Gratitude is the Best Attitude
By: Gurpreet Dhariwal
Tags: Gratitude, Essay, Sacred Feminine, Prompt, Queens Children

Gratitude is the Best Attitude

Take this token of appreciation from my heart to yours and know that I love you for who you are.

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Recently Jean Carfantan tagged me in one of the posts urging the writers to share their kind encounter with any person or an event that changed something in them. While thinking about this gesture of kindness I realized it’s my time to pay back to each one of you.

I have been writing on Medium since March 2020 and I never stopped sharing my heart-out. But without my audience, nobody would have dared to hear my voice. But you all did. So, take this token of appreciation from my heart to yours and know that I love you for who you are. Your presence matters a lot to me. Your words enlighten my day. I write because I hear and I am grateful for you accepting me with all your heart.

To start with…

Annelise Lords is an amazing writer whose write-ups have made big difference in my life. I have always seen her writing a lot on life, kindness, fairness, and the truth of life. She has shown me a world that I used to dream of as a teenager. Her words always bring a smile to my face and make me realize I am not alone in my battles.

Anne Bonfert I came across this beautiful girl while reading about her journey in Africa. She is a hardcore nature lover and a solo traveler. Her world revolves around her camera with which she clicks such mesmerizing pictures that you wouldn’t dare to take your eyes off them. She writes in simple yet heart-warming language. I am a huge fan of your work girl.

Agnes Louis I have recently started reading her huge articles and I crave them almost every day. She writes about everything under the skin of the sky. I have entered her world via her words. She lost her mother and I can feel the love she still holds in her heart for her. I equally admire her knowledge of fitness, health, mind, body, and soul. Her stories are based on the real loss, life of people, and opening my eyes to the atrocities of this world.

Allison Gaines I wasn’t reading her work because I didn’t know she was around on Medium. I came across her profile when I saw her comment on one of my articles. I went back to her profile and started reading her amazing words on inequality, injustice, and inhumanity of people all around the world. I admire her because she is authentic, shares personal life experiences, and urging the world to be kind to each other.

Amy Marley Her tagline is “Thank you for being you”. I have also got one nickname i.e. Chica from her. I love her for being so real and always encouraging me with her true words. She is down to earth, heart-winning, and an amazing soul. This I can say after reading her poems with which she always tells a story and it makes me realize this world is so full of positive and creative people. Never change Amy. I love you the way you are.

Aurora Eliam, CMP She has always amazed me by writing on topics that I could have only dreamed about in my life. I love the way she pens down inspirational authors and their wisdom. I always get to learn something new by reading her personal experiences and the way she looks at things in her life. She is a great observer and that’s what makes her my soul friend.

Bridget Webber I would call Bridget an extremely wise soul the way she writes poems on nature, love, and life. Also, her articles on personal development to tackling complex relationships tell me there was a reason to connect with her on this platform. Her words have healed me in many ways and I will always be thankful for the beauty she weaves into words.

Dr. Christine Bradstreet I want to thank you for giving my babies a place in your publication when I was new on Medium. I was trying hard to crack my luck somewhere and it was you who accepted me with an open heart, mind, and soul. I submitted many articles way back in March and April to your publication Change Your Mind Change Your Life. I have received a new writing prompt on kindness from you and I will be submitting something on it for sure.

Chris Hedges is one of my most favorite writers here on Medium. I became her friend easily because I have found her quite approachable, generous, and charming. I became an editor on her publication named “Red Curtain Erotica” and soon after that I joined her another publication “Fortune Favors The Bold”. She makes me feel like a family and I want her to tell stories until she turns 100 and even after that I wouldn’t want her to stop writing at all.

CR Mandler MAT I am so fortunate that I came across someone like Chelsea. I love her to the core because she is generous, warm, and passionate in her life. These are the qualities that attract me a lot to other people. After interacting with her over video calls I realized she is my long-lost soul friend from some other birth and finally God made us meet in this birth. Read her work and you will become her fan just like me.

Carolyn Riker is not just a poet and writer but an extremely kindhearted human being. I first started reading her work on medium and after that, I read her poetry book. I couldn’t complete that book in one sitting because I wanted to rejoice in her words which were telling me to take a path of peace and serenity in life. I followed her words and here I am still alive and kicking stupid people out of my life. Thank you Carolyn for being my friend and raising me back from the ashes.

