How To Give Head Like A Pro
Tags: Dating, Relationships, Sexuality, Erotica, Sex

If you believe giving head is “degrading” for women, save yourself the stress and stop reading now because this article is clearly not for you. This isn’t about morality.

Giving head to a man can be very awkward and to some people “nasty.” When you start looking at the penis like a popsicle or an ice cream cone, it makes learning easier.

Start by finding the right background song. A song that makes you feel invincible and sets the mood. Find a comfortable position so your legs don’t cramp up all in the name of pleasing someone. Slowly ease your way by nibbling on his ear, biting his neck, licking his nipples, kissing your way down to his abdomen, kissing his inner thighs and then diving right it. Guys love to be teased.

Pay attention to the Tip (crown)

This is the first and very important step when giving your man head. The tip of a man’s penis is one of the most sensitive parts. Start by kissing the tip, gently caressing it with your tongue and putting your whole mouth on it.

Important: Use your tongue >> your warm breath >> go slowly.

It needs to feel like you are French kissing the tip of the dick. Wet and warm. Twist your head in different ways around his penis and continue sucking on it.

While using your tongue to caress the tip, try going in a circular motion. Your lips should grip tightly on his penis so the friction feels better.

Be careful with the teeth

2. Use your hands

Your hand isn’t only for holding the man’s penis for support while giving head but also a good way to tease him. While sucking on his penis, use your left hand to stroke up and down and your right hand to lightly squeeze and play with his testicles (one ball at a time). It might be hard trying to do all three at the same time but if you get a hang of it, it is extremely easy.

Important: Give light strokes on the tip followed by one firm stroke down the shaft. Rub your fingers all over. It should feel like you are giving him a dick massage.

3. Don’t forget the testicles

When giving head, the testicles are often being left out and that is also a very sensitive part.

Also called the “Recess stage.” You know when your mouth and jaw hurts from all that sucking. You can stop and use your hands to play with his testicles. That way you are still pleasing him but also taking a break.

If you are very daring, you can also suck on the testicles (flick your tongue around it). If you don’t feel comfortable putting his testicles in your mouth, just use your hands.

Important: When sucking his testicles, keep stroking his dick. Don’t stop stroking.

4. Experiment

To spice things up, try giving him head with something cold or warm. You can experiment with ice cubes, mint, fizzy drink (coke), champagne, warm tea and ice cream. For starters, try using ice cube… You can put an ice cube in your mouth and suck his penis. This leads to fireworks and intense sensation.

5. Let your rhythms vary

You know how with sex, every stroke gets deeper? Well it is quite similar to head.

Start with the tip > then go a little further and further till you can’t take it anymore or you feel like you are about to gag (especially if you have a gag reflex).

Deep-throating doesn’t necessarily mean good head but it important too. Try going down at your own pace, there is no rush. If you aren’t comfortable taking everything, don’t let him force you. There are so many things you can do with your mouth. If this doesn’t work, switch it up quickly.

Important: Go slow >>> then fast >>> then slow again

You shouldn’t be predictable. Start by planting soft kisses on his penis to gagging on it to sucking on his balls and finally slithering your tongue down his penis.

Versatility is key

6. Sloppy head is the best head

Since your mouth is your pussy’s substitute (both warm and wet). You need to add a lot of saliva to the equation (not over the top but well lubricated)

Don’t give head with dry mouth.. If your mouth is dry, drink some water first to moisten it. If you are giving him head with dry mouth, the friction causes pain and discomfort to both you and the man. You can avoid this by spitting on the tip and using your mouth to spread it all over his penis. Your mouth needs to feel as good as your pussy feels.

You probably think this will look gross and messy but to be honest, guys love it and they think it is sexy.

Important: Wet and Sloppy

The messier, the better.

7. Enthusiasm

It shouldn’t feel like you are being forced to give him head. You should want this as bad as he wants it. You are on your knees because you personally want to please him and not because he wants it. It shouldn’t feel like a chore. Add some passion to it

Important: Make sounds (groaning and when slurping on his penis). It also proves that you enjoy it as well

8. Make eye contact

Some people believe eye contact while giving head can be really creepy but eye contact is literally looking at him enjoy the pleasures you are giving him. Indirectly you are getting to know what he likes just by staring at him. Pay attention to how he reacts to things you do to him (his body movements and moans)

Important: Don’t be afraid to stare

9. Don’t pressure him to cum

It can be extremely tiring pleasing a man that doesn’t want to cum.

If he hasn’t cum yet and you catch yourself getting tired and literally over everything, don’t panic. You can either try 69 or something else that can be more engaging. Don’t pressure him to cum because if you do, he won’t.

10. Swallow (Optional)

This is totally your call ladies. If you don’t feel comfortable with this, you aren’t obliged to let him cum in your mouth. If you do feel comfortable with this, the secret behind it is not tasting it but swallowing as soon as it gets in your mouth. This is where your imagination comes into play. Imagine it is ice-cream, yoghurt and swallow it like the big girl you are.

You get to decide… Spit or Swallow. Can’t go wrong either way

That is all.. So ladies, go please your man