How to Use the AWARE Method to Cope With Crippling Anxiety
By: Jyoti Meena
Tags: Anxiety, Psychology, Self Care, Self, Mental Health

The AWARE Technique

Dr. Dave Carbonell, a Clinical Psychologist with a specialization in anxiety-related disorders, has formulated a 5-step process to help individuals calmly deal with anxiety.

He has adopted these steps, based on a professional text titled Anxiety Disorders and Phobias: A Cognitive Perspective by Beck, Greenberg, and Emery.

The five steps to AWARE are as following.

Step 1: Acknowledge and Accept

In the first step, Carbonell asserts that you need to acknowledge the fact that you are having an anxiety attack. Ignoring it would not help in dealing with the anxiety.

Any fear and nervousness happening in the present moment need to be accepted. However, acceptance doesn't mean that you need to tell yourself that you are in any life-threatening danger.

Allow yourself to feel the anxiety, however, do not let it turn into something it is actually not.

Here I acknowledge the present reality, that I’m afraid and starting to panic. I won’t try to ignore it or pretend it’s not there. I won’t struggle to distract myself, tell myself to “stop thinking about it!”, or snap rubber bands on my wrist.

As you feel the anxiety creep in, do not fight the feeling. Scan your body and see how you feel. Then tell yourself about it as it is. Do not ignore or run away from it.

Accepting the symptoms is a powerful step to overcoming anxiety.

Step 2: Wait and Watch

In the next step, don't do anything. Even though anxiety could be a scary feeling, resist moving away for as long as you can.

Instead of running away to relief, let the relief come to you.

As you wait, watch yourself. Observe yourself and how you are feeling at the moment. Here, you are not only casually going over your symptoms, but also making a mental note of that.

Carbonell suggests using a panic journal for this purpose. In this, you record all the information about the anxiety, ranging from the symptoms to the thoughts and behaviors before and after the anxiety.

According to him, his patients report that just filling out a diary helps them to calm down.

It helps you get a little distance from your emotions. It works because, while you complete a diary, you’re in the role of an observer, rather than feeling like a victim.

If not a physical dairy, you can also use your phone’s notes app and jot down the symptoms and the before/after of the anxiety attack.

Step 3: Actions

Once you pass the first and second step, the third step is to do something about the anxiety. Things you could do in this stage are.

Depending on your personal preference, you can try any one or all of the relaxation techniques.

Step 4: Repeat

There is a possibility that you might only feel a temporary sense of relief. However, when the anxiety starts coming back, all the efforts might appear futile.

As quoted by Carbonell,

“The Repeat step is here to remind you that it’s OK if that happens. Just take it from the top again.”

When the anxiety comes back, repeat the previous steps again. Keep on doing this till the anxiety stops coming back, entirely or in the same intensity.

Step 5: End

The final step is to remind you that every anxiety attack ends. Even if it appears to be never-ending at that point in time, however, it would eventually come to an end.

Remind yourself that the anxiety would come to an end. Remember the last time you had the same anxiety attack and it did come to a stop after some time.