Izidlwengu zineendlela ezahlukileyo zokuqinisekisa ukuba ziyamlawula umntwana wakho ukuze zikwazi ukumxhaphaza ngokwesondo. Imizekelo yolu qeqesho nokuhenda okwenziwa zizidlwengu ukuxhaphaza abantwana bethu ngokwesondo: Ububele – benze ngathi banenkathalo ngexhoba nangosapho lwalo. Uncedo – bacele ukuncedwa ngento lixhoba. Isinyobo – ngezinto ezingqinelana nobudala bomntwana ezifana neelekese, izinto zokudlala, ukutya, utywala, imali. Igunya lokuphata – ukusebenzisa igunya labo lobuqeqeshi, inkokheli yooVulindlela umzekelo, ukuthibaza amandla okuzikhusela exhoba. Ingxakeko engekhoyo – bavakalisa ukuba kukho ukuxakeka ekhaya. Ulonwabo nemidlalo – ebandakanya ukuphatha-phatha. Ukuzigwagwisa / ukubalasela / imisebenzi – ukwenza imiboniso yeempahla, ukhuphiswano loonobuhle, uvavanyo labucala, apho abantwana baxelelwa ukuba okwenzekileyo bakugcine kuyimfihlo. Ukunakana igama – ukusebenzisa amagama amaxhoba abanakaliswe kwizinto zabantu njengezingxobo zokuphatha zesikolo, njalo-njalo ngeenjongo zokwenza ukuba ixhoba lizive likhululekile. Izoyikiso / ukoyika – ukoyikisa ixhoba ukuba lingaxeli. Amaqhawe – banxiba ngokufanayo notata wekresimesi, iyolisa ukuze batsalele abantwana kubo. Umlingo namatiletile – bazanelisa ngokuxhaphaza abantwana kubumsulwa babo. Uburheletya – basebenzisa izinto zoburheletya ukuthibaza amandla okunqanda izenzo zokubi baze benze abantwana ukuba bazive behlelelekile kwaye bengalufanelanga uthando lwabo Bantu babakhathalele ngenene nangenyaniso.