Talk:Silent treatment

message: This describes the silent treatment as exclusively a one-on-one thing, and always negative, but it's not. The "silent treatment" is frequently used by groups of people as a punishment for some perceived infraction by one or more members of the group. It is a very effective form of punishment which doesn't require any violence or other problem-causing actions. For example, in the book I was reading a few weeks ago, one boy at a military school does something which the others find extremely dishonorable and mean. Since they couldn't just beat him up over it without getting someone in trouble, all the boys at the school refuse to speak to him at all, and act as if he didn't exist. It causes him to break down in desperation after a few days. It calls it the "silent treatment" in the book. Even if there is another word for the concept as applied to groups of people (I see "group rejection" mentioned, but only on the talk page), a lot of people are going to type "silent treatment" into the search bar, and be brought here to a page discussing the silent treatment exclusively as a form of abuse by a single person over another. It is a much wider topic than that, and the article should reflect that, or direct curious people to the article which does discuss the other aspects of the topic..45Colt 16:51, 18 October 2015 (UTC)
replies: text: Agreed. This article is woefully biased. Silent treatment is "bad" like a prison sentence is: it hurts. And it is meant to. So what? Without differing according to intention and justification behind such behavior a sweeping generalizing article tenor "this is bad" is premature and untrustworthy. Added a POV tag. 31.16.250.52 (talk) 08:12, 19 January 2022 (UTC)

text: I think you are referring to sending to Coventry or ostracism.--Penbat (talk) 17:46, 18 October 2015 (UTC)
thread_title:  Too narrow 

message: The page for Tactical Ignoring redirects here, but this article makes no attempt at covering the essential differences between the two terms. One trying to find out more information about intentional ignoring as linked in Attention seeking would instead be directed to this page, which makes selective ignoring out to be psychological manipulation. I will see what information I can pull from the Tactical Ignoring page before it was redirected and merge some of that information here. 129.15.64.252 (talk) 02:09, 8 November 2019 (UTC)
replies: text: I only edited this page because tactical ignoring redirects here. It is a different topic and should be split from this page. GBFEE (talk) 20:15, 14 March 2022 (UTC)
thread_title:  Silent Treatment vs Tactical Ignoring 

message: It seems to me that the Silent treatment article is very negative. I don't see only negative cases. I know (due to direct and indirect experiences) of abusive interactions where one of the way (still, it is a valid solution) to get out of it was due to cut the connection with the other person. Be it an abusive manager, partner, relative, "obsessed" internet users and so on.
For how I read the article it feels it tries to discourage the approach - pratically ignoring someone, - but this plays in the hand of people that aren't nice.  — Preceding unsigned comment added by Pier4r (talk • contribs) 18:32, 27 March 2022 (UTC)
thread_title:  Too negative 

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