His Secret Obsession Review (2021): Is it Worth the Money?
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This is going to be my honest review on his secret obsession for 2021, is it really worth the money? First let’s start with who the author is.

Who is James Bauer?

James Bauer is a bestselling author and predominant relationship coach.

A trained psychologist and later became a professional relationship coach. He’s worked with thousands of men and women to help strengthen their relationships for the past 12 years.

By carefully studying their cases, James Bauer revealed what he believes is the secret to deep, passionate and long lasting relationships: the hero instinct.

Based on his own personal experience as a therapist and his research into human psychology, he uses that as his methodology.

James refined all of this knowledge into his most recent book, His Secret Obsession.

So, I read the book myself from top to bottom and decided to give my verdict on it here.

One of the leading difficulties faced by women in relationships is getting their man to commit.

In his best-selling book, His Secret Obsession, relationship expert James Bauer claims to have solved it for you.

How?

By aiding you to trigger his hero instinct.

If you haven’t come across the hero instinct yet, it’s a new concept in relationship psychology that’s generating a lot of buzz at the moment.

I wanted to see whether the book lives up to the hype. So I decided to buy it and give you my honest opinion.

Read my epic His Secret Obsession review to find out.

What is His Secret Obsession?

His Secret Obsession confronts 3 big relationship problems:

1. Why men lose interest in a woman after the initial attraction wears off

2. Why men are reluctant to commit long term, even when the early signs of relationship are so promising

3. Why men pull away suddenly and stop communicating with their partners.

James Bauer claims that men have instinctive needs when it comes to relationships, even if they are not consciously aware of them.

That he calls the hero instinct.

The hero instinct boils down to that men want to live meaningful lives and be appreciated for their efforts.

In short, men want to be a hero to the woman they’re in a relationship with. Now this is the part where the woman ignites that instinct to the fore.

Because a man is drawn to any woman who makes him feel like a hero and he gets reluctant to commit when he doesn’t feel that way.

According to James Bauer, triggering the hero instinct will help you to:

Get your man to commit to you and gain his love and devotion over the long term

Strengthen the bond you already have, no matter how cold and distant he’s become

If you’ve been through a break up, rekindle his interest in you and get him to chase you again.

And these are very bold claims.

The hero instinct: What’s my take on it?

The hero instinct is unquestionably a mesmerising take on what drives men romantically, the way men approach dating and relationships.

This here is most definitely thought provoking. James claims that men are actually pretty simplistic.

Men want to feel like heroes. He argues that it goes back to our primal nature to provide for women, protect them, and to feel essential to them.

No doubt there is a lot of truth to it.

Look at this. You are kind. You have plenty to offer, and the last thing you would expect in your life is for a hero to come sweep you off your feet.

And that’s the whole point. You don’t need one, but you sure as hell can let your man be that for you every now and again.

You’re good on your own. But your man needs to have a purpose in your life as well, don’t you agree?

He needs to know that you do need him to some extent, otherwise, what’s the point? And he really desires to feel like he’s the one you’ll call when you’re in need, without thinking twice.

In fact, he knows you can do it on your own. All he needs is to show you that you don’t have to do everything by yourself and spread yourself so thin. He got you.

This course has the power to completely transform your relationship because it shows you how to remove the biggest issues men have with relationships. The secret is to channel his existing drive so they serve your relationship.

It teaches you how to channel his secret obsession.

There are massive options to choose from, either you want to read online, listen to the audio, a 7 day workbook and crazy bonuses. One of your free bonuses is “why men shut women out” by Slade Shaw.

There’s also a unique secret community to join where you get answers to any questions you might have regarding your love life.

How much does it cost?-His Secret Obsession Review (2021): Is it Worth the Money?

His Secret Obsessionis $47. Included in the price is the 200+ page main eBook, workbook and bonus materials.

Now, $47 for a book may raise a few eyebrows. However, James Bauer put a lot of work into it and accompanying resources so I can understand the price tag.

I’ve also noticed that a few websites are selling black market copies of the book.

To ensure you’re getting an original copy that includes all the bonus materials, as well as your 60-day money back guarantee, grab it from the official website.

The pros of His Secret Obsession

Just as with anything, there were things I really liked about His Secret Obsession and a few things that weren’t as good.

Let’s begin with the good.

Your one stop shop dating book . With over 200 pages and crazy bonus materials, you have sincerely everything you need to succeed in your relationship. Discovered a lot about how women should approach dating and relationships and, amazingly, I also learned some things about myself.

. With over 200 pages and crazy bonus materials, you have sincerely everything you need to succeed in your relationship. Discovered a lot about how women should approach dating and relationships and, amazingly, I also learned some things about myself. Everything is practical . James Bauer talks about the things women can do to trigger a man’s hero instinct. Check out the exact phrases, texts, and little requests you can make.

. James Bauer talks about the things women can do to trigger a man’s hero instinct. Check out the exact phrases, texts, and little requests you can make. Methods are research based . His claims are backed up by the latest research in psychology. For instance, each time he talked about why a man wants to feel like a protector or how a woman “claiming” you is a turn on for a guy, it’s backed up with evidence.

. His claims are backed up by the latest research in psychology. For instance, each time he talked about why a man wants to feel like a protector or how a woman “claiming” you is a turn on for a guy, it’s backed up with evidence. Although there were a few times I thought something may not always work on me, the reasoning behind it was always compelling.

Easy to download . Because His Secret Obsession is an eBook, you don’t have to wait to get it in the mail. You can start reading it right now.

. Because His Secret Obsession is an eBook, you don’t have to wait to get it in the mail. You can start reading it right now. Money back guarantee. Not everyone will love every dating guide out there, but with this one, there’s no risk. With a 60-day money back guarantee, there’s not really anything to lose out on.

The cons

Just as much as I enjoyed reading it, it’s not just as perfect. Here are its cons.

Treating all men the same . This is a personal thing, but I found the tone of writing a little condescending at times. Now, it could be because I was reading it as a guy and not a woman. But there were times it seemed like he was painting all men with the same brush. Lol.

. This is a personal thing, but I found the tone of writing a little condescending at times. Now, it could be because I was reading it as a guy and not a woman. But there were times it seemed like he was painting all men with the same brush. Lol. It’s only on eBook/audio . Maybe for you, a true book is a paperback. But His Secret Obsession is only available by eBook and audiobook. I read the eBook from cover to cover but I also tried listening to the audiobook. The voice was calm and confident.

. Maybe for you, a true book is a paperback. But His Secret Obsession is only available by eBook and audiobook. I read the eBook from cover to cover but I also tried listening to the audiobook. The voice was calm and confident. Price. For an eBook, the price of $47 is more than most. Though it’s not a ton of money, it’s still something you need to consider. His Secret Obsession Review (2021): Is it Worth the Money? I guess you got the answer now huh! 🙂

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