shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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Advice on How To Ask a Partner to get STD Tested?	sexeducation	kd8bhk	true	false	true	[ "It's bad to keep an std diagnosis from your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Does it feel better without using condom?	sexeducation	mvw6du	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	To be honest is not a great deal , condom reduce intimacy and feeling for me, plus they smell bad BUT if you are having a one night stand or anything else then a long standing relationship is the great deal because you want hold an unwanted baby or a herpes ( if you are luck ) for the rest of your day. Once you are in a long term relationship going in without is fine as long you have a plan for not having a baby or you like huge family	true
This is what large breasted REALLY think of small breasted	RedditAfterDark	10o9hus	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I dont have any courage for suicide but i dont get any motivation to live also.	depression	11g7ioe	true	false	false	[ "Suicide is never an answer, and you should get help if you feel like killing yourself" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Prefer to masturbate?	DirtyConfession	11dgkku	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Wet dreams?	sexualhealth	vc47be	true	false	true	[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How do I bring up wanting to have another female for a threesome to my wife?	sexquestions	1151rku	true	false	true	[ "You should tell your partner that you want a threesome." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Im circumcised, so what am I missing by not having an uncircumcised one?	Puberty	108g8zi	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I am uncircumcised and the head is really sensitive almost so much it hurts but in a good way, if your uncut you probably couldn't rub the head without pain instead we move the skin up and down over it. Also you never need to worry about how to clean under the skin, I guess	true
Can you combat being ticklish?	sextips	zlh4sq	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't fake that you're ticklish just so people won't touch you." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
My boyfriend don’t want the sex right now in the relationship. What do i do?	sexquestions	11aunt8	true	true	true	[ "You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Question about consent	sexquestions	116wj9r	true	false	true	[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]	__needs_caution__	Ask not tell? It's definitely a learning experience so some guidance perhaps but just giving orders isn't usually hot.	true
Its My Birthday today and no one has yet wished me. Didnt ever think my closest friends would forget. But here we are !	AskRedditNSFW	wmu9zc	true	true	true	[ "It's good to wish people a Happy Birthday." ]	__needs_caution__	If they're anything like my friends, they're still sleeping for a couple more hours 😆 But I wish you a very happy birthday. Hope you have an orgasmic one	true
With safety of anonymity, does anyone want to admit to things they shouldn't?	RedditAfterDark	ynofpe	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to try and ruin someone's anonymity" ]	__needs_intervention__	I mean isn't that what we're all doing? The whole point of this account for me is that it lets me talk about sex frankly without having to deal with judgmental assholes.	true
Do you ever get depressed that you can't provide a SO or possible kids with a good family?	depression	11hjal8	true	false	true	[ "It's good to accept help with your children when you are feeling depressed." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
I probably just have anxiety	sexquestions	116adaq	true	false	false	[ "You should seek help for anxiety." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
First time with a girl how can I keep away from std’s?	sexquestions	1147m6c	true	true	true	[ "You should learn about std's and how you catch them" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Too much Masturbation?	Puberty	znsyhv	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Not necessarily. If you're doing it out of boredom alot then it could cause issues later on	true
How to share a room with my bro ?	Puberty	zv9ngs	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't share a room with someone who doesn't want to." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Maybe just try doing it while he's asleep? It's probably gonna be an issue for him too so it might be better to just discuss it and work something out	true
Am I a “cuck”	sexquestions	11c239z	true	false	true	[ "There's nothing wrong with being a cuck." ]	__needs_intervention__	No, this is Stag and Vixen. A cuckold has to do with denial and degradation, watching their partner be satisfied by someone who can “do it better than them” while they’re denied sexual access.	true
How did you find out you were cheated on?	AskRedditNSFW	11go3a5	true	true	true	[ "It's hurtful for a partner to find out you have been cheated on." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I feel like it's Reddit telling you all relationships end from cheating. You hear more bad than good.	true
About watching porn	Puberty	q48tqd	true	false	true	[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
How to bring up the topic of sex with a partner who doesn’t want to talk about it?	sexover30	1032716	true	true	true	[ "You should talk about sex with your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	My wife doesn’t like to talk about it either, so I just take what I’ve learned, try it and see how she responds. Of course this has its limits, but I’ve made lots of progress this way.	true
Hiding sex toys from parents who like to clean very thoroughly?	SexToys	nbyxwc	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't leave sex toys out when others are around." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Go searching around the house for their sex toys. Power play!	true
