Q: Hi Bill, I am falling in Love with someone.  Actually, I'm not, she sent me like thirty  text messages today (I'm makin' this one ZANY LIKE BILL) I was thinking, when Love was elusive it was so important but now that I have it it's meh.  What is it about human nature that makes us take for granted what we have and yearn for what is painfully out of reach?
A: this whole planet and life in general as we know it is based on the idea of improvement