How to win at life.
By: Raluca Dragoș
Tags: Spiritual Growth, Life Lessons, Evolution, Awakening, Spirituality

Believe that anything is possible

We live in a universe of infinite possibilities. You see other people succeeding, being happy, being accomplished and you think that it will never happen to you. It can not only happen, but it can be even better that you ever dreamed of. The only thing that is stopping you from having anything you desire, is your mind. The mind sets limits because it can only function from the programs that are already installed. When you want something, you don’t have to think about the “how” or “when”, that’s God’s job. You just have to trust that it will happen.

Trust that the Universe has your back

Even though sometimes it seems like everything in your life is going wrong and the Universe has something against you, it’s actually leading you to the right path. When things go wrong it’s because you’re not on the chosen path, the path that your soul chose to be on before it came on earth. If something doesn’t work, change direction.

Spread love

Love is the strongest and most beautiful frequency in the Universe. When you do everything from your heart, with love, with compassion and kindness, your life will be filled with abundance on every level.

Follow your intuition

Feel more than you think. Your gut feeling knows better than your mind what’s best for you. If you think too much about a situation your mind will run endless scenarios and it will only drive you crazy. Your higher self a.k.a. your gut feeling has your best interest. If something feels shady leave it. If it feels good, go for it.

Be grateful

Being grateful for all the little things in your life will not only make you feel better and raise your vibration but it will also invite more good things into your life. Even being grateful for something you don’t have yet, will bring that something to you. Count your blessing and you’ll realize that you are richer than you thought.

Believe in yourself

The first and most important person you have to believe in is yourself. You are more powerful than you think. What others have done, you can do too. You are as smart, intuitive, powerful, gifted, talented as any other being on this planet. You are good enough. You deserve the best of the best. All you need to know in order to succeed is already inside you. Tap into the field of all possibilities and become the best version of yourself.

Never stop dreaming

Dreaming for a better life is what keeps us going. We all want what’s best for us. Never settle for something “OKish” just because you think that you’re never going to accomplish your dream. Dreams become reality if you hold on to them long enough and you don’t let doubt step in. Dream big!

Be kind

Every being has its own journey. You can’t expect other people to be in the same place as you are. Be kind and patient with people around you. Everyone navigates at their own pace through life. But make sure you are there to acknowledge their every small success like it’s your own.

Leave the past where it belongs

You can understand life by looking back but you can only live it by looking forward. Nothing that happened in the past defines you. In order to grow and evolve you have to leave things behind. What happened, happened. You can’t change that. But you can change what happens next by letting go of what no longer serves you.

Mind your thoughts

As anything else in the Universe, thoughts are energy. The frequency you emit will attract more of that type of energy into your life. You can control your life by thought alone. If you think bad things always happen to you, that’s what’s going to happen. Because this is the message you send out: “Bad things happen to me” and then the Universe says: “Ok, there you go, have some more.” What you think about you attract in your life.

Happiness is a state of mind not a destination

See the good in anything that surrounds you. Choose to be happy in any situation you find yourself in. Don’t let your happiness depend on that job, promotion, car, house that you desire. Be happy on the way to getting it.

Smile

Smiling will not only boost your state but it will also take you a long way. People who smile are more likely to succeed with anything they put their minds to.

Play nice

Do everything you do with good intentions. Help a friend without expecting anything in return. Give a compliment without an agenda. Teach something without asking for money.

Learn & unlearn

Life is about learning but also unlearning. You can’t change your life if you don’t unlearn the old ways. Instead of asking yourself “why is this happening to me?” ask yourself “what can I learn from this experience?” All the people you meet, all the experiences you go through are there to help you to grow.

Always affirm what you want and not want you don’t want

The Universe doesn’t know the words NO or DON’T. If you say: “I don’t want to attract unavailable men into my life” you’re actually saying “I want to attract unavailable men into my life”. Learn to make positive affirmations in order to get what you desire.

Everything you want is on the other side of fear

When something new and exciting is presented to us we tend to reject it. Why? Because it’s unknown, it’s something that the mind does not understand. Something that was not experienced yet and the mind is not able to predict an outcome. If something feels good but it scares you at the same time, go for it!

Be yourself

There is nothing more harder than pretending to be someone that you’re not. It takes a lot of energy to build a character and pretend all the time just so you can be accepted. Society puts a lot of pressure on how you should look, act or be. Forget about what others think you should be and just be yourself and everyone will love you just the way you are. Or at least the right people will. Real people attract real people.

Keep your circle small

Having 3 good friends that you can depend on anytime, is more important than 20 friends that know nothing about you and don’t really care how you are. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, who support you, who make you wanna to be better every day.

Don’t reveal your plans until they are manifested

Sharing your plans with friends or family might make them seem more real but it can also bring bumps in the road. Even if they look happy for you, they will always have a trace of jealousy or envy in them. And that energy filled with jealousy and envy can block your plans from being manifested.

Ask for help

Leave your Ego at home and ask for help when you need it. There is nothing more beautiful than a person who shows their vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in a way but we’ve been taught to hide it. Repressing & suppressing emotions will not let you act from your heart and show to the world what an amazing human being you are.

The more you give, the more you receive

The Universe doesn’t like a void. If something is given it will be replaced by something else. If you do good you will receive good, if you do bad you will receive bad. It’s the law of Karma. Focus on giving good to people, nature and everything around you. Do it in a selfless way, without an agenda, without expecting anything in return.

Get out of your comfort zone

Staying in a familiar place can make you feel safe, but being safe all the time might also be stopping you from evolving. A new environment, new people, new challenges will help you grow and give you more confidence. Sometimes you have to venture outside your world to find yourself.

Invest your energy wisely

Where your attention goes your energy flows. This works both ways, for things that you want or don’t want. If you resent somebody for hurting you, that energy will have a negative impact on your life. You’ll start feeling bad, your health will deteriorate and bad things will happen to you. If you focus on a project that you want to develop and keep your thoughts positive, you have great chances of manifesting it.

With love,

Raluca