Q: Some people say one should visualize success for a boost towards achieving it, but my cripping insecurities and or fear of expecttions keeps me from actually visualizing success for fear of being hurt in case of failure. any tips? im towards the end of a big project and i really believe it can be a success but cant picture it because of realistic (perhaps pessimistic) expectations that it might not and it kinda feels dangerous to believe people will love it.
A: there's nothing you can really do about this. all i can suggest, to put it in perspective, is try not doing any big projects. then you will be able compare the sadness to the fear and see which one you like better