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[ "I used to be nervous if someone tried to confront me or start a fight...but since I've taken up boxing mma and wrestling I really don't fear anybody", "I used to get nervous and anxious whenever someone would try to start a fight or argument with me...now I don't ever back down_comma_ and it helps I've been boxing and wrestling for 5 years", "I am glad to hear that. It can take a lot for some people to be confident like that. I am glad you got over your issues with it.", "Yes too many people talk a big game but can't back it up. Sometimes I just want someone to blatantly talk crap so I don't have to do any talking hahaha", "Yeah_comma_ I know exactly what you mean. " ]

[ "My kid lied to me yesterday.", "My kid lied to me yesterday.", "I've had that happen before. Its like they are trying to become professionals at it. Was it a whopper?", "Not really_comma_ they are young_comma_ but they were trying to get a sibling in trouble instead of themselves. I wasn't expecting it at such a young age...only 3.", "I think they would lie sooner if they could. My kid told me flat out that her brother did something when it was impossible that he could've so I knew instantly. Its humorous while they're young watching them get into such a deep hole." ]

[ "I told my husband that I was going to see a friend when I didn't. I went to a party planner's place.", "I told my husband that I was going to see a friend when I didn't. I went to a party planner's place.", "Are you going to have a surprise party?", "Yes! I feel bad for lying to him but I would only ever do it for his own good. Its nagging at me already though. I might up the date of the party so I don't have to lie too much!", "I know that is hard_comma_ but it's alright if you do it for the right reasons. You all will be able to laugh about it when it's all over. Have fun!", "Thanks! I feel better with you saying that. Its going to be a huge bash with tons of vegan food! I'm usually pretty good at keeping lies. ha ha." ]

[ "The other day at work when I was in the elevator I realized I had an extra-button from my shirt unbuttoned_comma_ And I wondered since when it has been like that and the people I had met.", "The other day at work when I was in the elevator I realized I had an extra-button from my shirt unbuttoned_comma_ ", "Oh geez_comma_ I know how that is. How long do you think it had been that way?", "I am not sure I just wondered about that and who were the people I had met.", "That's pretty interesting. Well_comma_ I hope you get that all sorted out!" ]

[ "I used to be nervous getting in the pool when I was a little kid because it would remind me of when I almost drowned...but swimming lessons took care of that_comma_ I'm glad my parents pushed me and gave me confidence to be on the swim team", "When I was a kid I almost drowned so I would be nervous getting in the pool...but since my parents put me in swimming lessons I gained confidence and even joined the swim team", "Wow_comma_ good for you finding the courage to overcome your fear! I can understand why you were nervous after what you went through.", "Yes it was scary. But I'm grateful for my parents for nipping it in the bud...sometimes that kind of fear stays with a person for the rest of their life", "I completely understand. Your parents sound like great people." ]

[ "swim competition", "I used to swim competitively when I was a kid. I started around 4th grade. ", "That is great. Do you still swim?", "No not anymore. I wish I did but I have gotten kind of lazy since those days. ", "Well you can start slowly_comma_ I'm sure you will find your motivation again" ]

[ "I can't wait for my new nephew to be born_comma_ it should happy at any moment.", "I can't wait for my new nephew to be born_comma_ it should happens at any moment", "That is so exciting! I love babies. Do you know what his name will be?", "Not they haven't decided yet_comma_ they first want to see how he looks like.", "Thats a neat way to decide on a name. We picked our kids names months in advance. Luckily their names fit them well. " ]

[ "I tried my mother in law's cooking for the first time the other day. It was the worst thing I've ever tasted.", "I tried my mother in law's cooking for the first time the other day.", "Soooo how was it?", "It was the worst thing I've ever tasted. Really disgusting.", "Oh no haha. I'm guessing you at least had to be polite and pretend like you didn't want to puke?", "Yes and it was hard to do haha" ]

[ "When I was a kid I used to live in Hong Kong and we would watch fireworks during Chinese New Year with a parade of dancing dragons. It was pretty sweet", "Chinese New Year in Hong Kong was always a happy time. I spent 2 years there cuz of my dad's job and we would go see the parade with dancing dragons and live music_comma_ it was pretty sweet", "Crazy_comma_ was it like the movies?", "Pretty much", "Reminds me of that Eddie Murphy movie!" ]

[ "I saw a guy at the mall wearing a cut off tank top like you used to see in the 80's except he was 400 pounds.", "I saw a guy at the mall wearing a cut off tank top like you used to see in the 80's except he was 400 pounds.", "Lmao sounds like a confident dude", "Yeah_comma_ I looked at my wife and said that he must have lost a bet.", "Or he's looking for his soulmate" ]

[ "I used to eat McDonald's every time I would get drunk in college...now I'm scared to even touch it haha", "McDonald's used to be my go-to when my college friends and I got drunk...now I'm scared to even touch it haha", "I hear you. I still love the McNuggets_comma_ but I never eat them since I went Vegan.", "That's awesome. I alternate between meat days and vegetarian days_comma_ I definitely notice more energy in my body", "It's the best_comma_ but it is hard to give up the delicious fried meats_comma_ though. " ]

