My realization story is very similar! My cousin told me he started to suspect he was gay because he was watching gay porn. I told him "That doesn't make you gay. I watch lesbian porn all the time and it doesn't make me a lesbian." He didn't say anything for second and then said "Uh...I think it might make you a little gay." It was then when I put it together that I was indeed, attracted to women, how dare him say i am gay yucky !
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