Why do I like to dominate others and inflict pain on them?	AskRedditNSFW	11dljse	true	true	true	[ "You should not take pleasure in others' pain" ]	__needs_caution__	Unfortunately that is unknown. There is no good explanation with actual evidence of where or why kinks happen.	true
Best way to truly show appreciation for a partner fulfilling a sexual fantasy of yours?	sexover30	zoufz3	true	true	true	[ "You should participate in things to show appreciation to your partner" ]	__needs_caution__	You won’t find an Emily Post standard on etiquette here. Why don’t you ask your wife what she would like?	true
who is you're celebrity crush?	AskRedditNSFW	11c09rx	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to have a celebrity crush." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Julia Stiles. She could be my mom but holy fucking hell is she fine.	true
What’s another name for an asshole?	AskRedditNSFW	119l89l	true	true	true	[ "It's rude to call someone an asshole." ]	__needs_caution__	u/becusiwantto Lol sorry. It was just too easy.	true
Does anyone.. oddly love the way they smell?	sexquestions	118w5se	true	false	true	[ "It's unusual to enjoy unpleasant smells." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
question about masturbation in a bathtub	sexeducation	115o6zc	true	true	true	[ "It's unhealthy to spend all of your time in a bathtub." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Precum? Otherwise idk.	true
Question about vibrators	sexover30	wfb0nr	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Don't use a vibrator on her unless she wants to. If you use it, this time don't put it under her clitoral hood.	true
Why do care about ’s looks	RedditAfterDark	10h6ih2	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think women only care about the looks of a man" ]	__needs_caution__	People don't generally go to bed with people they're not attracted to. A lot of sex is in the brain, I'm sure it feels better psychologically getting a BJ from someone you're more attracted to.	true
is it bad that I'm always horny and have the urge to jerk off?	masturbation	uqog03	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I don’t see how it can be bad unless it is getting in the way of your day to day life. You just have a high sex drive.	true
Are there physical/ neurological causes of depression?	depression	11f92q0	true	false	true	[ "Depression is a serious malady with a variety of possible causes, including genetic, drugs interactions, abuse, loss of a spouse, etc." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
What should i try	masturbation	115li1x	true	true	true	[ "You should try something else if the first thing you tried didn't work." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I have some ideas. Do you like shooting standing up?	true
Debt making me suicidal	depression	11f4kh8	true	false	false	[ "It's wrong to get yourself into debt" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Psychotic breakdown/suicidal ideation	depression	11grgnv	true	false	false	[ "It's best to get professional help for suicidal thoughts." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it weird for me to just want to eat a girls ass and pussy with nothing in return?	sexquestions	y7id68	true	false	true	[ "It's ok to eat out however you want to, even if it's weird." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it safe to eat your own cum?	sexquestions	iw880c	true	true	true	[ "It's gross to cum in your own mouth." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Why wouldn’t it be? Every woman in the world who ever swallowed when she should’ve spit would be dead otherwise.	true
Is my dick normal?	sexualhealth	sx94ta	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	Hmmm... Before you go and decide to get cut, try doing some manual tugging and stretching exercises. If you can manage a warm bath and some 10 minutes of casual stretching you might be better off.	true
Is my penis small? uh just scared...	penissize	yms8i1	true	false	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
should i be concerned	Puberty	10d6vmj	true	false	true	[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Can you smell if a woman is aroused?	sextips	f1kppn	true	true	true	[ "It could be considered creepy to sniff something used by a woman just because you like the smell." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I'd imagine on some level a guy could smell... But I'd doubt he could consciously tell	true
Should I find an alternative to masturbation?	sextips	lri32y	true	true	true	[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
is it okay to get turned on when someone is nice to me	sexualhealth	101cwqi	true	false	true	[ "It's natural to be attracted to nice people." ]	__needs_caution__	Contact a therapist to help you understand and deal with this. It is not normal to feel that as a result of any general niceness, and you should seek counsel from a professional, as it most likely stems from a more deep rooted psychological issue.	true
Do (in or out of relationships) send risqué pics	AskRedditNSFW	nvtema	true	true	true	[ "You should always respect your partner's preferences when it comes to sending or receiving explicit photographs." ]	__needs_caution__	My girlfriend does it all the time at work. Especially if she knows I'm in a meeting or something	true
M(27) always seem to catch the attention of older instead of my age.	sexquestions	113y7bk	true	false	false	[ "It's okay to like older women." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Having a difficult time expressing fantasies to partner? Or am I being gaslit?	sexover30	z2d39s	true	true	true	[ "You should try to distract yourself from fantasies about people other than your spouse." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How legit is this tip?	sexquestions	118bivl	true	true	true	[ "It's good to tip well." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal to gets lots of erections?	Puberty	10j04gp	true	true	true	[ "It's good to consult a doctor if you have a prolonged erection." ]	__needs_intervention__	It's normal. You just gotta get used to them for the next few years.	true
