Life Slice 27.1 — Relationships
By: Natalia Belova
Tags: Lovestory, Life Stories, Relationships, Trust, Approach To Reform

I was shown three different approaches to relationships… I had a problem and I send a message about the situation to three guys…first one replied with s sad emoji (how I found out after he was falling for me and didn’t want to fall into anyone at work, so he tried to stop himself from anything to do with me alone — materialistic approach with closed mindset)…second one said that he can help, but he has a call, aftr which he can come over in an hour (that meant that he is oke to spend time with me, but he has things he has to take care of first — so materialistic approach but with an open mindset)…and a third one right away responded that he can come, he came and helped me out in a few minutes (and I just realized that this is pure “love” as approach — so spiritual with an open mindset)…

I am surprised how clear it is, but I would never think about it that way…so this is the trust, this is the imidiate response as Korol was saying — if you invite someone somewhere — they will either ask you 5 billion questions (that would mean that they are closed people) or they will go right away with you (that would mean an open mindset)…

So whenever you make executive decision that you will not date anyone at work. This is materialistic decision… From materialistic side that is correct because you are not supposed to mix anything, everything is supposed to be separated…so at work — you do work… With your date — you are dating…at home — you do home stuff…no mixing — it is bad! But it is bad from materialistic point of view…

But love is not materialistic matter. Love is trust…and I just realized it…this paradox…that real love, real friendships will come not from the fact that you made executive decisios on something — nonono — it will come spontaneously…

So from the love side, from spiritual side — it doesn’t matter where it comes from…you can…you are able to find friendships from work, from conserts, from coffee place you go to…it doesn’t matter…and true love you can find anywhere…

To be honest I am making a mistake here whenever I use the word love — cause I use it in two meanings, which are based on Korol’s info are completely different. One of the meanings is romantic relationships — they can be both, materialistic and spiritual, they can include love, they are based on chemical reactions, based on nature animal instincts, these are just sercumstances that are developing us in areas super fast…

Second one, and that is what it actually means, love comes from trust…it is a comfort feeling you can have with anyone, could be your family, could be your friends, could be your partner, could be a stranger that you have met in the airport and you will never see again…the main point here is that inside of you you get the feeling you can trust that person…and it depends on how he acts and what his response is to things you say, but it is that trust and comfort… imidiate understanding and absence of wanting anything from that person..

So now — this feeling, this love — you don’t have to have it towards your partner only…and you don’t have to date the person that you have that feeling for…it is just there and if you want to support your inner self, your inner child, if you want that flame instead to become bigger and bigger — you have to surround yourself with people like that, talk to them, stay connected with them…

Good luck