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[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, so, are you going to marry their choice or your choice?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I cannot do that, I cannot do that. This girl dey very, very homely. If I don’t do any ah, ah! You know her very well nah Fab?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well nah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She is very, very homely," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know and the ones that dealt with me Aunty eh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmmm, are the slim ones…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Slim ones! They dealt with me seriously" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Aunty I’m telling you the gospel truth" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhennn" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We schooled to, we finished school here in Gwagwalada together. That one, she was a Pastor in Christ Embassy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ahhhhhh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. That one, I was even thinking that after school then everything. Then, I was planning on travelling abroad that period" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. I said okay after schooling, I will introduce her to my parentsbla, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla. She went for NYSC" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Now she, she was, she was serving in Anambra, in Awka sorry Awka. that time wey I tell you say I dey go Awka,na she. Aunty from the little money I had, I paid her this thing o. I don’t really have much but I had to rally round, pay her accommodation. Just in Awka, it’s like 120k abi? We divided it half, half, she brought half, I brought half, we paid. She now started doing her NYSC, I left her for some months." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I didn’t go to visit her in Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I now said okay one day, let me just go and visit her in Awka, do you get?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Getting to Awka, she refused to open her door for me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "There?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in, I, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Waoh!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Only me, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Love ooo, …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Just to found out say the boy wey she dey go out with now, that the boy open ear, do dreadlocks. All those kind yoppy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Chai" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "NYSC…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She never know wetin she want" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Lappy boy and na person weydey do like say na Pastor, so what I’m I going to do?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The girl?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmm. No be say imdey do like say na Pastor," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na Pastor" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "E be Pastor for school" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For Christ Embassy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehn?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh, all those kind things dem. So, what do you want me to do again? So, that was even when I left everything about woman, as in, everything…... Even till now sef, woman sef don dey do me one kind. I fit, I fit no talk to woman for weeks, months, I go just dey find money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "E/E So, how did you meet this person that you are with now?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay this one, I met her through, I met her like ehhhh… how did I even met that girl… it, it was, okay… I think it was in a bank" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Then she was working with the bank or something" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I think so. It was in a bank I met her first. But we didn’t talk" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For some months. Then, one day I invited her out, she now came to Crush town to wait for me, that day I forgot I invited someone out" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I tell you the truth" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "He forgot that he invited someone out" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy, guy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Aunty, she will tell you if she, if you meet her, she will tell you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "My God!" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I forgot like intoto that I invited someone. She kept on calling, calling and for my mind…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why this girl dey call me like this? You understand that kind thing? I left her till after 7" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But that’s a very bad first impression" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "My brother…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in eh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Very bad" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It happened first, as in, second time I disappointed her too then" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh my God!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "God, I didn’t know what to do" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Elm, that was how everything started and then, okay, okay, when everything now, when everything now started happening like relationship was when I got broke" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I was explaining to her that, explaining that I was just broke okay, she, we started talking once, once on phone. She now say what is the problem? I told her that I don’t have money to do this, I don’t have money to put my light, my bill, this one, that one and she couldn’t say a word, she said that I should send her my, how much do you want, I told her that I need 30k, she said okay that she has some amount of money in her account that the parents sent it to her for accommodation but she is squatting with one of her friends in Abuja here." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But can she lend me the money? After" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying, I will refund her, I said okay. I sent her my account number, she sent me Four hundred and thir, fifty thousand or there about then" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Four hundred and?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Fifty thousand naira" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But you said you wanted what? Thirty thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Thirty thousand, she said that," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And she sent you four hundred and something" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said, she said, yes…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Seriously," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That I should just keep it, that anytime…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "We need to look, look very well o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That anytime I need ..., I, I, Anytime I need ehhh, anytime she needs the money, you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hayyyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I can refund her the money, I gave her back the money o, you understand? But what really helped me a lot…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But eh, my question is… you asked a young lady for thirty thousand naira…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no, I’ve forgotten how the conversation happened so…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And the lady gave you four hundred and something, ha!" