Q: sometimes when I ask a person a question, especially if I admire or am intrigued by them, I feel that I am somehow being aggressive in asking them this question, as if I am attempting to steal something from them. Have you felt this before? Why do you think that is?
A: my guess is that you mostly live an aggression-free life. so therefore anything with even the smallest hint or trace of aggression will easily win first prize for aggression