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We all need to relax (Day 23)
By: Sara Tomsic
Tags: Breastfeeding, Massage, Motherhood, Newborn, Baby

People say that being a new mom is exhausting. They’re absolutely right. It’s not because of the long nights or non-stop breastfeeding (this is, of course, a big contributing factor), but because of the constant need to make everything alright for your child. That is genuine stress. It’s keeping you up at night and consuming your waking hours.

It’s problem-solving on a completely different level because there are numerous times when your baby is crying and you just don’t know what the problem even is. So you try absolutely everything you can come up with.

Even though I haven’t written about it lately, our breastfeeding is still quite a challenge. I have taken care of the wounds on my nipples, so it’s not so painful every time Otto re-opens an old wound and he has gotten better at latching on. But he is still using his gums and that makes my nipples sore almost all the time. And because I’m stubborn with my decision to breastfeed him exclusively, I hurt each time he feeds. This is a huge problem even though I have been discouraged from feeling this way by some of my closest family members.

They say that breastfeeding shouldn’t hurt, but I’m afraid Otto has become accustomed to using his gums and no one says how to discourage him from that.

The breastfeeding consultant said that it is from his tight lower jaw which has gotten a bit better with craniosacral therapy. He can now stick out his tongue, which he couldn’t before. Also, she suggested we get in the habit of relaxing him, so we’re taking baby massage classes, so I will be able to relax him and help him with this centuries old technique. He enjoys it very much.

I am realizing that we all should relax and listen to our intuition more. Also, not overdo it with “advice” seeking. Because something worked for someone else’s child, we should be smart about using the same method. I think, basically, we need to allow ourselves to get to know our son and his way of expressing his needs. It will be a while before we do, but we sure are trying.

Motherhood in numbers:
Time flies (Day 25)
By: Sara Tomsic
Tags: Breastfeeding, Motherhood, Parenthood, Newborn, Baby

Photo by Hu Chen on Unsplash

When you have a newborn. It is day twenty-five of our son’s life and it feels strangely that it has been longer. But on the other hand, each day flies by as we’re slowly settling in a baby-centric routine.

Today, we woke up (well, I have, as I’m the one with the boobs) at one thirty, four, seven and finally, nine thirty. It takes me from fifteen minutes to half an hour to get Otto changed and fed. We kinda got up at half past nine, I ate my breakfast, but we were back to breastfeeding at ten. And it lasted until little over noon. This marathon feeding was interrupted by Otto’s dozing off, but still, we were in bed by then. I read an interesting developmental book in between.

When he fell asleep, we wanted to make use of a wonderfully sunny autumn day and go for a walk. But some persuasion was needed to begin with and we were out just for some twenty minutes or so. Yesterday, my husband took our son out for hour and a half, which gave me time to wash my hair and rest a bit. But today, we weren’t in the mood for a stroll obviously.

Our little boy is nursing for many reasons, being hungry seems to be the least prominent one. So we went on and breastfed some more, while my husband made lunch. Kale and minced beef sufflé. He did it for the first time and it was yummy.

After rather late lunch, I managed to get Otto to sleep for over two hours. In the meantime my in-laws came, so my husband entertained them until Otto was ready to wake up.

He was really in a good mood and was quite bit of fun for his grandparents. He stays awake and is responsive longer, so he really is interested in interaction more and more.

After they left, we interchanged some breastfeeding and napping sessions and now, I’m breastfeeding him for the last time today. With Whisbear helping me lull my precious boy to sleep.

And so, another day passes. Quickly, far too quickly.

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How To Cope With Your Baby From Waking Up To Early
By: Naomi Harrison
Tags: Baby Sleep Routine, Baby Sleep Training, Baby Sleep, Babys, Baby Sleeping

How To Cope With Your Baby From Waking Up To Early Naomi Harrison Apr 1·3 min read

If you’re wondering why early morning waking is a tough sleep problem to fix, then it’s because they have less energy prior to early-morning wake-ups. And the truth is, in less than an hour of sleep we are beginning to stir.

However, it is very important that you remember that your child is waking early only if he has not been receiving the necessary amount of night rest for his age and his body. In other words, even though it seems early to you, your child may be sleeping from 7 PM to 6 AM.

The amount of sleep our children require cannot exceed 11 hours at night, as their bodies will be completely relaxed after this amount and incapable of handling more.

Keeping in mind the following: if your child is awake at night, and if he seems energetic and well-rested in the morning, and if he makes it easy until his naptime, you have guaranteed your child is receiving enough rest.

Sleeping at night when your child wakes up at 5:30 AM can be problematic. You will need to push bedtime back by 15 minutes, and then watch your child until the rest of the morning so you can figure it out.

Although you might consider making the bedtime later, don’t take that route if your child often wakes up earlier. This is why it’s best to go slowly.

For children who are early birds, here are some other ideas to consider:

Your child’s bedroom should be extremely dark.

