How to Dilate Your Anus
By: Penelope Banks
Tags: Sexuality, Body, Sex, Sex Education, How To

These sex ed, how-to articles have become some of my most favorite articles to write. So I have another one for you here today. And today we’re talking about all about anal. Particularly how to dilate your anus safely and carefully.

It’s sort of like doing the splits. You generally can’t just do them without stretching. So that’s basically what you have to do. Let’s talk about it.

What Does It Mean to Dilate My Anus?

Basically, it means that you stretch out your anus so that you can have a more pleasurable experience with anal sex.

Why Should I Do This?

If you’re anything like me, and you love the idea of anal sex then you’re probably going to want to do this before you try it. Assuming you either haven’t already or you have, and it hurt really bad.

Because that’s what happens when you don’t properly prepare for anal. Things don’t usually go so well, and it’s all about pleasure right? It should be.

Is Dilating Safe?

It’s as safe as smoking a cigarette. No really, it’s as safe as anything else you do with proper care and instruction.

Is It Permanent?

Nope. As soon you stop doing it, it’ll bounce right back.

What Are Anal Dilators?

If you want to start anal training, anal dilators are a good place to start. They’re just like any other stretching tool, but you know for your butt. But you don’t have to use them, you can also use your finger (for starters), a normal butt plug, or a small dildo.

How Often Should I Do It?

Honestly, it all depends on how comfortable you are doing it. But I would say try to do it at least once a day if not once every other day for at least 10 minutes at a time. And don’t feel like you have to change sizes too quickly, do whatever you feel is best for you.

Should I Do Anything to Prepare?

Yes. This is important. Before you start dilating you should first see if you have to poop. Try to get everything out. And if you feel like you need a little more help getting it all out, try anal douching or using an enema to really help you get in there.

Once you’re all cleaned out and ready to go, I recommend using a good lube or anal ease to help you get started. Products like these help take some of the pressure off and allow you to have a better experience when you’re doing this.

And don’t be afraid to use as much as you need because remember this is all about your comfort. This isn’t about forcing anything or trying to get to a certain place as fast as you can. It’s all about ease and flow.

Will It Hurt? What if It Hurts?

While you may experience minor discomforts while penetrating your anus, this is why I recommend using lube or anal ease. It’s also good to focus on your breath and make adjustments as needed. If it’s actual pain you’re experiencing, I would recommend seeing a physician.

What Should I Do When I’m Finished?

One of the first things you should do when you’re finished is sterilize your dilator or whatever you’re using to dilate with. All material is different, so you’ll want to do this according to the product instruction manual.

After that, it’s all up to you baby. Have yourself a nice hot bath and pour yourself a drink (pour one for me too) and relax for the night. You’ve earned it.