Chirag I find her stories of 50 words highly amusing and she has a great knack for writing them leaving you with a great lesson at the end. I have always found myself tagged by her on Twitter and I appreciate that gesture of remembering me while writing very much. I would recommend her work to everyone who has forgotten to laugh once in a while.

Charlotte Zobeir Ali I love her humorous articles, poetic poems, and learnings of life. The recent article I read on Trump moving out of the White House made me laugh and it was surely a slap on all those people who were still seeking this demon to return as a President. I equally admire her for showcasing the work of others by announcing Woscars here on Medium and you would get to know about many writers you never read before.

Darrin Atkins I love his articles because they are crisp and short. But they have a lot to offer you and you realize while reading them that’s something relatable to your life too. I love his poetry and love for Indian food. I recently loved his poetry on trip vacation and how he wrote another one on a romantic relationship. You can visit his profile and would find plenty of reasons to read more of his work like me.

Dennett Take my humble thanks for giving me a place in your publication weeds and wildflowers. The day I joined it I felt so calm and peaceful from inside. My work was not only accepted but read by many and I was thrilled to read your comments always on my work. You are an awesome person raising people by the power of words. I will always be grateful to you for raising me many times without knowing in the first place that I was down and depressed.

Dr Mehmet Yildiz I would say he is one of the most intelligent, highly professional, and wise writers here on Medium. I can still recall the day when I was asked to be a part of the Illumination publication in March. I was sure that I would want to write for illumination. I have never faced any issue till now on his publication rather the way people have showered their love and affection on me is remarkable. Sir, my interview is still pending from your side, please write the answers soon and let me share it with the world.

djemal ua is a Great haiku Master. I love his haiku poetry that always leaves me with spellbound thoughts. I wish I could write haikus like him. I came across his profile while reading only haikus and since then I knew I would want to return to his work again. I share his work on Twitter as well. Please visit his profile if you haven’t till now and you would fall in love with his poetry.

Desiree Driesenaar is a nature lover, poet, and enthralling writer. I have learned a lot from her about nature, the universe, and different people. She has been sharing her stories on traveling to different places and how she has always come up with solutions to save this world for a better future. I am her fan because in this world where patriarchy rules a woman is standing on her own to fight all odds to change the game for the betterment of others. God bless you, my friend.

Elisabeth Khan I came across her profile when I was reading a poem on Hyderabad and I realized she is the one who has written it. I started reading more of her work and I interviewed her too. She is a highly humble, beautiful, and inspiring soul. I am connected to her via LinkedIn and Instagram too. I have always seen a positive person in her and her work is motivational.

FILZA CHAUDHRY I get tagged by this beautiful soul whenever she writes a poem in her publication Heart Revolution. I am always amazed at her observation of writing the true reality of this world. Be it about life, government, or relationship she always writes straight from the soul and I am always in awe of her work. Keep penning always, my friend.

Francine Fallara She is my soul sister from another mother. I came across her while writing on BlueInsights publication and she was always so helpful in editing my work. She was humble, approachable, and wise. She once helped me in writing a poem on Spring prompt. I am connected with her on Facebook and Instagram. I am equally happy to be a part of her other publication Music Voices. I would want you guys to start writing for the love of music there.

Genius Turner Thank you for reading my work and adding your valuable remarks whenever possible. I have seen you encouraging me on my poems and articles and that means a lot to me more than words would ever convey.

Geetika Sethi Thank you for being my friend honey. I love your poetry and articles too. I am excited to hear the announcement of your book and I would want to grab the copy when it comes. Keep writing always and thanks for making this platform so positive and soulful.

James Finn Take a bow from me because your articles make me believe that cunning people are everything in this world and we just need to find the right ways to fight against them. Your stories emerging from personal experiences and otherwise sometimes make me cry and I feel for all the people who have been losing everything because of others. Please keep sharing those stories because there is a voice that needs to be heard and that’s yours is what makes it so unique and loud.

Jean Carfantan You are my friend from miles away Jean. I have been your fan since day one and loved your poems on the universe, science fiction, and dreams. I equally love your articles that took me to another world along with your characters. I am happy to be a part of your publication Queens Children.

John Ross You are an amazing poet John and an equally great storyteller. I have been reading your poems and articles for a good 6 months and I have always admired your work. You never hesitate to share your real emotions and that’s how it should be. Please never change yourself no matter what.

