How to Be Courageous in Loving and Being Vulnerable
By: Bingz Huang
Tags: Inspiration, Advice, Life Lessons, Twin Flame, Self Improvement

More about Cristina Costantino

Cristina has been on a tremendous spiritual ride for close to six years.

Her mainstream, urban life exploded in 2014 after meeting her Twin Flame, triggering her to leave everything she’d built behind, including a 15+ year career in Advertising — to focus on healing her heart.

That work on herself led her to find the healer and artist that had been hidden within. In 2015, at 38, she published her first book — Who Broke The Girl? — narrated from the perspective of her soul.

She then went on to become an intuitive energy healer and guide.

Continuing to evolve, at 42, she picked up a paintbrush for the very first time, and she now paints the HEART. Transforming over 70 of them into digital tool kits, each one uniquely shows and heals the wounds that have hit everyone’s heart across all time. In 2019, she published her second book — REBORN — which acts as a guide, leading one back to an innate faith in love.

“My business is called Love Squared Alcheme. The name, as well as the ‘WHY’ behind the business, is rooted in helping bring more love into people’s lives, and into this world. I strive to help people see and heal the wounds within them that are blocking love and are keeping them from tapping into the deep self-love they have for themselves. That innate love that we all have within us, which once tapped will then help everyone let more love into their lives from outside of them — either through a relationship with a partner, with friends, family, colleagues…really, everybody and anybody in the world. “

A Quick Mini Analysis of Cristina’s Chart

Here is a brief analysis that is connected to our main themes of love, vulnerability, and courage.

Cristina is a Manifesting Generator with a Motorized throat that is connected to both the Identity Center and The Sacral Center.

Human Design chart for Cristina Costantino. Source: Genetic Matrix

Motorized Throat connected to Identity Center

This connection between her Throat and Identity Centers enables her to express deeply from her soul, which can often feel very vulnerable.

Being defined in her Identity Center (diamond shape in the center of her chart) means that people around her can readily sense her fixed identity and quality of love that she radiates to others. In particular, she has a consistent relationship with her love of humanity and nature (Gate 15), body (Gate 46), and Spirit (Gate 25).

She is who she is and she is not designed to blend in with others. When she fully embraces her fixed identity (who she is), sometimes by leaving places, situations, and people who do not allow her to be who she is, she can then attract new places, situations, and people that continue to allow her to embrace who she is.

Open Will Center

I’m also so fascinated by Cristina’s completely open Will Center (small triangle next to the diamond in her chart). The energetic challenge of this is that she can feel deeply what others value and are motivated by, and feel unsure about the value she provides through her offerings because she’s sensing what they feel so acutely, which makes it difficult for her to feel and prioritize what she needs for herself over what they need. The wisdom of the open Will Center is that as she witnesses how different people value and push their way to get what they want and need, she can compare, define, and have more clarity on what is truly most valuable for her, and to trust that she is worthy by just being who she is. The Will Center is connected to our physical hearts too, which reminds me of the powerful healing heart paintings that she creates, especially the one about the Heart of Value.

Defined Spleen Center

I see that Cristina has a Defined Spleen (left large triangle near the bottom of the chart) with many defined gates too. The Defined Spleen is about having a very keen sense of our caveman instincts, knowing what keeps us safe in each moment. Each of the gates in the Spleen center also represents a specific type of fear that keeps us from taking action, but as long as we honor our instincts and move forward anyway, those fears will dissipate. Cristina is very open in sharing her fears. In a way, the defined Spleen represents both fears and courage as well.