Q: I just had a pretty intensive discussion with a friend and i'd love to get your opinion We were both talking about life and stuff until we realized that we were both at a major crossroad in our life. Like a life changing decisions could be made. Both of us aren't able to make a decisions on whether or not to go down this path. Both options work in our opinion, so we just stay like that making no decision. then we looked at friends and it felt like some of them already took some of these decisions, and these guys seemed like "adults" (meaning old/grownup) Do you think that being an adult is making your choice and following it ? Do you think that we don't want to take a decision because we still want to have that freedom ? (which is a bit what an adolescent goes through; he realizes he isn't fully free) Did you take such a decision ? How do you follow it ? Do you feel like you could go back ? Would you ?
A: you never told me what decision you are talking about