Q: But then you take a step back and you're like "wait a minute, I bet other people feel like shit too. And I bet they think that everyone thinks that they are shitty. But I don't think they are shitty. So that means that someone must also think that I am not shitty. Hurray!"
A: yes, i know what you mean. there is definitely a good balance to be found when you realize that everyone else is a person too