When sleep-deprived, you should get rid of any possible wake-up noises (garbage trucks, barking dogs, sprinklers) by plugging in white noise machines to drown them out.

Removing all stimulating toys that can be distracting once the sun enters the room will help your child to sleep better.

Your interaction with your child within the last hour of his wake time can prevent him from going back to sleep. Don’t check in on him less than an hour before his wake time.

The bedtime should not be too late for your child’s age. Set the sleep time a little earlier, and observe his behavior in the morning. In so doing, you will allow your child to sleep more hours because he will not have become overtired during the day.

Return to your old bedtime if your child never wakes earlier. If the earlier bedtime doesn’t affect the wake time, you may consider using it despite its earlier time to make sure your child gets the right amount of night sleep for his age.

You may want to slow the process down if you have a child under 12 months old who has just begun to wean from his feedings.

Further, you may need to ensure you give the breast or bottle more often on days when it wasn’t given at night so he doesn’t get hungry before sleep time.

If you’re having problems getting your baby to sleep, CLICK HERE and try this quick quiz and watch the video to learn a simple and effective way of putting your baby to sleep very easy
Things to keep in mind before every kid’s online shopping.
Tags: Online Shopping, Online, Shopping, Baby Products, Baby

Discover the astonishing collection of organic baby and kids products and make a healthy baby and happy parents.

To be precise, every parent has a desire to buy new stuff for their kids and dress them up. Especially in today’s time, every newly became parent pre-decide everything before the baby steps into the world. It has now become a thing, or we can say a ritual to do during the nine months and after the baby is born. And every process starts with shopping, and what can be more convenient than to shop online by setting it anywhere around the globe. Kids online shopping has become a trend that every mom likes to follow; whether it is for a newborn baby or a toddler, they crave to buy new and cute stuff for their children.

But what goes wrong in the whole scenario of purchasing things for the babies? What exactly happens is the increasing demand for kids’ stuff; every platform tries to indulge in and provide kids with products. But not every item is good for the kids. From shopping from a brand to the purpose of the stuff you have purchased, every step needs to be taken minutely to make you experience smooth kids’ online shopping. Here are some points that anyone can keep in mind before shopping online for babies:

Choose an authentic brand: It is crucial for you to choose an original brand and has a fair market value, especially in manufacturing baby products. If the first is done right, then the other steps automatically go in the right direction.

Select organic products over regular items: With the increasing market that includes every type of platform availability, it also increases the chances of compromising its quality. Choosing organic items helps you select a chemical-free option, which glides perfectly with your baby’s delicate texture. Organic products make you choose an eco-friendly option and last longer than an ordinary item.

Don’t fell into the trap of advertising: Kids online shopping often starts to emerge after seeing any attractive advertisement or might have heard it from any of your friends. This way, it usually leads you to the companies and products overpriced and does not possess and quality. While shopping, always looks for the raw material used in the making of that product and how it is being made. Because sometimes, companies do not mention the details and bluff the customers.

Keep the points mentioned above in your mind, and you are all set to buy fantastic stuff for your kids.

Also read — Nothing can replace a baby pillow in providing well-cushioned support.
Useful parenting tips to keep in mind while doing baby shopping.
Tags: Shopping, Baby Products, Shop Online, Organic, Baby

Useful parenting tips to keep in mind while doing baby shopping. Thebabyatelier Apr 1·2 min read

Discover the astonishing collection of organic baby and kids products and make a healthy baby and happy parents.

Babies need things and tonnes of them! Using a list of must-haves for infant items to stock up on basics for the neonatal period to age one can be helpful to a greater extent. You will also want to consider the list of nice-to-have things that will make your baby’s day-to-day life a little simpler. There are many baby products online, but being smart parents, you can not pick the stuff out of emotions. Try to choose the best products in terms of standardisation, and make sure they come from a good manufacturer. Besides, the clothing is one such product that can not be hoarded, as the baby grows with each passing day.

The sizes of baby clothes are grouped by age, sometimes as neonatal, three months, six months, nine months, and twelve months. This bifurcation is limited to clothes, and some other things like food, toys, accessories, etc. notably, the differentiation is available in baby products online and offline both. But certain brands do this differently, and their sizes can vary. To help you find the right suit, look for clothes that also list weight or height guidelines. Also, you can take a roundup of the best brands of baby clothes.

Some infants go straight to 3 months and never require newborn sizes, but it’s impossible to tell in advance, so getting some newborn clothing that doesn’t hurt later. Before your child wants it, make sure you have a few clothes in the next size-babies grow rapidly!

Think of warmth and ease in general. Look for soft, spacious, sturdy clothes. Pick well-made goods that can stand up to regular cleaning. Often, clothes with strings, tassels, and ribbons are picked up by the parents. These are risks of choking.

Among the various organic baby products online, there is some stuff like organic clothing. Organic clothing is manufactured without harsh dyes or toxic additives, although it is typically more costly. To avoid skin discomfort, use a soft baby-friendly laundry detergent. Material quality is one thing, the second is comfortability and ease of putting up and removing the clothing. Babies need quick changes, therefore always try to go for clothing that is easy to handle.

