Isohlwayo kuxa into kwenziwe into emntwini okanye kwisilwanyana abe loo mntu okanye eso silwanyana singayithandi loo nto eyenziwa kuye okanye kuso. kusenokwenzeka okokuba bophule umgaqo. Zininzi iintlobo zokohlwaya, zingasuka kwisigwebo sentambo kulo lonke ulwaphulo mthetho olumasikisi, kuye kwizinto ezithi zenziwe ngabazali xa besohlwaya abantwana, ezinje ngokubabetha okanye bathathe izixhobo zabo zokudlala.