J.D. Harms Your hands are blessed with a magical spell. I read your poems and I am always like he got to say a lot and that’s coming straight from his soul. Never stop writing my friend and thank you for making me a part of the Scrittura family. I love writing there and connecting with you all. You are real and authentic and that’s what counts the most.

Dr John Rose I loved interviewing you Sir and your answers opened a different vision to the world. I visit your profile often and read the poetry too. Thank you for sharing your positive and inspiring words with all of us. Stay blessed always.

Kevin Buddaeus Oh my goodness I am going to write about you. I am just kidding. He is one of the best writers here on Medium. He never minces his words and always writes straight to the point. I love his bold and straight forward attitude. I have always found myself like him in many of his articles and I would want you all to read his work too. He knows the way to raise you back to life with his words.

Kira Dawn I am dancing while writing about you my Gorgeous Mess. Guys, she is one of the boldest, generous, and full of wisdom women here on Medium. I can recall how I connected with her in March while reading one of her poems. I knew since then we are going to be the best of best friends because What I read emerged straight from her soul. She is a sweetheart because she admits what she is and she is a great believer in the love of Jesus. I admire her and would never want her to be changed ever.

Karen Madej is an amazing soul because she is always open to new ideas, learnings, and sharing her personal life stories without any fear and shame. I admire her work because I get to learn a lot from her. I see myself in her at times because when life breaks you down into pieces how you hit it back that’s what courage is all about. This is what I have seen in her words too. Thank you Karen for being my friend and always being by my side.

Keno Ogbo I came across Keno via Twitter when she was coming up with her website Tiny Life Moments. I started writing a story inspired by true events in life in 120 words. Keno was so helpful, humble, and approachable. She always published my stories on time and gave me proper feedback. I didn’t know at that time she was on medium too. After reading my article on 25 questions and answers she started writing on medium too. It was a great experience to know her and I adore her a lot like my friend and a caring guardian.

Kern Carter Thank you Kern for inviting me as one of the participants in the CRY Event this year. I am humbled and touched by your kind gesture. Also, then, I didn’t know you write quite regularly here on Medium, and now when I am reading your work I am equally admiring the power of your words too. I read your book ‘Beauty Scars’ and I adore the characters a lot. Keep penning always.

Lanu Pitan Health is wealth and who could preach this better than our dearest Lanu. I love her articles because I am a fitness freak and healthy diet practitioner. I don’t take myself for granted at all. She has been writing sincerely on health-related choices we make a day in and out and how healthy we are from the inside. If we take her articles seriously we can make small amendments in life that would last a lifetime for sure.

Luba Sigaud I am fascinated by her work. I admire her beauty of words in relationships, life, career, etc. I have been missing her work a lot because she has been busy with her studies but she has promised me to come back to writing once her term is over. I seek a lot of inspiration in her articles and it reminds me that I am reading a beautiful soul.

Martine Weber She is my soul sister, friend, and guardian angel in life. I am so fortunate that our path crossed via Medium. She pours soul into words and delivers to us as a magical ball. I am equally fond of her music and I always listen to it whenever she shares a new video with us. It’s my way of reconnecting to the universe. I seek a lot of guidance from her and I am so happy that someone like her exists in my life.

Myriam Ben Salem She reminds me of my scars, flaws, and acceptance of all with a huge hug. Her articles make me smile and believe me they work wonders for me. I have started seeing myself with an entirely different perspective because all my life I was blaming myself while dating assholes now I know who was wrong and who wasn’t. Please do read her work and you will see the beauty in this world.

Michael Ritoch I am his huge fan. I love reading his poetry and personal experience articles. His daughter was diagnosed with cancer and it amazes me how his whole family has fought that war against cancer without losing themselves. That’s highly commendable for me because I have seen families falling apart when tragedy strikes them. He has been an inspiration to me. His domestic violence childhood experience made me realize that I wasn’t alone in my childhood either.

Michele Thill She is such a positive and gracious soul that I feel my world is enlightened with her presence. I see a lot of familiarity between us and her ways of guiding women to move out of their everyday routine to build something astounding makes me fall in love with the beauty of her soul. I wish more and more women connect with her as her words are true healers.

