5 Ideas to Host a Virtual Family Gathering that Doesn’t Suck
By: Brittany Lothe
Tags: Holidays, Work From Home, Family, Covid 19

As the pandemic continues to change the way we think about almost every human interaction, it also is changing the way we think about connecting with family over the holidays. I’m on video calls literally 10 hours a day. And if you’re like me, you are probably cringing a little bit at the thought of hosting another Zoom call but this time with your family members dressed up in ugly holiday sweaters.

Over the past few months, my team and family have tested out a few fun and smart ideas to help save the holidays — and stay connected virtually in a way that doesn’t feel downright depressing.

Here are five ideas to consider as you plan to make your virtual family holiday party memorable, entertaining, and fun for everyone!

1. Host a game show!

Handpick the most outgoing, charismatic family member (or whomever is last to RSVP) to host your own version of a game show. You can do Family Feud with two teams competing, Kahoot with everyone answering trivia questions, or your own version of Jeopardy where contestants try to answer trivia. We’ll be hosting Lothe Jeopardy on Christmas Eve so to my family — you better brush up on Lothe genealogy, Wisconsin sports and little known facts about Norway.

2. Host a holiday sing-a-long.

Zoom is tough for “typical” party entertainment like bands and DJ’s, because people probably aren’t going to want to dance alone at home. But who doesn’t love a little holiday sing a long. We’re lucky enough to have a talented musician in our family whom we’ve recruited to lead the caroling

3. Unite with a gift circle.

Unlike a typical “gift exchange” a gift circle unifies the family or group as it starts and ends at the same point. Have each sender explain why they chose the gift and why they appreciate about the other person. Consider doing this in a fun order — by youngest to oldest or by geography!

4. Try virtual bar.

Shipping alcohol across state lines can sometimes be next to impossible, unless your family is mostly based in one state. A virtual bar is a great alternative as it allows for everyone to belly up to their computer with their favorite cocktail or mocktail and can be a great way to kick things off. When the “bar” opens, have family or friends show and describe their drink and why they chose it.

5. Get a personalized shout-out or Santa virtual visit.

From a Santa sighting to a celebrity shout-out, many options have developed for personalized shoutouts and drop ins. Does your family love a sporting, activity or TV show? Cameo is a platform where you can now book live appearances from your favorite celebrities to stop by during your holiday party to say hi. Virtual visits with Santa are just another offbeat thing about 2020 and still allow for personalization and a bit of traditional Christmas cheer. We may or may not have a special surprise lined up to close out the Lothe Virtual Family Christmas Eve — wait and see family! :)

Now, these ideas are certainly just scratching the surface. I’ve also had great luck recently with virtual team-building cooking classes and have heard great things about hosting your own virtual baking competitions, wine tastings, at-home scavenger hunt, or create your own sundae-making stations for the kiddos. With a positive attitude, some technical know-how, and a bit of creativity, the possibilities are endless, all from the comfort of everyone’s own home!