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How Many Times can you Disappoint Me?
By: Elijah Lashawn Redmond
Tags: Men, Storytelling, Father, Storyofmylife, Lost

As young men growing up we naturally envy the men in our life. You see fathers, brothers, and uncles as examples of how to be and what we to be in life. As a kid growing up in Atlanta, Georgia Elijah wanted so bad to be like and close to his father but in life, we realize how far away they are. The first disappointment is etched so deeply into his brain because he expected so much. Around 4–5 years old it was a great day for him from start. His mother who was his sole parent called his father who does not live with them and was never married came over to see their son. Elijah hadn’t seen him in weeks and was extremely excited to see him and even get to spend the night at his house. In the late afternoon they played games and all of his toys, nothing could take this happiness away. Once all playing was done they ate as a family. Elijah asked his father, “Can I come to your house?”. He answers, “of course”. Just imagine going upstairs getting in the tub and packing his own bag at 5 years old overly excited to go and spend more time with his father. Nothing could top this moment. Wearing shorts, a T-shirt, and light-up shoes ready to go to his father’s house. Walking down the stairs with glee and happiness and seeing my mother with the look of “I Told You So”. The father was nowhere to be found. Son runs back and forth from the back sliding door to the front door looking aimlessly. Son asked his mom, “where did he go?”, mom responds nonchalantly, “told you he is going to lie”. The child running out the back sliding door, running through the brush with no shoes to see the grey Honda Accord drive right past the tears in his son’s eyes. All-day this young man anticipated spending the night with his hero and king to only be passed up and let down. Turning around to a locked door behind him with nowhere to go. A mother that’s teaching a lesson and a father that needs a lesson to be taught. Fountain of tears on the son’s face leading to more years of disappointment to come. His mother tells him never to rely on anyone because they will let him down over and over again.
UNEXPECTED SOCIAL PRESSURES IN MEN
By: Greise Soni
Tags: Expectations, Mental Health, Men And Society, Society, Men

Women usually complain that the media pressures them to look a certain way. Ladies complain that from the advertisements to the supermodels on cover magazines, a certain stereotype is expected of all women. According to media, women are supposed to be skinny and feminine. A woman’s curves and contours have overly being politicized in reactionary rhetoric. But we as ladies, have we ever taken time to consider that men to feel pressured by the media to fit a certain gender stereotype?

From an early age, boys are taught how to be “Tough”. According to most society’s, a real man is physically strong, dominant.

Most advertisements and movies depict violent male icons with toned muscles. Most male icons are super strong athletes, superheroes and war heroes who have famed their infamy through violent actions. These has enhanced the notion that men have always been aggressive and brutal and that their dominance over women is biologically based.

This “real man” seen throughout several male icons in movies and advertisements is almost impossible to fully achieve. So why does the male gender take strides to achieve this physically strong aggressive masculine persona? Is it because they feel dissatisfied and insecure making them compelled to grasp tightly onto these male icons who are violent? I personally do not find it wrong or repulsive when a man engages himself in childcare. There is nothing wrong with showering love to your children. In fact, this is going to strengthen the father- child relationship…

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Of the past
By: Nirbhya Singh
Tags: Women, Poem, Relationships, Womens Rights, Men

Photo by Emiliano Vittoriosi on Unsplash

She opens her blouse

button unzipping, one by one

then she opens her bra

I see her from the back side.

Her long black hairs covering the bare back

as she slides them forward

I see some scars; look like beating marks; of the past.
Are You Willing To Be Anger-less?
By: Agents Of Change
Tags: Anger, Emotions, Life Lessons, Family, Men

Are You Willing To Be Anger-less?

Photo credit: Shutterstock

By Robert Rannigan

If you could manage moments of family upset with calm, would you? Do you value the practice of compassionate thoughts, words, feelings? If so, will you choose right now to accepting more peace?

Answering these questions may bring our awareness to understand the truth of our human nature: choice. Choice is our ongoing experience. We are choice as it happens. There is no escape. We choose — -to move, eat, speak, walk, read, play, sleep — -constantly, choice after choice after choice.

Are you willing to become the choice, right now and just for now, to release the habit of being anger? If you do prioritize peace and calm for managing family upset now, while you’re reading this, you are practicing that choice and making it an experience your body and mind record for future reference.

If we do make this choice for peaceful thoughts and feelings, once we make it, by paying close attention we can notice our next thought choice and whether it is peaceful. Our thought arises with feeling. Aware of peace as our choosing, we are anger less. Once we make that choice we continue to participate in choosing, because we are choosing.

For now please join me in a commitment to being anger-less. This does not mean life without anger. We are all able to choose life with less anger…….anger-less. You might repeat this phrase to guide your way during the day to avoid anger as well as to help anger become quiet:

I choose now to be anger-less.

Next:

I choose not to be angry with my family.