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why, do you know why I think," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See what happened," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I told, I don’t know even what happened but" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, do you know why I think that ehhh, probably she gave you that four hundred and fifty thousand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "To keep for her in exchange" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eh so, she will know that you are in the possession of the complete money because if she gives you thirty" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Some people don’t like touching part, part…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wan ehen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She has started eating that money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wanted, she wanted to rent house with the money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "If she gives you thirty, she might give another person…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you understand, she wanted to rent house with the money. Ehen, she wanted to rent house with the money of which I gave her back the complete money, she rented her house. You understand so…And the money sef I didn’t even fi, and the money again now" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It sounds strange to me. You people are…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The money with me here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You people are …, you people are talking it, … you are explaining it, as in, it sounds strange to me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, but that does…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A young man asked you for thirty thousand and you gave the young man four hundred and something thousand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, she told me that …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that, so that," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "This is what she ehen, this is what she has in her account" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that you will have the complete money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand? She told me that this…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And instead of giving her back the thirty thousand maybe when she has started squandering the four hundred and twenty thousand that is remaining…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And still go back to square one" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is better to give him the four hundred and fifty thousand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What if something happened and the young man was not able to refund back the four hundred and something thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is where the trust comes in" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That is the thing, that thing eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is just the cause" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hope you didn’t tell your mum this story?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, I didn’t tell her" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because this is one reason she will use and tell you what… a no, no" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious aunty?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’m telling you o; somebody you just started a relationship with" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "A question mark o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because there’s a question mark in this thing" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "We’ve been talking eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She was base, she’s based in Abuja here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying? She was, we’ve already known in Abuja" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "… which side are we going back? Through bridge abi… which side?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "let’s follow uh the way we came from, somehow it’s closer" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay the way we came from?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay but are you sure that road is safe in the night like this?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes, very safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Very safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand aunty, ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Oh, there are some roads that are not safe" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abuja is no longer as safe as it used to be" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Or should we follow the, the other University Abuja side?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The other, let’s follow that, that side is…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen, let’s follow that airport side" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes, that airport side is safer, at least I know that there are police at all the check points" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okayyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And then…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abeg safety first ehh…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand aunty ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She explained to me that look at the money she has in her account, she explained to me that period on phone, She explained everything that she wanted to use it for accommodation, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, you understand that kind thing? And me, I, I had problem that is even more than that 30k sef, but I know you, I barely know you, I just can’t start telling you this, you should come and give me that huge amount of money. She now said okay that she will borrow me the money that when I have, she didn’t dash me the money No, she didn’t, I pay her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See why she gave you the money…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But she behaved like someone that was really desperate for…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She wasn’t" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Nooo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "After that periodsef, she didn’t talk to me o. She gave me the money, she forgot me, I forgot her too, after a while when I got the, as in mtchew, that’s why I said the thing just happened. I did not ask her out, she did not ask me out, the thing just happened, you understand aunty? As in, the thing just happened like, we didn’t really… mtchew how will I put it, we didn’t really ahn-ahn, you know how she behaves nah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But which one is better nah? Na who get the money for account e no go gree give you? Na that one good to marry?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hmm… Anonymous forget that. These days women use their money to buy men o, if you people don’t know; know it now" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "To buy men?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But aunty ehen, I come, aunty… see, see, see wetin" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand what I’m saying my brother?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I understand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See wetin me I feel say wey make am give me the money sef ehen, she don come my house before that time, you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You know if someone enters your house and sees how maybe a little bit comfortable you are, the person might think… are you getting what I’m saying?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The person will trust you enough" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okayyy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Trust you with something" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay, okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That was the only thing I, I figured out that period sef" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See, the poor, the poor farmer’s way of saving money is lending it to a trusted friend. That is the poor farmer’s way of saving money. At that point if she gives you that thirty thousand," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It won’t even be enough sef" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The money will remain four hundred and twen, the money will remain four hundred and twenty thousand and she would start using it because she has already started" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, the best thing to do is to give you the whole money… Keep, I’m sure that you will give me back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Anyway, thank God…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I’ve given her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Thank God that you gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because something would have happened" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And maybe you wouldn’t give her back and I wondered what would have happened" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, so, are you going to marry their choice or your choice?