SELF LOVE IDEAS – First of all, just a little reminder, that you are very special.
By: Maira Tariq
Tags: Love Yourself, Selfloving, Self Improvement, Value Yourself, Self Care Tips

SELF LOVE IDEAS –







First of all, just a little reminder, that you are very special. Yes YOU. I know, no one before told you that but WAIT... were you seriously waiting for someone to remind you your importance and speciality? Of course, NO! But I’m pretty much sure that once in a lifetime or maybe more than once, someone has shown you your flaws. Someone might have highlighted your scars. And majority of us have faced negative comments passing on us. And the need of hour is CUT OFF such people from your life, who make you think you are less than any better person. Just CUT THEM OFF! Key to self-love is not to get affected by people’s opinion. Unfortunately, we are living in a society where no one is safe from negative comments. People think that it’s their right to judge us. But wait... will you let them judge you? Yes. You won’t.



So, here are some self-love ideas to those pretty souls, who are struggling to love themselves:

Appreciate yourself on every other achievement. It can be as small as sleeping on time. Set your goals. Write down anything you badly want, and start struggling to achieve it. There’s no short cut to success. Surround yourself with people who give you positive vibes. Who make you feel wanted and worthy. He/she can be your friend, your siblings, your parents and what about your pet? Animals are non-judgmental and are the most loyal creatures (if you’re not scared of them hehe). Take care of yourself. No one’s going to do it for you. I repeat NO ONE. Take hot showers, make a self-care routine, start yoga/exercise I swear it feels so good and physically fit after exercise. You should give it a start if you don’t do already. Stay positive. No matter how worse the situation gets, deal it with patience. Don’t get it on nerves. Believe in the phrase “THIS TOO SHAL PASS” Take care of your mental health. Remember one thing that someone’s behaviour should never affect you mentally or emotionally. If the behaviour of a loved one is hurting you then please talk to them about it and make the things clear as soon as possible. I assure that you’ll much better. Surround yourself with your favourite things. Like flowers, chocolates and anything you like. If you’re feeling low on some days and no one is there to share with, then don’t feel that you’re alone. This is the worst mistake we do. We always want a partner/friend to share our problems. But sometimes that partner turns into a stranger and later on the only thing left is ‘regret’. I know it’s exceptional and not everyone ends up to be stranger. But the point we are discussing here is to learn how to enjoy alone sometimes and how to console your own self in dark times. Don’t ever depend on someone. This would be the worst thing anyone can ever do in his/her life. Be confident. Fight your fears. If something is threatening you, threat it back. You’ve to stand for yourself. Learn to say ‘NO’. That’s the biggest step to self-love. If you don’t feel comfortable in doing something then no one can pressurize you to do that. DON’T ALLOW ANYONE TO CONTROL YOU IN ANY WAY.



So sweetheart! That was the talk. I’m glad you’re still here and reading it. And that shows you already love yourself. Stay blessed.