Talk:Play party (BDSM)

message: A dress code doesn't really prevent non-kinky people from entering a party to simply "get a look at tits&ass", as the Decadance website puts it. They simply have to have enough determination and money to buy fetish clothes and then go to the party. Wearing fetish clothes doesn't automatically make one kinky.
What a dress code does prevent is drunken middle-aged men passing by the party by pure coincidence, thinking "'ere, what's all this then?" and entering on impulse.  — JIP | Talk 10:22, 22 July 2005 (UTC)
thread_title: A dress code ...

message: I've removed the claim that red is a default safeword recognized in BDSM circles everywhere.  Looking at the sources I'm using it is just not true.  Brame does not say this in "Come Hither" and neither does the Wipipedia.  This is rather surprising if it's standard practice.  Assuming others will respond to a safeword when then may not is quite dangerous, so this is not just a non-fact but a dangerous falsehood. --Simon Speed (talk) 16:33, 2 June 2008 (UTC)
thread_title:  Is "red" a universal [[safeword]]? 

message: For years, play party used to be simply a redirect to play party (BDSM), so it was decided to get rid of the needless disambiguation. But now, an anonymous user has added content about regular play parties that have nothing to do with BDSM. This requires splitting the article into two separate articles: play party (without any BDSM content) and play party (BDSM) (with only BDSM content). The problem is, that the non-BDSM content is far shorter than the BDSM content. JIP | Talk 19:58, 8 April 2009 (UTC)
replies: text: I have now split the article into the two articles mentioned above. JIP | Talk 11:13, 13 April 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Regular play party vs. BDSM play party 

message: This section was unsourced or referred to one particular venue, which is too specialised.  I have removed it.  Kenilworth Terrace (talk) 16:52, 2 October 2010 (UTC)
thread_title:  Etiquette 

message: I've now turned play party into a disambig between this article as play party (U.S. traditional). I can see why the traditional U.S. play party people are so upset, though. I think people expecting either kind of play party would be quite annoyed to discover they were at the other kind.  -- The Anome (talk) 11:09, 8 July 2016 (UTC)
thread_title:  Disambiguation 

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