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Can't get myself to schedule any doctor appointments even tho my health is declining | depression | 11f278a | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Stages towards a depressive episode. | depression | 11f26mn | 12 | null | true | false | 0.94 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I wish life wasnt wasted on me when so many other deserved it and actually wanted it | depression | 11f1xfv | 6 | null | true | false | 0.81 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Why does my brain torture me? | depression | 11f1t1l | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
anyone else feel like this? | depression | 11f1l2z | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
whats happening to me | depression | 11f1htx | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Can't tell if it's the meds or depression making me worse | depression | 11f1ex8 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m really depressed and voices are getting worse | depression | 11f0vv2 | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Im feeling hopeless | depression | 11f0tjx | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Gambled away the rent money.. again | depression | 11f0mn5 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Just one of those days | depression | 11f0kez | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
If everything ends... | depression | 11f0hlr | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Scared of SSRI | depression | 11f0h28 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I'm so close to giving up and just die | depression | 11f0cc4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Watching myself become worse | depression | 11f0btf | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I'm so tired of all the hypocrisy and contradictions that come with depression | depression | 11f036k | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I am just here, I am not living | depression | 11ezwzo | 19 | null | true | false | 0.96 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
i don’t know why i can’t love her | depression | 11eztxi | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Just finished an easy assignment that I've been procrastinating with for 10 days that is due today. | depression | 11ezqlo | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m really tired of having family, it feels like h3ll | depression | 11ezqha | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Groundhog day for the depressed | depression | 11ezjfp | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
“I wish you knew what you have sometimes” | depression | 11ezeus | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
My depressive episodes are back | depression | 11eze32 | 5 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Current 'golden' standard: High school degree, college degree, full-time job, financially stable, boyfriend/girlfriend, children, social life, friends, physically attractive, and mentally stable. | depression | 11ezdr4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
something something existential crisis | depression | 11ez8t0 | 3 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I fucked up | depression | 11ez3xi | 1 | null | true | false | 0.99 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Do you also have the feeling sometimes that you are your worst enemy? | depression | 11ez2y0 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Drinking is the cure | depression | 11eyzht | 2 | null | true | false | 0.75 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Am I digging myself back into my hole for no reason? | depression | 11eyzae | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I feel empty and wish for it all to go away | depression | 11eywj8 | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
chronic illness, family with addiction, the world is dying | depression | 11eyvbg | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Anyone up to chat? | depression | 11eyt8i | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I don't know what to do | depression | 11eyswd | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
can't stop crying lately | depression | 11eyq50 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Reality is far worse than any demon, ghost or monster | depression | 11eykf9 | 5 | null | true | false | 0.86 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
why even bother | depression | 11eyfgi | 3 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Is there anyone from Salzburg | depression | 11eyer0 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Welp I’ve lost my job | depression | 11ey06m | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m a broken person | depression | 11exwqu | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
How do I survive as a non-existent in college? | depression | 11exvle | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I want to get better | depression | 11extj0 | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Feel like I'm never gonna get out. | depression | 11exs0k | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Can never tell if I'm just being paranoid or not when depressed | depression | 11exmu3 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I've got good news | depression | 11exmdj | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
not doing good | depression | 11exk7t | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I'm stuck in a loop and I don't know how to get out | depression | 11exjm0 | 1 | null | true | false | 0.99 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I feel like a waste of a human being | depression | 11exgqx | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Getting divorced at 28 | depression | 11excnr | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
new struggle | depression | 11exb23 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I really want to fucking die! | depression | 11ex900 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
can someone help me, Please ? | depression | 11ex4c1 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
A family member thinks I just gotta work hard | depression | 11ewuja | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Is it fucked up that I have momentary periods of happiness? | depression | 11ewu4b | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I just want to smoke weed and drink all day | depression | 11ewtjt | 3 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I need a friend | depression | 11ewmru | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
