Casanova’s Secret to Success In Bed
By: Claire Divino
Tags: Relationships, Love, Sex, Sex Education, Sexuality

Especially if you are a man, you might think that Casanova’s legendary success with women was a result of his technique, some special mastery in intercourse and foreplay that brought his conquests to the heights of arousal. Or maybe it was due to his dabbling in the occult; was it some sort of magic?

While these skills certainly couldn’t hurt, I don’t think they were at the core of Casanova’s astounding success in bed. Yes, it’s true that women love and appreciate men who know how to use their fingers, tongues, and other important parts of their bodies to play our bodies like instruments of pleasure.

We won’t, however, necessarily let you near us just because you possess these skills. As for the occult and Casanova’s involvement in freemasonry, well, yeah, that sure can be intriguing too and some women my succumb just because they make themselves believe a charmer somehow enchanted them.

Yet there have been many who used these techniques and skills and who were also into alchemy and mysterious arts of high magic but failed to have their names written in history books as the world's most famous lovers, seducers, and conquerors of female hearts and pussies.

Was Casanova, perhaps, exceptionally beautiful, maybe even godlike in his face and statue? Other then his scented hair, no sources mention that as one of his stronger attributes so, no, his looks likely had nothing to do with it either. The sources do, however, mention his wit and charm.

Still, many men are witty and charming and have nice hair but still don’t manage to get laid with a plethora of women ranging from virgins to nuns and everything in between. So there must have been something else, some secret ingredient that made this extraordinary achievement possible for Casanova.

I believe his secret hides in the word lover. This guy truly and sincerely loved women and, as sources report, women loved and adored him too. Because, honestly, we all want to be truly loved and adored. Most men, though, find it hard to truly love and adore more than one or two women in their lifetime.

And that’s something one just cannot fake —for most people, it’s impossibly hard to fake love and adoration if you don’t really feel that. Love is something that shows in your eyes, voice, kisses, sighs, in the way you touch your lover.

For some reason, Casanova was capable of that. He was crazy about women and he truly adored each and every one of his lovers. And that kind of attention is something that can be extremely hard to say no to. Because it’s not just about sex, it’s not just about the body, it’s about you as a person.

Sex without love is less than half of what it could have been. The greatest heights of pleasure and sensuality, the true bliss, the merging of two into one at the level of the divine are only possible when love is a part of the equation.

And that’s what Casanova gave to women, he conquered them by letting them conquer him first, by truly loving and adoring them. Sadly, that’s rare. It was rare at the time of Casanova’s life and it remains rare today. I know that if I met Casanova, I’d probably spread my legs too.