Complex sentence: I've given a few third opinions before and I've noticed that practically every dispute has become conduct focused before I got there after the first few (usually two) posts from each participant stating their differing opinions on how something should be done.
Split into simpler sentences: I've given a few third opinions before and I've noticed that practically every dispute has become conduct focused before I got there. This usually happens after the first few (usually two) posts from both participants who have stated their differing opinions on how something should be done.