How do we do that? By affirming. Emotions are seeds in all of us, and we are the gardeners of the emotions we plant, nurture, and harvest. Consider, please, your body is a garden, a plot where each of us yields what we have planted and grown, and we turn to the question of what to grow and harvest in our emotional garden.

Standing here looking over your garden, packets of seeds in your hands, right now do you prefer to grow fear, anger or peace?

—

This post was originally published on TheFatherhoodConnection.wordpress.com and is republished on Medium.

About Robert Rannigan

Bob is a psychotherapist/father-educator specializing in men’s emotional development following personal and cultural trauma. This focus includes blogs, webinars, seminars. Follow him on FB Thefatherconnection and Thefatherconnection.com email: bobthefatherconnection@gmail.com
Dear Women- Why do we turn towards men to determine our value?
By: Nina Hofmarcher
Tags: Women, Relationships, Misogyny, Self-awareness, Men

If you are a woman in 2020 you probably have dealt with blatant misogyny, in some form or another. Women looking for validation from men is internalized misogyny at work. You may not realize it but it is hard to avoid in almost every situation in life. As someone who has dated countless straight men in the last few years…I can’t help but wonder why I, and so many other women, place our self worth in the hands of misogynistic men? Maybe not even conspicuous misogynists.

When I first started dating and I was rejected by a man…my self value fell so low that I genuinely thought about myself in a different way. If a man rejected me then I must reject myself, because if they don’t see value in me as a partner then obviously I have nothing to offer at all. If a man told me something I liked then I was on cloud 9. I felt so good about myself when a man told me something good about myself. If he told me I was beautiful, then I was. If he told me I was good enough, I was.

Why did I do this? Why do my friends do this? Why do women do this?

The honest answer; there’s probably a lot of small and individual reasons. Maybe the way that growing up we believed that to be successful you have to find love. Maybe it is the societal and familial pressure to be in a relationship. Maybe the way that mothers have traditionally and historically favored their sons over daughters and scrutinized their daughters in a way that sons don’t usually have to deal with. Maybe it’s internalized male gaze. We live in the man’s world. Men still make more money than women on average, for the same job. The average woman’s unadjusted annual salary has been, in recent years, 81% to 82% of that of the average man’s. In the typical work setting, the higher tiers of the ladder are probably dominated by men. Women look up and what they see is men. In the dating world, men like to use women to become better people. Men use their experiences and lessons learned from the women that they date and move on. They become better people on the back’s of women. Why is it our job to teach you how to communicate? Why is it our job to teach you to be an empathetic person? Why is it our job to teach you how to be decent? Why is it our job to teach you at all?

All of this not to say that each of these individual reasons lead to woman placing her value solely in a man’s perspective of her. But, I think they are important to consider when thinking about women’s relationship to men. Women have historically been stepping stools for men, in all aspects of life. Maybe that is the reason we place our value with them as well…

This is certainly not a singular experience. When all signs point to finding value and happiness through men, when we are denied the “privilege” of male attention, what happens to our self worth?
Whose Voice Do You Hear?
By: Agents Of Change
Tags: Life Lessons, Personal Development, Identity, Self-awareness, Men

Then, of course, as you matured, there she was, this amazing creature that made your face flush and palms sweat as you stammered about something so stupid even you didn’t understand it. How you won her affections, you had no idea. And when she tossed you out like the leftovers forgotten overnight in a car, you still had no idea what happened. All you knew is that your heart no longer sang. In fact, the silence was deafening until a little voice popped up to save your sanity by offering up reasons that were self-deprecating, at best. “If I weren’t such a loser she’d still like me.”

Where did that come from? How can there be such a difference between your inner child and your inner man? Maybe by the time we develop self-talk the messages we’re getting from the outside aren’t as soothing and inspiring, as they were when we were babies. Whatever the reason is, though, for most of us, it’s just the way it is. That is until you decide to change it. Although, at times it may seem like the disembodied voice of logical explanation, the truth about your inner dialogue is, you control it.

It honestly doesn’t matter whose voice it was in the beginning. It may have been language that was meant to protect you or educate you. But the message wasn’t about you not being good enough; it was about the worry and insecurity of your caregiver, most likely, doing the best they knew how. It wasn’t intended to operate as your guidance system throughout your lifespan. Geesh, if they had thought that, they wouldn’t be so bewildered when later, sometime in your twenties, it comes up as blame and shame-on-them for everything wrong in your world.

That’s the rub, isn’t it? Now you’re the grown up, and what your deep manly voice says to others doesn’t always match up with your inside voice, the one no one else hears. Are you telling the world how wonderful you are, how you deserve that raise, and how you’ll take care of your family forever? All the while, on the inside, you’re hearing, “Who are you kidding? You can’t do this.” You want to believe what you say out loud, and a part of you does. But another part of you is still hearing that worry and insecurity you heard as a child as if it’s a recording going off automatically.

