Q: That question about a440 made me curious about an aspect of having perfect pitch (which I do not have)

When I hear a note that is sharp or flat relative to its accompaniment it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I find myself straining as though I could correct the pitch with my thoughts alone -- much in the same way I might lean to one side to try to influence an errant bowling ball after it has left my hand.

Do you ever get this feeling?  If so, does it only occur for you when the tone is out of tune relative to the musical context?  Or, having perfect pitch, does it also happen for you if the music is in tune with itself, but not with the traditional a440 tuning?
A: anyone who claims to be 'irritated' when a recording is fully in tune with itself, but not tuned to a440, is faking it. this is not irritating, it's just a way to brag about having perfect pitch. even worse, many people who do this are actually wrong about it-- they will tell you the radio is out of tune because they speed up the songs to get more ads in, but that is not true anymore, now they can speed up the songs without changing the pitch, so everything you hear on the radio is in a440, for the most part