Q: what is the first step towards finding someone who can build your trust and help you create?
A: search everywhere. then if you feel like you still can't find anyone, i guess you will have to do everything yourself. then if you are in the mood to search again later, search again. search harder, think outside the box, and look in more places. then if you still feel like you can't find the right person, i guess you will have to keep doing everything yourself