Repository: react-native
Issue: Unmounting list header component while applying maintainVisibleContentPosition to flatlist renders white space in place of header compoent on Ios
Labels: Platform: iOS,Issue: Author Provided Repro,Component: FlatList,Needs: Triage :mag:

### Description

If a flatlist with a `maintainVisibleContentPosition` prop set has a header list component that is unmounted then the header component unmounts but the list does not scroll to the first element and instead renders white space.

Here is the source code also available as [snack](https://snack.expo.dev/@ramiel99/maintainvisiblecontentposition-header-top):
```
import React, {useState} from 'react';
import {
  SafeAreaView,
  View,
  FlatList,
  StyleSheet,
  Text,
  StatusBar,
  Button,
} from 'react-native';

type ItemProps = {title: string};

const Item = ({title}: ItemProps) => (
  <View style={styles.item}>
    <Text style={styles.title}>{title}</Text>
  </View>
);

const App = () => {
  const [isHeaderShown, setIsHeaderShown] = useState(true);
  return (
    <SafeAreaView style={styles.container}>
      <FlatList
        maintainVisibleContentPosition={{
          minIndexForVisible: 0,
          autoscrollToTopThreshold: 0,
        }}
        ListHeaderComponent={
          isHeaderShown ? (
            <View style={{padding: 128, backgroundColor: 'red'}} />
          ) : null
        }
        data={Array.from({length: 30})
          .fill(0)
          .map((_, index) => `Item ${index}`)}
        renderItem={({item}) => <Item title={item} />}
      />
      <Button
        title="press me"
        onPress={() => {
          setIsHeaderShown(prev => !prev);
        }}
      />
    </SafeAreaView>
  );
};

const styles = StyleSheet.create({
  container: {
    flex: 1,
    marginTop: StatusBar.currentHeight || 0,
  },
  item: {
    backgroundColor: '#f9c2ff',
    padding: 20,
    marginVertical: 8,
    marginHorizontal: 16,
  },
  title: {
    fontSize: 32,
  },
});

export default App;
```

### Steps to reproduce

1. click on the `press me` button and notice how there is white space on ios and the list does not scroll, but works fine on android

### React Native Version

0.73.4

### Affected Platforms

Runtime - iOS

### Output of `npx react-native info`

```text
System:
  OS: macOS 14.1.2
  CPU: (16) x64 Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-9880H CPU @ 2.30GHz
  Memory: 2.57 GB / 16.00 GB
  Shell:
    version: "5.9"
    path: /bin/zsh
Binaries:
  Node:
    version: 18.17.1
    path: ~/.nvm/versions/node/v18.17.1/bin/node
  Yarn:
    version: 1.22.19
    path: ~/.nvm/versions/node/v18.17.1/bin/yarn
  npm:
    version: 9.6.7
    path: ~/.nvm/versions/node/v18.17.1/bin/npm
  Watchman:
    version: 2024.01.22.00
    path: /usr/local/bin/watchman
Managers:
  CocoaPods:
    version: 1.15.0
    path: /Users/ramiel/.rbenv/shims/pod
SDKs:
  iOS SDK:
    Platforms:
      - DriverKit 23.2
      - iOS 17.2
      - macOS 14.2
      - tvOS 17.2
      - visionOS 1.0
      - watchOS 10.2
  Android SDK: Not Found
IDEs:
  Android Studio: 2023.1 AI-231.9392.1.2311.11076708
  Xcode:
    version: 15.2/15C500b
    path: /usr/bin/xcodebuild
Languages:
  Java:
    version: 11.0.15
    path: /usr/local/opt/openjdk@11/bin/javac
  Ruby:
    version: 2.7.6
    path: /Users/ramiel/.rbenv/shims/ruby
npmPackages:
  "@react-native-community/cli": Not Found
  react:
    installed: 18.2.0
    wanted: 18.2.0
  react-native:
    installed: 0.73.4
    wanted: 0.73.4
  react-native-macos: Not Found
npmGlobalPackages:
  "*react-native*": Not Found
Android:
  hermesEnabled: true
  newArchEnabled: false
iOS:
  hermesEnabled: true
  newArchEnabled: false
```
```


### Stacktrace or Logs

```text
No Stacktrace or Logs
```


### Reproducer

https://snack.expo.dev/@ramiel99/maintainvisiblecontentposition-header-top

### Screenshots and Videos


https://github.com/facebook/react-native/assets/80689446/c563b30a-b61d-4822-9e77-0820b25756a7