What Wikipedia can’t tell you about 1st date
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We all know Wikipedia is the dictionary of the internet. It has all the information that we need, but yet we seem to can’t find suitable dating advice that we can implement right away to attract our Mrs right on our 1st date.

Right about now, you may be excited. As your date approaches, your excitement may turn to nervousness. What should I wear? How should I act? Where should we go?

But no worries, I’m the “New Wikipedia” for dating advice. Continue reading on for a few helpful tips.

1. Planning the Date

When you asked the girl on a date, what did you say? If you asked her to the movies, that is where you should go. Do not change the date location without first speaking to her.

This is one of the fastest ways to ruin a first date. If you want to sneak in dinner or a drink, that is okay, but always live up to your words. If you do make changes, discuss them in advance.

If you asked the girl if she would like to go out with you, but didn’t provide her with a destination, start thinking about it now. Don’t decide at the last minute, as this may result in disaster.

The best first dates are those where you can have fun and get to know the girl. Opt for movies and dinner, an outdoor concert, a picnic, bowling, and so forth. If you are still at a loss for ideas, ask her for suggestions.

There are two ways to arrive at a date, together or separate. When possible, you want to drive your date. She may not accept your offer, but at least make it.

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2. Preparing for Your Date

For most men, preparation begins a few hours before date-time. Yes, this is true, but think about costs. If you are on a budget, you need to financially prepare for your date ahead of time.

You can prevent this from becoming a problem by opting for an affordable destination. For example, don’t choose a restaurant where you can’t afford half the food on the menu.

Most guys prepare for a date by showering. This is a small, but important step. Show up clean. If you don’t think you will have enough time, try to leave work early, skip your afternoon at the gym, and so forth.

3. The Date

Do not assume that loading cologne on will hide your smell. It may, but your date may also have a bad reaction to it.

You want to make a good first impression on your date. The easiest way to do this is to arrive early. Never be late for a date.

If you will be late, call immediately. Do not assume that all women are alike and running late. Some women run on schedule. Even still, you want to be on time even if you have to wait a few minutes for her.

The goal of a first date is to learn more about the one you are with. For that reason, keep on talking.

Pauses in a conversation are common, but try to prevent them. Ask your date questions and she should do the same. If not, talk a little bit about yourself.

The most important thing to remember about first dates is that they aren’t supposed to be perfect. Rarely will a first date go 100% as planned.

There will always be awkward moments. There will always be pauses in the conversation and one of you is likely to say something slightly embarrassing. If your first date doesn’t go as planned, don’t panic. Hopefully, you will have a second chance to make a good impression.

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“Yeah, but how do I make a good impression?”

Continue reading on for a helpful list of first date dos and don’ts.

DO pay for the date. You asked; therefore, you should pay. If the relationship grows and results in more dates, then consider alternating payment or splitting the bill, but for the first date, you should pay. As for why this tops the list, it may require a little bit of savings on your part. If you are a teenager with limited cash flow or if you opt for a fancy restaurant, you need to prepare ahead of time.

DON’T pour on the cologne. Unfortunately, many guys think the more the cologne the better. This isn’t true! Only splash a dab of cologne on you. Even girls who don’t have allergies will have reactions to strong cologne or too much of it. So don’t ruin your date; don’t cover yourself in it.

DO wear something nice. What you wear should depend on what type of date you plan. For example, a long hike and a picnic may call for sport pants, but leave them at home if you opt for the movies. Always wear clean clothes, but make sure you are comfortable.

DON’T go overdressed. As stated above, you want to look nice for your upcoming date, but don’t overdo it. By overdressing, both you and your date will feel uncomfortable. If you opt for a movie, a pair of nice jeans, khaki pants, and a clean shirt will do. Unless you take your date to an elegant restaurant, leave the prom gear and eveningwear at home.

DO think of topics to discuss ahead of time. First dates are awkward. If you don’t really know the girl, you may wonder which topics are okay to discuss on a first date. If you do know the girl, you may be at a loss for words because well you already know her. For that reason, think of topics to discuss in advance. Popular news stories, movies, and sports are good topics.

DON’T apply too much pressure on yourself. As previously stated, first dates are awkward. Rarely are they 100% perfect. There will be some weird and slightly embarrassing moments, no matter how hard you try. For that reason, don’t apply too much pressure on yourself. In fact, just be yourself.

DO be yourself. One of the reasons why first dates are awkward is because most of us try too hard to impress the one we are with. Of course, you want to go out of your way to be polite, but that is about it. If you aren’t known for holding doors open for women or saying please and thank you, do it. Being polite and showing respect is vital to a successful first date, but other than that just be yourself.

DON’T be late. Whether you pick your date up or meet her at the destination, do not be late. In fact, be early. Making your date wait is the quickest way to ruin a first date, as well as a potential long-term relationship.

DO have fun. Whether you are 16 years old or 46 years old, it is common to be nervous about a date. You should take the time to plan and prepare for your date, by thinking of topics to discuss and making sure you have enough money to foot the bill, but don’t let it consume you. On your date, remember to be yourself, let loose, and have fun.

DON’T apply pressure for a second date. At the end of your date, you may have had a good time, but that does not mean your date did. If you want a second date, ask, but don’t apply too much pressure. Tell your date you had a lot of fun and that you would like to do it again. Make sure she has your phone number and put the ball in their court. Let her call if she is interested in a second date.

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