Isiko lowaluko lisiko elithi lenzelwe umntwana ongumfana kokwabo.Ubudoda obu abukhulelwa koko umntu uzibhentsisa ngezenzo zakhe ukuba uyindoda na nokuba akasiyiyo. Eli siko libonakalisa ukuba umntwana uphumile ebukhwenkweni waza wangena ebudodeni. Eli siko lithi lenziwe umntwana xa ezayokuqala ukuphangela egqibile imfundo. Oku yayikokwenziwa mandulo kodwa kule mihla umntwana uthi wakuzi bona okanye xa bethe bavumelana nabazali ngesi sigquibo umntwana ahambe ayokucela iimpepha esibhedlele. Ezimpepha zithi zikhusele abakhwetha ekubanjweni ngamapolisa ngezithyolo zolwaphulo mthetho. Xa zithe za lungiswa ezimpepha umntwana ukulungele ukuhamba. Umntwana uthi atshintshe zonke izinto zobukhwenkwe. Oku kuquka impahla, ismilo, indlela yokuziphatha nako. umntwana oyinkwenkwe uye athathwe kokwabo ayokuhlala kindwawo efihlakeleyo kwizindlu okanye ethe qelele. uthiwakufika apha oluswe, umntu oluse lo mntwana uye anikwe yingcibi.