Q: I used to sleep with this guy occasionally, and it was great. But it became clear that he always wanted a real relationship with me, and I wanted to keep things casual, so we drifted apart. About a year has gone by. I just found out he has a girlfriend now. The problem is, I REALLY want to hook up with him again. It's all I think about all day. I think I might be able to convince him to cheat on his gf with me (since he was always really into me), but that feels wrong. I could also try to break them up by pretending like I finally DO want to date him, and then just use him for sex for a while. But that option also feels wrong. A third option might be to ask for a threesome with him and his gf, but I doubt she'd consent to a threesome with one of his former lovers, and plus I don't know if I really want to hook up with a woman anyway. What do you think I should do??
A: not ask me questions like this