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changemyview_train
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CMV: keeping children "innocent" is detrimental to their development I am M/24 and thinking about having kids in the next 3-4 years. One of the concepts that I've always disagreed with is "robbing kids of their innocence." I just don't feel like time spent being innocent is important to have a fulfilling childhood. Also, kids that did have their innocence taken away early on - such as the age of 4-12 grow up with more maturity and develop better ability to handle complex situations effectively. I understand this could put a lot of pressure on young minds and could have detrimental effects - some situations where I would treat the child as an adult vs. where I wouldn't; If I can afford food, clothing and shelter, then I will explain to my child if we are poor/rich and how it impacts us. If we are barely scaping by, I would try to make them understand that while its unfair, its how life is right now - that things can change. I would teach my kids about death as a natural process if a distant relative died, but I wouldn't tell them their dog died because that could cause emotional trauma. These lessons would have the most impact on a younger mind, I would have to be careful not to say anything disturbing but I believe its well worth the effort. I believe you should take away a child's innocence if it can be done in a healthy way. \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ My dad was blunt with me, he ran a business and would come home stressed when his accounts receivable was adding up. We had bills and mortgage to pay and he was very transparent about not being able to meet payments. It made me value money more, question why things cost as much as they do and I think I have a better understanding than others from an early age. While it did cause stress, it gave me a head start when compared to the blissfully ignorant kids that could not understand why their parents wouldn't buy what they wanted - these were the kids saying shit like "my moms a b\*tch." When my dad said NO to buying an Xbox, I understood and didn't pester him, I didn't throw a tantrum because I understood he would have bought me one if he could. My innocence wasn't robbed, I was taught the importance of spending when you don't have it. Later down the line, I did end up getting an Xbox, just had to wait an additional 8 months for my dad to have that kind of discretionary spending (\~$400). Should I not take opportunities to teach my kids about gender inequality, stereotyping, financial stability, death, being born lucky, war, drug abuse, or grandparents going senile? (just some examples off the top of my head). All for the sake of innocence, which I just don't see any benefits to. I feel like it should be my parental duty to teach these things in a warm and supportive environment and not let life be the only teacher. ​ CMV reddit.
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I have two kids, and I think you are collapsing ideas such as teaching your child values, morals and ethics for a strong foundation for development, and the day to day experience and perspective of "being a kid"; or otherwise not being privy to everything in the world they may need to be privy to in the coming days as a person in the world... As a parent, you do want to do both- providing good strong lessons and ideas at the level they understand, or as they come up in life, so they do not shy away from developmental milestones, but bravely experience and grow from them. For example, the family dog died, and their grandmother sadly recently passed who had alzheimers awhile and lived on the other side of the country. They saw the family dog in their daily life and when she passed, my emotional response about it, so this was the moment to teach and talk and explain emotions surrounding loved ones passing and about what death is. More recently, their grandmother had passed. In reality, I don't believe we have directly told them about it... I think this is because they are still too young to really understand the complexities surrounding the circumstance, particularly why it perhaps isn't as "immediate" to them as a day to day experience for them suddenly changing. So the difference is that we want our children to be "innocent", or carefree as they are developmentally are, and as developmental milestones come up, it's not really a question of "keeping" them "innocent", it's more about providing "back up" or even "shielding" them from experiencing tragedy they are not prepared for or that can be avoided in the sense that they have an advisor to explain parts of an experience or situation or issue that may have intrigued them further or more specifically as they show interest in that particular area of life. You wouldn't want to bring their attention to something they have not been exposed to in some form personally and expect them to understand from your perspective, it takes them bringing it to your attention that it's prime time for a lesson about a particular value, ethic or moral which obviously you have to get creative to really be successful at on the fly. So since you were exposed to this particular adversity, you were also endowed with the value of money and not disrespecting a parent for lack of funds, which is obviously widely applicable in the real world as well. Instead of leaving you "ignorant" of what is going on, your dad filled you in, this has nothing to do with "innocence" as you can see from your peers being less than so for example, and you almost retaining your own in comparison. It's a delicate balance of teaching the values as the come up, and scaffolding on their own experience and understanding of the world. It's all about developing values that have application and make sense; so take the opportunities to teach, but also understand that if you're not "speaking their language" developmentally, then your lessons may not stick or really apply the way you envision them perhaps being. So yes, it's all about consistently building basic ideas about how sharing, caring, honesty, equality, equity, persistence and perseverance can translate to good values to practice in every age and stage in life, whether it's getting good grades in the face of an adversity, or getting a good paycheck in the face of an adversity- you build on where it applies to them in a way they actually can practice every day, and in most respects, it looks cutesy or "innocent", but it's what they are honestly tackling at their social location. It's difficult for a toddler to first grasp the concept of sharing, but practicing the idea adds meaning and value to keep practicing it, in the face of not wanting to for example. When they master these values with other peers, it lends itself to practicing these same ideals they found to have worked in the "real world" as they grow. tl;dr the "warm and supportive environment" you speak of is what most parents seek and what maintaining a child's "innocence" actively looks like. It's a good thing if there is no presence of drug abuse, senility, poverty, etc. in this ideal environment, because it's "warm and supportive"=they are allowed to maintain their innocence or right to have such an environment in the first place; if they lack in one or a few areas, they still have the right to such an environment and can learn that just because they are touched with less than an ideal environment, they still have the right to seek it and understand that they are still loved and supported still. So exposing a child to less than innocent circumstances really has no exact result of whether the child itself deserves to have the most warm and supportive environment it possibly can, which is what we tend to believe every child deserves, deeming them "innocent" whether in poverty or not, ignorant spoiled brats or conscientious, it doesn't matter, they all deserve an "innocent environment"- even if they don't have it; children, being innocent="generally helpless" should be considered first if any improvements are to be made, etc on the basis of without this general and broad support of their age and stage in life it would be absolutely detrimental to their development in all sense of the word.
I think maybe you worded it in a way that sounds like you’re just gonna expose your kid to bad shit, but it sounds like you really mean you’re not gonna shelter them from things that are less than pleasant. Respect if that is really what you mean. I grew up in an environment where I was abused so I was basically “robbed of innocence” because I was constantly exposed to bad shit. But then I was also sheltered from the world cause my mom had like a very evil Disney stepmother outlook and was a super toxic person, but also thought literally everyone and everything else was super toxic so I wasn’t allowed to experience anything ever. So both extremes, especially together, are really bad, and I just wanna caution you.
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askacademia_train
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What drama is happening in your department right now? After hearing some interesting tales of pettiness, I'm looking to hear yours. What drama is happening among your department or school now? How do you plan to cope with it?
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Adjunct “Ted” is the reason we have “decoy” department parties that no one comes to, and then secret fun ones without him. He gets wasted and goes off on racist and/or sexually explicit rants. (He’s a POC and says this makes it okay.) He gives the women lingering hugs and congratulates those of us who “chose brown men” as our spouses. He calls other POC “stupid” for not starting race-related arguments in the intro non-majors survey course. Ted quit a FT gig to come live in this city with “Jen,” the department coordinator. Following their inevitable, explosive breakup, Ted sent a drunken rant about Jen to the college president, VP, and deans. After a tense year of Ted being passive-aggressively “helpful” (obnoxious), Jen quit without warning the week before school started this past August. Now we’re holding the search to replace Jen, and Ted has already let us know that he’s 1. initiating a discrimination complaint against the dean for not responding to his emails, and 2. applying for Jen’s former job and will sue if he’s not hired. Even if he weren’t a toxic psycho, he’s not the right person for the job just based on experience, and I wish I could tell him to go ahead and sue now so we can get that shit dismissed and not have to come in during the summer to deal with it. You may be wondering why Ted still gets classes in our department. I’m not sure, but I suspect a combination of inertia and passing the buck. Fun fact: I’ll be coordinator next year and I have no problem cutting Ted loose. He’s welcome to file his specious Title IX and/or racial discrimination complaint against me. I volunteer as tribute and dare a motherfucker to ask me the real reason why Ted doesn’t work here anymore. It’s not gossip if it’s a deposition, Ted.
I am responsible for performance reviews in our department. Our Dean decided to add another form which rates each person on teaching, research and service with one number out of 3 for each based on very simple criteria, not taking into account proportions of the above, seniority etc. I disagreed with design of ratings but was overruled and went ahead and rated everyone while doing their other university-sanctioned performance reviews. Turned them in and was told I had to remove any "excellent" ratings as "It won't motivate them to do better". So now I am in the position of handing back forms that tell my staff that someone who comes in really early, puts in huge amounts of extra time and creates 150+ small videos to help students understand concepts (and gets great student satisfaction) gets an "acceptable - just doing your job" and so does someone else who turns up and delivers the same old material for the last 10 years and does nothing to keep current. I anticipate resignations, very unhappy people and a drop in overall performance. Shit is going to hit the fan.
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askengineers_train
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How much downtime do you typically have at work? And how do you spend that time?
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As a process engineer in manufacturing….. absolutely none. I wish I could say the same for a lot of the equipment I deal with.
I work a 9/80 so days are longer. After exercise i still have a couple hours for video games and working on things like my 3d printer. Every other Friday off is something I couldn't do without. I usually ski or do some other cook trips those days
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askculinary_train
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Weekly Discussion - Soups and Stews As the weather turns colder for many of us, hearty soups and stews are just the thing we're looking for. But they can be trickier than they seem if you want the best results. What are your favorite soups and stews? Are they traditional or your own innovations? Do you cook on stovetop, in the oven, slow cooker or pressure cooker? Can you convert a recipe between methods? How do you keep from overcooking the vegetables while waiting for the meat to finish? What finishing touches (garnishes, dumplings, etc.) do you use to freshen it up for serving?
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Technically soup - spent about 18 hours cooking down a bone broth from pigs feet, turkey necks, and some pork butt that had been in the freezer a bit too long. Been using it for Ramen with Chasu Pork Belly. The key for me seems to be a Tare of Tamari, Fish Sauce, and a little Sriracha in the bowl first.
I love soup, mostly because its an excuse to make some savory scones or bread to go with it. Though I am a huge fan of the dumpling in all forms, I don't really have a soup that I make with them. Time to change that. This one is quick, easy and always a huge hit. I've been making this for so long that I don't even remember where it originated. If you're not a fan of shrimp, can easily sub chicken. Or leave both out entirely for a vegan option. **Brazilian Shrimp Soup** * 2 T EVOO * 1 onion, chopped * 1 yellow bell pepper, chopped * 1 red bell pepper, chopped * 3 cloves garlic, minced * 3/4 long-grain rice * 1/2 t red-pepper flakes (to taste) * 1 1/2 t salt * 15-oz can fire-roasted tomatoes * 5 c veggie broth * 1 c unsweetened coconut milk [I use an entire can of full-fat coconut milk] * 1 1/2-lbs medium shrimp, shelled and cut in half horizontally * 1/4 t fresh-ground black pepper * 1 T lemon juice * 1/2 c chopped cilantro or parsley In a large pot, heat the oil over moderately low heat. Add the onion, bell peppers and garlic. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the vegetables start to soften. About 10 minutes. Add the rice, red-pepper flakes, salt, tomatoes and broth. Bring to boil and cook until the rice is almost tender, about 10 minutes. Stir in the coconut milk. Bring back to a simmer and then stir in the shrimp. Simmer, stirring occaissionally, until the shrimp are just done, 3 to 5 minutes. Stir in black pepper, lemon juice and parsley.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.94
[DC] How would Joker take it if Batman just forgot who he was for like 5 seconds? No special circumstances, Batman has a lot on his mind, hasn't slept for a few weeks, has a brain fart and forgets who Joker is for a bit. How would he take it?
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How would the Joker know that Batman forgot about him?
The Jokers greatest fear is no one knowing him. He craves attention, hence his sick jokes and overall villainy. And if Batman forgets him he’s gonna be thrown for a massive loop. Joker sees Batman as a part of himself. For Batman to forget Joker is like Joker missing a part of who is he. Devastation to Joker’s ego. Honestly, I’m surprised Batman hasn’t used this as a tactic to defeat him.
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askengineers_train
0.85
Why doesn't everyone set up a cheap windmill attached to an alternator connected to a few batteries for house use? I know it wouldn't be used consistently, but I would think it is cheap and could save money. Thoughts?
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It would likely not be cheap with the cost of the alternator. Plus it would take a long time to recoup costs. That generator probably doesn’t provide as much energy as you’d think. This may be feasible in very high energy cost areas.
I thought about a small windmill. Several thousand watts. Payback was about 77 years. I'd be surprised if an average alternator recouped more than $2/day. A lot of the hidden cost is the structure to hold the gizmo. But your idea could probably be put on an old TV antenna.
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.94
Explain like I'm five years old: How is possible that games like ES6 and GTA VI are being developed with hundreds or thousands of people but they can still keep it a secret?
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They have extraordinary controls on what goes in and out of the network and what goes in and out of the building. They will usually decrypt all outbound communication to look for leaked code, search people on the way out of the buildings, restrict access to USB ports on computers, 'air gap' certain computers, etc etc. It isn't all that easy to sneak information out of those networks and for good reason. That practically indecipherable code is what pays everyone's checks.
Bethesda don't even have NDA's! If you leak anything, Todd Howard just comes over, sits in your cubicle with his dreamy puppy dog eyes, and says how incredibly disappointed he is in you. A single tear might roll down his immaculate cheek as he does so.
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askculinary_train
0.88
Pizza party for 15- what do I dough? Excuse the pun, I had to- it’s the law. I have an Ooni Koda 12 and having a pizza party for 15 people. I want to set up a topping bar and allow each person to create their own pizza. The question is, what’s the best way to make the dough? Should I do four doughs for bulk, then divide each of those? Do one BIG bulk? Any recipes I should follow? I typically have been doing Neapolitan style with 00, yeast, flour, water- but thinking I should do NY style with sugar and oil and maybe AP flour? Any tips or recipe suggestions would be appreciated, thank you!
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I've done this before. 100g of dough per person, make it in bulk. Shape and let the dough get to room temp 2-3 hours before the event
I don't like doubling batches of bread dough and I don't generally try a new recipe when it's for a party. I'd do multiple batches of your existing reliable recipe and make it the day before. Be sure to have extra in case someone has a disaster.
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askculinary_train
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Could I have recovered my mashed potatoes? I made the worst mashed potatoes of my life on Saturday. The taste was fine; well seasoned, added pepper, a little bit of brie, and some chives. But they were gluey pasty mess, barely edible. Here's what I did and where I think things went horribly wrong. My plan was to try using baked potatoes for the mashed. But because of some holiday bazaar gift buying events, I needed to get the potatoes prepped ahead of time. So I baked the potatoes in the morning, let them cool and fridged 'em until later. Several hours later I tried peeling the (now) chilled baked potatoes by cutting in half and using a spoon to scoop out the cooked potato flesh. That ended up being a horror show and didn't work. Next I tried putting the baked potato chunks through my ricer and that didn't work either; potatoes were too hard to push through all them tiny holes. At this point I'm slightly panicking because everything else is done and I just need some damn potatoes. Next I put all the potatoes in a food processor and just chopped them up as much as I could, followed by trying to whip them up with an electric hand mixer and then transferred to a pot on the stove. Added melted butter and then warmed cream slowly and kept trying to whip, kept adding butter and milk hoping that it would cause the mash to loosen up. No luck, just gluey lump awfulness that tasted actually pretty all right, but worst texture ever, basically inedible. I'm assuming that my biggest mistake was letting the baked potatoes cool before scooping the flesh, but was that really my mistake? And was there any point in this process that I could have done something differently and saved this whole mess?
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Were the baked potatoes fully cooked? I'm curious how they got too hard to push through the ricer. Just being room-temp shouldn't make them too hard to scoop out or process in the ricer.
If the chilled potatoes were too hard to go through your potato ricer there's something horribly wrong. Either they're super undercooked or you're using the finest holes in a ricer imaginable. As others have said food processor plus whipping is the gluey part...once that happens you just start over.
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askengineers_train
0.86
Is this harassment? How do I handle it? So I’m a new-ish process engineer in a manufacturing plant (going on 7 months here). Every time I ask for maintenance support, the lead mechanic makes offhand, “joking” comments about how I “don’t actually work”, how I “always have my hands in my pockets”. He says “you are not my boss but you act like you are”. He refuses to do anything I ask until I go through the proper escalation and get his boss to ask him directly and constantly pokes fun at me being “lazy” or “not working”. The last person in my position would do this type of work himself and I think he’s come to expect that from engineers. Worth noting the culture as a whole is like this. I have over 5 years total experience as a manufacturing engineer and I’ve worked with mechanics and in similiar environments in the past. I’ve worked alongside mechanics and operators for years and never had issues like this. This workplace culture is just very abnormal and toxic. I’m not a mechanic, I don’t feel comfortable acting as a mechanic outside of dabbling here and there when absolutely necessary or on small things that are just more convenient for me to do myself. I never agreed to in my interview or onboarding process. But it seems like the culture here expects me to do mostly manual labor and little to no engineering work, and this guy is leading the charge in a way that’s making my work environment actively hostile. Is this harassment? Whether it is or isn’t, what can I do in this situation? Any advice is appreciated, thanks.
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That's not harassment. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty. You'll get much more respect from the if you make friends with them and push back a bit. I spent 16 years in engineering with very little test experience. Then I did a 6 month stint at the shop and started off looking really dumb. I paid attention and shut my mouth at the beginning because I didn't know anything. After a bit, I did which is when people started asking me questions. Commiserate with techs and engineers and your boss and you'll all do a lot better. You can take a semi-difficult work environment and with a little work (e.g., hey sorry about that, I had a long day or need any help?, crack a joke) make it a lot more tolerable. I would regularly tell the shop manager to be nicer to the techs. You won, we get it. You gotta check people at all levels in order for things to be way less stressful.
