Talk:Female ejaculation/Archive 1

message: I find this site of much interest as I am a female who ejaculates. The reactions from the men in my life have convinced me that what is a normal experience for me is not ordinary for most women.  I would be interested in learning more about this.  I can testify that it is not a myth and I've experienced several different types of ejaculation from a spurt of milky white fluid to a draining of fluid that soaks through layers of towels and literally wets the bed!
::You're not alone, I'm the same. I think the issue is most women just don't know how to do it, or even realize they can. -- NatsukiGirl\talk 07:20, 3 September 2005 (UTC)
replies: text: I wish there was better information about this on the internet! I just started having sex 8 months ago but I didn't ejaculate until 2 months ago.  It was soooo startling!! At first it looked like something that would only happen every once and a while, but now it happens almost every time I'm with my boyfriend, even three and four times in the same night. For me it comes from the urethra (there is enough of a thicker liquid draining from the other place to leave small spots also) but definitely looks and smells nothing like urine (besides I usually go to the bathroom beforehand)... it's clear and odorless and leaves huge puddles on the bed or wherever. My boyfriend likes it but I think it's kinda weird. I have no one to discuss it with either.128.239.183.207 00:59, 29 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: Comment from copious ejaculator

message: I added a number of citations and references, and a bit to the text, does anybody still dispute this article? Jack 07:31, 22 Jan 2004 (UTC)
replies: text: It seems weird to me that someone is insisting on keeping a "dispute header" on the article without indicating what statement(s) he is contesting. -- Jmabel 08:54, 22 Jan 2004 (UTC)
replies: text: Well, I assume there was a very good reason at one point, and there may still be one. On the other hand, I think the fewer disputed articles on the wiki the better, for obvious reasons, so I'd love to see any necessary changes made. Suggestions please? Jack 08:59, 22 Jan 2004 (UTC)
thread_title:  Can we remove the dispute header? 

message: Again, I think this page is in great NPOV shape. What say you, oh disputor of the female ejac? Jack 06:07, 31 Jan 2004 (UTC)
thread_title:  Are we there yet? 

message: I have some personal experience on the matter. I have had a fair amount of sexual partners over the years and I never hesitate to "go down" on my women. (That is, to use my mouth and tongue to stimulate the woman in the crotch / genital area.) My experience is that women exert three kinds of liquids during sex while being stimulated and during orgasms. I differentiate these liquids based on taste, consistency, colour, and from where they secrete. Most women exert vaginal juice during sex. Sometimes so much that it more or less flows out of the vagina. Some women also seem to more or less "sweat" vaginal juice out of the area surrounding the vagina, although that might be juices that have flown from the vagina itself. I have never seen vaginal juice "squirt", although I can imagine that could happen since some women produce a lot of vaginal juice during sex and do contract their vagina very hard during orgasm. The second fluid clearly is urine. Some women indeed squirt some urine out of the urethra during their orgasm and I find that pretty natural considering the amount of muscle contractions going on in the area at that moment. Not very nice to get in the mouth but what don't you do to keep your woman happy? (By the way, the suggestion by some writers here to empty the bladder prior to sex to rule out urine won't work. The time it takes for most women to reach an orgasm more than well gives the kidneys time to produce some more urine.) The third fluid seems to be the most unusual. I have only experienced it on some women. It also squirts from the urethra during the orgasm but clearly is NOT urine since it is white, it is thicker than urine (but usually not as thick as a male ejaculation), and it tastes just like the male fluid. And that is at least what I call female ejaculation. Note that I have experienced female ejaculation also when only stimulating the clitoris knob so the stimulation of the G-spot doesn't seem necessary in all cases. By the way, most women do exert a fourth liquid during sex: They tend to sweat a lot!
.../Davidgothberg 07:00, 17 Oct 2004 (UTC)
replies: text: Sounds like a good research. Perhaps, you should document it properly and convince other sexology experts? --Rrjanbiah 06:32, 18 Oct 2004 (UTC)
replies: text:  That is vile. If your partners are pissing on you, they clearly have bladder control issues. As my the owner of a genuine vagina, and a boyfriend, we can both attest that my ejaculations originate in from my VAGINA, not my urethra. In fact, when I first had one, I was worried about it, but he said it not, and that if it had been urine, he would have moved out of the way. We both tasted my ejaculate and it was a clear liquid with a slightly sweet taste. I have even experimented by not drinking fluids and frequently visiting the bathroom before having sex to test the theory. I'm sorry to break the news to you... but you are either a blind moron or you have been with some pretty gross women. -- NatsukiGirl\talk 07:39, 3 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title:  Personal experience 

