Five Tips To Make Every Long Distance Relationship Work
By: Ibtisam Ul Haq Chaudhary
Tags: Lovestory, Long Distance, Long Distance Love, Lifestyle, Love

Most of you have come here because you already are in a long distance relationship or you are thinking about going into one.

Now that you are here to assure how you can make long distance relationship work, be assured that you are getting an expert advice because the person writing this article has successfully maintained a long distance relationship for over a decade and is now getting happily married to their adorable partner.

I will not go into other articles or videos that you may have come across and state 50 plus tips to make your long distance relationship work. I am only going to state Five Tips To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work & turn into a lifetime bond called marriage. These are the valid points that worked for my relationship and I believe they should work for any relationship.

Five Things or Habits To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work

1- Consistent Communication

You can never underestimate the importance of communication when it comes to long distance relationship. Communication is going to be your major need to make your relationship last forever.

Sometimes you may be stuck with a partner who loves you more than you do but they are not really into initiating the communication, hence you might need to take a charge over your communication routine.

Major points to consider for communication in long distance relationships would be as follows:

Do not rely on texts only routine where you both are just texting and you are skipping a week worth of time without having any video and voice calls.

Even if you both are working and have less time to maintain 24/7 communication, always try to hear each other over a voice call before you head to sleep. This will not only lessen your worry about them doubting about you making no time for them, but you will also sleep better, after all the person on the other side of phone matters the most to you.

Do not discuss only others when on call or texts. Try to have your own personal time when it comes to talking after a whole long day of work and no contact.

Share pictures on daily basis and never miss a chance to greet each other with morning and night messages. That way you both will know even if you could not talk properly on certain days, you were still thinking about each other at major times of day.

If you both ever have a disagreement, never ever try to sleep with anger in your mind and heart. You can fight out loud and cry blood tears. But make sure that you call each other and sleep with the call on even if you do not want to talk about the fight and stay silent. Never leave each other at times of arguments. Try to understand and always stay in touch and over the call especially when you just had a fight. A fight can never be important that your partner and your love for them.

2- Do Not Share Your Relationship’s Goods & Bads With Family And Friends

No matter how much you love and trust your sibling or how many years old friendship you have with someone. Never share the ups and downs of your relationship with anyone.

If you have any doubts you must talk to your partner about it rather than sharing it with people who are always ready to pick the negativity out of anything.

You must have had heard that people ruin beautiful things. So be careful!

You both should be enough for each other. If there are any arguments or doubts, sit down and solve it together rather than letting others ruining your relationship by giving advices based on their own failed experiences.

3- Always Trust Your Partner And Stay Loyal To Them Whilst You Two Are Apart

It takes two to clap. You can never expect for your partner to be loyal with you but try to flirt around yourself behind their back, thinking it is fine.

Your partner should be like your religion when in a relationship and you should be worshipping it with loyalty.

To be honest when you are really in love with the person, you will never want to look at anyone else and no one can take your heart away from your beloved partner.

Before expecting your partner to be loyal you must yourself be loyal to them behind their back and never ever consider about cheating them.

Not even in dreams I must say!

Trust and loyalty may have been the third tip but it is going to be the only things that will make your relationship last longer and eventually forever.

4- Plan For Your Future Together Without Wasting Any Time

If you two are serious about each other (that you should be, and if you are not then do not try to get into an LDR and ruin someone else's life for just experiencing LDR), then there should not be any reason for you both to not consider planning a future together. You must have an idea when or which year you both want to marry, how will things happen and how will you both start a life after saying yes and making vows for each other on your wedding day.

Please and please do not listen to others and think it is too early to discuss these things. If you two love each other truly and know that you both cannot live apart, then you must start planning your future.

Most of the couple fails in an LDR because they never planned their future and then they were surprised when they found out that it was too late for them to get together in a marriage. All the Asian couples can understand this. Our parents plan for our marriage even before we have been brought to this world.

Therefore based on your culture and tradition, you two must discuss and start making efforts for a proposal to both families years before marriage so that even if few of them are stubborn, you can fail them with persistent requests of letting you both get married.

If they still would not agree and you know it, then you must prepare for a solo wedding and prepare for it sooner so that no one can emotionally blackmail you making you think you and your partner were never prepared for future and there is no time so you both should get apart from each other.

Never forget to plan your future guys. Break the ice in your families years before the age they want you to get married at any cost.

With the end to my 4th tip, I would want you guys to know that there still is one tip left that will not be stated here.

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Best of luck with your LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS STORY!