As others said, escalate up the chain. Both his and yours. Just as an example from my last company, a small (sometimes toxic) company of 150 engineers: RF engineer needs wire bonding done for a high pressure development program, but needs to go to technician's Supervisor and Director of Manufacturing. He and the Program manager got denied. Then the CTO came in to talk the Director of Manufacturing and said he will do it himself if no one else does it. And then the director would have to explain to the CEO why the CTO is wirebonding in the clean room. Not sure if your boss is able to leverage their position but hopefully this anecdote helps.
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askphilosophy_train
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What are some philosophers or ideas in your particular area of specialization in philosophy which you think tend to be misunderstood by those philosophers/professors/grad students who are involved in a different area of philosophical specialization?
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Bayesian epistemology and philosophy of mind is routinely misunderstood by non-Bayesians. There are many reasons why researchers describe people's doxastic attitudes (belief-like states). Some examples: * To explain their behavior. * To understand (explicit, linguistically structured) reasoning. * To capture the (representational) content of conscious thought and other conscious states. People who work in full-belief frameworks tend to be interested in the second and third projects. And they claim (with some justification) to do better than Bayesians at these projects. But they don't tend to do so well at the first project. This is all well and good, but then many of them criticize Bayesians for not doing a great job at the second and third project. And here they just misunderstand us. Except for the hotheads who think we need to do away with full-belief, most people are just fine allowing belief-talk where it's helpful. Most of what we cared about was explaining behavior (which, let's face it, we do a much better job of than full-belief frameworks). And they get very frustrated when we aren't moved by their concerns. An example [famous philosopher's name omitted]. It's recently been argued that credences are baloney, because if people had credences they'd (obviously) be aware of (all of) them and that's not psychologically plausible. Because it's not like we have some kind of magical credence-o-dometer in our heads to tell us how confident we are that it's raining in Zanzibar right now. And ... no shit, Sherlock. That's not the kind of things that credences are, and none of us ever thought otherwise.
Anglophone philosophy in general has a giant thing for misunderstanding the logical positivists. (This is getting better!) I think there's a giant, 300-year old tradition of misunderstanding what Newton meant by absolute space (and I may have gotten into a shouting match with a professor in my department about it recently). There are, of course, reasons for reading him as having some sort of deeply metaphysical account of space. But most of them fall apart under any level of scrutiny. Epistemologists in particular tend to misread Quine's "Epistemology Naturalized." Part of this is the fact that Quine didn't give a shit about what actual epistemologists were doing, and so used the term "epistemology" to refer to the stuff he cared about, but part of it is just terribly uncharitable readings. No, when Quine says "why not just replace program x with psychology?" he does not mean "why not just rid all of epistemology of normative content?"
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explainlikeimfive_train
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Explain like I'm five years old: How did people maintain their teeth before toothpaste?
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We didn't need it quite as much before we invented processed sugar. Just brushing with water or whatever worked well enough.
My mom grew up in a small South American country. They used bristly-edged plants kinda like toothbrushes. No toothpaste. My mother & her siblings all have very good teeth - never a cavity, never even a bit of discoloration. That's cuz good teeth are selected for through evolution. If you didn't have good teeth, you died young from tooth infections. It was a common cause of death in the past, and continues to be in some parts of the world.
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askbaking_train
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What are some of the fundamentals when it comes to learning how to bake? I’m quite new to baking and want to make sure I master the basics first.
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hpt3to4
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Read through the recipe entirely before starting
I’d work on a quick bread (pumpkin bread, banana bread, etc), a simple yeast bread, a pie crust, a tart crust, and chocolate chip cookies (just because they’re so classic). Maybe a shortbread cookie too! I feel like all of these have very different techniques but if you figure them out, you will have a great base for learning new recipes!
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askbaking_train
0.96
Can I use light brown sugar as a sub for dark brown sugar? I’m planning on making a carrot cake (trying to buy as minimal ingredients as possible) and all i have is light brown sugar. the recipe calls for dark brown. is it okay to sub it?
gsddd3k
gsdws3m
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I just made carrot cake the other day that called for dark brown sugar. I had some molasses on hand, so I added 1 tbsp, but I think you will be just fine with out it if you do not have any on hand.
To build off what others have said, in a carrot cake absolutely, the taste may be slightly different but the recipe will work. Brown sugar is acidic and dark brown moreso than light brown, so in some recipes there can be some slight difference in texture as well particularly compared to 100% granulated sugar, but not enough to ruin a recipe.
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askbaking_train
0.87
Why isn’t bittersweet white chocolate a thing? Just curious why this doesn’t seem to exist. I like the flavour of white chocolate, but I do find it can be a bit too sweet. Why isn’t it possible to have a less sweet versions, like you see with dark chocolate. I could see white chocolate used in more context, if the sweetness was pulled back a bit.
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Because its just butter, sugar, and vanilla? Try making sugar cookies without sugar.... or try tasting vanilla extract on its own. Thats why.
What you're describing is basically just cocoa butter. Try buying some cocoa butter and eating it straight, or melting a small amount of of sugar into it and piping it into molds.
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askscience_train
0.93
If someone gets a blood transfusion, wouldn’t they have a mishmash of genetic material appear in a DNA test?
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e1b1q1y
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I had surgery to remove a tumour on my hearing nerve (vestibular schwannoma) in 2012 and was meant to have genetic testing around the same time to confirm my diagnosis for NF2, a genetic mutation. While high as a kite on painkillers, and in the midst of a second blood transfusion to replace the blood lost in the surgery, I asked my nurse how they were supposed to take my blood for the test when I now had the DNA of two strangers in my blood stream. She froze, looked concerned, and dashed off to ask the registrar. Turns out they took my blood during surgery, and so we avoided that bit of awkwardness. Funny thing is, they couldn't find the mutation in my DNA; both blood and tumour sample, even after sending my samples overseas. They insisted it didn't change my diagnosis though. Maybe they lied to soothe my codiene addled brain.
At my hospital, our red cell transfusions are “leukoreduced,” meaning they have been depleted of white blood cells which carry DNA (red cells, in general, do not have DNA). I am not sure how depleted these transfusions are. Sometimes (rarely), we transfuse white cells into people.
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changemyview_train
0.57
CMV: Henrietta Lacks (of HeLa cell fame) doesn’t really deserve to be compensated and her family is simply trying to extort money from the medical community. For those unfamiliar with the story, Henrietta Lacks was an African-American woman who presented to John Hopkins hospital with vaginal bleeding and was found to have a malignant cervical tumor. A biopsy of this tumor was taken for use in an experiment to try and grow human cells outside of the body. While this had been done previously, her cells were the first that proliferated well enough to be widely shared and have been used in medical research. She died shortly after the biopsy and was never aware I’ve they continued use of her cells and research. Her story raises ethical issues because she was not compensated and her privacy was not protected. This has led to her descendants seeking monetary restitution from various hospitals, companies, and other entities who have benefited from research using the HeLa cell line. Much has been made of this case, especially since there are real and substantial healthcare disparities that negatively impact women and patients of color. However in 1951, medical consents for research simply were not common and the practice of using patient biopsy tissue for research was relatively routine. Some people say that by proliferating her cells it’s as though she was still alive. However HeLa cells no longer look anything like human cells. For example they are hypertriploid with as many as 80 chromosomes. My perspective is that Henrietta Lacks didn’t do anything to further the research, at least not more than anyone else who has ever had their tissue used in research. The only difference is that her tissue happens to proliferate. The use of her tissue also didn’t significantly negatively impact her since she died shortly there after nor did it affect her legacy in such a way that she should be compensated. Even if it did, it doesn’t seem like her surviving relatives would have a claim. Overall it seems they are exploiting a healthcare system that is trying to remedy past racial injustice for their own personal gain.
j15yrqx
j15yxyh
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In 2021 the pharmaceutical industry made $550,000,000,000 and health insurance companies made $17,000,000,000 Something tells me we're pointing the finger in the wrong direction when it comes to "exploiting a healthcare system."
>My perspective is that Henrietta Lacks didn’t do anything to further the research, at least not more than anyone else who has ever had their tissue used in research. The only difference is that her tissue happens to proliferate. Well that seems to be a pretty big difference, wouldn't you agree? One persons biopsy may get used in one experiment. HeLa cells have been used in millions of experiments, including in the development of modern drugs which have produced billions in revenue. Now I'm not saying her relatives are obligated to financial compensation, but given the significance of her contribution to the world, I thought we would've given them some good will money by this point. Sure, Henrietta didn't do anything special to have these unique cells. But that doesn't mean she shouldn't ever be celebrated or rewarded for it.
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askengineers_train
0.96
What's your least favorite part of your job?
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i22f4me
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The paperwork struggle to get anything done if something goes wrong. We have a part that was marked wrong, they steel stamped it -04 when it by engineering should have been paper tagged -05. The fix is literally just to stamp over it, and will take 10 minutes. This was a week and a half ago, we’ve spent more than 20 man hours working on validating this fix. We still haven’t been given the authority to perform it… So that.
Meetings are bad, but Outlook can become my life which means less real 'engineering.' Too many small tasks and projects with not enough people to do things well. Oh plus starting a 1.5 hr commute next week for "Return to Work."
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asksciencefiction_train
0.91
[X-Men] Why does Charles Xavier have a British accent? From X-Men first class, we see young Charles in a mansion in Westchester County, New York. He lives in that mansion until he goes bald and into adulthood. I know Patrick Stewart and James McAvoy are both from the UK, they're also good actors and doing an American Accent wouldn't be much of a problem for them.
d3ets7z
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In actual comics it makes less sense, he was raised by his British mother and American step father (Juggernauts dad). I think that's why he has more of an american accent in the cartoon, (and in the ultimate X-men series he's 100% American). However Patrick Stewart has a pretty great accent, so why tell him to cut it out, and instead just make his parents canonically more British instead? Also he was able to read minds at a really young age, so if he's constantly reading his parents minds, they'd also be thinking in a British accent and that would also likely reinforce whatever accent he gets as he grows up. I would also think another interesting question would be, why would Mystique not have any accent? She was raised from the age of 8-10 by his parents until 18-19 at least, and she ended up living in England with Xavier while he got his phd.
Accents are developed by listening to the people around us when we are young children. If both of his parents were British he would have got it from them.
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askengineers_train
0.8
I am not sure which engineering field i should choose. I want to have a grasp on various fields. Should i major industrial engineering or focus more on specialized fields like mechanical or software engineering?
i0eeqwm
i0epwat
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Figure out where you want to work, what type of job, and subjects you want to work with. Then figure out the degree that gets you there
If you want my totally biased opinion, if what you want is a grasp on a wide range of fields, go with civil engineering. You can go into structural engineering (either into buildings, bridges or the often forgotten traffic control device structures), environmental (stormwater, water and sewer, environmental), roadways, traffic, rail, site development, geotechnical/tunneling, etc. The possibilities are endless. The fun part is, if you get into infrastructure, you get to interact with a whole bunch of professionals from fields you wouldn't necessarily think of initially, from surveyors and real estate people to landscape to accessibility specialists to public relations folks. I get to play engineer for a state roadway agency as an on-site consultant and love the interactions I've had over the years, from both design and operations roles.
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.88
Explain like I'm five years old: Exercise is supposed to be good for the heart - how does forcing a finite organ to work harder not just wear it out faster?
enxahxm
enxbsvn
1,558,112,601
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If you regularly lift 150 pounds, then lifting 5, 10, or even 50 pounds will be easy. Same concept.
So with regards to this, could someone answer a followup question to what we're hearing - If you medicinally take stimulants like ADHD medication etc., does this have a similar exercising effect on your heart, or is it more like performance doing damage to it, similar to pistons on a sports car engine?
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askengineers_train
0.98
Do you really have to change companies every 3-5 years to move up? I'm a young engineer that started my first salaried job earlier this year. I've heard a lot that you have to change companies every 3-5 years to get promotions and raises beyond the 2-5% annual cost of living raise. I'm happy where I am and I'm not thinking about moving right now, but I like to keep my eye on what might lie ahead. Honestly, the idea of having to find a new job, interview and negotiate a contract and then get assimilated into a new team every couple of years sounds exhausting. Has this saying proven true for most people, or what are my alternatives?
hctvo7w
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for pay raises sure. promotions maybe not necessarily.
I've been with the same company for 21 years, since I got out of the Navy. I do think that my pay lagged a bit over my career by not changing but every 5-6 years I have got a significant raise beyond COL increases. And now, because many other EEs have left the company chasing better pay, I am really well paid and I get to pretty much work on the things I want to work on.
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askculinary_train
0.88
Is using a hand mixer with plastic bowls a bad idea? Recently I made frosting in a plastic bowl. After beating it and scraping the sides, I noticed small pink bits (my bowl is pink) in the mixture. I tasted it and it was horrible, tasting toxic and plastic-y. I think it's my mixer scratching the bowl, putting those bits in the frosting. Is that even possible? My bowls are pretty old though and they're losing their efficiency.
itc6ex1
itdwjet
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Yeah, plastic breaks, plus it melts and can burn toxic fumes if it finds its way into an oven for a full bake cycle. Sharp (or motorized) metal directly against plastic is *generally* a no-no in the kitchen. I've seen exceptions made for cutting boards but that's actually the least safe of all because food material and bacteria gets lodged into the microcuts of the board.
Hmm…. Scratch marks, tastes like plastic, and there’s pink bits. Seems pretty obvious to me and I’m surprised you would eat that. Bin the bowls and get rid of that poisonous disaster.
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askacademia_train
0.96
Did you make close friendships in grad school? I was talking to a coworker and said over Spring Break I'm going to Arizona to visit a friend from grad school and she kind of made a face that conveyed she was confused/surprised. I have a PhD in Biology, she has a MS in Library Science or something like that. I was thinking about and wondered if people who don't work in a lab for their PhD form close relationships like us lab rats do. My experience was spending 40 hours per week for up to 6 years (depending on how much our time overlapped) with the people in my lab. We got help from each other to troubleshoot, helped out when someone was going to lunch/class/weekends, and just in general interacted a lot. Some of these people I became friends with and keep up with them even now 8 years after graduating. Non-lab people with a graduate degree, do you see your classmates much? Did you form many close friendships in grad school?
ehlw0vi
ehlwem0
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One of my groomsmen next month is from my program. I’m inviting four other colleagues as well
I'm a non-lab person. I have one friend from grad school. We meet every so often for coffee. I interact with a few others online, but that's it. I think for non-lab people, the experience of a PhD is much more solitary. You write by yourself. You conduct research by yourself. You analyze data by yourself. You teach undergraduates by yourself. You grade their papers by yourself. Also, the few people I know who got tenure track jobs had to move far away, and are constantly busy (or at least pretending to be constantly busy) traveling for research and conferences. The vast majority didn't get tenure track jobs, however. Most of us did not end up where we expected, and I think being around each other would remind us of that. Or at least, for me it would.
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askculinary_train
0.79
Using Oil from Jarred/Canned Ingredients for Cooking If I were making a dish featuring an ingredient like sundried tomatoes that comes packaged in oil, would it be wise to use that oil to fry up my aromatics? This sounds on paper like an easy way to impart more flavor into the dish, but I rarely see recipes suggesting it and figured there might be a reason why.
iyjj7on
iyjeuqp
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I do it all the time. Don’t waste that stuff. Use it in vinaigrette too. Olive brine, artichoke oil, Calabrian chili oil and of course sun dried tomato oil.
Should be fine, as long as it was properly stored between opening the can and use. I'd run a small test batch, just to be paranoid. Your idea sounds 100% correct, but you never know....
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askacademia_train
0.99
Conferences canceled due to Corona virus? Are academic conferences being cancelled due to the corona virus? I read that a big physics conference was cancelled last minute (APS meeting). I need to make the final submission of a paper for a big conference in the US this summer (2000+ attendees). Thinking about withdrawing it instead. This conference is not prestigious in any sense, it is about meeting people
fjjfvhn
fjjbroq
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I think the real question is “should I finish the submission, given that the conference might get cancelled. Personally, the answer to that might be yes so you have it on paper and can submit. Would I attend a conference with 10,000 people flying in from all parts of the world should it actually go ahead? Hell no. I am not sure where you are from but this is real.
I know that there will be somewhat big conference on inorganic chemistry in Italy. It's not canceled so far but everyone from our lab changed their minds to go there
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askbaking_train
0.92
Making muffins frequently, any hacks? My big baby starts school in Sept and I thought I would bake muffins (or something similar) for her to take, rather than buying snacks from the store. I'll be making them once per week. I'm new at baking, only started about a year ago. She likes muffins and they're easy enough to slap together but I'm trying to get efficient at it and looking for tips. For starters, I bought muffin liner cups because I got sick of cleaning the silicone ones. Now I'm realizing my standard muffin tray is making a muffin bigger than what I want her to eat so I will be getting a second tray and making more, smaller muffins. Ok, so other things that would help : I can't pour the batter into the cups neatly, I keep spilling and having to stop. Using a spoon slows me down and still makes a mess. My bowl has a spout but it still blobs out and spills. Any hacks? Must recipes require 2 bowls but it would make my life easier if I could use one. What makes more sense to do, wet ingredients first then dump the dry ones in? Or vice versa? Am I gonna wreck the muffins if I do this? Is doubling a recipe literally just doubling everything or is there anything I should be aware of? Thank you!
h6ir1r1
h6je24c
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i second the idea to use a scoop or measuring cup if you don’t have a scoop but the scoop is easier and faster yes double everything when doubling a recipe
How about using a batter dispenser? As for the ingredients, whisking all dry together then making a "well" for the wet won't harm a darn thing using a single bowl. I'm not a big muffin fan, but found this pertaining to doubling a recipe and the baking soda and/or powder it calls for.
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askengineers_train
0.93
Ethics of Leaving a Job Very Early-On I am an electrical engineer that just recently graduated with my BS with a focus in industrial controls and automation. I took a position with a fairly large consulting company before the pandemic began back in December. My start date was then pushed from May to August because of the virus and a lack of work. However now that I have started I am becoming increasingly frustrated as I am being given very little guidance, receiving little to no communication (currently working from home), and very little meaningful work. I am becoming increasingly unsure about wether or not a company that treats a new hire in this way, even during this pandemic, is one that I want to be working for. While sitting at my desk with literally nothing to do I began browsing LinkedIn and came across a very intriguing job opening from another company with whom I had a chance to work with on a project during a Co-op in school. I really want to apply but am worried that jumping ship at my current company is not ethical since I have only been there about a month. Has anyone been in a similar situation or how should I approach this situation?
g4km2qm
g4krlcd
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Apply. You’ll only hurt yourself if you don’t! If you are just out of school and receiving little guidance at the time you should be receiving the most, then the best thing you can do for yourself is go somewhere that will! This is the time in your career where you need feedback to learn and grow as an engineer!