The great news is; you can fix this. First, be forgiving of yourself, and repeat, “You’ll be okay,” because you will. Begin to talk to yourself with the same care and love that you give to others. Remember, if it’s good enough for your mom, your wife, or your child, then it’s good enough for you. If you aren’t sure about the words you should choose, ask yourself this, would I ever say this to my best friend?
What You Got Wrong About PCOS: 11 Myths
Tags: Women, Poc, Lifestyle, Healthcare, Men

How well do you know Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)? For instance, do you know that PCOS is not a disease but a disorder? Read on to find out eleven widely held beliefs about PCOS which are false.

MYTH #1: PCOS is a disease

PCOS is not a disease and certainly not a disease of the ovaries. It is caused by a disorder of the body’s endocrine system and metabolism which affects not only the ovaries but other parts of the body. Besides, not everyone with this disorder has ovarian cysts, so polycystic ovaries alone as a symptom, do not qualify as a full diagnosis for PCOS.
Make Your Move
Tags: Relationship, Women, Love, Dating, Man

Make Your Move

Find his secret obsessions

Dating is fun, funny, exciting, enlightening, and sometimes awkward, repetitive, and laborious. One thing it isn’t? Simple. It’s the opposite of simple. But what else should we expect from the somewhat colloquial definition of dating that Merriam-Webster defines as “the series of social engagements shared by a couple looking to get married,” which also defines a single date as “a romantic appointment.” Talk about pressure. Of course, we have a more fluid understanding of the term today, which simultaneously makes it more fun and less consequential and rigid — but it can also complicate things.

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He watched her skipped down the stairs with ease.
By: Zoe Godwin
Tags: Sadness, Harrasment, Girls, Men, Stalker

He Watched She Played

He watched her skipped down the stairs with ease. Her oblivious to what is happening carries on with her day. She continues to skip down the stairs. He continues to watch and stare. Moving only to get a glimpse of her when she moves to the next flight of stairs. He continues to stare at her. Only hiding when she turns around to feel that heavy glance weighing on her back. She stops turns with tense shoulders death glaring at anything in her sight. Her whole personality has changed. From this nice women skipping down the stairs, to a women who could kill you with one glance. Once she has stoped scanning the area for any danger. She spots him. Her being her ignores him and continues on with her day skipping down the stairs. Almost to the bottom of the hotel lobby. She relaxes herself from her previous encounter and walks out the door. He follows her out the crystal clear door through the beautiful garden. Down the foot path that continues down to a beach. As the night is just beginning. The sunset begins to shine with all its glory. From red to green, to blue. the radiant colours light up the sky as if it were having a light show. She continues her walk through the soft sand with the little shells sticking to her foot. Clinging onto her for dear life. She takes of running until she stills to a complete stop in front of the shore line. The waves only just touching her delicate toes, numbing it to the touch. He gets out from behind the bush and shrubs he was hiding in. As he walks towards her. He quietly walks with only a few squeaks along the way from the soft sand squashing against his rough interior feet. He continues his route until he is behind her. Ready to pounce at her. She turns around. Regret and anger laced through her eyes as if looks could kill you’ll be six feet under. She springs to action quickly taking his surprises reaction as a quick escape route. She jumps through to a sprint through the soft sand. Sprinting through the sand with him closely behind she quickly detours and runs for the hotel. Barefooted and flying up the stairs. She trips but catches her footing before she could fall. With him so close to catching her. Him gaining speed up the steps taking 3 at a time. She finally get to her level. She rushes to a sprint again. Only stopping to slam her hotel door shut. And locking her door so no unwanted visitors can come in un-invited.
Men, What’s Your ‘What’?
By: Agents Of Change
Tags: Relationships, Purpose, Life Lessons, Masculinity, Men

A Game-Changer

This understanding changed my life and realigned my focus. Up until that time I had always thought putting my woman first in my life was the highest respect, the only way to truly love my partner.

Before I learned this, I thought that my relationship must come before everything else. I would put her first, on a pedestal even, to prove I love her, to make her feel special, and to prove to myself that I was committed. She would feel loved because I would prove I love her, and because I put here first, she would love me.

That was my logic.

And it worked. For perhaps three months, even six months, if I was lucky.

However, this path always ended in a breakup. And once again, I would be single. After a long string of failed relationships, I got a clue. Actually, it was more of a metaphorical whack upside the head! Subtlety wasn’t going to work for my stubborn brain.

My soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend told me that I was off-track in my role as the man in our relationship. Well, something like that. I wish I had heard her say it this way: “ Do you know why you are here? Do you know what your mission is? What your purpose is?” Or even this way: “Why are you not the man who’s presence I can trust and I feel safe with?” It would have made things a lot clearer for me!

