6 Golden Rules To Love And Respect Yourself.
By: Iqra Afzal
Tags: Peace, Motivation, Self Love Courage, Self Value, Self Respect

How To Value & love Yourself?…..

Self love is really important to value yourself

The era we are living in has taught us 3 things just to live. Shut up and forgive ..I know that it is good to be patient and keep quiet but if anything is done more than the limit, then you have to suffer loss.Whether it is a woman or a man, they have their own self-esteem and they should also have their self-esteem important.But as it is our way of progress, especially women, we have to remain silent, no matter what we pass on.No one understood your value until you had created the value yourself

”Your life was treated as you treat yourself”

If no one treats you the way you want, then you start treating yourself. I bet you will see a lot of change in yourself, your personality will change. People come to life, they go away and give some good memories, and some are taught, we should learn from every moment of life.. The things we learn from people help us to be good people..

There are some rules that can help us fall in love with ourselves and help ourselves in the value factor.

The first rule is Understand Your Self…..

Understand Yourself…..

The first thing that is necessary in the love of self and the value of self is how much we consider ourselves…If we started recognizing ourselves what we are and what we want from our life, then we will be able to do something for ourselves.Then ,we will work on those things to make ourselves happy.Do what you love in life..If you want people to understand you,give importance to your things, then for that first you have to understand yourself and have to give importance to your own things.

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind”

The second rule is Learn to forgive yourself…

Learn to forgive yourself….

We are human beings and mistakes are made by humans .Accepting mistakes is very good quality. Living in the same mistake of error destroys a person from inside.Most of people ruin their whole life behind any one mistake, I ask why?God has given us life once in which we will do good deeds and will also make mistakes.Nobody’s perfect as a human we are imperfect. so we should learn from our mistakes and move on.Give yourself to recognize things.Allow yourself to understand things until we go to the depth of things, understand them, then how we learn from them?It is not a bad thing to learn from mistakes,but yes repeating the same mistake again and again becomes a loss for us..Have a conversation with your inner critic,this thing will help you in making the right decision.When you are successful in forgiving yourself, then you will be able to move from your past, then you will find that there was a lot of positiveness waiting for you..

“Forgive yourself — no one else will.” Maya Angelou

The Third rule is Pamper Yourself…

Pamper Yourself…

Do what you can to make you feel happy inside. Well to live in this world ,to keep them happy and have to do a lot that belongs to you..But wait a minute, what about you did you ever do anything with yourself to make yourself happy?In this article, I will tell you how we can pamper yourself.

Give yourself a good facial.A good facial makes your skin more beautiful and makes you feel happy from inside it will boost your confidence to another level.

Taking healthy diet will keep you fit and stay active, with the help of which you will look good. And by giving this, your confidence level will be boosted and you will love yourself more..

A good massage gives you a very healthy feel it relex your Muscles and calmn your personality..

All these factors are implemented only when you are in love with yourself..

“Treat yourself as a queen and you’ll attract a king.”

The Forth rule is Follow Your Dreams…

Follow Your Dreams….

There are fewer people in the world who become what they wanted to be.It is easy to see the dream, but to stay strong and fulfill it’s not that easy..

Dreams seen with closed eyes are not dreams, Dreams are those that are seen with open eyes.When we start trying to fulfill our dreams, then we enjoy life, we know the purpose of life.It has been happening in most homes and it is happening that children have to do what they want about them.So when elders impose something on their children instead of what their children want, then the children are not able to become anything again.If you are a child or a parent, then I mean to write this article, that today I should agree with you on this matter.follow your dreams and let your children follow their own dreams.Doing this has made you love yourself.

“A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.” –

The Fifth rule is Don’t Compare Yourself to Anyone…

Don’t Compare Yourself to Anyone..

Everyone’s life is different, all the paths are totally different , then how can anyone compare themselves with others?.We have to respect ourselves because our life is different from the lives of others, we are the best..Only we can know what we are facing in life, so how can we compare our own life with someone else’s life..just love the way you are and accept that because. No one else is like you.

Do not allow anyone to make you compare with someone and this is possible only when you stop treating yourself like that.. Respect yourself. Give yourself value, it is only you who can do it, if you do it, then someone will understand it to you.

Don’t compare yourself to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.”- Regina Brett

The Sixth rule is Start appreciating…

Start appreciating…..

God has made us human and we have been honored with human values from the hair of the head to the nail of the toe.we should be thankful to that.And whatever work we do with all these blessings, we should appreciate those things.Appreciate every moment that you have,appreciate the luxuries you have.Appreciate your own courage and strength, especially during difficult times.. Because at that time you were the only one who stood up for yourself, so love yourself, respect yourself.Because atlas a person has to fight for his life on his own..

if you truly love yourself then don’t harm yourself..Do whatever you want to do whatever makes you happy just do that.Respect yourself, don’t let down for anyone..Respect your opinions then people will respect your opinion and give value to yourself..

Stay Strong Love & Peace:)