message: I can understand all your varying views on this subject.  Personally, I never believed that female ejaculation was real, until it happened to me.  I can testify that it is decidedly NOT urine that is ejecting from my nether region, in fact it looks and smells nothing like urine.  I can't vouch for the taste, having never tasted urine.... but anyway, it does require INTENSE stimulation of the G-spot for me, clitoral stimulation would never do it.  As for which hole it is coming out of, I couldn't tell you.  I just know that the term "facial" can apply to either partner..............!
::What it taste ? Good or bad is a a personnal matter... But I can testify it's not salty like urine is suppposed to be.
::I second you. I thought it tasted slightly sweet, my boyfriend said so as well. He is the one who assured me it came from my vagina and was no urine... and knowing my boyfriend, if it had been urine we probably would not still be together, hahaha. -- NatsukiGirl\talk 07:43, 3 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: Another Firsthand Account

message: I'm amazed so many women are ignorant about this... well, maybe not, as most women still live in the stoneage and are fearful of their hole. Anyway, I've done several personal experiments... such as urinating and not drinking for hours before trying it, the results were the same. My boyfriend has also closely inspected the events, in which he assured me it was ejecting from my vagina, and not my urethra. Also, when I ejaculate and the penis or dildo is not quickly removed, nothing squirts, it simply pours out around the penis. My urine comes out in a criss-cross stream, and I can never arch it... however when I squirt ejaculate it is always a graceful globular-water arch, and it is never cloudy or milk or yellow... always clear like water. We have both tasted it and discovered it has a slightly sweet flavor. The only time I have "milky" discharge is if I've been sexually excited or had a clitoral orgasm... and then fingered the discharge out after a while... for example, if I masturbate before bed, I will find the milky, gooy discharge in the morning when I shower. Also G-spot ejaculation and clitoral orgasm are not connected, my ejaculation is not orgasmic... and likewise my clit orgasm does not cause ejaculation. -- NatsukiGirl\talk 07:50, 3 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: My ejaculation comes from my vagina... end of story

message: I have the urge to give utmost encouragements to User:NatsukiGirl for steadfastly putting forward her experiences and attesting on occurrences of female ejaculation, despite massive scepticism. Personally I consider it a privilege to induce it successfully and an extraordinary privilege if the women has never undergone it. Without digressing further, please muster up as many testimonies as possible somewhere (here or elsewhere). Mission9801
: Thanks! I'm just shocked as to how something so easy to research is still so controversial. Let's update ourselves to the 21st century folks, shall we? Before long we won't even need this debate anymore, as all sexual stimulation will be transmitted directly to our brains via computer. Hahahaha. ;) -- NatsukiGirl\talk 21:05, 14 September 2005 (UTC)
replies: text:  These occurrences are not easy to research unless, as I said, we're able to muster up a big body of testimonies. I do not wish your deeds to be just a one-woman crusade, nor your (and your boyfriend's) labour to be in vain. I expect to be privileged, not just gratified, to induce one. Mission9801 01:50, 15 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title:  Encouragements 

message: I've been pondering the porn section of the article... I think the cases of urination trying to be passed off as genuine ejaculation is what is causing confusion. We ALL KNOW dispite wanting to engage in a fantasy that porn is NEVER the genuine article... well, rarely anyway. Trick photography, and fake techniques to get the imagry they want are commonplace. With this in mind, I think all references to porn and urination should be removed from the article until a valid medial reference can be supplied. -- NatsukiGirl\talk 06:05, 15 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: porn/urine myth

