How to control Anger in Relationship? Anger Management
By: Loneliness Partner
Tags: Motivation, Anger, Happy, Relation, Love

Many people say that we get angry a lot. Many times think not to get angry, but every time they fail. We also eat vows that we will never be angry now, but still very angry. Anger is something that can poison even in the most loving relationship. Anger first fills poison in our minds, then poisons in our lives, and finally poisons all over our world.

Welcome you all my readers! We all are human beings and anger is in our veins and it is a human nature. But the person who can control his anger and anxiety is called a gentleman. In this age of today, where we see humans, all find unhappy, all show their anger on each other as if it is our rightful birth. Let us assume that our human nature is like this, but the responsibility to control it is not that of nature, it is our responsibility.

So friends, in this post today we will know how to control anger, stress, Anxiety in a relationship? What are the anger issues, and how to manage short temper? and also What is Anger Management?

What is Anger?

Anger is an emotion of human being that can be dangerous for anyone. It can easily ruin relationship, life, mental power, etc.

A person who is angry remains unhappy even before anger, finds anger even when he is angry and remains sad even after anger. Doing the thought once, whenever we were angry, did we ever get happiness, comfort, and peace?

Will we allow anyone else to be angry with us, that he can tell us whatever he wants and can speak as he wants? No person can like the anger of anyone. So why would anyone accept our anger? Why would he like our anger?

A story for Anger Management

Once, a person went to his Guru Ji and said to his Guru that I feel very angry and because of that anger everyone in my house is upset with me. And because of that anger, I too have remorse and repentance, I could not see the sight of people. I speak such words in anger, which cannot be returned later.

We have to remember one thing, whatever words we say in anger, we may get their apology but the rest never forget those things. So we have to remember that whatever we say in anger, we will have to face those words throughout our life.

So he said to his guru that I am upset. I try hard but I do not lose my habit of anger. Then Guru Ji said that whenever you get angry, then remember one thing that I will do angry but tomorrow. I will not do it today. Whenever you get angry then just keep in mind that I will definitely do anger but not today. So after hearing this he said that this will calm my anger only a little.

I will get angry the next day too. Then Guru Ji said that once you do this, look at it.

Biggest Enemy of Human,

Anger

He went home and then he got angry on something, but he remembered his Guru. I will get angry but not tomorrow. Tomorrow is a distant thing; after a while, his anger subsided.

Anger, a poison

How to control it?

Anger is like a smoke, like a cloud which after a while goes ahead again. Just for a while, we have to wear that sobriety, just for a while we have to control it. But we cannot tolerate things.

Many people say that we do not get angry but people make us angry. Are we T.V? Whoever pressed any button of the remote, we started giving programs accordingly.

Why are we so light these days? It has become so easy to make anyone angry. And why is it so difficult to make anyone happy? Because this is our dirty habit.

We put the blame of every bad thing on someone else. Because of that. If it is not there will be someone else. We want the whole world to run according to us, people from all over the world follow us so that we do not get angry.

Everything in the world should change, every rule of the world should be changed, so that we do not get angry. But after changing all this, we will still get angry. Because the anger is really inside us. Other people serve only as a source to take out our anger.

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