4 Things You Should Quit in the Final Weeks of 2020
By: Aliyan Shaikh
Tags: Personal Growth, Self Improvement, Life Lessons, Personal Development, Self Development

4 Things You Should Quit in the Final Weeks of 2020

2020 is almost about to end. This year was full of worries and tensions. First COVID-19, then lockdown had to be faced. We all got locked in our own homes. The good thing is we got some time to interact with our family members, and we got time to know them well.

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Many people lost their jobs and went into depression just because of this virus. Poor people had to suffer too much in many ways because of this pandemic. Every country’s economy went down. But after all of this, the earth got back to normal, the ozone layer around our homeland started healing, global warming began decreasing day by day, and nature proves itself that,

Manipulation Never Lasts, Flow of Nature Wins.

But the main questions are:

1. What did we learn from this pandemic? 2.What mistakes we did in the previous year? 3. Will we repeat those mistakes or not? 4. Will we complete the resolutions that we will make on the day of New Year? 5. In what way we have to change ourselves?

In this story, I will suggest 4 things that you should quit at the end of this year. You will be getting better results if you do so.

1. Doubting Yourself:

Everyone fights with self-doubt once in a while. When we lack confidence or feel incapable of doing something, self-doubt occurs. If you want to stop doubting yourself, you will have to stop worrying about what others think. Set goals think positive and always think that you can do it. Stay away from toxic people who can’t see you successful. Pay more attention to positive feedback than to negative responses. Last but not least, forgive yourself for the past, and start a new journey with big dreams and full of trust.

Rudolf costa says,

Erase self-doubt by working to build your strengths instead of focusing on your weakness.

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2. Having no Plan:

You are just about to put your first step in 2021. If you have not set up goals, or you have no plans, then the coming year might be worst for you. ‘You have no plans’ means you have nothing prepared for the future. You must realize that things keep on changing. It is good to have plans for your life. You never know which plan would be helpful for you in the future, but yes, it would not give you any harm. Remember,

A Goal without a Plan is Just a Wish

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3. Trying to Please Everyone:

You are born alone and die alone. No one will miss you after some time of your funeral. So, why to live your whole life for anyone? It is not your duty to make everyone happy when they don’t even value you. You don’t always need to put others first. They will call you when they need you. Say ‘No’ them if they don’t deserve your help. They will always make you feel uncomfortable. Be yourself and give priority to yourself.

Stop Trying to Make Everyone Happy, You Aren’t Chocolate

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4. Over-thinking Everything:

If you over-think, then you have a mental disorder because it is associated with mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and stress. Hope, you are not.

When we doubt ourselves too much, over-thinking occurs. It makes it harder to enjoy life and can impact sleep patterns and emotional regulation. Over-thinking seriously affects our sleep cycle. Our brain keeps on thinking and unable to shut down.

Thinking is good. Over-thinking can end things before they ever get the chance to develop.