Repository: pytorch
Issue: 'CUDA out of memory' when using a GPU services for reinforcement learning in Torch rpc tutorial
Labels: oncall: distributed,module: rpc

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I followed this [tutorial](https://pytorch.org/tutorials/intermediate/rpc_tutorial.html) to implement reinforcement learning with RPC on Torch. And I can run  the original tutorial well.

After adding the specified **GPU** device for the model as shown in the original tutorial, I encountered a "cuda out of memory" issue. 

Currently, I use one trainer process and one observer process. 

The trainer process creating the model, and the observer process calls the model forward using **RPC**. 

To simplify reproduction, I removed some of the original code from the tutorial.
https://gist.github.com/lpf6/9cd5bf55489758defc6b9fdbc2dcee62

The modifications compared to the tutorial are `select_action` and `Agent.__init__` function add `to(self.device_id)`. For example, the `select_action` function:
``` python
    def select_action(self, ob_id, state):
        state: torch.Tensor = torch.from_numpy(state).float().unsqueeze(0).to(self.device_id)
        probs = self.policy(state)
        m = Categorical(probs)
        action = m.sample()
        self.saved_log_probs[ob_id].append(m.log_prob(action))
        result = action.item()

        del action, m, state, probs
        return result
```

And I got result
```
/home/lu/PycharmProjects/tetris/venv/bin/python /home/lu/PycharmProjects/tetris/test_error.py 
obs_0_for_0 started
WARNING: Logging before InitGoogleLogging() is written to STDERR
I20230807 23:22:56.714407 262881 ProcessGroupNCCL.cpp:665] [Rank 0] ProcessGroupNCCL initialized with following options:
NCCL_ASYNC_ERROR_HANDLING: 0
NCCL_DESYNC_DEBUG: 0
NCCL_BLOCKING_WAIT: 0
TIMEOUT(ms): 1800000
USE_HIGH_PRIORITY_STREAM: 0
I20230807 23:22:56.714471 262980 ProcessGroupNCCL.cpp:842] [Rank 0] NCCL watchdog thread started!
agent_0 started
/home/lu/PycharmProjects/tetris/venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/gym/utils/passive_env_checker.py:233: DeprecationWarning: `np.bool8` is a deprecated alias for `np.bool_`.  (Deprecated NumPy 1.24)
  if not isinstance(terminated, (bool, np.bool8)):
episode : 1, mem_used: 146.25Mb
episode : 2, mem_used: 251.88Mb
episode : 3, mem_used: 438.75Mb
episode : 4, mem_used: 682.50Mb
.....

episode : 44, mem_used: 4834.38Mb

At:
  /usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/internal.py(234): _handle_exception
')
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/internal.py", line 207, in _run_function
    result = python_udf.func(*python_udf.args, **python_udf.kwargs)
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/rref_proxy.py", line 42, in _invoke_rpc
    return _rref_type_cont(rref_fut)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/rref_proxy.py", line 31, in _rref_type_cont
    return rpc_api(
           ^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 82, in wrapper
    return func(*args, **kwargs)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 809, in rpc_sync
    return fut.wait()
           ^^^^^^^^^^
RuntimeError: RuntimeError: On WorkerInfo(id=1, name=obs_0_for_0):
RuntimeError('OutOfMemoryError: On WorkerInfo(id=0, name=agent_0):
OutOfMemoryError('CUDA out of memory. Tried to allocate 20.00 MiB (GPU 0; 10.75 GiB total capacity; 4.73 GiB already allocated; 10.88 MiB free; 5.82 GiB reserved in total by PyTorch) If reserved memory is >> allocated memory try setting max_split_size_mb to avoid fragmentation.  See documentation for Memory Management and PYTORCH_CUDA_ALLOC_CONF')
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/internal.py", line 207, in _run_function
    result = python_udf.func(*python_udf.args, **python_udf.kwargs)
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/rref_proxy.py", line 11, in _local_invoke
    return getattr(rref.local_value(), func_name)(*args, **kwargs)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/lu/PycharmProjects/tetris/test_error.py", line 71, in select_action
    probs = self.policy(state)
            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/nn/modules/module.py", line 1501, in _call_impl
    return forward_call(*args, **kwargs)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/lu/PycharmProjects/tetris/test_error.py", line 25, in forward
    x = self.affine1(x)
        ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/nn/modules/module.py", line 1501, in _call_impl
    return forward_call(*args, **kwargs)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/usr/lib/python3.11/site-packages/torch/nn/modules/linear.py", line 114, in forward
    return F.linear(input, self.weight, self.bias)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
torch.cuda.OutOfMemoryError: CUDA out of memory. Tried to allocate 20.00 MiB (GPU 0; 10.75 GiB total capacity; 4.73 GiB already allocated; 10.88 MiB free; 5.82 GiB reserved in total by PyTorch) If reserved memory is >> allocated memory try setting max_split_size_mb to avoid fragmentation.  See documentation for Memory Management and PYTORCH_CUDA_ALLOC_CONF



Process finished with exit code 1
```

### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.1
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 12.2
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Manjaro Linux (x86_64)
GCC version: (GCC) 13.1.1 20230714
Clang version: 15.0.7
CMake version: Could not collect
Libc version: glibc-2.37

Python version: 3.11.3 (main, Jun  5 2023, 09:32:32) [GCC 13.1.1 20230429] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-6.4.6-1-MANJARO-x86_64-with-glibc2.37
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 12.2.91
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: 
GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2080 Ti
GPU 1: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2080 Ti
GPU 2: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2080 Ti
GPU 3: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2080 Ti

Nvidia driver version: 535.86.05
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
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/usr/local/cuda-11.8/targets/x86_64-linux/lib/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8
/usr/local/cuda-11.8/targets/x86_64-linux/lib/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8
/usr/local/cuda-11.8/targets/x86_64-linux/lib/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8
/usr/local/cuda-11.8/targets/x86_64-linux/lib/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
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Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
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步进：                           2
CPU(s) scaling MHz:              47%
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Vulnerability Mds:               Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Mitigation; PTI
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.25.1
[pip3] torch==2.0.1
[pip3] torchsummary==1.5.1
[conda] blas                      1.0                         mkl    defaults
[conda] mkl                       2021.4.0           h06a4308_640    defaults
[conda] mkl-service               2.4.0           py310h7f8727e_0    defaults
[conda] mkl_fft                   1.3.1           py310hd6ae3a3_0    defaults
[conda] mkl_random                1.2.2           py310h00e6091_0    defaults
[conda] numpy                     1.23.5          py310hd5efca6_0    defaults
[conda] numpy-base                1.23.5          py310h8e6c178_0    defaults
[conda] numpydoc                  1.5.0           py310h06a4308_0    defaults
[conda] pytorch                   1.12.1          cpu_py310hb1f1ab4_1    defaults


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