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[ { "role": "user", "content": "I gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hmmm, thank God you gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And before I gave her back, when she needed the money, That was when I even gave her back sef, God made it possible like when she needed the money, the day she called, that she will like to use the money to rent a house;You understand? I told her to give me one week,You understand? Before that one week, I called her, gave her back the money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Even then, we’ve not even started dating too aunty. Are you getting what I’m saying?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That, that girl took a very big risk" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "We’ve not even started dating" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That was a very big risk that she took" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "If you were a 419…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said it’s a risk she won’t take" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No aunty I can’t do that. A corper, I say a corper, a…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen because you are not that kind of a person ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "A this thing, a young banker" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Somebody has given me her school fees before" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "A young girl like that" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Girl don give me her money but this one give me her school fees eh. Gave me 50k, her school fees nah 80k" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhn" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She come give me 50k say…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Say mey you complete am" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehhen say…If I now won pay am back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Make you complete am" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make I give am the 80k nah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You see…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I tell am no problem. I tell the girl no problem, I will. You get? Now she gave me that 50k. Now when she come give me the 50k, as in… the time to pay the school fees has not reached" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She come dey ginger for your body" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She come dey ginger me say her sisters found out say she give boy her school fees; this that, this that. That I should please send her back the money that I should please that ah, ahn-ahn, the calls were getting too much, I’m like what’s up with you nah? You have to, you need to relax, you don’t understand? You need to relax. The time you and I discussed has not even reached and you are bugging, she said that her sisters are disturbing her, the next thing they will tell her parents that this, that, that, I cannot put her in that type of trouble. I said come on, you have something to gain out of this. You gave me 50k to give you 80k so you will use and complete your school fees, so don’t act like… Don’t act like you did me all the favour because you’re gaining something as well()" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Of course" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So, come on. The girl insisted and I said okay, since the time we talked about has not reached and you are insisting on having the money, let me give you back your 50k" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Straight up" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And I transferred her that her 50k that day wey we talk, I just transfer am her 50k. She come dey call me say how far nah that this is not what we I told her mehn… fuck you there, this thing is not what you and I said at all" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "but Annonymous you were, you agreed to put 30k…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Were you that desperate for money?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "were you that desperate?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No she is my friend, I can dash her the 30k even without borrowing hers" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "When you were a student?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no, no, not when I was a student" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No this thing, all these thing happened when we were here" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay, I thought it was when he was a student" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, no, no" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When I was a student" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "One thing there is ehn, all these thing happened when we left school years back, all these thing happen…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That’s why I say marry, marry, when boys don’t, when you people have money and you don’t marry, you waste money. Money you will use to be taking care of your families, see that thirty thousand naira you would have wasted giving a…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Those things are waste, as long as I’m concerned. When you have a family, you put it in your family and it’s moving" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The, the girl come dey ginger me later say okay, e get when this girl dey tell me say ahh, say make I help, make I borrow her 120k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You see…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Apparently…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make she use pay her house rent" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah, right" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make she use pay her house, make she use pay her house rent say later she go give me back mtchew, I come tell the girl say… see eh, I don’t think you need a… a… I don’t think you need a partner or a boyfriend or whatever, whatever, whatever. The only thing you need is a cash assurance That’s the only thing you need," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I dey tell you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is just cash assurance and mehn, is not working with me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Na sooo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I tell the girl life, is not working with me, think of something else, if this is your plan with me, forget it" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Na soooo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It won’t work. Because I don’t have that time" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And you know say…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I no get that time o…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "E get people wey be say, as you dey like this ehn, if you ask them for money ehendem go give you but if I ask dem no go give. You know that one very well?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I no just know but e dey happen steady. Like," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You know the way here? Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That thing wey you tell me that time, you say e get one guy…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "This, this one we will now pass through the front, front of that University of Abuja" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eh?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I said we will cross the…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is it that University side?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I come know say wetin this girl need from my hand…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Na money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is this place closer than that place that we went?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abi no, that place is closer. it's a straight way but this place is safer" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And for, according, I, I, that’s why I wanted to know if they have used that road" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "In the night and how many check, check points are there… How many police this thing.At least this one, just up here, there is a military check point first…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "_ Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Before you even go far" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And then, at the University bridge, Erm… there are some police men that usually stay at the University bridge" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "They are even much, is further, I further Mtchew but that road, I’ve not used it in the night so I don’t know mtchew, I don’t know anything about it jare. But with this one, ehen that one is more of out sketch With this one very soon, you go just… we will reach now, when we pass airpot We will be there already, at least, nothing can happen…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What if they’ve not found the… spouse" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "My brother o, At least you understand my situation" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "How go, how dem go come fine like this" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The ones that, the ones that I found couldn’t found me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "How these ones go come fine like this" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ma, they will fine nah, ahn-ahn" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Come dey look where, where, come dey wear eh, eh, Senator every time" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money be Na money be fine bobo nah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You know ma, that’s, that’s the…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money be fine bobo, na moneyyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen, how these ones no go fine?