[ "I took a helicopter ride for a date one time and the helicopter malfunctioned. We had to do an emergency landing.", "I took a helicopter ride for a date one time and the helicopter malfunctioned. ", "Oh my goodness! What happened?!", "We ended up being okay. We had to do an emergency landing.", "I bet you and your date were shaken up!" ]

[ "I was driving down a local highway yesterday when someone suddenly pulled out in front of me. I crashed my faithful 1993 Corvette! I am SO heartbroken!", "Yesterday I was driving down my local highway when suddenly a car pulled right out in front of me!", "Did you crash!?", "Yes! I think I totaled my 1993 little red Corvette! I am so heartbroken!", "I am so sorry that happened to you! " ]

[ "My best friend have recently been spending a lot of time with some people from her work. It seems she doesn't have much time to spend with me anymore.", "My best friend have recently been spending a lot of time with some people from her work. ", "That stinks. I always feel left out when that happens to me. Even more so when I know the people from my best friend's work so when I can't be involved_comma_ its hard. How do you feel about it?", "I am not happy that it seems she doesn't have much time to spend with me anymore.", "I'm sorry. Make sure to reach out to her and tell her how you feel. If she's a good friend_comma_ she'll understand and make an effort to make time for you but don't let it make you bitter." ]

[ "We had an intruder three nights ago who went through all out stuff while we were sleeping and ransacked our basement. ", "We had an intruder three nights ago who went through all out stuff while we were sleeping and ransacked our basement.", "How terrifying! Did the intruder took anything or was he just some kind of creep?", "He took the only nice ring I had and a bunch of stuff from our basement and our tv. It was horrifying! I'm usually a light sleeper but I didn't even hear him. I'm looking into an alarm system.", "That is so awful. I imagine you won't feel safe again until you get the alarm. You can also get a big dog to help you keep safe." ]

[ "My daughter screamed because there was a humongous spider on the kitchen floor. It turned out to be a pretty small one.", "I was eating breakfast when my daughter screamed_comma_ \"There a humongous spider behind you!\"", "Oh man_comma_ that would have freaked me out what did you do?", "I thought there'd be some huge tarantula_comma_ but it turned out to be just a tiny little thing. I caught it and let it out outside.", "It seems your daughter may over exaggerate things a little bit." ]

[ "I told my best friends secret to another one of our friends. I have never felt so bad about anything.", "I told my best friends secret to another one of our friends. ", "Why did you do it? Do you now feel bad about it?", "It just came out_comma_ I didn't mean to. I have never felt so bad about anything.", "Well maybe you can tell your friend and ask him/her to forgive you." ]

[ "I've trained very hard_comma_ so I believe I will be fine in a 5k race I have next week.", "I've trained very hard_comma_ so I believe I will be fine in a 5k race I have next week", "Well if you trained as hard as you stated_comma_ I am sure you will do great!", "i certainly hope so_comma_ I will also rest before the race and eat right to improve my odds of doing well.", "Sounds like a great plan. Good luck!" ]

[ "Looking at how far I've come in life I'm pretty amazed at my progress.", "I wake up every morning and I'm just amazed at the man I am. Like_comma_ you've come pretty far Buddy keep shooting for the moon...cuz I used to be a worthless deadbeat", "That's whats up!", "Yessir no way to go but up", "Keep it up. Failure is for dweebs." ]

[ "I recently had surgery for a kidney stone. I am so thankful for my wife who took such good care of me after the surgery. I was under her care for two weeks_comma_ but she was so considerate to all my needs. ", "I hope you never have kidney stones_comma_ but I have had several. A month ago_comma_ I had to have surgery because one was lodged and was too big to pass.", "Ouch_comma_ that sounds so painful! No I have never have them. Do you know you can avoid them in the future?", "No_comma_ I wish I did. But_comma_ in spite of all that_comma_ I have such an awesome wife. She took care of me post-surgery. For over two weeks_comma_ she was so considerate and helpful to all my needs. I was down_comma_ but she really helped me. ", "That is great that your wife took such great care of you! I hope you are now feeling completely recovered.", "Thank you. You are very kind. " ]

[ "I have a small party at my house last night and didn't invite my best friend. Now I feel bad about it.", "I have a small party at my house last night and didn't invite my best friend.", "Oh_comma_ really? Was something wrong? ", "No_comma_ I just though she wouln't get along with the other people I had_comma_ but I still feel bad I didn't even tell her about the party.", "I can understand your feelings; but I suspect you made the right decision. Maybe it is something you can talk with your friend about. A good friend will understand." ]

[ "Someone keyed my new car yesterday at work. I don't know who that was and it is better for them it keeps that way_comma_ or I will make them pay for it and denounce them to the police.", "Someone keyed my new car yesterday at work.", "Oh no! Did you find out who?", "No_comma_ I don't know who that was and it is better for them it keeps that way_comma_ or I will make them pay for it and denounce them to the police.", "You should look for camera in the area_comma_ they could help you catch the perp." ]

