So I think I want to end up with someone who’s also Asian for many reason for the relationship but also for the future children. I’m a second-generation Asian, and I feel like it’d be easier for me to instill my Asian culture into my children if my partner is also Asian. I have a lot of hapa friends, and they‘ve told me about the struggles of not belonging in either community and overall identity issues. So I don’t know if I would want to burden my children with this, if I married a non-Asian person. I’ve never disclosed this w anyone, but I worry if this way of thinking is too close-minded or maybe even racist? Please I need some advice!
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