I personally did this. Was hired at job, and on day one I took an interview for another. My dad always taught me to always take an opportunity, you never know. Took the interview and didn’t really expect anything. 2 weeks later was offered a job and then 2 weeks later I left. I left that first job because the other was a better opportunity. It paid better, had a better insurance and 401k. I wasn’t too sure what the work would be, but worst case scenario I would be making more money and if I wanted to leave that one I could. Also that first job was boring as well. I thought I was going to be hired on a designer and all. In that month all I really did was fix CAD files or documents and didn’t really feel like I was learning anything. Also didn’t feel like I was going to get anywhere (it was a small company). Didn’t have a really good mentor either and wasn’t really tasked with anything big other than maintenance stuff, so I left. It definitely burned a bridge (especially because I was hired through a recruiter) but I haven’t left this second job since I took it because the quality of life is so good. Also it’s a business, I’m a dime a dozen as an engineer, they don’t care about me. My advice: Evaluate your current company. Is the work interesting? Do you see yourself growing and rising up, and maybe it’s just a tough time right now? Or does the other job sound more interesting and something more you’d like to do? At the end of the day you should at least apply while working, don’t quit unless you get it. Your company won’t know you’re applying or anything so it’s not like they’ll hold it against you. Worst case scenario you get rejected and continue working. Best case scenario? You get a new job. There is little to no risk on your part. Apply.
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askacademia_train
0.9
Can I teach student courses using material taken from the internet? I don't see anything against it... But I know that academia is "weird" about re-using material. Basically, I've been asked to tutor a lab course about introduction to image processing in python. As you know, preparing all the course material from scratch is something which is super-long and tedious. I've found two perfect courses, with a full set of exercises and data to run the exercises on, on github, from a very reputable source. The material has a MIT license so I can re-use it freely, as long as the author of the material is concerned. What about my side? Am I (legally or "morally") required to write all the material by myself?
i4lm69t
i4l2wwb
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As others have said it's fine if there's no licensing or permissions issue. That said, if your students find out you can expect really poor class evaluations so you may want to think of some way of mitigating that - I'd suggest being open about the basis of the materials, clear about why reuse is ok in this instance and supplementing the basic material with some additional stuff. You only have to spend a few weeks on this sub and I guarantee you'll see a post from an unhappy student whose professor is using material sourced from the internet. They're paying high fees and rightly or wrongly expect more than what they could get free from the internet.
I think that's even better, an opportunity to discuss re-use and open-source.
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.85
[Explain like I'm five years old] Why do home toilets have tanks on the back but public toilets do not?
d9prpe6
d9pwj1x
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Why do public toilet bowls have that middle part missing? Whats the point of that? Why can't I get that for my home?
Bar owner here. You don't want anywhere people can hide drugs or a convenient surface upon which to take drugs. Also, drunk people love to break stuff. If they break a toilet, the pub can flood disrupting business. Depends how rough your pub is though, mind.
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askculinary_train
0.96
Differences among light soy sauces So I understand the difference between light and dark soy sauces, but I was shopping at my local Asian grocery this past weekend and was sort of surprised at the options for light soy sauces from the Pearl River Bridge brand: https://imgur.com/a/g4yG2yL * Superior Light Soy Sauce * Golden Label Superior Light Soy Sauce * Premium Light Soy Sauce * Delicious Light Soy Sauce I'm sure the differences aren't significant, but I'm curious about the nuances of each that would make the company produce them individually.
hcpcpii
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I'm a Singaporean Chinese who's been cooking for many years. Soy sauce come in different grades. The very cheapest stuff (delicious light soy in your case) works well for stir frys and other applications where the soy sauce is heated, but you might want to get a more expensive type if you are using the soy sauce for dipping. The most expensive stuff is normally used for delicate steamed fish etc. Well, don't worry- get something that is in the middle of the price range(maybe around 3 dollars a pop for the superior one), and it works well for both dipping and stir fries. ​ edit: just to clarify, you can use the expensive stuff for heated applications, just that it would be a waste of expensive soy sauce.
Buy them all, do a double-blind taste with some friends, and then report your findings back here!
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askengineers_train
0.95
Do you have your MBA? Currently I have a masters in engineering but I want to pursue an MBA. I enjoy engineering, but primarily got my degree in this field as a result of the Great Recession (job certainty). I’ve always wanted to have both masters degrees, and do have a passion for the business side of things. I’m also trying to further my career in management, and it seems like the majority of engineers in my company are stagnant when it comes to developing their careers. So...do you have an MBA? Do you have an mba and an MS in engineering? Has your MBA helped you/was it worth it? Thanks!
g28wfjd
g28wlgd
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Just earned my MBA last week. BSME and now a MBA. I'm already in management, and I'm looking to transition to a more finance oriented role.
Get the MBA when you need it. Not before.
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askengineers_train
0.94
What do you wish you knew when starting your first engineering job? Hello! I just started my first position as a mechanical design engineer for an aerospace company that I worked for previously. I was in planning prior to this role and left to finish my degree. As a part of the new hire process (and the engineering group separating from the main company), they have asked us to attend a new hire training/info session. This can potentially be weekly or monthly depending on the feedback they receive. One of the topics for the upcoming meeting is about training or questions you would like to ask. This is my dilemma, I haven't done much outside of read process specs or training material. I have followed along with a few Catia V6 practice modules that I feel like I am getting the hang of. I want to ask questions about the career path or maybe the material itself but I'm not exactly sure what I should be asking, if that makes sense. So, I hope you fine folks can offer up suggestions about things you wish you knew when you started your first positions. It can be any field obviously, but I would hope that I can get some specifics about people doing design work in the aerospace industry. Thank you! Tl;dr - What do you wish you knew when you started your first engineering job?
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i5uo5r8
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How much of my "time" paid for other people's jobs
You have an hourly cost to your company. If you have a chance to spend more money and less time to deal with something, keep that hourly cost in mind. Though also learn enough about how your company's budget and spending system works to know when you are saving time and money or just spending the time dealing with trying to spend money instead of solving the problem. (This is a great informal conversation to have with a mentor or a supportive manager)
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legaladvice_train
0.91
HOA threatening to tow my car Mobile formatting. Sorry if this is the wrong flair I (20M) live in a townhouse complex/neighborhood with my boyfriend (21M), his mother (60F), and her bf (??M). We have a full driveway; both sides of the garage are filled with my bf’s cars, then the driveway has his truck and his mom’s bf’s truck. I park on the street right in front of the house. The HOA is now threatening to tow my car for “safety hazards”, claiming it’s an obstruction to firetrucks (? but it’s not in front of a fire hydrant). They said I have to move it or it will be towed and I will be fined. My bf says realistically, I won’t be towed because the car has to either be actively obstructing someone/traffic or be abandoned. But the HOA has jurisdiction over the block so I’m not sure if those rules apply. Do I need to comply with them or can I fight this? Because literally where am I supposed to park?? I am in Georgia.
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You should review the HOA bylaws about parking. If the HOA has jurisdiction over the block, then you are likely correct in believing you should comply. I would likely comply with their request but look to see what can be done so you can park all your cars safely. Each HOA should have a policy for how to handle extra cars and where to park. Some HOAs have a safe list policy, some require extra cars to be parked outside the gates, etc.
I'm not an attorney, but I'm speaking from experience after working as an appraisal specialist in the mortgage industry for 20 years; reviewing HOA bylaws, CC&Rs, shared road covenants and more has been a constant in my life many times 1. For a townhome/subdivision managed by an HOA, the CC&Rs and the Bylaws will detail their parking rules. Unless your boyfriend has read and memorized these, he shouldn't be telling you to disregard them - unless he has zero respect for your personal property or financial strains. 2. HOAs are permitted to enforce regulations on private roads. If this road is within their "subdivision", (i.e. not considered a public road, which would be accessible and used by non-community members on a normal basis as a method of travel through town). Public roads fall under law enforcement of that jurisdiction. Private roads are controlled by the HOA. Sounds like you're at their mercy here. 3. Many townhouse HOAs have common elements and amenities (pools, playgrounds, parking lots) for additional parking. Give the HOA a call and ask them if such a location exists for you to utilize during your coming and going during the days. Don't ask them if you can park there 24/7 forever. That's squatting. They may accommodate
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askengineers_train
0.85
What surprising material would cause the most problems if it suddenly became unavailable? Obviously necessities like water, petroleum, steel, concrete or fertilizer would cause major upheaval if the supply was greatly reduced. But what unexpected substances would cause significant hardship if they were suddenly difficult or expensive to produce?
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In WWII the US Army Air Corp took a huge gamble that it would be ball bearings. They focused a significant percentage of their strategic bomber campaign in Europe on destroying ball bearing manufacturing in Germany. After the war they found that the impact on German manufacturing was not as heavy as they had gambled it would be. The efforts HAD reduced the amount of ball bearings available ot the Germans, but the Germans shifted production techniques and were not slowed down by the lack of ball bearings. In retrospect they should have focused on some other aspect of German war production.
Inert gasses. Welding would be come much harder.
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askengineers_train
0.97
Engineers who graduated without internships or research experience, how long did it take you to find a job? I'm a rising senior EE, and despite dozens upon dozens of applications, I didn't get an internship this summer. There's a research project I'm doing under a professor, but I despise working on it and I'm probably going to drop it soon. After graduation, how long did it take ya'll in a similar boat to get a job? I've been so stressed about this the past couple weeks that I've almost been unable to move. For context, I have a 3.60 GPA, so I don't know if COVID just has the job market moving slow or if I'm doing something wrong.
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Degree in EE. No internship. I ended up working for a buddy's computer repair shop getting treated like shit by customers and getting paid beans. I was super depressed. But I quit and got a job serving pizza and made a ton of money. I was able to get better at programming and ended up getting a job managing a WordPress site first, paid like 30k, but I had so much free time. I continued getting better at programming and ended up getting a job making 60k at a services firm. 5 years later I'm a senior engineer making 130k. Fuckin software man. It's ridiculous.
3 months after graduating. Got a job at a start up that was opening an office in the US. I think what got me the interview was my capstone projects my junior and senior year. They also had a design task as part of the interview process that I supposedly blew other applicants out of the water with. I ended up being the first engineer in the US office and they are now a pretty successful company.
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zh1ftd
asksciencefiction_train
0.88
[DC] I'm a moderately high-level speedster who isn't really a 'hero', I break the law for personal gain on occasion and I'm certainly no virgin saint, but when the SHTF I'm a pretty okay person. Where should I live to avoid getting my kneecaps broken or worse? Currently, honestly, I'm thinking Central City or Metropolis. I don't victimize people when I decide I'm gonna disobey local ordinances, I pretty much never have to to get what I want and if it's unavoidable I'll give up the game. Superman and Flash.... I've never really *met* either of them before, I've occasionally seen them on TV or when a bunch of supers was gathered together for something, but they seem like good people. People with much bigger fish to fry, too. I'm probably getting a little ahead of myself. Hey everybody, I'm Julian, also known as MegaJoule. I'm a speedster, and a pretty powerful one from my experience. I top out at around 3x lightspeed, but I don't have much of that 'speedforce' shenanigans that Flash has. I can only transport myself, have to be careful not to destroy the ground I'm running on, etc. I have the required secondary powers to keep myself alive under the conditions of my speed, but no one else. I like to generally think I'm a good person. When Superman knocked down that building on 19th and Luthor Avenue, back about two years ago in that big fight with Darkside or whoever, I happened go be in town at the time so I did my thing and evacuated the civilians in the building before it finished collapsing. I get the warm fuzzies from helping people, what can I say? On the other side of my coin, though, is that I'm broke as sin. I'm not exactly.... Financially responsible, if you catch my drift. I typically live from one bank job to the next, because they're victimless, y'know? The money's all insured anyways, and damn near no bank can resist a determined speedster. I'll snag a few hundred G's, live for a few months off it, then find another when I'm running low. Part of it's the thrill, I guess, of doing something so utterly selfish. It's fun to let loose once in a while, y'know? Like I said earlier, though, people's health comes first. If I can't grab the goods while refusing to harm anyone in my way, I'm not grabbing the goods. I'm running. This has been a kinda long and roundabout way of asking, but what city do y'all think I should set up in? I already know Gotham's off my list, because honestly that place is just scary. And I don't like the idea of Batman. He creeps me out. My main deciding factor in where to live is, obviously, the local hero/villain scene. I don't really have to worry about getting mugged by Joe Schmoe, but even I don't know what I'd do if Joker or someone like that got his hands on me. That freak punches way above his weight class. Eugh. Thanks for all your suggestions!
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You could be like that speedster that Lex Luthor hires whose sole job is the take him to a bunker in case of a nuke or similar catastrophe
How are you gonna save people in a collapsing building when you can’t protect them from the effects of your speed?
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askengineers_train
0.9
Who uses what PLM in automotive and aerospace? I just completed an internship at a small aerospace supplier and they used Windchill. I'm creating a list of full time opportunities and I wanted to map out what PLMs are where. Ford uses Teamcenter, and Boeing uses Enovia - that's as far as I've gotten. What PLM does each car or aerospace OEM use? Is there something that's dominant in either industry? Happy to share the final list!
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In general, you use the PLM that complements your primary CAD, especially for smaller companies. Customization and integrations cost a shitton of money. So TC+NX or CATIA+3DX are the dominant combinations in these 2 industries.
Pratt & Whitney uses the Siemens NX (prev. UG) & Teamcenter suite. IIRC, either GE or Rolls also used this suite, ~~but the other was using Catia & Enovia or 3DX~~. I’m no longer in this industry but I suspect that has not changed. Most automotive companies I’ve worked with are using Catia & 3dx suite. I’m still in this industry and not willing to provide specifics. Edit: stand corrected on GE & RR. Seems both using TC.
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askhr_train
0.97
Anonymous survey results came and boss wants to hold a formal meeting. I work in a small site (6 employees + manager) and we all share an office. Our company had us all do an anonymous survey about our manager and he is not held in the best of light by us all. Well, he got the results and decided to put all the answers in a spread sheet with the percentages for each and emailed it out the group with just the message “Please prepare for a Monday morning meeting about this”... am I right to be concerned and feel like this will breech the anonymity due to small work group? Past experiences with him don’t give us much optimism.-
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If you’ve already escalated concerns about your manager to hr or his manager you might consider letting them know this meeting is happening.
I've said it over and over, never put your true feelings on a survey at work. If it's mandatory, then only answer with neutral responses (4 out of 5, average, good, neither agree or disagree, etc) and don't leave comments. That is my response as a worker, my HR response is, "expressing your honest opinion and giving us truthful feedback allow us to address issues, grow, and create a friendlier and more cohesive work environment and better our culture". And once again, as a worker - the only time I've seen a "survey" actually improve a workplace was when someone used it to identify a manager who had a pattern of sexual harassment which sparked an investigation that led to them being fired.
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1mub5a
changemyview_train
0.86
I believe that increasing gun control laws in the US would be an ineffective way to curb mass shootings, because there are already so many guns distributed amongst the population. CMV Don't get me wrong, I do think heavy gun control laws can be (and usually are) pretty effective in countries where guns aren't already so ingrained in the psyche and so widely distributed among the populace. However the US is the most armed country by every statistical measure, by total number of guns, by guns per capita, etc. - it is estimated that there are 270-310 million guns out there already (legally and illegally) according to gunpolicy.org. My thought is just that if you were dead-set on a mass shooting, access to a gun wouldn't hamper you in this country despite any laws, you either have access to one yourself or could get one illegally relatively easily - my opinion is essentially that the situation is too far gone to be able to simply rectify it by increased regulation of the market itself. Go ahead and CMV, folks!
ccd0xzj
ccctktq
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Statistically you're correct. Steven Levitt and Steven Dubner of "Freakonomics" have looked at this (as, surely, have many other people) and gun bans like in Chicago simply do not work. What does work, for gun violence in general (if not mass shootings where the person is mentally ill anyway), is adding mandatory extra jail time for crimes committed with a gun, even just while having one in your possession. This has the further benefit of not restricting those who haven't committed a crime and are using guns responsibly.
If you assume gun control laws only place restrictions on guns, you'd be right. However,if you place heavy restrictions on sales of ammunition, existing guns become much less of an issue.
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1laxce
changemyview_train
0.84
I believe that /r/feminism not only hurts itself with its policy regarding banning users and removing posts, but also shows how little feminists are interested in hearing any opinion other than their own. CMV If you don't believe me, find a thread in /r/feminism that looks controversial and count the deleted posts. Better yet, begin a rational argument yourself and see how long it takes before a ban/comment removal takes place. My own story is as follows... See a thread attached to a picture showing Smurfette from the Smurfs boarding herself inside a room in fear, crying as the other smurfs try to break in and get to her. They are yelling things like "Smurf me!" Or "I am going to smurf you so hard!". The OP of the thread was explaining how this really brought to light many issues on the show. Recognizing that that was a bit silly I replied "Issues like what exactly, that Smurfette is a victim of rape? I don't remember that episode." Needless to say, I was promptly banned by demmian, and was told that it was a interesting thing to ban someone for. Now, I understand that I replied in jest, but it seems like a ridiculous thing to silence someone for.
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/r/feminism is probably mostly run by /u/demmian. He has his own version of feminism that is contentious among both feminists and MRA's. As a result, the feminist community on reddit has fractured into /r/feminisms and /r/SRSfeminism. If you want to make your own feminism subreddit with no moderation, you are more than welcome to. Nevertheless, a subreddit dedicated to a particular interest isn't going to be receptive to criticism when the criticism is often mindless. Perhaps if you had posted more nuanced reasoning behind your denial you may have fared better.