[ "I had to go and take a test in order to get certified_comma_ and I was feeling really good about it. I have been studying for days", "I had to go and take a test in order to get certified_comma_ and I was feeling really good about it. I have been studying for days", "What are you getting certified for? It seem that you were weel prepared.", "I am going to be a certified pharmacy technician. I cant wait to find out if I made it", "That is great. I wish you the best of luck!" ]

[ "I went to a magic show last weekend. The magician's tricks were really amazing. It takes a lot of talent to do that.", "I went to a magic show last week. The magician was really talented.", "That's cool. Was he better than Cris Angel", "Oh yeah_comma_ definitely. It takes a lot of skill to be able to perform like that.", "What kind of tricks did he do" ]

[ "I'm thankful that I've got more balls that most people...moved to South TX after living in MN for 15 years with my parents_comma_ no friends family or connection...and now I'm fully self employed living the dream every day", "I thank God everyday for having big balls...moved to South TX after living in MN for 15 years with my parents_comma_ no friends family or connection...and now I'm fully self employed living the dream every day", "Congratulations! It takes a lot of courage to move away from home like that.", "Totally. Used to work a 9-5 job that I hated and that's over too. Life just keeps getting better and better ", "It's great that you're so positive about life." ]

[ "My husband comes home tomorrow from a month long business trip! I am so excited and cleaning the house and getting things all ready!", "My husband comes home tomorrow from a month long business trip! I am so excited and cleaning the house and getting things all ready!", "Oh you are such a great wife! I think he will totally appreciate it! Are you doing anything nice for him?", "I'm making his favorite dinner and got my parents to take the kids after he spends some time with them so we can have a proper date!", "Oh_comma_ sounds very romantic! Have fun my friend!" ]

[ "I have a surgery coming up on Monday.", "I have a surgery coming up on Monday.", "Oh no. Are you scared at all?", "I am very nervous. It is completely optional so I might just cancel it.", "Well if you do decide to go through with it_comma_ I wish you the best and quick healing!" ]

[ "I had surgery a few weeks ago_comma_ and my friends all brought me casseroles so that I wouldn't have to make dinner as I healed.", "I had surgery a few weeks ago. It was tough_comma_ but my friends really helped out.", "Oh my_comma_ what did you have surgery for?", "My knee. But what's important is that my friends brought over dinner for a week so I wouldn't have to cook. They're really wonderful and I'm very lucky to have them as friends.", "That's really nice! I hope you recover really quick!" ]

[ "I am going to take a test to see if I can get certified and I feel really confident. I cant wait!", "I am going to take a test to see if I can get certified and I feel really confident. I cant wait!", "Great! I'm sure you've prepared a lot for it. Good luck!", "I have been studying for days", "I'm sure you'll do well." ]

[ "I am going to the beach tomorrow and I believe I have packed everything we will be needing there.", "I am going to the beach tomorrow and I believe I have packed everything we will be needing there.", "Oh how exciting! I love the beach! Are you bringing lots of snacks and drinks?", "I am bringing some and beer too_comma_ but I hope I have remembered all the rest like swimsuit_comma_ lifesavers_comma_ beach toys_comma_ towels_comma_ sun blocker _comma_ etc.", "Oh yes don't forget the sun block. Very important! Well I hope you all have fun out there! I am jealous!" ]

[ "Yesterday my dog found my leather loafers and thought they were a chew toy. I was livid when I found the lumps that used to be my nice shoes. That mutt!", "Yesterday I found my dog chewing my leather loafers. Apparently he thought they were a chew toy. I was livid.", "They must have tasted good!", "Yeah at least he got a good snack. I will have to keep my closet closed from now on!", "Lesson learned_comma_ that's for sure" ]

[ "We had a huge black snake in our backyard today and couldn't catch it. Now I am looking all over the place whenever I go outside. Waiting for it to shock me.", "We had a huge black snake in our backyard today and couldn't catch it. Now I am looking all over the place whenever I go outside. Waiting for it to shock me.", "Guess you're just going to have to evacuate or something!", "I want to! I hate snakes and am terrified to go outside! We've caught about 5 this year and taken them to a field and by we_comma_ I mean my husband because I am never involved. ha ha.", "Better not go on any planes!" ]

[ "I went to the gym today to register with a promotion were I was supposed to get 1 free month. But it turned out the promotion was expired.", "I went to the gym today to register with a promotion were I was supposed to get 1 free month. But it turned out the promotion was expired.", "Oh no! I hate when things like that happen. You can sometimes still get it if you try to speak to the manager", "I tried to but he was not available at the time_comma_ I guess I will tried again tomorrow.", "Yea...sometimes gym managers tend not to be there which is a pain. I hope it works out for you_comma_ though!" ]

[ "I accidentally told my best friend's secret to a mutual friend. I feel so bad about it because I know it was wrong!", "I accidentally told my best friend's secret to a mutual friend", "You must feel awful about it! What are you going to do? Are you telling your friend?", "I do! It just sort of...slipped out. I feel obligated to tell my friend I did it because it would be even worse if it came back to bite me later", "Yes I believe it is better. I hope your friend understand." ]