Are rape fantasies weird for girls	sexquestions	jwsfj1	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to have rape fantasies." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Do I have ED?	sexualhealth	i062e6	true	false	true	[ "If you have ED, you should get some help from a doctor." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Not sure what to call kink?	sexquestions	w0nb5h	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Does masturbating count as cheating?	masturbation	10uqoa2	true	true	true	[ "Masturbating with someone is still cheating." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
What is something you didn’t know you were in to until your partner asked?	AskRedditNSFW	hnuaut	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't assume your partner wasn't prepared for something" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Would you rather have sex with your cousin in secret or not have sex with your cousin but everyone would think you did?	AskRedditNSFW	119vrf4	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't be in a sexual relationship with your cousin because that's incest." ]	__needs_intervention__	Being that I use to fuck my cousin I'll go with option 1. We never told anyone, though her sister found out a few years later after we stopped.	true
why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe?	AskRedditNSFW	11chnse	true	true	true	[ "It's gross to leave pee on public toilet seats." ]	__needs_caution__	no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭	true
never had a diagnosis but if this is what depression feels like idk what to do	depression	11flxr0	true	false	true	[ "You should seek help if you are battling depression." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
is it normal to bleed?	sexeducation	npztpl	true	false	true	[ "You should find someone to help you if you're bleeding profusely." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	If his nails were sharp (just cut or bitten) that can scrape the vaginal walls causing some blood. If it continues into the next day I would see your doctor	true
How to get partner to actually do foreplay?	sexover30	upya0x	true	true	true	[ "You should try to engage in shared activities with your partner" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Eyes went wide and immediately scrolled the comments before I could read the rest of the post when it said 20-40 min BJs. Holy	true
Are extremely submissive who like being verbally/psychology degraded real? Or is that a porn thing?	RedditAfterDark	y2e30o	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think women should be submissive" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Trying so hard not to give up	depression	11fyyu9	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't give up when things get difficult" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Are these thoughts normal?	Puberty	j2705g	true	false	true	[ "If you are having unusual thoughts, you should seek professional help" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	prolly just a kink. most people have them, I think it’s called being a sub in your case ( not too sure, please double check ).	true
Whats your opinion on threesomes?	AskRedditNSFW	11d1rch	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Question about stds	sexeducation	l5ytwf	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't hide STDs from your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
My girlfriend says it's recomded don't use soap down there...so she doesn't....	sexquestions	11grzoj	true	false	false	[ "It's wrong to drop the soap on purpose." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Did I turn gay because of my friends?	Puberty	cbpliz	true	false	true	[ "You should find some new friends if everyone around you is straight and you're gay." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	You didn’t turn gay cause of your friends. You were already gay	true
How can I prevent farting during sex?	sexquestions	zuu4ys	true	true	true	[ "You should be careful when farting" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Do kegels, your pelvic floor may be relaxing a bit. Farting during sex happens sometimes but if it’s become regular without it being an issue prior kegels may help strengthen your pelvic floor and alleviate the issue.	true
Is it alright for a man not to be interested in casual sex?	sexualhealth	11d1nj9	true	false	true	[ "It's ok to have casual sex with people." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I get too attached and I found this out after one case of casual very young. I need to be comfortable with her.	true
What do I do when I get the sex talk?	Puberty	q08nvi	true	false	true	[ "You should talk about sex with your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Why is sex education important?	sexeducation	j1ywgv	true	false	true	[ "Education is important." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do I need to put a condom on a vibrator in this situation?	sexeducation	yj3u7l	true	false	true	[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]	__needs_intervention__	The lube in some condoms may actually degrade the material of the toy. Just keep it clean using mild soap and water or toy cleaner	true
I wish I was closer to my parents	depression	11gthy5	true	false	false	[ "You should try to get closer with your parents." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Married man’s thoughts	DirtyConfession	113kkbu	true	true	true	[ "One should not let stray thoughts ruin a marriage." ]	__needs_caution__	I have the same thoughts due to my marriage being in shambles and there is not sex life. I know I never will but the thoughts are there	true
Please explain why touch their crotch so much?	AskRedditNSFW	119426a	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't touch someone's crotch without them wanting you to." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
