uthi xa eneminyaka engamashumi ababini(20) nangaphezulu kancinci kufuneke oluswe abe yindoda. Ubone ubuhle bomXhosa xa lo mntwana ekhatshwa ngamanye amakhwenkwe esiya ebudodeni, kube nguyele-yele kubemnandi. Amakhwenkwe enze umgubho, iintombi zamakhwenkwe zinxibe izibheshelo zazo ezimhlophe qhwa, zichokozile zintle mfondini! amakhwenkwe wona enxibe amasayibhokhwe wawo egaxele iintsimbi zawo. Ombele amantombi axhentse amakhwenkwe enze lonto intle inomfaneleko, babe oomama bengahabazi bexela amangabangaba ase lwandle kwedini! kubamnandi nasegezeni ngoba kaloku akukho ntlobo yakutya kwesiXhosa kubakho mingqusho, miqa, mifino, marhewu, kwowu! kuxhelelwe exhukwana kubantu abadala ngoba kubakho nomqombothi.