Look for easy-to-use zip-up sweaters, fleece tops, and sweatshirts to put on and take off. Often, fleece jumpsuits are cosy and warm and slide over anything else quickly. Buy bigger sizes and loose armhole pieces that would not need tugging and fussing. Your bundle of joy needs all the comfort and ease at every point in time, make sure you give him the best.

Also read — Why is it better to have natural baby products?
The 3 Day Potty Training!
By: Shamail Ahmed
Tags: Potty Training, Baby

Can toddlers be fully potty trained in just three days?

Make sure they’re ready to potty train

According to most advocates of the three-day method, you’ll have the most success with kids between 18 and 30 months. It’s also important to note that many experts argue that toddlers aren’t ready to grasp the concept until they are at least two. Most signs outlined in most manuals include being able to communicate wants and needs well through a combination of gestures, signs and words; an interest in the toilet;

a desire to be changed out of soiled diapers; the ability to stay dry for at least two hours at a time; and showing that they are aware of pooping or peeing when it’s happening, like studied silence, grunting or stealth-pooping in a corner. If you want to learn more about How to potty train your baby in 3 days then Click Here.

Plan A Weekend for “Potty Training”

Pinpoint tasks that might take your focus off your little one, like cooking, doing laundry or taking an older child to a birthday party or swimming lesson. Come up with a game plan to manage these distractions. Prepping meals and catching up on the washing ahead of time, taking turns with your partner to run errands or asking a friend to help out with your to-do list will make “potty weekend” a bit easier.

You can prep your toddler for training by introducing aspects of self-care and toileting in advance. Potty Training in 3 Days Ebook by GoPottyTraining suggests taking some sort of toys or some playing stuff of the baby as well as by allowing your child to be present when their siblings use the toilet.

You can’t have too many pairs of underwear…or ice pops

Some preachers of the three-day methodology recommend having your child go bare-bottomed, while others advise they wear just underwear. If you go the underwear route, you will likely need a few dozen pairs, since your child will need a change every time they have an accident. It’s a good idea to have lots of wet wipes and cleaning supplies on hand to take care of messes. You may also want to take a look at the Potty Training guide. Long’s book recommends having a few scattered around the house if you are training all over your home as opposed to in one dedicated room, as other training books suggest.

To get the pee process going, stock up on plenty of your child’s favourite ice pops, drinks and even colourful straws, if they’ll entice your little one to drink more and therefore pee more, for maximum practice opportunities.

For In-Depth knowleadge of How To train your baby in 3 days check out this Ebook by GoPotty Training.
3 to 6-Month-Old Baby Favorite Products for 2021
By: William Anderson
Tags: Parenting, Gifts, Baby, Children, Parents

A new baby at home means buying a whole new set of baby stuff and essentials that she needs in order to develop and thrive. Aside from diapers, baby bottles, and baby clothes, here are some baby products for 3 to 6-month-old babies that we think are vital to your baby’s comfort and development.

5. Crib and Mobile

A snug and comfortable crib will help your baby rest and sleep cozily, especially since she will spend most of her time dozing off. Meanwhile, a baby mobile is a set of toys suspended above her crib which your baby can look at and observe while lying down. The colors, shapes, and movement of these toys will help her with his cognitive development. Try this top-selling Winnie The Pooh Crib Mobile from Pottery Barn Kids for only $69 USD.

4. Rocker

When not in her crib, you can place your baby on a baby rocker to soothe and help her take a nap. Choose one with a soft and comfortable cushioned seat, as well as a safety belt, to ensure that she will not fall and get hurt. Baby rockers also come in electronic models, so you only have to press a button and it will rock your baby to sleep. Try this best-selling Infant-to-Toddler Rocker with Geo Diamonds from Fishre-Price for only $44.99.

3. Baby Monitor

If you cannot be with your baby all the time and you need to leave her in her room for a couple of minutes, you may want to get a baby monitor. This is a tool that enables you to watch your baby even if you’re in another room. With a baby monitor, you can hear her when she cries or wakes us, thus, enabling you to go back to her nursery.

2. Play Mat and Gym

For your baby’s playtime, one of our favorite baby products for 3 to 6-month-old babies is a play mat where she can lie down and a play gym that consists of brightly colored and interactive toys she can observe and play with. By letting her explore these tools on her own, you are helping her develop her motor and cognitive skills.

1. Canvas Wall Art

Finally, for your baby’s nursery, our favorite product is personalized canvas art of your baby’s photo that can easily be hung on walls as decor. The designs that we love the most include Sunflower Garden Bucket and Greatest Love.

There are so many more baby products for 3 to 6-month-old babies that we think are cool and useful, but the 5 above are our favorites because not only do they make the nursery conducive and complete, but they also help provide babies’ comfort and enhance development.

