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[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehn?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh, all those kind things dem. So, what do you want me to do again? So, that was even when I left everything about woman, as in, everything…... Even till now sef, woman sef don dey do me one kind. I fit, I fit no talk to woman for weeks, months, I go just dey find money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "E/E So, how did you meet this person that you are with now?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay this one, I met her through, I met her like ehhhh… how did I even met that girl… it, it was, okay… I think it was in a bank" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Then she was working with the bank or something" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I think so. It was in a bank I met her first. But we didn’t talk" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For some months. Then, one day I invited her out, she now came to Crush town to wait for me, that day I forgot I invited someone out" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I tell you the truth" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "He forgot that he invited someone out" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy, guy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Aunty, she will tell you if she, if you meet her, she will tell you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "My God!" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I forgot like intoto that I invited someone. She kept on calling, calling and for my mind…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why this girl dey call me like this? You understand that kind thing? I left her till after 7" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But that’s a very bad first impression" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "My brother…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in eh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Very bad" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It happened first, as in, second time I disappointed her too then" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh my God!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "God, I didn’t know what to do" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Elm, that was how everything started and then, okay, okay, when everything now, when everything now started happening like relationship was when I got broke" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I was explaining to her that, explaining that I was just broke okay, she, we started talking once, once on phone. She now say what is the problem? I told her that I don’t have money to do this, I don’t have money to put my light, my bill, this one, that one and she couldn’t say a word, she said that I should send her my, how much do you want, I told her that I need 30k, she said okay that she has some amount of money in her account that the parents sent it to her for accommodation but she is squatting with one of her friends in Abuja here." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But can she lend me the money? After" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying, I will refund her, I said okay. I sent her my account number, she sent me Four hundred and thir, fifty thousand or there about then" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Four hundred and?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Fifty thousand naira" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But you said you wanted what? Thirty thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Thirty thousand, she said that," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And she sent you four hundred and something" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said, she said, yes…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Seriously," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That I should just keep it, that anytime…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "We need to look, look very well o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That anytime I need ..., I, I, Anytime I need ehhh, anytime she needs the money, you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hayyyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I can refund her the money, I gave her back the money o, you understand? But what really helped me a lot…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But eh, my question is… you asked a young lady for thirty thousand naira…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no, I’ve forgotten how the conversation happened so…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And the lady gave you four hundred and something, ha!" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why, do you know why I think," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See what happened," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I told, I don’t know even what happened but" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, do you know why I think that ehhh, probably she gave you that four hundred and fifty thousand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "To keep for her in exchange" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eh so, she will know that you are in the possession of the complete money because if she gives you thirty" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Some people don’t like touching part, part…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wan ehen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She has started eating that money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wanted, she wanted to rent house with the money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "If she gives you thirty, she might give another person…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you understand, she wanted to rent house with the money. Ehen, she wanted to rent house with the money of which I gave her back the complete money, she rented her house. You understand so…And the money sef I didn’t even fi, and the money again now" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It sounds strange to me. You people are…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The money with me here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You people are …, you people are talking it, … you are explaining it, as in, it sounds strange to me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, but that does…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A young man asked you for thirty thousand and you gave the young man four hundred and something thousand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, she told me that …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that, so that," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "This is what she ehen, this is what she has in her account" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that you will have the complete money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand? She told me that this…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And instead of giving her back the thirty thousand maybe when she has started squandering the four hundred and twenty thousand that is remaining…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And still go back to square one" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is better to give him the four hundred and fifty thousand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What if something happened and the young man was not able to refund back the four hundred and something thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is where the trust comes in" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That is the thing, that thing eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is just the cause" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hope you didn’t tell your mum this story?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, I didn’t tell her" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because this is one reason she will use and tell you what… a no, no" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious aunty?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’m telling you o; somebody you just started a relationship with" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "A question mark o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because there’s a question mark in this thing" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "We’ve been talking eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She was base, she’s based in Abuja here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying? She was, we’ve already known in Abuja" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "… which side are we going back? Through bridge abi… which side?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "let’s follow uh the way we came from, somehow it’s closer" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay the way we came from?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes, very safe" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Very safe" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand aunty, ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh, there are some roads that are not safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Abuja is no longer as safe as it used to be" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Or should we follow the, the other University Abuja side?