[ "I used to be miserable when no one would text me and I'd spend the weekend solo at my parents' house...now I've got to turn off my phone just to get away from it all", "I used to be miserable when no one would hit me up and I'd spend the weekend solo at my parents' house...now I turn off my phone just to keep from getting distracted", "That sounds sad. What are you getting distracted from?", "Stacking my dough sky high....too many alcoholic friends and tinder chicks texting me haha", "Well_comma_ that sounds admirable. Focusing on making money so you can be independent. " ]

[ "I walked out the grocery store and walked to my car. I opened the passenger door to set my groceries down. I paused because I noticed items in the car that were not mine. It wasn't my car.", "You'll never believe what I did today.", "Try me", "I walked out of the grocery store and put my bags in the wrong car. It looked just like mine and the doors were unlocked.", "haha oh man did the owner get mad...or did he just laugh it off", "He didn't know. Thankfully. I noticed items in the car that weren't mine. Grabbed my bags and made for my car. LOl." ]

[ "When I used to have a six pack I felt like I betrayed myself everytime I would eat anything with a milligram of sugar....now I just don't care", "When I was ripped with a six pack I used to feel like I was cheating myself if I had anything with sugar...now I'll eat whatever I want and still be in great shape", "That is awesome. What changed?", "My metabolism I guess...or lifting weights_comma_ it was all body weight routines back then", "Can fat really turn into muscles? Asking for myself? lol " ]

[ "My car is very reassuring. I can count on it to take me anywhere I need to go. I am so in love with Toyota.", "I really enjoy Toyota cars. You can count on them to take care of you for a while!", "I rented a Corolla once. It had great responsiveness_comma_ was speeding like a mofo ", "Right. I have a camry! Its an 2007. I have not had any major problem_comma_ that the manufactor has paid to fix! Ive had a corolla also!", "I'm more of a Honda guy tbh. My Civic lasted me a 21hr nonstop drive from MN to South TX and she still runs good as new", "I heard they were good.. Thats the next best car to own.. Good Luck! " ]

[ "Yesterday something was smelling awful in the kitchen and after a lot of search it turned out that it was some eggs that have rotten over the counter.", "Yesterday something was smelling awful in the kitchen and after a lot of search it turned out that it was some eggs that have rotten over the counter.", "Gross! That must have been disgusting!", "Yes it was! But at least it was not some dead animal as I was afraid it could be.", "That is true! way to look at the bright side!" ]

[ "Yesterday I wasn't paying attention while driving and almost his a person in a crosswalk. I felt so bad and knew I was in the wrong.", "Yesterday I wasn't paying attention while driving and almost hit a person in a crosswalk. I felt so bad and knew I was in the wrong.", "How scary! Thank god nothing bad happened after all. ", "Yeah_comma_ I learned my lesson for sure.", "That is the important thing_comma_ I always keep reminding myself to focus while driving too." ]

[ "I miss the old days when I lived at home with my parents. We had a nice house and I didn't have to do anything but school and play with my friends. Now I have responsibilities.", "I sure miss the days when I was young and living at home. We had a nice house and all I had to do was schoolwork and play with my friends.", "True_comma_ you must be feeling nostalgic_comma_ kids going back to school and all", "Yeah now I have responsibilities. I wish I could go back to how things were.", "Someone needs to invent a time machine!" ]

[ "I've failed a lot of diets in the past_comma_ but this time I've been able to stay dedicated for the past four months. I'm seeing great progress now!", "I've struggled with my weight for years and my ability to stick to a diet_comma_ but for the past four months I have been very dedicated to a new diet approach! I'm seeing amazing results.", "that is awesome. i too have had the same issues.", "I'm trying a new thing where I'm fasting for 16 hours a day by skipping breakfast. Makes it so much easier to stay faithful to a diet plan!", "i wouldn't eat until 11 am and then stop eating by 9pm", "Yeah_comma_ that sounds like a really good idea!", "it's not as hard as i thought it would be. certainly helps with staying within a certain amount of calories per daay." ]

[ "i sometimes feel badly for the way our clothes and home look", "i sometimes feel badly for the way our clothes and home look", "Aww_comma_ why's that? Do you live in an older home>?", "our home was built in 1926. it's a sturdy home but needs some updates", "Hey_comma_ don't worry about what other people think! As long as you have a safe roof over your head and your family is happy_comma_ that's all that matters!", "we are but then my clothes is older i'm talking about weekly wear for over 10 years and i want to get some newer stuff but i am really trying to work on losing weight" ]

[ "I had someone break into my garage the other day.", " I had someone break into my garage the other day.", "Oh no. Did they do damage or steal anything?", "They stole my kids bikes and some tools. It is scary to think they were that close to my house. I have beefed up the security since then.", "That is definitely scary. I don't understand why people want to steal from others. Get a dang job!" ]

[ "I completed a qualifying test for a requester. I am waiting to hear back whether or not I passed. I hope I did.", "I completed some tests for qualifications. I'm anxiously waiting to see if I passed.", "Was that for work?", "Yes. I'm trying to add on to my skill set. Hopefully for better paying work.", "I'm sure you are going to do great. I really hope you do get a better paying job as a result. Good luck!", "Thank you. I'm sure I will. It's still nerve wracking none the less." ]