What she said came across a little differently: “Why are you such a wimp? You are not the man I thought you were, I thought you were strong and manly; why don’t you stand your ground?” Even though I didn’t hear what I wanted (constructively), I am truly grateful to her because her words stirred the seeker in me.
Being Attractive To Women: 4 Essential Qualities!
By: Taylor Shaw
Tags: Women, Beauty, Love, Attraction, Men

Being attractive to women — what is the secret of men who are magically attractive to women? Who are even idolised by women and who don’t even seem to have to do anything for it?

Is it beauty, a trained body, money, power, career?

Beauty does not equal attractiveness

Even studies show that beautiful people have it easier in life. So it would be an outright lie to claim that men who are more beautiful, more trained or richer don’t have a small advantage.

BUT: It is only a small advantage and does not essentially account for long-term success with women.

You probably know this the other way round with women too: A very beautiful woman will probably enchant you from the first sight. But you may later fall in love with her friend who is not so pretty but whose manner makes her irresistible to you.

It’s the same with men!

What about wealth and professional success? Yes, that can also make a man more attractive to women. But not for the reasons you might think!

Being attractive to women: key factors

So if it’s not beauty, success and wealth, what makes an attractive man?

You might wonder. But how attractive you are to women has much less to do with the women around you than with yourself.
I’m not sure why he despised me, but his pit bull eyes came at me with a vengeance.
By: Kevin Ervin Kelley
Tags: Life, Storytelling, Nonfiction, Short Story, Men

I’m not sure why he despised me, but his pit bull eyes came at me with a vengeance. I deflected his strikes until I fell backward over the curb.

He pounced on me, pushing his knees into my shoulders. And I knew what came next.

The first five blows felt like mallets cracking ice, and then paralysis. I was swelling in blood but wanted this hate out of him.

Then there was stillness.

Although I felt the weight of his body on my hips, his arched back lay between my legs. I pulled up to investigate and saw his eyes rolled back and a clump of pink fibrous tongue lying on the asphalt.

When I looked around, a husky dude with cowboy boots tipped his hat to me.

“Damit!” I said, throwing my arms up. “Now, this vendetta will never end.”

And it didn’t.
Unlock Your Glutes — Conversion Monster!
By: Wazim Rev
Tags: Women, Fitness Tips, Monsters, Fitness, Men

Unlock Your Glutes — Conversion Monster!

Dear Friend

I’m not going to pull any punches. You’re going to be angry and shocked by what I’m about to share with you.

When you stick to a program by the letter and do everything your trainer tells you, you expect results, right?

Well, what if you discovered all your hard work was causing you to be MORE prone to injury, was having ZERO effect on the shape of your butt and was leaving you with LESS strength and power?

What if you discovered you were ALWAYS going to fall short of the body you want, because…

You’ve been LIED TO about how to train your body’s BIGGEST muscle…

And it’s cost you in your performance, your health and even how you look.

For more information
Give It Away
By: Aaron Quist
Tags: Strength, Surrender, Haiku, Poetry, Men

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The Child is The Father of Man
By: Jagpreet Singh
Tags: Life, Children, Money, Home, Man

This in simple words means that the traits of childhood continue in manhood. In other words, if we want to have better man we must first have better children. If we pay no attention to the child, he grows into a worthless youth and equally or even more worthless man.

A child’s mind is like a clean slate. Whatever is written on it, its imprint continues on his mind forever in life. A child is greatly influenced by the milieu and environment in which he lives. If his parents are quarrelsome and aggressive by nature, he grows almost like them. If they are religiously minded he acquires the same traits.

Some children suffer from want, lack of affection and neglect. Such children cannot develop a good and lovable personality. We may read carefully the words of Anant Waraich on child psychology as given below: “Child is the father of man" a is a common proverb which literally explains the practical importance of Child psychology. A nation depends upon the care and upbringing of children. The future of tomorrow’s society depends upon the physiological and psychological development of today’s children.

“Child psychology therefore as umes importance for all those who are interested in the healthy development of a child’s personality". — Anant Waraich

If you want to improve your and your child’s brain 🧠 then read this Blog 👇.

11 Ways to Improve Your Brain Power. -https://knowledge-light1.blogspot.com/2020/11/11-ways-to-improve-your-brain-power.html

Thank you.

Larry Kim Jason Hreha Chris Dixon Kris Gage
Man Acutely Aware Unusual Name Is Only Thing That Makes Him Interesting
By: Alice H. Lahoda
Tags: Satire, Interview, Personal Development, Humor, Men

Man Acutely Aware Unusual Name Is Only Thing That Makes Him Interesting

Photo by christian buehner on Unsplash

“Please, call me Tinseltown Macbeth Buttfart,” Tinseltown Macbeth Buttfart Stevens told our reporter. “Mr. Stevens is my father.”

