Twavuze ku mwana ufite icyumweru kimwe, cyangwa se ukivuka, tuvuga no ku musore n’umugabo ndetse n’abasaza n’abo muri abo twavuze bahuye n’ubumuga umusomyi yakwibaza ati: gusiramurwa uri umwana no gusiramurwa uri mukuru ikiza ni ikihe? Byose ni byiza ku bantu bakuru biterwa n’igihe ubimenyeye kandi ugahita ubishyira mu bikorwa. Ibyiza tubona ni uko basiramurwa bakiri bato kuberako icyo gihe usiramuwe ntashobora kwitoneka ikindi kiza muri byo, iyo amaze gukura, agasanga asiramuye yumvako ariko yavutse kuberako aba atazi igihe yasiramuriwe. Ariko uko agenda akura, igihe kiragera akabimenya abibwiwe n’abandi cyangwa se nawe ubwe igihe kiragera akazabyimenyera; ko abona ba bahungu bavuka basiramuye ahubwo basiramurwa bakimara kuvuka kandi nawe ubwe aba abyibonera kubera ko aba amaze gusobanukirwa buri kimwe cyose.