Q: hey so i have this problem where i can't compliment myself in fear someone else will disagree with me. like, say i think my nose is nice. i like my nose, it's a good nose. well, there could be this other person that says "oh no your nose is really big it's not cute", and so on. what should i do because i think im a good person but there is always this voice in my head that says "no, look at yourself from someone else's point of view, you aren't fine" and i can never say anything good about myself, i just put myself down so no one else can and hurt me. do you have any solution for this? btw im not vain, i just don't think im awful.
A: it's generally taboo to talk about your own good qualities. so join a cult with yourself and try to be the greatest person you possibly can and never tell anyone. show them instead