### Clue: What you get with husband facing referee? (4)
### Answer: HUMP 
 ### Explanation: Definition: What you get
 H(abbrev. for "husband") + UMP(short for "umpire";a referee).
Answer:  The "what" in the defn. ie. a fit of depression, possibly at seeing your husband before an arbitrator;a referee (or even a judge in court?).