Q: hey. So i have a conundrum. i have a really bad roommate this year who's stinking up my dorm, making loud noises, waking me up all night, etc. and he hasn't attended class once since the semester started. i secretly want him to continue not going to class so he drops out and leaves me alone, but i feel like a bad person for not wanting someone to succeed, especially considering how much money he's spent. should i try to encourage him to be responsible even though i really don't like him?
A: in this case, i don't think his behavior hinges around your suggestions. if he remains an annoyance, consider it free annoyance tolerance training for you. always a good skill to have