Finding my better self — An ordinary middle class man life story.
By: Gentle Men
Tags: Inspirational, Fitness, Lifestyle, Life, Beauty

I am Tim, the man who knew infinity is a metaphor. I chase down every one of my dreams. How can I do that? Yes I did so because my dreams were for the near future. I heard people saying “live in the present”. Sorry I am not interested. The present will be gone when we say the word present. So I wanted to live in the near future. Whatever I do is to be happy, proud and successful in the near future.

Who am I? I don’t want you to know who am I. But like I said, I was successful in many things. Sports, Academics, Impressing girls and Impressing guys :P

You must have read about the law of attraction from the book called “The Secret”. I am reading that book now… It says whatever you want with life without any side thoughts think about it and universe will return the similar frequency thoughts on you and the universe will change accordingly to make it happen. It is something like Paulo Coelho said. Yes it is, Go and google it..

I think the law of attraction worked for me as well during those days. I was always occupied. I had no time to think about other thoughts but only the mind to get what I want to done. I am a hard worker too. I work until I reach my target.

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Everything started to change when you achieve at a milestone. Didn’t get it right? Huh me too.

What I was trying to tell you is that, when I reached some positions in my life my career, my work; I am like, Now what???? I am being one among the others who daily live.

Again the law of attraction started to work. I am started to get some negative thoughts. But it is fine… I am a challenger, I will figure it out.

But this is just capturing me. Again and Again. I am started to think my life as a hell. I always think about the unnecessary, unhappy life of mine.

This is not a story about myself. But it is a story of me living the next 6 months of my life with you. How I am going to transform the worst fears of my life and work on it and come up with it. If you are ready track me down.

My problems now? And How will I solve this in 6 months?

I am adding my day to day updates on how I am planning to solve my problems below. If you have any advice or suggestions please feel free to comment and help.

1) Unsatisfactory Job:

I love the company I am working. I do love the position I am in. I do love the people around me. Everything is so fine. But what I lack is my social life. I want a job which is more adventurous, more people oriented and breath taking stories to add to my life.

2) Beauty

I am an average good looking Indian guy. But when you start loosing your confidence on various parts of yours like your thinning hair. It starts to make you think you are loosing everything. When people while speaking to us looking at our thinning hair and wondering what happened? We start loosing our confidence. For me my thinning hair was the worst thing.

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3) Fitness

As I already mentioned you I was an athlete. I had good fitness. Due to my smoking high and smoking low habits everything ruined. Now even if I walk I can’t breathe. I am a basketball player, Running full court is a nightmare for me now. All this can be seen in my weakened body.

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4) Special

How can you be special? If you wanted to feel yourself special you have to be new everyday. Everyday you wanted to try new things, read new things and gain new knowledge. Get more talent. I am becoming the same version of myself for a long time. Is that bad? Yes it is. I need to figure out a way to move from this.

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Let us work on my problems now. Day by Day. Each day I find solutions and I add to my list. Which I will do in the upcoming days and add in the routine.

180 Day Challenge => 4 Main Goals => Lots of sub goals.

Day 1 <> 25th April 2021

The beginning is the most important thing in whatever we do. As my first step, I am writing this blog to showcase the world (to make public my plans and my steps to achieve it) Which may impress someone like somebody’s did for me. I will populate this blog each day with more n more steps and the effects that I got from it. Let us catch it..

Day 2 <> 26th April 2021

My plan to restore my hair. I want to work on the most worst fear that I have as the start of my transformation. Thus I am starting out with hair restoration.