The Kinkiest Way To Start Loving Your Body
By: Michaela Grek
Tags: Self, Sex, Body Image, Self Love, Love

A story like no other for the open-minded souls only

What could this kinky way of loving your body be? Recording yourself during an extreme workout? Ass-fingering? Stripping in public? Naaaah!

Before I tell you, let me ask you yet another question. Do you ever focus on your partners’ body and their imperfections? Do you even notice? (K’, fine, that was two questions). I sure don’t give a damn. There is so much hotness about my partner. It outshines anything that he might think is imperfect.

The point is we’re so self-conscious of all the things that no-one sees or cares about. We suck our tummies in. We stand and pose a certain way to create the illusion of a thigh gap and a popped booty. We flip our hair all the time…Wait, am I naming the things that I do? Oh well, you got me! Let’s not smear it in my face.

I’m here to tell you that there is a place, a sacred place, where none of that matters. If it does, that’s your kink, not mine.

Now, I’m not sure how exactly I came up with this but when it happened I was shaken. I’m 138% sure that I was red as a lobster for the rest of the day. But in the best, goosebumps-up-my-spine way possible. And now I'm starting to feel the same sensations thinking about it.

Want to feel the same? Want to know what the hell I’m talking about? How badly do you wanna know? So badly that you’ll follow me and read all my stories? I’ll wait for you to do that first. I’m kidding. Or am I…

Before I tell you, I first want you to do something for me, all you beautiful and sexy ladies. (Yes, this story is for ladies but men are welcome, too. I request comments from you, though, as I’m dying to know what this would feel like for you.) I want you, to let go of any noise or judgments in your mind right now. I want you to visit the world of fantasy. Let go of everything and imagine what’s coming…don’t worry, nobody’s watching. In fact, you don’t even have to clap for this story, that’s how much freedom and privacy you have.

Find a quiet place either in your bed or on a sofa, or wherever you feel safe and comfortable. Continue reading only if you’re focused and have an open mind.

Imagine two scenarios: that you’re seducing yourself and that you’re seduced by yourself. Flip between the two as you wish. Touch your other self and feel touched by your other self. In other words, touch yourself and imagine what it feels like being touched by yourself.

Imagine that you’re sitting in a car behind the driver’s seat parked by a small turquoise lake. There’s not a single soul around. It’s a beautiful summer evening. The birds are chirping and there is a lovely breeze coming in through the window. The sunset reflects in the side mirrors brightening your face.

You’re sitting behind a driver who is also you. It’s just the two of you in the car. Your eyes meet in the rearview mirror and it’s the strangest yet most erotic moment of your life. There is love and there is lust. You lean over to the driver self and move her hair to the side to kiss her neck. Sliding your right hand toward the collar bone, the rim of her white lace T-shirt you slowly trace your fingers down until you cup her entire left breast. Feel how her chest is moving in and out as she inhales and exhales deeply. You then squeeze and massage her breasts while kissing her shoulder. Then her cheek. All while playing with her hair using your left hand.

It’s starting to get quite steamy, even for me as I’m writing this. Might have to excuse me for 7 minutes!

Now, flip to be the driver and feel the sensations of being touched like that. Feel the sensation of having your breasts squeezed gently and then firmly. Feel the warm breath on your neck and the wet kisses all over. Notice how you don’t suck your tummy in when she moves her hand down towards your groin. You’re completely relaxed and present in this sexy moment.

You let a small moan out and touch her hand as it rubs against your puss-puss. You both cup it and move your fingers up and down your clit. It’s burning at this point. You can’t contain yourself anymore so you turn around to face her. You’re looking at yourself, at your lips that are slightly parted. You push her back and lounge yourself on top of her across the back seats. You sit straddling her looking into her beautiful horny face and kiss her exactly how she likes it. You grab her hair, play with it, caress it, and grind yourself against her — this feels incredible to both of you. You know yourself so well.

Switch scenarios again. Imagine yourself sitting underneath the other you hugging and kissing you passionately. You don’t care about what your hair looks like or whether your breath stinks from the garlic soup you had for lunch earlier today (you can’t smell after all). You don’t care if your skin folds in what you’d consider an unflattering way. You feel sexy and wanted. You are you, and these little imperfections don’t matter. They’re beautiful and human. You finally see yourself in all your glory.