I don't see how is /r/feminism hurting itself? In what way are they doing that? In order for them to be hurting themselves, the subreddit itself has to have some sort of purpose outside of that subreddit. Something like, they want to bring feminist theory and perspective to the larger reddit community. But I don't think that's their purpose at all. I'd imagine their purpose is to have a subreddit where they can post and discuss things relating to feminism. I don't think their policies regarding bans and content do that at all. Now, I will say that feminism in general does tend to have a "circle the wagons" kind of reaction whenever its criticized from the "outside". I don't necessarily condone it, but I understand why it happens. But what I don't understand is why I see these kinds of complaints disproportionately target feminists. Feminists and feminism on the internet are very much singled out, scrutinized, and criticized more than virtually anything else. I really don't understand why moderating comment quality, content, and users on a private subreddit is somehow anybody's business at all. They can do whatever they want. /r/Changemyview moderates more than other most subs, is it hurting itself by doing so? So does /r/Askscience and /r/Askhistorians. I'm really at a loss on this. As for them not being interested in hearing any contrary opinions, I agree, and I myself am critical of certain theories they hold and certain positions they take, but can you really blame them? The internet is a magnet for hateful, vindictive, and spiteful verbal abuse, and feminism is a huge target to MRAs who seem to have little better to do than sit on their computer and call feminists stupid irrational <insert gender appropriate slur> and they don't care about men, and blah blah blah. The reason why they do those things is because they get inundated with a ridiculous amount of spiteful crap from the so-hard-done-by immature guys who believe it's their mission in life to destroy feminism. You ever seen an argument between an MRA and a feminist? Feminists probably aren't very open to criticism, but god help me, after dealing with the infuriating self-righteousness and ideoligcal certitude of MRAs I don't blame them one bit. I would be pretty defensive too.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.96
[General fiction] Which characters have died the greatest number of times? Whether it's by time travel, cloning, alternate versions, fake outs, or just plain resurrection, characters dying and coming back to life (often just to die again later) is practically a cliche at this point. So which character(s) hold the record for most deaths? For this purpose, I'm counting *any* form of death in which the audience is meant to believe that the character has died, whether or not it's made explicit that they're going to come right back (like Jack Harkness in Doctor Who). And alternate versions of the character (like comics Jean Grey and movie Jean Grey) can all be tallied together. Who would you put on the list of "high scorers"?
hd2c59u
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Optimus Prime. He has been dying every chance he gets since the 86 movie traumatised a generation. A continuity that doesn't have die and come back is in the minority
Diavolo from Jojos Bizarre Adventure has/ will die an infinite amount of times. Or until Giorno Giovanna dies, presumably.
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askacademia_train
0.94
I like research, I don't like teaching. Should I be a postdoc forever? Hello, My field is cognitive psychology. I like my field and I run lab experiments. I also like being in the academia. However, I don't like teaching. As you may know, there are no enough positions in private sector and post-doc is not a stable position in academia and there is no chance for promotion (a step further is an assistant professorship that requires teaching). I would like to hear your experience. What should I do? Thanks in advance!
iqnmjc4
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In Denmark, there exist research positions. https://english.dm.dk/salary/universities-and-institutions-of-higher-education https://english.dm.dk/career/research-staff Enjoy! I've linked above the Professional/Trade Association of Academic Workers in Denmark (DM). > Researcher > The appointment as researcher is a postgraduate position where the main tasks comprise research (including a commitment to publish/scientific dissemination) and research-based public-sector consultancy. Additionally, it involves a certain amount of teaching and a limited number of other tasks. The predominance of the various tasks may vary over time; however, a balance should be ensured allowing the researcher to qualify within the areas relevant to the position (typically research, research-based public-sector consultancy and teaching). Supervision is provided as well as the option of enhancing your teaching skills with a view to preparing a written assessment of the teaching skills of the researcher. The appointment as researcher may be of limited tenure or tenured, meaning that the researcher transfers to a senior researcher position after a positive assessment. The starting point is that the position is full-time; however, part-time positions also exist. An appointment as researcher requires PhD-level qualifications. > > The following fixed allowances are granted to researchers: and then > Senior researcher > The position of senior researcher is usually a tenured position with an obligation and a right to teach and carry out research. The appointment may be without tenure if the main area of responsibility of the position is research and development. > > The main tasks comprise research (including a commitment to publish/scientific dissemination) and research-based public-sector consultancy. Add to this a certain amount of teaching as well as research management, guidance and supervision of assistant professors and researchers as well as carrying out professional assessments. > > The position is usually a full-time appointment; however, part-time appointments exist.
I'm a psyc professor at a school that is R2 (e.g., my department has PhD programs, but we don't have enough throughout the university to qualify as R1). Even though my teaching load is a 2-3 (some of our faculty are on 2-2, 2-1, or 1-1 loads depending on grant support), it's extremely easy. The trick is to get the same classes each semester. If you can swing this, then there is practically no prep after the first couple years. At this point, I have all my lectures essentially memorized down to the individual jokes. I periodically change things around to keep it interesting, but I could basically teach the same classes for the rest of my career if I was that unmotivated. The point is that I have plenty of time for research (or whatever else I want to do).
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askbaking_train
0.98
Can I use pasturized egg whites for things like macarons? So lately I have been baking a lot of stuff like macarons and vanilla cakes which only requires egg whites, so I thought I maybe could use those boxed egg whites from the shop. Anyone know if they work?
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h2fshin
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I’ve used boxed egg whites for both Angel food cake and macarons. The Angel food cake comes out fantastic. My macarons come out tasting great, but have hollow shells (I’m not sure if it’s the egg whites or my technique). I don’t think the boxed egg whites get to the stiff peak stage as well as fresh egg whites. My advice: try using them in you favorite recipes and see how it works compared to what you’ve been using.
You can also use aquafaba instead of egg whites. It’s the liquid from canned chickpeas. It makes a merengue like egg whites, but may need more cream of tartar because the structure is more fragile.
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askculinary_train
0.89
Can I use cool whip or rediwhip for a coconut cream pie or should I make my own?
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Why not make real whipped cream and put a dollop on each slice as it is plated and served? Unless you won't have any leftover, in which case put it on the whole pie just before serving.
Cool Whip is awful stuff. Whipping your own cream takes a few minutes and tastes infinitely better
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changemyview_train
0.75
CMV: The Bachelor is just as ridiculous as Flavor of Love and other dating reality shows of the sort. When there was a flood of dating reality shows, such as Flavor of Love or A Shot At Love with Tila Tequila, many people criticized the shows and contestants for their ridiculous behavior, attitudes, and mindsets. Cursing, fighting, and spitting became a reality show norm. Despite the recklessness of these shows, everyone was hooked. Now, with the new start of the Bachelor, WOMEN ARE HOOKED. But interestingly, ABC has done a tremendous job of presenting Ben as the dream guy, the All-American boy that every girl wants. Somehow, they've been able to glaze over the fact that this is still a ridiculous and chaos-driven dating reality show. What makes the Bachelor any different from any of those other absurd dating shows? _____ > *Hello, users of CMV! This is a footnote from your moderators. We'd just like to remind you of a couple of things. Firstly, please remember to* ***read through our rules***. *If you see a comment that has broken one, it is more effective to report it than downvote it. Speaking of which,* ***downvotes don't change views****! If you are thinking about submitting a CMV yourself, please have a look through our* ***popular topics wiki*** *first. Any questions or concerns? Feel free to* ***message us***. *Happy CMVing!*
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With the Bachelor they pick available men who are attractive, have good jobs, haven't been married before, etc. The point is to find a guy who is attractive to a broad range of American women. Flavor Flav is in his 50s, has 7 children and a criminal record. He's also, objectively, ugly as hell. The purpose of flavor of love was to be a hilarious shit show, which is way different then the Bachelor, which is much more straight laced, and less about the craziness of the situation.
I think you are just confused or something. The Bachelor is not really regarded as much higher quality television than any other dating/reality show and everyone knows it's a ridiculous and that they don't usually stay together as a couple or anything. The Bachelor is commonly referred to as a guilty pleasure. However the actual bachelor is usually actually at least good-looking and somewhat normal compared to the likes of Flava Flav, Tila Tequila and Bret Michaels. Ben Higgins is also attractive enough that there at least the added potential for the viewer to actually think about dating him in addition to enjoying the crazy drama. Also keep in mind, that as society has become more inundated with reality tv shows, the tolerance for them has risen as well. Over the years, reality shows have shifted from solely guilty pleasure shows that people made fun of or watched ironically to shows that people have no problem saying they seriously watch or care about. This phenomenon is best exemplified by the Kardashians who started out as basically a novelty act that people made fun of to a full blown media empire.
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cglmlx
askengineers_train
0.84
What is the experience like for women in engineering in school and the work place? So i’m planning to major in mechanical engineering next year but I’ve heard that there’s not a lot of women in engineering and that they’re surrounded by a lot of guys which makes me nervous because i’m afraid of some men being sexist towards me when i start working. I’m not afraid to tell someone off if they make any comments but i don’t want to deal with negative things while doing the job i’ve always wanted. Are there any women on here that have experience with this? How did you deal with it? How is your school experience?How is your work experience? Help would be appreciated since I don’t know anyone personally to ask!:)
euibbvr
euiis12
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good evening, I work in STEM and I was heavily involved in the engineering school's WEST programs (women in engineering, science and technology). My schooling experience is now somewhat dated but the professional experience I have seen have been very very good. Many of the female professionals I work with are faced with the similar set of problems such as advancement, salary, time off, overworked, etc. as their male counterpart. we are seeing more and more males also be faced with going through the motions of taking paternal leave. Though the numbers are obviously still skewed towards the other side. there might be some still macho chauvinistic bullshit out there in school but if you search for good firms to work for that's your ticket. good luck.
Civil engineer here. I have never personally faced much sexism. Perhaps a little from an older Indian engineer, but even that I couldn't pinpoint specifically to sexism. Oh, and once in college from this Polish dude, but he was such an idiot that I didn't let it bother me. I have had colleagues who have had crude comments made to them, though. I think engineering is changing, slowly... It's not nearly as sexist as it used to be. And I don't think most guys are "intentionally" sexist, if you know what I mean. If anyone says anything sexist or gives off that vibe, it's pretty easy to show them how they're wrong: do better than they do. &#x200B; I say do what you want, and let naysayers be fuel for doing well.
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jbmcva
changemyview_train
0.72
CMV: You should be able to opt-out of Social Security This is my opinion at least. It's not set in stone and I won't pretend to know all the facts. I'm in college making making minimum wage and I don't see the point of SS. While I get that some people need to be forced to save up for retirement or it won't get done, it should be a personal choice, not a government mandate. I also don't really see the program being around 55 years from now, but I could be wrong here. While I don't like the idea, I'm open to explanations as to why it's a good thing. I'll try to respond to everyone. Stay safe!
g8w5ho0
g8w4x06
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So the first thing is that Social Security is NOT a savings account. That's not how it works. It's a retirement insurance program. Compare it to something like health insurance. You pay into it when you aren't using it (when you're healthy) so that when you *do* need it the money is available for you. Similar to health insurance, though, the way Social Security is currently structured it needs more people paying into it than are taking out of it to remain "solvent". If a health insurance plan only had a bunch of sick people who were taking more out in benefits than they were paying into in premiums it would have to jack up the premiums so high that the plan wouldn't be feasible. The same is true for the way Social Security is structured right now. It needs people who are not collecting benefits paying in so that the Social Security trust fund remains in the black while being able to pay out all the benefits we have promised to the people who have been paying into it their entire lives. As to whether Social Security will be around 55 years from now, as it's structured now, maybe? I don't know. However, it's VERY simple to change the structure to ensure it will be solvent as long as the US government exists and is able to issue a currency (the US dollar). Social Security money is managed through the Social Security Trust Fund. This is basically a bank account at the Federal Reserve where all OASDI taxes (Social Security taxes) get deposited in and all Social Security benefits get debited out. The big fear about whether SS will be around in the future rests on this Social Security Trust Fund. The question is whether there will be enough people paying into the trust fund to ensure it has enough money in it to pay the amount of benefits that will be collected by beneficiaries. All of this comes down to one little line within the Social Security Act which requires the trust fund to ALWAYS be positive. That is, if paying a benefit would cause the Trust Fund to go into a negative balance, benefit payments are automatically stopped. It doesn't need to be this way, though. For comparison, Medicare and Medicaid are structured similarly. They both have trust funds which we all pay into through our taxes. However, neither of these trust funds have the provision that they must remain positive. If paying a Medicare or Medicaid benefit causes their trust fund to drop below 0, then the Federal Reserve just carries a negative balance on their ledger. The Fed pays the benefit and life goes on. This has happened many times in the past and will undoubtedly continue to happen in the future. All we would need to do to make sure Social Security is solvent FOREVER (or at least as long as the US Government exists and is able to issue dollars, which if that can't happen Social Security will be the least of our problems) is amend the Social Security Act to allow the trust fund to have a negative balance. That's it. Then the money will always exist to pay Social Security benefits. Of course, that money needs to buy something, so the real question is can we structure society in such a way as to ensure we are creating the goods and services which Social Security recipients will be using their benefits to purchase. That means if there are going to be a lot of SS recipients in the future we need to make sure the things they will want to purchase will exist. That includes food, clothing, entertainment, etc, but it also includes more doctors and nurses since older people require more medical care. That doesn't really have much to do with the Social Security payment structure, though.
Two things: First, the nature of Social Security is that current payments from young people are used to pay current obligations to older people. This means that an opt-out clause will very likely present a liquidity crisis for Social Security, causing the system to collapse and punishing the people currently receiving or expecting to receive Social Security payments. Second, fundamentally, the design of Social Security is to force people to commit to creating retirement savings in order to prevent poverty. Without Social Security, people obviously have the choice to automatically remove some percent of their income, put it in an ultra-safe government account, and draw from it in retirement... but they won't do that, and the government doesn't want those people to die starving in the streets when they retire. Giving people the option to opt-out is effectively giving people the option to trade short-term benefits for long-term risk that the government will most likely still be on the hook for since society doesn't tend to like "well, you made a bad financial decision, so you deserve to die" as a general rule.
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askengineers_train
0.95
What salary increase would it take for you to move out of state?
fkhpe1k
fkhrdg0
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If it's the same cost of living, 40% would be optimal. That would replace my SO's income. However, we love the area that we currently in and it's a big reason why I haven't started looking for other jobs.
I’d take the same to move out of NYC to somewhere not ridiculous.
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7chkoy
changemyview_train
0.76
CMV: It is difficult to morally justify killing animals for their meat. First of all, I am not a vegetarian. I eat meat, simply because I do not emotionally feel bad for doing so, I guess it is just because I have grown up that way. I do however find it difficult to rationally justify eating meat from a moral point of view, so I consider myself a bit hypocritical. Why is it okay to kill animals for meat? It is obviously not okay to kill a human for meat, so why is it okay to kill an animal for the same reason? These are main points for eating meat I see, but they do not convince me: 1) Animals are less intelligent, so we can eat them. **Response**: I do not find this argument very convincing, as I do not believe any good person would deem it okay to kill a mentally challenged person with a significantly reduced IQ for their meat. 2) It is natural for us to eat meat, we have done it for all of human history **Reponse**: We have murdered, raped, waged wars, stolen and many more things we today do not find morally permissible. If rape is not okay because it is natural (which it obviously isn't), this argument should not apply to eating meat. 3) It is okay to eat meat as a necessity **Response**: I agree with the statement, but it is not necessary to eat meat in first world countries today. It is purely a luxury, and something people (including me) do because it is enjoyable, eggs, milk, and a lot of other animal products give you enough protein to live very healthily, in fact you can live even MORE healthy than most people who eat meat do. I know similar threads have been posted before, but the users there looked at the issue from a different perspective than me (they were vegetarians), so the arguments did not really appeal to the way I look at it.
dpq0euf
dppz886
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> It is difficult to morally justify killing animals for their meat. It's literally the opposite. Justifying the existence of living things is pretty much impossible. The closer we try to get to a moral empiricism, the less sense conscious lifeforms make. "An action is morally just if it creates more Happiness than the opposite of happiness." (not quite verbatim) John Stuart Mill We call this moral framework Positive Utilitarianism. It tries to promote Happiness so that there is more of it than there is the Opposite of Happiness (Suffering). This is the world-view most people have, even if they don't know what it's technically called. The alternative interpretation is Negative Utilitarianism. Which is to reduce Suffering. That an action cannot be morally justifiable if it creates Suffering **at all**. This is where moral frameworks begin to break down at a Human level because moral frameworks like this while perfectly sound and valid, are antithetical to our existence; which makes people uncomfortable. Normally people (wrongly) reject these frameworks because of that discomfort; the fact that their existence isn't morally justifiable is not something people take seriously—but they should. There is no such thing as a conscious lifeform that does not experience Suffering; therefore, by the logic of reducing Suffering being a morally pure action; procreating is NOT morally justifiable. Any action that promotes the wellbeing of lifeforms that might reproduce on account of your actions is not morally justifiable. In-fact if you consider the magnitude (literal magnitude) of all Future-Suffering; if you erase the planet and everything on it you negate and prevent exponentially more Suffering than has ever existed before, thus, surely, that is the only morally justifiable goal. And the uncomfortable part, is that there is absolutely nothing invalid or unsound about the logic that that frameworks uses; the only objection that is even tenable is if we presuppose that it's remotely important or integral for life to exist at all—which is not an argument anyone will ever have the capacity or the knowledge to make. I would just leave it here... however, I'm aware just from reading your post that while you are kind of skirting this topic, you're not ACTUALLY talking about the big picture. You're talking about Moral Responsibility. Or Moral Relativism. > Why is it OK to ___ but not OK to ____ Has nothing to do with morals, well, not much anyways. When people use 'moral(s/ality)' in this way, it's a colloquialism. They are actually talking about social paradigms. > Why isn't it OK to eat Humans? Is just as valid of a questions as, > Why isn't it OK for men to wear sundresses? You're not talking about the substance of being a 'thing', or what it means to perpetrate an action, or why you might be doing it. You're talking about why isn't X allowed according to Y. It isn't OK to kill Human beings, in civilized society (well, it IS, as long as they're from a different country or are from the wrong social group [See; American Imperialism or Unnecessary force by American LEO against non-whites]) because wanton murder isn't conducive to a civilized society. Humanity figured that out thousands of years ago. And murder-for-sustenance; while I know there have been cannibal cultures and small cannibalistic events, I would *guess* it's mostly just distasteful to most societies. In the same way that cultures who have a specific subset of animals as domesticated companion-pets typically do not consume that type of animal for sustenance. Eating meat is OK because we have bred animals to have specific qualities are purposes. This is called Genetic Modification (Like in the term G.M.O [Yes, dogs are G.M.O. s] which means Genetically Modified Organism). Even if we stopped all meat production and set all the animals free; they would all die. There isn't room for them anywhere and where ever they would be put, there would not be food for them that would sustain their population. The whole system is designed with an Input and an Output, none of the facilities or allocated land is designed to sustain a large population of animals, let alone a population that might grow if it had the resources to do so. "What if we allocated land and resources to do so?" That isn't any more or less justifiable. So, if this were the problem at hand, you could just as well create a thread asking, > It is difficult to justify preserving [animal]; their species can't survive in this climate by itself and there are plenty of Human who could use those resources instead.. Constructive and Destructive actions are not more or less justifiable or moral than the other; either an action is moral or it is not regardless of anyone's perception of that action—quite like gravity, it doesn't matter if you think a bowlingball will fall faster than a feather. If there isn't air resistance, they fall at the same speed as long as they are released at the same time and at the same height. This mathematical fact is not changed by perception. **If morality exists**, it exists in the same way. As far as society is concerned, it's ingrained in the culture, the industry employs millions of people, there are periphery industries that rely on the meat industry and are equipped, specifically, to handle meat products. People don't make choices for educated reasons. People aren't eating red meat because they think it's healthy, it's because that's what they grew up eating and they like the taste and the dishes that are made with it. It's morally justifiable, **relative to society and how we collectively view actions, meaning, and reasons** because we say so, basically.
