Talk:Love–hate relationship

message: The article begins as a description of a type of romance, and then its first example of a love-hate relationship is about a person's feelings towards a computer. It sounds like what some parent would say to their inept nerdy son in order to explain a love-hate relationship. I suppose it should be removed or moved downwards in the article, though I can't decide which one is a better edit.--The ikiroid (talk·desk·Advise me) 03:48, 15 June 2006 (UTC)
thread_title:  Huh? Nice example........ 

message: *The section in the article "List of famous love-hate relationships in fiction" is growing far to large, and half of the love-hate relationships aren't famous! I haven't even heard of some of the shows they're from! I suggest a complete clean up of it, only a few, probably around 5-10 (which is still alot) or even just remove the entire thing! UnDeRsCoRe 20:51, 17 October 2006 (UTC)
replies: text: I'm going to delete some of these. Numbah 3 and 4 have a famous love hate relationship? Yeah right. Lionheart08 13:31, 31 May 2007 (UTC)
thread_title:  List of famous love-hate relationships in fiction 

message: I dont think it should be deleted.I have a love-hate relationship I like this guy he only likes me as a friend which we were in the past I still like him both as a friend and romanticly but somewhat resent him for hurting me--Sweetheart2009 (talk) 00:50, 12 July 2009 (UTC)
replies: text: The argument for deletion isn't that it doesn't happen; it's that it might not belong in an encyclopedia. -moritheilTalk 11:30, 27 August 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  talk of article deletion 

message: I see two things which need work:
* Delete or explain the "obligatory friendship" part (why is it related?)
* Delete or heavily edit the "in fiction" part
-moritheilTalk 04:37, 14 October 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Major Revisions 

message: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tsundere  —Preceding unsigned comment added by 97.126.193.174 (talk) 08:19, 31 October 2009 (UTC)
thread_title:  Is this connected to Love-Hate Relationships? 

message: I fetched up here while digging around in W'pedia for something about conflict-habituated relationships, but "conflict habituated" appears exactly ZERO times in the entire vast database. 
It's a far better term than "love-hate relationship," which betrays its slick roots. Out in consensus reality, most such relationships are much better characterized as "vague & ill-formed support perpetuated by laziness vs. petty irritation about trivia" — people would rather grouse/grumble than exert any productive effort. Meanwhile, a conflict-habituated relationship is often a game in which (according to transactional analysis) the participants derive a degree of satisfaction from the constant tension, for instance having someone else to share blame upon for their own lack of success.Weeb Dingle (talk) 18:01, 23 December 2018 (UTC)
thread_title:  much blurry nonsense 

message: Looks like there's some ableism under "psychological roots" & "family and development" Especially referring to people with NPD and BPD as "narcissists" and "borderlines". Unfortunately i have no other way to put it into words but I think this tidbit of text is unnecessary and lacks respect for people with NPD and BPD as real, complex people.
"Narcissists and borderlines have been seen as particularly prone to aggressive reactions towards love objects, not least when issues of self-identity are involved: in extreme instances, hate at the very existence of the other may be the only emotion felt, until love breaks through behind it." 2600:4040:A034:A300:F5:AA7D:CADC:1DDD (talk) 21:51, 6 November 2022 (UTC)
thread_title:  ableism against people with NPD and BPD