What is sexting coercion?	sexeducation	iwyf3b	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to coerce someone into having sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Any tips on shaving?	Puberty	117s48h	true	true	true	[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it wrong to want to masturbate to an ex?	sexquestions	zn0uwv	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to use someone to get back at your ex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
is your nsfw reddit secret from your spouse and why?	AskRedditNSFW	11boes0	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't expect someone to keep something secret from their spouse." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	She knows most of my NSFW secrets. There are a couple I keep to myself	true
Question: Have I reached my tolerance?	masturbation	1178gx9	true	true	true	[ "You should learn some tolerance" ]	__needs_caution__	Sometimes you have to give yourself a break from masturbating and porn. Even a couple of days can help.	true
Should I be insecure about my size?	penissize	yaf7fd	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't be insecure about yourself." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	No need for insecurity. You have a very nice sized penis!	true
What's the point of life if I don't enjoy it?	depression	11fodbn	true	false	true	[ "It's good to enjoy your life." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
How do I respectfully tell a lady her lady part smells really bad? I’ve had girls who don’t smell and some that really stink. Is a smelly pussy normal?	AskRedditNSFW	ea2atw	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think women smell bad" ]	__needs_caution__	All I'm saying is, that if it's so fucking embarrassing than clean that shit man! Don't try and make him the bad guy for not being comfortable with a smelly V.	true
I sexually fantasize for 8-10 hours a day even when I really don’t want to. How do I stop?	sexeducation	10mfttu	true	false	true	[ "Fantasizing constantly is excessive." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Become an author and write it all down. Sex sells.	true
Insanely horny all the time?	Puberty	jg3jzd	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
What is okay to fantasize about but not okay to actually carry out?	AskRedditNSFW	11en8bm	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to fantasize, but delusions may mean that you need professional help." ]	__needs_caution__	Public sex. Love to think about it, will not subject unwitting bystanders to it.	true
I'm going to commit suicide soon	depression	11hf8il	true	false	false	[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
(15M) feel like I'm addicted to masturbating should I try and stop?	Puberty	xmld8b	true	false	true	[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]	__needs_caution__	That's not excessive. It doesn't sound like you're addicted	true
Happy birthday to me	depression	11fgxrt	true	false	false	[ "You should be thankful for any presents you get on your birthday." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Opinion about Portable Fucking Machine - Thrusting Vibrator by You2Toys?	SexToys	11f05hz	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	While I have no personal experience with this or other similar "thrusting vibrators", I've come to understand that these products generally speaking are rather underwhelming, especially for anal. As in, if you're looking for a fucking machine, there's a very realistic chance you'll wanna save your money for something slightly bigger and, yes, more expensive.	true
Why are you horny right now?	RedditAfterDark	td28dm	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Not had a fuck for nearly a year. So yeah, definitely horny	true
What’s a fetish you have that you think people would find more weird than usual?	RedditAfterDark	xzca08	true	true	true	[ "It's OK to have a fetish that is unusual." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	A jewellery/wristwatch fetish. if she wears a big metal or gold wristwatch and maybe some rings, necklace, (hoop)earrings im on 120%	true
A social experit.	AskRedditNSFW	11b6mf1	true	true	false	[ "Social experiments can be fun and englightening." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I’d be more curious to know how one would get themselves into such a predicament in the first place. 🤔	true
Can’t afford a therapist	depression	11h41ge	true	false	true	[ "You should recommend someone see a therapist if they seem to need one." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do y'all girls like getting shocked and getting your hair pulled? Be honest	sexquestions	11df0fk	true	false	true	[ "It's inconsiderate to pull a girl's hair." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
I just need a fucking break	depression	11eu71d	true	false	false	[ "You should take breaks" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I am concerned for myself	depression	11f3mj4	true	false	false	[ "It's good to be concerned for others" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal to feel pain while trying to have sex?	sexquestions	zmghzx	true	true	true	[ "It's not normal to enjoy feeling pain." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	No, sex shouldn’t hurt! Does it feel like he’s hitting a wall or is it more of a burning once he’s fully inside?	true
Need condom help	sexeducation	11dp8nh	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	They're one size fits all. You got this	true
Is this unhealthy? Also fetish question.	sexquestions	lud5yx	true	true	true	[ "It is bad to participate in a dangerous fetish" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Have you ever went nude in public? In places you shouldn’t have?	AskRedditNSFW	11eqsho	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to walk around nude as long as it's just in your home." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	More than a handful of times just stripping on the long drive home so I can enjoy the car ride naked. Streaked a few places in random places like the Lesner bridge and somewhere else I don't recall and I'm naked in my unfenced backyard at least twice a week.	true