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money be fine bobo" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See how dem fine, see how dem come dey wear" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But you know that, that time wey dey…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See those girls, I was looking at those girls, they were doing hihihihihihihi…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ma, you see…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "seriously" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ma, you see, that’s why they have to be ex…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You know I was looking at them. Their body dey, go dey sweet dem; especially that one at the center" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Her body, she was just doing body, body. I told myself, you don see fine boy shey?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See as body dey sweet am." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ma, but you know, you see that’s where the problem is. They can, is difficult for them to find the… Genuine…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I’m telling you brother" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehhen, the genuine one" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "If I tell you my experiences I’ve had" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The genuine one" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’ve had too many experiences eh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "If they want, if they want to find genuine one they will find" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Then after a while, they will all just seem the same .After a while, you will find out that they are all the same, it will just take some time" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The only one now, Aunty…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "To find good, to find good woman now hard o" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The only one I like now eh," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I won’t lie to you, that understand me very, very well" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That I like so much, she went to Madona University now eh," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen. Ah-ah, what’s the noise all about?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Sorry, where is this noise coming from?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Park stand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Park…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That one is in Madona University" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen no, she’s, she is done with Madona; she is working in town, she's staying in Abuja here too" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I wanted to bring her to you, I wanted to introduce her to you today" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen, are you people still coming?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "In fact she is in my house now sef" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Are you people still coming to the house?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen, we, we are coming to the, I told her to, that you wanted to see her" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said she will come and see you" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. So, but, the only, she’s the only one that my mind have already accepted but now, my parents" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ewoo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is now the problem" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What’s the problem nah?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know o," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What is it?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know o, you know her very well nah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, what, what are they complaining about?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in, my parents said… you know I’m from Abia State. They said ehhhn, Anambra that ehh and she is plumpy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eheeee…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "They are saying that the girl is big, she is old, she is all that, na small girl…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I don’t understand" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na small girl wey I senior" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I don’t understand, she is?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She is big, she is old, all those kind, you know as mum mtchew" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The thing come dey serious for where mumsy dey o" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, so, are you going to marry their choice or your choice?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I cannot do that, I cannot do that. This girl dey very, very homely. If I don’t do any ah, ah! You know her very well nah Fab?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well nah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She is very, very homely," } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I know her very, very well" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know and the ones that dealt with me Aunty eh" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmmm, are the slim ones…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Slim ones! They dealt with me seriously" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Aunty I’m telling you the gospel truth" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhennn" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We schooled to, we finished school here in Gwagwalada together. That one, she was a Pastor in Christ Embassy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ahhhhhh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. That one, I was even thinking that after school then everything. Then, I was planning on travelling abroad that period" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand. I said okay after schooling, I will introduce her to my parentsbla, bla, bla, bla, bla, bla. She went for NYSC" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Now she, she was, she was serving in Anambra, in Awka sorry Awka. that time wey I tell you say I dey go Awka,na she. Aunty from the little money I had, I paid her this thing o. I don’t really have much but I had to rally round, pay her accommodation. Just in Awka, it’s like 120k abi? We divided it half, half, she brought half, I brought half, we paid. She now started doing her NYSC, I left her for some months." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I didn’t go to visit her in Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I now said okay one day, let me just go and visit her in Awka, do you get?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Getting to Awka, she refused to open her door for me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "There?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "As in, I, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Waoh!" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Only me, I drove from Abuja to Awka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Love ooo, …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Just to found out say the boy wey she dey go out with now, that the boy open ear, do dreadlocks. All those kind yoppy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Chai" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "NYSC…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She never know wetin she want" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Lappy boy and na person weydey do like say na Pastor, so what I’m I going to do?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The girl?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmm. No be say imdey do like say na Pastor," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na Pastor" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "E be Pastor for school" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "For Christ Embassy" } ]