Talk:Psychological abuse

message: please will someone tell me what can be done to an adoptive 15 year old boy that continues to 
cuss his mother. he has been locked up in juvi hall now 3 times.  all of this stemmed from him being busted out on the internet and caught with a 20 year old at school.  he writes emails stating he wants to KILL people. sucking and fucking guts..goes over to the jr high and ask a particular girl does she masterbate and would she do it in front of him.. 
in his emails he refers to her...he stood infront of myself
(his 48 year old sister) and mother last night and told my daughter he wanted to kill both of us.
we called the police and we took him to the hospital.  the physc told us he was just pissed off and he was sexually frustrated...
we have letters upon letters that he has written talking about killing and hurting people..
can someone give me advice...
<redacted> —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 208.63.249.83 (talk • contribs) 2006-02-18 17:41:32.
: I'm deeply sorry that you find yourself in this situation, but I have to tell you that very few people here would be qualified to advise on this topic, and none of them can give you advice online, just as we couldn't give you a medical diagnosis or legal advice. 
: Someone at Wikipedia:Reference_desk/Miscellaneous might be able to direct you to general online resources on this topic, but they can't tell you what to do either. I hope you understand this constraint, and wish you the very best. 
: CC'ed to anon talk page. Adrian~enwiki (talk) 01:48, 19 February 2006 (UTC)
thread_title: Start header

message: This article describes the psychological consequences of mobbing exactly. Mobbing is a form of psychological abuse which takes place in the workplace. You can find more information at http://mobbing.ca. The "Health Issues" page on mobbing.ca (http://members.shaw.ca/mobbing/mobbingCA/health-1.htm) describes the many mental, emotional and physical effects of psychological abuse experienced by mobbing targets in the workplace.
For your convenience here is the link you can add to "External links":
*mobbing.ca (Mobbing resources in Canada)
Radyx 00:40, 4 September 2006 (UTC)
thread_title:  Please add a link to mobbing.ca 

message: Someone vandalised this page, by randomly inserting this link in the beginning paragraph: Miley Cyrus's dog is soo cute!. I deleted it, but I have a feeling it (or something like it) will be back. Looks like the IP of the vandal was 71.123.230.39, also appears this page is vandalised pretty often! 99.6.143.133 (talk) 04:45, 24 May 2010 (UTC)
thread_title: Vandalism

message: Please put it back. As an emotional abused person, pyschological abuse does not accuratly reflect the impact on emotions. Having an emotional abuse page that focuses on the emotions involved would be better serving to the community to understand the impact.  —Preceding unsigned comment added by 72.200.23.233 (talk) 16:22, 20 October 2007 (UTC)
thread_title: what happened to emotional abuse page that it links to here instantly?

message: Hi I added a link to the Kids in Trouble Help Page and it was removed, this was fully in the guidelnes, this is not a commercial site it is simply a site to reach kids and teens in need and it is appropriate for this topic - especially as the emotional abuse page goes to here now. Kids and Teens need a way to get help from abuse (all types including psychological) depression, suicide etc. If this is not an appropriate page what is. I'm still fairly new to editing on wiki but I do understand that this is to be a user edited and free encyclopedia. therefore I would appreciate if you return what I posted. I will repost an example below. Thank You Endabusenow 05:50, 3 August 2007 (UTC)
thread_title: kids in trouble help page

message: * Kids in Trouble Help Page 
A Kids and Teens guide to help from Child Abuse, Depression, Runaways, Suicide and Bullying Resources Endabusenow 05:52, 3 August 2007 (UTC)
replies: text: I'm sorry that this comment is late in coming. The issue I have with kithp is that it is a general site on childhood issues and not specifically on psychological abuse. WP:EL states "A general site that has information about a variety of subjects should usually not be linked to from an article on a more specific subject" Neitherday 11:47, 16 August 2007 (UTC)
thread_title: example kithp

message: I do not see mention of the merge on this talk page. Nobody has answerd the question I posted a while back, yet clearly someone has been editing and merging this page. I belive there should be two separate pages - are there any psychologists or other proffesionals with an opinion? I think at very least if they will be mixed the emotianal abuse title is more fitting. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by Endabusenow (talk • contribs).
:I had suggested that the pages be merged on Talk:Emotional_abuse, but I did not merge them. Neitherday 11:39, 16 August 2007 (UTC)
thread_title: why was this page merged with emotional abuse