1. All organisms exhibit intelligence to some degree or other. Even plants have problem solving abilities. In any case why should intelligence be the determining factor as to why we can or cannot eat something. 2. Hunting and eating animals was what drove us to develop such advanced brains in the first place, so I think this is a sound argument. In any case humans are omnivores (in common with most primates) and we should at least be eating insects, and this brings us back to point 1. 3. Eggs and dairy production both involve the killing of male offspring. If you take the position that killing animals for food is bad, you have to go full vegan. As for health, it takes more knowledge to be healthy the more food you cut from your diet, so the average person who doesn't think very much about what they eat probably won't be healthier. Meat is very nutritious and those nutrients have to be carefully replaced.
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.89
Explain like I'm five years old: If plastic was made in 1907 how do they know it may take up to 1000 years to decompose?
ga3xd9g
ga2r4wj
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PhD in plastics engineering here. There's a technique known as time-temperature superposition, which allows us to predict how long it will take to degrade plastics by subjecting the plastics to high temperatures (keeping most details out of it) and seeing how long it takes to degrade at this high temperature. Then we use this information to compute how long it will take the plastic to decompose at ambient (room) temperatures. This method gives a very precise number much more accurate that a qualitative 1000s of years. The most stable plastics would probably survive for 100s of years, not 1000s.
There's a lot of patronizing answers on here but it's a fair question. Basically, you assume that a certain plastic decomposes by a physical and chemical process which we understand and can quantify in a mathematical model. Then you do some algebra using the equations that describe that model and, voila, you have your answer. Of course this assumes there are no other processes that affect decomposition that aren't captured in the initial model.
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woykw2
changemyview_train
0.95
CMV: The US should not trade Russian arms dealer Viktor Bout for Brittney Griner. Viktor Bout is a dangerous Russian arms dealer who was convicted of conspiracy to kill U.S. citizens and officials, delivery of anti-aircraft missiles, and providing aid to a terrorist organization. Brittney Griner is an athlete who is of no actual physical threat to Russia. How is this a fair trade from the perspective of the US? My view is that when Russia demanded Viktor Bout in exchange for Brittney Griner, they were calling our bluff. They had no expectation that the US would actually release a prisoner whom they have been trying to have released for years, and Russia knows of the two, which person poses more of a threat to the other nation and which is more dangerous to release. That is why they are agreeing to the trade. Additionally, Brittney Griner should have known better. She was traveling to Russia, a country with very strict drug laws, and I would be surprised if this was the first time that she brought cannabis products into Russia, it was just the first time she got caught. Whether we agree with the laws or not, when you are in another nation you are a guest in that nation and subjected to their laws. We have to suspend our understanding of cannabis in the US and understand that in the eyes of Russia, she broke the law and must do the time. Finally, we are willing to trade a violent Russian arms dealer for an athlete while there are still people in the US sitting in jail for possession of cannabis? This is an insult to those people sitting in prison. Release them as well, then.
ikdn4i3
ikdjyh0
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If the US is willing to release Bout, then it implies that the US believe that they have all the information they are going to get from him and he holds no further value to the US government other than as a bargaining chip. In fact, you could also argue that being behind bars in the US is potentially more dangerous as has access to other felons who might be easily coerced to act against the US government. On top of that, when he is released, there is limited damage he can do. He has been behind bars for 14 years, so his network is not going to be what it used to be. And if he does start operating again, it's not like he is unknown to the US and will likely be under surveillance. On top of that, depending what he did give to the US, Russia might want to punish him in their own way - it's not like they are well known for their leniency... And finally, we do not know everything that is going on behind the scenes. Those handling the swap have far more information and know the full strategy, and they would not be doing this if it wasn't in the country's best interests.
Brittney Griner is just the political talking point, the real goal is Paul Whelan, which was arrested in Russia on spying charges. The sad fact of the matter, is that she is a very convenient talking point: Russia wouldn't care less about her in most situations, but Putin knows the US has a history of having a soft spot for otherwise innocent people, so that was essentially a prisoner trade spark up, more than an actual legit arrest. My guess is, if wasn't Brittney Griner for possession of weed oil, Russia would have found someone else relatively innocent for an equally ridiculous "crime"... Or might still have arrested her on terms of her being gay (since it's technically also a crime in Russia, just seldom ever enforced if you don't make it obvious).
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w6faz7
askacademia_train
0.98
Successfully defended PhD yesterday. COVID-positive today. So much to do to submit this paper, but I feel like death. Any advice?
ihe0k3x
ihdpy6q
1,658,622,635
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PhD's cause Covid, n=1
Congratulations! Hope for a speedy recovery Dr !
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wo5kjx
askculinary_train
0.7
Should you clean new stainless steel pots and carafes with water and vinegar before first use? I just got a new stainless steel stock pot and coffee carafe and washed them with warm water and dish soap. I heard that new stainless steel can have "factory oils" still on them and that it's a good idea to clean them with some hot water and vinegar to get rid of them. Is this true? Any recommendations? Or hot water and dish soap are enough?
ik94yj2
ik92ix4
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Warm soapy water should work
Soap is fine.
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dadd83
askculinary_train
0.87
What kind of black peppercorns do you use in your kitchen and why? I've been using Lampong until I ran out, now i'm wondering if I should try something else. What about you?
f1pm4p6
f1pbtv4
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Vietnamese peppercorns because my mom brings them back in megabulk whenever she travels there so I take some too
I got some costco tellicherry peppercorns and I hated the taste. So I stopped using them and then went to the local latino/international market and bought a bunch of bulk normal peppercorns.
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ym7yuz
askengineers_train
0.82
Climate Conscious Engineers: where do you work? Just wondering if there are any climate conscious engineers out there and what you do? Myself, a number of my colleagues and friends in engineering highlight climate and water scarcity as key issues moving forward, but work in industries doing little about it. Are you guys in similar situations, or have you found jobs working to help?
iv32q6f
iv40br5
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Remote sensing. Monitoring things helps us know where the problems are
I work in a geothermal (ground source heat pumps) group as an engineer. Pretty cool!
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zij22d
askengineers_train
0.94
Years ago my high school chemistry teacher gave me zero points for using the ideal gas law to solve a problem involving burning of gasoline in an engine, stating that gasoline is a liquid not a gas. I thought gasoline is burned in gaseous form. Which one was right? My approach made the problem way easier and clearly wasn't what the teacher intended.
izso632
izrl7br
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Firstly, was your answer correct? Secondly, if the intention was for you to solve the problem a certain way to demonstrate knowledge of a specific concept, you failed to do so. It's a high school chemistry class, not engineering school. Thirdly, the inside of an engine cylinder filled with air and aerosolized gasoline, some of which is gaseous and some of which is still in liquid droplets, is a very complex system that cannot be accurately analyzed using the ideal gas law. Sometimes you can simplify a problem and arrive at an answer that is close enough to the complicated method, and sometimes you can't, and an important part of engineering is knowing which is which.
I worked on this in grad school Gas and air burning produces heat that increases the temperature of the combustion gasses Work done by the piston lowers the gas temperature. We used a differential form of pv=rt and the bunulli equation to form a nonlinear differential equation which we solved numerically. .
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3p2c3y
askengineers_train
0.89
I'm willing to allocate $500 each to developing my SolidWorks & MATLAB skills, where would you spend it? I'm an ME undergraduate who has realized that the coursework on CAD and MATLAB required through my school is insufficient to be competent in these tools. Excluding the purchase price of the software, what is the best way to proceed? I've considered the SolidWorks Essentials course (>$1000) since I'd like some structure to the learning as opposed to the often instructed youtube videos. Does a similar course exist for MATLAB? Anyone have experience getting these at discounted rates, or finding the exact video material for free? Also, are there certain books which if you work through the text and some examples will leave you with a solid foundation? Thanks a lot for your answers.
cw2l3p4
cw2njfa
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There are some good free Matlab resources in their blogs http://blogs.mathworks.com/
/u/Dancat1238 it is entirely possible that your university offers free Lynda.com tutorials. I have personally used them for solidworks and found them to be quite good, so you should check them out. If your university doesn't offer you a subscription, then its around $30/month IIRC. Either way, you're way better off than paying >$1000.
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.66
Explain like I'm five years old: Why do so many Americans self-identify as some nationality different from US American? Like "I'm, Italian" or "I'm Pakistani", when in fact they're both American?
cfutah0
cfusuau
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You mix up nationality and ethnicity. Yes, they have an Americal citizenship, but they just got different (Italian/Pakistani/etc) blood. After all, the only true Americans are Indians, though a lot of people call themselves Americans.
It pisses me off too. I know my grandparents came form Sweden, but I am American. You will not here me trying to impress people by informing them that I am Swedish-American. However, if someone asks directly what my heritage is, I'll tell them my grandparents came from Sweden. But I am an American, through and through.
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w4jzm9
explainlikeimfive_train
0.67
Explain like I'm five years old how bacteria can natural select to become resistant to antibiotics in decades but not resistant to heat (cooking), ethanol (fermentation), and/or salt after tens of thousands of years of contact w these pressures. Why is cooking still an effective way of eliminating human pathogens or fermentation or salting? These methods do not eliminate all traces of the bacteria so what is keeping a random mutation from happening that allows, say, e. Coli in beef to become resistant to heat up to 60c or Listeria to resist salt concentrations to the same levels as bacteria which are not infectious and potential beneficial to us that can tolerate? What is it about antibiotics that makes them so susceptible to creating these random mutations that antibiotics become near obsolete in decades?
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ih2eis9
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A lot of bacteria have evolved the ability to survive in those extremes. Look up extremophiles.
It’s easier to evolve defenses to antibiotics than the other factors. So even though there has been more time either the steps needed to mutate are much much more difficult and haven’t happened yet OR there is just not way to evolve around the problem. Antibiotics interrupt various processes in the cells, like a tree falling on a train track blocking a particular train route. Antibiotic resistance is like using an alternate route so the tree isn’t an issue anymore. Heat affects the proteins that are part of the cells more directly. It doesn’t block a process from happening, it causes the proteins that do the process to fall apart. To go back to our train example it’s like the power going out completely. Now it’s not just one route that’s not working, the whole system can’t function. It’s a lot harder to adapt to that. Some proteins are more resistant to heat than others so in theory if they can do the same job it might be possible to develop resistance, but there are still limits on how much heat proteins can handle due to basic physics and chemistry.
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askbaking_train
0.99
Shortbread: what's the secret?? I can bake. Pretty well, if I do say so myself. But I can't seem to make shortbread. When I try, I end up with a bowl full of dry crumbly nuggets that won't stick together no matter what I do. If I put said "dough" in the fridge, I could use it to go bowling. Anyone know what the secret is for making shortbread that's yummy instead of cardboardy? My boyfriend's grandmother absolutely loves shortbread, and I've been trying to make some for her for Christmas. Please help!
ge5gpx0
ge7hw2t
1,606,747,628
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Make sure you use flour. If the recipe says let it rest in the fridge (as mine does) then do this and then knead with your hands a bit to warm it up enough to roll out. If you can't knead it then skip the fridge step and let it rest on the counter instead. You definitely need warm hands to make it stick together as its literally just sugar, butter and flour. Also, some recipes use powdered sugar? I always use granulated sugar. And some people just think it tastes like cardboard. I LOVE shortbread but my husband hates it.
Your dough is likely fine. You need to dump it out of the bowl onto the counter and form it into a log of the shape you want (I recommend a round log because it’s easier). The heat from your hands will get the butter to adhere into a log. You want it about two inches in diameter or something comparable in another shape. Wrap the log tightly in plastic wrap and chill in your fridge for 3 hours, preferably overnight. You want to make sure it’s flat on the shelf, as you could nearly use it as a bowling pin when you take it out. When it’s time, preheat your oven as per recipe. Slice the log into slices about 1/4 to 1/3 inches. You want to do this quickly and don’t start slicing until the oven is fully hot. If the butter gets warm outside the oven, the cookies will spread. Bake according to recipe. The recipe I use is 350 degrees F, 10-11 minutes. I think that’s standard.
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9eox5t
legaladvice_train
0.92
$3000+ fine for Air BnB guests (CO) I live in a condo (that I own) in a building with an HOA. Recently I had someone stay in my condo via Air BnB, while I was out of town. When I got back, several of my neighbors informed me that there were strange dudes in and out of the building the whole time the guest was there- it’s likely that she was escorting or doing something shady out of my condo. I called her to ask for an explanation, and of course she denied it, saying she just had a few friends over. I later got a call from a blocked number, and some guy told me to never contact her again. He didn’t directly threaten me, but he was obviously trying to sound intimidating. I contacted air bnb to make a complaint, and I’m having my locks changed. Then today, I got a notice that I need to “appear before the HOA board”, and an itemized bill for $3200 to change the key fobs for the front door for all 16 units, and mention of a tbd fine for violating HOA by-laws, which I guess will be decided at the meeting. In the by-laws it does not say anything about air bnb, but it does say that residents must be responsible for their guests. I got the key fob back from the person, and there’s no proof that she made a copy- I don’t even know if it’s possible to do that. Am I really going to have to pay for this? Should I get a lawyer?
e5rlk85
e5qtnm5
1,536,637,937
1,536,612,190
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It sounds to me like they are annoyed that you rented your place out to a hooker, and now they are trying to punish you financially for doing so by making a bogus argument that they need to change out all the keyfobs. The HOA bylaws may prohibit short term rentals, and may list the fines for various offenses, those fines usually start at like $50-$100 for a first offense, not $3200.
This sounds like pretty questionable behavior on the part of the Board. There need to be written rules and a violation policy in order for the Board to fine you. So if there's nothing in the Bylaws (or Covenants, Rules & Regs, etc.—check ALL the documents) prohibiting short-term rentals, they can't all of a sudden fine you for that. They can bill you for damage that a guest caused, but it has to be actual damage; "Your guest seemed sketchy, so now we have to replace all the locks" probably won't cut it. There might be a clause in one of the documents prohibiting illegal activities on the premises, but they'd need to have some sort of evidence it actually took place. And again, apart from actual damages, they have to follow your written violation policy. The Board can't just pull a fine amount out of its collective ass. It could be that the Board, or a faction on the Board, really wants to restrict short-term rentals, but they don't actually have the power to do so under the Covenants and Bylaws. So their trying to intimidate owners instead. Read all the documents, know what the Board's powers are, and at the meeting, insist that they fully justify any fine or damage assessment. If you think they're overstepping what the documents let them do, get a lawyer.
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askengineers_train
0.9
How do you get experience for entry level jobs when they all require previous experience? I’m a recent Masters grad who has had trouble landing a job for the past year. Every time I finish an interview for an entry level position they proceed to tell me they won’t be moving forward with me because I don’t have enough experience. How am I suppose to get experience for entry level jobs when they are the ones that are supposed to give me the experience?
h979y7c
h98bssb
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I only got in cause I nailed the questions better than I thought I would... ...and because I had a skill set they wanted that I cultivated since high school.
You will not like this, but it's the same response I replied to many post like yours before: Get a technician job or a field service job. That's how you get those experience and get your foot in the door. Many large companies are still willing to promote technician to engineer, especially when you have a master (assuming in a related field) and show you know what you are doing. Is it sucks? Absolutely But when you aren't getting anywhere, then you gotta aim even lower to start and work your way up.
