Ex boyfriend
By: Just A Small Town Girl
Tags: Rape, Abuse, Life, Ex Boyfriend, Crazy

So recently I have fallen out with my ex boyfriend due to his new crazy choice of women, she has been harassing me for least 2 months now, yes I may have fueled her up with harsh statuses. But at the end of the day I believe I am allowed to write whatever I like on my social media, if you don’t like what I write simply do not read it, she seems very immature, mentally unstabled, and bit bunny boilish, I have never messaged her first, it is always been her who sends messages and continues to stalk me by trying to follow me on other social medias.

Recently I outted my ex boyfriend as a “rapist” because even though I may have given into having sexual intercourse with him it doesn’t mean it isn’t rape, if a person at the beginning says no to having sex, the other party shouldn’t then sit there ignoring their girlfriend, sulking and making the girlfriend feel bad about it, I was manipulated into sex even though I did not want it, and he even used to wake me up by touching me inappropriately, which is sexual harassment, I told my mum and his mum and my mum told him it isn’t nice or isn’t right, and he pulled the walls over her eyes and everyone else’s claiming he didn’t know it was wrong, and my mum has even witnessed him sulking because I have said no.

His new partner doesn’t believe me, because I stayed with him, and even after we broke up I still wanted him in my life, because believe it or not I stopped having sex with him, he made my skin crawl every time he even suggested it, but that didn’t stop me from loving him or wanting to be friends. I believed he was a good person regardless of his sexual habits; my ex thought that relationships were just based on sex and trying to tell him it wasn’t was probably the hardest thing to tell a person who just didn’t care.

She has clearly never loved a person so hard enough, or even been in my situation, someone who’s been abused always goes back to the person who abuses them, because that is all they know. But I am glad I am out of it, and that he is out of my life.

Also after her telling me that he cheated on me with her four years ago (I do have the screenshot even though she thinks she’s deleted it) I am relived I am not even slightly surprised especially as she’s known to sleep around, and he was always trying to cheat on me with some other slappers, it honestly wouldn’t surprise me in the least, but least I am pure, I never ever once cheated on him…even though I had so many chances.

Now she wonders why I went quiet for a few weeks then suddenly started insulting him and his family, it wasn’t suddenly I’ve been doing it for six years. The whole lot of that family are deluded and do not live in the real world, for instance his sister who lives in a pub now gave him a lap dance (sure they were clothed and he pushed her away) but that in itself for a sister to dance like a little slut on her brothers junk is disgusting.

Eldest brother crackhead, mother is a love addict, and thinks every man shes been with is her childhood sweetheart. The mother shows her children that it’s okay to be bullies. Honestly the whole family are fucking gross and I don’t ever want anything to do with them.

And there is no wonder why my ex’s new partners child doesn’t live with her, she’s unhinged and isn’t mentally stabled to have children, and neither is he, and if she isn’t careful I will be a bitch and will get social services involved, I have every single prove of messages from her, and I will also report them to her HR at work.

I am not ashamed of who I am, I don’t need to get over myself, I don’t need to grow up, and I am not crazy, I was angry which makes one look crazy.

But for now I shall sit back and wait for the perfect opportunity, I shall carry on with my life, with my partner, my friends and family.

Thank you ex boyfriend for showing your true colours, and I really do hope she fucks you up just like she did with the other men she’s fucked up, like fact she cheated on her husband with one of my friends, friends.

-Just a small town girl-