Q: my best friend died two years ago and im still not over it, what can i do, i really miss him, ive asked everyone and all they say is im sorry for your loss
A: use it as an excuse to accomplish some of your most important goals. a similar thing happened to me one time, and i used it as a kick-start to start improvising and playing songs by myself on keyboard/vocal. before, i had always wanted to learn to do that but never got to it