For other useful and helpful products for your children and babies, make sure to check out our blog often.
Potty Training Dos and Don’ts
By: Susan Urban
Tags: Potty Training, Parenting, Toddlers, Moms, Baby

Potty training will require a lot of work form your baby and even more patience from you. The key to success is the right timing, consistency, and ability to keep your toddler well-motivated. How to do that? Here are some basics to start with.

Do read clues

If you can see that diaper is bothering your child, it is the best moment to start! Although there are other signs to look for: baby trying to dress and undress on their own, copies behavior of others, or at least stays dry for 2 hours or more — you are good to try!

Do not rush

Even if your child seemed eager to start the training, do not rush the next steps to happen. Take your time, stay as patient as your baby needs you to.

Do praise

Praise is a powerful tool during potty training! Remember you are rewarding using the potty correctly, not only going to the potty.

Do not punish

Whatever happens — you cannot yell or punish the baby. Potty training is a complicated process and a massive change in a baby’s life, and it can get messy (literally!), but you need to stay supportive.

Do talk about it

Remember to talk about it with your child at the beginning. Also, you need to speak with every other one taking care of the baby during the training — grandparents, nanny, friends staying overnight. You all need to remain consistent.

Do not ask too often

Try to recognize moments, when your child could need a potty, remind about it regularly but not too often. You don’t want the baby to get bored quickly or to connect the training with disturbing during playtime.

If you’re tired of continually changing diapers and willing to start the training, I recommend you my How to make your child love going potty guide with the whole sleep training process described and the best techniques showed.

Susan Urban
How to change diaper pants at night without disrupting the baby’s sleep?
Tags: Parents Love, Motherhood, Diapers, Baby Care, Baby

How to change diaper pants at night without disrupting the baby’s sleep? Doobidoo Jan 13·1 min read

Baby’s sleep at day time is like one of the luxuries for parents as they can get enough time to complete bits and pieces of their work. But, during the night, when you and the little one is in bed, have you thought about the protocols in terms of night-time nappy pant changes? Waking the baby up is obviously not the choice as it will be a tedious job. It takes hours to settle and slip off to peaceful sleep.

There should be some rules in mind to safeguard against waking the baby while still achieving the task at hand, changing into a pant style diaper for baby.

· Set up a routine for your baby: Routine makes your baby feel comfy. If you disrupt the routine and become inconsistent, it can end up to multiple sleepless nights.

· Work in the dark: Don’t switch on the lights. Do the change in the dark as your baby can wake up. Don’t worry about how to do it and trust your instincts as you do the same thing in the daylight and then you should know how the drill goes.

· Prepare beforehand: The night time duty of changing nappies has to be seamlessly silent. Dress your baby for bed conveniently that should suit you when it comes to change.
What Baby Products Should You Buy Online?
By: Kicks
Tags: Newborn, Baby Products, Baby Products Online, Product, Baby

The new year has started with new hopes and if you have become a new parent then you must be feeling really elated and cannot wait to start your journey ahead holding your precious baby wrapped in a blanket. The journey of the new parents is full of excitement and fun and it is completely unknown. They are not prepared despite all the advice pouring in from all the directions.

They do not know what to expect, except for a couple of basic facts like they have to feed the baby, clean the baby and put the baby to sleep. But these simple tasks are not as simple as they sound, you are going to take care of the delicate little baby and these tasks could become mammoth tasks and unless you are prepared and on your toes armed with all the baby essentials you could ever need, you will be running around frantically messing things up.

So, here is a list of items you would need to stock up on.

Get organic baby products

You must get organic baby products for your baby, because these are so gentle and safe. Being chemical free and handmade the material will simply pamper your baby and you can be sure of it being durable. There are plenty of items in the market that are organic including organic cotton baby pillow.

Buy reusable cloth diapers for babies

You will be needing so many diapers that you will need to stock up on these all the time. But, the disposable diapers are good for your baby’s skin, why don’t you consider buying reusable cloth diaper instead. These diapers are soft and are made from breathable material that are so soft on your baby’s skin. These diapers would also last you longer, so it is a good idea to invest.

Have a baby breastfeeding pillow

Your baby will need to be fed so many times a day and this process needs to be comfortable for you both. Having a good breastfeeding nursing pillow, is all you need, your baby will be at the right height and you do not have to bend low meaning your shoulders, back will not be under stress.

A newborn baby swaddle is a must-have item

Your baby needs the warmth and comfort and what better way to provide that than using a good quality baby muslin swaddle. It will be soft on your baby’s skin and even when you wash it over and over again it will be softer, giving your baby the womb like comfort.

Go shopping with a list of all the essentials and start your new year with a bang.
How diaper pants are better than the old style diaper?
Tags: Parents Love, Motherhood, Diapers, Baby Care, Baby

How diaper pants are better than the old style diaper? Doobidoo Jan 13·1 min read

Diaper has some demerits that leads to its fall. They are made up of chemicals that damages the sensitive skin of the baby. Diapers don’t tell about the wetness. Soiled diapers lead to skin rashes, infection, cough and cold. It hinders the flow of air which allows bacteria to form their space and germs to breed. It also doesn’t help in potty training. Baby fails to understand how to pee and poop in toilet.

