Being a Liberated Man in the Dating Apocalypse
By: Jc Diaz
Tags: Psychology, Personal Development, Relationships Love Dating, Dating, Coaching

It’s normal that we’ve all become increasingly reliant on our technology to get our needs met in the modern world.

With the push of a button or the swiping of a finger, you’re able to create a rapid and seemingly sudden shift in your reality. You in the mood for a burger? Uber Eats. Wanna fuck? Tinder. You get where I’m going with this…

Let’s dive into the cesspool of online dating from the male’s perspective.

You have your best profile pics locked and loaded. You’re holding a cute puppy in one and showing off your best wardrobe in another. You’re demonstrating that you are a man of few words and plenty of action. Right?

Well, maybe you haven’t gotten that far yet. If that’s the case, I suggest you hire a professional dating coach who can help you stop being a shit version of. yourself. There’s some good ones out there. Google them.

So let’s say that you have your shit more or less together than most. Do you still struggle to gain entry into the wonderful, peachy world of the female variety?

No matter how many goddamn super likes you throw at em’ they just don’t seem to give a fuck about you and your catchy bio.

What can you do about it? Why even bother with it at all?

Maybe some women are flaking on you you say… it’s true that nowadays they have WAY more potential mates all feeding their egos.

There’s always going to be a better man out there. She will never run out of options.

Think of the fact that you have the balls to even initiate a conversation with a random person on the internet. You’re putting yourself on the line and facing the stomach churning possibility of defeat by getting rejected.

And let’s face it guys, as men, we must be prepared to face our demise at any given time. We experience rejection at a staggeringly higher rate than our female brethren. It’s just one of those bitter pills we need to swallow, with a chaser of tequila or whiskey afterwards most definitely.

You’re going to get ghosted. You’re going to be disappointed, hurt, rejected, humiliated, abandoned, and severely pissed off at times. And guess what? Those women who are flaking on you and not giving you the light of day, don’t give a fuck.

Their feelings are more important than your pathetic attempt at wooing them. And guess what also? Their inboxes are inundated with dozens, sometimes hundreds of thirsty and desperate men, shooting their shots, hoping to penetrate and scale the massive walls they’ve built to keep out unworthy worms like you.

BUT guess what?! At least you made an attempt. You not only showed her but more importantly, you proved to yourself that you’re not afraid to put your feelings on the line and that takes a certain amount of balls my friend.

By taking action, you are showing the world that you’re not afraid to put yourself in harms way by going out there and fighting a dragon. Even if it’s just an imaginary one!

If she’s too stupid and empty to appreciate your valiant efforts, then you’re better off without her.

Also, think about the quality of women you’re approaching and seemingly attracted to. If you genuinely like the person, chances are you will make more of an effort to fit them into your life.

And that begs the following question…

Why should any random chick just casually barge into your kingdom? What makes THEM worthy of your presence and time?

Lastly, if there is a real connection between you and these women, then just give it time and be persistent.

If a woman likes you even remotely and she’s in a relatively good place in her own life, she will open up and give you multiple chances to seduce her and make her come alive…

After all… it’s the man’s job to break down all barriers and slay the dragon that guards the treasure… in this case, her divine feminine spirit and soaking wet vagina!

Maybe you haven’t gotten that far in your dating and sex life. If you’re still struggling with the basics of approaching and creating attraction from a place of authentic self-expression, then I highly recommend you reach out to someone who can give you the guidance and support you need to be successful in this modern day, dating-wasteland.

If you’re serious about improving your results with the opposite sex and becoming the man you’ve always truly wanted to be, then go check out my good friend and professional lifestyle-transformation coach, Shae Matthews at his website https://www.shaematthews.com/

See you on the other side.