Editor’s Note: We made the difficult decision to cut the rest of this interview from publication, due to the fact that Tinseltown Macbeth Buttfart had nothing interesting left to say.
How to be a real man???
By: Life Lover
Tags: Relationships, Goals, Standards, Family, Men

Men are difficult, they must have the appearance of a man

01. A man must have a man’s look, sharp, painful, do not squirm and don't be foolishly

02. a man should know how to protect women and respect women, especially the latter, do not force her to do things she does not want, do not beat women, whether she has hurt you or cheated you.

03. a man should be a man of his word, if you can’t do it, just say no to it.

04. a man can not handsome, but must have poise, to have cultivation, to have substance, to have the bottom.

05. a man doesn't need to learn a lots, but should have their own skills, no matter what, you always have to support the family.

06. a man should have their own goals and pursuits, people also on this life, the sky above the head are the same, you can fail, but can not resign themselves to mediocrity.

07. a man to have a sense of responsibility, whether it is to the cause or to the family, whether it is to parents, wives and children or friends and brothers, to take up their responsibilities, selfish and self-interested is not a good man, shirking the escape is not a man!

08. A man should also be tough, society is mixed, full of crises and temptations, will power is not strong enough, it is easy to be defeated and beaten. A casual will be defeated and broken people, everything else can not be talked about, and do not need to talk about.

09. A man should learn to make money, never think that saving money can make a fortune, money is earned, not saved ……

10. A man to be diligent and bold, the truth that the road to heaven is a cliché, and they feel that the right thing to do to try to do.

11. A man to be calm and cool, calm, is the sign of a man distinguished from a boy, and calm, you can maximize the advantages, reduce risk, but also make you appear more mature a man, do not get used to explaining. Do it is done, whether good or bad success or failure, are their own do, explain this thing is the most useless, you want to go in the first place! Furthermore, sometimes, silence is indeed gold.

12. A man is the trust of the family, is a man should do their duty to fight for his family.

13. A man should complete two things in his life: to complete the dream, to achieve the ideal.

14. A man’s inner content is far better than the appearance, do not because of their own appearance or height excessive worry and inferiority.

15. A man should have a mountain-like backbone, withstand the trials and tribulations, can withstand the blow, as long as life is still alive, everything can come back.
Straight Black Men are the white people of Black People.
By: I.M. Johnson
Tags: Black, Men, Straight

Straight Black Men are the white people of Black People.

Woke- alert to injustice in society, especially racism.

And , it’s never good for someone to throw up in their own mouth. So yes, to answer your question, it is bad that you threw up in your mouth.
What Jewellery Should Men Wear ? — Men Jewellery Ideas
By: Miorah Jewellery
Tags: Jewellery Shop, Men Fashion, Jewellery Online, Jewellery, Men

Jewellery has become gender-neutral these days. Or maybe, all this while, it was. Male pop stars back in the day used to style their outfits with the fanciest of the jewelries and their fans literally used to go all head over heels in love with their ensembles.

Jewelleries are a form of expression, a style accessory, and of course styling jewellery does not have to do with a person’s gender.

Thanks to the outburst of social media that wearing jewelries is normalised across the world. But with the onset of fashion becoming accessible to each gender, the question that floats around the most is that

“What jewellery should men wear?”

Jewellery for men made easy. Check out these three accessories that are perfect for men to style with their outfits.

Bracelets:

Super cool in their essence, bracelets are very common accessories in the world of men’s fashion. Bracelets come in various builds, materials, and designs and can be used with almost every outfit of yours.

These days, minimal bracelets with intricate designs are the “hot thing” and attract a fair amount of attention from the millennial men who like to play around with fun accessories. Whether your outfit is modern or ethnic, using some bracelets will only add enchanting charm to your outfits.

Necklaces:

Necklaces that are made out of heavy metals are obsolete now. Minimal, chic, and light jewellery is what men are styling their outfits with these days. Just layer one or two simple, 24 inches or 22 inches long chain with a cute little pendant and you are good to go.

Styling your necklaces this way gives a casual, rugged look that is just the right kind of style for your everyday outfits.

Rings:

Slim, sleek rings go a long way when you want to add more character toy your outfits. Not to mention that there is no need to wear these heavy rings that weigh more than your whole hand, but try putting on light rings that do not add weight to your hands. Styling chunky rings will only add weight and will cause problems in performing daily tasks like typing, driving, etc.

So just style some light rings for men with your everyday outfit and keep your style quotient high.

The scene of men’s jewellery in India is fresh (for the millennials) and is still about to gain traction in the coming time. Multiple style icons are also opening up avenues for men to experiment with their style these days. Men are also becoming open to fashion and to experiment with it.

A lot of online fashion brands in India are selling stunning pieces of jewellery for men that are not too minimal or not too much — just exactly what would look great on whoever wants to enhance their outfit a tad!

These stores are super accessible and cater to their customers seamlessly to deliver fashion to every doorstep! So what are you waiting for? Open your browser and start shopping! Stay fashionable!
America’s Greatest Mystery: Guys in Pickup Trucks
By: Jean Campbell
Tags: Dr Seuss, Loneliness, Humor, Poetry, Men

I do not like the men I see

Who sit in trucks and parks, for free.

