Talk:Gag (BDSM)

message: Hi, Michael here.
image:Herc_Gagged.JPG seems to have been deleted. How about putting a better image in its place?
Michael 14:26, 3 November 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: Herc_Gagged.JPG

message: Gag snob was recently merged with this article, after a proposal to delete (discussion here).
I've removed what was there because it looks to be made up speculation about why people might like gags, and trying to imply that such people aren't really into bondage, only gags. The original article also contained information about how "gag snobs" post supposedly annoying comments on message boards.
The entire article appeared to be written by someone with an axe to grind against people who talk about gags a lot on message boards, making an article which both documents the behaviour he finds annoying, and makes dubious claims about their sexuality (eg, claiming that they are only able to be turned on if a gag is present, or they are not really into bondage).
So I've changed it to state how the term appears to be used from a NPOV, rather than the original author's POV, with a note that it's usually a derogatory term. Mdwh 01:13, 21 December 2005 (UTC)
replies: text: I'm not convinced that this is needed at all, but I won't delete in case someone's interested in it. - Taxwoman 08:44, 21 December 2005 (UTC)
replies: text: The AfD has overwhelmingly determined that the subject of Gag snob is notable and worthy of being covered by WP. I already chopped off half of the original article when I merged it here, and Mdwh removed 90% of what remained. I think we should respect community consensus and not use this opportunity to delete any mention of this topic. Owen× ☎ 15:06, 21 December 2005 (UTC)
replies: text: Okay, I'm being bold and deleting it (on the basis that I still don't believe we need to take up space here on an non-notable derogatory term). If other editors think it should remain, then feel free to revert it. As for the AfD result, surely that only refers to the article itself, not the content? I.e., Gag snob will still redirect here. It seems odd that an AfD result should mean that the _content_ should be preserved forever; yet if someone simply inserted the content here without creating an article, editors would be free to remove it later. Mdwh 02:46, 8 May 2006 (UTC)
thread_title: Gag snob

message: I can understand the reason for gag snobbery. Gags are the most visible, although not the most important, part of bondage gear. Think about what happens when you look at another person. You look at the face first, (if it's a woman) the breasts second, then the genitals, and only lastly the arms and legs. A gag is visible right there in the most prominent part of the body - the face - shouting out loud "this person is in bondage!" Hand restraints are usually not visible at all, because they're behind the back. And to see the leg restraints (if there are any), you have to look down at the feet. However, being bound without being gagged is more effective than being gagged without being bound - if you're not bound, you can simply remove your gag yourself. — JIP | Talk 22:55, 29 December 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: About gag snobbery

message: I kindly want to show up that there are only fotos depicting WOMEN  !! What does this tell us? That women need to be gagged, but men not? Please try to get a 50:50 division between male and female fotos. —The preceding unsigned comment was added by 212.227.103.74 (talk • contribs) .
:There used to be a 50:50 division of gagged women and gagged men, but the images of gagged men were found to be unlicensed, and were removed. If you can find properly licensed images of gagged men, you're most welcome to add them to the article. JIP | Talk 10:58, 2 February 2006 (UTC)
thread_title: Only pics from women?

message: I found the images very disturbing and inappropriate for a family friendly website. —Preceding unsigned comment added by  68.148.112.239  (talk • contribs) 
:(The preceding comment was originally posted to the top of the page; I've moved it down here to respond.}  1.  Wikipedia has never claimed to be "family-friendly"; you may want to review WP:5 and WP:NPOV.  "Family-friendly" is definitely POV.  2.  Wholesale changes to an article ought to be discussed so that a community consensus can be achieved prior to making changes.  I believe you intended to act in good faith when you deleted these photos, but that your actions weren't in keeping with Wikipedia principles.  (And really -- anyone who's reading an article entitled Gag (BDSM) is going to get an eyeful of text anyway!)
:I believe that 1: the article had too many images, and that only a few were needed to illustrate the concept.  2: using pictures of only female models (as 212.227.103.74 pointed out) biases the article, violating WP:NPOV.  
:I'd like to suggest that  be restored to illustrate the function and use of a gag -- it does so without the model being disrobed or showing any sorts of facial contortions that indicate pain or submission.  It's as "neutral" a photo as we're likely to get.   Then, to illustrate the range of styles of gag, I'd like to suggest that one of , , or  be restored.  
:However, removing all the images is clearly unacceptable.  -- Heath 24.53.130.213 08:47, 11 January 2007 (UTC)
replies: text: They are meant to be used on people, not dummies.  Do not read the article if the subject matter disturbs you or if you find an academic article on the subject inappropriate.  This is quite simple. - 24.23.37.62 (talk) 17:01, 10 April 2008 (UTC)
thread_title:  Deleted pics 

message: I have one question:
Where are you image Jessica Alba?--Frank3 17:24, 13 September 2007 (UTC)
thread_title:  Image 

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BetacommandBot 19:29, 30 November 2007 (UTC)
thread_title: Fair use rationale for Image:Victoria gagged.jpg

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thread_title: Fair use rationale for Image:Victoria gagged.jpg

message: Forget the sociological and psychological debate, this page has more quality pics than many porn sites. Way to go! — Preceding unsigned comment added by Bellerophon5685 (talk • contribs) 21:11, 24 June 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Best wikipedia article EVER! 

message: Of course an article like this will have images that could be considered pornographic.  That's just part of the whole subject of sexuality.  It would behoove the editors to retain such images despite objections from people who want to visit bondage-sex articles that are "family-friendly".  —Preceding unsigned comment added by 142.161.141.51 (talk) 20:39, 14 August 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Objection to pornographic images 

message: Oh, those wacky fetishists... 190.161.129.153 (talk) 22:16, 23 April 2011 (UTC)
thread_title:  Hahahahaha 

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message: 1) An inflatable gag is usually a rubber balloon which is inflated by a hand valve. Most inflatable gags will not hold in the gagged person's mouth well, so the gag is usually paired with a ring gag to keep it in place.
2)It is possible to have an inflatable pecker; in that case, a strap may not be needed, since it is difficult to eject an inflated gag even if it is not strapped in.
These two descriptions contradict each other.  In fact, #2 is incorrect, so I will be editing it.
Masterius2011 (talk) 04:50, 21 July 2011 (UTC)
thread_title:  Conflicting descriptions 

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thread_title: File:Gags inflatable.jpg Nominated for Deletion

message: The Jennigs gag is placed under the "Medical" heading. The closely related Whitehead gag has its own heading.
The image used for Jennings gag and Whitehead gag are identical, despite the text of Whitehead gag attempting to distinguish the two.
Deviantgoods (talk) 01:47, 4 May 2015 (UTC)
thread_title:  Location and description of Jennings and Whitehead gags are inconsistent. 

message: Went on the page today and found that the entire "Gags" directory was gone, and the reason being that the references were blog posts and spam links. Blog posts are acceptable references, and even if they are not enough references the directory is still very useful. It has been there for eight years, doesn't seem right to remove it entirely now.
109.156.178.210 (talk) 19:08, 22 December 2015 (UTC)
thread_title:  Restored "Gags" directory 

message: Sexism or what?  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 89.70.109.13 (talk) 21:58, 30 July 2016 (UTC)
thread_title:  So... why are most of the pictures girls on this page. 

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