Let’s Talk About Love
By: Lunar Ndinawe
Tags: Love, Purpose, Meaning, God

Let’s Talk About Love

In the last article I wrote a bit about God being love.

When I was younger, I thought they were different types of Love. Romantic Love, family Love, Godly Love, not knowing Love is love, you just have different levels of it according to how much you know of it.

I have heard people say Love is blind, I have to say I believe this because when you see someone through Love (God), you only see the good.

Love has no fear, no limitations. It is the only real thing that exists, however, speaking on behalf of my generation, it is something that is scarce and unreal.

When we are born, we are born with love, it gets suppressed as we grow older gathering all types of information. I don’t know about you but I am from a broken home and Love wasn’t our strongest suit. To make things worse, I have grown up in an African home where the man of the house isn’t close to his female children because they are female and he is male. Let’s say the beliefs and culture think of love as a weakness.

Understanding that Love as a weapon and not weakness is the point where you have a shift in perception. Love endures all things, it is the solution to all situations/problems. Now you are wondering how this is true lol.

When you are afraid, ask for love, when you are in pain ask for love, when your friends/family pick up fights with you, show them love. When you are broke, manifest from love because it’s the highest frequency.

Love is the opposite of fear, meaning where Love is, there’s no fear. When someone acts out in anger, they are afraid. When someone hurts you, they fearing something. When someone’s ego acts out, they are afraid.

I Once dated a Taurus, I know, Leo and Taurus? Lol. He fell in love with me and because I thought I wasn’t worthy of his love, I didn’t accept it and played around with his emotions. To me, he was just another guy I would waste time with.

Firstly, I didn’t recognize it as love because it felt alienated. He didn’t want anything from me and to me that wasn’t love. He was complete without me (I wanted him to want me, no, to need me) and because I didn’t recognize it was love, it didn’t feel good.

Secondly, I was afraid to show him who I was really because I was so sure he was going to leave me. A girl who is so broken, scared to trust, scared to love, who doesn’t know what love is.

It’s after I dated an Aries who had the characteristics that drove me crazy lol. Narcissistic as I was, closed like I was and this time I around I am the one who fell in love.

I quantify soulmate as “a person with whom one has a feeling of deep love such that they wake your soul up for you to be a better person, live better, love better”. I believe the Aries was my soulmate but I wasn’t his.

Only after this did I have a craving, a hunger for love. I wanted to know and experience love. I researched, I read the Bible, asked people about their experiences with Love and then finally The Four Lettered word gave me meaning.

I chose to love myself, I chose to be a definition of love. Love saved me. It healed me. It gave me purpose. Love is the energy that flows through me everyday and I am able to live a fulfilled life because of this simple choice I made.

I manifest my dreams through Love and they come to life. Love goes before me and calms down the water at war so that I am at peace all the time.

Jesus died so that we can enjoy the gift of life, this love is so amazing you need to taste it. And once tasted, you can never go back. I love everything and everyone around me, I love my family, I love my life’s story because the art of me going back to Love is spectacularly beautiful.

A broken girl who found Love and became whole. Love has made the pattern for me to be mentally, emotionally, physically, financially wealthy and the first in my family to step on such grounds.

Love has brought me to a place of gratitude s wisdom. I am forever grateful for this Love. I pray you can give Love a chance.

I am finally home…