Advice on How To Ask a Partner to get STD Tested?

sexeducation

kd8bhk

true

false

true

[ "It's bad to keep an std diagnosis from your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Does it feel better without using condom?

sexeducation

mvw6du

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

To be honest is not a great deal , condom reduce intimacy and feeling for me, plus they smell bad BUT if you are having a one night stand or anything else then a long standing relationship is the great deal because you want hold an unwanted baby or a herpes ( if you are luck ) for the rest of your day. Once you are in a long term relationship going in without is fine as long you have a plan for not having a baby or you like huge family

true

This is what large breasted REALLY think of small breasted

RedditAfterDark

10o9hus

true

[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I dont have any courage for suicide but i dont get any motivation to live also.

depression

11g7ioe

true

false

[ "Suicide is never an answer, and you should get help if you feel like killing yourself" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Prefer to masturbate?

DirtyConfession

11dgkku

true

[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Wet dreams?

sexualhealth

vc47be

true

false

true

[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How do I bring up wanting to have another female for a threesome to my wife?

sexquestions

1151rku

true

false

true

[ "You should tell your partner that you want a threesome." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Im circumcised, so what am I missing by not having an uncircumcised one?

Puberty

108g8zi

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I am uncircumcised and the head is really sensitive almost so much it hurts but in a good way, if your uncut you probably couldn't rub the head without pain instead we move the skin up and down over it. Also you never need to worry about how to clean under the skin, I guess

true

Can you combat being ticklish?

sextips

zlh4sq

true

[ "You shouldn't fake that you're ticklish just so people won't touch you." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

My boyfriend don’t want the sex right now in the relationship. What do i do?

sexquestions

11aunt8

true

[ "You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Question about consent

sexquestions

116wj9r

true

false

true

[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]

__needs_caution__

Ask not tell? It's definitely a learning experience so some guidance perhaps but just giving orders isn't usually hot.

true

Its My Birthday today and no one has yet wished me. Didnt ever think my closest friends would forget. But here we are !

AskRedditNSFW

wmu9zc

true

[ "It's good to wish people a Happy Birthday." ]

__needs_caution__

If they're anything like my friends, they're still sleeping for a couple more hours 😆 But I wish you a very happy birthday. Hope you have an orgasmic one

true

With safety of anonymity, does anyone want to admit to things they shouldn't?

RedditAfterDark

ynofpe

true

[ "It's wrong to try and ruin someone's anonymity" ]

__needs_intervention__

I mean isn't that what we're all doing? The whole point of this account for me is that it lets me talk about sex frankly without having to deal with judgmental assholes.

true

Do you ever get depressed that you can't provide a SO or possible kids with a good family?

depression

11hjal8

true

false

true

[ "It's good to accept help with your children when you are feeling depressed." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

I probably just have anxiety

sexquestions

116adaq

true

false

[ "You should seek help for anxiety." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

First time with a girl how can I keep away from std’s?

sexquestions

1147m6c

true

[ "You should learn about std's and how you catch them" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Too much Masturbation?

Puberty

znsyhv

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Not necessarily. If you're doing it out of boredom alot then it could cause issues later on

true

How to share a room with my bro ?

Puberty

zv9ngs

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't share a room with someone who doesn't want to." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Maybe just try doing it while he's asleep? It's probably gonna be an issue for him too so it might be better to just discuss it and work something out

true

Am I a “cuck”

sexquestions

11c239z

true

false

true

[ "There's nothing wrong with being a cuck." ]

__needs_intervention__

No, this is Stag and Vixen. A cuckold has to do with denial and degradation, watching their partner be satisfied by someone who can “do it better than them” while they’re denied sexual access.

true

How did you find out you were cheated on?

AskRedditNSFW

11go3a5

true

[ "It's hurtful for a partner to find out you have been cheated on." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I feel like it's Reddit telling you all relationships end from cheating. You hear more bad than good.

true

About watching porn

Puberty

q48tqd

true

false

true

[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

How to bring up the topic of sex with a partner who doesn’t want to talk about it?

sexover30

1032716

true

[ "You should talk about sex with your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

My wife doesn’t like to talk about it either, so I just take what I’ve learned, try it and see how she responds. Of course this has its limits, but I’ve made lots of progress this way.

true

Hiding sex toys from parents who like to clean very thoroughly?

SexToys

nbyxwc

true

[ "You shouldn't leave sex toys out when others are around." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Go searching around the house for their sex toys. Power play!

true

Why do I like to dominate others and inflict pain on them?