Why do they wait? Why are they there?

Is it wrong for them to sit, and stare?
Best Perfume for Men in India
By: Dimple Sharman
Tags: Perfume, Colong, Style, Men, India

Typically you’ll see lighter notes like botanicals in the top and deeper notes like woods in the base. The Best Perfume for Men in India to wear is one they want to wear.

These are the ones that leave lasting impressions and the ones that guys keep returning to, sometimes decade after decade. Whether warm and woody or fresh and clean, colognes have the power to convey personality and attract attention.
Revealed! This Is Why Men Have Longer Eyelashes
By: The Brown Lady Says
Tags: Facts, Eyelashes, Beauty, Men

Credits: Sophia Lashes

Have you ever looked at your boyfriend, brother or even a friend and felt Damn! You don’t even need those pretty long lashes. Ladies, most of you will agree with me that we have seen way more men with naturally long eyelashes than women and secretly we are jealous of it. But have you ever wondered what exactly is the reason behind this? I mean, so less goes into their skin care and grooming yet such beautiful eyelashes that you have been craving for?

Well, that exactly what we are going to discuss today.

Why Men Have Longer Eyelashes?

To be honest, the length of your lashes does not depend on your gender entirely. What we see as a mere cosmetic feature actually serves a very important purpose. The purpose of your eyelashes is to protect your eyes and keep of dust, so what mostly affects the length of your lashes is the the width of your eyes. Yes, that is true and as you know, the width of your eyes entirely depends on your genetics.

Now that being said, there is another factor which affects the length of your eyelashes; Testosterone. Men generally have a higher amount of testosterone which is a male dominant hormone which increases the growth of your body hair and hence men do have higher chances of getting thick long eyelashes as compared to women.

Why Women Tend To Have Shorter Eyelashes Than Men?

When women ask me why men have longer lashes, the question that i like to answer more is why women have shorter lashes. Ladies, its all because of your routine. The constant use of fake lashes, torturing your lashes with the curler and the biggest mistake- sleeping with your makeup on; especially your mascara does more damage to your lashes than you can ever imagine.

Makeup makes your lashes stiff and hence more prone to breakage. Same goes with the curler and fake lashes, They make your lashes brittle and break easily.

So this was why men tend to have longer eyelashes. The health of your eyelashes depend largely on your routine and well you take care of them.

I hope i could satisfy your query and if you have anything more to ask, let me known in then comment section below.

Cheers!
Will Untreated Acute Epididymitis Become Chronic?
By: Sara Yy
Tags: Epididymitis, Men, Treatment

Epididymitis is brought on by urinary system pathway disease dispersing along the vas deferens for the epididymis. Many times, it comes about following large bodily labor, like soon after raising large physical objects, and many others. Additionally, it may occur right after a strong intimate exhilaration.

If gentlemen get timely treatment, the lesion can vanish completely without injury. However the epididymis operate may still be impacted. When the therapy is not appropriate or improperly handled, irritation can get into an abscess, ultimately causing serious problems for the epididymis tissues. Additionally, epididymitis might be supplementary to fibrosis, leading to stenosis or occlusion of the epididymal duct.

Bilateral epididymal problems may often lead to sterility in males or reduced fertility in males. When it comes to testicular contribution, it can also trigger testicular spermatogenesis malfunction. The epididymal abscess can extend and eliminate the testis (the epididymal orchitis). Acute epididymitis can develop into persistent epididymitis.

So, what signs and symptoms do you want to have?

1.Sudden high a fever, increased bright white blood flow cellular count, painful scrotum soreness, sinking discomfort within the affected part, ache inside the reduced abdomen and groin, increased when standing or walking.

2. The afflicted area from the epididymis is inflamed and contains apparent pain. When the degree of inflammation is large, the two epididymis as well as the testis are enlarged, along with the limit involving the two is not clear, which is known as epididymal orchitis. The spermatic power cord in the afflicted side is thickened and soft. Generally speaking, intense signs can gradually subside right after a 7 days.

What are the treatment options of epididymitis?

1.Standard treatment. Resting in mattress, implementing scrotum or homemade pillows to raise the scrotum can alleviate the signs. Pain medication can be used extreme ache, nearby hyperthermia can relieve signs and promote soreness. Sexual activity and actual work can worsen microbe infections and really should be prevented.

2. Anti-bacterial prescription drugs. Medicines that are understanding of germs ought to be chosen. Typically, soon after 1 to 2 months of intravenous administration, oral anti-bacterial drugs are presented for 2 to 4 weeks in order to avoid long-term swelling.