Muhammad Zunair I came across his work while reading an article on one of the web series which he watched and reviewed here. His knowledge is huge and he keeps on sharing his personal experiences too. I love his poetry as well. I wish him everything the best in life. He is a young chap who has a long way to go. I loved interviewing him long ago.

Melissa Bee Bee is a special writer who has a lot of empathy towards others. She is always generous and leaves kind remarks on others’ work too. What attracted me to her was her writing. I connected with her on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Since then I never looked back and motivated her a lot because she deserves all the appreciation in this world.

Manasi Diwakar I am a huge fan of her poetry and Mandala Artwork. She is an artist in the true sense. I would say you must read her work because she has been showcasing the great culture of India and wisdom about life via her words. I am connected to this great soul via Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook.

Nicole Linke It was a chain of depression articles that made me read his work back to back. He has shared some overwhelming personal experiences and I felt like that was my story too. If we look around we all have got a story to tell. I am so glad I came across his and later on I connected with him via Facebook and Twitter. Stay blessed Nicole and I look forward to reading more from you.

Noma Dek She has turned into a great friend after interactions in the comment section of my articles. I equally love her words as well. Her encouragement is never-ending and I would say she is a genuine soul. Please do read her work on how she has been raising her son alone and how it felt like growing up as a kid. I loved those hard experiences of her life because that has only made her stronger and wiser in life.

Pierre Trudel My Favorite Louise is an amazing haiku poet. She keeps on spreading the love and positivity everywhere around her. I get big lessons in life to learn from her because I am also like her in my thoughts. I always believe kindness should be a religion instead of any political games and agendas. Thank you Louise for being you. I adore you.

Pavane Ravel That’s my sweetest Twitter friend. I didn’t know that she was a part of medium too. But a few days ago I read her comment on one of my articles and I went back to reading her work too. I admire her soul because she always feels valued whenever I tag her on Twitter. I have never seen her frustrated and I love reading her sweet tweets to me. Never change Pavane because this world needs more and more people like you.

Priyanka Srivastava I admire her work for writing poems on poetry and poet. It amazes me because being a poet I never thought about what goes inside the mindset of a poet while writing a poem. I find her work highly creative, inspirational, and astounding. Keep writing my friend. You are weaving our emotions in your words. She is a part of the publication of Literary Impulse.

Thomas Plummer What a great artistic writer he is! I don’t read his poems I flow with them. I always find myself glued to his poetry because he is always telling a story via them. I wish more and more young generation read his work and realize the true value of emotions, love, and life. I am your huge fan my friend and I will always be inspired by you.

Rasheed Hooda He has turned into a great friend over time. I am stunned by his life experiences and his journey on the car of eleven number that’s his legs from Chicago to Santa Monica. I keep on receiving the tagged articles and his words always make me smile. I wish you a healthy life and more journeys like this one, my friend.

R Tsambounieri Talarantas I love what she writes. Be it poetry or stories I am always like when will I learn to write like her? She is an amazing soul who has many layers hidden beneath her skin. She let us explore those layers one by one by her words. I will always be your fan, my friend. Never stop writing because this world is seeking hope and your words have shown me that.

Rebecca Romanelli I respect you a lot soul sister. Your write-ups always make me believe in humanity more. The stories nurtured with personal experiences inspire me a lot and I wouldn’t want you to stop writing ever. Take my words as a token of appreciation.

Riku Arikiri Riku keeps on sharing articles with me via Twitter and I am always like you are an amazing writer Riku. The choice of topics, the writing style, and word choice makes me believe in Riku’s journey of wisdom and life a bit more. I want you to write forever Riku and please start writing your book too. You have an amazing scope of being a published writer, my friend.

Sherry McGuinn I call her lioness and she calls me a tigress. We were friends since day one on Medium. I love her bold approach in writing articles and never hesitating at all in saying her heart-out. I always look forward to reading her work and we are connected via Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. I am a part of her rebellious and so true to heart publication Rogue’s Gallery too.

Suraj Ghimire I have known Suraj for over a decade now. We used to write on the website Mouthshut.com and I never knew that I would come across him via Medium. That’s the sign from the universe that good writers never stop writing. I love his articles on guiding others about how to make use best of the best things around them. His approach is simple yet inspiring. I am happy to write for his publication that was earlier This Shall Be Our Story but now it is known as Dreams & Stories.

