Repository: pytorch
Issue: .set_ operation on a view (detach()) of the view tensor changes grad_fn of the original view tensor from ViewBackward0 to AsStridedBackward0
Labels: module: autograd,triaged,has workaround

### 🐛 Describe the bug

When I change the storage of the view tensor (x_detached) (in this case the result of .detach op), if the original (x) is itself a view tensor, the grad_fn of original tensor (x) is changed from ViewBackward0 to AsStridedBackward0, which is probably connected to [this](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/v2.0.0/torch/csrc/autograd/variable.cpp#L657-L680).
However, I think this kind of behaviour was intended for inlace operations which alter the storage of the original tensor, and thus these changes should be recorded in its grad_fn. On the other hand, the whole point of set_ is to assign new storage to this view tensor (x_detached), so I don't alter the original storage, and, thus I don't see why the grad_fn should be updated.
```python
import torch

inp = torch.tensor(2., requires_grad=True)

x = inp.view(-1)

x_detached = x.detach()

y = torch.tensor(1.)

with torch.no_grad():
    print(x, x_detached)
    x_detached.set_(y)
    print(x, x_detached)
```
```
tensor([2.], grad_fn=<ViewBackward0>) tensor([2.])
tensor([2.], grad_fn=<AsStridedBackward0>) tensor(1.)
```

### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 1.13.1+cu117
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.7
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.4 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
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CMake version: version 3.23.3
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.8.13 | packaged by conda-forge | (default, Mar 25 2022, 06:04:10)  [GCC 10.3.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-65-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.10
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 11.7.99
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
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GPU 6: Tesla V100-SXM2-16GB
GPU 7: Tesla V100-SXM2-16GB

Nvidia driver version: 450.102.04
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.5.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.5.0
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/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.5.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.5.0
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

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Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     KVM: Mitigation: Split huge pages
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Vulnerability Meltdown:          Mitigation; PTI
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
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Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] functorch==1.13.1
[pip3] numpy==1.23.5
[pip3] pytorch-quantization==2.1.2
[pip3] torch==1.13.1
[pip3] torch-tensorrt==1.2.0a0
[pip3] torchtext==0.11.0a0
[pip3] torchvision==0.14.0a0
[conda] functorch                 1.13.1                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] mkl                       2020.4             h726a3e6_304    conda-forge
[conda] mkl-include               2020.4             h726a3e6_304    conda-forge
[conda] numpy                     1.23.5                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] pytorch-quantization      2.1.2                    pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch                     1.13.1                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch-tensorrt            1.2.0a0                  pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchtext                 0.11.0a0                 pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchvision               0.14.0a0                 pypi_0    pypi

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