[ "One time my friend and I were going to a concert and we had both paid for front row tickets...I was so mad at myself when we got there and I forgot it back home", "Buddy of mine and I had both paid for front row tickets to a concert...I was so mad at myself when we got there and I forgot it back home", "Oh that sucks! How far do you live from the venue?", "At the time I lived almost an hour away and parking was packed so I knew it was a lost cause...ended up getting some chick's number at the bar later though lol", "Sorry you missed the concert. That is a bummer! But it came with some perks I guess. You met a girl!" ]

[ "When I was a child I fell from the slide_comma_ but my father caught me before I hit the ground. I was very happy.", "When I was a young child_comma_ I fell off of the slide_comma_ but my father caught me before I hit the ground. I knew I could count on my dad after that day.", "What a nice story and how wonderful to feel so protected!", "Thank you_comma_ and most certainly! Parents can make a big impact in a child's life.", "Yes I am sure that have make you or will make you in the future a wonderful parent too!" ]

[ "I am waiting for some blood and other test I have to had last week_comma_ because I was not feeling well. I hope everything is ok.", "I am waiting for some blood and other test I have to had last week_comma_ because I was not feeling well.", "Oh no! I hope that you get well soon and that the tests come back okay!", "I am already feeling better_comma_ but I hope everything is fine.", "Me too! I'm not sure what you might be going through but do consider making sure youre eating a good amount of fruits and veggies. Herbs too_comma_ they're all healing and helpful to the body." ]

[ "I'm having a pretty good day today. Got a lot done that I needed to do and now I'm able to relax for the rest of the day.", "Today was a great day. I was able to knock out a bunch of stuff that needed to be done and now I have the rest of the day to relax. Just sitting around with a nice cup of coffee. Very peaceful.", "Good to hear_comma_ coffee is the bomb!", "Gotta have at least one cup every morning! Without it_comma_ I feel like my day never gets started.", "So much winning_comma_ but with coffee it never gets old" ]

[ "I fixed a cup of coffee for my mother in law and forgot to tell her that we don't use sugar_comma_ but artificial sweetener instead and she spat the coffee out as a reaction.", "At my home we use artificial sweetener instead of sugar in our coffee. I was fixing my mother in law a cup of coffee and it slipped my mind that we don't use sugar and so I handed the cup to her. She ended up spitting coffee everywhere as a reaction. I feel like an idiot.", "Did she forgive you?", "Yeah_comma_ she laughed it off and she actually felt bad for spitting it out.", "That must've been funny" ]

[ "I was at work and my friend left to go to the bathroom and didn't come back for what seemed like 30 minutes! There were so many customers that I had to deal with!", "I was at work and my friend left to go to the bathroom and didn't come back for what seemed like 30 minutes! There were so many customers that I had to deal with!", "Jeeze_comma_ I hope he really had to go_comma_ otherwise he must have been slacking off on purpose!", "He did_comma_ when he came back I was mad but he really picked up the rest of the day leaving me little work", "Well that's good_comma_ at least he didn't do it on purpose. Otherwise I would have found a way to get back at him. Maybe laxatives to make him REALLY go!" ]

[ "My boyfriend recently proposed! My heart was filled with happiness!", "My boyfriend recently proposed!", "Oh_comma_ congratulations! That's awesome. When's the wedding?", "We haven't set a date yet_comma_ but my heart is filled with happiness", "I can imagine. Now you have to get planning the wedding. Should be fun" ]

[ "My brother borrowed my bike without telling me_comma_ and then it got stolen.", "My little brother took my bike without asking me_comma_ and he left it outside the shop_comma_ then it got stolen! I'm so angry right now", "That was very careless of him_comma_ I'm sorry.", "Yeah_comma_ he does things like this all the time. He doesn't have any money to replace it_comma_ either.", "Maybe you should talk with him and let him know how serious of an issue it is to you." ]

[ "I recently had a hurricane hit my city. Luckily I had planned well and had all the supplies I needed to stay safe until the storm passed. I am glad I thought ahead.", "Last year a hurricane hit my area. Luckily I had planned well and had all the supplies I needed to stay safe. I am always thinking ahead like that.", "Sorry to hear that_comma_ I'm glad you were prepared.", "Yeah I had plenty of food_comma_ batteries_comma_ first aid_comma_ and entertainment to keep me busy. It wasn't so bad.", "You did the right thing. You should always stay ready for a disaster." ]

[ "I studied for 4 year at the university. I will be graduating this year with honors.", "I studied for four years at the university.", "Cool_comma_ what did you study?", "I majored in Political Science. I will be graduating this year.", "Nice_comma_ I bet you can't wait to graduate." ]

[ "I am confident I will soon find a well paying job that will allow me to pay my student dent.", "I am confident I will soon find a well paying job that will allow me to pay my student debt", "Those are such high payments_comma_ be sure to get your plan based on your income_comma_ it really helps.", "I will thank you for the advise. Yes it is hard_comma_ I am glad to hear some schools will be free son so student don't get such a load.", "Yes_comma_ the US takes advantage of the need for education. I hope you find a job you love_comma_ and don't forget that they have lots of payment options." ]