3. Natural treatment. If prescription antibiotic therapy is not successful, particularly if it becomes persistent, herbal solutions are safe and effective, for example Diuretic and Anti-inflammatory Pill of Dr.Lee. The natural herbs in this tablet can remove the inflammation and soreness from the epididymis no recurrence.

With a right knowledge of the illness, a appropriate and suitable program, and a beneficial mindset are typical guarantees for your heal of epididymitis.
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Excuses Are Not Masculine
By: Stefanos Sifandos
Tags: Trauma, Masculine, Excuses, Shame, Men

When we make excuses we negate responsibility and therefore defuse our power. This is unattractive and makes us as men untrustworthy.

Recently having facilitated hundreds of men through deep transformational and explorative work I realized profoundly that our excuses are holding us back from intimacy and connection — to be seen and to witness.

No one resonates with a man who doesn’t take responsibility and ownership of his actions or his past. When we deny our role in any event, we disempower ourselves.

So many of us as men are so fearful to own our “mistakes”, the pain we’ve caused others, our shame, and even our dreams.

We are fearful because we carry deep embarrassment about who we are or who we have been. So many of us have grown up in abusive, absent, and/or repressive households. Not knowing how to emote, nor how to express have lost our sense of self and therefore have cultivated a gnawing frustration of life that is projected outwardly.

We have given our power away. Having controlling or even enmeshed parents, we have defused ourselves of our own responsibility, wanting others in some way to save us or take away our pain. And if not another then pornography, sex, drugs, excessive achievement, wealth, status, and any addiction that validate us and distract us from unaddressed pain.

We haven’t known how to help ourselves and as a result, we have either retreated from the world in compounded shame and meekness or lashed out in leaky aggression and blame with no connection to the actual healing that really needs to transpire.

We have to continue to come together as men and be witnessed by other men in all of our emotions and range of expression. The entire spectrum of who we must be felt by ourselves without shame. Truly… all of us must be welcomed…

What do you feel when someone close to you continues to make excuses for their actions and behaviors?

One is glad to be of service.

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The Consequence of Cowardice
By: Raphael Queue
Tags: Women, Literature, Stoicism, Men, Philosophy

“The most despicable form of cowardice is self-pity”

- Marcus Aurelius

The modern world is plagued with many kinds of utmost cowardice. Man falling into slavery for the system, the every day tasks seemingly becoming less and less important. Decisions and actions done not for themselves but for others. Sacred thunderstorms roar, resonating and echoing the anger of our ancient ancestors. The heavens pour as they weep, thinking their sacrifice was for nothing but a pitiful and insignificant part of history.

In the Medieval and Anglo-Saxon period, it is considered a crime to call someone a coward; whether true or not, the accused and the complainant are deemed to fight one another to prove their worth, their honor and cleanse their name of such a dreadful title. To give in to fear, is to forsake your love for your family and folk.

The modern world has instilled in us cowardice in forms of everyday tasks and life. Failing to take care of yourself is a form of cowardice, becoming unhealthy and falling ill in the process is the consequence of cowardice. Men becoming effeminate, Women thinking themselves unequal to the man, failing to recognize their worth and place in the society, making them an inferior version of men. Parents failing to guide their children and them being given the freedom to choose whether they are man, woman, or something else. Children are taught and instilled with fear as if it were a virtue, not knowing that giving into fear is one of the biggest forms of cowardice.

Cowardice has become a virtue in the modern world, a pitiful version of love. Cowardice steals from us life that is vital and has big importance in playing our roles in the society. We fall in to cowardice instead of contributing our lives to something much bigger, something of a higher purpose. The modern world wants you to be distracted, sick, deprived, depressed and helpless. Man can live a hundred lifetimes without knowing such freedom. He who has never lived, can never know life’s meaning.
Why Women Just Get Tired Even When They Love A Man
Tags: Relationships, Emotions, Lifestyle, Love, Men

When a little boy is crying, you hear things like; boys don’t cry, be a big boy, etc. all designed to make the little boy tough. He is made to believe crying is for girls. The thing is, all kids show emotion by crying, they have not yet learnt the various ways of expressing themselves. When they are hungry, they cry. When they are tired, they cry. When they are upset, they cry. When they are angry, they cry. Crying is the major way kids learn to express themselves.

But by making boys fall into gender stereo types that makes them believe crying of only for girls. Society teaches them how to stifle emotion and never express themselves. Its little wonder when the most common complaint in relationships is that men don’t express emotion. But how can they?

The men I’m sure don’t even remember those early years when they are ridiculed or laughed at for showing emotion. For crying, for expressing themselves. All they know is that they don't know how to show emotion. They have a belief, without even remembering how it all began that showing emotion is weak. That if they show emotion they will be laughed at, ridiculed, teased.

I’m sometimes amazed at how far some men go to avoid talking about their feelings and emotions. I’m amazed by how difficult and almost impossible it is for some men to show any kind of emotional vulnerability. Sometimes, when they inadvertently lower their guard and show some amount of vulnerability, you can almost see them recoil and immediately retreat. Feeling the need to regroup and prove just how manly they are.

