Q: You have any tips on getting motivated to actually do stuff? Whenever there's something inconvenient I have to do I end up with the indescribable urge not to do it event though I have to do it eventually and it's not even that bad and then I put it off and have a bad time
A: yes, this makes sense. most people don't want to do what they don't want to do. one of the best ways to handle this is to better understand why you have to do it. who wants you to do it? why do they want you to do it? have you ever wanted someone else to do something? why did you want them to do it? the more you can close this gap, the more you can love and appreciate the task. And the other thing you can do is start thinking in more detail HOW you are going to do it. imagine you were going to teach someone else how to do it. confusion is very paralyzing, and developing a teachable understanding of any task can often be a great way in