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I cannot do that, I cannot do that. This girl dey very, very homely. If I don’t do any ah, ah! You know her very well nah Fab?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well nah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She is very, very homely," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know and the ones that dealt with me Aunty eh" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmmm, are the slim ones…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Slim ones! They dealt with me seriously" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Aunty I’m telling you the gospel truth" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhennn" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We schooled to, we finished school here in Gwagwalada together. That one, she was a Pastor in Christ Embassy" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ahhhhhh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. That one, I was even thinking that after school then everything. Then, I was planning on travelling abroad that period" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. I said okay after schooling, I will introduce her to my parentsbla, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla. She went for NYSC" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Now she, she was, she was serving in Anambra, in Awka sorry Awka. that time wey I tell you say I dey go Awka,na she. Aunty from the little money I had, I paid her this thing o. I don’t really have much but I had to rally round, pay her accommodation. Just in Awka, it’s like 120k abi? We divided it half, half, she brought half, I brought half, we paid. She now started doing her NYSC, I left her for some months." } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I didn’t go to visit her in Awka" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I now said okay one day, let me just go and visit her in Awka, do you get?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Getting to Awka, she refused to open her door for me" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "There?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in, I, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Waoh!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Only me, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Love ooo, …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Just to found out say the boy wey she dey go out with now, that the boy open ear, do dreadlocks. All those kind yoppy…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Chai" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "NYSC…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "She never know wetin she want" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Lappy boy and na person weydey do like say na Pastor, so what I’m I going to do?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "The girl?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmm. No be say imdey do like say na Pastor," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na Pastor" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "E be Pastor for school" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For Christ Embassy" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehn?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh, all those kind things dem. So, what do you want me to do again? So, that was even when I left everything about woman, as in, everything…... Even till now sef, woman sef don dey do me one kind. I fit, I fit no talk to woman for weeks, months, I go just dey find money" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "E/E So, how did you meet this person that you are with now?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay this one, I met her through, I met her like ehhhh… how did I even met that girl… it, it was, okay… I think it was in a bank" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Then she was working with the bank or something" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I think so. It was in a bank I met her first. But we didn’t talk" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For some months. Then, one day I invited her out, she now came to Crush town to wait for me, that day I forgot I invited someone out" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I tell you the truth" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "He forgot that he invited someone out" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy, guy…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Aunty, she will tell you if she, if you meet her, she will tell you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "My God!" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I forgot like intoto that I invited someone. She kept on calling, calling and for my mind…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why this girl dey call me like this? You understand that kind thing? I left her till after 7" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But that’s a very bad first impression" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "My brother…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in eh" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Very bad" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It happened first, as in, second time I disappointed her too then" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh my God!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "God, I didn’t know what to do" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Elm, that was how everything started and then, okay, okay, when everything now, when everything now started happening like relationship was when I got broke" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I was explaining to her that, explaining that I was just broke okay, she, we started talking once, once on phone. She now say what is the problem? I told her that I don’t have money to do this, I don’t have money to put my light, my bill, this one, that one and she couldn’t say a word, she said that I should send her my, how much do you want, I told her that I need 30k, she said okay that she has some amount of money in her account that the parents sent it to her for accommodation but she is squatting with one of her friends in Abuja here." } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But can she lend me the money? After" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying, I will refund her, I said okay. I sent her my account number, she sent me Four hundred and thir, fifty thousand or there about then" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Four hundred and?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Fifty thousand naira" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "But you said you wanted what? Thirty thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Thirty thousand, she said that," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "And she sent you four hundred and something" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said, she said, yes…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Seriously," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That I should just keep it, that anytime…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "We need to look, look very well o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "That anytime I need ..., I, I, Anytime I need ehhh, anytime she needs the money, you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hayyyy" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I can refund her the money, I gave her back the money o, you understand? But what really helped me a lot…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But eh, my question is… you asked a young lady for thirty thousand naira…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "no, I’ve forgotten how the conversation happened so…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And the lady gave you four hundred and something, ha!" