Zininzi iindlela zokuchaza ubunjani bomntu onokuxhaphaza abantwana bethu ngokwesondo. Awona magama axhaphakileyo babizwa ngawo ngala: izidlwengu okanye abaxhaphazi beentsana ngokwesondo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi ukuba umntu omdala okanye umntu omtsha osele ebuqina xa ethe waphula umthetho ngokuxhaphaza umntwana ngokwesondo, akukwazeki ukuba banganyangeka kweso simo. Nangona zikho iinkqubo zokuzama ukunyanga la marhamncwa, uninzi lwazo aijolise ekususeni ixhoba [umntwana wakho] kulo mphembeleli [isidlwengu]. Niengenxila ntywaleni, xa la marhamncwa ekwiindawo ezinabantwana bethu, aye angakwazi ukuzibamba kumnqweno wokuxhaphaza nokudlwengula abantwana bethu izihlandlo ngezihlandlo. Ubukhulu becala, izidlwengu nabaxhaphazi babantwana bayaziwa ngabantwana naziintsapho.