103-[UIAlertController _dismissAnimated:triggeringAction:triggeredByPopoverDimmingView:dismissCompletion:]_block_invoke.458
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIPresentationController transitionDidFinish:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore ___56-[UIPresentationController runTransitionForCurrentState]_block_invoke.503
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[_UIViewControllerTransitionContext completeTransition:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIViewAnimationBlockDelegate _didEndBlockAnimation:finished:context:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIViewAnimationState sendDelegateAnimationDidStop:finished:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIViewAnimationState animationDidStop:finished:]
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore -[UIViewAnimationState animationDidStop:finished:]
    Frameworks/QuartzCore.framework/QuartzCore CA::Layer::run_animation_callbacks(void*)
    /usr/lib/system/libdispatch.dylib __dispatch_client_callout
    /usr/lib/system/libdispatch.dylib __dispatch_main_queue_callback_4CF$VARIANT$armv81
    Frameworks/CoreFoundation.framework/CoreFoundation ___CFRUNLOOP_IS_SERVICING_THE_MAIN_DISPATCH_QUEUE__
    Frameworks/CoreFoundation.framework/CoreFoundation ___CFRunLoopRun
    Frameworks/CoreFoundation.framework/CoreFoundation _CFRunLoopRunSpecific
    PrivateFrameworks/GraphicsServices.framework/GraphicsServices _GSEventRunModal
    PrivateFrameworks/UIKitCore.framework/UIKitCore _UIApplicationMain
    zinspector3 _mh_execute_header
    /usr/lib/system/libdyld.dylib _start
```

Sample video:
![react native undo bug](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/48869228/89486836-50cfd080-d77a-11ea-849a-34e2d986ac6e.gif)