3 Reasons Your Friend Had A Better Psychic Reading Than You
By: Dexter Kendrick
Tags: Spirituality, Psychic Reading, Counseling, Psychic, Self Help

Ok, so! Your friend tells you that they just had the most AMAZING reading from this psychic and you just have to try them out. Apparently the reading hit everything on the nail, gave detailed information, timelines, and it felt like they had known each other for years. You’re a good sport so you figure you’ll go ahead and make your first appointment with them too…except when you have your reading, it’s a TOTAL FLOP. What happened?!

If you have ever had this experience, you likely left pissed at having spent your money and wasted your time. So what was missing, and how can you ensure that your next reading from a psychic will be your best yet?

You Didn’t Do Your Homework

You shouldn’t be booking with any psychic until AFTER you know if you like their personality. Rapport is the backbone of any show-stopping psychic reading. We’ve all been around someone who rubs us the wrong way before. Everything from our speech, to our thinking processes, to our body postures change. All signs from our body telling us to get out of there! That’s the last position you want to be stuck in with your chosen psychic. Also, the information coming from Spirit is repelled by power plays and irritation. Such readings are doomed from the start. If you can’t feel the loving kindness emanating somewhere from your prospective psychic…RUN.

Check out their social media for public demos and displays of their character BEFORE booking.

2. You Came With A Skeptical Heart

Energy follows the path of least resistance. When you come to a psychic reading ready to debunk the validity of the information you’re receiving or shoot down the first thing the psychic says as soon as they open their mouth, you are blocking their flow and undoing your own reading. It’s normal for some information not to make immediate sense (especially in Mediumship and future forecasts) because the action has not taken place yet, or is a minor event that has taken place a long time ago. Your willingness to let information wash over you as opposed to entering into dismissiveness is a trait that all the most seasoned psychic clients possess, and regularly practice.

Enter into your psychic reading with excitement, curiosity, pen, and paper.

3. You Wanted A ‘General Reading’

Intention is the name of the game when it comes to anything spiritual. While you don’t have to have a laundry list of topics/questions you want your psychic to cover, it is of utmost importance that you come to the table with at least ONE area of life that is important to you. This simple act of cooperation opens your heart to all areas of your life (past lives, future actions) for the psychic’s viewing, and connects you to the reading. Leaving the reading solely up to the psychic can leave you receiving info on random topics that you’re not passionate about, and who wants that?! You want a reading that will validate and confirm; inspire and reassure. You will thank yourself later if you avoid this trap.

Participate in directing the flow of your reading.

As a practicing psychic-medium for the last 20 years, I promise you that we in the industry want you to get value and enjoyment out of your reading. Implementing even one of these suggested safeguards will ensure you a memorable conversation with someone who could very well become your next long term trusted spiritual advisor.