The lump of nerves and tissue that is known as "male" has been hard-wired to be disgusted of talking about its feelings. What is more, it is also hard-wired to bottle up emotions. Because, if they can submit themselves to that ultimate insult, i.e. fight their inner monster, what behavior can match that insult? Oh, he'd better fake everything he can, while he can, to make up for the possible damage - and to gain, if possible.  The whole male existence is defined by those, ...well, existential issues.
Label: no hate