Repository: opencv
Issue: Cant figure out how to enable EXR file type
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##### Detailed description

I am trying to open and exr file in opencv; I know that this feature had been disabled and i also know that you are supposed to enable it with the OPENCV_IO_ENABLE_OPENEXR option. I however for the life of me cant figure out how to enable this. If someone can help me figure out how to get this enabled it would help me so much! Any advice is really appreciated!
i am using the prebuild opencv download and am running it in c++ visual studios

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