message: I have witnessed here recently a mother and daughter living in the same reidence.  the Daughter has a drinking problem and in turn will yell at the mother while under the influance degrading the mother and attempting to control the mothers home life and interaction with other family members.  I fear this situation may become worse if not resolved.  I can not find any confirmed identifiable signs of abuse.  the daughter is a nurses aide and knows the boundries in which one should have when living with an elder and or diabiled person.  I fear for the well being of this person but in the state in which I live proof is needed to file and form of report.  What do I do?  —Preceding unsigned comment added by Jenniferwilkinson (talk • contribs) 15:57, 12 June 2008 (UTC)
replies: text: Wikipedia is not a how-to manual, web fora or support site.  Seek help from local agencies.  WLU (talk) 16:35, 24 June 2008 (UTC)
thread_title:  possible elderabuse 

message: I'm not a member of WikiProject Psychology, but I just read this article and it made me cry. Of course I cannot be certain, but my immediate thought was, "Someone copied their Introduction to Psychology paper to Wikipedia." Unless the school the author goes (or went) to is the shining epitome of grade inflation, I would venture to guess that same paper scored very poorly. I'm very tempted to mark this as  -- but I'll let a WikiProject Psychology member decide how to handle that instead. Until then, I cringe. --Animated Cascade talk 09:13, 18 September 2008 (UTC)
replies: text: Personally I think the content is VERY important as what is described here is becoming prevalent in our society at an alarming rate, though agree this quality is below par. I think maybe it should be renamed as "gang stalking" which seems to be the most accepted name for it, and wiki has no page on that. (it is more accurately described as community mobbing, but also known as cause stalking and organized stalking) In any case don't delete the page. Batvette (talk) 02:03, 8 October 2008 (UTC)
replies: text: Psychological abuse covers a whole range of activities, both between couples in secrecy and bullying in groups of children or adults. You could start a page with that title or a new section on this page.--Expsychobabbler (talk) 18:10, 9 March 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Article quality 

message: There are only two cites under myths, so most of the myths have no citations at all. If it's original research it needs to be removed. If it is not original research, it needs to have citations. Right? 72.213.137.61 (talk) 05:59, 27 March 2009 (UTC)
replies: text: Done.--Expsychobabbler (talk) 09:17, 27 March 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Common myths about domestic abusers -- Original Work? 

message: Out of personal experience, I know that psychological abuse happens in schools and such every day. 
I know things like that lead to emotional and psychological problems in later life.
Now tell me, is this important enough to make a section for it? Sakurato (talk) 19:09, 8 January 2010 (UTC)
replies: text: Psychological abuse happens in all contexts including schools. I think it best to put your text in school bullying although a section here would also be OK but beware your text needs to be supported by citations. Just relating your personal experiences isnt acceptable. --Penbat (talk) 19:19, 8 January 2010 (UTC)
thread_title:  Psychological Abuse in Schools 

message: This article does not discuss psychological abuse. What it does discuss is "who abuses more, men or women?". It goes on and on and on on this topic, which I guess could be summaries in 2 to 5 sentences to show all the varying and changing opinions on connection - or lack thereof- between gender and abuse.
I'll repeat once again: this article gives hardly any information on what psychological abuse is, what it looks like in practice, what it looks like in different environments (home/school/workplace/peer group), what are some forms of psychological abuse and so on - which are the things I - and I guess the majority of internet users - came hear to find out. The extended "women or men - who is more aggressive?" discussion is unnecessary, does not provide clear conclusions - I'm not saying it has to, but if it doesn't - why not just state "some research shows this but other shows different things" and move on to describing the actual topic of this article i.e. psychological abuse? "Who abuses?" is only a MINOR element of knowledge on this topic.
(I will not change the article myself as I have little knowledge of psychology and this is basically why I came to wikipedia - and I'm leaving disappointed :])  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 109.196.118.133 (talk) 22:51, 15 August 2011 (UTC)
thread_title:  What is this article about? 

message: Can someone please tell me if the commet "If you were my child your butt would be red.) is a form of abuse.--Besaw70 (talk) 11:18, 6 January 2012 (UTC)
thread_title:  Statements concidered abuse 

message: Yes men and women can perpetrate emotional abuse. Statistics show it is usually men, by a large margin. Abusive men claim women are abusive in order to victim blame, this article is very poorly written, cited, and researched. Throughout history women have been oppressed and still are today. Nice try, to whoever wrote this, but you are wrong!! It's sad that no editors have taken the time to review this. Wikepedia has a chance to empower people with knowledge. This article is biased and full of Bullsh*t.  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 74.79.193.208 (talk) 07:11, 23 April 2012 (UTC)
thread_title:  This article is very strange and seems to have many holes!!!! 

