3 Ways Breakups are More Refreshing than New Socks.
By: The Orange Emoji
Tags: Relationships, Love Yourself, Mental Health, Self Improvement, Life

Well… its true

It was going to be a perfect evening for you.

You’d made sure you looked ravishing that evening. You got to the venue, eat, drank and talked a little. Then you felt that sudden tension in the air. And in that moment, your world came crashing with these dreadful words;

“I’m breaking up with you”.

It’s hard to swallow the fact of not having that certain someone check up on you. It’s all part of the hardship every broken love most face but that doesn’t mean you should wallow in regrets. It doesn’t help rather it destroys a person’s life.

How it can destroy a person’s life?

You constantly wonder on how your relationship ended which makes it harder for you to move on.

Due to the circumstances of your breakup, you'll fear rejection.

You become less motivated.

You become Sad, Frustated, bitter,

And depression takes hold of you.

A bad breakup shouldn’t determine how your life should be. Rather, it should create a part in your life where you feel happier and more fulfilled.

A fact about breakup you already know is that…

You won’t die.

No matter how many times your heart shatters. But here’s one thing you should know.

All breakups aren’t bad. Yes!

There’s a gaping hole in your heart right now, and your world crumbles. Yet, You’re in a relationship that demeans, lacks respect, controls. it’s best when you call that relationship Quits.

Still finding it hard to believe that breakups are terrible. Then here are 3 reasons why its more refreshing than a new socks.

A breakup should Challenge You

Into becoming someone better. You understanding yourself more and doing things you feel is impossible. Most times, it’s difficult to become motivated to do anything even if it’s something you love doing due to a breakup. You find it hard to look good, feel good, be around friends that care about you, watch movies or even do your job well.

Rather, a breakup should mould you into becoming a go-getter. Breaking that limit you felt you couldn’t reach. It should encourage you into becoming a better version of who you want to be. No matter how challenging it can be. Never ever feel you are not good enough because of how your relationship ended. it shouldn’t be an excuse for you to become lazy.

You become Self-Reliant:

In difficult situations you rely on yourself. You realize that you can solve issues, you once thought only having a partner can. You learn to make decisions by and for yourself. Without needing help from others to make such decisions for you. You become more committed in keeping your decisions firm.

You face Reality

The reality that life doesn’t go the way you plan or want at times. You realize that a future you once dreamt of with that person won’t happen. You face reality - the relationship wasn’t meant for you. When you face your reality, you face your truth.

And whats your truth?

That you’re enough, unique, and you’re worthy, regardless of you being in a relationship or not.

You’re the only one that can find your truth. No one else.

TAKEAWAY:

If you’re going through a breakup, and all you know are the bad reasons. One thing you should realize is that even with those negative aspect, there’s a positive. It all depends on how you’re ready to build yourself and not have any setbacks take over. You shouldn’t tie yourself down because a person called it Quits.

It should be a time for you to relax, explore. And find more of who you are if you feel you haven’t.

It shouldn’t confine you to a place of “should I call!”