Repository: go
Issue: database/sql: prepare command is always sent again when executing a statement on a DB pool with multiple open connections
Labels: help wanted,NeedsInvestigation

#### What did you do?
Executing a prepared sql query on a DB connection pool with at least 2 open connections always sends the `Prepare` command on two connections.

For reproducing the error, first enable general logging in your MySQL DB:
```
SET GLOBAL general_log = 'ON';
SET GLOBAL log_output = 'table';
```

Now, connect to your mysql DB:
```
package main

import (
	"sync"

	"database/sql"
	_ "github.com/go-sql-driver/mysql"
)

db, err := sql.Open("mysql", "***:***@/***")
if err != nil {
    panic(err.Error())
}
defer db.Close()

db.SetMaxIdleConns(10)
db.SetMaxOpenConns(10)
```
Then run some concurrent sql commands to make sure the pool has more than one open connection:
```
var wg = &sync.WaitGroup{}
for i := 0; i < 2; i++ {
	wg.Add(1)
	go func(i int) {
		var stmt, err = db.Prepare("SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?")
		if err != nil {
			panic(err.Error())
		}
		defer stmt.Close()
		_, err = stmt.Exec(1)
		if err != nil {
			panic(err.Error())
		}
		wg.Done()
	}(i)
}
wg.Wait()
```

Now that we have at least two open connections, run a prepare and execute command on the DB:
```
var stmt, err = db.Prepare("SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?")
if err != nil {
	panic(err.Error())
}
defer stmt.Close()
_, err = stmt.Exec(2)
if err != nil {
	panic(err.Error())
}
```

#### What did you expect to see?
```
mysql> SELECT thread_id,command_type,argument FROM mysql.general_log;

+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+
| thread_id | command_type | argument                                 |
+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+
|        78 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        77 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        78 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 1       |
|        77 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 1       |
|        78 | Close stmt   | 
|        77 | Close stmt   |                
|        78 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        78 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 2       |
|        78 | Close stmt   |                       
|        78 | Quit         |                            
|        77 | Quit         |                        
+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+

```

#### What did you see instead?
```
mysql> SELECT thread_id,command_type,argument FROM mysql.general_log;

+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+
| thread_id | command_type | argument                                 |
+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+
|        38 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        38 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 1       |
|        38 | Close stmt   |   
|        37 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        38 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        38 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 1       |
|        38 | Close stmt   |  
|        37 | Close stmt   | 
|        37 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        38 | Prepare      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = ?       |
|        38 | Execute      | SELECT * FROM mytable WHERE id = 2       |
|        38 | Close stmt   |        
|        38 | Quit         |
|        37 | Close stmt   |    
|        37 | Quit         |
+-----------+--------------+------------------------------------------+

```

#### System details
```
mysql  Ver 8.0.16 for Linux on x86_64 (MySQL Community Server - GPL)
```
```
go version go1.12.5 darwin/amd64
GOARCH="amd64"
GOBIN=""
GOCACHE="/Users/najani/Library/Caches/go-build"
GOEXE=""
GOFLAGS=""
GOHOSTARCH="amd64"
GOHOSTOS="darwin"
GOOS="darwin"
GOPATH="/Users/najani/go"
GOPROXY=""
GORACE=""
GOROOT="/usr/local/go"
GOTMPDIR=""
GOTOOLDIR="/usr/local/go/pkg/tool/darwin_amd64"
GCCGO="gccgo"
CC="clang"
CXX="clang++"
CGO_ENABLED="1"
GOMOD=""
GOROOT/bin/go version: go version go1.12.5 darwin/amd64
GOROOT/bin/go tool compile -V: compile version go1.12.5
uname -v: Darwin Kernel Version 18.2.0: Fri Oct  5 19:41:49 PDT 2018; root:xnu-4903.221.2~2/RELEASE_X86_64
ProductName:	Mac OS X
ProductVersion:	10.14.1
BuildVersion:	18B75
lldb --version: lldb-1000.11.38.2
  Swift-4.2
```