AskRedditNSFW

11dljse

true

[ "You should not take pleasure in others' pain" ]

__needs_caution__

Unfortunately that is unknown. There is no good explanation with actual evidence of where or why kinks happen.

true

Best way to truly show appreciation for a partner fulfilling a sexual fantasy of yours?

sexover30

zoufz3

true

[ "You should participate in things to show appreciation to your partner" ]

__needs_caution__

You won’t find an Emily Post standard on etiquette here. Why don’t you ask your wife what she would like?

true

who is you're celebrity crush?

AskRedditNSFW

11c09rx

true

[ "It's okay to have a celebrity crush." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Julia Stiles. She could be my mom but holy fucking hell is she fine.

true

What’s another name for an asshole?

AskRedditNSFW

119l89l

true

[ "It's rude to call someone an asshole." ]

__needs_caution__

u/becusiwantto Lol sorry. It was just too easy.

true

Does anyone.. oddly love the way they smell?

sexquestions

118w5se

true

false

true

[ "It's unusual to enjoy unpleasant smells." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

question about masturbation in a bathtub

sexeducation

115o6zc

true

[ "It's unhealthy to spend all of your time in a bathtub." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Precum? Otherwise idk.

true

Question about vibrators

sexover30

wfb0nr

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Don't use a vibrator on her unless she wants to. If you use it, this time don't put it under her clitoral hood.

true

Why do care about ’s looks

RedditAfterDark

10h6ih2

true

[ "It's not right to think women only care about the looks of a man" ]

__needs_caution__

People don't generally go to bed with people they're not attracted to. A lot of sex is in the brain, I'm sure it feels better psychologically getting a BJ from someone you're more attracted to.

true

is it bad that I'm always horny and have the urge to jerk off?

masturbation

uqog03

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I don’t see how it can be bad unless it is getting in the way of your day to day life. You just have a high sex drive.

true

Are there physical/ neurological causes of depression?

depression

11f92q0

true

false

true

[ "Depression is a serious malady with a variety of possible causes, including genetic, drugs interactions, abuse, loss of a spouse, etc." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

What should i try

masturbation

115li1x

true

[ "You should try something else if the first thing you tried didn't work." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I have some ideas. Do you like shooting standing up?

true

Debt making me suicidal

depression

11f4kh8

true

false

[ "It's wrong to get yourself into debt" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Psychotic breakdown/suicidal ideation

depression

11grgnv

true

false

[ "It's best to get professional help for suicidal thoughts." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it weird for me to just want to eat a girls ass and pussy with nothing in return?

sexquestions

y7id68

true

false

true

[ "It's ok to eat out however you want to, even if it's weird." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it safe to eat your own cum?

sexquestions

iw880c

true

[ "It's gross to cum in your own mouth." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Why wouldn’t it be? Every woman in the world who ever swallowed when she should’ve spit would be dead otherwise.

true

Is my dick normal?

sexualhealth

sx94ta

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

Hmmm... Before you go and decide to get cut, try doing some manual tugging and stretching exercises. If you can manage a warm bath and some 10 minutes of casual stretching you might be better off.

true

Is my penis small? uh just scared...

penissize

yms8i1

true

false

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

should i be concerned

Puberty

10d6vmj

true

false

true

[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Can you smell if a woman is aroused?

sextips

f1kppn

true

[ "It could be considered creepy to sniff something used by a woman just because you like the smell." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I'd imagine on some level a guy could smell... But I'd doubt he could consciously tell

true

Should I find an alternative to masturbation?

sextips

lri32y

true

[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

is it okay to get turned on when someone is nice to me

sexualhealth

101cwqi

true

false

true

[ "It's natural to be attracted to nice people." ]

__needs_caution__

Contact a therapist to help you understand and deal with this. It is not normal to feel that as a result of any general niceness, and you should seek counsel from a professional, as it most likely stems from a more deep rooted psychological issue.

true

Do (in or out of relationships) send risqué pics

AskRedditNSFW

nvtema

true

[ "You should always respect your partner's preferences when it comes to sending or receiving explicit photographs." ]

__needs_caution__

My girlfriend does it all the time at work. Especially if she knows I'm in a meeting or something

true

M(27) always seem to catch the attention of older instead of my age.

sexquestions

113y7bk

true

false

[ "It's okay to like older women." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Having a difficult time expressing fantasies to partner? Or am I being gaslit?

sexover30

z2d39s

true

[ "You should try to distract yourself from fantasies about people other than your spouse." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How legit is this tip?

sexquestions

118bivl

true

[ "It's good to tip well." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal to gets lots of erections?

