Q: how can i help people i care about feel what this music makes me feel?
A: that's probably not a good strategy. you have a long lasting personal connection to the music, you can't just make someone have the same connection instantly. everyone is on their own unique musical journey. surely your dad, mom, siblings, all have their own music collections which they feel deeply attached to. do you think they could convince you to suddenly feel what they feel, for their music