Q: One of the most important people in my life passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. I am destroyed. I'm not sure how to go on, even though I am in good company and have good things going on for me besides this. I wanna hibernate for a decade and just cry my eyes out all the time but I'm not sure that's useful. Thank you for any takes on this from you. Big fan.
A: this can sometimes be a trigger for major self improvements that have been waiting on deck for a while. not necessarily related, but sort of a good excuse to really make those changes you've wanting to make