Q: Hey bill, any thoughts on fixing a character trait of constantly feeling like I have to defer to others? I know this may not seem like a flaw, but it very seldom benefits me and it just bothers me a lot. How to feel "in charge" of my own values - not in a domineering way, just normal...
A: you're not gonna like this, but, the answer here is to answer this yourself. i think that's clear