DO NOT LISTEN TO THE WOMAN PART 2
Tags: Wisdom, Masculinity, Relationships, Peace, Knowledge

“And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now the Lord hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go unto my maid It may be that I may obtain children by her and Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai” Genesis 16:2KJV

A LITTLE BIT OF BACKGROUND

In the first part of do not listen to the woman I explained the importance of gender roles and how the man was built, created by the Most High for a different purpose than the woman.

Both roles are essential and complementary but what today’s society is trying to hide is the understanding that the man is the leader and the head of the woman.

CONSEQUENCES OF LISTENING TO THE WOMAN

In this second part we will take a close look at the consequences of listening to the woman and following her whims,feelings to take important decisions and make life changing choices.

Sarai was the wife of Abram, she was taken care of and provided for, and because Abram was following the Most High, he was prosperous, had cattle, and an abundance of resources.

Sarai was unable to give birth and this brings us to the crucial importance of the man’s role as well as the woman’s purpose.

BOTH ROLES ARE ESSENTIAL NOT EQUAL

The man builds civilisations, the woman comes with the man and receives his seed to preserve the continuity of life and therefore civilisations on the earth.

Because of Sarai’s inability to give birth, she felt incomplete thus confirming that the woman’s contentment and happiness come from fulfilling her role and purpose in the preservation of civilisations; no matter how much she is taken care of, how luxurious and lavish her lifestyle is, how beautiful or famous she is, eventually because of her purpose, her soul will be incomplete.

WORSHIPPING THE WOMAN HURTS BOTH GENDERS

A similar example would be the life story of a very talented athlete who never reached his full potential, because he was complacent and took his gift for granted.

The gift the Most High gave to the woman, by making her a mother and a wife is a very powerful one, it demands love, sacrifice,humility and accountability because it is a great responsibility. The man is the head and the leader of the household, but the woman is responsible for the happiness of her man, the household and the children.

Since Sarai was unable to give birth she became emotionally unstable, depressed which led her to suggest out of desperation to Abram, to impregnate his servant and egyptian slave Agar.

HEAR THE WOMAN, RESPECT HER BUT DON’T LISTEN

A man should take the time to hear the woman he deals with , his mother as well, but he should never listen to the woman when it comes to crucial matters, because the woman is an emotional thinker and is guided by fear most of the time.

Which is why after listening to them, they will often accuse you of taking their suggestion seriously, if the situation turns bad, but if it turns good which is very rare they will claim that they are the one deserving all the praise.

Accountability is a foreign term to the woman’s vocabulary which is why the so-called black man has to be accountable,and responsible, this is how we protect ourselves and the women in our lives as well.

LIFE