Q: Hi bill, so there's this girl I really like that I kind of got to know from some activity that only lasted a couple weeks, and I never get to see her any time other than one class where we sit on opposite sides of the room. I have a couple concerns, first is that I'm extremely scared of making any moves whatsoever, partly out of fear of rejection but also because I think she is way too perfect for me. Personally, I feel like an ugly sack of shit compared to her which is the opposite of encouragement. Do you have any advice for me?  Thanks
A: you are going to need to believe that you are good enough. if you don't think you are, then start making yourself better. that should give you something to do