1 vs everyone | depression | 11ewll3 | 3 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
ive lost everything and i feel isolated | depression | 11ewkgv | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I just feel worthless | depression | 11ewjzh | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Stuck not caring about anything | depression | 11ewjkt | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’ve decided instead of giving up, I’m moving on. | depression | 11ewifr | 5 | null | true | false | 0.86 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Can't sleep cause of depression | depression | 11ewfol | 4 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Sometimes my cats are the only thing keeping me alive. | depression | 11ewc64 | 11 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I feel like I’m a waste of a human being | depression | 11ew3u0 | 7 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Need to talk to someone | depression | 11ew35d | 11 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
26f with my little girl, struggling. | depression | 11evzsw | 1 | null | true | false | 0.67 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Idk | depression | 11evyku | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I feel my trust and the premises my family made are betrayed and are disrespected by my parents. Nothing fucking matters anymore. I start to need opinions from you people for that dipshit instead of keeping it to myself. | depression | 11evy4y | 1 | null | true | false | 0.99 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Anyone else felt like their anti-depressants were working but changed you negatively so you stopped taking them? | depression | 11evtq1 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I am so tired. | depression | 11evqbu | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Found out my Ex Bf was cheating with me on his Gf | depression | 11evq4q | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Least painful way of suiside for a 15 year old (realistically) | depression | 11evotn | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
It's almost 1am, and I'm considering another drink | depression | 11evno9 | 3 | null | true | false | 0.81 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I don't think my parents love me anymore. | depression | 11evjq2 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Can't Get My Husband to Understand Depression | depression | 11evee0 | 5 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
It has been so long since I felt this good, but my mind won't let me enjoy it | depression | 11ev83b | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
7 years and still nothing | depression | 11ev66u | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I don't know what I'm doing wrong | depression | 11ev2gj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Had a long conversation with my mom today. I think she knows where I am headed. Must be difficult to be a parent and watch your kid slowly lose the will to keep going and know you can’t do a single thing about it. | depression | 11ev1yo | 29 | null | true | false | 0.97 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I should probably get diagnosed, right? | depression | 11euxya | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
My brain is so all over the place. My life is probably never going to get better because of it, and I would rather die than live a shitty life. | depression | 11euxnb | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I'm falling into the deep end and I'm not coming back. | depression | 11euum5 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Started Auvelity today! | depression | 11euu5p | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m not social enough to matter | depression | 11eutu1 | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
anyone else feel this? | depression | 11eutjh | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I think im approaching the end, how can I die in peace? | depression | 11eurs5 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
rum is not a good way to manage depression | depression | 11eupst | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Was anyone else afraid to start therapy? | depression | 11eup4p | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
i'm an idiot. | depression | 11eunlj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I am almost 22 and I’ve done absolutely nothing with my life | depression | 11euk5s | 2 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Advice | depression | 11eub92 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Help | depression | 11eu954 | 4 | null | true | true | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I just need a fucking break | depression | 11eu71d | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I'm cutting a little harder every time | depression | 11eu2vw | 0 | null | true | true | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I have no one. | depression | 11etyi8 | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m wasting my life | depression | 11ety35 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Bottom dysphoria is deteriorating my mental health and pushing me towards suicide. | depression | 11etwam | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Is it normal if I want to bottom? | r/TopsAndBottoms | jo7yt2 | 10 | null | true | true | 0.76 | true | Completely normal.. I'm about the same and I didn't start playing until I was 50.. it's been all fun... So just enjoy yourself.. | Bottoming is normal, almost to the point of being the default in the gay community | Same here. Although, I don't want to be normal. I want to be special. | If you’re doing what makes you happy and you’re not hurting someone else? You are completely normal. Enjoy yourself and have fun. | Yep you are normal. I love my arse fillled. First off I would go to your STI clinic. Here in the UK you can get hep A/B , HPV injections and PREP (protect against HIV) on the NHS. You would be mad not to protect yourself. |
Is it normal to cum whilst getting fucked? | r/TopsAndBottoms | 6u4gke | 27 | null | true | true | 0.86 | true | Cumming while getting fucked is the best orgasm you can have. Jerking off afterwards is not that fun, but cumming in the process is so freaking awesome specially if you don't touch yourself down there at all.