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askacademia_train
1
What are some very impressive things (style/structure) etc that you've seen in a scientific presentation? Animations and graphics are really cool in humanities and scientific presentations are often termed dull. How do we bypass them?
h6cn0rk
h6cx939
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As a humanities major graduate who loves professional presentation hacks, I would recommend that you take a powerpoint presentation course. I took one in a training center in my country and it transformed my understanding of PowerPoint potential in grabbing audience attention even if your topic is not very interesting to them. For instance, I have this course on my wishlist. The maker of this course already has few creative free PowerPoint templates on his website and when I used them, they made people say “Wow!”. Here is his website
Not a intensely academic presentation; but at a science teachers convention one of the speakers was talking about the World Wildlife Foundation, and all the things he does. He first got up, cleared his throat a bit and apologized for his slight cold. Then he loosened his tie and started speaking. A few minutes in, he took his jacket off, and then tie. He was clearly uncomfortable and fighting his cold (THis was waaayyy pre-Covid). Then he started talking about how the WWF helps reptiles....stopped and apologized again, and took off his dress shirt....revealing his undershirt that had reptiles on it. Then he talked specifically about the birds in Europe that they are helping and took off his shirt to reveal another one with a stork on it. Throughout the talk, every time he would go into a new subject he would take off a shirt to reveal the next one and topic. He had 8-10 black t-shirts in total all with the different topics and animals he was talking about. It was a amusing, entertaining and dramatic effect that I remember 30 years later.
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askengineers_train
0.97
There is a conspiracy theory right now that a perpetual motion machine exists and that govt. and corporations are depriving us from our free energy. How do you debunk this to someone brainwashed by these dumb youtube videos?
fy3oxoe
fy3b7k8
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As I grow older, I’ve realized this sad fact – honestly some people are simply not worth your time. People are important. They are probably the most important thing in life. Other people have the ability to move you to love or hate. Most are selfish in their own way and many will have no problem using or even abusing you if it benefits them. Life is about finding your crowd of mutually positive fellowship and supporting each others’ journeys. So if you take the time to openly discuss a topic with someone and they won’t respect you enough to listen and consider your opinion, especially in your domain expertise, then it’s really best to just cut them out of your life. People who do that are not going to be there for you in any real, hard, trying, and significant circumstances. They will bring you down, even if you lift them up. I don’t mind if people have different opinions from me. I’m happy to discuss my views. But if they use it as a reason to treat me with disrespect, I have no problem dispatching them from my life. In fact, in a strange way, it’s a blessing that you find out before you might really need them.
Just walk away. There's no communicating with Dunning–Kruger people.
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askculinary_train
0.97
Now for fun. What's a cool food trick you know? It can be used in prep or pretty much whatever stage of cooking. For example, wavy bacon is done by cooking it over aluminum foil that's folded over several times.
ca54zvc
ca5alpj
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Not a trick, per se, but corn is really good on pizza.
It has nothing to do with cooking but, the gas that comes out of a lime while you zest it is flammable.
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askculinary_train
0.88
Pizza party for 15- what do I dough? Excuse the pun, I had to- it’s the law. I have an Ooni Koda 12 and having a pizza party for 15 people. I want to set up a topping bar and allow each person to create their own pizza. The question is, what’s the best way to make the dough? Should I do four doughs for bulk, then divide each of those? Do one BIG bulk? Any recipes I should follow? I typically have been doing Neapolitan style with 00, yeast, flour, water- but thinking I should do NY style with sugar and oil and maybe AP flour? Any tips or recipe suggestions would be appreciated, thank you!
gv15ney
gv0t8op
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Not sure if you're new-ish to the whole Ooni pizza party thing or not, but it's very useful to stick with a wood/bamboo peel. Make sure they are building their pizzas on the peel and that as soon as they're done building them, the pizza can go in the oven. Leaving a built pizza on the peel is a great way to create a non-launchable pizza. When feeding a crowd from my Ooni Pro, I generally make larger pizzas for everyone to share. That way everyone can eat at once and there's a lot less work involved for you. Plus, they get the full experience of eating the same thing and being able to share conversation on that topic. In your case, you might open up each pizza to voting before it gets built. You'll still be cooking a lot of pizzas, but not as many as you would have. Also, this way no one will overload the toppings and create a mess on the floor of your oven. I used to work in an Italian restaurant that offered "Create Your Own" style dishes. Disaster. Utter disaster... Enjoy the party!
I agree with pretty much everything that's been said. I have 1 thing to add. If you really want to impress people, you could do multiple types of dough. Making the dough in bulk is definitely a lot easier, but for 15 people, you could make 3-4 different batches a few days before. I did a similar type party for around 20 people. I made regular dough, then I made a whole grain blend, and then I made one with extra honey and garlic powder in it. Also, if you have the time, definitely let the dough cold-ferment in the fridge for 3-4 days. I think it makes a huge difference.
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changemyview_train
0.86
I believe the international community should get involved in Syria, but on Assad's side, CMV It seems like textbook case of lesser of two evils to me. Whether the government is technically legitimate or not, Assad's regime has managed to keep a semblance of stability in Syria for several decades, something that will surely be gone if/when he loses. The rebels have no unified political credo or long-term strategy for ruling the country, should they win at best there will be a new civil war and at worst the country will dissolve into warring tribes. Either case seems to bode badly for the civilian population. Yes, I am aware that Assad has killed civilians in the past, these have not been ethnic pogroms though, from what I can tell. His regime has a religious minority at its foundation and has managed to keep ethnic and religious minorities relatively safe from Sunni purges. Ultimately his government appears to be relatively secular, something I cannot say about the rebels. Targeted killing of dissidents is certainly bad, but it's on a completely different level to religious and ethnic cleansing, examples of which can already be seen on the rebel side. I believe the best way to reduce civilian casualties (which I'm taking as the main objective of the intervention, as opposed to the geopolitical chess that motivates the real life thing) is for an international peace-keeping operation to demand a cease-fire in the region. Assad has expressed a desire to begin negotiations a while ago, citing the disorganised nature of the rebels as being the biggest hurdle, if a cease-fire is imposed by the international community I believe only certain rebel factions will be in opposition. Ultimately the most desirable outcome of this would be for Assad to remain in power while agreeing to certain demands from the rebels (up to and including ceding land, if it comes to that). For Assad this remains a victory as he gets to stay alive. For the secular rebels this would be a win as they managed to prove a point, gain international support and bring media scrutiny to Assad's regime. For the civilian population this would be a victory as secular rule of law would return. Obviously I don't expect this to actually happen, I just figure it's the best strategy if we want to minimise human suffering rather than fuck over Russia and Iran.
cbx0nh9
cbx0r9c
1,377,704,130
1,377,704,417
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I believe the international community should stay the fuck out of it. Both sides have means to defend themselves, so let them work it out. The only time the US or anyone else should step in is when one side cannot adequately defend themselves (i.e Iraq).
The same exact set of arguments could have been used to justify supporting every colonial power remaining in charge of their various colonies for the past 200 years. Also, it bears noting that Assad's regime has clearly FAILED to keep a semblance of stability in Syria for the most recent 2 years, which appears your only criteria for desirable government.
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askanthropology_train
0.96
Why does the lack of neanderthal mitochondrial DNA in modern humans suggest it was male neanderthals and female homo sapiens who were successfully interbreeding? That's the claim made on wikipedia here. >No evidence of Neanderthal mitochondrial DNA has been found in modern humans.[29][30][31] This suggests that successful Neanderthal admixture happened in pairings with Neanderthal males and modern human females But there's no Neanderthal Y-chromosome in modern humans either...? So why focus only on the mitochondrial DNA?
ham4223
halh7ok
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Okay so I agree with your overall point, that we cannot infer the nature of modern human-Neanderthal pairings simply from the absence of Neanderthal mtDNA or Y-chromosome haplotypes. They could easily have been lost after interbreeding, particularly by genetic drift if Neanderthal individuals were substantially outnumbered by modern humans in the reproductive group (I.e. if the offspring were raised in a modern human population). This seems to be the most likely explanation, since there is a near absence of modern human DNA in late Neanderthal genomes, indicating hybrid offspring were not raised in Neanderthal populations. However, we cannot be sure if Neanderthal men, women, or both were added to modern human groups. What I will say, is that the Neanderthal mtDNA lineage appears to have been replaced by one more closely related to modern human haplotypes between 400,000 and 270,000 years ago (https://www.nature.com/articles/ncomms16046). This has recently been replicated for the Neanderthal Y-chromosome (https://science.sciencemag.org/content/369/6511/1653.abstract). This suggests that, in at least one earlier interbreeding event, modern human women *and men* interbred with Neanderthals, and the offspring were raised as Neanderthals. This is also suggested by the limited amount of modern human DNA in the Altai Neanderthal (https://www.nature.com/articles/nature12886?report=reader). This is what allowed the modern-human like mtDNA and Y-chromosome to become fixed in Neanderthal groups by genetic drift. As such, we can conclude in this earlier interbreeding event, that an early modern human group is likely to have been subsumed into a Neanderthal population, which is really cool!
There's a flaw in the logic here. It is true that there is no known Neanderthal mtDNA in modern humans. However, this does not mean that pairings happened this way. It could mean something as simple as the relative population sizes favored the survival of modern human mtDNA lineages. In other words, I agree with you.
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askengineers_train
0.96
Would you leave your job to work for a direct competitor? Title is pretty self-explanatory. If a competitor offered you a job for more money, would you take it? Why or why not?
geduqy6
gee1pdl
1,606,926,775
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No. I don't want to live in Eastern Europe or Asia.
Yes, if there's nothing in your contract preventing this. Your long term goal should be to look out for yourself and your dependants, not your employer. You only owe your employer an honest effort, not a lifetime of loyalty
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xss8qf
askculinary_train
0.92
Fresh mussels Hi guys, I was fishing in a fjord and found some fresh mussels nearby, which I collected and took home. Problem is I have already debearded them and stored in the fridge, but I have found out that I should of done it before cooking them not storing. So my question is how long do I have before they are not safe to eat? Its stored in a bowl without water with a damp towel on top.
iqnhli1
iqo13wa
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72 hours MAX after debearded. But put them on ice
I go foraging for mussels frequently. Stick them in salt water (you can literally mix sea salt or aquarium salt with water) in a bucket and let them purge sand for a few hours to overnight. Look up the salinity in your area for ratios. Next time you can just pick up some seawater. You want to make sure the mussels have enough oxygen while purging. Its better if you’ve got an aquarium pump, but you can make do by agitating the water frequently. Toss the guys that don’t close when you tap on them. After cooking, toss the guys that don’t open. If they’re barnacle-y or sandy, you’ll want to extract the meat after steaming / boiling and using that vs putting the whole thing in.
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bbrop3
askacademia_train
0.99
How do you stay organized in research? Note taking app advice Hi In a couple of days I'll start the second year of my PhD and looking back I see that I have a lot of space for improvement. Recently I found my self involved in several different problems and I'm finding quite difficult or even impossible to retain all the information from meetings, talks, proposals or ever papers that I need to read. I never really used a notetaking app but I guess that now I can really profit from starting to use one. I took a look at Onenote but I guess this is not what I'm looking for my head does not work in that way. Evernote looks really nice but is quite expensive and Notion looks overly complicated. But maybe I'm wrong and you guys can help me choosing and setting up the best methods for getting things done and stay organized.
eklcknv
ekli9by
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Evernote all the way!
LaTeX and Git
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askcarguys_train
0.95
What's your opinion on daily driving older cars (e.g. 15 years and older)? Hi r/askcarguys, What is your personal opinion of the topic of daily driving older cars (say 15 years+)? Does said opinion change if you are generally driving only by yourself or also driving with family / loved ones? I posted this topic (and my thoughts) to a "rad" oriented Facebook group and got a wide range of debate and opinions, so wonder how it would go over here. Curious as to your thoughts
gx7wmi1
gx7fffi
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As someone who daily drives a 25 year old Toyota Camry station wagon I’ll tell my experience. It has nearly 300K miles on it, a 4 cylinder engine and is in decent shape. It needs work but nothing that will keep it from driving. I really haven’t had to put much into it yet but for what it is I won’t complain. I’m driving an old vehicle as I do not want a car payment while I’m paying off student loans and hospital bills. I’ll get something newer when I get that stuff paid off.
My daily is a ‘99. Bought it at 48k miles in 2017. I’ve got a mechanic that knows the brand well, I like to take care of it, and it would be hypocritical of me to criticize people with the money to have obscenely expensive cars and not drive them, while also wanting to own older cars and pretend I have to tuck them away in a similar manner. The car currently sits at around 72k miles since I’ve bought it, and I can think of very few moments I’ve spent not smiling during those miles.
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askdocs_train
1
I haven't had my period for almost one year. What should I do? I'm a 16 year old female and my period has been irregular for quite some time (last one was Feb 2020). I started getting my period when I was 12-ish but as I got older, like when I was 14, it started to become irregular, and I wouldn't get my period for months. Now I haven't gotten one in almost a year but when I ask my parents to see a doctor, my concerns get blown over so I came here. I was wondering if my situation was normal or serious and if it was treatable/fixable.
gl21ubt
gl1bubp
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Not a doctor but this happened to me a lot when I was your age. I didn’t have my period for over a year when I was 18 and I’ve been wildly irregular my whole life. I was later diagnosed with PCOS. You should absolutely see a doctor
have you started exercising a lot more than before in the past year or so? or had any extra stressors? I’ve had a few friends who’s periods were irregular after joining a school cross country team and running more than usual. I’m not a doctor, but I suggest talking to a school nurse if your parents won’t listen.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.96
[Mad Max] how is knowledge of mechanical engineering preserved? So a lot of factions have vehicles - bikes, cars, and most of them are cobbled together from lots of different parts. But how do they know how to make working, driving cars? How do they know how to keep an engine running, or how to fix issues? The only three possibilities I can think of would be these: 1. It's a broadly master-apprentice system, where someone who has the knowledge takes an apprentice and teaches them everything they know. But is this realistic in smaller groups? 2. They learn from pre-collapse material, like engineering textbooks and manuals. But these are usually made with the expectation of a full school education in mind, so how useful would they be? Also, you'd need to be able to read. 3. They reverse-engineer existing vehicles. So your warband manages to tear the tires off some unfortunate wastelander's car, you murk them and then take the thing back to your hideout. But there the problem is that it's an endless cycle.
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i9zgvdx
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Ah, young one. You seek the knowledge of the Blackfinger. Everyone's got a bit of scrounge knowhow, yeah, but the Blackfinger is the one who lives it. Its in their bones, and especially their hands. They's named for how they never gots clean hands, the grease soaked too deep, stained em to the soul. And when you spend enough time in a v8 that you can't wash em clean, you'se a Blackfinger too. Some of em came from before, in the plenty. The old ones had knowing so deep they could put the black on paper so others could drink it up like dew on the morning tarps. Now, we don't got much paper, and no ink 'cepting what's on the skins of the history men, so you gotta get the black in you with work. If you can find a paper book, and you can ken the scribbles inside, that's a holy relic, that is. You are destinied to be it's guardian, now. Either in your head, or in your ruck. Leastaways till you get hungry enough to trade it to another soul on the road for a can of Dinky-di. Easiest way is to start young. Little Blackfingers got little hands good for reaching into cramped spots or crawling into tight spaces with a tool bag. If they're good, and they got a good teacher, they live long enough to become big Blackfingers. Otherwise, the machines are oiled with the blood and mash of those who were incautious around the big wheels or pistons. Lasty, yeah, you can keep whatcha kill, and if you'se stronger than them whats you killed, then you can ride their rig or take it for scrounge. That's the law, yeah? The weak are meat, and the strong do eat. The rest of us, we know we's meat, and so we try to make useful to the strong. Ain't nobody spending time under an engine who don't know how to make the case for livin another day fixing someone ELSE's engine. Then you got your own strong one to protec you and yours. And if you're a blackfinger? they'll fight to keep you alive, or at least eat you last. Just don't go for hoping to take a wander whenever you like. Once you're valuable, you're just as protected as the cars and machines you're keeping running. And just as shackled to the strong as anyone else who ain't on top. So hand me that wrench and keep your eyes open. If you ask about what you don't know and make yerself handy, more as like you'll be somebody's blackfinger soon enough.
I mean - civilization collapsed in Max’s lifetime. There will still be mechanics around.
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unje0d
legaladvice_train
0.98
Got hired for a job as a salaried manager, was told three weeks later that I was not a salaried worker. Hi guys, I work for a pretty popular restaurant in Kansas City, Missouri and have been for about 4 months. When I got hired, they promised me a salary of 57,200. My job code says salary manager and I have hundreds of chits that say so as well. Whenever I got my first paycheck for a day or so, I saw my pay was $22 an hour for the few hours I worked. Whatever, I assumed it was just how they did the first paycheck. I got my second one though and it was still hourly, $22. I go to my GM who hired me and she told me that “there was a change of plans and the owner said you’re an hourly employee” 3 weeks into the job. She explained that if I worked 50 hours 52 weeks a year I would make 57200 at a rate of $22, which is 50 hours a week is standard for a salaried restaurant manager but I never work 50 hours a week. I usually work about 44-47. I do not receive any over time. I am making a lot less than I was told and I’m not getting by. I have almost every single clock in/clock out from when I started. The owner is an extremely toxic, vile and aggressive man so trying to rectify this through him is not an option. What can I do? I don’t have this down in writing that I’m supposed to have a salary but I’m also working hourly and not making overtime.
i88ey7e
i8anf21
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Is your position considered an exempt salaried position? https://www.dol.ks.gov/-/overtime
First, we need to know if you meet the duties test for salary exemption. Title means nothing. If you spend the majority of your time doing management duties, then you can be salaried exempt, but if you mostly do what everyone else in the restaurant does, then you can't legally be salaried exempt anyway. Regardless, it's always legal to pay by the hour even if you are eligible for exemption. But, as others have said, you have to be paid overtime. $22x40=880 $33x10=330 (Overtime rate) Total weekly pay=$1210 $1210\*52=$62920 Regardless, it's always legal to pay by the hour, even if you are eligible for exemption. But, as others have said, you have to be paid overtime. Continue to keep track of your hours and file a complaint with your local Department of Labor. I would also look for a new job. Lots of restaurants are hiring, and you don't want to stay with someone dishonest. Getting a new job doesn't mean you can't make a back claim for overtime pay.
