You are about to give up but still want to motivate yourself..
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Most people think that effort and https://passionatelife5.blogspot.com/2020/06/to-live-life-happily.html

are always directly linked -the more effort you put in,the more success you get out.But

success is actually nonlinear . This misunderstanding is why the mass majority of people give up before they reach the rewards.

Here,the more effort you put in,the more success you get out. The relationship is linear . It’s a simple story to understand input equals to output.

Someone reminds us that our brains love this linear causality relationship.

People think that if,say, two variables are casually linked ,then a steady input in one variable should always yield a result in the other one. Our emotional apparatus is designed for linear causality……If you do not feel that you are going anywhere ,your emotions will cause you to become demoralized.

If this relationship breaks down say you work hard for two weeks straight to build a blog and then published it to less than 100 readers in the first month you get discouraged .

You worked hard but it didn’t translate to success. Input didn’t equal to output. It would be very easy for you to abandon this project with a simple “it didn’t work” excuse if you don’t understand that…..

Success is nonlinear- success isn’t a straight line upward. It’s erratic,with ups and downs and long periods of no progress,and then when you win,you win big.

Our brains don’t like this story because isn’t not very neat.” I worked hard for 12 years and accomplished nothing,and then one day, everything clicked ,and now I am rich,”just doesn’t have a great ring to it.

It’s hard for people to understand why suddenly ,with are additional move,they see a giant, disproportionally large impact.

Someone uses the example of a sandcastle say you spend hours building a sandcastle on the beach ,and then with one additional grain of sand,the whole structure tumbles. someone writes:

It could be said that the last grain of sand is responsible for the destruction of the entire structure. What we are witnessing here is a nonlinear effect resulting from a linear force exerted on an object. A very small additional input ,here the grain of sand, caused a disproportionate result….. Popular wisdom has integrated many such phenomena,as witnessed by such expressions as the straw that broke the camel’s back or the drop that caused the water to spill.

You are looking for this disproportionate result . Most people quit on the downslope because they don’t understand that the amount of work you put in does not correlate to the amount of success you enjoy at any given moment.

I make this mistake as much as anyone else. Just ask my wife how many of my ideas have died after a few months because of a lack of perceived progress . It’s most of them it’s easy to give up on the downslope.

Here’s someone says again:

Reality rarely gives us the privilege of a satisfying linear positive progression..

You may study for a year and learn nothing ,then unless you are disheartened by the empty results and give up, something will come to you in a flash.

This sudden flash is that big arrow upwards. It’s a rare event that changes the game.

I know life is hard….

I know sometimes you feel like giving up:

On people and on yourself. I know you have good days and bad days but more bad than good or so it seems. I know everyday you questions youself “ what is this all for?”

“Am I making right decisions or not?”

I know you have more questions than answers and most of the times you don’t even know how to explain them. I know life is hard,but you have to keep going. You have to rise above the waters of your soul,and bloom,no matters how hot the fire is. No matter how many arrows you carry on your back, believe me,you are a warrior.

You are a soldier filled with both pain and love ,and life ,well,life is just another beast you were meant to tame and there is no one better for the job, other than you.

Some signs of mentally strong people-

They do following things….

1. They move on. They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves.

2. They embrace change. They welcome challenges.

3. They stay happy. They don’t waste energy on things they can’t control.

4. They are kind,fair and unafraid to speak up.

5. They are willing to take calculated risks.

6. They celebrate other people’s success. They don’t resent that success.

You don’t have to be perfect.

Having a bad day is ok.

Small steps are also progress.

Asking for help is strength.

People love and appreciate you.

One day you will be at the place you always wanted to be. Don’t stop believing.

Everything will come to you at the right moment. Be patient.

Some Toxic People You Should Just Get Rid Of:

. Those who spread negativity

. Those who criticize you all the time.

. Those who waste your time.

. Those who are jealous.

. Those who play the victim.

. Those who don’t care.

. Those who are self centred

. Those who keep disappointing you.

There’s going to be very painful moments in your life that will change your entire world in a matter of minutes. These moments will change you.

Let them make you stronger, smarter and kinder. But don’t you go and become some one that your not. Cry, scream if you have to. Then you straighten out that crown and keep it moving.

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that fear has no power and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes . You are free.

Walk away from people who put you down. Walk away from fights that will never be resolved . Walk away from trying to please people who will never see your worth.

The more you walk away from things that poison your soul,the healthier you will be. Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solutions.

Some pieces of wisdom that can change your life-

1. Words are powerful , use them wisely.

2. People come and go,but the right ones stay.

3. You are doing enough even if it doesn’t feel like it.

4. Failure is when you don’t try.

5. Random acts of kindness make everyone feel better.

6. Live for today ,not for tomorrow.

7. Never look back,there is nothing there for you.

8. Overthinking kills happiness and creativity.

Always have a unique character like salt. It’s presence is not felt but it’s absence make everything tasteless.

Self control is strength, calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.

Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life. Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.

Some people will never like you because your spirit irritates their demons.

You are the artist of your life.don’t give the paintbrush to anyone else.

I have the power to create the life I desire.

When things https://passionatelife5.blogspot.com/2020/06/motivation-to-empower-yourself.html

inside you, things change around you.

.what you think,you become.

. what you feel,you attract.

. what you imagine, you create.

The best part about life? Every morning you have a new opportunity to become a happier version of yourself.

Do something today that your future self will thank you for.

Don’t ignore your own potential.

Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace.

. I can do anything.

. https://passionatelife5.blogspot.com/2020/06/create-your-positive-life.html

is a choice.

. I celebrate my individuality.

. I am prepared to succeed.