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why, do you know why I think," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See what happened," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Do you know why I think that eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I told, I don’t know even what happened but" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, do you know why I think that ehhh, probably she gave you that four hundred and fifty thousand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "To keep for her in exchange" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eh so, she will know that you are in the possession of the complete money because if she gives you thirty" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Some people don’t like touching part, part…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wan ehen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She has started eating that money" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wanted, she wanted to rent house with the money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "If she gives you thirty, she might give another person…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "you understand, she wanted to rent house with the money. Ehen, she wanted to rent house with the money of which I gave her back the complete money, she rented her house. You understand so…And the money sef I didn’t even fi, and the money again now" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It sounds strange to me. You people are…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "The money with me here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You people are …, you people are talking it, … you are explaining it, as in, it sounds strange to me" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, but that does…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A young man asked you for thirty thousand and you gave the young man four hundred and something thousand" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, she told me that …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that, so that," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "This is what she ehen, this is what she has in her account" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So that you will have the complete money" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand? She told me that this…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And instead of giving her back the thirty thousand maybe when she has started squandering the four hundred and twenty thousand that is remaining…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "And still go back to square one" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is better to give him the four hundred and fifty thousand" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "What if something happened and the young man was not able to refund back the four hundred and something thousand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is where the trust comes in" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "That is the thing, that thing eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That is just the cause" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hope you didn’t tell your mum this story?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, I didn’t tell her" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because this is one reason she will use and tell you what… a no, no" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Why?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you serious aunty?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’m telling you o; somebody you just started a relationship with" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "A question mark o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because there’s a question mark in this thing" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "We’ve been talking eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "She was base, she’s based in Abuja here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you getting what I’m saying? She was, we’ve already known in Abuja" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "… which side are we going back? Through bridge abi… which side?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "let’s follow uh the way we came from, somehow it’s closer" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay the way we came from?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay but are you sure that road is safe in the night like this?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes, very safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Very safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand aunty, ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Oh, there are some roads that are not safe" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abuja is no longer as safe as it used to be" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Or should we follow the, the other University Abuja side?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The other, let’s follow that, that side is…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen, let’s follow that airport side" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes, that airport side is safer, at least I know that there are police at all the check points" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okayyy" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "And then…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abeg safety first ehh…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand aunty ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "She explained to me that look at the money she has in her account, she explained to me that period on phone, She explained everything that she wanted to use it for accommodation, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla, you understand that kind thing? And me, I, I had problem that is even more than that 30k sef, but I know you, I barely know you, I just can’t start telling you this, you should come and give me that huge amount of money. She now said okay that she will borrow me the money that when I have, she didn’t dash me the money No, she didn’t, I pay her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See why she gave you the money…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "But she behaved like someone that was really desperate for…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She wasn’t" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Nooo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "After that periodsef, she didn’t talk to me o. She gave me the money, she forgot me, I forgot her too, after a while when I got the, as in mtchew, that’s why I said the thing just happened. I did not ask her out, she did not ask me out, the thing just happened, you understand aunty? As in, the thing just happened like, we didn’t really… mtchew how will I put it, we didn’t really ahn-ahn, you know how she behaves nah" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "But which one is better nah? Na who get the money for account e no go gree give you? Na that one good to marry?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hmm… Anonymous forget that. These days women use their money to buy men o, if you people don’t know; know it now" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "To buy men?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "But aunty ehen, I come, aunty… see, see, see wetin" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand what I’m saying my brother?" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I understand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "See wetin me I feel say wey make am give me the money sef ehen, she don come my house before that time, you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "You know if someone enters your house and sees how maybe a little bit comfortable you are, the person might think… are you getting what I’m saying?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The person will trust you enough" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okayyy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah," } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Trust you with something" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay, okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That was the only thing I, I figured out that period sef" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "See, the poor, the poor farmer’s way of saving money is lending it to a trusted friend. That is the poor farmer’s way of saving money. At that point if she gives you that thirty thousand," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It won’t even be enough sef" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "The money will remain four hundred and twen, the money will remain four hundred and twenty thousand and she would start using it because she has already started" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, the best thing to do is to give you the whole money… Keep, I’m sure that you will give me back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Anyway, thank God…" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I’ve given her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Thank God that you gave her back" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because something would have happened" } ]

[ { "role": "user", "content": "I gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And maybe you wouldn’t give her back and I wondered what would have happened" } ]