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roui5o
legaladvice_train
0.95
I'm 27, and I got a 17 year old pregnant....how screwed am I? 2 months ago I was in a bar, that had a bouncer, that checked IDs. I ended up meeting a woman at that bar, she was drinking, we started talking, we ended back at my place, we had sex. We did not use protection, which was dumb. Afterwards we texted a little bit, and then things went cold and that's cool whatever. Well about 6 weeks later she calls me, tells me she's pregnant. She wants to keep it, I think well...ok lets start planning how we are going handle this because I don't see a relationship, then she hits me with the fact that she is 17. I asked her how she got into the bar, she said she used a fake id. Also at no point in our conversations did I ask her age. She did mention she was in a college, which turns out that's a lie too. I knew she was young, I didn't think she was 17 I figured she was maybe 21, 22? This whole age revelation really derailed the conversation. A week later I get a call from her dad, who was furious at me. I tried explaining that she used a fake ID to get into a bar that was checking IDs. I also tried talking to the dad how we need to start discussing child support, etc. He said he was to see me rot in prison for having sex with a 17 year old. My friends have been suggesting I get a lawyer, and I plan on calling a few...but what kind of lawyer would I call for this? Also...do I have any legal protections considering I met her in an establishment where her ID was checked, and she used a fake ID to enter and had she not done that I'd have never met her. We are in New Jersey.
hq13bdp
hq0xkzl
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It’s very likely she’s a prostitute and her “dad” is her bf and she goes around hooking up with random guys then says she’s pregnant just to get you to sign forms and give her money. And she could very well be using birth control while lying about keeping the baby. Like others have said on here too, you should probably get checked to make sure you don’t have any STDs
as others have said, please make sure it's not a scam. but after, even if it wasn't a scam and she really is pregnant, check if it's YOUR child. if she was able to lie to this extent to get into a club and had sex in her own will, how can you guarantee it was her first time? you said she contacted you after 6 weeks... anything could have happened. I googled NJ age of consent and it says 16? so even if everything is not a lie, you did not do anythin criminal. you only have to worry about child support.
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utg54f
changemyview_train
0.71
CMV: The "make all males have a vasectomy" thought experiment is flawed and not comparable to abortion. There's a thought experiment floating around on the internet that goes like this: suppose the government made every male teen get a vasectomy as a form of contraception. This would eliminate unwanted pregnancies, and anyone who wants a child can simply get it reversed. Obviously this is a huge violation of bodily autonomy, and the logic follows that therefore abortion restrictions are equally bad. This thought experiment is flawed because: 1. Vasectomies aren't reliably reversed, and reversals are expensive. One of the first things you sign when getting a vasectomy is a statement saying something like "this is a permanent and irreversible procedure." To suggest otherwise is manipulative and literally disinformation. 2. It's missing the whole point behind the pro life argument and why they are against abortion. Not getting a vasectomy does not result in the death of the fetus. Few would be against abortion if say, for example, the fetus were able to be revived afterwards. 3. Action is distinct from inaction. Forcing people to do something with their own bodies is wrong. With forced inaction (such as not providing abortions), at least a choice remains. CMV
i9a5hll
i9a160h
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Well people encourage men not kids to get vasectomies if they have multiple sex partners and engage in unprotected sex + don’t see themselves having children. I’m personally pro choice, this doesn’t mean I’m “pro abortion” or believe abortion should be used for everything but my opinion does not matter especially if it isn’t my body. Women should have the opportunity to be able to decide what they want to do with their body. Pregnancy sounds scary and awful honestly, people say it’s the worst thing they’ve ever experienced. They talk about the everlasting side effects that come with pregnancy, the potential for you to DIE during pregnancy. Yeah. Why should we have to make women that don’t want to go through that, go through that? Some women are either assaulted, poor, have no support, or aren’t ready to take care of a child. Having a child is a humongous responsibility. It’s more than just changing diapers and feeding with a bottle. I would rather someone not exist at all, than them live a life in poverty or live a life where the mother cannot emotionally connect to the child due to how the child was conceived. The adoption system is incredibly messed up and the foster care system is messed up too. We say put the kid in adoption, but no one is adopting kids. Honestly. We just need to 1. Teach people about safer sex 2. Encourage people to have sex with people that they could see themselves having a child with. 3. Encourage more safe sex if you’re participating in hook up culture 4. If you like having multiple sex partners and you like having sex unprotected, then you should consider getting a vasectomy. Because if you get someone pregnant, then it’s your responsibility to take care of the child. 5. Give women the choice to get an abortion if they want/need to. Yeah that’s my take.
I'd argue if you can chop a piece of my dick off after i'm born you can abort my non-existence and perform a vasectomy. This seems very established already A.) Babies have no rights and bodily modification purely for aesthetics is A-OK. This alone makes vasectomy A-OK. B.) We have no meaningful safety nets for a baby after it's born, it can starve for all anyone cares. Literally just had a vote about it. It's not about the baby's life because the baby's life is a non-concern when it's actually finally a baby with a life C.) it's a thought experiment, point is to make people think, it's not missing the point, it's making people think about where their line it's such an unbelievably lower bar of interference in a life than not allowing abortion it's kind of confusing why you're confused considering A & B
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ndbo9n
askengineers_train
0.97
Engineers who graduated without internships or research experience, how long did it take you to find a job? I'm a rising senior EE, and despite dozens upon dozens of applications, I didn't get an internship this summer. There's a research project I'm doing under a professor, but I despise working on it and I'm probably going to drop it soon. After graduation, how long did it take ya'll in a similar boat to get a job? I've been so stressed about this the past couple weeks that I've almost been unable to move. For context, I have a 3.60 GPA, so I don't know if COVID just has the job market moving slow or if I'm doing something wrong.
gyacowm
gya8ohh
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No research or internship with exactly 3.0GPA. I looked for about an 8 month after graduation (I didnt look before graduation, dont do that) while working retail. My retail job pissed me off, so I applied to be a maintenance technician at a new facility at an established company. I got it a week after applying. I got promoted after year there to a full equipment engineer. I was told part of was who know the equipment better than the person who works on it. It also helps that I create half the procedures and best practices.
graduated in 2018 with a BSEE. sub 3.0 gpa, no internships, no research. I did have a website highlighting my personal and academic technical projects, that seemed to get me a few interviews. but I still wasn't doing well, only interviewed with like 5 companies (only 2 past HR screen iirc) over the course of 6 months and hundreds of applications. ended up accepting position with fed government, who I applied to early on but the process was very slow. wasn't ideal (mediocre pay, move states, pretty boring, etc.) but it started my career and in the end I was pretty satisfied with how it turned out.
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kyjzxi
changemyview_train
0.76
CMV: Democrats and Republicans live in completely different realities and it is destroying our country. I would guess that a typical Democrat gets their news from CNN, MSNBC, Washington Post, NYT, etc. And the average conservative gets his news from Fox News, Talk Radio, OAN, Breitbart, The Daily Caller, YouTubers like Stephen Crowder and Ben Shapiro, etc. If you go more into the fringes of the right they probably get their news from QAnon and other conspiracy Facebook groups. This disparity in where both sides of the political aisle gets their news from is what I believe is causing the massive division and polarization we see. We can't agree on basic facts of reality like whether the 2020 election was fair. I think one clear measure we can take is enforcing anti-trust laws on broadcast and media companies. The fact that the conservative leaning Sinclair Broadcast Group covers 40% of American households, disproportionately in rural areas, is what is leading to the brainwashing of these rural conservatives. Another thing we can do is stop with this "both sides" meme. Both sides aren't just as bad when it comes to sensational media and disinformation. There is no left equivalent in terms of disinformation to QAnon. Like, we literally have QAnon supporters as congress people (i.e. Marjorie Taylor Greene). MSNBC or CNN never engaged in sensationalism on the level of the birther movement that Fox News engaged in. Sure, MSNBC, CNN, Washington Post do attack Trump a lot, but they do it on issues that Trump should be attacked on. In contrast, remember when Fox News had a whole media cycle dedicated to Obama ordering a burger with Dijon mustard? At the end of the day, I think it's safe to say that most Americans want less division, less polarization, some agreement and compromise so we can get things done (fixing poverty, homelessness, drug addiction, healthcare reform, immigration reform, etc.). But we can't accomplish any of that if we don't fix the vast disparity in our media and news consumption.
gjgow5z
gjgsjj9
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Liberal media was just as sensationalist as conservative media. They repeated lies from people like Adam schiff. Rachel Maddow was banging the russia collusion drum forever and she was dead wrong. The left wing media will lie and lie and lie and liberals eat it up. The whole “fine people on both sides” being used as an excuse to say trump called nazis fine people was a left wing lie that was easily debunked and liberals *still* use that line. I did not see this type of rabid hate when Obama was president. I did not see anyone on Fox News say black men are the biggest threat to our safety (don lemon called white men that). These realities are created by media and yes, both sides are just as guilty of creating them. You see these downvotes and replies that are incorrect? This just proves my point.
This isn't really a CMV, but I feel like it's important to say anyhow. Your title says that democrats and Republicans are living in different realities. However, your post said that democrats are sane and Republicans are not. If the post is what you meant, change your title. If the title is what you meant, change your post
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ee530b
asksciencefiction_train
0.94
[Star Wars, Legends and Canon] The Light Side is usually depicted as being rather unambiguously good, but what would a Light-Sided villain look like, if you could even truly follow the Light while still being immoral? I think that perhaps the closest examples would be either Revan or a Light Sided Sith Inquisitor from SWTOR. The Inquisitor can, depending on how you play them, act closer to a Grey Jedi than an actual Sith Lord, and Revan - well, hell, there's a whole debate waiting in the wings for whether or not he "really" fell to the Dark.
fbq5n4r
fbq65qn
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the light side is not good nor evil just a way of life. So my proposition a fanatic who hunts down all those he sees as wrong be they sith gambler or any such like. Or they could be the leader of a planet wicked and cruel yet still a firm and devout believer of the jedi way.
I don’t really see the debate about if Revan ‘really’ fell to the dark side. He might’ve gradually started to fall during the Mandalorian wars, but when he came back Vitiate had most certainly turned him to the Sith. And once his memory was wiped and he was redeemed he definitely acknowledged that he had turned and spent a long time trying to redeem himself. He definitely fell and was a Sith when he attacked the Republic. I think though the other comment is right that it’d be aggressively stomping out evil even if it means innocent people sometimes get hurt. Although I think this kind of path would inevitably lead to the dark side. You’d crave power to keep fighting evil and protecting people, and that would pull you towards the dark side. You’d make compromises and keep moving your line until your concept of evil was entirely different. That’s why the council didn’t want to partake in the Mandalorian wars, they knew in an attempt to do the right thing a lot of Jedi would have to do a lot of little wrong things until they lost their way, which is basically what happened to Revan until Vitiate pushed him all the way over the edge. I think it’s also worth noting the force can corrupt you itself, leaning into the dark side in moments of weakness changes you, it’s not just regular good people becoming evil. It’s different for a Jedi/Sith. So I think taking the steps that would make you become what most people would consider a villain when looking from the outside would almost always pull you towards the dark eventually, but morality is complicated, and nobody thinks they’re the villain, so there’s probably some fine line someone could walk. I think a dark side hero would be more likely, someone who sort of indifferently pursues what’s good for the greater galaxy. Like Scourge who was a Sith that understood the danger Vitiate posed to the galaxy and knew it was vital that he be stopped. There’s also a line a Sith says in The Old Republic MMO about how the dark side is about doing what’s necessary for the greater good. So a lot of them (though obviously not all) probably think they’re the good guys just willing to make the hard choices the Jedi won’t. It doesn’t mean they’re right, but that’s what some of them might be aiming for. A lot of people in the Empire certainly felt this way too, that whatever they did was just to bring peace and order to the galaxy. So I think there’s more evidence of Sith and dark side users being good in their own way than there are light side users being bad without turning to the dark side eventually.
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goak80
changemyview_train
0.82
CMV: People who record or publicly announce good deeds they do, such as big youtubers giving strangers money, is completely ok even if they are doing it to virtue signal how good of people they are. Had a conversation with my roommate about certain youtubers giving away tons of money. His view is they shouldn't do it for "the clout". I asked him what the negative connotations are, even if they are just doing it for the clout. I argue it doesn't really matter because though he claims it's just basically virtue signaling, the people they are helping are still getting help and it may even I inspire others to do the same. Is it really that bad to do even if the sole purpose was "only for the clout"?
frerdbv
frf8py7
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The problem is some YouTubers lie about the donations. I agree donations will help people and if someone virtue signals it shouldn't nullify the need or the use of the donation. Additionally youtubers make money from their videos. So it isn't just clout, it is donating to make a profit. I have a problem when companies do this for tax evasion and as an advertisement. That said some youtubers are genuine and will use all proceeds from a video to a cause or for donations. Even if they are doing it partially for clout, it is helpful to people. Basically context and effort matter. If you donate $500 and make $10000 on the video it's really deceitful and bad.
The intent behind an action is often just as important as the action itself, and we use that as a basis for criminal law. On the flip side, the intent behind a good action is also important, separately from the action itself. For example: giving a donation without caring for the recipient could lead to value dissonance when outside observers seeing the gift in contrast to other actions of the giver, and may lead to a negative impactto the recipient in non-monetary ways, caling motives into question. On the other hand, a gift given genuinely can lead to a resonance between the gift and the other actions of the giver, and can lend tremendous good will toward both the giver and recipient, and can have a much bigger impact between the recipiant and the public than just the gift itself. This doesn't mean that good can't come from an action (eg: donation, here) done disingenuously, just that it's not the best.
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fvds3t
askengineers_train
0.99
Why are other companies designing new ventilators rather than just getting license to manufacture per existing designs? It takes a while to validate a new design, especially by engineers who have no experience in this area. If rushed, the ventilator could kill someone. Instead, why don't companies sign a licensing agreement to manufacture existing designs? Seems like the problem is making ventilators fast enough and they just need more ventilator assembly lines. For example https://www.space.com/virgin-orbit-designs-ventilator-to-fight-coronavirus.html
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fmi590t
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So, let's say you have the parts to make something that is functionally acceptable as a ventilator and it will take you some time t, or you can completely retool and (hopefully) make an existing design, but at time t^(2). The accepted design is better, but not for a crisis, so you make the quick one with the intent of reviewing its functionality after the crisis is over, at which point they may need to all be destroyed because they are not suitable for times of relative "peace".
Not all of them are. Ford is using a design licensed from GE medical.
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eh691t
askengineers_train
0.93
Being bored out of my head My friends in electrical engineering are always doing these fun projects at home with arduinos and what not. My friends in computer science are writing amazing, functional programs to kill time. I as a mechanical engineering student have nothing I can do (at least that comes to mind). Every interesting project needs a lot of money. So help, can I as a mechanical engineering student kill time with fun, relevant projects? If so, like what?
fcfywqa
fcg9my8
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Make a rocket! You can go surprisingly far with just cardboard, plywood, and plastic. If you want to do the bigger more fun ones, join NAR or TRA.
Designing stuffs in CAD and printing them in a 3D printer can be fun. e.g. may be some projects like this.
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ei5m3k
askculinary_train
0.95
Received TWO barrel aged maple syrups for xmas, not sure how to best to use them without overshadowing the flavor One is whiskey barrel aged, the other is 'double apple brandy barrel aged'. I'm not typically a big fan of sweet things or desserts, though these are both delicious when sampling a little bit straight. I've tried adding some to a nice cup of coffee and it was barely noticeable; a little on top of my usual oatmeal breakfast at work was a decent addition but that's the best I've come up with so far. Canadians, come to my aid! How does one best make use of this stuff?
fcnmywm
fcnq76y
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Like another commenter, I use it to make granola. I also use it in glazes and marinades. One nice way to eat it might be just to put some fruit in a bowl (something like peaches = ideal), add plain (ideally high-fat) yogurt, drizzle with maple syrup. It’s a good snack and will highlight the flavour of the syrup.
Maple Italian buttercream. We use it for some cakes and cinnamon macarons.
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wfkmo0
asksciencefiction_train
0.73
[General Space Marines] I’m a commander launching an assault on a planet. Why should I choose drop-pods over drop ships to send in my marines? I’m trying to take a very important city to cripple the planet’s defenses and need to send in my best marines. I’ve got a fleet of capable drop ships that not only deploy my troops in groups, but also provide suppressing fire as well as a return trip back to our ship. Why should I ever consider using a single occupant, one-way trip, drop pod that could very easily double as a metal coffin that kills my marine on a bad impact? Not only do I need to stock HUGE quantity of these pods for any invasion, there’s a sizable chance my troops either die on impact, or are instantly surrounded and outnumbered upon exiting the pod.
iiunvyc
iiv3sbk
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becasue you need to get them down there fast. a drop pod will descend faster than a ship, it can make a vertial landing, and the marine can fire the second the pod lands and opens. a smaller pod that doesnt need to make a controlled descent can obviously get down faster than a ship that needs to fly a controlled descent and find a good landing spot. also, if you have such shitty pods that your marines dies on impact, then obviously your civiliazation isnt advanced enough to use droppods, so then its a stupid question if you should use them or not. any civilization that uses them are advanced enough to make them relativly safe to use. only reason you die in a drop pod is either A, you get shot down, which is a risk with a drop ship too (and its easier to shot down a drop ship since its slower) or B, you land in a unsafe location, which is your droppers fault for dropping you there. (which is the same risk as having a bad pilot) even with all this, drop pods are usually not the standard insertion method even for the civilizations that has perfected this method. they are only for special circumstances where a drop ship is not viable
>I’m trying to take a very important city to cripple the planet’s defenses and need to send in my best marines. I’ve got a fleet of capable drop ships that not only deploy my troops in groups, but also provide suppressing fire as well as a return trip back to our ship. Drop ships are larger targets that are easier to shoot down, if the enemy has sufficient anti-air defenses. You can much more easily overwhelm the enemy with drop pods, without risking your transport ships. Multiple smaller targets increases the chance that some will get through, using a drop ship is putting all your eggs in one basket. You are also being too limited in your thinking. You don't only have to use them for troops. Drop pods can be used to effectively transport supplies to conflict areas. Weapons, ammo, vehicles, supplies can be safely and quickly delivered. You have some troops trapped behind enemy lines requiring supplies?? You have troops in the front line that require specialized equipment? It's a simple drop pod away. >Why should I ever consider using a single occupant, one-way trip, drop pod that could very easily double as a metal coffin that kills my marine on a bad impact? You could design them to be multi-occupant, it doesn't take much more room to fit 4, instead of one, that way you can have a small squad ready to go when it lands. It also goes without saying that the technology should be there to ensure that there is a significant chance of soldiers surviving the impact, otherwise it is useless and should not be deployed. >Not only do I need to stock HUGE quantity of these pods for any invasion, there’s a sizable chance my troops either die on impact, or are instantly surrounded and outnumbered upon exiting the pod. If drop pods are common use in your military, they already have the logistics settled. The higher ups have already factored in the cost-benefit. Your job as a commander is to choose the best way to deploy them. Think of drop pods as hi-tech parachutes. They aren't going to be used for the common soldier, they are used for your paratroopers, your elite soldiers. They are for the specific purpose of dropping your elite soldiers behind enemy lines, a lot of paratroopers aren't going to land safely either, but it's worth it to get some of those soldiers behind enemy lines. They are there to infiltrate and take down the enemy's infrastructure from within. Most of your soldiers aren't doing those risky missions, they will be transported with drop ships outside active combats zones and move towards it on the ground.
