Secret 3Cs Formula For Successful Parenting
By: Sarah Muhammad
Tags: Parenting Tips, Children Rights, Children, Parenting Advice, Parenting

successful parenting

Successful parenting is not only defined as having high grades achiever kids or having most A++ or achieving top class colleges and universities but the actual success for parents must be a little bit different. This success is the core of achieving a superb adult.

Here I would like to mold the success formula for each of those parents concerned about the way they are bringing up their kids and on and off keep on judging there way towards successful parenting.

So the success formula is actually

C+C+C=(Confidence+Creativity +Character)CHILD= SUCCESSFUL PARENTING

The first C is very critical and must keep in mind being the parenting process. Here C stands for confidence. For the actual success and to raise a confident child we need a superb combination of good parenting and good education. But the question is how to have a confident child. A happy and emotionally strong child is a confident child.

Confidence building in kids

Remember a child brought up with happy parents is more likely to grow up with a strong emotional attitude.They are well equipped with their positive thoughts, they are well trained for how to behave and when. They have great self-control ability. An educated parent can educate his child but a happy parent brought up a genius.

An emotionally weak child will behave abnormally in tough situations. He will not be able to face difficulties in life. He searches people to share his feeling in the outside world and most probably will be attracted to poor addictions.

So are you a happy parent? ask yourself, when did you last, laughed together. Don't remember??? In a small interview with a school going kid, it was being asked when did you saw your mom laughed last time? He replied, "mmmm when she was talking to one of my friends".

Be happy to your kids as happiness has its tremendous benefits, the more you're happy means the road to better communication is clear. Better communication is one of the major prerequisites for the training session. If you want to be a parent of a successful child you must be the winner of yourself first. Self winning is an amazing journey to have a team of winners, work on your own first.

When did you last compliant your child for speaking lies, I am sure we all play a blame game without any proofs as such? Here, we spoil a child's character and personality. Never try to promote your character weakness towards your kids.As Thomas Paine said “Character is much easier kept than recovered”.

Remember every child is born creative. It is our way of treating kids and the way we are educating them, that they lose their creative nature. Bring them up in pure air with sources of life and light, let them closer to nature.

Always trust them to show your full intentions towards their plus points and ignore the minus ones as this boosts their creativity and helps in character building. Whenever we regret them we are damaging their self-esteem and as a result, they tend towards atrocious. We must be conscious of our responses towards these immature humans.

A healthy couple will have a healthy family. Be successful within yourself to have a mentally and emotionally strong family. Works towards better communication skills and strong mutual bonding to have a high scale for your coming generations.