How to Keep Your Sex Life Spicy: Marriage Edition
By: Ashley Hruby
Tags: Relationships, Love, Sex, Advice, Marriage

Toss the calendar

Couples tend to be all sexy and spicy in the beginning, and then that hot sauce slowly dwindles into a taco bell mild sauce. That’s normal.

Unfortunately, we are plagued with everyday rituals that get in the way of our sexy time. You have to make time for your partner without penciling them in after the kids bath and the last 30 minutes of that Hulu special.

Be spontaneous.

Be adventurous.

Oral

As far as oral goes, I like to experiment with my tongue and test my gag reflexes a little at a time (he’s not a small man).

The farther down my throat, the more intense his reaction. I heard a tip for this too.

If you make a fist and squeeze your thumb tight, somehow it’s supposed to open your throat. “It works for the most part” Just don’t get too far ahead of yourself. (Pun intended)

Some men may enjoy the gagging; even you may enjoy it. I’m not one who wants gagging…but he gave me an A for effort. And a fantastic orgasm for attempting a new feat.

As a female, I’m not sure what he does down there when he’s feasting, but when I feel something new, it’s shocking in the best way possible.

I love it when his tongue feels like it has a mind of its own. Only his mouth can make my body shake like an earthquake.

Foreplay

Once we have both had our fill, it’s time for him to stick it in. If the foreplay is amazing, which it should be if you’re expecting amazing sex.

Foreplay should be lengthy and pleasurable for both parties. For example,

Tend to each other orally.

Tease each other until you know the oven is preheated.

Take time to explore their body.

Just because you’ve been together forever, doesn’t mean you should let sex go stale.

Get creative with sex

I’m always wet enough to let his girth slide in nice and smooth. The way he fills me is intoxicating. I always want more. Whether we make love or fuck it out, he feels amazing deep inside me. And that’s because we pay attention to each other’s bodies.

Yet, we do get creative as well.

Now and then, we’ll add some extra fun, and I strongly advise trying a few of these simple tricks.

Hold a vibrator on your clitoris while he’s doing his thing. He feels like heaven, and the additional stimulant for you feels even more extraordinary. When your clitoris gets more and more stimulation, everything he does feels heightened by 10. You are bound to cum at least 2 extra times.

Add some guess work into the mix too. While your knees are by your face, hold on to his thighs, stopping him from getting his whole penis inside you as he wants to.

He wants to bust inside you, and you’re preventing him from getting as deep as he wants, and it drives him nuts.

Be sexy

This is the fun part. Just before you’re about to cum, look up at him and ask this simple question

“You want all the way in?”

I can guarantee the answer will be yes.

From here…add your own little twist. You can easily just let him all the way in, or you can make him beg. I highly suggest the begging…it’s way more fun.

Listen up, boys!

However boys, two can play at this game.

When you feel her tighten up…stop mid-thrust or even pull out altogether. Make her squirm; she wants to cum as much as you want her too. When you finally let her flow free, it will be one extremely stunning orgasm. The kind that makes her body have those sexy aftershocks.

Remember though, if you’re a larger man and you are lucky enough to go balls deep, use that to your advantage.

Play with her clit while you thrust so her vagina will open up a little more for you and your python. The more stimulated, the more her pussy can take.

New aspects in the bedroom may also lead to better elements. After we started new stuff in that area of the relationship, it got better in other areas too. We even cuddle more, just to cuddle.

Bringing sexy back has benefits sexually, mentally, and emotionally.

Just one more thing…Try taking a shower together. You clean him, and he cleans you…wash each other’s hair and back. It may lead to a brand new sex spot for you. *wink*

Climax

There is no reason to put sex on the back burner, let alone let sex get stale like old wonder bread.

Don’t forget why you married that person to begin with.

It wasn’t just their looks.

Even if you don’t or can’t have sex all the time, try teasing each other. Send sexy texts, write erotic letters.

Make sure you spice up your lives . You will thank yourself later for trying new things and testing your limits. You never know if you never try.