message: It's not a myth.  I, myself, have experienced female ejaculation more than a few times.  I know how it feels to urinate, I know how it feels to ejaculate.  It is NOT the same feeling. In fact, it's not even from the same place. I'm pretty sure I've read that it is impossible to urinate during sex.  Those who say they do urinate are experiencing female ejaculation and are ignorant as to how their vagina works. YourGirlfriend 06:47, 15 September 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: Not a myth

message: Female ejaculation is not urine and I can see some people here still think it is. I'll get my books and find the scientific articles on that. Clearly this entry needs to be improved. Also, please, could you all use more recent work on the subject ? A 1981 case study is NOT acceptable to support a whole article.Bragador 21:50, 21 December 2005 (UTC)
thread_title:  Sources 

message: I didn't have an ejaculating experience until about 2 years ago.I'd split up with my boyfriend of many years and was looking forward to single life,when he called me 2 months later and begged to have sex with me.It was so incredible i did not even notice the bed was soaked all the way through until i came to after multi orgasms.I must say i was stunned.Even though i had heard of the female ejaculation,the first time it happens,you just think:damn,i've just peed the bed!I was freaked,but he was over the moon.Apparently in the 2 months we were apart he had been studying karma sutra and tao methods and this was all a part of his plan.Alas this new discovery wasn't enough to keep us together.I went through various shags,but the sex was never as mind blowing,until i met my current boyf who i have endless love and lust for.I think i ejaculate pretty much every time we have sex now,unless we are just having a quickie and i'm not super aroused.I can definitely testify that the liquid comes from the vaginal wall and that it is most definitely NOT urine.It is a clear liquid that smells completely different to urine,and tastes slightly sweet.It can be a bit of a daunting experience when we go to bed at night and instead of going to sleep- get a bit horny and end up having sex -cause then the bed is wet and we gotta put towels down and go to sleep on them.My boyfriend had never had any woman ejaculate with him before,and he has had many,many partners,so this must be a rare thing,or perhaps none of them have ever felt like it was safe to let go.He says that it turns him on so much,and i must say i definitely experience a sort of a hightened state of pleasure.It is hard to explain.Anyway i decided to write in because i found it hillarious that there are people who doubt female ejaculation exists and say it is a weak bladder instead.I can hold pee for a long time and my pelvic muscles are very strong.I am definitely NOT leaking urine,in fact i couldn't make myself pee during sex anyway.I mean if there is women who know they ejaculate,why would you deny their experiences?For the men out there that don't beleve;well maybe you can start cutting out our clitorises next ,cause you don't think a woman should or can orgasm at all?Female ejaculation has been known and revered in old cultures,but in the west women's sexuality has been so opressed by unnatural attitudes that it is a wonder if a woman can even reach climax,and it is true that many of us still don't.Many of my girlfriends cannot come with their boyfriends at all but can through masturbation if they are alone and some have never had an orgasm at all.Women need to get to know their bodies before they can expect to orgasm,but many have been thought that it is dirty and wrong to touch themselves.If my ex boyfriend's attitude toward my first ejaculation had been disgust,i probably would've been scared of experiencing sex and letting go of myself which would in turn reduce my sex life to a series of uncomfortable and unplesurable experiences.Thank you to the women who have written in.I think this topic needs to be researched and explained and brought into the light.This is the 21 century after all and women make up half of the population-so why are these things not known?
:Scientists think the ejaculation is due to a strong contraction of muscles which would make females ejaculate a liquid partially made of what constitute urine. If this hypothesis is true, then the liquid couldn't be classified as something other than a derivation of urine. More research will be done to understand what is happening. Bragador 22:57, 9 February 2006 (UTC)
thread_title:  A MYTH? 

message: Hello. I think we can all agree that "cum" or "come" may refer to Orgasm or Semen, but is it common to apply those terms to female ejaculate? I find no reference to this in the article. Ewlyahoocom 03:54, 3 March 2006 (UTC)
thread_title:  Cum/Come?