Where diaper pants for babies are more convenient to use, safe and comfortable. They are advanced for your ever advanced baby. Don’t make your little one struggle with the diapers that fall of and becomes a hurdle in their playtime. Let them enjoy their childhood to the fullest with no fear of leakage. Babies become super active in their growing age and don’t anyone to cut in to may them still, the regular diapers flips over their stomach. At this stage, Doobidoo baby pants are easier and more convenient. These pant diapers make sure that the baby can move with agility as they are always curious to see and learn new things.
The Unexpected Love of My Life
By: Yael Wolfe
Tags: Family, This Happened To Me, Love, Relationships, Baby

I have grown closer than ever to him since his procedure. As he’s gotten a bit older, he is showing signs of recognizing his favorite people. His whole face lights up when his oldest brother comes home from school. He tracks his mother across the room, smiling at her when she turns to look at him. When I visit, he always has a smile for me and reaches out to touch my face.

When he’s fussy or overtired and starts screaming, most of the relatives will surrender him back to the care of his parents. If I’m around, though, I always jump in, pick him up, walk him around the room bouncing and patting him.

Everyone jokes that I’m his favorite, that he really doesn’t like anyone outside his immediate family except for Auntie Yael. To be fair, I think he is probably comforted by my likeness to his mother. We have similar body types, hair color, and voices, and I’ve noticed that siblings and even cousins often have similar scents — like some type of genetic pheromone. However, some of my sister’s other children did not develop such a strong bond with me in those early days, so I know Alex and I must have a unique connection.

When I visit, he always has a smile for me and reaches out to touch my face.

One of the most pleasant aspects of our relationship has been the ability to feed him. Because of his condition, my sister was not able to breastfeed him after he was born. Though it was a devastating blow to her to not be able to do that for her most vulnerable child, it has been a gift to the family, allowing us to participate in his care in ways we have never been able to do with the other kids.

And though it might sound selfish, this gift was perhaps the greatest for me. I have always wondered what it would be like to experience pregnancy to full term, to give birth, to breastfeed a child. That has not been part of my journey, except for my one miscarriage, and that has been one of the deepest disappointments of my life.

Bottle feeding Alex, however, has given me a little glimpse into that world. It is one of the best experiences I have ever had. I love watching him eat, listening to the little sounds he makes as he sucks and swallows. Now that he’s a little older, he locks eyes with me, staring at me the entire time, his hand on my face, touching my chin, cheek, or lips. I can literally feel the oxytocin flooding my body in those moments. It’s pure heaven.
Sleep Teaching — What is That?. Sleep teaching is just a mild name for…
By: Susan Urban
Tags: Sleep Training, Baby Sleep, Moms, Sleep, Baby

Sleep teaching is just a mild name for sleep training with gentle methods, although it touches a point! When you say „sleep teaching”, you believe that your baby is going to gain new skills, when the word „training” is more about repeating patterns. As for me, and my method, teaching is adequate.

Self-soothing

I believe the ability to sleeping well depends mainly on the ability to self-soothe. Your baby won’t sleep through the night incessantly but will manage to fall back asleep on their own. My Hold With Love method is designed to convince the baby that nothing terrible happens when you wake up on your own.

Sleep as part of a routine

A bedtime routine is vital for helping your baby twig what is going to happen next and when is the right time to sleep (and bath and play…). Recurrence of events has a calming effect.

External factor

Despite the sleeping skills, several factors can affect sleep, like room environment — darkening shades and proper temperature are required. Also, daytime activities may improve or worsen nighttime sleep. If you are sleep teaching, try to keep the days more or less similar with similar intensity for a while.

Teaching yourself

It is you who need to learn how to help your baby to develop sleeping skills. I recommend my guide: How to teach a baby to fall asleep alone. It is step-by-step instruction of non-harm method to follow. But please — read it carefully for cover to cover before you start, to guide your baby well.

And you know what the best advantage of successfully sleep teaching your baby in early months is? More sleep for you! Yes, we know we will be getting up a few times a night to feed our new babies, but that doesn’t mean that we should be up every hour or staying up for hours. Our bodies are not intended to bear that for long periods! That is why it’s so important for both of you to get good, quality sleep.

Susan Urban
Grandparent timeout: The baby needs a nap.
By: Annie Malone
Tags: Parenting, Personal, Baby, Parenting Advice, Parents

The grandparents have become children, sulking because I take the baby away from them so he can sleep.

Photo by NON on Unsplash

My parents are completely in love with my son; I have never witnessed such pure love overflowing constantly for the four months he has been here. We are currently staying with them in England, and the “I love you”, and “You're so beautiful”, are not stopping anytime soon.

