Love Text Chemistry
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How can I get him interested if he won’t even talk to me?

I knew it was coming but when I heard that question, I immediately cringed. I knew she could see it on my face. It’s the one question that I’d been trying to answer my whole career, and I’m not the only one.

Janine was one of the most beautiful, loving, intelligent women I’d ever met and I knew she was this guy’s perfect match but NONE OF THAT MATTERED because he wouldn’t even talk to her.

She was still staring at me. Tears were beginning to form in her eyes and beyond that, she was looking for answers. But I was speechless. Then something amazing happened.

I felt my phone buzz in my pocket and suddenly everything fell into place.

If you’re reading this, I know you’ve run into this problem that feels like a brick wall. I know plenty of women who found the guy of their dreams and lost him because a breakdown in communication made it impossible to get close to him.

Without fail they all eventually cut their losses. They had no choice but to move on and settle for someone else.

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But you don’t have to.

Because after years of research I’ve found the foolproof way to break through this barrier.

You can send him texts that will make him feel like you’re the only woman in the world that exists because you’re the only one who truly understands him.

I can teach you the magic words that will make any guy go from just passing by to completely lovestruck in seconds.

It doesn’t have anything to do with what you look like, how smart or interesting you are, or even if you think you’ve already messed things up with him beyond repair.

You can get the man of your dreams to break the silence and go from a crush to your lifelong partner. I’m going to tell you exactly how.

I’m also going to tell you why that coaching session with Janine was the most important of my career because it unlocked a secret for me that forever changed my understanding of how women and men interact.

The answer to both of these secrets is actually the same, and it has to do with text messaging

WHAT MEN WANT OUT OF TEXTING

To understand why men text (and why they don’t) you have to understand what men want. First, stop listening to men on this subject. The truth is that men have no idea what they want. That means you can safely ignore the idea that the man you like is looking for the perfect, independent woman who loves sports and beer and will bend over backwards to please him in any way.

Think about it.

How many women do you know with huge hearts, big brains, and amazing looks that can’t seem to get a guy to stick around?

It’s because, while these things are nice, they won’t make any difference to a guy if she doesn’t give him

what he really wants. And what men really want is actually hard wired into their brains.

Men want to chase you

Playing hard to get isn’t as simple as some people make it out to be. If you’ve ever played with a cat and a string you’ll understand this principle. You need to bring the string close enough to them to get them interested but just out of their reach.

Men thrive on challenge and proving themselves. They often don’t know what to do when a good thing just falls right into their lap.

Men want to provide

Men have an innate need to provide for women. These days, this doesn’t mean that they want to bring you home a wooly mammoth but it means they want to be useful to you in some way. Whether it means giving you a ride to work, mowing your lawn or just providing you with some information, it’s important to feed these ancient provider instincts that are deep in the heart of every man.

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Men want a committed relationship

Even though many women find it difficult to get a guy to settle down, that is what men actually want. It’s not that they don’t want a relationship, or even that they haven’t

met the right woman yet. It’s that the women they’ve been dating haven’t given them exactly what they want and need.

So what does any of this have to do with texting? Everything

This is actually way more important when you’re just texting a guy than when you’re seeing him face to face. In person you have access to body language, pheromones, and all the non-verbal aspects of flirting and seduction.

But when you’re texting you have to use language and verbal behaviour to get him interested.

When I applied this information to Janine’s situation, it changed everything.

First, let’s talk about Janine and Ethan. She was a graduate student in music and a virtuoso piano player. She was extremely fit and a former gymnast so she was able to put both legs behind her head without breaking a sweat.

Janine’s dream guy was Ethan. Ethan started as her hot TA in undergrad. They hit it off right away. She’d always stay after class to talk to them and more than once they ended up hanging out in the empty classroom for hours.

Then, one night, at the department mixer they were together outside the campus pub. The sun was setting and there was no one else around. Janine saw that Ethan had that look in his eyes. When he leaned in to kiss her, it was like the whole world stopped turning just for them.

Janine got his number that night and they texted a few times but, somehow, that was as far as things ever went. He’d respond to her messages a few hours late if at all.

They’d pass each other in the hallways and make small talk but every conversation was awkward and fell flat. She felt like she was talking to some distant relative.

Where was the sexy, impulsive Ethan that had held her in his arms the night of the party?

WHY MEN DON’T TEXT YOU BACK

This is the real question we have to answer to understand what is happening here and how to change it.

There are several reasons men don’t text back and they’re all very simple. He knows what you’re going to say.

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Texting, like conversation is supposed to be exciting. If your every answer is predictable and boring then why should he even text you at all? If a guy is feeling this way then he has no motivation to text you back, much less ask you out again.

He doesn’t think you’re interested.

This problem comes up time and time again. Playing hard to get is important but HARD is the operative word here. Not impossible. If he thinks that you either don’t know he exists or hate his guts then why would he want to send you a text message? Make sure your teasing doesn’t cross a line.

He’s just not excited about it.

There are plenty of women I’ve talked to who say “I suck at texting”. Sorry ladies, that’s not an excuse any more.

I can tell you what to say and when to say it to make a guy dive for his phone in the middle of an

important meeting. This is the kind of excitement you need to create to keep a guy interested and excited about talking to you and seeing you as soon as possible.

When I felt my phone buzz in my pocket that day with Janine, it hit me like a bolt of lightning: I’d been ignoring the very thing that was the key to helping her win Ethan’s heart, and the very reason that he’d cooled off in the first place. The answer was in her phone.

Texts Men HATE

This is where we get into the juicy stuff. Not only are there texts that can make any man yours with just a few taps, there are a few that turn off almost every guy and make him want to delete your number. And they’re frighteningly common. I bet you’ve sent a few of these yourself.

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