Puberty

10j04gp

true

[ "It's good to consult a doctor if you have a prolonged erection." ]

__needs_intervention__

It's normal. You just gotta get used to them for the next few years.

true

Are rape fantasies weird for girls

sexquestions

jwsfj1

true

[ "It's wrong to have rape fantasies." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Do I have ED?

sexualhealth

i062e6

true

false

true

[ "If you have ED, you should get some help from a doctor." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Not sure what to call kink?

sexquestions

w0nb5h

true

[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Does masturbating count as cheating?

masturbation

10uqoa2

true

[ "Masturbating with someone is still cheating." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

What is something you didn’t know you were in to until your partner asked?

AskRedditNSFW

hnuaut

true

[ "You shouldn't assume your partner wasn't prepared for something" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Would you rather have sex with your cousin in secret or not have sex with your cousin but everyone would think you did?

AskRedditNSFW

119vrf4

true

[ "You shouldn't be in a sexual relationship with your cousin because that's incest." ]

__needs_intervention__

Being that I use to fuck my cousin I'll go with option 1. We never told anyone, though her sister found out a few years later after we stopped.

true

why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe?

AskRedditNSFW

11chnse

true

[ "It's gross to leave pee on public toilet seats." ]

__needs_caution__

no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭

true

never had a diagnosis but if this is what depression feels like idk what to do

depression

11flxr0

true

false

true

[ "You should seek help if you are battling depression." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

is it normal to bleed?

sexeducation

npztpl

true

false

true

[ "You should find someone to help you if you're bleeding profusely." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

If his nails were sharp (just cut or bitten) that can scrape the vaginal walls causing some blood. If it continues into the next day I would see your doctor

true

How to get partner to actually do foreplay?

sexover30

upya0x

true

[ "You should try to engage in shared activities with your partner" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Eyes went wide and immediately scrolled the comments before I could read the rest of the post when it said 20-40 min BJs. Holy

true

Are extremely submissive who like being verbally/psychology degraded real? Or is that a porn thing?

RedditAfterDark

y2e30o

true

[ "It's not right to think women should be submissive" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Trying so hard not to give up

depression

11fyyu9

true

false

[ "You shouldn't give up when things get difficult" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Are these thoughts normal?

Puberty

j2705g

true

false

true

[ "If you are having unusual thoughts, you should seek professional help" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

prolly just a kink. most people have them, I think it’s called being a sub in your case ( not too sure, please double check ).

true

Whats your opinion on threesomes?

AskRedditNSFW

11d1rch

true

[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Question about stds

sexeducation

l5ytwf

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't hide STDs from your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

My girlfriend says it's recomded don't use soap down there...so she doesn't....

sexquestions

11grzoj

true

false

[ "It's wrong to drop the soap on purpose." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Did I turn gay because of my friends?

Puberty

cbpliz

true

false

true

[ "You should find some new friends if everyone around you is straight and you're gay." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

You didn’t turn gay cause of your friends. You were already gay

true

How can I prevent farting during sex?

sexquestions

zuu4ys

true

[ "You should be careful when farting" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Do kegels, your pelvic floor may be relaxing a bit. Farting during sex happens sometimes but if it’s become regular without it being an issue prior kegels may help strengthen your pelvic floor and alleviate the issue.

true

Is it alright for a man not to be interested in casual sex?

sexualhealth

11d1nj9

true

false

true

[ "It's ok to have casual sex with people." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I get too attached and I found this out after one case of casual very young. I need to be comfortable with her.

true

What do I do when I get the sex talk?

Puberty

q08nvi

true

false

true

[ "You should talk about sex with your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Why is sex education important?

sexeducation

j1ywgv

true

false

true

[ "Education is important." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do I need to put a condom on a vibrator in this situation?

sexeducation

yj3u7l

true

false

true

[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]

__needs_intervention__

The lube in some condoms may actually degrade the material of the toy. Just keep it clean using mild soap and water or toy cleaner

true

I wish I was closer to my parents

depression

11gthy5

true

false

[ "You should try to get closer with your parents." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Married man’s thoughts

DirtyConfession

113kkbu

true

[ "One should not let stray thoughts ruin a marriage." ]

__needs_caution__

I have the same thoughts due to my marriage being in shambles and there is not sex life. I know I never will but the thoughts are there

true

Please explain why touch their crotch so much?

AskRedditNSFW

119426a

true

[ "You shouldn't touch someone's crotch without them wanting you to." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

What is sexting coercion?

sexeducation

iwyf3b

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to coerce someone into having sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Any tips on shaving?

