Q: When I'm in the middle of completing a hard portion of a goal, I often have a strong urge in the middle of hardship or annoyance to run away from the task and do something pleasant. It hits repeatedly, and accompanies a virtual titanium wall that starts to prevent me from moving forward and even if I can stand to get past it I work very slowly. If I cant stand it, I abandon the process. How can I better deal with or eliminate this pernicious feeling?
A: i think it's time to have a discussion about it. first, harken back to when the project was first started, and recall what it's really all about, and why you are doing it. this often helps. And the other thing you can do is discuss the specific procedure. If you are hitting a wall, it often means that you don't actually know exactly what you are supposed to do next. sometimes you think you know, but you don't actually know, and this can be a reason for things being slow. discussing things usually helps a lot