The thing is however, they love him so much they get upset when it’s time for him to sleep. I find myself taking the baby off them when he is yawning and saying things like: “He needs to sleep!” Once he is down for a nap, they argue over who’s turn it is to sit and watch him, as at least one of them needs to be there in case he wakes up.

After many many conversations explaining that I do not want an overtired baby, they are getting better at handing him back as the sleepiness approaches. However, the resentment is ever-present, so much so that now the jokes are about them fighting their inner instincts to wake him up! Or that they can’t get grumpy when the baby needs some shut-eye. They ask if they can have him every school holiday when he is older and I say as long as they let him nap and they laugh looking at each other knowingly.

I am not trying to be mean or stop them from bonding with the baby, he is four months old and sleep is simply essential. Welcome to my day of first world problems.

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Being pregnant doesn’t mean you have to stop breastfeeding your child.
By: House Plan Warakapola
Tags: Breastfeeding, Pregnant, Children, Baby

Breastfeeding While Pregnant

Being pregnant doesn’t mean you have to stop breastfeeding your child. Long ago doctors believed it actually took nutrients away from the baby inside you, however that is not the case. Even today we have people that believe this and they will argue with you the entire time. Only you can decide if you should stop breastfeeding your toddler or not. Don’t let someone else make that decision for you.

Reasons to Stop

A few reasons you might want to stop breastfeeding may be if you are feeling constantly drained of energy. Or maybe your child has started to bite. Sometimes your milk will just dry up, this is your body’s way of telling you that it has had enough and to take a break. Mastitis could play a big role in making you stop immediately as well. Mastitis is an infection in the breast when it isn’t expressed enough and gets engorged.

Stopping or Weaning

If you do plan on stopping because you are pregnant, make sure it is for the right reasons. If your child has reached a certain age, it might be best. But never just yank it away from them. Your child could wonder why it is being taken away. Wonder if they had done something or become discouraged about the new baby coming. Some children decide to wean themselves, which is a big help to you and you won’t feel so guilty about it. You can choose to do it cold turkey, or slowly wean him/her off. Cold turkey can have some bad results. Try limiting his/her feeding times to certain hours and gradually as time passes take away more. Your child will quickly stop on his/her own and it won’t be a traumatic event.

Continuing to Feed

If you do plan on continuing to breastfeed while you are pregnant, talk with your doctor about it. Not all the time will the doctor agree with your decision. Sometimes he/she may see something in your health that you don’t. Listen carefully and find out if it is a health reason or simply his/her own belief. If it is the doctors belief, you can always seek out one that agrees with you. Being pregnant is hard enough at times, knowing you have someone in your corner will only relieve the stress. Don’t be surprised if your family and friends want to say something about it and they will probably give you all kind of advice on how to stop and what they’ve read. Nicely explain to them it is your decision and you’ll do what you think is best for your children. Try finding a support group in your area so you have someone to vent to or talk about these issues. Check out if there is a La Leche League near you or online that you can join.

Remember that as long as you take proper care of yourself and your body, you’ll be able to safely breastfeed while pregnant.
What Do Postpartum Doulas Do When No One’s Looking?
By: Bonni Berger
Tags: Motherhood, Newborn, Pregnancy, Doula, Baby

Postpartum doulas ease the transition from a family of two to a family of three, four or more. They listen and respond to your concerns about feeding, sleeping, rashes, hiccups, umbilical cords, postpartum care and depression, offering you evidence-based information; they assist you with breastfeeding, latch and position; bottle feeding and burping, diaper changes, baby baths and more; they calm your new-parent nerves and help soothe your baby’s cries.

Photo by Filip Mroz on Unsplash

Sometimes just knowing that I’m in the house allows new moms to relax enough to take a shower and crawl into bed for a delicious nap. They know that if their baby stirs, I’ll be there to take care of him or her until the next feeding.

While you and your baby are getting the sleep you so desperately need, I’m making life a little easier for you. I may be…

Starting a load of baby’s laundry Refilling the diaper stations Cleaning the dirty dishes in the sink Prepping a healthy snack for when you wake up Emptying the dishwasher Wiping down the kitchen counters Folding and putting away baby’s clothes Making a list of household items I noticed needs to be replenished Preparing a nutritious lunch or dinner Sterilizing bottles and nipples Organizing or tidying baby’s room (if baby is sleeping in mom’s room) Emptying the diaper pail Gathering resources or referrals for you, specific to your needs or requests

And when I’m not at work in your house, I can be found completing my required Continuing Education Units (CEUs) in order to maintain my doula certification. Some certifying agencies, like DONA, require 18 hours of CEUs every three years. I may be attending a seminar or conference; reviewing the latest research or presenting a talk. I may be refreshing my infant CPR skills to stay sharp and keep my certification current. I may be networking in my community and yours so I can refer my clients to people I know and trust.

Postpartum doulas support new parents when they bring their baby home and need emotional support and hands-on help. Whether a client is awake or asleep, postpartum doulas are working hard to serve the specific needs of a family. What would you like your postpartum doula to do for you?

