3 Ways to Flirt With a Woman Without Having a Clue How to Flirt
By: Admir K.
Tags: Dating, Dating Advice For Men, Men, Dating Advice

I was 21 years old when I first flirted with a girl.



I know I was a very late boomer.



But it got me thinking again. Back then during that time I had no clue how to flirt.



People told me “in order to get a woman interested in you, you have to flirt with her”



And I am like… “yeah, well I have no idea how to”.



Then I tried and tried…



I just had nothing but frustrations and pain.



I used to be a computer nerd. Completely introverted. No idea how women work. And I just wanted love.



But one of the hardest things a computer nerd can learn, is not math or quantum mechanics.



It is one simple thing: How to flirt with women.



I had to invest tremendous amounts of hours to even get the hang of it… not even mentioning to master it.



And I do not want you to go through that pain and frustration I have gone through.



So, here is what I can share that will definitely help you to cut at least years of your learning curve!

1. FEEL YOUR COCK



That’s right feel your cock… and… your balls.



We as geeks/nerds are so cut off from our lower body.



We have to develop it again.



Why?



Simple, you cannot seduce ANY women without feeling turned on for her.



You see,



when you talk to a woman it is not the words that matter. It is what emotion are behind these words that matter.



So if you give her an indirectly compliment such as: “You are cute”, she can either view it as friendly way or in a sexual way. Depending how you came across.



How do you know improve that aspect of yourself?



Easy, you just have to feel it more.



I recommend you start with a meditation to calm your mind down. Then feel your dick more until you can fully feel it.



Do this at least for 30 days until you no longer feel numb down there.



However, you have to feel it in front a woman as well. Not in your room alone.



What I have done to let my libido kick on more and more, is to meditate before I talk to women again.



Then I approached women with the intention to be sexual. To feel my dick more. My balls more… WHILE I talk to her.



There is one problem with this. If you set to much the intention to focus on your dick… you come of weird/forced.



It has to come naturally. And this is harder said than done. I know.



I can give you two solutions for that.



First one is only to set the intention once. One thought before you go into the conversation is enough.



If you happen to say it more often than that, that’s okay. Notice it, dismiss it and refocus on your conversation.



If you continually tell yourself ‘I do not feel anything, I have to feel it, I have to be turned on’ then you are doing something wrong.



Again, it is okay if these thoughts come up… but do not dwell on them. Once is enough.





Second, just simply focus more on your dick and be patient with it.



You can read hundreds of articles and books on the topic “How to flirt with women”



But if you never have to happen to do that… then obviously you will never learn it for real.



Someone can guide you into the right direction… however someone cannot make YOU realize how it works.



This is what you have to figure out on your own.

2. GET RID OF YOUR SHAMEFUL FEELINGS FOR SEX, PRON AND SEXUALITY

I just want you to know one thing right away…

…Sex is normal.



One thing that hindered me massively to be someone that women desire, is my shame about sexuality.



My mother always told me “Son never say the word ‘sexy’, it is against our religion”



And you can just imagine how hugely it affected me.



I couldn’t get myself to say ‘naughty’ things to women… because I thought, women do not like that.



And I was so wrong!



Not only do they like, they actually crave for it.



They crave for a man to say to them how sexy their ass look.



NOW DON’T GET ME WRONG!



Everything has its time and place. Same with what you say to women.



Saying how sexy her ass looks to a woman right away might turn SOME women off. AND THAT IS OKAY!



Not every woman is going to like who you are. What you say. What you stand for.



But the ones that do… let be this said to you:



You will never experience any hotter sex in your life!



It is important for feminine women to be sexually desired by a man.



You do not bring that to the table, she won’t f*ck you. She won’t desire you!



Shaming yourself for your desires is a good way to go down to, if your end goal is to be sexless.

3. PATIENCE IS KEY



I have to remind you of this.



A lot of patience is required in changing yourself.



Especially if you have never had any experience with women.



You will not be the world’s greatest seducer after a month.



It will take years to become REALLY good with them!



Do not beat yourself up. Do not become impatient.



Just knowing how to feel your dick, is not the end road.



You have to practice, practice, practice!



Practice your flirting skills, as if you would practice for any other skill.



All I can say is, do not become overeager with women!