Q: Sometimes I wanna be Spider-Man, but then I feel sad when I remember it's not exactly possible. How can I "not exactly" be Spider-Man while still feeling fulfilled?
A: it's important to remember that there was no spider man before spider man. just as there was no you before you. actually, being you is exactly the kind of thing that someone later will wish they could do, but can't, because of course you will have already done it