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The other, let’s follow that, that side is…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen, let’s follow that airport side" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes, that airport side is safer, at least I know that there are police at all the check points" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okayyy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And then…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Abeg safety first ehh…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand aunty ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She explained to me that look at the money she has in her account, she explained to me that period on phone, She explained everything that she wanted to use it for accommodation, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, you understand that kind thing? And me, I, I had problem that is even more than that 30k sef, but I know you, I barely know you, I just can’t start telling you this, you should come and give me that huge amount of money. She now said okay that she will borrow me the money that when I have, she didn’t dash me the money No, she didn’t, I pay her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See why she gave you the money…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But she behaved like someone that was really desperate for…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wasn’t" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Nooo" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "After that periodsef, she didn’t talk to me o. She gave me the money, she forgot me, I forgot her too, after a while when I got the, as in mtchew, that’s why I said the thing just happened. I did not ask her out, she did not ask me out, the thing just happened, you understand aunty? As in, the thing just happened like, we didn’t really… mtchew how will I put it, we didn’t really ahn-ahn, you know how she behaves nah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But which one is better nah? Na who get the money for account e no go gree give you? Na that one good to marry?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmm… Anonymous forget that. These days women use their money to buy men o, if you people don’t know; know it now" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "To buy men?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But aunty ehen, I come, aunty… see, see, see wetin" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand what I’m saying my brother?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I understand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See wetin me I feel say wey make am give me the money sef ehen, she don come my house before that time, you understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You know if someone enters your house and sees how maybe a little bit comfortable you are, the person might think… are you getting what I’m saying?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The person will trust you enough" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okayyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Trust you with something" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay, okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That was the only thing I, I figured out that period sef" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See, the poor, the poor farmer’s way of saving money is lending it to a trusted friend. That is the poor farmer’s way of saving money. At that point if she gives you that thirty thousand," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "It won’t even be enough sef" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The money will remain four hundred and twen, the money will remain four hundred and twenty thousand and she would start using it because she has already started" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So, the best thing to do is to give you the whole money… Keep, I’m sure that you will give me back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Anyway, thank God…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’ve given her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Thank God that you gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because something would have happened" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And maybe you wouldn’t give her back and I wondered what would have happened" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmmm, thank God you gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And before I gave her back, when she needed the money, That was when I even gave her back sef, God made it possible like when she needed the money, the day she called, that she will like to use the money to rent a house;You understand? I told her to give me one week,You understand? Before that one week, I called her, gave her back the money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Even then, we’ve not even started dating too aunty. Are you getting what I’m saying?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That, that girl took a very big risk" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We’ve not even started dating" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That was a very big risk that she took" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "If you were a 419…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She said it’s a risk she won’t take" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No aunty I can’t do that. A corper, I say a corper, a…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen because you are not that kind of a person ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A this thing, a young banker" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Somebody has given me her school fees before" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A young girl like that" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Girl don give me her money but this one give me her school fees eh. Gave me 50k, her school fees nah 80k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehhn" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She come give me 50k say…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Say mey you complete am" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhen say…If I now won pay am back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make you complete am" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Make I give am the 80k nah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You see…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I tell am no problem. I tell the girl no problem, I will. You get? Now she gave me that 50k. Now when she come give me the 50k, as in… the time to pay the school fees has not reached" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She come dey ginger for your body" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She come dey ginger me say her sisters found out say she give boy her school fees; this that, this that. That I should please send her back the money that I should please that ah, ahn-ahn, the calls were getting too much, I’m like what’s up with you nah? You have to, you need to relax, you don’t understand? You need to relax. The time you and I discussed has not even reached and you are bugging, she said that her sisters are disturbing her, the next thing they will tell her parents that this, that, that, I cannot put her in that type of trouble. I said come on, you have something to gain out of this. You gave me 50k to give you 80k so you will use and complete your school fees, so don’t act like… Don’t act like you did me all the favour because you’re gaining something as well()" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Of course" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, come on. The girl insisted and I said okay, since the time we talked about has not reached and you are insisting on having the money, let me give you back your 50k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Straight up" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And I transferred her that her 50k that day wey we talk, I just transfer am her 50k. She come dey call me say how far nah that this is not what we I told her mehn… fuck you there, this thing is not what you and I said at all" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "but Annonymous you were, you agreed to put 30k…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Were you that desperate for money?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "were you that desperate?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No she is my friend, I can dash her the 30k even without borrowing hers" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When you were a student?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, no, no, no, not when I was a student" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No this thing, all these thing happened when we were here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay, I thought it was when he was a student" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "When I was a student" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "One thing there is ehn, all these thing happened when we left school years back, all these thing happen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That’s why I say marry, marry, when boys don’t, when you people have money and you don’t marry, you waste money. Money you will use to be taking care of your families, see that thirty thousand naira you would have wasted giving a…" } ]