So yeah - it's normal. But I don't suggest using craigslist, too much weirdos and dangerous people there. And before meeting talk a bit with a guy, say what you want to do and do not want. | [deleted] | I hope you're not planning to see this guy again. This story is full of red flags. Get tested regularly and don't let another stranger cum in you without permission (ALWAYS talk about that (or about your lack of experience) beforehand.) | It's pretty rare to cum without touching yourself, just by getting fucked. Lots of guys have to practice to make it happen. It's only happened for me a few times, all with the same guy who was a hookup buddy a few years ago...and never since! Consider yourself lucky! And hang with that guy again! | If you cum from getting fucked then you definitely enjoyed it. Yes Craigslist hookups are like this. But damn that was hot. I'm horny now. |
Is it normal to be a cumdump? 🤔 | r/TopsAndBottoms | la9a1w | 41 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | It’s *perfectly* normal to need it and crave it.
Sometimes I’m good with one of my regulars; other times, it seems like I just straight up go into full blown heat once I’ve got a load inside me.
Because my job entails lots of travel, I’ve spent *days* doing Grindr, A4A and BBRTS hookups in one city, then driving a few hours and doing the same somewhere else. I’ve been played with and used til my body was bruised, my pussy was inside out and kept going til I physically couldn’t use my hole anymore, because I *desperately* needed the semen. Of course that’s only happened a few times, but sometimes the urges are literally uncontrollable.
Being a whore is my nature, and I suspect yours is, too. | Everything that is consensual and does not impede your functioning otherwise is “normal”. You do you. | >Is this normal?
Who cares? It's certainly ***common***. Anything that enough people are into to have a name is pretty fucking common. | Same. The more cocks and loads in me the better. | I've definitely find that a lot of bottoms go through periods of being "in heat" versus not.
I think it's a few things: natural hormonal and body fluctuations, boredom, stress, etc.
From a pragmatic perspective, it can often be annoying to find a good guy on grindr, but leave for a few months and come back and it feels very new (as well as literally brand new people). And then you have an experience or two, remember why you enjoyed being used, so you do it over and over again for a short while. And then it starts become normal and worry builds up around diseases or safety or just figuring out if it's all you want. And so you stop.
Very normal. |
Is it normal for a top to have the urge to suck cocks? | r/TopsAndBottoms | jocmfo | 0 | null | true | true | 0.5 | true | What do you mean normal? Being top does not exclude sucking kissing or shit. Get over the bs limits. |
Some of your assumptions need debunking.
1) It's not submissive to suck a dick.
2) Being a top is not equivalent to being dominant.
Being a so-called "top" doesn't stop you from being submissive or from sucking dick. Being a "top" just means that, when it comes to anal sex, you prefer fucking rather than being fucked. *That's all it means.* It doesn't say anything about whether you like sucking dicks or not, it doesn't say anything about whether you're dominant or submissive, it only says you like fucking. Everything else is open to whatever you want to do.
I hate how these stupid stereotypes have infiltrated this subreddit. I don't see it anywhere else - especially not in real life. But people in this subreddit have built up some stupid ideas about what "top" and "bottom" mean. | Yeah man, you like dudes. Dudes have penis, and it is tasty. The conceptions of culture and psychology are not so different. I'm top and I love sucking dick. I will also bottom for the right guy. Being gay includes all these things. | I'm a top and I like sucking dick. I don't care if it's "normal" or not. | Most tops suck dick. It is only in the fantasy world of this subreddit sometimes that it may seem abnormal. Outside of some specific BDSM kink play, it's the norm that gay and bi men like to suck cock regardless of their roles on insertion. The ones who don't are the outliers. (And that's fine too.)
There's no need to read more into it and no need, unless it's your specific kink, to try to wrap dominance or submission into it. |