Ngamanye amaxesha xa abantu bethetha ngabantu abahamba nzima ekufundeni nangabantu abanengulo ngokwasengqondweni ebangela okokuba babenokuzikhetha ebantwini, bathetha ngendlela abasebenzisa ngayo imizimba yabo nezinto ezibangqongileyo njengeendlela eziyingxaki kuba bazibona zinokuphazamisa okukhulu, kodwa usengumba wakwamkhozi okwangoku. Le miba ke yona ayikhathazi mntu kunjalo nje ingajonganga kuvusa mnyele, kuphela ibonwa nje ngendleyokuzityanda igila nokuzanelisa kwabantu abadala nabantwana abaqhuba ngolu hlobo- njengokuziphazamisa okanye ukuphinda-phinda izinto abazenzayo njengokususa iingcango neziciko okanye izivalo okanye balinganise nayiphi na intshukumo eyenzeka apho bakhoyo, intshukumo enjengeyeflegi xa kukho umoya ovuthuzayo.