[ "I have a phobia of water_comma_ and my boyfriend made me go out on his boat last weekend.", "I have a phobia of water_comma_ and my boyfriend made me go out on his boat last weekend.", "Oh that sounds mean. How did you do?", "I was very scared and I won't be doing it again!", "Are you two still going out?" ]

[ "My daughter got a birthday card full of money this week and I took the cash before she could see it.", "My daughter got a birthday card full of money this week and I took the cash before she could see it.", "Well_comma_ that was terrible of you. Why would you do that?", "I'm desperate for cash. I feel really bad about it_comma_ but I like having my knee caps intact. I guess she'll find another way to pay for college anyway.", "Wow.... I certainly hope so." ]

[ "I hurt my neck today. I must have slept on it wrong and my sweet husband gave me a neck massage to help. It was so sweet.", "I hurt my neck today. I must have slept on it wrong and my sweet husband gave me a neck massage to help. It was so sweet.", "Ouch_comma_ I've done that before. But how sweet of him_comma_ sounds like a keeper.", "He's the best. I was able to get up and get cleaning and work done today thanks to him. ", "Ah_comma_ so he had ulterior motives and wanted the chores done! Just kidding. Glad you're feeling better." ]

[ "I lost my house in a fire last year. All my friends banded together to help me in any way they could think of. ", "I lost my house in a fire last year. All my friends banded together to help me in any way they could think of.", "Oh no! Did they help you find another home/let you stay with them for a while?", "I stayed with some for a while. They also gave me hand me down things that I lost. I am so thankful to have great friends.", "That is so great! Its good to know that there are still good people in this world" ]

[ "I was at the fair the other day and I smelled funnel cakes. It reminded me of home", "I was at the fair the other day and I smelled funnel cakes. It reminded me of home", "I love those. That must have brought up some nice memories.", "They did! It reminded me of when my mom used to make them from scratch", "Oh I see. Are you far from home?", "Yeah" ]

[ "My boyfriend came home with a brand new car for me_comma_ one that I really wanted. I was shocked and very happy.", "My boyfriend came home with a brand new car for me_comma_ one that I really wanted.", "Congrats! Did he choose wisely?", "Yes_comma_ I was shocked and happy at the same time!", "Well_comma_ you did say it was one you really wanted. How nice of him to do that for you." ]

[ "I haven't seen my son in 2 years since he left for the military. He told me he is coming to visit me for my birthday. I can't wait.", "I haven't seen my son in 2 years since he left for the military.", "Oh_comma_ that must be heartbreaking for you. Do you know where he is?", "I don't but he told me he will be home to visit me for my birthday. I can't wait!", "That would be the best birthday present ever! I know he'll make every effort possible to be with you." ]

[ "I recently found out my grandfather has cancer. I was so sad to hear the news. He is a great guy and doesn't deserve it.", "I recently got the news that my grandfather has cancer. I was so had to hear that because he is a great guy and doesn't deserve it.", "I am so sorry to hear that. That kind of news is always hard to receive.", "Yeah_comma_ I just hope it doesn't spread. Perhaps he can still lead a normal life.", "They have all kinds of treatments for cancer now. He should have a fighting chance." ]

[ "I had not seen my best friend in over 3 years. When I came home from work she was sitting my living room. It was great!", "I had not seen my best friend in over 3 years.", "Sorry to hear that. What happened to him?", "He had just been busy with life. But he was at my house when I got home for work.", "Oh that is a nice surprise. I bet you caught up with each other." ]

[ "Something smelled really bad at work the other day. We found an old moldy rotting sandwich in a coworkers desk.", "Something smelled really bad at work the other day. We found an old moldy rotting sandwich in a coworkers desk.", "Jeez_comma_ wonder why they left it there for that long?", "I have no idea. We found it after she left. It was really gross. I wonder if her house is that nasty?", "Who knows_comma_ that's a waste of a good sandwich though!" ]

[ "I have a coworker that plays their music so loud I can hear it from their headphones. I keep asking them to turn it down but they keep cranking it up.", "I have a coworker that plays their music so loud I can hear it from their headphones. I keep asking them to turn it down but they keep cranking it back up.", "That must make you angry. Can you report him?", "Ive asked my manager to say something. Hopefully that happens Monday. I cant take it anymore.", "I understand. Hopefully he fixes it for you." ]

[ "A few weeks ago my 3 year old broke my favorite eyeshadows.", "Ugh so a few weeks ago my 3 year old broke my favorite eyeshadows.", "No way!! Are you ok?", "Yeah_comma_ I should have probably put it in a safer spot. Oh well.", "Did they take anything valuable?" ]

[ "I was waiting for a friend to bring some food to the party and they never showed up. I was really sad and we had to go get it ourselves", "I was waiting for a friend to bring some food to the party and they never showed up. I was really sad and we had to go get it ourselves", "Every found out why they didn't show up?", "Yeah_comma_ they had to go pick up some of their family. We forgave them and everything is alright now", "Well that's understandable. Hope you had a great party afterwards!" ]