Bonni Berger is a Postpartum Doula based outside of Washington, DC. To read more of her content, check out her blog at bethesdadoula.com.
Tenderness of mother’s arm for a peaceful sleep- best baby convertible cribs.
By: Inno Genx
Tags: Radheshyam, Kids, Baby

Tenderness of mother’s arm for a peaceful sleep- best baby convertible cribs. Mothers are the guardian angels whose world revolves around their kids. A mother understands even what something is not asked by the child. A feeling that cannot be expressed in words. Life begins with the warmth of the mother that stays throughout. A mother makes sure that her child gets the best of everything. Preparations begin right from when the baby is still in the womb. Once the baby is welcomed into the world, she chooses everything to make the baby comfortable. The most important factor of a baby’s healthy growth is a peaceful and sound sleep. It is believed that a good 12–14 hours of sleep is very essential for a baby to have a good metabolism and healthy growth. There is no tenderness anywhere else like that of a mother’s arms and children sleep soundly in them. Undoubtedly, a mother’s arms are the best, but it sometimes becomes difficult for those arms to be available all the time due to various reasons. Radheshyam understands this and we present the tenderness of mother’s arms in our baby convertible cribs. The best convertible cribs for the new addition to your family. All the convertible cribs available at Radheshyam are made of high-quality wood to ensure safety because your baby is equally precious to us as he/she is to you. Time runs rather quickly and in no time your baby will outgrow the first nursery set and this is why Radheshyam brings to you some of the best cribs that can be converted to full-size beds as your baby grows. We understand that children get emotionally attached to their belongings and would not be willing to get separated; hence, we have some of the best crib sets that convert to bed as per the needs of your child and also allows for comfortable adjustments with your kid’s space all through his/her growing years. At Radheshyam, you can find convertible sets that can convert from a crib of a toddler to a full-size bed of an adolescent that provides space for the growing needs of your child. We have a variety of products to furnish your baby’s space. Our theme-based collections namely Baby Boy, Baby Cotton, Baby Girl, Mocha Baby, Natura, and Romantic provide a good range to choose from for your baby either a boy or a girl. No matter what you choose, our products are durable while also being elegant and attractive, sure enough, to be your baby’s best companion as he/she grows. Each and every convertible set at Radheshyam is designed with strong and sturdy rails to adjust to your child’s requirements. The convertible crib sets at Radheshyam are sure to give your kid a peaceful and sound sleep throughout the growth years into adolescence. Your baby’s space is incomplete without a proper arrangement for a sound sleep. The most precious one in your life deserves the best sleep and Radheshyam makes it easy for you. Give your baby the tenderness of a mother’s arm for a peaceful sleep. Give the best baby convertible crib set from Radheshyam.
23. What is Meconium Aspiration Syndrome?
By: Lavinia Contreras
Tags: Newborn, Poop, Breath, Baby

Day 23 of me researching so you won’t have to :)

Meconium Aspiration Syndrome is respiratory distress in a newborn who aspirated meconium into the lungs around the time of birth. This occurs when the baby is stressed (i.e. infection or low oxygen levels) and gasps while it is still in the womb or soon after delivery. While gasping, the baby may breath in amniotic fluid that contains meconium (a dark green fecal material within the intestines prior to birth)

Some common causes of fetal stress:

- Postterm pregnancy (overdue baby, >40 weeks)

- difficult or long labor

- mother with certain health issues (i.e. hypertension or diabetes)

- an infection

Symptoms:

- cyanosis (blue skin discoloration)

- Hypotension (lbp)

- limpness

- breathing problems

Treatments:

This syndrome should be treated immediately.

If a baby aspirated little amounts of meconium, the doctors would place a tube into the newborn’s trachea to suction the stained amniotic fluid. This suction would continue until no meconium is seen in the removed material.

In the case the newborn is still having trouble breathing, the doctor would use a bag and mask to help them breathe and get oxygen to inflate their lungs.
The effects of COVID-19 on the Birth Rate
By: Justine Haines
Tags: Womens Health, Covid 19, Health, Pregnancy, Baby

You would think that all this confinement (and not much to do) would lead to a spike in our Baby-Making? The answer may surprise you! The trend is actually showing a Baby-Crash…

The “confinement babies”, conceived from March 2020 have begun to arrive. Most of us were sure that this forced confinement, and working from home conditions would lead to an all-time-high birth rate. It’s not. Are you surprised?

Show me!

In fact, statistics are showing a significant decrease in 2020, in maternity hospitals worldwide. 2021 is even lower. It’s declining and continues to do so. Globally, the fog remains thick as signs of a future “baby crash” are multiplying.

Yeah, but Why??

For months, researchers have been studying the hypothesis of a decline in births. Surveys show that people are actually postponing the time when they will have babies, and many of them have simply given up on the idea. Such inhibition in times of crisis is nothing new. Historically, we have observed that economic shocks in developed countries have upset birthrates.

