Why don’t women love you? The truth is surprising 1
By: Mr Wang
Tags: Emotional Intelligence, Married, Male, Women, Sociology

Men and women already existed when human beings came to this earth. I don’t believe in certain myths that men are made from the hair of God, while women are made from the fingers of God. While the poor are made up by God playing with mud, the rich are God’s proud sculptures. Legends such as these are just uploaded in books and passed on by word of mouth. In fact, whether it is the legend of the formation of the caste system in ancient India, the legend of Nuwa in ancient China, or the legend of North American Indians, these are all myths fabricated by the ancients for teamwork. Analytically speaking, everything is to maintain current social development and stability.

Am I not saying the truth about why women don’t love this man? Why do you say this? In fact, if you really want to understand the occurrence of an event and the nature of the event, you must judge and interpret it through various factors in the society where it is located. To be clear, in fact, whether a woman loves you or not, this is a subject of sociology and anthropology. The love and hatred of women and men has always run through primitive society to the agricultural revolution, the industrial revolution, and the 21st century. Well, this is a very grand timeline.

In primitive society, human beings have been wandering on this earth, their purpose is only to survive, just to eat and then perfunctory. At that time, their bodies may still have a lot of body hair, because they have not yet mastered the use of fire, and all sources of protein and energy are raw meat and wild fruits. Of course, there were no hair machine at that time, and people without body hair were treated as monsters. If a man in that era wanted to court, probably you could capture a woman with a piece of meat and a piece of fruit. You see, how simple it is, there is no need to fawn over woman her too much, and even you can have multiple spouses. Although this woman does not like you very much, but you can bring her food, then this is a woman’s sense of security. Because society was full of dangers at the time, hunger came first, and you brought her food safety.

Human society has been developing, and for a long time before the agricultural revolution (about 30,000 years), humans gradually formed tribal team organizations. This kind of most embryonic social organization is distributed in forests and grasslands or the mountains on all continents of the world, As the tribe grew, there were old people, children, men, and women. Weak people need to be taken care of, children need to be raised, women are responsible for picking wild fruits, and men are responsible for hunting. And these tasks need to be assigned and managed, so a manager is needed in the team, then he is the leader of the tribe. This is the formation of the earliest power.In the tribe, many women like the leader very much. why? For example, as I said above, as a leader, of course he will enjoy more material, that is, he has more material than other people. But not every woman can be the spouse of the leader. In fact, in the tribe, through the cooperation of the team, great satisfaction has been achieved in terms of food, and even the remaining meat will be roasted so that it can be stored for a few days. On the basis of material guarantees, what kind of men do women like? At this stage, women already have more options. When they grow up, they will always pay attention to the men around them. They are born with a radar that can detect the men around them, which ones are stronger, which ones are more respected, which ones will like me, which ones are worthy of me to marry… …At this time you use a piece of meat to please her, it is no longer effective.

Yes, they like to think about it, and they will observe which man can hit more prey. This is a prerequisite. For example, today we said, whoever is richer will bring me a rich life, then I will marry him. But if men think about them this way, then you are wrong. This is not the only condition. Women are more complicated than you think. As I said above, tribal leaders will be liked by many women. Analyzed from the root cause, because the leader has a strong body, he can also lead and manage the team, and can lead everyone to resolve when in danger, and is very respected by others. Yes, women like materially rich men who are also very capable or powerful. However, this is only a psychological analysis based on social factors at the time.

In the 21st century, many of us are not wealthy or powerful. But their marriage is harmonious and happy. Of course, if you are a wealthy and capable person, then your quality of life is definitely better than ordinary people. But you may not be happy in your Love life or married life. Why is this happening?

Let me give an example: My friend Mr. Li is a very good programmer and a department head in the company. He told me last month that he was in love with a beautiful 26-year-old lady. But Mr. Li’s height is shorter than that of the lady, and he has never been confident. So in the process of pursuing, have been trying to fawn over her. They met for sushi last week. During the meal, the lady said that she wants to try to make sushi by herself and was preparing to buy tableware.

The lady said: I want to buy some special-shaped plate, so that they can match my family table.

Mr. Li said: We can go to the supermarket to choose in a while.

The lady said: I have taken a fancy to the IKEA style or the lvwoooden style on the Internet.

After speaking, the lady took the screen of the phone and showed it to Mr. Li.

Mr. Li said: The leaf-shaped plate of lvwoooden is more distinctive.

The lady said: I think it’s good too, but it will take 3 days to ship. I am so conflicted now, the day after tomorrow is already the weekend, and I don’t know which style to buy now.

Mr. Li smiled at the lady and said: Then I will go to IKEA with you this weekend.

At this time, the lady said nothing. Then they simply talked about work. After the meal, the appointment ended scribbled.

In fact, this is a very ordinary live dating conversation, I believe many men are familiar with it. Faced with the contradictory psychology of the lady, Mr. Li did not give a very good idea, nor could he mobilize the dating atmosphere. It was a failed date. Later, Mr. Li and I talked about this appointment. I suggest that he must have his own opinion in the face of this situation and lead the lady to make decisions. If you think lvwoooden’s brand is good, then you should firm up your ideas and don’t deviate from your wishes to fawn over the ladies. At the same time, mobilize the atmosphere when dating.

A week later, Mr. Li thought my suggestion was good, so he went to the official website of lvwoooden.com and bought a set of wooden plates for the lady. The lady was not very happy. After a while, the lady did not actually try to make sushi. The plate given by Mr. Li was used by her to hold sundries.

This is a problem that many of our brothers and male friends have encountered. In the current environment where there is no lack of material, you use the methods of primitive men to fawn over women. This is a great mistake. In fact, as we grow up, influenced by the TV dramas and other media around us, we have to insist on showing more love to women, to move her, keep buying gifts for her, contact her every day, fawn over , Begging, persuading her, etc., she still cannot be your girlfriend. Then you are still living a painful life.

Brother, don’t actually pursue women. You have to attract women.

Brother, wait for the next update when I have time~