[ "I really enjoy my job as a caregiver. While it doesn't pay that well_comma_ it's very rewarding.", "While my job doesn't pay a lot_comma_ it's very rewarding. I work as a caregiver and it feels so good to make someone happy.", "That must be amazing! I wish I had your job", "It's not hard to get into_comma_ honestly. Especially if you know someone who needs help with daily living activities. Seeing a smile on their face when you walk in make it worth it!", "It would make me feel amazing to see their face!" ]

[ "My 4 year old just learned how to write his name.", "So my 4 year old just learned how to spell his name last week.", "Oh that is cool! I bet you are proud.", "I am! I've been working so hard with him lately! ", "It is paying off. That is such a fun age." ]

[ "My phone is not working very well. I am going to have to take it in again.", "My phone is acting up again.", "Oh no. That sounds annoying. Know what's causing it?", "No_comma_ but I am going to have to take it in again.", "Hopefully you have insurance?" ]

[ "Someone bumped into me in an intersection and took off. I have no idea who it was and now I am left with the cost.", "Someone bumped into my car in an intersection and took off.", "That's unfortunate. A hit and run is terrible", "Yes it is and now I am left to deal with the cost.", "I hope things look better. My friend dealt with a similar issue" ]

[ "My son struggled all through school with his grades. This year he will graduating and going off to college.", "My son struggled all through school with his grades.", "That's unfortuante. I bet he is good now", "He is. He will be graduating this year and going off to college.", "What university or college?" ]

[ "My 4 year old gets to start preschool in a week. ", "So my 4 year old gets to start preschool in a week.", "Oh how exciting! Are you at all worried how they'll take being separated?", "A little. I think that's normal though. Glad he'll start to make new friends though.", "Definitely. It will probably be tougher on you than him. Here's to a wonderful first day of preschool for both of you!" ]

[ "My house caught on fire and I lost all my belongings. Im so upset right now. I dont know what I am going to do.", "My house caught on fire and I lost all my belongings. Im so upset right now. I dont know what I am going to do.", "I am so sorry. That is horrible. Now what?", "I need to get insurance to take care of me but I lost some irreplaceable things. Im just down right now.", "That must be so difficult. I hope all turns out well." ]

[ "My son just graduated from college. I cannot believe how fast time went.", "My son just graduated from college.", "Awesome. That is a huge accomplishment.", "I know! It is just crazy how time flies. I know he will do great things.", "You must be very proud. Cant wait to see what he does next." ]

[ "I got a package in the mail of a purse i wanted and have no idea who it came from.", "I got a package in the mail of a purse i wanted and have no idea who it came from.", "Wow! That is amazing", "Thanks. It was totally unexpected.", "I have never had that happen to me" ]

[ "I was at a restaurant and I got a hair in my food! I was appalled! ", "I was at a restaurant and I got a hair in my food! I was appalled!", "That's disgusting! Hopefully you got a refund or your food recooked?", "I told the waitress and they gave me another plate for free", "Good_comma_ I bet you were mad. At least they made it right though." ]

[ "My family left today after a long visit to my house. I miss them already and wish I lived near them.", "My family left today after a long visit to my house. I miss them already and wish I lived near them.", "Well hopefully you will see them again soon. I'm sure they will.", "I usually see them a couple times a year so maybe near Christmas time. Its just so quiet and boring now. ", "You must find joy in your life - something you are passionate about" ]

[ "I was waiting on some pregnancy test results from the doctor. My appointment is next week and my nerves are all over the place", "I was waiting on some pregnancy test results from the doctor.", "You must be anxious and excited! Was it expected?", " My appointment is next week and my nerves are all over the place", "Hope everything goes as planned!" ]

[ "When i was 10 my cat went missing and i found her ran over in the road.", "so a while aog my cat went missing and i found her ran over in the road.", "That is so sad. Did you find out who did it?", "Nope. But i did giver her a little funeral though. I loved that cat.", "I feel so sorry for you. I love my pets too." ]

[ "I just bough a brand new car. I let my brother drive it even though he isn't a good driver.", "I just bought a brand new car_comma_", "How exciting! What kind of car is it?", "It is a Honda Accord. I let my brother drive even though he is not that good of a driver.", "Oh sounds nice. Hopefully he doesn't have any accidents in it." ]

[ "I've been dieting very hard for the past 3 months in preparation for a bodybuilding show I have coming up. I think I can win this one!", "I've been dieting really hard for three months now to get ready for a bodybuilding show I have coming up. The results speak for themselves and I think I got this one in the bag!", "Where will the show be?", "New Orleans_comma_ Louisiana! I'm so hyped up... but hungry. Once it's over and I go home with my first place trophy_comma_ I'm going to eat like a pig!", "that sounds amazing! check out the french quarter while you are there.", "I definitely will. I hear that it's beautiful there!" ]

[ "I cannot wait for Christmas! It is such a happy time!", "I cannot wait for Christmas! It is such a happy time!", "I love the weather that time of the year. I agree_comma_ it is so much fun.", "Everything about it just puts me in a good mood!", "That is awesome. I love all the food and time off." ]

[ "I helped tutor my nephew in algebra. He ended up passing with an A. That made me very happy.", "I helped tutor my nephew in algebra. He ended up passing with an A. That made me very happy.", "You sound like a great uncle! You must be proud of him!", "I am very much so. I think it gave him the boost to continue making good grades.", "That is great that you are there to help him out!" ]