Society must do better. Start from when those men are boys. Showing emotion, being vulnerable is not a sign of either weakness or strength. It is a sign of being human. Let us accept that and we all would be the happier for it.
Women are carnal animals.
By: Vikki Sommers
Tags: Women, Couples, Men, Ritual

Women are carnal animals. With the right man, they initiate sex, they want it rough sometimes, gentle other times. If they respect and like the man very much, they want him to do more, they want him to “ravish” their bodies. They want him to dominate her, they want him to do what they will to her, without hurting her. I can’t help thinking how close the human animal is to animals in the wild. It is always the case that during sex the male is in the dominant role, on top, from behind, is the way dogs, lions and tigers have sex. She is mounted, she is submissive. A woman’s sexual pleasure involves the feeling of giving up control. I’m not talking BDSM here, just vanilla sex. A woman who loves sex with a man will let him do what he wants.

Men objectify women, and there’s no way of getting around it. From hundreds of thousands of years of evolution, when men hunted and women stayed back and picked fruits, berries and prepared meals, men’s visual abilities were rewarded when he spotted animals in the wild. This trait is hardwired in a man. On some level, women know this and dress in colorful, fashionable, revealing clothing, to capture a man’s gaze. Feminists will fight and fight, and ty to change men, but it is futile. Men cannot be changed, just like women are hardwired to attract mates.

Women too can’t change. We must accept this quality in a man. I love this trait in men, and I love when a man eyes me with approval. It is the beginning of the mating dance. They meet, and the man can’t wait to get her into bed. But women need to be warmed up to it. She knows what the man wants, but she puts him off until she feels she is ready. The way he treats her, the attention he gives her, his sense of humor, and of course, his attractive qualities, all soften the woman until she “gives in” to intimacy. We women want it as much as men do, but we must go through the ritual, getting to know him and accept him. Men need to know very little, but it is wrong to say they will fuck anything female. Men have their own ritual too.
Seriously? Python really works this way?
Tags: Beginner, Python

The strength of print() function

Btw, this function returns None

As soon as I started learning Python, and at the very first lessons I was introduced to a new ‘way’ of writing a simple code, which needs less lines of codes comparing to other programming languages.

The exercise is about writing a program which displays a triangle of stars in the following shape:

And from my Java background I thought about writing two loops, one for the number of rows and the second for the number of stars to be printed in each row.

While in Python I learned an easy way to do it, which doesn’t require two LOOPS!

It required one loop and a simple Python’s strings feature.

Well in Python, writing print(‘*’ * 7) will print:

*******, interesting?

So to solve the above exercise you actually need one loop, starting from 1 to 5 (in this particular example) and in each row you print:

“*” x row_number,

and it would look like this:

for i in range(1, 6):

print('*' * i)
Adobe Flash CS5.5 for Beginners Course
By: Shashank Gupta
Tags: Interntojob, Cs55, Beginners, Flash, Adobe

Adobe Flash CS5.5 for Beginners Course

Adobe Flash CS5.5 for Beginners

Requirements

NO

Description

A Verifiable Certificate of Completion is presented to all students who undertake this course.

Adobe Flash is still the leading way to create animations, games and presentations that can be viewed on any computer and countless mobile devices. It’s also an incredibly popular way to share high quality video. Now in this hands-on Adobe flash cs5 tutorials for Beginners course, you’ll learn how to work within the application to create impressive visuals for interactive animations, website interfaces and streaming online videos with usable controls.

The Adobe Flash Training Video course presented by professor Andy Anderson is a beginner-friendly guide to multimedia creation using the program’s professional features. You’ll learn how to work in Flash from the most basic creation of a project to adding layers, working with the timeline, adjusting colors, importing graphics, introducing interactivity and more. It could take years to learn such a wide range of skills on your own, but in this guided course you can learn how to put your videos, animations and presentations online in a matter of hours.

Take this Adobe Flash Training course now and learn how to create awesome animation with flash CS5.

Who this course is for:

Beginning users interested in creating interactive projects and animations for the web.

Graphic designers coming from Photoshop and Illustrator wanting to incorporate their artwork into Flash projects.

Multimedia producers interested in how Flash can be used to share their audio and video projects across the web.

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C# windows form application that converts the temperature from Fahrenheit to Celsius
Tags: Assignment Help, Coding, Beginner, C Programming, C Sharp Programming

C# windows form application that converts the temperature from Fahrenheit to Celsius

(((f — 32)) * 5 / 9);

Code:

using System;

using System.Collections.Generic;

using System.ComponentModel;

using System.Data;

using System.Drawing;

using System.Linq;

using System.Text;

using System.Threading.Tasks;

using System.Windows.Forms;

namespace code

{

public partial class Form1 : Form

{……..continue code for click here…