A planet less populated?

Economists estimate that the Pandemic will drop the number of births in the United States by around 10% in 2021; that’s approximately half a million less citizens, in this country alone. This decline has the magnitude equivalent to the one which followed the Spanish influenza pandemic of 1919 and the Great Depression of the 1930s. Globally, the decline in the birth rate could reach 15% in 2021, an impact on the world’s population 10 times greater than the number of deaths due to Covid-19.

No sex, Baby

Are you wondering just how a health crisis affects a couple’s decision NOT to procreate? The virus has many types of effects, economical, and environmental. We know that younger adults infected with Covid-19 did not succumb to the virus as much as their older counterparts. However, the virus has affected fertility in both young men and women, with stress, being the number one cause. Couples report having less sex since the beginning of the confinement. The most lasting psychological effect is undoubtedly the economic impact of the crisis, such as loss of a jobs or fear of unemployment, which have a big influence on the decision to start or expand a family. It didn’t help that several fertility clinics shut down operations since 2020.

Baby incentive?

Several countries’ governments have implemented emergency funds, awarded to parents birthing children up until 2022. They go up as high as $3000 per child born. What do you think of these measures? Would a cash incentive sway you into making a baby? Are you surprised by these findings? We would love to hear from you!

Have a Happy Period!

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-Justine
Is it safe to eat pasta and Maggi during pregnancy? · Dr Dad
Tags: Parenting, Children, Pregnancy, Kids, Baby

Is it safe to eat pasta and Maggi during pregnancy? · Dr Dad Parenthood Jun 2·2 min read

Pregnancy calls for making sure everything you eat is healthy and nutritious for you and your growing baby. But, often pregnant junk food cravings take over healthy food habits. So, is consuming instant noodles like Maggi or pasta safe during your pregnancy? Let’s find out.

Is it safe to consume instant noodles like Maggi during pregnancy?

It is not advisable to consume Maggi regularly.

But if you really want to, then avoid putting in any extra salt.

Instant noodles such as Maggi are made up of wheat flour or buckwheat flour.

Even if the Maggi is healthy, the seasoning packets on the other hand contain preservatives, monosodium glutamate and are not that nutritional.

Maggi contains high doses of carbohydrates and fat.

They contain very few vitamins, fiber, and proteins.

It can cause high blood pressure in pregnant women.

Is it safe to consume pasta during pregnancy?

Homemade pasta can be consumed moderately during pregnancies.

Standard factory-made pasta goes through a lot of refining and loses out on all the important vitamins, minerals, and even fibers.

100% whole grain pasta help to lower blood pressure and type 2 diabetes.

They contain all the important vitamins and minerals and are also a rich source of fiber.

They have a grainier and chewier texture which distinguishes them from the standard pasta.

Some companies make pasta made with superfoods such as flaxseeds and lentils.

They are a healthier alternative to regular pasta.

Conclusion

Consuming instant noodles like Maggi and pasta is not quite healthy because they don’t contain any health benefits. Unless made with superfoods or fiber-rich flour, it is to be avoided and should only be consumed at a very minimal rate. You can look for brands that use different flours instead of regular flour.
Fatherhood Thoughts
By: Jagadeesh Induri
Tags: Fatherhood, India, Baby

I am happy to share that we were blessed with a baby boy and my fatherhood started in this month. When I think about my son, I’m neither a king to give a kingdom nor a farmer to give food producing skill. Just like my father, I can give freedom to choose his path and support to gain the expertise.

First pic with my son

This is what my father did, he gave me the power to gain money and culture to respect others.

I must live like my father to inspire my child to follow the path of dharma. I have seen several instances where my father adhered to truth even if resulted in huge financial losses. My father is a merchant and always talks about business ethics in our dinner times. Yes, he inspired me with every action of his business. May be I must talk about something useful in a more engaging way to train my little boy.

Once I failed in my graduation subject and expected my father to scold me for that. Surprisingly my father said that “the failure is a part of life and we must face it to taste the success”. I must keep my child in close association with my parents to instill values in his life.

I know that the kids don’t learn from teachings but they do learn from observation. So I must mind my actions and words in front of my son. He must explore the nature as we can learn a lot from the nature.

I won’t impose any of my personal interests in his career but will insist to learn one particular skill which is to master our mother tongue. It’s my love and respect towards my mother tongue. I will not give this opportunity of teaching my mother tongue to any teacher. I will teach him myself.

Now it’s my turn to tell stories which is another way of learning for him. I still remember some ethical stories shared by my grandfather in my childhood. Yes, I must learn our own ancient stories of Ramayana and Mahabharata to tell him in an engaging way. Of course his grand parents will take care of other stories.

Finally, I must own a house even with 20 years of EMIs. This is a general and basic dream of any parent to give a house to their kin. I will start looking for a budget house after the end of pandemic days.

I can see a new version of mine with the beginning of my fatherhood

Any modern day parenting advises are most welcome.