Zibuze ukuba yintoni na enokukhuthaza umntu okanye umntwana omdala ukuba achithe ixesha yedwa kunye nomntwana whako [esoloko ekhuthalele ukumgcina, ukumthutha okanye abe yedwa nomntwana wakho.]Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho aye ezindaweni yedwa. Nabantwana ababini abancinci banakho ukuthinjwa bebobabini. Bazi ukuba abantwana bakho haphi kwaye bakinye nabani maxa onke. Yithathe njengenyaniso into yokuba nantoni na umntwana wakho afuna ukukuxelela yona ibaluleke njengoko nawe ufuna Ukumx elela kona – ngolu hlobo umntwana wakho umnika ilizwi. Thetha nomtwana wakho, kwaye umphulaphule umntwana wakho – kwaye uphulaphulisise. Nkqu nemizuzu emihlanu Yokumphu laphula ngokunyanisekileyo umntwana wakho iya kuthi imqinisekise ukuba ubalulekile kwaye ululutho kuwe mzali wakhe. Zama ukuzazi iimeko nezimo apho umntwana wakho anokuba semngciphekweni wokuthinjwa, adlwengulwe okanye agetyengwe. Yenza intshukumo kule meko. Musa ukubeka umntwana wakho kwimeko elolo hlobo. Mkholelwe umntwana wakho xa ekuxelela ukuba ulinyazwe ngumntu othile, okanye uboniswe into embangele ukuba akhathazeke okanye azive engakhululekanga. Mphulaphule umntwana wakho xa esithi akafuni kuya kwindawo ethile. Mthande umntwana wakho, kwaye umxelele ukuba uyamthanda maxa onke kangangoko unako.