Ubisi lwebele lolona lulungileyo ebantwaneni ngangaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into, Kodwa ke kukho iimeko ezingenakunqandwa: xa umama esela iziyobisi, kuba enosuleleko lwesifo sephepha, okanye eneAIDS. Ukuncancisa kuvumela umntwana ukuba akhule enempilo entle kwayesisondlo esinexabiso eliphantsi nesinempilo. Kuwo omabini amazweasakhulayo naku mazwe asele ekhulile, ukondla iintsana ngobisi olungumgubo kukhokelela ekuswelekeni kweentsana okuninzi zibulawa sisifo sorhudo. Iingcali ziyavumelana ngokuba ubisi lwebele sesona siselo silungileyo emntwaneni, kodwa ke abavumelani ngexesha emalithathwe ngumamam ukuncancisa umntwana, nangokuba ubisi olungumgubo lukhuseleke kanjani na.