IT STARTED WITH A NO!!!
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IT STARTED WITH A NO!!!

Hmmmm.. Love.. Love...Love

We met on Campus, we both attended Osun State University.

We had been seeing each other on campus, mostly at evening classes but we only started to get along around early 2014.

We had met at different strategic places on campus and then a friend invited me to the prayer mountain and her friend did the same too.

And before then, I had been telling my friends I had seen the lady I was going to marry.

We got along ready well, after the encounter at the mountain top and I can vividly say we started officially April 17, 2014.

A love story that starts without a YES but I could feel the energy and love.

It's been a beautiful adventure from that point on as we are so fond of each other. She was in 200 level then while I was in 300 level.

We were in the same dept (Economics), it was almost very easy reading together and running her through paths I had been through.

If there s anyone that understands and believes in me more than me, Its Feyi.

As the years went by we got to know each other more.. We fought.. We settled, during our early days our friends would settle our feuds. Later on we started settle our own issues.. We made what happen between us stay btw us our favorite line the.

We would do almost everything together. wherever you see Ife, Feyi would be closeby.

We knew our families.. we would visit during semester breaks, hangouts and all.

Days and months passed by until my final paper in school.

She had never been so scared like that before. It was the day Ife would leave the campus.. She would be all by herself, all alone.

I had to assure that distance is just a number that I would ensure that we were closer than ever.

She believed me and faith things up.

I left the school.. Went for Nysc

We were still cool but we were always missing each other.

We had never been so so far from each other - I served at Owerri.

Honestly, I had to visit her after orientation camp.. I missed that woman and I had to pick some of my stuffs at school and leave other stuffs for her as she had a year to go.

We were so so much in touch during my service year but she was scared of distance and new environment. But I kept assuring her.

Suprised her with a visit on her last paper too and aided her to fine tune her final year project work.

She was done at school,I was done with nysc, she wasnt as lucky as I was as she had to wait for almost a year before mobilization.

I got my first job a month after nysc and she was happy and later on was mobilized for nysc.

I picked up new attitude then, cos of the new environment I found myself. The new exposure, and there were times the love thing goes up and down like she loves me more and later on I love her more.

She started yearning for more attention which I was not ready to give then cos of work and other pressures at work.

She would irritate me quickly then.. It always felt like we should be over. Not like I don't want her again but the new environ I found myself.

Later on we became cool again and I had to wake up from my fantasies.

I was working.. She was serving. We made up and rededicate ourselves to loving and caring for each other.

Feyi is just a energy I can't do without. Whenever I had slight challenges, I would relay them to her and her responses would give me new energy and and also not to forget her sense of handling things and all.

Changing jobs.. Her support was massive too.. A lady that brings more than enough to the Table.. That's THE KIND OF GIRL GOD GAVE ME.

and in our 6 years together we broke up for 9months.. That's one of the craziest months of our lives.

My fault.. Her anger.. I deserve the punishments tho.

*not gonna let it out*... Confidential.

We came back after a long 15mins talks on phone.. I was crying.. She was crying.

We missed each other so much like my heart beat differentially after the call.

And we met again.. Hug each other closely and promise each other that no matter what we would never go apart.

There are famous places in Lagos that are so so emotional to us passing by.. Cos we have break cried and laughed together there.

If There s anything I'm thankful for.. I am thankful Feyi is mine

We aren't the socializing type but we hungout real good when we want to. We did Picnic, movies, eateries, church.

Her family love me same as my family.

There are so many family functions she has attended and everyone knows she's the one

There are times when I'm down.. She lifts me up.. And vice versa.

I just felt destiny saw us and matched us together..

You know there were times I don't even know what to do with my life and she kept the fire burning like Babes you can.. Let's go for it

I wrote almost all the bank test in Nigeria and was tired of the last test invite I got.. I almost ws not attending it.. Cos at some Stage this people will just abadone recruitments or am out at some stages.. I was tired of tests and interviews but she told me never to give up.. My current job is my dream job.. To be a Banker.

She modified the dream for us.. Cos I was almost not going and every stage of the process her words and support were outstanding.

And aside Job.. Her sense of humour on every spheres of our life... She gingered me to register for my professional exams too.

And we have always influenced each other positively.

She knows everything about me and and if there's any new stuffs, I I keep her updated.

We got along so well that she did not even say Yes.. But we good we dated and now She's my wife

Maybe most guy would propose and all however She's not this loud person.

I did not propose but we are good for ever after .. We chose the date for our intro and started the planning.

We bonded really well after our 9months break and vowed to never let anything bring us apart.

There were time we had trust issues and all

Not especially me but we on another level now and we keep in touch always and very well

And our wedding is next year.. April 10

We had our intro Aug 2, 2020

OK about the engagement... I did not propose.. I actually told my friend I would make my move when I have something better than what I was doing then.

After my New job last year.. I and a friend were together before my new job.. Feyi knew

We weren't really cool while I was at the banking school.. Thats the training every banker must pass through before resuming fully.

We were cool towards the end

That's us coming from our 9months break. During those period we still talked a lot. I would Tell her about my exams results.. And I would always notice how elated she was telling her I learned my courses and all.

And when I told her I feel we need an apartment now as I couldnt continue staying with my high school pal.

We have to live apart someday.

Got an apartment.. We got our privacy.

And I told her I just need a car now, but I maybe she sense what will happen if I get a car.

She said we shouldn't go for a car now.. It's gonna be liability.

And I made up my mind not to.. Later on her energy was very very aggressive about us taking our relationship to thr next level.. Not like I wasn't ready too but she has always been scared about marriage and we just came back.. I don't wanna rush things

In no time.. I meet her Dad

I actually know everyone in the family but not just the dad

We met I passed my interview.. 😂 😂 😂

Later on, I just I didn't need to propose jawe.. Actor no dy propose.. We chose date and it happened

And what else.. Our wedding Next year come April 10,2021

And she's a great cook.. Feyi is very very very beautiful too not just facially.. She got a beautiful heart

She knows ion drink or smoke.. But food

To summarize it all... I got my best friend