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askengineers_train
0.8
Why aren't trains made with a lower center of gravity? This question was asked 7 years ago, but considered making railways wider, so that trains could go faster. But why not make passenger trains lower and narrower, with a profile similar to a sports car, or even narrower? Capacity could be maintained by increasing the length of trains. Dwell times at stations could also be reduced if fixed seats were replaced by automated pods, able to board and alight much faster than most passengers. New passenger lines would then be much cheaper and less controversial to build and might even fit in pipelines to contain noise, possibly like a small version of Hyperloop.
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Who says they have a tall center of gravity to begin with? I never heard that a tall CoG was a major design limitation of current designs.
It could be there is no public interest for it. I've seen diagrams of your embarking methods and it bothers me as a civilian. I'm sure your techniques are sound though. I just had a visceral knee jerk no to your suggestion
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askhr_train
0.94
[CA] What to do when work environment becomes hostile after reporting sexual harassment I reported my supervisor to Human Resources for sexual harassment because I caught him taking up-skirt photo/video of me. He was soon terminated but since then things at work having gotten hostile. The Human resource director started slowly taking away some of my job duties and restricting certain access on the system we use. She also diminished my job title by giving my coworker a raise that matched my pay rate without giving me one even though we have completely different job responsibilities. I had a meeting with the business manager who is her boss about the issues I was having. They said they would address them but since then he has refused me any meetings. What is extremely frustrating is that I work for a union and our employee manual states that we should have a right to a complaint process with the business manager. I recently went on medical leave and she is now trying to claim that there will be a disciplinary meeting when I return because she is claiming I was rude during a prior meeting and questioned her methods. I was never made aware of any such meeting prior to me going on leave. I once again requested representation other than herself but I am not getting any response from the Business Manager. I pay union dues, but an also an at will employee. I don’t want to quit yet because I am a single mom trying to take care of 2 teenagers and I have a lot to lose by quitting (pensions, health and welfare insurance) does anyone have any advice on how to approach the disciplinary meeting once I return?
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I'm an American and can't offer Canada specific advice to you, but if it's within your means I would encourage you to try to get in touch with an attorney soon. Document everything, get everything in writing that you can and save screenshots of everything off your work computer just in case. Not saying this is going to get even uglier but you want to protect yourself if it does. Especially since your pension is involved. The US has labor departments that can be contacted to file complaints on issues like this, I'm sure Canada has similar resources and I hope someone more knowledgeable can provide those. Good luck
Are you part of a union or just work for one?
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changemyview_train
0.84
CMV: In the same way people shouldn’t be proud of things that have nothing to do with them, so should they not feel ashamed for things that they took no part in. This is the problem with the collectivist right *and* left. On the right, nationalism. Why would you be proud of accomplishments your country has made when that has nothing to do with you and your own accomplishments. On the left, intersectionalism. Why would you feel ashamed about things your nation has taken part in when that has nothing to do with you. A person can take responsibility for the things they have done, but shouldn’t be held responsible for their collective identity. The answer in my eyes is to look at individual merit. This is much more productive and much safer when in terms of history collectivist ideologies have almost always been part of the cause of oppressive regimes (Communism/Fascism). Take immigration for example. It shouldn’t matter where a person comes from or their skin color. What should matter is whether they will benefit the host nation and if that country feels that they meet the qualifications necessary to receive citizenship.
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irqpzun
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In my experiance, the left does not believe that those who have privilage should be shamed into doing something. Rather, they believe that the source of that privilage is something unjust, and therefore those with that privilage have a responsiblity to correct things. It's basic Spiderman logic. With power comes responsibility. If you have power because of your privilege, and that power is based on a fundamentally unjust system, it is your responsibility to use that power to correct the injustice. No one should be saying you are bad for being born into a position of privilege. What they should be saying is that since you have an unjust privilege, you are responsible for using the power that privilege gives to correct the injustice.
The unfournate truth is that these collectives effect us. If I showed you two neighborhoods and one of those neighborhoods were to be hit by a hurricane. That neighborhood would have less value. It would have to be repaired and people would would this event find out its in risk of hurricane damage. Two homes with the same value would suddenly have a gap between them and that gap effects what the homeowners can achieve.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.89
[General Science Fiction] What are some examples of civilisations that live primarily in deep space? In most sci-fy I encountered, most species live on planets and only use space-faring vessels to travel to other planets. Are there any civilisations that exist primarily in space?
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The Travellers of Stargate are/were one such example. Their entire culture lived aboard their ships, moving from star system to star system across the Pegasus galaxy to prevent from being cornered and elminated by the Wraith. They did try settling down on a planet at least once, but (through no fault of their own) it didn't go so well and a lot of people died.
The Culture. They don't use planets. Most of the Culture lives on Orbitals (like a Halo but much bigger). A typical orbital can have between 20 to 120 times the surface area of earth. Other major populations live on GSV's (General Systems Vehicles). A Systems Class GSV can hold billions of people.
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askvet_train
0.98
When you say, “call your vet”, what exactly do you mean? I know it sounds stupid but I have 3 cats in my house. 1 that is having a bunch of recent health problems, 1 that is mischievous, and 1 that is very rude. So I’m always on here posting and reading. As we all know, “call your vet” is often the go to answer for a lot of problems. I totally understand this but I sometimes don’t know *how* I should be calling them. Obviously the receptionist answers, how much do I tell them? Do I start with a brief or detailed history, do I dive in to the current problem? Current problem then history? What are the main relevant points that need to be made to give efficient information while also not wasting their time? Questions also applies to email.
ggdv6ci
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I always call and give the receptionist a brief overview and ask to speak to a tech or have a tech or vet call you back at their convenience. They’ll almost always ask you to bring them in since they can only speculate without a physical exam, so for times sake you are probably best to just make an appointment.
As a former receptionist, let me add: Please do not expect to get the doctor himself on the phone right away. Be prepared to leave a message and have it returned later in the day. Sometimes the receptionist will relay the doctor's response back to you, so if it is a multi-part question, please have all those parts in the original message. (Again, e-mails can take care of this more easily.) I would rather you tell me "too much" (I can edit for the doctor) than too little and have to ping back and forth multiple times.
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askhr_train
0.92
[CA] If you change companies every 2 years, do people eventually start counting that against you?
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i5ei4yr
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My biggest regret is doing this. I thought I had to move companies to avoid stagnating and my resume looks crazier and crazier every year. I’ve actually instituted a rule that I can’t work for any new companies, I can only work for companies I’ve already worked for. Starting back at my old job in a few weeks and eager to show that I can commit for many many years. I really can never leave another job if I want to improve my resume. From my experience recruiting and hiring, the hiring managers want someone who has had exactly one job for 6-7 years. I think it’s underrated how much value there is in just staying. I wish I’d seen it as action to stay, rather than viewing staying as inaction. It’s not always bad to job hop, but realize it can come back to bite you later and there is a limited number of times you can do it in your career.
Depends on the company. No legitimate tech company would. Just weave a narrative.
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askhistorians_train
0.88
META] Official AskHistorians AHA Meetup. 6PM (ish) THIS Saturday, January 9th in Atlanta, Georgia @ Meehan's Public House Downtown. As part of our [glorious appearance at the American Historical Association (if you are going to the AHA come see us at session #34 in the Hayatt Regency Ballroom VI, Lower Level 1) we wanted to arrange a meetup for for our flairs, readers, and supporters to come meet up with us! So mote it be! We will be at Meehan's Public House in Downtown Atlanta around 6PM. I am hoping to get us the pair of tables you see in this Maps image but if I am unsuccessful just poke around for a bit or follow the @askhistorians or @historyofporn (me) accounts on twitter for more information! If you have any more questions feel free to ask them here or get in touch via PM!
cymis3v
cym6jum
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So just to be clear. When will the mods be asleep?
If someone gets a periscope up, we should just close the sub and have a splash page redirecting to the periscope.
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askculinary_train
0.86
Is it possible for the quality of white sugar to affect baked goods? I have noticed that there is a huge price difference between the Domino’s sugar and the cheapest store-brand sugar at my local grocery store. I’m not talking about finishing sugar like Demerara or pearl or anything - just plain white sugar. I know flour quality matters … and chocolate and butter quality matters, obviously. But does sugar quality matter? Would buying dirt-cheap white sugar make a difference in my baked goods?
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people on here saying there are different quality sugars - really? Is this even true? I thought sugar is just sugar. Like 99% pure sucrose. Just beet or sugarcane juice crystallized and washed. I would think the grit size and consistency would be the only things that can vary
It is also important from an allergen perspective. Cheaper sugars can often be contaminated with corn sugar or corn byproducts and there is no way to know. That can make them unexpectedly bad for people with corn allergies. Domino is one of the few sugar sources that will definitely not be contaminated with corn. Edit to add: I don't get the reason for the down votes. Why not try to explain your thoughts? This is not some random notion I pulled from my butt. I spent some time cooking for an individual with a highly sensitive corn allergy, and sugar brands were just one of many factors I had to account for. If you have not had to prepare food for people with corn allergies before, you are likely not aware of just how restrictive their diet is. This person could not go out to eat, but he could eat food I catered because I could verify every single ingredient by brand and preparation method as needed.
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askbaking_train
0.83
Making a dairy-free pumpkin pie and need advice... I need to make a dairy-free version of pumpkin pie for Thanksgiving next week and need some help. I have a dairy free crust recipe that is tried and true but the filling is posing a challenge. I have found recipes that use either coconut milk or almond/soy/ and/or oat milk. Are these any good? Has anyone had success with one of these evaporated milk substitutes in their pumpkin pie?? Thank you so much for helping.....
iwiuprl
iwixi0s
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They have lactose free evaporated milk in grocery stores now. The coconut milk versions also work well.
This is my all time favorite pumpkin pie recipe. She includes directions to make dairy-free sweetened condensed milk (coconut based), but I just buy sweetened condensed coconut milk from the store. We have Nature's Charm brand, and it works great. If neither of those options work for you, Nora Cooks has a pumpkin pie recipe that uses coconut cream. Her recipes are very reliable! Happy baking!
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askacademia_train
0.95
Movies/TV series about life in academia What are your recommendations for the above described genre?, I've seen a few but I did not find them realistic so suggestions are welcome
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h9zaw2i
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Hmmm.. No one going to mention Monsters University?
The Chair !
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askbaking_train
0.98
Casein sensitive baker here, does anyone have any tips on making dairy free mousse for use in French layered pastries or molded desserts? I would consider myself a fairly proficient baker at this point. But im stumped. I had been working my way through a fundamentals of French pastry book right around the time I discovered I was sensitive to casein. In the years since ive managed to successfully create substitutes or alterations to most of my favorite recipes. These mousse cakes though..... I've tried several different substitutions such as using whipped coconut cream, adding whipped egg whites, attempting to lighten and then set pastry cream with gelatin instead, etc and I just haven't hit the mark. I've had mousse come out too 'solid', essentially like a pannacotta, but not pleasant, when trying to substitute coconut cream. Attempting to add air with the egg whites just resulted in an off mouth feel, not smooth like I would expect from whipped cream. The pastry cream attempt was interesting, but ultimately just very dense and not what I was looking for. I think at this point im focusing too much on making a traditional mousse with non traditional ingredients, and I think I need to be going in a completely different direction instead. What would your suggestions be for an alternative? I'm mildly upset that I have silicone molds waiting for fun layered mousse cakes and nothing to put in them!
gk8wugz
gk8o5dn
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Aqua fava, the liquid from chickpeas is supposed to be a great vegetarian alternative for mousse. I think it sounds really cool and am looking forward to playing with it sometime.
im assuming all of your recipes call for normal heavy cream? have you tried any of the plant based heavy creams available? i know silk makes an almond one, and I'm sure there are others. also, other milks have much less casien or different forms of casein that you might be okay with. goats milk for example, although I've been told it tastes....goaty.
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askculinary_train
0.71
how can this restaurant leave all these jars out unrefrigerated photo One of my favorite restaurants. How can they afford to leave this all unrefrigerated? It is not a huge restaurant also
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j0iq5ux
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This is kind of the point of pickling. People have pickled canned and otherwise preserved food to get through winters for many generations.
No refrigeration required until opened.
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changemyview_train
0.54
CMV: Conservatives don't actually care about reasoned debate and interacting with them is pointless So I've come to the conclusion that conservatives don't actually care about reason or debate and that interaction is pointless. It serves no purpose. This came about after interacting with my family over the holidays. Now my family is highly educated. Both my parents have doctorate degrees, my siblings all went to Oxbridge or American Ivy League schools. They are, for all their faults, very capable of proper reasoning. Yet on any political issue they show zero willingness to engage in reasoned debate. This is a trend I've seen amongst other conservatives online and in person. Transgender athletes? "Ban them. They have an advantage. Testosterone advantage. Biological males!" Even though no data agrees with their position. Sabine Hossenfelder does a very good job at breaking down the topic but even with Thomas, who compared to the prior years winners was relatively average (and actually performed fairly average for a competitive swimmer in the event as a whole). Healthcare? "Privatise it!" But why? It only sucks because the Tories have underfunded it. Privatisation has failed in America. It's a bad, expensive idea that will cost us more money than the NHS. "But I don't want to pay for other people." Then leave society. That's the only way you accomplish that goal. It truly feels like they only care about how politics affects them and their predetermined biases/feelings, even if it is an objectively bad idea. Now, I do admit my bias. I don't think any conservative has ever provided a convincing reason for their policy positions, only an explanation for why they hold said position (this isn't the same thing.... saying "I believe this because" is not an argument for my belief, it does not attempt to explain why *others* should agree with me). I also do believe conservatism is a net negative on society based on their positions.
j20kgq5
j20lpsl
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The main problem with political "debate" is that each side has firmly held *conclusions* and gets tunnel vision when arguing about them. If you want to change someone's mind, you can't be arguing from your own perspective. You have to start from theirs, and build from premises that *they* accept. If you start with your own, they disagree with the core foundations of your argument. And no matter how well reasoned and logical your arguments are, the structure you build has nothing to stand on. From their perspective, at least. This makes argument difficult, because their foundational views are theirs, not yours. You don't know where to start from, and have to puzzle it out on your own. Or ask, I guess. But either way, most people don't do that. On either side of the spectrum. And as a result, no one ever seems to change their mind. If you want to get through to someone, you need to be in a position to have an earnest conversation. Not framing it as trying to change their mind, but trying to understand each other. And *that* is pretty much impossible on social media. Trolls and karma whores abound. In person, though? It's actually pretty easy a lot of the time. You focus on shared goals like economic security and government corruption, and then ask everyone to step back from political platforms. Make your case through a sort of Socratic method, asking them leading questions and exploring their answers until they come to a conclusion "on their own." And only *then* bring it back to politics, aligning their ideas with policy proposals. But again, for it to work you need to be in a position to have an earnest *conversation.* And that requires a personal connection and a willingness to set aside your own political affiliation (at least at the start). Most people don't argue that way, and so most people fail to change minds.
1. Pot meet kettle. This post reeks of the exact same predetermined biases/feelings you claim the opposite side has. The fact that you can't even pretend to understand the opposite position from the one you hold makes you just as ignorant as those you are stating don't care about reason or debate. 2. I think it's also completely overstated to say that all conservatives don't care about reason or debate. As of a Gallup poll in 2020, 36% of people identified as conservative (in contrast 25% as liberal). That is a giant number of people to assume all have the same rigid thinking you are assuming they do. 3. If you can say "I don't think any conservative has ever provided a convincing reason for their policy positions, only an explanation for why they hold said position," then I don't think you have ever actually sought out to understand conservative policy positions, and like #1 above, makes you just as at fault, if not more so, than those are you ascribing blame to.
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askhr_train
0.98
Received a inappropriate gift in gift exchange. It was a secret Santa exchange. This was in NJ I am a guy. I was given a huge dildo and a plastic vigina sex toy. The card read "for the up tight ass hole who need to get laid. " Every guy in the office laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world. The four or five women were quite and I suspect uncomfortable. I don't like my coworkers and this just sealed the deal. I have been looking for a new job but at this point I don't want to go back. I feel really uncomfortable and I suspect all the guys in the office may have been invoved. I don't know what to do as I can't afford to quit but I am really unhappy and very uncomfortable. I saw the other post about a secret Santa gone wrong and this inspired me to post my experience thanks. The HR person was there and was laughing with the rest of the guys. Is this sexual harassment?
drn7ior
drn5814
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Is Warren Sapp your colleague? To echo everyone else, yep that is sexual Harrasment as it is lewd and humiliating. HR laughing along with everyone else is a problem. What are the chances of getting rehired after being let go for Sexual Harrasment?
I don’t have any advice, I just wanted to say I’m sorry that happened. What a bunch of asshole bullies. I hope you find a better place to work soon.
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