[ "I walked into a public restroom. I quickly walked when I saw that all the toilets had overflowed and the floor was covered with brown stuff.", "I walked into a public restroom then quickly walked out.", "i hate to ask why you walked back out", "All of the toilets had overflowed and the floor was covered with brown stuff.", "gross_comma_ i don't blame you_comma_ public restrooms are always disgusting" ]

[ "My best friend is coming visit me. I cant wait to go out and party. It has been too long.", "My best friend is coming visit me. I cant wait to go out and party. It has been too long.", "Ooh fun! Has it been long since the last time you saw them?", "Its been about a year. We both moved away after college.", "That will be nice to have some time to catch up. Have fun!" ]

[ "I always like to be ready for a big trip.", "I like to be well ready for a big trip_comma_ don't you ?", "Yes_comma_ I love big trips. I spend hours packing!", "It's almost as good as going on the trip itself.", "That's debatable!" ]

[ "My wife just gave birth to our 11th child. ", "My wife just gave birth to our 11th child. ", "That's awesome! Congratulations.", "Thank you! It is crazy that I feel just as happy about this one as I did 14 years ago when our first was born.", "That's great. You have quite the household it seems!" ]

[ "We just bought a used car and we've already had to take it to the shop", "We just bought a used car and we've already had to take it to the shop", "That's unfortunate. Sometimes used cars can be tough to deal with", "Yeah_comma_ it's annoying. Hopefully nothing else goes wrong with it.", "I hope not. I have a feeling things will get better" ]

[ "When i was younger i forgot to pay for a candy bar before leaving the store", "One time i forgot to pay for a candy bar before leaving the store.", "Oh no! I have had that happen to me before_comma_ too.", "Yeah_comma_ I didn't get caught but took it back anyway.", "Good_comma_ I would have too!" ]

[ "I have felt this way while getting ready for graduate school.", "I am getting ready to apply to graduate school_comma_ and I am feeling a little nervous.", "I'm sure you'll do great! Have you been preparing?", "I have_comma_ I am getting ready to take my graduate exam in 2 weeks. ", "Good luck! don't be nervous. I'm sure you'll knock it out of the park!" ]

[ "I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. The father also left me.", "I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. ", "Congratulations! That's awful! DO they not have kids themselves? Its a pretty typical thing to happen when you're the first to have a baby among them and they don't understand that lifestyle. I've been there.", "Well_comma_ the father also left_comma_ so for me_comma_ I've just felt very sad and isolated", "I'm so sorry. My sister was in the very same situation as you and I can tell you_comma_ she made it through and her daughter is 9 now. She kept taking a day at a time and working hard and went back to school to become a nurse. You can do it to. Find some true friends who will support you no matter what. " ]

[ "I just found out the small company I work for is going out of business. I cried all day Friday when I found out because I love working for them.", "I just found out the small company I work for is going out of business. I cried all day Friday when I found out because I love working for them", "I am so sorry to hear this. I am sure you will find another job_comma_ but it doesn't make it any less painful.", "I am worried about finding another job too because I don't have a degree for what I was doing because they taught me how to do it so now I'm not sure who will demand I have a degree.", "Just have faith_comma_ I am sure it will all turn out!" ]

[ "Just last night_comma_ I sat on my back porch with my wife_comma_ my children_comma_ and my guitar. I was just strumming along and enjoying the time with my family. My God has been good to me. Life truly is good. ", "It was such a nice night last evening_comma_ that my wife_comma_ my children_comma_ and I all sat on the back porch and simply enjoyed the evening together.", "That's sounds like a lovely night. I bet it was wonderful", "Absolutely. I played my guitar_comma_ we sang_comma_ we talked_comma_ and just enjoyed the night. God has been good to me. Life is good. ", "I love the guitar_comma_ too! That's marvelous" ]

[ "I was in an occasion and received a call that my friend is dead ", "I received a call that my friend was dead_comma_ when I was in an occasion ", "Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry to hear that.", "I was not myself at all", "How old was your friend?" ]

[ "When my grandma was in hospice I spent every day with her until she passed.", "A few years ago when my grandma was in hospice I spent every day with her.", "Wow_comma_ you are so caring", "I wanted to make sure she wasn't ever alone.", "Ohhh_comma_ so how is she now? ", "Oh she passed away. She was in her 90s with congestive heart failure." ]

[ "I'm going up for a promotion at work in a few weeks. ", "So i'll be going up for a promotion at work in a few weeks.", "That's exciting! I wish you the best of luck!", "Thanks! Really hoping and believing i'll get it!", "It's already yours_comma_ hopefully! If not_comma_ that means there's something out there better for you.:)" ]

[ "I came home from school. I found out my dog was run over by a car.", "I returned home from school one afternoon to news that my dog was run over by a car.", "I'm so sorry! You must've been so sad. Did you find out who did it?", "Unfortunately not. I was so upset! Thankfully_comma_ my dog was okay - just needed some rest and a cast for a couple of months.", "Oh thank goodness! I hate hearing people losing their pets." ]