Why We Wait the Happiness? Why We are Not Create the Happiness?
By: Peka Aksara
Tags: Happiness, Grateful, Happy, Ikigai, Life

We no need to talk about what do human want because of that absolutely different on each human as what they do in their lives. If I am a writer I need a good laptop and an amazing adventure experience if you are a singer you sure need the song and music to complete it.

I’m so happy when my close friends trust me to hear their story that almost about sadness. I’m so glad to be someone could be made them not feeling lonesome anymore. But sometimes I’m so sad when I really wanna know how to make them back to be happy. And the questions is “What Exactly do Humans Need?”

The human has a different problem in their life, but the real fact they have the same goal to be alive. They just need the moment can make them feel calm and happy in general.

No need to forget the problem

When the people chose drunk to forget their problem, I surely not agree with it. It just helps for a while, but the next minutes when we wake up, that problem still waiting to be clear.

We have a big problem in our life, big big big problem that can make us crying and feel so bad. The big problem that possible to make us think about suicide. It’s okay not to be okay, but we supposed to think, this earth is not only for you or me, so stop to be selfish and feeling bad alone.

Why we do not create happiness?

I ever feel lost in my life. I feel I don’t have anyone who sincere to me, I feel the people just bullshit when they said they care of me, but they nothing to do something makes me feel better.

So I don’t have any chose except to make myself happy on my own. My Allah SWT has promise if the human try to create happiness for anyone else, Allah SWT will give that human the happiness could never have before.

Forget what makes you happy

Just do what makes the unlucky people feel so happy. At that moment when I feel so bad, I chose to try to meet the orphan. I love kids, I hate to just sitting at the coffee shop with my job partner, and I chose to pick up my happiness with them.

Just need some money to give them lunch and sitting together to laugh and talk to each other. I tried to fill my mind with their name, not afresh with the problem that just made me stressful. I tried to teach them the math, while I knew I never have a good rating for math. Lol.

And yeah, I completely pick up my happiness when I see them eat and laughing so hard with my daddy jokes.

And after all, I can think clearly and stay calm even though my problem try to broke me again and again. I said to the problem, there are many people who more sadness than me, the people who fight to the world and thinking about what to eat and where they must sleep for tomorrow?

I’m luckier and you are just tiny chaos, I can finishing you asap.

They said to grateful

It’ll not be working if we just said “Thank God” without we doing something that we really grateful for many things in this life. Human just need to move and try something new good to know how much this life is so awesome. If we only chose to lock our room and cry a lot whole day, it just means we kill ourself.

Life is too precious to die when we have any chances to do something new to tasting this life better.

Do you have any way to pick up your happiness? Share to me please, and let me try.