Happiness
Tags: Love Yourself, Celebrate Yourself, Hapiness, Forgive And Forget, Do What You Love

‘If it is makes you happy, it is somewhat important –Min Yoon-Gi-

life is something which we can experience once; I am not going to talk about the afterlife and all but life beginning with the birth and end with the death. In this life we do not know when we will have to end this journey and go. So people should do what they love, people should do what makes their soul on fire. If you have anything precious in this life and wanted to do it so badly but you could not due to some other things. Then what is the point of having something you really love, you dreamed almost all the time in your life, but giving up on it due to some other circumstances.

“I would rather die than live without my passion” –Jeon Jung-Kook-

How to feel real happiness?

Do what you love

people always trap with the unique way of thinking, problem is people afraid on changes, sometimes when they hard to find exact reasons to why they give up on the thing that they love, they easily put it to the basket of responsibility or accountability, then they can say due some responsibilities I could not do what I love rather I had to do things which make others happy. Then how much pitiful we are if we have to say like that. Is it even worth to say since this is your life since this is totally your responsibility to do things, which makes you happy.

Let me tell you about one life story from someone I really admire and who always being an inspiration to my life. Min Yoon-Gi is a South Korean singer, rapper and a member of well-known boy group called BTS. When he was younger his only dream of life to become a rapper which he really cherished and he said all the time he felt happiness through music. But his parent never wanted his to be a musician rather they wanted him to be an ordinary man who daily work and earn some amount of money. At that time He was and underground rapper in a group called D-Town and there he made a song called 518–062. But unfortunately, every efforts of Yoon-Gi’s became useless. Once he had to make a choice between whether he eats or go home due to he was lacking money for do both. Moreover it is not a secret that, he even suffered from depression, He could not able to stand it anymore and he came from his own family to be a singer and participated for as audition of well-known company called BigHIt and became a member of BTS, today he is a well-known rapper and singer with the stage name of Suga who did, doing and will doing what he love and experience real happiness and spread it among those who around him. Today family of Suga and closed ones of him really proud about him.

2. Do not trapped with the other people’s needs

Happiness always coming from what we love, not from other people’s needs. What we should understand is what is really making us happy. What really want us to do in this life? Most importantly do not ever trap with the other people’s needs from you own life. They have their own lives and you too have your own life, what is the right of them to order you to do things.

Recently I experience something really strange to my life. I do not even know why people act that way. When we all planned for going on trip all my friends and I were really happy and looked forward to it. At the last point one of my friend said that she cannot able to participate, then we ask reason and all she said was, her boyfriend do not like her to go on a trip. I even cannot imagine, she was really happy and planned everything with us but last moment she gave up due to her boyfriend’s choice. It should be one of such a foolish decision she ever made. She trapped with the needs of her boyfriend, even though she really loves travelling and hiking.

If we trapped with someone else life and all the time do things according to their choice no longer it is not our happiness, but it belongs to them. You simply create their happiness by doing what they want and throw your happiness on someone else hands.

“do not waste your life trying to impress other people. do what you love, love what you do” -Emilisquotes.com-

3. Celebrate your own success points rather looking forward to be happy all the time, eventually you will be there

By celebrating your own success I do not mean that you should suddenly throw up a party and be crazy as much as you can, but I meant when you achieve something, be little bit generous to your own efforts, celebrate yourself with you, do not look around for other people to be with you at that time, or do not immediately look for what is doing next rather celebrate little bit. Love yourself. Live in the moment.

As an example if you passed from the exam, just eat something you really like. Go place with you where you really like to visit. Buy a book which you really love to read. Buy an CD, album of your favorite singer… etc. Well I do not have to suggest since it is your own life and you know what you want to do with it. Do whatever you like when you achieve something in your life. it should not be huge thing but just simple thing that makes you really happy.

“my whole teaching is this; accept yourself, love yourself, and celebrate yourself”, -Osho-

4. Live in the moment rather looking for distance happiness.

This is simply mean do not dedicate your present for expecting future happiness, live in current moment, do everything with a sound mind. Major problem of us is we always look for future happiness, therefore we, all the time ruins our present. What happen if this is your last day of living? What happens after this minute someone said you your bank with all you deposits went bankrupt? What happen you do not get any chances to say how much you cherish someone to be in your life? What happen after you achieving everything you need in your life and look back everyone around you were left? Therefore just wait, look around, say you how much love someone who is in your love, say thank you for who you wanted to thanks all the time. Please just wait and feel this moment. Be little bit generous to your present life. If you live in the moment rather looking for future or still live in the past you feel happiness in your heart.

“Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed” -Wayne Dyer-

5. Love yourself

You’re the one who know you well than anyone else in the world. Moreover you know what you want and what you do not want. Learn to say “yes” for thing you love and be confident enough to say “no” for things you hate. Feel free to speak yourself. Find some time for you as well. Nobody else love yourself than you can do. Little bit care about you. Believe me when you love yourself you look better. You will avoid negative thoughts and try to be positive all the time. World around you become more convenient, you will gain confident to face circumstances in your life. Do not hate yourself. If you, who will remain to love you. What is the point of hate yourself since at the end of the all you are who remaining for you? Be the who you love.I love this quote even though I do not know who said, “How do you love others when you do not love yourself?”.

6. Forgive others

Always make your own peace. Always forgive people who make you worry all the time, by giving your forgiveness you will be able to maintain your sound mind. Do not ever make decision out of angry, if you do you will soon be guilty. Therefore forgive and forget for your own happiness. Do not stuck on one single incident and try to give up whole lot of thing in your life, rather go beyond it with the smiley face without any anger or guilt about someone or something.