Puberty

117s48h

true

[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it wrong to want to masturbate to an ex?

sexquestions

zn0uwv

true

[ "It's wrong to use someone to get back at your ex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

is your nsfw reddit secret from your spouse and why?

AskRedditNSFW

11boes0

true

[ "You shouldn't expect someone to keep something secret from their spouse." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

She knows most of my NSFW secrets. There are a couple I keep to myself

true

Question: Have I reached my tolerance?

masturbation

1178gx9

true

[ "You should learn some tolerance" ]

__needs_caution__

Sometimes you have to give yourself a break from masturbating and porn. Even a couple of days can help.

true

Should I be insecure about my size?

penissize

yaf7fd

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't be insecure about yourself." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

No need for insecurity. You have a very nice sized penis!

true

What's the point of life if I don't enjoy it?

depression

11fodbn

true

false

true

[ "It's good to enjoy your life." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

How do I respectfully tell a lady her lady part smells really bad? I’ve had girls who don’t smell and some that really stink. Is a smelly pussy normal?

AskRedditNSFW

ea2atw

true

[ "It's not right to think women smell bad" ]

__needs_caution__

All I'm saying is, that if it's so fucking embarrassing than clean that shit man! Don't try and make him the bad guy for not being comfortable with a smelly V.

true

I sexually fantasize for 8-10 hours a day even when I really don’t want to. How do I stop?

sexeducation

10mfttu

true

false

true

[ "Fantasizing constantly is excessive." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Become an author and write it all down. Sex sells.

true

Insanely horny all the time?

Puberty

jg3jzd

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

What is okay to fantasize about but not okay to actually carry out?

AskRedditNSFW

11en8bm

true

[ "It's okay to fantasize, but delusions may mean that you need professional help." ]

__needs_caution__

Public sex. Love to think about it, will not subject unwitting bystanders to it.

true

I'm going to commit suicide soon

depression

11hf8il

true

false

[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

(15M) feel like I'm addicted to masturbating should I try and stop?

Puberty

xmld8b

true

false

true

[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]

__needs_caution__

That's not excessive. It doesn't sound like you're addicted

true

Happy birthday to me

depression

11fgxrt

true

false

[ "You should be thankful for any presents you get on your birthday." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Opinion about Portable Fucking Machine - Thrusting Vibrator by You2Toys?

SexToys

11f05hz

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

While I have no personal experience with this or other similar "thrusting vibrators", I've come to understand that these products generally speaking are rather underwhelming, especially for anal. As in, if you're looking for a fucking machine, there's a very realistic chance you'll wanna save your money for something slightly bigger and, yes, more expensive.

true

Why are you horny right now?

RedditAfterDark

td28dm

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Not had a fuck for nearly a year. So yeah, definitely horny

true

What’s a fetish you have that you think people would find more weird than usual?

RedditAfterDark

xzca08

true

[ "It's OK to have a fetish that is unusual." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

A jewellery/wristwatch fetish. if she wears a big metal or gold wristwatch and maybe some rings, necklace, (hoop)earrings im on 120%

true

A social experit.

AskRedditNSFW

11b6mf1

true

false

[ "Social experiments can be fun and englightening." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I’d be more curious to know how one would get themselves into such a predicament in the first place. 🤔

true

Can’t afford a therapist

depression

11h41ge

true

false

true

[ "You should recommend someone see a therapist if they seem to need one." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do y'all girls like getting shocked and getting your hair pulled? Be honest

sexquestions

11df0fk

true

false

true

[ "It's inconsiderate to pull a girl's hair." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

I just need a fucking break

depression

11eu71d

true

false

[ "You should take breaks" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I am concerned for myself

depression

11f3mj4

true

false

[ "It's good to be concerned for others" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal to feel pain while trying to have sex?

sexquestions

zmghzx

true

[ "It's not normal to enjoy feeling pain." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

No, sex shouldn’t hurt! Does it feel like he’s hitting a wall or is it more of a burning once he’s fully inside?

true

Need condom help

sexeducation

11dp8nh

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

They're one size fits all. You got this

true

Is this unhealthy? Also fetish question.

sexquestions

lud5yx

true

[ "It is bad to participate in a dangerous fetish" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Have you ever went nude in public? In places you shouldn’t have?

AskRedditNSFW

11eqsho

true

[ "It's okay to walk around nude as long as it's just in your home." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

More than a handful of times just stripping on the long drive home so I can enjoy the car ride naked. Streaked a few places in random places like the Lesner bridge and somewhere else I don't recall and I'm naked in my unfenced backyard at least twice a week.

true