Somsubhra Banerjee His way of writing poetry is quite creative and motivational. I never knew the different kinds of poetry that existed before reading his work. I would want you to read his work that usually comes from cultural inspiration and personal life experiences too. I am your fan, my friend. Keep writing always. He is a part of the beautiful publication Literary Impulse.

Sherry Kappel I would say Sherry has been my haiku trainer in the initial days. I am her fan because she never got angry and taunted me while teaching me how to write haikus. This is one of the most commendable features of Sherry because I am a writer who didn’t know anything about Haikus before joining Medium. Thank you Sherry for being so lovable and encouraging towards me.

Selma Oh my lady! Take a bow for wishing all of us miracles and trust me since the day I read you were wishing them so openly miracles started happening in my life. I read her book Wanted: Husband/Handyman on Kindle and I was in awe of her words. She is an amazing writer and an equally beautiful soul who never hesitates to inspire and shower love on you. I want you to write more stories and with this note, your next story has been downloaded by me last night and I will be reviewing it soon.

Shin Jie Yong I am thankful to you for writing such amazing articles on topics that I didn’t even know existed in the first place. While reading your work my knowledge has been drastically enhanced on depression, Covid, anxiety, and a lot more other diseases and health issues. Earlier I was like I cannot understand it but as they say the more you do it the more you get used to it. That’s what happened while reading your amazing work. Thank you for imparting your knowledge, my friend. You rock big time.

Suzanne V. Tanner I once received her beautiful email where she wrote lots of things to me. I admire her for that because in this cunning world we come across very few people who always raise us back and show us that they truly care for us. She is one of those beautiful souls around me. I have read her work very less but I hope I get more time in reading all of her work. Thank you for being my friend Suzanne.

Sherry S I have recently seen that she is back to Medium again and I have never been so happier than this. I am reading her inspiring work once again and getting to read her beautiful remarks on my work too. She is real and inspiring. She has always made me feel comfortable around her and for that, I will always be grateful to almighty.

Tom Byers He is one of all-time sweetest friends here on Medium who has taken a break because Medium itself looks like a full-time job. Trust me, if I would be working full-time again I wouldn’t be here for long and that’s one of my biggest fears too. I have loved reading his true stories that originated from his real life and personal experiences. I would want to read more from him and via this article, I want to say you have been missed, Tom.

Timothy O'Neill I have read his poetry so apparently written on depression and anxiety. I go through this a lot and reading his work was like relating to myself and telling my broken self it’s time to gear up and the whole world is waiting for you out there. Thank you for being so authentic and real in your work Timothy. It means a lot to me.

Trista Ainsworth I have been traveling to different places and meeting different people via Trista. Her 100 days journey has inspired me to be more grateful for the life that I have and there is no way that I am going to be surrounded by negative thoughts anymore. She is a beautiful and inspiring soul who always comes back with one article or another to share her daily journey of life and it always makes me want to read her a bit more. I wish her all the best and a few days ago I realized she has written a book too named Recipes for a Cheery Life: Gluten-Free Brunch. I am sending you all the blessings in this world Trista.

Terry Mansfield He is my humorous and most generous friend on Medium. His poetry and articles are hilarious and sometimes I wish I was his neighbor. His wife and his cat are my favorite too. A few weeks ago he wasn’t keeping well and was hospitalized. I am so glad to see that he is back and posted pictures of him clicking by his wife. I am wishing you a healthy and sane life ahead my friend.

Tre L. Loadholt Tre is a sweetheart and I can say that after meeting Jernee (Her Beautiful Dog) via pictures. I became a part of her publication A Cornered Gurl and I always feel like I am home when I share my poetry there. She is a great soul who never gets angry while teaching me different facets of the English Language. It has been a great learning experience with her so far. Moreover, she has become a part of my virtual family and I always look forward to interacting with her via Gmail, Twitter, and Medium. I love you Tre.

Vishnu*s Virtues He has recently become my great friend and we are connected via Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. I have interviewed him already and it was a great learning experience to read his book named How do I get Unstuck: Overcome Internal Resistance. He has been a great writer who has been sharing his personal experiences that emerged out of divorce and how Indian Aunties throughout the world never let you leave alone because they are always worried about your happiness of being a single man or a woman. I admire his work because he never talks bullshit and delivers me the food the exact way I was seeking in the first place along with the beautiful dressing.