message: What about the silence, not answering someone questions, disregarding, not considering the position. The French article have some content about it. Yug (talk) 17:29, 21 May 2012 (UTC)
thread_title:  Silence ? 

message: The article gives no information on the legal aspects of psychological abuse or how to report it.  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 65.175.49.98 (talk) 17:38, 27 August 2012 (UTC)
thread_title:  How do you report psychological abuse? 

message: I tried to find an article in wikipedia on "toxic relationships" and did not find one. When I googled "toxic relationship," wikipedia was autofilled in the search box indicating that others were looking for such an article here too. I propose making a redirect from "toxic relationship" to this article. I'm kind of new here so if no one does this in a few weeks, I will read up on how to do it and do it myself. Raquel_Baranow (talk) 22:38, 4 October 2012 (UTC)
replies: text: Good idea. It is easy. See: how to make a redirect. Lova Falk talk 10:07, 6 October 2012 (UTC)
replies: text: Okay, did it. If the number of views on this page jumps this week, it's probably because of this redirect. Raquel_Baranow (talk) 14:06, 6 October 2012 (UTC)
thread_title:  Redirect [[Toxic relationship]] to this article 

message: My husband Gaslight me.  He takes things out of the trash keeps it hidden.  Sometimes they are things I am presently using.  He hides them.  I buy more and the circle goes around.  One day I will find Example,10twezzers.  I just needed one but he keeper taking them and saying he doesn't know what I'm talking about.  Then they show up in different places.  Maybe 2or 3together.  If I shope  he finds the receipts and next day they are gone and 2 bags of lots of change is in their place.   Scary time I got dressed in the morning and there was a knife under my cloths.  He denies it all and it gets worse.  What do I do?  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 67.184.71.71 (talk) 05:45, 17 December 2013 (UTC)
replies: text: Hi 67.184.71.71! I am sorry to read about your problems, but this is an encyclopedia, and not a place where you can get help. I am sure there are other websites out there where you can get help! Lova Falk talk 08:02, 7 January 2014 (UTC)
thread_title:  Gaslighting 

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thread_title:  External links modified 

message: Would like to include more material on psychological abuse, relating to workplace bullying and include a separate heading and section on this topic. There is a great deal of literature covering this form of abuse in the workplace.Charlotte135 (talk) 06:14, 8 May 2016 (UTC)
replies: text: Fire away Charlotte. It may well be that your text also needs to be added to workplace bullying.--Penbat (talk) 09:07, 8 May 2016 (UTC)

text: I don't think it's necessary to have a separate heading and section tbh, but expanding the existing workplace ones (effects, prevention, prevalence) and linking them to workplace bullying would be great. Again, this is just my opinion and I'm not going to stop you if you think otherwise. Hollth (talk) 13:57, 11 May 2016 (UTC)
replies: text: Hello Holth. Thank you both for responding. I have been looking at the article's current format over the past few days, and some reliable sources to use. I kind of agree with you Holth and will go with your suggestion, rather than add a new section. Seems like a better approach. I will also try and add some of the new text, to the workplace bullying article too, like you said Penbat, which is a good idea.Charlotte135 (talk) 00:36, 12 May 2016 (UTC)
thread_title:  Workplace bullying 

message: Hello Penbat and Holth and any one else. Should we be using MEDRS for this article? I have been looking through some of the sources used and they seem to be cherry-picked for some reason. IMO we should be using good quality sources, like journal sources, for the big claims at least, particulary those claims where statistics are used. There is a very large amount of recent literature that canand should be used instead of individual author's books, which too often are full of POV.Charlotte135 (talk) 03:43, 12 June 2016 (UTC)
thread_title:  Reliable sources question 

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thread_title:  Copyright problem removed 

message: Listen I’ve been dealing with it my whole life but don’t let it ring u down u are everything u are important don’t let anyone tell y other wise they will get there Karma u shouldn’t have to deal with it I’m sorry u do just wait if it’s ur family u can leave after 18 if it’s relationship ditch then it’s not worth it u will be way happier without them there are better ppl so do what u think is best.
If u need moral help go to a friend or trusting family member an talk to them there is no need to hide it an make it worse by letting it keep happen. Now go do what right luv and know u are cared about❤️ 2600:387:A:9C2:0:0:0:33 (talk) 04:35, 27 December 2021 (UTC)
thread_title:  If your dealing with emotional abuse 💔 

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