Umntwana oyinkwenkwe kwa Xhosa ubaluleke kakhulu. Uthi akuzalwa kubeyimivuyo nemincili kwelokhaya ngoba kaloku bona bafumene indlalifa. Uthi xa ekhula akhulele phantsi kwengqeqesho yomntu ongu tata welo khaya ukuze amfundise izinto zelo khaya ezinje ngamasiko nezithethe. Kuye kuthiwe uyanda umzi wasemathileni ngoba kaloku ukhula kwakhe abe mdala lo mntwana uya kuzeka umfazi baze bazale abantwana abayokungcina igama lalomzi lingatshabalali ekuhambeni kwexesha.